Church Folks Be Talking [CFBT]: Recent Episodes
Drs. Pedro & Frankie Graham-Brown
Real People, Real Experiences, Real Relationships. This podcast discusses the challenges and triumphs of a family who bet on God and moved from KY to NYC to co-lead a church in The Bronx; a brand new experience. They share stories and testimonies of their numerous trials & even some triumphs in their 8 yrs in the ministry. The road has been tough, insightful, growth-filled, & a blessing. Listen in for the hard topics that most church folks don’t discuss in public and glean the lessons learned, all the while, becoming better stewards of their 13 yr marriage & parents to 2 daughters.
Do you often struggle with hearing today's music? What type of music do you allow your children to listen to? We often struggle with what to listen to when it comes to music. Our heart loves what we were brought up listening to growing up r&b, blues, jazz, and the emergence of hip-hop. But as we mature and our ear turns or does it? Is your soul being fed by what you hear? Can lyrics drive your behavior and attitude? Can Christians listen to music outside of hymns, gospel, etc?
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Church Folks sits down with an ALL-FATHERS panel to discuss everything about fatherhood. Today, the biblical definition of fatherhood is under attack by the far left who do not see the relevance of the traditional role of the father in the home and society. God is calling fathers to turn their hearts to their children and the hearts of the children turn to the hearts of the fathers. The purpose of this podcast is to talk with fathers to share their experiences being a father and how their fathers play an instrumental role in how it affects their parenting skills etc.
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In this episode, Church Folks collaborate with Dr. Dorothy Smith, LCSW to discuss HEALING your Trauma. The last phase of the Church H.U.R.T series. They discuss why millennials are not returning to church, and how trauma can impact our behaviors. Next, the topic of how spiritual trauma and trauma, in general, are pretty similar. Lastly, we learn more about Dr. Smith's applications toward healing your pain through her S.E.E. method and she gives us the tools to help us heal.
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In this special girlfriend hour, Church Folks hosts a group of mothers of all backgrounds, close in age, and with decades of friendship under their belt. This episode focuses on and celebrates motherhood. We talk about our joys as the family matriarchs, the challenges, our support systems, and lessons learned along the way. This episode was pure joy and enabled us to fill our emotional cups knowing that many of our struggles are not unique and we have come to understand that it Takes A Village.
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In this 3rd installment of 4 part series. The Drs. discuss how to recognize your trauma and find the root sources. The conversation ebbs and flows toward the duality of the church's role in creating a safe at the same time seeing their participation in creating trauma for some. Lastly, we discuss how to show up in those spaces where we have been traumatized and still be effective members of society.
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" Don't let your pursuit of excellence, crowd out God's Grace." - Chris CovenThe church folks are talking about the whys & hows of becoming a perfect Christian. They discuss why we put those burdens on ourselves to do everything just right. How do pastors battle with being the best they can be without taking the spotlight off God? Is it important for us to place value on what others say about us? and why do we succumb to these societal pressures? Lastly, get the antidote toward becoming a perfect Christian.
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This Bonus episode focuses on Church Folks sharing their best advice with 14 years under their belt with an engaged & soon to be wed couple; getting married in June—loving advice from an Uncle to his Nephew that also share the same birthday. Ms. Morgan DeRiggs & Mr. Lewis Graham are this week’s guest. We discuss how to keep the spark alive, how not to keep secrets& privacy rules, and who to talk to about your marriage.--- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/churchfolksbetalking/support
Our first collab with a wonderful couple, well versed and gifted in Audio and Entertainment spreading positive affirmations about love. We chat our lives and more! ENJOY!
"Welcome to our latest video featuring a very special guest, Pastor Pedro, and his wife Frankie! In this heartwarming interview, the couple shares their beautiful love story, including how they met and started their journey together.
They also discuss their podcast, "Church Folks Be Talking," where they share real-life experiences of people in the church to spread knowledge and awareness. In addition, Pedro and Frankie talk about how they support each other and worked together to finish their doctorate and Ph.D. titles while balancing family responsibilities. They also highlight how faith plays a significant role in their relationship and how they've seen each other grow in their faith over the years.
But that's not all! The couple also shares insightful relationship advice to strengthen not only your relationship as a couple but also your relationship with God. This video is perfect for anyone looking for inspiration and guidance in love, faith, and personal growth." Its Relational Podcast
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In this second episode of Church HURT (CH); we are identifying when we began to recognize our Trauma. We open the door to conversations about religious and spiritual trauma. Also, make it plain about the church's or pastor's role in resolving conflict. Lastly, we talk about the signs and principles of a Trauma-Informed Church (TIC).
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In the first installment of this series, we are illuminating the real lived lives of church trauma. Defining the differences between religious and spiritual trauma; mentioning the signs, and the symptoms. Lastly, identifies how the church culture needs to shift towards humility and modern hospitality.
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We begin with our Real Life Series, focusing on topics that will navigate us through those internal monologues of self-purpose, reflections, and wonders.
Today we look back and ask ourselves are we doing what we are supposed to be doing- in our career, in our family hood, spiritually?
We also tackled the issue of Regrets and revisit the path less traveled.
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In Part 2 of Your Grief Matters, Church Folks exchange views about the 5 stages of grief, and how to identify the common signs or symptoms. Secondly, how long does grief lasts is highlighted? Both hosts reflect on their personal experiences toward grief and then the myths and facts are addressed.
In the first video of a two-part episode, Drs. Pedro and Frankie, talk about Grief. This robust and personal discussion is about how to recognize the symptoms of grief, offer current stats, and explore what are some grief triggers. Lastly, explain the 7 types of grief. All the while, sharing some deeply personal first-hand accounts of our episodes of grief.
In this new series, Church Folks, are delving into one of the major reasons for church member decline- church hurt. This series is designed to address the issue head-on and share how and why his trauma has happened to so many churchgoers. In this introduction, we touch on why discussing this topic is necessary and how unpacking the "baggage" can ultimately lead to healing.
Mya Angelou wrote, "I can be changed by what happens to me, but I refuse to be reduced by it."
In this new episode, we discuss what the hype is all about when it comes to the term "gaslighting". How to be aware of the signs, how to respond, and even the various types are mentioned.
We also share various situations where we have found ourselves being gaslit and how it impact continues to impact our relationships and perspectives.
Oh don't worry we talk about its presence in the church house too- it happens more than you know. So listen in and get some insight.
In this SEASON 2 OPENER, Drs. Pedro and Frankie, get down to the bottom of why people make resolutions, why they are so hard to keep, and the most common resolutions by state- can you guess what NY State's major resolution is? We also touch on the history behind watch night service and offer 10 tips to make Lifestyle changes easy.
In this final installment of the Love Language Series, we discuss what is physical touch and how to navigate through implicit and explicit signs of intimacy. Also, how should Christians address this type of display of affection in the bedroom and also in secular environments?
What do you do when you and your lover are not on the same love language page? Listen in to find out how to meet in the middle.
SENSITIVE DISCUSSION In this week's final installment of Lunch Notes, we complete episode 3 of Suffering with a Purpose. In this installment, we discuss how to find comfort in your struggle and how to tell your personal story to others in a way that glorifies God. TRANSPARENCY INCLUDED Note that we all experience suffering the only difference is the degree of the pain.
*SENSITIVE DISCUSSION*
In this week's final installment of Lunch Notes, we complete episode 3 of Suffering with a Purpose. In this installment, we discuss how to find comfort in your struggle and how to tell your personal story to others in a way that glorifies God.
*TRANSPARENCY INCLUDED* Note that we all experience suffering the only difference is the degree of the pain.
In this week's episode, we are tasked with discussing '"what it means to suffer with a purpose?" When you find yourself in a season of suffering how do you find comfort in the uncomfortable? We discuss the 5 ultimate reasons why Bible says we suffer. REMEMBER THIS: You are a sufferer who has been called by God to minister to others in pain. Suffering is one of God's most useful workrooms.
In this week's second part of three episodes, we discuss how our suffering becomes a personal ministry for us to share with others. We cover 6 areas that help us identify the impact of this identity. Note that we all experience suffering the only difference is the degree of the pain.
In this week's episode, we are tasked with discussing '"what it means to suffer with a purpose?" When you find yourself in a season of suffering how do you find comfort in the uncomfortable?
We discuss the 5 ultimate reasons why Bible says we suffer.
REMEMBER THIS: You are a sufferer who has been called by God to minister to others in pain. Suffering is one of God's most useful workrooms.
Tonight, the Drs. are discussing a love language that they have in common, acts of service. We both value acts of service, but the irony is that we each express and present them in different ways. How do you deliver this act of service to your lover? We will give tips on how to execute this and then unpack the true question...is Marriage designed to be an act of service?
In this new series, we take on trending topics and break them down from a CPOV (Christian Point of View). ENJOY!
In this episode, we are unpacking the most misunderstood Love Language of them all Receiving Gifts. We will give scriptural support on why this love language is necessary. We further explain its relevance and how speaking your partner's dialect can fill their love tank. Finally, we offer suggestions on how to activate this gift and give examples of how to exhibit this LL for your partner.
This week we will discuss the second Love Language,Quality Time. We will talk about why carving out intentional and focused time for you and your spouse is important. We also offer examples for you and your Lover can do to spend QT together.
In this episode, Drs. Pedro and Frankie will discuss how to put your spouse/partner's love language into action. How to affirm your lover. The original video on YouTube.
Exploring Spiritual Burnout and Spiritual Fatigue and how they connected.
Be Prepared for an Authentic, Transparent, and Mindful Conversation. What can you take away from the discussion?
In part one, we are discussing how to recognize the signs of being Spiritually Exhausted. Which leads to spiritual burnout and then spiritual fatigue. We explain each component and introduce our own struggles as a couple in the ministry. THIS IS REAL life content. #couplesministry #spirituality #transparency #christiancouples #spousalsupport #spiritualfatigue #spiritualburnout #church #couplestalk #pastors #firstlady #congregation #relationships #churchcouples #relationshipadvice #loveadvice
On this episode of our Lunch Note Series, we are examining the signs of Spousal Envy in marriages. We focus on 3 concentrated areas - Your spouse, other spouses, and other couples. There are times when spouses see the reaped rewards in their partner's lives and not in theirs and this is when those benefits can cloud your judgment about your own personal journey. Marriage is a safe space but if we are not careful contempt can creep up.
This episode will share 4 tips about how you and your lover can reduce feelings of ENVY in your marriage.
Hello and Welcome to Church Folks Be Talking (CFBT)! This is the inaugural podcast that was originally streamed via IG- have mercy on us.
As an inter-cultural married couple of 13, my husband is Jamaican and I am African-American, we discuss our lives together and those ups and downs. What makes it even more interesting is that we are a pastoral family. Pedro is a pastor and I am his wife. So our perspectives are slightly different because we have only been in this role for 8 years. So, we bring a lot of world views (the wife) and sprinkle it throughout with Scripture and Faith-Based Principles (the husband). Together we come and tell our story and give our take on how to create a successful marriage.
Trust we talk about the Ups and ALL OF OUR DOWNS, but through it all we have LOVE, Happiness, and 2 lovely daughters.