Survived to Thrive Podcast: Recent Episodes
Amy Miller
A podcast designed for survivors of suicide loss. This podcast explores the unique grief experiences that accompany a loved ones death due to suicide, shares insights on how your brain processes this kind of loss, and offers worthwhile and valuable tips you can start today to gain a more joyful and fulfilling life.
We talk about the grief fathers carry after suicide loss, especially the pain that stays hidden behind “being strong” and taking care of everyone else. We challenge guilt, self-blame, and the need for certainty, and we hold out a real kind of hope: you can carry love and loss together and still build a meaningful life.
• why Father’s Day can amplify silent grief for dads
• the complicated impact of losing a father to suicide, including identity and unanswered questions
• what fathers often experience after losing a son, including replaying conversations and “standing trial”
• what fathers often carry after losing a daughter, including helplessness and mourning future milestones
• how strength and pain can coexist, and why vulnerability supports the whole family
• why suicide grief can feel invisible after the funeral, and how it shows up in everyday moments
• what healing looks like as ongoing love, not forgetting or “moving on”
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As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
We speak directly to the raw first month after suicide loss and name what’s happening in the brain and body when traumatic grief takes over. We share five truths we wish we’d known sooner so you can survive the moment you’re in without carrying impossible blame.
• traumatic grief and why your brain feels hijacked
• brain fog, shock, numbness, and survival mode in early bereavement
• letting go of performing grief and focusing on basic care
• guilt after suicide loss and the false promise of control
• regret versus responsibility and practicing self-compassion
• painfully wrong comments people say and why presence matters
• protecting your energy with clear boundaries
• grief revealing relationships and finding one safe person
• reclaiming the whole person beyond the death
• trusting that the intensity will change over time
If you like this podcast, please share with your friends and write a review on iTunes. Also, check out survived-to-thrive.com for more information and to subscribe to get free tools you can begin to use immediately to feel better, directly sent to your inbox.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
We speak directly to sibling suicide loss and why it can feel uniquely lonely, misunderstood, and identity-shaking. We name the guilt, anger, fear, and family shifts that often follow, and we offer grounded ways to keep living while carrying the grief.
• why sibling grief can be overlooked and minimized
• how losing shared history can destabilize identity and belonging
• family system changes after suicide and why siblings drift or bond
• survivor guilt and the “I should have” loop as a search for control
• comparison grief and the pressure to rank pain
• what unspoken grief can look like: anxiety, numbness, perfectionism, isolation
• anger after suicide and releasing guilt about feeling it
• complicated sibling relationships and unfinished business without rewriting the past
• the “strong one” role and why suppression leads to a crash
• chronic fear after suicide loss and the role of nervous system regulation
• honoring your sibling by living fully with grief and joy together
If this episode resonated with you because you are a sibling, share it with another sibling. Share it with your own sibling. Because another sibling may need to hear that they're just not alone in this journey.
If you like this podcast, please share with your friends and write a review to help this podcast grow.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
Mother’s Day can feel like grief wrapped in pink ribbons after suicide loss, especially when the day arrives before we realize we need a plan. We name the guilt and shame that show up, explain why the brain reaches for blame, and offer practical ways to get through the day with a little more peace.
• why Mother’s Day can hurt more than expected and why it feels so lonely
• the mix of sadness, anger, regret, and comparison that suicide bereavement can bring
• how the grieving brain searches for control and turns to blame
• support for mothers who lost a child and the question of “still being a mom”
• support for children who lost their mom and permission to hold paradox
• parenting while grieving and letting “real” be enough
• hidden triggers like social media, crafts, and simple texts
• nervous system reactions: fight, flight, freeze, fawn
• practical coping strategies: plan ahead, create rituals, set boundaries, feel without judgment, ask for support
If this episode helped you today, share it with someone who may need it this Mother’s Day. If you like this podcast, please share with your friends and write a review on iTunes.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
Grief after suicide loss can get even heavier when other people lie, gossip, or twist the story. I walk through why this happens, why it cuts so deep, and how we protect our peace without becoming hardened.
• suicide loss as grief plus social pain
• why people reach for narratives when they cannot sit with discomfort
• how betrayal, isolation, and safety threats amplify complicated grief
• the meaning frames that intensify suffering
• what we cannot control in other people
• what we can control: meaning, access, engagement, and our response
• practical boundaries, limiting exposure, and choosing safe people
• letting silence hold power and releasing the need to be understood
If you like this podcast, please share with your friends and write a review on iTunes. Also, check out survived-to-thrive.com for more information and to subscribe.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
Suicide loss can hit like grief and trauma at the same time, and our intense reactions often come from the nervous system trying to keep us alive. We walk through fight flight freeze fawn and show how self-compassion and simple regulation tools can help you feel safe again.
• suicide loss as shock, trauma, fear and loss of safety
• nervous system protection mode and why it can stay on
• fight response as anger, irritability and a drive for control
• flight response as avoidance, busyness and mental spiralling
• freeze response as numbness, exhaustion, brain fog and shutdown
• fawn response as people-pleasing, overfunctioning and caretaking
• why small stressors feel enormous when your system is overloaded
• practical ways to calm the nervous system through movement, connection, naming emotions and self-compassion
If you like this podcast, please share with your friends and write a review on iTunes.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
We dig into the fear of it happening again after suicide loss and how the brain’s need for safety creates constant scanning. We share tools to tell anxiety from intuition and to choose presence and connection over control.
• why hypervigilance rises after suicide loss
• how the brain rehearses worst case to feel safe
• the costs of the illusion of control
• intuition versus anxiety and how to tell
• practical steps to regulate before reacting
• choosing connection language over interrogation
• accepting uncertainty to reclaim peace
• living brave instead of guarded
• a grounding mantra to use this week
If this episode resonated with you, share it with someone who could probably use it
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
Grief after suicide doesn’t just bend the rules—it rewrites them. We open up about why this kind of loss feels heavier and more confusing, and how the body’s trauma responses shape memory, focus, and emotion long after the immediate shock fades. If you’ve wondered why you can’t “grieve like everyone else,” this conversation offers language, validation, and practical next steps for a path that rarely fits a tidy timeline.
We unpack the relentless search for answers and why the unanswered why can’t fully soothe a nervous system wired for survival. We talk about the harsh logic of guilt—how love gets mistaken for control and hindsight pretends to be proof—and offer tools to separate care from responsibility. You’ll hear how stigma creates isolating silence, why even supportive spaces can feel out of step, and what it means to honor the unique layers of suicide grief without minimizing your own needs.
Most importantly, we share trauma-informed practices to rebuild safety from the inside out: grounding techniques that calm the body, rituals that hold both love and anger, and simple ways to measure progress by capacity instead of calendars. Expect gentle guidance on allowing conflicting emotions to coexist, reclaiming daily moments of ease, and inviting community that truly understands. If your heart needs permission to heal at its own pace, you’ll find it here—along with encouragement to keep going, one careful step at a time.
If this helped you feel seen, follow the show, share it with someone who needs it, and leave a review so others can find these tools and stories. Your voice helps build a safer space for survivors.
Also sign up for a free online live event: "Loving Again Without Guilt After Suicide Loss" February 11th @ 10am MST. Free replay will be sent to all who sign up. Click HERE to sign up.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
We explore a gentler definition of hope after suicide loss, naming why platitudes hurt and how small, truthful choices can carry us through. We lean into borrowed hope, rest over pressure, and the fear that healing might mean forgetting.
• rejecting forced positivity and neat explanations
• why platitudes feel like pressure on grief
• redefining hope as survival, rest and small choices
• choosing not to decide in temporary pain
• borrowing hope from helpers and community
• addressing the fear that healing erases love
• seeing relief as valid progress and space between waves
• practical ways to regulate and pace healing
If you like this podcast, please share with your friends and write a review on iTunes!
Also, check out survived-to-thrive.com for more information and to subscribe to get the podcast's latest episode, along with useful tips you can begin to use immediately to feel better, directly sent to your inbox
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
We explore how fear shows up after suicide loss and why it feels so convincing, then share practical ways to carry fear without letting it decide your life. Amy offers gentle, concrete tools to ground the body, rebuild self-trust, and redefine safety.
• fear as a normal response to traumatic loss
• hypervigilance and the brain’s protection loop
• common fears: more loss, uncertain future, joy guilt, emotions, never normal
• separate fear from truth and choose values
• allow fear without obeying it
• present-moment grounding to calm the body
• redefine safety as self-trust in hard times
• rebuild trust with yourself, not the future
• permission to plan, hope and live alongside fear
If this podcast episode was helpful for you, please share it with someone who could use it today
If you like this podcast, please share with your friends and write a review on iTunes.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
The ground doesn’t always give way the day you get the news. Sometimes it happens weeks or years later, when the shock dissolves and the truth lands: life will never be the same. In this conversation, we name that moment with care and give you language, tools, and permission to live anyway—without moving on, forgetting, or pretending you’re fine.
We talk about why suicide loss hits the nervous system so hard and how it fractures more than the heart—it shakes predictability, meaning, and the quiet belief that love always protects. From there, we unravel three gentle truths that help survivors carry both love and loss: meaning can grow because of the bond you still hold, joy is not a betrayal but a sign of safety returning, and you don’t have to design the rest of your life today. We slow everything down to the next breath, the next hour, the current season, so you can rebuild at a human pace.
You’ll also hear simple reframes that restore agency. Instead of “How do I get my old life back?” we ask “Who am I becoming now?” Instead of “Why did this happen?” we explore “What do I need to feel supported today?” And instead of “Life will never be the same,” we try “Life will be different, and I can still shape it.” These shifts aren’t slogans; they are nervous system care, grief-informed practices, and pathways to meaning that keep your person’s memory alive in what you choose next.
If this message helps, share it with someone who needs steady ground. Subscribe for more survivor-centered conversations, leave a review to help others find the show, and tell us: which reframe will you carry into your day?
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
We open the new year with a clear message: survival proves strength, and reclaiming life after suicide loss does not mean forgetting or betraying love. We share tools to release guilt, set humane intentions, and begin again with small, sustainable steps.
• naming survival as strength, not perfection
• reclaiming peace, voice, choices, and joy
• permission to want more without guilt
• micro steps toward living: calm, laughter, connection
• turning pain into compassion, boundaries, and clarity
• intentions for 2026 that anchor identity and healing
Join my free online event, as mentioned in this episode, “Letting Go of Guilt in the New Year” on January 14 at 10 a.m. MST. Click this link to register and save your spot. If you can't attend live, it's totally okay! A replay will be emailed out the next day!
https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/how-to-feel-better-course
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
We explore how the word should adds shame to suicide grief and offer simple reframes that invite compassion, especially during the holidays. We share three harmful shoulds, teach a four-step should detox, and close with guided statements to ground the body and heart.
• holiday stress intensifying suicide grief
• why should thoughts punish rather than guide
• three common shoulds that harm survivors
• compassionate reframes that reduce self-blame
• how thoughts shape feelings and behavior
• four-step should detox for daily use
• brief guided affirmations for nervous system calm
• resources for ongoing support and coaching
So if today’s episode resonated, please share it with someone who might need this message.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
We redefine peace after suicide loss as a daily practice that lives alongside grief, not a finish line or proof you are over it. We share trauma-informed tools, clean vs dirty pain, and five practical steps to make room for safety, meaning, and a future you still deserve.
• peace as practice rather than destination
• grief brain lies and unhelpful beliefs
• nervous system regulation for safety
• guilt, shame, and dirty pain re-frames
• allowing grief waves without panic
• creating meaning instead of answers
• rituals, boundaries, and supportive friendships
• rebuilding a future and allowing joy
If this episode spoke to your heart, please share it with another survivor who needs it
You didn’t choose this loss, but you can choose how you heal
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
We explore why grief after suicide loss can erase motivation and how to honor that reality without shame. We reframe “doing nothing” as healing, then map tiny actions, five-minute care, and honest limits that support your nervous system and your life.
• what the grieving brain is doing when motivation vanishes
• how the “I don’t want to” loop fuels heaviness and inaction
• allowing feelings to reduce resistance and pressure
• choosing the next smallest step instead of the whole task
• lowering the bar and counting micro wins
• five-minute care containers that restore capacity
• building a bare minimum survival list
• letting grief be the reason, not the excuse
• borrowing strength from your future self
• stillness as active healing, not failure
• spotting when avoidance needs added support
• simple, compassionate closing reminders and resources
Check out my website at www.survived-two-thrive.com. Feel free to send me a message, Amy at survive-two-thrive.com. If you like this podcast, please share with your friends and write a review on iTunes. Also, check out survived-to-thrive.com for more information and to subscribe to get the podcast's latest episode, along with useful tips you can begin to use immediately to feel better, directly sent to your inbox
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
We explore how suicide loss reshapes marriages, families, friendships, and the relationship with self, and we share practical tools to repair or release ties with clarity and compassion. We offer boundary scripts, ways to communicate needs, and five steps to rebuild trust without bitterness.
• grief creating a before and after that shifts every relationship
• different grieving styles in partners and how to reconnect
• emotional responsibility to reduce resentment
• family conflict, blame cycles, and boundary setting
• friendship drift and making space for new, supportive people
• clean pain versus dirty pain and kinder self-talk
• five-step framework to repair or release relationships
• scripts for needs, boundaries, and consequences that hold
• self-worth and generating love during healing
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
We explore why public tragedy reactivates suicide grief and how to respond with steadiness, compassion, and choice. We share practical tools to set media boundaries, ground the body, reclaim agency, and honor our loved ones with purpose.
• why headlines mirror the original loss
• triggers as signals that guide healing
• naming emotions to create space
• limiting media to protect the nervous system
• simple grounding that restores safety
• channeling pain into acts of meaning
• anchoring to your loved one through ritual and story
• reframing hopeless thoughts into chosen peace
• using the five-second rule to move into action
• practicing micro-moments of hope in daily life
If you like this podcast, please share with your friends and write a review on iTunes
Also, check out survived to thrive.com for more information and to subscribe to get the podcast's latest episode, along with useful tips you can begin to use immediately to feel better, directly sent to your inbox
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
Survivors of suicide loss often experience an inner nudge suggesting it's time to shift and move forward with life, bringing feelings of guilt, fear, and confusion about what this transition should look like.
• Recognizing that grief has no timeline, but eventually leads to the sixth stage where we seek meaning
• Understanding that moving forward doesn't mean we've stopped grieving or forgotten our loved ones
• Questioning painful thoughts like "if I move forward, it means I didn't love them enough"
• Giving ourselves permission to change without needing outside approval
• Starting with small shifts that gradually transform into bigger life changes
• Creating rituals that honor loved ones as we try new things
• Talking back to guilt by remembering that loving them and living fully can coexist
• Finding community and people who inspire us through their own grief journeys
• Recognizing resistance as normal and your brain's way of protecting you
• Carrying your loved one's memory forward in a new way
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
Overwhelm after suicide loss feels uniquely crushing, but there are practical ways to navigate these heavy feelings without trying to do everything at once. We explore why overwhelm feels different after suicide loss and share a step-by-step approach to break free from the paralysis it creates.
• Overwhelm comes from our thoughts about circumstances, not the circumstances themselves
• Four reasons suicide grief creates intense overwhelm: unanswered questions, emotional complexity, energy depletion, and unexpected triggers
• Stop and breathe when overwhelm hits to bring your nervous system back to baseline
• Break all-or-nothing thinking by focusing on just one small doable task
• Clean up your thinking by choosing thoughts that serve your healing
• Give yourself permission to rest without guilt—it's not laziness, it's refueling
• Small steps repeated create movement that eventually leads to healing
If you're feeling especially overwhelmed today and your thoughts are dark, please reach out to someone you trust, or call or text the Suicide Crisis Lifeline at 988 in the US. You're not alone in this.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
The painful journey of grief after losing someone to suicide rarely follows a simple timeline. When is "giving it time" not enough? When should you consider reaching out for professional help?
That question sits at the heart of this deeply personal episode where we explore the critical difference between grief that heals and grief that harms. While there's no "normal" way to grieve a suicide loss, there are warning signs that your grief has transformed into something that requires more than what friends, family, or time alone can provide.
Listen as we walk through the specific red flags that signal it's time to seek professional support: unbearable daily pain that doesn't ease with time, complete withdrawal from life, thoughts of suicide, explosive anger that won't subside, or a persistent numbness that leaves you feeling empty and disconnected from everything that once brought joy. These aren't signs of weakness—they're your heart and mind telling you they need additional support.
We also explore the full spectrum of professional help available, from trauma-informed therapists and EMDR specialists to grief coaches and psychiatrists. Each offers unique approaches to help process the complex emotions of suicide loss. You'll learn how to recognize when someone else in your life might need professional intervention, along with compassionate phrases to use when expressing concern—and the harmful platitudes to avoid at all costs.
Whether you're struggling yourself or supporting someone who is, this episode offers practical guidance for moving forward when grief feels too heavy to carry alone. Remember, seeking help isn't giving up—it's stepping up for yourself. Your life remains deeply, powerfully worth living, even in the midst of this profound loss.
If you or someone you know is experiencing thoughts of suicide, immediate help is available by calling or texting 988 in the United States. Please get help NOW. Don't wait! You Matter!
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
Why did they do it? This question haunts every survivor of suicide loss, creating a continuous loop of painful speculation that can keep us trapped in grief. In episode 114 of the Survived to Thrive podcast, Amy Miller explores the complex relationship suicide loss survivors have with the question "why" and how it can either deepen our suffering or guide us toward healing.
Our brains desperately seek resolution after trauma, treating unanswered questions like energy-draining open browser tabs constantly running in the background. We believe finding the perfect explanation will finally bring peace. But suicide rarely has a single cause – it's typically a complex interplay of mental illness, psychological pain, and distorted thinking. The concrete answer we're seeking often doesn't exist.
This is where "why" becomes a trap. When our minds settle on explanations like "I wasn't enough" or "I missed the signs," the question transforms from a tool for understanding into a weapon of self-punishment. Amy calls this "grief layering" – when natural grief becomes entangled with guilt, shame, and blame, preventing healing. But through compassionate reframing, we can shift from questions that punish to questions that heal: "What pain must they have been in?" or "What does this loss invite me to do with my life?"
Amy offers a powerful perspective: "Acceptance doesn't mean agreement—it just means you stop fighting what already happened." When we view suicide not as a rational choice but as the outcome of unbearable suffering and distorted thinking, our hearts soften toward our loved ones and ourselves. We begin to forgive what was never in our control. The most liberating step comes when we move from "why" to "what now?" As Amy beautifully articulates, "Meaning is not found—it's made." We don't need complete answers to begin healing or to create something meaningful from our grief experience.
Subscribe to the Survived to Thrive podcast for weekly insights on navigating the unique challenges of suicide loss grief. Share this episode with someone who might be struggling with these difficult questions as they journey toward healing.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
That racing heart at 3 AM. The constant checking on loved ones. The spiral of "what-ifs." If anxiety has become your unwelcome companion since losing someone to suicide, you're facing one of grief's most challenging but least discussed symptoms.
Anxiety after suicide loss isn't a sign of weakness or failure—it's your brain's natural response to having your sense of safety shattered. When someone dies by suicide, our minds desperately try to restore order by scanning constantly for danger, even when no immediate threat exists. This hypervigilance, though exhausting, is actually your brain trying to protect you from further harm.
Through this episode, we explore how thoughts trigger anxiety after loss and how seemingly automatic worries like "What if I lose someone else?" or "I should have seen the signs" create both emotional and physical distress. Rather than fighting these thoughts, you'll learn how to gently become aware of them while practicing more supportive alternatives like "I'm doing the best I can" and "It's okay to feel anxious right now."
For those moments when anxiety manifests physically—through panic attacks, shortness of breath, or a racing heart—we share powerful body-based interventions including box breathing, sensory grounding techniques, and movement practices that help regulate your overwhelmed nervous system. Remember that your body is grieving too, and deserves the same compassion you'd offer a scared child.
Many survivors find themselves trapped in patterns of trying to control everything after loss—obsessing over safety, predicting worst-case scenarios, or micromanaging loved ones. While understandable, this approach only intensifies suffering. True healing comes not from achieving perfect control, but from building trust in your ability to navigate uncertainty. As you implement the five practical approaches shared in this episode—naming feelings, practicing compassionate thinking, regulating your nervous system daily, seeking support rather than isolation, and allowing anxiety to move through you—you'll discover that you're capable of more resilience than you ever imagined.
Share this episode with someone walking this path, subscribe to stay connected, and remember: you're not just surviving anymore—you're learning to thrive again, even amid uncertainty.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
Friendship becomes a complicated landscape to navigate after losing someone to suicide. That steady ground of connection we once took for granted suddenly shifts beneath our feet as we discover who can truly handle the weight of our grief and who cannot. What's particularly jarring is how the people we expected would be our rocks often disappear, while unlikely sources of support emerge from unexpected corners of our lives.
Grief performs a strange alchemy on our relationships. It transforms casual acquaintances into lifelines and sometimes turns lifelong friends into strangers. This happens not because your friends don't care, but because grief creates a vulnerability that many people simply aren't equipped to handle. We live in a society that remains largely grief-illiterate, where discomfort with emotional pain makes many retreat rather than draw closer when confronted with someone else's raw suffering.
The signs of truly supportive friendship become unmistakably clear in contrast to those who inadvertently cause more harm. Real support never attempts to "fix" your grief or rush you through it. It listens without judgment, even when your emotions seem contradictory or overwhelming. It allows space for both your silence and your stories, letting you talk about your loved one freely—both the beautiful memories and the painful realities of their struggles. Genuinely supportive friends often say simply, "I don't know what to say, but I'm here," acknowledging their limitations while promising their presence.
Finding these people might require looking in new places: grief support groups specifically for suicide loss survivors, coaching communities familiar with grief work, volunteering with suicide prevention organizations, or even curated online spaces where grief is discussed openly. Taking that first step—sending that message, joining that group, or saying yes to an invitation—might feel impossible some days, but connection waits on the other side of that courage.
Sometimes the most healing step is setting boundaries with those who cannot meet you in your grief. Clear communication about what you need (or don't need) gives relationships the chance to adapt, but also gives you permission to step away from connections that demand you shrink your grief to make others comfortable. Your story matters, your grief matters, and so does your need for connection with people who can witness all of it without flinching.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
Financial insecurity often accompanies suicide loss, creating additional stress during an already devastating time. While grief alone is overwhelming, money problems can add confusion, fear, guilt, and anger as survivors navigate the aftermath.
• Survivors frequently face unexpected financial challenges after suicide loss
• The deceased may have been the primary breadwinner or left behind financial disorganization
• Shame often prevents survivors from addressing financial concerns openly
• Financial insecurity represents a significant secondary loss in grief
• Our nervous systems in survival mode aren't built for complex financial planning
• Small perspective shifts can help move from paralysis to action
• Start by understanding your current financial situation before making plans
• Identify truly urgent expenses versus those that can wait
• Ask for expert help from financial advisors, grief support resources, and trusted friends
• Look into available support like Social Security survivor benefits or nonprofit assistance
• Release perfectionism and remember your worth isn't tied to your financial situation
• Take one small, kind step at a time toward rebuilding financial stability
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Suicide loss fundamentally changes who we are, and sometimes these changes lead couples down divergent paths that can end in divorce. The aftermath of suicide often exposes existing fractures in relationships or creates new challenges as each partner processes grief differently.
• Double grief occurs when navigating both suicide loss and the end of a marriage
• Common struggles include blame, different grieving styles, emotional shutdown, and resentment
• Grief acts as a portal that exposes what we can no longer pretend about in relationships
• Divorce won't fix grief or take away the pain of suicide loss
• Important to distinguish between wanting distance from your partner versus distance from your pain
• Those initiating divorce should ensure they're making decisions from clarity, not crisis
• Those being left need permission to grieve this second loss fully
• Endings can create sacred space for rebuilding and rediscovery
• You can honor your loved one who died and still create a meaningful life after divorce
• You're allowed to hold both grief and growth in the same hand
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The jarring disconnect between your shattered world and the normal workplace environment can feel impossible to navigate after losing someone to suicide. Whether you're returning after a few days of bereavement leave or struggling months later, this episode walks through the complex reality of grief in professional settings and offers practical guidance.
Grief fog isn't just emotional—it's your brain's protective response to overwhelming loss. When you can't concentrate on spreadsheets or client meetings, it's not failure but your mind processing trauma. This neurological phenomenon explains why tasks that once came easily now feel insurmountable. Understanding this mechanism gives survivors permission to adjust expectations temporarily without shame.
Work environments can either support healing or deepen isolation. While routine and structure benefit many survivors, unsupportive colleagues or inflexible policies can intensify suffering. We explore practical strategies like preparing scripts for awkward interactions, taking strategic grief breaks, setting micro-goals, and communicating boundaries. Success during grief might look different—sometimes just showing up is a victory worth celebrating.
Most importantly, returning to work doesn't mean "moving on" from your loved one. You're learning to carry them with you as you navigate a changed world. The strength it takes to show up day after day with a broken heart isn't weakness but profound courage. If you're struggling to balance professional responsibilities with grief, know you're not alone. Share this episode with someone who needs these tools or reminder that they're doing better than they realize.
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Grief serves as a natural healing mechanism after losing someone to suicide, but certain thought patterns and behaviors can transform it from a healing tool into an obstacle that keeps us stuck.
• Grief is love with nowhere to go - an extension of our deep connection with the person we lost
• Our brains physically rewire in response to loss as they try to understand our new reality
• Signs grief is working against you include persistent guilt, avoiding memories, emotional stagnation, and inability to find joy
• Practical strategies include allowing emotions without judgment, seeking meaning in your loss, and taking small steps to reconnect with life
• Professional support through therapy, coaching or grief groups can be transformative when feeling stuck
• Happiness and grief can coexist - finding moments of joy honors your loved one rather than betrays them
• Everyone's grief journey differs, but there's a distinction between processing grief and being stuck in it
Take one small step today to let grief become a tool for healing rather than a force holding you back. Healing is not forgetting—it's learning to live again.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
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Grief physically changes your brain, magnifying minor frustrations and triggering disproportionate emotional responses to life's small annoyances. Understanding the neuroscience behind these reactions can help survivors of suicide loss develop practical strategies to regain perspective when everyday stressors feel overwhelming.
• Grief impacts three key brain areas: the prefrontal cortex, limbic system, and default mode network
• Minor inconveniences like losing keys or spilling drinks can trigger outsized emotional reactions during grief
• Prolonged grief increases cortisol levels, contributing to heightened irritability and emotional reactivity
• Self-awareness and self-compassion are crucial first steps in managing disproportionate responses
• The "power of pause" technique helps create space between triggers and reactions
• Regular exercise, mindfulness practices, and quality sleep help rewire the brain's stress response
• The "zoom out method" helps regain perspective by asking "Will this matter in a week?"
• With practice, these heightened responses will gradually diminish over time
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We explore the healing power of making future plans after suicide loss, demonstrating how looking forward can create purpose and stability while honoring our grief journey. Planning isn't about forgetting our loved ones but choosing to live fully despite loss, integrating our grief into a meaningful future.
• Grief after suicide loss often leaves survivors feeling stuck in survival mode, resistant to planning ahead
• Moving forward doesn't mean moving on—it means integrating grief while still choosing to live fully
• Planning trips or experiences provides something positive to anticipate, helping lift grief's heaviness
• Celebrations and milestone dates offer opportunities to honor loved ones' memories in meaningful ways
• Career changes or personal goals often emerge as survivors recognize life's brevity and seek greater purpose
• Start with small plans like a weekend getaway or dinner with friends to build momentum
• Remember David Kessler's wisdom: "Healing doesn't mean the loss didn't happen. It means it no longer controls your life"
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Closure after suicide loss—it's what so many of us desperately seek,yet what if closure isn't something we're meant to have? What if it's not even real?
In this deeply compassionate exploration of grief after suicide loss, Amy challenges the common belief that we need answers and understanding before we can heal. She reveals how the pursuit of closure can actually keep us stuck in our grief, preventing us from moving forward. The painful reality of suicide is that it often comes suddenly, unexpectedly, leaving survivors with a profound sense that closure never had a chance.
Amy offers a powerful perspective shift: what we truly need isn't closure but peace. And peace doesn't come from having all the answers—it comes from how we manage our minds around what happened. Even if we had every possible explanation for why our loved one died by suicide, would it actually take away our pain? Probably not, because our pain isn't coming from unanswered questions; it's coming from our thoughts about those questions.
Rather than seeking closure, Amy encourages listeners to find meaning. This isn't about being glad the loss happened, but about integrating it into our lives in a way that brings purpose—whether through sharing your story, supporting others, or simply living more fully because of what you've experienced. The journey through grief isn't about forgetting; it's about learning to carry our grief while still creating a life of meaning and even joy.
Have you been waiting for answers that might never come? Consider asking yourself different questions: "How can I allow myself to grieve without needing to wrap it up?" "What meaning can I create from my loss?" "How can I think about this in a way that brings me peace right now?" Share this episode with someone who needs to hear that they can move forward without closure—because living with love, meaning, and purpose is the true goal of healing.
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In this episode we explores the possibility of loving life again after suicide loss, challenging the painful lie that grief tells survivors about never finding happiness after such devastating loss.
• Healing doesn't mean "moving on" from your loved one but carrying them with you as you create a meaningful life
• Feeling joy isn't betraying the person you lost - loving your life doesn't mean you love them any less
• Breaking free from victim mentality gives you power to choose how you move forward
• Be mindful of your inner circle - surround yourself with people who help you heal, not reinforce your pain
• It's not disloyal to outgrow relationships that keep you in suffering
• You are not just someone who lost a loved one to suicide - you get to redefine your identity
• Start rebuilding your life with small steps that gradually lead to pursuing bigger dreams
• Give yourself permission to laugh, feel joy, and dream again - not because you're "over it," but because you're alive
If this episode resonated with you, please share it with someone who needs to hear it. Reach out with questions or topic suggestions at amy@survived-to-thrive.com.
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Join us for a heartfelt exploration of how the people in our lives shape our grief and healing journey. In today’s episode, we discuss the often-overlooked influence of our relationships on how we process loss, particularly when it comes to the complex emotions surrounding the suicide of a loved one. Host Amy Miller sheds light on emotional differentiation and its importance in navigating grief without being overwhelmed by others' emotions.
In this episode we take a deep dive into the importance of surrounding ourselves with supportive people during the grieving process. We delve into how the company we keep significantly influences our healing journey.
• Discussing the impact of emotional differentiation on grief
• Identifying toxic versus supportive relationships
• Building and maintaining a healing inner circle
Discover practical strategies for assessing your relationships—do they help or hinder your progress? Reflecting on the energy the people around you impart can lead to transformative changes in your healing process. We emphasize the significance of intentionally crafting a "healing inner circle," comprised of those who support growth, resilience, and emotional strength.
This episode is more than just a conversation; it’s a genuine invitation to evaluate and, if necessary, reshape your connections. Your healing matters, and you deserve to be surrounded by individuals who help you thrive.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
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Grief is an overwhelming journey, especially after the loss of a loved one to suicide. In this episode of the Survived to Thrive Podcast, Amy Miller explores the profound complexities surrounding grief and the often misunderstood concept of victim mentality. Many survivors find themselves trapped in a cycle of negative thoughts, questioning their worth and the fairness of their circumstances. However, it's time to break free and transform that pain into empowerment.
Amy Miller discusses the profound grief survivors face after suicide loss and encourages healing through empowerment. A focus on breaking free from victim mentality provides actionable insights to reclaim strength and joy.
In this episode we explore and take a deep dive into the following:
• Understanding victim mentality related to suicide loss
• Steps to empower yourself and thrive amidst grief
Through open and honest conversations, we create a space where survivors can connect, heal, and support one another. Listen in to discover how to shift your perspective from one of victimhood to one of strength and agency, and uncover the potential that lies within you. This episode is a powerful reminder that grief doesn't have to define us; we have the strength to shape our narratives and create lives full of joy.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
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This episode highlights the journey of reconnecting with oneself and others after a profound loss, urging survivors to challenge isolation through mindset shifts and action. Listeners learn the importance of empathy, practical steps for engagement, and the healing potential of reconnection despite ongoing grief.
• Acknowledging feelings of isolation during grief
• Exploring how disconnection can affect relationships
• Challenging mindset shifts that foster connection
• Discussing Mel Robbins' Five-Second Rule as a reconnection tool
• Emphasizing that reconnecting doesn't negate grief
• Encouraging listeners to take small steps toward rebuilding relationships
• Offering strategies for honoring love while navigating pain
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
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Navigating the reactions of others while grieving can be challenging and painful, but it also offers an opportunity for growth and understanding. This episode delves into how to maintain emotional peace, set healthy boundaries, and reclaim the narrative around grief, emphasizing that others' reactions reflect their own experiences rather than our worth or healing.
• Understanding mixed reactions from friends and family
• Distinguishing between supportive and harmful behaviors
• Recognizing reactions are reflections of others, not ourselves
• Exploring the neutrality of comments and behaviors
• The importance of setting boundaries for emotional safety
• How to communicate needs compassionately
• Taking control of our narratives during grief
If you found this episode helpful, please share it with others who may also benefit from the insights provided.
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This episode focuses on the challenges and implications of over-drinking as a coping mechanism for those grieving a suicide loss. Here we provide actionable steps to help reclaim personal power and shift from unhealthy patterns towards healing.
• Addressing the normalization of over-drinking in grief
• Emphasizing compassion instead of judgment towards oneself and others
• Understanding emotional drivers behind alcohol consumption
• Acknowledging that alcohol doesn’t solve grief but adds layers to it
• Introducing practical steps to regain control over drinking behavior
• Encouraging awareness of patterns and emotions associated with alcohol
• Allowing urges without succumbing to them
• Shifting negative thoughts towards empowering ones
• Importance of planning ahead regarding alcohol consumption
• Celebrating progress and seeking support
If this has been helpful for you, share it with someone else who is struggling who could use some insights.
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This episode explores the theme of change as a vital part of the healing journey for survivors of suicide loss. We discuss the importance of acknowledging current feelings, making small shifts, setting intentions, building supportive networks, and reframing perspectives on change that honors lost loved ones.
• Recognizing the dual nature of change: fear and opportunity
• Emphasizing that moving forward doesn’t mean forgetting loved ones
• The power of small shifts in daily life for healing
• Setting flexible intentions instead of rigid resolutions
• The significance of building a supportive network
• Reframing change as an opportunity for a new chapter
• Incorporating rituals and symbolic acts as healing mechanisms
• Accepting and navigating obstacles as part of the healing process
• Practicing self-compassion during difficult moments
• Staying connected to your purpose or "why" throughout your journey
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
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Setting goals and dreaming again after a devastating loss can be daunting, but it is also a pathway to rediscovering joy and purpose. We explore the importance of small goals, celebrating progress, and envisioning a future while honoring those we've lost.
• Exploring how to reclaim joy after loss
• Importance of setting small, manageable goals
• Benefits of structure, hope, and personal agency
• Steps to reconnect with passions and identity
• Celebrating progress instead of perfection
• The significance of dreaming again and honoring loved ones
• Encouragement to take small steps forward in the healing journey
Feel free to reach out, sign up for my newsletter, or check out my website for more resources and support.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
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This episode emphasizes how to navigate the new year while dealing with grief, especially after losing a loved one to suicide. We discuss five meaningful goals to help survivors prioritize their emotional well-being, honor their loved ones, foster connections, care for their bodies, and rediscover joy amidst grief so that you can have a BETTER New Year. In this episode we will discuss:
• Fostering optimism while embracing a new year
• Setting meaningful goals amid grief and loss
• Prioritizing mental and emotional health through boundaries
• Creating rituals to honor loved ones and their memory
• Rebuilding connections with friends and support groups
• Taking care of the body to enhance emotional healing
• Rediscovering joy and embracing small, positive thoughts
• Navigating grief is not linear; celebrate small victories
• Call to action to join the conversation and explore healing resources
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
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In this episode, we explore the complexities of grief following a loved one's suicide, focusing on what burdens we carry unnecessarily and understanding our responsibilities in the grieving process. We aim to provide clarity, compassion, and hope, discussing the nuances of guilt, the importance of honoring lost loved ones, and the vital need for self-forgiveness to foster healing.
• Exploring the unique nature of grief from suicide loss
• Acknowledging feelings of guilt and blame in the grieving process
• Understanding what we are not responsible for in a loved one’s suicide
• The significance of how we process our grief
• Building awareness around mental health through conversation
• Honoring the beautiful memories of those we lost
• The importance of self-forgiveness in moving forward
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As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
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Grief can feel like a full-body renovation, tearing down the structures we thought were permanent. Seven years since losing my sister to suicide, I'm sharing a personal journey through the chaos of grief and the transformative power it holds. As the holidays approach, this episode reflects on the overwhelming process of mourning, revealing our deepest vulnerabilities and offering a path to rebuilding a life filled with joy and fulfillment despite such loss.
We'll explore how personal growth and healing are akin to home renovation, requiring us to knock down walls and clear away the clutter of our emotional lives. This process exposes our core strengths and calls attention to the high cost of sacrificing personal peace. It's about recognizing the power within ourselves even when faced with life's most overwhelming challenges. Amidst the chaos, finding balance and focusing on what truly matters becomes essential, especially during busy times.
Gratitude emerges as a powerful remedy for pain, with the act of keeping a gratitude journal transforming our perspective on life's abundance. The importance of service becomes evident, providing relief and perspective as we help others through their struggles. Finally, we hold onto the belief that our best days lie ahead, offering hope and resilience drawn from personal experiences. This episode paints a hopeful picture of finding joy and connection amidst life's challenges, reminding us that the future is full of possibilities.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
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Losing a loved one to suicide is a heartache that's especially poignant during the holiday season. Join me, Amy Miller, as I open up about my own journey through grief after the loss of my sister around Thanksgiving. Together, we'll explore the raw, often overwhelming emotions that surface during this time of year, and how to navigate the expectations that come with holiday traditions. Whether you're contemplating simplifying your celebrations or finding new ways to honor your loved one, I'll share insights and encouragement to help you discover joy and fulfillment amidst the sorrow.
The pressure to maintain perfect holiday traditions can be crushing after such a profound loss. We'll discuss the importance of self-love and creating a holiday experience that aligns with your current needs, free from external pressures or what others might expect. It's vital to honor your grief while also prioritizing your well-being. I'll also introduce a series of upcoming classes designed to aid individuals at various stages of their grief journey, emphasizing the continuous nature of healing. Let's walk this path together, finding strength, comfort, and perhaps a little peace along the way.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
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Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
Unlock the keys to strengthening your marriage through grief on this episode of the Survived to Thrive Podcast. Grieving after a suicide can shatter communication, leaving couples feeling isolated and misunderstood. But what if you could turn these challenges into opportunities for deeper connection? We'll explore how emotional withdrawal and miscommunication often arise in grieving relationships and how recognizing them as normal can help maintain the vital bonds between partners. By understanding these dynamics, couples can support one another through the heartbreak, finding ways to express their emotions and rebuild intimacy.
This episode doesn't shy away from the tough emotions of blame and resentment that can surface in a marriage during grief. Learn how to shift these feelings, viewing them as choices rather than inevitable outcomes, to improve emotional well-being for you and your spouse. We'll discuss the individuality of the grieving process, how unfamiliar behaviors may emerge, and how to cope with these changes by seeking support. Through practical strategies and a focus on hope, discover how joy and fulfillment can be reclaimed even after profound loss, guiding you and your partner from surviving to thriving.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
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Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
After experiencing the heart-wrenching suicide loss of a beloved family member, I found myself adrift in an emotional storm, much like those hurricanes that recently battered Florida and North Carolina. This episode of the Survive to Thrive Podcast invites you to navigate these turbulent waters with me, as we explore the raw resilience required to endure life's most challenging moments. Together, we'll unravel the layers of grief, drawing parallels between natural disasters and emotional upheaval, and examine how these profound experiences compel us to confront our deepest selves. Discover how our personal foundations—the anchors of family, faith, and beliefs—are tested in these trying times, and learn how to strengthen them for the storms ahead.
We also delve into practical strategies for emerging stronger from life's trials. Remembering past victories can spark a powerful sense of resilience, serving as a reminder of the strength you possess. Challenges provide opportunities for growth, allowing for deeper connections with those around you and fostering an appreciation for life’s beauty and complexity. By shifting perspectives to view obstacles as avenues for personal development, even the smallest acts of support and compassion from others can deepen our connection with the world. Join me to uncover how you can not only weather these storms but thrive in their aftermath, transforming grief into a profound appreciation for life and the people who enrich it.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
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Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
When life hands us problems, especially after suicide loss, sometimes we find ourselves in one of these two groups of people. Dwellers or solvers. In this episode we explore why we have a tendency to handle problem in these 2 categories. Dwellers focuses too much on the past which can cause us to get stuck. Solvers can make decisions too quickly without fully understanding the actual problem. We need to find middle ground between the two.
Discover the path to reclaiming control with eight actionable steps designed to tackle life's toughest problems head-on. With a focus on accountability, seeking guidance, and the transformative power of a supportive community, we delve into the heart of solution-focused strategies. I also underscore the indispensable role of self-care—adequate rest, proper nutrition, and physical activity—as foundational pillars to maintaining mental well-being. Whether you're facing relationship hurdles, financial strain, or the complexities of grief, these insights are crafted to help you foster a joyful and fulfilling life amidst all the chaos.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
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Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
After the gut-wrenching loss of my sister, I found myself navigating a labyrinth of strained family dynamics, professional uncertainty, and the crushing isolation of relocating to a new state. On this week's episode of the Survived to Thrive Podcast, I open up about the multifaceted grief that can follow such a tragedy. My aim is to shed light on the commonality of these experiences among survivors and reassure you, our listeners, that feeling overwhelmed is completely normal. Through heartfelt personal stories, I hope to provide a sense of solidarity and understanding, ensuring you know you're not alone in facing these challenges.
We also dive into the vital importance of embracing all emotions, especially the difficult ones, rather than seeking refuge in distractions like work or social media. We'll talk about the dangers of suppression and offer healthier coping mechanisms, such as leaning on trusted friends and professionals for support. Additionally, we'll discuss how to identify and manage personal triggers to prevent a cycle of continuous negative emotions.
I extend my deepest gratitude for your support and encourage you to explore our website for more resources designed to help you thrive. Don't forget to share the podcast with friends and leave a review on iTunes to help us spread this vital message.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
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Have you ever found yourself drowning in a sea of "what ifs" and "if onlys" after losing a loved one to suicide? Join us for a heart-to-heart conversation where we introduce a powerful exercise to shift those suffocating thoughts to the more compassionate "even if." Allow yourself to breathe easier by recognizing that even the most experienced professionals face losses beyond their control. By examining how this devastating event shapes your current beliefs and future relationships, we aim to guide you from mere survival to a place of thriving.
Navigating life after a suicide loss isn't easy, but it is possible. We discuss the three most common barriers to moving forward: resisting grief, the unconscious stories that drain us, and our deep-seated beliefs about the loss. Learn essential strategies for the initial year of grieving, such as writing down your story, celebrating positive memories, and treating yourself with kindness. Embrace setbacks as a normal part of the journey and cultivate patience and self-compassion. This episode is dedicated to honoring your unique grieving process and helping you find resilience in the face of profound loss.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
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This is part 2 of our live 3 part series. Have you ever felt overwhelmed by the guilt and regret following the loss of a loved one to suicide? Today on Navigating the Aftermath of Suicide Loss (Part 2), we tackle the difficult journey of navigating through these intense emotions, offering a path towards healing and understanding. First, we reflect on our personal beliefs about the loss, encouraging you to write them down as a way to process your grief. This reflection can provide crucial insights into how the loss impacts your life, spirituality, and worldview.
Exploring the myths and misconceptions surrounding the causes of suicide, we uncover how these false beliefs can compound feelings of guilt and regret. Many survivors replay scenarios endlessly, trying to find a moment they could have changed to prevent the tragedy. We emphasize that such thoughts are natural but ultimately unproductive, reminding you that even trained professionals sometimes lose individuals to suicide. Additionally, we discuss the complex emotion of relief that some survivors experience, a feeling often misunderstood yet entirely normal.
Balancing the challenging memories with positive ones, we offer practical techniques to honor the cherished moments and meaningful conversations you had with your loved one. By distinguishing between facts and our thoughts about those facts, we can begin to manage grief and guilt more effectively. Don't miss our guidance on available resources at Survived to Thrive, and make sure to subscribe to our mailing list for ongoing support. Share this podcast with others in need and join us again next week as we continue to navigate this journey together.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
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When my sister disappeared, my world turned upside down, and the emotional chaos that ensued was overwhelming. Join us in the Survived to Thrive Podcast with Amy Miller as we embark on a heartfelt journey through the aftermath of suicide loss. This special three-part series is dedicated to providing you with practical tools and strategies to navigate the complex landscape of grief, transforming your pain into a testament of resilience and strength.
In the first chapter, we underscore that grief is a deeply personal and unique experience, with no right or wrong way to cope. Drawing from my own journey as a bereaved survivor and my expertise as a grief coach, I share insights and exercises designed to help you process your emotions and begin the path from surviving to thriving. This episode invites you to actively participate, take notes, and reflect on your own experiences, fostering a better understanding of the naturalness and universality of grief.
We also tackle the societal stigma and misconceptions surrounding suicide loss. From grappling with the exhausting quest for answers to the common but misplaced feelings of guilt and regret, we aim to redirect your energy toward constructive healing. By challenging harmful stereotypes and encouraging open discussions, we strive to create a supportive environment for all survivors. Through practical exercises and thoughtful reflection, we hope to guide you on a journey toward healing and self-compassion.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
Have you ever wondered what it takes to rise from the depths of despair to the pinnacle of success? This episode of the Survived to Thrive Podcast promises to reveal the extraordinary resilience and perseverance displayed by Olympic athletes, particularly focusing on their journey through grief and loss. With the recent 2024 Summer Olympics as our backdrop, we dissect the inspiring journeys of Tara Davis Woodhull, Gabby Thomas, and Sha'Carri Richardson. Tara, who battled thoughts of quitting, soared to win gold in the long jump, exemplifying the power of persistence even when progress seems impossible. Gabby, a champion in the 200-meter race, shows us that behind every triumph is a story of relentless hard work and dedication, through Sha'Carri, we learn that all of this hard work is not in vain. By drawing parallels between their stories and our own struggles, we uncover valuable lessons on the human capacity to overcome grief, including from suicide loss.
In this heartfelt episode, we reflect on the profound impact of these athletes' achievements, urging listeners to find motivation and strength within themselves. As we navigate through the emotional terrain of dealing with loss, the dedication and resilience of Tara, Gabby, and Sha'Carri serve as powerful reminders of our own potential. Tune in for an uplifting and empowering discussion that not only honors the remarkable feats of these Olympians but also aims to provide hope and inspiration for anyone enduring tough times. Remember to share these moving stories and leave a review on iTunes to help spread the message of hope and resilience.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
Ever wondered if your grief reactions are normal after losing someone to suicide? You're not alone. Join us on the Survive to Thrive Podcast as we challenge traditional grief stages and highlight the deeply personal nature of grief. Inspired by Victor E. Frankel's insights, we explore how varied grief experiences are natural responses to such a profound loss. By understanding these reactions as normal, we aim to help you better accept your unique grief journey.
We also dive into how cultural conditioning affects how men cope with loss, often leading to emotional suppression and numbness. This episode will shed light on the biological responses to overwhelming pain and the tendency to mentally replay the details of a loved one's death in an attempt to make sense of it all. Whether you're crying frequently or finding it impossible to cry, your way of processing grief is valid. Tune in for insights and support to help you navigate your path from surviving to thriving.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
How do you navigate the swirling storm of emotions and also deal with major life decisions following the loss of a loved one to suicide? In today's episode we discuss how losing a loved one to suicide can force us to make big changes in our lives. Sometimes it's unexpected financial and sometimes it's relationship changes. But despite the overwhelming pressure to make big changes and big decisions when we are in the trenches of grief, thoughtful decisions can steer you towards a path of healing.
I also would like to invite you to an invaluable three-day event designed specifically for suicide loss survivors. August 6th, 7th, and 8th. Sign up HERE This event aims to provide essential tools and strategies for making sense of your grief and fostering emotional well-being. We will share insights that validate your feelings and remind you that you are not alone on this journey. Whether your loss is recent or from years past, this event will offer actionable support to help you transform survival into thriving. Don’t miss this opportunity to learn about how this type of loss impacts your life and how to gain the resources you need to navigate your grief. Click the link to save your spot and register.
Register HERE
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
Have you ever wondered how our brains deal with tragedy? Dive into the fascinating science of how our brains process grief and loss, particularly after a sudden loss. We'll explore the brain's natural mechanisms for self-preservation and how understanding these can both challenge and aid us in our healing journey. Uncover the powerful impact of our thoughts and how entrenched neural pathways can keep us trapped in negative loops. Learn practical strategies to rewire your brain by introducing positive thoughts, helping you move towards a fulfilled life despite the weight of grief. This episode is packed with insights and actionable advice to support you on your path to moving forward after losing a loved one to suicide.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
Can journaling help heal the wounds of losing a loved one to suicide? Discover how journaling can have a profound impact on our journey towards healing through diving into our subconscious selves. In this heartfelt episode of the Survived to Thrive Podcast, I share the excitement surrounding my newly published guided reflection journal for suicide loss survivors, now available on Amazon. This journal offers thoughtful prompts and reflective guidance to help you navigate the complex emotions of grief and uncover subconscious feelings that often go unnoticed.
Imagine creating your own pathway to hope and creativity amidst the turmoil of grief. Together, we'll explore how future planning and sharing personal stories can ignite a spark of anticipation and community among survivors. Whether you're inclined to share publicly or prefer the privacy of your own thoughts, journaling can offer significant personal insights and self-compassion. Tune in to learn more about how my guided journal can support you in expressing your feelings and envisioning a hopeful future. Let’s uncover the transformative power of journaling and how it can be a beacon of light on your healing journey.
Link to grab a copy of the journal:
https://a.co/d/57cdPxv
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
Can you really afford to keep pushing your grief aside? Join me on this thought-provoking episode of the Survive to Thrive Podcast, where I reveal actionable strategies for carving out time to process grief, even amidst the chaos of daily life. In this episode we explain why prioritizing your own emotional well-being is essential for effectively supporting others. We’ll also address the inadequacies of bereavement leave policies, making it clear that finding personal time to grieve is not just beneficial, but necessary.
Discover practical tips to manage your grief in a structured way, from scheduling intentional grieving time to seeking professional support. Learn how physical health interrelates with emotional health and why open communication with family and friends can be a game-changer in your grief journey. Whether it's through religious leaders or close friends, tapping into various support systems can facilitate emotional healing. Join me as I emphasize the importance of letting your emotions surface and provide you with tools to make this vital part of healing a priority in your everyday life.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
Can joy coexist with profound grief? A couple weekends ago I visited an adult playground in Las Vegas with some family and we were swept away by childlike joy, even though we have losses of a loved one to suicide. In this episode we explore the often-overlooked complexities of grief and discuss the glimpses of happiness that can surprise us in the most unexpected places.
In our second segment, we confront the realities and emotional turmoil of difficult times. The physical and mental toll can be overwhelming, but this chapter is a beacon of hope, showing that joy is within reach, even in the darkest moments. Finally, we outline actionable steps to cultivate joy intentionally, underscoring the power of focusing on positive memories, making decisions, setting goals, and making future plans. It’s about believing in our worthiness to experience joy, even amidst adversity. This episode is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and a guide to finding light despite loss and truly believing we have the permission to experience joy.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
Losing a father to suicide can make Father's Day an incredibly challenging time. What if there were ways to navigate this emotional landscape with both grace and strength? Join me as I unpack the complexities of Father's Day for those who've lost their dads to suicide. Together, we'll explore the intense emotions that this day can evoke, from sorrow and regret to deep-seated grief. By affirming these feelings, we aim to offer solace and support to those grappling with this profound loss.
In this episode, I also share practical advice to help you cope with the grief that surfaces around Father's Day. Discover thoughtful activities and cherished memories that can help shift your focus from the tragedy of your father's death to the joy of the moments you shared. Learn how to prepare for Father's Day weekend in a way that celebrates love and connection within your family. Whether you're finding new ways to honor your father or simply seeking understanding, this episode is designed to provide inspiration and strength. Tune in for heartfelt guidance and a community of support as we approach this special day together.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
Part three is here. In this episode we dive deep into confidence! We discuss in depth, how to rebuild your life and self-confidence after experiencing the unthinkable loss of a loved one through suicide.
Suicide loss grief doesn’t just shake your world; it can deeply affect your self-confidence and self-perception. In this episode, we break down how grief impacts various aspects of confidence, from decision-making and achieving goals to maintaining relationships. We distinguish between confidence and self-confidence, defining self-confidence as the willingness to feel any emotion. Here you will learn practical strategies to rebuild your self-confidence, manage intrusive thoughts, and choose empowering beliefs.
By following these simple actionable steps, you can begin to get back on your path forward once again, after experiencing unthinkable loss.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
Welcome to part 2 of Moving Forward after Unthinkable loss. Have you ever wondered why we instinctively avoid grief, despite knowing that processing it is crucial for healing? This episode promises to explore the deep-rooted reasons behind our resistance to grief, particularly after the unimaginable loss of a loved one to suicide. We discuss the common avoidance behaviors many of us turn to, such as endless social media scrolling and overeating, and unravel how our human instincts and cultural stigmas play a role in this. By examining the unconscious stories we tell ourselves—like feelings of guilt or inadequacy—we aim to highlight how these narratives often stall our progress.
Join us as Amy Miller, a grief educator and survivor of suicide loss, shares her profound insights and personal journey. She sheds light on the importance of understanding our beliefs about loss and its impact on our lives, and how these perceptions can keep us stuck. This episode also dives into practical techniques to harness the power of our beliefs. Discover how pinpointing your current emotions, making conscious decisions about how you want to feel, and using bridge thinking to introduce more positive thoughts can pave the way for healing. Don't miss Amy's valuable lessons and actionable steps to help you thrive after such a devastating loss.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
Grappling with the aftermath of a loved one's suicide is an odyssey that's as personal as it is profound. I've walked through that dark valley myself, and it's from this intimate knowledge that our latest series emerges—Moving forward after unthinkable loss. We kick off with a heart-to-heart about the true nature of grief, moving beyond the myth of predictable stages to paint a picture of an individual journey with its own rhythm and pace. Together, we'll explore what I like to call the 'grief trench,' where sorrow can feel inescapable, and discuss strategies to climb out. Many times as survivors we feel healing seems out of reach even if we find the strength to climb out of this trench because often we find ourselves in a grief plateau, yet it's here that we lay down the groundwork for growth and revival.
Then we pivot to the power of our thoughts and the stories we tell ourselves in the face of unchangeable facts. This episode peels back the layers on how our internal narratives can cage us or set us free. I share personal stories and insights that reveal the transformative potential within us to reshape our perspectives. The conversation is designed to arm you with the foundation to take control of the stories born from our circumstances, offering a path to solace and newfound strength. It's a discussion that promises not just to comfort, but to empower—a journey from the depths of despair to the possibility of peace and purpose.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
Today, I'm excited to share a sneak peek into my heartfelt initiative for those healing from the tragedy of suicide loss. You'll learn how the marvel of neuroplasticity isn't science fiction—it's a ticket to revamping your thought processes and revolutionizing your life. Join me for this episode as I draw from my own 'closet organizing' saga, showing you how clearing out mental mess can be as satisfying and necessary as tidying a physical space.
Our minds can be like overstuffed closets—full and chaotic, with thoughts that no longer serve a purpose. This episode walks you through a mental decluttering session, teaching you to sort your thoughts as easily as separating your keepsakes from clutter. We'll explore how externalizing these thoughts, be it through journaling or therapy, can provide the clarity needed to sift through the 'keep', 'discard', and 'decide later' piles of our minds. For anyone touched by suicide, the shared journey in this episode is a beacon of hope and understanding. Together, we'll embrace strategies to inventory our mental content, minimize the negative loops, and align our inner dialogue with our life's true aspirations.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
The raw emotion and confusion that follows a loved one's suicide can make every conversation feel like a minefield. Our latest episode is a candid exploration of this fragile terrain, where we address the importance of not just weathering the storm of conflict but using it as a tool for healing and growth. Through personal stories and insights, we reveal why engaging with conflict, rather than avoiding it, can fortify relationships and build trust, especially in the wake of such overwhelming grief.
As we peel back the layers of disputes, we uncover the subtle art of effective communication—how pausing and truly listening can transform an argument into a constructive dialogue. Guest insights complement my experience, shedding light on managing conflicts with mindfulness and considerate language, guided by the wisdom of Thomas Monson's philosophy on valuing people over problems. Our conversation goes beyond platitudes, offering actionable advice and fresh perspectives on embracing disagreement as a natural, enriching part of our human connections. Join us for a thought-provoking episode that challenges the stigma surrounding conflict and showcases its potential as a catalyst for personal and relational evolution and growth.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
This is an episode for the moms who have lost their child to suicide. Mothers Day often brings about painful feelings. This episode is a hopeful reminder that despite losing your child to suicide, your identity as a caring, nurturing, loving mother carries on.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
Just as our home can get cluttered, so can our minds. In this episode we discuss common things we as survivors tend to clutter our minds with and simple tips to help declutter them!
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
In this episode we speak to the idea of finding meaning. Many people will say there in no meaning in death, but this is not about finding meaning in death. It is merely about peeling back the complex layers of grief and finding what going through this experience really means for us. It is a way to look for the silver linings. It doesn't mean we would ever think losing a loved one was worth it to get to this place of finding meaning. It just recognizes the good that can come from the experience of grief to help soften the pain of it.
As promised, here is a link the book I referenced here.
https://www.amazon.com/Finding-Meaning-Sixth-Stage-Grief/dp/1501192744/ref=sr_1_1?dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.Kc45MUJDErgLGsIpVj0X5rzFzSAR0CzeT474KbuDRYhntS6EDZae952LoweB2rNYHWDPIB6qys2Hw9zfkfM2sUHMc-UW6ar_nWG_jKc9bdoaoiAMJnCK3yqfqJHo_IH6tXu2fdYAP8rmr-NxSPXBk4ts_BJmeKD7vf-VCv9p5DCVV91QQ8yTj1XXmFKftaSJYYAXaljfdlXaufsLg2dADyG1FK7fgNiwnrn5l9agoMw.Ibi4bYTVo6byzmfbBa_mS-sLZCEGMRNpVSNBtl8ZmWI&dib_tag=se&keywords=finding+meaning&qid=1713327123&sr=8-1
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
Ruminating is when we think the same thoughts over and over again. They are what I like to call thought loops. It is easy to do. Especially when we are trying to make sense of our loss. In this episode we take a deeper dive into what causes rumination and some ideas that you can apply to yourself if you find yourself ruminating.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
When we lose someone to suicide we can easily get stumped on how to talk to our kids about it. In this episode we explore how children process death, suicide death, and learn how to explain these difficult topics with our children.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
In our grief journey we find ourselves in trenches and plateaus, This podcast episode explores what these are, the difference between these two phases, and how to tell where we are at.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
We as human beings have the tendency to blame! It's a way to for us to have a greater understanding of the misfortune. When it comes to grief, one common emotion we feel is blame. Especially when it comes to a loss due to suicide. It gives us a false sense of the reason why our loved one died. In this episode we explore more in depth why we put so much stock into blame.
As promised, here are a few links to articles and studies.
https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2023/11/231109121458.htm
https://www.nami.org/Blogs/NAMI-Blog/September-2019/No-One-Should-Be-Blamed-for-Suicide
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
So much about the way we are wired wants for us to resist pain at all costs. We don't want to deal with it because it hurts. In this episode we explore how resisting pain can make our pain more painful and how feeling pain is actually good for us.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
Grief seems to be one of the most misunderstood experiences. Those of us who have never been through grief have only the movies, TV shows, and books to paint us a picture of what it looks like. No one likes to talk about grief, and no one really wants to understand it fully because we only want to get through it as fast as possible and move on with our lives. Then someone we love dies, we are thrown into the refiners fire and our world turns upside down because we are so unprepared for the experience.
In this episode we discuss the most common misconceptions of grief. While this is not a comprehensive list, it goes into the most common ones I see in survivors. I like to say knowledge is power and the more educated we are about grief , the better we can understand ourselves and the more willing we will be to process our grief more fully.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
Have you been feeling triggered lately? Are there things people say, news paper articles you have read, movies you have watched that have caused triggers? In this episode we explore what we can do to help prevent ourselves from feeling triggered and practical things we can do when we feel one coming on.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
Forgiveness is such a loaded word. In this episode we explore forgiveness and how it shows up in our lives as a survivor of suicide loss. We discuss who is difficult to forgive as a survivor and the 5 truths about forgiveness that we may not even be aware of. This episode will change the way you think about forgiveness and what it really means.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
Everyone's grief experience is going to look different. There are several reasons for this and in this episode we are going to take a deeper dive into the reasons why and teach us how to give ourselves and others a little more grace.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
Finding yourself again presents challenges after a traumatic loss. In this episode we explore why this is and what we can do to change it.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
In this Episode we discuss feeling lonely. All of us experience loneliness at times but when we are dealing with grief, loneliness can feel more intense. Even more so as a survivor of suicide loss.
Many of us are confused with what the word lonely really means and sometime our very use of the word can create self defeating dialogue within ourselves. There is a big difference between using it as a character description instead of an emotion that we feel.
In this episode we will discuss how to rephrase the word, deal with feeling alone, and how to overcome loneliness in our lives.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
In this episode we have a candid conversation with Susan Snow. In our discussion, we explore grief trauma from the eyes of someone who experienced a murder . We discuss the similarities this type of complicated grief has with suicide loss and how trauma, if left untreated can become problematic in our lives.
A little bit about Susan.
Susan Snow is a Realtor, Coach, Speaker, and Author. Susan is the daughter of slain LAPD Detective Thomas C Williams, who was killed in the line of duty October 31, 1985 when she was 17 years old.
The high-profile murder put her family in a spotlight no one asks for, traumatizing Susan and her family. After years of working through this trauma, sometimes more successful than others, Susan strives to help others.
Susan's book, "The Other Side of the Gun" tells her story from anguish and upheaval to peace and understanding.
Facebook: http://facebook.com/susansnowspeaks
Website: susansnowspeaks.com
Instagram: susan_snow1
To order her book click the Amazon link below.
a.co/d/cQ3S2uu
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
End of year causes reflection on our year and the new year creates excitement for the year to come. This episode explores how to reflect on our year, especially if it was a difficult challenging one and how to look forward to the future with optimism despite our challenges.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
Are you at a crossroads where a decision you have to make has to be made? Maybe you feel like you need to make a big decision, but you just don't want to, I get it. In this episode we explore big decisions and how to make them, even in grief.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
Do you feel like there are toxic people in your life? Maybe they are selfish, challenging to be around, or just plain difficult. In this episode we explore who these people are and how to better deal with them.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
Do the holidays overwhelm you more now that your loved one has passed? In this episode we discuss how survivors of suicide loss can navigate the holidays and actually enjoy them despite grief.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
In this episode we talk about drama. Have you noticed how we pay so much attention to drama? We all love stories with plots, victims and villains, twists and turns, with a dramatic and compelling ending. Why? Because we love drama! In this episode we explore why we love it so much, and what we can do to de-dramatize our stories when they become too much.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
When you lose your loved one due to suicide, it can be so challenging to not get stagnant in grief. Most of don't even know where to begin because grief can be so overwhelming. In this episode we explore how to climb out of the trenches of grief and the 4 components we need to be able to do this.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
In this episode we explore old wounds. It's important to recognize them in ourselves and in others. It's also important that we remember that they have an impact in grief so we can be more compassionate with ourselves and others.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
So many times in grief we are clueless as to what we need. Especially when it comes to the people we need. In this episode we discuss what people we need to be careful of, and the 5 people we need in life to feel more fulfilled and have overall success with.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
When you are faced with grief, especially with suicide loss grief, you don't even know what you need. You feel like you are floundering around just trying to survive and you don't know what the first thing you need to get through it. In this episode we discuss 5 essential things you need in grief and why you need them.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
This episode explores how we can cope when we find out secrets. So many of us, as survivors of suicide loss find out things after our loved ones passing. It can be painful when we find them out and can add another layer to our grief process, or even create a roadblock in our grief. In this episode we discuss ways we can deal with finding secrets out.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
In this episode we learn how expectations create our greatest source of pain and how expectations can be our greatest vehicle towards peace. You don't want to miss the most freeing piece of advice I've ever learned.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
In this podcast we explore post traumatic growth and the 5 domains of where this growth occurs along with some real life examples. While post traumatic growth isn't essential to have, working on post traumatic growth can make such a positive impact on your life and it's work that I utilize can help foster change in survivors of suicide loss.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
September is suicide prevention month so in this episode we discuss suicide prevention and what it means to survivors of suicide loss. We also discuss ways we can spread awareness and honor our loved ones during this month.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
In this episode we discuss the waves of grief we feel as survivors of suicide loss. We talk about the waves in the beginning of grief and about how the waves change over time. Most importantly we discuss the best ways to ride them when they come.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
The Survived to Thrive podcast welcomes a special guest Lisha Song, LMHC.
Her Bio Reads:
"Lisha Song is a licensed mental health counselor in Washington state and has over 20 years of experience working with trauma and Complex PTSD. She graduated from Washington State University with a Master's degree in Counseling Psychology from the School of Education.
For 20 years, Lisha has been integrating the mental, emotional, physical, and spiritual aspects of self to help her clients experience a more robust healing journey, that not only infuses self-empowerment, but also self-love.
In her new book, Love What Hurts: A Guide for Healing Emotional Wounds and Following Your Intuition, intuitive trauma therapist and teacher Lisha Song, shows you how to gently befriend the wounded parts of self through the wisdom of the body and with the energy of curious compassion. From her own healing experiences, she changed the way she worked with clients to be more holistic and comprehensive, which includes the wisdom of the pain body and the inner intuitive voice we each possess. Lisha outlines the steps to the Clearing Exercise (ch. 7), which helps readers easily approach the origin of painful emotions that keep them from being wholly present in their lives and relationships. After the impact of these blocking beliefs and emotions are neutralized, Lisha shows you how to access, trust, and follow that Divine voice. Lisha takes you on a journey toward an easier, more empowered way to live and relate with others. A journey toward inner freedom and peace."
In this episode we discuss trauma that survivors of suicide loss experience and how to recognize symptoms of PTSD in ourselves. We also learn what the difference between typical grief and PTSD is, what it looks like for suicide loss survivors, and when it is a good idea to seek out professional help.
As promised, the links are below to learn more about Lisha's services and to order her new book "Love What Hurts" .
http://www.SacredHealingPlaceTacoma.com
https://www.facebook.com/sacredhealingplacetacoma
https://www.instagram.com/sacredhealingplace
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
This episode discusses acceptance! A stage in grief that we hope we can get to through our grief process. In this episode we discuss what acceptance really is and how to recognize it. We also discuss the obstacles that prevent us from getting to the stage of acceptance.
To sign up for a free consultation click here.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
Are you tired of hearing the words "New Normal"? I admit I use to cringe when I would hear someone say this phrase. In this episode we discuss this phrase and what we make it mean for ourselves after experiencing a traumatic loss like suicide loss. We also discuss how we can use this phrase AGAINST ourselves and how we can use it FOR ourselves.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
As survivors of suicide loss we probably have had our fair share of crying. But why do we do it? In this podcast episode we explore the reasons we as human beings tend to open the floodgates of tears, the 4 different categories of types of criers that are out there, and why we should give ourselve more room in our lives to have a good cry.
Also as mentioned in this episode, here is the link to sign up for the free class, "8 strategies to help soften pain in grief."
https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/coming-soon-03
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
Have you noticed how much negativity is out there? It's everywhere in the news, social media, in conversation, and in our political climate. There seems to be an excessive amount. In this episode we discuss why our brain tend to lean more negative and what we can do about it.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
I this episode we discuss grief judgement. For suicide loss survivors, this commonly show up in these three areas.
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Judging our own personal grief process.
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Judging grief of other family members who are also grieving your loved one.
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Judging other peoples grief circumstances compared to our own.
We speak to how this looks for survivors, what scenarios are common among survivors, and we discuss how compassion and curiosity can be used to help lessen judgment in grief.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
Do you feel stuck? Have you ever felt stuck? Chances are probably yes. In this episode we discuss what feeling stuck really is, how it shows up in our lives and a few steps you can take to overcome it.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
In this episode I give you a sneak peek into one of my free classes where I teach the three simple steps on "How to Feel Better."
If you have ever been curious about about my work, this gives you insight into what I teach and how I help survivors of suicide loss learn techniques to feel more joy, more peace, more energy, and more excitement about their futures despite losing a loved one due to suicide.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
In today's episode, I had the pleasure to have a thought provoking conversation with an Amazon Best Selling Author Alexandra Wyman.
Her Biography Reads: "Alexandra Wyman is an advocate and public speaker for resources in the aftermath of suicide. After she lost her husband to suicide in August of 2020, Alexandra found a need to change the language around suicide, and decided to write about it. Her memoir, The Suicide Club: What To Do When Someone You Love Chooses Death is an Amazon best seller. She has spoken at a variety of conferences including Bridging the Divide Suicide Prevention and Awareness Summit 2022, 2023 Northwest Conference on Childhood Grief, and has been accepted to present at the 2023 Military Social Work; Behavioral Health Conference and the International Association of Suicide Prevention Conference 2023 in Piran, Slovenia. Alexandra has also been a guest on a variety of podcasts including The Unlock Moment, Author Hour, Resilience Unravelled, She Persisted, and My Wake Up Call with Dr. Mark Goulston. Alexandra has her own podcast called The Widow’s Club, as well. She practices pediatric occupational therapy and lives in Colorado with her son. To learn more about Alexandra and her work, visit her website at www.forwardtojoy."
Connect with Alexanda Wyman:
Official Site: www.forwardtojoy.com
Instagram: @forwardtojoy
Facebook: @alexandrawyman
LinkedIn: Alexandra Wyman
We specifically discuss guilt in the aftermath of loss and how to set and keep boundaries. We also discuss more in depth the 3 phases of grief and what that looks like as a survivor of suicide loss. This candid and honest conversation with Alexandra is one that you will not want to miss!
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
Anger comes up in grief and sometimes linger. In this episode we discuss the 3 areas in our lives where anger shows up and what that looks like for a survivor of suicide loss. We also discuss the 5 steps we need to take in order to release anger if we want to.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
This episode speaks to the new griever! When we deal with sudden loss, the pain can be indescribable. So many newly grieved survivors just want to get the grief over with and I don't blame them. Going through grief is something no one wants to deal with and is something that can feel like it's never going to go away. What I feel is important to say to the new griever, is this experience you are currently experiencing will not last forever. It does get better, no matter how cliche it sounds. In the mean time, this episode gives doable tips you can do right now that will help to soften grief while you are in trenches.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
In this episode we explore how anxiety affects survivors of suicide loss. We discuss how this emotion shows up in our lives, why we have it, and ultimately what we can do for it.
Also be sure to check out my free class by clicking HERE
"How to find peace after loss."
June 14th @ 2pm PST
REPLAY available if you can't attend live
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
In this episode we discuss the 5 stages of grief. We explore the emotions we feel during each stage and why it's unique for each griever.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
I had the privilege to have a wonderful conversation with grief coach, Jacey Keller. She coaches those who have lost a parent. In this conversation we discuss topics specific to those who have lost a parent and the pieces that come to play in that type of grief. Including hurdles that sons and daughters deal with after loss, how to deal with a loss of parent specifically to suicide, and how to move forward.
As promised here are Jacey's social links.
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jacey.keller.coaching/?fbclid=IwAR2Gp4CiidiKo9kDhxQjE6ZWJBch1yhO2vfE-ZuHuj3zK82jIH4vgPFcXGQ
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100071519215475&mibextid=LQQJ4d
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
In this podcast I had the pleasure to have a conversation with Suzanne Anderson MA. She is a survivor of suicide loss, the founder of The Mysterial Woman, a psychologist, author, coach, leadership consultant, and transformational teacher.
Her book reads "When her beloved husband took his life, and with it her life as she knew it, Suzanne Anderson faced a choice: would she be broken down and defeated, or broken open and transformed?"
In this episode we have a candid conversation about her book along with her personal experience with suicide and how it has transformed her life.
As promised here is the link to pre-order her book, which is set for release on June 13, 2023.
https://www.amazon.com/Make-Your-Path-Walking-Transformational-ebook/dp/B0B8CJQ5P3/ref=sr_1_1?crid=27J07FK71VMZR&keywords=you+make+your+path+by+walking+suzanne+anderson&qid=1684270448&sprefix=you+make+your+pat%2Caps%2C133&sr=8-1
To learn more about Suzanne and what she has to offer here is the link to her website and where to find her on social media.
Website: https://mysterialwoman.com
Facebook: @MysterialWoman
Twitter: @MysterialWoman
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mysterialwoman/
Instagram: @MysterialWoman
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
In this episode we discuss mothers who have lost their child due to suicide. Mothers day can be particularly challenging for mothers who have lost. In this podcast we explore tips to help mothers grief and help to soften the pain.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website to sign up for our weekly newsletter, along with other free materials."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
In this podcast we explore what it means to rely on other peoples opinions and why we waste so much time caring about what other people think. Imagine your life and what it would like if you didn't care so much.
As promised here the link to the Free Class!
Passcode: 195004
https://us02web.zoom.us/j/83516430644?pwd=eGt4N1lzcFVJN0J4VjNDaFNhTVdVQT09
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website and sign up for our free mini course delivered straight to your inbox, "How to let go of survivors guilt."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
Do you feel discouraged after failure? So many opportunities are missed due to fear of getting it wrong! In this podcast we discuss what areas of opportunities that are missed as survivors of suicide loss due to fear. We explore why getting it wrong is part of the journey and learn that once we let go of fear and accept that failure is part of the process we can achieve our greatest desires!
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website and sign up for our free mini course delivered straight to your inbox, "How to let go of survivors guilt."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
In this episode we discuss secondary losses and what they are. These losses cause grief that isn't really discussed much in general and it's an important topic that denotes conversation. While there are a number of these types of losses, in this discussion we touch on the 6 most common that show up for Survivors of Suicide Loss.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website and sign up for our free mini course delivered straight to your inbox, "How to let go of survivors guilt."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
In this episode we talk about Deathiversaries. We explore ways that we commemorate our loves ones death date by suicide and how it's different from commemorating a death date from other causes. We also discuss what ways seem to more uplifting and healing and which ways can be more discouraging and which ones should be avoided.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website and sign up for our free mini course delivered straight to your inbox, "How to let go of survivors guilt."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
This episode breaks down the model. The model is the most effective tool that we can use to feel differently, feel better, and create outcomes that we desire. In this podcast we discuss the 5 components of the model and explain how we can become effective masters of the results in our lives!
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website and sign up for our free mini course delivered straight to your inbox, "How to let go of survivors guilt."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
In this episode we discuss conflicting emotions. How our emotions are connected to our thinking, how trauma is subjective, and how it's totally okay to have positive emotions in grief.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website and sign up for our free mini course delivered straight to your inbox, "How to let go of survivors guilt."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
As survivors of suicide loss we go through other tough things in life as well. In this episode we discuss how these tough things can be compounded by loss and surface more intensely. in these 3 areas.
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Relationships
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Finances
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Additional life challenges like divorce, careers, family matters, relocations, and other deaths in families.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website and sign up for our free mini course delivered straight to your inbox, "How to let go of survivors guilt."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
Today we talk about worry! We discuss why we do this, and how it shows up for survivors. Also in this episode we explore what worry is, what it feels like, how it shows up in areas of our lives, and utimately what we can do about it.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website and sign up for our free mini course delivered straight to your inbox, "How to let go of survivors guilt."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
In this podcast we learn what self confidence is and where it comes from and the difference between self confidence and arrogance. We also discuss the three components that make self confidence easily attainable and two simple ways to get more of it.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website and sign up for our free mini course delivered straight to your inbox, "How to let go of survivors guilt."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
Why is it so challenging for survivors to accept help? In this episode we explore why that is. We learn about how our brains create beliefs and thoughts that create resistance and we explore ideas on how to implement easy strategies that will allow us to be more receptive and accepting when help is offered.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website and sign up for our free mini course delivered straight to your inbox, "How to let go of survivors guilt."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
When going through the grief process, you are going to think a lot of thoughts about your relationship under normal circumstances. Add loss due to suicide and it adds an additional layer of complicated grief. What doesn't get discussed often, but affects a large portion of survivors is conflicting grief. This episode discusses conflicting grief and how that shows up in your grief process and how to navigate it.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website and sign up for our free mini course delivered straight to your inbox, "How to let go of survivors guilt."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
Love is an emotion that most people want to have. It's an emotion that feels amazing and incredible and most of us want to experience it as often and as much as possible. This episode discusses love and what unconditional love is and where this emotion comes from.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website and sign up for our free mini course delivered straight to your inbox, "How to let go of survivors guilt."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
Many survivors struggle with looking forward to the future after grief. It's a challenge to see futures without our loved one, but that doesn't mean you will always have to be stuck in life with nothing to look forward. In this episode we discuss five ways to generate emotions of excitement for the future again even though our loved one died.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website and sign up for our free mini course delivered straight to your inbox, "How to let go of survivors guilt."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
In today's episode we dive deep into survivors avoiding negative emotions. We discuss why we do this, how we do this, buffering to avoid them, and what our options are.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website and sign up for our free mini course delivered straight to your inbox, "How to let go of survivors guilt."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
We all have our unique stories of our loss. When we get stuck on our story and fail to move forward it's because we haven't learned how to shift. In this episode we learn how our brains have the capacity to offer us a way to move forward yet we haven't been taught how. This episode explores ways to help facilitate that shift and to decide IF it's what we really want.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website and sign up for our free mini course delivered straight to your inbox, "How to let go of survivors guilt."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
After experiencing suicide loss, many survivors feel like they have lost their friends. This episode discusses the reasons why it feels like friends have disappeared and what can be done about it.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website and sign up for our free mini course delivered straight to your inbox, "How to let go of survivors guilt."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
In this episode we talk about relationships. We discuss the difference between what we think they are and what they really are. Most importantly, we learn why relationships feel different after loss due to suicide and what we can do about it.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website and sign up for our free mini course delivered straight to your inbox, "How to let go of survivors guilt."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
Survivors of suicide loss tend to have a unique challenge in finding desire after suicide loss. In this podcast we learn why this is challenging and what you can do about it!
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website and sign up for our free mini course delivered straight to your inbox, "How to let go of survivors guilt."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
In this episode you learn why you are worthy to have goals after suicide loss, and ultimately how to achieve them.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website and sign up for our free mini course delivered straight to your inbox, "How to let go of survivors guilt."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
Gratitude is an emotion that can be a challenge to offer our brains while grieving but it is certainly possible. In this episode we explore how to feel more gratitude and how it softens grief.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website and sign up for our free mini course delivered straight to your inbox, "How to let go of survivors guilt."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
Do you just feel like things are hard? In this episode we talk about how life is just hard, and how to face the right hard for you.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website and sign up for our free mini course delivered straight to your inbox, "How to let go of survivors guilt."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
Email: amy@survived-to-thrive.com
In this episode we discuss crucial self care tips to use during the holidays. During this time of year we forget about ourselves frequently because we are so focused on tradition and the overwhelm the season brings. In this episode we explore simple ways to make ourselves a priority so we can enjoy our holidays.
As always, thanks for listening!We are a community dedicated to empower survivors of suicide loss along their grief journey. We invite you to check out our website and sign up for our free mini course delivered straight to your inbox, "How to let go of survivors guilt."
Website: https://www.survived-to-thrive.com/
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In this episode, Amy explains how reliving the past doesn't serve you and how it is not useful for survivors, or their loved one that died. She also shares her strategy that she used to help her release her own survivors guilt.
In this episode we learn how practicing the pause is not only important, but necessary.
In this episode we explore how to let go of shame, guilt, and responsibility of your loved ones death.
In this podcast we explore what it really means to have boundaries. We also discuss how boundaries are one of the most loving things you can do not only for yourself, but for others as well.
In this episode I wanted to share with you how the brain processes emotional pain. When we are in the depths of emotional pain, it's a challenge to look at it from the outside in. It's wired within us to either react or resist to pain. In this episode we discuss how we normally process emotional pain, and what we can choose to do instead..