Fielder Church Podcast: Recent Episodes
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This podcast is produced by Fielder Church, a bilingual, multiethnic, multisite church in Arlington, TX. We are a church who inhale and exhale the gospel and makes disciples who do the same. The purpose of this podcast is simple, we wanted a place to tackle topics you don’t hear on Sunday, wrestle with practical application, and share with you deeper insight into the Sunday sermon - so you’re equipped to exhale the gospel wherever you go.
Can you really encounter the living God today—or was that just for Bible times? In this special bonus episode, Becky and Zer sit down with our lead pastor, Jason Paredes, to talk about Encounter—a brand-new Wednesday night gathering designed for one purpose: to meet with God.
Jason unpacks a mind-blowing theory about Moses, Elijah, and the Transfiguration that reveals how God stands outside of space and time—and why that truth changes how we meet Him right now. Together, they explore how God still invites His people to experience His presence, not just learn about it.
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They tackle deep questions:
🔥 What does it actually mean to “encounter” God?
🔥 How is Encounter different from a prayer gathering?
🔥 Can anyone really experience God’s presence—or only the “spiritual”?
🔥 Why does confession matter before worship?
🔥 How do we prepare our hearts to meet with a holy God?
Whether you’ve walked with Jesus for decades or feel too far gone to start, this episode will remind you that God still says, “Come meet with Me.”
📖 Scriptures Mentioned:
Matthew 17 — The Transfiguration
Exodus 19 & 34 — Moses on Mount Sinai
1 Kings 19 — Elijah’s encounter on Mount Horeb
Zechariah 12:10 — “They will look upon the one they have pierced”
💡 Key Takeaways:
✨ God is still inviting His people to encounter Him.
✨ Confession prepares your heart for His presence.
✨ You don’t have to be “good at prayer”—you just have to show up.
✨ The same God who met Moses and Elijah wants to meet with you.
🕊️ Encounter is every Wednesday at 6:30pm at our Pioneer Campus (2011 S. Fielder Rd, Arlington, TX 76012). Come hungry for His presence.
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Takeaways:
- The episode emphasizes the importance of encountering God and how it can profoundly transform one's life and perspective.
- Listeners are encouraged to approach God with openness and humility, recognizing their own brokenness and need for forgiveness.
- The speakers discuss the significance of Scripture and how understanding its entirety can enhance one's spiritual journey and connection with God.
- A central theme of the episode is that God invites the broken and weary to come to Him, assuring that no one is too far gone to seek His grace.
What does it really take to see a miracle? And how do you keep praying when God doesn’t answer the way you hoped? In this episode, Becky and Zer welcome a very special guest—Fielder’s lead pastor, Jason Paredes—to talk about prayer, miracles, and why faith is more about taking a step than measuring belief. From Jason’s personal story of instant healing to Becky’s childhood “sun stand still” moment, they unpack how prayer works, what “faith like a mustard seed” really means, and they share how God moves in ways we often don’t expect.
They tackle real questions:
🙏 Does the size of your faith actually matter?
🙏 Should you expect a miracle every time you pray?
🙏 How do you keep praying when you’re discouraged?
🙏 What does “abiding prayer” look like in real life?
🙏 Why is corporate prayer so powerful for a church?
Whether you’re longing for healing, fighting discouragement, or simply wanting to grow closer to God, this conversation will give you hope, clarity, and a fresh desire to pray.
📖 Scriptures Mentioned:
Ephesians 6:10–18 — The armor of God & praying at all times
Psalm 73:21–26 — “God is the strength of my heart and my portion forever”
Matthew 17:20 — Faith like a mustard seed
Luke 18:1–8 — The parable of the persistent widow
💡 Practical Takeaways:
✨ Expect miracles—but let God define them.
✨ Abiding prayer should be your steady diet, not just emergency fuel.
✨ Position yourself to receive God’s love and power by making time with Him non-negotiable.
✨ Prayer isn’t about convincing God—it’s about aligning with Him.
✨ The more you pray, the more you’ll want to pray.
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Can you talk theology while your mouth is on fire? 🥵 Things get spicy—literally and spiritually—in this special edition of the Fielder Podcast. Becky and Zer take on increasingly hotter wings (hello 135,600 scovilles 👀) as they answer some of the hardest-hitting questions about faith, culture, and the church. From digital formation and spiritual dryness to sex before marriage, consumer Christianity, and the American dream’s impact on the gospel—nothing’s off limits. It’s hilarious, it’s vulnerable, and it might just melt your face. Grab your milk and tune in.
They ask real questions:
🌶 Is the church too soft—or too silent—on key cultural issues?
🌶 How do you exhort someone without sounding judgmental?
🌶 Is “test driving the car” before marriage really harmless?
🌶 Has the American dream infected your discipleship?
🌶 Why do so few people actually share the gospel?
Through laughter, tears, lots of ice cream, and gospel truth, they challenge believers to rethink comfort, calling, and what it really means to follow Jesus in a culture of convenience.
📖 Scriptures Mentioned:
Matthew 28:18–20 — The Great Commission
Ephesians 5 — Love like Christ; submit like the church
Luke 8:19–21 — "Who are my mother and brothers?"
1 Thessalonians 2:8 — Sharing not only the gospel, but our lives
Romans 12:1 — A living sacrifice, not a comfortable one
💡 Practical Takeaways:
🔥Die daily to your comfort and convenience
🔥Don’t just attend—pursue, serve, and sacrifice
🔥The Great Commission is for every believer
🔥Spiritual dryness isn't failure—it's an invitation to intimacy
🔥You can’t build God’s kingdom while chasing your own
🔥 Pro tip: Ice cream works. Peanut butter doesn’t.
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Ever feel like butter scraped over too much bread? In this episode, Becky and Zer sit down with special guests Tony Aviles and Erick Sostre to get real about burnout—the exhaustion we all feel but rarely talk about. With honesty, humor, and vulnerability, they explore how burnout shows up in work, ministry, relationships, and even our spiritual lives.
They ask important questions:
- How do you know when you're approaching burnout—or already there?
- Can people-pleasing push you past your limits?
- What practical rhythms can protect you from exhaustion?
- Is your "yes" to others secretly a "no" to God?
Sharing personal stories and biblical wisdom, they unpack the traps of burnout and offer practical tools for setting healthy boundaries, embracing God-given rest, and finding freedom in your identity in Christ. Whether you're currently feeling stretched thin or just want to stay healthy, this conversation is your reminder that rest isn't something you earn—it's something you receive.
📖 Scriptures Mentioned:
- Matthew 6:11 – "Give us this day our daily bread."
- Luke 10:38-42 – Martha and Mary's encounter with Jesus
- Genesis 2:2-3 – The rhythm of rest was established by God
- John 1:12 – Our identity as children of God
💡 Practical Takeaways:
- Prioritize Sabbath and intentional rest
- Listen to your body’s physical cues
- Allow trusted voices to speak into your limits
- Recognize burnout as an invitation to deeper spiritual health
Feeling overwhelmed or overcommitted? You're not alone. Join the convo, catch your breath, and discover how true rest can restore your soul.
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Takeaways:
- In this episode, we delve deeply into the intricate concept of burnout, emphasizing its multifaceted nature and the various ways it can manifest in our lives.
- Our discussions illustrate that burnout is not solely an occupational hazard but can occur in various life domains, including personal relationships and spiritual practices.
- We underscore the significance of establishing boundaries and recognizing one's limitations in order to mitigate the risk of burnout effectively.
- The episode advocates for a holistic approach to well-being, highlighting the importance of rest and intentional spiritual engagement as vital components of a healthy lifestyle.
What does the Bible say about money, budgeting, debt, and generosity?
In this honest and hope-filled episode, hosts Becky and Zer sit down with Chance and Tesea Coleman to talk all things finances—from student loan debt and fast food habits to support raising, tithing, and building a Christ-centered budget. Whether you’re struggling with shame, living paycheck to paycheck, or trying to grow in generosity, this conversation will challenge and encourage you.
💬 What You'll Hear:
- Real stories about financial struggles and spiritual growth
- Practical steps for creating a God-honoring budget
- How debt, discipline, and discipleship are more connected than you think
- Why generosity is always worth prioritizing
- How to fight shame, pride, and comparison in a consumer culture
🙋♀️🙋♂️ This episode is for:
- Christians trying to honor God with their finances
- Young adults navigating money for the first time
- Couples learning to budget together
- Anyone who’s made financial mistakes—and wants to grow from them
📖 Scripture References:
- Acts 2:44–45
- Proverbs 27:23
- Luke 16:10
- Galatians 6:2
📱 Tools & Resources Mentioned:
- EveryDollar budgeting app
- Dave Ramsey’s Total Money Makeover (with caveats!)
- Biblical community & financial transparency
You don’t need to have it all figured out—just be willing to take the next faithful step. Watch now and discover how God uses your finances to shape your faith and bless others.
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What does it mean to honor your parents when you're no longer a kid? In this episode, Becky and Zer are joined by Bethany Rondon and her dad, Rafi, for a vulnerable conversation about the — often messy—journey of navigating parent-child relationships in adulthood.
They wrestle with real questions:
- How do you set boundaries without breaking connection?
- Can obedience and independence coexist?
- What do you do when your parents weren’t perfect… or weren’t present?
Through laughter, reflection, and the wisdom of lived experience, the group unpacks how family dynamics shape our faith—and how the gospel brings healing, hope, and a new legacy. Whether your relationship with your parents is sweet, strained, or somewhere in between, this episode will remind you that redemption is always possible.
📖 Scriptures Mentioned:
- Ephesians 6:1–3 – “Honor your father and mother… that it may go well with you”
- Proverbs 1:8–9 – “Do not forsake your mother’s teaching”
- Psalm 68:5 – “A father to the fatherless”
- Proverbs 13:1 – “A wise child accepts a parent’s discipline”
💡 Practical Takeaways:
- Honoring your parents doesn’t always mean agreeing with them
- You don’t have to repeat the patterns you were raised in
- Healthy conflict is possible—so is healing
- God is the perfect Father, even if yours wasn’t
If you've ever wrestled with your role as a child or a parent—or both—this one’s for you!
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How caring for your body helps you show up for your life, your family, and your mission.
Is physical health just about looking good—or is it part of living on mission for God? In this episode, Becky, Zer, and special guests Tony and Carlos dive into the surprising connection between physical fitness and spiritual formation. They unpack the joys and challenges of stewarding the body God gave you—through sleep, diet, and exercise—with honesty, humility, and humor.
They tackle practical questions 👇👇
- Is physical health a response to the gospel?
- How do you treat your body as a temple and a vessel to be used for God's kingdom?
- Why is being "healthy" a big deal?
- How to talk about fitness with your spouse?
- Is meal prepping a spiritual discipline?
- How do you break free from the shame, idolatry, or laziness that holds you back?
With biblical truth and real-life stories, they challenge listeners to view health not through a lens of vanity, but as a form of worship. Whether you're a gym rat, a couch critic, or just trying to drink more water, this episode will help you rethink how you care for your body in light of the gospel.
📖 Scriptures Mentioned:
- 1 Corinthians 6:19–20 – “You are not your own…glorify God in your body.”
- Romans 12:1 – “Present your bodies as a living sacrifice…”
- Hebrews 12:11 – “No discipline seems pleasant at the time… but it produces a harvest of righteousness.”
- 1 Timothy 4:8 – “Physical training is of some value…”
- Galatians 5:22–23 – Self-control is a fruit of the Spirit
💡 Practical Takeaways:
- Steward your sleep like it’s sacred
- Think of food as fuel, not just comfort
- Find a rhythm of rest, movement, and Sabbath
- Don’t let shame—or pride—drive your health decisions
- Let your health journey flow from your identity in Christ
- You don’t have to have it all together to start—just take the next faithful step.
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Trapped in the Scroll: Social Media, Sanctification & the Search for Real Connection
Is social media just a tool—or a trap? In this episode, Becky, Zer, and special guest Marty get honest about their personal struggles, convictions, and boundaries around social media. From doom scrolling and digital addiction to ghost notifications and algorithmic rabbit holes, they unpack how social media affects our minds, hearts, and spiritual lives.
They ask real questions:
- Can Christians redeem social media?
- How do you know when it’s time to take a break—or quit completely?
- Are you chasing analytics or changed lives?
With biblical wisdom and vulnerable storytelling, they offer practical ways to stay grounded, set healthy rhythms, and use social media for God's glory—not your own. Whether you're all in, off the grid, or somewhere in between, this episode will challenge you to rethink how you scroll, post, and engage.
📖 Scriptures Mentioned:
- Hebrews 10:22–25 – “Do not neglect meeting together…”
- Matthew 6:1 – “Be careful not to practice your righteousness in front of others…”
- Psalm 46:10 – “Be still and know that I am God.”
- 1 Corinthians 13 – Love over performance
- John 13:35 – They will know you by your love
- John 3:30 – “He must increase, I must decrease”
💡 Practical Takeaways:
- Create more than you consume
- Set screen time limits (and stick to them!)
- Don’t let vanity metrics drive your message
- If it steals your peace, it might not be worth your attention
Is it time to unplug or repurpose your feed? Join the convo and find out.
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This episode invites us to see God’s image reflected in every culture and every kitchen through honest conversation and vulnerability. Becky sits down with three women—Melissa (Filipino), Chris (Vietnamese), and Emily (Mien)—to explore the deep connections between heritage, hospitality, and Christian discipleship in their families.
Together, they reflect on cherished family recipes, the power of shared meals, and how their cultural upbringings have shaped their understanding of love, obedience, and community. You’ll laugh, learn, and probably get hungry as they share stories of cooking with their moms, the sacredness of soup, and why quail eggs are elite.
They also unpack deeper truths:
- How does culture shape the way we see and follow Jesus?
- What can we learn about God through someone else’s story, meal, or language?
- Why is celebrating diversity more than a trend—and actually central to the gospel?
📖 Scriptures Mentioned:
- Matthew 28:19 – The call to make disciples of all nations
- Revelation 7:9 – A vision of heaven filled with every tribe, tongue, and people
- John 14:15 – “If you love me, you will obey my commandments”
- Genesis 1:27 – Created in the image of God
💡 Practical Encouragement:
- Be curious about other cultures with humility and honor
- Use food as a bridge to deeper conversation and friendship
- Don’t assume—ask questions and listen well
- Celebrate the ways different cultures reflect the character of God
- Remember: hospitality is holy, and every culture has something to teach us about Jesus
Whether you’re new to cultural conversations or passionate about diversity, this episode is a warm invitation to see the gospel through the lens of family, food, and faith.
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Takeaways:
- The communal aspect of dining is vital to understanding the Mien, Vietnamese, and Filipino cultures, as it symbolizes togetherness and shared experiences.
- Each culture discussed in this episode has unique dishes that reflect their history, heritage, and values, exemplified through food such as lumpia, yoi kuon, and kaboon.
- The importance of hospitality is a core value in Filipino culture, where inviting others to share a meal illustrates love and community.
- Understanding and embracing diverse cultural backgrounds is crucial for fostering connections and spreading the message of Jesus across different communities.
Evangelism can feel intimidating—especially if you’re introverted, don’t feel “gifted,” or worry about saying the wrong thing.
In this episode, Becky and Zer sit down with special guest Nichole Sostre to talk about the call to share our faith: is it optional? What if I don’t feel a burden for the lost? Does disobedience in evangelism count as sin?
With honest stories, biblical wisdom, and lots of laughter, they unpack:
- Why evangelism isn’t just for the “gifted”
- How to engage people with authenticity, not pressure
- What it means to obey God in the small nudges
- How to grow your boldness and spiritual muscle
- Why the gospel is too good to keep to ourselves
- Evangelism is not merely a requirement but an invitation to participate in God's mission.
- Sharing one's faith is a reflection of obedience to the command of Jesus Christ.
- Introversion should not hinder one's ability to evangelize; it can shape how one shares their faith.
- The act of evangelism is rooted in love, aiming to share the transformative power of the Gospel with others.
📖 Scriptures Mentioned:
- Matthew 28:18–20 – The Great Commission
- Romans 12 & Ephesians 4 – Gifts and roles in the body
- Jude 1:24–25 – The glory of God in salvation
- James 4:17 – To know and not do is sin
- Matthew 10:33 – Honoring Christ before others
- Hebrews 10:26–27 – The weight of willful disobedience
💡 Practical Encouragement:
- Ask God to break your heart for what breaks His.
- Let obedience be your reward, not results.
- Don’t go alone—evangelize in community.
- Keep your eyes open and your prayers bold.
- The church is Plan A—there is no Plan B.
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Gossip might feel harmless—just “sharing” or “processing”—but it can quietly destroy relationships, hearts, and trust. In this episode, Becky and Zer dive into the sneaky ways gossip shows up in our lives—whether it’s disguised as a prayer request, masked as concern, or shared under the label of “processing.”
They explore important questions:
- What actually counts as gossip?
- Are you responsible if you just listen to it?
- How do you respond when you’re the one gossiping, the bystander, or the one being gossiped about?
- Gossip, often regarded as a social norm, can have damaging effects on relationships and community dynamics.
- Understanding the definition of gossip is imperative to discern when it becomes harmful or unhelpful in conversations.
- It is essential to approach discussions about others with a mindset of honor and respect, rather than judgment or criticism.
- Engaging in gossip not only reflects poorly on the speaker but can also undermine the integrity of the community as a whole.
Through vulnerable stories and biblical wisdom, they unpack how gossip reveals the condition of our hearts and why honoring others—especially when they're not in the room—matters deeply to God.
📖 Scriptures Mentioned:
- Proverbs 16:27–28 – “A gossip separates close friends…”
- James 3 & 4:11 – On the power of the tongue and slander
- Romans 1:28–32 – How gossip is listed among sins that break relationship with God
- Galatians 5:16–26 – Walking by the Spirit vs. gratifying the flesh
- James 2:12–13 & 1 Peter 2:9 – On mercy, identity, and living as God’s chosen people
- Matthew 5:23–24 – The call to be reconciled before offering your gift
💡 Practical Tips:
- Keep your processing circle small and spiritually mature
- Guard your words—especially when you're hurt
- Ask the Holy Spirit to check your heart before you speak
- When in doubt: pray instead of pass the info
- If someone gossips to you—change the subject, redirect, or lovingly shut it down
Whether you've been the gossiper, the bystander, or the one gossiped about, this episode reminds us all: there’s grace, redemption, and a better way forward. Don’t miss it.
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Welcome to the season finale of season 2! Whether you're in a season of singleness, dating, engagement, or marriage, this episode goes into the struggles & questions that come up in every season.
How can you invest in others who are in different relationship seasons? How can you be sanctified in each season? What qualities really matter in a spouse?
Join us for an authentic conversation with our hosts Becky & Zer, as well as two special guests, Carlos Teixeira & Bethany Rondon. Carlos is Becky's husband and the North Arlington Campus Pastor, and Bethany is Becky's best friend and the Receptionist/Facilities Assistant at Fielder. And when you put all four of these friends on a podcast, you know it's going to be a good time! We hope you enjoy listening!
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Recommended Resources:
- Becoming One (Podcast)
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Why does God allow bad things to happen to good people? How can we 'suffer well' as Christians? Listen to this episode, where we discuss how to handle really painful circumstances, like incurable illness, infertility, and death, in light of God's goodness.
We've invited a special guest to join us this week, too! Maddie Huang is the Communications Director at Fielder Church and shares her 6-year journey with infertility.
If you are walking through infertility, we encourage you to connect with community and share your story and struggle with fellow believers. Don't bear this burden alone.
Recommended Resources:
- Longing for Motherhood by Chelsea Patterson Sobolik
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We have a special guest today to discuss how worship music preferences & traditions have caused a divide in the church! Erick Sostre is the Worship Operations Pastor at Fielder Church and a student at Dallas Theological Seminary, seeking to be equipped to teach and lead others in their pursuit of Jesus Christ.
Is there a right or wrong way to worship? Is corporate worship bad? Listen to what styles of worship our hosts grew up with. They encourage us not to let our 'preferences' distract from why and who we worship.
Worship can be a controversial topic in the church. Worship is more than the musical element in a church service; it is our response to God because of who He is and what He has done. We hope this episode gives you a new perspective on worship that is rooted in scripture.
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We have a special guest today to discuss how worship music preferences & traditions have caused a divide in the church! Erick Sostre is the Worship Operations Pastor at Fielder Church and a student at Dallas Theological Seminary, seeking to be equipped to teach and lead others in their pursuit of Jesus Christ.
What is worship? Why are people so territorial over a certain style of worship? Is loud and modern music irreverent to a sovereign and majestic God? Is heavily produced or showman-style worship bad?
Worship can be a controversial topic in the church. Worship is more than the musical element in a church service, it is our response to God because of who He is and what He has done. We hope this episode gives you a new perspective on worship that is rooted in scripture.
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We have a special guest today as we discuss theology! Erick Sostre is currently a student at Dallas Theological Seminary where he is seeking to be equipped to teach and lead others in their pursuit of Jesus Christ.
Theology is the study of religious faith, practice, and experience, especially the study of God and of God's relation to the world.
In this episode, we discuss the question: "Is theology relevant to "everyday" Christians?" By "everyday," we mean people who don't attend seminary, who aren't small group leaders, and who aren't lead pastors of megachurches. Is it relevant and necessary? Should it matter to every Christian? If so, then why are people so haughty and prideful about it? Can you truly seek God and not get all involved in the mess of politics and theology?
📖 Resources Mentioned
- "Who Needs Theology?" by Stanley J. Grenz & Roger E. Olsen
- "Knowing Faith" Podcast by Jen Wilkin, JT English, and Kyle Worley.
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Have you ever been bitter at God? Do you feel like you're allowed to wrestle with being angry at God? What about being angry and bitter at people you love? We talk a little more in-depth about bitterness and how you can find freedom from it.
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Sigh… Bitterness. Something that can steal your joy and peace and will keep you in a constant state of anger, frustration, and defeat. Becky and Zer talk about correlations of bitterness and the roots it may have in how you see yourself!
Listen to why bitterness is so detrimental and how it affects much more than your mood. The church is not immune to bitterness, and neither are the hosts, as they open up about their personal experiences wrestling with it.
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Is dating in the church more complicated than it needs to be? How do you date well as a Christian?
Zer and Becky open up about their dating journeys (the good, bad, and ugly!), how they began dating their spouses, and what the early days looked like.
Listen to hear the best dating advice they got when they were single, what pursuit should look like and some of the conflict (or even division) that can occur when someone dates in the church, and it doesn't work out.
They talk about dating, pursuit, personal health, and clarity from the male and female perspectives.
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Some of the most searched things about Christians on the internet are: 'Why are Christians so hypocritical?' 'Why do so-called "believers" constantly judge others?' 'Why would I want to go to church if all I get is judged?'
These are all valid questions for fellow believers and anyone who has not given their life to Jesus Christ.
Zer and Becky dive into these questions and ask an even worse question—have we ever been hypocrites in the same way we have been judged? Hard discussions and hard experiences are an opportunity for us to talk about the humility required as believers and the brokenness we still carry.
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Welcome to SEASON 2 of the Fielder Podcast!
Your hosts, Becky and Zer, kick this off by talking about their favorite topic - themselves 😂 jk , but seriously, they wanted to dive into this season by letting you get to know them!
You'll hear:
- How they came to Christ.
- How they grew up.
- How their culture shaped their view of God and impacted their becoming Christians.
- Their struggle with sin before Jesus and what their life looks like now!
Our personal experiences shape our view of the world, each other, and God, so we hope you walk away from this episode with a deeper appreciation for how God is shaping each of us with our unique story.
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We tend to look to earthly things to provide for us and satisfy us. God is willing to take us to a place of desperation to teach us that only he can provide for us. No earthly thing can provide life for us, we must be dependent on him to provide life for us. The Father sending his son is the greatest act of provision from God. He took the bitterness of the death we deserved to bring us into the sweetness of life and provision with him.
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When we forget who our God is, we take our own battles into our own hands, and our pride destroys us in the process. Our God has already won the victory. The cross and resurrection proved it. There is no one like our God. The only right response to a God like ours is to worship Him and serve Him.
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Do you have questions about the end times? Have you ever wondered when Jesus will return? In this episode we talk all about the end times, global events that are happening right now that point to the end times, and what the Bible says about the last days.
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The great commission isn't just for making disciples in other countries - God wants us to make disciples in our neighborhood, in our cities, and the ends of the earth. The church is called to reach the nations in our neighborhoods. In this episode, we talk about what local outreach looks like, door-to-door evangelism, barriers to local out reach, and why it is worth it to share the gospel with the people around us.
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Are you struggling to be a Christian in college? We give real life examples and practical advice to help you live out your faith in college! Do you view the people around you the way Jesus does?
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Why should Christians go on missions? This is a question that every believer should wrestle with because of the Great Commission to go and make disciples of all nations. We all play a part in taking the Gospel to the nations. What part will you play? In this episode, we talk about short-term trips, overcoming barriers to go, and experiencing God in a new way by going. At Fielder Church, we have 20+ short term trips available for you to come alongside missionaries & church planters in the U.S. & overseas.
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Two adoptive moms share about the international & domestic adoption processes. These women testify to how God called their families to bring a child into their home & all of the ways He provided. If you aren't called to adoption, there are ways for you to care & support families that are, because as the church, everybody can do something. Interested in foster care & adoption? E-mail Erin Benton, ebenton@fielder.org or go to www.fielder.org/fosteradopt Come to the First Steps Meeting on November 8th to ask questions & learn about the process of adoption & foster care. E-mail ebenton@fielder.org for details.
Two foster parents and a licensed social worker talk about the process of foster care in Texas. They share the ups & down of the process, things you should be asking, and ultimately how foster care has changed their life. Learn more about the foster care & adoption ministry at Fielder Church by going to www.fielder.org/fosteradopt Ready to start the foster care process? E-mail Erin Benton, Director of Foster Care & Adoption at Fielder Church, ebenton@fielder.org
We talk about how discipleship & community go hand in hand, the great commission, discipleship multiplication, and what qualifies someone to make disciples. Interested in joining a group at Fielder? www.fielder.org/fieldergroups
Listen to this episode where https://www.fielder.org/people/chance-coleman/ (Chance Coleman), Associate D-Groups Pastor, shares how discipleship can changed his life. We talk about practical ways for you to disciple others and how you can be discipled. We also share what the Bible says about discipleship and talk about the impact of not being discipled. What impact has discipleship had on your life? 00:00 - Intro 1:08 - What is discipleship? 2:46 - Discipleship changed by life 7:45 - "If you don't make disciples, what are you doing?" 8:15 - What are reasons for not making disciples? 9:27 - Hesitant to disciple someone? "It's not about what you know, it's about how you live." 13:07 - Do I need to be discipled? Is there a consequence for not being discipled? 15:50 / 17:20 - God is moving through people who are discipled 17:30 - Can you disciple someone who isn't a Christian? 18:39 - What should discipleship look like? 21:08 - My experience being discipled 25:17 - Why should I be discipled? Church is a weird hobby! 26:41 - The deepest relationships are found in discipleship 28:02 - What does discipleship look like at Fielder Church? 30:44 - First step towards discipleship, join a community group! Foundation D-Groups (28:47) Growth D-Groups (28:57) Leadership D-Groups (29:08)
Ready to disciple or be discipled? https://www.fielder.org/where-you-connect/ (https://www.fielder.org/where-you-connect/) E-mail Chance Coleman: ccoleman@fielder.org
Are you looking for community? In this episode, we talk about struggles people have in finding an authentic group of people to do life with. We also share practical steps to help you to find community around you! God created you to live in community, we pray you find it! Here's a story of a group that said "yes" to community - https://youtu.be/dMOGlI1uJj8 (Watch Here) Do you want to know more about community groups at Fielder? Contact groups@fielder.org or go to www.fielder.org/connect and click "Get Connected" to sign up to join a group!
Do you feel stuck, empty, unable to find joy, overcome with darkness, and like there's no where to go? In this episode we talk about what depression really feels like, possible triggers, and how you can take steps to overcome it.
Dave Lee, a Korean American church planter, shares how his experience growing up not fitting into Korean or white churches drove him to plant a diverse church to reach the nations here in Texas. 4:43 - "God takes cultural misfits to be gospel bridge makers." 6:07 - "Your deepest pain becomes your greatest ministry. God is not the cause of suffering in your life, but He doesn't waste your suffering, He redeems it." 8:41 - "Every culture has beautiful things because it lines up with God's Word and that's what heaven looks like. But also, every culture has broken things that need to be rejected or redeemed." 13:13 - "Obedience always proceeds provision & radical faith reveals your deepest insecurities" 19:38 - "The reward for church planting is not seeing a church with a big building or a lot of people, it's to experience the living God and know Him on a deeper level." 28:20 - "Diversity is our greatest apologetic" 32:31 - "We have to be careful not to villainize someone because they're different from us in the way we do ministry. " 36:02 - "We feel like we have to get to a certain level of Christian before we can actually be used by God for something greater but that's not how it works." 39:10 - "Am I taking the great commission in my life seriously? Are you just seeing ministry as a self-actualization of your own dreams - or are you seeing it as obedience to God's call?" Learn about Church Planting at Fielder Church: Website: https://www.fielder.org/churchplants/ E-mail: missions@fielder.org
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Connect with Dave Lee E-mail: info@iconchurch.net Instagram: @gi_yonglee
An entrepreneur and rapper called by God to plant a church in the rough neighborhood he grew up in. Chaz Hofler, co-planter of the Borough Church in Brooklyn, NY, shares how prayer is the most important church planting strategy. Chaz talks about how they depended on God to plant a church - from launching their church on Zoom during the pandemic in 2020, basketball outreach events, & seeing people from all different backgrounds come to faith! God blessed their efforts to reach a city far from God. Listen to hear how God answered their prayers in ways that only He could get credit for! Learn about the Borough Church: https://www.boroughchurch.com/ (https://www.boroughchurch.com/) Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theboroughchurch/ (https://www.instagram.com/theboroughchurch/) Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TheBoroughChurch/ (https://www.facebook.com/TheBoroughChurch/) Contact Chaz: chazhofler@gmail.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chazhofler/ (https://www.instagram.com/chazhofler/) Apple Music: https://music.apple.com/us/artist/chaz-hofler/1068936147 (https://music.apple.com/us/artist/chaz-hofler/1068936147)
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Is diversity seen as a demographic novelty or theological necessity in your church? Rechab Gray, church planting pastor of New Creation Fellowship, talks about multi-ethnic church planting, multi-cultural church planting, how our culture influences our theology, what advice he was given as he plants this church, and struggles and advantages of plating a diverse church. Quotes: 7:13 - "Multiethnic church planting isn't a strategy, it's our theology" 8:50 - "Christ and His redemptive work make every culture more fully what it was meant to be in the first place." 28:32 - "To see how this culture, when redeemed, is showing an aspect of the glory of God that your culture doesn't and vice versa and how much we need each other." Did you know Fielder Church has a church planting residency and a send residency? If you are a church planter or interested in being sent to join a church plant e-mail missions@fielder.org and check out our website https://www.fielder.org/churchplants/ (www.fielder.org/chuchplants)
New Creation Fellowship Values New Sight New Service New Status
New Creation Fellowship Vision Statement: "The vision of new creation is to live out heaven’s cultural values through creative-redemptive innovation so that people from all nations may experience the glorious reality of new creation in Christ." Connect with https://newcreationorl.org/leaders/ (Rechab Gray) Twitter: @rechabg Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rechabg/ (@rechabg)
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What do Baja food, 250,000 military personnel, and the busiest border in North America have in common? .... They're all true about San Diego, CA! In this episode, Charlie Houck, Church Planting Pastor of Mesa Church, discusses the joys and challenges of church planting in San Diego, CA, how to live out what God is calling you to do, and how it’s worth it to depend on God to provide all that you need because He is faithful to come through again and again. Six Values That Define Mesa Church We pursue Jesus over everything We pursue community over isolation We pursue prayer over self-reliance We pursue diversity over comfort We pursue generosity over selfishness We pursue multiplication over addition
Learn more about Mesa Church: http://mesachurchsd.com/ (Mesachuchsd.com) Learn about Fielder's partnership with Charlie Houck: https://www.fielder.org/churchplants/ (fielder.org/churchplants) Contact Charlie: charlie@mesachurchsd.com
How should the church respond to Roe Vs. Wade being overturned? We have a conversation with Metroplex Women's Clinic and a woman who works at the national level in politics. If you've had an abortion, we want to help you to find healing. Please consider submitting a prayer request (fielder.org/prayer) and joining Surrendering the Secret, a support group of other women who want to walk alongside you, or You are Treasured, a confidential 9-step format class for you to find personal growth and healing from an abortion experience at https://friendsofmwc.com/services/ (Metroplex Women's Clinic) (call 817.299.9599). Contact groups@fielder.org for more information. Get Involved: Embrace Grace, community-wide ministry offering support to pregnant moms. fielder.org/localmissions Foster Care & Adoption Ministry at Fielder, bring a child into your home through foster care & adoption or serve families in our church, fielder.org/fosteradopt Serve with your community group Blessing to Come, a prayer ministry for expectant moms, fielder.org/localmissions Volunteer with Metroplex Women's Clinic
Learn more about how to volunteer with Metroplex Women's Clinic Website: https://friendsofmwc.com/ (https://friendsofmwc.com/)
Metroplex Women's Clinic is looking for: Nurses Volunteer/Client Coordinator Spiritual mentors Donations Class Instructors Spanish-speaking volunteers
Resources: "Pro-choice or Pro-life?: Examining 15 Pro-Choice Claims: What Do Facts & Common Sense Tell Us?" By Randy Alcorn "Image Bearers: Shifting from Pro-Birth to Pro-Life" By Herbie Newell "Why Pro-Life? Caring for the Unborn and Their Mothers" By Randy Alcorn "The Case for Life: Equipping Christians to Engage the Culture" By Scott Klusenndorf Lozierinstitute.org (Science & statistics)
Statistics Used: Lifeway research found 7 in 10 women who have an abortion self-identify as Christians. Half of the regular church-goers who've had an abortion have not told anyone. (https://research.lifeway.com/2021/12/03/7-in-10-women-who-have-had-an-abortion-identify-as-a-christian/ (source)) 85% of women who get an abortion are unmarried.(https://www.guttmacher.org/report/characteristics-us-abortion-patients-2008 (source)) 1 in 4 women will have an abortion by age 45 (https://www.guttmacher.org/news-release/2017/abortion-common-experience-us-women-despite-dramatic-declines-rates (source)) 4 in 10 women who have had an abortion are frequent churchgoers (https://www.care-net.org/churches-blog/new-survey-women-go-silently-from-church-to-abortion-clinic (source)) Between 18,000-20,000 infants are adopted privately in the U.S. each year, while about 900,000 choose abortion. Most women who cannot get an abortion do not end up relinquishing their child, in fact 91% of the women in her study chose to parent. (https://www.npr.org/2021/12/03/1061333491/sociologist-says-women-are-more-likely-to-choose-abortion-over-adoption (source))
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Here's what multigenerational discipleship looks like & why it's important in a church. Diversity matters in the church, in our lives, in our jobs, in our homes, in our parenting because it matters to God – we all matter to God! At Fielder Church, we have 5 core values that define us as a church. We call them the “https://www.fielder.org/fielder-5/ (Fielder 5!)” We invest so we can send We choose radical generosity We pursue imperfect people We expand by planting We celebrate differences
What does it mean to celebrate differences? Whether it's the color of our skin, the languages we speak, our spiritual background or our socioeconomic status, it's always been our diversity that makes us stronger. Because we celebrate differences, this means we make room for different opinions, ideas and methods. Everyone is unique, and everyone is needed in order to make a Kingdom difference. Are you looking for multigenerational discipleship? Join a community group or discipleship group at Fielder church! www.fielder.org/fieldergroups Do you have a question? www.fielder.org/podcast #DiversityMatters #GenerationalDiversity #Diversity #CelebrateDifferences #DiverseChurch #AgeDiversity
In this video, Rafi Rondon, Joshua Ward, and Gimena Monterrubio discuss how our differences make us stronger and how if you see everyone the way God sees them it will help you celebrate the diversity all around you. Diversity matters in the church, in our lives, in our jobs, in our homes, in our parenting because it matters to God – we all matter to God! At Fielder Church, we have 5 core values that define us as a church. We call them the “Fielder 5!” We invest so we can send We choose radical generosity We pursue imperfect people We expand by planting We celebrate differences
What does it mean to celebrate differences? Whether it's the color of our skin, the languages we speak, our spiritual background or our socioeconomic status, it's always been our diversity that makes us stronger. Because we celebrate differences, this means we make room for different opinions, ideas and methods. Everyone is unique, and everyone is needed in order to make a Kingdom difference. If you have been a victim of racism, experienced prejudice or have any other hurt we would love to pray with you. Submit a prayer request by going to https://nam02.safelinks.protection.outlook.com/?url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.fielder.org%2Fprayer&data=05%7C01%7Cmhuang%40fielder.org%7C0e6c7fbec7b24bddbe0a08da53ada240%7C370a1b64dec546908c2c56c386611445%7C0%7C0%7C637914302478797088%7CUnknown%7CTWFpbGZsb3d8eyJWIjoiMC4wLjAwMDAiLCJQIjoiV2luMzIiLCJBTiI6Ik1haWwiLCJXVCI6Mn0%3D%7C3000%7C%7C%7C&sdata=QPfjeGj7%2BL4tERPaerpZHy5bo5l1gdMmypkPvzlFkGY%3D&reserved=0 (www.fielder.org/prayer)
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Link to Full Sermon "https://youtu.be/AJeMyl8tuog (Practicing Prayer)" Parenting Resource "Parenting: 14 Gospel Principles That Can Radically Change Your Family" by Paul David Tripp
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Link to Full Sermon "https://youtu.be/ccbetEIAk4U (Prayer is Power for Forgiveness)" https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=2%20Corinthians%205%3A17-18&version=ESV (2 Corinthians 5:17-18) “Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come. All this is from God, who through Christ reconciled us to himself and gave us the ministry of reconciliation.” https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Matthew+18%3A19-20&version=ESV (Matthew 18:19-20) "Again I say to you, if two of you agree on earth about anything they ask, it will be done for them by my Father in heaven. For where two or three are gathered in my name, there am I among them.” https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Hebrews+12%3A14-15&version=ESV (Hebrews 12:14-15) "Strive for peace with everyone, and for the holiness without which no one will see the Lord. See to it that no one fails to obtain the grace of God; that no “root of bitterness” springs up and causes trouble, and by it many become defiled." https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Acts+3%3A19-20&version=ESV (Acts 3:19-20) "Repent therefore, and turn back, that your sins may be blotted out, that times of refreshing may come from the presence of the Lord." https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Ephesians+4%3A29&version=ESV (Ephesians 4:29) "Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear." How to Pray Leading Up the the Meeting: 1. Pray blessing over the other person and their spouse. (Matthew 5:43-48) 2. Pray that God will reveal to you the wrong you have played in the relationship. 3. Pray that God would reveal to us where the initial hurt originated Before you confront someone ask yourself: 1. Have I prayed continuously about this situation? 2. What are my motivations in wanting to talk to this person? 3. Do I want God’s purposes more than I want my own? 4. Do I want this person to be benefitted from what I say? 5. Is it going to break my heart to tell them this truth as much as it will break their heart to hear it? 6. Am I putting this person down in any way, placing judgment, or assuming motives? 7. Am I trying to win an argument? 8. Could I have false assumptions or perceptions placed on me by another person or by Satan about this person? 9. Check your emotions and seek to understand “why” you feel a certain way towards that person or their situation.
Have you gone to someone other than that person about the situation? 1. Don’t bring in friends that know them – mutual friends are a breeding ground for gossip. It is okay to seek counsel from a mentor or trusted friend, just don’t make it multiple friends or mutual friends. 2. You should be praying about this situation more than you are talking to other people about it. 3. Consider the “24 hour rule” – address it with that person within 24 hours of talking with another friend about the situation. 4. Check your assumptions! 5. Remind yourself that if you go into the conversation thinking you already understand how someone feels or thinks, you are walking in pride and need to humble yourself. Never assume anything, instead take ownership of your feelings and don’t be too proud to acknowledge where you might be in the wrong or disillusioned because of your assumptions.
What to Say in a Reconciliation Meeting: 1. Be specific. 2. Be candid. Don’t sugar coat it. 3. Resist the temptation to be emotionally worked-up. Your tone matters 4. Take 100% responsibility for your part of taking up the right of offense. 5. Ask them for forgiveness for your part and extend forgiveness to them. (be willing to say these 3 phrases. “I am sorry” “I was wrong” “Please forgive me” 6. We not going to leave until we had said everything we needed to say.
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Link to Sermon:https://youtu.be/FVv-Pf8wO-M ( "Prayer is War") Quotes “The act of prayer is the waring itself.” “The endgame is prayer, it’s not a means to the end.” “Our prayers should be more listening than talking - our weapons of are not of human nature.” “The chief place the enemy wants to win is to get us to deny [the character of] God.”
https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Ephesians%206%3A12&version=ESV (Ephesians 6:12) “ For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places.” https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=John+8%3A44+&version=ESV (John 8:44) “You are of your father the devil, and your will is to do your father's desires. He was a murderer from the beginning, and does not stand in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he lies, he speaks out of his own character, for he is a liar and the father of lies.” https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Heb+2%3A14-15+&version=ESV (Hebrews 2:14-15) “Since therefore the children share in flesh and blood, he himself likewise partook of the same things, that through death he might destroy the one who has the power of death, that is, the devil, and deliver all those who through fear of death were subject to lifelong slavery.” https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=1+Jn+4%3A4+&version=ESV (1 John 4:4) “Little children, you are from God and have overcome them, for he who is in you is greater than he who is in the world.” https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=2+Cor+10%3A3-5+&version=ESV (2 Corinthians 10:3-5) “For though we walk in the flesh, we are not waging war according to the flesh. For the weapons of our warfare are not of the flesh but have divine power to destroy strongholds. We destroy arguments and every lofty opinion raised against the knowledge of God, and take every thought captive to obey Christ.” https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Colossians+2%3A13-15&version=ESV (Colossians 2:13-15) “And you, who were dead in your trespasses and the uncircumcision of your flesh, God made alive together with him, having forgiven us all our trespasses, by canceling the record of debt that stood against us with its legal demands. This he set aside, nailing it to the cross. He disarmed the rulers and authorities and put them to open shame, by triumphing over them in him.” Additional Reading on Spiritual Warfare Winning the War in your Mind by Craig Groeschel Invisible War by Rob Randall The Bondage Breaker by Neil T. Anderson Spiritual Warfare by Dr. Karl Payne Screwtape Letters by C. S. Lewis
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Link to Full Sermon "https://youtu.be/6XyZ15rAitc (Prayer is Our Lifeline for Help)" Quotes: “Prayer is an act of dependence on God” “Prayerlessness is really pride” “When He doesn’t answer the way we think He should, we can trust Him.” “He’s more interested in building our character to make us like Him, than building our comfort to make us good people.”
How to Understand the Character of God Know the Word of God Believe the Promises of God Pray the Promises of God
What is the Promise Principle? All throughout Scripture there are promises that God makes. We see that every promise is either a command or a truth. The good news is that if you are a child of God, every single one of those promises are for you! But what do we do with these promises? If it is a Command, you need to pray & ask for it in faith If it is a Truth, you need to pray & receive it with thanksgiving.
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Link to Sermon https://youtu.be/pGB-e-iBJvQ ("Prayer Is Submission to God") Recommended Books: Prayer by Tim Keller
We tackle topics like 'why should I submit to God?' ...'how do I discern the will of God for my life?' ...and 'why should I persist in prayer?' 3 Q's You Need to Ask Yourself to Discern the Will of God: Does it agree with the Word of God? Will this be easy or hard for me? Who is going to get the glory for it? Jesus or someone/something else?
How to Persist in Prayer: Find a prayer closet (place you can be alone) or go for a walk Spend 1 hour praying, listening, and being still. Don't come with an agenda, just be with God.
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Link to Full Sermon "https://youtu.be/o7dog9NGwEg (Prayer Is Intimacy with the Father)" Recommended Books: They Found the Secret by Raymond Edman Spirit Walk by Steve Smith Prayer by Tim Keller School of Prayer by Andrew Murry Word & Spirit by R.T. Kindle Holy Fire by R.T.Kindle
Want to Learn How to Pray? Read the Scriptures & Read Books on Prayer Join our Wednesday Prayer Gatherings at 6:30-8:00pm Get a journal & pen and daily dedicate time to prioritize lingering the presence of the Father.
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