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Ray Ray Salsa

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What is it like dating a dancer? Ray Ray and Annabel were curious about other dancer's experiences so they put out a ten question survey to find out. In this episode they discuss the results.

Annabel suggests that for dating to be successful, both dancers have to be extremely confident and secure, not be prone to jealousy, have clearly established expectations and boundaries which are similar enough to each others' so that conflict and hurt are avoided. Ray Ray adds that when feelings are hurt, communicating it in a mature and rational way is also necessary.

The original survey is here: https://forms.gle/7LpnD73tAkgftmL76 It's open again for more responses.


Timestamps:

0:00:05 Intro

0:01:04 Survey Question 1

0:02:59 Why Ray started learning Salsa

0:05:01 Do ppl learn dance to meet attractive people?

0:08:28 Dance pulled Ray out of depression

0:09:31 Reasons why ppl begin dancing

0:11:11 Brutus makes an appearance

0:13:20 Partner dancing is physically intimate

0:14:50 Reasons why ppl don’t date other dancers

0:16:59 What Ray’s friends thought about him dancing

0:18:28 Survey Question 6

0:12:10 Survey Question 7

0:20:20 Boundaries while dating

0:27:54 Message from Annabel

0:28:38 Ray and Annabel’s expectations

0:33:28 Why it’s difficult dating other dancers

0:38:00 Double standard yes or no?

0:46:48 Stories from dancers

0:55:17 What’s necessary for success

1:01:56 Call for Apprentices

1:02:38 Dating as a teacher


*Ray Ray Salsa teaches Salsa at International Dance Studio in Oklahoma City https://www.idancestudio.com/

*Ray Ray Salsa teaches Salsa using the Black Belt Salsa curriculum.

Find out more about Black Belt Salsa at https://www.blackbeltsalsa.com and https://www.blackbeltdanceonline.com/


Get in touch:

Send us your questions or podcast topic suggestions!

Ray Ray Salsa

405-320-9333

rayray@rayraysalsa.com

www.rayraysalsa.com

Annabel Valencia

405-985-6805

inquiry@annabelvalencia.com

www.annabelvalencia.com

Find Ray Ray Salsa on Facebook, YouTube, and Instagram

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Here are some of the challenges and thrills of teaching Salsa to children at a summer Art Camp. You'll hear the highs and lows of our experience and our biggest take-aways.--------------------------------------------------Timestamps:00:00 Wedding ceremony highlights07:05 Kids at Crossroad Family Services Indiana09:28 Teaching Salsa Shines 10:44 Challenges of teaching 13:49 Staff participation14:33 Call for Salsa apprentices15:18 Unify Ballroom Fort Wayne16:23 Travel difficulties17:32 Staying on campus18:35 Annabel’s son on the trip20:00 Time with Ray’s sister21:23 Teaching charitably22:20 Annabel’s biggest shocker24:54 Ray’s biggest takeaway26:25 Looking ahead to next camp--------------------------------------------------Ray Ray Salsa teaches Salsa at International Dance Studio in Oklahoma City https://www.idancestudio.com/ Ray Ray Salsa teaches Salsa using the Black Belt Salsa curriculum. Find out more about Black Belt Salsa at https://www.blackbeltsalsa.com and https://www.blackbeltdanceonline.com/ --------------------------------------------------Get in touch:Send us your questions or podcast topic suggestions!Ray Ray Salsa405-320-9333 rayray@rayraysalsa.comwww.rayraysalsa.comAnnabel Valencia405-985-6805inquiry@annabelvalencia.comwww.annabelvalencia.comFind Ray Ray Salsa on Facebook, YouTube, and Instagram

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Never stop being a student. This has been Bryant Ayala's philosophy as he continues his dance journey from childhood to champion level dancer. Bryant Ayala grew up in a dance family and now teaches, performs, directs and judges. His specialty Salsa style is Mambo On2. He will be in Oklahoma City for the OKC Salsa Bachata Weekender July 21-22 2023. Find out more about it here: www.salsabachataworkshop.com

Follow Bryant Ayala: Instagram: @bryant.ayala Facebook: "Bryant Ayala"

www.linesdanceacademy.com

www.salsabachataworkshop.com

Dancers mentioned in this podcast:

Marco Ferrigno

Eddie Torres

Adolfo Indacochea

Edie, The Salsa Freak!!

Lawrence Garcia

Musicians mentioned in this podcast:

Cuban musician Perez Prado

Latin Jazz musician Machito ____________________________ Timestamps:

00:24 Wedding ceremony

01:30 OKC Weekender July 21

02:05 Introductions

04:01 growing up in a dance family

05:41 areas of dance

09:26 Never stop being a student

11:12 Training in Italy with Marco Ferrigno

12:26 Mambo On2 style

12:54 Learning On2 with Adolfo IndacocheaForget the numbers

16:34 What is Mambo?

18:05 OKC workshop focus

19:41 Sponsor Annabel Valencia Photography

20:25 Advice for young dancers

22:34 Directing 80 dancer performance

24:07 Challenge of creating

25:54 Being a good choreographer

28:15 Lines Dance Academy teams

30:15 Being a humble dancer

33:52 OKC Salsa Bachata Weekender details

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*Ray Ray Salsa teaches Salsa at International Dance Studio in Oklahoma City ⁠https://www.idancestudio.com/⁠

*Ray Ray Salsa teaches Salsa using the Black Belt Salsa curriculum. Find out more about Black Belt Salsa at ⁠https://www.blackbeltsalsa.com⁠ and ⁠https://www.blackbeltdanceonline.com/⁠

Get in touch:

Send us your questions, comments or podcast suggestions!

Ray Ray Salsa 405-320-9333 rayray@rayraysalsa.com

Annabel Valencia 405-985-6805 inquiry@annabelvalencia.com

Find Ray Ray Salsa on Facebook, YouTube, and Instagram

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Let's geek out with Neuropsychologist Dr. Mark Wexler, also known as Salsa Moshe about the qualities of a healthy dance community and how to avoid creating a toxic dance community.

Follow Salsa Moshe:

Instagram: @medancer21

Facebook: "Salsa Moshe Mark Wexler"

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Timestamps:

00:00:00 Intro to guest Salsa Moshe PART 1

00:03:46 TEN CHARACTERISTICS OF A HEALTHY DANCE COMMUNITY

00:04:45 #1 it’s growing, welcoming and challenging

00:06:35 #2 it encourages (affordable) lessons

00:08:03 # 3 it gives positive encouragement

00:08:34 #4 it has several instructors or schools

00:11:50 instructors with toxic fear & scarcity mindset

00:13:28 when students start their own school

00:15:20 #6 there is respect for school “territories”

00:20:44 #7 not talking bad about other dancers/instructors

00:23:23 ATMOSPHERE & ATTITUDES AT A SALSA SOCIAL

00:31:30 look for these women

00:34:38 advantages of Salsa

00:36:00 dealing with unhealthy motives

00:39:31 why Annabel & Ray didn’t meet earlier

00:43:29 sponsor Annabel Valencia Photography

00:44:12 #8 it has amateur performance groups

00:46:48 #9 there is community within the community

00:54:00 students are not “owned”

00:55:47 advice for studio owners

00:58:57 WHEN TO SEEK PROFESSIONAL THERAPY

01:08:37 your dance instructor is not your therapist

01:10:26 #10 there are healthy boundaries

01:13:11 Outro

Ray Ray Salsa teaches Salsa at International Dance Studio in Oklahoma City https://www.idancestudio.com/ Ray Ray Salsa teaches Salsa using the Black Belt Salsa curriculum. Find out more about Black Belt Salsa at https://www.blackbeltsalsa.com and https://www.blackbeltdanceonline.com/

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Get in touch:

Send us your questions, comments or podcast suggestions!

Ray Ray Salsa

405-320-9333

rayray@rayraysalsa.com

Annabel Valencia

405-985-6805

inquiry@annabelvalencia.com

Find Ray Ray Salsa on Facebook, YouTube, and Instagram

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Bonus juicy tid bits from Edie, The Salsa Freak!! Edie talks about how her Black Belt Salsa curriculum is designed to enhance the alpha masculinity and alpha femininity inside you as a dance partner and how it has the surprising side effect of helping you attract better partners. What are your thoughts? Let us know.

Edie will be in Oklahoma City on Memorial Day weekend 2023 for the Black Belt Dance World Summit. Details at the bottom...

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Timestamps:

  • 00:38 why every man should learn salsa
  • 01:46 training Alpha Male & Alpha Female dancers
  • 02:38 asking a woman to dance
  • 03:20 chivalry is rare
  • 04:48 make a woman feel like a Princess
  • 08:05 give a woman what she wants
  • 08:45 Ray’s # on the men’s bathroom wall?
  • 09:11 Edie attracts women?
  • 12:24 Ray’s classes
  • 12:52 Dance with Edie in OKC

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The Black Belt Dance World Summit 2023 OKC

Attend one or both days!

Join us for 2 full days of intensive training with world renowned Salsa legend Edie, The Salsa Freak!! She is the creator of the Black Belt Salsa system which trains world-class dancers.

Day 1 of the Summit will be Salsa dance training for dancers with any partner dance experience.

Day 2 will be Studio management and Best Practices for how to run a successful studio, covering real world topics, such as how to deal with difficult situations.

  • Find out more about Edie, The Salsa Freak!! at www.salsafreak.com/bio

  • Get tickets at https://www.eventbrite.com/e/black-belt-dance-world-summit-tickets-519931307537 Early Bird pricing ends March 31, 2023

    • Find out more about Black Belt Salsa at www.blackbeltsalsa.com and www.blackbeltdanceonline.com

This event is hosted by International Dance Studio and Ray Ray Salsa www.idancestudio.com

  • Contact Ray Ray Salsa at 405-320-9333 or idancestudio.rayraysalsa@gmail.com

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Ray Ray Salsa and Annabel Valencia interview Edie, The Salsa Freak!!, a legend in the Salsa world. Edie talks about how she created a successful apprentice program for her dance studio, which runs and grows her classes even if she's not there. What are your thoughts? Let us know.

Edie will be in Oklahoma City on Memorial Day weekend 2023 for the Black Belt Dance World Summit. Details at the bottom...

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Timestamps:

  • 00:35 emulating a martial arts studio
  • 01:42 Edie’s first apprentices
  • 02:47 creating an online video curriculum
  • 03:55 a win-win program
  • 05:24 apprentices keep school going & growing
  • 07:24 Annabel’s experience as an apprentice

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The Black Belt Dance World Summit 2023 OKC

Join us for 2 full days of intensive training with world renowned Salsa legend Edie, The Salsa Freak!! She is the creator of the Black Belt Salsa system which trains world-class dancers.

Day 1 of the Summit will be Salsa dance training for dancers with any partner dance experience.

Day 2 will be Studio management and Best Practices for how to run a successful studio, covering real world topics, such as how to deal with difficult situations.

  • Find out more about Edie, The Salsa Freak!! at www.salsafreak.com/bio

  • Get tickets at https://www.eventbrite.com/e/black-belt-dance-world-summit-tickets-519931307537 Early Bird pricing ends March 31, 2023

    • Find out more about Black Belt Salsa at www.blackbeltsalsa.com and www.blackbeltdanceonline.com

This event is hosted by International Dance Studio and Ray Ray Salsa www.idancestudio.com

  • Contact Ray Ray Salsa at 405-320-9333 or idancestudio.rayraysalsa@gmail.com

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Ray Ray Salsa and Annabel Valencia interview Edie, The Salsa Freak!!, a legend in the Salsa world. Here she talks about her Black Belt Salsa system and her thoughts on dancing Salsa On1 versus Salsa On2. What are your thoughts? Let us know.

Edie will be in Oklahoma City on Memorial Day weekend 2023 for the Black Belt Dance World Summit. Details at the bottom...

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Timestamps:

Intro to guest Edie, The Salsa Freak!!

  • 02:48 The reason why we call Edie “Sensei”
  • 07:35 Brussels, Belgium is where Ray first heard of “Black Belt Salsa”
  • 08:40 Black Belt Salsa is not pattern/choreo based (which is great for Ray’s ADHD)
  • 11:20 How to vary a single pattern with the concept of “Down The Body”
  • 12:56 Dancing Salsa On1 vs On2 and why On1 will never die
  • 14:32 Reasons for learning On2 first
  • 16:00 Why On2 feels easier for turns
  • 17:44 The difficulty for Leads transitioning from On1 to On2
  • 19:58 The ease of transitioning from On2 to On1
  • 22:30 Are some ppl born On1 dancers or On2 dancers?
  • 24:23 A funny story from an “On2 snob”
  • 25:00 Timing isn’t as important as we think
  • 28:03 Teaser for Part 2

Join us for 2 full days of intensive training with world renowned Salsa legend Edie, The Salsa Freak!! She is the creator of the Black Belt Salsa system which trains world-class dancers. Day 1 of the Summit will be Salsa dance training for dancers with any partner dance experience. Day 2 will be Studio management and Best Practices for how to run a successful studio, covering real world topics, such as how to deal with difficult people. - Find out more about Edie, The Salsa Freak!! at www.salsafreak.com/bio - Get tickets at https://www.eventbrite.com/e/black-be... - Find out more about Black Belt Salsa at www.blackbeltsalsa.com and www.blackbeltdanceonline.com This event is hosted by International Dance Studio and Ray Ray Salsa www.idancestudio.com - Contact Ray Ray Salsa at 405-320-9333 or idancestudio.rayraysalsa@gmail.com

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For those interested in attending the KUA Weekender in Oklahoma City Hosted by Cindy, see the link below.

KUA Weekender in OKC Tickets, Fri, Mar 31, 2023 at 8:00 PM | Eventbrite

If you want to contact us you may do so in the following ways:

idancestudio.rayraysalsa@gmail.com

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You can watch the YouTube video of this conversation right here https://youtu.be/ikb24sHqQFM

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Review of what happened in 2022 and preview of what to expect in 2023

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Jesus, Dolce, and Ray discuss the benifits of training to be an omni dancer. An omni dancer is a dancer who learned the lead and follow of a dance.

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Ray Ray interviews Annabel Valencia (annabelvalencia.com), a dance student who has been in the dance community for less than a year and discovers her perspective of the community and her secrets to consistent improvement.

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Ray discusses what limits potential dancers from taking dance lessons.  he references great books like Limitless by Jim Quick, and Peak Secrets From the New Science of Expertise.  He also gives shout outs to Lawrence Garcia, director of Con Clave Dance in Phoenix Arizona, Dulce Rodriguez and many more.  

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Join Dolce and Ray in their discussion with OKC's newest Dance Studio Owner and Instructor,  Ivis Torres Turley. I am happy to announce group dance lessons have returned to OKC.   See the links below for the different Schools and what they offer. Reach Dance Studio - www.reachdancestudio.com International Dance Studio - www.internationaldancestudio.com Adelante Dance Studio - adelantedancestudio.com Clips and Hips - 4822 N Macarthur Blvd, Warr Acres, OK 73122 · (405) 209-4823 Salsa Maritza at 3Sixty Entertainment Powerhouse -www.salsaokc.com or www.3sixtypowerhouse.com

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Join us as we conclude our discussion with Maritza Rodriquez about  The Dance Journey.  Ray and Dolce Interview Maritza Rodriguez, winner of The World Latin Dance Competition in Salsa Same Gender in 2014.

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Listen to part 1 of our 2 part Series on the Dance Journey.  Ray and Dolce Interview Maritza Rodriguez, winner of The World Latin Dance Competition in Salsa Same Gender in 2014.

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Part 2 on the subject of Social Dance Etiquette. This is an list of unwritten social dance behavioral norms. New dancer students will benifit from this podcast. We welcome your comments, questions and cool stories that may add to the conversation.

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Send us your Dance Stories at salsaoklahoma@gmail.com.

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Join Dolce and Ray's interview with Marty Rickman, owner of of lips and hips and organizer of the Oklahoma City Hispanic heritage Fiesta.

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Welcome to Smooth Salsa in Oklahoma City by Ray and Dolce Salsa. This podcast is about Salsa Dance and the Oklaohma Dance scene. We discuss events going on. Share advice for students and instructors. We promote performances in the local.