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When my wife's first husband cheated on her, her mantra was "Everybody cheats, nobody's happy." That's not true, but if you have a faulty man-picker and surround yourself with similar friends, it may be hard to believe.
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I am a 46-year-old, twice divorced, mother of 3, dating a man with whom I had a serious relationship in my 20's. Five months into the relationship, I learned that he had been dating someone very seriously immediately before we started dating, and that he was not over her when we started dating.
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Hey Evan! I'm dealing with an issue that I can't find explicitly addressed on one of your old posts, so I thought I'd write and see if you can help. I am 38, and divorced three years. I am looking for a relationship, but perfectly happy with my life in the meantime.
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Certain themes come up frequently around here and this is one of them. What IS cheating? Where do you draw the line? Is it purely physical? Is it emotional? Can you be a cheater just for thinking about someone but never acting on it?
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There’s a whole category on this blog devoted to cheating.... READ POST
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“Microcheating”: is this a thing now? I guess once something... READ POST
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It’s hard to keep up with statistics. People cherry pick... READ POST
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I’ve been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years now,... READ POST
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Since writing “Marry Him: The Case for Settling for Mr.... READ POST
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2 years ago, I met a wonderful man with whom... READ POST
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While it may sound like a convenient excuse for selfish... READ POST
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My boyfriend broke up with me after I found out... READ POST
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In a study of 64,000 people, conducted by Chapman University,... READ POST
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Evan, I’ve read a few of the posts and responses... READ POST
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While this post was precipitated by the recently discovered love... READ POST
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Neil’s a banker who has been working 70 hours a... READ POST
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It’s a challenging concept, isn’t it? According to a thoughtful... READ POST
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Evan, Your responses to questions and blog posts related to... READ POST
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Dear Evan, I have been married for four years (I... READ POST
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I am a 29 year old man who has been... READ POST
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There aren’t real strong numbers on what percentage of marriages... READ POST
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I’m engaged to be married to my fiancé. We’ve have... READ POST
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It would be tempting to say, “because they can”, wouldn’t... READ POST
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Dear Evan, What is it that men get out of... READ POST
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Your Ethical Dilemma It begins with a question from... READ POST
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In a new study called “Let My Fingers Do the... READ POST
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Evan, This may be an age-old question. My boyfriend is... READ POST
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I have trust issues with men, and it can be... READ POST
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Just this Christmas, my husband ran into his old high... READ POST
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Dear Evan, I guarantee my question has never been asked... READ POST
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It’s complicated. This guy is a friend of my boyfriend.... READ POST
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Dear Evan, My boyfriend is constantly accusing me of sleeping... READ POST
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I have been dating a guy I met online for... READ POST
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From Psychology Today, a smart and concise description of why... READ POST
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I’m a newly and happily married man, but I’ve gotta... READ POST
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I have been dating my boyfriend for over two years... READ POST
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I met this guy (he’s 53, I’m 43) on an... READ POST
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I am married to a man who has no interest... READ POST
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I had been with my girlfriend for just about a... READ POST
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Two years ago, I discovered that my husband had a... READ POST
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My boyfriend and I have been together going on 4... READ POST
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I dated my ex for 16 months. We broke up... READ POST
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My boyfriend and I are both in our mid-40s and... READ POST
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Infidelity might be my favorite subject in the world. Favorite... READ POST
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Dear Evan, Have had the most exciting relationship in years... READ POST
