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Boss Your Life Up

Welcome to the Boss Your Life Up (BYLU) Campaign Podcast, where we remind Millenials on their journey to self-integration that they are not alone. Here we acknowledge imperfections, celebrate growth, recognize the strength in vulnerability, and strive to be authentic. So, if you want to live your best life by flourishing intellectually, physically, financially, spiritually and emotionally; then you are in the right place. Join in on the conversation with founders Daniel Nutakor and Nathan Hastings-Spaine, as they discuss their journey, and invite quality guests to do the same. www.bylucampaig Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/bossyourlifeup/support

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On this episode of the BYLU Campaign podcast, Daniel and Nathan discuss "The Law of Sowing and Reaping", the February article where Nate breaks down the law of sowing and reaping by looking at the farming process and unpacking what it means to effectively sow and reap in real life.

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On this episode of the BYLU Campaign podcast, Daniel and Nathan discuss “Feeling Comfortable” the January article, where Nate asks the question, as a Black professional in corporate America whose responsibility is it to make me feel comfortable and welcomed?

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On this episode of the BYLU Campaign podcast, Daniel and Nathan discuss their 2021 plans and recap the lessons learned from 2020. Tune in as Danny discussing going back to corporate and the challenges of his transition, how 2020 crushed many people's spirits, and the importance of finding your identity. Thanks for the continued support, and feel free to send any questions or feedback you have to bylucampaign@gmail.com.

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  • [1:00] – Danny goes back to corporate
  • [11:00] – Getting back into investing
  • [13:10] – 2021. Optimistic or Pessimistic?
  • [27:05] – 2020 crushed a lot of peoples spirit
  • [33:03] – Lack of identity

Growth Takeaways:

  • Don't allow the need to be busy to overtake your peace.
  • Protect your spirit at all costs.
  • Find out what works for you.
  • Don't look like what you've been through.
  • No one person can carry the burden of the world.

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On this episode of the BYLU Campaign podcast, Daniel and Nathan discuss “Blind Spots” the September article, where Nate shares his blind spots and the impact it's had on him throughout his entrepreneurial journey. Tune in as we discuss the DISC Index assessment, the correlation between blind spots and vision, and tips for mitigating the risk of blind spots.

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  • [10:00] – DISC Assessment
  • [17:30] – I don't believe in changing the world
  • [24:00] – Big vision; More patience
  • [30:00] – Moesha & Steve Harvey
  • [36:20] – Little but important

Growth Takeaways:

  • Small does not mean unimportant.
  • The bigger the vision the more patience required.
  • Take care of your chicken.

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On this episode of the BYLU Campaign podcast, Daniel and Nathan give a COVID-19 update and discuss the current state of Black America. Tune in as we share our thoughts on companies showing their solidarity with the black community, discuss what it will require to obtain black equality and prosperity, and remind folks that no one is coming to save them. Thanks for the continued support, and feel free to send any questions or feedback you have to bylucampaign@gmail.com.

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  • [5:00] – Solidarity?
  • [12:00] – The uprising!
  • [23:15] – Play your part 3Stacks
  • [34:00] – Drop the ego. Let’s build.
  • [38:20] – Black Company. White Money
  • [54:25] – Savior Complex

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“A man’s gift makes room for him, And brings him before great men.” – Proverbs 18:16

On this episode of the BYLU Campaign podcast, Daniel and Nathan discuss “Talented & Gifted” the April article, where Nate shares why you should use this time of self-isolation during COVID-19 to discover your gifts.

Tune in as Danny and Nate discuss the differences between your talents and your gifts, why money only solves money problems, and how to stay calm in the midst of a storm. Thanks for the continued support, and feel free to send any questions or feedback you have to bylucampaign@gmail.com.

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On this episode of the BYLU Campaign podcast, Daniel and Nathan invite Lex, Wellness Teacher, and Healer to the show. Here we debunk some nutritional myths, discuss the role healthy relationships play in our wellness and, unpack the origins of her Tension Relief business. Tune in to this open dialogue as Lex takes Danny to vulnerability therapy, shares how to live a Vegan lifestyle and eat for nutritional value, and unpacks what it means to submit and allow a man to lead in a relationship. Thanks for the continued support and feel free to send any questions or feedback you have to bylucampaign@gmail.com

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  • [2:40] – Background
  • [10:24] – Flu Season a Myth
  • [16:15] – Nutrition Myths Debunked
  • [27:40] – The Vegan Diet
  • [36:10] – Building Healthy Relationships
  • [42:00] – Setting Boundaries, Healing, Relationships
  • [47:56] – Danny Are You Vulnerable Yet?
  • [1:11:50] – Tension Relief / Yoga / Consulting

Growth Takeaways:

  • Healthy relationships are part of wellness.
  • Physical wellness is relative. External Health ≠ Internal Health
  • You can’t and you shouldn’t expect anything from anyone.
  • Be intentional. Life is too long and too short.
  • Whatever you’re not changing you’re choosing.

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Take care of y’all mentals, y’all bodies and y’all chicken. So when y’all ready to walk away. You can walk away and be able to do what you want to do.” — Marshawn Lynch

On this episode of the BYLU Campaign podcast, Daniel and Nathan discuss “Going Back To Corporate” the January article, where Nate shares that he’s going back to corporate after he’s 16 month run in the game of entrepreneurship. Here we provide tips and learned lessons for those who aspire to make the leap from corporate to entrepreneurship. Tune in as we discuss the difference between cash flow and appreciation based assets, how to deal with the emotional side of entrepreneurship from self talk to self-validation, and what it means to embrace the four stages of learning. Thanks for the continued support, and feel free to send any questions or feedback you have to bylucampaign@gmail.com.

Time Stamped Topics:

  • [4:05] – Intro
  • [11:15] – Reduce Your Expenses
  • [17:15] – Cash Flow vs. Appreciation
  • [27:11] – Cry Don’t Complain
  • [36:00] – What You Do vs. Who You Are
  • [43:08] – Self Talk
  • [50:05] – Stay Physically Active

Growth Takeaways:

  • Protect your cash reserves.
  • Is it a business or a hobby/?
  • Knowing how to make money is not an indicator to quit your job.
  • Crying cleanses your soul while complaining makes it toxic.
  • You might be your only supporter.

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On this episode of the BYLU Campaign podcast, Daniel and Nathan invite HJT, Celebrity Publicists, and Producer to the show to discuss the dynamic journey that led him from seeking a publicist to being the Meme Agency’s first PR Representative. Here we address the challenges of staying grounded in the entertainment industry, highlight the importance of surrounding yourself with good people, and explain how to build relationships with people of influence. Tune in to this open dialogue as HJT drops queue gems applicable to everyday life and reveals his upcoming talk show and “For Colored Girls” hip hopera. Thanks for the continued support and feel free to send any questions or feedback you have to bylucampaign@gmail.com

Time Stamped Topics:

  • [5:35] – Background
  • [13:00] – I Prayed For This...
  • [19:09] – How I Become a Publicists
  • [25:07] – Everything You Are is Already Inside
  • [35:12] – How to Stay Grounded?
  • [42:20] – Dealing with the Entertainment Industry
  • [52:20] – Showing up as an Equal

Growth Takeaways:

  • Not every opportunity is a good opportunity.
  • Be thankful for the little things.
  • If you know your first & last name that’s all you need.
  • You don’t have to look like what you’ve been through.
  • Celebrities want to be treated like humans. Have respect.
  • Follows ≠ Influencer

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“Don’t compare your life to others’. You have no idea what their journey is all about.” ― Regina Brett

On the first episode of 2020, Daniel and Nathan discuss “The Thief: Comparison” the December article, where Nate explores the dangers of comparison and his journey with battling it. Tune in as we share how to build a healthy relationship with comparison, what to do when your plans don’t align with your journey, and explain that although comparing may lead to temporary success, it will not sustain it. Thanks for the continued support, and feel free to send any questions or feedback you have to bylucampaign@gmail.com.

Time Stamped Topics:

  • [4:05] – 2012 Freshmen Class
  • [15:18] – The Drawing Tablet
  • [20:05] – Compare Yourself To Who You Were Yesterday
  • [36:35] – The paradox: Fit in and Stand out!
  • [40:05] – Final Words

Growth Takeaways:

  • Worry about the things people don’t show.
  • Our plans won’t always align with our journey.
  • You don’t have to enjoy every part of the process.
  • Don’t view people or their journey in isolation.

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Happy Holidays!

On the final 2019 episode of the BYLU Campaign podcast, Daniel and Nathan come prepared with a few discussion points to end the year. Tune in as we discuss some of our principles, how to set dynamic goals for 2020, and the importance of owning your domain name. Thanks for the continued support, and feel free to send any questions or feedback you have to bylucampaign@gmail.com

Time Stamped Topics:

  • [1:45] – Digital Real Estate
  • [10:22] – Monetizing Your Gift
  • [15:35] – Principle-Based Life - Leadership
  • [20:47] – Principle-Based Life - Honesty
  • [26:40] – Dynamic Goal Setting

Growth Takeaways:

  • Purchase your Domain Name
  • You will outlive our talent. Find residual income opportunities.
  • Leadership is about service
  • Honesty is not the same as authenticity

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“Many of you are where you are in your life based upon what you believe.” – Oprah Winfrey

On this episode of the BYLU Campaign podcast, Daniel, Nathan, and special guest Mike Glass discuss “I AM?” the November article, where Nate shares the importance of self-belief and the power of affirmations. Tune in to part 2 of this two-part series as Mike shares the challenges of trading in his NFL dreams for a new vision, how the routine he established as a D1 athlete helped him transition, and what’s next for Mike Glass. Here we also discuss the power of personal development and how it transformed Danny and Mike’s life. Thanks for the continued support, and feel free to send any questions or feedback you have to bylucampaign@gmail.com.

Time Stamped Topics:

  • [2:30] – Applying D1 Athlete Skills in the Real World.
  • [5:40] – Hanging Up Your Jersey!
  • [15:55] – ET The Hip Hop Preacher / High School Danny
  • [25:40] – Young & Impressionable
  • [32:50] – What is Next for Mike Glass
  • [36:00] –Why give back?

Growth Takeaways:

  • Hard work + Dedication = Success
  • Develop a routine and stick to it.
  • Stay ready, never got to get ready!
  • If you love someone, be honest with them.
  • Don’t be afraid to take risks.

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“Many of you are where you are in your life based upon what you believe.” – Oprah Winfrey

On this episode of the BYLU Campaign podcast, Daniel, Nathan, and special guest Mike Glass discuss “I AM?” the November article, where Nate shares the importance of self-belief and the power of affirmations. Tune in to part 1 of this two-part series as Mike shares how he transitioned from never playing organized sports until high school to going D1. Here we discuss the importance of surrounding yourself with people who are better than you, the pressures of entrepreneurship, and the power of speaking things into existence. Thanks for the continued support, and feel free to send any questions or feedback you have to bylucampaign@gmail.com.

Time Stamped Topics:

  • [2:20] – Intro
  • [10:08] – “I AM” Power of the Tongue.
  • [19:40] – Perro in Paris - Testing Limits
  • [23:00] – Becoming Mike Glass
  • [32:10] – Going D1 for Football
  • [37:00] – The Company You Keep

Growth Takeaways:

  • There is power in the tongue.
  • Be willing to fight for what you believe you desire.
  • Surround yourself with people who are better than you.
  • Hard work beats talent when talent fails to work hard.
  • “No one is better than me.”

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On this episode of the BYLU Campaign podcast, Daniel and Nathan invite Justine Avoudikpon, Serial Entrepreneur to the show to discuss her journey from building a tech start-up in Silicon Valley to investing in farming (Farmkart) in Nigeria. Here we discuss the challenges with being a black woman in tech, highlight the importance of finding a team that is invested in the mission, and explain balancing short-term and long-term investments. Tune in to this open dialogue as Justine shares tactics for balancing a 9-5 and a side business. Thanks for the continued support and feel free to send any questions or feedback you have to bylucampaign@gmail.com

Time Stamped Topics:

  • [3:33] - Background
  • [8:19] - Building A Start-up
  • [13:09] - Mentors/Finding a Team
  • [22:04] - Transitioning to Corporate
  • [28:38] - Investing in an African Farm
  • [35:42] - How to Get Involved in Africa
  • [42:20] - Wealth Building Through Real Estate

Growth Takeaways:

  • No one wants to steal your idea
  • Your idea isn’t special. What matters is how you execute.
  • Share your work and your interest
  • Find people that care about the mission
  • Be aggressive but realistic

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“The purist’s form of education is participation and observation.” — Isaiah Thomas

On this episode of the BYLU Campaign podcast, Daniel and Nathan discuss “Working For Free?” the October article, where Nate breaks down this highly debated topic. Tune in as we share what to keep in mind when working for free, explain the different ways people work for free, and reveal how desperation and external validation led Nate to avoid working for free. Thanks for the continued support, and feel free to send any questions or feedback you have to bylucampaign@gmail.com.

Time Stamped Topics:

  • [5:50] - The Gig Economy
  • [12:55] - Learning From A Guru
  • [28:05] - Why Your Not Working For Free? - Validation
  • [33:10] - Why Your Not Working For Free? - Desperation
  • [54:20] - How to Assess If You Should Do Free Work?
  • [59:04] - Things to Keep In Mind When Working For Free
  • [1:02:00] - Be Phenomenal or Be Forgotten

Growth Takeaways:

  • Don’t discount the value of experience.
  • Don’t base your self worth as a person on your compensation as a professional.
  • Getting a full-time job does not mean you’re accepting defeat.
  • Remember that you decided to do it for free.
  • If you want to be phenomenal you will have to do free work.

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On this episode of the BYLU Campaign podcast, Daniel and Nathan invite John Livengood, CEO of the DMV Daily, to the show to discuss his journey to becoming the silent assassin of the DMV’s journalist/ publicist space. Here we highlight the importance of shooting your shot, being resilient when met with adversity in the workplace, and legacy. Tune in to this open dialogue as John discusses mental health, how to build a team, and tactics for pitching to large brands/ publications. Thanks for the continued support and feel free to send any questions or feedback you have to bylucampaign@gmail.com

Time Stamped Topics:

  • [3:54] - Background
  • [16:16] - Mental Health/ Trama/ PTSD
  • [26:17] - USA Today Internship / Being Resilent In the Workplace
  • [38:16] - DMV Daily / 20 interns
  • [46:40] - Being a Publist /Working with large publications
  • [53:35] - Unpaid Interns (Pay your interns)
  • [59:00] - Influences

Growth Takeaways:

  • Face adversity head-on. Stop complaining.
  • To be effective you can only have so many cares
  • What we go through is to develop empathy. For when we are in a position of power.
  • The heart of entrepreneurship is creating opportunities.
  • 99 No’s means 1 Yes is coming.

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“Sometimes you can’t wait for someone else to save you. You have to be the hero that saves yourself.”

On this episode of the BYLU Campaign podcast, Daniel and Nathan discuss “Savior vs. Seed” the September article, where Nate examines his intentions behind networking or the lack thereof. Tune in as we discuss the importance of trusting the timing of your life, share why you shouldn’t engage in transactional networking, and provide guidance on cultivating a strong network. Thanks for the continued support, and feel free to send any questions or feedback you have to bylucampaign@gmail.com.

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  • [4:50] - Intro
  • [17:43] - Stop Being Thirsty!
  • [27:35] - Your Network is Your Net-worth
  • [37:27] - So Good They Can’t Ignore You, Really?
  • [46:50] - Plant Seeds

The Boss Your Life Up Takeaways:

  • Your network is not a substitute for the process.
  • The process is lonely even with a solid support system.
  • You’ll never know how great you are until you take a chance on yourself.
  • “It’s 10% talent, 20% your network, and 70% God’s timing.”

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On this episode of the BYLU Campaign podcast, Daniel and Nathan invite Tunji, The Corporate Bully, back to the show to discuss the topic of getting the most out of your Corporate America experience. Here we highlight the importance of entering Corporate with an agenda, communicating your needs, being a team player. Tune in to this open dialogue as Tunji shares how he successfully negotiated an additional $25,000 in salary, provides tips on getting more black people in the door if you’re the only one, and presents tactics for navigating as a first-generation professional. Thanks for the continued support and feel free to send any questions or feedback you have to bylucampaign@gmail.com

Time Stamped Topics:

  • [2:30] - The American Dream
  • [10:30] - Being A Minority In Corporate America
  • [17:20] - Employee Referrals
  • [28:00] - Negotiate, Negotiate, Negotiate!
  • [53:40] - Having A Backbone!
  • [1:02:20] - Code Switching

Growth Takeaways:

  • Communicate your goals, your needs, and where you want to be.
  • Go the extra mile when doing an employee referral
  • Negotiate with the decision-maker!
  • Know when to stand up from yourself and when to be a team player
  • Don’t code switch, embrace the different aspect of who you are

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"The key is not to try to become the person you used to be. A comeback is not a ‘go back.’ Trying to go back will frustrate you even more. Find your new assignment." — Tim Storey

"It's ok for your dreams to change." On this episode of the BYLU Campaign podcast, Daniel and Nathan discuss "Dreams Change," the July article where Nate examines his changing dream. Here we highlight the process of finding and accepting your new blueprint as well as communicating the new plan to your loved ones. Tune in as we discuss the challenges of being a first-generation professional, the importance of not allowing others to project their values onto us or confuse us, and how occasionally we fight against who we've been called to be. Thanks for the continued support and feel free to send any questions or feedback you have to bylucampaign@gmail.com

Time Stamped Topics:

  • [4:30] - A Tool - Paintbrush Not the Painter
  • [8:30] - Finding a New Blueprint
  • [19:40] - Accepting the New Blueprint - No Turning Back
  • [31:15] - Communicating the New Blueprint to Your Loved Ones
  • [39:15] - Difficult Conversation Takeaways
  • [48:00] - Conversations With Our Uncles
  • [56:00] - I’m Ok with Failing But My Loved Ones Are Not...

The Boss Your Life Up Takeaways:

  • Freedom isn’t given it’s earned!
  • Your gift will make room for you.
  • Don’t go back, integrate the old you.
  • Be direct and stop avoiding people’s calls

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On this episode of the BYLU Campaign podcast, Daniel and Nathan invite Darnelle Williams, a DC-based real estate investor to the show to discuss his journey into real estate and his role as organizer of the DMV’s hottest real estate meet-up, All DMV REI Meet-Up. Tune in to this open dialogue as Darnelle and Nathan both share their experience with deals falling through and the recovery process that accompanies it, discuss leaving their jobs to be full-time real estate investors, and provide steps to starting your wholesaling journey. Truly a worthwhile listen for all newbie real estate investors/wholesalers or any entrepreneur fighting an uphill battle.

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Time Stamped Topics:

  • [3:00] - Introduction
  • [17:30] - You Don’t Need Anyone’s Approval
  • [26:30] - When Deals Fall Through...
  • [37:30] - How to Get/Close a Real Estate Wholesale Deal
  • [44:30] - Teaching or Inspiring
  • [50:30] - A Leap of Faith

The BYLU Takeaways:

  • There is nothing in your way but you!
  • You don’t need to know it all to help.
  • If your time is spent doing what you like then you will be happy!
  • Find a way to be active in real estate outside of looking for deals.

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“There is nothing noble in being superior to your fellow man; true nobility is being superior to your former self.” ― Ernest Hemingway

“What marks change?” On this episode of the BYLU Campaign podcast, Daniel and Nathan discuss “Change + Growth = Transformation”, the June article which breaks down the Transformation journey into two parts, Change and Growth. Here we highlight the nuances between the decision to change and the growth process, emphasize the importance of forgiving yourself during your season of growth, and examine the transformative power that comes with owning your story. Tune in as Nate discusses giving himself permission to tell his story and Danny shares his journey to owning his own story.

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Time Stamped Topics:

  • [11:45] - Change - Declare Your Independence
  • [16:45] - Forgive Yourself
  • [28:45] - Growth - Fight for Freedom
  • [37:00] - Knowing and Doing
  • [40:55] - Transformation - You Have The Right To Tell Your Story
  • [53:15] - Danny On Owning Your Story

The BYLU Takeaways:

  • Spend your energy forgiving yourself first before you start forgiving others.
  • Knowing requires knowledge but doing takes courage, vulnerability, and discipline.
  • Give yourself permission to tell your story
  • You will never feel authentic until you own your story.
  • It may get worse before it gets better.

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On this episode of the BYLU Campaign podcast, Daniel and Nathan invite Olayide, Founder of The Word of Mouth Co and By Ree Cosmetics to the show. Here we discuss how faith, patience, and a love for travel led her across several continents and ultimately landed her in Dubai. Tune in to this open dialogue as Laydie provides insight on working and living aboard, shares the importance of cultivating a support system that transcends country lines, and gives tips on balancing work and passion-projects/side-hustles.Thanks for the continued support and feel free to send any questions or feedback you have to bylucampaign@gmail.com

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Time Stamped Topics:

  • [3:30] - Intro
  • [6:50] - The Nomadic Lifestyle
  • [15:50] - In Dubai on a Jetski
  • [26:20] - It’s ok if Your Dream Changes
  • [33:15] - Balancing Work & Entrepreneurship
  • [45:40] - Advice to Younger Self / By Ree Cosmetics

The BYLU Takeaways:

  • If you want to move or work abroad do your research!
  • Some opportunities won’t present themselves until you ask for it.
  • Iron Sharpens Iron
  • You’re allowed to have your dreams change
  • Doing one thing at a time is ok

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No one can make you feel inferior without your consent. - Eleanor Roosevelt.

Self-integration requires alignment amongst one's thoughts, beliefs, and actions. It requires exploring your elaborate personality, understanding the stories you tell yourself, and being brave enough to stand in your uniqueness. On this episode of the BYLU Campaign podcast, Daniel and Nathan discuss “Different Not Inferior”, the May article where Nate breaks down his two distinct personalities. Where at times he possesses the might of a roaring lion and occasionally the insecurity of a meowing cat. Here we highlight the importance of embracing one’s uniqueness through the realization that different does not mean inferior, executing on your potential and finding your purpose. Also, tune in as Nate shares a breakthrough that caused him to cry. Thanks for the continued support and feel free to send any questions or feedback you have to bylucampaign@gmail.com

Time Stamped Topics:

  • [10:27] - Danny’s Takeaways from the Article
  • [17:27] - Nate’s Personality
  • [25:57] - The Meowing Cat
  • [33:37] - The Roaring Lion
  • [40:37] - The Dangers of Potential
  • [50:57] - Living in the Arena

The BYLU Takeaways:

  • Self-Integration makes you whole and well-rounded.
  • Living in your purpose takes away your need for escapism.
  • Create a list of people who's opinion/ perspective you are willing to consider.

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On this episode of the BYLU Campaign podcast, Daniel and Nathan come prepared with another set of questions as they double back with 21 Questions Part 2. Here we discuss Danny's techniques for managing relationships, his perspective on smoking / not giving into peer pressure, and finally his current dating life. Also, Nate’s ability to navigate a variety of spaces while remaining authentic, his perspective on forgiveness and the origins of his high tolerance, and finally his faith and perspective on Christianity.

Tune in as we take up the importance of not compromising your values in order to gain respect, not blaming God for the flaws of man, and, dating and where it falls on their priorities list. Thanks for the continued support and feel free to send any questions or feedback you have to bylucampaign@gmail.com

Time Stamped Topics:

  • [6:51] - Forgiveness - Nate’s High Tolerance
  • [17:31] - Managing Relationship - Checking in on Friends
  • [26:49] - Maintaining Authenticity in a Variety of Places
  • [37:39] - Drugs - Who Wants the Smoke?
  • [54:42] - Nate’s Faith and Strong Christian Background
  • [1:05:01] - Are You Ready to Date

The BYLU Takeaways:

  • Respect that requires you to compromise your values is not worthy of your efforts.
  • Checking in on people doesn’t take as much time as you think.
  • A change in location does not guarantee a change in mindset or perspective.
  • Be self-aware and strong-willed enough to know what is and is not for you.
  • Title or position does not guarantee character, expertise, or quality
  • It’s not your job to fix people’s flaws.

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“The reasonable man adapts himself to the world: the unreasonable one persists in trying to adapt the world to himself. Therefore all progress depends on the unreasonable man.”

Arguably most of the tension in our lives is a result of a lack of prioritization. On this episode of the BYLU Campaign podcast, Daniel and Nathan discuss “Unreasonable Man”, the April article which breaks down how to live by your priorities. Here we highlight how confidence is essential to prioritizing, the 3 stages people transition through to obtain real confidence, and provide practical tactics for executing your priorities. Tune in as Nate shares a few personal stories where he failed to prioritize correctly and the lessons he learned from them. Thanks for the continued support and feel free to send any questions or feedback you have to bylucampaign@gmail.com

Time Stamped Topics:

  • [7:30] - The Unreasonable Man
  • [9:50] - Confidence
  • [19:30] - Showing up as an equal
  • [24:10] - Knowing/Believing in Your Value
  • [36:55] - Embracing Your Value
  • [45:20] - Prioritizing. What’s the metric?
  • [58:40] - I said I’m sorry Mama
  • [1:05:10] - Feeling Prioritized

The BYLU Takeaways:

  • You’re valuable and no one is doing you a favor so show-up as an equal.
  • You can’t blame someone for attempting to discount your value but you can blame yourself for accepting the discounted rate.
  • Time cannot be made it can only be spent. Budget your time how you budget your finances.
  • You don’t get credit for telling people they’re a priority in their life or even making people a priority with your actions. You only get credit when they feel like a priority.

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Have you ever noticed that the BYLU website doesn’t have an “about us” section? No links to our personal IG. Was this intentional or by chance? For the first two years, we focused on creating BYLU identity outside of ourselves but now we’ve decided to share more about who we are. On this episode of the BYLU Campaign podcast, Daniel and Nathan come prepared with questions for one another. Here we discuss the origin of Daniel’s strong character as well as his decision to give his mom a retirement date, Nate’s persona and its authentic, and the negative experiences that have shaped them the most. Tune in as we provide more context to our friendship by sharing some interesting stories which range from the highs and lows. Thanks for the continued support and feel free to send any questions or feedback you have to bylucampaign@gmail.com

Time Stamped Topics:

  • [5:30] - Origins of Danny’s Strong Charter/Moral Grounding
  • [16:50] - Nate’s Persona. Does Perro Get Knocked Down?
  • [25:25] - Friendship the perception of who brings more value to the table.
  • [40:50] - What if? Any Regrets? Anything Left Unsaid?
  • [47:00] - Momma, When Do You Want to Retire?
  • [57:50] - What Negative Experience Has Shaped You the Most?
  • [1:10:50] - Danny & Nate Almost Get into a Fight.

The BYLU Takeaways:

  • Trust is built when you are honest even when lying can get you out of trouble.
  • You can’t be successful without confidence.
  • If you’re a freshman going to college get rooted first then branch out.
  • Don’t degrade yourself and your purpose just to make your family happy.
  • A traumatic event can only shape your life if you allow it. Unpack and Heal.

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“The Race Is Not To The Swift Or Strong But To Those Who Endure To The End”

A marathon is a tale of two races. You run the first race with your head and the second with your heart. On this episode of the BYLU Campaign podcast, Daniel and Nathan discuss “Endurance”, the March article which breaks down the 8 Stages of our life's marathon. Here we highlight the importance of assessing where your confidence is rooted, the financial impacts of arrogance/pride, and more. Tune in as we also pay respect to our mentor Nipsey “Neighborhood” Hussle, shift our perspective on the cliche “life is not a sprint it's a marathon.”, and announce a new sponsor of the podcast!

Time Stamped Topics:

  • [1:37] - R.I.P to the Late Great Nipsey Hussle
  • [14:57] - Olympic Champion
  • [21:33] - Stage 1: Excitement
  • [27:17] - Stage 2: Denial
  • [32:57] - Stage 3: Shock
  • [40:37] - Stage 4: Isolation
  • [48:32] - Stage 5 - 6: Despair / “The Wall”
  • [1:03:07] - Stage 7: Affirmation

The BYLU Takeaways:

  • Only confidence rooted in self-belief stands the test of time.
  • Be open to all parts of the marathon
  • It will take 3x longer than you expect
  • Lessons can be expensive so the earlier, the better.

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“Discipline is Self Love.”

On this episode of the BYLU Campaign podcast, Daniel and Nathan invite Maurice Meadows to the show to discuss his transformational journey. Which takes us down an unfortunate path where he falls victim to a generational cycle of alcohol abuse his freshman year of college and leads us to present day where he’s sober and living his best life. A true story of personal triumph.

Tune to this open dialogue where Moe candidly shares his experience with alcohol abuse and the impact it had on him both physically and mentally, the tragic loss of his brother, healing and what that process looks like, and embodying self-love.

Time Stamped Topics:

  • [9:05] - Intro to Maurice’s Story
  • [11:50] - Balancing School with Turn-up
  • [20:40] - Does Alcohol Affect Your Confidence?
  • [28:05] - When I Realized it Was a Problem
  • [37:30] - A Fork In The Road
  • [43:40] - Healing
  • [53:45] - Self Love
  • [1:02:50] - One Day at a Time

The BYLU Takeaways:

  • Don’t give others the power to make decisions for you.
  • Over consuming alcohol has the potential to reduce your confidence
  • When getting over addictions or bad habits take it one day at a time!
  • Discipline is Self Love
  • Be intentional, Slow-up your pace
  • You discover Self Love outside of your comfort zone

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“There’s more than one way to skin a cat.”

On this episode of the BYLU Campaign podcast, Daniel and Nathan, along with guest Tunji aka T-nero discuss “Unpacking Financial Freedom: v1”, which is part one in a series of articles on financial freedom, focusing primarily on the mental blocks that have prevented many from achieving it in the physical. Here we highlight the importance of differentiating between the truth and your mentor's truth, define financial freedom, and elaborate on the 2 ways wealth is generated. Tune in as we discuss the importance of ownership, making your own decisions, and the misconception behind 7 Streams of Income.

Time Stamped Topics:

  • [5:15] - How do you Define Financial Freedom?
  • [9:15] - The Importance of Ownership
  • [17:40] - My Truth vs. The Truth
  • [27:00] - Formula vs. Methodology
  • [36:00] - Replica - Don’t Copy Apply
  • [44:10] - How Wealth is Generated
  • [103:14] - 7 Streams of Income

The BYLU Takeaways:

  • Do your own research and make your own decisions!
  • Befriend time don’t make it your enemy.
  • The route you know may not be the best route.
  • Don’t copy the formula apply the methodology

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“Life doesn’t happen to you, it happens for you.”

On this episode of the BYLU Campaign podcast, Daniel and Nathan invite Trey Cox, Founder of Train With Trey, to the show to discuss the eventful journey that led him to our nation's capital and to create his new venture. Tune in to this open dialogue where Trey candidly shares his experience being laid-off, pivoting industries, leaning into his network and support system of family/friends, what failure means, and mental health/mindfulness. Truly a worthwhile listen for all millennials!

Also, if you haven’t already RSVP for the upcoming Train With Trey taking place on February 23rd at 10:30 AM - 11:30 AM at WA Marriott Wardman Park We looking forward to seeing you all!

Time Stamped Topics:

  • [2:36] - Trey’s Story
  • [11:50] - Taking a Step Back / Regression
  • [19:20] - Saving!!
  • [26:50] - Switching Industries / Fields
  • [32:40] - What is Failure?
  • [50:40] - Mindfulness
  • [1:08:10] - Train With Trey

The BYLU Takeaways:

  • Most of us are holding on to stuff we don't really need.
  • If you are a kind person and put good energy out into the world. You will get it back 10-fold.
  • All the pressure we put into worrying about tomorrow could be put towards today!

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“You can’t use up creativity. The more you use, the more you have." — Maya Angelou

On this episode of the BYLU Campaign podcast, Daniel and Nathan discuss “Two Years & Running”, a celebratory article which honors the 2-year anniversary of the BYLU Campaign Blog. Here we highlight some of the challenges of sustaining the blog including the fear of running out of creativity, overcoming self-imposed limitations as well as the limitations of others. If you are a creative, entrepreneur, Youtuber, or someone needing the motivation to start something tune in as we breakdown the requirements if any of getting started, the destination between reach and impact, and more.

Time Stamped Topics:

  • [6:36] - Starting BYLU / The Fear of Losing Creativity
  • [10:00] - 2 Crappy Pages a Day
  • [22:45] - I Don’t Beleive in Writers Block
  • [32:50] - Self Imposed Limitations
  • [39:45] - A Faster Horse
  • [49:00] - Perfection is The Enemy of Progress!
  • [55:00] - To Do List or Excuse List?

The BYLU Takeaways:

  • Don’t leave creativity up to chance, but rather develop a plan to ensure it.
  • Breaking glass ceilings is a continuous process.
  • You don’t need a logo to start!
  • Don’t allow likes, views, or shares to affirm you. Validate yourself.

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“Being the right person is more important than finding the right person.”

On this episode of the BYLU Campaign podcast, we feature our first guest on to the show. Moving forward, our podcast editorial calendar will include two episodes per month. The first episode based on the monthly BYLU article, and the second episode featuring a guest. Our guest will either provide a unique perspective to one of the BYLU articles or share a story demonstrating how they were able to upgrade their life within one of the five BYLU pillars (intellectual, financial, emotional, physical, spiritual).

This week Daniel and Nathan double-back for Part 2 of the highly anticipated "The Bag Ladies A-Alike" podcast, but this time around including our two special guests Iyanna and Mimi in the conversation. Tune in as we discuss topics like monogamy, differences between the needs of men and women in relationships, influence social media has on dating, challenges of vulnerability, importance of being able to evolve as a person in relationships and, impact our parents/upbringing has had on our relationships.

Time Stamped Topics:

  • [1:33] - What Have You Learned Since Part 1?
  • [13:04] - New Relationship, Old Baggage
  • [22:55] - A Need of all Men - Support
  • [32:43] - Hit Mission: Do Men Know What They Want?
  • [41:58] - Test: Can I Be Vulnerable
  • [48:50] - The Impact Of Our Upbringing
  • [1:01:24] - Keep That Same Energy

The BYLU Takeaways:

  • Release old baggage, and go into relationships open minded
  • You have to save yourself first!
  • Relationships are about providing value
  • People can only meet you to the point that you have met yourself.
  • Life is a journey, so don’t be afraid to get hurt. There will always be something better coming.

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“Would You rather be at war with yourself and at peace with the world, or at peace with yourself and at war with the world?”— Nipsey Hussle On this episode of the BYLU Campaign podcast, Daniel and Nathan discuss “Victory Lap” Here we breakdown a few lyrics from our favorite album of the year-- Victory Lap. Nipsey Hussle’s debut album and the most recently nominated Grammy for “Best Rap Album”. Here, the lyrics serve as the narrator of Nathan’s entrepreneurial journey for the past 4 months. Tune in as we discuss Imposter Syndrome, betting on yourself, the abundance mindset, Nathan losing $14,000, the two versions of America, and more.

Time Stamped Topics:

  • [4:22] - Pouring Into Yourself/ Imposter Syndrome
  • [13:30] - Questioning the Process / Being Patient
  • [17:40] - The Importance of Planning
  • [27:50] - Developing an Abundance Mindset
  • [41:45] - Reinvest in the Business: Keep Betting
  • [46:50] - Risk Taking vs Living in Fear
  • [52:20] - Speaking Things Into Existence?
  • [56:40] - Losing $14,000 on a Deal

The BYLU Takeaways:

  • Create a plan but be open to the process and timing
  • Speaking into instance does not mean the absence of action.
  • Your success as an entrepreneur is dependant upon the quality of your support system
  • When you take action failure is introduced.
  • Don’t let the short-term financial needs cause you to go astray from your purpose

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What are you looking to gain from your mentor relationship? Are you looking for accountability or a handout? Are you even a good mentee? If so, what makes you one? Rarely is the mentee role discussed outside of the strategies to secure mentors and the surface level tactics to keep them. On this episode of the BYLU Campaign podcast, Daniel and Nathan discuss "The Mentee Chronicles: Finding Myself”. We explore the in's and out's of the mentee-mentor relationship, Nathan’s shortcomings as a mentee, and our perspective on what a mentee must do to be mentored. We hope you enjoy! Don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review!

Time Stamped Topics:

  • [6:50] - The Importance of Knowing Who You Are
  • [12:43] - What Do You What Out of Life? Be Decisive
  • [16:00] - Come Up With Your Values
  • [19:50] - When You Don’t You Want...
  • [25:15] - When You Don’t Know Who You Are…
  • [33:00] - Weaknesses - Kanye Picks Jay Over Dame
  • [41:35] - Danny’s Mentee Experience

The BYLU Takeaways:

  • No one can do the work for you!
  • Our values provide a structure for our decision making. Know your values!
  • The quality of the question determines the quality of the response.
  • Develop a definitive purpose. If you are not clear about what you want you will never obtain it.

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What would your life be like if the financial implication wasn't the primary driver of your decision making? On this episode of the BYLU Campaign podcast, Daniel and Nathan discuss ”The Formula: Give. Save. Live” article. Here Nathan discussed how he leveraged the tried and true formula to gain control and provide structure to his finances. Regardless of if you are an entrepreneur, wantrepreneur, or 9-5er, applying this formula will allow you to have more control and peace in your life. Tune in as they break down each of the three categories and discuss everything from how Nathan’s grandma changed his perspective on generosity, the difference between a fixed mindset vs. abundance mindset, and the distinction between our life and our lifestyle.

Time Stamped Topics: [9:09] - Money Management Habits [14:11] - The Wealth Gap [23:00] - Give [31:40] - Greed - A Fixed Mindset [36:40] - Save/Invest [44:10] - Freedom of Choice [49:10] - Live [59:10] - A Life You Don’t Need a Vacation From!

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To “Boss Your Life Up” you must win in each of the 5 BYLU pillars. On this episode of the BYLU Podcast, Daniel and Nathan discuss The Bag Lady's A-Alike article which addresses Nathan’s realization that he was not living up to the Emotional Pillar as well as his decision to change. Tune in as they discuss everything from vulnerability and escapism to toxic black masculinity and emotional suppression. Also, what Daniel has learned from going to therapy, dealing with a break-up or loss, and the process of using pain as a platform to grow. This is an episode you don’t want to miss! Stay tuned for Part 2.

Time Stamped Topics:

[7:50] - The Emotional Pillar [10:30] - Peeling Back The Layers [15:25] - The ability to learn is a gift even when pain is your teacher. — Inky Johnson [18:20] - Toxic Black Masculinity [29:30] - The Old Me! [33:00] - No Post Game Interview After A Lose [42:20] - Rehabilitation Reminders Part 1 [50:18] - Exposed! The Real Nate Perro [55:25] - Danny Goes to Therapy

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Are you struggling with budgeting and keeping money in your savings account? On this episode of the BYLU podcast, Daniel and Nathan discuss The Art of Saving article. This is one of the first articles Nathan wrote when they launched the BYLU Campaign in February of 2017. Tune in as they discuss the three different types of savers: The Checking Account #2 Saver, The Short Term Saver, and The Wealth Building Saver. As well as transitioning from college to adulting, the importance of paying yourself first, and how Nathan uses his Indexed Universal Life Insurance policy as a savings account.

Time Stamped Topics: [3:50] - Adulting: Transitioning from College to Corporate America [14:11] - Checking Account #2 - Never Saving [16:50] - Short-Term Saver - Saving to Spend [22:10] - Stay Ready, Be Prepared [29:32] - Life Insurance [45:50] - Uninterrupted Compound Interest Saver - Saving to Build Wealth [53:10] - The BYLU Takeaway:

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Welcome to the first episode of The BYLU Campaign Podcast! Your Co-Host Daniel and Nathan kick-off this inaugural episode by explaining what BYLU means to them and break down the 5 BYLU pillars.

On this episode, we discuss the Draft Day article which was released March 2018. Are you a millennial struggling with balancing family and finances? Tune in as we discuss Kobe Bryants Players Tribute article Letter to My Younger Self where he discusses investing in the future of your family vs. giving. And how Nathan compares himself to the Black Mamba claiming that he too was drafted when he started working full-time. Moreover, learn about Nathan's approach to meeting the financial needs of his family and friends.

The BYLU Takeaways:

  • People have an infinite amount of wants/needs and it’s impossible to meet them all so don’t feel compelled to.
  • Your goal should not be to take care of your loved ones but to provide your loved ones with the opportunity to take care of themselves.

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