It's better to take the time trying to understand than to get frustrated over the things you don't.
It's more important to be at peace with ourselves, than to have everything "under control".
We're always growing every single day, whether we do something or not, at least aging wise. It's up to you if you want that growth to be toward something that means a little more to you. Although there should never be any pressure to do so, since it's your life, and your choice.
Make yourself proud, because you want the most out of your life, not for anyone/any thing else.
This is a quick little question this week, because I feel this is a topic more you need to ask yourself than something I can give my opinion since there are so many possible fears.
We are all entitled to our own opinions, as long as we don't use those opinions claiming to be factual or to be forced onto another person.
Treat people in a way that makes it clear what you want out of your relationship with them. Don't leave misunderstandings as misunderstandings. Being an important part of your life is something people earn, not an automatic given.
Judge yourself based off of your trying rather than your failures. Failure is just another reason to try again.
"If you can't fly then run. If you can't run then walk. If you can't walk then crawl. But whatever you do you have to keep moving forward." -Martin Luther King Jr.