Devastated to Divine, a Podcast For Grieving Moms: Recent Episodes
Schall Adams
On the podcast I share how I moved from being utterly devastated with grief after the loss of my son Levi, to feeling completely connected with him, able to release him to continue his soul’s journey with unconditional love, and how this has created space for healing and happiness. Losing a child is soul-crushingly devastating, but death does not end our relationship. We are divine, eternal beings. Spend just 5-10 minutes with me each day to help you on your journey from devastating grief to divine connection.
Where our two worlds meet is right here. We just have to tap into that energy and allow it. It starts with getting rid of all the noise that says, "it's not real." Because that noise comes from people without their own experiences of the soul. So, we need to work on getting rid of old limiting beliefs.
Today's topic is one of the most important to me, the relationship you can still have with your child as a soul. If you'd like to know more about me or work with me more personally go to schalladams.com
You'll know when you have truly connected with your child because it will cause a shift in how you experience grief.
If it weren't for the connection and communication I have with Levi, I would be on a different path. I'm so grateful to be on the path that showed me death does not end a relationship. I hope this path speaks to you.
For years I just didn't fit. Life didn't make sense. The devastating grief makes us want to die, but the divine connection helps us want to live. Allow your child on tge other side to help you create space for healing and happiness. schalladams.com
I've said many times that it was my focus on live that has helped Levi and I communicate as much as we have. I know you feel this live for your child and I want to encourage you to consciously focus your unconditional love towards your child's evolution as a soul. This has deepened my connection with Levi and I wish the same for you.
It was when I could truly embrace that he had only transitioned back to spirit, that he still existed - just on a different plane, that I could begin to change how grief felt for me. There will always be grief over the loss of his life in this realm, but knowing that his consciousness continues and that we are connected, makes the experience of grief manageable. soultosoulwebinar.com
We do have to be ready to receive messages before they can come through, but I have a strategy for getting there that also builds the belief that the messages are real and being deliberately sent by your loved one on the other side. When I speak of building belief, what I really mean is overcoming disbelief. In many societies we are taught that it isn’t possible to communicate with loved ones on the other side. I know beyond any doubt that we can.
Grief is a brutal emotion that brings up a lot of other emotions. But, today I want to focus on the LOVE part of grief. If we didn’t love the person we lost, we wouldn’t feel grief at all. And, while we may focus on a number of negative emotions that are entwined with grief, our loved one on the other side is not doing that. They are living in pure love and oneness. They are sending us love at all times. And, It’s this, the love part of grief that has helped me survive it. soultosoulwebinar.com
We are eternal beings. Our lives as spirit connect us and our lives as physical beings allow us to feel separation, duality, and independence. Our loved ones on the other side are wrapped in love and know their connection to us and all things.
I was devastated when my son Levi left this physical world. And, even though on some level I knew he hadn’t just ceased to exist, I would go through a lot of times where I felt like he was lost to me. I knew somehow that the answers to my pain would be spiritual. I had to find a way to connect with him, to still have some kind of relationship with him. I set out to do this and it was quite the journey! It took me from feeling absolutely devastated to living as the divine eternal being that we all are. And, being back in relationship with him allowed me to release him to the universe with complete and total unconditional love. Releasing him didn't diminish the love or connection we have. It expanded it. schalladams.com
Today I want to address the fears people have about receiving true communication from their loved one on the other side. We as a society have made this something that is outside the norm.
I remember wanting so much to receive messages from Levi and asking for them and sometimes feeling not totally convinced when messages came through that they really were from him, and other times thinking that had to be a message! Then one day, I just knew. All of the messages had been deliberately sent by Levi. And it changed me in a very spiritual and profound way. It transformed my grief and my belief. There was no longer any doubt. Let me share the process I used to experience this transformation. schalladams.com
It can be difficult to think about living a good and happy life after losing someone you love deeply. Someone you thought would be in your life for most of your life. Depending on their role in your life, their loss will impact the direction your life takes now. Things you expected can no longer happen. Experiences you were looking forward to won’t be experienced. I understand the pain and devastation of grief. But, I also now understand the bigger picture of our lives as souls. I encourage you to seek the communication that will renew your relationship with your loved one on the other side, so that you can choose life as well. Choose to live well. And, choose happiness. It doesn’t diminish your love for your person on the other side. It actually expands it. Remember, death does not end our relationships. If you'd like to get to know me better or work with me on a more personal level, go to schalladams.com
Acknowledging that our loved ones still exist is part of the process for communicating with them to renew our relationship. And, we can still be in relationship with them because we still belong to each other. We are divine, spiritual beings. We knew our loved ones long before we came to this incarnation and we will know them long after.
My journey over the last 9 years has led me to a place that has completely transformed my experience of grief and how I want to live the rest of my life. Grief is an emotion, grieving is an action, an active process. We need to do both after we experience a loss, but today I want to talk about allowing ourselves to feel the grief and still move beyond the active “all in” grieving process.
There is a time when it’s ok to do so, and when we do, when we make that conscious decision, we can begin to look at what kind of life we can live going forward. We can look at what our legacy will be. For many people, myself included, allowing the emotion of grief actually becomes a healthy and honoring emotion, once we let go of the active grieving process. The kind of grieving that keeps us in a devastated state, often for years as was the case for me.
And I assure you, letting go of the active grieving process is not the same as “getting over” our loss. We don’t “get over it”, we simply learn to move forward and how to be ok with living. I see so many people stop living. I did too, so I understand it. But, I also understand moving beyond the devastation to the creation. Death does not end our relationship.
I believe our loved ones on the other side should still be included in our holidays. Afterall, they are still present! They know what's going on in your daily life and how you're doing during the holidays. Include them in the celebrations to help you feel more connected to them.
Time is just an illusion, but LOVE is everything. Get soul to soul with your loved one on the other side through unconditional love.
Once you are past the devastation, its time to make decisions for your life. Let's make 2022 outrageous, together!
Use rituals as a way to talk with your loved ones on the other side. To honor, celebrate, and love them. When you practice rituals this way, it helps clear any resistance to connection.
Once you internalize on cellular level that your loved one is still alive and well, able to communicate with you. It will change how you feel. And that’s natural too. We need the connection. When someone dies, we think it’s lost. That we no longer have a connection with them. That the relationship is over. My experience has taught me that that is just not true. We are eternal beings. The spirit of our loved ones that have released their bodies, is the same spirit we use to animate our bodies. That spirit is energy. Soul. We don’t die. Death does not have that power. The energy that helps us connect and communicate is simply soul to soul.
Just some things I do when I'm feeling a little sad and missing my son, Levi. I say his name. A lot.
After Levi transitioned back to spirit, I spent years looking up at the stars, trying to find him. Trying to guess where he lives among them. I think we do this because at some level we know that we are literally made of stars. We often think of the afterlife as being “over there”. And we think of “over there” as being as far away as the stars.
What I understand now is that living in the afterlife is just a shift in energy. It’s a different “place” only because the planes that we exist on are shifts, not because we occupy completely different physical spaces. Our loved ones in the afterlife are that close. If you’d like to get to know me better or work with me on a more personal level to create space for healing, transformation, and happiness, go to schalladams.com Love you all, Schall.
Our soul wants these experiences and benefits from the choices we make in how we will experience our life's circumstances.
Certain emotions create an attraction where our spirit and the spirits we love can communicate more effectively.
We are part of the universe. We are eternal beings. Loved ones who transitioned before us are back in our true home, our true state. Knowing that Levi lives in this loving, infinite, eternal state helps me to celebrate all he is becoming and to know I will see him again when I am finished with this very small journey through the life of Schall. We are divine beings.
I discovered that time doesn’t change our grief, it’s what we do with time that changes our grief. I chose to connect with my son Levi right from the start. It wasn’t because I wanted to stop grieving - I really didn’t back then. It was because I needed connection with him. I didn’t know that there would come a point where I would fully feel his presence in my life. I didn’t know that there would come a point where I would no longer relate to the grieving posts I scrolled through. I didn’t know that I would be completely transformed in how I experience Levi’s transition out of this physical world.
Today I’m talking about what it feels like when you allow yourself to completely and unconditionally release your loved one back to the universe. How we can honor the life they are living as spirit, knowing we are still connected and that love is eternal.
Today I'm sharing something I’ve been thinking a lot about and that is all the different ways that our loved ones can use to interact with us. When you think of how they are pure spirit now and that we are also spirit, it makes it easier to understand that our energies can interact with each other. Our loved ones are able to interact with this world, because they are still a part of this world. They just live in a different form. Part 1 of a series.
Today I share an understanding I came to after years of seeking signs and messages from my son Levi. Death is nothing at all. I came to this complete understanding and realization after validating his signs and messages for years. I know that we are all capable of receiving them and there is a process that helped me completely understand Levi is alive and well, living in a different energy field - but still part of this universe.
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Today I’m talking about dream visitations. I personally have only had one dream visitation the whole 9 years that Levi has been living it up in the spirit world, but Levi has come to others in their dreams with messages for me.
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Today I want to share the experience of knowing that Levi lives in the same universe as I do and the peace that it has helped me achieve. I wish this sense of knowing and connection for every person who grieves the loss of a loved one.
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Today I’m talking about how our true selves are not these limited expressions of humanity and how that has helped me to understand that Levi still exists in this universe. This has made his physical absence in this world bearable, when it was not before.
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“Realizing how our souls connect is the only thing that matters” - Dr. Eben Alexander. Today I expand on the idea that our souls are already connected, it's up to us to allow ourselves to express and experience the connection we have with loved ones on the other side.
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Today I’m talking about deepening your connection with a loved one who lives as spirit.
I knew from the beginning that the answer to my grief would be spiritual - in that it would repair the connection between me and Levi that felt broken by him leaving this world.
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How years of communication through signs and messages from my son Levi created a new level of relationship with him and transformed my grief.
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Celebrate your loved ones who have transitioned to spirit. Come from a point of celebrating their life and celebrating the spirit they have become. This will not only allow you to connect better with your loved one, but the energy of celebrating the person you love who has transitioned invites others into your realm of grief in a way that makes it easier for them.
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Today we really dive into the synergistic process of asking for and receiving messages that will help you realize you are still in a relationship with your loved one who lives in spirit.
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Today we reflect on the difference between signs and messages and the different ways they can show up.
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Opening ourselves to signs and messages from our loved ones helps us receive even more communication from them. So, let’s talk about HOW to open up to the signs and messages our loved ones want to give us.
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On today's I wanted to talk about my deliberate choice to be a spirit mom as I experience the grief of losing my only child. This episode is directed towards moms who have lost a child, but anyone who is grieving the loss of a loved one will find some comfort here as well. I knew from the very beginning that the answers to my pain would come from spirit. I had to find a way to be Levi’s mother still, to have a relationship with him across time and space. And so, I set upon my journey to connect with him through signs and messages.
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Our lives don’t happen by accident. We choose them. And, if we choose them before we come here, then this experience was meant for us. We can honor our grief and the love we have for someone who has transitioned, even when we choose to walk a path toward healing.
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Ways to deal with certain dates that can trigger sadness over the loss of a loved one. The anniversary of their transition, their birthday or other birthdays, Mother's or Father’s day, or holidays that were special to our loved one. Feeling a deep connection to loved ones on the other side, on these dates especially, can light the path toward healing.
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Grief can be a very dark and lonely experience. When I began to treat my grief as sacred, to share it with other spirit moms, to open myself to communication with Levi, and allow the spiritual nature of grief to be expressed, my grief became lighter. I began the healing process.
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Our spirit has lived this life, past lives, and life in our true home. We planned these lives we are living and we will take the experience home with us when we transition back to spirit.
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I’m sharing my first encounter with a medium and how it helped open the door for me to trust the messages that continue to come from my son Levi.
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There is power in saying the name of your loved one who has transitioned to the other side. Use it to build your connection to them, and create space for healing.
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Ask for messages, open yourself to receive them, and document everything so you can see patterns when they emerge. When you start to see the patterns of communication it will validate the messages for you.
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Levi has a young man channel a letter to me describing where he is and how he is doing.
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Knowing my son still exists in spirit is comforting and healing. Today I share the first message I received from Levi as I began my journey to find a way to communicate with him across the veil.
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Four years after my son Levi transitioned, he gave us the message that he is truly happy on the other side.
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