Dating After Divorce: Recent Episodes
Sade Curry
Dating after Divorce is a podcast for divorced women that explores the divorce journey and teaches real strategies for fully recovering from a divorce, rebuilding your life, dating and getting happily married again.Join Certified Life Coach, Sade Curry for real practical wisdom and real-world techniques from her own divorce journey and life coaching practice. Sade teaches you how to quickly go from divorced and alone to happily remarried while building your best life after divorce along the way. Visit http://sadecurry.com to learn more.
Every time Dr. Jennie Young used Bumble or Hinge, the same thing happened: high hopes on day one, horror by day two. Then she remembered what she does for a living.
Dr. Jennie is a rhetoric professor. She spent years doing critical discourse analysis on high school disciplinary handbooks — coding for toxic, gendered language patterns hidden inside official policies. One day, she turned that same academic lens on men's dating profiles.
What she found? Thirty-three distinct rhetorical patterns. The Blue Ribbon for Bare Minimum. The Cuddle Bears. The Test-and-Apologize. Patterns that reveal — before the first date — exactly what kind of man you're dealing with.
Over 260,000 women are now using her Burned Haystack Dating Method to stop calculating and start recognizing.
In this episode, Dr. Jennie and I get into all of it — the patterns, the political landscape of dating in 2026, why women are not too picky, and what a genuinely good profile actually looks like. She also shares how she used her own method to find her partner.
You've already seen these profile patterns. This episode will help you interpret them.
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In this episode, I break down exactly how the halo effect shows up in dating, in difficult marriages, and in divorce — and why smart, high-achieving women fall for it just as hard as anyone else. (Maybe harder. Because we're good at building convincing stories.)
A man can pay for every dinner from the first date to the wedding — and still refuse to share anything that matters once you're married. A partner can be a good provider, a good father, and a terrible spouse all at once. These things live together. Your brain doesn't want to hold that complexity. I'm going to help you do it anyway.
I also talk about the flip side — the horn effect — where one weird moment makes you write off someone who might deserve more time. The goal for evaluating a relationship is clarity, not suspicion.
Whether you're dating, inside a hard marriage, or in the middle of a divorce — the most important thing you can do right now is learn to see people as they are, not as you need them to be.
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In this episode of Your Extraordinary Life and Dating After Divorce Podcast, I pull back the curtain on one of the most destructive patterns I see in women who are smart, capable, and completely worn out. I share stories from my own first marriage — including the season I drove to sales calls while six months pregnant so my ex-husband could build a business he never built. I was functioning as his parent, not his partner.
This pattern doesn't disappear after divorce. It follows you into dating. It shows up when you calculate a man's schedule and decide he deserves grace for being unavailable — before he's even taken you on a date. You owe him nothing. Your job is to decide whether he fits your life, not manage the reasons he can't show up for it.
Over-responsibility creates under-responsibility — in your partner and in yourself. While you pour your energy into someone else's growth, your finances, your career, your relationships with your kids, your health — all of it sits on pause. That pause becomes years. Years become your life.
You deserve better than a life built around someone else's potential.
Ready to break this pattern for good? Schedule a relationship strategy session with Sade at sadecurry.com/schedule-appointment.
This episode is for the woman who has ever looked back and said, "I knew it. Why didn't I trust myself?"
Sade unpacks why so many women dismiss their own instincts and how that dismissal — not the red flags themselves — leaves them most exposed. Memorizing red flags doesn't protect you. Situational awareness does. When you build that skill, no disguise fools you.
Your nervous system collects data. Fear, discomfort, that "off" feeling — those are not signs you are dramatic or paranoid. They are signals. The problem is that women spend decades in training to ignore those signals, and then wonder why they feel anxious, confused, and stuck.
Sade also names the two fears that keep women frozen: the fear of being wrong and the fear of being right. Both traps lead to the same outcome — doing nothing while things get worse.
The work is the same whether you're dating, married, or navigating divorce. Discernment. Self-leadership. Knowing what a safe relationship looks and feels like. Building your own life and emotional resources.
You didn't choose the conditioning that trained you to doubt yourself. But you can choose differently now.
Ready to build your situational awareness with real support? Schedule a free consultation with Sade at sadecurry.com/schedule-appointment
You pride yourself on reading people. You pick up on moods, scan facial expressions, and adjust to keep the peace. But then your partner files for divorce, and you never saw it coming. A close friend betrays you, and it hits you like a truck. A man you're dating turns out to be nothing like you imagined.
Sound familiar?
In this episode, Sade breaks down why smart, capable women keep getting blindsided in relationships — and it has nothing to do with intelligence. She shares three psychology concepts that explain the pattern: theory of mind, the illusion of transparency, and naive realism. These ideas reveal how we project our own values onto others, assume people can see what we never said out loud, and convince ourselves that no one would do what we would never do.
Sade gets personal about her own blindside moments — from her ex filing for divorce after seventeen years of a toxic marriage to his fight for full custody despite zero involvement in parenting. She explains how women trained to scan for danger often read one narrow signal while missing the full picture.
The result? Minimization. You shrink the red flags, ignore the patterns, and push down what your gut screams at you — because facing it means doing something about it.
This episode gives you permission to stop blaming yourself and start building the skill of seeing what's real. Your conditioning created these patterns. Conscious, safe work can unwind them.
Ready to stop getting blindsided and start trusting what you know? Schedule your free consultation call with Sade at sadecurry.com/schedule-appointment.
What if the reason you keep ending up in draining relationships has nothing to do with what's wrong with you — and everything to do with how your brain operates?
In this episode, I break down discernment — the skill that transforms every relationship in your life, from your marriage to your friendships to how you co-parent with your ex. Here's the truth: your brain runs on autopilot. It creates shortcuts for everything — including the people closest to you. And when those shortcuts go unchecked, you stop seeing people for who they are. You start operating from a script that was written for you long before you were born.
It goes deeper than biology. From childhood, women get trained to override their own reality. "He's pulling your hair because he likes you." Sound familiar? That messaging doesn't stop in grade school. It follows you into your marriage, your dating life, and your friendships. It teaches you to reframe harm as love and to silence your own experience.
I share my own story of trying to wake up from autopilot during my first marriage — and the painful responses I received when I started asking real questions. Breaking free from the script is messy. But staying plugged in has a cost too.
Discernment means slowing down, removing the filters, and backing yourself up on your own experience. No shame. No self-blame. Just clarity.
If something in your life feels off — if what you're giving never matches what you're getting back — this episode is your invitation to start asking real questions.
Ready to get off autopilot in your relationships? Schedule a coaching consultation with me at sadecurry.com/schedule-appointment.
You tell yourself it won't happen. You avoid the word "divorce" like saying it out loud will make it real. You wait. You hope. You pray things shift.
Meanwhile, assets move. Attorneys get hired — just not by you. And when it hits, you're blindsided.
That was my story. I lost assets, lost leverage, and watched my divorce drag on because I refused to face what was happening. I thought I could handle it. I thought we'd figure it out. I was wrong.
If you are in a difficult, abusive, or high-conflict marriage — this episode is for you. Not every divorce requires deep planning. But if your spouse is less than trustworthy, if coercive control or financial manipulation exists, if children and significant assets are involved — you cannot afford to leave your future up to chance.
Here's what I walk you through in this episode: the three steps you need to take right now — decide, plan, and act. I share what happened when I didn't plan, what happened when a client did, and why the women who protect themselves aren't bitter — they're grown.
Fifty percent of marriages end in divorce. Thinking you're the exception doesn't make you one. Eyes wide open, information in hand, and a solid plan — that's what makes you the exception.
No one is coming to save you. But you can save yourself.
Ready to create a plan for your next chapter? Schedule a consultation call with Sade at sadecurry.com/schedule-appointment.
Divorce doesn't just break your heart — it can shatter your mental health in ways you never saw coming.
You tell yourself you'll feel better once the papers are filed, once he moves out, once the court date passes. But the truth is, healing doesn't work on a timeline. Grief hits you in the strangest moments — standing in an unfamiliar grocery store, driving 40 minutes to your kids' activities, watching your whole routine dissolve.
The losses can be huge. You lose the relationship, the home, the neighborhood, the friend group, the church. Your kids ask questions you can't answer. Your attorney bills you for every email. Your ex hires a shark who treats you like a criminal. It all crashes down at once.
If you're a woman with a vision, your instinct is to power through. You've handled everything else — why not this? But divorce can crack open old wounds you thought you buried. It can trigger childhood trauma, collapse your nervous system, and push you into survival mode — especially when you're also juggling midlife, hormonal shifts, teenagers, or aging parents.
This is not the time to be superwoman. This is the time to build your support team. Find a therapist who champions you. Hire a coach who's walked this road. Ditch anyone who plays devil's advocate with your pain.
Seeing your real needs during this time can make all the difference.
Ready to stop surviving and start building your extraordinary life? Schedule a dating consultation call with Sade at sadecurry.com/schedule-appointment.
In this podcast episode, I discuss mistakes and mindset strategies for divorcing a person with narcissistic tendencies.
Some people say the word narcissist is overused. I disagree. And I love that those people have the privilege of never having experienced a narcissist in an intimate setting.
When women use this word, we know what we mean. We're describing an experience that can't be captured in one simple term—the gaslighting, the silent treatment, the crazy-making moments that leave you questioning your own reality.
If you're divorcing someone with narcissistic tendencies, your divorce will look different from everyone else's. And here's what makes it harder: you've been trained to doubt yourself. You've learned to wait for permission. You've been conditioned to seek validation from people who may never understand what you've lived through.
I remember documenting my marriage for 48 days straight—writing down what happened each day so I could see the patterns in black and white. When I showed those notes to my mentor, she told me I was "being negative" and walked out of my house. She never spoke to me again.
I learned that nobody was coming to save me. I had to own my own reality.
If you're divorcing a narcissist, base your strategy on the worst moments, not the honeymoon phases. Go in prepared—with the right attorney, the right support team, and the right information. Don't bring a pen knife to a gunfight.
Want help creating your divorce strategy? Schedule a consultation with Sade at sadecurry.com/info
In this episode, I break down something I've coached women through but hesitated to share—quiet quitting your marriage. Quiet quitting works by releasing the fairy tale "Plan A" marriage that was never going to exist and designing a Plan B life that brings you peace.
Your partner may have never had the capacity for the dream marriage you thought you were going to have. Until you grieve that reality, it's impossible to build what's available. you stay trapped—waiting, begging, and burning yourself out for something that will never come.
In this episode we walk you through the mental shifts that breaks this cycle. You'll learn how to Accept that marriage is a construct—one you can redesign without anyone's permission.
This approach isn't for everyone. If abuse exists in any form, this isn't your path. But if you're exhausted from forcing a partnership that doesn't function, you have more options than you realize.
The same healing work waits whether you stay or go. The question is: what do you want to build?
Ready to explore your options? Book your consultation call at sadecurry.com/schedule-appointment
Thinking about divorce? The way you approach telling your spouse can determine your safety, your financial future, and your children's wellbeing. This isn't about whether you should leave—it's about understanding what happens when you do.
Most women walk into this conversation with the same mindset that kept them stuck in the relationship. You've minimized problems for years. You've told yourself "I can handle this" or "It's not that bad." That thinking protects you while you're staying. It harms you when you're leaving.
Here's the truth: You cannot approach a difficult spouse with an "everything will work out" mentality. You cannot show all your cards to someone who hides theirs. You cannot expect peaceful co-parenting from someone who disregards your wellbeing.
The solution? Recalibrate before you speak.
First, understand your unique situation. Know where the money sits. Know the risks. Know what leaving the home means in your state.
Second, make a plan. For some women, this means a safety plan. For others, it means gathering financial documents, consulting an attorney, or having support in place. One client took a month to prepare—and that preparation protected her and her children.
Third, build emotional resilience. Prepare for what might happen so you don't get blindsided.
Preparing doesn't mean you have to file. It means you refuse to ignore the issue.
Ready to create your plan? Schedule a dating consultation call with Sade at sadecurry.com/info
You know that feeling when you say "I can't believe this is happening"? That phrase reveals something important: you might be stuck in denial.
Divorce shatters your reality. It forces you to question your past, present, and future all at once. Your brain protects you by avoiding these overwhelming truths. But denial keeps you vulnerable. While you refuse to engage, reality moves forward—often against your interests.
Maybe you discovered infidelity. Maybe your spouse blindsided you with divorce papers. Maybe you chose to leave but still find yourself shocked by what happens next. The confusion stems from the cycle of drama: tension builds, an incident explodes, apologies follow, calm returns—then it starts again. This cycle traps you in a fog where you forget why things felt so bad.
Here's what changed everything for me: I grabbed a notebook and documented my daily experiences for 48 days. Not for court. Not to prove anything to anyone. Just to own my reality. Those pages helped me see the patterns I couldn't recognize in the moment.
Documentation creates consciousness. Consciousness creates choice. Choice creates freedom.
Stop comparing the worst moments of your relationship to the best moments of that same relationship. That comparison keeps you trapped. You deserve to know what healthy looks like.
Your relationship with yourself is the longest one you'll ever have. Back yourself up. Trust yourself. Own your experience.
Ready to move forward? Schedule a dating consultation call with Sade at sadecurry.com/info and start building the life you deserve.
You might have noticed something different—we changed our name.
Welcome to Your Extraordinary Life and Dating After Divorce. Same host, expanded mission.
Here's what happened: I spent years focused on dating after divorce. But the truth? Half my clients work with me on other parts of the divorce journey—thinking about divorce, surviving the process, healing afterward. And I realized I was hiding these stories and frameworks from you.
So we're expanding.
January brings you divorce-focused episodes. Then we return to a mix of dating and divorce content throughout the year. You choose what serves you.
My approach stays the same whether we tackle dating or divorce: I help you cut through the noise. The childhood programming. The societal expectations. The voices that drown out what you want.
Because here's what I know: You can do whatever you choose. The hard part? Figuring out what you want when everyone else tells you what you should want.
I started as a divorce coach in 2016. I pieced together my own healing journey when nothing existed for divorced women. That experience shapes how I work with women today—helping them advocate for themselves without guilt, build lives that fit them, and make decisions from clarity instead of fear.
This year brings more content, more truth, more tools.
Ready to create your extraordinary life? Schedule a dating consultation call with Sade at sadecurry.com/info
You think getting divorced at 23 is too young to learn anything valuable? Think again.
Sade Mickelson, life coach and Chinese medicine expert, shares her story of marrying an Iranian restaurant owner who was arrested for federal drug charges while she was still in college. Instead of walking away, she doubled down—visiting him in prison, planning to move to Iran, and proving her capability at every turn.
The wake-up call came on a broken Ferris wheel in Isfahan. Sae realized she was wishing her entire life away, rushing to reach the end just to prove she picked the right person. She discovered her best friend was having an affair with her husband. But the real revelation came when she told him: "I made you up."
This episode explores how women use their professional strengths—resilience, capability, problem-solving—to stay trapped in relationships that drain them. Sade's story reveals the difference between proving your worth and protecting your peace. She learned that truth feels like freedom, even when it hurts.
Her journey from codependence to self-befriending offers wisdom for any woman rebuilding after divorce. The answer is not figuring everything out tonight.
Ready to stop proving yourself and start protecting your peace? Schedule a consultation call with Sade Curry at https://sadecurry.com/info.
You know all about red flags and what men want. That information fills every dating coach's feed. But here's what nobody talks about: where your attention goes during your dating journey.
Your attention determines everything. When you focus on the 99% of guys who aren't right for you, your mental energy flows there instead of toward your vision. When you obsess over your ex's new girlfriend or rehearse angry texts, you drain the energy you need to create what you want.
Think about it like this: imagine a room filled with puppies and kittens—everything you love. But a rattlesnake sits in the corner. You won't enjoy a single puppy because your eye stays locked on that snake. That's how your brain works with dating. One wrong thing captures all your focus while opportunities pass you by.
Women tell me they do everything right, yet feel stuck. I always find their attention lives somewhere else—on past hurt, on people's opinions, on what's not working. Your surface actions don't matter when your mind swirls with fear and frustration underneath.
This year, learn to direct your attention consciously. Stop the exhausting mental loops. Create space for the love life you want.
Ready to redirect your attention and momentum in 2026? Schedule a 90-minute Life Momentum Planning Session at sadecurry.com/info. Limited spots available before the holidays.
Rebuilding your life after divorce means rebuilding your career too. In this episode, I share how I escaped two layoffs in four years at my corporate job—and the four principles that saved me. These same principles apply whether you're navigating the job market or the dating scene.
The Four Moves That Changed Everything:
1. Set Your Intention I put "full-time employee" on my vision board. That simple act trained my brain to spot opportunities I would have missed. When the right door opened, I walked through it.
2. Build Your Network Every good thing comes through people. I made connections outside my team—learned names, asked about families, showed up for others. Those relationships became my safety net.
3. Pivot When You Hear "No" My boss told me there was nowhere to grow. I believed him—and used that truth to find my next move. A "no" doesn't mean you lack value. It means your value belongs somewhere else. This is the same lesson I teach my dating clients: rejection isn't about you. It's information.
4. Ask for Help Closed mouths don't get fed. I leveraged my network. I asked people to recommend me. Three months later, I landed a new role—just before 400 people got laid off.
Your next chapter starts with one decision.
Ready to build the confidence and clarity you need—in love and in life? 📞 Schedule your dating consultation call with Sade today.
You did the therapy. You read the books. You know your childhood patterns. So why do you keep running into the same toxic situations?
Here's what I've discovered after six years of coaching divorced women: the awareness you need goes deeper than you think.
Yes, you know your family-of-origin patterns. But there's a second layer most women miss—the conditioning around how women "should" behave in relationships with men.
Think about it. You match with someone on an app, and the moment he shows interest, something shifts inside you. You feel pressure to prove your loyalty. To respond on his timeline. To show gratitude that he chose you.
That's not your childhood trauma. That's decades of programming about what women owe men.
This conditioning affects how you see your body, how you feel about dating multiple people, and how you respond when a man expects access to your time and attention.
The path forward? Notice without judgment. Slow down. Observe your knee-jerk reactions. Ask yourself: what belief drives this behavior?
Then decide what works for you—not what society dictates.
Self-compassion matters here. Shame will surface. That's okay. Love yourself through it. Adjust without beating yourself up.
You hold the power to create new patterns that lead you to the right person.
Ready to break free from the patterns that hold you back?
Schedule a dating consultation call with me and let's map out your path to a relationship that works for you.
You are strong. You are capable. You can handle anything life throws at you. But here's the truth: those exact traits might trap you in relationships that drain your soul.
In this episode, I break down why high-achieving women—CEOs, attorneys, physicians, mothers who run the world—end up walking on eggshells with men who don't deserve them. Your resilience becomes your cage. Your strength gets misapplied. You convince yourself you can handle red flags, emotional immaturity, and disrespect because you've handled worse.
But just because you can handle something doesn't mean you should.
I share a coaching breakthrough with a client who discovered she was tolerating poor behavior simply to prove her strength. We discuss why your intuition knows something's off, yet you override it. We explore the dangerous question: "What's wrong with me?" And I challenge you to ask better questions: "Is this the experience I want? What does this relationship cost me?"
Your power, confidence, and resourcefulness deserve better than babysitting an immature partner. Stop throwing good years after bad. Start asking about your return on investment—not in a transactional way, but by documenting the truth of your experience.
You don't win a prize for enduring what you don't have to endure. Choose yourself.
Ready to transform your dating life? Schedule a consultation call with me at [https://sadecurry.com/info].
You've heard people talk about decentering men. But here's the problem: even that conversation still centers men.
In this episode, I share a different approach. Instead of asking "Does he like me?" or "Will he treat me right?"—I teach you to ask better questions: "What do I want? What serves me? Do I feel safe and valued right now?"
This is hard work. We spent our whole lives putting everyone else first—bosses, husbands, kids. But you deserve to be your own priority.
Here's what I mean: You are your own matchmaker. You don't beg someone to text you more. You evaluate if what you want exists in this relationship. If it does, you stay. If it doesn't, you move on. You hold the power.
Think about it this way: Why would you apply to work at McDonald's if you want to study dinosaurs? Yet we do this in dating all the time. We go where what we want doesn't exist, then ask men to change.
Stop that.
Your time, focus, and energy belong to you. Reclaim them. Build momentum toward your real goals. Center yourself first—then watch everything else fall into place.
Ready to transform your dating life? Schedule a dating consultation call with Sade at sadecurry.com and discover how to date with confidence and get married again.
Episode Summary:
In this episode, Sade Curry kicks off a new series on what it means to live a relationship-centered life—and why that might be the thing keeping you stuck. You’ll hear Sade unpack the social conditioning that trains women to prioritize everyone else first: partners, kids, bosses, siblings, even exes.
Sade breaks down why simply saying “decenter men” isn’t enough—because the issue runs deeper. Women are conditioned to center relationships, period. That’s why even after divorce, you might still feel pulled in every direction and unable to start the business, write the book, or just book your doctor’s appointment.
This episode gives language to what you may have been feeling: that you’ve been pouring out for others while putting yourself last. Sade shares stories from her own life and coaching practice to show how shifting your focus—centering yourself—is the first step to real freedom and clarity.
You don’t have to blow up your life to change it. You can make grounded, intentional shifts toward the life you want.
Ready to stop putting yourself last?
Let’s talk. Book a free consultation call with Sade Curry and explore how private coaching can help you reclaim your time, focus on your goals, and create the life you want—without losing the people you love.
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Welcome back! Sade returns after settling into Miami city life to share a powerful observation from her coaching practice: mental clutter drains your energy and blocks your goals—especially your dating life.
You might think romantic relationships cause most of your mental overwhelm. But Sade reveals the truth: women carry exhausting thought loops about everyone—parents, bosses, children, friends, even strangers in the grocery store. This hyper-awareness of other people's comfort steals your time, focus, and energy.
Sade shares real client stories: One woman spent nine hours each workday in a panicked rush, worried she wouldn't finish on time to make her dates. The rushing changed nothing—she left on time 50% of the time regardless. Another client obsessed over her husband's betrayal, unable to handle finances or make plans.
The solution? Identify your mental clutter. Notice what occupies your mind all day. Recognize how these thought loops drain you and prevent action on goals you care about.
This is the deeper coaching work Sade does—not just helping you meet a partner, but clearing the obstacles that stop you from doing what you know you should do. Your brain, personality, and situation are unique. Generic "ten-step plans" don't work because they ignore your specific barriers.
Ready to clear your mental clutter and achieve your dating goals? Schedule a complimentary consultation call with Sade before November 25th. Visit sadecurry.com/info or reply to any email.
Discovering the Best Version of Yourself After Divorce with Bee Quammie
Ready to meet the woman you become after divorce? This episode will change how you see yourself and your future.
Bee Quammie, multimedia storyteller and author of The Book of Possibilities, joins host Sade Curry to share raw truths about rebuilding after divorce.
Bee is a Jamaican-Canadian multimedia storyteller: a writer, podcast host, TV personality, and public speaker. She’s written for publications like The Globe and Mail, Men's Health, Chatelaine, Refinery29, Essence, and more. Bee is a guest host and commentator on several Canadian television and radio shows, like CTV's The Social and CBC’s The Next Chapter.
She’s also a highly sought-after public speaker with the National Speakers Bureau, offering keynotes across North America. She writes and speaks on topics like race and culture, parenting, mental health, and pop culture — and her debut book, an essay collection called The Book of Possibilities, was published by Penguin Canada in 2025. Bee lives in the Greater Toronto Area with her two daughters.
Bee breaks down the difference between being married, going through divorce, and thriving as a single woman - and why she loves the version of herself she is now most of all.
What You'll Discover:
- Why "know the version of you that you like best" changes everything about dating
- How to tell the difference between loneliness and being alone (they're not the same thing)
- The surprising way to reconnect with pleasure through your five senses
- Why nice guys aren't always the answer - and what to look for instead
- How to set boundaries that men actually respect
- The secret to celebrating small wins on your path to thriving
Bee shares her honest journey from losing herself in marriage to discovering self-love that creates armor against outside noise. She talks about solo trips to Curacao, learning to laugh at her own jokes, and why she approaches dating as fun rather than a job interview.
This conversation tackles the shame around divorce, the pressure women face to follow scripts that don't serve them, and why breaking those narratives leads to better relationships with yourself and others.
If you're ready to stop waiting for someone else to validate who you are and start loving the woman you're becoming, this episode is your wake-up call.
Connect with Bee Quammie:
- Website: beequammie.com
- Social Media: @beequammie (all platforms)
- Book: The Book of Possibilities (Penguin Canada, 2025)
Ready to create your own dating strategy that honors who you're becoming? Schedule your free dating consultation call with Sade and start building the love life you deserve - one that fits the incredible woman you are today.
234. Unshaming Divorce and Honoring Life with Kendell Lenice
About This Episode
What if divorce isn't a mark of failure, but a brave act of self-advocacy?
This week, I sit down with Kendell Lenice, certified life coach and author known as "The Remix Coach." Kendell shares her powerful story of being divorced twice, her healing journey, and how she found love again when she wasn't even looking for it.
If you've ever felt shame about divorce or wondered if you'll find love again, this conversation will shift your perspective completely.
What You'll Learn
Divorce Doesn't Define You
- Why walking away from a marriage can be the bravest thing you do
- How to stop letting shame keep you in bondage
- The difference between staying married for love vs. staying for reputation
The Real Work of Healing
- Kendell's HEAL acronym: Honor Everything About Life
- Why you must examine your childhood patterns and trauma
- How to forgive yourself for past relationship choices
Finding Love After Heartbreak
- Why Kendell wasn't looking for love when she met her current partner
- The importance of vetting (yes, we dive deep into this!)
- How to stay open to love without being desperate for it
Red Flags and Green Flags
- Recognizing gaslighting and emotional manipulation
- Why your discernment matters more than giving endless grace
- The difference between healthy and toxic relationship patterns
Key Takeaways
- Divorce can be mature, not shameful. Sometimes two good people just can't figure it out together.
- Do the healing work first. Know who you are so someone else can't persuade you to be someone different.
- Vet, vet, vet. Don't give away all your requirements upfront - let people show you who they are.
- You are enough with or without a relationship. A partner should be an addition to who you already are, not your completion.
About Kendell Lenice
Kendéll Lenice, affectionately known as “The Remix Coach,” is a Certified Life Coach, national speaker, author, and host with over 20 years of experience helping people transform their lives and relationships. Through her podcasts, powerful talks, and coaching, she mixes wisdom, humor, and heart to inspire growth and healing. A colon cancer survivor and advocate, Kendéll empowers others to turn life’s challenges into powerful comebacks. Whether on stage, on screen, or behind the mic, she brings real talk, real change, and a reminder that it’s never too late to remix your life. She's living proof that life’s remix can be better than the original.
Kendéll Lenice, known as “The Remix Coach,” is a Certified Life Coach, speaker, author/writer, and media host with over two decades of experience helping people heal, grow, and remix their lives with purpose and flair. Whether she’s dropping gems on her podcasts, lighting up a stage, or coaching one-on-one, Kendéll blends wisdom, warmth, and a touch of humor to spark transformation. A proud colon cancer survivor and advocate, she proves daily that reinvention is always possible. Kendéll empowers others to turn life’s challenges into powerful comebacks. It's all about the remix!
Kendell is the author of multiple books including:
- "Your Unhealed Is Showing" - About healing purposefully and aging fearlessly
- "God Thinks I'm Special" - A children's book teaching kids their worth
Connect with Kendell
https://www.instagram.com/kendelllenice
https://kendelllenice.com/
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In this heart-to-heart conversation, I sat down with Heidi Freeman, successful attorney and author of "Love Lessons: 104 Dates and the Stories That Led Me to True Love." Heidi shares how turning 40 sparked her quest to understand what true love looks like by interviewing couples in strong relationships. What began as research turned into 11 core themes about authentic connection. With refreshing honesty, Heidi opens up about her 104-date journey, complete with hilarious mishaps, surprising insights, and the beautiful moment when she finally met her husband Will.
This episode cuts through the anxiety about modern dating to remind us that love requires resilience - and is worth 100 disappointing dates.
Key Moments
- Turning 40: Heidi realized she didn't know what true love looked like or felt like and decided to interview couples in solid partnerships
- Research: Heidi interviewed 50+ couples separately to find themes
- Mutual reciprocity: The most impactful insight was how partners take turns supporting each other through life's waves
- The myth of love at first sight: No one Heidi interviewed mentioned this - instead they talked about initial connection and safety
- D04 dates: Heidi shares both hilarious dating disasters and meaningful lessons learned
- Finding Will: How she met her husband through yoga connections and recognized the difference in how she felt
- Dating in the wild vs. apps: The benefits of meeting people through activities vs. online
Quotes
"I had to put on my big girl underwear and go back out there." - Heidi on persevering after dating disappointments
"I think it's not us. This is the way we are socialized...to value relationships, which is awesome. But then we're also socialized to put our own personal value in relationships, and that's what's harmful." - Sade Curry
"Mutual reciprocity and safety... even if you didn't have all the other sprinkles in a relationship, but you had these, you could make a good relationship out of that." - Sade Curry
"What if the next date is him? I would constantly say that to myself when I didn't want to go." - Heidi on staying hopeful
About Heidi:
Heidi Freeman (formerly Goldstein, born Eisman) is a successful attorney and partner at a large law firm specializing in environmental law and social and environmental governance-based counseling. She's written her first book, "Love Lessons," chronicling her dating journey and the relationship insights she gained. Heidi has previously written for Bloomberg Law, 360, and other professional publications. She lives in Cleveland Heights, Ohio with her husband Will and their blended family - two children of her own and two bonus children with Will.
Connect With Heidi
- https://heidifriedman.com
- http://www.instagram.com/lovelessons104
- Podcast: "I Love You More" with her 22-year-old son Zach (available on Spotify and Apple Podcasts)
- Book: "Love Lessons: 104 Dates and the Stories That Led Me to True Love" (Available on Amazon, Barnes & Noble, and Goodreads)
Ready to Transform Your Dating Life?
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In this episode, I dive into why asking questions is both an art and a crucial skill on your dating journey after divorce. Most women I work with struggle not because they lack intelligence or communication skills, but because the drama attached to dating turns question-asking into self-sabotage.
You might think asking questions is straightforward, but are you using them to protect yourself or to people-please? Both approaches block authentic connection and prevent you from gathering the information you need to make wise decisions about potential partners.
Key Insights
- Curiosity is your superpower: Approach dating with curiosity—not just about your date but about yourself. Your reactions hold valuable information about your patterns.
- The protection trap: Going into dates with a rigid checklist of questions turns dating into an interview. You miss crucial nuance and context when you're focused on checking boxes rather than truly connecting.
- The people-pleasing pitfall: When you avoid asking important questions because "you don't want to be nosy" or "you don't want to chase him away," you sacrifice your needs for a stranger's comfort.
- Reclaim your authority: Dating involves meeting a stranger, knowing them for months, and potentially committing to them for life. This requires active participation, not passive acceptance.
- Your dating rights: You have the right to know about people who want access to you. You deserve to have potential partners earn your trust through honesty and transparency.
Practical Takeaways
- Start with broader questions about lifestyle, career goals, and weekend activities before diving into deeper topics
- Design questions based on your core values rather than using generic lists
- Pay attention to how someone responds—defensiveness, vagueness, or dismissal tells you something important
- Recognize when you falter in asking important questions and get curious about what's happening within you
- Remember timing matters—questions should match the relationship phase you're in
Dating After Divorce Wisdom
Think about it: we've known our siblings, cousins, and best friends our whole lives. Yet romantic relationships expect us to meet someone, know them for months, and commit to them forever. That's wild! Since this is our collective social agreement, we need to approach it with intention and courage.
Your Next Step
If you don't know what questions to ask, that's a sign you need clarity on your core values and relationship vision. This isn't just about having a list of questions; it's about knowing which answers matter specifically to you.
Ready to transform your dating experience? Book a consultation call with me where we'll discuss how working through your core values and dating patterns can help you find clarity and confidence. Stop outsourcing your safety to a checklist and start leading your own journey to love.
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Shownotes:
In this episode of the Dating After Divorce podcast, Sade Curry interviews Dr. Toyin Falusi Nwafor, affectionately known as T-Fal, who shares her journey of writing her book 'The Decade After' and her experiences navigating life after divorce. Dr. T-Fal emphasizes the importance of self-care, support systems, and personal growth during the challenging process of divorce.
The conversation explores the unique experiences of divorced women, the impact of divorce on relationships, and the significance of how we use time in the healing process. Dr. T-Fal provides insights on how to empower oneself and support children through the transition, highlighting the need for understanding and compassion in the journey of healing.
In this conversation, Dr. Toyin discusses the complexities of divorce, emphasizing the importance of understanding statistics in relation to individual experiences. She highlights the critical role of parenting in mitigating the negative impacts of divorce on children and stresses the need for a supportive network during such transitions.
The discussion also touches on the challenges of navigating singleness and dating post-divorce, advocating for self-awareness and personal growth throughout the process. In this engaging conversation, Dr. Toyin and Sade Curry explore the complexities of dating and relationships after divorce. They discuss the importance of being honest with oneself about intentions in dating, the journey of reconnecting with past partners, and the significance of transparency in new relationships.
Dr. Toyin shares her personal experiences of navigating love and companionship after divorce, emphasizing the need for intentionality and self-discovery. The discussion culminates in reflections on the future and the possibilities that lie ahead, highlighting the importance of embracing change and growth.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Dr. Toyin Falusi Nwafor
02:37 The Journey of Writing 'The Decade After'
06:34 Navigating Divorce: Unique Experiences and Resources
11:50 The Impact of Divorce on Relationships
14:04 Time Heals: The Importance of How We Use It
19:15 Healing Beyond Divorce: Childhood and Personal Growth
22:58 Understanding Divorce Statistics and Individual Outcomes
27:04 The Role of Parenting in Divorce
32:39 Building a Support System During Divorce
44:32 Navigating Singleness and Dating After Divorce
45:53 Navigating Post-Divorce Relationships
49:09 Intentional Dating and Reconnection
52:59 The Journey to Remarriage
56:34 The Importance of Honesty and Transparency
01:00:14 Embracing Change and Future Possibilities
Keywords
divorce, healing, personal growth, co-parenting, self-care, relationships, support system, women's empowerment, emotional well-being, navigating divorce, divorce, parenting, support system, statistics, relationships, healing, self-care, single life, emotional health, co-parenting, divorce, remarriage, dating, relationships, honesty, transparency, self-discovery, intentionality, personal growth, empowerment
Masterclass - "Beyond the Spark: The 10 Elements of Chemistry & Attraction"
Register for live event or replay: sadecurry.com/masterclass
March 30, 2025 (4pm ET/3pm CT)
You will learn:
The science behind attraction patterns
How brain chemistry influences choices
Techniques to reduce attraction to toxic partners
Defining your needed level of attraction for sustainability
About the Episode:
Shift Your Attraction from Toxic Men to Safe, Healthy Men (Kim’s Story)
Before Kim worked with me on her business, she told her journey to love on the Dating after Divorce podcast (Episode 152)
After a toxic marriage, Kim had a revelation: "No one was coming to save me. If I wanted a different life, it was all on me"
At 35, living with her parents, Kim decided to date against her usual "type."
When her dog died, she approached her neighbors' son—a "good boy" completely unlike her typical "bad boys"—and invited him on walks.
The walks were uncomfortable because she felt unworthy next to someone without baggage or poor life choices.
But they fell in love, because Kim redefined attraction.
With previous relationships, she described feelings as "exciting" but chaotic.
Coming from a chaotic family, she had mistaken intensity for love.Her previous relationships were "exciting" but destructive.
With her current husband, attraction feels different: "It's a partnership. Very calm, not emotionally charged all the time"
Biologically, women are drawn to the strongest "buck"—evolutionarily sensible for survival instead of choosing based on companionship and values.
You might initially find this "boring."
But Kim questioned: What's boring about peace?
What's exciting about fighting over a parking space and being too angry to enjoy the concert?
Her most profound insight: "Part of why I dated bad boys was because I got to feel better about myself. At least I wasn't on drugs."
With her husband, she couldn't feel superior—and that's what made her uncomfortable.
In the end, Kim chose calm over chaos, partnership over drama, growth over stagnation. And it changed everything.
Kim's journey from toxic relationships to healthy love exemplifies the work I do with women.
If her story resonates, join my masterclass:
"Beyond the Spark: The 10 Elements of Chemistry & Attraction"
March 30, 2025 (4pm ET/3pm CT)
You will learn:
The science behind attraction patterns
How brain chemistry influences choices
Techniques to reduce attraction to toxic partners
Defining your needed level of attraction for sustainability
Register for live event or replay: sadecurry.com/masterclass
Client Success: How Ashley Went from a "Painful Divorce" to "Healed and In Love"
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Episode Summary
In this episode, Sade and Ashley King discuss Ashley's transformative journey after divorce, focusing on healing from trauma, recognizing readiness for dating, and navigating the challenges of finding love again. They explore the importance of core values, honesty in dating, and the significance of self-discovery in building healthy relationships. Ashley shares her experiences with various dating apps, her connection with Michael, and the ongoing growth in their relationship, emphasizing the importance of communication and negotiation in love.
Key Takeaways
- Ashley began her journey of healing before her divorce was finalized.
- The importance of self-care and addressing trauma during the healing process.
- Recognizing when one is ready to start dating again is crucial.
- Anticipating challenges in dating can help prepare for the journey ahead.
- Honesty in communication is vital for a successful dating experience.
- Core values play a significant role in shaping dating profiles and experiences.
- Dating can be an adventure filled with fun and learning.
- Building a connection with someone requires time and openness.
- Falling in love involves recognizing and embracing vulnerability.
- Ongoing growth and communication are essential in nurturing a relationship.
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Ashley's Journey
02:49 Healing from Divorce and Trauma
05:41 Recognizing Readiness for Dating
08:44 Anticipating Challenges in Dating
11:40 Guidelines for a Healthy Dating Experience
14:00 Core Values and Personal Growth
17:17 The Dating Experience Begins
20:09 Navigating Early Dates
22:59 The Importance of Abundance Mindset
25:55 Finding the Right Match
29:16 The Love Story of Ashley and Michael
34:06 Navigating Modern Dating Dynamics
38:52 Choosing Between Connections
42:46 The Importance of Relationship Negotiation
47:00 Introducing Kids into Relationships
48:24 Falling in Love: The Journey
50:18 Conflict Resolution in Relationships
53:58 Healing Through Relationships
59:51 The Work Behind the Fairy Tale
01:04:10 Emotional Clutter and Personal Growth
In this episode, I dive deep into a breakthrough moment from our recent Dating After Divorce Collective coaching call. Here's what we unpack:
Key Insights:
- Why shame triggers show up in your dating journey and how societal narratives impact your dating confidence
- The real reason dating feels hard (hint: it's not because "all the good ones are taken")
- How fear of wasting time leads to either dismissing potential partners too quickly or staying too long with the wrong ones
- Why perfectionism and the need to "get it right" keeps you stuck
Personal Growth Takeaways:
- Recognize that everyone is "winging it" - even those who seem to have it all figured out
- Transform your relationship with making mistakes in dating
- Build unshakeable self-compassion as your foundation for dating success
Practical Dating Tips:
- Release the pressure to make perfect decisions
- Give yourself permission to be in the learning process
- Own your dating choices without defaulting to blaming others
Ready to Reinvent Your Dating Life?
🗓️ Book Your Consultation Call Ready to make 2025 the year you find love? Schedule your private consultation call with me to explore how the Dating After Divorce Academy can help you create the love life you desire. Visit http://sadecurry.com/schedule-appointment to book your call.
Tired of dating feeling like Groundhog Day? In today's episode I share the proven framework that helps my clients break free from dating frustration and create real results. If you've hit a wall with dating apps, feel stuck in negative patterns, or wonder why nothing seems to work - this episode is for you.
Episode Highlights:
🔍 Why traditional dating advice fails divorced women
- The trap of jumping on and off dating apps without a strategy
- How "putting yourself out there" without skills leads to disappointment
- The real reason why having 100+ first dates might not lead to finding your person
- The fairytale vs. reality mindset shift that changes everything
- Why treating dating like a growth project (not a shopping trip) creates success
- How one client found love by committing to 2 parties per week for 5 weeks
Ready to Reinvent Your Dating Life?
Stop hoping things will magically change and start creating real transformation. I walk my Dating After Divorce Academy clients through this exact framework, providing support and accountability every step of the way.
🗓️ Book Your Consultation Call Ready to make 2025 the year you find love? Schedule your private consultation call with me to explore how the Dating After Divorce Academy can help you create the love life you desire. Visit http://sadecurry.com/schedule-appointment to book your call.
Resources Mentioned:
- Podcast Episode 6: Phases of the Dating Journey
Remember: A reinvention isn't about small tweaks - it's about creating a radical shift in how you approach dating and relationships. Let me help you make that shift.
Let's talk about a pattern I see in many divorced women - the reluctance to fight for the relationship they want. Through the lens of "learned helplessness," I explore why capable, strong women who fought for their first marriages often hold back in their post-divorce dating journey.
Key Insights:
- The difference between fighting for a specific person versus fighting for your desired relationship outcome
- How past relationship trauma creates false beliefs about our dating options
- Why validating dating struggles with friends can keep you stuck
- The truth about effort: dating takes more work than we expect (just like everything worthwhile)
Ask yourself: "Why am I not fighting for this relationship goal with the same determination I bring to other areas of my life?" Your answer reveals where to focus your energy.
Book Reference: "Learned Optimism" by Martin Seligman - A foundational text for understanding how we can break free from learned helplessness patterns
Ready to break free from dating paralysis? Schedule your 1:1 consultation at sadecurry.com/schedule-appointment. Let's create your personalized strategy for finding love after divorce.
In this deep-dive episode, I explore our complex relationship with time in dating after divorce, challenging the common belief that dating is a "waste of time." As part of my three-episode series about time, we examine how this mindset affects your dating journey and what to do about it.
Key Concepts Explored:
What Actually Wastes Time in Dating:
- Dating without a strong "why" or due to external pressure
- Pursuing someone who clearly stated they don't want what you want
- Trying to convince uninterested people to date you
- Fantasy relationships and passive dating
- Repeating the same dating patterns without learning or growth
Common Questions Addressed:
- What if I'm truly too busy to date?
- How do I know if I'm investing time wisely in dating?
- When is it okay to stop seeing someone to "save time"?
- How can I date efficiently without compromising on what matters?
- What's the difference between being selective and over-filtering?
Ready to Transform Your Dating Journey?
If you're ready to shift your relationship with time and dating, let's talk. Book a consultation call to explore:
- Your unique dating patterns and time-related concerns
- How to create an efficient, values-aligned dating strategy
- Whether working together could help you find love in 2025
- Specific steps to move from passive to intentional dating
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The Dating After Divorce Academy provides:
- Clear strategies to date efficiently
- Support in overcoming mindset blocks
- Tools to evaluate potential partners
- A process for authentic connection
- Community of like-minded women
Additional Resources:
- Episode 219: Thoughts About Dating at Your Age
- Episode 220: Dating Older and Younger Men
If you enjoyed this episode, please leave a review. It helps other divorced women find this supportive community.
Are you limiting your dating pool based on age? In this episode, I challenge the common assumptions about dating older men and reveal why your dating filters might be holding you back from finding true connection.
Key Insights:
- The truth behind the "nurse with a purse" stereotype and why it shouldn't dictate your dating choices
- Why age filters often mask deeper fears about dating and settling
- How to shift from fear-based dating to confidence-based choices
- The power of staying neutral when meeting new people
- Practical strategies for evaluating potential partners beyond their age
Quotable Moment: "Don't use being open about age against yourself. The choice of who you end up with is always yours."
Action Steps:
- Examine your current age filters and identify the real reasons behind them
- Practice curiosity instead of judgment when meeting new people
- Focus on lifestyle compatibility rather than age-based assumptions
- Trust your ability to say "no" when someone isn't right for you
Ready to Transform Your Dating Experience? Book a private consultation call with me to develop your personalized dating strategy. Visit http://sadecurry.com/schedule-appointment to find a time that works for you.
Is your age holding you back in dating? I hear this concern from so many women in our community. Today, let's unpack what's really going on when we let age become a barrier to love.
Key Insights:
- Age anxiety peaks when dating because we've internalized limiting societal messages about women and aging
- These beliefs impact not just how we date, but how boldly we live our entire lives
- Your age is just a number - what matters is the life you choose to live at any age
Here's the truth: The "age problem" in dating isn't about the number. It's about the stories we tell ourselves. I see clients in their 40s saying men their age are "too old," while my clients in their 50s and 60s express the same concern. What's fascinating? The issue isn't age - it's about energy alignment and lifestyle compatibility.
Ready to transform your approach to dating after divorce? Let's work together to move past age anxiety and create authentic connections. Schedule your consultation call at http://sadecurry.com/schedule-appointment to explore private coaching or join our Dating After Divorce Collective.
Remember: The person who's right for you isn't looking for a number - they're looking for YOU.
Share this episode with another divorced woman who needs this message. Leave a review if these insights resonated with you.
Next episode: We'll explore how age filters and preferences impact our dating choices - you won't want to miss it!
Does the thought of attending an event alone feel awful? In this episode, Sade Curry discusses the stigma and shame associated with attending social events alone, particularly after divorce or being single.
She shares her personal experience of attending events alone and contrasts it with her clients' feelings of inadequacy and exposure.
Sade emphasizes that societal conditioning and internalized beliefs contribute to this shame, urging individuals to challenge these thoughts through coaching and self-examination.
She advises identifying and addressing subconscious blocks, processing emotions, and redefining the meaning of being alone at events. By changing internal narratives, individuals can overcome the fear of judgment and enjoy social experiences more fully.
You will learn how to:
- Examine your own thoughts and feelings about attending events alone. Identify any underlying beliefs or conditioning that may be contributing to feelings of shame or anxiety.
- Slow down and reflect on the reasons why you may be avoiding or procrastinating on attending social events alone. Explore whether these reasons are based on societal conditioning or your own chosen beliefs.
- Process any emotions, such as grief, anxiety, or shame, that come up when considering attending events alone. Allow these emotions to move through your body and create an openness to change your beliefs.
- Develop tools and strategies to handle any discomfort or awkwardness that may arise when attending events alone, focusing on redefining the meaning you associate with being alone in these situations.
In today’s episode, we dive into the digital dating arena and tackle a common struggle: managing the overwhelm that comes with using dating apps. Whether you’re new to the scene or a seasoned swiper, the avalanche of notifications, messages, and profiles can quickly turn an exciting journey into a stressful experience.
Join Sade Curry to explore the emotional and psychological impact of dating after divorce in this modern dating landscape, and discover practical strategies to reclaim control and find balance. From setting boundaries to optimizing your profile, this episode is packed with tips to help you navigate the world of online dating with confidence and clarity.
What You'll Learn in This Episode:
- Understanding the Overwhelm: Why dating apps can feel like a full-time job and how they impact your mental well-being.
- Emotional Responses: How the constant barrage of messages and profiles triggers anxiety and frustration, and why our brains are not wired for this kind of interaction.
- Cognitive Overload: The impact of too many choices and how it leads to snap judgments and stress.
- Reclaiming Control: Strategies for setting boundaries, managing notifications, and staying mindful in your dating journey.
- Practical Tips: How to make dating apps work for you by optimizing your profile, managing your time, and filtering out the noise to focus on what truly matters.
Quotes:
- "Imagine walking into a stadium filled with thousands of people, all shouting your name—this is what online dating can feel like."
- "Remember, not every connection needs to be explored—it's okay to swipe left on anything that doesn’t feel right."
- "You are in control of your dating experience, not the other way around."
Resources Mentioned:
- Free Dating After Divorce Course – Get started on your dating journey with our free course designed specifically for divorced professional women.
- Join the Dating After Divorce Academy – If you’re ready to stop wasting time and start finding the right partner, schedule your consultation today.
Call to Action: If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to subscribe and leave a review! Share this episode with a friend who might be feeling overwhelmed by dating apps, and let’s help each other find balance in the digital dating world.
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Do you keep thinking a man is the one only to get blindsided yet again?
Ever get discouraged and think you'll never figure out how to see a man's true character?
In this insightful episode, Natasha Moore share's her story of finally understanding how to choose the man who was right for her after a divorce and an annulment.
We share our personal stories, offering candid reflections on our journeys to healing, self-discovery, and finding love again. From the challenges of long-distance relationships to the importance of setting boundaries, this episode is packed with valuable lessons for anyone navigating the dating world after a difficult past.
Key Takeaways:
Long-Distance Dating Challenges:
Natasha shares her experience with long-distance relationships, highlighting the difficulties of truly getting to know someone without face-to-face interaction. She reflects on the importance of understanding the full picture before committing.
Dating after Multiple Divorces:
Natasha opens up about her first two marriages, including an abusive relationship and a second marriage where her husband was already married to someone else. Her experiences underscore the importance of recognizing red flags and valuing oneself.
Setting Boundaries:
We explore the necessity of setting boundaries in relationships, especially after experiencing toxic dynamics in the past. Natasha shares how establishing clear limits helped her protect her emotional well-being.
How High-Achieving Women Attract Toxic Men:
We discuss how high-achieving women can become targets for exploitative partners. They call for more education and awareness to help women protect themselves and make empowered choices in relationships.
FEATURED ON THE SHOW:
- Learn more about the Dating After Divorce Academy
- Join Sade’s free live event, Core Values Dating Live
- FREE PDF Download: 50 Green Flags of a Healthy Relationship
About Natasha Moore:Natasha Moore is professional nerd and classroom social justice activist serving as a Professor of English at Southwestern Illinois College. Outside of the classroom, she enjoys eating, baking, cycling, traveling with her loved ones, and running her short-term rentals.
Contact Natasha:
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SistahTasha
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sistahtasha/
Website: Www.sitbackstays.com
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Dating After Divorce Episode 215: When Are You Ready to Date?
In this Sade Curry delves into the concept of "readiness" for dating after a divorce. She explores the often undefined notion of being "ready" to date and its potential consequences on one's dating journey. Sade discusses the subtle yet powerful belief that many women hold—that they are not ready to date—and how this mindset can keep them stuck.
Episode Highlights:
- Challenging Gender Roles: Discover how societal expectations and internal biases can influence women's perceptions of their readiness to date and how to challenge these narratives.
- Defining Readiness: Sade Curry explains the importance of defining what "ready to date" means for each individual, rather than relying on a vague or universal concept.
- Personal Readiness: Explore factors like finances, schedules, and children in determining your personal readiness for dating after a divorce.
- Empowered vs. Fake Readiness: Understand the difference between empowered readiness, which involves taking responsibility and working towards growth, and fake readiness, which is marked by self-pity and blame.
- Self-Leadership: Sade emphasizes the importance of self-leadership in rebuilding your life and dating journey, highlighting that there is no one-size-fits-all formula
- Empowered Decision-Making: Sade encourages listeners to define their own readiness and make empowered decisions about dating, rather than seeking validation from others.
Key Takeaways:
- Define Your Own Readiness: Take the time to understand what being ready to date means for you personally, considering all aspects of your life.
- Challenge Negative Self-Talk: Identify and overcome the mental barriers that may be holding you back from feeling ready to date.
- Embrace Self-Leadership: Lead your own journey in dating and life, recognizing that there is no universal formula for readiness.
- Develop Self-Approval: Focus on self-approval and personal growth rather than seeking validation from others.
Resources Mentioned:
- Follow Sade Curry on Instagram: @sadecurry
- Book a Coaching Consultation: Click here to schedule your session.
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If you frequently feel hurt, sad, anxious or angry when you are dating, then this episode is for you.
Join Sade Curry as she breaks down the concept of Personalization, a cognitive distortion that creates a ton of negative emotions in life and in relationships.
Want to find a loving partner after divorce? Click here to sign up for the Core Values Dating Blueprint today.
WHAT YOU WILL DISCOVER:
- How to heal and prepare to be successful at dating after divorce
- How to find the motivation to try online dating
- How to reframe fear as an opportunity
- How to overcome fear of online dating by embracing vulnerability and setting boundaries.
FEATURED ON THE SHOW:
- Learn more about the Dating After Divorce Academy
- FREE PDF Download: 50 Green Flags of a Healthy Relationship
Join Sade Curry on social media: Instagram | Facebook | LinkedIn
Focusing too much on other people is a common issue in dating. In this episode, Sade Curry emphasizes the importance of prioritizing self-discovery in the dating process, as women who have not healed from codependency and people pleasing may struggle with centering their desires and actions on their own wants and needs. Sade offers strategies for retraining intuition, reconnecting with core values, and saying no in a way that resonates with oneself.
She also discusses how societal expectations and conditioning can limit women's autonomy and self-expression, leading to a lack of alignment with their own values and aspirations.
By examining these dynamics, Sade teaches women to break free from these constraints and make decisions that truly align with their own values and aspirations.
Schedule a consult call with Sade Curry: http://sadecurry.com/schedule-appointment
Healing from infidelity can be a difficult journey. When you have experienced a betrayal, it can rock your whole world and require deep recovery and healing.
My guest this week has gone through that healing journey.
Gia Huff was blindsided by her ex-husband’s affair and created a beautiful life for herself after divorce - one that includes a new loving partner.
Tune in this week to hear Gia’s inspiring story of deep healing and growth that helped her meet her partner in only a few days on the dating apps.
As Gia says, “The only reason I wouldn’t date would be because my mind is afraid. I very much wanted a partner and connection. So I thought, “What if it could be really easy to find someone online? What if it's not as hard or scary as everyone says?”
Gia shares how she used a sustained practice of self-reflection and practical steps to open up her world, get unstuck and find the love she wanted.
Want to find a loving partner after divorce? Click here to sign up for the Core Values Dating Blueprint today.
WHAT YOU WILL DISCOVER:
- How to heal and prepare to be successful at dating after divorce
- How to find the motivation to try online dating
- How to reframe fear as an opportunity
- How to overcome fear of online dating by embracing vulnerability and setting boundaries.
FEATURED ON THE SHOW:
- Learn more about the Dating After Divorce Academy
- Join Sade’s free live event, Core Values Dating Live
- FREE PDF Download: 50 Green Flags of a Healthy Relationship
- Join Sade Curry on social media: Instagram | Facebook | LinkedIn
Gia Huff: Website | Instagram | Facebook | Free Video
Special Announcement:
Join me for my live event, Core Values Dating Live! Click here for details
Episode Show notes:
My guest today is the woman from whom I first learned that codependency was a thing. Elisabeth Klein has been a writer and mentor for Christian women for decades.
In this episode, Elisabeth shares her story of a 20-year marriage that ended in divorce due to hidden drinking, emotional abuse, controlling behavior, and lying.
Despite initially vowing to never remarry, Elisabeth's friends urged her otherwise and she met her second husband, Buzz on a dating app. They have now been married 9 years.
Featured on the Show:
Elisabeth Klein lives with her husband in Illinois. They are parents of nine and grandparents to four. She provides resources to women in difficult relationships and transition through her podcast, courses, books, blog, speaking events, webcasts, private Facebook groups and one-on-one coaching.
Connect with Elisabeth:
Podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/elisabeth-klein
Website: https://elisabethklein.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/elisabethkleincoach/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/elisabethkleincoach/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/_elisabethklein
Shame is a painful emotional experience that can stem from childhood experiences and societal conditioning, especially for women.
In this episode, I had Karen C. L. Anderson on for her second guest appearance on the podcast. We talked about her new book, You Are Not Your Mother: Releasing Generational Trauma and Shame about generational trauma and shame between mothers and daughters from a personal perspective.
Key Takeaways:
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Recognizing shame involves paying attention to underlying thoughts and beliefs, like "I'm bad" or "I'm unworthy." Drilling down to the core beliefs helps address shame.
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Healing from shame involves developing self-compassion, recognizing triggers, and cultivating moments of joy. Connecting to one's inner child can help treat oneself with kindness.
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Shame is passed down intergenerationally but can be "unlearned" through awareness, understanding one's experiences, and self-care over time with tools like coaching
Featured on the Show:
Karen is a master-certified life coach and author of several books including You Are Not Your Mother: Releasing Generational Trauma and Shame.
Karen works mostly with adult daughters who want to take care of themselves in the relationship they have with their mothers...AND has a special place in her practice for mothers who want to do the brave work of unshaming so they can repair the relationship they have with their adult daughters.
Website/Podcast: www.kclanderson.com
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KCLAnderson/
Listen to Karen's 1st appearance on the Dating After Divorce Podcast: Dating and Healing Childhood Trauma
Have you ever wondered what dating looks like from the good guys' side?
My guest this week on the Dating after Divorce podcast is Sandy Wiener, a dating coach who works with both men and women.
Sandy shares the what her male clients experience on the apps on their journey to find love and commitment, and what women who date men can do to connect with them.
Key episode takeaways:
- Dating after divorce can be challenging but there are good people out there on both sides. It takes work to find the right match.
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Both men and women experience similar struggles with online dating like unclear profiles, lack of photos, negativity etc.
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Shared values, communication and willingness to do personal growth work are important for building lasting relationships later in life.
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Meeting people through shared interests and passions in addition to apps can enhance chances of finding that special someone.
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Having an open mindset without assumptions and looking at each person as an individual are important for dating success.
Featured on the Show: Sandy WienerSandy Weiner is the Chief Love Officer at Last First Date. She's an internationally known TEDx speaker, dating and relationship coach, author, and podcast host. Her approach to coaching is holistic, encompassing a hybrid mix of life coaching, Neurolinguistic Programming, and Non-Violent Communication. She’s the author of "Becoming a Woman of Value; How to Thrive in Life and Love", and "Choice Points in Dating; Empowering Women to Make Healthier Decisions in Love". She’s also the host of two popular podcasts, Last First Date Radio and The Woman of Value Podcast, and she believes it's never too late to have the life and love you want!
Connect with Sandy:
Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/yourlastfirstdate/
Website: http://lastfirstdate.com/
Podcast: Last First Date Radio https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/last-first-date-radio/id586220219?mt=2
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lastfirstdate1/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sandyweiner1
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In this episode, Jamie Milam shares her journey through divorce, offering wisdom for those navigating the entangled paths of real estate, mental health, and the exhilarating leap back into dating post-divorce. My conversation with Jamie dives into the intricacies of post-trauma dating. We share stories of moving cities and life transitions, underpinning the theme that change, although challenging, can be the catalyst for profound self-discovery.
We explore the essence of modern relationships – communication and boundaries. With my own dating experiences on the table, we discuss the dance of articulating and respecting needs and expectations, whether in fleeting romances or the pursuit of lasting companionship. Jamie and I lay bare the continuous journey of emotional resilience and the transformative power of open dialogue, providing a relatable narrative for anyone striving to forge meaningful connections in the wake of divorce.
Featured on the Show: Jamie Milam
On her own since the age of 15, overcoming drug addiction when she learned she'd become a mother at 19, rebuilding her life from a single storage tote, to now running 3 businesses, Jamie Milam’s superpower is determination through awareness. Jamie is also divorcee, Realtor, podcast host of Divorced & Determined AF and founder of the P.E.A.C.E. of Mind initiative, all with the mission to empower women to embrace internal and external awareness to make peacefully aligned decisions so they can live the life they desire and deserve.
- Jamie’s Website
- P.E.A.C.E. of Mind Initiative
- Divorced & Determined AF
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Happy New Year! I’m excited to bring you the first podcast episode for the year with my client, Lee. Lee shares her real experiences of dating after divorce. She had been on hundreds of dates before working with me. Just a few shifts made all the difference for her to meet the partner she wanted.
They have young children the same age, have the same spiritual and political values and he gets along amazingly with her family. Plus, he was the exact level of attractiveness Lee wanted. Enjoy the episode!
Discover Your"Core Values Dating Blueprint"And How You Can Use It On:
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The Core Values Dating Blueprint Helps you:
DISCOVER YOUR CORE VALUES
❤️ Take the core values test and discover your core values
❤️ Explore the parts of your mission, life story, beliefs and lifestyle that are most important to your relationship
❤️ Create a relationship vision that clearly aligns with your core values so that you know the type of partner that would be right for you
❤️ Identify the critical attributes of your partner that will make him a fit for your values and relationship vision
❤️ Easily weed out the men aren't a fit and recognize the man who is
CREATE YOUR CORE VALUES BLUEPRINT
❤️ Get the exact framework for crafting your core values dating blueprint that shows you what to say and how to date to meet the partner who’s right for you
❤️ Learn the 5 steps to translating your core values into a written blueprint that guides your dating decisions
PUT YOUR BEST SELF OUT THERE AT EVERY STAGE OF DATING
❤️ Learn exactly how to apply your core values to every part of dating - Add it to your dating profile so that it is as unique and compelling as you are
❤️ Use core values in text messages to tell great stories and inspire interesting conversations
❤️ Use core values to ask questions that qualify if a man is right for you
❤️ Use core values at social events and in person interactions to effortlessly attract people in the room who match you
❤️ Learn how to express your core values with confidence and clarity at every stage of the dating process
Get Your Core Values Dating Blueprint Now
Welcome back to another episode, where I'm joined by Becca Maxwell, and our conversation is both relatable and insightful.
Starting off, Becca opens up about her journey to finding love after her divorce. She emphasizes the importance of self-focus during tough times and shares how her corporate background in relationship management has influenced her role as a divorce coach.
We then shift gears to explore the challenges of dating as an expat in Asia. Against the odds, Becca found her husband on Tinder, offering practical insights as a single mother. She highlights the significance of clear intentions, setting boundaries, and trusting one's intuition in the dating process.
We discuss the complexities of blended families, offering tips on introducing children to a new partner and managing relationships with ex-partners. We also touch on maintaining a positive outlook in high-conflict divorces and the importance of preserving children's emotional well-being.
Wrapping up, Becca and I share our own journeys of finding fulfillment post-divorce. This episode is a valuable resource for anyone dealing with the challenges of divorce and navigating the path to love and fulfillment afterward. Tune in for a down-to-earth conversation blending personal stories with practical advice for life after divorce.
Featured on the Show: Becca Maxwell
Becca is a relational intelligence consultant and divorce coach with a beautiful story of finding love post-divorce, despite 3x near-misses across 3 different countries!
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Discover Your"Core Values Dating Blueprint"And How You Can Use It On:
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The Core Values Dating Blueprint Helps you:
DISCOVER YOUR CORE VALUES
❤️ Take the core values test and discover your core values
❤️ Explore the parts of your mission, life story, beliefs and lifestyle that are most important to your relationship
❤️ Create a relationship vision that clearly aligns with your core values so that you know the type of partner that would be right for you
CREATE YOUR CORE VALUES BLUEPRINT
❤️ Get the exact framework for crafting your core values dating blueprint that shows you what to say and how to date to meet the partner who’s right for you
❤️ Learn the 5 steps to translating your core values into a written blueprint that guides your dating decisions
PUT YOUR BEST SELF OUT THERE AT EVERY STAGE OF DATING
❤️ Learn exactly how to apply your core values to every part of dating - Add it to your dating profile so that it is as unique and compelling as you are
❤️ Use core values in text messages to tell great stories and inspire interesting conversations
❤️ Use core values to ask questions that qualify if a man is right for you
❤️ Use core values at social events and in person interactions to effortlessly attract people in the room who match you
Get Your Core Values Dating Blueprint Now
Welcome back to my podcast, "Dating After Divorce." It's been a while since I've done a solo episode, and I'm thrilled to dive back into sharing practical, hands-on advice to propel your dating journey forward. Today, I'm focusing on a crucial aspect of modern dating: succeeding on dating apps in 2024.
As a seasoned coach and someone who has navigated these waters personally (I met my husband on Bumble six years ago!), I understand the mixed feelings towards dating apps. They can seem daunting, frustrating, or even cringe-worthy, but I'm here to help shift that perspective. Dating apps are tools, and like any tool, it's all about how you use them.
In this episode, we'll explore common misunderstandings about dating apps and why they may feel overwhelming. I'll debunk the myths and offer insights into why dating apps work for some and not for others. We'll also discuss the unique advantages of dating apps, especially if you've lost a significant part of your social circle during a divorce or live in a small community.
One of the key points I want to highlight is the importance of how you approach dating apps. It's not about hoping to find Prince Charming instantly; it's about understanding the apps as a tool to connect with potential partners. We'll delve into the significance of crafting a well-thought-out profile, learning the art of swiping, and setting clear boundaries.
Additionally, I'll share my personal journey and the lessons learned from using dating apps. You'll hear about my initial challenges, how I tweaked my approach, and the transformation in my dating experiences. This journey led me to meet my wonderful husband, and it's a testament to the effectiveness of dating apps when used correctly.
To provide you with actionable tips, I've outlined seven key strategies to help you succeed on dating apps in 2024. These include getting a realistic view of what the apps can and cannot do, experimenting and learning from your experiences, and being willing to go on a journey filled with learning curves.
Remember, success on dating apps isn't just about finding your partner; it's about connecting with good people and enjoying the process. So, whether you've had negative experiences in the past or are new to the app dating scene, this episode is packed with insights and advice to set you up for success in 2024.
If you're ready to change your dating game and want more personalized guidance, I invite you to join my coaching program. Together, we can tailor a dating strategy that works uniquely for you. Visit https://sadecurry.com/schedule-appointment to schedule a consultation call with me.
Thank you for joining me today, and I look forward to helping you thrive in your dating journey in 2024 and beyond!
On today's episode, I'm joined by the incredible life coach, Dr. Manuela Powell. She focuses on women over 40 and illuminates the challenges these women face, oftentimes shadowed by societal norms and patriarchal structures.
We get candid about motherhood expectations, societal norms, and personal identity. I share my own story of feeling subservient to my children and others, despite my independence and success and how I uncovered my true self, shedding the weight of these expectations. Dr. Manuela Powell shares how she successfully maintains a long-distance relationship and offers insights into establishing boundaries, communication, and defining relationship terms.
We discuss the beauty of long-distance relationships and the sense of independence they foster. We also touch upon the idea of ethical non-monogamy, challenging societal pressures and norms, the importance of authenticity and personal growth within relationships. It's a packed episode that will speak volumes to you.
Featured on the Show: Dr. Manuela Powell
Dr. Manuela Powell is a life coach for 40+ women who are ready to start living the sparkliest, loudest, most outrageously real years of their lives. After finally getting the memo that she was queer at the tender age of 47, she realized most women could use some help to come out of whichever bullshit closet they've been stuck in forever, so she took upon herself to be their soul fluffer.
For almost 20 years, Manuela was a breast cancer surgeon, but after having her second child she decided she wanted to free herself from endless work hours, toxic work environments, and unflattering scrubs. She put away her scalpel to, instead, dissect women’s minds and help them excise the “shoulds”, "musts", and “not-good-enoughs” from their brains forever, so they can stop people-pleasing and learn to fully trust themselves, to the horror of the patriarchy police.
She's a native of Rio de Janeiro, Brazil, and after living in NYC, Washington, DC, and Hawai'i, she currently calls Austin, Texas her home, as a single mama to her 2 sons. She dances every day, curses like a sailor who stubbed his toe, and doesn't give a single shit to people who think she should start behaving her age.
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Discover Your"Core Values Dating Blueprint"And How You Can Use It On:
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DISCOVER YOUR CORE VALUES
❤️ Take the core values test and discover your core values
❤️ Explore the parts of your mission, life story, beliefs and lifestyle that are most important to your relationship
CREATE YOUR CORE VALUES BLUEPRINT
❤️ Get the exact framework for crafting your core values dating blueprint that shows you what to say and how to date to meet the partner who’s right for you
PUT YOUR BEST SELF OUT THERE AT EVERY STAGE OF DATING
❤️ Learn exactly how to apply your core values to every part of dating - Add it to your dating profile so that it is as unique and compelling as you are
Get Your Core Values Dating Blueprint Now
Are you brave enough to pivot and redefine yourself post a life-altering event like divorce? My guest on today's episode, Erica Bennett, has lived through it and emerged stronger than ever. A global training guru, empowerment coach, and host of the Crazy X Wives Club podcast, Erica takes us on the journey of her healing and self-discovery after divorce. From the raw emotions and trying times of her two-year separation period to finding acceptance and the courage to let go, Erica's story is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit.
Pull up a chair as Erica shares about her post-divorce life and how she navigated through the process of healing, both physically and emotionally. She speaks of her audacious venture of redefining her identity and consciously using dating apps to connect with the person she envisioned. Erica's experiences of navigating relationships without the elusive "spark" and manifesting love again, might just change the way you perceive your own relationships.
In the final leg of our conversation, we delve into Erica's approach towards commitment and future planning in relationships post-divorce. From harboring a "we'll see how it goes" attitude to adopting a more intentional approach, Erica emphasizes living in the moment and learning to enjoy the journey. Listen in, as Erica's narrative unfolds, offering valuable insights for those on their own healing journeys, proving it's never too late for transformation and self-discovery.
Featured on the Show: Erica Bennett
Global training guru, empowerment coach, and a woman obsessed with helping you rewire the fear that is holding you back, Erica specializes in helping divorced women navigate the healing journey. With over 20 years of training and coaching experience, Erica brings her blend of “woo and do” to help you line up with your desires and take action for your success.
- Erica’s Website
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Discover Your"Core Values Dating Blueprint"And How You Can Use It On:
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- and Social Events To Meet & Attract Eligible Men Who Match You
Dating with your Core Values helps you Easily Connect With Your True Match Partner (without chasing, settling, or wasting time with non-committal men)
Click Here to Sign Up
The Core Values Dating Blueprint Helps you:
DISCOVER YOUR CORE VALUES
❤️ Take the core values test and discover your core values
❤️ Explore the parts of your mission, life story, beliefs and lifestyle that are most important to your relationship
CREATE YOUR CORE VALUES BLUEPRINT
❤️ Get the exact framework for crafting your core values dating blueprint that shows you what to say and how to date to meet the partner who’s right for you
❤️ Learn the 5 steps to translating your core values into a written blueprint that guides your dating decisions
PUT YOUR BEST SELF OUT THERE AT EVERY STAGE OF DATING
❤️ Learn exactly how to apply your core values to every part of dating - Add it to your dating profile so that it is as unique and compelling as you are
❤️ Use core values in text messages to tell great stories and inspire interesting conversations
Get Your Core Values Dating Blueprint Now
Picture this. You've been single for a while, and you're on the hunt for the perfect partner. But instead of finding your Prince Charming, you're constantly dealing with toads. Sounds familiar? If so, then this episode is for you. My guest, Christal Allen-Harrahill, a certified life and marriage coach, unpacks her journey of love and relationships. Christal isn't shy about sharing her own experiences, from her first marriage, which ended in divorce, to her blissful life now with her second husband.
She shares her story of missed red flags, learned lessons, and ultimately, self-discovery. She advises women to stay true to themselves when dating and make decisions with the future in mind. She also underscores the importance of communication in relationships, and shares the red flags that she wished she knew when she was dating.
So, whether you're single, dating or married, tune in. Christal's candid discussion and valuable insights may just be what you need to navigate through the journey of love and partnership. This is a conversation you won't want to miss.
Featured on the Show: Christal Allen-Harrahill
Christal Allen-Harrahill is a mom, wife, and certified Life & Marriage Coach. She helps professional women who want to stop having the same fight with their partner and create better communication in their marriage.
Christal is relatable with a down-to-earth vibe that makes you feel seen, safe, and cared for. She believes women are change makers, and that families and generations are forever changed when women engage in their own unique transformation.
When she is not spending time with family and friends, or helping clients, she is learning something new, enjoying the outdoors, drinking tea, or reading a new book (right now it's Be Your Future Self Now by Benjamin Hardy).
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Discover Your"Core Values Dating Blueprint"And How You Can Use It On:
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Dating with your Core Values helps you Easily Connect With Your True Match Partner (without chasing, settling, or wasting time with non-committal men)
Click Here to Sign Up
The Core Values Dating Blueprint Helps you:
DISCOVER YOUR CORE VALUES
❤️ Take the core values test and discover your core values
❤️ Explore the parts of your mission, life story, beliefs and lifestyle that are most important to your relationship
CREATE YOUR CORE VALUES BLUEPRINT
❤️ Get the exact framework for crafting your core values dating blueprint that shows you what to say and how to date to meet the partner who’s right for you
❤️ Learn the 5 steps to translating your core values into a written blueprint that guides your dating decisions
PUT YOUR BEST SELF OUT THERE AT EVERY STAGE OF DATING
❤️ Learn exactly how to apply your core values to every part of dating - Add it to your dating profile so that it is as unique and compelling as you are
❤️ Use core values in text messages to tell great stories and inspire interesting conversations
Get Your Core Values Dating Blueprint Now
Today's Episode is from my conversation with Jamie Lee Jamie Lee on the Negotiate Your Career Growth Podcast.
I talk about my immigration to the US from Nigeria and my journey of ascending the corporate ladder, starting from a customer service role and tenaciously working her way up to higher positions.
I share my personal growth story post-divorce and how I transitioned from the corporate world to life coaching, focusing on helping divorced women over 40 navigate the dating scene.
Having encountered my fair share of scrutiny in the workplace, which fostered a heightened sense of hypervigilance, I share on how I managed this anxiety with the help of cognitive behavior theory and emotional freedom techniques and the importance and impact of cultivating positive connections.
Featured on the Show: Jamie Lee
Jamie Lee is a certified executive coach who helps smart women who hate office politics get promoted and better paid without throwing anyone under the bus. In her practice, she blends the best of negotiation strategies with practical neuroscience techniques, so her clients lead and negotiate with confidence and ease.
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Discover Your"Core Values Dating Blueprint"And How You Can Use It On:
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Dating with your Core Values helps you Easily Connect With Your True Match Partner (without chasing, settling, or wasting time with non-committal men)
Click Here to Sign Up
The Core Values Dating Blueprint Helps you:
DISCOVER YOUR CORE VALUES
❤️ Take the core values test and discover your core values
❤️ Explore the parts of your mission, life story, beliefs and lifestyle that are most important to your relationship
❤️ Create a relationship vision that clearly aligns with your core values so that you know the type of partner that would be right for you
❤️ Identify the critical attributes of your partner that will make him a fit for your values and relationship vision
❤️ Easily weed out the men aren't a fit and recognize the man who is
CREATE YOUR CORE VALUES BLUEPRINT
❤️ Get the exact framework for crafting your core values dating blueprint that shows you what to say and how to date to meet the partner who’s right for you
❤️ Learn the 5 steps to translating your core values into a written blueprint that guides your dating decisions
PUT YOUR BEST SELF OUT THERE AT EVERY STAGE OF DATING
❤️ Learn exactly how to apply your core values to every part of dating - Add it to your dating profile so that it is as unique and compelling as you are
❤️ Use core values in text messages to tell great stories and inspire interesting conversations
❤️ Use core values to ask questions that qualify if a man is right for you
❤️ Use core values at social events and in person interactions to effortlessly attract people in the room who match you
❤️ Learn how to express your core values with confidence and clarity at every stage of the dating process
Get Your Core Values Dating Blueprint Now
What if you could hit the reset button after personal heartbreak and discover a whole new world of self-discovery, resilience, and love? On this episode, my inspiring guest, Armony Mangin takes us through her incredible journey - from surviving a 7.2 earthquake in Haiti and crossing hostile checkpoints, to combating depression, parental burnout, and the emotional fallout of divorce.
While going through divorce, Armony promised herself one thing: she would not let a non functioning relationship define her next romantic relationships. Armony shares on how she got on social media for the first time 1 year after divorce, after having spent 9 months working on her relationship with herself, not having any dating life at all. 2 months in, she found her incredible man and went exclusive with him after about 2 months.
Armony shares some of the tools she used in this journey (including Sade's 5 day webinar, the 50 green flag checklist episodes from the Dating After Divorce Podcast) to intentionally design her own dating with intention plan. Through the process, Armony continually reminded herself that it was fun and was the best opportunity to learn more about herself and what she valued and wanted in her life.
Featured on the Show: Armony Margin
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Discover Your"Core Values Dating Blueprint"And How You Can Use It On:
- Dating Apps
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Dating with your Core Values helps you Easily Connect With Your True Match Partner (without chasing, settling, or wasting time with non-committal men)
Click Here to Sign Up
The Core Values Dating Blueprint Helps you:
DISCOVER YOUR CORE VALUES
❤️ Take the core values test and discover your core values
❤️ Explore the parts of your mission, life story, beliefs and lifestyle that are most important to your relationship
❤️ Create a relationship vision that clearly aligns with your core values so that you know the type of partner that would be right for you
❤️ Identify the critical attributes of your partner that will make him a fit for your values and relationship vision
❤️ Easily weed out the men aren't a fit and recognize the man who is
CREATE YOUR CORE VALUES BLUEPRINT
❤️ Get the exact framework for crafting your core values dating blueprint that shows you what to say and how to date to meet the partner who’s right for you
❤️ Learn the 5 steps to translating your core values into a written blueprint that guides your dating decisions
PUT YOUR BEST SELF OUT THERE AT EVERY STAGE OF DATING
❤️ Learn exactly how to apply your core values to every part of dating - Add it to your dating profile so that it is as unique and compelling as you are
❤️ Use core values in text messages to tell great stories and inspire interesting conversations
❤️ Use core values to ask questions that qualify if a man is right for you
❤️ Use core values at social events and in person interactions to effortlessly attract people in the room who match you
❤️ Learn how to express your core values with confidence and clarity at every stage of the dating process
Get Your Core Values Dating Blueprint Now
Kelly Bonnano is a Wellness Coach and Life Coach for Divorced People. She shares her journey through the emotional and logistical turmoil of getting divorced after 26 years.
Kelly shares her experiences of starting over, dating post-divorce, and finding love again. Finally, we delve into the complex world of love, infatuation, and dating after divorce.
Kelly offers valuable insights on how to differentiate fleeting infatuation from enduring love, and the importance of a calm and logical approach to dating.
Get details on how to work with Sade Curry to achieve all your post divorce goals - including meeting your ideal romantic partner: Click here to sign up.
Get my FREE PDF Download: 50 Green Flags of a Healthy RelationshipFeatured on the Show: Kelly BonannoKelly Bonanno is a Wellness & Life Coach, speaker, mom to 2 teenage boys and creator of the Loving Life After Divorce Method. With over a decade as a wellness educator, she helps people navigate divorce with confidence and become the best versions of themselves inside and out. Whether they’ve lost themselves in their marriage, are fearful of the future, want to get in better shape or find lasting love, Kelly empowers them to move through the process with courage and powerfully transition to their new life. She also helps business owners retain employees, reduce sick days and burnout while increasing productivity, focus, and morale with her innovative wellness programs and workshops.
- Kelly's Website
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- Kelly's Podcast
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In this episode, Coco Madari talks about their history of navigating through relationships filled with control, abuse, and gaslighting, and how self-help and therapy became their lifeline in such circumstances.
This episode isn't just about relationships; it's about the high stakes that we invest in them, the addictive nature of these bonds, and how to handle them when they become overwhelming. Coco Madari shares their tale of self-doubt birthed from harmful romantic and familial relationships and we delve into the intricate human psyche, the havoc created by autopilot coping mechanisms, and the impact on highly sensitive individuals.
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Featured on the Show: Coco Madari
Coco Madari (they/them) is BIPOC queer multi-talented artist, performer, singer/songwriter, and double-certified coach who helps HSPs juggle multiple creative endeavours at once.
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My guest on the podcast today is Caitlin Liz Fisher, a creativity coach. She shares the story of her first two marriages - the first marked by imbalance and settling, the second by non-monogamy, gaslighting, and abuse.
Caitlin's story is one of resilience, strength, and the power of self-love. She takes us through her inspiring transformation and how she moved from chaotic relationships to a healthy, loving bond with her current partner. Her "Yikes Rule", a gauge for determining the potential success of a relationship, is a fascinating take-away. Get details on how to work with Sade Curry to achieve all your post divorce goals - including meeting your ideal romantic partner: Click here to sign up.
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Featured on the Show: Caitlin Liz Fisher
Caitlin Liz Fisher is an author and creativity coach who turned their gifted kid burnout into a way to help neurodivergent, disabled, and queer creatives get their passions back on the priority list. Every challenge they've overcome — abuse, parental estrangement, toxic jobs, and even crappy breakups — has helped them learn to say yes to their deep-down dreams and no to the status quo. They are now living their absolute weirdest, abnormal life and advocating for others to do the same by subverting capitalism and embracing a world where we can finally stop hustling.
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On this episode of the podcast, I unravel the cycle of fear, shame, and the expectation of failure in dating and how it holds women back from experiencing true success in relationships.
Feelings of despair, resignation, and avoidance can hinder your dating progress. This is why it's important to channel your feelings to make wiser decisions. It's time to stop comparing ourselves to others and confront emotional barriers that keep you from taking the confident steps you should be taking in your dating journey.
Whether it's about understanding your emotions during the dating process, observing your reactions, or dealing with the fear of staying single, this episode has got you covered.
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If you have ever found yourself questioning the societal framework of marriage and divorce or are curious about how to navigate the complex world of relationships post-divorce, you'll find this episode insightful. I'm joined on the Podcast by Tonya Carter, an accomplished marriage and relationship exit strategist. This episode shines a spotlight on mental and emotional resilience, recognizing it as the greatest challenge that accompanies this journey.
We take a look into the post-divorce dating world, where Tonya talks on using personal experiences and values to guide your choices. We also discuss the importance of taking a hiatus from dating, embracing singleness positively, and the imperative need for discernment and trust in oneself while navigating new relationships. Tonya also emphasizes the power of having clear criteria when entering into relationships.
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Featured on the Show: Tonya Carter
Tonya is a Marriage/Relationship Exit Strategist. She uses her knowledge, personal experience, and expertise to help women navigate through the process of uncoupling by providing support, advice, resources and tools that will help mitigate interruptions in their business, work performance and household obligations.
She’s the author of “Divorce Your Story: A Woman’s Guide to Heal & Thrive after Divorce” and she also facilitates her signature program “T.H.R.I.V.E” - a 12 week program to gain the strategies and tools to exit out of a relationship properly, heal intelligently, and enter & evolve into a life of freedom and fulfillment.
She also hosts a podcast called “ The Purposely Thriving Podcast” and she’s a graduate of DeVry & Central Michigan University.
She is from Atlanta where she resides with her two children.
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If you have ever felt overwhelmed by a cluttered space, or judged yourself harshly for a lack of tidiness you'll find this episode insightful as I am joined by Amelia Pleasant Kennedy, a Certified Life Coach, Professional Organizer, Fair Play Facilitator, and the CEO of A Pleasant Solution.
Amelia shares insight on the complexities of detaching our thoughts from our physical spaces and discusses the significance of recognizing green flags and positive signs of progress in our productivity journey. We look into the emotional art of letting go, the profound process of reclaiming space in our homes and our minds.
At the end of this episode, you'll have the confidence to create your roadmap to reclaim your space and inner peace.
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Featured on the Show: Amelia Pleasant Kennedy
Amelia Pleasant Kennedy is a Certified Life Coach, Professional Organizer, Fair Play Facilitator, and the CEO of A Pleasant Solution. As a Clutter Coach, she helps folks who are frazzled, busy, and overworked uncover the root cause of the clutter in their lives. With a keen ability to listen for what goes unsaid, Amelia coaches from a space of total curiosity and non-judgment so that clients build a deep sense of self-trust. Amelia is a caregiver for her mother, who’s living with dementia, a mother of 3 (including an elite athlete), a podcast host, and a lover of visual art, nature, books, and meaningful conversations.
Amelia is also the Chair of the Awards + Recognition Committee for the National Assoc. of Productivity & Organizing Professionals (NAPO). She holds Advanced Certification in Deep Dive Coaching and Feminist Coaching, and is an active member of the Institute for Challenging Disorganization (ICD), Black Girls Who Organize (BGWO), and the National Assoc. of Black Professional Organizers (NABPO). Her podcast A Pleasant Solution: Embracing an Organized Life talks about why a clutter-free mindset is essential to an aligned + sustainable lifestyle.
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Today, I am joined by a very special guest, Vikki Louise Yaffe, a feminist time coach.
If you have ever wondered how to redefine your relationship with time, not just in your day-to-day activities, but also in managing your relationships, you'll find this episode insightful as Vikki shares an intriguing perspective on time management and its impact on our lives. We delve deep into how to handle the challenge of accelerated decision-making in relationships, a concept that seeks to break free from the fear of failure and welcomes the potential for growth.
Finally, Vikki shares her personal story of dating without boundaries, an experiment that highlights the delicate balance between vulnerability and self-preservation. We discuss the paradox of barriers - the safety they offer and the opportunities they could potentially block. Join us in this enlightening conversation, whether you're trying to navigate a relationship, wrestling with time management, or simply interested in a fresh perspective.
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Featured on the Show: Vikki Louise Yaffe
Vikki went from grinding 80 hour work weeks and battling burnout, to working just 15 hours per week while rapidly scaling her income.
After redefining her relationship to failure and falling in love with how to rest she finished 2020 having not just grown her business from $9k to $270k per annum, but built sustainable practices and strategies that ensured life continued to come first!
A new mum, Vikki quickly realized that it really was possible to do it all, with the right approach to time management. It was only a matter of time before she began teaching other women and other mums how to do the same!
After graduating from the London School of Economics, Vikki climbed the corporate career ladder in finance and investing, experiencing the life between London and New York before retraining as a Life Coach. Vikki gained her credentials at The Life Coach School.
Vikki has run her global business across 4 continents, she is now based out of Manchester, United Kingdom.
Her Podcast, ‘Hack Your Time’ is in the top 1% of shows and has been downloaded over 600 thousand times with a loyal community tuning in weekly.
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As a high-achiever, you may find dating more challenging than it ought to be. This episode is a must-listen for all ambitious individuals who often find themselves in the quest for quick results, even in their love lives. I take a candid look into the world of dating, deciphering why it often seems more difficult than it should be.
I talk about the importance of patience and perseverance when navigating the dating landscape and look into the impacts of instant gratification, and how it eventually makes the dating journey tougher. I also discuss why it's essential to stop beating yourself up for wanting things to be easier and faster, and instead focus on cherishing your individual dating journeys.
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Ever feel like you're on a wild goose chase in your dating life, constantly second-guessing yourself? In this episode, I discuss about the importance of self-discovery and core value identification for a successful dating journey. I also talk about the importance of really listening to your inner voice in order to understand your wants, needs, and fears. This episode is a call to action for women to put themselves first and avoid the pitfall of self-doubt in the dating arena.
You'll learn how to unlock the power of your core values in making successful dating decisions and how to discern what's vital for your well-being by identifying your ideal relationship type and recognizing potential partners who resonate with your core values. This isn't just about finding a partner; it's about finding yourself.
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Today's guest, Wendy Slonaker, is a grief and emergence coach. In this episode, she shares her transformative journey through the end of her marriages and her paths to her authentic identity.
Wendy talks about how she used Al-Anon, a 12-step program, to uncover her codependency issues and how she learned to love herself enough to enter a healthy relationship with her wife, Jennifer.
Wendy offers her take on using dating apps for self-discovery and personal growth. We dive into the importance of being intentional when dating and the lessons we learn from the people we connect with.
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Featured on the Show: Wendy Sloneker
Wendy Sloneker is an Emergence Channel and Coach.
Wendy works with innovators, early adopters, and high achievers who are navigating any combination of the 40+ life events that can bring about grief, loss, heartbreak, resentment, or otherwise shadow seasons.
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Ready to conquer social anxiety and make genuine connections in your dating life without relying on apps? Discover how to embrace your authentic self and meet potential romantic partners at social events without any awkwardness. Whether you're a divorcee re-entering the dating scene or someone plagued with social anxiety, this episode is packed with actionable advice to help you thrive in any situation.
We dive deep into the root causes of social anxiety and how our innate desire to fit in can hold us back from making meaningful connections. Learn how to reframe these anxieties and make talking to others more comfortable, as well as how to navigate social events without staying invisible or getting trapped in tedious conversations. Plus, we explore the importance of authenticity and connection in dating, and how showing up as your true self can attract your best match.
Don't let social anxiety prevent you from finding the love of your life! Tune in and uncover how to conquer your fears, genuinely connect with others, and ultimately discover the romantic partner you've been searching for. Whether you're meeting people in person or through dating apps, the key lies in being true to yourself and embracing the energy of human connection. Let's kick-start your journey to love and happiness – without any awkwardness!
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Are you struggling with relationship anxiety? In this episode, I share my insights on how anxiety can cause a fluctuating sense of self when we're around people and why it can be hard to pinpoint the root of the issue. Listen in as we explore how relationship anxiety can manifest as fear, anger, or annoyance and how it can lead to jumping into relationships too quickly or putting up barriers to avoid vulnerability. We also discuss how to evaluate for compatibility and character without putting the other person through hoops.
Additionally, we explore the cultural messaging and conditioning that can cause anxiety around relationships for women. Join me as we discuss how this affects our sense of worthiness and can lead to feelings of not being enough. I challenge you to look at how this messaging is impacting your own life and consider ways that relationship anxiety might be manifesting. Don't miss the opportunity to learn more about navigating relationship anxiety and finding the love you deserve.
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Ever wondered how the connection between money, relationships, and personal growth can impact your life? Join us for an insightful conversation with Mariko Gordon, a mentor for women who want to start a business, better manage their finances, or work through a tricky patch in life or business. Discover how Mariko founded a $2.5 billion money management firm from scratch and how our relationship with ourselves is reflected in our relationship with money.
Navigating finances in second relationships can be quite challenging, but Mariko shares valuable insights in this episode. Learn how to avoid common financial mistakes, the importance of financial preparation for the future, and the need for non-earning spouses to invest in themselves to better manage their finances. We also explore open dialogue about money, taking into account your partner's financial genealogy, and considering the potential implications of a large disparity in wealth between partners.
Lastly, let's examine the power dynamics of transactional and personal relationships and how hyper independence and control can affect our ability to ask for help. Mariko shares her experience of being a mentor for women, and we discuss how financial conversations can reveal underlying assumptions and values. Tune in to learn how creating space for each partner to feel safe and comfortable is crucial for a healthy relationship!
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Featured on the Show: Mariko Gordon
Mariko Gordon built a $2.5B money management firm from scratch, flying her freak flag high. It had a weird name, a non-Wall Street culture, and a quirky communication
style. In 1995, when Mariko founded Daruma, only a handful of women of color owned their firms. She had to noodle out how to run a business while daily duking it out with Mr. Market and raising a family. Today she mentors women who want to start a business, turn their side hustle into their living, better manage their finances, or work through a tricky patch in life or business. She is also a poet, hypnotist, life coach, hula dancer, and Treasurer on the Board of the Asian American Writers’ Workshop.
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Have you ever felt like you were living a life that wasn't yours? Like you were just going through the motions, trying to please everyone else but yourself? My friend and fellow life coach, Brig Johnson, knows that feeling all too well. In this powerful conversation, Brig shares her inspiring journey of finding her true self in the midst of a crumbling marriage and forging a new identity that led her to become a multiple six-figure life coach.
We dive deep into the mental load that women carry, making it difficult for them to pursue their dreams and achieve greatness. Brig opens up about her experience with societal expectations and how she bravely embraced her spontaneous nature to overcome these obstacles. From people-pleasing wife to unstoppable force, Brigg's transformation is nothing short of awe-inspiring.
Join us as we explore the power of self-coaching and how it played a pivotal role in Brig's journey to rewrite her story. Find out how taking ownership of her life and letting go of perfectionism set her free and empowered her to make the changes she needed. This conversation is a testament to the importance of fighting for yourself and staying determined in your pursuits. Don't miss this incredible episode!
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Get my FREE PDF Download: 50 Green Flags of a Healthy Relationship Featured on the Show: Brig JohnsonBrig Johnson helps HIGH ACHIEVING WOMEN BECOME UN-F*CKWITHABLE! Coming from a background as an Advanced Practice health care provider, Brig has built a successful 6-figure life business. Her brash, direct style helps clients see themselves with clarity, her compassion keeps them coming back. Her business motto is “better business through sufficiency.” The more we accept and connect with ourselves, the better we connect with our clients and customers and their dreams.
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Have you ever noticed how challenging it can be to find a partner who truly complements your lifestyle, especially when juggling work and social commitments? My personal experience with this overlooked aspect of dating led me to explore the importance of considering factors like career, business, brand, and professional sphere of influence when searching for a life partner.
Join me in this episode as I discuss customizing your dating journey to find someone who fits seamlessly into your social circle. Learn how to assess potential partners in different social settings and create opportunities to meet people who share your interests. From introducing potential partners to your friends and family to attending events together, discover how to gauge their compatibility with your social life. And remember, even if you don't find the perfect match, you always have the option to change your mind and end the relationship. Tune in for valuable insights and tips on finding a partner who truly enhances your social life.
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What if you could take control of your dating life and create opportunities for finding love? Join us in this eye-opening conversation with Sarah Arnold Hall, a high-performance coach from Wellington, New Zealand. Sarah shares her incredible journey of dating after deciding she wanted a romantic relationship where she felt safe, loved, and cherished. We discuss how taking action and believing in yourself can lead to finding the right partner, rather than leaving matters to chance.
Together, we dive into the challenges of dating and identify the five main emotions that often hold us back: confusion, overwhelm, self-doubt, fear, and apathy. Sarah shares her strategies for managing these emotions and emphasizes the importance of planning and setting expectations in our dating lives. We also explore the impact of identity on dating, particularly for women, and discuss how our beliefs shape our reality.
Our conversation takes us through Sarah's experience of entering the dating world in midlife and the surprises she encountered along the way. We discuss societal expectations, rejection, and the importance of staying open to life's surprises. This episode is a treasure trove of valuable insights and advice on dating, overcoming obstacles, and navigating expectations. So, tune in and get ready to transform your dating life!
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Featured on the Show: Sarah Arnold-Hall
Sarah Arnold-Hall is a High Performance Coach who helps people overcome procrastination and take action on their biggest goals. She currently lives in Wellington, New Zealand.
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Making decisions in dating after divorce can be incredibly challenging, especially when it comes to figuring out if the person you're seeing is the right one for you. In this episode, I share my insights on how to navigate these tough decisions and recognize the signs that it's time to let go of a relationship that isn't working. Listen in as I discuss how not all nice guys are a match for you, and why a 60-70% match might not be enough to make a relationship work. I also share my personal experiences with making the wrong decisions and how difficult it can be to let go of the nice guys.
Overcoming indecision in dating relationships is crucial, and in this episode, I explore the difference between evaluating a relationship and overthinking it. I share tips on how to give yourself permission to ask for what you truly want and recognize the difference between FOMO and the gap in what you want. I also discuss tools to help you get to the absolute truth about the person you're considering and yourself, and how to release scarcity in order to make good decisions.
To make the right decisions in dating after divorce, it's essential to have a clear vision of what you want in a relationship. I discuss the importance of self-discovery, creating a relationship vision, and evaluating potential partners. Hear how my clients learn to take out their list when they go on a date and evaluate what they've been able to establish that the partner has and what they haven't been able to establish. I also touch on freeing yourself from the guilt of feeling responsible for someone else's feelings and the importance of giving yourself permission to ask for what you truly want.
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What if prioritizing pleasure could revolutionize your life after a divorce? On this episode of the podcast, I had a fascinating conversation with Amber Taylor, a fellow coach and pleasure priority expert who shared her personal journey of healing after her divorce. Amber revealed how focusing on pleasure and joy transformed her world, and how she now helps others do the same through her coaching.
We discussed the connection between processing trauma and the joy and passions we experience in our lives, along with the importance of play, experimentation, and focusing on our own pleasure in healing from past traumas. Amber also touched on the significance of questioning the beliefs we were taught as children and learning to make new decisions as adults.
Amber shared insights on how her clients benefit from understanding their own autonomy, living authentically, and connecting with themselves. We explored her unique approach to helping clients learn to take ownership of their lives and expand their window of tolerance, allowing them to experience both highs and lows without being overwhelmed. This conversation is a must-listen for anyone seeking to prioritize pleasure and create a more fulfilling life after divorce.
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Featured on the Show: Amber Taylor
Amber is an adventurer, podcast host, and expert coach that helps people clear out the muck so they can spend more time enjoying the life they create. Fixing her clients' pleasure and authenticity as the North star, she combines mindset and somatic tools and her own special magic to help her clients revolutionize their worlds by orienting to pleasure!
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In this fascinating episode, I had the pleasure of chatting with Dr. Stephanie Byerly, a Trauma-informed Professional Coach, Obstetrical Anesthesiologist, and Certified Life Professional Coach. Stephanie bravely shared her personal journey through marriage, divorce, and finding love again, as well as the psychological struggles that come with being a successful, high achieving woman in leadership.
Listen in as we explore the impact of expectations, social norms, and external barriers on our beliefs and decisions, and how our own personal experiences and upbringing can shape our thoughts and expectations. Stephanie's life experiences have led her on a journey of healing and self-discovery, and she shares her passion for helping women understand their brain's motivations and the power of deciding who their authentic selves are. We also tackle the challenges women face when it comes to leadership roles, particularly the backlash that often comes with it, and how vital it is to give women a voice that matters.
Join us in this powerful discussion as Stephanie shares her passion for helping women uncover their authentic selves and embrace their potential. You'll leave inspired by her journey of healing, self-discovery, and her commitment to empowering women in every aspect of their lives. Don't miss this opportunity to learn from her insights and experiences, whether you're navigating the dating world, leadership roles, or your own personal growth.
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Featured on the Show: Dr. Stephanie Byerly
Dr. Stephanie Byerly is an obstetrical anesthesiolgist and is a certified Life, Trauma Informed and Professional Coach and Leadership Consultant.
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Have you ever felt like the supporting actress in your own life, putting everyone else's needs before your own? In this episode with Elizabeth Sherman, a master certified health and life coach, we discussed the all-too-common experience of women sacrificing their needs for those around them to avoid feeling guilt, but creating resentment instead. Together, we explored the importance of reconnecting with oneself and asking for what we need, even if it means going against cultural and societal norms.
Our conversation included a discussion on Elizabeth's decision to remain childless and the judgment she faced. We examined the economics of couples who do not have children and the trade-offs they make when deciding whether or not to have them. Finally, we delved into the shame and vulnerability that can come with realizing a marriage is not working and why it is so challenging for women to acknowledge this.
We wrapped up our conversation by exploring Elizabeth's journey of dating, the risks she took in love and relationships, and the importance of knowing oneself both now and in the future when choosing a partner. We talked about taking a different approach to dating to make it a more enjoyable experience and shared a client's inspiring approach to dating. Listen in as Elizabeth shares her story and offers valuable advice on letting go of anxiety and finding meaningful connections.
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Featured on the Show: Elizabeth Sherman
Elizabeth Sherman is a Master Certified Health & Life Coach who helps women in peri/menopause manage her symptoms as well as all of the other stressful demands that seem to accompany this season of life:
- the physical changes that menopause and aging produce
- the emotional demands that accompany our life changes and family structures
- the physiological changes of how our body responds to external stimulus and how we respond to those changes
- the mental load that we carry as we change our identity and how we see ourselves in the world
Elizabeth hosts a weekly podcast called Done with Dieting: a podcast for the woman who, in spite of all of these demands, has been socialized to focus on her appearance, selflessly do for others, and in doing so becomes the best supporting actress in the movie of her own life.
Elizabeth is a Chicago native, but now conducts her coaching business as an Expat in Mexico, and meets with her clients through video: focusing on the areas of health: eating, moving, stress and sleep management, body image and how we think about them through a DEI & feminist lens.
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Discover the path to financial liberation for women physicians with our incredible guest, Dr. Latifat Akintade, Money Coach for Badass Women Physicians, host of the Money Fit MD podcast, and bestselling author of Done With Broke.
We discuss the vital role money can play in navigating life after divorce. Many women have deferred to their partners in financial matters, leading to feelings of shame and guilt when they need to take control of their own finances. Dr. Latifat provides valuable insights on how to recover, heal, and rebuild while emphasizing the liberation that comes from leaving a relationship that feels stifling.
Dr. Latifat also shares valuable insights on how to overcome money blocks, cultivate a wealthy mindset, negotiate fearlessly, and advocate for the communities we serve. Listen in and learn how to create a financially liberated and wealthy life on your own terms.
This episode will help you untangle your identity from your finances, silence external noise, and focus on your unique money journey. Learn about the wealth mindset, timeless principles, and the power of embracing imperfection on your path to financial success. So, tune in and start creating a wealthy life on your own terms with Dr. Latifat Akintade.
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Featured on the Show: Latifat Akintade
Dr Latifat is a Gastroenterologist and founder of The Money Coaching school for badass women physicians.
She is also the host of The MoneyFitMD podcast and best selling author of Done with Broke. The woman physician’s guide to more money and less hustle.
She combines her interest in personal finance, her training as a certified life coach and her passion for wellness. She believes every woman can create their wealthy life. Her mission is to equip women with the tools they need to be financially liberated to live well, fully without burning out.
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Are you tired of feeling stuck in your dating journey and ready to take charge of your love life? Join me as I share the importance of taking responsibility for your dating journey and how crafting a strategic approach can lead to better experiences and bring you closer to finding the person you're meant to be with.
I'll walk you through an example of a client who made a single shift in her approach and experienced incredible results, while emphasizing that everyone's blind spots and biases are different. Listen in as I discuss how to craft a productive dating process and the need to troubleshoot your dating journey.
By troubleshooting your dating process, you can overcome challenges, attract the partner you desire, and finally take control of your dating experience. Don't miss my advice on the importance of unconditional self-acceptance and seeking support when necessary - because you are worthy of love and companionship. So, listen in and discover how to take control of your dating experience and move closer to finding the partner you truly desire.
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In this fascinating episode, we're joined by Dr. Krystal Sodaitis, a board-certified pediatrician and expert in coaching physicians with neurodiversity. Dr. Sodaitis shares her own story of being a gifted child and how she came to the work of coaching physicians with neurodiversity. Listen in as we explore the concept of neurodiversity, which embraces the idea that all differences in the brain fall into the spectrum of normal, and how having a high IQ can put people at risk for at-risk behaviors.
We also discuss the struggles of being a gifted individual and the importance of embracing differences, such as having ADHD or being socially anxious, and how to handle anxiety that may arise during and after divorce. Dr. Sodaitis gives insightful advice on how to create self-compassion when it comes to differences and how to navigate relationships, dating, and the challenges that come with neurodiversity.
Lastly, we talk about the gifts that come with various neurodiversities, such as dyslexia, ADHD, and autism, and how to use our higher functioning areas of the brain to help us with the struggles. Tune in to hear Dr. Sodaitis share her expert advice on navigating neurodiversity in relationships, fostering understanding and belief in neurodiverse individuals, and creating supportive environments that allow everyone to bring their true selves to the table. This is an episode you won't want to miss!
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Featured on the Show: Dr. Krystal Sodaitis
Dr. Krystal Sodaitis board-certified pediatrician, how transitioned from academic medicine to health plan leadership in 2013 she is currently the Associate Chief Medical Officer for a health plan based out of her home state of Illinois. Krystal has advanced certifications in physician coaching, leadership coaching, and deep dive coaching.
Highly intelligent people are often identified as neurodiverse (formally or through self-discovery/diagnosis) well into adulthood. While the diagnosis may come with some understanding and validation, many still have questions. Unsure where to go with their newfound knowledge that’s where she comes in. Krystal helps neurodiverse docs discover their “what now.” She addresses the guilt, shame, and limiting beliefs that come with a diagnosis of attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, learning disorder, autism spectrum disorder or any other disability. Our brains are amazing and Krystal wants us all to embrace the different yet glorious ways our brains work. She helps people harness their gifts, not squelch them.
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In this captivating episode, I had the pleasure of welcoming the amazing Hailey Thomas to share her unique journey through divorce, co-parenting, and dating after divorce. Hailey opens up about her journey towards taking full responsibility for her life and happiness, which ultimately led her to the decision to end her marriage amicably.
Hailey met her new partner after a couple of months of dating by applying her experience with marketing to the dating scene, being her authentic self on every date and never interpreting rejection as meaning anything about her value.
Hailey shares her insights and personal anecdotes with humor and vulnerability, sharing her thoughts on enmeshment and boundaries in relationships, the importance of knowing what you truly need from a partner and the concept of "monagomish" relationships.
This episode is packed with valuable insights and advice for anyone navigating the complexities of life after divorce. Whether you're considering divorce, in the midst of it, or looking to jump back into the dating scene, Hailey's experiences and wisdom will inspire and empower you to take ownership of your decisions and relationships, ultimately creating the life you want and deserve. Don't miss this heartfelt and enlightening conversation with the incredible Hailey Thomas!
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Featured on the Show: Hailey Thomas
Hailey Thomas, a dedicated mom, adventurer, and entrepreneur, has accumulated over six years of experience in developing, selling, and delivering information products, done-for-you services, digital courses, and consulting projects, boasting a track record of over $750,000 in total revenue. As the leader of One Year from Now, Hailey offers her expertise through a podcast and consultancy aimed at high-impact entrepreneurs.
Hailey holds a BS in Organizational & Leadership Communication from Illinois State University and is currently credentialing in Interpersonal Neurobiology. In addition to One Year from Now, she manages a small portfolio of businesses. Her accomplishments include launching and then exiting a digital course/membership community that generated $100k in its first 10 months with over 50% profitability, even amidst a global pandemic.
When not working, Hailey enjoys reading fiction, lifting weights, watching 80s horror movies, and entertaining with living room karaoke. As a top business strategist and entrepreneurship coach in her field, Hailey Thomas is well-prepared to help entrepreneurial clients succeed through her life and business coaching subscription service, Auxiliary Brain.
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“There's no formulas for recovering from divorce”
“ I long ago stopped caring what other people thought about me. It wasn't easy, because I used to really care but now it's like, I just care about me, what I think about myself, and what's best for my kids.”
“But I learned how to just love people for who they are. And the power of doing that starting with myself, instead of thinking of all the ways that I'm lacking or whatever. And so just going into a relationship with that mindset is so different.”
“Some people are so starved for love and kindness and acts of service that…they can be bought with a single cup of coffee.”
“I have always had an underlying belief that there are great guys…like, my dad's a great guy, my brother's a great guy. I just believe that there are great guys available.”
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Featured on the Show: Michelle Gauthier
Michelle Gauthier is a Life Coach for overwhelmed working women.
Michelle is a single mom of two adopted kids and used to be an overwhelmed, busy working mom herself. She quit her successful 20 year corporate career to become a life coach to help other working women navigate their careers and home lives with ease.
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Are you tired of attracting low-effort men in dating and relationships, especially after divorce? It’s important that both partners in a relationship are truly invested in the success of the relationship.
In this episode I share my personal experience with high and low effort men when dating.
You will discover the factors that may increase the likelihood of tolerating low effort relationships, such as societal expectations, gender socialization, childhood emotional neglect, codependency, and love addiction, and learn how to break free from these patterns.
You’ll also learn the significance of being open and exploratory in the dating process, not relying on a rigid checklist or formula to determine compatibility.
Finally you’ll find out how feedback and self-awareness can help you identify and avoid low-effort men, and develop your intuition to make better decisions in the future.
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"I just want everyone listening to know that money is for you and money loves you and money wants to move to you and flow/work through you...money loves you and you're worthy of love, dignity, and respect."-Serena Hicks
My guest today is Serena Hicks, a money mindset mentor for love-led humans. Weexplored the relationship between love and money, discussing how “Holy Wow Money" is about radical self-love, radical service to others, and some serious pleasure activism.
Serena tells her money transformation story: how she embraced the importance of self-validation, healing her relationship with money and prioritizing herself, leading her to a 2 million dollar business.
We also talked about the challenges associated with shame and receiving financial support, as well as the importance of being open to receiving support from various sources, including the Divine.
We explored the parallels between creating love and creating money, highlighting the role that societal messaging and fear of disappointment can play in shaping our experiences.
Our conversation touched on the value of human connection, the role it plays in creating a nourishing environment for success, and the concept of love as a catalyst for financial growth.
Join me in this episode to learn more about cultivating a more abundant money mindset, overcoming shame, and finding true love. Serena Hicks is a joy, you don’t want to miss this conversation!
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Featured on the Show: Serena Hicks
Serena Hicks is a Black biracial Money Mindset Mentor for Love-led humans. Burning bright NOT burning out to have Holy Wow Money™ changes you (and the whole world). She is the creator of the Boom Boom Room (where your beliefs about money and the Patriarchy go...BOOM) and the Holy Wow Money™ Mastermind, where she teaches how Holy Wow Money™ is about radical self-love, radical service to others and some serious pleasure activism. She is here to change the world.
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“I made the critical decision that day that I was going to change. There was no more trying. There was no more anything. I was just going to figure out how to change.”
“If we intellectually know what we need to do, we just need to go out there and do it while we’re learning how to make taking that action less painful.”
- Corinne Crabtree
This week, my special guest on the Dating After Divorce podcast is Corinne Crabtree.
Corinne grew up poor, without a father figure, struggling with her weight and in a miserable first marriage at age 19. She got divorced and committed to never accepting less than healthy treatment from a partner again. Corinne embarked on a transformative journey and decided to change her mindset, her behaviors, and her life.
She is now a master life coach, mentor, and inspirational figure who has dedicated her life to helping women regain control of their health, finances, and relationships after divorce. After overcoming her own struggles with weight loss and self-esteem, Corinne lost 100 pounds, found love again in her second marriage, and built a $14 million business focused on empowering others. Through her No BS Weight Loss and No BS Businesswoman programs, she has positively impacted the lives of thousands of women, teaching them to break free from societal expectations and create their own paths to success.
In this episode, Corinne shares how to:
- Transform weight struggles and move forward from divorce using self-care and self-compassion.
- Brave discomfort and take decisive steps towards any goal
- Use effective communication, healthy negotiation and compromise in marriage to acknowledge and provide each partner's needs
- Identify the patterns that have held you back in the past and make a critical decision to commit to change and identify
- Focus on immediate, achievable steps that you are ready to take in your journey, whether it's weight loss or dating.
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Corinne’s Advanced Weightloss Coaching Certification
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My guest on today’s episode is Laurie Israel. Laurie Israel is the author of The Generous Prenup. She is an attorney, consultant, and mediator, concentrating her practice on both prenuptial and postnuptial agreements. Many of my clients have had questions about how to handle finances when remarrying on partnering again after divorce, so I was excited to bring her on the podcast to talk about prenups and how they could be useful.
And for those just considering a divorce, she explained how marital mediation or arbitration may be more effective than divorce court.
Our conversation revealed that what is commonly assumed about prenups and what is talked about in the media and celebrity divorces isn’t the truth at all.
Laurie pulled back the curtain on prenups and laws around money, contribution and shared her views about generosity and its role in relationships. Enjoy the episode!
“What else is marriage, but being considerate to each other?...that's the key to it, really caring about another person.”
“A lot of people are encouraged by the media, and what they’re reading to make money more important, and protecting your money more important than your marriage…that's the problem.”
“There's a lot of pushback on my views by younger people like millennials, and they say…why shouldn't we have a plan for our marriage? You know, why should we take the risk? But the problem is that these people have not experienced what a long term marriage is. And they also don't understand what the laws about marriage and divorce and estates are.”
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Featured on the Show: Laurie Israel
Laurie Israel is an attorney, consultant, and mediator, concentrating her practice on both prenuptial and postnuptial agreements. She works as a consultant and mediator nationwide. She previously practiced for 35 years in the areas of tax law, divorce, collaborative law, estate planning, probate of estates and trust administration, as well as mediation and, in Massachusetts, providing counsel for couples entering into prenuptial agreements. Laurie is one of the initial practitioners and developers of the field of marital mediation, the practice of using mediation to help couples solve marital problems and improve their marriages. Laurie is a former board member of the Massachusetts Council on Family Mediation and the Massachusetts Collaborative Law Council. Her writings include articles on divorce, mediation, marital mediation, and prenuptial agreements.
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- Laurie Israel in The Cut (New York Magazine) Why You (Probably) Shouldn’t Get a Prenup (Correction: On the podcast, Sade misnamed the publication as the New York Times instead of the New York Magazine)
It's important to take your time to go exclusive and know when and exactly how to make it happen.
Too many women say no too early because they feel guilty that taking their time means stringing a man along.
Or they get pressured into saying yes too early because they don't want to be the bad person and disappoint anyone
This is the stage where you must evaluate whether "your type" is really what you need and is even a healthy relationship at all
Where you decide that you want the healthy blend of good qualities in a man and attraction to a man
So that you can say that "yes" with full confidence
If you're thinking of going exclusive with your partner and need guidance and accountability this episode is for you.
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Today’s Podcast is about Dating App Texting Anxiety
Texting is the playground of the worst dating games and it's why many dating journeys end before they even begin
The myth is that you have to trick a good man into liking you
So you do things in a weird way and overthink what to write
This stage causes so many people to give up because it's exhausting
My overall philosophy is to treat every stage of dating like you would a normal networking event
Texting is like email where you are evaluating a person for basic respect, decency and possible overlap in interests - you can't tell much more than that until a call or two and a first date
It's a new skill that needs to be learned, practiced and adjusted to fit who you are and what you are looking for
In this episode, I break down what you need to make this stage of dating count:
Be willing to be yourself
Be willing to ignore the rules or demands other people make
Be willing to make mistakes
Be willing to let other people do the wrong thing without taking it personally or sticking around to experience more of it.
If you overthink or have anxiety when you text someone you're dating, this is the episode for you
And if you want to get more help with texting, I have a full masterclass on Texting coming soon
THE 7 TEXTS YOU SHOULD BE SENDING FREQUENTLY IF YOU WANT TO MEET A COMMITTED
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**Today's episode is special!
This episode is one of the live videos for the 10 DATES IN 30 DAYS CHALLENGE currently going on in the Dating After Divorce Academy.
Here are some of my best tips on troubleshooting your dating profile.
This episode will help you to better understand how to improve your dating profile.
These tips will help you to get better results in your dating journey.
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“I had changed my mind about children…I was trying to fill a hole… And so I thought, you know, that maybe they would help to fill that. And nothing was going to fill that, right? I didn't even know what the hole was.”
“It was messy. It was awful. It was so off script for me. But I think it was the catalyst I needed to understand so many of the processes and thoughts and ways that I had been taught.”
“I'm gonna say something really crazy, culturally…there's not just one person in the world for you.”
“...Having your list and knowing your values is so important, because there are multiple people who you could meet and…have a really important relationship with.”
My guest on the podcast this week is Sonya Green.
Sonya has taught college-level professional and technical writing and African American women's lit for the past 30 years in universities across the east coast and southern US. She retired from academia in July 2022 and now works full time in her coaching practice. She is currently teaching a course on Dropping Imposter Syndrome to high-achieving business women in addition to her 1:1 coaching practice.
When she's not working, Sonya loves to spend time with her husband on their farm or with their Brady-bunch of 6 children (and 2 granddaughters!).
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Today’s episode is all about how much pressure you experience when you’re dating.
If you feel pressure it’s probably coming from fear that something will go wrong and trying to do all you can to prevent that outcome.
This takes energy away from enjoying dating and staying unattached. It creates exhaustion.
I explain some of the thoughts that lead to feelings of pressure in the dating process and how to deal with them.
When you learn to handle these thoughts and feelings, you are able to release pressure, relax and date with ease, knowing that you can handle whatever comes.
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We are kicking off the 10 DATES IN 30 DAYS CHALLENGE on the Dating After Divorce Academy!
If you are actively dating now, you should definitely try this out in the next 30 days. Challenge yourself and meet men - free from pressure.
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**On this episode, I talk about a tool I occasionally use in my coaching practice, and that's the relationship inventory.
A relationship inventory is a walk through I do with my clients on all their past romantic relationships . It is really helpful in navigating thoughts that are keeping you stuck in your dating journey.
It's something that you should give a shot. Make a list and walk through it. Ask yourself those deep questions.
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“And if we don't feel like we have a voice with each other, to be able to express these insecurities, and to be able to, like, get curious and love ourselves and love each other through it through these types of conversations. It keeps us caged.”
“So I want to talk about everything, everything that we struggle with, and let's love with compassion ourselves through it.”
“And you feel that in your heart, your heart's mind, ‘what is right for me,’ this is your soul speaking, ‘what is my definition of beauty?’ What is pleasurable to me? What is right for me? That is my soul.”
“When we can start to wake up the senses, externally and internally. And really like go ‘Oh my goodness, body you are capable of so much feeling. And I get to experience the world and my life through these internal and external felt senses.’ That is a gift that your body alone gives you nothing else, you can't experience that without this body.”
“ And when we're so focused on our external appearance…we do lose connection with what our body is actually here for and those internal felt senses is a whole other universe that we are not taught.”
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Featured on the show this week: Chanci Dawn.
Chanci Dawn coaches, speaks and advocates for freedom and love. Freedom from the chaos of the diet culture and love, the deepest kind of love, for yourself, your body, and the gift of food.
Chanci believes that when a woman makes peace with food and her body she is set free to focus her time, energy and brainpower on things that truly matter - making this work a powerful form of activism!
To support women on their own journey to freedom Chanci currently offers 1-1 and group coaching as well as a podcast titled "It Tastes Like Freedom". In her downtime, you can find Chanci in the forest or on the boat exploring the beautiful West Coast shoreline of her home - Vancouver Island Canada.
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If you haven't gotten the result you want from your dating journey, there's something missing in the actions you're taking.
Not getting the result does not mean the result is not available
**It just means you haven't gotten the result YET.
It means you need to take more of the RIGHT KIND OF ACTION.
This episode breaks down what massive action really is, the quantity, quality and other considerations you need to successfully meet your new partner after divorce**
**If the result is what you want in this one life we have, if it's important to you, then you have to keep going.
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“And the way that experience expanded me, emotionally, psychologically. I like to say…you're looking at a woman where the worst happened, and I made it.”
“For some people, divorce is the worst. And I want you to know, there's hope after that, that as long as you have a pulse…you have possibilities.”
“And this is what I will say, you can only scare the people who are not for you away.”
“ And I truly came to a place for the first time in my life, actually, in my 40s of loving my own company.”
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Featured on the show: Cledra Gross.
Cledra is a Certified Life Coach and Business Strategist focused on helping Christian Women make more money and have a better life without compromising their values or health. She is the Author of Rewrite Your Story and Becoming a Successful Coach. Cledra has been featured on the life coach school podcast as an extraordinary scholar , awarded Coach of the year and was Atlantas top 10 over 40 for inspiring others to live their best life. Cledra is married to the love of her life Eddie Gross and loves to workout on her Peloton and play with her furbaby Frisco.
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You know the red flags, now you need to know the green flags.
When you work with me, the journey is to get you to the one who matches the green flags in this checklist. PLUS your other specifics.
Many women never connect with a healthy partner because they have never experienced healthy men up close.
They don’t know how to assess the person in front of them.
Their emotional imprint is set to unhealthy partners.
I created this checklist based on over 60 divorced and repartnered women that have either worked with me to meet their new partners, or that I have interviewed on my podcast.
The checklist describes real men in the real world that my clients have met and remarried and the man that I met and remarried after my divorce - after dating for only 18 months.
I help my clients do it in way less time.
I want you to know how to find, date and choose a good man. One who makes you feel safe, loved and cherished.
If you are a divorced woman who is living her best life and ready for an amazing partner, I want you to know:
Good men exist. And I can help you meet them.
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“So I became really obsessed with professional or personal development. And that's when I started digging in deep, like, who am I? Who do I want to be with?”
“I believed that marriage was the problem. I wasn't looking for it because I was pushing that away. So it wasn't even on my radar. I didn't want it to be on my radar because my experience of marriage was so painful…and there was a part of me that was shaming and blaming myself, ‘I should have done it differently.’ All of these things.”
“As I started to date him for real in my mind and shift my thinking, I could see like, Oh, this is a man of his word. This is a man loyal. This is a man who's patient and loving and trusting. And I was like, wait a minute, remember when I was looking for all these things? Yeah, it's right in front of me.”
“I went to therapy for at least three years, just around my self concept and my self concept as a mother and how just learning from a very tender age, that it's not our job to protect our kids from all pain, and learning that every child will have something to endure. And that it was okay. And it would help him grow stronger.”
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Featured on the show: Angela Kelly Robeck
Angela Kelly Robeck is a certified life and leadership coach for school leaders. She teaches them how to create exceptional results and enjoy the school leadership experience to promote principal sustainability. A former teacher, principal, and district administrator, Angela has over 25 years of experience in education and is the founder and CEO of Angela Kelly Coaching. She’s the creator and host of The Empowered Principal™️ Podcast and the innovative Empowered Principal™️ Life and Leadership Coaching Program. She empowers school leaders through her simple process for creating alignment, clarity, and strategy.
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“I just chose to see things through a different lens and ignore a sense of knowing within me.”
“Often what I was doing in relationships was over functioning, which for me is like, I'm heaving them over the wall, whether they've said they want to go over or not…And I think that's part of why my current relationship is so successful is because I don't do that.”
“Part of what's made our relationship so successful is we really respect each other a lot.”
“There was a period of time where I felt some kind of discomfort with the idea that a second marriage was ending. So I stayed.”
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Featured on the show: Maisie Hill
Maisie Hill is a master certified life coach, menstrual health expert, and bestselling author of Period Power and Perimenopause Power. Maisie uses mindset coaching and awareness of the body's rhythms and responses to help her clients to create the life they want.
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Today's episode is the replay of Day 1 of my FREE 3-Day Workshop on How to Create an Extraordinary Life and Love After Divorce.
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“Your emotional state, your confidence, these have a lot more to do with your ability to succeed when dating, than which app that you're on, or the texts that you send, or…whatever strategy or where you go.”
“Your energy actually dictates your ability to be creative.”
“If you shift into the energy of being your own matchmaker, that can help you get out of the venting, whining, crying, lamenting, complaining energy that sometimes we slip into.”
“There's so much that opens up when our brain shifts into creativity.”
What if you saw yourself as your own matchmaker? On this episode of the podcast, I talk about how you can become your own matchmaker to find the right partner for you by shifting your energy into creative mode.
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“It was almost like I gave my power away. I assumed that if I liked him, he should like me back. And if he didn't like me back, I was the one who was doing something wrong.”
“I learned to become a really, really authentic version of myself. Now, the way you do that isn't by looking outside of yourself. It's by looking inward.”
“If your profile can be superimposed with another woman, then it's not authentic enough.”
“Our brains are designed to keep us doing the least… it is a feature of the brain to keep you conserving calories, staying in your comfort zone doing what's familiar.
I’m spending the early part of January 2023 vacationing in Miami with my husband. I’m thinking, reflecting, enjoying the sunshine, and feeling so blessed. Part of my reflections are on the early stages of my dating after divorce journey, the challenges I faced and the things I had to do differently that led to me meeting my husband. On this episode of the podcast, I talk about some of the things I did differently for a successful dating journey.
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“Because I kept trying to switch circumstances…like moving states, changing jobs…And I kept revisiting the same feelings of…I'm not satisfied…I'm not happy…there has to be more to life than this.”
“I won't take the credit of being courageous and leaving the marriage. My subconscious self decided to burn my life down to get me out of it.”
“If we don't have compassion for ourselves, then we can't have compassion for others.”
“I chose and I changed my thoughts. Yeah, that's all I did….I am desirable, new perspective. And then I started looking for evidence to validate those new beliefs.”
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Featured on the show: Kimberly Jarman.
Kimberly Jarman is a Mindset Coach for women who are struggling to live out their purpose because they don’t feel important and confident enough to.
After years of feeling stuck, unsatisfied, and unhappy, from a place of desperation she burned down her life, took responsibility for her own happiness and success, and went on a mission to create the life she deeply wanted. One filled with love, financial freedom, time freedom, and happiness.
Her mission today is to help women become empowered in their lives so they can live their soul's purpose. Helping them create lives that are filled with meaning, healthy relationships, and time and financial freedom.
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“I had a few underlying feelings, but I didn't have a vision, so to speak, until you took me through the Irresistible You Worksheets. That was the point that I got a clear vision of what my relationship could look like.”
“I'm feeling really good about the place that we got to…I'm 43 and I've met the man of my dreams, so possible.”
“So I was in a place where I was very clear about what I was looking for.”
If you have been my longtime listeners might remember my client, Melissa Cameron, and her success story which was published on the podcast.
Today, I did a check in with Melissa, a year after she met her new partner to talk about where she was, and to recap, the best parts of the work that we did together. I hope you enjoy this short recap episode with Melissa Cameron.
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“And our brains always feel like things that are out of reach are valuable or more valuable."
“Attraction is not a one and done. It’s a journey. It's a learning process.”
“The elements of attraction work both to create attraction with the right person. And they can also create attraction with the wrong person. And so when you are thinking that you don't feel the spark, that's not enough to make a decision.”
What sparks attraction for you? Have you ever sat down to think about it? Today I deal with the topic of chemistry and attraction. I address the multidimensional nature of attraction to help you understand what you are truly attracted to.
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“When a woman over functions in relationships, typically it looks like doing everything for the guy…you set up all the dates, you move the relationship forward, you have all the conversations, you text him in, you give him money, he's always needing something, and you're always there to give it to him.”
“Most men are just normal humans like you. And they're not going to look like a movie.”
“When you believe that other people know better, and your thinking is not to be trusted, you'll be easily manipulated”
“Another thing that can really hamper awareness is if you deny that the pattern is harming you”
Today’s episode is the webinar session that I held on the 2nd of December. The webinar was on how to heal your old relationship patterns, so you can fall in love again. It was an amazing session that I’m sure you’ll find very insightful.
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“When you think it's not going to work, you feel sad, you feel bad…that creates apathy, and a loss of motivation.”
“You can learn how to shift your thinking because your brain is just a self fulfilling prophecy machine.”
“You could choose to believe that you deserve an amazing love.”
“Discouragement is just a lie that your brain is telling you to trick you into staying in the comfort zone to trick you into not doing anything unfamiliar, anything scary, anything risky.”
“Empowerment is also available, you could redirect your brain to choose thoughts that empower you, that get you on board with actively creating the result of an amazing, extraordinary, nourishing, loving, new relationship after your divorce.”
In this episode, I share a small snippet from a coaching session that I had with a client this week that really encapsulated what I see many people go through when they're dating. And that’s when you are recycling thoughts that create discouragement and disappointment when you're dating.
Join me as I talk about how you can empower yourself to create love.
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“You can read all the books and you can have the step by step and you can know exactly what to do, but if your mindset is working against you like there's really nothing that's going to happen, the journey will be painful and you'll probably give up along the way.”
“ And if you let the things that happen along the way determine what you believe is possible for you, you're going to create that.”
“What you never want to do is interpret any situation when you are dating as meaning that you are less than worthy, that you are less than capable, that there's something wrong with you.”
“You want to create love from a place of loving the path to love.”
Today, I talk about how critical it is for you to be very aware of your dating mindset, understanding the role that your mindset plays in your dating journey.
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“Fear is a normal part of the human experience, you're not going to get away from fear and you don't want to get away from fear. You don't want to not feel fear, fearactually keeps you safe.”
“Dating and anxiety and the fear response does not have to stop you.”
“Often we are jumping out into experiences outside of ourselves, into other people's experiences, into things people say, versus understanding who we are and how we are responding so that we can work with ourselves to create the life that we want.”
“Sometimes for some of us that response is coming from developmental milestones that we didn't complete when we were young.”
Every time I'm working with women, the subject of dating anxiety comes up one way or another and this is because fear is normal.
On today’s episode, I talk about anxiety in the dating process and why you may be feeling that way.
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“What many don't realize is that…our brains are designed for a completely different purpose. Your brain is not designed to help you find love. Your brain is not designed to help you find that higher level partner. Your brain is designed to keep you safe.”
“When you slow down and work through this process, you will realize just how frequently your brain tells you a story about what you were looking at, and tells you and you make decisions based on what you think is true. But literally your brain just made it up. It literally just made it up”
“Now, the other thing the brain does is once you have gone on a first date with someone, your brain will not be picky enough.”
“The ability to meet your partner really requires doing the most effective things at the right time. And you need to know what those are.”
I am so delighted to be back doing teaching episodes! I’ll be bringing more of these between now and the end of the year and I'm really excited to bring a lot of thoughts and learnings that I've had, getting my clients over the hump with their dating journeys, and into relationships where they feel safe, loved, nurtured, getting them all the way to commitment.
In today's episode, I dive into the almost age old question of “Are too picky or not picky enough?”
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“Romantic love is still tainted by internalized sexist narratives and biases, and they continue to be expressed in society and continue to be reinforced.”
“I think it's almost safe to say that all of us in some way, have internalized these sexist biases, because they're just in the air that we breathe.”
“The historical narrative is that a woman's value lies in her usefulness to other people.”
“Now, the internal bias that we start to internalize is that when we're single, that means there's something wrong with us.”
“Today, women continue to be portrayed as sexual objects in movies and music and entertainment, in the cultural language.”
Today, I have a special pre-recorded episode for you. It is my final project presentation for my advanced coaching certification in feminist coaching. I took the certification program so that I could understand deeper if there were cultural factors that were impacting my clients and yes, there were. In this presentation, I identified eight thinking patterns that are culturally accepted, but that can create a lot of pain in the dating journey. I titled this presentation, “Why Dating Feels Terrible and What You Can Do About It.”
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“What I really discovered was there’s just so much joy when you can own who you are, and move forward.”
“ So I think the first part of it is to again, hire a coach, do your own work, grow yourself, this always comes. Learn how to respect yourself, treat yourself like you want to be treated, in your date and in your partnership show up for you.”
“The more you show up for yourself, the more your intuition grows, the more you learn how to trust that voice inside”
“Dating is a playground. So when you're able to go and be on this playground from this centered, deep, respectful place for yourself, then you can be like, Oh, that slide looks a little bit steep. But I think we're gonna give it a go. Because, why not?”
My guest on the podcast this week is Chanci Dawn.
Chanci Dawn coaches, speaks and advocates for freedom and love. Freedom from the chaos of the diet culture and love, the deepest kind of love, for yourself, your body, and the gift of food.
Chanci believes that when a woman makes peace with food and her body she is set free to focus her time, energy and brainpower on things that truly matter - making this work a powerful form of activism!
To support women on their own journey to freedom Chanci currently offers 1-1 and group coaching as well as a podcast titled "It Tastes Like Freedom". In her downtime, you can find Chanci in the forest or on the boat exploring the beautiful West Coast shoreline of her home - Vancouver Island Canada.
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“I think the crux of the story is believing in yourself.”
“It was like I got pushed out of the nest… the cliche is true, because that's when I learned I can fly on my own.”
“I was very motivated to be independent, to stay in the house…not only to provide for my daughter, but to be an example of what was possible to her, that we didn't need…anybody else to take care of us, that we could do this.”
“Where we really get tripped up is when we expect that whatever it is that we're doing, our dating journey, or our business is going to go in best case scenario every day, no matter what. And then some little blip happens. And we're like, ‘oh, no, that's never gonna work.’”
My guest on the podcast this week is Jill Allison Bryan.
Jill Allison Bryan is a certified master creativity coach and founder of Creative Oasis Coaching. Since 2008, Jill has helped people around the world focus and follow-through with their personal and professional creative dreams. She excels at helping multi-passionate creatives move past procrastination, perfectionism, overwhelm, inner critic and other blocks to create lives and businesses they love.
Jill believes saying yes to your creative dreams makes you a happier, healthier, more fulfilled human and the world a better place. A multi-passionate creative herself, she loves playing piano, singing, writing songs, making “for the fun of it” art, cooking, traveling, hiking in mountains, running on beaches, reading, writing, entertaining, working out and playing tennis.
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“And I realized that I had this ability to love more than one person.”
“Our society has a tendency to say that it could only be one partner, this partner has to meet all your needs, and this … causes more harm and sadness in the world that needs to.”
“(Being Polyamorous) is just another way of being, in terms of having more than one relationship, more than one loving relationship with people.
“ Our women are told a number of things in terms of, your happy ever after depends on you being a good person and being selfless and taking care of everybody else and a long list of things that if we buy into it, can limit ourselves.
My guest on the podcast this week is Dr. Sonia Wright.
Dr. Sonia is a board-certified radiologist, a sexual counselor and a certified life coach (not to mention she’s also worked in a sex toy store). Working with Dr. Sonia is like working with three experts at once. She will help you understand your sexual difficulties from different perspectives and use her medical knowledge, sexual counseling skills and coaching tools to construct a holistic approach to resolving your difficulties.
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“I knew that my thoughts were creating my reality, I knew that my thoughts were creating my feelings.”
“When somebody withdraws and you have a lack of regulation or oxytocin, then they give it back to you and you feel a flooding…The big feelings you have after they took it from you. That's not love. That's not attraction. And that's not passion. That's addiction.”
“The thing that I found with my current partner is we're incredibly well suited to each other. And what that means is, we don't have to work very hard to be in a relationship with each other, which is really nice.“
My guest on the podcast this week is Sarah Yost.
Sarah Yost is a Master Certified Life Coach specializing in anxiety freedom. She developed a technique called Emotional Reprocessing to rewire your experience of stressful events, both today and from your past. She is especially interested in the healing of feeling trapped and abandonment. Both of these core fears will stop you from enjoying dating and being able to create a true partnership.
She is happily divorced, the survivor of an emotionally abusive relationship, and a mother of 3. She is currently in an amazing but unconventional partnership of 4 years. She believes your desires are bright compasses to your destiny. If you desire it, you have what it takes to create it, no matter how weird or unreasonable it is.
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“I was a huge people pleaser. I was very codependent. I didn't know that. At the time, I didn't know what that was.”
“The funny thing is, when you let go of all that control, then sometimes you're pleasantly surprised about getting the exact thing you would have wanted.”
“So I was having all these experiences with other people. And I was being treated in a much different way, like I was being respected. And people were asking about my boundaries and very respectful of my boundaries. And that was very much a contrast to what I had known for the last 10 years.”
“So that was a green flag for me that he liked that. So he loved all the questions I had. He really liked that process. And through that we found out like, we do want the same things.”
“Even though it feels like things happened so fast this year, it's because I've been working at this for four years consciously, but many years before that.”
My guest on the podcast this week is Karilyn Ivers.
Karilyn Ivers is an expert at learning from her failures. As a certified life coach, she helps her clients do the same.
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*“I became such a full time mom and homemaker that I had forgotten my favorite food or color."
"When women don't realize how much they lose themselves, when they start putting their marriage, their kids, their home first…they really let go of their identity.”*
“I think the biggest mistake that I made and that I see a lot of women that come to me make, is they think that once we clear this up, that's it, you know, and we're done. And I think if we can be more loving and compassionate with ourselves we’ll realize that this is a daily work.”
“You know, if we can encourage women to stop judging themselves, stop taking the blame. You could have been the most horrible wife. But guess what? Amazing wives also get divorce.”
My guest on the podcast this week is Michelle Vasquez.
Michelle Vasquez is a Goal & Life Coach for divorced women. She works with her clients to set goals & the clear path to overcome obstacles and ensure that they achieve their goals.
When her marriage of 11 years ended, and she had three boys under the ages of eight to raise, she felt like her whole life crumbled right in front of her and she couldn't do anything to keep it together, change it, or go back to how things were. Fast forward 11 years, she got remarried to a wonderful man and has been remarried for seven years.
From all the struggles and victories, Michelle believes that the fact that she and her ex-husband have always been able to have a great co-parenting relationship has been the biggest victory.
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“I had also experienced all of that guilt along the way…it was seven years of me parenting hard as a single mother…Going through a divorce, everything, parenting hard, trying to make sure everything was okay, knowing it wasn't okay. Feeling that guilt the whole time.”
“Not only did you come with your list, but you listened to their lists, like a champion. And you took those punches, like a champion.”
“I have experienced continuous healing, in my relationships, in my finances, in my business, you know, in my body, it's an ongoing…that healing work has continued.”
My guest on the podcast this week is Rashida Bonds
Rashida is THE life coach for people who are searching for and rediscovering themselves beyond the title of Mama.
Rashida has worked with youth and their parents for more than 20 years. When she became a parent herself, she gained a deep understanding of how important support is for parents, especially mamas.
Rashida has been coaching as a certified life coach for 5 years and she looks forward to many more years working with magical mamas who are changing the world.
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“You're not going to find anybody better than me, says the Narcissist.”
“And just 2020 I was like, yeah, I can't do it anymore. Like I can't continue to get hurt. I can't continue to sit in something where my needs aren't getting met”
“You're not a loser for wanting to get help. I mean, look at me, I got a coach, I got a therapist, I got friends, like I have a whole village of people. So that doesn't make you dumb or weak. You cannot get through divorce alone…you need that village.”
“I think it just takes really doing the work. It makes the process so much easier.”
My guest on the podcast this week is Bee.
Bee is a current client. She likes to take long walks in the park loves good ratchet reality TV.
- Bee’s Blog
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“And so it took a couple years to work up the courage. And I think the turning point for me was, when somebody said to me, staying in this marriage is lying, because you're basically lying to that person, pretending that everything is fine when it's not, and you're lying to yourself.”
“I think the reason it was so easy is because I had decided I don't need a partner to feel good about myself.”
My guest on the podcast this week is Jill Angie.
Jill Angie, the founder and Head Rebel of Not Your Average Runner. Through her coaching program, she supports women who want to change their lives through running.
- Gill’s Podcast
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“I think a woman who has found love within herself, she has a certain knowing and beingness. And we all know that lady, she walks in a room and everybody is gravitating to her and she's doing nothing except being herself. And you're wondering, why can't people keep their eyes off her? It has nothing to fully do with her external looks. It has to do with this energy, this inner glow that's happening.”
My guest on the podcast this week is Natasha McCrea.
Natasha is a love and life coach who guides Alpha Females into designing the life they want with grace and ease, so they can attract what their heart desires in both career and love. She believes women are the gatekeepers to love. You have more power than society has led you to believe and when you tap into that love power you can create the life and relationships
you deserve. So, she coaches smart women, who want to put down stress and overwhelm how to tap into their love power to live happier, more successful lives. They shift from Love Employee to Love CEO and make loving their lives a lifestyle.
As an actress Natasha toured her one woman show, "Evolution of a Love Addict" across the US. She owns a production company with her husband where she produces and creates compelling content with strong female leads. Her mission in life is to encourage and empower women through all forms of media. She is the Founder of Love CEO institute the place women promote themselves from Love Employee to Love CEO via the Love CEO
Program and private coaching. She has a degree in Psychology from Grand Canyon University. She is living the life she has designed for herself and she’d like to inspire, motivate and coach you to do the same. She believes, “When you own it, it’ll work for you.”
Natasha lives in Los Angeles, California with her husband.
In this episode, Natasha shares all about becoming a love CEO and the importance of taking ownership of "you incorporated."
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My guest on the podcast this week is Susie Castellanos Hansley.
In this episode, Susie shares the story of how childhood trauma led her to desperately wanting to be loved and how this led her to chasing the wrong person. Finally meeting a man who loved her for who she was, Susie shares the story of how she met her husband after going through a devastating breakup.
This episode will thoroughly inspire you and encourage you to be yourself and turn the tide of your relationship for good.
What You’ll Learn:
- The trouble Susie had with dating and relationships because of childhood abandonment trauma.
- Susie’s experience with wanting to feel loved so much so that she would feel worthy, and how this was harmful to her in her first relationship.
- How she shifted away from this and started getting more curious to know the men she was dating.
- That you need to be yourself 100% of the time and attract those that are for you.
- That you can turn the tide on your relationships by learning what the reality is, versus continuing to try to perpetuate a fantasy.
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Featured on the Show:
Susie is a Mindset & Empowerment Coach who helps people feel better about themselves and their lives. She specializes in helping first-gen trailblazers reduce anxiety and self-doubt, increase confidence, and reach even higher levels of achievement.
Originally from San Diego, CA, Susie is herself a first-generation Mexican American, the first in her family to go to college, and an Ivy League Ph.D. Thanks to life coaching, she removed mental and emotional blocks that had held her back, quit her corporate job, and now gets to help others create lives they love as a life coach. She lives in Durham, NC with her husband of 17 years, Bill, three cats, and an extensive collection of family and friends.
- Susie’s Website
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My guest on the podcast this week is Lisa Friend.
In today’s episode, Lisa shares her dating after divorce story and how she learnt the importance of being herself and being with a man who allows you to be your authentic self.
You’ll walk away from this episode with the confidence that you can be yourself and independent in your dating journey.
Prepare to be inspired by this episode.
What You’ll Learn:
- Lisa’s experience being in a controlling marriage and how she gained freedom to be herself with her second husband.
- The importance of being authentic without underlying expectations when you go out on dates.
- Why it makes sense to want someone who is attracted to your authentic self when you think about the relationship that you want.
- To relax and get yourself in that state of being who you are.
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Featured on the Show:
Lisa Friend is a retired educator turned life coach. Being a lover of learning, she is a collector of degrees and certifications. She has an MS in Elementary Education, a BA in Art Therapy, and certifications in Life Coaching, Home Staging, and Color Analysis. She has a passion for all things creative. She and her husband have a blended family with 3 daughters and a son in law.
As a certified life coach, Lisa specializes in burnout recovery for teachers who want to reduce stress, work less hours, reignite their passion, repair damaged relationships and learn to have fun again.
- Lisa’s Website
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My guest on the podcast this week is Samara Stone.
In this episode, Samara shares her divorce and remarriage story. She shares her not-so-typical divorce story which was peaceful and without anger or bitterness. In her forties, Samara began to go through the process of being fully grown and knowing what she wanted and this led her to connecting with the right man for her.
You’ll walk away from this episode knowing that it is within your capacity to change your life.
Prepare to be thoroughly inspired by this episode as you hear Samara's story.
What You’ll Learn:
- How Samara had been “moving through the motions” in her marriage.
- The expectation that Samara had in her mind that she had to take care of everything and how there was no balance in that.
- When and how Samara started wanting more for her life and how she considers this time to be “the fullness of growth”.
- How she met her current husband and how he challenged her to grow in the direction that she wanted to.
- That you can’t compartmentalize your heart.
- How life became easier with her current husband and she began feeling safe with him.
- The internal work that Samara did to produce the desired results by making bold changes.
- How her relationship is one aspect of her full grown life.
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Samara Stone is the owner and founder of Full Grown, a lifestyle brand for grown women who are ready to imagine, create and boldly live a life of their own design. Getting her entrepreneurial start in 2005 when she opened her private mental health practice, Samara has since launched several programs [and brands] to help mental health entrepreneurs gain the clarity and confidence they need to fully embrace their expertise and build businesses that allow them to position themselves as the experts they truly are. In addition to her work as a mental health professional, she’s also had the opportunity to pour into other organizations as a consultant, speaker, coach and facilitator. Through her journey [and work] she has learned what it means to be brave, trust herself and build in such a way that is authentic to who she truly is at the core.
Today, Samara is on a mission to help middle-aged black women age boldly through community, self-discovery, and a sense of adventurous risk taking. In her free time you can catch her mothering her 3 children, traveling, enjoying new adventures and loving up on her “honey”.
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My guest on the podcast this week is Jessica McKinley.
Jessica and her ex were for a while sacrificing themselves for the sake of the marriage, sacrificing their own futures and our own happiness for the sake of the success of the marriage. She shares the story of how they eventually got a divorce and how she started dating again after her divorce.
You’ll walk away from this episode inspired to have new dreams, knowing the power of doing the work and creating the results that you desire after having inner transformation.
What You’ll Learn:
- How the coaching tools she had helped her to know that it was okay to go through the pain of her divorce.
- The importance of developing your own autonomy.
- That you're allowed to change your circumstance, if you decide you're willing to take responsibility for whatever the outcome is.
- That it's your job to redirect your thoughts so that you can ground yourself in what you know is true and what you want.
- Understanding boundaries versus enmeshment, having autonomy, having serenity in your life, taking care of your own stuff and your own self care.
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Jessica does what she calls a hybrid of life and business coaching. She does work with women who own businesses. She helps people organize their time, money and their mind drama.
After working with over 100 clients Jessica has narrowed down her coaching process to 4 basic Mind Management tools that help women business owners do the following:
- Navigate endless options & make decisions quickly.
- Recognize "overwhelm and anxiety" as optional emotions.
- Use their thoughts and emotions as fuel for their business.
- Create an action plan & follow through on it.
Jessica is also a Podcaster. She is the host of Sincerely, Future You Podcast, a Podcast about building your future from your future.
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- Jessica’s Podcast
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My guest on the podcast this week is Dawn Ziegerer.
In this episode, Dawn shares the story of going through two divorces. She shares the story of dealing with resentment and victim thoughts and how she finally started taking responsibility for her actions.
You’ll walk away from this episode understanding the importance of letting go of resentment and victim thoughts.
What You’ll Learn:
- How she stopped focusing her mind on the man that broke her heart and caused her a heart attack and how she took full responsibility for her actions.
- The red flags that she saw in her second husband but willfully ignored.
- How being resentful about staying at home in her first marriage came out through my actions to my children and the step she took to apologize to her children.
- How she learnt to stop being ashamed of wanting a partner.
- That you can own your life, your space, your time, your experience, and believe that it's all within your control.
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Dawn Ziegerer is the twice-divorced coach who found long-lasting love after trolling through the depths of relationship hell. She had such great success recreating her life, that it’s her vocation to help other women do the same. We often look to the past with regret and wish we would’ve done things differently. Well, now you can! Everyone who’s been divorced or suffered through a bad breakup deserves a do-over. So it’s time to claim yours. Dawn's a certified life coach, mother-of-five (3 of my own and 2 extra kids), and former on-air personality. She got her M.A. at Penn State in advertising.
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- Dawn’s YouTube
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My guest on the podcast this week is Jen Frey.
In this episode, Jen shares the story of dealing with the shame of having an affair and how this affected her in her second marriage. She shares how she overcame the shame through coaching as she began to take responsibility from a neutral position.
Jen also shares the story of how she met her second husband and how she has managed her blended family.
You’ll walk away from this episode believing that you can heal and grow even after having an affair as you take responsibility and learn you can be loved.
Prepare to be thoroughly inspired by this episode.
What You’ll Learn:
- Jen’s story about the guilt that she carried into her second marriage and how she finally reached a place where she could fully receive love.
- Jen’s realization that the guilt of infidelity was not useful to carry into her next relationship, or with her kids, friendships or work.
- How Jen was able to heal and take responsibility from a place of neutrality and the role that coaching played in this process.
- The difference between guilt and shame and how to separate the two.
- Some of the new thoughts that Jen has around the fact that she had an affair.
- The new thoughts that Jen’s clients adopt as they move through the process of healing and as they grow and take responsibility.
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Jen Frey is a Life and Infidelity Coach. Jen loves helping women who are carrying the secret of infidelity move from feeling shame and regret about their past to forgiving themselves and finding connection. She is a recovering perfectionist who believes life is much more fun and joyful now that she takes herself less seriously.
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- Jen’s Podcast
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My guest on the podcast this week is Claudia Germeshausen.
In this episode, Claudia talks about the importance of not dating for potential, sharing the example of her previous marriage and what she did differently when she started dating again.
You’ll walk away from this episode believing that you're deserving, you're worthy and that you deserve to have an amazing experience.
Prepare to be highly inspired by this episode.
What You’ll Learn:
- What Claudia thinks about how not having a lot of examples of a good relationship can end up in you repeating what you've witnessed.
- The importance of maturity and even education around what a healthy relationship looks like before entering a marriage.
- How Claudia saw her second partner for who he was right in that moment and not for what she believed he had the potential to become and how that was the right decision.
- That it is important not to be with someone who creates anxiety or lack of safety in the relationship.
- Why it is so important to date a man based on who he is and not based on who you think he will potentially become.
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Claudia is a career + life coach. She helps women up-level their careers by preparing them for a significant role change, whether it be within their current organization or an external opportunity. She loves helping people get new jobs they love! She has a sweet spot in her heart for working moms who believe that they can't pursue their career ambitions because of the mom guilt that comes from having a passion that's outside of their role as a mother.
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My guest on the podcast this week is Amanda Louder.
In today’s episode, Amanda shares her divorce and remarriage story, how she came out of an emotionally abusive marriage and how she met her current husband six weeks after her divorce was final.
Amanda shares her expertise on sex and dating as a Conservative Christian.
You’ll walk away from this episode with a clearer understanding on sex and dating. This episode is highly insightful whether you are a Christian or a non Christian.
What You’ll Learn:
- About Amanda’s experience in her first marriage and how she became a shell of a person.
- What emotional safety feels like with a good man from Amanda’s experience with her second husband.
- The importance of having an openness to create connection in order to find the right man.
- The importance of understanding your values and belief systems and where they come from.
- Good questions you can ask to investigate your value system.
- How Amanda helps her clients figure out what they are believing about sex, about themselves, and about their husbands.
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Amanda Louder is a Certified Life Coach, and is currently working on a Sex, Love, and Relationship Coaching certification as well. Amanda has been married to her husband Kevin since 2012 and they have a beautiful life together. She is a step-mom to his two daughters, and their five children are now ages 13-22.
- Amanda’s Website
- Amanda’s Podcast
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My guest on the podcast this week is Gigi Muth.
In this episode, Gigi opens up and shares the story of her divorce after a tragic incident in her family. She shares the story of the death of her daughter and her subsequent divorce. She explains her journey to overcoming perfectionism and how she was able to start dating again.
You’ll walk away from this episode believing that you are 100% worthy as you overcome perfectionism and learn to love yourself even before dating again.
What You’ll Learn:
- The process of dating again after going through loss.
- How she learnt to love herself.
- How she learnt to be a team player in her second marriage and beat perfectionism.
- How she owned up to her mistakes in her previous marriage and what she did differently in her second marriage.
- Putting together and noting your milestones.
- How she learnt not to compare her first marriage with her second marriage.
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Featured on the Show:Gigi Muth is a life coach for perfectionists and those who like to live perfect, look perfect and act perfect.
Gigi was once a perfectionist herself, but when she lost her dream job and then two years later her beautiful 19 year old daughter to suicide, she was awakened. She realized that perfectionism did not serve her well and that she had missed so much running on the “Never Enough” wheel.
She now coaches perfectionists to help them realize that they are enough so that they can avoid blame, judgment and shame.
- Gigi’s Website
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My guest on the podcast this week is Cassandra Solano.
In this episode, Cassandra shares about the emotional and psychological abuse that she faced in her first marriage and the impact this had on her. She explains how she began to see its impact on her dating decisions. She shares how she was able to overcome this.
She tells the story of how she met her current husband.
You'll walk away from this episode with a better understanding of the impact of childhood trauma and how to heal from it in order to avoid making relationship mistakes.
What You’ll Learn:
- How she was able to identify childhood trauma.
- The impact that childhood trauma can have on relationship decisions.
- How she went through the healing stage and began to trust herself.
- The importance of having your questions answered when you’re in a relationship.
- Knowing the difference between being pursued, being wanted being prioritized, and being loved bombed in a relationship.
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Cassandra Solano helps overwhelmed and burnt out women. She also helps people who are single or unhappy in their relationships find the love they want with psychological intervention + spiritual healing. She helps women prioritize themselves and their self care so they can have the relationships, the careers and the energy that they want, all within the framework of addressing and dismantling oppressive systems that impact them.
- Cassandra’s Website
- Cassandra’s Podcast
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My guest on the podcast this week is Gretchen Hernandez.
In this episode, Gretchen shares about her experience going through two divorces. She talks about her two first marriages and how she met her current husband.
She tells the story of how her friend challenged her to date 18 men before choosing her husband.
You’ll walk away from this episode, feeling confident that you deserve to be loved.
What You’ll Learn:
- How she dealt with the thought that no one wanted to be with her.
- The thoughts and beliefs that she had carried for long.
- How she dealt with feelings of unworthiness.
- How she got into coaching.
- How she stopped people pleasing.
- The importance of setting boundaries.
- How she started her healing journey and helped her husband to do the same.
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Gretchen Hernandez a Business Process & Mindset Coach and CEO of My Freedom Grove. She helps entrepreneurs and business employees start and streamline their businesses to be financially sustainable and in harmony with their mental health.
Gretchen is a Wife & Mother in a Rainbow blended family with 5 kids aged 11-23. She is happily married to her soul mate who happens to be her 3rd husband. After her 1st divorce, her best friend gave her the assignment of dating 18 men before choosing the one to marry.
- Gretchen’s Website
- Gretchen’s Podcast
- Gretchen’s Facebook (Personal)
- Gretchen’s Facebook (Business)
- Gretchen’s LinkedIn
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“If you want to have happy children, first and foremost, they need to feel safe and they can feel safe in a lot of different ways.”
My guest on the podcast this week is Kate Bixler. Kate Bixler is a weight loss coach. She is a professional certified coach by the Life Coach School.
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My guest on the podcast this week is Lisa Drake.
In this episode, Lisa explains the concept of domestic partnerships. She shares the story of her partner, how she met him and how they decided to go for domestic partnerships.
You’ll walk away from this episode with a better understanding of what domestic partnerships are and how they work.
What You’ll Learn:
- What domestic partnerships are.
- How she and her partner make domestic partnership work.
- The legal part of domestic partnerships.
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Lisa is a certified life coach, certified level 2 nutrition coach, and certified Boss Lady. She helps women in midlife get clear on what's next for them.
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“The first person who needs to love you exactly as you are is you.”
“I want to offer that you do not need to earn love with your perfection. And I want to offer you that it's worth it to go on the journey to accept and love yourself as you are to choose to change how you think about these elements that are in your life.”
This episode is a question and answer session where I answer the question, “What do I do with all my baggage?”
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“The list itself is not what creates success in your dating journey. The idea of the list is that it is a tool that helps you understand the elements that you need in a partner. It's just a way of setting your intention, setting your vision, exploring what it is that you are looking for, in a way that's actually effective.”
In today’s episode, I look into the concept of creating a list and how to create one in the most effective and realistic way.
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My guest on the podcast this week is Dr. Barbara Katz .
In this episode, Dr. Katz talks about her journey venturing into dating again after a divorce at the age of sixty plus. She shares her experience using different dating sites.
You’ll walk away from this episode confident that you have so much adventure ahead of you even at your older stage of life.
What You’ll Learn:
- Dating again at an older age.
- Gaining confidence in yourself again.
- The importance of having kindness on your list of non-negotiables.
- The importance of having job skills in order to be self-reliant.
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Dr. Barbara Katz is a pediatrician who currently addresses issues of child abuse and does child abuse evaluations. She is also a life coach who coaches older women, mostly on weight loss during or after menopause. She also does general life coaching, helping women to achieve their goals as well as helping them with time management, work relationships, and a host of other matters.
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My guest on the podcast this week is Mindy Neal.
In this Episode, Mindy walks us through her online dating experiences after her divorce and the struggles she faced trying to manage her blended family.
You’ll walk away from this episode with a better understanding of the impact your thoughts have on you.
Be prepared to laugh, think deeply and learn a lot from this episode.
What You’ll Learn:
- The importance of listening to yourself, trusting yourself and being open to new experiences.
- That your thoughts create your result.
- The difference between a thought and a fact.
- How to decide who you want to be and create the results you want to see.
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Mindy Neal is a certified Life Coach, a mom, a loving wife. She coaches women who have blended families. After figuring out how to make her blended family, she now helps other women to do the same, knowing that it is possible.
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- Mindy’s YouTube Channel
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My guest on the podcast this week is Marcy Kocher.
In this episode, Marcy shares the story of her divorce and how she was able to start dating after a process of healing and romancing herself.
You will walk away from this episode feeling more assured that there are good men out there and inspired that you can have the happy life that way beyond what you could have imagined.
This is an episode that you will thoroughly enjoy.
What You’ll Learn:
- What it means to romance yourself.
- How to discover yourself again and be kind to yourself for yourself.
- How to deal with negative thoughts about yourself.
- How to focus on what you want rather than on what you don't want.
- That there are good men out there.
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Marcy Kocher works with women who are smart but stressed. She is a life coach who helps her clients create the life that you want.
She has a BA in Psychology and Interpersonal Communication. Marcy is a Certified Life Coach from The Life Coach School and is Certified as a Mind Body Coach from The Institute for the Psychology of Eating.
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My guest on the podcast this week is Leah Davidson.
In this episode, Leah shares the experience of her divorce and the process of healing and overcoming self shame. She explains her online dating experience in a time when online dating was still new.
You’ll walk away from this episode with confidence that you can experience a blissful relationship.
Prepare to be highly inspired by this episode.
What You’ll Learn:
- How to overcome self shame.
- How she made the conscious choice not to be bitter about her divorce.
- The importance of coaching and professional help.
- The power of the healing/coaching journey.
- Little things that can be done to make your marriage the priority.
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Featured on the Show:Leah Davidson is a registered Speech-Language Pathologist (SLP) and a certified Life Coach. She has devoted over two decades as an SLP to helping people rehabilitate and rebuild their lives following traumatic brain injury. She became a Life Coach (through The Life Coach School) to add to her toolbox of ways she can support her clients manage the various curveballs that life throws at them.
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My guest on the podcast this week is Kelly Schaefer.
In this episode, Kelly shares the story of her first marriage which was toxic and abusive. She shares how she began to change her mindset about herself and how she eventually met her husband and got remarried even though he had not been “her type”.
You’ll walk away from this episode realizing that your mindset can change what you’re attracted to.
What You’ll Learn:
- How she nailed being a single parent and became independent before her second marriage.
- That your mindset can influence your emotions.
- That you can change what you are attracted to.
- How she approached dating after divorce.
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Kelly Schaefer is the CEO and Founder of TaskComplete.com, an award winning personal concierge company, where her team puts meaningful time back into her client’s lives. Kelly uses her marketing skills to help entrepreneurs make more money, live their passion of caring for others and increase their impact on the world and live their best concierge life.
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- Kelly’s YouTube
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“One thing that I believe now without any doubt, is that I am worthy of every good thing in my life. And so I no longer have to work hard…to prove that I am worthy of it.”
My guest on the podcast today is Busola Awoniyi.
Busola Awoniyi is an energy consultant. She specializes in the electric and gas industries. She lives in Georgia and is married with two kids.
In this episode, Busola shares the inspirational success story of her coaching experience with me and the transformation she has now experienced in the various aspects of her life.
- Busola’s LinkedIn
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My guest on the podcast this week is Nina Everflow.
In this episode, Nina shares her journey of how she spent years in a marriage in which she felt unhappy. Being part of things that were completely different from her personality and living a life that she did not feel comfortable in, she finally decided to take a step back from the marriage.
You’ll walk away from this episode with a realization that your personal happiness is important even in marriage. You’ll understand how important it is to avoid living a life that is detached from your true self.
What You’ll Learn:
- The importance of discovering who you are as a person.
- How to stop allowing pressure from around you to control your actions.
- How to prioritize your personal joy.
- Going through the process of recovering from a divorce.
- The importance of being clear about what you want in a marriage
- Knowing the type of environment you like.
- How to describe your partnership not based on the other party alone.
- How to articulate what you want and what you need in your marriage.
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Nina Everflow plays in the space between how adults learn online and how happily we can connect authentically across differences. As a learning designer, facilitator, and published author, Nina has built a career in hosting dynamic learning environments for people development and transformation. Through her boutique learning design agency, Everflow Consulting, Nina supports service-based organizations seeking to up-level their content and curriculum for sustainable and inclusive behavior change.
A plant lover, musical theater enthusiast and seeker of the softest vegan cookie, Nina lives on the unceded land of the Monacan (MON-ACAN), now known as the farmlands of south-central Virginia, US, with her multi-racial family.
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My guest on the podcast this week is Shaniece Wise.
In today’s episode, Shaniece shares how she met her second husband and connected with him on a spiritual level. She talks about the importance of prayer and spiritual discernment in her journey of finding the right man.
Prepare to be thoroughly inspired by this episode as you learn about the importance of knowledge and understanding as you discover yourself and find the right man for you.
What You’ll Learn:
- How Shaniece sought to understand why she was making the decisions that she was making after her divorce.
- The spiritual journey and personal work she went through after her divorce and how she gained clarity.
- Why Shaniece believes that her divorce changed her for the better, making her more compassionate and more lined up with who God wanted her to be.
- The importance of putting yourself out there and having an open heart to receive when dating.
- How Shaniece really prayed over the things that she really wanted.
- Doing the personal work to know and understand who you are because knowledge comes with understanding.
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Featured on the Show:
Shaniece Wise is a business expansion coach and strategist. She teaches business owners how to build beyond six figures. She is a business expansion coach and strategist who teaches businesses how to increase their profitability and visibility by improving their systems and strategies.
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My guest on the podcast this week is Gunila Pederson.
In this episode, Gunila tells us about all the possibilities she saw in dating and how this enabled her to meet her current husband. She shares all the details of how she met her husband and how their first date went.
You’ll walk away from this episode thoroughly inspired and confident about all the possibilities ahead of you.
What You’ll Learn:
- How important your mindset is in dating.
- How to see all the possibilities in life.
- How she created the opportunity to get introduced to her current husband.
- Why exploring all your possible options is so important.
- The role of a part of my dating process in her journey.
- The importance of investigating your feelings.
- How she introduced her children to her current husband.
- The importance of getting a dating coach.
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Gunila Pederson is a weight loss coach and veterinarian. She helps women who have been struggling with weight loss, helping them to change their mindset and approaching weight loss from a fresh perspective.
She was born in Denmark and moved to Spain with her family when 12 years old.
She got married to a Spanish man when 19, had 2 daughters but got divorced when I was 30. She got remarried to a British man and currently lives in Spain with her husband.
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My guest on the podcast this week is Ksenia Barton.
In this episode, Ksenia shares her divorce and remarriage story. She reveals the shock of going through a sudden and unexpected divorce and how she was able to move on and venture into dating again.
You’ll walk away from this episode believing that there is someone out there for you and knowing that you are worthy of an amazing relationship.
What You’ll Learn:
- The things she did to come out of her shell after the divorce.
- How she sought to evaluate what a healthy relationship looks like.
- The role that coaching played in helping her question wrong beliefs.
- Why it is so important to be yourself.
- The importance of creating safety while dating online.
- The importance of taking care of yourself.
- Curiosity in dating creates connection.
- The happily ever after can still be there after many years of marriage.
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Featured on the Show:
Ksenia Barton is a life coach who coaches Gen X clients. She enjoys urban living and nature escapes in Vancouver, Canada. In midlife, she decided to combine her science background—including a Masters of Science from McGill University—with her lifelong exploration of personal development. Now Ksenia helps men and women be more themselves, so they can uncomplicate their lives and get their spark back.
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My guest on the podcast this week is Pamela Nichols
In this episode, Pamela Nichols sheds light on the topic of inner healing. She takes us on her journey through dealing with a divorce and discovering through coaching that there was childhood trauma at the foundation which needed to be dealt with. Pamela shares what made her happy and at peace after healing from her divorce.
You’ll walk away from this episode with a deep understanding of the need for inner healing. You will be able to glean from some useful tips on how to practice healing in your daily activities.
What You’ll Learn:
- The concept of preconceived notions from childhood.
- How to being the journey of healing from childhood trauma.
- Dealing with feelings of rejection and betrayal.
- Identifying and dealing with roots of, fear of rejection, anxiety and other forms of trauma.
- Being aware of and identifying thoughts that aren't yours, and letting go of them.
- Letting out your emotions, good and bad.
- Healing from all the weights that have held you down.
- Day to day steps and conscious activities to ensure inner healing.
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True crime dramas. Smothered pork chops. Rain. Jesus: Pamela Nichols loves them all.
She also enjoys writing Christian fiction. Her 'Inside Out' series features characters with painful issues that require more than 'church as usual'. Her stories combat the falsehoods believed about God and point readers to the power and grace of truth.
A freelance journalist for nearly two decades, Pamela supports writers with her multi-level 'The Called Critique' editing service and her ‘Four Pillars of Effective Christian Writing’ MasterClass, which was featured in the Success Chronicles Vol. I anthology, an Amazon International Bestseller. Her Inner Healing Academy reveals spiritual lessons that are often mistaught, leading to pain and frustration.
Pamela is a veteran homeschool mommy (15+ years) who has worked in social services, journalism and law enforcement. Find her books on Amazon.
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My guest on the podcast this week is Marie Tagbo.
Marie Tagbo is a writer, filmmaker, actress, YouTuber. And, she’s my daughter! In this episode, Marie talks about her dating journey, bringing a fresh and youthful perspective on the topic of dating. Marie shares her personal experiences and why she decided to take a break from dating.
You’ll walk away from this episode having picked up gems on dating and learning to value yourself.
Prepare to thoroughly enjoy this episode.
What You’ll Learn:
- How taking a break from dating allowed Marie to look at men with a fresh perspective.
- The importance of dating a man that has good values and values that align with yours.
- That it’s not the length of your “list” that is most important, but the quality of the items you have on the list.
- The importance of the consistency of a man in showing up in your life.
- The importance of being shown love from her community and how it helped Marie learn how to respect and value herself.
- That “Good Enough” is not good enough.
- How Marie learnt to let go of expecting there to be a formula in finding the right man.
- The importance of filling your life up with love in all areas of your life.
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Marie started acting when she was nine and has not been able to stop. From a young age, she has produced and starred in countless local films, commercials, and web series. Some of her past projects include lead role in a local Super Bowl ad, lead in a recreational drama on human trafficking and many more.
Marie has a Youtube channel where she gives weekly acting videos, tips, vlogs, interviews with industry experts, and monologues. Marie has also just launched her book “How I Became a Teen Actor,” from her acting experience and research.
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My guest on the podcast this week is Lean Dameron.
In this episode, Leann shares the story of her experience in a toxic marriage, how she got a divorce early in her marriage and how she started dating again, taking dating as a fun and exciting process.
In this episode you’ll learn the importance of enjoying the process of dating.
What You’ll Learn:
- The difficulty and back and forth Leann went through in deciding to leave a toxic relationship.
- The feeling of failure and feeling that she had made a mistake in her marriage after her divorce and how she got over it over time.
- The rough journey after her divorce and how she found healing through fun activities and getting professional help.
- How important it is to connect with your own like capabilities and resourcefulness and your own wholeness.
- How Leann ended up with men who were a better fit for her when she was doing really well herself.
- The importance of getting that clarity and having fun with dating.
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Leelee is a Chicago based floral designer, experience maker, and owner of Leelee's Garden. Through virtual and in person hands-on plant and flower workshops, along with immersive event floral design, she creates experiences for individuals and organizations to inspire creativity, connection and moments of rest.
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My guest on the podcast this week is Monica Lynch.
After her divorce, Monica had no sense of self. She had completely lost herself in the marriage by going along with whatever her spouse wanted.
She used dating as a way to explore, rebuild and get a new perspective on life. It was a way for her to start with a blank slate and discover herself.
You will walk away from this episode with a new view of dating as a growth adventure and self-improvement project.
What You’ll Learn:
- How not to put too many expectations on each date.
- How to give yourself permission to want what you want.
- How to take a leap of faith while stacking the odds in your favor.
- How not to let the fear of not finding a partner keep you from trying
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Featured on the Show:
Ms. Monica Ojeda Lynch is a former Army JAG officer who has spent a significant part of her career helping people navigate through difficult transitions. She was previously divorced and currently very happily remarried, working full-time, going to school, and raising two young boys. Monica believes that 1) learning the stories we tell ourselves and 2) accepting that there are no rules are the keys to negotiating the life you want and deserve.
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My guest on the podcast this week is Dr. Fanike-Kiara Young.
In this episode, Dr. Fanike shares her divorce and remarriage story. She talks about her first marriage and divorce and how she dealt with roots of childhood trauma before meeting her current husband.
You’ll walk away from this episode with a determination to break free from perfectionism and confidence that you can find the man for you.
What You’ll Learn:
- What she would have told her younger self in hindsight.
- How she learnt to take care of herself.
- Learning to draw the line and knowing your role as a wife.
- Taking the responsibility of creating the relationship you are in.
- Breaking free from trying to be perfect.
- How she identified and dealt with roots of childhood trauma.
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Featured on the Show:
The Master Healing Alchemist, Dr. Fanike-Kiara Olugbala Young, is a Doctor of Behavioral Health, Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Transformational Trauma Specialist, Master Reiki Practitioner, author, healer, consultant, coach, wife, mother, sister, and friend that strives to make a positive impact on the lives of others. She leads women entrepreneurs on the path to removing mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual blockages stopping them from living the lives they deserve. These blockages are usually rooted in hurtful experiences in childhood and are keeping the women in cycles of negative thinking, limiting beliefs, and unhappiness.
Dr. Fanike uses her own history of trauma to help others and empowers women to combat limiting beliefs, negative self-talk and to live the lives they want by providing them with real-life coping tools that can be used to help heal themselves. She is the author of What the F%$k is Your Problem?!: Becoming an Active Worker in Healing Your Trauma, recently released and available on drfanike.com and all major retailers. Dr. Fanike wrote this book after embarking on her own healing journey and discovering what tools were effective for her along the journey. Her goal is to help heal as many people around the world as she can with a special emphasis on Black women.
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My guest on the podcast this week is Chenoa Murphy.
In this episode, Chenoa tells us the story of the childhood trauma, emotional, mental and verbal abuse she faced which led to low self esteem. She tells us how this influenced her choice to marry her first husband. She shares her struggles with relationship anxiety and how coaching with Coach Sade and other resources helped.
You’ll walk away from this episode with greater assurance that you can find a good man.
What You’ll Learn:
- What she did differently for her second marriage.
- How she began to know that she had relationship anxiety.
- How her coaching experience with Coach Sade helped her to deal with anxious thoughts.
- What she did to create her love story by expressing her authentic self.
- How she was able to trust herself to make a choice for her second marriage.
- How she navigated a long distance relationship.
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Chenoa was born and raised in Memphis, TN. She started the violin at age 3 and was trained in and completed the Suzuki Violin method. Chenoa earned a Bachelor and Master of Music degrees from the University of Cincinnati College- Conservatory of Music and has since performed in 6 countries and 38 states of the United States. She has taught violin and viola as well as been a member of several symphony orchestras in her area. Her opinions on race can be found on CNN, NPR Illinois, and Huffington Post.
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In this episode I answer a listener question about how to make the decision to keep texting, calling or dating a person.
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My guest on the podcast this week is Stacey Mendelson.
In this episode, Stacey explains what a high-conflict divorce is and shares her personal journey of how she faced a high-conflict divorce and how she now helps women who are going through a high conflict divorce.
She walks us through her journey of dating again and how she got remarried, as well as shares her fears of getting remarried and how she overcame them.
You’ll walk away from this episode understanding how to deal with a high conflict ex and believing that you can overcome fear in a high conflict divorce and enjoy life after divorce.
What You’ll Learn:
- What a high-conflict divorce is.
- The obstacles that arise in a high conflict divorce.
- How to understand the difference between dangers and drama in a high-conflict divorce.
- Going from afraid to amused when faced with a high conflict divorce and refusing panic.
- Moving from anger to calm confidence.
- Letting go of shame over things that happened that you were not responsible for.
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Featured on the Show:
Stacey Mendelson is the owner of Lifeline Coaching and Consulting. She is a certified life coach who works exclusively with women gong through high-conflict divorce. Stacey is the guide that will help you efficiently navigate the journey with less pain, less expense by teaching you everything you need to know.
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- Stacey’s LinkedIn
- Stacey’s YouTube Channel
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In this episode I answer a listener question about what to do when the person you are seeing doesn't initiate contact or dates with you.
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It's critical to know the difference between Romance and Love. Love is non-negotiable for a relationship to be healthy, meaningful and long-lasting. Romance is awesome, but negotiable and looks different for different people. You want both.
Your ideal relationship will have a firm foundation of love with the right amount of romance mixed in.
In this episode I discuss the differences between romance and love and how to use that information to choose a healthy, long-lasting partner.
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12 years after her divorce, Melissa had had six relationships, but no partner who was the right match for her. In spite of great success in her business and work as a relationship coach, she wasn't able to translate that success into her own love live.
Now, four months into working with Sade Curry, Melissa is in a beautiful relationship and working on commitment with a man she met by opening up all the opportunities for love to come into her life. Listen to this episode to find out how she did it.
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You will get an assessment of where you are, what’s been in your way, and what you need to do to achieve everything you want. Click here to sign up for the consultation call. Featured on the Show:Melissa Cameron is a Relationship Coach who helps men and women when they believe they are at the beginning of the end of their relationship; She helps them get back to understanding and love, then they make a decision to stay or go.
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- Website - www.melissajanecameron.com
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My guest on the podcast this week is Friendship and Connection Coach, Jewel Hohman.
There is a loneliness epidemic in the world today. In this special Valentine’s Day episode, Jewel shares her journey and expertise to intentionally create friendship and connection in her life when she was experiencing loneliness.
What You’ll Learn:
- Why an over-focus on romantic connection can be damaging and painful
- How to create a new network and community when you are starting over from scratch
- Why connection with friends and non-romantic partners is important
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Jewel Hohman is a friendship expert and a professionally certified coach. She helps people stop overthinking their relationships and feel confident being themselves, so that they can create the deep friendships they have been craving. Jewel is on a mission to end the loneliness epidemic by having people take back their fundamental needs of connection and community.
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jewel.hohman/
- Website: https://www.jewelhohman.com
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My guest on the podcast this week is Kenya Battle.
In this episode, Kenya shares about how she met her second husband while being herself 100%. Kenya has a loud, boisterous and playful personality that some might have thought would be “too much” when interacting with other people. But her unique personality is exactly what attracted her husband to her at their very first meeting.
Prepare to be inspired and learn how to play full out with who you are, and to stop muting and editing yourself on your dating journey, so that you attract that partner who is perfect for you!
What You’ll Learn from this Episode:
- The importance of keeping up the belief that there is someone out there for you
- How showing up 100% as herself was the key to dating success
- What having a good wing woman can do for you
- How she nailed evaluating her husband’s behavior when they were dating so that she could safely commit to him
- Why taking the time to have the difficult conversations before commitment is so important
- How she was able to recover when the relationship moved too fast
- How she knew when to go exclusive with her husband.
- How not thinking the generalizing thoughts “All men are ________” helped her attract her husband
If you want to start making serious progress in your dating journey TODAY, get my free Dating After Divorce course and workbook. Click here to sign up!
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You will get an assessment of where you are, what’s been in your way, and what you need to do to achieve everything you want. Click here to sign up for the consultation call.
Featured on the Show:
Kenya Battle is the Chief Treble Maker at Kenya's Keys, where she provides voice and piano instruction designed to help you unleash your inner Superstar. She also helps private music teachers find less hustle and more harmony in their music business.
With over 20 years of experience aiding 11,000+ students, Kenya is a renowned expert in unleashing the inner musical superstar in both adults and kids. Her other accomplishments include running her business while serving as a U.S. soldier, becoming only the second woman in her family to graduate college, and writing and self-publishing 2 best-selling books.
When she’s not amplifying the voices of the next generation or decolonizing music instruction, you can find Kenya penning songs for the everyday entrepreneur who wants to use melodic prose to convey who they are and what they stand for.
- Kenya Battle’s Music teacher mentorship: https://keyofeasy.com/
- Kenya Battle’s Music Lessons: https://kenyaskeys.com/
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In this episode, I have a special guest: My friend, client and fellow life coach, Jeneffer Joe. Jen got married at a vulnerable time in her life - she had just lost a parent and chose marriage to fill the gap. Listen in to hear her divorce, dating and personal growth story.
We cover:
- How we underestimate the work that successful dating requires
- How she tried everything including a matchmaker, without results
- How valuing the thinking of others over your own wisdom prolongs the journey and how expressing her true self was the key to success
- How she is now going on more dates and meeting higher quality men - all while traveling the world
Jeneffer is a life and business coach to new coaches. She helps clients break into the coaching industry by teaching them to own their unique gifts and sign their first paying clients in just weeks. She is on a mission to help more coaches go from theory to practice by creating businesses that serve at a high level.
Connect with Jeneffer:
Website: https://livingoutgoals.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jenjoecoaching
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/livingoutgoals/
Coaching Superpower Quiz: https://livingoutgoals.com/whats-your-innate-coaching-superpower/
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This week in the Remarriage Series, I'm delighted to bring you my friend and fellow coach, Natalie Nielsen who is happily married after divorce.
Natalie Nielsen is a wife and mom to 2 kids and 4 bonus kids. She went through a divorce as a stay-at-home mom to toddlers and was single for 9 years. During that time she learned to heal, trust again, and built a relationship with herself which led her to finding her incredible husband. Natalie also went from being a SAHM to a college student as a single mom, to landing a good paying HR Corporate job to Entrepreneur.
Natalie is now a Career and Business Coach for Single Moms using her certified coaching skills and past HR recruiting skills to teach single moms exactly how to land a Career that gives them the fulfillment, freedom, income and life they want.
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This episode covers the Visibility Formula. This is a concept that I teach my clients to help them show up in the world in a way that connects them to their potential partner or to people who could introduce them to their partner.
We often go through the world in an unconscious way - not realizing that where and how we show up impacts the results that we get. This episode teaches you to audit your level of visibility so that you can level up and connect with your partner.
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Dating , Divorce and the Holidays
What do the holidays look like for you? Are you actively dating or do you drop everything because the calendar says so?
Are you in the middle of processing divorce grief or being without your children on special days?
Are you hurt by all the Holiday cheer around you, thinking everyone around you has it better and you're all alone and things will never get better?
The holidays do not have to be a secretly miserable time for you. Join me for this episode as I share my own twists and turns over the last 7 years of dealing with the holidays during and after a divorce - and the surprising twist that Thanksgiving 2021 has brought my family.
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When you think back to your past, your time within your old relationships, and choices you made as a young person, how to you see yourself?
Are you angry and full of regrets?
Are you disappointed in yourself?
Do you question your ability to create new things because the past was so hard?
If your view of your past self is negative, you may be trying to create new relationships and goals with the baggage of not trusting yourself and feeling shame because you have left some of the best parts of yourself in the past.
If you want to 100x your self-confidence, listen to this podcast episode.
What you'll learn:
- How to create compassion for who you were in the marriage
- How to change your perspective to remove shame and pain
- How to retrieve the best parts of your past self
Join me on Episode #40: Loving Your Past Self and discover the strengths and gifts that can catapult you into your best post-divorce life!
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Have you ever worried about "being pursued" enough? Or whether or not you're breaking the "dating rules?"
In this episode, Sade discusses how the rules keep you from having the clarity required to properly see the person in front of you and how that hurts your dating journey.
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Today's guest, Jennifer Major has such beautiful and warm energy. She shares with us the challenges of maintaining friendships after divorce, getting back on track after falling out of alignment, and how rekindling an old friendship led to remarrying. She explains to us the power of authenticity, being comfortable in who you are, and showing up in your relationship. She reminds us that getting back into alignment doesn't have to be done alone, community is also important.
Tune in to this week’s episode of the #RemarriageClub with Jennifer Major, a holistic organization and productivity specialist. Jennifer helps women and business owners who feel overwhelmed by the chaos in their lives and homes, are tired of being "busy', and are ready to make long-lasting changes for the life and business they really want. Her mission is to help you have your own back through supportive systems built around your unique values and needs. Jennifer believes we all deserve clutter-free spaces and more time for naps and money.
Jennifer encourages women to come in as they are, mess and all. Along your journey, you will receive guidance, celebration, silliness, and support when things feel hard because ten minutes can change everything. She has created a free Facebook community where you will find free weekly live trainings and support from the community.
Here's What You Will Learn:
- How Jennifer uses her gift to create community
- How she learned to relieve herself from the pressures of dating and having fun
- Why using dating is important for gathering data
- Refining what is important to you and being okay with compromising
- The number one way to getting yourself back into alignment while dating
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Today I am speaking with life coach to life coaches, Laura Swartzbaugh on her story of how she found her second husband through eHarmony. She shares with us the process it took for her to work on herself and her own worthiness. One of the valuable messages she reminds us is to go for what you want out of life and feel okay with it.
Laura Swartzbaugh is a life coach who offers full-time coaching for life coaches. She is certified in Life and Weight Loss coaching from the Life Coach School. She received her Ph.D. from the University of Minnesota and a Master’s in Educational Leadership from Roosevelt University. Laura’s mission is to help coaches continue fulfilling their purpose with a clear mind and correcting hindering beliefs by cleaning up what she calls Coach Brain.
Listen in this week on the #RemarriageClub as Laura and I discuss her journey and everything she’s learned from life, her previous marriage, and her clients.
Here’s What You Will Learn:
- How Laura transitioned from education to coaching
- How to say no to the “good” guys and not dating out of pity
- The Key indicators of knowing when someone is your “person”
- How she manifested her husband by creating a vision board
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Are you willing to walk away to allow your potential mate to heal? Listen in today on the #RemarriageClub as I interview Tracey Forde on how she found her husband after marrying twice and what it took for her to be willing to walk away and continue living her life to the fullest. We discuss being intentional about dating by knowing your wants and needs and enforcing your boundaries.
Tracey Forde is a trauma healing and mindset coach for high-achieving black women. She helps black women who are continuously striving to better their lives, whether they are c-suite executives or stay-at-home moms. Tracey’s goal is to help her client reconnect with the missing pieces as she coaches them through their shadow work.
Here’s What You Will Learn:
- How doing the inner-work is necessary for having a healthy relationship with yourself and with your mate
- How Tracey found love after experiencing two divorces
- Why focusing on the things you enjoy and spending time with family and friends is important in between dating
- Recognizing trauma when it shows up in your relationships and how it places expectations that your partner may not be able to meet
- Being willing to walk away to allow your mate to heal
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Creating your own experiences, strengthening your self-awareness, and understanding are just a few of the things our guest, Nicole Thompson will share with us this week on the #RemarriageClub series. This will be perfect for you if you are exiting a relationship and need to evaluate who you are and the people around you. Create peace within yourself and your marriage by reframing your mind and making clear decisions.
Nicole Thompson is a Life & Mindset Coach from Jamaica. She coaches singers whom she helps create their inner calm, confidence, and joy on and off the stage. She has released her own solo album and is a trained and certified voice teacher. She thrives on helping singers bring themselves to the mic.
Here's What You Will Learn:
- How Nicole is building a successful coaching business for singers
- The moment she realized how having a good friend helped her become a better person and made her more open to correction
- Why therapy is the best thing she’s done prior to remarrying and what she has learned going into a new relationship
- How to take responsibility for your contributions in a relationship
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If healing after infidelity is a part of your story, you're going to love what my next guest, Andrea Giles has to share and how you too can do the work even while developing a relationship. Listen in as Andrea shares with us a unique story that leads to growing in love while healing.
Andrea Giles is a wife and mom of 11 who is now coaching to help individuals sort out the confusion, grief, fear, and frustration that comes when infidelity occurs in their marriage.
After taking a life-coaching program, she knew she had to guide others through their own trials. Andrea's aim is to advocate for her clients as they learn to use their minds to build self-confidence and heal themselves.
Join us this week on the #RemarriageClub as Andrea and I discuss her healing journey and how it’s possible to have peace where you are the validation you needed all along and you can begin to receive everything you’ve dreamt of.
Here's What You Will Learn:
- Why it is important to ask the tough questions in the early stages of dating
- How being a single mother does not lessen your chances of finding a great man
- Why dating is less about time and more about alignment.
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This week on the #RemarriageClub I interviewed Karen Anderson on how she conquered her past trauma and early difficult relationships and divorce. Karen has been happily remarried for 23 years. She shares with what it took to overcome desperation, leave a toxic marriage, and learn how to set boundaries.
Karen C.L. Anderson is an author and master-certified life coach who helps women take better care of themselves in difficult relationships with their mothers and express their authentic selves.
She is the author of three books: Difficult Mothers, Adult Daughters: A Guide For Separation, Liberation & Inspiration; The Difficult Mother-Daughter Relationship Journal and Overcoming Creative Anxiety: Prompts & Practices For Disarming Your Inner Critic.
Listen in as Karen tells us her compelling story on healing and developing herself led to the successful woman she is today. Karen supports creative women all over the world who are hesitate to share their work with the world because of shame.
Here’s What You Will Learn:
- How Karen began her coaching journey
- What contributed to her breakthrough to leave an unhealthy marriage
- How a personal ad led to a successful 23-year marriage
- Learning how to create your own options when dating
- How having your own life is crucial to growth within a relationship
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In this episode, I interview Dr. Viola Pierce about her journey through dating after divorcing her first husband twice. When she finally put the marriage behind her, she created powerful clarity and vision for her future relationship leading her to a very happy second marriage.
Dr. Viola is the CEO and the founder of the VP Nursing Leadership, Training and Coaching and the Nurse Nurturer. She teaches nurses how to work from their computers anywhere around the world making money and owning their own time. She a nurse with more than 25 years of experience. She is also a John Maxwell certified speaker, coach and trainer with a passion for leadership.
Dr. Viola hosts a morning show that streams live on Facebook and YouTube called, “Morning Infusion with Dr. V.” Her greatest love is helping nurses find their brilliance in family, fitness, finance, spirituality and leadership while making a profit from knowledge that they already know. Her coaching has equipped healthcare professionals to be spiritually and physically fit, financially stable to create resilience, decreasing error at the bedside and in leadership and to lead an awe inspiring life.
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C. Rene Washington is a Coach for Women in Midlife. When her marriage of 21 years fell apart in spite of her best efforts and a major impact on her health, she decided to never put herself last again.
She got rid of all the "shoulds" and "oughts" and learned that prioritizing herself was the path to rediscovering herself and living life at the highest level. It was also the path to her second, happy marriage.
Join C. Rene and I for this powerful conversation about the effects of emotional stress on your health and how to date and remarry whether or not the world cheers you on.
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In this episode, I interview Biljana Vishnagara about her dating and remarriage journey. Biljana is a Human Design Specialist and Confidence Coach for Women in Midlife.
She is happily remarried to a loving and patient man after her divorce who is an amazing stepdad to her daughter and together they have a new baby.
She shares how confidence to go for the life she wanted without worry about what other people thought was the key to her success.
Biljana shares her tips for dating, evaluating your partner, asking for what you want and moving forward powerfully to create the life you want with full confidence.
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Dr. Trina Dorrah shares her experience dating after her divorce after infidelity in her first marriage. Dr. Dorrah was introduced to her first husband by relatives, but met her 2nd husband online, showing that where you meet your spouse doesn't matter, it's your ability to love yourself and evaluate your partner that matters most.
Trina Dorrah, MD, MPH is an internal medicine physician hospitalist and founder of Dr. Trina Dorrah Life Coaching. She is a certified self-love and body acceptance coach. Her mission is to help women learn more about how to break free from the diet mentality and the culture of self-hatred that teaches women that our bodies are never good enough.
Dr. Dorrah was inspired to become a self-love and body acceptance coach after recovering from an eating disorder, and after learning that almost everything she had been taught about diets, health, and body image was wrong. She now realizes that she wasted so many years of her life trying to find the magical diet that would help her lose weight and finally love how she looked.
Instead, she realized that the key to finding self-love and body acceptance was within her this entire time.
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When you're ready to move forward fully after your divorce, you have to learn to dream again. You want to slowly permit yourself to dream big again, to set new goals or recapture old goals you left behind.
In this episode, Sade Curry gives 3 steps to setting goals and living your best life after your divorce.
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Are you waiting for justice or closure or vindication from things that happened in the divorce? This may be holding you back from moving forward after your divorce and creating the life and relationship you want.
In this episode, Sade Curry discusses why we feel the need to get closure and how to transcend that need to move into the life you want.
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In this episode, I talk about the journey of starting over again after a divorce. How fast or slow you go when achieving your post-divorce goals depends on your thinking.
I share my story of how choosing a my thoughts and perspective carefully has helped me accomplish so many post-divorce goals within 5 years of getting divorced - kids, business, remarriage, friendships, credit score - all of these have come to life because of the way I think.
Listen on to learn how to shift your thoughts and feelings into a pattern that overcomes resistance and motivates you to achieve everything you want.
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Does your self-love ebb and flow when you are dating? Do you feel good about yourself one day and then feel awful when something goes wrong? Healthy self-Love is a critical component to recovering from divorce and dating successfully after divorce. When you master loving yourself, you will have the ability to feel amazing about yourself and your value no matter what the circumstances are.
In this episode, Sade Curry walks you through 4 steps for practicing self-love in a way that really sticks and helps you build the life you want.
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Ever thought about how CEOs get hired? Apparently it's a super extensive process that can take months and isn't open for just anyone to participate in.
In this episode Sade Curry draws lessons from the process of hiring a CEO to teach how to uplevel your dating decisions in four steps:
- Know Your True Value
- Build Belief that There is a Person Out There for You
- Don't Look for a Quick Fix
- Plan Your Decision Making Process Ahead of Time
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In this episode we talk about the art of being unattached. This is not the same thing as being detached. When you are attached to the people that you date, and you begin to rely on them for attention, validation, intimate connection and love too early in the process. Dating can be a roller coaster that exhausts you and you burn out. In this episode, Sade Curry breaks down how to have your own back, be fully confident, and stay calm and stable through the dating process.
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You meet strangers when you're dating, but you don't want to marry a stranger.
How do you gather the right data from your interactions to know if a person is emotionally healthy and a good fit for you?
How do you prevent being so distracted that you fall for the wrong man?
This episode covers how to ask the right questions so that you have everything you need to either commit or walk away from a relationship.
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This episode teaches you how to create your own feeling of love so you can show up with more joy, aliveness and passion to you your life and your dating journey. The brain has a negativity bias and you will tend to slide into discouragement and pain unless you intentionally take control of what you think.
Listen on to learn the skill of creating your own feelings of love so that you can accelerate your journey to your dream relationship.
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Being successful at any goal requires commitment to be successful. Getting remarried after a divorce is no different. This episode covers 5 steps to creating the commitment you need to successful at dating again all the way to getting married again.
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If you are experiencing multiple disappointing situations when dating, you might not have a well-trained intuition to balance your decision-making.
Your intuition is an important component of a successful dating journey. Your subconscious is equipped with information not available to your conscious mind. Your ability to tap into this information can transform your dating journey and keep you from wasting time with men who are not suitable for you.
This episode covers 3 steps you need to engage your intuition and emotions and get better results when dating.
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Have you ever considered that your soulmate is also currently looking for you? And if he is looking for you, are you visible enough for him to find you?
In this episode Sade Curry talks about what it really means to "put yourself out there" in a way that connects you quickly with the partner you are looking for.
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This is the third installment in the series about your thoughts. Your thoughts about yourself make up your self-concept. What you think about yourself determines how you show up in your dating journey. If you're not getting the dating results you want, and meeting the high quality men you want, it's a good idea to take the lid off how you think about yourself and see if your unconscious thoughts are impacting you.
This episode deep dives into how to become more aware of these thoughts and redirect them to a more productive way of thinking.
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What are your thoughts about men? Our brains have a negativity bias and tend to lean into the what's wrong and what's not working.
If you're dating and wanting to meet more high quality men, You have to believe that they exist and are available to you. But, if your subconscious thoughts are working against you, it will feel like you have one foot on the accelerator and one foot on the brake - you'll stay stuck.
In this episode, I discuss how your unconscious thoughts about men can impact your mood, attitude and influence your actions which in turn influence your dating experience and results. I discuss how to become more aware of these thoughts and redirect them to a more productive way of thinking.
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Sometimes the dating process feels out of your control. But this isn't completely true. While other people in your process are out of your control, your thoughts, feelings and actions are within your control and are the true indicators of the results you achieve.
In this episode, I discuss how to your unconscious thoughts can impact your mood, attitude and influence your actions which in turn influence your dating experience and results
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Knowing what you want is critical to choosing your ideal partner.
Knowing what you want is dependent on how well you know yourself.
Then when you know what you want, it's essential to give yourself permission to go for it
In this episode, I discuss how to explore your real desires without editing and using them to create the relationship you want.
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As a follow up to the last episode, this episode discusses 21 characteristics to look for in a healthy dating relationship.
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Do you struggle with knowing when a man is right for you? How will you know if you will be happy with him? What questions do you need to ask and when? How do you observe a man well enough to make a decision about him?
In this episode, I share with you the process of getting to the truth of who a man is and making decisions about commitment with clarity and confidence.
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EPISODE 11 - Embracing Break Ups
We see breakups as a bad thing, but they are actually good for us. A breakup means that you’re not staying with the wrong person.
On your dating journey, you’re going to meet many men who are not a fit for you, and breaking up with them is just a part of the journey.
In this episode I cover the four things you need to do learn the skill of breaking up gracefully, firmly and finally:
1. Know exactly what you want
2. Stay committed to your dating process
3. Develop Emotional Independence
4. Heal from attachment issues
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When you want something versus desiring it, it feels optional and non-essential. You would like it, but you can also do without it. When you want something, but getting it feels hard, you procrastinate and avoid it.
When you desire something, however, the feeling is completely different. You can't wait to have it, it feels compelling and you are full of excitement and anticipation at the pleasure the goal will give you. When you have desire, execution to get the goal becomes easy and even fun.
To create the high standard relationship you want, you have to go beyond wanting it to desiring it. And also desiring the steps and massive action that will bring the relationship into reality
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In this episode, I bring awareness to the impact of relationship trauma on dating patterns after a divorce. For individuals who experienced childhood trauma or trauma in a prior marriage, taking the time to heal is critical for creating a new healthy and loving relationship.
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As part of International Women's Day, I wanted to share the story of how self-doubt at a very young age led me on the path to a toxic first marriage. In order to create a healthy and loving second marriage, I had to heal my self-doubt and build real confidence and empower myself for success and connection.
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When you’ve been divorced the last thing you want to do is head into another marriage with the wrong person. It is far better to stay single than to marry the wrong person again. Even better than that is to do the healing work on the root cause that made you pick wrong the first time. When you identify the cause and fix it, you can be 100% confident that choosing wrong won't ever be a problem for you again.
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Recommended Book: Safe People: How to Find Relationships that are Good for You and Avoid Those That Aren't by Henry Cloud & John Townsend
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Knowing what to expect ahead of time can make the dating journey so much easier. The human brain experiences intense discomfort when in unfamiliar situations. This can send you the signal that something is going wrong when everything is actually going right.
In this episode I break down the dating journey into phases so you know how your brain is likely to respond and how to continue to steer yourself toward success at every stage.
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This week, I bring on my Boo, Poet, husband and forever Valentine, Kent Curry to answer the #ValentinesDayChallenge questions. We discuss how we met, our first kiss, forgiveness, how we work on our marriage and how random internet dating tips are a bad idea.
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This week, I tackle the big question, "Where Are All the Good Men?" For many women, finding good men who are emotionally, spiritually, intellectually and physically compatible seems to be a Herculean task. Yet, many women are doing it everyday.
What's the difference? The diffference is what you believe and how that belief fuels or destroys your ability to take action in the dating process.
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This week, I have my first guest on the show for you. My client Brooke worked with me through my entire Dating after Divorce program and is now giddily happy in her new relationship. If you are wondering how to go from where you are into being loved at a level you didn't think possible, this episode is for you. We talk about showing up for yourself, the power of maintaining commitment and belief through the dating process and how to ask for what you want.
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Brooke Snyder
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In this episode I share with you the 3 simple steps you need to take over and over again to find the love you want. You need to meet large number of eligible men, create fun and flirty connections and then filter them to see if you are a fit. These steps are simple, but they may not be easy if you don't know exactly what to do in each step.
Listen on as I break it down for you so you can get out there, date and get married again.
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Welcome to the first episode of Dating After Divorce! This podcast is going to be all about how to create the relationship of your dreams after a divorce. In this first episode, I tell you how I went from my divorce, back into the dating world and met and married my new husband.
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Dating after Divorce is a podcast for divorced women that explores the divorce journey and teaches real strategies for fully recovering from a divorce, rebuilding your life, dating and getting happily married again.
Join Certified Life Coach, Sade Curry for real practical wisdom and real-world techniques from her own divorce journey and life coaching practice. Sade teaches you how to quickly go from divorced and alone to happily remarried while building your best life after divorce along the way. Visit http://sadecurry.com to learn more.