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As if being married wasn’t challenging enough, enduring a husband who uses pornography is a daily roller coaster of heartache and tragedy. But it doesn’t have to stay this way. By the grace of God, I chose to reject the notion that freedom from porn was a lost cause in my marriage. If you’re ready to quit fighting against your husband and instead go to battle FOR him, Porn Apart was made for you. Each episode is designed to draw you closer to Jesus, give you encouragement from the Bible, and teach you strategic ways to love and uplift your husband as he battles his addiction. Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/porn-apart/support
Matt Walsh says he wants to “cancel” pornography addiction because “it doesn’t exist.” We have thoughts about that! Listen in as we discuss his stance and why we respectfully disagree.
Here’s the video by Matt Walsh: https://fb.watch/nvHh4hiaD0/
Our website: Explicitrestoration.com
Support Group for Husbands- Free support community for husbands not connected to any social media
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Wives please email: piper@explicitrestoration.com
Husbands please email: david@explicitrestoration.com
We invite you to watch the video, listen to our show, and share your thoughts and feedback with us!
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On this episode we will cover some of the differences between Addiction Recovery and Trauma Recovery. This podcast builds upon Episode 34. If you haven't listened to the last podcast I encourage you to start there.
Here's the venn diagram we referred to on the show: https://www.canva.com/design/DAFI-IGOUPI/Ci3wIE00wPitMFuofoxtng/edit?utm_content=DAFI-IGOUPI&utm_campaign=designshare&utm_medium=link2&utm_source=sharebutton
Explicitrestoration.com
Support Group for Husbands - Free support community for husbands not connected to any social media
ER: Wives Porn Apart - Free support group for wives on Facebook.
Contact Us - We'd love to hear from you!
piper@explicitrestoration.com
david@explicitrestoration.com
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On this episode we talk about the differences of sobriety and recovery. Some of us need both in our lives and we will dissect what that means for both the husband and the wife.
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Support Group for Husbands
ER: Wives Porn Apart - A support group for wives.
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piper@explicitrestoration.com
david@explicitrestoration.com
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On this episode we will deal with a topic that on the service seems easy but when we really get down to it, it can be a hard thing in a marriage. That this is honesty.
Explicitrestoration.com
Support Group for Husbands
ER: Wives Porn Apart - A support group for wives.
Contact Us
piper@explicitrestoration.com
david@explicitrestoration.com
Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/explicit-restoration/support
This is the Explicit Restoration podcast. David and Piper will come to you each week with a new episode to help marriages overcome the porn addiction of one of the spouses. In todays episode we will share what Explicit Restoration is as well as what to expect each week. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/explicit-restoration/support
When I think of Gwyn Mais, I think of a courageous woman who has walked through fire--and now is working to pull others out of it as well.
On this interview episode Piper interviews Gwyn and they discover they have quite a few things in common, especially with their coaching philosophies and hearts for wives broken by the choices of their husbands.
To find out more about Gwyn and the services she offers check out: https://stillwaterscoaching.life/
On our FB support group for wives we do self-care challenges throughout the year. Would love to have you! https://www.facebook.com/groups/wivespornapart
To inquire about current coaching programs email: piper@explicitrestoration.com
For more about our ministry visit: https://www.ExplicitRestoration.com
You can also watch these episodes on YouTube. Just go to YouTube.com/Explicit Restoration Make sure you follow our channel!
Porn Apart Podcast is a show for wives by Explicit Restoration. We seek to support and disciple husbands & wives affected by pornography addiction. We walked through that mess, now we are honored to journey alongside you in your recovery.
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Before listening to Episode 30 on SMART Goals, make sure you listen to the companion episode #29 “Is it OK to Set Spiritual goals?” These two episodes go together?
You’ve probably heard the saying “Failing to plan is a plan to fail.” So how exactly does one make a plan to grow spiritually? You make plans that are Smart, Measurable, Achievable, Realistic, and Timely (or Time bound). But considering these 5 areas as a part of your goal making process, you will set your self up for great success–even in growing spiritual.
Check out our support group for wives: https://www.facebook.com/groups/wivespornapart
To inquire about current coaching programs email: piper@explicitrestoration.com For more about our ministry visit: https://www.ExplicitRestoration.com
You can also watch these episodes on YouTube. Just go to YouTube.com/@ExplicitRestoration Make sure you follow our channel.
Porn Apart Podcast, a show for wives by Explicit Restoration. We seek to support and disciple husbands & wives affected by pornography addiction. We walked through that mess, now we are honored to journey alongside you in your recovery.
--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/porn-apart/support
On our FB support group for wives we do self-care challenges throughout the year. Would love to have you! https://www.facebook.com/groups/wivespornapart To inquire about current coaching programs email: piper@explicitrestoration.com For more about our ministry visit: https://www.ExplicitRestoration.com You can also watch these episodes on YouTube. Just go to YouTube.com/@ExplicitRestoration Make sure you follow our channel! Porn Apart Podcast, a show for wives by Explicit Restoration. We seek to support and disciple husbands & wives affected by pornography addiction. We walked through that mess, now we are honored to journey alongside you in your recovery. #bensoundmusic--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/porn-apart/support
It’s taken me a while to learn how to take good care of myself. In fact, I’m still learning. I jumped on this unscripted episode and shared about how I took two days to clean house–literally and figuratively. I planned and blocked time to get some house chores done–while also having some much needed alone time focusing on self-care.
On our FB support group for wives we do self-care challenges throughout the year. Would love to have you! https://www.facebook.com/groups/wivespornapart
To inquire about current coaching programs email: piper@explicitrestoration.com
For more about our ministry visit: https://www.ExplicitRestoration.com
You can also watch these episodes on YouTube. Just go to YouTube.com/@ExplicitRestoration Make sure you follow our channel!
Porn Apart Podcast, a show for wives by Explicit Restoration. We seek to support and disciple husbands & wives affected by pornography addiction. We walked through that mess, now we are honored to journey alongside you in your recovery.
--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/porn-apart/support
I once heard a pastor describe evangelism as “one beggar telling another beggar where to find bread.” This is also a great way to describe how I feel about being a recovery coach for wives whose husbands are dealing with pornography addiction. I found a path to hope and healing and now I’m blessed to be able to share with others on the same journey. This episode is an interview with one wife who went through a coaching series with me and was able to make huge strides.
To inquire about current coaching programs email: piper@explicitrestoration.com
For more about our ministry visit: https://www.ExplicitRestoration.com
You can also watch these episodes on YouTube. Just go to YouTube.com/@ExplicitRestoration Make sure you follow our Channel!
Porn Apart Podcast, a show for wives by Explicit Restoration. We seek to support and disciple husbands & wives affected by pornography addiction. We walked through that journey, now we are honored to journey alongside you in your recovery.
--- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/porn-apart/support
We all need tools to do all sorts of jobs. Sometimes having a tool that’s made for the specific job you’re trying to accomplish matters. To drive a nail, you can whack it with wrench, but using a hammer makes more sense and does the job well.
Today on the show we discuss a tool that couples can use to work on their connection—their non-sexual intimacy. The tool is an acronym called FANOS:
Feelings
Affirmations
Needs
Ownership
Struggles
On the show a member of our Facebook group for wives shares about how FANOS 8/ helping in her recovery journey with her husband. Join that group here:
Facebook.com/groups/WivesPornApart
The meditation on this episode can be found in 1 Kings 19.
For more info on our ministry visit:
https://www.ExplicitRestoration.com
You can also watch these episodes on YouTube. Just go to:
YouTube.com/@explicitrestoration
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Recovery is a process. And the process looks different for everyone. Listen in as I interview a wife in the middle of her recovery and healing process.
Any questions about recovery? Interested in one-on-one coaching? I'd love to hear from you: piper@explicitrestoration.com
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Porn Apart is going through a rebranding period. Hear how things and changing and why they are changing. This podcast will have the same content as always just with a few changes.
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Summary:
Piper’s husband David joins her for a “lay it all out there” discussion on David reaching his 1,000th day of porn sobriety.
For Wives Only – Private Group on FB:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/wivespornapart
Free Download Guide - Three Steps to Thriving:
https://www.pornapart.com/thrive
Contact Piper:
piper@pornapart.com
Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/porn-apart/support
Summary:
On Episode 22 Piper shares about the idea of the “Twenty Mile March” popularized by Jim Collins, author of “Great by Choice” and how this concept applies to the recovery journey.
For Wives Only – Private Group on FB:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/wivespornapart
Free Download Guide - Three Steps to Thriving:
https://www.pornapart.com/thrive
Contact Piper:
piper@pornapart.com
Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/porn-apart/support
On Episode 21 Piper shares about 3 Bad Habits which stall or slow down your recovery. The bad habits are: 1. Playing the blame game. 2. Tying your success to your husband’s porn sobriety. 3. Not having a plan or not working a plan. For Wives Only – Private Group on FB: https://www.facebook.com/groups/wivespornapart Free Download Guide - Three Steps to Thriving: https://www.pornapart.com/thrive
Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/porn-apart/support
One of these things is not like the other. Today I dive into a real talk explanation of the common mistake people make when they equate sobriety and recovery. Discovering the mystery and meaning that separates these two is key to make progress in porn addiction and in recovering form porn betrayal.
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This episode is a bit of a heavy one. But it contains truth I think we need to hear–but that we don’t like to talk about. Porn use and porn addiction is no simple sin. Here are my three big ideas for this episode:
- Porn use and porn addiction occur on a spectrum
- Porn use is never casual and never “stable” (it always progresses)
- The progression of porn deviates in a couple of trends
I intentionally left out a positive perspective, or a well-rounded “look on the bright side” closing to this episode. There is no bright side to porn use.
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Summary:
Scripture Meditation Selections from Isaiah (NLT)
Isaiah 1:2-17; 43:1-7; 66:1-14
Download our Meditation Start-Up Guide:
https://www.PornApart.com/Meditate
For Wives Only – Private Group on FB:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/wivespornapart
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Summary:
On this episode I give you a peek inside our FB group for wives. I'm sharing a recording of a Facebook Live event I held where I answered questions that women wrote in to ask.
For Wives Only – Private Group on FB:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/wivespornapart
Download my "Three Steps to Thriving" Guide:
https://www.PornApart.com/Thrive
Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/porn-apart/support
Summary:
Scripture Meditation for Psalm 100 ESV
Download our Meditation Start-Up Guide:
https://www.PornApart.com/Meditate
Three Steps to Thriving (For Wives of Porn Users):
https://www.PornApart.com/Thrive
For Wives Only – Private Group on FB:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/wivespornapart
Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/porn-apart/support
Summary:
What happened when "Happily Ever After" became all I was after.
Our Website:
https://www.PornApart.com
For Wives Only – Private Group on FB:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/wivespornapart
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Summary:
Scripture Meditation for Hebrews 11:1 - 12:2
Download our Meditation Start-Up Guide:
https://www.PornApart.com/Meditate
Links Mentioned:
Porn Apart website: https://PornApart.com
Wives Porn Apart FB group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/wivespornapart
Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/porn-apart/support
Summary: Piper’s first stepsfor how to prepare to talk to your husband about his pornography use.
Tips for Before the Talk, During the Talk, and After the Talk
Links Mentioned:
Three Steps to Thriving Guide for Wives:
https://PornApart.com/thrive
Wives Porn Apart FB group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/wivespornapart
Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/porn-apart/support
Summary:
Scripture Meditation for Genesis 1:1-2:3 NLT
Download our Meditation Start-Up Guide:
https://www.PornApart.com/Meditate
For Wives Only – Private Group on FB:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/wivespornapart
Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/porn-apart/support
Summary:
Why we need the Gospel TODAY as much as the day we first believed.
Links Mentioned:
Porn Apart website: https://PornApart.com/Thrive
Wives Porn Apart FB group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/wivespornapart
Email me: Piper@PornApart.com
Scripture Mentioned:
Romans 5:1
Hebrews 10:14
Colossians 3:5-10
Philippians 3:20
2 Corinthians 4:16-18
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Summary:
A 3-part strategy for when words hurt…especially when our husbands lie to us.
Links Mentioned:
Porn Apart website: https://PornApart.com
Wives Porn Apart FB group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/wivespornapart
Scripture Mentioned:
Proverbs 16:24
Proverbs 18:21
Philippians 4:4-9
Sponsor for this episode:
No one!
Seriously, we are just two people who have been through fire and now we want to help others by sharing what we’ve learned. If you would like to sponsor a future episode, please email us for more info: Piper@PornApart.com
Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/porn-apart/support
Summary:
On this special two-part Valentine's episode I have my very first podcast guest--my husband David. We requested wives of porn users to send us questions they had for a recovering porn addict. Our conversation surrounding these questions did not disappoint! Episode 9 is part 2 of 2.
Links Mentioned:
Porn Apart website: https://PornApart.com
Piper's email: piper@pornapart.com
David's email: david@pornapart.com
Sponsor for this episode:
If this show is meaningful to you, would you consider supporting our cause? We can now accept monthly sponsorships through our podcast host. Go here to make an on-going gift: https://anchor.fm/porn-apart/support
If you’d like to make a one-time gift such as an episode sponsorship, just send us an email: piper@pornapart.com
Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/porn-apart/support
Summary:
On this special two-part Valentine's episode I have my very first podcast guest--my husband David. We requested wives of porn users to send us questions they had for a recovering porn addict. Our conversation surrounding these questions did not disappoint! Episode 8 is part 1.
Links Mentioned:
Porn Apart website: https://PornApart.com
Piper's email: piper@pornapart.com
David's email: david@pornapart.com
Sponsor for this episode:
If this show is meaningful to you, would you consider supporting our cause? We can now accept monthly sponsorships through our podcast host. Go here to make an on-going gift: https://anchor.fm/porn-apart/support
If you’d like to make a one-time gift such as an episode sponsorship, just send us an email: piper@pornapart.com
Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/porn-apart/support
Summary:
On this episode I tackle a topic that I wasn’t thrilled to explore. In fact it brought up some difficult feelings and memories for me. Please proceed with caution here and do a good job caring for yourself. Stop listening and step away if you need to. In this episode I discuss three big ideas surrounding the question, “Is Porn Abuse?”
- Porn is infidelity.
- Porn use is hurtful and leads to trauma
- Abusive behaviors are often linked to porn use.
There’s a lot more to this topic than I cover, but I do my best to tip my toe in the water to wrestle with this difficult concept.
Links Mentioned:
Porn Apart website: https://PornApart.com
My email: piper@pornapart.com
Coaching: https://PornApart.com/coaching
Covenant Eyes Article: https://www.covenanteyes.com/2015/01/19/using-porn-is-cheating/
Studies on the effects of Porn use from Marripedia.org:
http://marripedia.org/effects_of_pornography
Sponsor for this episode:
If this show is meaningful to you, would you consider supporting our cause? We can now accept monthly sponsorships through our podcast host. Go here to make an on-going gift: https://anchor.fm/porn-apart/support
If you’d like to make a one-time gift such as an episode sponsorship, just send us an email: piper@pornapart.com
Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/porn-apart/support
Show Notes: Summary: In this episode Piper walks you through her free guide “3 Steps to Thriving.” Links Mentioned: Get the guide here: https://PornApart.com/Thrive My email: piper@pornapart.com. David’s email: david@pornapart.com
Sponsor for this episode: Something exciting happened! We can now accept monthly sponsorships through our podcast host. If this podcast is meaningful to you, please consider helping us reach more listeners! Go here to make an on-going gift: https://anchor.fm/porn-apart/support If you’d like to make a one-time gift such as an episode sponsorship, just send us an email: piper@pornapart.com
Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/porn-apart/support
Summary:
Yes I’ve got an unpopular opinion going on. I want you to consider if that ”Read the Bible in a Year” plan is actually a good fit for you and for your spiritual growth.
Links Mentioned:
Porn Apart website: https://PornApart.com
My email: piper@pornapart.com
Meditation Scripture Passage:
Psalm 119:57-80
Sponsor for this episode:
Something exciting happened! We can now accept monthly sponsorships through our podcast host. If this podcast is meaningful to you, please consider helping us reach more listeners! Go here to make an on-going gift: https://anchor.fm/porn-apart/support
If you’d like to make a one-time gift such as an episode sponsorship, just send us an email: piper@pornapart.com
Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/porn-apart/support
Summary:
In this special Christmas Bonus Episode our meditation includes over 100 names for Jesus found in the Bible. You can find them here: https://bibleresources.org/names-of-jesus/
I also shared about my favorite name for Jesus– Emmanuel –and what the meaning and truth of this name means for us as believers. The nearness of God is one of the most powerful comforts in my life.
Thank you for listening! David and I hope you have a joy-filled Christmas.
Links Mentioned:
Porn Apart website: https://PornApart.com
My email: piper@pornapart.com
Meditation Scripture Passage:
Isaiah 40
Sponsor for this episode:
No one!
We are just two people who have been through fire and now we want to help others by sharing what we’ve learned. If you would like to sponsor a future episode, please email us for more info: Piper@PornApart.com
Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/porn-apart/support
Summary:
You’ve probably heard the oxygen mask analogy before. But why does everyone use this analogy and how does it apply to enduring your husband’s pornography use?
In this episode I share three key ideas on why you need to be focusing on your own self-care and well-being before you can begin to do anything in regards to your husband and his well-being or addiction. .
- You can’t do anything about the plane going down.
- God has a plan for YOU and cares about YOU.
- You can’t serve anyone else if you are suffocating.
Links Mentioned:
Porn Apart website: https://PornApart.com
3 Steps to Thriving https://PornApart.com/Thrive
My email: piper@pornapart.com
Meditation Scripture Passage:
Isaiah 40
Sponsor for this episode:
No one!
We are just two people who have been through fire and now we want to help others by sharing what we’ve learned. If you would like to sponsor a future episode, please email us for more info: Piper@PornApart.com
Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/porn-apart/support
Summary:
There are three big reasons why you can’t stop your husband’s porn addiction:
- Admission is a choice
- Accountability is a choice
- The Brain and Dopamine
Listen to find out why understanding these key areas actually helps you understand your husband’s addiction and sets you free from feeling like you have to be the one to solve his problem. (Spoiler: You can’t. But Jesus can.)
Links mentioned:
Main Website: https://www.PornApart.com
Facebook Page: http://facebook.com/PornApart
3 Step to Thriving: https://www.PornApart.com/Thrive
Find a Celebrate Recovery near you: https://locator.crgroups.info/
Meditation Scripture passage:
Psalm 27
Sponsor for this episode:
No one!
Seriously, we are just two people who have been through fire and now we want to help others by sharing what we’ve learned. If you would like to sponsor a future episode, please email us for more info: Piper@PornApart.com
Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/porn-apart/support
Summary:In this launch episode of Porn Apart I (Piper here) share the story of how I found out my husband was using pornography. There is also a glimpse into the mission of this show--which is to come alongside other wives of porn addicts. There are many other women just like you--you are not alone! We (my husband and I) want to edify you in your walk with Jesus and in your marriage.
Links mentioned:
Main Website: https://www.PornApart.com
Facebook Page: http://facebook.com/PornApart
3 Step to Thriving: https://www.PornApart.com/Thrive
Meditation Scripture passage:
Psalm 18
Sponsor for this episode:
No one!
Seriously, we are just two people who have been through fire and now we want to help others by sharing what we’ve learned. If you would like to sponsor a future episode, please email us for more info: Piper@PornApart.com
Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/porn-apart/support
As if being married wasn’t challenging enough, enduring a husband who uses pornography is a daily roller coaster of heart-ache and tragedy. But it doesn’t have to stay this way. By the grace of God, I chose to reject the notion that freedom from porn was a lost cause in my marriage. If you’re ready to quit fighting against your husband and instead go to battle FOR him, Porn Apart was made for you. Each episode is designed to draw you closer to Jesus, give you encouragement from the Bible, and teach you strategic ways to love and uplift your husband as he battles his addiction.
Learn more at PornApart.com
Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/porn-apart/support