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Stephanie Smith
You can craft a life and legacy of earthly excellence and sacred significance if you're intentional about life's key three aims: Learn yourself, Love God, and Live connected. But how? By aligning with truths about yourself, God, and others. You'll be equipped, inspired, and strengthened with timeless truths and modern insights on human dynamics and development. You can achieve your immeasurable, eternal, and irreplaceable impact -- and help upcoming generations do the same. Come curious. Go galvanized! https://www.stephaniepresents.com/
Often the most difficult decisions aren't between what's good and bad but between what's good, better, and best. What can be "best" in one season or situation might become "good" or "better" in another.
Unfortunately, decisions seldom (never?) come labeled as "Good, Better, and Best." Instead, we rely on God's direction which can take many different forms.
Today's episode will be the last for awhile...or maybe forever. I may return to the Godly Impact podcast with a similar format, a complete make-over, or launch a brand-new version. I may never host a podcast again. Only God knows what the future holds.
I value you, whether you're a brand-new or long-time listener. If we're not already connected through my weekly newsletter, I invite you to sign up at Stephanie Presents.
So whether this is "Goodbye" for now or for good, remember my sign-off statement: You have an impact that is immeasurable, eternal, and irreplaceable. I pray you make it godly!
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Carbon is like purpose.
The chemical backbone of all known life, carbon is the fourth most abundant element in the universe and the second most abundant in your body. It forms more compounds than all other elements combined.
Carbon creates diamonds -- and pencils. Both have worth, but not equal value. Our purposes are similar.
In the "You're in the People Business," series, I've used the six essential chemical elements for physical life to demonstrate the six vital elements of the inner life. I've covered:
- Empathy (oxygen)
- Repair (sulfur)
- Expectations (phosphorus)
- Curiosity (hydrogen)
- Identity (nitrogen)
Today's episode is about Purpose (carbon).
Purpose is a backbone, not a bonus. Purpose is not a luxury but the framework everything else is dependent on. All purposes are not created equal. Some are diamond and others are pencils. The difference is how it's connected — and the pressure it undergoes.
The same is true for people. Purpose forged under pressure, properly connected to others, produces something extraordinary.
Purpose decays by default. We use carbon dating to measure how alive or dead something is. Purpose works the same way — left unattended, it deteriorates. It doesn't grow on its own. It requires intention.
Purpose operates on two levels:
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Big meaning — the universal "why" that applies to everyone
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Small meaning — the specific "why" that applies uniquely to you
Purpose isn't required to survive — people survive all the time without it. We keep taking the next step, hitting the next milestone, staying busy. But to truly thrive, purpose is non-negotiable. Its absence is easy to avoid confronting, which is exactly why so many people never do.
This Week's Challenge
• Where has purpose been quietly decaying in your life — in your work, relationships, or sense of self?
• Can you articulate both levels: the big meaning that connects you to others, and the specific meaning that is uniquely yours?
• What pressure in your life might actually be forming something valuable, if you stay connected to purpose through it?
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Nike's swoosh and Apple's logo are worth billions not because of their design, but because those companies intentionally created, promoted, and protected them. You have a brand too — as an individual, a family, a team, an organization. The question is whether you're being intentional about it.
In Part 5 of the "You're in the People Business" series, I explore how individualism weakens identity and how independence has been confused with maturity. True maturity is recognizing we are interdependent by design. Strong identity is never formed in isolation — it's realized in the context of belonging to something larger than ourselves.
The other extreme is just as damaging. Australia's "tall poppy syndrome" and Germany's prioritization of uniformity over individuality show what happens when the pendulum swings too far the other way. The goal is balance: individual expression and corporate belonging.
Three ways identity is shaped:
- Words — what we say about ourselves and others
- Values — stated clearly, not assumed. "We tell the truth" as a family value forges character in a way "don't lie" never will.
- Actions — showing up, helping others, being present. Name these actions out loud, especially with kids. The phrases eventually become part of who they are.
This Week's Challenge
Audit your brand. Ask yourself:
- What words about yourself or others need to be retired — and what truthful words should replace them?
- What values does your family, team, or organization hold that have never been spoken out loud?
- What actions do you need to start, continue, or stop to align with the identity you want to build?
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Hydrogen is the lightest, most abundant element in the universe — and the force behind nuclear fusion in the sun. In Part 4 of the "You're in the People Business" series, I explore hydrogen's relational equivalent: curiosity.
First come the questions we ask ourselves. We only develop self-awareness to the degree we ask ourselves honest, deep questions — and answer them at the base level. Stopping at surface-level observations ("I won't do that again") without understanding why only increases the chance of repeating the pattern.
Knowing and being known is complicated. We have a pushmi-pullyu relationship with self-knowledge and vulnerability — drawn toward it and afraid of it at the same time. Curiosity requires courage on both fronts.
Curiosity + Empathy = Relational Intimacy. Just as hydrogen and oxygen form water, curiosity fused with empathy creates something new: genuine relational security and intimacy. Without empathy, curiosity becomes data-mining — and data can become a weapon.
Curiosity without good motives causes destruction. We should be honest about why we're seeking to know someone, and we don't owe everyone unlimited access to our story.
This Week's Challenge
- Get curious about yourself — dig to the base level of the Communication Pyramid. What do you really believe about your rights and responsibilities?
- Get curious about someone close to you — ask one or two deeper questions about their upbringing, dreams, or a goal they've set aside.
- Before asking others to be vulnerable, earn that right by being trustworthy with what you already know — and by going first.
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Phosphorus is one of the most reactive elements in existence — so unstable that it's never found alone in nature. When bonded with the right elements, phosphorous gives us strength and energy.
Expectations in relationships work the same way. We've long been told that poor communication is the number one reason relationships fail. I challenge that assumption. The real culprit? Misalignment of expectations — because most communication never goes beyond the first few layers of the Communication Pyramid.
- What you did or didn't do
- How I feel about that
- What I did or didn't do
- How I feel about that
- What I want from you (very different from what I want for you)
- What I want from me (very different from what I want for me)
- What I believe about other people's rights and responsibilities
- What I believe about my own rights and responsibilities
Rarely does our communication reach the base: the expectations that reveal what we believe about our place in a relationship and in the world. Getting there is uncomfortable, partly because we're never taught to do it, and partly because our expectations expose what we believe we're entitled to — and that can be a vulnerable, unflattering thing to admit.
But when we bring our expectations into the open and align them with truth, something new forms — stability, clarity, and genuine connection. Just like phosphorus bonded with calcium.
Your challenge this week: Start a conversation from the base of the pyramid. Be courageously honest about what you're expecting — of yourself and of others. You'll be amazed at the difference.
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Today I focus on something smelly, sometimes even stinky. But success in every relationship requires this. Yep, every one. Between parents and kids, colleagues, businesses and customers, friends, and well, the list is as extensive as the types of human relationships.
It’s like sulfur. Not exactly tasty or pleasant but incredibly healing and critical for life.
What is this crucial but smelly item? The work of repair.
I cover:
- Repair goes downstream before upstream
- Don’t follow repair work with a conversation about someone else’s failures
- The difference between remorse and repentance
- How trust gets built and rebuilt
- Apologies aren’t one-size-fits-all
Resources mentioned include:
Trust: Knowing When to Give It, When to Withhold It, How to Earn It, and How to Fix It When It Gets Broken by Dr. Henry Cloud
The 5 Apology Languages: The Secret to Healthy Relationships by Gary Chapman and Jennifer Thomas
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Whether you're a plumber, parent, or CEO, you're in the people business. This means you've got to know what keeps a relationship breathing.
In Part 1 of the, "You're in the People Business," series, I explain what makes every relationship breathe. Whether it's managers and direct reports, businesses and customers, parents and children, spouses, friends, or family members, this trait is mandatory for a thriving relationship.
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Happy 200th episode!
In celebration -- and consideration of the path forward -- I share the four questions only courageous people ask. Some people ask themselves one or two, but those who dig into all four are most likely to grow ordinary into extraordinary.
- What do I want? Often easy to ask unless life has knocked you down with enough disappointments that the willingness to dream seems like a path into hopeless. But courageous people get back up and keep asking.
- Why do I want it? Am I trying to prove someone wrong--even from my past? Am I trying to validate my worth? Courageous people keep asking, "What's the real motivation behind my desires?" Without this answer, you may achieve what you want and then find it doesn't satisfy like you thought.
- Why don't I have it? Ouch. This is the question that's often skipped because it reveals whether a person is living from a blame, entitlement, or empowerment mindset. This question may be the one that requires the greatest courage.
What am I willing to do to get it? Desire doesn't produce any results. Only actions. How this question gets answered determines whether a person is content to live in "Desireland" or do the work to build "Achievementland."
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What builds an extraordinary life?
Today we'll look at four more practices in the "Stop the Splatter" series which are building blocks of "extraordinary." The "big" events and actions reveal extraordinary faith, character, and abilities, but they don't build these. Rather, extraordinary is built by faithfully completing the "ordinary."
I address four specific practices:
Writing -- to remember God's faithfulness and goodness; to show appreciation; to deal with thoughts and emotions instead of being drug around by them.
Whistling -- a positive mindset, a joyful heart, a whistle-while-you-work is one of the hallmarks of extraordinary people
Words -- whether spoken to yourself or others, all words will build up or tear down; speak death or life.
Worship -- nothing will reorient your perspective and how you show up more than worship.
Combine these practices with the five from Episodes 196 & 197: Word, Walk, With, Withdrawal, and 40 Winks. You can build an extraordinary life and avoid splattering yours by faithfully and intentionally practicing these nine actions.
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Holy Week in the Christian faith is a microcosm of life. One day everything is filled with sunshine and joy. Then things get a little “weird.” Then everything falls apart. We can draw strength knowing God is still always with us.
When life is filled with joy, we don’t need to live in fear wondering when the “other shoe is going to drop.” These times are also ordained by God. When things get weird, we can examine whether we are focusing on God or others. When all falls apart, we can know resurrection follows death. Perhaps not in the way we imagine, but it will come if we remain faithful.
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The "ordinary" wrecks more lives than the "extraordinary."
The "ordinary" builds more lives than the "extraordinary."
Seldom does a big, transformative conversation, event, or opportunity come out of nowhere. Usually there is a trail of ordinary actions repeated through ordinary days that lead to success -- whether in relationships, health, or careers.
Conversely, ordinary actions which aren't taken lead to failure.
Continuing last week's series on "Stop the Splatter," we look today at the importance of With, Withdrawal, and Winks.
We need to be with people; we need to withdrawal and experience solitude with God; we need sleep, aka 40 winks. We are not merely brains and hearts boxed into an inert container. Our bodies are as much part of God's design as our minds and hearts.
Be reminded and encouraged about the importance of sustained "ordinary" practices to keep from drifting into dangerous waters or out to sea where you're lost. Keep living with intentionality. Your immeasurable, eternal, and irreplaceable impact depends on it.
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Nobody wakes up one day and says, "Today's the day I begin the journey to ruining my career, marriage, reputation, finances, kids, friendships, ___." Instead, small steps always precede big splatters. Always.
Whether it's allowing small grudges to fester, inviting inappropriate flirtations, or justifying "losing it," small wrong steps eventually lead to terrible outcomes.
The great news is small steps also lead to great outcomes! Today we focus on two simple steps within most people's ability in normal circumstances. Getting into the Word and getting out for a walk. Don't let the familiar fool you. It's not knowing what to do that matters; it's doing it.
(Preaching to the choir here, folks.)
Join me for a mini-series on the Ten W's that can save you from cleaning up a lot of splatter!
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Using the 1944 film Gaslight as a launching point, we explore the difference between interrogating a story and talking yourself out of one. Sorting this out often requires outside help, however, don’t confuse someone stockpiling evidence to support a conclusion they’ve already reached with someone gathering data to reach a conclusion. The first is confirmation bias in action. The second is what genuine help looks like.
We expand the four-step framework to five and the importance of facing true stories -- whether they are happy or not.
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This episode tackles one of the trickiest territories in the story series: the stories we tell ourselves about other people’s motives. When someone doesn’t respond to a text on our schedule, doesn’t mention a couples’ event, or shows up with flowers after an argument, a story begins. This week we learn how to interrogate those stories — and what to do once we have.
We unpack a familiar scenario in marriages to show how our storytelling plays out in real life. Learn the practical four-step process for handling stories about someone else’s motives — especially in close relationships.
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What you tell yourself about your spouse, children, family, friends, colleagues, and neighbors will make or break your relationships. These stories carry the most emotional weight and, often, have the most at stake.
One of the most important reminders in this episode isintensity of emotion is not an accurate measurement of how true or false a story is. We tend to be far more emotionally invested in — and defensive about — our up-close personal stories than our impersonal ones. This applies to both the negative and the positive stories we tell. And it’s especially true when it comes to our children.
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Where does racism, sexism, and classism begin? With a story. The habits we build at the micro-story level directly shape how we think at the macro level.
Macro stories tend to come in two varieties:
- Up close and personal — Stories about people and groups we interact with directly.
- Far away and impersonal — Stories about people and groups we’ve never met. Paradoxically, we can be more emotionally attached to these stories, precisely because they’re harder for anyone to challenge.
The micro-stories we’ve been tracking don’t just exist in isolation. They accumulate. Over time, they reveal and reshape our character, our mindset, and our expectations of others and ourselves. And many macro stories — the big ones — begin as a single micro story that grew.
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We can cling to our stories like we keep clothes in the closet we haven't worn in six years. Why? In Part 2 of the "It's All In Your Head" series, we move beyond the labels of “positive” and “negative” and introduce a more useful framework: true, untrue, and unknown.
Paying attention to our stories is work. But like exercise, it gets easier with consistency. Once you experience the benefits, you’ll want to keep at it. And remember: we’re not only looking for negative stories that are costing us. We’re also looking for positive ones worth preserving and protecting.
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Every day we tell ourselves hundreds — maybe thousands — of stories. Some are fleeting micro-stories that last only seconds; others stretch into full narratives. This episode explores why those stories matter so deeply: because they quietly shape our beliefs, drive our actions, define our character, and ultimately determine the impact we have on the world around us.
This Week’s Challenge
Begin paying attention to the stories you’re telling yourself — especially the micro-stories that play out in seconds. Here are some ways to track them:
- Keep a journal and write down the stories you notice throughout the day.
- Jot quick notes on index cards when a story surfaces.
- Record voice memos on your phone in the moment.
Get curious about what you find. You might be surprised — some stories will be more judgmental or negative than you expected, and others will be more positive. Either way, don’t shame your stories back into hiding. You can’t change what you’re not willing to see.
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Stars have been guiding people for generations, from the wise men who followed it to the birth of Christ to mariners searching for land. Yet without the fixed north star, Polaris, navigation by stars wouldn't be possible.
In the final installment of the Core Compass of Truth series, we look at the "North Star" which serves as the guide for all people today--Scripture. While the other points on the compass are necessary, the Bible remains as the fixed point.
See why this matters and learn a fascinating bonus fact about our solar system's north star!
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Discover a powerful, life-long lesson I learned one Christmas that began with a poem about a pig.
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People. They can be hard to live with. They’re impossible to live without.
God has created us to need people for many reasons, one of which is they can help guide us towards truth. Sometimes it’s the truth we need to see about ourselves. Sometimes it’s the truth someone else needs to see. Always it’s to know the truth about who God is and how we are made in His image.
In this replay of Part 3 of the Core Compass of Truth series, see how people are crucial to your knowing and living aligned with truth — and how necessary you are to others!
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Have you ever played peek-a-boo with a child who thought if they covered up their eyes that you couldn’t see them?
Sometimes that’s how we are with God and all He created. If we just close our eyes to the evidence of His existence, power, and goodness all around us, He won’t see us.
But God is evident in Creation. In Part 2 of the Core Compass of Truth replay, discover how the physical world and universe help point us towards truth.
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What GPS system does your life depend on?
I don't mean the kind in your vehicle but the one in your heart signaling what's right/wrong, smart/dumb, and good/bad. Gratefully, God has given us a core compass of truth that has four parts just like the four cardinal directions of north, south, east, and west.
Common sense is one point that helps to keep us on track. Listen and discover how common sense is one expression of God's amazing grace and why we won't navigate life wisely without it.
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Gratitude. A virtue we love and sometimes wonder how to make tangible.
Don't let gratitude get buried in the closet of good intentions -- in your life or in your family. Instead, choose a culture of great impact by adopting one or more of the buffet of practices you can choose from.
Toss out "fake it until you make it" thinking. That mindset has a short shelf life. Rather, find creative ways that move gratitude from a nice idea to a lived habit.
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Ready or not, change comes!
How do you keep from drowning when life hits you unexpectedly with great loss?
How do you keep from spinning out of control when something positive comes your way?
I unpack five A's to keep you on course, whether you're adjusting to painful or positive circumstances that caught you by surprise. You'll see how to:
Act, not react.
Accelerate goals, modify them, or let them go.
Adjust your priorities, but not your principles.
Avoid the temptation to package a Tiffany gift in a Target box.
Ask for help and be aware of who to avoid.
Share this episode with someone you know who's facing unexpected change in their life.
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"You can't change someone else" is true.
So is "You can influence someone else to change."
How do we not try to take ownership of someone else's life while owning the power of our influence? In this episode you'll learn seven ways you can help or hinder change in someone else -- and maybe even yourself in the process!
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The idea that enough pain motivates change is dangerous. While sufficient pain might prompt a person to change, it might also keep them from changing. Why?
Because pain can migrate from being an experience to becoming an identity.
Young women today are especially wrestling with this because significant and ongoing anxiety has become the "norm." While we want to bring empathy and compassion to this issue, are we promoting the very problem we want to solve by failing to bring truth?
I explore change and a specific application to the issue of anxiety in today's episode.
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Change is typically hard, especially when it's significant and has been tried before. While practices and techniques matter, the biggest obstacle is our mindset.
Believing change isn't possible, for us or someone else, is the #1 obstacle to growth. Whether subtle or loud, this belief packs incredible power. Today we unpack how:
- Changed minds will result in changed words and behaviors.
- The difference between destructive people and difficult people
- The danger of treating changeable character traits like permanent attributes
- Believing change is possible in others requires vulnerability
We'll examine how big of a Gospel we have by applying it to what we really believe about the possibility of change -- in ourselves and others.
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Change is inevitable. It occurs by default or intention, and when it's by default, it seldom produces the benefits we hope.
Yet how does sustainable and positive change happen?
In the first episode of the mini-series on Change, I unpack three common yet harmful ideas that keep people from changing:
- The information fallacy
- The rock-bottom myth
- The shame motivator
These ideas can not only limit people's ability to change but can contribute to destructive patterns in ourselves or others.
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Life inevitably puts us in places of overwhelm. While we can't avoid this entirely, there are ways we can face these times with maturity.
Discover how five "R's" make a crucial difference.
- Remember
- Record
- Re-orient
- Release
- Re-energize
With both practical application and principles from the example of David in 1 Samuel, you'll be empowered to not run away from overwhelm but face it courageously.
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Sometimes the mirror of self-awareness doesn't make us look beautiful. What it reveals is ugly. That's what I experienced recently when tiny sprouts of envy kept popping up in my heart.
The solution began by choosing curiosity over shame. Rather than trying to spray these weeds with a quick prayer of repentance and then zipping on, I stopped to ask why they were growing in the first place. The answer?
My imagination had become too small. Huh?
Yep, there's a correlation between the activity of a holy imagination and the presence of envy. This examination also revealed the connection between pain and cynicism and how to be attuned to the suffering in the world without being consumed by it.
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What's one element every relationship depends on for success?
Jesus told a story illustrating this with not just one but two plot twists. The first part of his story is as delightful for us today as it was for the original audience. The second and third parts? They take some swallowing!
Grace and forgiveness received but not given leads to God's judgment and will harm or destroy every relationship. It's not a matter of if, but only when and how much.
The parable of the unforgiving servant demonstrates with clarity that acquisition of knowledge is not equal to application of truth. We are not called to be information collectors but grace givers.
See why grace and forgiveness is a must-have in every happy and successful relationship.
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BFF's (Best Friends Forever) are awesome -- and rare. We can miss great friendships in pursuit of the elusive one BFF. Instead, a new mindset about friends will open the door to building a rich and diverse community of friends. Who knows? Maybe even a BFF will come out of these relationships!
Get practical help on how to move from acquaintances to situational friends towards the inner circle of friends who you entrust with your heart.
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If a relationship doesn't have a higher purpose than itself, it won't be sustainable. If pleasure is the measurement of a successful relationship, by default that nurtures selfish people. Instead, when a relationship serves a higher purpose, fulfillment of duty becomes the measurement. Paradoxically, duty becomes a pleasure.
From King Solomon to Victor Frankl to John F. Kennedy, the importance of a mindset focused on responsibilities rather than pleasure is what sustains individuals and relationships.
Be strengthened to appreciate endurance is its form of achievement and understand why pleasure won't sustain a relationship but purpose will.
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One of the unintended consequences of the concepts of "boundaries" and "toxic people" becoming mainstream is it's reinforced our default tendency to focus on other people's behavior instead of our own. Yet owning our choices is the most fundamental of all relational principles.
Victor Frankl's sobering statement summarizes the truth: "Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms—to choose one’s attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one’s own way.”
When we own our ability to choose how we're going to show up in every situation, regardless of how anyone else does, we will experience profound freedom.
Discover the most powerful key to being relationally smart as we unpack moving our focus from others onto ourselves.
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What seems intuitive turns out to be wrong.
Successful long-term relationships have as many, perhaps even more, differences than those who fail or survive but never thrive. How can this be?
People who learn to de-personalize differences succeed. Those who don't, well, they don't succeed.
Differences are inevitable. Letting them destroy your relationships isn't. Learn how to navigate them successfully. In today's episode, we discuss:
- Identifying the difference between style and substance
- Getting curious about why a difference bugs you
- Treating differences like a photo rather than a magnet
- The danger of projecting
- Staying solution-oriented and refusing stereotypes
- Going back to relationship bedrock -- expectations
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What's one trait all children share naturally? It both delights parents and can wear them out. Ready?
Curiosity.
By cultivating this trait in adulthood, we can significantly minimize conflict.
As we continue the mini-series on being relationally smart, we see:
- The difference between matters of trust and assumptions
- The connection between assumptions and expectations
- The power of investigating, not interrogating, your assumptions about yourself and others
- How fewer assumptions leads to fewer conflicts
Becoming curious rather than defensive can make all the difference in your relationships, whether family, work, friends, or neighbors.
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The "nail in the head" video was quite popular -- unfortunately. While I understand the intent, sometimes good intentions aren't enough. We need to think through the entire message we're communicating.
In the 2nd part of my "Relationally Smart" miniseries, you will discover the three ways subtle (and not-so-subtle) stereotypes hinder growth and harm relationships.
You will be able to move forward and not stay stuck by developing a solutions mindset. I unpack:
- How a solution mindset works from the level of expectations.
- How a solution mindset focuses on shaping the future rather than replaying the past.
- The energizing impact of a solutions mindset.
Remember to order your copy of The Great Brain Remodel of Adolescence. Grow your confidence, effectiveness, and empathy while parenting, educating, or mentoring youth ages 12-24.
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Communication may be the key that unlocks the door in a relationship, but it's what's behind the door that unites or divides. Too often we've been taught to focus on crafting a beautiful door rather than examining what's on the other side.
All relationships rest on expectations. The more aligned the expectations, the greater the unity. The more misaligned the expectations, the greater the conflict. While this seems like a "well, duh," statement, the reality is we often never identify or express our expectations.
In today's episode, we look at principles including:
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God has been expressing expectations from the Beginning.
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Identifying and expressing expectations requires courageous honesty and vulnerability.
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Identifying and expressing expectations reveals priorities, values, and beliefs about what we owe others and what they owe us.
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Eliminating all expectations is ridiculous and shouldn’t be a goal. Aligning expectations with what is right, just, and reasonable is our goal. Any other approach isn't sustainable for the long term.
Invite others as I begin this "Relationally Smart" mini-series.
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Why are young people leaving the Christian faith?
In Part 4 of the mini-series addressing this issue, we focus on the impact of what happens at home. Specifically, we dive into:
- What percentage of teens have a regular dialogue with their mom or dad about matters of faith and life? The answer might surprise you!
- Is the cultural prioritization of self-esteem a pro, con, or neutral in the decision to adopt Christianity or not?
- What roles do protective parenting and preparedness parenting have?
- The danger of over-relying on theology
- How relevant is the Bible to everyday life? No, really. Not the "right" answer, but the "lived" one.
Summarizing the major findings in this four-part mini-series, we see among many youth Christianity is irrelevant, intolerant, incompatible, and irrational. How can we use this information effectively? Get a free resource online at the website.
You, and the young people you impact, can't count on good intentions being enough. You need truth.
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Why are young people leaving the Christian faith?
Learn what the research shows and be empowered to parent, teach, pastor, and mentor young people by being fully attuned to what's going on in their hearts and minds.
In Part 3 of the series, we look at five ways the Church is losing young people to other beliefs.
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A too-small Gospel
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Biblical illiteracy and ignorance
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Moral failures of leaders and personal hurt by a professing Christian
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Simplistic answers to complex issues
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A me-centric Gospel
You, and the young people you impact, can't count on good intentions being enough. You need truth, because that is the basis for true hope.
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Why are young people leaving the Christian faith?
Learn what the research shows and be empowered to parent, teach, pastor, and mentor young people by being fully attuned to what's going on in their hearts and minds.
In Part 2 of the series, we look at:
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The impact when youth is emphasized and age is devalued
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How the emphasis on independence rather than interdependence contributes to a me-centric view of life and thereby, need for faith
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The perceived incompatibility of Christianity and science
You, and the young people you impact, can't count on good intentions being enough. You need truth, because that is the basis for true hope.
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Why are young people leaving the Christian faith?
When are they most likely to leave? Do they come back?
Learn what the research shows and be empowered to parent, teach, pastor, and mentor young people fully attuned to what's going on in their hearts and minds.
In Part 1, we look at when young people are deciding to leave Christianity behind -- in all or part. The answer may surprise you! I dive into specific ways the culture influences choices about faith.
What happens when the scaffolding of Judeo-Christian ethics, morality, and purpose is removed?
Can the heavy emphasis on self-esteem backfire when it comes to faith?
You, and the young people you impact, can't count on good intentions being enough. You need truth, because that is the basis for true hope.
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Would you like to become more than you currently think is possible and do things you feel are beyond you? Get real help in today’s episode with Audrey Rindlisbacher.
Audrey continues unpacking the seven laws of life she discovered on a desperate search for healing for herself, her marriage, and her family. Studying ordinary people who became extraordinary as they lived these seven laws, Audrey became energized and hopeful. Today she leads others to learn and live these principles—not in a formulaic, one-size-fits-all application—but in a manner governed by a person’s relationship with God.
Audrey is the author of The Mission Driven Life and founder of the Mission Driven Mom Academy. Over 600 women confirm Audrey’s teaching is substantive, understandable, and actionable. They love having a community, coaching, and friendships along with the course content in the Academy.
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Exhausted and frustrated from a home life that was a mess, Audrey Rindlisbacher set out on a journey to find a different way to live. While counseling helped, she needed more tools. Determined not to give up, she began reading about heroes of the faith.
Audrey discovered these ordinary people with ordinary struggles chose to live by the principles of natural law which turned them into extraordinary individuals. The Ten Booms of The Hiding Place fame and Mother Theresa are a few examples. This pursuit, along with the study of Scripture, led her to identify the Seven Laws of Life--Four Foundational and Three Leadership.
In the first part of our conversation, Audrey speaks with courageous transparency and invites women to a life of wholeness, purpose, and self-mastery.
Applying these principles to her own life, marriage, and parenting, Audrey’s family transformed. She now equips other moms to see the transformation they desire in themselves and their families through the Mission Driven Mom Academy.
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“The proof of the pudding is in the eating.”
“Talk is cheap.”
“Actions speak louder than words.”
If a person claims to want one thing but their actions say another, what's the truth? The answer isn't always as obvious as it may seem. Three questions help lead to the truth -- whether it's for someone else or yourself.
- Do they/I have the knowledge or skills?
- Do they/I have the ability?
- Do they/I have the opportunity?
Discover how these questions help us answer the final question in our series on Life's Four Most Courageous and Crucial Questions. "What am I willing to do to get what I say I want?"
During this episode we'll look at:
- self-limiting beliefs;
- aligning our desires with the realities of limited time, money, and energy;
- capacity vs ability;
- wanting outcomes vs. processes.
We also see how teaching our children to use this question builds problem-solving skills.
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What's one of the most courageous, vulnerable, and life-altering questions you can ask? Why make this part of your ongoing parenting dialogue?
"Why don't I have it?" ("It" being a goal or desire.)
Many frameworks about goals and outcomes include the two questions we've focused on the past two episodes:
- What do I want?
- Why do I want it?
But many don't ask the third. Without answering this question, you can get stuck on a hamster wheel or move from one race to another but never achieve what you want. Honest and in-depth answers to this question can reveal:
- The presence and dangers of perfectionism
- Fears of failure and success
- Attitudes of entitlement
- Hidden roadblocks that can be removed with creativity and insight
Discover how this question (along with the other three) helps not only ourselves but our children develop self-awareness, confidence, and humility.
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When might the statement, "I just want God's will for my life," serve as a convenient evasion?
We continue last week's exploration of four crucial, courageous questions necessary for all of life. In Episode 159 we unpacked, "What do I want?" Today we look at "Why do I want this?"
Not only does this inquiry aid in uncovering the motivations behind our desires but also dismantles the shame that often inhibits our growth. By addressing these questions with curiosity rather than judgment, we allow ourselves to engage in a transformative process that fosters empowerment and intentionality in our lives.
Understanding our desires and motivations requires courage and humility, particularly when confronting the possibility of self-serving reasons. Often, however, we realize the "why's" behind our "wants" may be shackling us to self-limiting beliefs that aren't based on truth. Also, cultivating curiosity in our relationships enables deeper connections and insights into the values and motivations of those around us.
Listeners are encouraged to get curious this week with two of their own "wants" and "why's" and with one "want" and "why" with their family members. It can be surprising and revealing what answers turn up!
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"What do you want?"
These four words compose one of life's scariest questions. But it's a crucial and ongoing inquiry for those courageously committed to earthly excellence and eternal significance.
Two brothers made a request of Jesus who responded by asking, "What do you want?" They got a "no" and a heart check.
A blind man came to Jesus who questioned, "What do you want?" He got a yes -- and a life transformed!
A lady in Aisle 13 was willing to answer, "What do you want?" and it became an opportunity for ministry both to her and the stranger who asked.
Listen in to discover why asking yourself this question is critical.
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Intentional remembrance is a power tool for times of stress, fear, and conflict. It helps us refocus, refuel, and refuse damaging relationship cycles.
God made remembering a big deal in the Old Testament, and Jesus made it a priority in the New Testament.
Intentional remembering help us:
- refocus from our circumstances to God's capacities when we're anxious and afraid
- refuel with confidence when facing discouragement or difficult decisions
- refuse to get caught in "last situation finality" cycles in relationships
When used to process, not prosecute -- ourselves or someone else -- intentional remembering is one of the most powerful tools we have that's always ready to pick up and use!
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If “God has given me everything I need to raise my kid,” as I’ve often heard, I have a question. “Where’d he put it?”
While I understand the good intentions behind this statement and others like it, this mindset does more harm than good.
Parenting is relationship work at its most complex, mysterious, and difficult. We know every other relationship arena – from marriage to business – requires actively acquiring knowledge and skills for success. Yet the shaping of human beings is supposed to somehow be innate – especially for moms. But this false narrative has a high cost.
Defensiveness and/or deep insecurity can result that leads to all kinds of missed opportunities, regrets, and adults in need of significant repair.
Innate capacity, desire, and protectiveness do not automatically produce knowledge and wisdom. If only it were that simple!
We can stop depriving parents, especially moms, of the keys they need to open doors of success with a new attitude!
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Principles that forge a meaningful life during the “empty nest” years are the same ones needed in other seasons. Ruthie Gray, “juggler of generations,” shares how the application changes, but not the foundational truths. The author of Empty Nest Awakening: Weaving the Threads of Your Passions into Purpose discusses some of these key principles in the second part of our conversation.
She shares about:·
- how to find support from people who understand where you are;
- being strategic about your “yes” and “no;”
- the power of journaling
- making plans and holding them with open hands in prayer;
Ruthie encourages moms to view their God-given desires and interests not as selfish indulgences but ways to serve. “If God is calling you to something, he’s calling you to someone.”
As a Gen X mom, 15-year caregiver, and self-proclaimed juggler of generations, Ruthie believes her God-given purpose is to impart peace, joy, and wisdom to moms managing the demands of multiple age groups. Ruthie is the host of the Sandwich Season Sanity podcast and the Next Steps Retreat for Empty Nest Entrepreneurs. Her blog for moms offers help that has no expiration date!
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Parent well, and you'll work yourself out of a job. Then what?
Ruthie Gray, author of Empty Nest Awakening: Weaving the Threads of Your Passions into Purpose speaks hope and wisdom into moms of every season in the first part of our conversation. Among other points, we discuss:
*misconceptions younger moms can have about the "empty nest" years
*the grief that can accompany children growing up
*the vital importance of moving from connections to community
*practical steps to discover, or rediscover, your passions
*moving forward with purpose
Visit Ruthie's website at: https://authenticonlinemarketing.com/
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What happens to the brain during adolescence?
No, it doesn't shut down or go off-line, although it can sometimes seem that way.
Rather, it goes through an astounding remodel. When parents, educators, and mentors understand this physical process, they can be empowered with confidence, effectiveness, and empathy.
Understanding our biology is a critical part of the journey to spiritual strength, emotional health, and relational wisdom. Learn how the brain remodels itself over a ten-year period, approximately ages 12-24, and why this knowledge is critical.
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Artist, author, and speaker Cindy Egger continues to encourage and equip listeners to share their story of faith. She reminds us there's not one "right way" to introduce people to Jesus and we're not responsible for outcomes, only faithfulness.
Small acts of kindness, striking up simple conversations, meeting for coffee, and opening one's home can have a more profound impact on someone than we may know!
Cindy is the author and illustrator of the 31 Day interactive devotional journal, "Time with the Lord," available here:
https://www.amazon.com/Time-Lord-Every-Day-Devotions/dp/B0DNWN4TKS?sr=8-1&language=en_US&ref_=as_li_ss_tl
Connect with Cindy to learn more about her speaking, classes, and resources at:
https://cindymortonegger.com/
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"You just can't live without Jesus!" Well, "Yes, you can," thought Cindy Egger, and she had been doing a "good" job of it for 30 years.
Raised in a good home and living a good life, Cindy wasn't resistant to the Gospel as much as she didn't see the need for it. Yet eventually she came to see her need for Jesus was much more about a changing internally than externally.
After coming to faith as an adult, God brought art back into Cindy's life, and this grew into a business and ministry which opened doors for sharing the "Good News" to thousands of individuals. Today she equips other women to share their faith as a natural part of their life, using their unique abilities.
She encourages us to remember that we're not responsible for outcomes but for actions of faithfulness, as we never know the full impact of sharing even one time with an individual, whether a child or adult.
Connect with Cindy and discover her work as an artist, speaker, and author at:
https://cindymortonegger.com/
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What should a person say and not say, do and not do, when someone else is deeply hurting over a severe loss?
Michelle Ruddell offers practical help and gentle reminders in the second part of our conversation about the co-existence of joy and sorrow. Michelle's son was killed in a car wreck at age 5, and Michelle determined she would not allow grief to turn into bitterness.
She courageously shares her journey to empower others through writing and speaking.
You'll want more than one copy of Michelle's book, Welcome to the Club -- I'm Sorry You're Here. This is a great resource to keep on hand for when the world comes crashing down.
Invite Michelle to speak! Your audience will absolutely come away hope-filled!
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Is experiencing or expressing joy in the midst of great loss and grief a betrayal? A sign of denial? An unhealthy coping mechanism?
Author and speaker Michelle Ruddell knows joy and sorrow not only can co-exist but must if loss and grief aren't allowed to turn into bitterness. Losing her five-year-old son in a car accident while 12 weeks pregnant with her daughter, Michelle rejected the debilitating words spoken to her. Instead, she determined with God's help to not become a broken and bitter person.
In Part 1 of our conversation, Michelle shares her journey of facing her "new normal," with candor. She gives practical wisdom for the person in the midst of loss, grief, and suffering and for those who want to help. Whether it's "Don't say this" or "Do this," Michelle speaks with a rare blend of authority and tenderness.
You'll want more than one copy of Michelle's book, Welcome to the Club -- I'm Sorry You're Here. This is a great resource to keep on hand for when someone else's world comes crashing down.
Invite Michelle to speak! Your audience will absolutely come away hope-filled!
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Ever had somebody drop TMI (too much information!) on you when you weren't expecting it? Not fun!
While much of the world has unlimited information available at one's fingertips, TMI can be a serious problem. A warning in 2 Timothy clues us in, and we look at four specific dangers in today's episode:
- Distraction
- Diversion
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- Disguise
While God desires us to be people of knowledge and wisdom, this doesn't automatically mean we will be people who know or follow the truth. Learn how these four dangers are ever present and how to avoid them without going to the other extreme of TLI -- too little information!
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If you don't want to live ruled by fear, anxiety, or insecurity, you're going to have to fight. Each person's battles are specific and unique and may change over time. But not fighting won't keep you safe; it will only keep you hidden and ineffective.
Kim Hardy shares how we can fight , not alone, but with God on our side! Kim uses her own journey to teach women and youth how aligning our thoughts with God's truth is key to transformation and this opens the door to hope.
Kim speaks about practical steps on taking control of one's thoughts to powerful reminders about not allowing the good in life to be a replacement for anchoring one's identity in Christ.
Order Kim's book, Fighting My Battles With God On My Side, and visit with her about speaking engagements, especially for teens!
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Website: https://www.sunflowersofhope.com/
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Email: info@sunflowersofhope.com.
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Emily Dickinson's infamous line, "Hope is a thing with feathers" can leave us thinking that hope is light, fanciful, and flighty. But true hope is like concrete anchored deep in bedrock.
Author and speaker Kim Hardy knows the immense need for hope after losing her father at a young age and her beloved brother as a young married woman. In her training as a teacher she began to realize how her unrecognized and unresolved issues were keeping her from a full life.
Along her journey of growth, her relationship with God changed as she saw him not as a distant figure but of being right next to her. He wasn't there to condemn but to help and give hope!
Order Kim's book, Fighting My Battles With God On My Side, and visit with her about speaking engagements, especially for teens!
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Ever had a conversation take a hard left turn that you never saw coming?
Therapist Donna Scott explains how underlying issues can trigger or blow-up conflict and how to handle it successfully. In Part 2 of "Honey, I Shrunk the Conflict," Donna unpacks:
- Time-out and time-in when a conversation gets hijacked
- The importance of validation
- The difference between validation and agreement
- How empathy and apologies don't always go together
Visit Donna's website for her book, The Tapestry of Trauma, and to learn about her counseling, coaching, and speaking engagements!
https://www.donnascotttherapy.com/
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Does navigating conflict in one or more relationships feel like scaling Mt. Everest?
Try "LUV!"
Therapist, coach, speaker, and author Donna Scott shows how "LUV" can shrink overwhelming conflict to a manageable size. The goal isn't the elimination of conflict (an impossibility!) but to approach it as a way to grow both you and your relationship.
In Part 1 of our conversation, Donna makes active listening understandable and explains the dangers of assumptions. You will learn:
- What grows conflict and what to do instead
- The difference between criticism and complaints
- The cost of contempt -- whether spoken or unspoken
- The 5-1 rule of encouragement
Donna provides an invaluable action you can start taking today: Ask one clarifying question!
Visit Donna's website for her book, The Tapestry of Trauma, and to learn about her counseling practice, speaking engagements, and other resources.
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"Perfect pastor's wife" Cheryl Lutz exchanged her shaky identity, dependent on keeping others happy, with one grounded in accepting Christ's love. She continues sharing her hope-filled message in the second part of our conversation.
Today's highlights include:
- The importance of recognizing patterns in ourselves that point to a need for growth and/or healing
- Discerning when to seek counsel and what kind
- The necessary, albeit often difficult role, of community in the healing process
- How emotional and relational maturity is equally important to spiritual knowledge
- Why self-awareness is vital in recognizing the messages triggers and emotional responses are trying to teach
Visit Cheryl's website to order her book, find other resources, and inquire about her speaking ministry! https://www.cheryllutz.com/
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Cheryl Lutz shares how she moved from "perfect" pastor's wife to secure daughter of God! and how to exchange people pleasing for a secure identity.
Cheryl courageously shares her personal journey, revealing how past traumas and the relentless pursuit of perfection—a misguided endeavor often cloaked in spirituality—can lead to profound emotional and physical crises.
Cheryl uses her experience as a clarion call for listeners to reassess their own identities and the roots of their emotional struggles. She wants others to know that true security and significance are found in their relationship with God, rather than in societal approval, even if that society is other Christians.
A certified Bible counselor and author of the impactful book Securely Held: Finding Significance and Security in the Shelter of God's Embrace, Cheryl brings hope to the pervasive issue of insecurity and the incessant human desire for validation.
Connect with Cheryl at: www.CherylLutz.com and order a copy of her book, Securely Held: Finding Significance and Security in the Shelter of God's Embrace.
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Language matters. The words and phrases we use have an impact -- whether it's immediate or results from a slow-build.
Today we examine four familiar phrases Christians use that need tossing. While the intention might be good, that doesn't mean the effect is. We look at:
- "God doesn't call the qualified; he qualifies the called."
- "Christians aren't supposed to judge."
- "God wants to use you."
- This isn't so much a phrase as an idea expressed in different ways. Christianity isn't a packaged set of correct theological beliefs; it's a way of living.
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If you're a woman seeking to break free from the weight of expectations and unhealthy habits, this podcast will inspire you to take actionable steps towards a healthier, happier you.
In Part 2 of my interview with Christine Trimpe, she shares her remarkable journey of losing 100 pounds and the profound lessons learned along the way. We delve into the importance of community support, the challenges of food addiction, and practical strategies that can empower women to reclaim their health.
Christine emphasizes that this journey is not just about physical transformation; it’s about finding joy, freedom, and purpose in life. You will be encouraged to embrace your own journey and equip yourself with the tools necessary to thrive.
SugarFreed Book Details: https://christinetrimpe.com/sugarfreed/
Free Gift––SugarFreed Free Chapter Excerpt: https://pages.christinetrimpe.net/sugarfreed-free-chapter3
SugarFreed: Stop Losing the Weight Loss Battle, Start Gaining the Victory
Amazon Link: https://a.co/d/ciEnG4S
Details about The SugarFreed™ Me Weight Loss Solution Program: https://christinetrimpe.com/weight-loss/
Free Gift––Crush Your Cravings: The Ultimate Wellness Guide for Christian Women https://pages.christinetrimpe.net/free-guide-1-podcasts1465441
Invite Christine to Speak: Christine Trimpe, Speaker
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Twitter: https://twitter.com/KetoChristineMI
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Ditch the guilt and say hello to "joy" -- and health!
Joy and fitness are often seen as distant companions, yet Christine Trimpe’s journey tells a different story. As a speaker, author, and certified health and wellness coach, Christine has transformed her life from battling obesity and sugar addiction to embracing holistic health.
You'll be empowered as Christine shares honestly about her journey, which began in college, where the pressures of life led her to form unhealthy habits, ultimately resulting in morbid obesity. She reveals the struggles of breaking free from the “sugar shackles” that had held her captive and how recognizing her patterns of behavior helped her reclaim her health.
Whether it's physical, emotional, or spiritual well-being, Christine acknowledges the challenges of setting and achieving goals, particularly amidst societal pressures and personal setbacks. She emphasizes the significance of surrendering daily to God and embracing community support to break free from harmful patterns and food idolatry.
As you reflect on your own health journey, you'll gain practical insights on fostering a healthier lifestyle in alignment with your faith.
SugarFreed Book Details: https://christinetrimpe.com/sugarfreed/
Free Gift––SugarFreed Free Chapter Excerpt: https://pages.christinetrimpe.net/sugarfreed-free-chapter3
SugarFreed: Stop Losing the Weight Loss Battle, Start Gaining the Victory
Amazon Link: https://a.co/d/ciEnG4S
Details about The SugarFreed™ Me Weight Loss Solution Program: https://christinetrimpe.com/weight-loss/
Free Gift––Crush Your Cravings: The Ultimate Wellness Guide for Christian Women https://pages.christinetrimpe.net/free-guide-1-podcasts1465441
Invite Christine to Speak: Christine Trimpe, Speaker
Social media links:
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ChristineTrimpeLLC
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/coachchristinetrimpe/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/KetoChristineMI
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It's January and everybody's promising a program that will make this year amazing. Some have merit; others are money-making tactics. There are three "G's", however, that will absolutely impact how you finish 2025 -- and years beyond!
Three key attitudes: gratitude, grit, and a generational perspective shape us and others far more than is evident at first glance.
- Developing an attitude of gratitude can significantly enhance resilience and grace.
- Embracing grit means choosing to act decisively rather than remaining passive and living like a couch potato.
- Thinking generationally encourages selflessness and cultivates deep thinkers.
- A perspective of gratitude combats feelings of entitlement that are prevalent in society.
- Living intentionally is crucial; no one drifts into success or maturity without effort.
Without intentionally practicing these three attitudes, we'll default to cynicism, selfishness, victim thinking, laziness, and an entire stew of destructive traits.
But by integrating these three attitudes into our daily lives, we can create a more meaningful existence and positively influence those around us.
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The holiday season, often touted as the most joyous time of the year, can paradoxically become a source of overwhelming stress!
But we can find peace and joy and say goodbye to chaos by reflecting on the promises found in Isaiah, particularly the four names attributed to Jesus: Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, and Prince of Peace.
When we stop and meditate on what is contained in these four names, our lives can be changed. We can find wisdom and direction; divine power to act on our behalf; a reliable, protective, and providing father; and not just a person of peace, but a prince of peace!
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It's easy to think a supernatural event would endow us with great faith.
Maybe. Maybe not.
Angelic encounters grew Mary and Joseph's faith, but left Zechariah still doubting and questioning.
Yet faith is required to please God -- not merely in his existence, but in his character. This is despite whether we get the outcomes we desire or not.
Faith is hard. Unbelief is hard. We get to choose which hard we want. Both come at a cost.
We dive into the stories of Zechariah, Elizabeth, Mary, and Joseph and see how their faith journeys can impact our own. We see from Dallas Willard's The Divine Conspiracy how prayer is a practical and powerful way we nurture meaningful faith.
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I had grand visions for commemorating Advent with my kids when they were growing up.
The candles had other ideas.
I envisioned a serene family gathering filled with reflection and togetherness. But this didn't materialize. Instead, Advent became a series of mishaps involving arguments, sibling rivalries, and a match-to-candle ratio that showed something serious was amiss.
But I share more here than relaying a family story. Rather, to encourage you to remember nurturing a child's faith is more like growing an apple tree than a radish. It requires time, care, and the understanding that immediate results are not always visible.
You don't measure impact by immediacy. You'll smile along as you hear how this truth got lived out in my attempts to celebrate Advent.
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Many Christmas movies portray the season as one of hot chocolate, comfy slippers, and warm blankets. But the profound message of hope that Christmas brings, is a far grander and grittier story.
True hope is not merely about future outcomes but about experiencing God's goodness and strength in our everyday lives. A superficial understanding of hope can be dangerous, particularly if it invites complacency about our need for transformation.
By drawing on insights from Dallas Willard's work, The Divine Conspiracy, we see genuine change comes from a heartfelt desire for transformation, rather than just accumulating knowledge. We are reminded that hope is a sustaining force, capable of supporting us through both joyful and difficult times, and is essential for becoming the best versions of ourselves.
Takeaways:
- Honesty takes bravery, especially when reflecting on the true meaning of hope during Christmas.
- The Christmas story invites us to experience transformation rather than just information.
- Hope is essential for thriving, but it can also be a difficult concept to live with.
- True hope in the Christmas season is not about getting what we want, but about becoming who we are meant to be.
- We often confuse gathering information with personal growth, which can limit real transformation.
- Genuine hope is found in God's goodness, not merely in hoping for desired outcomes.
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Nurturing gratefulness in kids isn't easy. But it's not impossible, either!
Cultivating a perspective of thankfulness isn't just about making your home life more pleasant -- although that's a good enough reason. But the connection between faith and gratitude is significant, and the cost of ingratitude is extraordinarily high. (See episode 133 for a deep dive into that lesson.)
Get ten action items you can apply for kids of all ages starting today. Start with one or go all-in with all ten!
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The Old Testament book of Exodus includes a sobering story about the high cost of ingratitude. By default, we're at risk for repeating that mistake, but we can choose a different path.
We'll see the connection between gratitude and faith, thanksgiving and character. Drawing on Dallas Willard's work in The Divine Conspiracy: Rediscovering Our Hidden Life in God, we unpack five ways we can avoid the high cost of ingratitude.
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Are you concerned about the increasing number of children who are walking away from the faith? What if part of this is due to a lack of understanding the full Gospel?
While beliefs and behaviors is important, we must also include desires in our spiritual journeys. Yet so much of our teaching has been a "gospel of sin management," where our desires are are either ignored or indulged.
We can foster a deeper faith relevant to all of life by engaging children in conversations about their desires and discussing what we really believe about God. Do we see him as joyful? Interesting? Interested in us?
Get practical application on meaningful insights about the faith we practice and teach.
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"Christianity is not about rules, it's about relationship," is popular. But it's also misleading and can also be harmful.
Too much of Christian teaching has focused on behavior and beliefs and left out the third critical element: desires. We need an entirely new perspective because rules and relationship are not enemies. We do not need to choose between them.
We continue unpacking key elements from Dallas Willard's The Divine Conspiracy and discuss the gospel of sin management. How this tends to play out in one of two ways:
1) a big set of "right" beliefs + a big list of "right" behaviors; or
2) a small set of "right" beliefs + a small list of "right" behaviors.
Yet the answer isn't to meet in the middle and have a "medium" sized set of beliefs and behaviors. It is adopting an entirely new approach.
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Navigating the complexities of today's culture is challenging for parents, educators, and anyone involved with young people!
We need all the help we can get, and the Axis organization is a great resource. Join the continued conversation I have with Kelli Rankin of Axis.org.
You can be proactive rather than reactive when discussing pressing issues such as mental health, school shootings, gender, and sexuality. With an emphasis on spiritual strength and emotional health, you'll be equipped with the tools necessary to foster meaningful connections with the younger generation.
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Identity theft is not only about stolen Social Security numbers or bank details. It begins with your innate desire to be seen as unique and significant.
This quest for significance can lead to a distorted sense of humility, where we equate being humble with playing small. Drawing from Dallas Willard's insights in The Divine Conspiracy, we discuss the importance of recognizing our God-given agency and the drive to count for good in the world is not rooted in sin but in being made in God's image.
Yet our identity can become stolen by false but seemingly "Christian" labels like "waiting for God" or "being faithful in the small things." These can be legitimate but they can also only appear legitimate while really stealing our identity.
Salvation is not the first step in God's plan to erase us but rather restore us!
Learn how your desire to matter is a foundational part of restoring a whole identity.
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Ever feel overwhelmed trying to keep up with the music, trends, movies, media, and lingo of the younger generations?
Want to have meaningful conversations with your kids and have at least some idea of what's going on in their world?
Fear no more! You have an amazing research assistant just waiting to help you?
The Axis organization is a storehouse of up-to-date research-based resources empowering parents, pastors, educators, and others to build a life-long faith in the young people they love, mentor, teach, and pastor.
How? One conversation at a time!
In the first episode of a two-part interview with Kelli Rankin of Axis, you'll hear about resources like:
•The Culture Translator -- a weekly newsletter keeping you up current on the music, movies, TV shows, and social media trends impacting youth
•Parent guides -- a powerful tool equipping adults with information and discussion aids on numerous topics including mental health, technology, bullying, and more
•The Culture Translator podcast -- an audio version of the weekly newsletter with additional roundtable conversation
•Conversation kits -- video series on subjects from Anxiety to World Religions to educate and inspire meaningful and ongoing dialogues
•Courses -- In-depth looks on significant and timely issues
You'll hear how innovative pastors, parents, and educators are using these resources to engage youth in substantive conversations on relevant topics from a Biblical perspective. If you want to help upcoming generations grow a vibrant, steadfast Christian faith, you'll find Axis a tremendous partner!
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We're all part of a conspiracy. It's just a matter of which side.
Conspiracies are nothing new. They didn't start with the 2020 election, the 9/11 terrorist attacks in the U.S., or the President John F. Kennedy's assassination.
There's a long history of conspiracies (or related theories) involving leaders.
Julius Caesar was assassinated because of a conspiratorial belief he was going to proclaim himself king. Saul hunted David for years because he was convinced David was conspiring to overthrow him.
But the greatest conspiracy of all? When evil tried to overthrow God. Although they were kicked out of heaven, evil didn't quit. They just moved to a different tactic and place. Hurting God's kids and turning them against Him on a planet called Earth.
Join in as we launch into a discussion centered in Dallas Willard's excellent book, The Divine Conspiracy: Rediscovering Our Hidden Life in God.
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Attitudes are like smells. You can’t force them to leave a room when they’re bad, but they can force you to walk out. When they’re good, you can’t make them stay, but you sure don’t want to leave.
One of the greatest mistakes parents make, often unintentionally, is placing more emphasis on the beliefs they want to instill in their children rather than the emotional and attitudinal environment they create at home. Yet this is one of the most shaping forces in a child's life, not just in childhood but adulthood.
Children learn not only from what they are told but also from the emotional atmosphere surrounding them, which will shape their expectations of relationships and interactions throughout their lives.
We need to be as thoughtful in evaluating the attitudes we bring -- and allow -- into our homes as our children's food, toys, media, friends, and activities. But how?
Learn 10 ways you can put attitudes in their right place. Help your children grow their security, identity, self-control, self-awareness, and relational skills by putting these ten techniques into practice.
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What the parrot saw changed his attitude. We can follow his example, especially in these difficult times.
Join me as we consider the connection between our attitudes and the challenges we face, particularly in the context of a heated election. We can -- and must -- choose our attitudes with care, following the instructions Paul gives to the Christians in Philippi, Ephesus, and Rome.
Attitudes always lead to actions. These actions will open or slam doors for others who need to come to Truth. We can embody a spirit of grace and understanding, ensuring that our actions align with the values we profess, especially during times of societal tension.
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Discover the profound connection between creativity and our spiritual identity as we explore how to nurture creativity in our children!
Creativity is not just a skill for a special few but a fundamental trait rooted in being made in God's image. Through engaging stories, including the origins of Play-Doh, we learn how grit and belief in one's creative abilities can lead to remarkable outcomes.
As parents, it's crucial to encourage our children to embrace their creative impulses, whether through art, music, or imaginative play, to affirm their God-given characteristics. Join us as we unpack the importance of fostering a creative mindset in our kids, ensuring they grow into empowered individuals ready to contribute their unique gifts to the world.
Takeaways:
- Creativity is a spiritual trait that reflects our divine design and image.
- Encouraging creativity in children helps them grow into empowered adults.
- There are many forms of creativity beyond arts and crafts that should be nurtured.
- Parents should provide diverse creative activities to help children discover their unique talents.
- Limiting creativity to specific skills can harm a child's self-perception and potential.
- Creativity is essential for experiencing and revealing God's character in our lives.
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Two weeks before a momentous election in the United States, I'm going political -- and Biblical.
Citizenship, for the Christian, is a responsibility to steward. We may feel like burying this "talent" in the ground because it's too hard to engage in the rough & tumble of political commerce. But it's not an option if we are to walk in faithfulness. As Christians, we are called to seek knowledge and wisdom actively in all areas of life. Understanding the tension between God's sovereignty and human free will is crucial for informed decision-making.
Although it wasn't planned this way, the wrap-up of the series on the Beatitudes is the perfect way to discuss this responsibility. Like all truths, balancing tensions is necessary.
We must live, not merely hear or mouth, the Beatitudes during this divisive season. We must remember the poverty of all people, mourn for the world's brokenness, and extend mercy, rather than simply seeking political victory.
We must ask ourselves hard questions such as: How much time is spent in God's compared to the news? Are we more involved in prayer or polls? Do we hunger more for righteousness or political victory?
F.W. Boreham's essay from My Christmas Book, is especially worth remembering! What matters more? Battles or babies? Politics or people?
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The whimsical pushmi-pullyu's from Doctor Dolittle is a great metaphor for the internal struggles everyone faces in the human desire to be understood while also grappling with the fear of being truly known. We explore how this duality illustrates that while children yearn for connection and understanding, they may simultaneously resist it due to vulnerability concerns. We can -- and must -- embrace this complexity, advocating for intentional communication and efforts to deepen mutual understanding, even amid resistance.
Takeaways:
- The pushmi-pullyu illustrates the internal conflict between our desires to be understood and the fear of being truly known.
- Parents must engage intentionally with their children to help them feel deeply known, beyond just being caregivers.
- Children have a deep need to be understood, which can lead to emotional struggles if ignored.
- Understanding one’s child requires effort, time, and a willingness to ask meaningful questions about their inner lives.
- Even close relationships can lead to feelings of being misunderstood, as shown in Jesus' interactions with his disciples.
- Being a parent means navigating the complexities of emotional needs, including the push and pull of wanting to be known.
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I decided to become a drug addict while sitting in church in our regular pew, second row piano side. The same as Chonda Pierce!
Why? I needed a powerful testimony and growing up on a small Kansas farm didn't seem a likely path.
Nobody highlighted the compelling testimonies of "special speakers" who came through our church so kids would conclude the path to a powerful testimony was delving into a life of crime or addictions. But that's the conclusion I reached as a child. Fortunately, my brain matured, and I made better decisions.
But understanding the unintended consequences of our beliefs is necessary. Today's dive into the last Beatitude requires we tread carefully in what we teach -- directly and indirectly -- from these verses.
I attempt to do this as I emphasize the need for a respectful understanding of persecution, contrasting the experiences of believers in free societies with those facing genuine threats for their faith. This distinction is crucial as it underscores the importance of not trivializing the experiences of those who suffer deeply for their beliefs. I encourages you to adopt a nuanced perspective, acknowledging the harsh realities faced by many while also affirming that faithfulness is not synonymous with seeking out hardship.
Takeaways:
- Growing up in church led to a misunderstanding of what constitutes a powerful testimony.
- Persecution, while real for many, should not be glamorized as a necessary path for faith.
- Jesus teaches that the kingdom of heaven is for those who are persecuted, but not exclusively.
- We should focus more on faithfulness in living out our beliefs than seeking persecution.
- Our testimonies, even if not dramatic, are significant and can impact others profoundly.
- We must appreciate the freedoms we have while also caring for those who face real persecution.
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Rest and recreation play a crucial role in developing humility and nurturing our character. We explore the profound connection between our need for rest and our overall well-being—physically, emotionally, relationally, and spiritually.
Drawing from biblical principles, particularly the example set by God during creation, the episode highlights the importance of intentionally incorporating rest into our lives and the lives of our children. It underscores that rest is not laziness, but a vital practice that fosters resilience and creativity. By establishing healthy boundaries around rest, we can model and teach our children the significance of balancing activity with rejuvenation, ultimately preparing them for a thriving adult life.
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"Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called sons of God" was -- and still is -- a revolutionary statement in two ways.
First, as part of the Beatitudes, this meant bringing people to peace with God. For centuries only priests had been entrusted with the role of being intermediaries between individuals and God. To entrust ordinary people with the call to help bring people into relationship with God was revolutionary. It's still Christ's call to us today.
Secondly, for anyone to be known as a "son of God" (which applied to both men and women), was radical. To be God's priest, king, prophet, or servant wasn't new. But his child? That signaled a transformative relationship of tremendous intimacy.
We are still able to have this close of a relationship with God and invite others to do the same!
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Humans have a legitimate need for security -- food, clothing, and shelter. Jesus told his followers in the Sermon on the Mount God knows people need these things. Jesus said the "lilies of the field neither toil nor spin (work)," but he didn't add "neither should you."
Poverty can lead to one type of idolization; while prosperity can lead to another. How do we teach our children to be responsible in meeting the need for security for themselves and others, without going down either of the wrong paths?
That's we unpack today as we continue the series on teaching children to adopt the First and Second Great Commandments as their framework for life.
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Sometimes one word can make all the difference!
For example, "may" in a legal document is entirely different from "shall." The first makes an action optional; the second makes it an obligation.
In Jesus's teachings in Matthew 5, two words (7 letters) in the 6th Beatitude make all the difference -- not only for the original audience but for us.
"Blessed are the pure" is an entirely different message than "Blessed are the pure -- in heart!"
In the original audience's culture, "purity" had descended to an exhaustive (and exhausting) list of "thou shalt's and thou shalt not's." Over the centuries people had added their own items to God's original list of moral, ceremonial (instructions on how to worship God), and civil (political) laws. These were easy to measure because they were external.
Yet these additions corrupted the entire purpose for the laws -- just as some of our laws today become more about serving a system than the people for whom the system was originally designed!
But "purity" based culture, wearing a "Christian" tag, is still around. It might be subtle to-do's that infer a higher Christian maturity -- like early morning "quiet time" ranking higher than mid-afternoon "quiet time." Or it may be stringent formulas like those taught during the height of the "purity-culture" movement which shared elements with cults.
The addition of Jesus' two words -- "in heart" -- made (and still make) all the difference! True purity always works from the inside out, not the reverse.
We unpack this truth today and look at how we can assess our own hearts.
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Robert Frost's immortal poem, "The Road Not Taken" speaks to the impact our choices make. This ability is hardwired into us, yet we often struggle to teach our kids (or use ourselves) a framework for how to make good choices.
Today's episode unpacks the A-LASO method.
A--Appreciate the ability to chose. This perspective helps move us into a posture of humility and stewardship.
L -- Listen to voices which honor God. This is especially critical in a time where technology has made millions of voices accessible to our kids.
A -- Ask God. How differently the world would be if Eve had said, "Mr. Serpent, I'm going to ask God about what you're saying before I try that fruit."
S -- Speak into other people's lives about the choices they're making. There's a difference between sticking our nose where it doesn't belong and remaining quiet because of fear of ridicule or abandonment or conflict.
O -- Obey. Even when it's not clear why it matters.
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Remember the song lyrics, "What the world needs now is love, sweet love?"
It's as true now as then, even though what "love" looks like is still not universally agreed on.
One trait, however, that tends to be recognized -- even if not practiced -- is mercy.
This is one of the characteristics that Jesus declared marked people who lived in the kingdom of God. Mercy is not merely emotion; nor is it automatically marked by action. It is both the experience of deeply feeling someone else's need and then doing something about it.
Yet "compassion fatigue" presents a legitimate problem. How can a person avoid this modern dilemma while retaining and even growing a heart of mercy?
Is mercy simply "letting someone off the hook?"
Does mercy restore trust?
Does mercy oppose justice?
We unpack the 5th "Beatitude" and discover the power of mercy in stories ranging from Jesus' parables to Guy de Maupassant's masterpiece, "The Necklace."
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The gospel is meant to be "earthy." It's not about how to "survive" earth until finally making it to heaven. Jesus taught the "Kingdom of Heaven" was about life starting here on earth.
Teaching kids how to love God includes the practical, "earthy" things like honoring the places they inhabit and use. It's about seeing their purposes as being greater than self-interest and making a living.
Place and purpose have a deep connection that goes back to the Garden of Eden -- before sin ever happened.
Learn why teaching things like "Clean your room" isn't just about making your life easier. In the smallest of ways our requirements can build our children's character and enable them to be able to fulfill the First Great Commandment!
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If Jeff Bezos, the founder of Amazon, gave a free virtual workshop on how to run a successful company, people would listen!
If Sydney McClaughlin-Levrone, the 400 meter hurdles World and Olympic record-holder offered free coaching, you can bet hurdle-wanna-be's would stand in line to gain her insights.
So when Jesus says, "This is what leads to a fulfilled life," it's worth our attention!
Today we dive into the 4th Beatitude. We see how a hunger and thirst for God's approval is the first part of seeking His righteousness (right-standing). We discover how showing up in the world and doing good flows from that righteousness. We also see how our spiritual appetite is cultivated just like our physical hungers and thirsts.
We also see how "being fulfilled" isn't a promise of a future objective but a promise for the here and now in the nitty-gritty of life.
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Everyone ends up with more names than the one given at birth. Many of these prove to be stressful if not downright destructive. They can come from parents, caregivers, siblings, adults, or other children. They can be mean and cruel, designed to hurt, or they can result from ignorance about their power -- even if they're "positive" names.
See the power of names from the very first one given and how it can impact you to raise kids receptive to God's love.
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Meekness is a wonderful concept! But it can be hard (at least for me) to practice at certain places -- like the Department of Motor Vehicles!
In the 3rd Beatitude, Jesus declares it was the meek who would inherit the earth. Surely that would have sounded like Jesus didn't have a good grip on reality to a people ruled by Rome -- who hadn't conquered the "known world" by exercising meekness!
Gain insights into how this declaration ties into the first two "Be Happy's" (otherwise known as the Beatitudes) and learn what meekness is and what it isn't.
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Fulfilling the First Great Commandment needs a proper understanding of our origins. Were we designed? Derived? What difference does it make?
Be inspired to think deeply about this topic -- beyond a usual narrative about fossils, carbon dating, and age of the earth.
Be empowered to talk about this critical topic with your children.
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"You're going to love serving under my leadership, especially if you are in mourning." Not the opening lines of any new leader's address!
Yet early in Jesus' ministry he declares, "Blessed are those who mourn." How does this qualify for the "abundant" life he came to give?
Understanding "abundant" is not the same as "happy," is the start to accepting mourning as a part of life God enters into with us.
Gain a fresh insight into the Bible's shortest verse -- "Jesus wept" and why God promises comfort when (not if) we mourn.
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How can you help kids protect their capacities?
Teaching humility. But this is a virtue that requires time to develop. It's not a series of lessons to complete!
Learn three ways humility is developed and practiced. Discover from the examples of the space shuttle Challenger, popcorn, and the ancient Jewish king, Saul, the high cost of refusing humility.
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The “Beatitudes” can read more like inspiring but irrelevant wall art than life-altering wisdom. Jesus’s statement that people who were “poor in spirit” were blessed can sound like a cute nursery rhyme instead of the key to a life of true empowerment.
Discover why recognizing our poverty – our inability to provide for our own needs – unlocks the door to the power necessary for transformation.
Learn why we want to avoid both covert and overt arrogance. The first that says, “I’ll do it myself” and the second that admits to being “poor in spirit” but then chooses to wallow in that truth rather than being changed by it.
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Ever said anything your kids considered shocking? If so, you may be in good company!
In the New Testament book of James, he writes shocking words addressing the issue Christians were fighting about. (Sadly, Christians fighting over theology isn't new!) Back then it was faith vs. works, or, put another way, "who vs. do."
As we teach our kids the importance of a life centered on the two Great Commandments, developing "do" skills is part of this. A right belief isn't enough -- which James addresses with a shocking statement! Character that doesn't show up with "do-ing" isn't real character.
We dive into making the First Great Commandment real and actionable in pursuit of raising kids ready to fully engage in God's grand story!
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It's been said most people don't quit their jobs; they quit their bosses. How we relate to supervisors may make the biggest difference in how we show up -- or don't -- for a job.
It's the same with our faith.
Is Christianity a tyrannical boss? One that's good in emergencies but has little value in the day-to-day? Or one that has the desire and wisdom necessary for your success?
The first two are opposite types of the gospel of "sin management" so powerfully written about by Dallas Willard in The Divine Conspiracy.
The last gave us The Beatitudes -- eight ways how the gospel shows up in everyday life with a perspective and power that changes everything.
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How would you answer the question, "Who is your child?" beyond giving their name? Would it be a list of their interests or accomplishments?
What if we defined who-ness by both personality and character traits? Yet even that is a difficult distinction!
Yet difficult isn't impossible. It takes work to help transform our children's "who" capacities into abilities. Yet it's one of our greatest callings as parents. Where to begin?
Galatians 5:22, the famous list of the "fruits of the Spirit" is a great starting place to develop character. Yet intentionality is required. After all, desire alone doesn't build character for any of us.
Learn the connection between chocolate chip cookies, strength training, and developing your child's who-ness in the second episode in our series on making the First Great Commandment relevant in real life!
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Do people ever learn? Why does history repeat itself? Does anyone finish well in leadership without blowing up their lives first?
We close the study of Nehemiah with three life principles -- two are sobering; one is encouraging.
- Leadership matters. It's not enough for people to have the right credentials; they need the right heart.
- Systems and structures don't keep people on the right track. People do. Primarily leaders.
- It is possible for leaders to remain fully engaged over the long haul and not blow up their lives.
Nehemiah is a powerful book on leadership and faithfulness -- whether leading one's self, in obscurity, or in a very public eye. The last chapter isn't a "...and they lived happily ever after" ending. It's a reminder about the tendencies of people and the importance of living with intention and devotion.
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Today is the first episode in a new series helping parents teach kids how to live out the first Great Commandment in "ordinary" life.
We look at the connection between capacities and confidence. Does being confident make someone capable? Is being insecure an indication of a lack of capacity in an area?
We examine how to help kids identify their capacities by using three guidelines:
- God-revealed Truth (primarily from Scripture)
- Self-awareness
- Input from others
The first Great Commandment covers all of life! In this series we're going to break this extensive instruction into bite-size pieces with actionable insights.
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Worship can seem like it’s purpose is to stroke God’s ego. Is that its purpose?
Why does God place such a high priority on worship?
Fascinatingly, scientific research shows benefits to worship – especially corporate singing. It builds trust, creates community, reduces isolation, and affirms a positive sense of belonging and self. Worship is for our benefit – not God’s!
Worship re-centers us and helps us align with the truth we are not God but we have an intrinsic value because we are made in His image.
When Nehemiah and the people of Jerusalem and the surrounding areas gather to dedicate Jerusalem’s newly-restored walls, they prioritize worship – especially through corporate singing!
We can take a cue from their example in our lives as individuals and in our churches. “Music wars” do not have to divide people; music can be the most community-building activities we engage in. Church worship is the last place in the U.S. where people of all stripes can regularly gather and sing together.
Use Nehemiah’s example and scientific research to learn why community worship must be preserved and practiced.
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Cue the confetti! Bring on the balloons! Light the candles!
It's the 100th episode of the "Life's Key 3" podcast!!
Departing from the regular format, I give you a behind-the-scenes look at podcasting and use this to help you with communication and decision-making skills!
It's a delight helping you become spiritually strong, emotionally healthy, and relationally smart, and I'm looking forward to the next 100 episodes!
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How do you decide who to invite into your life as a spouse or friend?
Who should be an employee or volunteer at your organization, or church?
Is being a Christian enough?
How much weight, if any, should you place on circumstances when making key life decisions?
Discover the three “C’s” of deciding who to select as a spouse, business partner, employee, or ministry partner: character, credibility, capacity.
Gain insight into how trusting God to lead through circumstances can play a part in making significant decisions. Avoid over-reliance on circumstances or ignoring them entirely.
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What’s at stake in teaching kids repentance? Can focusing on requiring them to say, “I’m sorry” backfire?
What’s the cost to people and others who don’t take full responsibility for their choices?
We don’t just teach kids to apologize to “keep the peace” in our home. It’s about character that they’ll take into adulthood with them.
Repentance is connected to self-awareness, empathy, and integrity. It’s also connected to victimization, self-absorption, and self-deception.
In Part 2, learn what’s at stake in teaching kids healthy repentance. Discover four more considerations in deciding how you’ll teach repentance in your family.
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In Part 2, learn three more steps in the nitty-gritty work of restoring relationships.
Whether in our relationship with God or others, these five steps are required for mature and healthy restoration. Last week we looked at:
- Repentance requires words that align with actions
- Acknowledging and owning the causes that led to the breakdown
Today we unpack:
- Requesting mercy and forgiveness without manipulation or threats
- Stating the current reality
- Making commitments to change that are documented, specific, and measurable.
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Is requiring kids to say, "I'm sorry" good or not?
Does it teach repentance or something else? What's the real point of repentance, anyway?
What's the big deal about getting all sides to a story?
We unpack considerations for deciding why and how to teach your children about repentance in Part 1 of this oh-so-important subject!
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Children's stories about relationships don't prepare us well for life. They tend to two extremes: 1) The Cinderella ending -- "happily ever after" or 2) The Humpty Dumpty ending -- "unrepairable."
Yet how does a person go about restoring, or being open to restoration, when there's been a serious relational breakdown?
The people in ancient Israel model this beautifully in the Old Testament story of Nehemiah, chapters 9-10.
Discover the first two of five steps necessary for relational restoration -- whether in our relationship with God or people.
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Should you reward your child’s obedience?
Always? Sometimes? Never?
Why or why not?
Is the statement, “Delayed obedience is disobedience” true?
How do you walk the line between the following two truths?
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Expecting obedience for obedience’s sake is a right expectation.
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Obedience is worth rewarding.
See what Scripture shows us as God, the perfect Father, models how to parent our children by the way he parents us. See what Jesus said about “delayed obedience” and learn how you can apply not perfect-kid formulas but truth-based principles.
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What difference, if any, do your choices make in God’s divine direction?
Can you influence His “perfect” timing?
Learn from ancient Jerusalem’s wall-rebuilders what positioned them for perfect timing to receive God’s blessing.
Gain insights into obedience, the power of looking back, the need to look forward, and the difference between acting out of duty and delight.
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Given normal conditions, all children laugh and play. No one has to teach them these traits. Why? Perhaps joy is hard-wired into us because it's an empowering force.
Education and activities shape our children's development. Just as significantly is the environment they grow up in. If it's one of joy, this will make them stronger and more resilient. If joy is more of an exception than the norm (or non-existent), children will pay a cost not only as kids but as adults.
Intentionally cultivating an environment of joy is like supplying oxygen to your child -- and perhaps to them adopting your faith!
Discover the connection between joy, strength, and what your children will seek as adults in today's episode!
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What comes to mind when you hear the word, "Holy?"
If it's not "joy," it's understandable. But it should be!
Joy and holiness are mighty forces necessary to secure one's freedom.
See the parallels between the United States' celebration of the Declaration of Independence (July 4th) and the celebration of the Jews who had finished rebuilding Jerusalem's walls millennia ago under the leadership of Nehemiah and Ezra.
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Let's be honest. "Family Bible study" can provoke more guilt than enthusiasm. It's something we know we "should" do and keep meaning to "get around to." Yet another week (year?) can go by and all we've accomplished is adding more items to our "parenting failures" list.
Today I share five principles and six practical application ideas to help you move from "I should/want to/meant to" to "I am." No guilting here; just encouragement and insights to move from theory to practice.
Getting God's Word into your kids is not only an imperative, it's possible!
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We hear a lot about the need to “slow down,” “take a break,” and make time for “self-care.” That’s all good. But there are times when taking a break is the last thing we should do.
It may seem counterintuitive, but it may be when we're fatigued that we shouldn't take a break! Why?
Because it may make all the difference for us -- and others -- for our future.
Learn when following the example of the people who had just spent two months engaged in physically, emotionally, and mentally demanding work is the best course of action. As we unpack Nehemiah 8, we'll see:
- Prioritizing God's Word in spite of fatigue
- Men, women, and children are all able and called to learn and apply God's Word for themselves
- The role and need for Bible teachers
- Five principles for learning the Bible for ourselves and sharing our knowledge (however great or small) with others
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What if making kids strong is the best way to keep them safe -- for life?
Sounds good! But how?
Learn 10 ways in this two-part series. While the application varies by age, the principles apply from tots to teens.
Today we review:
•Struggle
•Speaking
•Perspective
•Unfamiliar
•Horizons
Then we dive into:
•Fences
•Laughter
•People
•Modeling
•Scripture
Building strong kids isn’t an event. It’s an ongoing process. Just like we need a variety of foods in our diet to build strong bodies, so our kids require multiple ways to become people of strength that leads to safety.
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Does the idea of discovering “God’s will” confuse, terrify, bore, or excite you? Is there even such a thing as divine direction? If so, how can we recognize it?
Seven principles from the example of Nehemiah enable us to make good judgments about whether we’re hearing God’s divine direction, our own desires masquerading as God’s will, or something else.
I unpack:
•Hearing accurately is a learned skill
•Taking circumstances outside our control into account
•Having a lifestyle of integrity and obedience
•Outcome for others includes leading to obedience and blessing
•Focusing on our responsibility, not others
•Tied to a lifestyle of seeking God
•It’s not for every decision we make
Just because someone says, “God said …” doesn’t make it so. Grow your discernment in hearing, recognizing, and applying God’s divine direction.
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Is it easier to keep kids safe or teach them to be strong?
What if strength is the best way to keep kids safe -- for life?
Learn 10 ways to build strong kids in this two-part series. While the application varies by age, the principles apply from tots to teens.
Today we'll dive into:
- Struggle
- Speaking
- Perspective
- Unfamiliar
- Horizons
You'll discover how to apply each of these key words in today's episode. Next week we'll look at the remaining five.
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Who is the first group of people you would employ after an organization-wide overhaul?
Musicians probably isn't your answer. But that's exactly who Nehemiah prioritized after Jerusalem's walls were rebuilt and gates were installed.
Singers and priests led worship and interceded on behalf of others. There's something about worship and intercession that helps keep us grounded in our God-given identity and purpose and keeps us from becoming self-absorbed.
We also see our highest calling is not to impressiveness but faithfulness and how it's necessary to have people -- not just practices and technology -- to guard us.
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In Part 2, we continue investigating how children develop a healthy, Christ-centered self-esteem. In Part 1, we explored the importance of dignity; the difference between applause and affirmation; the necessity to be intentional about being attentional.
Today we look at four more ways self-esteem develops (or doesn't!)
- Self-expression tethered to self-regulation
- Responding to criticism
- Grit or sticking with tasks when the fun is gone
- Repentance and restoration
All parenting approaches do not lead to the same outcome. Learn to discern the difference between practices based on timeless truths and current fads.
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Courageous people practice introspection and ask four key questions. Not just once but as a lifetime habit!
I unpack these four questions and other insights from our continued study in the Old Testament book, Nehemiah.
We see:
- God's timing is perfect -- and is a model for us to practice considerate timing with others
- Why we need to be mindful who we -- and those around us -- are connected to
- How introspection and repentance go together
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How do you nourish self-esteem in children that's Christ-centered?
How do you avoid the extremes of arrogance or insecurity?
While there are no guaranteed-outcome formulas, there are principles.
In Part 1, I share three practices you can apply at any age. I unpack:
- What treating children with dignity looks like
- When to affirm and when to applaud
- Why intentional attention is crucial and how technology complicates this
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Let's be honest.
Our success isn't always met with cheers -- especially from those closest to us.
Let's be courageously honest and admit our initial response to other people's success may not always be applause, either. Why?
Self-esteem.
In whatever area of insecurity, loss, disappointment, or pain we have, we're tempted to resent more than respect someone else's success in that area.
We can learn from Nehemiah's experience. He led a team that pulled off an astounding project -- only to be met with jeers and threats. We can follow his example, however, and not be dismayed by this.
We can also learn not to follow his enemies' example. Instead, we can become people who live with an abundance mentality. This requires actively taking three steps:
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Identify why we feel threatened or envious or pained by someone else’s success.
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Align our thoughts with what’s true about ourself and someone else.
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Act in alignment with that truth.
Over time when we walk this out, we will become people of grace and gratitude, greater security, and better positioned to receive God's blessings with thankfulness and humility. If not, we will become ungracious, closed, and embittered.
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What masquerades as “Biblical” teaching that is anything but?
What motivates – and sabotages – the best-intentioned parents?
Fear – especially when the world is a scary place.
Learn how to avoid three common false antidotes to fear.
Recognize the eight warning signs fear may be motivating you – in one or more areas.
Hear how to face and replace fear with what works in the long-haul.
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Fear is a four-letter word for a reason.
It’s one of the most destructive forces on the planet. It’s also one of the most subtle.
But conquering it requires us to say its name. We call it what it is.
The difficulty is fear doesn’t always show up clothed in a monster outfit. Sometimes it dresses like our best friend and invites us to dinner.
In today’s episode we see:
•Opponents don’t give up
•Just because someone changes methods doesn’t mean they’ve changed motives
•Differences between overt and covert fears
•Five ways to respond when people try to make you afraid
Fear doesn’t have to distract or destroy you. You can defeat it!
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It's not just "popular, charismatic, extroverted, or beautiful" kids who need to be raised to be leaders. Leadership is about character, not personality or physical traits.
Learn six characteristics to intentionally develop in each child following the example of Nehemiah and Christ.
- Being content with less than what a person can obtain or afford
- Standing up for others
- The actions that develop genuine compassion
- The importance of getting their hands dirty
- Valuing the need for integrity over the right to privacy
- Asking for affirmation
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Just because a leader is "effective" doesn't make them superb.
History shows "effective" tyrants can harmful tyrants.
What makes the difference between a superb leader or a harmful tyrant?
We'll examine six principles for distinguishing the difference. Whether the leader is you or someone else, in a paid position, volunteer capacity, or role within your family.
You'll see the importance in noticing the difference in asking, "What can I get" to "What do I need?" You'll be observant about whether someone is aware or disinterested in what it's like to be the "boots on the ground." You'll spot the red flag when transparency has to be requested or demanded.
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All of parenting (and life) is lived in a state of tension.
Not the kind of tension that comes from endless laundry, sibling squabbles, and sassy kiddos. But tension between two truths that must be held in balance.
Teaching kids to respect leaders while being aware leaders can manipulate, exploit, and abuse, is definitely one of those tensions.
Learn five practices to navigate this tight-rope successfully!
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Three words scare me. "God told me."
Why? Because those words began a life-changing, one-sided discussion from a person in a position of spiritual authority which devastated my heart.
I understand "church hurt" from experience.
How do we recover from leadership failures? We have examples in the Bible because leadership failure is nothing new. Continuing our dive into the Old Testament book of Nehemiah, we'll look at:
- Living from a values mindset vs. an outcome approach
- Why the core compass of truth is necessary to recover from and prevent leadership abuse
- Speaking up until the situation changes
- Distinguishing between individuals and institutions
- Why rebuilding trust must follow behavior, not precede it
- Resisting the desire for revenge
- Choosing to let your response define you, not someone else's behavior
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How does a parent raise kids prepared for the real world without creating paranoia? It's difficult -- especially when this includes teaching kids to recognize that even people they know might be manipulative, abusive, or exploitative. It's not always strangers or people "out there."
I unpack this tough topic today, using Nehemiah 5 as the perfect backdrop and model. Learn the principle tying levels of independence to levels of awareness. Learn questions you can ask and teach your children to ask themselves.
One of the best ways to keep kids safe is by making them strong and savvy. Be encouraged and equipped to do just that.
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Betrayal, abuse, manipulation, exploitation. Tragically, it's not just "outsiders" who subject us to these behaviors. It can come from right within our families, communities, and even our churches.
Being wounded by spiritual leaders is especially devastating.
In Nehemiah 5, we see four specific steps that are taken to deal with the abusive leadership that's happening while people are trying to rebuild Jerusalem's walls.
Nehemiah confronts, commands, compels, and calls. Learn how these four keys still unlock freedom for the wounded and oppressed today.
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Is making your four-year-old let Aunt Helen hug her a bad idea?
What does a younger sibling knocking over an older toddler's blocks have to do with flower gardens and your neighbor's nosy dog?
Why will you never win a power struggle?
What's one of the most life-impacting practices you can do as a parent?
Get insights and answers to these questions and more in today's episode!
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What possible connection could Emily Dickinson and Nehemiah have?
You might be surprised!
In today’s episode, you’ll see how the ancient leader Nehemiah employed three leadership practices just as relevant today as 2,500 years ago.
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Distinguish between practices that are appropriate for an emergency or a season but aren’t sustainable in the long run. Have an exit strategy for temporary solutions.
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Call people to do hard things even when it seems way outside of their skill set. As Dickinson wrote, “We never know how high we are, Till we are asked to rise.” Good leaders know how to call and equip people to rise to occasions greater than they believe is possible.
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Be willing to put up with some “stink” when it’s necessary to achieve worthy goals.
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"Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me" isn't a wise adage. It's the comeback of someone who’s been hurt by words but doesn't want to let it show.
Words wound or heal. They tear apart or bring together. They strengthen or destroy.
The first 14 verses of Nehemiah 4 are an opportunity to teach (and re-teach and re-teach) kids these truths:
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Following God and achieving success will make you a target of resistance and maybe even ridicule.
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Words have a powerful impact, whether they are typed, heard, or spoken.
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God calls us to both prayer and action.
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There’s a time to take a situation only to God, and there’s a time to speak up and act on behalf of yourself and those being impacted by harmful words.
Teaching about words isn’t a “one & done” activity. Rather, it’s an ongoing task. No matter how much kids may roll their eyes or say, “Yeah, yeah, yeah,” wise parents continue to teach about this critical topic. The power of words – whether those said or heard, texted or read – can’t be overstated, especially with today’s technology. It’s crucial we teach children to be mindful of the words they are sending into the world and those they are absorbing.
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Success doesn’t always make you a star. Sometimes it makes you a target.
That’s what happens to Nehemiah and the Jews who are at work rebuilding Jerusalem’s walls. In the 4th chapter, verses 1-14, we see these truths:
1.Accomplishments will make you a target.
2.Never underestimate what a unified body of people can accomplish.
3.Anticipate resistance to increase in intensity the more you achieve.
4.Understand resistance comes from both internal and external sources.
5.Prayer is not a substitute for action.
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You want your kids to have a good work ethic. But how does this happen without bribery or nagging? Won't they learn how to work in adulthood?
We discuss how to apply the four principles hidden in Nehemiah chapter 3:
- The importance of credit and recognition
- Life skills everyone needs
- Teaching no one is above doing "menial" work
- Tapping into intrinsic motivation
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Need the cooperation of others to accomplish a project?
Heard the phrase, "Don't judge a book by its cover?"
Nehemiah chapter 3 is a lesson in both. At first glance, it seems to be nothing more than a historical record of little (no?) relevance to today. Yet it provides four guidelines in how to gain the cooperation of others to accomplish a project that depends on others.
We'll see the value of:
- Giving credit and recognition
- Preparing for "This work is below me" attitudes
- Not overlooking potential workers because of specialization bias
- Tapping into intrinsic motivation
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Anything in shambles in your home? Maybe it feels like “everything?”
Or maybe dinnertime is a constant state of chaos.
The longer something is in a state of disarray, the more “normal” it becomes. But how do you change it?
First, recognize it takes a while to see a problem has become a pattern. Ditch the guilt for not recognizing an ongoing problem in the making the first time it occurs!
Then apply four principles to help transform chaos into calm.
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Cast a vision
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Make an emotional appeal
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Address fears
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Have a strategy that invites action
Even long-term problems can be turned around!
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Ever need someone’s cooperation to achieve what you have a passion for?
How can you do that effectively without resorting to manipulation, bribery, or threats?
Nehemiah models this beautifully! Learn from his example by:
•Understanding the difference between goals and desires
•Recognizing the importance of having a strategy before sharing your vision
•Appealing to emotions and addressing fears
•Capitalizing on people’s energy
•Dealing with criticism
Whether you need cooperation at home, in business, at church, or in your community, these principles fuel success!
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They're never too young, and it's never too late to teach kids how to set -- and achieve -- goals! But does it make any real difference?
Yes! Specifically, goals empower kids in two key areas:
- Self-awareness. When a person sets a goal, they become more attuned to their desires, fears, beliefs about themselves and others, and their character.
- Intentionality. Rather than living by default, having goals teaches a person to live with intentionality -- to ponder and plan.
Sounds pretty good, huh?!
Today we dive into not only setting goals but -- and this is often overlooked -- developing strategies to achieve goals!
Learn how to apply the principles Nehemiah models whether it's to engage kids in
- making dinner time less chaotic
- creating a party or vacation or family event that is enjoyable for everyone
- making decisions about college & career
Whether you're in the throes of college visits or toddler trials, training your kids to use goals is worthwhile! The principles apply to toddlers saving money or earning stickers and to teens deciding what direction they want to take after high school.
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Have any goals -- especially big ones?
Projects that require other people's cooperation?
Nehemiah is the role model for you! He demonstrates three practices necessary to pull off a major achievement. Ignore these and imperil your success!
We "flip" Nehemiah's to-do's and look at what not-to-do's in today's episode.
What not to do?
- Rely on second-hand information.
- Invite lots of people into the planning stage.
- Tell a lot of people about your goal.
Discover the difference not applying these three practices make!
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You can raise empowered-mindset kids by teaching them three practices modeled by Nehemiah 2,500 years ago. If they don’t learn these when they’re young, they’ll pay a cost when they’re adults.
See why it’s important to:
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Require they have an area of life they need someone else’s help – even when they don’t think they need it.
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Role-play to teach effective communication when you need or want someone else’s cooperation. This practice can start when they’re young and continue through adulthood.
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Prepare for opposition when setting out to accomplish a task.
It’s not just what you say that shapes a child. What you allow you also teach. Parent with wisdom by following Nehemiah’s example!
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When you want to change the status quo, three practices are critical. Nehemiah modeled these, and they’re as relevant today as 2,500 years ago. Whether you desire change in a personal relationship or an organization, success depends on three practices.
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Preparing for conversations with those whose approval, support, or assistance you need.
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Accepting help.
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Preparing for resistance.
More people are committed to keeping the status quo intact than changing it. Don’t expect everyone to be happy when you want to help others.
Everyone is not going to be your cheerleader when you set out to accomplish what God puts in your heart.
See how Nehemiah perseveres in rebuilding and what you can learn from him as you move towards your God-given goal!
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Kids need to learn how to ask for what they want – with boldness.
But how does this differ from making incessant demands?
What about those who ask for little?
Gain insights on why and how to empower kids with a bold asking ability!
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How would you answer, “What do you want?” if asked on a moment’s notice?
Would you be prepared to give a ready reply? Or would you ask for more time or say, “I have no idea!”
Do you have a goal worth risking your job for? Your life?
Nehemiah did – and he was ready to answer when asked, “What do you want?”
He models the power of clear, concise, and bold communication as he presents King Artaxerxes with his BHAG – Big, Hairy, Audacious Goal. (Although I don’t know how popular acronyms were in ancient Persia.)
Whether our bold ask is from a friend, spouse, boss, or someone else whose cooperation we need, Nehemiah models the importance of communication that’s:
- Clear
- Concise
- Bold
Hints are great for crossword puzzles; they don’t work well in personal communication. Save your energy for life’s hard stuff. Be clear, concise, and bold whether you’re asking for a BHAG or to go out to dinner instead of cooking at home.
As a bonus, learn what exam even fewer people pass than becoming a Navy Seal!
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Here’s a model of prayer you can teach kids whether they’re toddlers or teens (and everything in between). It comes from Nehemiah 1:5-11 where his empathy leads to fasting and prayer. Not just a “toss up a few words and hope they land” prayer, but a powerful model.
In seven verses Nehemiah incorporates six steps:
- Recall God’s goodness.
- Request God’s attention.
- Repent of wrongdoing.
- Remind God of his promises.
- Remind God of his relationship.
- Request God’s favor for others and yourself.
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Real leaders always begin by leading themselves.
Power only needs a position. Leadership requires position, capacity, and skill.
The Old Testament story of Nehemiah is a gold mine of leadership practices and
principles!
In the first chapter Nehemiah models two leadership practices: initiative and prayer.
Nehemiah’s initiative leads to empathy, and his empathy leads to action.
Genuine empathy always leads to action. If it’s only an emotion, it’s not empathy!
Nehemiah’s empathy first leads to fasting and prayer. Not just a “toss up a few words and
hope they land” prayer, but a powerful model of prayer we can use in just six steps! In just seven verses Nehemiah incorporates six steps:
- Recall God’s goodness.
- Request God’s attention.
- Repent of wrongdoing.
- Remind God of his promises.
- Remind God of his relationship.
- Request God’s favor for others and yourself.
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Ever played a mystery game based on figuring out clues?
Ever had someone say your name in "that" way?
Ever heard, "Three strikes! You're out!?"
Three of Jesus' followers could tell stories about these scenarios! Their experiences can empower and transform us as we encounter hard times in our lives.
A folded piece of cloth gave John a divine clue to the whereabouts of Jesus' body after his death and burial.
A "stranger" answering her question with her name sent Mary Magdalene running to deliver a message of hope as meaningful to us today as the original listeners.
A simple question posed three times, "Do you love me," initially gave Peter grief, then the understanding his failure hadn't cancelled his calling.
Hope. It was the common factor in each of these encounters. It's what we desperately need today. The last two chapters in John's gospel is a message of hope for all who grieve and all who doubt.
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What was Jesus’ #1 reason for coming to the world as the God-Man?
We don’t have to guess at this answer because Jesus stated it plainly. Not to the religious leaders. Not even to his disciples. But to a Roman politician. Pilate, to be exact.
Jesus answered Pilate’s infamous query, “What is truth?” by saying, “This is the reason I have come into the world: to bear witness to the truth.”
As followers of Christ, this is to be our purpose as well.
But fear – the wrong kind – has a complicated relationship with truth and too often tempts us to become truth beaters rather than truth bearers. And most often in subtle ways.
Learn more about how to live in this aspect of life’s great tension as we continue unpacking John’s gospel, chapters 18-19.
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Everyone in Jesus’ arrest, trial, and execution by crucifixion was motivated, at least in part, by fear. Everyone, that is, except Jesus.
Fear is a powerful driver of human behavior, even when it masquerades as concern for others.
One fear or another will dominate every person’s life: a holy fear that leads towards God or an unholy fear that drives away from God.
It’s not always easy to discern the difference.
It’s one thing to feel fearful: it’s another to live fearful.
John 18-19 helps us see:
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the impact of being motivated by an unholy fear
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how betrayers seek to bring others into their camp
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how we can face betrayal like Christ did
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that a sudden and unexpected change in circumstances can make us vulnerable to acting out of fear
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the temptation for leaders to hide self-serving actions under the cloak of caring about others
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Mike Tyson once answered a reporter’s question about an upcoming bout with a rival by saying, “Everybody’s got a plan until they get punched in the mouth.”
That sums up Jesus’ disciples experience on the night of their last Passover together.
Jesus knew what was coming. They had no clue.
They probably had plans. For later that night. For the next day. Likely they had a plan for the rest of their life.
And then they got punched in the mouth. And the gut.
It could have been a knock-out blow.
And they initially fell apart, but they came back and followed Jesus’ last words.
Abide.
Bear fruit.
Love.
Over and over, these were Jesus’ last instructions. Abide in Him. Bear fruit. Love Him. Love one another.
The sum of the Christian life in four words: Abide. Bear fruit. Love.
We need this message today because sooner or later, life punches everyone in the mouth – and the gut. While we may be knocked to our knees, we don’t have to be knocked out.
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Be honest. There's at least one person you would like to "uninvite" to Thanksgiving -- if not all events you'll ever attend. They make giving thanks a spiritual discipline!
(Okay, maybe that's just me. I'm still a work in progress.)
It's easy to give thanks when we're comfortable and things are going our way. Not so much when we're called upon to do things we don't want to do -- and might even be desperate to get away from.
There's a guy in the Bible like that. He struggled with gratitude. And to be fair, I can see why on this particular mission God gives him.
Jonah isn't probably the top Bible character you'd associate with Thanksgiving, but his story is worth visiting. Not just for what it can teach us as we (in the United States) celebrate this holiday but for every day of the year. Including Leap year!
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Have you ever known the pain of betrayal by a close friend? If you’re honest (which, of course, you are), did you want to let everyone in your circle know about the betrayal?
It’s astounding how Jesus doesn’t do that when he knows Judas is going to betray him. What’s even more amazing is Jesus makes no last-minute effort to stop Judas from what he was going to do!
As we continue to look to the gospel of John for how we can live wisely and fully engaged, we see in chapters 13-14 these significant discoveries:
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Jesus wasn’t thrown off course by Judas’ betrayal. When we experience betrayal, we also don’t have to be knocked out of commission. Neither do we have to call it to everyone’s attention in the moment. Sooner or later, the truth has a way of coming out – just as it did with Judas.
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Jesus modeled the necessity of sometimes giving people warnings about their direction. But the point isn’t to shame or condemn but to let them know we’re here to keep loving them even when they fail.
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Actions do speaker louder than words. Jesus makes it clear love for him results in doing what he says we should and not doing what he says is wrong.
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Unity with those who share our love for Christ is our #1 life purpose. Oh, so easy to say; so hard to live!
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Understanding our origin and knowing our destination empowers us to live out our callings on earth. Not just origin in the “evolution vs. creation” since, but origin as in how we grew up. This isn’t an exercise in parent-shaming but in accepting the humility none of us are self-made people.
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What does Dietrich Bonhoeffer’s famous expression that when God calls a person, He says “Come and die!” mean in everyday life?
Is “dying to ourselves” a different way of expressing God’s goal is to erase us?
We investigate this in today’s episode as we wrap up John 12. In addition, we see:
- Jesus acknowledges his heart is “troubled.” He doesn't dance his way into the coming spiritual battle; he fights his way forward.
- Incorrect and “non-essential” theological beliefs can keep people from Jesus.
- If Jesus couldn’t do enough to win people over, it shouldn’t come as a surprise when we can’t either.
- FOMO isn’t new. It thrived in Jesus time. Fear of missing out – on other people’s acceptance – kept many people hiding their beliefs.
It’s fascinating to see what Jesus doesn’t do as he prepares to wrap up his time on earth in human form.
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How does a person measure real change in themselves or someone else?
What’s the point of Bible prophecy?
We dive into both of those topics from the gospel of John. Yep, in that book Jesus displays
the purpose of Biblical prophecy – of telling it forward.
We also get savvy about measuring behavioral patterns to assess whether there’s stagnation or genuine growth occurring in ourselves and others. No easy task, especially when legitimate concerns get mixed in with selfish motives.
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I doubt when Mary and Martha saw Jesus raise their beloved brother from the dead they anticipated Lazarus would soon be targeted for assassination. Yet that’s what happens. One of the reasons we must identify and confront right & wrong is because of its eventual outcome, not just its immediate impact in a person or society. I doubt when Jesus performed the miracle of turning water into wine at a wedding that if you had said to the religious leaders, “You’re going to be plotting an assassination against this man someday,” that they would have believed you. But that’s exactly where their refusal to lead a genuinely “examined” life led them.
In John 12:1-9, we see:
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Worship and gratitude might make you a target of criticism from those who are close to you.
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Receiving God's divine intervention (a miracle) might make you a target of outrage from those who are opposed to the status quo and Jesus’ presence making a real difference in your life and others.
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Goodness and evil are insatiable. They have unending appetites. Goodness always wants to bless more, love more, care more. Evil always wants to enslave more, blind more, destroy more, deceive more. That’s one reason we must choose a life of intentionality and close relationships with godly people who really know us and are invited to speak into our lives. It’s another reason we must not only be “hearers” of the Word but “doers” so we do not deceive ourselves.
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Martha is so relatable! One minute she’s telling Jesus she knows he is the Christ, the Son of God. The next, she’s informing him that if they roll the stone away from Lazarus’ tomb, there’s going to be an odor.
Can you relate to the tension of believing in God and then questioning his wisdom when
he asks you to do something? I can!
Along with exploring this topic, we see that the linen strips of cloth which still bound Lazarus after being resurrected symbolizes we can experience God’s salvation and still need others to help free us from issues which prevent us from entering fully into life.
And while you’d think bringing someone back from the dead would only gain a response of “Hallelujah!” from the witnesses, it doesn’t. Some people come to belief; others run to tattle. Leaders who prioritize protecting their position will not only miss out on God’s goodness, but they’ll lead others astray as well.
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John 11 is perhaps most famously known for containing the shortest verse in the Bible: “Jesus wept.” Yet why was he crying? Sure, Lazarus had died, but Jesus knew he was getting ready to bring him back from the dead.
Why waste time weeping?
Nine verses in this chapter reveal powerful truths such as the ones we unpack in this episode:
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We are never rebuked for coming to Jesus with our “Why?” and disappointment.
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Even though God knows our pain is momentary, He still chooses to be present with us in the moment. He doesn’t rush us out of it. He enters into it.
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God’s work, even His great miracles, will soften some hearts and harden others.
Listen and discover this chapter is worth becoming one of the most well-known and not
because it contains the Bible’s shortest verse but some of its most comforting truths.
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How would you like to be known by only one event in your life? Not me!
Unfortunately, that's often what happens to Martha of "Mary & Martha" Biblical fame. Mary gets applauded because she's prioritizing listening and Martha is chided because she's concentrating on serving. But what about the other Mary & Martha stories?
In John 11 we see a Martha worthy of our respect and emulation. The situation is dire: Lazarus, Martha & Mary's dear brother, has died. Both women are grieving -- and likely incredibly concerned about how this is going to upend their world. Why? You'll have to listen to find out!
In today's episode we unpack three key lessons from John 10:1-27.
- Jesus' treatment of women was scandalous by cultural standards. We need to follow his lead, not only in how we regard women but people in all social categories.
- We don't need to earn Jesus' compassion; neither do we need to fear his rebuke if fear invades our prayers.
- Martha comes to Jesus with her pain; she doesn't allow her pain to turn her away from Christ.
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Kenny Rogers' song, "The Gambler," included these lines:
"You gotta' know when to hold 'em; know when to fold 'em. Know when to walk away. Know when to run."
You may be wondering what that has to do with John 10, but hold on. It's relevant!
Jesus demonstrates the necessity of discernment in dealing with people. He shows sometimes you stay and respond to people's questions (and accusations). Sometimes you remove yourself entirely from a situation.
Sometimes we better serve the work of God when we leave the places of power and prestige and go to the humbler places -- and people.
We also see:
- The necessity of knowing the Scriptures from memory. The Holy Spirit can't bring back to our remembrance what we never knew to begin with. If the Very God of Very God relied on Scripture in dealing with thorny (toxic?) people, how much more do we?!
- We're not obligated to answer any question put to us.
- People of integrity welcome transparency. People with something to hide will have misaligned words and actions -- even if they're buried deep.
- The origin of Hanukkah or "The Festival of Lights."
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Thieves and wolves are coming for you.
Maybe not the kind with masks and fangs, but those who are out to steal you (and your children's) innocence, virtue, reputation, and opportunities. How can you be on guard to recognize and defeat these foes?
In John 10, Jesus identifies himself as the Door to the sheepfold and the Good Shepherd. A door provides safety and filters who gets access to the sheep. A shepherd is invested in protecting and providing for the sheep -- even at risk to his own life.
Yet speaking these words of truth (again) brought divisiveness. Part of Jesus' response was check my words against my actions. One of the most important truths we need to apply in life is that actions always reveal the truth more than words alone. Right-living folks welcome examination between words and deeds as Jesus (again) demonstrates.
Discover three key truths in today's episode to help you achieve life's Key 3 aims: Learn yourself, Love God, and Live connected.
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What's the one item you possess no one can steal?
Your story.
Others may refute, ignore, or devalue it, but no one can steal your story.
In our concluding look at the blind man's healing in John 9, we see the power of sharing your story -- and the cost. Others can only hear your story through their filter, and if their filter is jealousy, hate, contempt, or fear, don't expect your story to matter. It may even get you cast out.
We also see in this episode:
- "Give glory to God" can be used to manipulate people rather than honor God;
- People will turn on you when you expose the contradiction of their own beliefs;
- A non-teachable spirit is a hallmark of controlling leaders;
- Jesus seeks out the cast out;
- Jealous people won't leave you alone.
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You'd think everyone would have cheered. Hugged the man and given praise to God.
Nope. Nada. Didn't happen.
Healed after spending his life blind from birth, instead the man experiences division, interrogation, disbelief, and rejection. Even the man's family kinda' throws him under the bus.
The same happens today when people experience a significant transformation or receive a miracle from God.
We unpack this and more as we continue looking at John 9 and one of the Gospel's most dramatic, poignant, funny, sobering, and enlightening miracles.
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Jesus had no formula for healing. He spoke. He touched people. He prayed over them. He mixed dirt with his spit and spread it on their eyes.
Wait, what?!
What would you be willing to endure to receive healing? To gain clarity? A new perspective? How about mud in your eyes?
We dive into the story of the man blind from birth who received his sight through two choices: a) the humility to get spit & dirt spread over his eyes; b) the willingness to follow Jesus' instructions when there was no promise of reward attached.
From John chapter 9 we also unpack the faulty and dangerous beliefs linking disabilities to divine retribution.
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Ever deal with narcissistic, arrogant, immature, or controlling people? If you asked others, would (could?) they be honest enough to say if that's how they experienced you?
Jesus dealt with these individuals, and through his exchanges with them, we can see their traits and tactics.
Finishing our look at the 7th chapter of John's gospel, we'll unpack:
- how leaders use fear to control others when they operate from fear;
- The misuse of education;
- The danger in being lazy about examining one's beliefs;
- three marks of a "toxic" person.
We'll also see how curiosity that's a part of humility is a powerful antidote to narcissistic thinking.
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Have you ever heard the statement, "God doesn't call the qualified; he qualifies the called?" I have -- many times and for many years.
I think it's dangerous.
One inaccurate interpretation of Scripture can keep people from believing in Jesus. Yet we're still held responsible for whether we recognize Truth or not!
Today we continue with our study of John 7, specifically looking at four key topics:
- The connection between calling and qualifications.
- Our responsibility to discern truth.
- The divisive nature of truth.
- Good intentions don't make up for bad theology.
Dive in as we unpack more verses from John's insight-rich gospel.
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Engage fully in God's grand story.
Why? Because you have an impact that is immeasurable, eternal, and irreplaceable.
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Why did God place such a premium on feasts, festivals, and commemorations? By the time Jesus lived on earth, the Jewish calendar didn't have more than three months lapse before there was another sacred event to participate in. Why?
Remembering yesterdays makes a difference in how we live today -- or at least it should. God knew his people needed to remember his faithfulness, provision, love, and care. Not just in some vague, generic way, but in recalling and recounting specific times in the nation's history when God showed himself to be for them. When he revealed he was the one and only true God, more powerful and more loving than all the other false "gods" people had constructed.
In today's episode on the first part of John chapter 7, we dive into:
- how the Feast of Booths (or Tabernacles) is relevant to us today;
- why family (and others close to you) may be the last to believe in you;
- the importance of keeping your eyes open for divine timing.
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Jesus could make some weird statements. Especially if taken at face value. Start talking about "eating my flesh" and "drinking my blood," and that can raise some eyebrows.
So why did Jesus make these statements?
To separate the "deep thinkers" from the "surface thinkers."
Those who came to Jesus to learn from him were required to think deeply while those who were after what he could do for them were content to remain surface thinkers.
His example shows us about our own approach to him and how we can be discerning about the people in our lives.
Today's episode shares seven key insights about our relationship with God and others.
- Solitude is necessary to sustain a life of ministry.
- Storms often follow miracles.
- God will let us battle through hard times before he shows up in a visible way.
- Wanting God's provision is not the same thing as wanting God.
- Whining is usually evidence somebody doesn't want to take responsibility for themselves.
- Truth-telling will always cost you.
- Spend enough time with Jesus, do the hard work of examining his words and actions, confront your own heart, and you can move from seeing to believing to knowing.
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No stories. Just straight talk, repeatedly emphasizing a couple of key points. It's rare that Jesus spoke for long in this style. So when he did, it's worth paying extra attention.
In the last almost 30 verses in the Gospel of John, chapter 5, Jesus emphasizes these crucial truths:
- He has come from God, the Father.
- Everything he does is in unity with God.
- There will be a resurrection of the dead with only one of two possible destinations – a resurrection of life or resurrection of judgment.
He also points out that those who didn't believe what he said about himself didn't believe because they were seeking others' approval and recognition instead of God's. Ouch.
After this discourse, Jesus goes to a different area where a crowd of 5,000 people show up -- having failed to bring a meal with them. What's up with that poor preparation?
Rather than chiding them for their lack of foresight, Jesus performs an amazing miracle. But this is about a lot more than meeting an immediate physical need -- although that's important. In this we can also see:
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God can feed a lot of people with our small offering. But to do this we have to be willing to let go of what we have and be left empty handed -- temporarily.
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We have to watch God break apart what we think is going to fill us.
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We need to value the fragments left over. Goes doesn't want anything wasted -- and this goes for far more than food!
Grow your faith roots deeper in today's episode!
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Ever wondered if a weak, one-liner, prayer irritates God?
Wonder if you'll ever be free from the pain of remembering past mistakes?
In Part 2, Ruth Hovsepian shares how weak prayers formed the ladder to escape the muck of addiction; setting her on solid, sober ground.
Your spirit will soar as you're encouraged to know:
• God despises no one's prayer, no matter how small or frail
• Nothing can ever separate you or anyone else from the love of God
• While there is breath, there is hope
Ruth is a speaker, author, and podcaster who shares her addiction and sobriety journey to help others facing addictions or strongholds.
Ruth went through an acrimonious separation and divorce with three small children; the youngest only five months old. She raised them on her own, struggling to put food on the table, went back to school, got a job in IT, and made her way to the top, only to lose her job and, along with it, her identity. During those 15 dark years, she lived a double life, one as a successful businesswoman and mum and the second as a "party girl.” Looking back at the party years sends shivers down her spine; she lived a dangerous and life-threatening lifestyle.
Ruth is now eight years sober. With sobriety came a new beginning and renewal in her walk with God. She published her first book, 100 Days of Prayer: A Journey Into Deeper Intimacy With GOD, in 2022. Recently released is a new book, The Ultimate Conversation: Is That You, GOD? She shares her life story to help others write their own stories.
Ruth hosts a podcast, "Out of the Darkness," showcasing transformational stories of recovery and healing from traumas and addictions.
Connect with Ruth Hovsepian:
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✔Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/ruthhovsepian/
✔Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/ModernDayRuthRedeemed/
✔Website - https://www.ruthhovsepian.com/
✔Speaking - https://www.ruthhovsepian.com/speaking
✔Books - https://www.ruthhovsepian.com/booksruthhovsepian
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How have people treated you when you've walked through dark times? Have you experienced more throwing of stones or offers of support?
What about when others face difficulties, whether of their own making, someone else's, or a combination? What's your response?
In Part 1 of my interview with Ruth Hovsepian, you'll be
- challenged to examine your attitudes towards others who are hurting
- encouraged to choose forgiveness when others fail you
- inspired to know there is no stronghold God cannot break down
Ruth is a speaker, author, and podcaster who shares her addiction and sobriety journey to help others facing addictions or strongholds.
Ruth went through an acrimonious separation and divorce with three small children; the youngest only five months old. She raised them on her own, struggling to put food on the table, went back to school, got a job in IT, and made her way to the top, only to lose her job and, along with it, her identity. During those 15 dark years, she lived a double life, one as a successful businesswoman and mum and the second as a "party girl.” Looking back at the party years sends shivers down her spine; she lived a dangerous and life-threatening lifestyle.
Ruth is now eight years sober. With sobriety came a new beginning and renewal in her walk with God. She published her first book, 100 Days of Prayer: A Journey Into Deeper Intimacy With GOD, in 2022. Recently released is a new book, The Ultimate Conversation: Is That You, GOD? She shares her life story to help others write their own stories.
Ruth hosts a podcast, "Out of the Darkness," showcasing transformational stories of recovery and healing from traumas and addictions.
Connect with Ruth Hovsepian:
✔Podcast - https://apple.co/3ZdI6eU
✔Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/ruthhovsepian/
✔Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/ModernDayRuthRedeemed/
✔Website - https://www.ruthhovsepian.com/
✔Speaking - https://www.ruthhovsepian.com/speaking
✔Books - https://www.ruthhovsepian.com/booksruthhovsepian
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Ever notice how the Bible doesn't record a single sermon Jesus ever gave focusing on the pagan theology of the Romans? But he railed a lot against the bad theology of the Jewish leaders. Why?
Is it possible that twisted and distorted truth does more harm to people than outright lies?
The Word of God is "sharp and powerful," whether it's wielded by someone with good intent or someone with selfish motivation.
In today's episode we dive into Sabbath, rest, and the cost of bad theology.
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Why did Jesus ask the man who had been an invalid for 38 years, "Do you want to be well?" I mean, isn't the answer obvious?
Not necessarily.
Pain can have a payoff. This must be understood in the correct context and never applied with a judgmental, condemning attitude. It's an insight to be used primarily in self-assessment ("Learn yourself") and not diagnosing others (except in rare circumstances and with the greatest of compassion and wisdom).
Sometimes Jesus asked or said strange things in situations involving healing.
We cover two of these in today's episode. An invalid of 38 years and an official's son.
Both pack powerful lessons for us!
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Their meeting was unexpected -- at least for her.
She came thirsty. For water, she thought. But his words stirred a deeper thirst she'd been trying to satiate in other ways.
She left transformed. Not by the "magic water" she'd asked for; but by miraculous words.
The story of the "woman at the well" is a familiar one to many Christians. Yet the story is always worth reviewing because it's packed with insights on what changes us -- and what transforms others.
We'll see:
- How people with a strong and clear sense of their identity can converse with others who are in direct opposition to them.
- How to handle theological distractions
- How kindness heals
- How sharing the "good news" might require leaving something behind
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Get followers!
Grow your contacts!
Gather a tribe!
It's what every person with something to market hears. People pray for a video to go "viral" and pay for courses "guaranteeing" to build a successful email list.
I don't think John the Baptist would have been much impressed. I can't see him selling a course on how to get someone else to increase their following while decreasing your own.
But that's what he did.
This wasn't hiding from fame or retreating into obscurity to "prove" his humility. It was a recognition there comes a time to point your followers towards someone else.
We'll discuss that today along with
- looking at the difference between inviting our children to love God and inoculating them through simply imparting a knowledge of Him;
- diving into what characterizes true belief.
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John 3:16.
It's been inked on parchment with fancy swirls. It's been printed on $4.99 t-shirts. It's engraved on silver mugs and carved in rosewood. It's been whispered in prisons and shouted from pulpits.
The gospel -- "Good News" -- in one sentence, spoken by Jesus.
And on what occasion?
The Sermon on the Mount? Nope.
Feeding of the Five Thousand? Nada.
Upper Room with the Disciples? Try again.
To one man, not a believer but a doubter, at night.
Astounding!
World-transforming words aren't just proclaimed from stages or shared on viral videos. You never know what conversation you will have that will be impacting lives generations from now.
What else can we learn from this exchange?
The Gospel is always about the one. The individual. The person.
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He holds power and position.
He recognizes God's calling.
He still sneaks out.
Nicodemus seeks to visit with Jesus at night, likely because he wanted a private conversation away from the crowds. Was it because he was embarrassed? Or he thought it was the only time to catch Jesus alone? Scripture isn't clear.
But their conversation displays Jesus' kindness and grace.
Jesus accepts where Nick (Nicodemus modernized) is and challenges him to go further, without condemnation but with clear direction.
What does Nick's nocturnal wanderings have to do with us?
We are challenged in how we come to Jesus with our questions.
How we treat those who are investigating Jesus is beautifully modeled here.
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If he was looking to curry favor with the rich and powerful, this wasn't the way to go about it!
It's easy to read the story of Jesus driving people out of the Temple and simultaneously think "Hooray!" and "What does this have to do with me?" Because the message isn't to take a course in making and using whips.
It is, however, a vivid reminder of our call to fight injustice, especially when people are being kept from following God with their whole heart.
The temple was a place for people to draw closer to God, and the whole business of exchanging currency and selling sacrifices had replaced this sacred responsibility. Instead, leaders were using God's commands to abuse his people. Sound familiar?
Learn why this story of Jesus -- which seldom makes it onto posters in children's Sunday School rooms -- is absolutely relevant to us today.
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You'd think the master of ceremonies would have been delighted. Instead, it seems he was more focused on himself than the guest of honor.
If only I couldn't relate to this guy...but I can!
In our look at one of Jesus' most famous miracles -- turning water into wine -- we see how showing up in the ordinary situations of life can create extraordinary opportunities. We also see how not everyone is going to appreciate when they are on the receiving end of a gift or miracle.
Join us as we continue to unpack the 2nd chapter of the gospel of John and how this passage can help us with life's key three aims: Learn yourself, Love God, and Live connected.
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Did you know the first chapter of the Gospel of John records nine of history's most powerful words? Yep! Not only does this account begin with the same three words as the first book in the Bible -- "In the beginning" -- but John wrote nine words which changed everything.
"And the Word became flesh and dwelt among us."
God didn't need to know what it was like to be human. We needed to know God cared enough to walk among us.
The power of empathy, the power of words, and the power of being light-bearers, is packed into the opening verses of this non-synoptic Gospel.
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What do you say when someone cuts you off in traffic? "They're an idiot" or "They didn't see me."
What's the language you use when your toddler resists putting on their "park" shoes because they want to wear their "dress-up" pair? They're "throwing a tantrum" or "they're upset"?
What do you say when your spouse disagrees with the budget you want set aside for vacation?
The stories you tell yourself dozens (hundreds? thousands?) of times in everyday situations will shape your life more than anything else.
Why? Because what you tell yourself about yourself and others shapes your character more than anything else.
When Jesus was taken to Pilate by the religious leaders, they didn't just ask for a death warrant. They didn't just want him executed. This could have happened by stoning. They wanted him to suffer in tremendous agony. How did they get to this place? The stories they had been telling themselves for 3 1/2 years about Jesus.
Today we'll connect Romans 12:2 -- "Be transformed by the renewing of your mind" with the trial and crucifixion of Christ -- not just to check off another Bible passage, but to be equipped to soberly assess the stories we're telling ourselves.
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While sneaking off to barley threshing floors and exchanging sandals isn't likely to be a part of too many engagement stories today, there's much to be said about how to select a spouse in the story of Ruth and Boaz.
Why did they choose one another? Boaz wasn't desperate, and Ruth could certainly have wooed younger men. So what attracted them to each other?
Turns out their story showcases characteristics that are just as important today as they were then.
We wrap up this story titled "Ruth" in the Bible with the woman who opened the book -- Naomi. No embittered old soul, she has quite the group of friends cheering for her. Discover why!
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Long before Jane Austen's Emma Woodhouse, there was Naomi.
But this is no 19th century England with ladies in ball gowns and men in top hats. This is a millennium before Christ, and the couple is more akin to Charlotte Bronte's Jane Eyre and Edward Rochester than Austen's Mr. Darcy and Ms. Bennett. Yet this Biblical story is a marvelous story unveiling the heart's innate desire and capacity to give and receive love.
And we can see Naomi's got some romance savvy in her! Maybe she's a foreshadowing of Austen's Emma!
But this isn't a fairy tale. This is real love shown by three people in three unique ways.
Naomi loves by looking out for others in spite of her own suffering. She uses her understanding of men on Ruth's behalf.
Ruth loves by respecting Naomi and Boaz, even proposing in private!
Boaz loves through kindness, integrity, and generosity.
This story will cheer your heart, whether you relate most to Ruth, Naomi, or Boaz.
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What do you think the Biblical character, Ruth, would wear today?
I think Chapter 2 Ruth would wear jeans, a denim work shirt, and cowgirl boots. Maybe even a straw hat or baseball cap. After all, you don't work in grain fields in flowing prairie dresses!
Why does this matter? It's easy to romanticize Biblical stories, and sometimes reimagining them in today's setting helps us see the life lessons for our situations. Ruth is impoverished, female, a foreigner, and a widow. Four strikes against her in those times.
Yet she demonstrates initiative, hard work, and a generous spirit in spite of her socio-economic standing. Sounds like somebody who would wear cowgirl boots to me! (The kind you'd use to muck out the stalls, not pull on to shine on the dance floor.)
We also see Naomi's choices to live open-handed, open to healing, and open-hearted. Not to mention God's impeccable timing!
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Have you ever yelled "Why?" into the unresponsive cosmos?
It's humankind's universal response to tragedy. "Why?!"
The question erupts from fractured souls every day, only to be met with silence.
On the cross of crucifixion, one of the most excruciating forms of death ever devised by man, the God-Man, Jesus, screamed this into the air. Not because God had turned his back on his beloved son. Nothing in Scripture supports that idea. Everything in Scripture opposes that belief.
Rather, God remained silent because silence is one of the bloodiest battle fields in the war between good and evil. It is on this battle field we wield the most powerful force God gave us -- the ability to choose.
Mature courageous faith only comes after it has fought "Why?" on the field of silence.
Today's episode is a departure from the normal style. After a brief introduction, there's a story penned during one of my own agonizing times of wailing, "Why?"
May you find strength in your own times of "Why," to make the same choice modeled by Jesus.
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It's easy in the Biblical book of Ruth to be so focused on the headline character (Ruth) that Naomi's story gets lost. But she has powerful lessons for us!
Grit. Authenticity. Courage. Grief. Self-less. And entirely captivating!
When she returns home and hears, "Naomi, is that you?", her answer can be quick to dismiss. But dig deeper and she models a principle we desperately need to practice in life. I wonder if we followed her lead whether our churches would empty -- or overflow.
In today's episode lean in and take a fresh look at this familiar story!
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Whoever started writing stories with the "and they lived happily ever after" ending might have read the Old Testament book of 1 Samuel. Why? They were desperate for a happy ending after reading this book!
Eli's story ends with the death of his sons, capture of the Ark of the Covenant, and his death by broken neck.
Samuel ends well as a faithful prophet, but his grown sons don't follow in his footsteps of faithfulness to God. After he dies, he has to come back and give one last prophetic word of doom!
Abigail's story may be the closest to a fairy tale, but let's not forget, while she becomes David's wife, he is a polygamist!
Saul and his sons die in battle and have their corpses mutilated before being retrieved and given a proper funeral by heroic men.
David's on the run for years and 1 Samuel ends with his army retrieving all the wives and children and property the Amalekites had captured while David's band was off trying to fight -- against their own people!
The Bible tells the whole story, not just the beautiful and fun parts. Protagonists and antagonists alike are complex and complicated.
As we wrap up our study of 1 Samuel, we'll look at
- how you handle 1/2 in, 1/2 out people
- reasons God may be gracious when people are making bad choices
- faithfulness does not equal perfection
- the cost of not dealing with fear and insecurity
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Don't you hate it when someone apologizes and you're not entirely sure it's genuine? How do you respond? Be "gracious" and hope for the best? Be "smart" and believe the worst?
David's midnight run into Saul's sleeping camp gives us some clues. Saul admits he is wrong. He even goes further and invites David back home. Why doesn't David go?
Learn key points about how to assess the difference between apologies and repentance and the critical distinction between forgiveness and restoration.
David, however, isn't without his own issues. He demonstrates how vulnerability brought on by dealing with the same problem for a long, long time can make us susceptible to taking matters into our own hands...with deadly results.
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Abigail marries David. They ride off into the sunset. They have children together.
That's usually the way the story is presented. But skipping over Abigail's first marriage to Nabal deprives people of valuable lessons about the purpose of marriage, boundaries, and how a person's responsibilities as a human aren't eliminated in the name of unity, leadership, or submission.
Also, in today's episode you'll also see how fear and insecurity continue to drive Saul further away from fulfilling God's plans for him. Something we can learn from his mistakes and don't have to repeat.
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Ever feel like you're losing your mind? Don't know which way to turn? You may not be in a good place, but you are in great company! David, as in "man after God's own heart," is in that spot in the 21st chapter of 1 Samuel. However, he doesn't take time to pray and seek God's direction.
He runs -- smack into trouble. The result is he's humiliated and endangers others. That's what fear always pushes us towards. Learn from David's mistakes and his successes so you can recognize when fatigue and fear are trying to push you over the (proverbial) cliff.
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What if David was "Plan B?" What if the story was supposed to have been "Saul and Goliath?" Learn the critical mistake Saul made in this battle so you can choose differently in your trials and not have wasted days and resources. Be encouraged that your calling doesn't depend on the accolades of those closest to you.
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You have a calling! Perhaps there's some anxiety that goes with it? Learn what not to do by hearing what Saul does on his coronation day. The fear that motivated him only grew and eventually resulted in a decision that cost him the kingdom. Learn from his mistakes to ensure your success!
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Are you open to God interrupting your ordinary tasks? What if it's in the middle of running your errands that God redirects your steps -- and your entire life? What if stepping into this calling requires telling someone else to move on down the road? What if you're the person who needs to go forward to let someone else step into their calling?
Join the current hike through 1 Samuel and see how lost donkeys, a faithful servant, and an attuned prophet come together to move Saul towards God's calling on his life.
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Can a lack of self-awareness make you vulnerable to misusing what's sacred when you're afraid? Think an encounter with divine intervention will transform you or someone else? Not necessarily! See what 1 Samuel 5 shows us about fear, misusing God, and not responding to divine intervention in the beginning.
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What book includes romance and murder, war and peacemaking, surprise protagonists and complex antagonists, divine encounters and dreary days? 1 Samuel! Yes, this ancient book in the Bible covers most of human experience and packs powerful lessons for modern times. Today we begin a multi-part series exploring this fascinating record and mining truths to make a difference in our lives and families today.
In this episode ...
- An emotionally illiterate husband
- God's blessings may come with a high price tag
- The danger -- and response to -- assumptions and unjust accusations
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Nothing will trigger more excitement, curiosity, hope, frustration, sorrow, devotion, and awareness than exploring Truth. The greatest route to Truth is in the study of Scripture. But you can be honest. No one's going to check your answer. Do any of these phrases create more stress than eagerness: "Family devotions" or "Personal Bible study" or "Family Bible study"?
I get it! That's why you 'll love the Life's Key 3 podcast in 2023. Each week we'll dive into a particular Bible passage and then (wait for it...drum roll...) as a Hi(Lights) subscriber, you'll get a reasonable reading list for the time in-between episodes. That's not all! (Sorry if this is starting to sound like a cheesy late-night TV advertisement.) For parents, you'll have material to use this as your family Bible study. You'll get insights and discussion questions and references to Children's Bibles. I provide the plan -- you provide the follow-through!
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Did you know without the fixed location of the north star, Polaris, explorations throughout history systems would be impossible? What if there was a north star to navigate life by? There is! This book is arguably the world's most controversial text. One person will give up their life for it, and another will take someone's life for reading it.
Learn how the Holy Scriptures, or the Bible, are a testament to the kindness, integrity, reliability, and diversity of God in the final part of our series on the "Core Compass of Truth."
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BONUS Episode!
What happens when efforts to celebrate Advent and point my children to Christ instead turned into nightly arguments? When the wicks on the tapers were more captivating than the story of the Light of the World?
In a true and entirely unembellished account of trying to commemorate Advent when my children were young, you'll be encouraged to remember your efforts aren't in vain. And you'll probably get a chuckle or two in the listening!
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How do you distinguish good advice from bad? Today we'll discuss five questions you can pack in your wise-living tool bag.
You'll also hear a hair-raising true tale of the cost of blindly following directions!
In Part 3 of the "Core Compass of Truth" series, we'll look at the importance of seeking guidance from others.
It's only to the degree you live aligned with truth about yourself, God, and others that you can be and become your true and best self!
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Could you and your family use a little (or a lot?!) more gratitude in everyday life?
It's easy to embrace an attitude of gratitude as a concept -- like saying "I'm for world peace!" But cultivating it as a habitual lifestyle requires intentionality.
Today you'll be given specific actionable insights on how to make "Thanks Giving" a year-around practice!
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Have you ever listened to wild hyenas crunching on the bones of a hartebeest? I have, and this tiny part of the "Circle of Life" on earth packs a powerful truth lesson. Along with gravity and the boiling point of water!
In Part 2 of the "Core Compass of Truth" series, you’ll be challenged to see how the natural world affirms timeless truths about humanity – our origin and design. You won’t hear about sedimentary layers or dinosaur bones but rather how viewing the the timetable of gravity to the complexity of cells is another way to discover truths you can live by.
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Where do you go to find truth?
Today's episode unpacks the first of four cardinal places to find truth: common sense. Some may call this "instinct" or the result of evolutionary adaptation to advance the survival of the human species. What if it was something more? Something to advance the flourishment of each individual human?
Listen and discover the vital connection between courage and common sense and the role it plays in your life's purpose.
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Like George Bailey in It's a Wonderful Life, your impact is immeasurable, eternal, and irreplaceable. That's right! And to maximize that for good depends on aligning your thinking with truth. Specifically, truths about yourself, God, and others. In this inaugural episode, you'll learn how this show will empower you to discover and discern truth and how to apply it in life's Key 3 aims: Learn yourself, Love God, and Live connected.
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Opinions free no one. Not from addictions, bad habits, or ignorance. Truth does! This brief episode introduces the podcast, Bringing Light to Truth, and how it can help you maximize your immeasurable, eternal, and irreplaceable impact for good!