The seewhereitgoes Podcast: Recent Episodes
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A journey of deconstructing a fundamentalist Christian background we both carry and what the next phase looks like. We discussed evangelicalism, human development, marriage and family.
Can we be thankful about something when there is nobody to be thankful to. That and more...
Brian and I discuss in this episode why we have such fear of giving feedback to others. We also get into a really good argument about the house.
In this episode my daughter Finn and I talked about her coming out experience as queer and we also talk about what made her a homo. Was it TicToc, Instagram, YouTube, or was it Satan? HaHaHaHaHa
New Home
Bridgette's Gallery - 17:00
Mothers Day - 23:00
Speaker phone manners - 30:00
Neurofeedback progress / the brain and religion - 35:20
And we're back.... For those fans of the podcast who have been patient, Brian will walk through the reason behind the hiatus. Love, Brian & Bridgette
New York trip 2021 and the city that never sleeps or never disappoints Best corp retreat EVER !!!! Booster brainfog Sex and the city and rippin' on aul ones
Pumpkin spice lattes
Oktoberfest
Family Working Agreements
Only one argument
Only one reference to the bible
On today's SWIG, we welcome our very first guest, Tami Widmer. We met Tami and her husband Greg at Seminary and we hear the first part of her journey. If you've listened to our show, you'll see why we asked her to come on. Her and Greg are close friends so we are excited to bring you part I of a two part journey
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Bridgette's journey into the world of Agile
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Brian getting stuck in a ditch he hits a lot
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Level 2 & 3 listening with stories of the Purple Pride Theus burger join and Brian eating teething biscuits until 9
What can happen when you don't fully read instructions on what you buy. Our existential nightmare a few weeks ago and how we changed. The sad ending of GOT, that decent Ryan Reynolds movie, Bridgette being a certified scrum master and more
In this episode we just catch up on what happened over the last few weeks covering Canyon of the Eagles in Burnet TX, Chicago, Silsbee TX, Stephen King novels etc.
Intro: Thanks for listening ya'll 04:26 - Reviewing our reviews: From 5 stars to 1 star. Making some feel like we're having a pint, assisting euthanasia and critique for venting, cursing and "leaving the fold." 38:50 - What makes you jealous and how much stuff do you really need?
0:00 - 6:00 - What is SWIG? 06:00 - Graduation from High School 12:25 - Our first Quinceanera 15:54 - The Texas Fledge 18:28 - Apologizing
The Preamble:
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1:20: Quiet Place Part II
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3:40: Zombie Reviews: “Army of the Dead,” “Train to Busan,” “Sean of the Dead.”
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10:20: “Together, Together” with Andy from the Office and Tig
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11:20: Game of Thrones. Brian’s first time watching it
15:38: Main Topic. “We need to communicate better.”
The story of Isaac, the father of Jews and Christians and Ishmael, the father of Arabs & Muslims Main top starts 10 minutes in
In today's episode, we talk about the current events with Israel and Gaza, bringing you on a multipart journey of how a relatively new way of interpreting the bible is creating a dangerous US foreign policy in that region of the world.
In this week's episode, we find ourselves planning our own funeral so that those left behind can focus on grieving, dancing and partying
Today, Bridgette and Brian go back and forth over trusting your own voice, trusting God's voice and some good theological sparing.
Apologies folks, Bridgette seems to be sitting too far off the mic. Also, I got on the scooter after recording and sure enough, wasn't there a table for me at the coffee shop?
On this Saturday's show, we talk about listening levels where Brian spills the beans on his internal monologue when Bridgette was animated by Seaspiracy. We'll also answer Tami's questions
We recorded this Friday evening March 5th, just before heading out to dinner for Brian's 51st birthday. I don't think we ever landed on a topic for more than a few minutes.
Here is the link for that song that Brian believes was only ever play on Radio Nova. I played it in the car on the way to dinner, and Bridgette though it terrible. Brian still loves it.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W59gmSWGLzw&ab_channel=JohnCrofton
In this episode, we will discuss how certain religions can become your new family, causing a separation from your family of origin. We will also talk about cursing and what the bible is getting at when it talks about 'impure talk.'
00:00 - 6:45: Trouble in Texas (Winter 2021)
- Grid vs. Green
- Where would we be without 1st responders?
13:00 - Another one bites the dust: Ravi Zacharias and his double life
- Ravi Zacharias (famous minister) and his sexual abuse of women and gaslighting
- 21:30: Jesus and the women caught in adultery story may not be for real, even though it's cool
- 23:40: How the bible came together in 2 minutes
- 26:00 Bridgette's eyes glazes over
- 26:10 Problems with preachers who really don't know their bibles (but think they do)
- 27:00 The snake handling scripture was also added by scribes centuries later
- 33:00 Preaching an hour long sermon with one bible sentence
- 36:00 Back to Ravi and the tragedy of his victims
- 39:00 The weak systems that allow for this abuse
- 45:00 The North Korean Cult
- 57:00 Bridgette and her soft bondage. What did you think we mean?
- 1:00:36 Self hating Christians (you've heard of self-hating Jews? Well the New Testament folks can do it too)
- 1:05:00 Fr. Michael Cleary preaching at our Lady Star of the Sea
Next Week: Swearing and when religion separates family members
00:00 - 07:40: Choosing authenticity over production in a podcast
07:40 - 23:37 : A review of the week, coaching in the military, our child's first date
23:30 - End: Main Section: Is Religion Child Abuse?
00:00 - 26:00: 50 on the outside, 15 on the inside
26:00: Brian's journey into Agile and how it relates to home
48:00: Brian has a profound story (he thinks) while B picks her feet
00:00 - 19:40 - Anniversary Weekend
19:40 - Art Update
21:10 - Argument intermission
25:00 - When couples correct each other in public
38:05 - Dealing with Difficult People
47:05 - The Socialized Mind vs. The Self Authoring mind*
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bhRNMj6UNYY&ab_channel=RebelWisdom
00:00 - Brian speaks the only Gaelic he remembers
05:30 - What wolf are you feeding
12:08 - Marriage
56:00 - A message from the US Joint Chiefs of Staff
00:00 – Preamble: Our new brew bar in San Antonio
08:30: Events at the Capitol building on Jan 6, 2021
18:00: De-escalation techniques by the Capitol guards
25:00: What would a civil war look like in 2021?
28:30: A question from our audience member and discussion on divisive words
34:10: Examining how to be more united
41:05: Postamble: returning to work in January, books we’re reading, writing
46:30: A word on Cults. More on this later
00:37-8:44: Christmas 2020
8:45-27:40: Christmas with and without the Nativity
27:41-32:00: Throwing out the TV
32:00-40:00 Horror Movies
40:00-1:00:16: Demonology
1:00:17-End: Good doctors and Pap Smears
This is our longest preamble. Sorry, but we made up for it on what you can skip from / to
00:00 - 07:00: Problems with monitoring your sleep and monitoring light waves
06:20 - A shout out to our listeners
07:00 - Christmas pudding
17:00 - Our first live call on the show.....wait....don't go...
17:35 - A week in reflection, frustration, tips on why to turn your camera on at work
25:38 - Steering back into Christmas prep
31:50 - This will be a lonely Christmas. Is that good or bad?
40:45 - What men can learn from women
Preamble - Feel free to skip.
15:10: Santa
28:38: Christmas Movies
53:00: Intermission. Ripping on John Calvin; our favorite bollox
57:15: Christmas Weather
1:01:00: A war on Christmas?
00:00 - 17:00: Worst Christmas Memories
17:00 - 42:00: Best Christmas Memories
42:00-47:17: A tangent on Dentistry
47:17-End: Best Christmas Memories
Email: bridgetteralph@sbcglobal.net with your stories
00:00 Preamble
08:00 Journey into Debt: The narratives we believed
37:10 Getting out of the hole
1:00:01 We test our conflict skills from last week
1:16:00 Oh, she went there
1:18:50 Media we'd recommend
Next time: Our journey into Evangelicalism
Pre-Amble: Bus stop stories
07:24: Conversation: How we learned it
17:45: The right environment
32:00: Digital conversation
39:45: Conversation Techniques. Asking questions & Active listening
54:43 : Worst Conversation Examples
1hr: Conflict
- Posture
- Assume positive intent
- Growth Mindset vs. Fixed mindset
- Idea as friend vs. idea as spouse
- Practice
- Mirror back what you think you heard
- When you said/did…, the impact on me was…
- When you said/did…, the story I told myself was…
1hr:30: Postamble (is that even a word?)
00:00 Political landscape post election results 07:30 Wild 90’s Bridgette gets mugged 15:45 Booger/Snot stories 23:00 Brian’s weed stories 35:18 Bridgette's drunk story 42:30 Brian’s altercation with a bus shelter on Merrion Road 52:40: Next Time: The Art of Conversion
https://youtu.be/087mi1e46us
Iteration 2: We realized our volume wasn't great so adjusted
Episode breakdown:
Berlin Wall Falls, Bridgette wild college years, catches up on the 80's movies
6:23: Fashion
12:30: Music
15:00 Dating & Social Life
24:10 Sex, and the church beginnings
54:00 Drunk meals
55:00 Brian the fat bastard
Brian and Bridgette talk about experiencing the 80's from two separate continents and environments.
Preamble: Our Hopes and Fears for the podcast
7:40 - How Bridgette experienced the 80s (she missed them)