What In The 20’s?: Recent Episodes

Zama Mkhize

The 20’s: a time for freedom, hustle, 10 year plans, introspection and relationship development. This is a podcast about “the best years of your life”…yet. A dive into how to navigate the world, self and others. How to make space for the realities of life and how to work through tough times. We’re just trying to figure out what in the 20’s is going on here???!!!

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I hate it here

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Getting to the bottom of our excuses

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Can't wait to hang out with you

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Time won't do the work for you.

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I can't wait to see you!

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Laziness is working against you

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On this episode I have actor, presenter and digital content creator, Thato Dithebe discussing becoming the purpose, dealing with unanswered prayers, working through rejection and having the discipline to stay in process whilst being patient

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It’s hard to enjoy the things you had to beg for

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Be your biggest advocate

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The art of being

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We're Live

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We have to stop meeting like this

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Validating the emotion doesn't mean validating the behavior

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And if you miss, adjust your aim

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In this episode, digital content creator Mo Mdluli opens up about being diagnosed with severe depression and anxiety. She gets vulnerable about the challenges faced, the impact being the eldest daughter has had on her, the effects it's had on her relationships with people and doing the work to take her mental health seriously.

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Your scarcity mindset is why you won't reach your goal

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In this episode I am joined by digital content creator, youtuber and podcaster Foyin Og as she speaks through the problems with outsourcing creativity, shifts in the creator space, using AI as a therapist, changes in the industry and a return to purpose when creating content.

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Just fake it

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In this episode I'm joined again by my long term friends, Ntsei and Gontse in a little girl chat about friendship dynamics when your friend starts dating- please, don't take us too seriously

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It's not embarrassing to try

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In this episode I'm joined by Gugulethu Nyatsumba as we unpack certain difficulties with committing to your season such as letting go of people and spaces, the discomfort of being called elsewhere, having the vision but not a clear path, forgiving your younger self and protecting who it is you're becoming.

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Just shhh sometimes

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On this episode I'm joined by Pabi Moloi and Khabane Moloi as we discuss relationship dynamics with our parents, physical and emotional availability, growing up with an absent father, having grace and forgiveness for our parents and what healing parts of those relationships look like.

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To bring those walls down you have to first bring you down

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On this episode my long term friend Tiisetso, answers questions surrounding what is and is not appropriate, boundaries, shifts and changes, challenges and how to navigate scenarios involving having a female friend.

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Tend to your garden

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FOBI- Fear Of Being Included

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Stop making excuses to hold on

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Let's gather here...

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It's time to pick yourself up

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Start inwards to change your reality outwards

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You can't change your life by remaining the same person

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Let's talk about it

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No really, what is it?

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How to stay in the race

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What does your waiting season look like?

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A lot of who you are is a result of who you entertain

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Stop building on weak foundations

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Let's put the excuses down

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You have to make the sacrifice for the life you want

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2024 didn't go according to plan

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Stop getting in your own way

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And when you remember, forgive again

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When we attach ourselves to who we hope they will be

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In this episode I'm joined by my oldest friends, Gontse and Ntsei. We go discuss what has kept our relationship alive for so long, friendship breakups, conflict, envy and respond to some of your friendship questions and dilemmas.

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Do not camp in the valley you were only meant to pass through

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Entrepreneur, poet and author of "You Get Better With Love," Duduzile Ngwenya gets candid about struggles with self-love, loneliness and the triumph over it. We unpack the journey to healing, forgiveness and grace. In this episode we uncover how love in all its complexities is the ultimate savior.

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Your breakthrough is on the other side of this fight

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It's difficult to stay in the shadows when you're walking in your purpose

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The longer you stay in the swamp the more you start believing you’re meant to be there

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When we reject the love we know we deserve

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Self abandonment is the reason they’re comfortable treating you like this

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When you’re not where you want to be yet

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I hope you’re resting now mommy

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You can’t plant fruitful seeds in hard soil. You must prepare the land or else you give opportunity for others to plant their roots, their expectations, projections and fears into your ground.

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Growth comes when we stop picking up the things we already let go of

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Dealing with unanswered prayers

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The discomfort of facing yourself

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May you release yourself from a love that asks you to convince them you’re worthy- from a love that asks you to audition, compete or compare.

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“God, give me the strength to not go back to the things I prayed so hard to get out of”

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When we’re desperate we create opportunity for others to take advantage of us

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You can’t keep bringing your healed self into triggering environments

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Grateful for the things that didn’t want me

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To be obsessed is really just to make up for everything they lack

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Dealing with discomfort when it comes to showing up for yourself

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There is no trap as deadly as the one you set for yourself

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Why letting go of pain is so difficult

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You don’t have to show up healed. You’re allowed to be “a work in progress.”

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Preparing for your moment, cultivating your talents and growing internationally with DJ Kmat live from Bacardi Holiday Club

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Navigating your craft, defining your purpose and just a whole lot of fun with DJ and music producer Asvnte live from Bacardi Holiday Club

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You can’t use your feelings to justify bad behavior

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You don’t have to be perfect, you just have to be consistent

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I know you wish it was them but you’re going to hear it from me instead

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…but you already knew that didn’t you?

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You can’t keep dividing your attention like this

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Your fear of being perceived is holding you back

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The internet is ruining your relationship

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Accept people for who they are, not for who you want them to be

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Building systems in your life to help you change

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Don’t ask for better if you’re not ready to let go of what you have now

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Brick by brick I will build the life I desire

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And this time, you take control of your life

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When the cost of your peace means creating a little chaos

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Dealing with failure and unfulfilled resolutions

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Surrender your control over them

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It’s time you do a better job at protecting your dignity

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“Don’t go back to less because you’re impatient to wait for better”

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I love different now

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So what do we do now?

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And if we’re strong enough to let it in, perhaps only then will we be strong enough to let it go

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Don’t let life manipulate you into thinking you’re the problem

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Fear cannot be the deciding factor as to why you don’t do something

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The people closest to us are the hardest to love

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You need to have a little nerve to get what you want

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You can’t spring when you’re still in winter

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You need to stop lying to yourself about how much you’ve grown

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It’s time to get crazy about the things you want

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You’re responsible for who and what gets to stay in your life

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Feeling stuck is a sign you’re ready for growth

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You’re not the good guy just because you’re the nice guy

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I wish I could put all my friends together and call us a group

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Why do we choose to suffer in silence?

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How to know if you should hold on or let go

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Hate helped you survive that pain, I know…but it won’t help you heal from it

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If you don’t know your value, other people will decide for you what you’re worth

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The only thing better than being fixed is being made new

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Why do we romanticize healing? I’m fighting for my life

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…or do men just not want to be better men?

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Can’t believe I’m toxic

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It takes less effort to welcome suffering than it is to fight against it

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Grateful to that version of me that got me here. She can go now

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You’re the reason your relationships suck

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The slower you go, the bigger the reward

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No because we need to stop adopting these phrases as truths

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Date 10 guys to meet 3 good guys to find 1 who likes you back

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“Moving in silence this year” - thanks for publicly announcing you’re a private person. We love to see it :)

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We can’t keep writing the same goals down every year…

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We’re all beautiful in God’s eyes- pity we’re not God

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Girls are cool- when they’re not busy hating you

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“God I no dey rush you o, but check time”

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I don’t know where I’m going, I don’t know what I’m doing, I don’t know who I am- just another day in the life of a 20 something…

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Pain is addictive…and comforting. Don’t fall for it!

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I’m getting engaged next year!!

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Don’t worry, most of us don’t know either

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I’ve never felt more scammed than the moment I realized I didn’t need to stress

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Let me enjoy this pain

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When it starts to feel dark, go where it’s darker. There’s light for those who continue walking through the tunnel

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You think you can do it all? Let me help you: You can’t

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I’m going to need us to be real with ourselves about the way we choose to love. This isn’t working. 

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There’s absolutely no reason to be adulting. Please…make it stop

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Trying to figure out who deserves the experience that is you has me so dizzy

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Get out of your own way and start. Right now, right there with what you have…start. 

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The comfort and relief of knowing you’re not enough will set you free from unattainable expectations 

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Not everyone will serve every season of your life

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Listen with your parents if you’re brave

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Calling all the cool girls!!!!!!!!! 

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Emotionally fatigued? Life doing the most? I get it…

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It was all a lie and adulting is a scam.