Talk To Me Nice Podcast: Recent Episodes
Ryan Fagan
The Talk to me Nice podcast is all about exposing different ideas on relationships on dating from men and women to gain a better understanding of each other. Hosted by Ryan Fagan a real estate broker looking for his future life and learning about different ideology on dating and sharing his own.
Are Modern Men Under-performing | Talk to Me Nice Podcast EP50Are young men and boys in crisis? Are they failing at education, dating, finances? Why is their self delete rate so high? These are all topics we cover on a special 50th episode of the talk to me nice podcastGuests@kennyclutch_@lone.wolf.143@nikkibooti@ @RyanFagan_RealEstate @hustlesaucekevCash App to support the show!$RyanFaganRealEstate#talktomenice #dating #modernmanTalk to Me Nice Podcast EP50 (Timestamps)0:00 Talk to Me Nice Podcast EP501:18 Announcement: Our Talk to Me Nice Network2:18 Topic Introduction: Are men underperforming?3:44 Ryan's Intro and Relationship Status4:14 Na Kia's Intro and Thoughts on Men Underperforming6:25 Tammy's Intro and Thoughts on Men Underperforming8:04 Reading Comments: Hellos and Modern Men9:07 Positive Messaging for Women vs Negative for Men11:05 Kennith's Intro and Thoughts on Men Underperforming14:14 How Music Effects Our Mindset17:44 Upbringing Influences Childhood19:11 Underperformance for Men vs Women20:27 Media Messaging and the Importance of Parent's Guidance28:41 Reading Comments: Underperformance and Mindset29:34 The Issue with Strong Women Messaging37:37 Is the Bible misogynistic?43:26 Individuals Need Structure and Rules50:39 Reading Comments: Gender Roles and Religion51:27 Men Were Conditioned the Wrong Way54:09 Why We Should Consider the Needs of Men vs Women57:45 Why Modern Men are Underperforming vs Women's Standards1:07:13 Two Types of Men: Can men be both?1:15:55 Reading Comments: Can men be both?1:18:27 Men vs Women's Roles Should Be Interchangeable1:20:18 Why are men doing worse in education?1:28:16 Why are men killing themselves more?1:38:56 Men Need Solution-Based Support1:47:42 Young Men Need More Types of Support1:52:49 Na Kia's Final Takeaway: Men's Stereotypes1:55:45 Tammy's Final Takeaway: The Pressure on Men1:58:03 Kennith's Final Takeaway: Purpose and Mentality2:01:08 Final Advice for Men2:02:58 Wrap Up
What is The role of the modern man in the west? Our all men's panel discuss men's issues and topics on this episode of the talk to me nice podcastGuests@emperorguz@muntasirsmith@RyanFagan_RealEstate @hustlesaucekevCash App to support the show!$RyanFaganRealEstate#talktomenice #moderndating #modernmanTalk to Me Nice Podcast EP48 (Timestamps)0:00 Talk to Me Nice Podcast EP480:26 Topic Introduction: The Role of the Modern Man1:15 Ryan's Intro and Relationship Status1:28 Guz's Intro and Thoughts on Modern Men3:44 Muntasir's Intro and Thoughts on Modern Men5:55 Talk to Me Nice Podcast Intro6:30 The Role of the Traditional Man10:19 Women Taking on Men's Roles16:34 How Modern Feminism is Affecting Women18:10 Can women balance both roles?23:34 Do you split bills 50/50?24:43 An Example of How Men and Women are Different27:41 Reading Comments: 50/50 Work28:20 Are parents passing down relationship advice?30:07 The Risks of Marriage for Men38:29 Does marriage really work?41:00 How are men benefiting from marriage?44:20 Reading Comments: Marriage44:51 Passport Bros Get Women46:13 School is Built for Women53:11 How Young Men are Treated in School56:59 There's No Direction for Young Men1:01:59 Men Need a Sense of Community and Value1:05:25 How do we give young men direction?1:09:33 Women Look for Men with Social Status1:11:15 Is it easier for dusty men to get women?1:17:32 Reading Comments: Dusty Men, Instagram, etc.1:18:39 Women Don't Need to Put in Effort1:22:41 Men's Values and Standards1:25:37 Reading Comments: Instagram, Standards, etc.1:26:24 Men's Values and Standards (cont.)1:28:49 Ryan's Vision for His Legacy1:42:24 Beating Indulgency and Building Discipline1:43:56 How Women Can Build Themselves1:45:48 Where is the line drawn between traditional roles?1:55:23 Reading Comments: Polygamy and Monogamy1:58:16 Polygamy vs Monogamy2:07:15 How can married men keep their edge?2:09:14 We Need More of These Conversations2:10:02 Wrap Up and Final Takeaways
The Soft Girl Life/Era is a Scam! Soft Girl Life is trending online with women claiming now they want to live a soft life and stop being strong and independent, but are they capable of changing their ways? We talk about it tonight on the talk to me nice podcast!Guests@kiyvonne_@thurlbeauty@imvpset@RyanFagan_RealEstate @RyanFagan_RealEstate @hustlesaucekevCash App to support the show!$RyanFaganRealEstate#talktomenice #moderndating #softgirl0:00 Pre-show0:33 Talk to Me Nice Podcast EP473:10 Topic Introduction: The Soft Girl Life Scam5:34 Talk to Me Nice Podcast Intro6:07 Tanisha's Intro and Thoughts on Soft Girls8:39 Von's Intro and Thoughts on Soft Girls9:53 Kiyvonne's Intro and Thoughts on Soft Girls10:34 What is a soft girl era?13:59 Can women switch from masculine to feminine?16:07 Why are some women masculine?18:44 Do you feel the need to be appealing to men?24:10 Do you give men the patience to learn what you like?25:01 Reading Comments: Soft Girl, Independent Women, etc.28:50 People Need Self Love and Wholeness33:17 What is masculine behavior?37:10 Thoughts on How the Conversation is Going46:23 How Men vs Women Take Criticism49:52 Why is it difficult for men to disagree with women?51:28 Risks of Being Sensitive in a Relationship53:35 Women That Can Take Criticism are Rare57:07 Reading Comments: Relationships and Women Working58:37 Men Should Create Stressless Space for Women1:01:38 Are men triggered by dominant women?1:03:15 Reading Comments: Soft Girl, Respect vs Sex, etc.1:05:44 Do women prefer being independent vs a soft girl?1:10:04 Men Providing vs the Potential of Financial Abuse1:17:07 What is something we can agree on?1:18:02 Common Dating Issues in Therapy1:21:01 Von's Main Challenge in Dating1:23:03 Tanisha Leaves the Show1:25:27 Was Kevin wrong?1:35:23 Reading Comments: Was Kevin wrong?1:36:08 Are men and women's interactions 50/50?1:39:04 Thoughts on the Episode so Far1:41:51 Kiyvonne's Advice for a Healthy Relationship1:45:50 Do men and women equally not communicate?1:50:14 Jade's Dating Experience1:51:11 Taking Accountability in Relationships1:52:35 Reading Comments: Accountability, Communication, etc.1:55:55 Learnings From this Discussion1:57:33 Wrap Up
Is Marriage over? Less and less people each year desire to get married each year, will marriage eventually be taboo or niche? Tonight on the talk to me nice podcast we discuss marriage!Guests@TheOnlyPatd @thechatwithpat463 @angeldellah@breeyoutifulll@RyanFagan_RealEstate @RyanFagan_RealEstate Cash App to support the show!$RyanFaganRealEstate#talktomenice #moderndating #marriage0:00 Talk to Me Nice Podcast EP460:28 Topic Introduction: Is Marriage Over?2:46 Talk to Me Nice Podcast Intro3:28 Angel's Intro and Thoughts on if Marriage is Dead5:52 Brianna's Intro and Thoughts on if Marriage is Dead7:21 The Age Bracket for Marriage9:48 We Should Be More Understanding of Each Side12:37 Reading Comments: Hyper Independence14:28 Upbringing and How it Could Affect Marriage17:23 Brianna and Angel's Zodiac Signs18:29 Social Media's Effect on Loyalty21:39 Divorce Rates Have Dropped22:12 Thoughts on Men Cheating in Marriage27:03 How Women in Relationships Should Handle Men28:57 Men's Non-Sexual Acts for Other Women is Cheating32:19 Reading Comments: Cheating, Communication, etc.33:52 Are modern women too career-focused?42:35 How Men Should Approach Women47:53 Today's Generation Need to Accept Rejections49:10 The Cash App Game with Women55:00 Reading Comments: Dusty Men, Relationships, Cash App, etc.59:53 Why Men Should Cash App Women1:05:11 Reading Comments: Cash App1:06:44 Pat's Love Language1:07:56 Is it normal for women to expect Cash App?1:09:48 What do you value in a man?1:14:38 Reading Comments: Cash App1:15:57 What do women offer beyond looks?1:22:37 Advice for Women: Have Interests1:23:22 Modern Society Needs More Humility1:25:27 Pat's Thoughts: Relationships Should Be Less Transactional1:30:27 Do you desire to get married and when?1:32:35 How do you know you're ready for marriage?1:33:30 Reading Comments: Cash App and Marriage1:34:00 Would you sign a prenup?1:36:40 No-Marriage Relationships are Risky for Women1:38:31 Pat's Ideal Relationship1:44:01 Gender Roles in a Relationship1:46:01 Do you desire to get married and when? (cont.)1:47:18 Gender Roles in a Relationship (cont.)2:03:43 Men Should be Proud About Providing2:04:13 Should exes stay in communication?2:06:21 Brianna's Final Thoughts: Gender Roles2:07:57 Angel's Final Thoughts: Dusty Men2:08:56 Pat's Final Thoughts: Men Want to Be Appreciated2:10:40 Bri's Advice: Be Patient and Empathetic2:12:18 Social Media and Cash Apps2:12:39 Bri's Advice: Manifest a Loyal Person2:13:32 Red Flags and Getting to Know People2:19:59 Wrap Up
Is Femininity & Soft Girl Era a Luxury? There is a lot of talk about the soft girl era but is this realistic in 2023? Guests@allthingslisalit@fitnesskurves@neydaslay@___gabby__@RyanFagan_RealEstate @RyanFagan_RealEstate Cash App to support the show!$RyanFaganRealEstate#talktomenice #moderndating #softgirl
Is Men Cheating The Same As Women Cheating? On Talk To Me Nice Podcast we talk about what makes men and women different, and how we can learn to accept one another for what we are, and the conversation derails to all things about men and women cheating and if there's a differenceGuests@bad_mmama @jacqwilliams21@hustlesaucekev@RyanFagan_RealEstate @RyanFagan_RealEstate Cash App to support the show!$RyanFaganRealEstate#talktomenice #moderndating #cheating0:00 Talk to Me Nice Podcast EP441:21 Talk to Me Nice Podcast Intro1:58 Topic Introduction: Do men and women understand each other?3:40 BB's Intro and Thoughts on Women Understanding Men4:53 Jay's Intro and Thoughts on Women Understanding Men6:05 Jamie's Intro and Thoughts on Women Understanding Men6:56 Is the previous generation worse?8:44 Importance of Clear Communication and Intention16:00 Men vs Women's Attraction to Sex25:13 Reading Comments: Previous Generation25:46 Can you prevent your partner from cheating?27:44 Women are Used to Attention and Saying No32:47 Reading Comments: Polygamy33:24 Jamie and BB's Type37:35 Have you found your type and did it work?41:11 Jamie's Experience with Men Due to Her Work46:37 Guessing Everyone's Age and Reading Comments49:21 Why should people not be in relationships?53:00 Women Should Comply if They Have High Standards55:16 What are your longest relationships?57:36 What are the top problems with men?59:51 Why Men Cheat1:03:11 Reading Comments: Cheating and Communication1:03:44 Is cheating immature?1:04:38 Why Women Should Be Open to Cheating1:07:08 What really makes men cheat?1:07:53 Why Jamie Ended Her Relationship1:13:56 Sex is More Emotional for Women than Men1:16:34 Reading Comments: Never Cheated, Roleplaying, etc.1:17:17 Cheater With no Flaws vs Non-Cheater with Flaws1:20:15 Why Ryan Didn't Cheat in 10-Year Relationship1:21:11 Do men and women think about sex differently?1:23:44 What makes a sex addiction?1:26:23 Ryan's Thoughts on Having Multiple Partners1:28:31 Sneaky Links and Being Truthful About Them1:30:44 Double Standards Scenarios1:35:08 Reading Comments: Cheating1:35:19 Is cheating planned or accidental?1:36:25 Reading Comments: Cheating and Men's Integrity1:37:01 Would you forgive a man that's accountable?1:45:01 This Generation Has No Accountability1:47:03 Meeting and Approaching Women in Person1:56:48 Is it weird for men to ask for Instagram?1:58:29 Final Thoughts1:59:30 One side chick or multiple?2:01:08 Upcoming: Pat and Lisa Hosting2:01:47 Wrap Up
Men should have higher standards for themselves and prioritize themselves more but why have they been unable to?Guests@kelvinmichaeljr@kiyvonne_@@hustlesaucekev@RyanFagan_RealEstate @RyanFagan_RealEstate Cash App to support the show!$RyanFaganRealEstate#talktomenice #moderndating #datingstandards0:00 Talk to Me Nice Podcast EP430:39 Topic Introduction: Why Men Can't Have Standards3:47 Talk to Me Nice Podcast Intro4:23 Ryan's Intro and Relationship Status4:55 Kelvin's Intro and Relationship Status6:30 Kiyvonne's Intro and Relationship Status7:20 Can men with less options have standards?13:28 Do women only want men that are at or above their level?17:30 Reading Comments18:13 Regular Men Can't Have Standards23:32 Do men need more ambition?34:39 Do men date down?35:59 What makes men and women attractive?40:33 Societal Standards for Men45:08 Regular Men Don't Have Options50:03 Reading Comments: Height and Status51:12 Women vs Men's Game54:05 What is a regular man?58:42 Why Men Can't Have Standards1:00:27 Advice for Regular Men1:08:33 What are standards?1:12:09 Women's Standards for Tall vs Short Men1:18:20 Men's Journey: Confidence, Worth and Value1:23:42 Women's Journey Compared to Men's1:26:49 What should women bring to the table?1:30:38 Reading Comments: Standards1:31:37 People are Mindlessly Getting into Relationships1:34:25 Can you compromise your non-negotiables?1:49:46 Reading Comments: Compromising Non-Negotiables1:52:42 Men vs Women Cheating1:55:01 Women and Men's Standards1:56:45 People Should Be More Community-Oriented2:03:17 Wrap Up: Hot Seat and Today's Content for Men2:05:46 Kiyvonne's Final Thoughts: Women's Standards2:08:13 Kelvin's Final Thoughts: New Perspective2:14:20 Wrap Up
What Did We Learn About Relationships in 2022? Did anything change? Will the gender war get better? Has the Talk to Me Nice Podcast helped anyone? Let us know!Guests@wanz3l @Wanz3l @superduperdom@auroravsroni@hustlesaucekev@RyanFagan_RealEstate @RyanFagan_RealEstate Cash App to support the show!$RyanFaganRealEstate#talktomenice #moderndating #genderwar 0:00 Pre-show0:51 Talk to Me Nice Podcast EP422:10 Topic Introduction: The Relationship Race to the Bottom4:43 Talk to Me Nice Podcast Intro5:19 Reacting to the Intro and Reading Comments5:55 Wanzel's Intro and Thoughts on the Race to the Bottom8:47 Aurora's Intro and Thoughts on the Race to the Bottom12:58 Dom's Intro and Thoughts on the Race to the Bottom14:30 How Wealthy Men Influence Women20:18 Aurora's Relationship Status and Past Relationship21:31 Is it easier to build with younger vs older women?26:04 Can you have more than one soulmate?27:29 Building Men vs Women29:13 How Men and Women Choose and Stay with Partners32:37 Can broke men get women?36:23 Reading Comments: Building Women, Broke Men, etc.37:56 Can broke men get women? (cont.)41:41 The Effort Required in a Relationship43:08 Why Aurora and Her Ex Broke Up 51:15 Are women overvaluing themselves due to men simping?59:00 Attention is Negatively Effecting Women1:02:10 Reading Comments: Speed Dating, Growing Together, Inflation, etc.1:04:03 Women are Used to Attention 1:08:16 Men Shouldn't Do Things for Women with Expectations1:10:10 Men Should Create a Safe Environment for Women1:18:18 Should men lead and train women?1:22:50 Reading Comments: Social Media, Simps, 50/501:24:06 Feminism Has Killed Femininity1:25:02 Men Should Create a Safe Environment for Women (cont.)1:27:34 Boundaries and Standards for Men and Women1:43:08 Reading Comments: 50/50, Boundaries, etc.1:46:06 How can men communicate their boundaries to women?1:56:36 Reading Comments: Our GroupMe Group Chat 1:57:43 Men and Women Preferences in a Relationship1:59:54 Should women compromise if given a safe environment?2:06:18 Reading Comments: Respect and Crossing Boundaries2:07:36 Making Women Feel Heard2:10:03 Were women happier in the past?2:11:35 Reading Comments: GroupMe Chat, Boundaries, etc.2:14:29 Dom's Final Thoughts: Are simps ruining things?2:16:04 Aurora's Final Thoughts: Having Simps2:18:01 Wanzel's Final Thoughts: Misunderstandings Between Genders2:20:17 Wrap Up2:20:55 Post-show
What Did We Learn About Relationships in 2022? Did anything change? Will the gender war get better? Has the Talk to Me Nice Podcast helped anyone? Let us know!Guests@theonlypatd@superduperdom@thenewcheripye@hustlesaucekev@RyanFagan_RealEstate @RyanFagan_RealEstate Cash App to support the show!$RyanFaganRealEstate#talktomenice #moderndating #genderwar0:00 Talk to Me Nice Intro0:35 Talk to Me Nice Podcast EP411:13 Topic Introduction: When will the gender war end?2:56 Chèri Pye's Intro and Thoughts on the Gender War4:07 Pat's Intro and Thoughts on the Gender War5:41 Dom's Intro and Thoughts on the Gender War6:36 Chèri's Previous Relationship and Why She's Single Now9:29 Which gender has more options?18:07 Reading Comments: Which gender has more options?19:19 How Online Interactions are Impacting Men and Women23:37 Men Aren't Used to High Value Women26:07 Why Spicy DMs Don't Work and Aren't Unique30:13 How People Present Themselves Online vs Offline36:56 Reading Comments: Spicy DMs37:33 Are spicy DMs attractive?39:07 Differentiating Real vs Fake People Online44:01 Reading Comments: Spicy DMs, Giving Socials, Fakes on SM48:18 Pick Me Men are Influencing Women's Accountability55:51 Update on Dom and Travis58:38 Ryan's Advice to Men: Show Dominance1:03:12 Most Women Find 75% of Men Below Average1:05:53 Dom: Masculinity over Money1:08:33 Reading Comments: Status, Accountability, Travis and Dom, etc.1:11:59 Pat: Social Media is Negatively Impacting Society1:22:23 What does "fun" mean?1:23:59 The Negative Impact of Inflation in Dating1:27:43 Women Think Their Value is Higher Than it Really is1:35:49 Reading Comments: Women Value, Social Media and Dom's OnlyFans1:39:15 Women vs Men's Privilege and Struggles1:44:31 Women's Don't Want to Weed Through Men1:48:42 Should women expect long term relationships to be draining?1:51:49 Should women be the mental relief for men?1:55:17 Empathy: Women Should Consider Men's Struggle and Vice Versa2:03:43 Dom's Final Thoughts: Listen to Each Other2:04:07 Chèri's Final Thoughts: Men and Dominance2:05:43 Pat's Final Thoughts: Have Empathy2:07:18 Wrap Up
What Did We Learn About Relationships in 2022? Did anything change? Will the gender war get better? Has the Talk to Me Nice Podcast helped anyone? Let us know!Guests@sheismax_@bri.spina@88blessedbeats@hustlesaucekev@RyanFagan_RealEstate @RyanFagan_RealEstate Cash App to support the show!$RyanFaganRealEstate#talktomenice #moderndating #newyearsliveshow0:00 Talk to Me Nice Podcast EP402:11 Topic Introduction: What did we learn in 2022?3:11 Travis' Intro and Thoughts on Relationship Learnings in 20225:35 Bri's Intro and Thoughts on Relationship Learnings in 20229:28 Max's Intro and Thoughts on Relationship Learnings in 202215:54 Are relationships time sensitive the older you get?17:11 Is the concept of marriage pointless?21:35 Reading Comments: Say hello!24:31 The Issue with Modern Relationships28:18 How Bri Chooses a Good Partner 36:34 Max's Current Relationship43:39 Update on Travis and Dom's Date44:38 How do young people date?45:53 Ryan Makes Strong Drinks47:04 Reading Comments: Comments on Max's Relationship48:08 What makes sex good?49:52 Bri's Situation with Her Child's Dad52:24 Max's Lesson for 2022: Learning from the Past1:05:29 Bri's Lesson for 2022: Not Losing Herself1:12:10 Travis' Lesson for 2022: Learn Each Other1:16:47 Ryan's Lesson for 2022: Active Listening1:21:14 Reading Comments: Marriage, Being Picky, etc.1:24:40 Communication and Men Expressing Emotions1:30:53 Green Flag: Good Relationship with Their Dad1:33:37 Reading Comments: Relationship with Parents, Manipulators, etc.1:35:28 Men are More Manipulative than Women1:36:51 How Women vs Men Have Sex1:38:59 Thoughts on Women's Posts and Responding to DMs1:44:32 Reading Comments: Red Flags, Women's Online Posts, etc.1:45:00 How should women in a relationship dress? 1:49:35 OnlyFans: Men Need Self Control1:53:04 Reading Comments: Age, Old Soul, etc.1:54:37 Men Should Pay for Dates2:00:29 Reading Comments: Dates, Red Flags, etc.2:02:20 What did the chat learn for 2022?2:02:58 Ryan's Goal for 2022: Finding a Wife2:05:48 Max's Final Thoughts: Find Yourself2:08:21 Reading Comments: 2022 Learnings, Manipulation, etc.2:09:55 Bri's Final Thoughts: Love Yourself2:12:23 Wrap Up: Happy New Year!
Can Men Really Express Their Emotions To Women? Should men express their emotions? When? How Much? We cover it all tonight on the Talk To Me Nice Podcast EP39Guests@aniyaclark@officialdom.b@mano_d_dios@hustlesaucekev@RyanFagan_RealEstate @RyanFagan_RealEstate Cash App to support the show!$RyanFaganRealEstate#talktomenice #moderndating #menssemotions0:00 Talk to Me Nice Podcast EP390:54 Topic Introduction: Can men share their emotions?3:04 Santiago's Intro and Thoughts on Men's Emotions4:44 Aniya's Intro and Thoughts on Men's Emotions7:35 Dom's Intro and Thoughts on Men's Emotions11:12 Can women have platonic friends?13:59 Men Carry Anger and Need to Control Their Emotions17:58 Reading Comments: Men Taking Other Men's Women19:00 Women's Emotions are Different Than Men's23:12 Women are Naturally More Valuable Than Men28:41 When was a time a man expressed their emotions to you?37:33 Reading Comments: Women & Men's Emotions38:31 Expectations of Women in a Relationship39:53 What are Santiago's requirements for a wife?42:00 What do women select men for?45:27 Men Lose More in Marriage48:39 Women are Less Valuable as They Age49:37 Aniya's Funny Date Story50:48 Reading Comments: Marriage51:23 Marriage is a Business Transaction52:31 Thoughts on "50/50" Dates54:18 Kevin's Thoughts on Coffee Dates1:00:25 Kevin's Dating Experiences1:02:15 Why is it difficult for men to get women? (Kevin Example)1:09:37 What if a man expresses his emotions and you disagree?1:28:03 Reading Comments: Women Preferences, Posting Pics1:31:15 Should women in a relationship post revealing pictures?1:37:59 Are Black mens' standards low?1:40:33 How do you feel about posting your SO?1:43:41 Is it easy for men to get women?1:48:46 Dating on Potential vs Someone Put Together1:53:33 Love Isn't a Privilege for Men1:55:36 Reading Comments: Posting Pics, Maintaining Women1:56:33 Santiago's Final Thoughts: Emotions vs Vulnerability1:59:02 Dom's Final Thoughts: Marriage, DMs, etc.2:01:24 Aniya's Final Thoughts: Different Perspectives2:02:03 Wrap Up: Thank you for watching!
Should you be friends before trying to date or start a relationship? That is the topic for tonight's talk to me nice podcast ep38. Is modern dating so bad you should skip dating and just be friends and evolve in to a relationship?Guests@88blessedbeats@superduperdom@lala_justblaze@hustlesaucekev@RyanFagan_RealEstate @RyanFagan_RealEstate Cash App to support the show!$RyanFaganRealEstate#talktomenice #moderndating #friendzone0:00 Talk to Me Nice Podcast EP381:12 Topic Introduction: Friends Before Dating3:32 Travis' Intro and Thoughts on Friends Before Dating6:15 Dom's Intro and Thoughts on Friends Before Dating10:00 Lana's Intro and Thoughts on Friends Before Dating12:00 What makes you take a risk with your guy friends?13:47 What is the proper amount of emotion for men?15:56 When can men cry?19:28 Reading Comments: Dating Guy Friends21:25 When can men cry? (cont.)23:48 Financial and Physical Preferences27:15 Do you have people in the friend zone?28:25 Do you have platonic female friends you would date?30:03 Body Shaming vs Preferences with Big Women32:39 Reading Comments: Stop the Cap33:06 Can men and women have platonic relationships?34:41 Are low-level relationships a barrier?37:14 When do you cut off a low-level relationship?39:58 Women That Just Use Men for a Date and Sex43:36 What is your responsibility in dating?47:30 Why are women surprised that men can cook?48:26 Lana's Previous Relationship (Baby Daddy)50:39 What's Ryan's sign?51:30 Reading Comments: Women are Villains, Honesty, Toxicity, etc.56:42 Travis' Advice to Men: Stop Being Horny58:08 Calling Lana's Roommate and Clarifying their Relationship1:03:01 Thoughts on Lana and Her Ex1:08:00 Respecting Boundaries: Lala's Example1:09:58 Why aren't Lana and her ex together?1:12:26 The Wrong Messaging on Men and Their Emotions1:15:20 How to Productively Communicate Emotions1:20:23 Did we bring this conversation back?1:21:09 Discussing Megan Thee Stallion's Situation1:23:38 Megan Thee Stallion: Is Tory guilty or not?1:25:18 Advocating for Men1:27:16 Kanye Being Protective Over His Children1:30:15 Why Lana is Living with Her Ex1:32:10 Separating Children from Parents is Selfish1:35:08 Ryan's Intentions for the Podcast1:38:35 Reading Comments: Men's Emotions, Megan, etc.1:40:36 Ryan's Concerns for the Podcast1:41:53 Are Travis and Dom going to be friends first?1:47:16 Travis and Dom Set Up a Date1:50:27 Reading Comments: Megan, Lana, Travis & Dom1:53:16 Dom looks spiritual?1:54:28 Should we do a part 2?1:55:02 Reading Comments: Ryan Matchmaking, Travis & Dom, etc.1:57:21 Final Thoughts on the Episode1:58:30 Wrap Up
How do women pick their partner in modern dating? This special all women episode of the Talk To Me Nice Podcast tries to address how to select a good long term partner and all the pitfalls and reasons why its so hard to pick a partner todayGuests@jalynjewel @thejeweleffect @Candacedennis @CandaceDennis @joriversmusic @JoRiversMusic Cash App to support the show!$RyanFaganRealEstate#talktomenice #moderndating #womenpodcasters 0:00 Talk to Me Nice Podcast EP37: Bonus Episode0:43 Topic Introduction: How to Properly Choose a Man1:28 Jalyn's Intro: Host of Jewel Effect1:41 Candace's Intro: Realtor and Wife2:01 Jo River's Intro: Singer and Various Hosts2:24 What was your approach to meeting your partners? 8:29 Why do women choose higher-status men?13:05 Are women's standards too high?19:09 True or False: Women Want a Sexual vs Long-Term Partner23:14 Thoughts on Men Leaving After Having Sex27:26 Is chemistry more important than compatibility?28:55 Do women communicate indirectly?32:34 Women Should Be More Direct36:27 If They Care, They'll Put in Effort to Change39:20 In what situations should you give grace?44:48 They Will Make Time if They Care About You47:36 Is communication key to a successful marriage?48:47 How Candace Improved Communication in Her Marriage51:25 Wants vs Needs: Appearance Examples59:04 What non-physical things can you settle for?1:01:33 What changed on your must-have list?1:04:07 Clinginess Isn't Necessary in Certain Situations1:08:38 When did you know your husband was right for you?1:12:06 Qualities That Stand Out in Our Partners 1:18:29 Our Upbringing Influences Our Standards1:21:48 How do women pick the right partner? 1:24:39 Loving Despite Appearance1:27:44 Seeing Past Initial Appearance1:31:26 How One Carries Themselves Can Reflect Their Mindset1:34:09 Does dating even work?1:38:08 What is most important to choosing a partner?1:40:21 Wrap Up
We all know modern dating and relationships are broken, but why? Could it be we are too selfish and don't believe in anything anymore? Tonight on the Talk To Me Nice Podcast EP35 our panel will discuss if we are too selfish to partner up in modern dating.Guests@Kayleesjamarie@jalynjewel@antoinetheinfluencer@RyanFagan_RealEstate@k.bow98Cash App to support the show!$RyanFaganRealEstate#talktomenice #moderndating #datingproblems0:00 Pre-show1:36 Topic Introduction: Is extreme content for the worse?4:42 Antoine's Intro and Thoughts on Extreme Content7:17 Jalyn Jewel's Intro and Thoughts on Extreme Content9:10 Men Need a New Approach to Women11:09 There's an Ego Battle Between Men and Women15:20 Ryan's Dating Life and Advice for Him18:39 Reading Comments: Shout Outs, Social Media, etc.21:21 Women and Men Interactions on Social Media25:01 What makes you respond to men on social media?29:24 Jayln and Her Friends' Relationships30:12 Ryan's Relationship Experience & Future Goals33:08 Why do women flake?34:00 Helping the Special Guest In34:39 Influencers are Delivering Their Messaging Wrong36:04 The special guest arrives!37:07 Vicky's Brief Intro and Background37:38 Topic Re-introduction: Is extreme content for the worse?38:06 Megan Thee Stallion: Did she get shot?42:48 People are Falling for Extreme Content45:46 Arguments For and Against Abortion51:35 Do extremists exist in real life?53:54 Does Ryan know Jalyn’s first name?54:45 Vicky on Responding to Men on Social Media1:02:04 How much do you care about their income?1:03:02 Does he have to pay for your bills?1:05:58 Do you get solicitations in your DMs?1:07:23 DM Diving Idea1:07:46 How do you approach men you're interested in?1:09:10 Has a man ever broke up with you?1:10:46 Initiating Commitment: Men vs Women1:11:07 The Appeal of Fun Girls1:11:46 Who initiated your relationship status?1:15:57 Do you text after sleeping with someone?1:21:59 Reading Comments: Paying the Bill1:22:33 Should women pay and plan for a date?1:31:59 What Satisfies Ryan in a Relationship1:33:06 Importance of Men & Women Positions in the Household1:33:31 Respect Your Partner's Love Language1:35:34 Do you text after sleeping with someone? (cont.)1:36:05 For Men, Dating is Strategy1:37:50 How Men Can Lead the Relationship1:43:22 Men Should Create Mystery1:44:19 Why Men Should Learn Women First1:46:05 Reading Comments: Standards, Expectations, etc.1:48:47 What do you think about Andrew Tate?1:49:44 Why "Working Out" Isn't Always the Solution1:51:56 Solutions for Money1:53:44 Kevin's Opinion on Taking the Lead1:58:30 The Communication Boundaries with Women are Blurred2:01:18 Showing Emotions: Women vs Men2:08:33 When can a man be emotional?2:14:15 How do you want your man to react in this situation?2:16:26 Do women need to have strategy?2:17:43 Ryan Wants a Match Maker2:19:15 Antoine's Final Thoughts: Take What Matters2:20:30 Jalyn's Final Thoughts: Be Intentional2:23:28 Vicky's Final Thoughts: Men's Emotions2:34:15 Wrap Up
We all know modern dating and relationships are broken, but why? Could it be we are too selfish and don't believe in anything anymore? Tonight on the Talk To Me Nice Podcast EP35 our panel will discuss if we are too selfish to partner up in modern dating.Guests@blackbeard_vadar@iammrssherbinfox@q.smqkez@RyanFagan_RealEstate@k.bow98Cash App to support the show!$RyanFaganRealEstate#talktomenice #moderndating #selfish 0:00 Pre-show2:21 Ryan's Introduction and Background3:01 Topic Introduction: Selfishness & Modern Dating4:19 Petra's Introduction and Thoughts on Selfishness8:26 Adonis' Introduction and Thoughts on Selfishness11:02 Kayla's Introduction and Thoughts on Selfishness11:41 What does "Haram" mean?12:03 Why do young people seem so mature these days?14:17 Selfishness and Selflessness22:47 Reading Comments: Selflessness and Children23:21 Are you actually happy while being selfless for your children?27:53 What is your ideal relationship?31:58 Can your girl make more than you?34:04 Effects of Chasing Materialistic Things in Life36:18 Why does a woman's status matter to you?43:12 Reading Comments: Parents, Woman's Status, etc. 44:35 Business Partnership in Marriage45:33 Adonis' Ideal Relationship and Goals48:31 Adonis' Zodiac Sign and Personality52:03 Adonis' Ideal Relationship and Goals (cont.)55:31 Reading Comments: Opinions on Adonis57:39 What Takes Priority: Relationships vs Money1:10:03 Kayla's Ideal Relationship1:13:48 Adonis' Wine Brand: Oba Wine1:15:23 Freedom vs Constantly Chasing Goals1:24:24 Were you in love with someone before? 1:25:31 Adonis' Current Relationships1:28:43 Having Sex and Setting Proper Expectations 1:39:43 Performing Well and Expecting Something in Return 1:50:41 Should men be the decision maker?1:59:37 Ryan's Concerns for Future Relationships2:05:00 Why Ryan Prefers Young Women2:09:27 Personal Success: Pursuing Career Goals 2:13:53 Why Ryan Prefers Young Women (cont.)2:14:27 Reading Comments: Expectations, Preferences, etc.2:17:16 Body Count and the Double Standard Against Women2:24:06 Should young women explore sex or no?2:29:41 Why Ryan Prefers Young Women (cont.)2:37:20 Ryan on Men Making Decisions in a Relationship2:43:30 Kayla's Final Thoughts: Different Opinions2:44:23 Adonis' Final Thoughts: Thoughts on Ryan2:49:14 Petra's Final Thoughts: Ryan's Preferences2:52:22 Reading & Reacting to Comments about Ryan2:53:53 Wrap Up
Should you be 100% honest in relationships and dating? | Talk to Me Nice Podcast EP34 When should you tell the truth when should you lie? Is lying always bad or can you have a benevolent lie?Guests@eycee_tothe_ac@breeyoutifulll@wanz3l@RyanFagan_RealEstate@k.bow98Cash App to support the show!$RyanFaganRealEstate#talktomenice #truth #moderndating 0:00 Talk to Me Nice Podcast EP341:20 Topic Introduction: Honesty in Relationships2:59 Lorreine's Intro and Thoughts on Honesty5:50 Wanz3l's Intro and Thoughts on Honesty7:50 Brianna's Intro and Thoughts on Honesty9:46 Reading Comments: Honesty in Relationships10:31 First Date: What questions are too much?12:23 Should you mention seeing multiple people at once?18:20 Reading Comments: Honesty & First Dates20:22 When should you not be truthful?27:30 Reading Comments: Being Truthful29:17 Have you ever regretted telling the truth?30:06 Do men have to be more careful than women?31:40 How do men respond to "Do I look fat in this?"33:44 Can men be insecure or reasonable?37:42 Reading Comments: Accountability, Lying, etc.40:42 Men vs Women Reaction to "How do I look?48:23 Reading Comments: Reactions to Honesty50:12 Does appearance matter?53:20 Should you tell the truth if you cheat?1:04:00 Reading Comments: Honesty & Cheating1:06:31 Balance with Open Relationships and Honesty1:10:28 Are you honest about your body count?1:13:28 Sense of Duty in Relationships1:17:43 Does familial duty go before happiness?1:27:42 Reading Comments: Family & Community1:28:41 Social Media's Effect on the Dating World1:29:02 Thoughts on Baggage Game Show1:30:08 Commitments & Ideals: Being Grounded in Life1:44:02 Accountability: should you stay or leave family?1:49:01 Reading Comments: Commitment, Ideals, Family1:50:31 Are poly relationships more common?1:53:13 Final Thoughts: The Truth or Lies?1:58:04 Wrap Up
Men and Women communicate way differently and this causes a lot of misunderstanding. How can we better communicate with one another?Guests@nikkibooti@ab_allday@bls_xxc@RyanFagan_RealEstate@k.bow98Cash App to support the show!$RyanFaganRealEstate#talktomenice #communication #moderndating 0:00 Pre-show0:24 Ryan's Intro & Thoughts on Communication2:36 Na Kia's Intro & Thoughts on Communication5:15 Eddie's Intro & Thoughts on Communication8:50 Alisha's Intro & Thoughts on Communication11:11 Reading Comments: Greetings13:14 How Eddie Communicates with His Wife 16:00 Approaching Conflict Based on Types of Relationships25:07 Reading Comments: Approaching Conflict26:37 Nikki on How Men & Women Communicate Differently29:18 Do gender roles really matter?40:52 Reading Comments: Men vs Women42:42 Communication Depends Person-by-Person45:35 Gender Roles and Generalization48:19 Disagreeing Isn't Always a Negative Thing49:41 Gender Roles and Generalization (cont.)51:48 What's the best lesson you learned about communication?59:14 Value of Relationships Affects Communication1:08:11 Reading Comments: Gender Roles, Social Media, etc.1:11:10 Don't Be Defensive, Be Understanding1:17:44 How Overthinking Affects Proper Communication1:21:53 Don't Be Defensive, Be Understanding (cont.)1:26:46 Thoughts on Traditional Gender Roles1:31:30 Women Want Men on Their Level or Higher1:36:55 Respecting Others' Opinions1:37:47 Thoughts on Traditional Gender Roles (cont.)1:39:50 Reading Comments: Respecting Opinions, 50/50, etc.1:46:14 Balance and Gender Roles in a Relationship1:52:00 How Social Media Can Ruin Relationships1:53:03 Nuggets of Truth vs Upfront Honesty2:08:06 How honest should you be?2:12:20 Reading Comments: Ryan's Preferences, Nikki, etc.2:17:13 Ryan's Growth Over the Podcasts2:20:19 Ryan on Being a Cuddler2:23:06 Advice to Ryan: Don't Send Mixed Signals2:26:26 Wrap Up
Is dating dead in modern dating? Both men and women seem dissatisfied with modern dating, why is that the case and how can we fix dating?Guests@theangelallure@jalynjewel@RyanFagan_RealEstate@k.bow98Cash App to support the show!$RyanFaganRealEstate#talktomenice #datingisdead #moderndating0:00 Pre-show0:33 Episode 31 Intro: Is Dating Dead?3:24 Jalyn Jewel's Intro and Thoughts on Dating5:40 Kevin's Intro and Thoughts on Dating7:44 Angel's Intro and Thoughts on Dating9:16 Do dates nowadays feel like a standoff?11:50 Discernment Before Going on a Date20:31 Ryan's Preferences for Women22:15 Risks of Being With a 30+ Woman26:35 Is it insecure men or just giving criticism?31:12 Rich's Thoughts on Dating32:33 Having "Sneaky Links" in Dating34:07 Managing Your Attractions or Preferences36:07 Do people over 30 have baggage?41:35 What can we call the chat/fans?41:58 Reading Comments: Is Dating Dead?45:47 Kevin's Dating Experience Getting Bad Results49:00 Duty Holds People Together52:00 Overchoice and Possible Solutions55:20 Blocking and Ghosting on Social Media58:13 Double Standards: Women Can Trash Men59:54 The Right Timing for Transparency on a Date1:02:38 Jalyn: Possible Ways to Find & Date Ideal Women1:05:52 Alternatives to Coffee / Light Dates1:12:16 Reading Comments: Impressing Women1:13:04 High value or light dates?1:16:56 Have a Fun Approach to Dating1:17:55 There are Less Options for Older Women1:21:57 Men Can Use Women to Attract Women1:24:18 Dating Guide (Suggestions) for Men1:33:34 Opening Doors for Women: Is it Preferred?1:38:15 Gentleman-Like Behavior Is Attractive1:40:41 What stood out to you on a date?1:46:08 Misunderstanding Intentions on a Date Wastes Time1:48:04 Ryan on Discernments, Opening Doors and Being Generous1:50:47 Angel's Final Thoughts1:51:10 Kevin's Final Thoughts1:53:15 Jalyn's Final Thoughts1:54:40 Ryan's Final Thoughts and Summary1:56:03 Wrap Up
Green Flags Good Relationship Experiences and best practicesGuests@dom.fowler@taay.michele@Wanz3l@RyanFagan_RealEstate@k.bow98Cash App to support the show!$RyanFaganRealEstate#talktomenice #greenflags #moderndating 0:00 Pre-Show0:16 Episode 31 Intro: Green Flags & Good Relationships1:25 Ryan's Intro and Green Flag2:03 Dom Fowler's Intro and Green Flag4:43 Wanz3l's Intro and Green Flag6:14 Tay Michele's Intro and Green Flag13:29 Building Together in a Relationship20:10 What are women's roles in a relationship?27:02 Women vs Men Paying for Dates30:43 Traditional Roles of Men and Women35:22 Reading Comments: Relationships36:47 Green Flag: Having a Good Relationship with Their Dad39:04 Value of Having a Mother vs Father42:12 Reading Comments: Mother vs Father43:12 Thoughts on Viral Mom McDonalds Freakout46:44 Double Standards in Family Court51:19 Reading Comments: Family Court53:01 Tay's Relationships: Best Experience55:43 Can dads detect boyfriends with bad intentions?1:08:40 Relationship with Dad vs Boyfriend1:11:12 Reading Comments: Dad vs Boyfriend1:14:41 Thoughts on Being with a Daddy's Girl1:18:43 Tay's Great Relationship with Her Dad1:24:17 How would Tay's dad react to a bad boyfriend?1:27:36 Reading Comments: Green Flags1:31:00 Tay's Relationship with Her Mom1:33:21 Wanz3l's Best Experience in a Relationship1:34:44 Why Wanz3l Broke Up with His Girlfriend1:46:57 Reading Comments: Green Flags & Vulnerability1:50:16 Eddie's Thoughts on Wanz3l's Relationship1:52:04 Eddie's Biggest Green Flag1:54:39 Why can't men cry?2:01:55 Men, Vulnerability & Expressing Emotions2:11:59 Wanz3l & His Strong Personality2:14:12 Kevin's Green Flag2:20:28 Who is the best person you were with?2:22:38 Compromising in a Relationship2:25:01 Having Options: Polygamy2:26:58 Women vs Men Attraction2:32:49 Ryan on Finding an Ideal Partner2:37:06 Reading Comments: Bad Date, Green Flags, etc.2:40:36 Should men be honest about cheating?2:44:26 Tay's Takeaway: Women’s Relationship with Their Dad 2:49:23 Giving Honest Advice to Friends2:50:41 Wanz3l's Takeaway: Women & Their Dad2:51:48 Can Wanz3l compromise for a relationship? 2:53:41 Deciding on a Partner & Outside Validation2:56:54 Dom's Takeaway: Live for Yourself3:00:30 Ryan's Takeaway: Consider Your Best Experience
Women Rate 80% Of Men Below Average according to an OKCupid study. What is going on that most women find most men to be undateable? We're going to talk about it on the Talk To Me Nice Podcast EP30 https://medium.com/hello-love/women-say-80-of-men-are-below-average-bab0b8af2606Guests@don_michaeljr@queentae@nurse_nizzy@RyanFagan_RealEstate@k.bow98Cash App to support the show!$RyanFaganRealEstate#talktomenice #masculinitycrisis #moderndating 0:00 Pre-Show0:51 Episode 30 Introduction2:59 Women Rate 80% Of Men Below Average11:44 Shante's Intro & Brief Thoughts on the Topic15:42 Don's Intro & Brief Thoughts on the Topic19:40 Nyah's Intro & Brief Thoughts on the Topic21:04 Men with Commitment and Polyamory26:24 Women vs Men Desire & Selectiveness32:57 Reading Comments: Poly Relationships34:37 Would you rather men be honest?37:09 Having Options in a Relationship41:01 Are short men attractive?43:10 Reading Comments: Social Contracts & Honesty45:30 Older Men are Less Likely to Cheat47:50 Men are Less Selective than Women48:39 Being Better than the Woman in a Relationship52:58 Women vs Men Value & Traditional Roles59:37 Do men know if they want to marry a woman in 3 months?1:02:28 Consistent Women & Don's Personal Experience1:06:56 Reading Comments: Woman & Emotionless Sex1:10:13 Reading Comments: Men Being Better1:15:51 Looks Aren't Always Everything1:17:31 Relationship Advice for Ryan1:23:55 Giving "Boyfriend" Energy and Misleading Women1:29:14 Taking it Slow: Ryan's Example1:35:26 Being Impressed by the Other Person1:38:00 Choosing a Partner While Dealing with Other Women1:47:04 Ryan - what do you want in a woman?1:53:03 Final Thoughts: Below Average Men2:01:18 Wrap Up
What Do Men And Women Want From Each Other? Tonight on the Talk To Me Nice Podcast We are getting to the bottom of what we really want from each other.
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0:00 Episode 29: What Do Men & Women Want From Each Other? 3:19 Deuce's Intro & Brief Thoughts on the Topic 5:22 Wanzel's Intro & Brief Thoughts on the Topic 7:50 Sunnie's Intro & Brief Thoughts on the Topic 9:18 Short & Long-Term Gratification: What's Good for You? 13:25 Being the Best "You" 16:41 Unsatisfied After Achieving a Goal & Relationships 18:12 Sunnie: Men Wanting to Do Things that Women are Capable of 23:25 Why do we feel like women need to be saved? 26:04 "Needing" People & Ryan's Analogy on Specialization 30:40 Wanting Companionship vs "Needing" Someone 33:07 Acting as a Unit: Each Side Doing What They're Good At 35:10 Traditional Gender Roles & Natural Proclivity 41:15 Reading Comments: Women Changing Their Tires 42:49 At what level are men expected to do something? 44:24 Women Taking Up "Manly" Roles vs Being "Capable" 47:45 Jo Rivers Arrives 50:12 Sunnie, why don't you want a relationship? 51:11 Women focus on their career then later regret it 53:53 After you get to a certain age, men don't want you 57:44 Becoming a High-Value Woman First Before Relationships 1:02:08 Being high value doesn't make women more attractive 1:06:01 Where Women Draw The Line & Expectations for Men 1:12:33 Where Sunnie Draws the Line for Men 1:16:17 Where Jo Rivers Draws the Line for Men 1:18:00 Women Should Know Their Standards 1:19:54 Could you be with a man you're not attracted with? 1:21:12 What Attracts Men vs Women: Physical, Money, etc. 1:25:37 Most Women Handle Rejection Worst Than Men 1:27:53 Jumping from Cuddling to Sex 1:32:29 Reading Comments: Sex Preferences 1:33:21 Giving the Wrong Women Your Best & Ryan's Experience 1:36:40 Do we have an undesirable that fit us best but we didn't go with? 1:38:19 Dating Men That Can Teach You 1:41:12 Final Thoughts: What Women & Men Want 1:46:13 Wrap Up: Live Life on Purpose
Today with social media its popular to keep your relationship secret, but would it be better to get your friend's and family's opinion on your partner? Most of us have been with someone that everyone told us was bad for us, we didn't listen and it ends horribly and they were right.
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he reality of modern dating is most couples both have to work. Does this get in the way and ruin successful relationships? Women's happiness has gone down since the 1960's and one theory is due to the burden of work and maintaining traditional feminine gender expectations. Is it fair to ask women to work, take care of children, and the household? How can we improve modern relationships considering the economy today?
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Do men and women have too many options to date in modern times? Could it be possible for more options to be a bad thing? Our Panel tackles this issue on episode 26 of the Talk To Me Nice Podcast Hosted By Ryan Fagan
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The reality of modern dating is most couples both have to work. Does this get in the way and ruin successful relationships? Women's happiness has gone down since the 1960's and one theory is due to the burden of work and maintaining traditional feminine gender expectations. Is it fair to ask women to work, take care of children, and the household? How can we improve modern relationships considering the economy today?
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If women are going to follow a man's lead they are at risk of that man's ability and therefore should not be loyal if that man proves to be incompetent. That is the theme for this episode of the talk to me nice podcast! The conversation also goes to women dating women and other topics.
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Ryan and Kevin discuss Andrew Tate being banned by Facebook and Instagram. Are men allowed to voice their opinions in public? We also expand on the discussion about Netflix's Indian Matchmaking that we didn't get to on the last episode. Is modern dating working better than arranged marriages? We have some data.
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Our panel discusses the Netflix show Indian matchmaking, the clash between modern and traditional dating and if love and relationships are just a choice. Is "compatibility" really that important or do we just need two people willing to choose one another? We also get into a debate about possessing people, can you possess someone or do you only "experience them"?
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0:00 Pre-show 1:46 Ryan Fagan (Host) & Guest Handles 2:05 Kevin Samuels & The Condition of Gender Relations 6:30 Historical Oppression and Devaluing of Women 9:54 Introducing the Topic: The Social Contract Between Men & Women 12:37 Example of the Social Contract: Women in Trouble Not Being Helped by Men 19:10 Reading Comments: Religious & Moral Standards Influence on Women's Value 20:05 Expectation for Men to Defend Women and Another Example Scenario 25:07 Softer vs Assertive Men vs A Mix of Both 30:02 Societal Expectations of Women and Men 32:13 How is the bar so low for men? 35:32 When did men value women? 37:28 Reading Comments: Rich Men and The Low Bar for Men 39:45 Softer Men and Vulnerability in Relation to Masculinity 43:58 High Standards for Women in Society 46:12 Reading Comments: Low Bar Because of Women 47:55 Discussing Ryan's View of Women 50:54 Body Counts for Men and Women 52:26 Does body count for women matter? 55:17 How is the bar so low for men? (cont.) 57:33 Value of Women and Their Body Count 1:01:17 Reading Comments: Bar for Men, Body Count, etc. 1:03:28 Having Clear Communication with Body Count & Expectations 1:04:58 Preferences: Body Count, Bigger Women, etc. 1:06:28 Lack of Accountability for Women 1:07:48 Not Wanting Body Count with Random Men 1:09:01 Finding People & Experiences with First Dates 1:13:04 Reading Comments: Women Paying Dinner, First Dates, etc. 1:14:01 Social Expectations for Interactions Between Men & Women 1:19:55 How to Approach Women Without Being Weird 1:23:32 Interpreting Gestures from Women and Men Defending Women 1:25:38 Aggression from Women and Men's Restraint 1:30:43 Historical Social Contract Between Men and Women 1:32:58 Genders Fighting the Same Gender in UFC 1:35:32 Ryan's Mom's Opinion: Signals from Women, Gym, Dates 1:47:35 Reading Comments: Signals, Gym, Feminism, Dates 1:48:30 What would happen if men didn't approach women for a year? 1:51:07 Wrap Up: Final Thoughts 1:56:28 Reading Comments 1:57:10 Kevin's Closing Thoughts: Defending Women 2:00:38 Devolving Societal Expectations & Responsibilities 2:02:04 Reading Comments: Sex Toys for Men 2:05:05 Outro
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0:00 Pre-show 2:50 How viewers can call in 3:57 Ryan Fagan (Host) Introduction 4:37 Introducing the Topic: Double Standards 5:19 Guest Introductions & Opinions on Double Standards 9:45 Inherent value of women vs men 20:33 Traditional gender roles and societal expectations 27:19 Focus on family and making a legacy 28:52 Innate sex drive of men compared to women 33:23 Difficulty in finding a respectable partner 37:21 Like, comment and subscribe! 37:40 Double standards in the Military 42:47 Inequality; women wanting advantageous positions 48:27 Kevin's technical difficulties 49:12 There should be equal opportunity for men and women 50:43 The problem with modern feminism 53:39 Equal standards for men and women 57:06 Kevin's technical difficulties (cont.) 57:25 Reading comments 58:08 Are there double standards for roles in a home? 1:08:09 Men taking the lead; safe spaces for women 1:13:39 Women and men's roles in the past vs present 1:18:25 Is it attractive to see your man work/be active? 1:20:47 Reading comments 1:20:58 Opinion on stay-at-home dads 1:23:35 Reading comments 1:24:16 Women having a good family-life balance 1:25:49 Reading comments 1:26:02 Prior to meeting a man, what should a woman do? 1:34:10 Are you scared to verbalize what you need? 1:39:00 Women just want to feel supported 1:40:04 Ryan's sister calls: wife and child question 1:44:48 Meeting a woman you love but doesn't want children 1:48:28 Saying goodbye to Ryan's sister 1:49:58 Reflecting on Ryan's opinions for this podcast 1:50:07 Reading comments 1:52:03 Discussing Jason Wilson: masculinity 1:54:44 Double standard: domestic violence 1:59:50 Idle chat: Ryan, Zodiac signs, etc. 2:01:32 Double standard: domestic violence (cont.) 2:03:27 Ryan's experience with calling the police on his partner at the time 2:05:52 Ryan's birthday 2:06:26 Double standards on not wanting a child (abortion) 2:15:36 Effects of not having protective sex 2:19:47 Taking accountability and baby trapping 2:20:56 Celebrities: Johnny Depp, Will Smith, etc. 2:34:53 Final thoughts on double standards 2:41:30 Outro
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00:00:00 Pre-show 00:04:09 Intro 00:04:43 Power Couple 00:06:00 Let guests takeover 00:07:03 Dom Fowler 00:08:20 We all contradict ourselves 00:09:19 Brittany Porter 00:10:33 Quincy Williams 00:12:41 Two powerful entities come together and create more 00:15:03 The big conception is that... 00:16:17 Caringness in couples 00:17:11 Outlier situations 00:19:56 It's at women's core, they just want to be a man 00:21:53 Do you believe in men splitting bills and stuff like that? 00:23:54 Kudos to Quincy 00:24:36 Quincy's story 00:26:33 Woman wants a man to lead her 00:27:58 There are two forces acting 00:29:57 Reacting to a comment 00:30:44 It all comes down to belief and trust 00:33:00 Women need to be more conscious of things like... 00:36:05 That's the power couple thing 00:37:34 Are women anti-women? 00:38:10 A flip side 00:39:10 What are your expectations about your guy? 00:44:56 If the wife's business running successfully and yet not paying any bills. How do I benefit from it? 00:47:37 Women shit on women's traditional roles 00:49:00 Wife should understand the man's business... 00:52:50 What do I tell my daughter about these things? 00:55:33 ...What's your perspective on that? 00:57:55 I don't wanna work with clients that I gotta convince, I want clients that want to work with me 01:00:03 When do you have that conversation while dating someone? 01:02:07 Reading comments 01:02:37 Quincy: How do you guys work on a disagreement? 01:04:25 How do deal with when you're like "I understand how you feel but we going this way"? 01:05:21 Why do you think she knows that it comes from a good place? 01:07:47 Look at the problems like me and you against the problem 01:08:47 How did you guys build that up? 01:11:14 Working on faith is a risk 01:12:54 Reading comments 01:13:45 My issue with dating 01:15:04 The older you get the harder it is 01:16:06 How did you guys start talking? 01:17:55 Comment: What's your take on arranged marriages? 01:19:08 Being single and in a relationship 01:20:47 If you're too intentional, it's a problem too 01:22:22 Younger girls, why are you not looking to pair up? 01:23:49 You want to take your time but then you also don't have time 01:25:11 Reading comments 01:25:42 Ryan, what are your thoughts about women with tattoos? 01:29:43 Power couple is not what they have advertised 01:31:00 What were you taught as far as relationships...? 01:35:42 That's my whole episode on "are women anti-women" 01:37:00 What do you teach your daughter? 01:38:19 That needs to be taught in the household for women 01:40:00 Money breaks up a lot of relationships 01:41:12 If your wife makes money but doesn't pay bills, how do feel about it? 01:44:14 Comments 01:45:10 Calling Ryan's mother | Being alpha female, making more money than her husband 01:50:51 Trusting the man you're with; that's the difficulty 01:52:42 Do you think that if you made less money it would be easier? 01:53:34 I feel like that's what should be advertised 01:55:12 It requires so much energy and time to blow something 01:57:23 It's all about women being in the right energy 02:00:05 People who make a lot of money go through a lot more stress which means they need a lot more maintenance 02:04:35 Comments 02:05:30 You should retain your identity as a person 02:07:32 Quincy, how long it take you to propose? 02:08:55 Would you like regular proposing? 02:13:39 Do you want him to propose to you as soon as possible or do wait until he can propose to you the way you want him to propose? 02:17:14 Maybe this is the problem 02:18:58 Communication is my problem 02:21:46 Brittany's story 02:23:33 What's your rationale for the age category? 02:25:03 When you say you're an alpha female, what does that actually entail? 02:26:44 Idea of "I'm gonna be feminine for the right guy" is so wrong 02:29:11 Guys learn the ways to a chameleon that way 02:30:33 Finances have a lot to do with their maturity 02:31:08 Comments 02:33:52 4 yrs is not a long time to decide who you're going to make 02:35:30 All this pro-black stuff and you'll want to bring black kids into the world and in chaos 02:37:57 Brittany, how do you reconcile about gut taking care of everything with being an alpha female? 02:39:21 What's your date like? 02:41:21 Do you think it's gonna be hard to embrace your feminine energy? 02:41:56 He has to be better than you 02:46:17 I'm a powerlifter 02:48:36 I'm the prize 02:52:54 Quincy, what do you think who has to love who more? 02:53:29 When you say you are the prize, what exactly does that mean? 02:58:00 Why I emphasize the prize situation is because of...? 03:01:36 Guys are not equal valuated 03:03:04 If you find a woman that's submissive and will let you lead. Do you think she is the prize? 03:05:49 Ryan, can the girl have kids? 03:08:32 Wrapping Up
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0:00 Pre-show 2:12 Introducing the Topic: Body Count 3:23 Ryan Fagan (Host) & Guest Introductions 9:28 Knowing people your partner's been with 12:57 Judging a partner based on their reputation 16:02 Difference between men and woman's sexual access 19:18 Do you count bodies when you use a condom? 20:21 Reading comments 20:40 Deleting "hoeness" 25:17 Standards and level of experience 29:07 Communication around sex 34:07 Opinion on having high body counts and sex 41:58 Asking your partner's body counts 46:21 Not being satisfied enough during sex 48:12 What body count is your limit? 54:00 Reading comments on body count (cont.) 55:09 Honesty with your real body count 59:40 Encountering ex-partners 1:03:12 Reading comments on body count (cont.) 1:04:12 Encountering ex-partners (cont.) 1:10:54 Reading comments more on exes 1:15:00 Social experiment shows 1:20:18 Ryan's preferences and experience 1:27:08 Kevin's opinion on body count 1:40:15 Reading comments 1:41:04 Social perception of women and sex 1:42:13 Thoughts on body preference 1:57:22 Reading comments about preference 1:57:40 Having unhealthy partners 2:02:02 Body type and preferences (cont.) 2:10:32 Closing
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0:00 - Preshow 6:17 - Intro & monologue 9:27 - Guest Introductions & first thoughts. 20:29 - Defining settling, is it the right question? 24:19 - Is Ryan creating an impossible expectation? 25:35 - What is Ryan's standard/expectation? 26:25 - What is attractiveness to a man? 28:52 - Darraine sharing about her marriage. 31:41 - Dealing with a beautiful woman and attention seekers. 34:20 - Back to attractiveness, the women don't understand it. 37:11 - Ryan wants an agreeable woman, what is agreeableness? 45:57 - Comments 46:50 - Back again to attractiveness, the women still can't understand the man point of view! 57:53 - Comments 59:30 - Back to agreeableness again!!! 1:03:11 - Women want to date up, but they don't want to admit it. 1:19:28 - Comments 1:25:40 - Is beauty objective? (western beauty standards) 1:28:11 - Everybody trying to find Ryan a good woman/wife!
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0:00 - preshow 2:02 - Monologue - The slap heard around the world 10:30 - Guest Intro's First Thoughts 13:54 - Comments 20:05 - Ali's thoughts on Will and Jada Oscar's Slap 22:42 - When should a man use violence to defend his woman? 33:56 - Did a Jada put the battery in Will's back? (TRIGGERED!!!!!) 41:15 - Men entering into violence is extremely dangerous! 42:55 - What does it mean to protect women? How should it be done? Where is the line? 47:12 - Is this Jada's fault? 53:00 - Comments 56:48 - Women causing men to fight? Low Quality women??? 1:00:09 - Picking the wrong women is dangerous for men 1:03:05 - Comments 1:06:11 - If Jada doesn't deserve Will's actions does another woman? 1:09:32 - AMLG Calls in 1:16:24 - If you pick her you gotta rock with her no matter what 1:18:16 - You can use violence strategically 1:20:00 - Is it bad to make a scene? 1:23:20 - Should A man let the woman defend herself first? 1:24:19 - If you pick her you, picked her. How long do you stick it out? 1:29:54 - When do the women think a man should put hands on somebody? 1:38:40 - Don't try to fight people you cant beat! 1:43:00 - We only have the tools we have to deal with things 1:45:10 - Was Will smith being emotional or calculating? 1:48:00 - Should Will have apologized? 1:53:21 - We need frameworks as a starting point for relationships 1:56:10 - Kevin final thoughts 1:57:15 - Ali coming at Ryan 1:58:03 - Kevin more thoughts 1:59:30 - Ali scared to give men her time 2:03:45 - Ryan doesn't want a car with high mileage 2:07:20 - The average man can't compete in modern dating 2:16:00 - Final thoughts
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0:00 - Preshow 3:00 - Intro & monologue 6:26 - Guest introductions 12:31 - Comments! 14:05 - Safi talking about getting married and building trust 26:31 - Renee being a minority athlete and being cautious 27:24 - Zipp's thoughts on vulnerability and trust 31:15 - Zipp's plan to move to Dominican Republic 33:00 - What is Zipp looking for in a man? (he cant eat cheese!) 43:47 - Do you choose to be vulnerable or does it just happen? 46:00 - Women need to provide choosing signals for men to approach 55:39 - Foreign men are more vulnerable? 1:03:38 - Comments 1:10:55 - Men approaching women facing rejection 1:18:08 - Some people are better than others in society 1:27:00 - Who are you to ask me to prove myself to you? 1:29:15 - Men's intentions with women at the start 1:39:15 - Comments 1:52:00 - Talk to me nice mission statement (trying to get back on the rails) 1:53:38 - Protecting women 1:55:15 - Women are a helpmate 1:59:45 - We're better together! 2:03:29 - Are men being misleading? 2:06:00 - How long he gotta wait? 2:08:00 - She didn't get married to the perfect guy because the sex was subpar! 2:11:10 - Comments (they coming for Ryan!) 2:14:00 - Should men get their stuff together before trying to get a woman? 2:20:39 - Comments 2:27:00 - Safe sex... 2:30:00 - Men built the world, give a little respect!
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0:00 - Preshow 5:30 - Is Social media bad for relationships? Monologue 10:00 - Guest introductions 17:39 - Candace being married at a young age 26:18 - Comments (we love y'all) 27:10 - Ryan's general idea about social media and dating 28:55 - Candance won't speak to men that approach her at all! 33:03 - Women should not respond to Dm's if they have a boyfriend/husband 33:59 - Women should be direct with their rejection, be stuck up! 35:28 - Will women spin the block on DM dwellers? 37:00 - Social media is all about trust in a relationship 39:17 - Comments (lots of good ones) 41:50 - How should men respond to DM's when in a relationship? 43:00 - The dangers to men when women come in the DM indirectly 45:00 - Men can't be direct with women 48:44 - How Candace husband slide in the DM 50:54 - Men cant be direct pt2 53:28 - Comments 54:19 - Ryan loves a cuddle 56:09 - Comments 57:00 - Kevin doesn't like to cuddle 57:50 - A really healthy & productive #MeToo Conversation 1:10:08 - Comments 1:12:29 - Dom admits to entertaining DM dwellers years later! (WHAT?!@?!?!?!?) 1:16:00 - Ryan needs dating coaching! 1:19:00 - Kevin says she's just not into you bro! 1:20:00 - Candace supports the friend zone! (nooo!) 1:24:35 - Everyone trying to coach Ryan 1:30:25 - Comments 1:32:00 - Women have no game! 1:33:20 - Cash app! 1:34:10 - Comments coming at Dom! 1:34:30 - Show goals 1:35:24 - How do men react to getting DM's 1:36:50 - We all have to settle in life (Sheikh from Love is Blind and Fresh and Fit) 1:46:10 - Dealing with changes in relationships and potential 1:52:56 - When do you post your significant other 2:03:43 - Why hasn't Dom's boyfriend proposed after 4 years???? 2:05:25 - Is there a double standard on social media with men and women? 2:07:55 - What types of pictures are acceptable to post in a relationship? 2:14:30 - Dom capping about the MLB player again 2:16:17 - Call Ryan daddy 2:17:26 - Kevin likes 5's 2:19:00 - The better women look, the worse their personality is 2:21:28 - Men's attractiveness doesn't matter that much 2:25:24 - Dom's 3 date rule 2:27:55 - Mail order bride & matchmaking 2:28:50 - The podcast is horrible for Ryan's dating mission 2:30:30 - Should Ryan not look for 25-27yr olds? 2:31:10 - Ryan's Mom calls in 2:34:29 - Respectfulness or Submissiveness 2:38:40 - Feedback! Like and Subscribe!
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0:00 - Pre-show 5:15 - Guest Introductions 10:35 - Steve Harvey's 85%/15% rule for men and women 14:20 - Comments 16:00 - Ryan doesn't know what he is talking about 17:17 - Like and subscribe! 17:50 - Steve Harvey's 85%/15% rule for men and women pt2 20:50 - Can you be a boss at work and feminine with your man? 23:56 - Comments 25:24 - Can you be a boss at work and feminine with your man? pt2 28:30 - Monica doesn't want to be someone's responsibility 30:35 - Debunking the idea women and men are the same 33:14 - Military fitness double standards 35:20 - Our natural differences effect male female relationships 36:28 - Comments 38:56 - Why understanding male and female differences helps us understand relationships 40:35 - Respect or bowing down? 44:15 - You can be a woman boss and submissive at home 45:27 - Lisa paying for dates! 46:21 - If he makes less how can he plan a date/vacation? 49:58 - This podcast is about building relationships not smashing randoms 50:30 - Sounds like Monica is dealing with dusties!!! 53:00 - Historical and traditional Women vs modern women 54:41 - Women want to sell their stock when it gets lower 55:46 - Comments 57:02 - Traditional relationships worked better than modern relationships 58:06 - Kevin catches Monica in a huge contradiction! (young people dissatisfied with relationships) 59:52 - Men and women have not evolved? 1:01:39 - Should a woman take out the trash? 1:03:00 - Lisa's wild ex story (protection) 1:06:00 - Relationships should enhance the individuals 1:07:24 - What does Monica require from a man? (She's stumped!) 1:15:01 - Lisa's requirements for men. 1:17:37 - Is it bad to look up to your man? (Monica being real spicy) 1:20:45 - Should you stick by a man "on the come up"? 1:23:28 - Women should sell their relationship stock at the highest point 1:25:34 - What advice would Ryan give to his daughter 1:27:00 - Comments 1:28:30 - We should do what we enjoy and are good at doing in a relationship 1:31:27 - Ryan deep dive 1:39:35 - Comments 1:40:21 - What is build together stuff about? 1:47:38 - Don't increase the price because I'm better! 1:50:23 - Women are rappers and athletes 1:53:39 - Not sure where Jay is going with this? 1:55:56 - How do you turn down guys who approach/DM? 2:04:10 - Kevin's Cheesecake factory story 2:06:15 - Ryan doesn't want to be treated differently 2:19:23 - Does Ryan like if the woman makes the first move? 2:22:43 - Comments 2:23:43 - Ryan has to defend himself 2:25:23 - Comments 2:26:25 - Ryan still wants his knee touched 2:28:19 - Ryan is a whole girl out here 2:30:05 - Lisa's two dates and two different energies 2:32:47 - Does your date owe you anything? 2:33:12 - Men need to tell women no! 2:43:47 - What are men entitled to on a date? Social contract between men and women. 2:47:09 - Men have to stay and fight in Ukraine 2:52:16 - Protecting women 3:02:23 - Women men that are bigger than them (Monica Contradiction!)
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0:00 - Pre-show 9:40 - Monologue we need a dating framework 13:39 - Guest Introductions 22:00 - Ryan trying to meet his wife 24:45 - Red Flags 27:45 - What questions are off limits on a date? 30:30 - Comments & shout out to Ruffsecs! 32:38 - is asking about exes too much? 34:00 - What is a good activity for a date? 37:00 - Comments 38:00 - Activity dates 39:28 - Kiss on the first date? 41:10 - Ryan doesn't move right when he likes someone 42:50 - comments and technical difficulty 45:00 - Dating and vacations 48:50 - Making her wait for the D 50:11 - Comments 51:00 - Men, don't rush into giving up the D 57:21 - Get STD checks 58:49 - How long to wait to have sex? (they won't really answer) 1:00:00 - Dming women 1:01:55 - Comments 1:03:30 - Ladies shooting their shot (contradiction) 1:04:30 - Can a guy do too much if she likes him? 1:08:11 - How to DM women, no cheat codes though 1:10:47 - Being attractive is important, but too attractive is a red flag 1:11:40 - Women all want the same men 1:13:47 - Similar values but different characteristics 1:17:20 - Older women are set in their way 1:19:40 - Comments 1:21:50 - Ryan's mom calls in 1:31:20 - Non negotiable red flags 1:34:21 - Comments 1:35:58 - Women should judge men harshly 1:42:30 - Should the man be a provider? 1:44:00 - Men should be emotionally intelligent but not too soft 1:47:25 - Comments 1:50:21 - Is Ryan's standard for men realistic for regular guys? 1:55:42 - Men categorize women 1:57:50 - Ryan being vulnerable, ready to get out the streets 2:02:04 - Comments 2:03:00 - Is it doing too much to be intentional about dating? 2:04:44 - pre-nump talk 2:05:45 - Why doesn't Ali want to get married? 2:11:35 - Should you pick a man on potential? 2:14:55 - Is building together a real thing? 2:27:45 - People should not lose themselves in their relationships 2:31:16 - Should you complain to your woman? 2:33:55 - Comments 2:38:45 - Is it a partnership if the man is doing more? 2:44:28 - Kevin doesn't care to have intellectual conversations with women 2:45:50 - Can a woman upgrade a man? 2:47:39 - Zakeer final thoughts 2:51:00 - Dating a man that is a 9/10 2:54:05 - We didn't solve anything after 3 hours & Final Thoughts
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0:00 - Pre-show 3:12 - Does love conquer all monologue 5:40 - Guest Intros 10:10 - Dating is complicated 12:00 - Should you work on yourself before dating? 14:40 - Does love conquer all? 17:57 - What does it mean to be fulfilled? 25:25 - Income is a shorthand for competency 28:50 - What do I need a man for? 33:23 - Black men not stepping into their place as men 46:40 - We have to rebuild the framework for relationships 49:40 - What are parents teaching about relationships? 57:00 - Ryan's mom calls in to talk about what she taught him about relationships 1:06:00 - What our parents told us about relationships 1:18:00 - How long to date before getting married? 1:30:00 - Men need to stop being afraid to say what they think. 1:34:00 - What do/should men bring to the table? 1:38:50 - Importance of sharing values on parenting styles 1:42:48 - Ryan Story, The woman checked all the boxes on values, but not attraction. 1:44:30 - Do people actually know what they believe in reality? 1:46:50 - The man is the ultimate decision maker 1:48:17 - Does money make you the boss? 2:10:00 - Dating black people, culture and damaged people 2:13:50 - Final Thoughts and Plugs
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