Out of Control Podcast: Recent Episodes
Matthew Elmer and Molly Elmer
Matthew and Molly discuss how life can feel out of control with parenting, spirituality, business, home school and more. But what if control isn't the solution. Join in on discussions of relationships, family, and navigating a world that can feel out of control by living OUT of the CONTROL.
Over the next few episodes Matt and Molly share their thoughts looking back on how they could have lived a little more out of the control during each stage.
Stage 2 of OoC Parenting is how to handle Toddlers
As we think about the Terrible Two's or the Threatening Three's, the toddler stage is an incredible challenge. In this episode we discuss how to handle a toddler tantrum, the power of choice and love and logic, as well as one tip at the end that can install beliefs that will serve your kids the rest of your life.
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Over the next few episodes Matt and Molly share their thoughts looking back on how they could have lived a little more out of the control during each stage.
In this episode they start at the baby stage, or as Matt says "Bebe" with some wise advice given by someone in Matt's early Dad years. And a story of how having kids was almost taken away from Matt. Along with some hard to admit challenges Molly had with the Baby stage.
As well they discuss the challenges of keeping love alive during the baby stage.
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What is it like to live with OCPD officially called Obsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder. What is it like to be the spouse of someone with OCPD. How can you handle the challenges of OCPD? Is there help if you are dealing with OCPD. All of these and stories from our very real experiences of this mental health challenge. Along with some laughs and how we make it work.
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30 hours to burn and all there was to do was listen to podcasts, so we dug in and WOW! Learning about OCPD Obsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder was a real eye opener.
Join in on the journey we took and were it is leading.
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What is the key to building a relationship with your family members. What if we so often do it all wrong. In today's podcast Matt and Molly discuss the role of curiosity in building better relationships.
With specific examples that made all the difference in their recent experience, come join in the conversation of living Out of the Control!
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Teaching your kids how to be connected with themselves, others and God is what we consider a spiritual practice, but how do you do that. Matthew and Molly share how they have kept spirituality a part of their life after a faith transition.
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Meditation, What's the big deal with it, should you try it? Can it help with all this out of controlness.
Let's talk about the benefits of Meditation, how to get started meditating, the keys to meditating and a few other different ways to add meditation into your life.
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So our 16 year old just turned 17 and now he wants a motorcycle. What would you do? What did we do. The story and the lessons from living with risk a raising your son.
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We are getting KICKED OUT of our home... Talk about OUT of control.
How do we deal with curveballs that are not in our control, and the people that cause them. Is there a healthy way to handle the Karen's that show up in our lives?
Matt and Molly first share the story, but the good stuff is at the end.
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Summertime is here and swimsuits are back. But is there a right swimsuit to wear? Is it ok to wear Bikinis? What is showing a little too much?
With some family vacations coming up, Molly and Matt discuss if bikinis are on board for beach vacations with a conservative modesty conscious family.
Have you wrestled with modesty, owning your body and respecting others perspectives. Join this conversation.
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Why do we self-sabotage? Why do we seem to take even the moments when everything is going right and then find the next moment it isn't? Why do our relationships seem amazing one minute and the next feel they are falling apart? Could the answer be that we all have our own saboteurs?
In this episode Molly and Matt explore Shirzad Chamine's book Positive Intelligence and how knowing your own saboteurs can unlock some real awareness to strengthen relationships, and build more consistent successes.
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So your kids are Graduating, now what?
We bring our first guest on in this episode to share about Parenting kids after graduation.
Amy Earle is an amazing mother of 3 boys and an amazing daughter with Autism.
She has been an amazing leader in her career, but feels most excited about sharing concepts of freedom and the power of parenting well.
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Enjoy a powerful conversation about parenting adult children from someone who we look to and learn from!
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The fears we don't face are often those that most control us. Today's podcast was a tangent from what was supposed to be about parenting, but ended up being a chance for Matthew and Molly to discuss something that has haunted their relationship for a while.
Molly get courageous and digs in deep to try and discover why the fear of being seen still controls her.
Listen in and possibly relate to the journey of discovery. And possibly learn how to communicate as you go on your own journey of self discovery.
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PART 2 of this conversation on partnering in parenting we share the keys to doing partnering better
Listen in on 3 keys we feel like we're doing better at now, and really make a difference plus a bonus Molly slips in there if you listen close. We hope you find some value.
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PART 1 of this conversation on partnering in parenting we decide to crack open the ways we didn't do so well in partnering in our parenting as early parents.
Maybe you can relate in how you feel like you are doing parenting all wrong. Or maybe you just feel like you are struggling in parenting with your partner.
The good news is no matter how hard parenting is, you're not alone in your struggles.
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As a sort of Part 2 of the Trusting your Kids podcast 3, Matthew and Molly jump into more ideas as to why the little choices matter.
What does a 17 year olds multi-colored hair, a steak, and a rollercoaster have in common, they all involve trust, learn all about it in this episode.
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Ownership in a relationship is powerful, possibly one of the most important attribute in a partner.
But what is Over-Functioning and could that be inhibiting your greatest experience of relationships.
Matthew and Molly discuss how a lack of ownership at times has plagued their relationship, and how the use of overfunctioning didn't help either.
So, what do you do if you struggle taking ownership or with over-functioning.
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Why does my partner try to control me? Why do I sometimes try to control my partner?
What are some of the covert ways control shows up in a relationship?
What are some tips to control less and trust more in a relationship.
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Why should you travel before entering into a long term relationship.
What do Butter, Sugar, and an RV have to do with each other.
And why is it trying to influence our spouse doesn't work.
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Why do we sometimes choose complacency over contentment.
Join Matthew and Molly as Molly shares some amazing insights from Katrina Kenison's Magical Journey.
Why do we struggle to be content?
Why do we feel horrible when we are stuck?
Is there another option... Listen in.
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For the Love of Harry Potter...
Molly's love of Harry Potter led to this podcast. Whether you're a Potterite or not, the conversation goes deep as together we discuss some of JK Rowling's Characters' genius. Is there some real wisdom for life here? Or is this just a couple muggles making magic out of nothing? Listen and decide.
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Of all the things you teach your kids, what is it that is most powerful in ensuring their success beyond the nest.
Matthew and Molly share their thoughts on preparing your kids to leave the house and the principle very few people really focus on in teaching their children.
What are your thoughts what is the most important thing you think you should teach your kids?
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Should we be surrendering into life, accepting it, or is life about being creative participants?
Matthew and Molly share how surrendering and creation impact their lives and how their perspectives have changed.
What are your thoughts is life better when we just accept what is?
Are we supposed to be focused on creating manifesting our future?
We'll continue this conversation in the future as well.
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What does a sewer, cancer, and an RV all have to do with an out of control life.
This first episode of the Out of Control Podcast shares why we named the podcast Out of Control. Some major curveballs life has thrown at each of us and the answer to Why does life feel so out of control?
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