Marital Arts Podcast: Recent Episodes
Jon & Tara Baklund
We were married in 2000. On our podcast we discuss our life journey: being in business together, making plans, having experiences, achieving accomplishments and dealing with setbacks. How we keep moving forward and continue to grow with each other physically mentally and spiritually.
This podcast, "#104 JTP - Conversations with a Coffee-Drinking, Fantasy-Loving, Martial Arts Master," delves into a variety of topics, often tied together with humor and light-heartedness. The discussion kicks off with a talk about coffee preferences and video recording quirks, quickly transitioning into casual chatter about how the hosts perceive and interact with their surroundings.
An interesting part of the dialogue involves exploring various societal archetypes and fantasies, with references to the allure of characters like the French maid, nurse, and librarian. The hosts speculate on the motivations behind these fantasies, offering their own perspectives, though they clarify they don't have professional expertise in this area. The conversation continues, touching upon the realm of martial arts, with the hosts reflecting on their decades of experience.
They discuss the role and perception of women in martial arts and wider society, highlighting the importance of individual characteristics and drive. Later on, they recount personal stories, like a humorous tale of a snow blower mishap and discussing past relationships, which adds a sense of relatability to their banter. They end by reflecting on the archetypes they discussed earlier in the podcast, bringing the conversation full circle.
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Jon and Tara, discuss the common complaints about spouses that their hairdresser shared with them. They focus on communication and patience as the essential factors to address these issues. The conversation includes personal anecdotes, humor, and some gender stereotypes. They suggest that couples need to have shared objectives and learn to work towards them to overcome communication problems. They also invite listeners to send in their questions and stories. The podcast is casual and includes some off-topic exchanges. While discussing relationships and the importance of work ethic and self-care. Jon talks about his experience as a single father, his love for martial arts, and his practical nature when it comes to dating. He emphasizes the importance of vetting a partner's work ethic and self-care rather than just their appearance or material possessions. The conversation also touches on the challenges that arise in relationships when responsibilities and expectations change over time.
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In this podcast Jon and Tara have a conversation about the concept of entitlement, particularly as it relates to women. They discuss what entitlement means and whether there are basic entitlements that anyone can expect in a relationship. They also touch on societal expectations for women and the influence of upbringing on entitlement. The conversation meanders into topics such as common human decency, wealth, and societal trends. Enjoy.
Jon and Tara talk about how young to get married. What women are like with money.
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How to Work with Women and all Their Thoughts and Emotions
Jon shares how #realmenarebuiltforwomen and can help them with their thoughts and emotions. Using the computer analogy, women have multiple thought windows open at a time with emotional pop-ups surfacing as well. Guys, as we know, operate in one window at a time. This is the analogy used in the book For Men Only by Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn, and rings true for Jon and Tara. Listen for real-life examples, roots of common issues, and solutions.
Spiritual life
Balance: yin/yang
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NLP
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loveisblindseason3
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Comfortable being a girl/woman
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Great marriage advice doesn’t need to be complicated.
Jon and Tara discuss the first 15 of Marriage.com’s 75 Advice and Tips by Marriage Therapists. Speaking from their 20+ years in marriage, they discuss their favorites tips from this list, go on some interesting tangents and most of all, cut to the chase to help you through the challenges in life and marriage.
Shout outs to:
@marriagedotcom
@drdougweiss
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@fleetfarmofficial
Tangents include:
- Communication: stay cool
- Disconnection is inevitable?
- Turn on their mind, not just their body
- Hard vs. Soft speech and emotions?
- Verbal and non-verbal communication
- Protect your marriage from “predators”
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howtomotivateaman #motivatingyourman
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damagedgoods
- JT Podcast Submission Series #
- Guys ask for help, really…
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Women and Worry
In this podcast Tara ask Jon all sorts of questions about women and worry and how it affects men, if at all. It leads to many other topics, as usual, like:
⁃ the cycles in marriage: 7 year itch, the age of understanding, and how they may relate to #astrologycycles and #relationshipastrology ⁃ Work with and leverage your partners strengths ⁃ Why women worry more than men (interview with Joyce Benetton Tara refers to @chriswillx https://youtu.be/_4jKAgYL0gg) ⁃ How a woman’s worry affects the man and how to know when he’s had enough ⁃ Examples of the way a man vs. a woman conflates ⁃ What puzzles men most about women ⁃ Do men know more about women than women do? ⁃ Is it ever appropriate for in-laws to step in? ⁃ Men need verbal and emotional support ⁃ How to meet your mate, not just a mate to meat ⁃ Rotary phone challenge https://youtu.be/1OADXNGnJok
Recommended books in this podcast:How to Stop Worrying and Start Living - CarnegieThe Four Agreements - Ruiz
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How would you choose? It made, Tara and Jon talk about best practices for choosing a mate.
Jon and Tara discuss strategies for longevity in relationships.
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Jon & Tara discuss the idea of submitting to your wife and how they both think that Jon has done this. Watch and listen on YouTube.
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Submission Series #1 – Submitting to your relationship - #vulnerability - submit early - settling - Submit to roles and boundaries
J&T talk by the lake - how to get to your #dreams - travel to #Argentina - and other talk
What is the way? You have a WAY about you - Unity through shared adversity - #homestead update #babychicks #chickenrun #chickentraining #tarasamerica
83 – Coffee, cats, and canines – what is Jon’s objection to Tara getting a dog? Jon and Tara talk about their animals, and the type of dog that Tara likes.
In this episode Jon & Tara talk about many things, one of them is Jon being bullied by teachers, and other kids in the neighborhood. Is this good or bad, Jon seems to think that it did him a lot of good.
81 Can Tara be happy 😃 being a homemaker? - origins of paella 🥘- get your omegas - Will and Chris “real slap?”
80 - redneck hot tub in the living room - Being creative - kid stuff - how long do house projects take?
79 - Tara is not disappointed - #maritalart 6 stay active - Tara hits the pads - take your husband shopping?
78 - Let’s talk about sex baby - guys job is romance - be a practitioner not just a talker - get your whoop on 😁
stepparent, #homeschooling and life - build on your #strengths and the strengths of others.
J&T talk astrology energetics of relationships - Get in the flow - Synastry readings - ufc is not martial arts
After FL - J&T talk Valentine’s Day - other wild stuff - Business talk, dealing individually with clients, dealing with clients in groups
Train your wife?? - is divorce failure? - commitment, abstinence, motive - and other stuff
Swears – numerology – money – seven year itch – communication, video games, patience - rub my back, trigger any sense of value
Where is your goat? - understanding your emotions as boundaries – when friends cross boundaries – how to be judgmental
Tara treats her cat - bison heart raw cat food - morning history w/coffee - being Santa and Mrs. clause
66 #2 - Influenced by your childhood? - people are attracted to industriousness and capabilities
66 #1 - Influenced by your childhood? - people are attracted to industriousness and capabilities
2 Marital Art # 2 Communication - What is therapy for Tara - Jon’s crazy brain habit - J&T’s go deep sharing insight, men and women interactions
Marital Art # 2 Communication - What is therapy for Tara - Jon’s crazy brain habit - J&T’s go deep sharing insight, men and women interactions
Marketing, how to run a meeting, how to appeal to a customer and Other great conversations.
Working through arguments, how do we deal with aggravation and frustration - working it out
At the Round Barn Farm - Content free business strategy - Helping people with bad ideas - Business owners are like athletes
Jon and Tara talk, Feminism - Can vs should - Judge Judy? - is the entrepreneur husband crazy? - visionary operator
Walk like a man. Jon’s great grandma came from Norway when she was 16 - it’s bigger than your feelings.
Marital Art #7 Plan - the current state of the financial system, preparing yourself for uncertainty
Your death and the visit of spirit? - your the only one that will take care of you - how do you start a relationship
Back from our trip to Ozark, MO - how to control your information, J&T debate - boundaries who, what, why, when
Guests Jon’s parents, Life path, Marriage roles, No sex before marriage?? Advice for couples
J&T will be discussing Homesteading options in America versus the need for Homesteading in Colombia with the tribal NASA people. Ervin Liz of Nativerootcoffee.com will be our guest.
Tara is awake bright eyed and bushy tailed - How Tara and Jon got together and what they did and talked about, our first night out dancing
Topics for this cast include, #4 Make Love - 4 Horsemen - Bible metaphors - business strategy Outlander reference and other fun things #monday.com
J&T discuss struggling, strife and becoming - Jon’s b-day continued - eating sushi after a year and a half - tech adaptation, adopting early - witches?
First LIVE test - native root taste test - exercise together and separate- Tara talks yoga, metaphysical experience? Homestead discussion
Jon says:
I am into speaking what I want. Which a lot of people in metaphysical realm would say that's casting a spell, you're spelling a word, you're sounding it out. You're speak trying to speak into existence what you want. That is true. I am very much against people trying to use any kind of force or will or magic or anything like that on other people, or even on other situations. I mean, you know, people would say, Well, do you pray for things? And then they would say that that's a spell, you're casting a spell. And I believe in the power of the word. And I believe in the power of the vibration of the spoken word. And, you know, I've had people say things that maybe I won't get into right now, but that I've had to work to dissipate, and that type of thing.
J&T talk about the difference of men’s and women’s birthdays, Tara surprises Jon on his birthday. Where to travel in the country. Business planning, taxes, and communicating about how to spend money.
Warrior way, is prepared. Survival Prepping discussion - how and why. Should you own a gun? What is the time frame and ratio of food supplies. Jon, stone head, lol.
Structuring your day - Being well - being in tune with your spouse - Evil will step down if good people stand up - Walking the best exercise? - What do you really need, grateful for what you have
Helping your spouse through thought processes. Are your thoughts and speech limiting your potential. How simple phrases can change your entire outlook. Structure your day, structure your business.
Difficult discussions - Miscommunication - driving and talking. This one gets cut short.
J&T Marital Arts - extrovert, and the big five personality traits. Fun talking about life.
J&T talking about guys and gals, overstepping or not? Wine, winking and what’s to much. Tara's drinking.
Jon and Tara talking about being in business, finances, issues and solutions. Rolls of husband and wife, and switching roles, LOL #breadwinner #politeness #CreditCardAlerts
We are in the SquachYoda cruising in the Minneapolis to make some deliveries and discussing stuff. 😁
Jon and Tara talk about how to think about what you’re doing wrong is actually positive. Then, how to fix it and how to talk to yourself about it.
Jon & Tara talk marriage and life. Tara thanks Jon for the "help" in Life and Relationships.
Jon & Tara Marital Arts podcast. Marital discussions on real topics in our lives and how we deal with them.
Jon & Tara Marital Arts podcast. Marital discussions on real topics in our lives and how we deal with them.
02 - Drinking wine talking, sexual energy, life and the beginning of the pandemic - Jon's Marital Arts story - Catmandu
In this Podcast my wife Tara and I are talking about our first trip to Colombia the excitement and partial terror. Then my business partner joins us to talk a bit about our business ventures. We had a great time and will be going back soon. Check out www.colombian-cc.com for the best and freshest coffee in the world.