Just John and April: Recent Episodes
John and April
John and April are content creators who host a relationship podcast on YouTube called Just John and April. They are relationship coaches who have been married to each other for 20 years. Together they have two teenaged children and serve as a pastor and teacher respectively. It is their firm belief that relationships don’t have to be miserable if couples work smarter not harder in their marriages. Follow Just and April on all platforms: linktr.ee/justjohnandapril
John and April continue their conversation with Tracye McQuirter from 10-Million Vegan Black Woman as we get ready for the beginning of the new year. They even take the pledge to become fully vegan in 2022
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John & April interview vegan change agent Tracye McQuirter. Tracye created the 10,000 Black Vegan Women program, with more than 15,000 women signing up to go vegan together for 21 days, resulting in extraordinary health benefits. We talk to her about black women's health and how her program has encouraged and developed a space for radical lifestyle changes in thousands of black women.
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John and April discuss the uptick in loneliness in marriage because of the pandemic and how this impacts intimacy. #loneliness #intimacy #justjohnandapril
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John and April discuss Kevin Durant's ashy leg and other self-care issues. Would he even have issues like these if he had a girlfriend?
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John and April discuss the recent upload by Lecrae of a podcast episode with 6 young women and 2 young men where they discuss their expectations for a relationship. The women revealed that they would like their man to be "traditional" but they themselves don't want to fill traditional roles as women. What does this mean for the future of relationships and how should couples navigate having conversations about their expectations with honesty and candor?
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John and April discuss Kim Kardashian wearing Yeezy's while out on a date with her new boyfriend, Pete Davidson from SNL. Should her new boyfriend have an issue with that? What is the rule here?
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John and April discuss one of the biggest benefits of sex that most people aren't aware of.
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John and April discuss Sarah Jessica Parker's latest rant about the misogynist ageism that exists within Hollywood. They expose the double standards that exist between men and women in relationships along these lines as well. #DoubleStandards #RealBeauty #JustJohnandApril
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In this episode, John and April look back at the beginning of their show to see how it compares to their current show. They are mortified by how bad things looked when they first began. But they stuck with it and now they've recorded 100 podcast episodes. #Episode100 #DontGiveUp #JustJohnandApril
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In this episode, John and April discuss their most recent date night in DC--their first since the lockdown began.
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In this episode John and April discuss the 4th pillar of total intimacy -- physical intimacy.
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In this episode John and April discuss pillar number 3 of the 4 pillars of total intimacy -- Choreplay.
Choreplay is the idea that taking up one or more of your spouse's chores can act as a form of foreplay.
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In this episode, John and April discuss the importance of communication that is able to resolve conflict.
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In this episode John and April discuss acceptance, one of the four pillars of total intimacy. You can take their free intimacy assessment at www.yourtotalintimacy.com To purchase our merchandise use this link https://teespring.com/stores/just-john-april
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In this video John and April discuss how it is that we often allow our hurt and disfunction to effect our relationships with others. We sometimes even project our situations onto them and expect that their life will explode much the same way ours did in a particularly familiar situation. #HurtPeopleHurtPeople #Projection #JustJohnandApril To purchase our merchandise use this link https://teespring.com/stores/just-john-april
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In this episode John & April discuss the things that they sacrificed for the sake of their relationship. To purchase our merchandise use this link https://teespring.com/stores/just-john-april
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In this episode, John and April discuss the last 18 months and how that has impacted their romance in the relationship. Sometimes a lack of romantic gestures can communicate that you're really not that into your significant other. To purchase our merchandise use this link https://teespring.com/stores/just-john-april
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In this episode John and April discuss the importance of saying I'm sorry to one another. They reveal their apology language to each other for the first time and realize some things they didn't know about the other before, as it pertains to saying I'm sorry. They talk about the idea that people need an apology but that everybody's way of needing it, is their own way and we should adjust to that specific way. John and April also note that they do not need the same type of apology from every relationship. #sorrybabe #iappologize #justjohnandapril For the Apology Language Quiz click this link https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/apology-language To purchase our merchandise use this link https://teespring.com/stores/just-john-april
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In this episode John and April discuss the idea of gender roles and how relevant they are these days. Jay-Z tweeted about his relationship with Beyonce and said that they both do things equally in their relationship, essentially saying that gender roles are obsolete. #RelationshipRoles #GenderRoles #JustJohnandApril To purchase our merchandise use this link https://teespring.com/stores/just-john-april
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In this episode John and April discuss one of the biggest roadblocks to conflict resolution in a relationship, namely defensiveness. Why is it so hard to keep defensiveness at bay when in a conflict with someone? #Defensiveness #Conflict #JustJohnandApril To purchase our merchandise use this link https://teespring.com/stores/just-john-april
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In this episode John and April discuss the importance of verbal validation especially when a person is doing something they're supposed to do. #Validation #Affirmation #JustJohnandApril To purchase our merchandise use this link https://teespring.com/stores/just-john-april
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In this episode John and April talk about how couples go through growth spurts as they work through issues in their relationship. They point out how growth spurts can cause growing pains and how these growing pains can last for several days. It is something couples should be ready for if they want their union to develop and thrive. John and April have discovered that this is not something to be afraid of but to recognize it so that couples can work on what is needed in order to grow effectively. #growthspurt #growingpains #justjohnandapril To purchase our merchandise use this link https://teespring.com/stores/just-john-april
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In this episode John and April discuss the idea that all men want their women to baby them like their mothers used to do. They react to a picture someone posted on FaceBook with a woman bottle-feeding her man with a caption that said, "This is how men want to be treated behind closed doors." Do all men really want their women to be like their mother? #BabyMe #AintYourMama #JustJohnandApril To purchase our merchandise use this link https://teespring.com/stores/just-john-april
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In this episode John and April discuss the true essence of communication in response to MrsKevOnStage and KevOnStage on #TheLoveHour. According to them true communication must have honesty, vulnerability and transparency in order to be real communication. #KevOnStage #JustJohnandApril To purchase our merchandise use this link https://teespring.com/stores/just-john-april
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In this episode John and April discuss Kevin Samuels and his philosophy on relationships. They react to the what constitutes a high value man and a high value woman. To purchase our merchandise use this link https://teespring.com/stores/just-john-april
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Stop Your World for your significant other is where John and April discuss the idea of stopping everything when you bae is in need of physical or emotional support. They talk about the importance of being their without any distractions when our partner shares their pain and being emotionally connected with them. It is so important to listen and not judge if your person comes to you with some type of pain. We should halt, drop everything, and stop our world to give them what they need. John and April suggests that when this happens, each person will feel loved and cared for to a level that will ultimately increase intimacy throughout the relationship. #stopyourworld #empathy #justjohnandapril To purchase our merchandise use this link https://teespring.com/stores/just-john-april
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In this episode John and April discuss the idea of being a workaholic and how that is detrimental to a marriage. They go into things that come into marriages that may cause one to be neglected. John and April introduce their 30-Day Intimacy Boot Camp, bootcamp.justjohnandapril.com, as a way to focus on your relationship because we forget to do that some times. They suggest that taking 30 days to focus on marriages will level-up relationships and they will never go backwards but stay growing even when obstacles come. #Workaholics #Intimacy #JustJohnandApril To purchase our merchandise use this link https://teespring.com/stores/just-john-april
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In this episode John and April discuss the effects of having a purely transactional relationship with your partner. Can your relationship thrive when it's all about what you can get out of your significant other or should you be spending more time trying to give of yourself to them? #Overcoming #TransactionalIntimacy #JustJohnandApril To purchase our merchandise use this link https://teespring.com/stores/just-john-april
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In this episode John and April discuss the idea of fixing a negative situation that happened. Something that is not that deep but that could change the mood for the rest of the day. They relate this idea to mulligans in golf where you can replay a bad shot to make it better. They share how John used a couple of mulligans this week in their relationship and how well it worked for them. April discovered the benefit of this as she saw the results when John used his mulligans. Watch and see how this is played out. #doover #fixit #justjohnandapril To purchase our merchandise use this link https://teespring.com/stores/just-john-april
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In this episode John and April discuss nagging and whether or not it's an effective method of getting what you want in your relationship. To purchase our merchandise use this link https://teespring.com/stores/just-john-april
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In this episode John and April discuss what you should do when you have involuntary negative feelings about your significant other. They reveal what their involuntary negative feelings are and that they wish those feelings could be controlled. They share what situations bring about these feelings and what they do to help try to keep them from creating a negative situation. It is usually hard for them to control their feelings but they want to make sure they do not take over and cause conflict. They suggest couples are aware of their feelings and that they share their feelings sooner than later. To purchase our merchandise use this link https://teespring.com/stores/just-john-april
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In this episode John and April discuss a couple that has been married for 85 years. The couple got married at a very young age but stayed together into their hundreds. They discuss how you have to have love and friendship to keep a relationship going this long. They also point out life trials and situations that had to try them but those circumstances may be what kept them together and made them stay strong in their relationship. #growingoldtogether #tilldeathdouspart #justjohnandapril
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In this episode John and April talk about whether or not like or love is more important. They talk about the meaning of like compared to the meaning of love and which one do couples need the most. To purchase our merchandise use this link https://teespring.com/stores/just-john-april
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In this episode John and April discuss what happens when the relationship feels like the focus is all on one person. Sometimes relationships feel one-sided like the focus is always on one person instead of the two of you. What should a person do if they feel like they never get any attention because the "world revolves" around their significant other? #AllAboutYou #OnesidedLove #JustJohnandApril To purchase our merchandise use this link https://teespring.com/stores/just-john-april
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In this episode John and April discuss how keeping score in your relationship actually destroys it from the inside out. #ScoreKeeping #Competition #JustJohnandApril To purchase our merchandise use this link https://teespring.com/stores/just-john-april
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In this episode, John and April discuss what happens when a person marries someone that their family doesn't really like. #FamilyIssues #Perspective #JustJohnandApril To purchase our merchandise use this link https://teespring.com/stores/just-john-april If you want more videos like this one subscribe for free here http://bit.ly/JohnandApril
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In this episode John and April talk about couples who see what they think are perfect couples on the outside and want to be like them. They discuss wives or even husbands who look at other wives and husbands on the outside and strive to be like them rather than being who they are. They point out being your authentic self is the only way to being the best wife or husband, girlfriend or boyfriend to your significant other. #authentic #couplegoals #justjohnandapril To purchase our merchandise use this link https://teespring.com/stores/just-john-april
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In this episode John and April discuss being attracted to someone else while you're married and whether or not that should be an acceptable practice. #SexualAttraction #HappilyMarried #JustJohnandapril To purchase our merchandise use this link https://teespring.com/stores/just-john-april
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In this episode John and April discuss the apprehension that many men have about going to counseling for their relationship. April wants to know why men don't like counseling and John reveals what his issues with it were when they were young. #MenHateCounseling #Courage #JustJohnandApril To purchase our merchandise use this link https://teespring.com/stores/just-john-april
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In this episode John and April talk about April being an introvert and the hang-ups she has because of it. They go into why introverts feel that needing to get away and be alone can be seen as negative when really it is a way to recharge. They discuss feelings of guilt that may go along with introverted moms who feel bad because they need time even away from their families, which also brings a form of anxiety. They tend to worry about whether or not things will be done the way it should be if not present. John and April give some good tips on how to enjoy your introvertedness and to embrace the core you. #introvert #selfaware #justjohnandapril
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In this episode John and April talk about anxiety within relationships. They point out reasons why people have anxiety and what couples may need from each other. They reveal their own anxiety and what they need from each other in order for it to be eased. John and April also note that there are those who think having anxiety means something is wrong with you when in reality it is a common emotion that most people get but some just may not realize it.
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In this episode John and April define phubbing and how it can be a negative action within relationships. They go on to discuss other communication issues that might irritate or annoy couples because they happen so frequently. John and April explore their own problems dealing with phubbing and how it has effected their marriage. They realize it has caused some feelings of neglect and feeling ignored. #phubbing #communicationfauxpas #justjohnandapril
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In this episode John and April go back to the past to warn their younger selves about pitfalls that they will encounter if they don't change certain behaviors. Problem is, will their younger selves be self aware enough to listen.
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In this episode John and April discuss how women really want their men to take charge. April was happy with the way John planned their 20th Anniversary weekend and she said she thinks most women really want their men to take charge in certain situations.
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In this episode John and April discuss what couples should do when they have differing philosophies about spending money. This is especially important now that we're in the spending season of Christmas. Many couples struggle with this and their relationship could be in jeopardy because their spending habits are so divergent. But if the couple is intent on being balanced they can find that their personal differences in this area can become strengths in their relationship.
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In this episode John and April discuss how a wife can influence her husband's behavior in positive and respectful ways that will build their relationship instead of undermining their positive progress. They discuss some specific things to help when the wife it tempted to be too controlling about the outcome of things, especially when the alternative won't gravely impact the relationship or home life.
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In this episode John and April discuss the thing that may be keeping your man from being all that he can be in the home as protector, provider and priest. To purchase our merchandise use this link https://teespring.com/stores/just-john-april
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In this episode John and April discuss the idea of having balance in your relationship when it comes both work/life balance and duties in your home. John and April believe that you should strive for work/life balance but having equality in the home chores is not a reasonable expectation. At least not in homes where both partners work outside the home.
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In this episode John and April talk about the effects of feeling unseen in your relationships. They share their experience with each other with feeling unseen from time to time. Feeling unseen can be a physical and emotion thing that can cause contempt if couples ignore that this is possible. Showing appreciation towards one another and fulfilling each other sexually are ways to show that you see your partner daily.
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In this episode John and April discuss the fact that chauvinism in marriage can be a reality, especially if the couple isn't actively doing something to make sure it's not a factor in the relationship. When husbands decide not to be chauvinists they are helping to bring true equality into their marriage so that it can really thrive.
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John and April discuss being married to a feminist and how that can impact the relationship. Is it something that can cause unhappiness or is it possible that someone with feminist views will interrupt the success of a marriage. John and April both see themselves and feminish but they feel that in a marriage it should be about equality and oneness.
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John and April talk about the importance of being a team player when you are in a relationship. Couples have to work together as a team in order to win in this game of life. They discuss figuring out what roles best fit you so that you can be beneficial to the team in your home in order to make it day-to-day as a family. John and April correlate a family team to an actual NBA team and how the players give 100% in order to win.
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In this episode, John and April talk about how couples sometimes respond to things they are upset about at a level 10 when the action was a 3. They discuss reasons why they think couples have this issue and why certain people respond in a way where the punishment does not fit the crime. They even go into why they do it in their relationship.
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In this episode John and April discuss relationship minimums. They believe there are certain baseline, common denominator, minimum things that must be in relationships in order for them to be healthy and to thrive. One such thing is having a generous attitude towards your significant other. Put simply, you should not withhold from your spouse the thing you give willingly to a perfect stranger.
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In this episode John and April discuss Bids for Emotional Connection as noted by John Gottman and the Gottman institute. Sometimes in our relationships we misjudge things that our significant other does and we think they are being dodgy or difficult about saying what it is that he/she wants from you. In fact, we sometimes may exclaim, "WHY ARE YOU PLAYING GAMES!?!" "Just tell me what you want." Sometimes our significant other could be making a bid for connection and we don't realize it. If we miss to many of these or reject them it could end in extreme resentment and there could be a break up.
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In this episode John and April discuss the importance of parent-directed screen time and how it can help kid's behavior. Some kids change their countenance after playing certain games for long periods of time. If parents direct the games and the times they are playing them, children's attitudes may be more pleasant and/or peaceful. Some kids become irritable after having long hours of certain types of screen time. John & April believe it is not the screen time that is actually effecting the kids but what they are doing and watching during that time. It is also noted that children seem to be more creative in finding things to do when their screen time is directed giving them an opportunity to be more creative in their spare time. Some parents are worried about extended screen time during virtual school. Parents should not worry about that because that is productive screen time.
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In this episode John and April discuss why they think it's a good idea for them to argue in front of their kids. They also discuss the negatives of fighting in front of the kids the wrong way. Modeling positive disagreements in front of the kids has extreme value. Kids should not witness negative disagreements between parents where there is name calling and demeaning language exchanged because they will likely grow up thinking that's what they need to look for in a spouse. It can also impact your child's self esteem.
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In this episode John and April discuss the importance of teaching our kids about racism especially in our current climate . As "Black Lives Matter" protests continue throughout our country and around the world, our children are asking questions. They are now being exposed to hatred and white supremacy at every turn. What are we to do as parents and guardians as we navigate raising our children during this time?
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It's been a long road to finally reaching 1,000 subscribers and we have you to thank for that. Some of you have supported us from the very beginning and for that we are very grateful. We want to specifically thank Onyx Family for their mentorship and friendship throughout our YouTube journey. Also, to our good friends Egwu and Saba we say a HUGE thanks! You guys are really part of the team. We also want to thank Erik "Bluetooth" Griggs of Piano Man Entertainment and Lee "Ricky" Cort of Naturally 7 for all the great music you've provided since the start of this thing. You guys are our ride or die friends from day one. Our families have played a large role and we want to say thank you for always being there. Now we are on our way to 10,000 subs.
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In this episode John and April are interviewed by Message Magazine online. In the Message Magazine show "What's The Message," Claudia Allen asks John and April about a wedding that took place during a Black Lives Matter protest. This ceremony during the protest made some people upset but others felt it was a great way to represent black love.
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In this episode, John and April discuss the little known holiday Juneteenth and what that means for them as Black Americans. They also reminisce on the good times they were able to enjoy during their childhood despite the negative situations they lived through.
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In this episode John and April discuss their recent participation in the historic BLM peaceful protest in Downtown D.C. and how that experience gave them hope for a better tomorrow. They also discuss the fact that they both could stand to speak less in certain situations.
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In this episode John and April participate in a panel discussion with other experienced couples about things they've discovered during their time in quarantine that they never want to lose, even when the pandemic is over.
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In this episode John and April discuss the recent events in Minneapolis involving the murder of George Floyd by Minneapolis Police officer, Derek Chauvin. Riots have broken out in Minneapolis underscoring the outrage and disappointment felt within the community about the way the judicial system has responded thus far. There is a clear and obvious cry for justice in America and good people need to respond by standing up for the oppressed.
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In this episode, John and April discuss whether or not the statement "Happy Wife, Happy Life" is legitimate or if it should be outlawed from usage, LOL. They uncover the importance of making sure both parties are happy in the relationship, rather than it being one-sided. They also discuss the recent Jordan Documentary, "The Last Dance", reminisce about the 90's, the Bulls and their first pairs of Jordan's.
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In this episode, John and April discuss how you should choose your friends once you're married. Is it okay for married people to keep their single friends? What about friends of the opposite sex? Something changes dramatically once we get married that will undoubtedly have an effect on our previous relationships with friends. The way old friends are introduced to your new spouse can make or break the future of your relationship with them.
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John and April discuss the difficulties of leaving work at work now that they are both working from home. The Covid-19 quarantine has altered the work day making it more than a 9 to 5 proposition. We not only work from home but we keep work at home until late in the night. Work stress now stays with us all week and if it weren't for the weekend we would be dead. John and April share what they do to leave work at work.
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Since this quarantine began we have been focusing on ways to turn a bad situation into a good one. We assumed that every couple would have issues with being together all-day-every-day for several weeks, maybe even months. But we realized that for some couples, being together all the time is exactly what they needed. So apparently, it ain't all bad.
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In this episode John and April discuss double standards in relationships and how in quarantine those double standards are heightened.
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In this episode John and April discuss what our cellphone habits reveal about the level of trust we have in our relationships.
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In this episode John and April recall the terrible tragedy involving Kobe Bryant's helicopter crash in Southern California on January 26, 2020 and how this should impact their outlook on life and family.
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In this episode John and April discuss the shakeup in the royal family and whether or not it's okay to leave your extended family for the sake of your marriage and new family.
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In the episode John and April discuss what it's like to feel stuck in your relationship without any hope that things will change.
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In this episode John and April take a trip down memory lane and recall the details of their marriage and engagement almost 20 years ago.
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In this episode John and April discuss the possible effects of social media on romantic relationships.
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In this episode John and April discuss what it's like to get hit on as a married person and whether or not it's okay to flirt back.
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In this episode John and April discuss ways in which they can make themselves more available to each other emotionally.
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In this episode John and April discuss how it feels to be married to someone whose spending habits give you anxiety.
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In this episode John and April discuss the differences between introverts and extroverts and how an understanding of both can enhance relationships.
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In this episode John and April ask each other questions about things that bother them about each other and they give the answers for the first time on screen. They end up having a semi-civil but real argument on camera.
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In this episode John and April discuss how harsh tones can be detrimental to conflict resolution and can unravel the fabric of relationship.
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In this episode, John and April discuss whether or not a wife respecting her husband should be considered archaic and weak.
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In this episode, John and April discuss the importance of physical attraction for a successful relationship.
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In this episode, John and April discuss what they would tell their younger selves about sex now that they're in their 40's.
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In this episode John and April discuss some common misconceptions about foreplay and how a new understanding could lead to more sex.
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In this episode John and April discuss ways that you can break it to your spouse that you're not enjoying sex with him or her.
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In this episode, John and April discuss how you can turn your in-laws into bonafide family.
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John and April discuss overcoming the dangerous phenomenon of unrealistic expectations.
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In this episode, John and April discuss a relationship hack for conflict resolution that is perfect for resolving difficult situations called "Pass the Mic."
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In this episode John and April talk about the experience their family went through when their daughter Julia suddenly lost her hearing.
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In this video John and April discuss John's cancer diagnosis, the aftermath and how it all effected their marriage and their family life as a whole.
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In this video John and April discuss their miscarriage and how losing a baby effected their relationship.
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In this video John and April discuss how the circumstances surrounding their car accident effected their relationship. They learned that personal tragedy can sometimes put a strain on your relationship.
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In this episode John and April discuss tips on how to cheat-proof your relationship. They note that just because you're in a committed it does not mean you are immune from infidelity. It is therefore important that couples take the proper precautions to guard themselves from going outside their relationship for things they should only be getting inside it.
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In this video John and April discuss the difficulties of forgiving your significant other without punishing them for hurting you.
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John and April discuss how relationship roles can positively affect marital satisfaction overall and sexual fulfillment in particular. One survey says that the dividing of chores is the third highest reason for a happy marriage, behind fidelity and sexual fulfillment.
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In this video John and April discuss Steph Curry's reaction to Ayesha's comments on Red Table Talk, body image and insecurities.
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In this episode John and April discuss the importance of being sexually fulfilled in order to sustain a happy marriage. True fulfillment comes through combination of selflessness and self advocacy.
Here's the link to the book we discuss, Sex Begins in the Kitchen by Dr. Kevin Leman https://www.amazon.com/dp/B012HUDI9K/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_U_dYc1CbK0JABF5
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In this video John and April discuss the debilitating effect that baggage can have on a relationship. They use the situation that Kevin (from This Is Us) finds himself in as a springboard for their discussion.
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In this video John and April discuss Kate (from This Is Us) and her mom's relationship and how it could benefit from some healthy boundaries. Boundaries are foundational to healthy relationships and are needed to sustain them. Boundary-setting is not easy but it is important enough to make it a priority.
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In this video John and April break down Beth and Randall's latest conflict about who will be able to achieve their dreams first. Randall is prone to flights of fancy and Beth usually gives in. John and April examine what happens in a relationship when one person feels like they're always giving in to the other.
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In this episode, John and April discuss the many ways that stress can take over our lives and how we should be trying to combat stress through retreat.
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In this episode, John and April discuss Tiger's comeback and how he found redemption. They also discuss how to successfully push your partner's love buttons through togetherness, saying kind words, giving presents, doing things for me and touchy feely.
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In this episode, John and April discuss what happens when the circumstances of life make you feel inadequate. John recently had back surgery and his recovery process made him feel like he was less of a man.
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In this episode, John and April discuss one of the questions they get most often from people: "How do I find 'the one?'"
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In this episode, John and April explore the idea that it's possible to be in a committed and loving relationship and still experience loneliness.
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