It Has to be Said : Recent Episodes
It Has to be Said Podcast
When it comes to family, friendship, life and faith #ITHASTOBESAID
Elvis and Denise embark on this podcast journey to share a little bit of everything from life experiences, lessons learned and how faith has sustained them in the good, bad and even the ugly.
In this episode, Elvis and Denise give a life update. They discuss vacation, promotions and talk about some changes they've considered. Their primary goal being to do God's will so what's next?
In this episode Eli asks Denise some questions of navigating a teenage pregnancy and being a young mom.Eli is behind the scenes (eye roll from Mom) lol Happy Mother's Day to all the amazing mamas!--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/it-has-to-be-said-p/message
In this episode Elvis and Denise discuss, Marital CPR from the book, "Marriage ain't for Punks" by Calvin Roberson. Elvis and Denise discuss Passion and Respect in relationships.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/it-has-to-be-said-p/message
In this episode Elvis and Denise discuss, Marital CPR from the book, "Marriage ain't for Punks" by Calvin Roberson. Elvis and Denise discuss C = Commitment and how important your partner should be in marriage.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/it-has-to-be-said-p/message
In this episode, Denise speaks with her sister in law Maylene in efforts to bring awareness for children with special needs and support for Keilany to obtain an adaptive bike. https://www.greatbikegiveaway.com/probikekeilanyYour vote and/or donation to the link below can help Keilany reach her goal of having her own bike!--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/it-has-to-be-said-p/message
A brief message to remind you, that God thinks of you, He cares for you and has a plan for you!
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In this episode Denise and Elvis speak with the famous “Jenni from Tribeca”, one of Denise’s childhood friend. They talk a little Jesus and a lot of Jen’s dating experiences as a millennial. Ultimately, there is one truth, the seed planted as a child about Jesus will follow you into adulthood and you can find God again.P.S We don’t co-sign everything Jenni says 🤣 but we love her anyway 🙌🏼 The same way she schooled me on my Starbucks coffee which she did not condone
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In this episode Denise and guest Laura speak over the love of a father. Both share how the lack of their father impacted their lives and how God's love has helped lead them to where they are now.
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In this episode Elvis and Denise continue last week's conversation exploring what behaviors of our children are normal?Feel free to share your thoughts as we dive in this talk about adolescence!--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/it-has-to-be-said-p/message
In this episode Elvis and Denise discuss parenting styles and share how as parents you can change in the way you are present and interact with your children.
PSA the video stops midway...I am not sure if we can blame Elvis or Denise on that hiccup lol BUT continue to listen and let us know your thoughts :)
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Did anyone notice the break? Did you miss us? It's been a month since we sat to record an episode and we are back like we never left. In this episode we give life updates from part time jobs, to home improvements, anniversary and promotions! A lot has happened and we couldn't wait to share. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/it-has-to-be-said-p/message
In this episode Elvis and Denise discuss asking permission to go out in relationships. Is it asking permission or are you being considerate to your partner when sharing plans?--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/it-has-to-be-said-p/message
In this episode Elvis and Denise discuss the four enemies and friends of intimate conversations based on "His needs, Her needs", by Willard F. Harley. Denise shares one of the "enemies" she feels she needs most work on - anger.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/it-has-to-be-said-p/message
In this Episode Elvis and Denise just give some life updates, there's been stress all around and together they discuss how they manage doing it all. How do you handle stress?--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/it-has-to-be-said-p/message
This episode is audio only In this episode Elvis and Denise respond to a question from a listener regarding divorce especially as a Christian believer and dive into their thoughts on reasons for divorce.
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In this episode Denise and Elinise answer 5 questions from a date deck but as mother and daughter. Asking questions is such an easy way to create a date night or get to know someone or see a different perspective simply through conversing. we apologize for the audio--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/it-has-to-be-said-p/message
After an unexpected yet necessary break we're back! In this episode Elvis and Denise share a little of their vacation as well as some common lessons learned from their trip that may be useful things to consider when going away.
We hope you're encouraged to take some time off for yourselves as it is investment for your well-being.
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Denise shares some of the daily stress she's been feeling and gives a word of encouragement to herself and to you about worrying.
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In this episode Elvis and Denise discuss their reaction to the movie, "Sound of Freedom". Denise starts-off the episode moody lol but she pushes through as she discusses her work related to child sex trafficking. If you've seen the movie we would like to hear your thoughts?
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In this episode Elvis and Denise talk about sex! In answering a question from a card game they discuss communicating with your partner about meeting your intimate needs. It all comes down to when and how you have the conversation but ultimately both must be willing to listen and ensure each other's needs are being met.
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In this episode Elvis and Denise discuss some areas they recently had to do a "quality check". Do you do regular check-in's with yourself and your environment? Often times we wait until something happens to evaluate our habits, the way we live and then make decisions to create change.
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In this episode Elvis and Denise discuss their feelings about Father's Day. Elvis shares how the message Denise shared this past weekend touched him and a moment he was able to have on Father's Day with two important men in his life. Fathers are an important role within the family and they too deserve their credit because there are some great ones out there!
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In this episode Elvis finally gets to record with Eli to discuss a little bit of the silent treatment between parents and their children. They discuss the importance of improving their communication and how it is key to a healthy relationship.
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In this episode Elvis and Denise discuss the silent treatment; something that at times one may find themselves easily inclined to resolve to during a disagreement whether as partners or even as parents. Denise shares how Elvis's silence at times has made her feel and even how it made her feel pretty recently. When is the silent treatment a problem and how do we differentiate between necessary silence? It's important that we THINK before we speak which Denise shares what that means in this episode.
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In this episode Elvis and Denise discuss finances. Can money buy happiness? Elvis and Denise share moments where they struggled financially and how important it is to discuss money habits before and during your relationship.
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In this episode Elvis and Denise go over some of their strengths and weaknesses identified through a personality test. Elvis is an Entrepreneur and Denise a Defender, both very different yet complimenting each other as a couple and helping each other grow as a couple and individuals.
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In this episode, Denise is joined by her friend Laura, together they discuss what has been some of her easiest and challenging moments of motherhood. They discuss some of their experience through the pregnancy, birth and managing with all that comes next. In sum, mother's should give themselves a little more grace and know they're doing a great job!
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In this episode Denise and Elinise discuss a fear they have had in common and how they have worked on overcoming it. Denise shares a severe fear that started in July 2020 and how much it impacted her daily living. Elinise shares how like her mom she's had similar thoughts but through prayer, reading God's word and trusting in God she has been able to overcome it.
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In this episode Denise and Elinise discuss growing up in church at the age of 13, while different times and experiences ultimately all one wants is to be loved and accepted. Elinise shares how the idea of sin and not meeting the standards can be a lot of pressure and often standing out is harder than fitting in. Both Denise and Elinise share how spiritual growth requires a lot of mistakes made but how God's grace covers it all.
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In this episode Elvis and Denise discuss how adding children into your relationship can affect the time you have for your partner. As important caregiving is, your intimate relationship is just as important. Together they discuss some of the areas that may be impacted by the responsibility of parenting and how relationships should be intentional in making time for each other.
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In this episode Elvis and Denise discuss their perspective on a video that has been all over social media this past week. Everyone has their opinion but does that mean it is always right? We often judge when we speak on matters without context and sometimes not everything has to be said.
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In this episode Elvis and Denise discuss the importance of speaking your partners love language in efforts to help fill their love tank. How do you measure how full your tank is? Do you ever think of how much love you’re giving or receiving? At the end, it all it comes down to communication and willingness to get to know your partners emotional needs.
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In this episode Elvis and Denise discuss accountability in relationships. Is there such thing as too much accountability and can it sometimes come across as judgment. Elvis and Denise talk about accountability in the church, how it affects people that attend church and how it can at times steer people away from church.
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In this episode Elvis and guest Ariel speak on a little bit of everything but agree that there can be second chances in life. Ariel shares how his life changed coming to Christ, even though he was not necessarily looking for Him. Ariel shares about his father, both he and Elvis get emotional in sharing their experience with their fathers.
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In this episode, Elvis and Denise explore Elvis's frustration with what often goes viral are videos pertaining to a man's role. Elvis and Denise discuss how sometimes views of a role are one-sided and ultimately in relationships we focus on what the other is/isn't doing rather than our own role.
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In this episode, Elvis and Denise discuss if they settled for their relationship. They discuss that settling is not necessarily a bad term under the right circumstances as well as the difference between settling for less and setting realistic standards.
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In this episode Denise speaks with her daughter Elinise who shares her view and experience as a growing child who’s entered her teenage years. Elinise discusses the importance of trust between parents and their children as well as one of the hidden struggles parents may not be able to see.
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In this episode Elvis and Denise simply speak about love. Love the feeling, God's love and how we can experience love through people.
Elvis gets emotional discussing the love of his mother, daughters and together they discuss how everyone wants to be loved.
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Just a brief video to encourage you to cast ALL of your cares to God. Is there an exemption or clause to what is defined as cares? In short, NO. God wants to hear it all! This week Denise has been a little on the overwhelmed side but is encouraging herself and you to give it to God!
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En este episodio respondemos algunas de las muchas preguntas de NGL relacionadas con el matrimonio, el perdon y las lecciones aprendidas. ¡Ve a ver episodios 1 y 2 para tener algo de contexto! Podemos resumir las relaciones en dos palabras: ¡Requiere Trabajo!
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In this episode we answer some of the many NGL questions entailing marriage, infidelity and lessons learned. Watch Episode 1 and 2 if you haven't to have some backstory! We can summarize relationships in three words: It takes Work!
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In this episode Denise brings childhood and church friend, Heydi, together they discuss a little bit of everything related to teen pregnancy, marriage and her rainbow baby. Heydi shares how much God has been with her through it all.
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En este episodio, Elvis y Denise hablan sobre el concepto de quién hace más en casa. A menudo, las parejas pueden estar en desacuerdo sobre cuánto de la "carga" se comparte y pueden esperar más de su pareja. Elvis y Denise exploran cómo puede afectar a su pareja cuando se espera demasiado y se aprecia poco.
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Elvis and Denise discuss who does more in their home. More than they like to admit some of the main discussions are surrounded about the division of responsibilities. In relationships it might feel like one partner is slacking and the other is contributing more which can lead to conflict if not spoken about.
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In this episode, Elvis talks with our first guest and his sister Cammie about her experience with cancer. They discuss her process, the importance of support and faith to endure the challenges of life. Don't forget to subscribe, like, share and comment! We hope you are encouraged!
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(Spanish Episode)
En este episodio Elvis y Denise hablan sobre unos de los momentos dificiles donde se cuestiono continuar la relacion. Hablamos sobre la culpabilidad cuando cometemos errores y lo dificil que es sobre salir.
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In this episode Elvis and Denise dive into yet another public moment that forced both to make a decision. Both discuss how their relationship required commitment, forgiveness and change in order to move forward.
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En este episodio, Elvis y Denise hacen un resumen de su primer episodio en inglés y responden la pregunta más frecuente: ¿De qué huía Elvis?
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In this episode we briefly reflect on the unsaid emotions that entailed our teen pregnancy and the beginning of our marriage. Life is all about decisions and there were MANY we had to make early on in our teenage years.
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