If you have an issue that you'd like the Steve Harvey Morning Show to consider for on air discussion and guidance, you may submit your issue in the form a "Strawberry Letter". Your Strawberry Letter may range from personal topics, career decisions, marriage issues, dating issues, social problems, family problems, money matters, religious interests or any other life topics.
Good morning Shirley and Steve I have serious problem I have been married for 4 years now. We have a 3 year old son. Everything has been going well.
I dated a woman for 3 years and this year, for her birthday, I decided to surprise her with a special gift she’s been asking me for.
I’m a 27 year old man and I’ve been in a relationship for over a year. In the beginning, everything was great
I am in love with a much younger man. I have been divorced for 11 years. I’m in my late fifties and I've primarily been dating men my age. Here is my situation…
I am 26 years old and three years ago I graduated college and met a nice young lady who I've been with since then. After graduation I ended up moving back to my home town and yes I took her with me.
I am a 34 year old female with 3 children ages 14, 9, and 3. I also helped raise my 18 year old niece. That was my baby before I had any. She has lived between myself and my mother since birth.
I will get directly to the point of the letter. My wife and I started dating in September and finally got married. We were only dating 7 months before her mother moved in with us.
I met my husband at work and our relationship quickly grew from co-workers to being married in 2013. Since we’ve been married, my husband has split his time with me and his child’s mother!
Lately, he seems to be angry a lot but never wants to talk about what is bothering him. If you ask him what the problem is, he would say that it is me but he does not identify any specific thing.
Hello all I am a 21 year old college student who is dating a 26 year old college student who I at one point thought had a degree already.
My engagement has been broken off for 3 months now because my fiancé married another woman while we were engaged. Anyway after he left for basic training last year I found out I was pregnant with his baby.
’ve been dating a guy for a year and of course in the early stages its all good then I started demanding that we start doing more things than just him coming to my house.
My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now and we are living together. Our relationship has had some ups and downs, but through it all, we seem to rise above it.
My wife and I have been married for 10 years and we dated 5 years before that. My wife and I really enjoy going to concerts, comedy shows, and even that occasional trip to the casino.
am a 40 year old black female and I have found myself in a no win situation. For the past few months, I have been seeing a married man and not really sure why I am settling or doing this.
My brother has been involved with this one particular woman in his life for about six years. They do not have any children just yet, but, are engaged to be married.
I am a married 9 months pregnant female seeking advice about my current situation. I have been married to my husband for 5 years and we are expecting what I hope is our first child.
I am 24 years old and I have a huge dilemma. My step-brother and I have been very close since high school, when he first asked me for "help" with a certain situation.
I am an 18 year old and freshman in college. I am having trouble with getting a certain someone to leave me alone.
Boy do I have a dilemma for you. I meet this man whom I believe is the man of my dreams. I have strong feelings for him. I can’t stop thinking about him...
I have been in a relationship with my woman for about 5 years now and she is the mother of my son. When I met her she already had one son that was still a baby. I have been taking care of him since. He don’t have a clue who his real father is.
I am a 33 year old female and I’m totally in love with my 43 year old boyfriend. He was a player before we started dating, but he stopped all of that for me and I felt special and loved. Shortly after we started dating...
My parents are miserable with each other. They have been married almost 30 years and can't stand each other. My dad had an affair a few years ago and once my mom found out, the affair ended. Shortly after that, my mom began having an affair.
I'm a 45 year old single man and recently my mama's 65 year old best friend asked me to come by her house to do some handy work. Well, after doing some yard work she asked me to come inside to get some water and take a break.
3 years ago my best friend married what she thought to be the man of her dreams. He was my husbands good friend from college and we introduced them at a cookout. After they dated for a year, My husband informed me that his friend was also dating someone else besides my friend.
Dear Steve and Shirley, I've been married for 10 years. The first year was good, but it has been rocky since. We've been through affairs, missing money and him hanging with friends without calling
Recently I moved in with my fiancé while we plan our wedding next year and I was upstairs cleaning putting stuff in the attic and I saw that his ex-wife had stuff still up there.
I am having the most craziest time in my life. My mother who i love dearly believes that everyone in the household is putting "root" on her. Me personally I don't believe in the crap and I for darn sure will not waste my hard earn money on such hocus pocus. My mother has diabetes and evidently...
I love the show, and am glad there's finally a worth while morning show to listen to in the morning. I'm going to make this as short as possible. I got evolved with this man at the age of 17 lost my virginity to him at 18, married at 21 found out that he was a no good DOG, with no ambitions...
Single mother of 2 wants to to know is she a fool for staying with her married boyfriend? Will he ever leave his wife?
I want to tell you that my mom likes to celebrate my birthdays, it’s fun and cool but it scares me because every time she drinks even one bottle she gets drunk and she gets all aggressive with my grandpa he’s 82-years-old.
Dear Steve and Shirley: Well I was in a marriage for 8 years to a man that was emotionally and verbally abusive he was also very possessive. As time went on I divorced but I still loved him. I’ve been divorced for 5 years now.
I've been with my husband now for twenty two years. He came into my life on the night I wanted to to take my life. I was calling a girlfriend to tell my family I love and to ask mother to take care of my son.
I have a huge problem with my marriage. I live on the east coast and my husband lives on the west coast in California. He couldn’t find a job in our city so he felt the west coast would have more opportunities. He’s been there for 6 years now. We see each other once a year at Christmas and we talk every day and night. I’m retiring in June but my husband hasn’t asked me to come to California and...
I have been a listener of your show for about 6 years and needless to say I am a fan of all of you. My 16 and 18-year-old children also listen to the show so I would appreciate if you don’t mention my name on air. I need the right exposure to spread my idea without compromising my family...
I am 62 years old and just reentered the dating scene after several decades of abstinence and a love les, miserable and sexless marriage. I met a real man that is everything my ex was not. He is 21 years my senior. Based on countless hours of conversation I found out he had been sexually active with his last girlfriend.
With Strawberry Letters I notice that a majority of the letters are from women in need, now here is a man. I’ve had this woman in my life for more than 6 years and she believes it is ok for her to steal and go through my personal property...
Dear Steve and Shirley, I made a huge mistake. I cheated on my husband. I was caught and I begged him to forgive me and take me back. I apologized to him many times and I meant it. I have made a lot changes in my life to be a more respectable...
Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 30 year-old doctor and I’ve been married for three years. My husband is an affectionate man and I love that about him. He's always kissing on me and groping me all over my body...
I am a 35-year-old married mother of 2. I’ve been married to my husband for 5 years. Like most marriages we have good times and bad times. I work a fulltime job and pay a majority of the bills. Like a lot of couples, we are struggling. But always make ends meet. Recently, we had a huge argument and I confronted him about...
My husband and I are a bi-racial couple and we have been married for 6 years. I'm black and he is white. Recently we agreed that our sex life needed a little spicing up so I suggested that we try role play. Here's where it gets interesting…
I am a 30-year-old male in the United States Air Force. Me and my wife have always been close and best friends. Well, that is what I was lead to believe. We were married 5 years. I deployed for just 7 months and within just 1 month, my so called best friend seemed to change...
I am a 40-year-old woman who has been in a serious relationship for the last 5 years. When the relationship first started it was great! But now it seems like everything is about him
Dear Steve and Shirley, I am a 27 year-old married woman. My wonderful husband is 31 years old. We have an amazing sex life, but here’s the problem…
Dear Steve and Shirley, My husband and I have been together over 14 years and we’ve been married going on 6 year. Since we said I do he has cheated on me. I found emails from his mistress dating back to just a year after we got married
Hey Steve and Shirley, I’ve been with this guy for 9 years, since I was 17 years old. He is 6 years older than me. In the beginning, we argued a lot. I’m not happy and haven’t been in a while. My man works, cooks, treats me well, pay bills, etc. We recently got engaged…
Good Morning Steve and Shirley, I am a 34 year-old female and my fiancé is 38. We are getting married in a month. We have our differences, but we tend to work things out in the end. Our only problem happens when it’s time to get sexual.
Dear Steve and Shirley, I’m 22 years old. I work and I’m in college. I wrote you because I have an issue that I need some advice on. I met this real nice boy and he is a working student like me.
Hello Morning Crew, I‘m 39 years old and married to an older man who has a college age son from a previous marriage. To make a long, sorted, story short...