15-year couple helps you better understand the values that drive the decisions you make: from career, to relationships, to life choices
What are woman looking for in a relationship? How would you envision the dynamic of leading and following between you and your partner?#communicationskills #loveandtrust #leadingwithintegrity #betterrelationships
Tips how to diffuse tension when there is an argument. How to regulate one's self so that it does not get out of hand.#emotionalcontrol #physicalthreats #annoyed #loudshouting #relationshiptips #notheard #raisingvoice
Teamwork, Combining forces, believing and knowing what your strengths and weakness are, being independant but also strong as a unit. Most of all open communcation and asking for help when needed instead of assuming the person can read your mind.#yinyangrelationships #belief #opencommunication #trust #communicationskills #couplespodcast
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What is AI technology doing to the landscape of society? Is it an overall beneficial or would it harm the human race?
What are the consequences of throwing AI Tools into society? Are there better ways to protect ourselves?
Will Humans survive technological advances for the greater of Mankind or we will be punished for the wrong moral choices that we decide?
How do you envision living your life? What sparks joy and keeps you going in life?
What are your reasons for wanting to seek out the digital lifestyle?
How is AI and future of technology going to further impact your life, community, and humanity around you? Is there a way to embrace what is to come or to fight against it?
What are key notable takeaway to know when to pivot in life and make decisions that focus and draw you closer to your goals and aspirations in life?
What are your thoughts when it comes to AI technology? Do we need control or regulate technology so that it can be used ethically in a good way?
Would chatbots help get a society to get out of a less depressive state and solve for loneliness and companionship? Will future technology control our future emotions and metal wellbeing?
Would you ever want to meet your customers if you owned your own company? What do you bring to the table that would peak your customers interests?
What does it take to change ones habits or lifestyle? What are your priorities in life? What are your sacrifices?
Do you think your jobs right now will be taken over by AI technology? What are the concerns? How is the job market landscape changing?
What are the challenges when dating as a Digital Nomad? The tip is staying in one place for longer period of time so that there is a higher chance of connecting and building a relationship.
How will future of AI change the job landscape of hiring in Big Tech vs Walmart? Will it be fair and what will happen to the people that aren't or having trouble finding job opportunities? Will job hunting be more difficult and harder to obtain?
Are you addicted to your phone or technology? How has that helped you or hurt you mental wellbeing? Can you detox from tech?
How to get into a country and be able to stay? It's not as hard as one may think. Here are some suggestions how to navigate traveling around the world.
What are you thoughts with Open Source? Is society able to ethically choose what is best for the community?
Releasing AI Models into the wild is that a good thing? Is there an understanding or abstract view regarding how Open Source works within our society? What are your thoughts?
Do you like what you do? If not what would you do to change it? Does it take a traumatic experience in order for you to pivot/change your lifestyle?
How can the book "4hr Work Week" by Tim Ferris be part of your life? What would you aspire and want to for fill in your life goals?
Can work life balanced be achieved when you work as a digital nomad? Here are some tips that helps promote better mental well being and health.
Can you cope with the transition from reality to virtual worlds? Which world do you prefer? Is it healthy for human race to depend and rely heavily on technology? Can the human mind cope with duality of the different worlds or does it skew our reality and raise our expectations in a unhealthy way?
Staying beyond the limits in a country. Tip: 1.) Stay in country 90 days and then go travel and then come back. 2.) Get a certain visa so that you can stay longer. (like a work visa)
What does AI for good look like - we speculate AI can help in communication, but there are risks in falling in love!
A digital nomad Visa lets you access a country for longer periods as long as you meet certain income requirements.
How do you want to make your money? Here are some tips and ideas to break out of the norm and create your own envision of how you want to make your own money.
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Would you go along and agree that the Government has the best interest for it's people? Is Government controlling freedom of expression/speech?
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Are you letting social media dictate and hijack your emotions and feelings? What kind of tactics do social media giants use so that they can attract more users to their platform?
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How does social media giants captivate the audience? Are you drawn and addicted to these apps such as Facebook, TikTok, Instagram, Twitter to name a few. What have you done to not let this happen to you or would you just let social media control your every urge?
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Is the problem of Chinese government control over TikTok really solvable? What are the consequences when you push back or say No to Government? There are serious ramification and consequences that can jeopardize your life or family. How would you navigate this sticky situation?
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What is the truth about sexual assault allegations of Peng Shuai? Did government pressure her to sweep the situation under the rug? Does TikTok CEO have the full authority over these allegations and can government get away by asserting their control over someone? 🔍
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US government's concerns about TikTok. Is China doing better than US in handling strategic national interest?🤨 Is TikTok too successful to ignore?📈 #China's strict tech policies: No Facebook or Google🚫 is that a good move?
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AI Bots such as Chat GPT or Bard can help detect, guide, and recommend tips to navigate a relationship and strengthen weaknesses where they become strength. Would or could you see yourself relying on AI assisted bot for your relationship needs?
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Is Chat AI or AI Assisted Bots able to help fix all relationships? Can AI Bot help throughout your relationships and listen to your conversations. Would you like that or do you think there is a privacy breech?
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https://www.youtube.com/@peteryu888#howtoutilizeai #lifechoices #relationshipadvice #relationshipgoals #futurelife #futureideas #navigation #questions #questionswithsolutions #questionwithanswer #promptengineering Quick tips and ways to ask AI Bot a question to help you out with your own relationship. 1.) ask how to respond to a certain situation 2.) is there a specific way to ask for help 3.) be as detailed as possible to yield for better results
https://www.youtube.com/@peteryu888#futureconnected #aibot #ai #relationships #relationshipgoals #howtorelationship #selfdevelopment #selfdiscovery #selfdiscoverycoach Would you be opened to using AI Bot or Bard to help you out with how you navigate your relationship? How would your partner receive the information that a bot is helping you out?
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Do you put your priorities above others? How do you treat your innerself? What are the consquences to your actions? What are your intentions in life? Make the right decision and choices for yourself. Try to seek clarity.
What are your life goals? Do you want to life a fulfilled life? What are your priorities from what you innately desire and want long term?
Do Modern Women Have Everything in Life? Do they really want a relationship? They say they don't need a man in their life. Is that what is best for you or society?
Women who are earning more money have more control over their finances and more options in life such as not relying on finding a husband right away due to financial stability. Women have a choice in staying single for longer period of time in order to find their right partner.
Lot of Guys who have good attributes can make women happy are over looked and not given a chance. Reason being it does not align with women's imagination of the perfect guy.
Are Single Women or Married Women Happier for longer period of time? What does happiness look for you?
Putting other's down just to boost your ego creates poor relationship and connection. Beware and mindful of what you say and do because there are always consequences.
Higher Educated and Income Earning Women choose to marry up which is an evolutionary motivation. They also have rigid higher expectations and standards set which adds more pressure on Men today.
What kind of energy do you have? Majority of men are looking for feminine energy in a women. Does your energy align with what guy you want or are attracted to?
According to Wells Fargo Survey 54% of all partnered women have either greater or equal earnings to their spouse.
Are you willing to sacrifice your safety and self worth to gain experiences and materialistic objects? Everything comes at a cost. Know your self value.
1.) Respecting the Man's Decision 2.) Agreeing to the Man's choice 3.) Women having low expectations *Guy being the portal to a women's experiences in the world to better connect and share memories together in a traditional relationship.
A Lady going to Third Party (the Media) to decide if her relationship is worth keeping. Her actions broke the trust of her husband. She didn't consider having open communication, disrespected and didn't show self advocacy to her husband.
93% Educated Women choose to marry men with higher income then themselves. It's to make sure that they themselves are taken care of and have the stability that they want.
Being Single can be great but it comes with some challenges like finding a good support network, societal pressure, and conforming to family traditions. Remember that everyone has a different journey and path.
Today's modern women can make money and take care of themselves. So what do they need a man for?
What type of happiness do you prefer? Surface level of happiness or the more meaningful and purpose driven kind? Surface level happiness is a one off type of feeling that you get in spurts and not prolong period of time versus longer satisfied happiness. Which is when you share and connect with those around you in a deeper way, more purpose and meaning into your life.
Some examples of Surface Level Happiness are Buying a Chanel Purse, dining at a Michelin Star Restaurant and being promoted at Work. These experiences are only short term dopamine hits. Wouldn't you want to share the special moment with someone?
People are less likely to settle with just one person due to being ghosted from Social Media and Dating Apps.
Women don't need no man these days. They can focus on themselves and their careers. What does that look like when they don't have someone to celebrate with?
With the rise of technology it is easier to connect with people but harder to find the right person who is a good match. It's all about timing.
Need to level up in life in order to attract the right mate. The process of leveling up is hard which men would have to endure pain and scars. In society today there is a High rejection rate and men give up a lot earlier in life because they find it is not worth the race to be in. Incel Men - rejected by society so much they gave up
Check in with you and ask yourself are you grateful for what you have in the present moment or Are you collecting/hoarding experiences and material objects as a badge of honor?
Do you have what it take to maintain the fancy lifestyle and the hidden costs? Think and choose what is the right lifestyle for you because it can cause more stress and added responsibility that you didn't recognize before when choosing out of your means.
Instead of focusing on Dating Down. Focus on the emotional connections and values with that person and if you are in alignment. Arm Candy is what everyone wants but it is not sustainable for a long period of time.
Due to increasing technology, number of women are getting more attention more than ever on social media like Instagram. Women experience extravagant meals, gifts, and housing which feed into a women's ego and thoughts of entitlement.
A Study by Morgan Stanley reported that 45% of Women will be single by 2030. Check out other videos to find out the reasons
We asked Chat GPT: Are Women Single actually Happier then Married Women? The response was there was no definitive answer and that studies have found mixed results. Married Women maybe happier on average vs Single Women. Find out what are the sources of happiness for Single and Married Women in this Clip.
Daily walks can do wonders for your relationships. It's been the bedrock keeping us in sync with a shared experience that is also physically healthy. During this time, we plan for the day, we vent out our frustrations, and we celebrate our wins together. Try taking a daily walk with your relationship and see where you'll go.
Career women are looking for men to handle them. But they completely disregard what the other side wants. No man, who already has a lot of expectations, will wants the added stress of handling any woman. A shift in mindset and expectations is needed in order for relationships to happen.
There are feminine ways of earning money that can be attractive for matching with masculine energy. This includes social media content creation and influencing as an athlete. Climbing the corporate ladder is not the only way to earn money - but is often seen is the way of choice for modern feminists.
Lady on Tik Tok refused to clean when the husband was building a house for her. When she escalated to Tik Tok to get the public's opinion, that led to her husband initiating divorce. What could she have done differently to get a better result?
Consuming content on the internet is a favorite past time - and sharing viral clips with each other in a relationship can be a shared experience. But what happens when your partner already saw everything. Every viral clip you try to share with them, they've already experienced.
In life nothing is free. Even if it's a free dinner, there are expectations from the other side that happen. So don't just take everything that's free - otherwise you will owe people a lot and if you don't deliver, then resentment builds and you can get yourself in a sticky situation.
We are taught to value ourselves over the relationship - but in order to make the relationship work, you need to prioritize the relationship over yourself. There are consequences otherwise if you insist on yourself over the relationship
Many women are upset that their boyfriends listen to Andrew Tate and other guy podcasts and try to control what they listen to. But is this the right approach? In relationships, give your partner the benefit of the doubt and trust their judgment in filtering content on the internet. You can influence, but you cannot control.
Women say they want a man with good values, emotionally available, and good communicators. But is that really all they want? Data shows that what women actually select for are minimum 6 feet tall, 6 figure income, and 6 pack abs. This inconsistency between what women say they want and their actions creates issues in the dating marketplace.
In a relationship, do you prioritize your own individual needs or the absolute truth or do you prioritize your partner's feelings. As long as the cost is inconsequential, and as long as you care about the relationship, you will prioritize the relationship over petty items.
It's tricky for women picking guys.
They can either pick guys who are already there -- but that's very competitive. Or they can pick guys who show a baseline level of ambition and hope things going well. It can be a good strategy to go where it's less competitive, but there's also risk.
Modern women place a lot of self worth on what they do, rather than who they are. Is this the right approach and proper prioritization of your life values?
Do educated women know what masculine men are looking for in a relationship? Too much focus on career and education is great but men truly are looking for the feminine energy.
Many modern women say they are perfect 10s -- implying there's no room for improvement. This feeds into a culture of lack of accountability and a level of arrogance that is preventing healthy relationships from forming.
In a relationship, you may expect more from your partner. And when your partner doesn't deliver it can build #resentment. It is your job in selecting this partner to assess whether there is a strong enough foundation there for the things you care about. If ambition is one thing you care about, you should recognize that pushig your partner too much outside their comfort zone may not yield good results. #relationships #men #women #partners #couples #expectations
Modern woman receive exponentially more compliments in today's society than they did 50 years ago because of globalization and visibility. This is driven the ego and made many modern women selfish.
Kelsea Ballerini has revealed she is going through a divorce from husband and fellow country artist Morgan Evans. She cites in a podcast the reason is because the glitter disappeared in her marriage and it didn't come back.
This was her way of "following her heart" - something shes sings about her award-winning songs. But is this really following your heart? Or is this a symbol of someone chasing the glitter in the same way teens chase attention on social media? Relationships require effort from both sides - and from the sound of it - she expects the glitter to come back - without mentioning too much about what she has tried to do to bring back the litter herself.
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Many listeners will get triggered by the tone and delivery of generally positive or truthful messages from Andrew Tate. This delivery is done purposely to game the algorithms and get more views. The onus is on us as listeners to properly control our emotions and distinguish what he's actually saying from how we might feel.
Extravagant experiences and lifestyles can lead you to a decadent downward spiral. Everybody loves these luxuries - but keep yourself in check and moderate. Too much ice cream will rot your teeth.
A TikToker was asked by her father-in-law to clean the house. She felt disrespected and proceeded to go to TikTok to complain. After expressing her discontent, she did not clean the house. Instead, the father-in-law and husband cleaned the house. But what also happened was she got a divorce. What exactly happened here and what could she have done differently to better handle the situation - other than escalating on social media?
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Many Women are going after same High Valued Man that are not wanting to commit but there are plenty of men that are ready and open to commit but the women are not giving them any attention.
Many ladies believe that changing a guy leads to a better relationship. Instead it leads to distrust, resentment, and hostility thus being detrimental to the foundation of a solid relationship.
Ladies are worried that their BF would be too heavily influenced by Andrew Tate and not be trusting in them to be able to make decisions on their own. Don't be overly controlling and let the emotions get the best of you.
Don't share your life experience with just anybody. Be selective and mindful so that when the right guy/gal comes along you can connect and build a beautiful experience as a couple.
Shared experiences are important for the foundation of a relationship. If one person has experienced a lot of things in life it reduces the pool of experiences for the other person to be able to connect with you. Be selective with whom you share important life experiences with.
Watching movies is a foundation on building connection and shared experiences with your partner. If you choose to watch everything by yourself you lose out on those nuggets of adventure as a couple.
Messi #lifechoices #awkward #metoo #cancelculture #supermodel
Soccer sensation Messi is pictured here with a supermodel cowering to avoid being me tooed and cancelled by the public. No woman or rumors is worth the risk of loosing his career over.
If you truly love someone, will you accept them for their flaws? Or constantly nag them to get rid of them? Striking a balance between improvement and acceptance is tricky. Are you willing to put in the work and have the patience that the relationship needs.
Mistakes help make you discover who you are and strengthen relationship with yourself and other's over time. Passing judgement and being very critical stunts your growth in life.
When a relationship ends, do you think about what actually went wrong or do you just blame that the glitter wore away and move onto the next shiny object?
Today's modern women expect glitter in relationships. This may happen in the early part of a relationship, but once it wears away and true challenges of a couple lay ahead, then they run at the first sign of struggle. Is this the way to go through a healthy relationship?
When the glitter wears off what happens? It takes both people to work at the relationship in order for the glitter to appear. If you are lazy or place the blame on others when the situation is tough the glitter will never be there.
Ignoring or cutting people off when they don't benefit you sounds great but your actions can impact society later on in a negative way. We all want results right away but what are the trade offs? Modern women view relationships as only serving their needs. Once those needs are no longer met, they leave the relationship. Do you agree?
Is thinking only for yourself the right way of navigating a relationship? In today's society, women have become so independent with exceedingly high expectations that no men can meet those expectations. They therefore become single women going their own way. And men are also not finding what they want in today's modern woman and therefore they also are going their own way.
Are relationships meant to be like business transactions? You do your part. I do my part. Once our time is over, then we both leave. No hard feelings. All business. Is this how you should approach personal relationships?
Kelsea Ballerini has revealed she is going through a divorce from husband and fellow country artist Morgan Evans. She cites in a podcast the reason is because the glitter disappeared in her marriage and it didn't come back. This was her way of "following her heart" - something shes sings about her award-winning songs. But is this really following your heart? Or is this a symbol of someone chasing the glitter in the same way teens chase attention on social media? Relationships require effort from both sides - and from the sound of it - she expects the glitter to come back - without mentioning too much about what she has tried to do to bring back the litter herself.
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The country singer says she tried couples counseling but it did not work out. She waited till the end for the glitter but it just was not there so she up and left being so frustrated and angry at her partner. There are indeed some instances when the result of couples counseling is that the two individuals are not right for each other. But it is questionable whether this is the case with this country singer divorce.
How do you bounce back from a traumatic relationship?
Finding the key balance of not becoming overly detached otherwise you miss out on those special moments.
Humans of a pyschological bias -
when they see celebrities act a certain way, they believe they actually are that way. Many teens look up to CardiB who says she doesn't cook and clean, but actually she definitely does cook and clean. But most people cannot make that distinction in their heads.
TheWizardLiz claims to live a life of detachment -
Where she puts up boundaries between herself and anyone else -
Especially relationships so that she does not get hurt. Is this the best way to approach a relationship?
It's easy to blame others and not take personal accountability. Relationships that do not prioritize values 3 and 4 are destined to fail.
No Introspection A lack of desire for self improvement is usually associated with closed-mindedness. Be open to new ideas - and this starts with not jumping to conclusions. Jumping to conclusions is all too familiar in today's society, especially with triggering headlines. You can increase your open-mindedness by getting your news source from multiple places, not just one source. Triangulate your thoughts and think before you react to triggering headlines. This alone will help you to be more open-minded and aware of the many biases in the media.
Setting unrealistic expectations - on yourself as well as your partner can also set your relationship up for failure. When things don't go as planned, hold yourself accountable as much as possible.
0:00 Is being detached the way to go?
0:35 thewizardliz
1:31 Be aware of Pros and Cons
3:10 I am Detached
4:10 Reaction
5:00 Are You Avoiding Rejection?
6:15 Attach in Stages
6:46 Relationship as Business Transaction
7:30 Defense Mechanism
8:52 Not Benefiting Me, I Leave
13:10 Flaking on a Date
16:09 Take it With a Grain of Salt
Focusing on yourself is usually a good thing. Introspection brings awareness and room for improvement. But when does focusing on yourself too much become selfish? Is being detached and not expecting your relationship to last a good approach to prevent yourself from being disappointed? If so, what is the cost of this extra protection? Is it possible that we may be robbing ourselves of what a true relationship can offer if we start off by not trusting the other side or expecting a personal relationship to simply be a business transaction? If we are willing to flake on dates last minute rather than not agree to go on the date in the first place, does that mean we are too selfish or is that a display of virtue by choosing yourself first?
5 Values / Traits That Set A Relationship Up For Failure
You value sensitivity, rather than tolerance
You judge others, assume the worst in others, demand apologies
You have no desire for self improvement or introspection
You have unrealistic expectations
You choose to escalate even on little things that don't actually matter.
0:00 5 Values Ruining Your Relationship
0:26 Judgment
1:16 Judgment of Others
2:30 Influencing Others
3:30 Think Before You Act
5:45 Reading from Multiple Sources With Open Mind
8:20 Misleading Headlines
9:26 Be Aware of Your Judginess
1) Think Before We Act
2) Be Open-Minded
3) Get News From Multiple Sources and Be Aware of Our Natural Biases to React
15-year Couple who helps advise other couples points out 5 common values that mess up a relationship. Many of these values overlap with the values of cancel culture - holding the other side accountable at all costs, without a desire for self introspection.
You value sensitivity, rather than tolerance
You judge others, assume the worst in others, demand apologies
You have no desire for self improvement or introspection
You have unrealistic expectations
You choose to escalate even on little things that don't actually matter.
0:00 - Welcome
0:05 - 5 Values Messing Up Relationships
1:22 - Sensitivity
3:30 - Social Media
4:00 - Judgment
5:51 - News Headlines
6:57 - Trust
8:36 - Fixing Sensitivity
10:43 - Sound Therapy
12:17 - Supplements
14:35 - Compassion
Join us as we explore the values that drive our big decisions in life - career, relationships, and life choices. What happens when these values clash with other people's values? Do we cancel the other side or do we try to understand one another?