Be Made Whole: Recent Episodes
Delfina Correia
When I was growing up, I don't ever remember my parents telling me that they loved me. But yet, I knew that I was loved. There was never a doubt in my mind that theyloved me.
Now, how is that? How is it possible that someone can know that they're loved without the other person ever saying those words to them? Listen on ...
You want freedom. I want freedom. We all want freedom. But how do you get there? Listen further ...
Cream always rises to the top. Sediment always sinks to the bottom. Which one will you be?
If you can produce real-life growth strategies for yourself, you can change the trajectory of your life. In her book, Redefining Success, Dr LaQuita Monley gives us 8 tools that will help you to develop a growth mindset, discover your identity, understand your purpose, and walk in your destiny.
If you are the wife of a military officer, a policeman, or anyone in the security industry, Dr LaQuita Monley will help you to navigate this challenging position. You can choose resilience over bitterness, faith over fear, and become the victorious and fearless wife you were created to be. It’s in you! You can do this!
We need to climb the ladder of good values if we want to change our lives and the world around us. Join me with Melissa Artlip from the Maxwell Leadership Foundation, as she introduces us to the Change Your World program. Discover the value of values, not only in our personal lives, but also in the workplace and in government.
In order for us to see communities transformed, we need to start with transforming people. In this interview with Jill Carolissen, we find out what The Father’s Heart Community Development is doing to give people in need “a hand-up, not a handout,” working with families, one home at a time. We also learn about The Father’s Heart Currency Program and how it is teaching community members that privileges are earned and not simply received. Find out here why this program is so successful and how it is changing the way people in need see themselves.
It's that hot topic again - home schooling! I’m sure you’ve heard it said before: “Home schooled children aren’t socialised.” Today, I’m going to give you an accurate perspective of that from someone who’s been on both sides (home school and regular school) – me. And I’m sure you’ve also heard people ask the question: “Should I home school my kids?” There’s a right reason and there’s a wrong reason. We’ll unpack that so you can make sure you’re doing it for the right reason.
How can parents train and prepare their teenagers for meaningful relationships in a world where there are so many emotional and social pressures? In this interview with Danny Carmichael-Green, he gives us insight into true courtship and its purpose. He also gives parents some ideas on how they can make committed marriage something for their kids to aspire to.
Dating is a very broad word today, and the way our teenagers are doing it is setting them up for problems, rejection, and many more serious dangers which they are not yet emotionally ready for. In this interview, Danny Carmichael-Green tells us about these challenges. He also talks about the alternative, courting, and the difference between courting and dating.
Orlando Luis is the CEO of Brights Hardware. In this interview, he shares timeless, values-based leadership principles that every good leader should live by. He also talks about the good decision he’s so glad he made, as well as the bad decision he wishes he had never made. His experience is a great learning tool for all leaders.
In this second interview with Estelle Sam, she explains the importance of forgiveness in marriage and how it affects intimacy. And did you know that there’s a difference between intimacy and romance? Estelle shows us that difference and gives us some ideas on how we can bring romance back into our marriages.
In her book, Meditations of an Excellent Wife, Estelle Sam equips wives to fight for their marriages. In this insightful interview, she explains true submission in marriage (it’s not what you think!), the importance of communication, and how leadership should look in a healthy home.
You might be angry at the way things are, but do you have the courage and determination to do something to change that? You've got to give up to go up! Will you give up some destructive habits for some good habits that will strengthen you? Will you lay down some weak values that are useless to take up some strong values that will serve you? Transformation is a process, and it begins with you. (Apologies for the sound issue from approx. 3:30min - 5:30min)
Do you have a dream? If you do, will you experience it in your lifetime? There are many reasons why people don't dream, but with the right tools, you can create your dream or begin to revive that dream that you laid down.
Here’s that controversial subject again – tithing! It’s controversial, but we really need to talk about it to understand it and how it pertains to our protection, so we can apply its principle and enjoy the benefits that come with it. Our protection is an important matter, right? Come with me as we scan the Old Testament and the New Testament so we can get the truth on this important matter.
Did you know that there’s a connection between our love walk and our protection? Did you know there’s a connection between taking communion and our protection? Did you know there’s a connection between praising God and our protection? Come with me as we unpack what the Word of God has to say about these connections.
Did you know that you have authority over Satan in every attempt he makes to harm you and your family? God has freely given you a class of weaponry that’s far more potent than the measly weaponry the enemy uses against you. I’ll show you the most powerful weapon you have and how you can use it effectively against him.
Many people see repentance as an obligation, and fear (or worry) as the responsible thing to do. If that’s you, then I’m here to tell you that you’ve got it the wrong way round. Repentance is a powerful tool in our favour, and fear is a destructive weapon formed for our destruction. I’ll show you how you can use repentance as this powerful tool that it really is, and how you can resist fear so it won’t bring destruction in your life.
Did you know that there’s a link between teaching & correcting your children and their (& your) protection? In this message, I’ll show you how it’s all connected, and you will be able to recognise the importance and impact of teaching and correcting your children for their (and your) wellbeing.
We all hear many voices from a few sources – ours, others’, God’s, and Satan’s. The challenge we have is not to hear those voices, but to identify where they are coming from. And God has given us His Spirit as His voice to guide us so that we can be protected, even when we find ourselves in dangerous places or dangerous times. Here’s how you can identify the voice of Holy Spirit when He guides you and shows you the way to go so you can be protected every day.
God has given us His angels and His Word to use to activate His protection over us and our families. When we align our words with His, the angels will go to work on our behalf and bring that protection to pass in our lives. In this message, I’ll show you the mechanics of how it all works together.
Did you know that God’s protection is not automatic? It would be if we didn’t have an enemy trying to take it away from us every day. In this series, I’ll give you the tools you need to activate God’s protection, ward off your enemy, Satan, and keep him away from your family so you can enjoy God’s protection every day.
In just 31 days you can change the trajectory of your life. Make a conscious effort to concentrate on one life principle per day, adjust your habit, and take your life to the next level.
In just 31 days you can change the trajectory of your life. Make a conscious effort to concentrate on one life principle per day, adjust your habit, and take your life to the next level.
In just 31 days you can change the trajectory of your life. Make a conscious effort to concentrate on one life principle per day, adjust your habit, and take your life to the next level.
Continuing with emotional, mental, and spiritual health, here’s how you can confront your fears and win. (Continued from Part 3)
Getting healthy is not only about your physical body, but also about emotional, mental, and spiritual health. Let’s talk about how you can take on some “inner” giants and defeat them. (Continued in Part 4)
Getting healthy in the kitchen, on your body, and in the home doesn’t have to be complicated. Just treat it like eating an elephant – one bite at a time! Simply tackle one challenge at a time, and soon you will begin to see the benefits of every change you make.
Your health is about much more than just your body. And getting healthy is not a flash. It's a journey. Join me on this journey as you get healthy - one step at a time.
Your capacity to grow will determine your capacity to lead. Without personal growth, your and my leadership will never expand and progress. That’s just the way it works. Personal growth is so vital in your leadership journey, and I want to encourage you with some of the benefits you can enjoy in life and in leadership if you stay in the growth game.
Ever wondered how you can get to the top? Leadership is an uphill climb. Now, that might sound a bit heavy, but it doesn’t have to be. With self-discipline, intentionality, and consistency you can push through the discomfort of change and successfully make the uphill climb to the top.
The indispensable quality of leadership is vision. Without vision, we aren’t leading our people anywhere. We must take ownership of our vision because our vision is the thing that pulls us in a forward direction. And in order for us as leaders to grow and increase our vision, we need to see more and before others do. How do you do that? I’ll show you how here.
If you help people get what they want, they will help you get what you want. And amongst leaders there needs to be a change of heart because the heart of true leadership is serving people. Servant leaders always rise to the top. They have very specific attitudes towards their role as a leader and towards their people. If you want to rise to the top in your leadership journey, find out what those attitudes are here.
As a leader, how can you put whatever-it-takes into action? Here is John Maxwell’s tried and tested cycle that will give you the whatever-it-takes edge.
If you want to be ahead of the game in your leadership journey, you need that extra edge – attitude! A leader’s attitude, which says, “Whatever it takes …” But what is “whatever”? Here are a few “whatever” leadership attitudes that will give you that edge and will cause you to stand out as an effective leader.
In continuing from Part 6, where I spoke about the tough part in dealing with leadership problems, we now move to the good part, which is this: problems introduce us to opportunities. Here I’ll show you how to view your problems as opportunities and thereby capitalize on them. Change them from stumbling blocks to steppingstones.
The quickest way to gain leadership is by solving problems. And the tough part about dealing with these problems is that they bring along with them some reality checks – like discovering what we are really made of and discovering what other people are really made of. In this part I’ll show you how to deal with whatever you discover about yourself and others while navigating successfully towards solutions.
What is the ultimate test of leadership? Creating positive change. Are we up for the challenge? Join me as I lead you through John Maxwell’s tried and tested process of successfully leading your team through positive change.
Character is the foundation of leadership. So, what kind of character makes a good leader? In this podcast I’ll show you how you can develop yourself to be an influential and significant leader.
Creating margin in your life is crucial to prioritising, especially if you are a leader. Margin gives you creativity and dream time. But what exactly is margin? Join me as I define margin and show you how you can create it in your life so you will be more successful in your personal life and more effective as a leader.
There are 5 levels of leadership. Where are you on the scale? Priorities are a big key to your leadership journey. Discover the pressures that come when we try to prioritise, and the principles and systems we can apply to our lives to help us to be more effective in our prioritising.
Becoming the leader you have the potential to be will change everything for you. And anyone can become a good leader. Leaders are not born. They’re made. Join me on this journey as we unpack 10 critical components of authentic, personal leadership that will help you to become the leader you desire to be.
John Maxwell said, “If you’re not doing something with your life, it doesn’t matter how long it is.” When it comes to personal growth, it starts with you & I. And while that’s a great starting place, it’s a terrible ending place. If we only see ourselves in the picture, that’s a very small picture, and we limit how far we can go. But when we include others, we see a much bigger picture, and we begin to get free from our limitations. Here’s how you can make your life count by seeing the big picture.
Nike says: “There is no finish line.” Instead of wondering “when will I get there” wouldn’t you rather like to wonder “how far can I go?” That just takes the limits off, doesn’t it? It makes us feel like our capacity is unlimited! And it is, provided that you and I change the way we think and do things. Join me as we take the limits off and see how far we can go …..
There’s nothing new under the sun — but there are lots of old things we don’t know. And curiosity is a state in which you want to learn more about something. A curious person has a thirst for knowledge. They have a zest for life. They’re interested in people, ideas, and experiences. If you’ve lost your interest and zest for life, here’s how you can get it back by cultivating curiosity.
You have to give up to go up! That’s a fact! And in the beginning, you might feel a sense of loss. But don’t be discouraged! It will be worth the sacrifice. Here’s how you can make good trade-offs that will serve you and that you won’t regret.
Every pain introduces a person to himself. We hate the pain of a bad experience - but it can help us so much! If we treat bad experiences correctly, they can bring our greatest growth times. Here’s how you can turn pain into gain and become bigger on the inside than you are on the outside.
If you don’t design your own life plan, chances are you’ll fall into someone else’s plan. And guess what they have planned for you? Not much. So, to maximise your growth, you need to develop your own strategies. You’ve got to have a ‘system’. Here are some tried and tested systems that will work for you.
If you’re not in a good environment, you’ve got to change that environment, because there’s environment that’s conducive to growth and there’s environment that’s not conducive to growth. Good environments have certain characteristics. And they begin at a certain place. Find out what those characteristics are and where they begin in this message on the law of environment.
Do you have why-power? Will-power will get you moving, but you need why-power to stay on course and keep growing. You want to get out of your comfort zone because there are advantages to getting stretched. Find out what those advantages are so you can strengthen your ‘why’.
Evaluated experience is a better teacher than experience alone. It’s not what you did that grows you. It’s what you learned from what you did that’s going to help you grow and develop yourself as a person. And having good role models to guide you will help you to accurately change what needs to change. Here are some questions you could ask yourself that promote reflection and some guidelines to choosing good role models.
Before you can add value to others, you must add value to yourself. But you will only add value to yourself if you see yourself as valuable. Let’s look at ways you can improve your self-worth by lifting your self-image lid.
Before you can grow yourself, you have to know yourself. And to know yourself, you need to identify your passion and your purpose. Here are some strategic questions you can ask yourself to help you identify your passion and set you on the road to fulfilling your purpose.
Growth is not an automatic process. If you’re going to grow, you have to grow on purpose. It’s the gap between knowing and doing. The less intentional we are, the bigger the gap between them. Come with me as I show you how you can close that gap so you can begin to see the benefits of growing.
When people help others, they tend to judge their effectiveness based on how their efforts make them feel. But feeling good isn’t enough to change the world. So, how do you know you’re making a difference? If you want to know, you need to measure your results. You measure positive change. And how do you do that? Here are the 4 Ds to create and measure positive change.
The key word in this message is ‘together’, because more of us will always be better than one of us. But how do you know who the people are who you must work ‘together’ with? Here are a few points to help you choose the right people to work with so you can make a significant difference in your world.
What is your motivation when you get up in the morning? If your desire is to live a life of significance, realise that it doesn’t come from social position, a title, possessions, or a big bank balance. It comes from approaching each day as an opportunity to make a difference. And how do you do that? Here are 5 things you can do to be the change that you want to see in your world and live a life of significance.
John Maxwell said, “There are two great days in your life: The day you were born and the day you find out why.” Before you can fulfill your purpose, you must find it. So many people find that task to be challenging. But John Maxwell offers a simple formula that anyone can use to find their purpose. It’s really simple and easy. Here it is …
We all tell a story with our lives, yet few of us write that story intentionally. Instead, many of us just live each day and let the story write itself. What do you want your life story to say? Here are some ideas that will help you to make your life a great story.
What will it take for you to be successful? Opportunities? Education? Money? Relationships with influential people? Recognition? Talent? Most people want to be successful. Most people also want to make a difference. They want their lives to count. And they have good intentions about these things. But good intentions aren’t enough to achieve success or experience significance. It requires a certain ingredient. Do you know what that is?
Ever felt like you’re spreading yourself thin? Like you wish you could do more, but just can’t seem to get there? I’m glad you’re here. There is a way you can multiply your impact. It’s not difficult, but it does take a good strategy. Get this strategy here.
Are you living with a heavy heart? Maybe the heaviness you’re feeling is unforgiveness. Lewis B. Smedes said, “To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner was you.” It is possible to live with a light heart. And when your heart is light, you can make a bigger difference in your world. It’s time to shake off that load! It’s time to get free! Here are some tools to help you.
Reputation is who people think we are. Integrity is who we really are. Socrates once said, “The first key to greatness is to be in reality what we appear to be.” If we really want to impact our world, we must let our outer image (reputation) be a reflection of our inner image (integrity). Here’s how.
Every human being deserves to be treated with kindness and respect. And the highest standard for interaction with others is the Golden Rule. This is how we make the world a better place. Do you know the Golden Rule? Find it here. Do you know how people want to be treated? Find it here. Do you know how you can practise the Golden Rule? Find it here.
Would you like to be a better listener? I think most of us would. How well we listen can greatly influence our relationships, our success, and the impact we make in our world. Let’s all be better listeners. Here’s how.
Hope has two beautiful daughters. Their names are Anger and Courage. Anger at the way things are, and Courage to see that they do not remain as they are. Without hope we can never see a better tomorrow. Would you like to cultivate hope in your life? Let me show you how.
Did you know that anyone, anywhere can make a difference? It’s a journey, and it begins with transformation within each one of us. As we continue on our transformation journey, we move from good intentions to good actions, and we see how the inner transformation begins to transform our external surroundings. Join me on this exciting journey as we unpack the essential elements that produce world transformation.
Find out how you can successfully help your people through a crisis by leading with good values.
When there’s a crisis going on, a follower only needs to consider himself, but a leader must consider his whole team. As a leader, what should your perspective be? Your perspective matters. It’s the difference between you and your team overcoming the crisis or being buried by the crisis.
In a crisis there are 2 kinds of people. They don’t handle the crisis the same way. The one gets buried by the crisis and the other one turns it around and overcomes. Which one are you? The victim or the victor?
In part 2 of this podcast series, we continue with comments about crises to help you get a right perspective of a crisis so you can navigate through it and come out better on the other side.
How do you define a crisis? A crisis doesn’t have to scare you if you fully understand its definition. Here are some comments about crises to help you get a good perspective so you won’t be overcome by the fear of it.
All of us have had to deal with difficult conversations at some or other time in our lives. Wouldn’t you like to know how to handle challenging situations in such a way that everybody wins, and problems get solved? You can dramatically increase the odds of that happening. Come with me as we follow the process of successfully conducting a difficult conversation.
To be an effective connector over the long haul, you have to establish credibility by living what you communicate. There are many benefits to having integrity and credibility, but first you have to pass the Trust Test.
Wouldn’t you like to be known as the person who always brings light into the room? You can be an inspiration to others when you find out what people need to know, what they need to see, and what they need to feel.
Sad, but true: Most people are boring. But one of the things that connectors do very well, is they know how to take an experience and make it larger than life. They know how to communicate in such a way that helps people to understand and makes them want to continue listening. Anyone can be interesting. In this 2-part segment I’ll show you some ways you can keep it simple so people will not only understand but will also want to listen to you.
You need to get on the ground that you can build something on. Here are some barriers that stop us from finding that common ground, as well as some choices that will help us to find common ground.
When you connect, people listen. And connecting is a skill that anyone can learn. Here are some ways you too can become a good connector.
When you interact with people, is it from a giving mode or from a taking mode? Discover what’s necessary to increase your energy and desire to connect from a giving mode.
Communication is so much more than words. Here are some ways you can expand your communication so you can connect better with others (aired on Radio Cape Pulpit).
Did you know that where your focus is, will greatly affect your ability to connect with others? Discover how you can tell if a person is inward or outward focused (aired on Radio Cape Pulpit).
Are you a talker, a communicator, or a connector? Let’s talk about the impact of connecting on influence and leadership (aired on Radio Cape Pulpit).
Throughout your dream journey you will have breakthroughs that will mould you and move you. John C. Maxwell is living his dream today. Follow me as we recount his dream journey and see what these breakthroughs look like (aired on Radio Cape Pulpit).
There are 3 stages of significance. Will you take your dream to the highest level, where you benefit the lives of others? Come with me to next-level dreaming as we explore these 3 stages (aired on Radio Cape Pulpit).
Does working toward your dream bring satisfaction? The gap between the birth of your dream and the achievement of it will either be a frustration gap or a fulfillment gap. With the right mindset, your can make it a fulfilment gap, rather than a frustration gap. Find out how in this message (aired on Radio Cape Pulpit).
Are you holding on to your dream, even when it gets tough? Let’s explore the difference between the “can’t” people and the “can” people as I give you some principles you’ll need to live by if you want to move closer to your dream. This message was aired on Radio Cape Pulpit.
Are you willing to pay the price for your dream? Here is a heads-up of some payments everybody must pay to pursue their dream. This message was aired on Radio Cape Pulpit.
Have you included the people you need to realise your dream? It’s not enough to have a dream. You must also have a dream team! Here are some important points to consider when choosing people to work alongside you as you pursue your dream. This message was aired on Radio Cape Pulpit.
Do you have a strategy to reach your dream? If you fail to plan, you plan to fail. Here are some ways you can develop a strategy that will help you stay on the path to your dream. This message was aired on Radio Cape Pulpit.
Does your dream compel you to follow it? Between your dream’s inspiration and its manifestation, there’s going to be a whole lot of perspiration! Let’s talk about the power of passion to get you through that perspiration to the masterpiece on the other side. This message was aired on Radio Cape Pulpit.
Are you depending on factors within your control to achieve your dream? Let's separate the fantasizers from the dream builders and find out how we can move from our current reality and reach for our seemingly impossible dream, in the reality question, as we put your dream to the test. This message was aired on Radio Cape Pulpit.
Do you clearly see your dream? Here's how you can move from a general, vague dream to a very specific, clear dream in this, the clarity question, as we put your dream to the test. This message was aired on Radio Cape Pulpit.
Is your dream really your dream? Let's find out in this, the ownership question, as we put your dream to the test. This message was aired on Radio Cape Pulpit.
Most people I know have a dream. Most people have no idea how to achieve their dreams. Join me in this 12 part series as we put your dream to the test and help you to increase the odds of achieving your dream. This message was aired on Radio Cape Pulpit.
The key question in this part is: Am I prepared to take action?
Other podcasts in this series:
Introduction.
Part 1 deals with your mindset. The key question in this part is: What's stopping me?
Part 2 deals with your vision. The key question in this part is: Where am I going?
Part 3 deals with your growth. The key question in this part is: What's feeding me?
Part 4 deals with preparation. The key question in this part is: What's coming out of me?
The key question in this part is: What's coming out of me? It deals with preparation.
Other podcasts in this series:
Introduction.
Part 1 deals with your mindset. The key question in this part is: What's stopping me?
Part 2 deals with your vision. The key question in this part is: Where am I going?
Part 3 deals with your growth. The key question in this part is: What's feeding me?
Part 5 deals with action. The key question in this part is: Am I prepared to take action?
The key question in this part is: What's feeding me? It deals with your growth.
Other podcasts in this series:
Introduction
Part 1 deals with your mindset. The key question in this part is: What's stopping me?
Part 2 deals with your vision. The key question in this part is: Where am I going?
Part 4 deals with preparation. The key question in this part is: What's coming out of me?
Part 5 deals with action. The key question in this part is: Am I prepared to take action?
The key question in this part is: Where am I going? It deals with your vision.
Other podcasts in this series:
Introduction.
Part 1 deals with your mindset. The key question in this part is: What's stopping me?
Part 3 deals with your growth. The key question in this part is: What's feeding me?
Part 4 deals with preparation. The key question in this part is: What's coming out of me?
Part 5 deals with action. The key question in this part is: Am I prepared to take action?
The key question in this part is: What's stopping me? It deals with your mindset.
Other podcasts in this series:
Introduction.
Part 2 deals with your vision. The key question in this part is: Where am I going?
Part 3 deals with your growth. The key question in this part is: What's feeding me?
Part 4 deals with preparation. The key question in this part is: What's coming out of me?
Part 5 deals with action. The key question in this part is: Am I prepared to take action?
The introduction to my 5 part personal development course.
Part 1 deals with your mindset. The key question in this part is: What's stopping me?
Part 2 deals with your vision. The key question in this part is: Where am I going?
Part 3 deals with your growth. The key question in this part is: What's feeding me?
Part 4 deals with preparation. The key question in this part is: What's coming out of me?
Part 5 deals with action. The key question in this part is: Am I prepared to take action?
On 16 June 2021 at 4:45pm Central Africa Time/South Africa Time Johann Els at Radio Pulpit interviewed me live about my testimony. Here I shared some insights about my journey out of the bondage of fear, insomnia, and MS. My aim is that my testimony will give hope, encouragement, and tools to all who are facing a giant today.
What is a good balance between working and resting? Here is a good guideline to help you.
Passive virtues and active virtues are exact opposites. Find out the difference and how each of them affect your life.
Assumptions can be funny, but they can also be very destructive. Here's a way to make them work for you instead of against you.
Ever wondered why some things we do succeed and some don't? In this podcast I hope to give you clarity as to the possible reasons some things fail, and some help for better success next time.
What is the power of the apology? Or does it have any power at all? In this podcast I'll give you another perspective on apologising.
When you do good to others, the way you view them will influence your impact in their lives. In this podcast I show 3 ways we view people when we help them..
Ever been 'stuck' and not known what to do? Get mentally unstuck first, and the rest will follow.
How can I know if I'm being discerning or if I'm being critical? Here are some tools to help you check yourself.
How we listen determines how well we hear. In this podcast I show the difference between 3 ways people listen and which way is more efficient.