The Vision-Driven Marriage: Recent Episodes
Doug & Leslie Davis
Christians crave spiritual, physical, and emotional intimacy with their spouses—but truth be told, too few ever experience it. My husband Doug and I, the team behind HeartCall, know this all too well. But God helped us overcome our circumstances, and He’s called us to help you overcome yours. We’ll help you beat the “whirlwind”—you know, that fear, uncertainty, and frustration you feel in your relationship.See, we believe God intended all marriages—yes, even yours—to thrive. We’ll help you become hopeful and confident as you develop a meaningful connection with your spouse.That’s our heart. That’s our calling, and that’s the reason we started The Vision-Driven Marriage Podcast.
In this episode of The Vision-Driven Marriage, Doug and Leslie Davis dive into a common struggle in marriage—criticism over different methods. Have you ever found yourself frustrated because your spouse approaches things differently than you would? It’s easy to get caught up in how things are done, but true unity comes from focusing on shared values, not matching methods.
Join Doug and Leslie as they explore Biblical principles that can help couples appreciate their differences, cut down on criticism, and strengthen their relationship by uniting around core values. You’ll walk away with practical tools to start shifting your perspective from methods to values, creating a deeper sense of unity and appreciation in your marriage.
Key Takeaways:
- Why focusing on methods can lead to criticism and disunity.
- The importance of celebrating your spouse’s unique strengths and gifts.
- How shared values create a stronger, more unified marriage.
Tune in for an uplifting conversation that will encourage you to embrace the uniqueness God has placed in your marriage!
We Mention
Amos 3:3
Ephesians 4:16
Don Manning's conversation with us in Episode 80
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In this 80th episode of The Vision-Driven Marriage, Doug and Leslie Davis sit down with Don Manning from Crazy Cool Family Ministries for an inspiring conversation on how couples can grow closer by focusing on shared values rather than getting stuck in criticism. Don unpacks the difference between values and methods, offering practical wisdom and personal stories that reveal how God transformed his approach to love and intimacy in marriage. Tune in to discover how aligning on core values can bring deeper connection and joy to your relationship.
Where to find Don and Suzanne Manning
Website: www.CrazyCoolFamily.com
Don's book Crazy Cool Family: Rethink the Way You Do Family can be found on his website
Things we mention in this episode:
The Blessed Family Recovery Summit
John 17
Philippians 2
James 1:19
Don & Suzanne's podcast: Crazy Cool Family
Where you can find more about Doug and Leslie @TheVisionDrivenMarriage
Website: TheVisionDrivenMarriage.com
Strengthen Your Marriage Through Prayer
Are you longing to experience deeper connection and spiritual unity with your spouse? Our FREE guide, Praying with Your Spouse: A Brief Guide, is here to help! Discover how prayer can transform your relationship, break down barriers, and invite God's presence into your marriage.
In this guide, you’ll find:
- Three common challenges couples face when praying together
- Seven foundational steps to build an effective prayer life as a couple
- Practical tips to help you and your spouse pray with confidence and unity
Don’t miss this opportunity to grow closer as a couple and strengthen your bond with God. Download your FREE guide now and take the first step toward a thriving, prayer-filled marriage! LINK: Thevisiondrivenmarriage.com/prayerguide
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In this episode, we sit down with Mark Collins, a passionate minister who helps men overcome the grip of impostor syndrome. Mark opens up about the struggles he faced from a young age, growing up with deep feelings of inadequacy and guilt. He shares how a strained relationship with his father and a lack of affirmation from his mother caused him to strive for approval, believing he was never enough. These early wounds followed him into adulthood, but everything changed when Mark discovered the freeing truth of his identity in Christ. Join us as we explore Mark's powerful testimony and the practical steps he offers for breaking free from the lies of impostor syndrome and walking confidently in the identity God has given us.
About Mark:
Mark Collins, an experienced pastor, coach, husband, father, and the author of LIFE MASTERY – Living Life by Design, Not by Default. With over 20 years in ministry, Mark has guided hundreds of Christian men in overcoming fear and uncertainty to step into the life God designed for them. As the Associate Pastor at Authentic Community Church, he’s passionate about empowering men to thrive in their jobs, businesses, and marriages through Biblical principles. Mark has also created online tools and courses to help accelerate their impact.
We Mention
Mark’s website
2 Corinthians 10:5
Psalm 19:14
Romans 12:1-2
Matthew 23
The Blessed Family Recovery Summit
Free Discovery Tool from Mark Collins
Discover if fear of failure is standing in the way of having UNWAVERING confidence and UNSTOPPABLE Freedom in your life. Free Download Offer - Freedom For Life (freedom-for-life.net)
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In this powerful episode of The Vision-Driven Marriage, we sit down with Tanya Gioia to hear her raw and inspiring story of navigating the storm of addiction within her marriage. Tanya opens up about her husband's battle with addiction and how her desire to "fix it" led to a cycle of enabling and frustration. Just four days before Christmas, everything came to a head, forcing her to confront the reality of their situation. Now, as a coach guiding others through the trenches of addiction and recovery, Tanya shares the faith and resilience that carried her through the darkest moments. She also hosts the Blessed Family Recovery Summit, where she equips families with tools to overcome addiction and rebuild hope. Join us as she reflects on the journey to healing and restoration in her marriage.
More About Tanya:
Tanya Gioia is a Harvard-trained theologian and a certified Family Recovery Coach with over 15 years of experience supporting women who are navigating the challenges of loving someone with addiction. As an ICF-certified coach, Tanya specializes in helping families cope with the unique emotional struggles of addiction, including guilt, shame, and confusion. With a compassionate and holistic approach, she provides guidance on setting boundaries, developing healthy behaviors, and restoring strained relationships. Drawing from her deep theological background, Tanya also incorporates the spiritual aspects of addiction and recovery, empowering families to find resilience, unity, and renewal through faith. She is the host of the Blessed Family Recovery Summit, where she helps families heal and thrive beyond the shadows of addiction.
Find Tanya at:
https://www.tanyagioia.com/
https://www.facebook.com/tanya.gioia.9/
https://www.instagram.com/addictionrecoveryconnection/
@soberonpurpose Youtube
Linked IN https://www.linkedin.com/in/tanya-gioia-96ab2221/
Tanya Mentions:
- Jerry Maguire Movie
- The Purpose-Driven Life, Rick Warren
- Parable of the prodigal son
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In today's episode of The Vision-Driven Marriage, we're tackling a topic that every couple can relate to: navigating disagreements in a way that strengthens, rather than weakens, your relationship. Even the most devoted Christian couples will face conflicts from time to time, but it's how we respond to these challenges that truly defines the health of our marriage. As believers, we're called to approach our spouse with grace, humility, and a heart for reconciliation, especially during moments of tension. Join us as we explore ten uplifting phrases that can help you and your spouse defuse arguments and foster a stronger, more loving connection. Each phrase is rooted in biblical values that promote understanding, respect, and faith—the very foundation of a joyful Christian marriage.
Here are ten things a Christian couple can say to each other to help stop an argument:
- "I'm sorry. Let's pray about this together."
- This acknowledges the need for humility and invites God's presence into the situation.
- "I love you, and I value our relationship more than this argument."
- This emphasizes the importance of the relationship over the conflict.
- "Can we take a break and come back to this later?"
- This allows time for emotions to cool down and prevents saying things in anger.
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Ever wondered how to maintain a strong, balanced marriage amidst life's chaos? Sharon Costanzo from Respected and Connected joins us to share her compelling journey from an achievement-oriented upbringing to creating a partnership that thrives on mutual respect and egalitarian values. Sharon opens up about the unique challenges she faced in finding a partner who wasn't intimidated by her career in engineering, and how she and her husband navigated the complexities of household responsibilities, especially after becoming parents. Her insights on giving constructive feedback without causing defensiveness are truly eye-opening.
This episode dives into the essence of intentionality in relationships, urging couples to move beyond autopilot behavior that often leads to disconnection. We explore how independent, strong-minded women can effectively share tasks and negotiate within their marriages. Sharon emphasizes the power of assuming good intentions and practicing charitable interpretation. By appreciating the small gestures of care and commitment from your partner, you can build a more supportive and understanding relationship, even during conflicts.
Tune in for heartfelt advice and practical strategies that can transform your marriage through effective communication and mutual support.
Sharon Mentions:
Mindsight by Daniel J. Siegel M.D.
Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship by Terrence Real
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Could your marriage withstand the weight of hidden challenges and small compromises? Join us on this powerful episode of the Vision-Driven Marriage Podcast as we welcome Brad and Lisa Valencia from Unrelenting Pursuit. They courageously share their transformative story from marital strife to triumph, driven by Brad's conviction to reveal the miracles in their relationship as a beacon of hope for others. Their journey is a testament to the power of Christ and unrelenting pursuit of what really matters.
Our conversation delves into profound themes of faith, redemption, and the dangerous spiral of compromising one's beliefs. Brad recounts a personal story of growing up in a pastoral family and the incremental steps that led to compromising his faith, ultimately resulting in significant consequences. This candid narrative highlights the critical need for addressing secret sins and the impact of these seemingly minor compromises on our lives and relationships. It’s a stark reminder of the importance of maintaining our spiritual integrity and the role of faith in overcoming life's toughest challenges.
Healing and renewal through Christ form the cornerstone of this episode, as Brad and Lisa emphasize the importance of personal responsibility and spiritual growth. They share their experiences of rebuilding their marriage through a supportive faith community, honest communication, and unwavering commitment. Their story underscores the protecting what is important and maintaining accountability in marriage. Offering a message of hope and resilience, they remind us that while the journey of healing is unique and often challenging, it is ultimately rewarding and filled with purpose when anchored in faith.
You can find Brad and List at:
https://www.facebook.com/unrelentingpursuitofmarriage
https://unrelentingpursuit.org/
Brad & Lisa Valencia (@unrelentingpursuit_) • Instagram photos and videos
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Ever found yourself lost in translation within your own marriage? This week on The Vision-Driven Marriage we drop a throwback episode to continue on our quest to help you avoid separation. In this episode we return to episode 4 of the podcast to discuss the importance of understanding our differences and giving grace in times when communication is difficult. We tackle the perplexing scenarios of disconnect that crop up during heated moments, dissecting how to triumph over miscommunication and foster a deeper understanding with your spouse.
The dance of dialogue between life partners is intricate, but what if you had the steps to move in sync, even when the music seems offbeat? In our conversation, we lay out actionable strategies for resolving disagreements and prioritizing each other's emotional needs. We share stories of forgiveness and the art of scheduling conflict resolution, ensuring that the day doesn't end with unresolved tensions. Our discussion is not just about weathering the storm—it's about building a stronger vessel together.
Closing with a moment of spiritual reflection, we explore the role of faith in fortifying communication within marriage. We offer up a prayer for clarity and unity, seeking divine assistance to knock down barriers and align our hearts with a purpose that transcends our own. Tune in to the Vision Driven Marriage podcast, and let's start speaking the same language of love
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The three deterrents are gender differences, childhood habits, and unspoken, unmet expectations.
Proverbs 25:11 A word spoken at the right time is like gold apples in silver settings.
Ephesians 4:31 Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice.
Eph 4:26 Don't let the sun go down on your anger.
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Have you ever wondered how to turn communicating in a relationship from mundane check-ins to profound connections? Join us, Doug and Leslie Davis, as we reveal how open and honest communication can act as the glue that binds the hearts of spouses together.
Honest and Open Communication
Our discussion peels back the layers of fear that often shroud true expression, offering encouragement to couples to embrace vulnerability, share their innermost thoughts, and, in doing so, bridge the emotional gaps that can widen with time. Through our personal journey and the experiences we've shared, we shed light on the perils of assumptions and how they can silently erode the trust and intimacy that are foundational to a thriving marriage.
Communicating In A RelationshipIn this heart-to-heart, we also equip you with the tools to build a robust communication framework within your relationship. Active listening isn't just a buzzword—it's a lifeline for understanding and being understood. We walk you through techniques like reflective dialogue and emphasize the importance of being fully present, free from the ubiquitous distractions of our digital age. Together, let's explore how establishing regular, intentional check-ins can cultivate a habit of continual engagement and an atmosphere where love flourishes. Get ready to unlock a new level of closeness with your partner that only comes from truly opening up and communicating from the heart.
We Mention:
The Quiz
Intimacy Episodes: Part 1
Part 2
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Unlock the secrets to a more resilient and loving marriage with us, Doug and Leslie Davis, as we delve into the art of selfless love on the Vision-Driven Marriage podcast. Inspired by the profound wisdom of 1 Corinthians 10:24, we reveal how putting your spouse's well-being at the forefront can dramatically shift the dynamics of your relationship. Together with insights from our previous guest, Randy Pryor, we explore the foundational practices that keep love alive and prevent the heartache of separation. Prepare to be armed with actionable strategies that will deepen your connection and reinforce your commitment to each other.
Ever wondered how small deeds can lead to monumental changes in your marriage? Listen in as we discuss the transformative impact of non-sexual touch, proactive listening, and thoughtful gestures that cater to your partner's needs. You'll learn the delicate art of balancing your well-being with the act of putting your spouse first, avoiding common traps like unmet expectations and resentment. We're here to guide you through the nuances of compromise and decision-making that honors your spouse, ensuring that each act of kindness fosters an atmosphere of mutual support and appreciation.
By the end of our conversation, you'll have a treasure trove of everyday actions that can forge an unshakeable trust and renewed faith in your partnership. From choosing a date location that delights your spouse to sharing in the mental load of daily responsibilities, we're committed to helping you cultivate a vision-driven marriage grounded in the beauty of selfless love. Join us and discover how to create an enduring bond that thrives on genuine care, understanding, and the joy of giving without expectation.
Things we mention:
1 Corinthians 10:24
Hebrews 11:1
The Little Things, 100 ways to serve your spouse
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Have you ever felt the ground beneath your marriage start to crumble, leaving you scrambling for a foothold? Randy Pryor joins us to extend a lifeline, introducing his SOS Reconnection Method for men facing separation head on. As a former workaholic whose marriage was torn apart, Randy transformed his life and now guides others through the labyrinth of marital disconnect. His approach eschews quick fixes in favor of a journey toward lasting change, emphasizing the need for husbands to genuinely become the best versions of themselves and work to understand and validate their wives' feelings.
This episode peels back the layers of communication and understanding between spouses, showing how embracing differences is crucial to bridging the emotional gap. Randy casts a new light on the art of reconnection, illustrating the potency showing genuine care for your wife through well-crafted text messages and the importance of becoming the best version of oneself. He reminds us that true connection doesn't come from grand gestures but from everyday acts of thoughtfulness and a deep respect for our partner's individuality. His insights offer both a mirror and a map for those ready to navigate the path back to a shared vision of love and commitment.
As we wrap up, we're left with a powerful reminder that the cornerstone of a resilient marriage lies in personal growth. Randy's experiences invite us to foster our own spiritual and personal development, which not only enriches our own lives but also serves as a catalyst for positive change within our relationships. He leaves us with a treasure trove of wisdom and practical resources for anyone longing to rebuild and strengthen the bonds of matrimony. Join us, Doug and Leslie Davis, as we share these transformative lessons, offering hope and actionable advice for a vision-driven, lifelong love.
Randy Pryor:
"I'd love to offer a free Reconnection Planning Session to all of (The Vision-Driven Marriage) listeners and viewers. The link is on my website: RandyPryor.com in the "Contact" section. Or, . . . book that call directly right here: http://Hope4SH.com/call"
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Things We Mention:
The Fireproof Movie and book:
The Love Dare: Now with Free Online Marriage Evaluation: Kendrick, Alex, Kendrick, Stephen: 8601404420146: Amazon.com: Books
Amazon.com: Fireproof : Kirk Cameron, Erin Bethea, Ken Bevel, Alex Kendrick, Stephen Kendrick, Alex Kendrick, David Nixon, Affirm Films; Carmel Entertainment; Provident Films LLC; Samuel Goldwyn Films; Sherwood Pictures: Movies & TV
Covenant Marriage Episode: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2053738/11783
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Have you ever felt like you're speaking a different language than your partner, even when you're both speaking English? Join us, Doug and Leslie Davis, as we unpack the top three things that keeps couples from playing the long game. In our heartfelt dialogue, we discuss the art of active listening and echo back techniques that forge a path to clarity and closeness. We confront the thorny issue of criticism head-on, revealing how to transform potential roadblocks into opportunities for growth, and share strategies for couples to keep their relationship front and center, even in the face of life's distractions.
The shadow of contempt and the weight of hopelessness can darken even the sunniest of relationships. In this discussion, we shine a light on these hidden adversaries, exploring how a cycle of criticism and defensiveness can lead to a fortress of bitterness that shuts out love and connection. We expose the traps of guardedness and stonewalling that couples may fall into and guide you through the process of breaking free from these patterns. By addressing the root causes of contempt, we aim to help listeners rediscover the warmth of mutual respect and affection that may have been lost along the way.
Finally, we navigate the intricate web of intimacy and communication within the sacred space of marriage. We tackle the silent saboteurs of unvoiced expectations and differentiate between productive reminders and the pitfalls of nagging, offering a husband's perspective on these delicate dynamics. As we weave through the different threads of intimacy—physical, emotional, and spiritual—we reveal how they intertwine to strengthen the bond between partners. For those who see themselves in these shared struggles, we open the door to further discussion and support, inviting you to journey with us towards a vision-driven, deeply fulfilling marriage.
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Doug and Leslie Mention:
The Gottman Four Horsemen
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Feeling lonely in a marriage? Have you and your spouse ever found yourselves surrounded by a life full of blessings yet shadowed by an inexplicable sense of solitude? That's the silent shadow we, Doug and Leslie Davis, confront this week as we candidly open up about our own journey through the nuanced challenges of marital loneliness. Amid the hustle of daily life, parenting, and the sometimes insidious creep of miscommunication, we share a deeply personal story that reveals the transformative effect of loneliness. This episode promises strategies for breathing life back into the quiet spaces of your partnership, transforming potential disconnects into gateways for a stronger, more intentional bond.
We submerge into the depths of intimacy, exploring its various dimensions as powerful allies against the creeping sense of isolation. Through our conversation, we dissect the layers of emotional, physical, and spiritual closeness, offering you practical tools to kindle the warmth in your relationship's hearth. As we acknowledge the deceits that can divide, we guide you through the art of resolving conflicts with grace and unified problem-solving, ensuring that you and your partner emerge fortified against loneliness. So, snuggle up with your loved one, and join us for an episode that's not just about overcoming marital loneliness but about nurturing a vision-driven marriage that thrives on connection and heartfelt communication.
Things we mention:
Episode 11, 12, and a mention of our conversation with Rick & Nancy Kay Grace.
How To Strengthen Your Marriage by Expanding Your Intimacies Part 1 (buzzsprout.com)
How To Strengthen Your Marriage by Expanding Your Intimacies Part 2 (buzzsprout.com)
Intimacy and Honor with Rick & Nancy Kay Grace (buzzsprout.com)
Jimmy On Relationships. This reel is a must watch!
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Have you ever found yourself at a Christmas celebration, only to realize that what you thought was the perfect gift led to a miscommunication and a need for forgiveness? Leslie and I found ourselves in such a pickle, which became a lesson in grace and understanding—a story we share with you, our cherished listeners. This episode of Vision Driven Marriage is not just a recount of our personal foibles; it's a beacon for all who seek to build stronger, more resilient relationships. If you've ever asked yourself "will my relationship last?" this episode is for you. You will gain insight as we explore the pivotal role of commitment and the power of never entertaining the thought of divorce on the journey to marital longevity.
Creating a marriage that stands the test of time doesn't happen by accident. It's the small acts of compromise, the daily reaffirmations of love, and the consistent effort to see past our spouse's imperfections that weave the fabric of a strong partnership. We delve into the transformative power of forgiveness and the importance of keeping the friendship in your marriage alive. Simple gestures, like a hug or a shared laugh, are the threads that bind our lives together. And, as Leslie and I reflect on our journey, we invite you to recognize these moments in your own marriage and see them as opportunities to reinforce your bond.
We wrap up this heartfelt episode by inviting you, our listeners, to share your own tales and questions about marriage. We know that every couple's story is unique. Whether you're knee-deep in diapers, navigating the teenage years, or adjusting to a quieter house, your experiences enrich the tapestry of our community. We're eager to hear from you through our Instagram at Vision Driven Marriage. Join us in an ongoing conversation about love, life, and the pursuit of a truly Vision Driven Marriage.
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Discover the sacred blend of divine guidance and practical wisdom as marriage coaches Colette and Bryce Schaffer join us to unravel the secrets of a successful marriage. They shed light on the sobering reality of marriages breaking at an alarming rate and how to counteract this trend with a robust Biblical foundation. The Schaffers bring nearly thirty years of relationship expertise to the table, offering couples the tools to reinforce their bonds and navigate the modern challenges of matrimony with faith and purpose.
Our heartfelt exchange with the Schaffers takes us deeper into the heart of a Christ-centered union, where personal spiritual growth and divine affirmation lay the groundwork for a fulfilling partnership.
Wrapping up the episode, we broach the significance of ongoing self and relational reflection—an essential compass for steering marriages toward continuous growth and harmony. Vision casting emerges as a beacon for couples, illuminating the path to setting and achieving shared goals, and the role of mentorship becomes clear as a cornerstone for constructing resilient matrimonial bonds. The Schaffers introduce their Marriage Builders initiative, extending a helping hand to all who seek to strengthen their marital journey within the embrace of faith.
The FREE Marriage Enrichment Workshop (Live on April 7th at 6:30 pm Mountain time) Replays will be available afterward. https://www.schafferministries.com/workshop-sales-page
The Marriage Builders Course: https://www.schafferministries.com/aimee-blue-sp-2-4-2
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When Barbara Culver joined us, her words painted a vivid tapestry of a life utterly transformed by faith. Her story, which we're thrilled to share with you, begins with a lonely childhood and unfolds into a rich narrative of love, purpose, and the profound influence of Scripture. As she recounts her path to becoming a cherished teacher of the Word and a guide to many searching souls, you'll feel the warmth of her spirit that has touched the lives of countless students. She brings to light the pivotal moments where church camps played a role in nurturing young believers, revealing the potency of being truly loved and understood.
Barbara's testament doesn't end with personal growth; it's interwoven with the strength of marriage, her husband's spiritual awakening, and the serendipity of ministry that neither of them expected. Nearly six decades of unity stand as a testament to their unwavering commitment, grounded in the wisdom of scriptures and the sovereignty of God. Together, we explore the challenges and triumphs of married life, affirming the transformative sanctuary that a partner's faith can provide. Her anecdotes of prayer's power in her own marriage remind us all of the unshakable foundation it can build for any couple.
Even through health struggles that would deter many, Barbara's tenacity shines. Her passion for quilting persists, bolstered by her reliance on the Holy Spirit, and her decision to venture into podcasting at 75 years old underscores a relentless spirit. We're eager to share her engaging podcast, It's His Story, to our listeners, for it is a reservoir of wisdom and hope. Her experiences offer solace and encouragement, and we, Doug and Leslie Davis, send our prayers for your own marital bonds and spiritual journeys. Barbara's resilience and deep-seated faith serve as a beacon for all of us navigating life's ebbs and flows.
Barbara's Podcast: It's His Story It's His Story | Podcast on Spotify
Find her on Facebook: Barbara Culver-Speaker | Facebook
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Artists: White Bones
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Audio source: Epidemic Sound
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Is jealousy truly a hallmark of love, or have we been led astray by common misconceptions? Join us, Doug and Leslie Davis, as we embark on a journey to uncover the biblical truths about jealousy in marriage. We tackle the pervasive myth that jealousy is an expression of love, instead revealing how true love, as depicted in 1 Corinthians 13, thrives without envy or possessiveness. Our discussion delves into the nuances between jealousy and envy, dismantling the notion that the two are synonymous. We stress the importance of understanding the protective nature of jealousy, as opposed to the covetousness of envy, aiming to steer couples towards a union that encapsulates the fullness of God's intention for love and marriage.
This episode isn't just about busting myths; it's about finding strength and unity in the spiritual intimacy that prayer brings to a marriage. By drawing a distinction between the possessiveness often mistaken for jealousy and the humble, selfless love that Scripture advocates, we seek to enlighten our listeners on the true nature of divine jealousy. Where the world sees control, we find partnership and equality, grounded in a biblical understanding that honors and protects the sacred covenant of marriage.
In our closing segment, we open our hearts in a collective prayer, confronting the struggles that envy and jealousy can impose on a relationship. We share our gratitude for the righteous example of divine jealousy, using it as a beacon to guide us towards honoring, loving, respecting, and caring for our spouses in a manner that resonates with God's flawless design. We invite you to reflect on the insights shared and to join us in the ongoing quest for hope, encouragement, and practical wisdom as we navigate the complex emotional landscape of marriage together.
Let's Connect
HeartCall Ministries
Facebook: @Doug&LeslieDavis
IG: @TheVisionDrivenMarriage
Things we Mention:
Ephesians 4:26
1 Cor 13:4-7
1 Cor 10:13
Phil 4:13
2 Cor 5:17
Romans 12:1-2
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Jealousy can be a silent saboteur in the strongest of marriages, yet it's a topic many couples shy away from discussing. Join us, Doug and Leslie Davis, as we courageously tackle this subject with five steps to overcome jealousy in relationships. Together, we untangle the complex web of emotions that fuel jealousy in relationships, illuminating a path to self-awareness and open, healing dialogue. Whether you’re struggling with your own green-eyed monster or are supporting a partner through their battle, we offer a strategy for understanding and surmounting the obstacles that threaten trust and love in your relationship.
In our conversation, we lay out actionable steps to safeguard your union from the erosion of jealousy in relationships. Discover the profound role of prayer in seeking divine intervention to confront emotional triggers and learn how gratitude, forgiveness, and contentment can become your allies against the tide of negative feelings. If the journey seems daunting, fear not; we underscore the invaluable role of professional support from counselors and coaches who can pave the way for couples to embark on this voyage of growth and reconciliation. Embark with us as we explore how to maintain a marriage where both partners feel truly valued and secure, free from the shackles of jealousy.
Things we mention:
Episode #62 With Shanenn Bryant
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Ever wrestled with the green-eyed monster gnawing away at your relationship? Leslie and I unpack the signs of jealousy in marriage, distinguishing between the kind that's rooted in love and the variant that harbors destructive selfishness. You're not alone if you've felt that twinge or witnessed it in your partner.
We delve deep into the intricate dynamics of marriage as we explore the often overlooked but profoundly impactful emotion of jealousy. Join us as we uncover the subtle yet significant signs of jealousy that may manifest within your marriage, shedding light on crucial insights to navigate this complex terrain. From subtle cues to overt behaviors, understanding the signs of jealousy is essential for fostering trust, communication, and mutual understanding within your relationship. Whether it's feelings of insecurity, possessiveness, or suspicion, recognizing these jealousy signs can be transformative in fostering a healthier, more resilient marriage. Tune in as we unravel the intricacies of jealousy and equip you with invaluable tools to nurture a thriving partnership.
We Mention:
Our interview with Shanenn Bryant in episode #62
Affair-proof your marriage: Take the quiz to find out if your relationship is affair proof.
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Theme music: Dead Winter
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Artists: White Bones
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Have you ever felt the sting of jealousy in a relationship and wondered if others struggle with the same silent battle? Shanenn Bryant, a relationship confidence coach with a deeply personal tale of conquering jealousy, joins us on the Vision-Driven Marriage Podcast to shed light on this common yet often unaddressed challenge. Her raw and relatable story begins in the shadow of her father's alcoholism, a journey that led her to realize the widespread nature of jealousy and its effects on trust within relationships.
In a heartfelt conversation, Shanenn opens up about the intricacies of building trust while navigating one's insecurities. Her insights into transforming thoughts and behaviors illuminate the path to deeper connections beyond the reassurances of a partner. We also address the delicate balance of support and enabling within a marriage, offering listeners coping techniques and ways to create a supportive environment that does not foster dependency.
Rounding out our discussion, we explore the importance of communication and empathy in managing jealousy. Shannon generously provides resources for continued growth, including her own podcast, "Top Self," ensuring that listeners leave equipped with tools to strengthen their marital bonds and foster trust in the face of jealousy. Join us and take a transformative step toward fortifying the foundation of your relationships.
Find Shanenn at
TopSelf.com
https://www.instagram.com/topselfcoach
https://www.facebook.com/yourtopself
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Shanenn mentions Box Breathing as a form of anxiety/panic relief.
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Have you ever witnessed the incredible transformation that faith can bring into a marriage? Scott and Katie LaPierre join us this Valentine's season to unpack the potent blend of grace and tenacity that defines a vision-driven marriage. Their story, a genuine testament to the power of Biblical principles, delves into the intricacies of parenting, homeschooling, and ministry life, all while nurturing the sacred bond of matrimony. They remind us that even the most profound differences between partners can be the very catalysts for growth, drawing a couple closer together as they navigate life's hurdles with God at the helm.
Wrapping up the episode, we celebrate the Valentine season by discussing the milestones of transformation and redemption that arise when couples and individuals wholeheartedly surrender to Jesus Christ. David and Tracy Sellars share inspiring stories from the heart of their ministry, Vows to Keep, describing a wife's relentless pursuit of a covenant marriage in the wake of her husband's infidelity – a poignant reminder of God's redemptive power.
Whether it's rekindling a covenant love or taking the step to fully commit one's life to Christ, the transformative power of God's grace in marriage is a profound testament to the hope and love that blooms when we let God lead the way. Join us for an episode that reaffirms the power of faith to renew, restore, and revitalize our most cherished human connection.
Find Scott and Katie LaPierre at:
https://www.scottlapierre.org/
Find David and Tracy Sellars at:
https://www.vowstokeep.com/
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Have you ever stood, hand in hand with your partner, facing a gale that threatened to tear you apart? Angie and Matt Baughman did just that, weathering a storm of intense scrutiny that challenged to undermine their marriage. They, along with Ron and Halee Wood, join us this week on The Vision-Driven Marriage podcast to share their extraordinary journeys of faith, love, and unwavering commitment. Their stories are not just narratives; they are lifelines thrown into the tumultuous seas of marriage, offering hope and guidance for staying afloat during the roughest of tides.
The Baughmans open their hearts to reveal a juncture in their lives that became a testament to the strength found in unity, a unity that only comes from following Christ. Matt's resolve to stand beside Angie in a battle that raked up past traumas transformed a moment of vulnerability into one of impenetrable solidarity. Ron and Halee, too, unfold layers of their relationship, renewing their vows annually and illustrating how shared grief and loss can become the bedrock for healing and transformation. Through their eyes, we see God's divine work at hand, knitting together the fabric of relationships into a masterpiece of resilience and restored hope.
Our episode comes full circle as Ron and Halee revisit the essence of marriage vows and the traditions that breathe life into them. Their story, along with the Baughmans', is not just heard; it's felt. It's a testament to the power of a blessed marriage rooted deeply in faith. As you join us in celebrating Valentine's Day all month long, may your own vows echo back to you, not just as words once spoken, but as a living promise that grows and evolves, fortified by the grace of shared experiences and the relentless pursuit of a partnership driven by divine love.
Find Angie at
livesteadyon.com
Find Ron & Halee at
runtheracetogether.com
Previous episodes:
The Vision-Driven Marriage Episode #23 with Ron and Halee Wood
https://www.buzzsprout.com/2053738/12876452
The Vision-Driven Marriage Episode #27 with Angie Baughman https://www.buzzsprout.com/2053738/13052101
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HeartCallMInistries.org
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Audio source: Epidemic Sound
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When Anna McLaughlin humorously tossed her suitcase in frustration, little did she know it would unpack a journey of introspection and faith within her marriage. And when Rick and Nancy Kay Grace realized that they didn't want their marriage to be like that of their parents, they knew that they needed to invite Jesus to be at the head of their marriage. In this special episode of The Vision-Driven Marriage, we celebrate the month of Love with testimonies to God's redemptive love and restoration that only He can provide in marriage.
This episode is a heartfelt testament to the transformative power of seeing marriage through a divine lens. Our guests peel back the layers of their relationships, sharing the raw and enlightening moments where spirituality and personal growth converge in their sacred unions. Expect to discover how self-reflection and honoring one another can lead to a robust, vision-driven marriage as our stories weave through the trials and triumphs of letting faith guide the marital course.
Rick & Nancy Kay illuminates the episode with a revelation of how treating a spouse with the dignity they deserve can revolutionize a partnership. Rick and Nancy reveal the game-changing impact of recognizing one's wife as a daughter of the King, a narrative that reshaped their approach to marriage and invites listeners to reconsider their own. It's not just about love; it's about honor, respect, and the willingness to invite Jesus to preside over the relationship. Whether you're navigating early marital struggles or seeking to deepen an already strong bond, prepare to be inspired by the authentic experiences and divine wisdom that can turn the ordinary into something truly extraordinary.
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Theme music: Dead Winter
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Artists: White Bones
Composers: White Bones
Audio source: Epidemic Sound
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Have you ever witnessed a transformation so profound that it shifts your perspective on love and commitment? Coach Cristie's metamorphosis from a distrustful skeptic to a beacon of hope for faith-infused marriages is nothing short of miraculous. Alongside her, we explore the trenches and triumphs that come with nurturing a relationship under God's guidance. From navigating the echoes of parental divorce to making the bold move to a single-income family, Cristie's tale is a testament to the power of belief, mentorship, and divine intention in creating a resilient marital bond.
Our conversation then turns to a topic that's close to many of our hearts: personal growth and its pivotal role in marital bliss. Cristie opens up about the wisdom gleaned from "The Empowered Wife" by Laura Doyle, particularly the six intimacy skills that revolutionized many relationships in her life.
To cap off our heartfelt exchange, we share the charming "clean car story," a narrative that illustrates the subtle art of inspiring connection through positive expression. We celebrate the beauty of rediscovering the enchanting qualities in our spouses, emphasizing the power of appreciation to eclipse criticism. With Coach Cristie's infectious zeal lighting the way, we offer strategies and hope for those yearning to not only remain in their marriage but to flourish within it, rejoicing in the shared journey of self-improvement and rediscovery. Join us for an episode that promises to embolden your faith, encourage your heart, and put a little more sparkle in your marriage.
Things We Mention:
Tim Keller's book The Meaning of Marriage
Laura Doyle's book The Empowered Wife
Jerry Bridges's book Trusting God
James Clear's book Atomic Habits
Family Life's Weekend To Remember Marriage Retreat
Where you can find Cristie Cerniglia:
https://relationshipswithamap.org/
Facebook https://www.facebook.com/groups/relationshipswithamap
Instagram https://www.instagram.com/relationshipswithamap
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Have you ever wondered what it truly means to have a marriage that not only survives but thrives? Join us, your hosts Doug and Leslie Davis, as we share insights into the essential threads of spiritual and emotional maturity and their impact on building a resilient Christian marriage. This episode is a treasure trove of wisdom where we dissect the transformative power of maturity on communication, vulnerability, and ultimately, marital unity.
Imagine a relationship where challenges are met with grace, empathy, and a deep understanding of each other's emotional journeys. Throughout this episode, we navigate the complexities of expressing emotions in a partnership, especially for men who may wrestle with society's expectations. We offer you strategies to foster self-awareness and self-regulation, and we reveal how these emotional skills lay the groundwork for a stronger, more empathetic bond between spouses. Our dialogue dives into the direct correlation between the health of your emotional connection and the strength of your marriage.
Concluding our heart-to-heart, we reflect on the beautiful synergy between spiritual and emotional maturity. It's an incredible journey to witness how shared spiritual values and goals can lead to a more profound sense of unity and growth, both individually and as a couple. We discuss practical steps towards embodying the fruits of the Spirit within your marriage, and how this spiritual pursuit can enrich your relationship and deepen your connection with God. Embark on this enlightening path with us and discover how a vision-driven marriage can transform your life.
Mentions:
Hidden Fruit by Robert Bass
Episode #12 How To Strengthen Your Marriage by Expanding Your Intimacies Part 1
Episode #13 How To Strengthen Your Marriage by Expanding Your Intimacies Part 2
Amos 3:3
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Audio source: Epidemic Sound
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Have you felt the tension between love and conflict within your marriage? On this episode of The Vision-Driven Marriage, we explore the profound impact the Fruit of the Spirit can have on your relationship. Discover how virtues like love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control can not only mend but also enrich the bond you share with your spouse. In our candid conversation, we dive into the struggles many couples encounter – from envy, anger, to strife – and offer a beacon of hope for those longing to turn back to God with just one sincere step of the heart.
Walking in the Spirit isn't just a lofty ideal; it's a practical pathway to a fulfilling marriage. Through our discussion, we illuminate how the Holy Spirit's role is crucial in nurturing these virtues within us, an endeavor far beyond our human capabilities. This episode provides actionable advice for inviting God's influence in your life, accentuating the necessity of a personal relationship with Jesus for true victory over the flesh. Embrace a life where every action and sacrifice in your marriage serves not only your partner but also honors God.
Step away from the routine and engage in the conscious cultivation of your spiritual connection with your partner. This episode is not just a guide but an encouragement to grow in the Fruit of the Spirit within your marriage. We share insights and personal experiences that reveal how replacing negative emotions with gentleness, patience, and kindness can transform not only your relationship but your entire approach to life. Tune in to learn how to fortify your marriage, draw closer to your spouse, and together, reflect God's glory more brightly than ever before.
We Mention:
Galatians 5:16-24
Romans 8:5-8
1 Peter 4:8
1 John 4:19
Proverbs 15:1
Psalm 91:1-2
Robert Bass's Book Hidden Fruit
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Theme music: Dead Winter
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Artists: White Bones
Composers: White Bones
Audio source: Epidemic Sound
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Ever wondered why New Year's resolutions for your marriage fizz out by February? In this episode of The Vision-Driven Marriage, Leslie unfolds the truth about transforming your partnership by setting goals with divine timing, not just calendar dates. In our in-depth discussion, we break down the 'why' behind failed resolutions and pivot to the power of intentional goal-setting at any season of the year. By focusing on actionable steps and aligning our marital ambitions with God’s perfect plan, we reveal how to craft a roadmap to a thriving relationship.
We delve into the art of setting goals that not only speak to the heart of your relationship but are also deeply rooted in scripture. From handling anger and fostering forgiveness to enhancing communication and intimacy, we provide real-life examples and actionable steps. It's about applying God's Word in daily life, steering your marriage with purpose and passion, and turning these lessons into a more fulfilling partnership.
This episode isn't just about the two of you; it's a calling to build a family legacy on the solid rock of Biblical principles. We explore how prayer and scripture can be the cornerstone of setting goals for marital growth, including spiritual unity and upholding shared values. Strengthening your marriage and family begins with a shared vision, and we're here to guide you through setting strategic, faith-based goals that will carry your relationship through 2024 and beyond. So, let's embark on this journey together, and witness the transformation that comes when two people align their hearts with God’s.
The things we mention:
Jon Acuff “All it takes is a goal” podcast
Episode 153: How to Win Your New Year’s Resolutions Before the Year Even Begins!
The 4 Disciplines of Execution, Chris McChesney, Sean Covey, and Jim Huling
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Theme music: Dead Winter
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Artists: White Bones
Composers: White Bones
Audio source: Epidemic Sound
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Imagine finding your life's calling in the place you least expected. Robert Bass, our esteemed guest, shares his remarkable journey from a personal trainer to a pastor and author, encapsulating a life transformed by faith and intentionality. His latest work, "Hidden Fruit," serves as a guiding light for those yearning to cultivate the fruits of the Holy Spirit in their own lives. As we unravel the layers of Robert's book, we delve into the essence of intentional love within marriage and how it solidifies familial bonds. His unique approach—personal letters from a father to his child—unveils the profound impact of a husband's deliberate acts of love and how they can reinforce the fabric of the family.
Our enlightening exchange with Robert doesn't stop there; we venture into discussions of masculinity, patience, and the joys of fatherhood. His insights offer a refreshing perspective on the virtues that can lead to personal refinement and are only found in following God. For those seeking to reinforce their marital ties, we share resources, including a sneak peek into the transformative "Hidden Fruit," available in the show notes. Tune in for a treasure trove of wisdom that promises to enrich your life with love, joy, peace, and patience.
Scripture mentioned:
Galatians 5:22-23
Philippians 4
Find Robert at
Hidden Fruit Book
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Theme music: Dead Winter
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Artists: White Bones
Composers: White Bones
Audio source: Epidemic Sound
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Welcome, dear listeners, to a special episode of The Vision-Driven Marriage podcast! Today we're diving into the heartwarming and inspiring moments that have defined our journey so far. It's a celebration of love, growth, and the pursuit of a biblically inspired, vision-driven, intentional marriage.
Over the course of our podcasting journey, we've been privileged to hear from incredible couples who have embraced God’s design for marriage. Today, we've curated a collection of the most impactful conversations, insightful anecdotes, and practical wisdom that will reignite the spark in your own relationship.
From navigating challenges to celebrating victories, our guests have generously shared their experiences, reminding us that a vision-driven marriage is not just a destination but a continuous, intentional journey.
Whether you're a newlywed or celebrating decades of companionship, this compilation is a treasure trove of wisdom and inspiration. So, grab your favorite beverage, find a cozy spot, and join us as we relive the best moments from The Vision-Driven Marriage podcast.
The Episodes that we mention:
Episode #6: Rick & Nora Tatina
Episode #2 Heather Eardmann
Episode #19 Jim & Mindy Bradford
Episode #36 Brenna & Garrett Naufel
Episode #23 Ron & Halee Wood
https://heartcallministries.org/podcast/trauma-responses-in-relationships-with-ron-and-halee-wood/
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Feeling like your marriage could use a divine intervention? You're not alone. My wife, Leslie and I, Doug, will take you on a journey of faith, revealing how God working in our lives not only transformed us as individuals, but also solidified our marriage. Leslie bravely shares her struggles with self-worth, a battle intensified by her family background, while I chime in on how my faith played a pivotal role in helping her see her true worth. It's a real, raw testament to God's love and the fortitude of a marriage rooted in faith.
We're not just sharing our story, but also giving you a fresh perspective on the power of transformation through God in a marriage. Reflecting on our experiences, we emphasize the significance of understanding personal values and their influence on our actions. We delve into the critical aspect of self-worth, and how it should be anchored in God’s unconditional love rather than external factors. We invite you to surrender to God's will and watch as His transformation blesses your spouse and marriage. As we share this special Christmas testimony, remember the blessings of a God-centered marriage and let our journey inspire yours.
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Welcome, dear friends, as we unveil the secret to halting the devastating Reactive Cycle in your marriage. Promising an insightful journey, this episode of The Vision-Driven Marriage introduces you to the five steps of the Care Cycle, a tool that promises to shepherd your marriage in a positive direction. Based on the wisdom of Robert Paul, author of "The Nine Lies That Ruin Our Marriage," this episode promises a deep dive into the art of processing emotions and navigating conflicts by taking responsibility for your own emotional needs.
As we move along this voyage of rediscovery, we highlight the importance of owning our feelings and how casting them onto your partner can be detrimental. We touch on the necessity of inviting God into our healing process and the power of surrounding ourselves with honest and uplifting companions. In the latter part of our discussion, we examine the heart's role in marriage and how keeping it open can be a beacon of hope in resolving underlying issues and disputes. So, lean into this conversation and explore how, with God's assistance, you can breathe new life into your marriage.
Things we mention:
The Prayer from Restoring Hope
“God, please help me calm down, think clearly, and remember that my spouse is not the enemy. Help me lay down my fear, anger, hurt, and frustration in order to be open to your Holy spirit and experience His peace, patience, kindness, gentleness. Help me right now to have eyes to see and ears to hear so I can understand my won heart, what I am feeling, where it might be coming from, and what I am needing at this moment. Give me humility to see the log in my own eye and how I might be contributing to all that is happening right now within me and in my marriage.”1 In Jesus name, Amen.
- Paul, Robert, et al. Restoring Hope. Focus on the Family Publishing, 2023.
Book by Robert Paul: Nine Lies that Destroy our Marriages.
9 Lies That Will Destroy Your Marriage: And the Truths That Will Save It and Set It Free: Smalley, Greg, Paul, Robert: 9781589979710: Amazon.com: Books
The Vision-Driven Marriage Special Christmas Podcast Series
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Ever found yourself stuck in a never-ending cycle of reactive arguments with your partner? We're Doug and Leslie Davis, and we'll guide you through understanding how unintentional words or actions trigger this cycle and we'll offer solutions to break free from it. Our personal anecdotes and open conversations will provide insight into how you can foster a stronger marital bond.
A significant part of breaking this cycle involves understanding your partner's emotional needs. We'll unpack common misunderstandings and the reactive cycles that can stem from misaligned perceptions. We stress the importance of self-reflection and awareness in relationships, setting the stage for a healthier alternative to the reactive cycle coming up in our next discussion.
But don't fret, there's a way out. We'll introduce you to the concept of the 'care cycle', a promising alternative to the reactive cycle. While this cycle may seem daunting, it's not beneficial for a healthy relationship. So, join us for this enlightening conversation and strengthen your relationship. Next stop, a healthier and happier marriage.
We Mentioned:
The Reactive Cycle - Focus on the Family
The Vision-Driven Marriage Christmas Podcast Special
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Ever felt trapped in a toxic relationship, craving for a ray of sunshine to show you the way out? Join us in the Vision-Driven Marriage Podcast as we sit down with Cass and Kathryn Morrow, founders of Morrow Marriage, who are the living embodiment of that ray of hope. Their courage to openly share their journey from a toxic, abusive marriage to a loving relationship is not just inspiring but also enlightening. Using their personal experiences, they shed light on emotional abuse, highlighting its varied forms and urging us to understand our own desires in a relationship to break the chain of harmful behaviors.
As we navigate the stormy sea of relationships with them, we urge you to take note of the "patience formula". It is their simple yet profound solution to handle conflicts, emphasizing the need for mutual support. Cass and Kathryn further explore the realm of individual responsibility in relationships, reminding us that we should not solely rely on our partner for validation. Their captivating conversation provides strategies to improve communication and express love in a healthy way to create lasting change.
Cass and Kathryn believe that communication, forgiveness, and commitment are the pillars of a healthy marriage. So, tune in for an episode filled with advice, insights, and strategies that promise to fortify your marriage. Together, let's create a wave of change and disrupt divorce one relationship at a time.
We Mentioned:
The Christmas Podcast Series: A Week of Stories to Fortify Your Faith
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Ever thought about the transformative power of gratitude? We've created an enlightening episode to show you just how impactful it can be, particularly within the sacred bond of marriage. Discover practical ways you can incorporate gratitude into your everyday routine, like writing appreciative notes or sharing the load of regular tasks. In this episode, we uncover the benefits of developing an attitude of gratitude towards your partner, which can lead to a deeper, more open connection.
Our episode also delves into how gratitude can shape your overall perspective on life, and we do this by introducing a 30-day gratitude journal filled with engaging prompts and spiritual nourishment. Join us as we share our insights on how a simple "thank you" can restore hope, appreciation, and joy in a relationship. We remind you of the importance of expressing gratitude and help you re-discover the deep-seated joy that comes from sincerely appreciating your spouse. So, tune in and let's remember that love is a blessing, and thankfulness allows us to truly feel it.
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The Gratitude Journal
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Imagine waking up every day with an abundance mindset, feeling grateful for the little things and overall, seeing your relationships blossom. What if we told you that you hold the key to this transformation? We're your hosts, Doug and Leslie Davis, and this episode of The Vision-Driven Marriage Podcast is all about the potent combination of vulnerability and gratitude. We walk you through how these two powerful elements can fuel a deeper connection in your relationships. Not only that, we also delve into the concept of scarcity versus abundance mindsets, and how they can significantly affect your perspective on life, love, and relationships.
Further along, we take you into the intimate dance that gratitude and vulnerability perform, creating a safe space for you to be yourself in your relationships. We share some practical tips on how to cultivate a grateful mindset and how it can help you to avoid jumping to negative assumptions in times of uncertainty. Lastly, we'll talk about how passion comes into the equation, and how choosing where to direct it can be the game-changer in your relationships. We also have an exciting invitation for you to join our Heart Call newsletter. So, tune in and let's embark on this journey of growth together. Don't forget to leave us a review and share the episode with your friends. Let's make gratitude and vulnerability the new norm.
We Mention:
The HeartCall Newsletter
Episode on Trust
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Are you ready to unlock the power of gratitude? We, Leslie and Doug Davis promise you an enlightening journey that could positively shift your life's perspective. Imagine having a tool that improves your outlook, enriches your relationships, bolsters your physical and mental health, and even strengthens your self-esteem. This episode sheds light on the transformative power of gratitude and how it can do all that and more.
Let's journey together through the psychological benefits of a thankful heart. Discover how this simple act plays a role in better sleep, reduced aggression, increased empathy, and ushered forgiveness in relationships. We also discuss practical steps to nurture gratitude in seemingly thankless circumstances and how it's linked with mental strength. Take an actionable step with us, focusing on what we're thankful for, and see the ripple effect it creates in your life.
Look forward to our future conversation on vulnerability and gratitude. Join us, explore, and enrich your life and relationships through the power of gratitude.
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Please check the web page for the things we mention in this episode.
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Have you ever wondered why, sometimes, a marriage that started on cloud nine suddenly finds itself in a rut? Want to learn how misplaced priorities can be a silent relationship killer? Well, today on The Vision-Driven Marriage podcast, we unwrap this complex web with the help of relationship maestro Kelly DuPee. With his vast experience in marriage coaching, Kelly shines a light on the five common mistakes that can potentially create fissures in your marriage, including misguided priorities and the lack of an active effort to maintain a strong connection with your spouse.
Struggling with communication? We've all been there. But the good news is Kelly is here to share his expertise on how to ace the art of listening for understanding, not just reply. In a world where emotions often rule the roost, learn techniques to keep your anger in control and prevent it from jeopardizing your relationship. Kelly shares strategies to help you take a step back when needed, process your emotions, and engage in healthy communication.
The cherry on top is our engaging conversation about finding the courage to ask for help in a marriage. Kelly's insights, drawn from his successful career as an author and marriage coach, also offer tangible appreciation tips for a successful relationship.
We Mention
Mark 10:17
Genesis 2:24
Luke 9:25
James 1:19
Ephesians 4:26
James 4:2
Proverbs 11:14
Proverbs 15:22
Proverbs 24:6
You can find Kelly DuPee on:
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Website
Kelly's book offer:
Turn it Up! How to have the Lifelong Marriage That You Really Want
TurnItUp.coach/75
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Discover a fresh perspective on Biblical submission in marriage with us, Doug and Leslie Davis. In this episode, we delve into the profound concept of Biblical submission, a topic often misunderstood and misrepresented in contemporary discussions. We'll explore how prayer, posture, and position intertwine to lay the groundwork for a Biblically sound understanding of the steps to take as you submit yourself to Christ and in your marriage. Witness how prayer positions the heart, how posture reflects humility, and how our position in Christ can reshape our perspective on submission. Join us as we uncover the depth of Biblical submission beyond the clichés and towards a life-changing truth.
We shed light on Ephesians 5:21, showcasing the importance of submitting to one another. In the final segment, we reveal how support and encouragement between spouses can foster success, motivate you to celebrate each other's divine roles, and use sacrificial love to enhance your marriage. Join us on this enlightening exploration to fortify and enrich your Biblical leadership and submission.
We mention:
Ephesians 3:14-19
John 15:4
Psalm 25:9
Proverbs 29:23
Psalm 16:8
Ephesians 5: 21, 25
Free Resource: The Prayer Guide
Gave a video shout out for
Beth Moore's book: Praying God's Word
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What if the cornerstone to a thriving marriage and successful leadership was trustworthiness? We, Doug and Leslie Davis, are here to convince you that it is. Through a powerful and insightful conversation, we unpack the importance of trustworthiness grounded in Biblical wisdom. Rebuilding trust, even after it has been severely broken, is not a small task, but it is achievable with honesty, consistency, and God's guidance. This episode is an exploration of trustworthiness, where we use Jesus' ultimate example to provide insights on how trustworthiness as a character trait can shape your relationship and leadership.
A solid marriage requires constant nurturing, and one of the key elements is being trustworthy. Embark on this journey with us as we delve into how you can foster and strengthen trust in your relationship by being trustworthy. We share valuable advice on how to prioritize your relationship, create a safe space for open communication, and effectively deal with moments of difficulty. This episode also emphasizes the need for unwavering commitment, and we discuss how to avoid letting past mistakes define your future. No matter what stage of the relationship you are in, we provide practical and Biblically grounded guidance to steer you towards a vision-driven marriage.
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Do you ever wonder how to ensure your spouse gravitates toward you in a time of stress? In our latest podcast episode, my wife Leslie and I, Doug Davis, open up a healthy dialogue about being a positive influence on your spouse and fostering a more fulfilling marriage. Our conversation on today's episode of the Vision-Driven Marriage Podcast isn't about manipulation but about making it easier for them to love you.
In the first segment of our discussion, we delve into the power of effective communication and intentional acts of kindness. We share how using 'I feel' statements can create an atmosphere of understanding and support. Learn how to be a source of comfort and love for your spouse during times of stress and how to draw them closer during hardships, aligning our thoughts with Ephesians 4:29.
As we navigate further, we highlight the importance of mutual support and prayer in a marriage. Discover how carving out time and open communication can strengthen your bond and cultivate an environment of shared support. Finally, we tackle the power of prayer in a marriage, emphasizing there's no 'right' way to pray. To help you and your spouse overcome any apprehensions about praying together, we encourage you to make use of our free prayer guide available in the show notes. So, come join us as we unpack these practical steps to improving your marriage through loving influence.
We mention:
The Free Prayer Guide
Podcast Finding God in Your Pain
The Vision-Driven Marriage Podcast episode #5 How To Increase Your Spiritual Intimacy
Ephesians 4:29 (NIV) - Do not let any unwholesome (blueletterbible.org)
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Ever wondered what the secret to a joyful and thriving marriage is? Well, look no further as we are joined by Scott LaPierre, a teaching pastor at Woodlands Christian Church and author of Your Marriage God's Way. Scott spills the beans on how his transformative book came into existence and the pivotal role Biblical principles play in fortifying marriages. Want to know a crucial ingredient? It's about earnestly absorbing and implementing God's decrees, and you will find that the recipe for love, respect, leadership, and submission leads to a healthier bond.
Tackling the pressing issues in marriage, we embark on a deep discussion about the essence of spiritual leadership and the contrasting journeys of men and women in marriage. Scott underlines the significance of dialogue and mutual respect in marriages, more so when disagreements arise. His stance - husbands and wives must validate each other's thoughts and feelings, fostering an environment of mutual respect and love, and then describes what true leadership looks like.
In the concluding segment, we delve into the realms of responsibility, leadership, and trust in relationships. Scott helps us to understand how spouses can pave the way for each other to comply with God's commands and fortify their bond. He stresses the importance of aligning with God's will when making decisions. Wrapping up our enlightening discussion, Scott generously presents a free gift for our listeners - a resource called "Seven Biblical Insights for Marriage" targeting couples who seek to strengthen their relationships by adhering to biblical commands. Tune in for a conversation that could redefine the way you perceive and live your marriage.
We Mention
Scott's Free Resource: Seven Biblical Insights for Marriage
Scott LaPierre's Book: Your Marriage God's way
We discuss many Scriptures in this episode.
Including:
Ephesians 5:21-33
Genesis 2:18
1 Peter 3:7
1 Corinthians 13:1-8
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Navigating the turbulent waters of infidelity can be an uphill task. We're offering you an opportunity to learn practical ways of recovering from infidelity in a marriage. Tips, insights and strategies from our brilliant guest, Dr. Deborah Miller, author of More Than Sorry, Five Steps to Deepen Your Apology After You Have Committed Infidelity, will provide steps to direct you through saying you're sorry. In our candid conversation, we discuss how each partner can take responsibility in the aftermath of infidelity, while emphasizing vulnerability, self-analysis and growth from mistakes.
Ever wondered how to offer a genuine apology after a betrayal? Let's walk you through that together. We delve into the process of expressing a sincere apology, highlighting the need for empathy, understanding, and clear communication. Dr. Miller encourages the self-reflection on defense mechanisms, attachment styles, personality types, and navigating stress management. We also explore how to handle triggers with humility and courage when they resurface even years after the incident.
Rebuilding trust and healing after infidelity is no small feat. It's a journey that requires introspection, self-reflection, and patience from both partners. We offer useful pointers for the wounded spouse to champion their healing journey, emphasizing the importance of letting go of the need to know every detail of the affair when it's time to do so. We recognize the necessity of complete transparency and accountability in rebuilding trust, alongside the long-term commitment necessary for complete healing. Join us as we explore how to believe in the potential for change and a healthy relationship despite infidelity. The road may be weary but take heart in the transformative power of forgiveness and progress because God is still in the business of reconciliation as we should be too.
We Mention
Dr. Deb's book: More Than Sorry, Five Steps to Deepen Your Apology After You Have Committed Infidelity
Her Website: Dr. Deb Miller
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Brace yourself for a heart-to-heart conversation as we, Doug and Leslie Davis, journey through the labyrinth of forgiveness in marriage especially post-infidelity. We uncover the real essence of forgiveness, debunking popular misconceptions that equate it to mere tolerance or waiting for time to heal all wounds. Our discussion aims to shed light on the fact that forgiveness isn't a sign of weakness or a free pass to the offender, but a step towards healing and liberation.
In the second half of our chat, we delve into the transformative strength of forgiveness, reflecting on how the nature of grace, mercy, and love, as exhibited by God, has a pivotal role in forgiveness. We stress the crucial need to distinguish forgiveness from reconciliation, as these terms aren't interchangeable. Acknowledging the insightful work of June Hunt at Hope for the Heart, we introduce you to a guide to biblical truths and practical steps towards forgiveness. We hope you will find value in this dialogue, inspiring you to incorporate these principles in your journey towards forgiveness in your marriage.
We Mention
June Hunt and Hope for the Heart
Forgiveness PDF (no email required)
Scripture
Colossians 3:13
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What if there was a pathway to healing and recovery after an affair? A devastating experience, yet not a death sentence to your marriage. In this episode, we, Doug and Leslie Davis, take on the difficult topic of healing and recovering from an affair. We share our insights on how to address the pain and hurt that follows, focusing on healing and supporting your spouse through the same process.
We've identified five crucial steps for recovery – being forthcoming, rebuilding trust, making a clean break from the sin, finding help, and renewing your devotion. Transparency and commitment to change play a significant role in rebuilding trust. This isn't a quick fix, it requires patience and perseverance.
Referencing the insightful book, From Lover to Beloved by Brenna Naufel, we reflect on her journey to a healthy marriage post-affair. Healing is neither fast nor easy, but with God's faithfulness, it is possible. In our discussion, we encourage those battling infidelity in their marriage or recovering from an affair, shedding BIblical encouragement and insights on how to navigate this challenging phase. Every marriage deserves a fighting chance, and we're here to support you through your journey of healing and recovery.
If you are wondering if your relationship is at risk of an affair, visitHeartCallMinistries.org/quiz
We Mentioned:
Brenna and Garrett Naufel's interview on The Vision-Driven Marriage
Brenna Naufel's book:
From Lover to Beloved: Experience God's Hope, Healing, and Forgiveness after Committing Adultery
Bible Verses:
Hosea Chapters 1-3
Luke Chapter 15: The Prodigal Son
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Have you ever stood on a beach and watched as the waves gradually pulled your footprints away, smearing them into nothingness? This episode of the Vision Driven Marriage Podcast is about the similar, gradual drift that can happen in marriages, slowly steering couples apart. We navigate this challenging topic, exploring how lack of communication, emotional and physical distance, and a false belief that 'it could never happen to us' can create a marital drift. To bring this issue to life, we refer to the heartrending journey of Garrett and Brenna (Episode #36), who fell into the snare of temptation.
In the hustle and bustle of life, it's easy to let emotional and physical gaps creep into your relationship. This episode shines a spotlight on these twin pitfalls that can unknowingly create chasms in marriages. We emphasize the critical role of communication, not just in bridging these gaps, but also in understanding and respecting each other's needs for maintaining equilibrium in the relationship. Remember, it's hard to meet your spouse's needs if you don't understand what they are - hence, the importance of heartfelt conversations.
Finally, we examine the impact of internal scripts on marital drift, bringing to light how past experiences and beliefs can cast shadows on your present. We also delve into the significant role of acknowledging our roles in relationships and how focusing on fulfilling our spouse's needs can prevent us from drifting apart. Staying tethered to God is your safety line, your surefire way to overcome the drift. So, tune in and let's journey towards strengthening your marriage together.
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In this episode, we mentioned:
The Vision-Driven Marriage Episode #36
Recovering from Infidelity: A Redemptive Work of the Lord with Brenna and Garrett NaufelBrenna Naufel's book: From Lover to Beloved, Experience God's Hope, Healing and Forgiveness After Committing AdulteryThe Quiz to determine if you are a connected couple, a drifting couple, or an at-risk couple Bible Verses:Proverbs 5:15-23
1 Corinthians 10:13
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What if there was a secret to restoring trust and commitment, even after the deep wound of marital infidelity? Join us, Doug and Leslie Davis, in a deeply moving conversation with Brenna and Garrett Naufel, who bravely journey through the intense battle of pornography addiction, infidelity, and the restoration of their marriage. They share their experience of identifying the lies entangled in their relationship and the process of rebuilding trust and communication, all under God's redemptive power.
Garret takes us through his 8-year struggle with pornography, recounting the moment that clarity struck him in an unexpected place and triggered his confession to Brenna. Brenna's confession came with more reluctance but brought about the beautiful grace and forgiveness that comes from following the Lord. The couple shares their struggles, vulnerability, and the importance of honesty as they navigate through their difficulties. We discuss the significant importance of counseling in this journey and the role it played in helping them take baby steps toward rebuilding trust and commitment.
Brenna and Garrett's inspiring story is a beacon of hope, and their openness about their personal struggles serves as a powerful testament to the power of God's redemption. In their journey, they discover a renewed sense of commitment and ultimately experience redemption in their relationship. This conversation is not just about a marriage restored; it's about a love renewed, a faith reaffirmed, and a resilience that speaks volumes about God's redemptive power. Tune in for an inspiring conversation filled with love, faith, and resilience.
In this episode, we mention:
The Relationship Quiz.
1 Cor 10:13
1 Peter 5:8
The Book:
From Lover To Beloved, Brenna Naufel
Brenna's Website
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What if you could fortify your marriage with five meaningful principles? What if these principles could lead to a deeper understanding and fulfillment of your wedding vows? Join us, Doug and Leslie Davis, on the Vision Driven Marriage Podcast, as we discuss the profound difference between living in a contract and living in a covenant with your spouse. We'll explore the implications of the vows taken in a wedding ceremony and the lifelong impact they carry. Through our detailed discussion, we hope to shed light on the five significant covenant principles - love, honor, cherish, forsaking all others, and clinging to your spouse - and how living these principles can strengthen your bond.
Wrapping up the discussion, we focus on the practicality of living these covenant principles in day-to-day life. Leaning on God for strength and wisdom in your journey to a fortified marriage is crucial. Together, we unravel how living in a covenant with your spouse can lead to the fulfillment of your wedding vows. It's a journey that promises to enrich your relationship profoundly.
We give a shout out to and extend our warmest congratulations to Angie and Matt Bauman on their 25th wedding anniversary. You can find Angie at Steady On Podcast - Live Steady On
We mentioned:
1 Corinthians 13: 4-4
1 Peter 3:7
The Five Love Languages and the Quiz:
What are The 5 Love Languages?
The Love Language® Quiz
The Vision-Driven Marriage Podcast
Episode #3
Episode #11
online dictionary: Wordhippo.com
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Ready to turn your marriage from auto-pilot to intentional? We're Doug and Leslie Davis, and we're welcoming you to this episode of the Vision Driven Marriage Podcast, where we'll be your guides on a journey to deepening your marital bond through purposeful action. Inspired by the wisdom of 1 John 3:18, we'll unpack what it means to truly love with truth and action. We'll guide you to identify and consciously choose what's best for your marriage, manage your time effectively, set realistic expectations, and communicate your hopes, dreams, and goals.
This episode is more than just theoretical discussion. It's filled with actionable advice to help you enrich your relationship. We'll touch on the importance of intentional intimacy, being humble, praying together, and prioritizing your spouse's needs. Discover how these intentional actions can significantly strengthen your marriage. Whether you're newlyweds or empty-nesters, together we'll learn to embody the message of 1 John 3:18 - to love with truth and action, making your marriage stronger and more fulfilling. Let's embark on this journey together and grow our marriages!
Scripture Mentioned:
1 John 3:18
Resource Mentioned:
4 Ways to Be Intentional In Your Marriage | by YouVersion | Medium
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Ever imagined what unrealistic expectations can do to your marriage? Well, you're not alone! Let's embark on an enlightening journey, exploring the treacherous terrain of preconceived notions that often lead to unattainable expectations. These hidden menaces, stemming from past experiences, media, and even pornography, can subtly sabotage the trust and connection in your relationship. Listen up as we reveal how you can prevent your heart from becoming sick with disappointment.
In this episode, we unpack the need to identify emotions and question their roots to better manage unrealistic expectations. We briefly discuss how to examine our past and present influences that shape our expectations and align them with spiritual principles. More than just theory, you'll get practical advice and real-life examples that will help you navigate these tricky issues.
Wrapping up, we discuss strategies for overcoming unrealistic expectations. It's not a quick fix—it takes time, communication, and a willingness to adjust. Mistakes, instead of being viewed as failures, become learning opportunities. We share encouragement and hope from Scripture as we strive to strengthen our marriages. Join us on this journey, and let's navigate the ups and downs of marital life together.
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Scripture mentioned:
Proverbs 13:12
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What if the deepest despair could be transformed into the greatest redemption? What if the wounds of the past could be replaced with a purpose for the future? This is the inspiring journey of Anna McLaughlin, who emerged from the traumas of her non-Christian childhood and found faith, healing, and a life of purpose.
Anna's story is an experience of revival, a testament to the power of God's love, and a shining example of how a broken past can lead to a wholeness in the present. Through honesty with God and a submission to His grace, she discovered the healing potential of marriage, even in the face of the scars of her past. As she transformed her personal trauma into a wellspring of strength, Anna also faced the challenges of raising children without the model of a healthy family relationship from her early life. Yet, she held steadfast, intentionally cultivating an atmosphere of grace and understanding in her marriage and family.
Now, as a guide for others on their paths to healing, Anna’s work extends beyond her home, reaching women through 'She Considers Field', a faith-based Facebook group. Her personal journey of resilience, healing, and growth empowers others in their quest for wholeness and deep personal connections. Join us in this inspiring exploration of pain, healing, and the enduring power of faith.
Anna can also be found at: IG @sheconsidersafield
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Feeling overwhelmed by negative moods in your marriage? Looking for practical strategies to navigate through them? Well, you're in the right place. Join us, Doug and Leslie Davis, as we unpack the complex issue of managing negative moods in a relationship and provide you with tips and strategies to help you and your spouse find balance and harmony.
We kick off the conversation by defining what an unregulated mood looks like, its impact on relationships, and the power in believing one can regulate these moods. We talk about the different ways negative moods can manifest such as anger, fear, sadness, and withdrawal. Then, we discuss some helpful tools to manage and gain control over these emotions. Techniques like self-soothing, deep breathing, and positive visualization can be beneficial. Co-regulation, where you and your spouse help each other navigate through these emotions, is also a strategy we delve into.
In the latter part of the conversation, we shed light on how to support a spouse during their unregulated negative mood. We underscore the significance of not taking their mood personally, setting boundaries, and maintaining calmness. Understanding and acknowledging your spouse's feelings and helping them carry their burden can go a long way in strengthening your marriage. If you or your spouse are struggling to regulate a negative mood, we encourage you to seek help. Remember, understanding, patience, and support can foster a healthy marriage. Join us, and let's journey towards a vision driven marriage.
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Scripture Mentioned:
Galatians 6:2
This podcast is provided for informational purposes only. We are not providing clinical counseling services through the podcast content, and the views expressed in this podcast should not be taken as professional mental health advice. The content shared on this podcast should not replace any medical or professional advice you may receive from a licensed healthcare provider. If you are feeling stuck, we urge you to seek the advice of a qualified counselor or coach before making any decisions pertaining to your mental health or well-being.
Thank you for listening!
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Are you feeling the strain in your marriage? The silent battles, the escalating arguments, and the disconnection can take a toll. But what if we said that there are four destructive behaviors, identified by Dr. John Gottman, that could be the root cause? These four horsemen - criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling - are lurking in the shadows of your relationship, leading to its slow demise. Join us as we walk through the mucky waters of these behaviors, illuminating their manifestations, and offering ways to effectively address them. We emphasize the role of God in navigating these turbulent waters and share how 30% of arguments between couples are fixable with the other 70% often stemming from these unchecked behaviors.
But it doesn't stop there. As we delve deeper, we discuss how to identify these behaviors and strategize appropriate responses. We underline the importance of fondness and admiration, even amidst disagreements, and how apathy and stonewalling can crack the foundation of a relationship. Moreover, we stress the significance of self-soothing mechanisms that don't involve substance use, for when circumstances become overwhelming. To aid you on this journey, we offer additional resources from Gottman's Institute that can help you identify and address these behaviors. Rest assured, with God's guidance, we can learn to control our relationships and follow His plan, rekindling the warmth, love, and connection that may seem lost. Join us for this enlightening conversation as we seek to save marriages and strengthen connections.
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Ready to dethrone your inner critic? Arm yourselves with the strategies we, Doug and Leslie Davis, lay out in this enlightening episode. We navigate the murky waters of negative self-talk and how it can stealthily impact our lives and relationships. We unveil how this internal critic operates on autopilot, spreading its influence beyond ourselves, affecting even those around us. Be prepared for a reality check as we discuss an example of how this negative self-talk, if believed, can become crippling and manifest into a self-fulfilling prophecy.
As you journey with us, we'll guide you through a systematic process aimed at identifying, assessing, and overcoming self-criticism. We examine how to replace these negative thought patterns with truth and how to take these intrusive thoughts captive. We share insights on how God can turn our struggles into strength, creating beauty from ashes. Armed with the truth from scripture, focusing on Philippians 4-8, we'll help you counteract these negative thoughts and take back control.
The battle against negative self-talk doesn't end here. Social media, with its potential to amplify negativity, is another front we must assess. We propose ways to limit its negative influence and share how intentional gratitude can serve as a powerful weapon against this internal adversary. We explore how to fill your heart with what is good and true and how to actively combat negative self-talk with positive thoughts and verses. We also extend an invitation for you, our listeners, to share the verses you use to combat your negative self-talk and how it has helped you. Let's embark on this empowering journey together, to overcome negative self-talk, locate truth, and ultimately, fortify our marriages.
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Verses mentioned:
Jeremiah 17:9
1 Thes 5:21
2 Cor 10:5
Phil 4:8
Steps:
Learn to notice when you are being self-critical.
Check for truth--remember that thoughts and feelings aren’t always true.
Cross-examine your inner critic.
Take those thoughts captive.
Replace neg self-talk with good.
Added points:
- Spend less time on social media places that you feel draws out self-criticism.
- Show gratitude.
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Do you ever find yourself caught in a cycle of negative self-talk, impacting your marriage and emotional well-being? Today, we're joined by Melanie Yates, an author and coach who specializes in helping individuals overcome this damaging mindset and create healthier, more fulfilling relationships. Melanie shares her insights on managing our emotions, fostering vulnerability and intimacy within our marriages, and taking responsibility for our own actions and emotions.
Together, we delve into the importance of self-awareness and how our emotional energy can mix with our spouse's, creating an average of both partners' emotional levels. Melanie emphasizes the power of prayer and understanding our worth in Christ, rather than seeking validation from outside sources or our spouses. We also discuss how to extend grace in our marriage relationships and overcome self-centered fear, which can hinder growth and connection.
Lastly, we explore the significance of honoring marriage as God intended, touching on ways to avoid complaining and instead, focusing on extending grace to our spouse in times of difficulty. With Melanie's valuable insights and practical advice, learn how to strengthen your marriage by overcoming negative self-talk and managing your emotional reactions, allowing you and your spouse to grow together in love and understanding.
You can find Melanie's resources here:
Happy Joyous and Free
Melanie Priscilla Yates
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Her book is available here:
Happy, Joyous, and Free: Love your life, No matter what
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Have you ever noticed certain situations or interactions that seem to trigger an intense emotional response? This powerful episode features a candid conversation with our guest, Angie Bauman, who bravely shares her journey of addressing childhood trauma and abuse in order to heal and grow. Angie's insights on recognizing and talking to our triggers provide invaluable wisdom for nurturing our relationships and fostering emotional intimacy with our partners.
Together, we explore Angie's process of identifying her triggers, including developing mindfulness of her body's response when anxiety rises and realizing when she is on autopilot in her reactions. We discuss the various ways triggers can manifest, such as perfectionism or a need for control, and outline steps for overcoming anxiety and cultivating healthier responses to our triggers. Angie also shares her experience of relying on her faith and God's promises to help her navigate difficult emotions and situations.
Throughout this inspiring episode, we delve into resources like Angie's 5-step process to talk to your triggers. Angie has graciously provided her handout "Talk to Your Triggers Scripture Resource." Angie's willingness to share her story and journey encourages us all to face our underlying issues and work towards healing in our marriages. Listen in and be motivated to recognize your triggers, honor them, and foster a stronger connection with your spouse.
You can find Angie at Live Steady On. Many resources, including links to Angie's podcast, free resources, and her masterclass for the Steady On Step-by-step Bible study method can be found here.
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Are you and your spouse struggling with triggers from past traumas? Discover the power of pre and post-trigger care in building a stronger, more resilient marriage in today's episode of the Vision Driven Marriage Podcast. We're excited to share practical strategies and insights that can help foster healing and deepen your connection with one another.
Join us as we discuss the importance of establishing a couple care regimen, engaging in grounding experiences, and navigating the healing process together. You'll learn how to communicate effectively, practice active movement, and create special moments that can bring you both back to the present moment. We'll also explore various activities you can do as a couple to build trust and stay grounded, from gardening to sensory games.
Lastly, we recognize God's desire for marriages to thrive and not just survive. Trust in God's guidance as you and your spouse embark on this journey towards healing and a truly vision driven marriage.
Doug and Leslie Mention:
The Couple's Prayer Guide
Episode #23 with Ron & Halee Wood
Episode #24 Eight Things To Do When Your Spouse Is Triggered
Episode #25 Empowering your spouse: Supporting Each Other Through Shared Trauma
Scripture Mentioned:
Isaiah 41:10
Philippians 4:19
Psalm 27:1
This podcast is provided for informational purposes only. We are not providing clinical counseling services through the podcast content, and the views expressed in this podcast should not be taken as professional mental health advice. The content shared on this podcast should not replace any medical or professional advice you may receive from a licensed healthcare provider. If you are feeling stuck, we urge you to seek the advice of a qualified counselor or coach before making any decisions pertaining to your mental health or well-being. Thank you for listening!
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Navigating the complexities of shared trauma can be overwhelming, but what if you could empower your spouse and create a stronger bond through tough times? Join us as we explore the importance of understanding and supporting each other during these challenging moments. We discuss the dangers of simply going with the flow and highlight the significance of being a trauma-informed spouse, resisting the temptation to let anger win, and consistently communicating about what each of you needs.
We mention our episode with Ron and Hailey Wood, who bravely share their experience of seeking help and remind us that it's acceptable, even courageous, to ask for assistance. Dive into the essential role of prayer in spiritual intimacy, the impact of shared trauma on relationships, and the signs it may be time to seek help from outside sources.
Together, we'll journey through the process of acknowledging changed circumstances, sharing experiences, and emerging stronger as a couple. Don't miss this insightful and healing conversation!
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Doug and Leslie discuss why it's hard when your spouse is triggered because of a past trauma and eight things you can do to be a supportive spouse.
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Ron & Halee Wood Run The Race Together
The Simple Marriage on Face book
Ron & Halee's free resource:
“7 Tips for a Healthier Trauma Response,” an article to help husbands and wives understand a common trauma response called hypervigilance and steps toward hope and healing.
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Doug and Leslie talk with Ron and Halee Wood about how trauma responses can affect relationships. They define what happens in the brain when a person is triggered and discuss ways to help someone who is suffering through a trauma response.
Where to find Ron and Halee
Run the Race Together. Ron & Halee Wood
www.RunTheRaceTogether.com
The Simple Marriage
Get your free resource from Ron & Halee:
“7 Tips for a Healthier Trauma Response,” an article to help husbands and wives understand a common trauma response called hypervigilance and steps toward hope and healing.
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Doug and Leslie share the definition and concepts of complementarianism. This insightful episode contrasts complementarianism with egalitarianism.
Verses Mentioned: Exodus 18:4
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Book Mentioned: I’d like you more if you were more like me: getting real about getting close John Ortberg
The quote mentioned: “The whole is greater than the sum of the parts.” ~Aristotle
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Additional reading on Complementarianism
Complementarianism for Dummies
The Gospel Coalition (TGC)
SEPTEMBER 4, 2012 | MARY KASSIAN
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Doug and Leslie discuss how finding your identity in Christ helps strengthen your marriage. Idols can creep in without our awareness especially in the area of our family. We discuss what that might look like and how finding your identity in Christ can eliminate falling to idols.
Verses mentioned.
Matthew 6:33 Matthew 6 (CSB) - But seek first the kingdom (blueletterbible.org)
The Vision-Driven Marriage podcast episode #19 Biblical Masculinity Biblical Masculinity with James & Mindy Bradford - Heart Call Ministries
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Doug and Leslie unpack two simple verses to distinguish between healing masculinity and toxic masculinity.
Verses Mentioned:
1 Corinthians 16:14 & 14
Micah 6:8
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Doug and Leslie talk with James and Mindy Bradford about how he came to understand how Biblical Masculinity is defined and what to do to take steps toward being masculine in the Lord.
Our conversation with James and Mindy Bradford is a special one. Jim’s heart to be submitted to the Lord has brought forth a message on Biblical masculinity that every man needs to hear. He talks about the struggles that today’s men face and how God has led him to overcome many of them. He and Mindy explain how being submitted to Christ, finding your identity in Christ, and having a clear view of the role of the bride of Christ helps us complement each other in our marriages. I loved our conversation with Jim and Mindy.
Scripture mentioned during this interview:
Matthew 6:33
1 Peter 3:7
Philippians 2:3 3
Romans 12:10
1 Corinthians 13:5
GUEST LINKS/BOOK/RESOURCES/FREEBIES
Get the book Masculinity by Design, Finding True North
Masculinity By Design website
Masculinity By Design Facebook page
Youtube @masculinitybydesignwithjam6832
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Doug and Leslie differentiate between setting personal boundaries and setting couple boundaries. They discuss how setting boundaries as a couple can solidify your marriage.
If you’re interested in learning more about the quiz that Leslie mentions in the episode, you can access it here: https://heartcallministries.org/n3gk
Scripture mentioned in the episode:
Titus 2:11 & 12
The book of Proverbs
Ephesians 4:26
Ephesians 4:29
The other podcast episodes that are mentioned:
The Tess Scott Interview
The Annette Chesney Interview
Download the Free Prayer Guide
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Taking Care Of One Another: Serving So Your Spouse Feels Honored And Understood
Doug and Leslie discuss how Gal 5:13 “serve one another in love” can help you solidify your marriage.
Mentions: The Tess Scott Interview: Being Honest and Vulnerable when Real Life Happens with Tess Scott - Heart Call Ministries
Praying with your Spouse: A brief guide: Click here to receive this free resource. https://heartcallministries.org/r8hf
Scripture Mentioned:
Galatians 5:13
You, my brothers and sisters, were called to be free. But do not use your freedom to indulge the flesh; rather, serve one another humbly in love.
Colossians 3:12
Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.
Matthew 23:11
The greatest among you will be your servant.
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Doug and Leslie discuss the definition of reconciliation and how to reconcile your relationship once an offense has occurred.
Scripture mentioned:
2 Cor 5:18-20
Come to the process with humility.
- Let your spouse know that you intend to work on rebuilding the things that are broken.
- Be willing to make changes with purpose and make them.
- Admit your own feelings and encourage to share their feelings with you.
- clear the air with your spouse
- Take responsibility for your actions.
The Couple’s Prayer Guide can be found here:
https://heartcallministries.org/r8hf
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Tess Scott shares a heartwarming story of God's grace through her divorce and remarriage, and cancer diagnosis. She encourages couple to stick it out when times get hard. God blesses our efforts and redeems our failures.
GUEST LINKS/BOOK/RESOURCES/FREEBIES
Email: tess@listensister.ca
Website: http://tessscott.com
Facebook: www.facebook.com/listensistertessscott
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LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/tess-scott-a5a091217/
Find Tess's Book here: https://amzn.to/3IubxEg
If you’re interested in learning more about the Couple's prayer guide, you can download it here:
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HCM LINKS
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Doug and Leslie continue their discussion of the types of intimacies and help you recognize how to strengthen your marriage by expanding your understanding of intimacies.
Things Mentioned in this episode:
Podcast Episode #5
Rick and Nancy Kay Grace interview
Free PDF with the 12 types of intimacies and descriptions:
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Types of Intimacies mention in this episode:
Sexual intimacy includes flirting, sensuality, cuddling, play, touching, and arousing each other.
Emotional intimacy is the sharing of significant feelings. It’s foundational to the other types of intimacy.
Intellectual intimacy comes from sharing ideas and mind-stretching experiences together. For minds to connect, there has to be mutual respect for each other's intellectual capacities. A wide gap in capacities can make it harder to achieve.
Aesthetic intimacy is the sharing of experiences of beauty, through the enjoyment art, music, nature, gardens, or even food and drink together.
Creative intimacy is obtained through designing and making things together.
Recreational intimacy is engaging in play to enjoy time outside of work, to relieve stress, explore, relax, and exercise.
Work intimacy is the performing of tasks, including everyday ones: maintaining a home, raising a family, earning a living, and participating in the community. It’s deeply satisfying to plan and work with the support of a partner, and to share in the satisfaction of completing tasks.
Crisis intimacy comes about when a couple stands together through hardship, big and small. Sometimes the relationship itself is a test, when adversity or change throw it off balance for a while. Struggling together deepens bonds—crisis intimacy is the ability to say we’ve been through some really hard times together. And it’s made us stronger.
Commitment intimacy is the feeling of reciprocity that develops over time with shared dedication to a common goal.
Conflict intimacy comes from speaking up and facing differences in a respectful and helpful way.
Communication intimacy is honest, open, loving, proactive interaction.
Spiritual intimacy develops through sharing in the area of ultimate concerns, the meaning of life, and a relationship to the universe and God. It is stimulated and deepened through participation in a religious community, rituals, and traditions.
Credit: list of 12 intimacies Adapted by Alan Rutherford from The Intimate Marriage by Howard and Charlotte Clinebell (1970).
Twelve types of intimacy — Alan Rutherford, LPC
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Doug and Leslie interpret the well-known types of intimacies and help you recognize how you can strengthen your marriage by expanding your understanding of intimacies.
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The interview with Rick & Nancy Kay Grace can be found here.
Types of Intimacies mention in this episode:
Sexual intimacy includes flirting, sensuality, cuddling, play, touching, and arousing each other.
Emotional intimacy is the sharing of significant feelings. It’s foundational to the other types of intimacy.
Intellectual intimacy comes from sharing ideas and mind-stretching experiences together. For minds to connect, there has to be mutual respect for each other's intellectual capacities. A wide gap in capacities can make it harder to achieve.
Aesthetic intimacy is the sharing of experiences of beauty, through the enjoyment art, music, nature, gardens, or even food and drink together.
Creative intimacy is obtained through designing and making things together.
Recreational intimacy is engaging in play to enjoy time outside of work, to relieve stress, explore, relax, and exercise.
Credit: list of 12 intimacies Adapted by Alan Rutherford from The Intimate Marriage by Howard and Charlotte Clinebell (1970). https://www.alanrutherfordlpc.com/resources/twelve-types-of-intimacy
Places Doug and Leslie mentioned in this episode:
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Honor has been called the forgotten virtue, but if we take God’s word seriously, we are to outdo one another in giving honor (Romans 12:10). In this episode we share how to solidify your marriage by honoring your spouse. We breakdown specific ways to give honor in hopes that it will help you take steps to give your spouse honor.
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Revolutionize Your Marriage
Rick and Nancy Kay share with us four types of intimacy and a Bible verse that, when the concept is applied to your marriage, can revolutionize your relationship.
Rick and Nancy Kay Grace bring a wealth of encouragement and practical information wrapped in humor. We laughed, learned, and laughed some more as we conversed about intimacy in marriage. Rick and Nancy Kay spoke about 4 of 12 different key intimacies that are found in marriage and why the one that is often least obtained is the most important. They share from their 48 years of marriage and ministry the key to spiritual intimacy and where to find the Biblical principle that God so lovingly shares with us.
Rick and Nancy mention:
Five types of intimacy:
communication
emotional
intellectual
recreational
spiritual
Key Verse:
Romans 12:10
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RESOURCES THE GUEST MENTIONED DURING THE INTERVIEW
Emotionally Healthy Spirituality: It’s Impossible To Be Spiritually Mature While Remaining Emotionally Immature
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Friendship is a special space in our personal lives and one that we should share with our spouse and so often we don't. Doug and Leslie share three tips to build friendship in marriage.
Have Honest Conversations
Trust God together
Serve others together
Praying with your spouse is a great way to build connection and help solidify your marriage. Here is a link to the Free Guide: Praying With Your Spouse.
Mentioned in the episode:
Episode #6 Looking at Marriage Through a Biblical Lens, Interview with Rick & Nora Tatina
Episode # 5 Increasing Your Intimacy Through Prayer
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Doug and Leslie give you four Biblical principles to apply to your marriage, increasing unity as you go. They also discuss questions to ask yourself if you cannot apply these four Biblical principles.
The Four Principles
- be humble
- be gentle
- be patient
- be tolerant in love
Scripture Mentioned:
Ephesians 4:1 & 2 Therefore I, the prisoner in the Lord, urge you to live worthy of the calling you have received, with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love,
https://www.blueletterbible.org/csb/eph/4/1/s_1101001
Romans 12:10
Love one another deeply as brothers and sisters. Outdo one another in showing honor.
https://www.blueletterbible.org/csb/rom/12/10/s_1058010
1 Corinthians 13: 4-8
Love is patient, love is kind. Love does not envy, is not boastful, is not arrogant, is not rude, is not self-seeking, is not irritable, and does not keep a record of wrongs. Love finds no joy in unrighteousness but rejoices in the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, and endures all things. Love never ends. But as for prophecies, they will come to an end; as for tongues, they will cease; as for knowledge, it will come to an end.
https://www.blueletterbible.org/csb/1co/13/4-8/s_1075004
Self-check questions Mentioned:
Be humble:
Are you willing to submit your desires to God's purposes?
Are you willing to serve your spouse? Ask God to show you your reaction when you're treated like a servant.
Be gentle:
What is your first response when your spouse wrongs you?
Be patient:
Am I really willing to wait for the moving of God's spirit in the life of my spouse?
Be tolerant in love:
Am I truly ok with things my spouse does differently or do I insist on things being done my way?
Things Mentioned in the episode:
The Vision-Driven Marriage Interview with Nora and Rick Tatina
https://heartcallministries.org/podcast/looking-at-marriage-through-a-biblical-lens-with-rick-nora-tatina/
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Doug and Leslie discuss three simple ways to come together as one without losing your individual identity.
Talking points:
(1)Thinking of your spouse as more important than yourself
(2) Dreaming together
(3) Letting your callings complement each other.
Scripture mentioned:
Philippians 2:3 Do nothing out of selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility consider others as more important than yourselves.
Proverbs 29:18 Without revelation, people run wild, but one who follows divine instruction will be happy.
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Looking at Marriage Through a Biblical Lens
Rick and Nora discuss how looking at marriage through a Biblical lens can strengthen your marriage. They give some great practical tips to strengthen your marriage in a Godly way.
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Doug and Leslie discuss ways to increase your intimacy with your spouse through prayer.
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MidRoll Mention:
Get the Couple's Prayer Guide here
Doug and Leslie Mentioned:
The interview with Heather Erdmann, Author of The Mystery of Marriage, How to Love Your Spouse the Way Christ Loves the Church
Scripture Mentioned
Where two or more are gathered, Jesus is in the midst of them
Ephesians 1:18
Steps to increase your spiritual intimacy through prayer:
Pick a topic ahead of time
Pray for something that happened during your day
Pray scripture for your spouse
Example: Ephesians 1:18 and The Sermon On the Mount
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Deterrents to communication come in many forms. Doug and Leslie discuss three of them and how to overcome them.
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The three deterrents are gender differences, childhood habits, and unspoken, unmet expectations.
Proverbs 25:11 A word spoken at the right time is like gold apples in silver settings.
Ephesians 4:31 Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice.
Eph 4:26 Don't let the sun go down on your anger.
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Living Out A Covenant Marriage
Doug and Leslie discuss three ways to live out a covenant marriage relationship.
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Bible Verses mentioned:
Ephesians 4:29
No foul language should come from your mouth, but only what is good for building up someone in need, so that it gives grace to those who hear.
1Corinthians 13:4-8
Love is patient, love is kind. Love does not envy, is not boastful, is not arrogant, is not rude, is not self-seeking, is not irritable, and does not keep a record of wrongs. Love finds no joy in unrighteousness but rejoices in the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, and endures all things.
Love never ends. But as for prophecies, they will come to an end; as for tongues, they will cease; as for knowledge, it will come to an end.
Doug and Leslie mention
The book giveaway https://www.tryinteract.com/share/giveaway/6081d9a47baa9600171159b9
Quiz: Is your relationship affair-proof?
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Loving Your Spouse The Way Christ Loves the Church
Heather Erdmann discusses how to love your spouse like Jesus loves the church; forgivingly, lovingly, and sacrificially.
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Heather’s resources Mentioned in this episode:
Heather’s book: Unlocking the Mystery of Marriage: Loving Your Spouse the Way Christ Loves the Church
Heather mentioned:
Communication Guide: Marriage Communication
Doug & Leslie mentioned:
A Week in the Word: Dig Deep into God's Word One Passage and One Week at a Time
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