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Kicking addiction to porn, transforming lives and relationships for the pursuit of modern saint hood in the anxieties of everyday.
1) Fear of not measuring up
The only standard that matters is the one you set for yourself.
2) Fear of being judged:
The judgement of others is irrelevant.
3) Fear of feeling like a fraud and being discovered:
Those who judge the harshest tend to have the most skeletons in their closet.
4) Fear of not knowing how to live in the world without porn or compulsive masturbation:
When you take on the responsibilities of a man- the questions above become irrelevant.
5) Fear of success:
You must dare to dream.
6) Fear of relapse:
To truly reboot, you must master the art of facing your relapse head on. This is what separates the men from those who dabble.
In times of crisis, men who act in spite of their fears win.
At NewMenRising, we are anti-fear and anti- playing small.
I want you to THRIVE! And so I am stepping up in a huge way to support you.
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What’s unfolding today is the confluence of three pandemics: COVID-19, pornography, and anxiety. We are experiencing this toxic convergence.
Porn offers two experiences we haven’t been able to find in the coronavirus pandemic: relief and power. The relief and power porn offers however is not only temporary, it’s deeply problematic for two reasons:
- Porn damages sex and mental health
- Porn is a violation against women
By seeking and offering accountability in many areas of life, check-in phone calls become more interesting.
In addition to aiding in sobriety, accountability partners can be there to help each other achieve both short-term and long-term goals.
This will aid in overall recovery.
PornHub and other porn sites are experiencing record breaking traffic as more people are confined to their homes to prevent the spread of COVID-19.
2 ways you can respond as a man trying to quit porn.
Option #1: Attack.
Go on the offense. Rally and encourage your family. Tighten your boundaries. Increase your investment in improving your mindset, finances and any areas of weakness. Seek opportunities to thrive while other focus in surviving. TAKE ACTION.
Option #2: Defense
Victim. Play safe. Cut spending. Get Scared. Give in to anxiety. Keep your family in a state of paranoia and fear. Compulsively watch the news. Worry about job instead of finding new income sources. Lose hope.
Which do you choose?
Thoughts today on how Physical, Emotional, and Spiritual loneliness are increasingly more a challenge with Coronavirus requiring Home Office.
The Coronavirus has unmasked the illusion of certainty. Hard times make strong men. Now is opportunity to be the leader in our families! Use Prudence, Prayer, and positivity
The reason why men relapse is because they still hold on to some aspects of their old life.
You will continue relapsing if you do not identify the people, places and things which lead to a relapse.
In this podcast I discuss the questions that help identify all the major situations which lead to a relapse.
I also discuss the 10 reasons why men stay addicted to porn.
Today, March 8th is International Women’s Day.
Today, on a day that we celebrate women, we should consider and recognize the destruction porn has caused in our culture, society and personal lives for women.
The consumption of porn, gives a man many of the desires he seeks from women without him having to give himself in return. This leads to the objectification of women, and over time, the inability to connect with and find pleasure in real life, Human to Human interactions. We are failing to provide strength and protection to the women in our lives.
We have failed them for the last time.
Today, honor the women in your life with more than flowers. Take the first step towards authenticity. Stop consuming porn.
Life is complex. A few things help fight the chaos of life. Priorities, reduce consumption, live the moment, gratitude and prayer
Porn addicts should practice the 40days Lenten tradition of penance and ascetical warfare.
NewManRising is a unique podcast because it is for men experiencing addiction to porn in their relationships, many of those, which are in the process of divorce or separation or are battling to save their relationship.
These podcast episodes cover three pillars:
Radical change in spiritual life
Radical physical change
Radical psychology change
Today we’ll talk about an important topic on the journey of transformation. • MINDSET