Healing Conversations: Recent Episodes
Healing Conversations
On this podcast we talk about all things healing, from spiritual and emotional to relational. With a hurting world all around us it is life-giving to talk about healing and what that means for us. We share personal stories of our healing journey and how it has impacted us. There is only one who can bring healing to our lives and that is the one we want to bring to center stage here on the podcast. So, if you are looking for spiritual, emotional or relational healing, stick around and lean in as we dive deep into the Well of healing!
Every "addiction" is not the problem, it is only a solution at play to help us cope with whatever problem is at hand. This is a paradigm shift for all of us because we are taught to look at the bad behavior and address it versus identifying what beliefs we have at play. We are not dumb, In fact, we are very smart (because God created us that way) and every addictive habit we choose to participate is there to help us get out of the problem.
This is what we talk about in Part 1 of a two part series on the TPM Solution Box. Every day we are engaging a solution behavior to get out of the problem. However, God desires to give us his perspective on whatever problem is at hand so that we don't have to find the exit our way. Will you let God speak to you and show your his perspective? If you do it just might change your life and outlook on it!
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Anger is the only negative emotion that we feel towards something or someone. Think about it, you don't feel worried, stressed, nervous, sad etc. towards any one else. They are all felt towards our selves instead. So when it comes to anger, we need to identify who we are angry towards. However, we blame the other person for the anger we are feeling when in reality God is just using them to trigger the anger in us so that he can refine our faith. It looks so different then just trying to stop being angry! Letting go of the anger should be effortless, but more often than not we try to let if go only to be disappointed when its not gone.
SO, can we really let go of anger? Yes we can! This is the topic for this episode and we share some personal experiences in our own liver where we have felt angry but then were released from it through the TPM process. There is still hope for you too! You can live a life that is not triggered by your anger.
Compromising is not the answer to the anger problem when it comes to relationships. We do not fix it by talking about it and then expecting each other to DO something different to keep from getting angry. If our anger is being triggered by my lie based belief and God is using the other person to trigger me then its not up to them to change. It is up to me to identify the lie based belief that is triggered. Other people are seldom the problems to our negative emotions, we are!
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In this episode we continue on our journey through the Transformation Prayer Ministry (TPM) protocol or map. So far we have discussed the Emotion box, Memory box, Belief box, Truth box, and today we talk about the Transformation box. This is the end of any TPM session and it is the box where the question is asked to see if transformation has actually occurred. Now we want to stress that we are not the ones who are telling them truth so that transformation will happen. Only the Holy Spirit is the one who does the transformation. Sometimes there will be transformation and some times there won't, but it doesn't mean nothing happened. The transformation box is simply to see if the mentee has in fact heard truth from the Holy Spirit or not. If not then the deeper lie was not addressed.
God wants to transform our lives by revealing his truths to us so that we will believe them with our hearts. When this transformation happens it is instantaneous and the lasting impact is forever. So often we struggle with the same thing over and over again, but when God has revealed his truth, the transformation is forever. We are not called to fight the same thing over and over again. God won the battle at the cross and we are victorious through Christ's sacrifice. Don't keep fighting the battle. God desires us to live our lives to the fullest through him. Let's do that!
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There are so many voices these days filling our minds with knowledge but how much of it is the truth? What is truth? This has to be the question of the century. Truth is something that has been tossed by the wayside or been covered up by a whole bunch of lies. In the christian community, there is the teaching that we get truth only from the scriptures. This is true to a point. We do not get ALL truth from scriptures. I mean, think about it for a second, none of the New Testament or the Old Testament patriarchs ever had one page of the Bible in their hands. So if they didn't have the Bible in their hands then how did they receive
truth? Well this is where the Holy Spirit does his function and persuades us of the truth. He persuades us to the gospel message, and we believe it in our hearts unto salvation. This is how everyone believed the truth before there was ever a bible. God spoke to his people in visions, audibly, and signs and wonders. He was active in communicating with his people and I dare say, he is still active in communication with his people the same way to this day. He wants to tell us the truth. He wants us to be persuaded by the truth. If He wants to do this then all we have to do is humbly submit ourselves to the work that he is already doing to convince us of the truth. In the truth box, we talk about what it looks like to receive truth and how we can hear truth in the TPM process. We share how we were persuaded of the truth in our own lives. This episode has the potential to change your life. Because, when you are persuaded of the truth, your life is changed forever!
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In the TPM process, the objective is to identify the false belief that is causing us to feel our negative emotions and present it to God for truth. Many times we suppress the lie beliefs because they don't agree with truth. That is why it's called a lie though, is not meant to agree with truth because it is a lie based belief we have accepted. When we are in the belief box we are asking "Not that it is true, but does it feel true" because we want to identify the lie we are believing and replace it with the truth. In this episode we talk thought this box and the roll it plays to help bring us closer to the transformation God want's to do in our lives.
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Episode 21 is all about memory! We all have memories both good and bad, and in each of them there is a belief that is established in our hearts. The memory in which a lie based belief was established is pivotal in any TPM session because it helps to identify the lie based belief. Once that belief is identified, then we can proceed and allow truth to come in and transform our heats and minds. A TPM session would not be productive without the memory, so, therefore, it is vital in the session continuing towards truth. Don't stuff the memories, instead allow them to come up and identify the lie!
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There are so many questions about what TPM looks like and why its needed, but the most important of them all is, what is the TPM process? We discuss what the TPM process is briefly and begin talking about the map. The map has 7 boxes or locations and in a prayer session, the prayer recipient will always be in one of the seven boxes. The first, which we talk about in this episode, is emotions. We all have emotions both good and bad (anger, anxiety, stress, depression, etc), but what we do with those negative emotions can open the opportunity for transformation. What we want everyone to know is when we are experiencing negative emotions, don't stuff or suppress it, allow it to surface and humble walk through the TPM precess so you can be transformed through the Holy Spirit.
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Why does the church need transformation prayer anyway? We are quick to conform our our behaviors to appear we are doing better than we are. The common sayings we here are "fake-it-till-you-make-it", "just try harder next time", or "you need boundaries in your life". But what we are only doing is conforming to the worlds way of managing our emotions. When we manage our emotions all we are doing to suppressing the symptoms that needs to be addressed. What TPM does is submits to Gods way of dealing with emotions and allowing God's healing power to take action!
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In today's episode, Jen and I talk about the process and the guiding map for Transformation Prayer Ministry. This process is what we are adopted for our ministry because of its simplicity and fool-proof guide. This is Just the over view of the MAP (which you can download for free at the link above) and how walking through the map will reveal the heart belief and allow the Holy Spirit to bring transformation. Our heart or core belief is what is keeping us from experiencing the freedom of Christ in our lives.
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In today's episode we dive deeper into the idea of effortless christianity. Our christian walk should not be defined by a bunch of Do's and Don'ts; however by how we are allowing the spirit to flow through us. Bearing the fruits of the spirit is not something that we can achieve, but it is only the work of the Holy Spirit through us!
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Is there really such a thing as effortless christianity? Well... in this episode we talk about that and how it is actually possible to live and effortless christian walk. But where does this come from? To truly live and effortless christian walk we must live in a truth based belief. What we feel is what we believe! Listen in as we dive into this idea of effortless christianity!
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In todays episode we talk about the pain that we encounter and how it is meant to show us where we need work. Pain is a good thing because it exposes the areas where we need work to be done. God uses the pain to transform our lives to his image!
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What does God's words say about unity? Well its chalked full of unity and the value and importance of it. The church as we know it us decided and Satan has used that to keep the effectiveness of the church lower than what it's capable of. Unity is the key to the church being a stronger and more effective witness to the world around us.
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Have you ever felt like nothing good happens or you never reach the dreams that you have? If yes then maybe you have thought that it's just your luck! I know I did and I believed it to be true. Healing that comes from the Holy Spirit is one that will heal that wound you have. He did mine and he'll do yours too! We share some personal stories of how it was for us before we found the healing and then now how it is in freedom. We are still finding more every day that needs healing and I know you will too! But that is part of the work he does. He doesn't want you to stay stuck in one place, but he will show you more and more that needs healed, so you can become the person he wants you to be.
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In this episode we clear the mud of confusion! We realized that maybe what we have been talking about has been hard to understand. Don't worry it's not you. Getting ideas from your mind out into the world is a bit harder than we think some times. So, to help you know better what our ministry does, we take this episode and clarify it as well as we can. Hopefully this episode, finally, makes sense to you! :)
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In this episode we talk about how to walk through the hard times of life. Just because we have found healing doesn't mean that our life is going to be all cakes and roses. The enemy (Satan) will come at you from different angles, and we have to be aware of it and cut him off early! If we are not careful, we can allow him to slip back in and take us back to a place of bondage. So we have to be attentive and interrogate our thoughts, feelings, and emotions to identify the root cause and cast it out early on. Please connect with us and let us know how this episode or any other episode has impacted you in any way!
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In today's episode we talk about the importance of community. We don't mean just a community of people that you hang out with and talk about everyday stuff, but like minded people where you talk about God and sharpen each other. There is power in digging deep into our spiritual muscles and putting them to use! Find a community of like minded people who encourages and inspires you to live deeper in your walk with God!
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In this episode we get raw about pain. When there is conflict between who you are being and who God created you to be there is pain. Pain points to the conflict so it can be reconciled to the Truth. When we are not operating out of healing we view pain as something that was done to us. This in turn causes us to view another person as the problem and then begins the friendly fire. Mind renewal healing views pain as the symptom that points to the conflict.
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In this episode, we answer a question that was asked from one of you. The question was "what happens in the waiting while one of you wants to change but the other doesn't see or think needs to change. We share our personal story during the waiting time. The bottom line is this, don't wait for the other to change first, being the healing journey yourself so you can then help them.
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Last week we talked about sexual intimacy in marriage, and this week we are continuing the conversation only with an unusual twist to it. Sex is so much more than a physical transaction in marriage! We talk about how it is a spiritual transaction between a husband, wife and God. If God is the creator of sex then it only begs to be viewed as a spiritual transaction.
This view of sex is completely counter cultural, but this will revolutionize your sex life!
I mentioned too about The Porn Show in this episode! If you are a struggling with Porn or any kind of sexual sin this podcast is for you. It is hosted by me (Jamie) along with other guests! This new podcast with be premiering on November 10th.
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This episode may not be one to have playing around your kiddos. We address the elephant in the room, SEXUAL intimacy. Im sure we aren't the only ones who have struggled with this in our marriage and there is a big elephant that is in the way of us experiencing sex the way God intended. We get deep into it and share what we each have struggled with and learned throughout the journey. There is more than just doing sex! It is a spiritual exchange between a husband, wife and God. Ultimately God created sex to be a fruit from the love we are experiencing with him which then over flows into our spouses.
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In today's episode, we take a look at how betrayal, abandonment and rejection all play a lethal part in our healing journey. Yes! I just said lethal because if these are not dealt with they will not allow us to find healing, and we stay dead in our sin. We must face these areas where we have been wronged with intentionality in order to move forward. Don't keep suppressing them but start healing the wound by getting all of the infection out.
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In this episode we share about where we are headed next in our journey of life. There is a lot of healing that has to happen in order for the church to be more effective to push back the gates of hell! Furthermore, unity is essential to the vitality of the church, the family, and relationships, which we have struggled to attain. You either sacrifice unity with others or you sacrifice for unity. There is a lot of work to be done, and we would love to hear about the healing work that God has done in your life. Or if you want help finding healing or need to talk, please send us a message here!
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In this episode we talk about our struggles with our false identities and how we found the deceptions that held us captive. Your creator has created you for a purpose and your identity has a lot to do with that. We would love to hear from you and help you find your true identity. Engage with us here!
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In this episode we talk how God sometimes takes us out of the church to bring us back to a quiet and intimate relationship with him before he sends us back into his church. We never endorse the belief that God doesn't want you to be in a church community. However, he does take us out to bring us back to him. Church can be a toxic place and detoxing is what is needed sometimes. Its okay to be in this place, but the truth is that God doesn't want you to stay there. He needs to do his healing work in you before he brings you back in. You will be stronger and deeper in your walk with him because of it.
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In this episode we talk about our background journey and the start of our road to healing.