The Adventure Between Us: Recent Episodes
Destiny Finn
Reclaiming our lives, our voices and our identity. To become all who we’ve been called and created to be. Adventure can be scary. But it can also be beautiful. So are you ready to take the adventure of a lifetime with me?
Life cannot deny itself to the one who gives life their all. We get one life. Just one. So why would we want to live our one glorious life half alive? I don’t know where you personally sit at the moment with life but if you feel stuck, behind, unfulfilled or you don’t know which direction to take then this episode is for you.
As artists we are consistently deciding what it is we want to create, we are deciding why it is we want to create what we do and who’s the audience it’s for. In this episode I’m gonna be more just talking on a personal level of my journey in deciding what it is I want to Create.
One thing I’ve noticed lately in general is the amount of people okay with doing lazy work. They’re okay with doing the bare minimum and leaving half done passive lives. In the Christian community we often hear the phrase ‘content in Christ’ but what I’m noticing more and more is that’s simply a mask to hide their lazy efforts. In this episode we are gonna be discussing all of that and how we are called to work.
Martha us know for being a doer. In modern day she probably would have been see as the ‘it woman’ on top of her game. But what if her focus was in the wrong place in that moment? Today we are gonna be talking about how we often misinterpret what the scripture is actually saying and what type of women we are called to be.
How often do you find yourself stressed or worrying about the days to come? How often do you feel overwhelmed about the future? What if there was a way to change that? Today we will be talking about just that.
How often do you find yourself worrying about what’s to come or if things are gonna work out? How often is your focus on the negative what ifs that could happen? In this episode we are gonna be talking about how to fix your focus and how the reality is when you do that you’ll notice how much you find yourself being taken care of, and how everything works itself out.
When it comes to building successful habits the basic details involving those habits honestly will help make or break your momentum into seeing them through, and that’s what we’re gonna be talking about today.
All relationships doesn’t matter with your friend, lover, parent etc. take work. They need communication to thrive. Over time stuff and clutter builds on the table and it needs to be cleaned off. Join me on today’s episode where we will be talking about why it’s so important to have communication and how to go about it in a healthy effective manner.
How often do you put off something telling yourself you have tomorrow and then the next day and the next and before you know it, tomorrow has been three months, a year, a decade and you have pursued that dream, hobby, job, called up your friend etc. but what if I told you the time has always been now.
A lot of us probably know and love our strengths but how many of us genuinely know our weaknesses? And why does that matter?
What is Success? What are the steps to truly becoming successful? In this episode we are gonna be diving in and talking about the root, the cornerstone, the bottom line secret to success.
The ego. We all have one and if we’re not careful it can sabotage our jobs, our growth, our relationships and more. In this episode we are gonna be talking about a handful of ways ego tends to strike.
I feel like there some of us out there that feel as though their opportunities have already passed them up; whether it’s with a career, a relationship, a life altering idea etc. but what if we looked at life as though opportunities continually come? And we are gonna be talking about how they truly do.
Humans are psychosomatic beings, meaning our minds and bodies are in relationship with one another. When you feel stressed after a long day you may experience physical pain, when you’re honest with someone you might experience a weight off your chest. The anxiety we feel at times inside affects not only our emotional states but also our physical ones. And that is what we are gonna be discussing in this episode: the relationship between mind and bodies with emotions.
We all have them. You know those habits we don’t like talking about because well they’re just bad. From nail biting to worrying in this episode we are gonna be talking about bad habits, why it’s so important to break them and doing just that: we are gonna be talking about how to break our bad habits.
Identity based habits are the most powerful habits of all, but what exactly are identity based habits? Why are they so important when it comes to creating a healthier, successful life? In this episode we’re going to break down how your identity affects your habits and how your habits in return affect your identity.
If you google how to be happy you will find a limitless supply of blogs, forums, quotes and lists involving 27 ways to be happy and make your life happier; but the scary statistics are that majority of Americans want to be happy yet out of that majority very few are. But isn’t our dreams and goals supposed to make us happy? How do we achieve continual happiness? We’re gonna be discussing all that in today’s episode
Your goals may leave you with momentary satisfaction but they won’t leave you with lasting results. In this episode we are gonna be talking about why your system is so much more important than your goals.
Have you ever been on a hike where you’re in between point A and point B but you’re starting to feel super discouraged and disappointed you’re not there yet? Well what about in life? What about with your progress? I think we all know where we want to be but that valley in between the start and the breakthrough can sometimes be overwhelming and in this episode we are gonna talk about how to push past that valley, the importance of overcoming that valley and the success that happens after conquering that valley.
It’s not fun when it feels like everything in life is working against us, but what if our habits are also working against us? What if I told you there was a way to make habits work for you? To have them change your life?
I think a lot of us have this idea that in order to have massive success we need to create massive habits and movements; but reality is that small habits lead to groundbreaking outcomes. In this episode we are gonna be talking about that.
Who you are at 18 doesn’t get to decide who you have to be for the rest of your life; yet I think there’s a lot of us that feel like we’re gonna be letting that younger self down if we change paths. In this episode we are gonna be talking about how your dreams matter, how they build upon each other in the details and how to change your mindset about how you look at doing something new, especially when it comes to reclaiming your life, your voice and your identity.
We’ve all probably at some point in our lives experienced growing pains. But why do we need to? And why should we want to grow? In this episode we are gonna be diving in talking about Growth and how we can grow and why it’s so important.
Comfort is comfortable. I get it. Comfort is also nice, but when it begins to hinder us from becoming better version of ourselves or being obedient unto Christ it becomes a problem. That’s what we’re gonna be talking about in this episode.
How do you view yourself? Is your self belief one of inconvenience or investment? Because your self belief will pave the way for your entire life and that is exactly what we will be talking about today.
What is the subconscious belief system you have for your life? And why does that matter? Well to find out listen to today’s episode
When we think of addictions we usually think of drinking or smoking but what about the addiction of sugar, gossip or action? The addiction to action, to constant busyness is devastating to the soul and in this episode we are gonna be talking about why, and how to change to live a healthier and fuller life
When we have a disciplined healthy life we can functionally strive and succeed in all areas. So what exactly does it mean to have a disciplined healthy life? That’s what we will be talking about in today’s episode.
We should aim to become 1% better everyday. So what does that look like when it comes to relationships and life? How do we continually cultivate healthy relationships when change does arise?
Choice. Six letters, endless routes to go. We all have choices, everyday with everything we do.
What is the thoughts of which you are sowing? What type of fruit are you planting and reaping? In this episode we will break down how the mind and brain work together and the importance of the thoughts we think.
Love and respect are critical to growth, to health and for life. But why? And what just exactly is love and respect? Why is it so important?
Silence is compliance. It’s not always easy confronting someone or having someone confront you, but it is critical for growth and for our health. In this episode we will be talking about why confrontation is needed in life and how to go about having those ‘hard’ conversations.
I think all of us at one point or another have settled for something. I think all of us at one point have self sabotaged ourselves. That’s what we are gonna be breaking down in this episode.
Who do you want to be? What is the 2.0 version of yourself that you want to become? What are the factors that play into making you that version? Those are all questions we will be answering in this episode.
Your mind is your most powerful weapon. Your mindset truly and sincerely matters and the mindset you have dictates your health both mentally and physically. In this episode we talk about why mindset matters and how to create a healthy mindset.
We all have habits. We have neutral habits like brushing our teeth or tying our shoes but we also have good habits that get us closer to our goals or bad habits that hurt us. In this episode we talk about the power of habits and how to change them and make them work for you.
How many of us haven’t actually taken the time to cultivate a quiet mind. But what would happen if we actually did?
Do you even know why we do the things we do? Do we know why? How often have you actually defined your why? In this episode we’re gonna be talking about the importance of defining our why.
How often are we consumed with consuming? We get so busy with consuming media and content we almost put creating on the back burner. Our minds become over saturated with information we numb ourselves out from allowing a clear space and mindset to create and be creative. So how do we change that?
Have you ever started to feel burn out with something? Maybe something you once loved you’re now dreading to do. It usually has something to do with mental limits… in this episode we’re gonna be diving in and talking about how to change perspective and change your mindset to the start of something new
I have them, you have them, we all have emotions. Emotions that can at times be quite strong and complex. So how do we understand them, why do we have emotions? How do we learn to use them as a gauge instead of a guide? That’s what we will be discussing in this episode.
How often do we try to rush the timing of something? How often do we try to control when and how thing are going to happen instead of trusting the process?
What is controlling your life? What do you allow to dictate your emotions and responses to the things of life? What does it mean for something to capture your heart?
When you’re asked the question ‘who are you?’ What do you respond with?… where is your identity? And how can you have an unchanging identity?
To many of us are quick to speak and slow to listen rather than being quick to listen and slow to speak, you can disagree and still respect someone; but more than ever we are living in a culture where we look to crucify them when they don’t agree. Today we are gonna be diving in talking about cancel culture.
I don’t know about you but I loveeeeee trail mix. It’s scrumptious. But as a kid I had a different perspective on trail mix, and my perspective is one we all often have with life. To find out that perspective you’re gonna have to tune into this episode.
How many of us try new things? Americans on average only try about eight new things a year?!!! How crazy is that?! But what would happen if we tried new things, thought of a new way of doing things?
A lot of us have this Hollywood mindset when it comes to life. These perfectly curated moments of how life will go, our social feeds are made up of filtered perfect pictures, but in reality that’s not life, so what does an original unedited life look like?
How many of us are allowing our past to define and defile our present moments? How many of us are stuck in the past and letting it hold us back from the person we want to become?
Our world has tried to define this word called Love. But what is love and how is it necessary for our everyday living? How can we love? That’s what will be talking about in today’s episode
Don’t dim your light just because others are intimated by you, let them put some shades on. You are called to be your light, to shine in the way which you were created to shine.
You deserve your dreams, who he would they be fit for than you? When you start to change your thinking process when it comes to the dreams and desires you have you start to see how truly capable you are at pursuing them.
We become the stories we tell ourselves. So as the writers of our destiny what are we choosing for our script? What thoughts affect our thinking?
Everything you do starts in the mind. It’s your mental state that helps to determine your life’s outcome. So self growth truly begins with mental healing.
Everything begins in the mind. What you think is what you’ll become. What you believe is what you’ll act upon. So you need to make sure you have a battle mindset
What do you believe? What do you believe about yourself and why is it so important? Because It’s who you will become. What you believe about yourself will determine the life you live.
The habits you do or create today will shape the lifestyle you live tomorrow. Because tomorrow is just a series of todays built upon each other. In this episode we talk and break down what it means and takes to build a better tomorrow.
Whatever is important to you you will make time for. It’s the blunt truth, but so many of us say things are important to us yet never seem to make the time for those things.
What are your dreams and who is the person you want to become? That’s what we are gonna be talking about today. Who are you now and who do you want to become and the steps needed to do just that.
Have you ever had something in your life that seemed impossible? Overwhelming? You didn’t know how you’d ever make it happen? That’s okay. In this lesson we talk about learning how to do the impossible things to get us where we want to be.
At one point in your life you’ve probably have experienced the words: Less Than. Feeling in some way shape or form; Less than. Less than pretty, less than good, less than successful and the list goes on and on. I get it. I’ve been there, I still at times struggle with feeling less than. But what if I told you that you could overcome those two words to feel and become greater than.
I don’t know about you but I’ve been noticing lately that when I’m tired I find myself mentally beating myself up for being tired. And that my friend is not cool. Instead I should be self caring and renewing my mind, soul and body.
Hustle culture. You know it, you might love it. At least I know I did. That was until I started to notice it was hurting my productivity.
How often in daily life are we distracted and consumed with our tasks and mental thoughts? How much beauty goes unnoticed in front of your very eyes because of it? And what can you do to change the busyness into beauty?
Your thoughts control the direction of your life. Yet most of us have never taken the time to evaluate our thought lives. In this episode we’re going to break down six lessons on why we should do just that.
Striving for perfection is great; until it isn’t. When expectations become unrealistic we begin to hurt ourselves in the process and carry mental burdens no one asked used to carry.
How many things do we allow in our minds that don’t need to be there? How much information are we carrying that doesn’t need to be carried? What mental burdens weigh upon us? And how do we fix it?
How often do we use God as an excuse for our lives on whether they go well or not? What if the responsibility rests in our hands and our actions or lack of are the reason our lives go well or not?
I think we have a huge misconception on what it means to use the Lord’s name in vain. We say it’s simply saying ‘oh my God’ when in reality it goes way deeper beneath the surface. And that my dear friends is what we will be talking about today.
All to often in life I rush the process forgetting that doesn’t make progress. I feel as if I should be weeks ahead from where I am now feeling as if I’m behind in life. And maybe that’s you. Today we will be diving in on how that only creates burnout and what you can do to change it.
Does life ever truly go as planned? The answer to that is no. But the secret to that is that’s more than okay. Because it usually turns out better then planned.
We often forget about the details between point A to point B. But how often do we get caught up in the wrong details? How often do we freak out about life ‘not looking as planned’ forgetting it isn’t a straight line; and just because it isn’t looking as expected doesn’t mean you aren’t getting to where you want or need to be.
Healing is a Journey. It’s not a one and done in one day kinda ordeal. You’re not a broken toy, you’re a human. A human with thoughts, feelings and emotions; And you don’t need to justify your healing. No, if it hurt you then You need to heal and not compare yourself to anyone else. It is your pain, your path and your responsibility to heal and care for yourself. So My dear friend let’s do just that. Let’s heal together.
How often do we get preconceived notions or a fixed mindset on how something is going to be not realizing when we do that we are limiting our opportunities?
How often do we miss the biblical idea of peace? The world’s definition of peace is absence from suffering and if that is true then how as a follower of Yeshua are we supposed to have peace when Yah promises sufferings and yet also promises Peace? So just what is peace? Or if peace is just the opposite of war then it’s a nice idea but hardly one to carry all the weight the Bible puts on it. In Yah’s design, peace means so much more and that my friends is what we’re gonna dive deep into today.
We live in a society where we have been told that we need to be working or we aren’t being productive. That if you enjoy your work then there must be something wrong. But what does it actually mean to live? We weren’t created to work full time and live part time. In this week’s episode we break down the thought processes of what it means to truly live a productive and valuable life.
In our western culture we have become addicted to being busy forgetting that sometimes in order to be most productive we need to rest. In this episode we will dive into why rest is such an important part of the work.
Starting can be scary. It can be hard. But the result my dear friend can be beautiful. It’s okay to be scared, but don’t throw away the courage to do hard things.
Hollywood, Taylor Swift and countless others have tried their hand and yet we seem no closer to truly understanding what love is. In this episode we will begin to break off the tip of the iceberg of what Love truly is.
This year I’m taking off my limits of what I think this channel should look like and rather gonna just speak on what’s laying on my heart to share. If you got questions or situations you need help or answers on feel free to message us and let’s dive in.
This week’s episode of the adventure between us podcast we are back on the topic of your daily dose of warrior manhood quotes. Quotes meant to encourage, strengthen and help you in this every day life or death fight for the cross. It is meant to motivate you and push you forward to help lift your soul and eyes back to Christ so that you can lead, serve and live well as a man of God.
This week’s episode of the adventure between us podcast we are back on the topic of your daily dose of warrior manhood quotes. Quotes meant to encourage, strengthen and help you in this every day life or death fight for the cross. It is meant to motivate you and push you forward to help lift your soul and eyes back to Christ so that you can lead, serve and live well as a man of God.
This week’s episode of the adventure between us podcast we are back on the topic of your daily dose of warrior manhood quotes. Quotes meant to encourage, strengthen and help you in this every day life or death fight for the cross. It is meant to motivate you and push you forward to help lift your soul and eyes back to Christ so that you can lead, serve and live well as a man of God.
This week’s episode of the adventure between us podcast we are back on the topic of your daily dose of warrior manhood quotes. Quotes meant to encourage, strengthen and help you in this every day life or death fight for the cross. It is meant to motivate you and push you forward to help lift your soul and eyes back to Christ so that you can lead, serve and live well as a man of God.
Relationships need communication to survive. It is a constant dialogue between two people growing together side by side sharing their hopes, their dreams, their fears, and their worries. Communication is key in every relationship and it is a very important skill to cultivate. In this episode We talk and discuss key points into creating and developing healthy communication in a relationship.
Something I’m noticing more and more in today’s culture including with myself is the level of boundaries or lack of them we have for ourselves and people. It seems to be one extreme or the other. But boundaries are not rude, they are important. They are important for ourselves and our health and for others. It’s okay to say no to someone, yet what I’m seeing in our culture is to many people draining themselves because of a lack of healthy boundaries, and when you don’t have any boundaries for yourself you are not respecting yourself or showing people how to respect you and you begin to violate your own integrity.
In this week’s episode of the adventure between us we talk about manhood and warrior quotes to encourage you and help inspire you to live by because as men of God we are not called to be passive but to take action. Inaction is action but it’s the action of not doing rather then doing.
They are real and they are not something to ignore. In this week’s episode we breakdown and discuss how to spot and deal with red flags in a relationship and hopefully before a relationship so you can avoid heartbreak. So these are our personal red flags to look out for when getting into a relationship or when evaluating someone you like.
Why do so many women become emotionally exhausted with life. Why do we become burnt out and at the ends of our ropes? In this episode we will discuss how to overcome and how to renew our minds
We are in a pandemic of passive men. Where the concept of chivalry’s scoffed is at as an old mans fantasy and we can be called toxic at the drop of a hat. This culture we’re currently living in is trying desperately hard to kill off and attack masculinity, especially godly masculinity. But there is nothing toxic about living God’s way as a man or leader. You do not need permission to be a man. As men of God we are called to action. To speak and live out the truth. To lead our families. To be warriors in the spiritual arenas we’re called to live in. To be willing to die for the gospel. These are things that will be talked about in this video.
Dating is evaluating. In this episode we talk and discuss while breaking down the why and the principles of why we date and what to look out for in this season.