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In today's episode, we delve into the concept of purpose as revealed in the Bible. We'll discuss how Scripture defines our purpose and why it extends beyond this earthly life.
The Chief End of Man
- Many people ponder the age-old question, "Why are we here? What is our purpose?"
- We find a profound answer in the Bible: "Man's chief end is to glorify God and to enjoy Him forever."
- This simple yet profound statement outlines our eternal purpose.
Glorifying God
- To glorify God means to reflect His glory in all aspects of life.
- 1 Corinthians 10:31 reminds us to do everything, even the simplest tasks, for the glory of God.
- Revelation 4:11 emphasizes God's worthiness to receive glory, honor, and power as the Creator of all things.
- We are called to live our lives as an act of worship and honor to the Lord.
Enjoying Him Forever
- Psalm 73:25-26 beautifully expresses the longing for God's presence.
- Our ultimate purpose as believers is to enjoy eternal fellowship with God.
- Our purpose doesn't end with this life; it extends into eternity.
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In today's episode, we delve into the profound impact that Scripture has on shaping our understanding of who we are as individuals and our mission in this world.
Segment 1: Right View of God Leads to Right View of Ourselves
- Our understanding of God plays a crucial role in shaping our self-perception.
- The Bible teaches us that we are made in the image of God (Genesis 1:26-28).
- This means that we reflect God's characteristics and have a divine purpose on Earth.
Segment 2: Positive and Negative Aspects of Scripture
- Scripture reveals both the positive and negative aspects of our identity.
- We explore the concept of "Imago Dei" and what it means for us.
- On one hand, we are created in God's image with a mandate to have dominion over creation.
- On the other hand, Scripture also acknowledges our sinful nature and separation from God (Colossians 1:21-23).
Segment 3: Adopted as Children of God
- A pivotal aspect of Scripture is the idea of adoption into God's family (Romans 8:15-17).
- We discuss how this adoption changes our perspective, as we now cry out, "Abba! Father!"
- As children of God, we inherit a new identity and a mission to live as heirs with Christ.
Segment 4: New Creation
- In Christ, we are a new creation (2 Corinthians 5:16-17).
- This transformation signifies leaving behind our old selves and embracing the new.
- We explore how this truth shapes our self-view and mission in Christ.
Segment 5: Reflection and Application
- How does the reality of being made in the Image of God shape how you see yourself?
- How does Scripture help you continue in your faith and remain stable?
- How does the truth of being a child of God and a new creation shape how you should view yourself and your mission?
Conclusion:
- Scripture serves as a powerful guide in understanding our identity and mission.
- As we delve into the Word of God, we discover that it reveals who we are, both as flawed individuals and as beloved children of God.
- We hope this episode has encouraged you to reflect on your own self-perception in light of Scripture.
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Key Points:
The Big Question: Who is God?
- Examining how God's characteristics are presented in both the Old and New Testaments, with references to Bavinck's "Reformed Dogmatics."
- Grappling with the tension between God's personal touch and his seemingly distant grandeur.
Knowing the Unknowable: Can we truly understand God?
- Acknowledging the limitations of human comprehension while still affirming the possibility of genuine, albeit incomplete, knowledge of God.
- Understanding why this pursuit of knowledge matters, referencing Bavinck's emphasis on how our understanding of God shapes our identity.
Revelation Unlocked: Unveiling the divine:
- Exploring two modes of revelation: General Revelation through creation and Special Revelation through Scripture.
- Highlighting the challenge of integrating all aspects of God revealed in Scripture, as emphasized by Bavinck.
- Exploring God's multifaceted nature as Creator, Savior, Sustainer, and the Trinity.
- Referencing Malachi 3:6 and Hebrews 13:8 to emphasize God's unchanging nature.
Reflection Prompts:
•How does this episode reshape your understanding of God?
•What practical steps can you take to deepen your knowledge of God?
•How can this new perspective impact your worship, relationships, and daily life?
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In this week's podcast episode, we dive into the rich history of Sola Scriptura, the belief that Scripture alone is the ultimate authority in Christianity. We start by referencing Matthew 7:24-27, where the "Rock" is identified as the Word of God, a special revelation guiding us towards salvation.
The episode highlights that for many years, God's word was not readily available to the average person, and most priests themselves were not well-versed in it. The Reformation period, led by figures like Martin Luther and William Tyndale, marked a turning point as individuals risked their lives to make God's word accessible to the masses.
Today, we have multiple Bibles in our homes and easy access to various translations through smart devices. Despite this, many of us struggle to regularly read and study Scripture, often leading to a sense of imbalance in our lives.
The podcast revisits Matthew 7:24-27, emphasizing that if we want to fulfill our calling as men of God, prioritizing Scripture is essential. The importance of 2 Timothy 3:16-17 from the New International Version is discussed, highlighting that all Scripture, with a focus on the Old Testament here, is God-breathed and useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting, and training in righteousness.
The application segment challenges listeners to reflect on their own Scripture study habits, consider what might have taken precedence over God's word in their lives, and commit to daily engagement with Scripture in the coming year. The episode concludes by urging individuals to recognize that God equips the called, but this doesn't excuse laziness; instead, it underscores the importance of making the study of God's word a top priority in our lives.
Listeners are encouraged to examine their own relationship with Scripture and take practical steps towards a more profound and regular engagement with God's word.
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In this podcast episode, the speaker discusses the importance of keeping Christ at the forefront during the Christmas season. He focuses on the example of Joseph, the earthly father of Jesus, who displayed extraordinary faith and humility. Joseph initially planned to divorce Mary quietly when he discovered she was pregnant, but after an angel appeared to him in a dream, he obediently took Mary as his wife and named the child Jesus. The speaker encourages listeners to emulate Joseph's humility, discernment, and decisive action in their own lives. He also prompts them to reflect on how God has humbled them, to slow down and consider the significance of Christ's birth, and to take action in leading their families to Christ during the Christmas season.
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In this episode of "Pursuing Biblical Masculinity," the focus is on the life and journey of John Bunyan, a renowned Christian figure known for his work, "The Pilgrim's Progress." The podcast delves into various aspects of Bunyan's life, highlighting key points:
- Early Life and Background: John Bunyan, the son of a tinker, came from a humble background, with limited education and resources. He did not initially live out the Christian faith, viewing church as more of a formality.
- Struggles and Anger: Bunyan's life was marked by hardships, including the loss of family members. He struggled with anger and led a life marked by sinful behavior, earning a reputation as a sinner.
- Marriage and Superficial Faith: Despite marrying and attending church, Bunyan's faith remained superficial. He went through the motions of Christianity without a genuine transformation.
- Conversion: In 1653, Bunyan's life took a pivotal turn when he overheard women discussing being "born again" from John 3, leading him to realize his own lack of genuine faith. He sought answers from these women, which eventually led him to Christ.
- Devotion to Scripture: After his conversion, Bunyan's life was profoundly impacted by his devotion to Scripture. He began to passionately study and share the gospel, even though he had no formal education.
- Imprisonment and Ministry: Bunyan's commitment to preaching without a license led to his imprisonment during a period of persecution in England. In prison, he wrote "The Pilgrim's Progress" and continued to share the gospel. His steadfastness eventually led to his release and a fruitful ministry.
- Legacy: John Bunyan's life serves as a powerful example of the transformative power of God's Word, a passion for preaching the gospel, and the determination to stand firm in faith despite challenges and hardships.
The episode encourages listeners to draw inspiration from Bunyan's journey and emphasizes the importance of immersing oneself in Scripture, sharing the gospel, and persevering in faith. It also mentions resources for Christian life coaching on the website reformedandredeemed.org.
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In this podcast episode, we delve into the topic of cultivating a posture of gratitude and contentment in the Lord. The episode begins by reflecting on the historical context of Thanksgiving in America, tracing it back to the landing of the Pilgrims in 1620. Despite facing immense hardships, including the loss of nearly half of their group within the first year, the Pilgrims celebrated their successful corn harvest with the first Thanksgiving feast in November 1621.
Edward Winslow, one of the participants in that first Thanksgiving, observed the importance of giving thanks for their harvest and acknowledged the role of God in their prosperity. This sentiment echoes the biblical passage in 1 Timothy 6:6-8, emphasizing that godliness with contentment is of great value.
However, the episode also highlights the contrast between the gratitude of the past and the ingratitude prevalent in modern culture. The prosperity and materialism of contemporary society have led many to turn away from God and become self-centered. Moses' warning in Deuteronomy 8:17 about attributing wealth to personal power and might is particularly relevant in this context.
The Heidelberg Catechism is introduced as a valuable resource that encourages patience in adversity and thankfulness in prosperity, emphasizing the importance of placing trust in God's providence.
The podcast underlines that, in our sinful state, we are owed nothing, and it calls on men to lead their families in adopting a posture of thanksgiving. The false notion of independence is challenged, emphasizing our dependence on God.
The episode concludes with a call to action, encouraging listeners to establish a daily habit of giving thanks to the Lord, teaching their families, friends, and those they influence to do the same. Several Bible verses are shared to emphasize the importance of gratitude in one's daily life.
Finally, practical applications are provided, including the need for prayer and repentance regarding a lack of thanksgiving within one's family, sharing relevant verses during Thanksgiving dinner, and taking proactive steps to become a model of thanksgiving within one's home.
Overall, this podcast episode serves as a thought-provoking exploration of the significance of gratitude, drawing on historical, biblical, and practical insights to encourage a shift towards a more thankful and God-dependent mindset.
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Join us on a captivating journey through the life and enduring legacy of John Owen, a remarkable figure in the 17th century whose impact on theology and Christian living continues to resonate today.
John Owen, often regarded as the most prolific theologian of his time, had an extraordinary life journey. From a young age, he exhibited remarkable intellectual prowess, gaining admission to Queen's College, Oxford, where he earned both his B.A. and M.A. degrees. Owen's life was marked by his scholarly pursuits, pastoral calling, political involvement, and service as Chaplain to Oliver Cromwell after the English Civil War.
Despite the personal hardships he faced, including the loss of ten of his eleven children in infancy, Owen's legacy endures through his extensive body of work. He is known for being one of the most published writers of the 17th century, with notable works such as "The Death of Death in the Death of Christ," "Pneumatologia, or A Discourse Concerning the Holy Spirit," and "Mortification of Sin."
His emphasis on personal holiness, particularly in his work "Mortification of Sin," continues to challenge believers to confront and conquer their inner struggles. Through poignant quotes and deep insights, we explore how Owen's timeless wisdom guides contemporary Christians seeking to live out their faith in a world that often seems at odds with their beliefs.
Join us as we uncover the profound influence of John Owen on theology, spirituality, and Christian living.
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Martin Luther, born on November 10, 1483, in Eisleben, Germany, initially pursued a career in law to support his family but famously changed his path after a lightning incident and became an Augustinian monk. He struggled with intense depression and guilt over sin, as well as doubts about his salvation.
Luther is renowned for igniting the Protestant Reformation with his "95 Theses," though his original intent was not to divide but to reform the Church through debate. He quoted John 8:31-32, emphasizing the pursuit of truth and freedom through abiding in God's Word.
His unwavering stand in the face of adversity is epitomized by the words, "Here I stand, I can do no other. God help me. Amen." He also expressed a willingness to correct his errors if shown, citing 1 Corinthians 16:13-14.
Luther's impact on the faith was profound. He championed the doctrine of justification by faith alone, as highlighted in Romans 1:17. He made the Bible accessible to the common people by translating it into German, emphasizing the authority of Scripture over the pope or councils.
Additionally, Luther promoted congregational singing and worship, believing that music, alongside the Word of God, deserved the highest praise. One of his famous hymns, "A Mighty Fortress Is Our God," reflects this sentiment.
However, Luther had his shortcomings. His words could be both a gift and a curse, and he occasionally attacked fellow Christians harshly. His life serves as a reminder that we are all prone to sin and must remain vigilant. Humility and respectful treatment of others, even in disagreements, are essential lessons to draw from Luther's legacy.
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Welcome to Week 5 of our journey to strengthen and deepen our marriages. In this episode, titled "Answering the Call," we recap the essential aspects of our call to our wives:
- To Lead: We explore the biblical concept of leadership in marriage and how it mirrors Christ's love for the church.
- To Love Like Christ: We delve into the Song of Solomon and discuss the importance of desire and exclusivity in our relationships.
- To Listen and Encourage: We examine Colossians 3:19 and James 1:19, emphasizing the significance of communication and empathy in our interactions with our spouses.
- To Value: We reflect on Philippians 2:3, emphasizing the need to prioritize our wives and acknowledge their worth.
- To Provide: We discuss the responsibilities outlined in 1 Peter 3:7, 1 Corinthians 11:3, and 1 Timothy 5:8, highlighting the importance of providing for our families.
Throughout the episode, we encourage you to reflect on these five specific disciplines and ask yourself:
- What disciplines do you need to work on the most?
- Why is growing in these areas important to you?
- Who can hold you accountable?
Join us as we strive to strengthen our marriages and answer the call to love, lead, and cherish our wives as Christ does for His church.
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In this episode, we continue our journey through the profound teachings of the Apostle Paul in Ephesians 5:28-33.
"In the same way husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church because we are members of his body. Therefore, a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh."
Paul's words challenge us to see our wives as an extension of ourselves, emphasizing that by loving our wives, we are loving ourselves. This love is not limited to mere words but extends into practical care and provision.
We explore the multi-dimensional nature of this love—physical, emotional, relational, and spiritual—and how it mirrors Christ's love for the Church. Paul beautifully ties this message back to the Genesis account of marriage, illustrating the profound mystery revealed in Christ and His relationship with the Church.
As we delve into Ephesians 5:33, we receive a simple yet powerful command: husbands, love your wives as you love yourselves, sacrificially and sanctifyingly. Wives are encouraged to respect their husbands, recognizing that respect is reciprocated by the love husbands provide.
We acknowledge the universal desire for respect and remind ourselves that our command as husbands comes first. Want respect? Be a respectable man, as Christ exemplifies. However, we emphasize the importance of acting out of love with no expectations, understanding that true fulfillment comes from being the person God has called us to be and allowing our wives to do the same.
In this thought-provoking episode, we'll explore:
- Ways to love your wives as yourselves: We'll delve into practical strategies for nurturing and cherishing your spouse.
- Recognizing where you may have fallen short: It's essential to reflect on our actions and identify areas where we can improve in loving our wives.
- Nourishing your wife: We'll provide insights into how you can nurture your wife in physical, emotional, relational, and spiritual dimensions.
Join us as we unpack these valuable insights from Ephesians and strive to build stronger, more loving marriages. Don't miss out on this enriching discussion on love, respect, and the path to lasting marital happiness.
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In this episode, the podcast navigates through the profound concept of marital sanctification under the lordship of Christ, inspired by Ephesians 5:25-27 and the insights from "Disciplines of a Godly Man" by Kent Hughes. The scripture highlights the selfless and purifying love Christ has for the church and establishes it as a parallel to how husbands should love their wives.
The episode intricately unfolds the concept of sanctification - a transformative process where God makes sinners holy in heart and conduct. This is depicted as a past, present, and future occurrence: we have been sanctified, are being sanctified, and will be sanctified. The “right now, not yet” paradox of sanctification is emphasized as being pivotal in Christian living and relationships.
Pivoting from the previous episode’s discourse on sacrificial love, the focus here zeros in on the role of a husband in his wife’s sanctification, backed by two primary principles:
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Husbands’ Responsibility Towards Wives’ Sanctification:
- Husbands bear the responsibility of actively contributing to their wives' sanctification, adopting roles that lead, serve, pray, share the gospel, and listen.
- The act of leading should permeate various aspects, including spiritual (through prayer and Bible study), emotional (by listening), and physical (through service).
- Despite the challenges, husbands are to undertake this monumental role seriously, acknowledging that genuine accomplishment is possible only in Christ.
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Husbands’ Response Despite Wives’ Reactions:
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There is an urge to lead and love without fostering expectations in return. The focus remains on steadfastly contributing to the spiritual growth of the wife.
- The husband should navigate through the marriage, acknowledging that, like him, his wife is also a sinner but is not an enemy.
- Consistency in action, finding peace and security in Christ, and leading by example are underscored as imperative.
Christ’s sacrifice, aimed at the sanctification and presentation of the church as holy and unblemished, is mirrored as a template for husbands to foster an environment where their wives grow spiritually. A crucial point to note is that while husbands are accountable to seek their wives' sanctification, they are not responsible for their responses or reciprocations.
The episode ends with a reflective pause, urging listeners to introspect through probing questions: Is your wife more Christ-like because of being married to you or despite it? Are you aiding her sanctification or hindering it? And, what shifts are required in your life to truly embody your call in this domain? This reflective inquiry is not merely rhetorical but is positioned as a catalyst for personal and relational transformation, steering marriages toward sanctification under the Lordship of Christ.
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Ephesians 5:25 calls us to love our wives as Christ loves the Church. In this episode, we are going to explore what it means for use to love our wives sacrificially.
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As Christian husbands, the mantle of leadership often referred to as 'headship,' rests upon our shoulders. But what does true headship signify?
It's a call not to overpower but to serve, echoing the profound relationship between Christ and His Church. Just as Christ is the foundation, the guide, and the ever-present force for the Church, husbands bear a similar calling - to lead, nurture, and be deeply connected to their wives.
Dive deep with us as we ponder upon what it means to mirror Christ in our homes, to understand our partners spiritually, and most importantly, to epitomize Christ's sacrificial love in every stride of marriage. S
o, let's introspect - What kind of leader are you? How do you lead your wife to Christ daily? Let's journey together to find these answers and more."
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Title: "How Can We Implement Family Worship in Our Homes?"
In this enlightening episode, Ryan addresses the significance of spiritual leadership and the essence of family worship. For many, the idea of conducting family worship can be daunting. Ryan presents a systematic guide on how to seamlessly introduce it into the family routine:
- Preparation: Initiating family worship requires a clear vision. This involves determining the scriptures or devotionals to explore, any hymns or songs to incorporate, and methods to teach prayer.
- Deciding on the Location: A common and effective place is right after dinner, where the family is already gathered.
- Timing: Consistency is key. For Ryan's family, post-dinner works best, though they adjust based on other commitments.
Ryan further elaborates on three pivotal aspects for a successful family worship session:
- Being Brief: An extended session can be wearying, especially for younger kids. Aim for 15-25 minutes.
- Being Consistent: Regularity is imperative. Daily sessions help in building a spiritual routine.
- Being Genuine: Stay true to yourself, tailoring the worship style to your family's unique identity while maintaining reverence.
Ryan breaks down the core components of family worship:
- Scripture Reading: Encourage family-wide participation, be it reading aloud or discussing the context. Over time, aim to cover the entire Bible.
- Instruction and Application: After scripture reading, reflect on the teachings. Use commentaries to delve deeper and involve kids in discussions.
- Prayer: Utilize the PRAY method (Praise, Repentance, Ask, and Yield). Keep the prayers direct and heartfelt.
- Singing: Even if you're not musically inclined, songs are a powerful expression of love for God. Emphasize on doctrinally pure songs, occasionally delving into the history behind them.
Towards the end, Ryan addresses common reservations about family worship and offers solutions. Despite challenges like time constraints or lack of musical talent, he emphasizes the eternal significance of steering the family towards Jesus. The episode culminates in a heartfelt plea to prioritize family worship for spiritual growth.
Ryan invites listeners to reach out to him for additional resources or guidance at ryan@reformedandredeemed.org.
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Show Notes: Pursuing Biblical Masculinity - The Duty of Family Worship
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Introduction:
- Exploring disciplines from God's Word to live out our faith.
- Aiming to help men be spiritual leaders in their homes.
- Recap of the previous episode: Defined family worship, its history, and its theological foundations.
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Importance of Family Worship:
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Not just a good idea but a mandate.
- Focused on the life of Joshua, a significant leader in Israel.
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Key Scripture from Joshua 24:14-15:
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Emphasizes serving the Lord sincerely and faithfully.
- Encourages households to serve the Lord.
- Three main takeaways from these verses:
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Impact of Joshua's Leadership:
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His leadership influenced Israel to serve the Lord even after his passing.
- A call for men today to lead their families similarly.
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3 Ways to Worship God with Families:
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Speak and Teach God’s Word in the Home: Daily and frequent discussion of God's Word.
- Pray: Continuous attitude of prayer and gratitude.
- Sing to the Lord: Invite families into worship through song.
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Other Relevant Scriptures:
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Genesis 18:19: The call for Abraham to command his children and household to keep the ways of the Lord.
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Conclusion and Next Steps:
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Upcoming episode will provide practical steps for implementing family worship.
- Encourages listeners to revisit the scriptures discussed.
- Offers assistance through a discovery session available on reformedandredeemed.org.
Remember, leading your family in worship is not just a choice but a commandment from God. Embrace the call and witness the transformation in your household.
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This episode begins our three-part series on "How to Become the Spiritual Leader in your Home."
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This week, we are looking at part two of our two-part podcast on what is biblical masculinity. Today, we will explore what it looks like from a practical perspective. To do so, we're going to take a look at the life of Jesus.
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What is biblical masculinity and how does it differ from a secular view of masculinity?
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“Everyone then who hears these words of mine and does them will be like a wise man who built his house on the rock.And the rain fell, and the floods came, and the winds blew and beat on that house, but it did not fall, because it had been founded on the rock. And everyone who hears these words of mine and does not do them will be like a foolish man who built his house on the sand.And the rain fell, and the floods came, and the winds blew and beat against that house, and it fell, and great was the fall of it.”
Matt 7: 24 - 27
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The passage of scripture we will look at today is, in my opinion, one of the most terrifying pieces of scripture to read. It's very challenging and it really makes us look at what we are doing and why we are doing it.
We find ourselves in Matthew 7:21-23, and it says this. "Not everyone who says to me, 'Lord, Lord,' will enter the kingdom of heaven, but the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. On that day, many will say to me, 'Lord, Lord. Did we not prophesy in your name and cast out demons in your name and do many mighty works in your name?' And then I will declare to them, 'I never knew you. Depart from me, you workers of lawlessness.'"
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15“Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep’s clothing but inwardly are ravenous wolves. 16You will recognize them by their fruits. Are grapes gathered from thornbushes, or figs from thistles? 17So, every healthy tree bears good fruit, but the diseased tree bears bad fruit. 18A healthy tree cannot bear bad fruit, nor can a diseased tree bear good fruit. 19Every tree that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire. 20Thus you will recognize them by their fruits.
The Holy Bible: English Standard Version (Wheaton, IL: Crossway Bibles, 2016), Mt 7:15–20.
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In this episode, we are going to explore Matthew 7:7-11 and what it means for us a Christian men.
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In this episode, we take a look at Matthew 7:1-6. We see the dangers of judging others and what we as Christians should do instead.
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Several things, including work stress, family dynamics, traumatic events, and more can cause anxiety. In this episode, we look at Matthew 6: 25-34, where Christ teaches us how to approach anxiety.
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In this episode, we explore Matthew 6:19-24.
Lay Up Treasures in Heaven19 “Do not lay up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy and where thieves break in and steal, 20 but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys and where thieves do not break in and steal. 21 For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also. 22 “The eye is the lamp of the body. So, if your eye is healthy, your whole body will be full of light, 23 but if your eye is bad, your whole body will be full of darkness. If then the light in you is darkness, how great is the darkness! 24 “No one can serve two masters, for either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and money. Mt 6:19–24.
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For many of us, fasting is not a normal part of our Christian walk. We may only think of it in the context of Lent or when we come across a section of scripture that addresses fasting. Today we will be looking at Jesus' teaching on fasting from Matthew 6:16-18
Links:
https://www.ligonier.org/guides/fasting
https://www.ligonier.org/learn/devotionals/role-fasting
https://www.ligonier.org/learn/devotionals/new-covenant-fasting
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One of the amazing gifts God gives us is the ability to speak directly to Him. Theologian Charles Hodge says that "prayer is the converse of the soul with God." It is in prayer that we connect with God, confess our sins, glorify and praise him as well, and seek his help in our lives.
In this episode, we are looking at Matthew 6:5–15 and how we can cultivate a prayer life that honors God.
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While this desire is not necessarily bad, when we seek the approval of others for doing good, we are seeking approval in the wrong place.
In the previous section of the Sermon on the Mount, Jesus was comparing the teachings from the Religious leaders of his day, with the original intent of God's law. In Chapter 6, we see a similar style of contrasting as Christ teaches the difference between righteous and righteous actions.
Over the next 3 weeks, we will look at giving, prayer, fasting, focus, and anxiety from this perspective. Today we begin with giving.
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43 “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall love your neighbor and hate your enemy.’ 44 But I say to you, Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, 45 so that you may be sons of your Father who is in heaven. For he makes his sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust. 46 For if you love those who love you, what reward do you have? Do not even the tax collectors do the same? 47 And if you greet only your brothers, what more are you doing than others? Do not even the Gentiles do the same? 48 You therefore must be perfect, as your heavenly Father is perfect.
The Holy Bible: English Standard Version (Wheaton, IL: Crossway Bibles, 2016), Mt 5:43–48.
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We have an internal crave justice. When we see or experience injustice, something deep inside us desires to see the wrong thing made right. In this episode, we explore Matthew 5: 38 - 42 and how we can apply Jesus' teaching on justice and revenge.
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A historical mark of a good man is being a man of your word. Men say what they mean and mean what they say. In Matthew 5: 33-37, Jesus addresses this topic and gives a very straightforward command for us to follow.
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Divorce is seen as a norm not just in our culture at large but also in the Christian Church. While the idea that Christian divorce at the same rate as the secular world is false, Divorce is still more prominent than it should be.
But what does the Bible say about divorce? As we continue through the sermon on the mount, Jesus addresses this in chapter 5: 31-32.
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All sin begins in the heart and leads to actions... Sin is serious and must be dealt with seriously.
27 “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ 28 But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart. 29 If your right eye causes you to sin, tear it out and throw it away. For it is better that you lose one of your members than that your whole body be thrown into hell. 30 And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away. For it is better that you lose one of your members than that your whole body go into hell.
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n Christ, we can learn the true meaning of the Law and how it applies to our lives even today. Over the next few episodes, we will look at seven specific ways Christ calls us into righteousness. Today, we start by looking at how we deal with anger.
For many, anger is a big issue. It's often rooted deep in our past and may sometimes be justifiable.
While anger in itself is not a sin, many ways we manifest our anger are sinful and need to be surrendered to God. Matt 5: 21-26:
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What do the law ad prophets have to do with the Gospel? According to Jesus, everything.
In Matthew chapter 5:17-20 Jesus says " 17 “Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them. 18 For truly, I say to you, until heaven and earth pass away, not an iota, not a dot, will pass from the Law until all is accomplished. 19 Therefore whoever relaxes one of the least of these commandments and teaches others to do the same will be called least in the kingdom of heaven, but whoever does them and teaches them will be called great in the kingdom of heaven. 20 For I tell you, unless your righteousness exceeds that of the scribes and Pharisees, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. " The Holy Bible: English Standard Version (Wheaton, IL: Crossway Bibles, 2016), Mt 5:17–20.
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We should stand out from the world because we pursue the things of heaven and not of earth. We should look and act differently and as a result, draw people to Christ. In this episode we reflect on Matthew 5: 13-16 and how it applies to our lives.
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Persecution is not often something we look to as a gateway for blessings. We often do what ever we can to avoid pain and suffering. But the Christian life is a life of suffering. We are called to share in the sufferings of Christ. Paul tells the church in Corinth that he "rejoices in his suffering."
Join me as we explore Matthew 5:10-12
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9 “Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called sons of God. Mt 5:9.
Conflict between others is rooted in our alienation from God. Sin is the root of all conflict we experience today.
Many men seek out conflict. Conquering others makes them feel superior.
But as with most earthly desires, the Bible calls us to the opposite. We are called to be peacemakers.
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As we reflex on the previous beatitudes we can see a theme running through them. In each of them, we are called to deny our self-righteousness and rest in the righteousness of Christ alone.
We are called to have pure hearts. Listen as we explore Matthew 5:8 “Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God."
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We must constantly be aware of God's gift of mercy to us. We must realize daily our need for a savior and that without him we are dead in our trespasses. As we will live in this realization, our natural outflow should be merciful towards others.
Listen as we explore the deep truths from Matthew 5:7 "“Blessed are the merciful, for they shall receive mercy."
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As believers, we are called to pursue righteousness. In this week's Beatitude, Jesus uses some very relatable words to describe how we should pursue after righteousness.
“Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness, for they shall be satisfied." Mt 5:6.
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Meekness is not a character trait many in our culture seek after today. Join us as we look at the meaning and implications of Matthew 5:5 - "Blessed are the meek, for they shall inherit the earth. "
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We are continuing our study of the sermon on the mount and in this episode, we are going to look at the second of the eight beatitudes.
Matthew 5:4 says "Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted."
We will explore the context of this verse and what it means for us as we pursue Kingdom Character.
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Jesus' sermon on the mount begins with what is called The Beatitudes. These are "kingdom blessings" that God gives to his followers. Each is connected to a character trait that contrasts with what the world is seeking. This week, we will explore the first of these eight beatitudes.
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Our character often dictates our actions. The mental, moral, and spiritual qualities that we hold dear directly impact our choices.
Over the next several episodes, we will explore the Sermon on the Mount and look at how we can align our lives and character to what the word of God sets forth for us.
In 1937 Dietrich Bonhoeffer released a book in titled "The Cost of Discipleship." The book is centered around the Sermon on the Mount and breaks down the many character traits that should be displayed in the lives of believers.
He begins the book by examining the difference between cheap and costly grace. As we begin our study of the Sermon on the Mount, we will also begin with this topic. Our understanding of God's grace is essential if we ever want to live out the character God has called us to.
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Because of Christ, we can experience new life in our mind, body, and spirit, yet we still battle with sin. We are not alone in this battle. Christ is the one who won the battle over sin, and it is only through Christ that we can begin to lead at all.
In this episode, we will uncover three steps we need to take to become the leaders God has called us to be.
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In this episode, we are going to be focusing on how we are called to lead in the work we do. Our work is a gift from God. It allows us to engage with people we might never engage with. We must take advantage of this and work with purpose, serve those we work with and for and share how Christ has changed our lives.
- How does your perspective of work impact your purpose?
- Who do you need to start serving at your place of work?
- How can you begin to share Christ while you work?
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In a culture where we experience constant attacks on the traditional family, we, as Christian men, must stand up and lead our families. We are commanded to lead our families and lead them in the way the Lord has ordained us to.
When it comes to family leadership, we are called to be priests, prophets, providers, and protectors.
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What comes to mind when you hear the term "personal development?" The answer to this question can vary based on your perspective.
Some related terms are Self-improvement, Self-help, personal growth, etc.
If we approach this idea of personal development from a non-Biblical perspective, we can fall into the trap that we alone have the power to improve ourselves.
We know, based on scripture, that assumption is false; Jeremiah 10:23 "I know, O LORD, that the way of man is not in himself, that it is not in man who walks to direct his steps."
So doe this mean we, as Christian men, should avoid personal development? But not means! As discussed in several episodes, we are called to lead ourselves. If we are not improving, growing, and filling our cup, we will not have what we need to lead in our family or our mission.
So let's explore three ways we can grow, develop and lead ourselves.
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Over the last few episodes, we look at what leadership is, the attributes of godly leaders, and the perfect leadership model in the life of Jesus. In this episode, we will define the three primary areas of leadership in our lives and how they should be prioritized.
Let's Talk About It:
- What area(s) do you need to grow in leadership? Personal, Family, Missional?
- How can you begin to lead better in each area of leadership
- Ask God to forgive your lack of leadership and guide you as He has called you to lead.
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We learn through modeling. This is how we learn to walk, talk and engage with others. We learn good things as well as not-so-good things through modeling. As we talked about in a previous episode, the leaders we look to as models for our lives have a direct impact on the results we get. When we model worldly leadership, we will get worldly results. When we model godly leadership, we will get godly results. Today we will look at a perfect model of godly leadership, Jesus. We will break down five specific areas that Jesus modeled for us and how we can follow His wisdom.
So let's apply this:
- Where do you need to grow in your personal leadership? What actions do you need to take?
- Where can you show more compassion as you lead?
- Who do you need to speak truth in love too?
- Where can you invest more (Education, Equipping, Praying) in the next generation of leaders? What actions can you take today?
- How do you model commitment to the mission?
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There are good leaders, and then there are great, transformative leaders. In this episode, we look at three mandates all great leaders share:
- Unwavering Commitment to the Mission
- Desire to Humbly Servant to those They Lead
- Intentionally Develop New Leaders
Let's Talk About It:
- Who are some men in our life that you consider great leaders? How did they live out these three mandates
- What externals are you allowing to distract you from your missions
- How can you better serve yourself so you can better serve those you lead?
- What can you do to start multiplying leaders out of those you lead?
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In this episode, we will look at 4 attributes of a Godly leader.
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Godly leaders model the faith by the way they live
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Godly leaders are life-long students
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Godly leaders Inspire, empower and equip
4.Godly leaders praise and correct those they lead
We are defining a leader as "someone who influences others to effectively achieve a defined mission together." - Harry L. Reeder III - https://www.ligonier.org/store/3d-leadership-paperback
Applications:
- How can you be a better model of faith to those you lead?
- What do you need to learn in order to be a more effective leader?
- How can you Inspire, empower and equip those you lead?
- Who do you need to praise? Who do you need to correct?
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Over the next several episodes, we are going to be diving deep into the area of Godly Leadership in the podcast, since it is at the core of pursuing Biblical masculinity. We will build on the core principles we discussed in the first few episodes and expand on how we can apply Godly Leadership principles in our lives, relationships, and our work.
In this episode, we are going to be focusing on the difference between Godly Leadership and Worldly Leadership
In order to lead well, we must reject the idea of worldly leadership and instead imitate Jesus, the perfect example of Godly leadership. In the next episode we will dive into the attributes of a Godly Leader, but to close out I have a few questions for you to think about this week.
- Who am seeking advice from and are they Men of God or Men of the World?
- Where do I need to repent in my life for rejecting Godly advice and choosing the world's advice instead?
- Who are a few Godly Leaders I can learn from in Scripture or Church history to help me grow
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In this week's episode, we take a look at discipline number 4, pursuing gentleness. We explore what love means and how God calls us as men to pursue gentleness in our lives.
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In this devotional, we will explore the list of disciples Paul lays out at the end of his first letter to Timothy.
"But as for you, O man of God, flee these things. Pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, steadfastness, and gentleness." - 1 Timothy 6:11
Follow along as we walk through each of the disciples we'll look at practical ways we can align our lives to God’s word.
In this week's episode, we take a look at discipline number 5, pursuing steadfastness. We explore what love means and how God calls us as men to pursue steadfastness in our lives.
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In this devotional, we will explore the list of disciples Paul lays out at the end of his first letter to Timothy.
"But as for you, O man of God, flee these things. Pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, steadfastness, and gentleness." - 1 Timothy 6:11
Follow along as we walk through each of the disciples we'll look at practical ways we can align our lives to God’s word.
In this week's episode, we take a look at discipline number 4, pursuing love. We explore what love means and how God calls us as men to pursue love in our lives.
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In this devotional, we will explore the list of disciples Paul lays out at the end of his first letter to Timothy.
"But as for you, O man of God, flee these things. Pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, steadfastness, and gentleness." - 1 Timothy 6:11
Follow along as we walk through each of the disciples we'll look at practical ways we can align our lives to God’s word.
In this week's episode, we take a look at discipline number 3, pursuing Faith. We unpack what it means to pursue faith in our lives and look at practical ways to live it out.
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In this devotional, we will explore the list of disciples Paul lays out at the end of his first letter to Timothy.
"But as for you, O man of God, flee these things. Pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, steadfastness, and gentleness." - 1 Timothy 6:11
Follow along as we walk through each of the disciples we'll look at practical ways we can align our lives to God’s word.
In this week's episode, we take a look at discipline number 2, pursuing Godliness. We unpack what it means to pursue godliness in our lives and look at practical ways to live it out.
Here is the book I reference a few times in this episode.
The Practice of Godliness: Godliness has value for all things by Jerry Bridges: https://www.amazon.com/Practice-Godliness-has-value-things/dp/0891099417
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In this devotional, we will explore the list of disciples Paul lays out at the end of his first letter to Timothy.
"But as for you, O man of God, flee these things. Pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, steadfastness, and gentleness." - 1 Timothy 6:11
Follow along as we walk through each of the disciples we'll look at practical ways we can align our lives to God’s word.
In this week's episode, we take a look at discipline number 1, pursuing righteousness. We dive into what righteousness is and how can we as men begin to pursue it in our own lives.
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In this devotional, we will explore the list of disciples Paul lays out at the end of his first letter to Timothy.
"But as for you, O man of God, flee these things. Pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, steadfastness, and gentleness." - 1 Timothy 6:11
Follow along as we walk through each of the disciples we'll look at practical ways we can align our lives to God’s word.
In the first episode of Pursuing Biblical Masculinity, we are taking a look at 1 Timothy Chapter 6: 2-11. Our goal is to set the stage for the next 6 weeks as we look at the 6 disciples of biblical manhood that Paul charges Timothy with.
Download the Devotional: 6 Disciplines of Biblical Manhood --> https://reformation.coach/ In this devotional, we will explore the list of disciples Paul lays out at the end of his first letter to Timothy.
"But as for you, O man of God, flee these things. Pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, steadfastness, and gentleness." - 1 Timothy 6:11
Follow along as we walk through each of the disciples we'll look at practical ways we can align our lives to God’s word.