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Welcome to the Exhorter Podcast where we aim to stir up love and good works, through bite-sized biblical discussion. This local effort of the Church of Christ located in Clovis California is hosted by Kyle Goodwin, Paul Nerland, and Jon Bradford.
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What owns your heart?
When most people think of idolatry, they picture ancient temples, carved statues, and pagan worship. But Scripture paints a much deeper picture. An idol is anything that becomes more important than loving God and doing what is right—even good things that quietly take first place in our lives.
In this episode, we explore how modern idols often hide in plain sight: control, routine, providing for our families, success at work, financial security, family itself, and even our reputation. None of these are inherently wrong. In fact, many are good gifts from God. But when they become more important than obeying Him, serving others, or doing what is right, they've become idols.
Using passages like Colossians 3:5, Matthew 10:37, and 1 Timothy 5:8, along with the stories of Demetrius, Jonah, and the Pharisees, we discuss how our strongest emotional reactions often reveal the desires we've elevated above God. We also wrestle with why men, in particular, can tie their identity to providing, achievement, and control—and how those good desires can quietly become destructive when they define our worth.
Whether you've never considered the idols in your own life or you're actively trying to follow Christ more faithfully, this conversation will challenge you to honestly ask: What owns your heart?
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Most Christians know the warnings about pride in Scripture, but we often use the same word to describe two very different things. Is there a difference between arrogance and healthy satisfaction? Between elevating ourselves above others and taking joy in a job well done?
In this episode, we examine what the Bible says about pride, humility, confidence, purpose, and personal worth. Looking at examples from Nebuchadnezzar, Herod, and the prophets, we explore why God opposes arrogant pride while also encouraging confidence, meaningful work, and satisfaction in our labor.
We also discuss why many men tie their sense of value to purpose, contribution, and respect—and how misunderstanding those needs can create struggles in marriages, families, and relationships. Ultimately, true confidence is not found in our accomplishments but in our identity in Christ.
Whether you've wrestled with insecurity, arrogance, discouragement, or simply want to better understand the difference between pride and purpose, this conversation will challenge you to examine what is really happening beneath the surface.
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What does biblical masculinity really look like?
In a culture that often portrays men as either weak and incompetent or aggressive and domineering, it can be difficult to separate stereotypes from Scripture. In this episode, we explore how the Bible defines masculinity and why Jesus—not celebrities, influencers, or cultural trends—is the ultimate example of what a man should be.
Looking at passages like 1 Corinthians 16:13 and the life of Christ, we discuss strength, courage, humility, leadership, emotion, and service. We examine common misconceptions about masculinity, the debate surrounding "toxic masculinity," and how Jesus demonstrated power without pride, leadership without domination, and emotion without losing self-control.
Whether you're a husband, father, young man, or simply trying to better understand God's design for men, this conversation challenges us to pursue a masculinity shaped by Christ rather than culture.
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Can you love someone you don't naturally like?
We've all heard the phrase, "I love them, but I don't have to like them." But is that really the attitude Scripture calls us to have?
In this episode, we explore the tension that can exist between faithful Christians who simply don't connect, have different personalities, or have allowed misunderstandings and assumptions to create distance. Looking at Philippians 4, Colossians 3, and 1 Corinthians 13, we discuss what biblical love actually requires—and why avoiding people may be easier than pursuing unity, but rarely reflects the heart of Christ.
We also offer practical steps for repairing strained relationships: praying intentionally for one another, speaking well of others, and having humble conversations that seek understanding instead of assumptions.
The church isn't a curated friend group—it's a redeemed family. And how we treat one another says a lot about how seriously we take the gospel.
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We often say “I’m blessed”—but what do we really mean by that? In this episode, we challenge the common idea that blessing simply means good or positive circumstances, and instead explore a more biblical definition—what is truly profitable for our souls, even when life is difficult.
Walking through James 1 and Romans 8:28, we unpack how trials, loss, and hardship can still serve a purpose in shaping our faith. From Solomon and David to Israel and the bronze serpent, we examine how blessings can turn into curses—or reveal themselves over time—depending on our attitude, stewardship, and response to God.
At the core, this episode reframes blessing not as what we receive but as how God uses every experience to draw us closer to Him. If you’ve ever wrestled with hardship, comparison, or understanding God’s purpose in your life, this conversation will challenge how you see both trials and blessings.
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Are your words honoring God—even in everyday conversations? In this episode, we’re joined by Kevin Clark from Birmingham, Alabama, to discuss how our speech reflects our hearts and how small, intentional changes can have a significant impact on our homes, relationships, and walk with Christ.
We explore what it looks like to speak with grace, use biblical language naturally, and even step into moments of prayer when the opportunity arises. Along the way, we introduce five simple questions to help filter your words so they are true, loving, timely, and edifying.
Our words aren’t accidental—they reveal who we are and who we serve. This episode challenges us to be more mindful, more intentional, and ultimately more Christ-centered in the way we speak.
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Mormons are often kind, family-oriented, and eager to talk about faith—but conversations can quickly stall once you move beyond the surface. In this episode, we walk through a real relationship that led to ongoing Bible study with an LDS couple and highlight how easy it is to use the same words while meaning very different things.
At the heart of the discussion is authority: Is the Bible the complete word of God, or one of several sources alongside modern revelation and additional writings? We explore key differences in belief, examine how concepts like a personal “witness” function in conversations, and compare these ideas with Scripture.
Along the way, we share practical, respectful ways to engage—how to ask better questions, think through claims, and keep the focus on truth without losing kindness. You don’t have to have every answer, but you do need to know God’s word and speak it with gentleness and clarity.
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We often talk about keeping promises to one another — but what about promises to God? Is a vow the same as promising, or is that bargaining with God? We dig into the difference between making a sincere commitment to God and putting God to the test, and why “let your yes be yes” matters just as much in prayer as it does in everyday life.
We walk through key Bible passages on vows and promises, including Gideon’s fleece (Judges 6), Jesus rejecting the temptation to force a sign (Matthew 4), and the sobering warning of Ecclesiastes 5: when you vow, you must pay what you vowed. Along the way we talk about why rash “blank check” promises go sideways fast, what Jephthah and Herod teach us about thoughtless words, and how to build wise guardrails like capacity, intention, and alignment with God’s will.
Then the conversation turns personal: the vows we may already be making without realizing it. The Psalms are full of “I will” statements, and the songs we sing in worship can become real commitments if we mean what we say. We also explore baptism as a public covenant marker and how to think about spiritual goals, including New Year’s resolutions for Christians, without sliding into transactional faith.
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When faith feels routine, what brings it back to life? In this episode, we return to Jesus’ greatest command—loving God with all our heart, soul, mind, and strength (Mark 12:29–30) —not as a slogan, but as a daily pattern you can actually practice. Using Daniel’s story as our guide, we explore what whole-person devotion looks like when faith is tested, truth is challenged, and obedience is costly. If your faith has started to feel more routine than personal, this conversation is an invitation to refocus, recommit, and strengthen your love for God in every part of life.
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What should everyday Christian conversation sound like—without feeling fake or performative?
In this episode, we discuss Colossians 4:5–6: speech that is gracious, wise, and “seasoned with salt.” Along the way, we wrestle with the tension between being genuine and being intentional: is saying “I’ll pray for you” (or even “Can we pray right now?”) bold faith… or does it feel contrived because we’re simply not used to it?
If you’ve ever felt convicted that your speech doesn’t always match your faith, if you want your speech to reflect Jesus more consistently and naturally, this episode offers practical, encouraging steps to start right where you are.
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In this episode, we sit down with Kris Emerson, preacher and host of Excel Still More Podcast, for an honest look at podcasting as ministry: the wins, the pivots, the discouragements, and the moments that prove it matters. Kris shares how a simple idea recorded on the closet floor grew into a weekly tool for spiritual growth, and why his message has shifted from self-improvement to Jesus-anchored transformation.
We also talk shop — recording habits, personal standards, editing philosophy, multi-host dynamics, and how to balance creativity with calling without getting swallowed by metrics. If you're building something, teaching something, or trying to grow without drifting, this conversation will encourage you to stay consistent, stay humble, and stay Christ-focused.
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In this episode, we sit down with Kris Emerson to discuss how Christians can stay focused on Christ over extremes of Christian leanings. We explore why chasing spiritual “rightness” outside of Jesus can lead to fear, division, and extremes — whether on the left, the right, traditional, or progressive. If you've wrestled with church culture, legalism, credibility, or fear-based decision-making, we hope this conversation will encourage you to see Jesus first.
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What if the path to stronger churches begins long before anyone is asked to serve? We dig into the surprising power of aspiration—how aiming toward the biblical qualities of an elder can shape every believer’s character, whether the title ever comes or not. Is aspiring to be an elder only for a few? We argue it’s a vision for everyone.
"If anyone aspires to the office of overseer, he desires a noble task" (1 Tim 3:1). This episode reframes “elder qualifications” as a roadmap for every disciple. We walk through 1 Timothy 3 and Titus 1, press into the hard questions (What if I’ve blown it? What if my time is too tight? What if I never become an elder?), and get practical about training hospitality and integrity at home—long before anyone is nominated.
Scripture references: 1 Timothy 3:1–7; Titus 1:5–9; Romans 8:28; 2 Corinthians 6:14; 1 Corinthians 12; 2 Samuel 11; Ephesians 4.
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Are we planting thorns in our homes? What if the biggest threats to your child’s faith look like good opportunities on the calendar? In this episode, we sit down with Phil Robertson to explore how Jesus’ warning about the “thorns” (Matthew 13:7) still applies today—sports, school, screens, and busy schedules that quietly choke out spiritual growth.
Together, we unpack how parents can cultivate hearts that love God above all, using Matthew 6:19-21 as our guide. Phil shares practical wisdom from his own family—how to set priorities around worship, balance activities with conviction, and keep conversations about faith alive at home.
If you’ve ever felt torn between giving your kids every opportunity and guarding their souls, this conversation will help you find peace, perspective, and purpose.
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Whether you're battling Monday blues, feeling stuck in a job you dislike, or struggling to find balance between work and home, this episode offers biblical wisdom to renew your perspective. Work isn't just about earning a paycheck – it's about glorifying God in everything we do, finding contentment in our current season, and remembering that providing for our families means more than just financial support. From Genesis to Colossians 3:23, we see how working “as for the Lord” turns even mundane tasks into meaningful service and guards us from both laziness and workaholism.
How might viewing your daily work as service to God transform your attitude toward that next deadline or difficult project? Listen now and discover the joy of working "as unto the Lord."
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What happens after our final breath? In this episode, we dive into what Scripture teaches about death and the judgment that follows. The Bible makes it clear that our consciousness continues after death—but is this the final judgment, a temporary waiting place, or does that distinction even matter?
Through the parable of the rich man and Lazarus, we explore what Jesus reveals about the reality of the afterlife. While this isn’t a complete or final word on the subject, we aim to help you reflect on what matters most and prepare your heart for eternity.
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When a tech CEO was caught on a stadium Kiss Cam with someone who wasn’t his wife, the internet turned it into a meme fest. Behind the laughs is a sobering reminder: in a hyperconnected world, double lives don’t stay hidden. This episode explores integrity, hidden sin, and the toll of compartmentalized living. We reflect on Numbers 32:23—“be sure your sin will find you out”—and how this truth surfaces in our daily choices.
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Are emotions misleading distractions or God-given guides? This question sits at the heart of many spiritual struggles as believers try to navigate between what they feel and what they know to be true.
Drawing from biblical examples and personal experiences, our conversation explores the often-misunderstood relationship between emotions and principles in the Christian life. Rather than positioning these as opposing forces, we uncover how God designed them to work in harmony, with emotions providing motivation and principles offering direction.
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While headlines and studies point to a steady decline in church attendance across the country, what does that mean for us, especially in the Churches of Christ? In this episode, we take a thoughtful look at the data, listen to what some are saying about the future of the church, and consider how we should respond—not with panic, but with purpose. We’ll talk about what it means to live out the mission of Christ, how congregations can stay vibrant and faithful, and why the health of the church depends less on trends and more on our daily walk, our prayers, and our willingness to share the gospel.
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What boundaries protect and sanctify your marriage? In this episode, we talk about the so-called “Pence Rule,” opposite-sex friendships, and why 1 Thessalonians 4 calls us to intentional holiness. It's not about fear—it’s about wisdom, trust, and honoring your spouse before God.
Should married people have close friendships with the opposite sex? We unpack the thinking behind avoiding one-on-one time with the opposite sex: Is it fear-based, or a wise way to protect trust? Then we turn to 1 Thessalonians 4 to explore how pursuing holiness and transparency can strengthen emotional intimacy with your spouse.
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Nobody likes feeling left out—but it’s part of life. Feeling left out strikes at our core need to belong, affecting us deeply, whether it's an event we weren't invited to or a subtle sense that others are more connected than we are. This week, we’ll share why it hits so hard, what the Bible says about it, and how to create a culture of belonging wherever you are. If you've ever felt excluded (or accidentally excluded someone else), this one's for you.
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How do we navigate disagreement with church leadership while maintaining respect and unity? This thought-provoking episode tackles the delicate balance of honoring elders while addressing legitimate concerns.
We begin by examining our fundamental relationship with elders. Rather than waiting for them to reach out, we explore how members can take initiative in building meaningful connections through prayer, gratitude, and genuine interest in their lives as fellow Christians. These established relationships create the foundation for healthier communication when differences arise.
Whether you're currently navigating a challenging situation with church leadership or simply want to develop healthier patterns of interaction, this episode offers practical wisdom for approaching differences in ways that strengthen rather than divide the body of Christ. How might your congregation grow stronger if disagreements became opportunities for understanding rather than division?
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We all carry secrets—ours and other people’s. But should we? Is it ever right to share them? This episode dives into what Scripture says about managing secrets with integrity.
In this episode, we unpack biblical stories like Samuel keeping his mission quiet, Esther hiding her identity, and Samson… oversharing. You'll also hear why making blanket promises of confidentiality isn’t always wise and how to handle sensitive info with love, wisdom, and care.
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A casual game night conversation led us down an unexpected theological rabbit hole, wrestling with one of faith's most profound questions: Why would a loving God create us, knowing we would sin? This question touches the very core of how we understand God's character and our purpose in His divine plan. Whether you're wrestling with tough questions or seeking deeper understanding, this episode offers a perspective that honors both our honest doubts and God's loving character. Some things we covered:
- God values relationships, as shown in Genesis when He created humans in His image
- Being made in God's image includes having free will, which makes our choices meaningful
- The parent-child relationship provides insight—parents have children knowing they will disappoint
- Free will creates the possibility of heartbreak but gives value to our choice to follow God
- Like Job, our lives may demonstrate God's character to "rulers and authorities in heavenly places"
- God's desire to "bring many sons to glory" shows His ultimate purpose is relationship
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How do you choose a church when every congregation claims to follow Christ yet teaches different things? Joshua Creel from the University Church of Christ in Tampa joins us to tackle this crucial question through the lens of Galatians.
The conversation revolves around three essential criteria for selecting a church: determining whether they genuinely seek to please Christ rather than people, verifying their teachings originate from Jesus and his apostles (not modern teachers), and observing if they truly live out biblical principles.
We explore the tension many families face when selecting a church—balancing the desire for youth programs and peer relationships against the need for sound doctrine. While having a strong community of believers is valuable, Joshua reminds us that these benefits should flow naturally from a congregation's commitment to biblical truth.
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When someone mocks Christianity—but not your specific beliefs—should you be offended? In this listener-submitted episode, we explore the 2024 Olympic opening ceremony’s depiction of The Last Supper, the line between irreverence and blasphemy, and examples from music, movies, and everyday speech. We also discuss when and why Christians should take offense, how to respond with grace and wisdom, and how to ensure our own words honor God.
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In this episode, we analyze a viral video questioning Jesus's name and explore the question of how we got “Jesus” from His Hebrew name “Yeshuah”. Is it wrong to call our Lord and Savior, Jesus? We'll dive into the significance of the names we call Jesus and God.
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Have you ever wondered how you can juggle a bustling career, family responsibilities, and personal time without feeling overwhelmed? This episode explores the Pareto Principle, emphasizing that 80% of results come from 20% of efforts. We discuss goal-setting strategies based on this principle, the importance of prioritizing meaningful relationships, and practical tips for managing time effectively.
With wisdom drawn from Psalm 90, Ephesians 5, and Mary and Martha from the book of Luke we reflect on the true worth of time, offering practical tips on goal setting and prioritizing the things that truly matter.
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Have you ever caught yourself smirking when someone who sped past you on the highway gets pulled over? We've all felt that intriguing twinge of satisfaction at another's misfortune, and in this episode of the Exhorter podcast, we explore the curious emotion of schadenfreude. Through personal anecdotes and pop culture nods like Homer Simpson's envy-fueled glee, we examine how this complex feeling manifests in daily life and question whether it's inherently negative or a part of our human experience.
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Is sarcasm a clever tool or a dangerous trap? In this episode, we explore how sarcasm shows up in the Bible, from Elijah’s sharp mockery of Baal’s prophets to Job’s biting responses to his friends. While sarcasm can highlight absurdity and deliver truth with wit, it can also harm relationships when used carelessly. We’ll share biblical examples, personal stories, and insights into how sarcasm can enhance communication—or derail it—depending on the intent and audience. Join us as we navigate the fine line between humor that builds up and sarcasm that tears down.
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It would be impossible for one tool to become sharper without the presence of the other. This is what the concept of “iron sharpening iron”, from Proverbs 27, alludes to. Left isolated, both blades would be dull and quite useless. In this episode, we highlight 3 things we can learn from Proverbs 27:17, mutual accountability, encouragement and support, and the value of challenging one another.
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Can a church be doctrinally sound yet feel sterile and unwelcoming? Join us as we discuss how some congregations, despite their sound doctrine, might lack the warmth and familial excitement essential for a thriving church. Our conversation takes a deeper look at the church in Ephesus, whose commendable doctrinal soundness was shadowed by their loss of initial love and zeal.
(Lost Episode) This episode was recorded last May and considered lost until recently.
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How do you navigate the complexities of church membership and unity within your congregation? Join us for a discussion recorded at the serene Dinky Lakes, California, as we reflect on the lessons from the churches in Thyatira and Sardis from the book of Revelation. We'll explore Jesus's advice to the faithful remnant in Thyatira to hold fast to true teachings amidst false doctrines and immorality. Through this, we consider the nuanced decision-making process of whether to stay or leave a congregation facing significant issues.
Note: Our apologies for the noise during the recording, we did our best to clean it up but it was a windy morning in the woods.
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Are we supposed to be fasting? Matthew 6:17 says “But when you fast, anoint your head and wash your face...”. Does this verse allude to a practice we are neglecting in our lives? What do we know about fasting? In this episode, we dive into this listener's request to learn more about biblical fasting.
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What does "membership" mean, and is it necessary to join a local church? Some argue that the Bible doesn't explicitly require membership. Join us as we explore the significance of local church membership and what the Bible says about it.
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It’s summer and most of us will be finding ways to take a break from school and work, through long planned vacations or smaller trips throughout the summer. In this episode we conclude season 2 of the Exhorter Podcast by providing a few suggestions for how we can spend this summer not just becoming further away from hour homes, but drawing closer to our Lord and out creator.
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Is doubting your faith and God wrong? Are we expected to have an unwavering belief as Christians? Join us as we search the scriptures for examples of doubters and see how God responded to them. We also talk about the right and wrong ways to test the scriptures and our faith. Learn about the core problem of the deconstruction movement and how it can quickly lead to deconversion in Christians.
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What bible translation do you read from? How accurate is it? What is the difference between each translation? Whether you read from KJV, NKJV, ESV, NASB, NIV, or NLT, in this episode, we briefly examine the broad categories of translations, speak about their accuracy, and discuss the overall value of side-by-side comparison during bible study.
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Are you one of the 20-25% of Americans that have a tattoo? Are you thinking about getting a tattoo? There are many differentviews about tattoos within the church - some earnestly opposed andothers see no issue. Join us as we have our own lengthy debate on this topic and let’s see what the bible says, and doesn’t say, about getting that ink.
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Historically we’ve made a strong effort to draw doctrinal distinctions between the Church and denominational churches. But when determining if an activity is right for us or our local church, we sometimes may ask ourselves “Would that make us look like them?”. Let’s unpack this comparison idea a little more and dive into the practice of finding scriptural authority for what we do.
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Struggling with feelings of guilt over your sins, past mistakes, or lingering regrets? Why do we hold on to guilt and regret of sin and why does it manifest in physical pain sometimes? Maybe like us, you are contemplating the concept of self-forgiveness and questioning its validity in comparison to relying on divine forgiveness. Come join us as we explore the alignment of self-forgiveness with biblical teachings and share insights on summoning the courage to release the burden of guilt.
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Have you ever caught yourself substituting a potentially offensive word with a seemingly innocent one? Well, that's a euphemism. What is the real impact of euphemisms? Are they wrong to use? Join us for a brief chat about our words of choice, euphemisms, blasphemous slang, and crude language.
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What is wrong with gambling? Is gambling a sin? Are innocuous friendly wagers and raffles wrong? What about investing? Join us as we unpack these questions and dive into gambling's relationship with our walk as Christians. Whether you're firmly rooted in your views on gambling or still pondering where the line in the sand should be drawn, this discussion is for anyone seeking a balanced dialogue on making wise and discerning choices when it comes to gambling.
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Grief is a journey we all navigate differently, and in this episode, Kyle and Jon talk candidly about lamenting to God in the mourning process. We will guide you through the biblical accounts of expressing our anguish to the Almighty—taking cues from David and Jeremiah—and reveal how their example may lead us to hope and healing.
Finally, we honor the legacies of those we've loved and lost, inspired by King David's own tributes. We reflect on balancing our memories of those we’ve lost with our devotion to God and share intimate stories of how legacies have touched our lives. This episode isn't just about coping with grief; it's an invitation to carry forward the torch of our departed loved ones through kindness and service that furthers God's love in the world.
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As the new year approaches many have healthy resolutions on the brain. Well so did Kyle, and he asks "How important should the pursuit of fitness be in the life of a Christian?". Being physically fit is a good thing right? Then what could be bad about it? On the other hand, aren't we supposed to be disciplined and good stewards of the lives that God gives us? Join us for a light-hearted discussion on all of these questions and maybe a few fitness tips as well.
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Do you like to listen to Christian Rock, Gospel, or any other genre of instrumental music outside of worship that mentions God and is centered around Christianity? How about religious Christmas music? Or, does it all bother your conscience to do so? In this episode, we talk about what our perspective should be, as Christians, on instrumental Christian music outside of our assembly and worship.
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Join us and Tommy Peeler as we talk about when sin first entered the world in Genesis 3. We'll discuss how tempting it is to get close to sin and why that's not a good idea. Let's chat about setting clear boundaries, avoiding messing with sin, and understanding how we deal with it.
We'll also look at Matthew chapters 5 and 6 and use the idea of "glorifying God" as a guide. It'll help us figure out which paths might not be full-on sinful but could still mess with our journey or dim our light.
You can check out Tommy's podcast "Carefully Examining the Text"on all platforms.
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Ever wonder why we have quirky rituals for sports games or high-stakes competitions? Are you guilty of patting your car dashboard before a road trip or avoiding ladders at all costs? We unravel these peculiarities, linking them to biblical teachings and how God views superstitions. Sharing a few laugh-worthy anecdotes we explore how superstitions affect our understanding of God's will.
Also, drawing from compelling narratives like the Philistines taking the Ark of the Covenant, we expose the pitfalls of tokenizing religion and blurring the line between religion and superstition.
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Ever wondered why, despite a packed schedule and ceaseless hustle, there’s a nagging feeling that something is missing? Are we sacrificing the truly important on the altar of the urgent? Join us as we have an honest conversation about the struggle to keep God at the forefront, amidst the whirlwind of life.
In our quest to balance faith, family, hobbies, and 'me time', it's easy for our priorities to tip over. We share personal stories and talk about the challenge of recognizing when our priorities are out of balance.
Our journey takes us through an exploration of how to resist the allure of 'good' things that can distract us from the 'best'—keeping God as our priority. We end on a note of grace, acknowledging that stumbling is part of the journey, and sharing practical tips on how to trim the excess off our time for what truly matters.
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Ever found yourself grappling with the harsh reality of prioritizing others' opinions over your faith? You're not alone. In this episode, we crack open some biblical accounts to shed light on this dilemma. We look at John 12, where many couldn't openly profess their belief in Jesus due to their fear of the Pharisees. We also explore the story of Ananias and Sapphira (Acts 5) and see how anxiety over people's perceptions can lead to devastating choices.
As we journey through this episode, we examine how age and maturity play pivotal roles in our sensitivity to others' perceptions. Using Paul's experience in Corinth as a blueprint, we see that criticism can often fester even amidst spiritual maturity. But hey, that's where the challenge lies. As parents, we're tasked with instilling in our children a sense of self-worth that reflects their divine representation, aiming to cultivate a mindset that shouts 'None of self and all of Thee'.
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Gospel meetings, singings, lectureships, youth forums...events like these are somewhat above and beyond the usual weekly worship service. They aren't more important but they do have their own benefits to our congregations and our own Christian walks. What is your attitude in regard to these "extracurricular" events?
Join us as we reminisce about the importance of these sorts of events to our own lives. We also dive into how they have changed over time and what our attitudes should be towards these opportunities.
This episode also serves as an announcement of some of our own events coming up this fall. Be sure to check out the episode and mark your calendars!
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Remember the excitement of the start of a relationship? Those little notes, sweet gestures, and genuine eagerness to impress? In this episode, we explore the reminiscent charm of the initial stages of relationships and also draw a parallel to the early days of our conversion. Listen as we dissect the Church of Ephesus from Revelation 2, a congregation so steeped in doctrine they lost sight of their initial passion, their first love. This is not a tale of yesteryears, but a timely reminder of the peril of going through the motions, of letting the flame dwindle in our service to others and our relationships.
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Have you ever felt the pressure of fitting in while trying to maintain your faith in school? We're taking you on a journey back to our school days, exploring the trials and triumphs of navigating peer pressure, fitting in, and upholding faith. We delve into the importance of recognizing influences, the challenges in explaining our beliefs, and the balance required to maintain a healthy relationship between our faith and school.
Imagine being a high schooler, trying to find your place in a society that struggles to fully accept those who are different. In this episode, we reflect on this reality and discuss strategies for building self-confidence and serving others. We highlight the significance of friends and parents in shaping a positive environment, and how establishing relationships within the church community can provide a meaningful support system.
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Life frequently diverges from our expectations, especially in relationships and careers, causing disappointment. This episode explores setting aligned expectations with God's will and managing them in interactions with others. Pulling insights from Proverbs 13:12, we discuss how anticipations can lead to disappointment, and how the art of compromise in relationships allows us to manage these expectations.
But what happens when low expectations breed cynicism and negativity? Together, we'll dissect how faithfulness is key when setting expectations of God and those around us, and why grace and mercy are crucial when anticipations fall short. Drawing from Paul’s letter to Timothy, we'll delve into the importance of placing our hopes in serving God, guaranteeing that the outcome, regardless of what it is, aligns with the divine plan. The episode aims to guide listeners toward this reality by navigating the challenges of unmet expectations and underlining the need to ground hopes in God's Word. Effective communication and understanding our own imperfections are highlighted when expectations are not fulfilled.
In this podcast episode, we explore the pervasive struggle of falling into the comparison trap and succumbing to negativity, especially fueled by the influence of social media. By delving into the harmful consequences of these traps on both our well-being and relationships, we uncover the true cost of constantly reaching for more while neglecting gratitude. Drawing inspiration from real-life experiences, we discuss teaching contentment and resilience to our children and how fostering an attitude of gratitude can amplify our happiness and fulfillment. Join us on this transformative journey as we break free from the comparison cycle and prioritize the driver's seat of gratitude in our lives.
Scripture References:
- Philippians 4:4: "Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice!"
- James 1:2: "Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds."
Remember that time you walked into a room where everyone else seemed to know each other, and you felt like an intruder? Picture that scenario, but this time you're walking into a Church of Christ, trying to find solace and connection. In this episode, we peel back the layers of what it's like to be a newcomer in a church environment. We begin with exploring how simple actions of door greeters can shape a visitor's first impression and why it's necessary to ensure a warm and familiar ambiance for them.
In this episode, we continue our interview with brother Jim Ruby and our subject of substance abuse, addiction, and its effect on so many lives in the church. This part-2 is a Q&A, where we dig deeper into the roots of addiction and bring in a biblical approach to helping those entrapped in it. This is our longest episode yet because it is jam-packed with discussions on tough subjects like...
- Being predisposed to addiction
- Once an alcoholic always an alcoholic
- Dangers of alcohol
- Relationship between addiction and sin
- Are 12-step programs biblical in practice? Are they helpful?
- What can we in the church do to help those struggling with addiction?
- Did the church (members) help or hinder Jim's recovery?
- and more...
We don’t talk much about substance abuse and addiction, but in various ways, it does affect many lives in the Lord’s Church. In this part 1 of a 2-part episode - we interview brother Jim Ruby, hear how his life was affected by addiction, and set the stage for some valuable discussions about this difficult topic.
This episode is only part of the story so stay tuned for part 2. Also, apologies for the poor quality of the vocals - I had lost my voice just before recording. :)
In this episode we approach a subject we often fail to talk about, How can we avoid sexual temptation, specifically that of pornography? We discuss how prevalent this issue is, strategies and tactics to avoid sexual temptation, and talk about how we can better guard our eyes and our minds.
What is your relationship with money? Are you driven to acquire it? Are you content with what you have? In this episode, we all discuss what it means to love money and how you balance providing for your family, being a good steward of your income, and being content with your material blessings.
Last year this time (Father's Day) we talked about “Being Better Fathers”. In this episode, we continue that conversation and discuss what Psalm 103 teaches us about being better fathers. In this passage we learn from God, our Father in Heaven, to be slow to anger, compassionate, and forgiving.
Ever see a political post-on-line and you can’t help yourself from unleashing the “correct” response? In this episode, we discuss how we all blend our faith with our political views. Whether it be at work, online, or with other brethren - Should Christians engage in political discussions? If so, how should they approach such a potentially divisive topic?
What should our relationships be like with those in the world? Can we be friends with non-Christians? In this episode, we take a look at 2 Corinthians 6 and discuss what it means to be “unequally yoked”. How does this relate to all of our relationships, but especially with unbelievers and those of not like faith?
Warning to watch our toes, they might just get stepped on in this episode. What is your attendance at worship like? Do you attend every opportunity you have? If not why? Join us as we discuss the topic of church attendance. Why is it important? Why is it necessary? What happens to a church, when we’re not here? How does it affect our relationships with God?
Welcome back! Are you a procrastinator? Are there some things in your life, that you are dragging your feet to accomplish? Join us as we discuss our own experiences with procrastination and share some tips on how you can stay focused on your goals and your walk in the faith.
For the last episode of this season, we talked about how we measure success OR How do we cope when plans fail? It is important to make plans and strive to accomplish things in this life, but we don’t know the future, so how do we as Christians deal with unexpected changes to those plans?
In this seasonal topic episode, we discuss how we as Christians should view the Christmas holiday. Should it be celebrated? If so how? We’ll also dive into the topic of Santa Clause. No spoilers here but there will definitely be some in the episode.
Suicide is the second-leading cause of death among people aged 15 to 24 in the U.S. - So why aren't we talking more about it? Maybe it’s because we don’t know enough about it, maybe we believe it's a cut-and-dry subject, or that it is just too heartbreaking of a subject to talk about. Join us as we talk about how, as Christians, how we should approach the subject of suicide.
If you are currently in crisis and feel like you have no one to turn to, please know that there are people in your life whether you know it or not that want to help you.
- National Suicide Prevention Hotline: (800) 273 8255
- Crisis Text Line: Text “Go” to 741741
- Teen Line: (800) 852-8336 (Hours 6-10 pm PST)
Now that Thanksgiving is over, let us feel bad about ourselves by talking about Gluttony. To that point, this topic is usually addressed through humor, but what really is gluttony? Is it just about over-eating? Why is it a sin? Join our study and discussion on this easily dismissed and forgotten topic.
In this episode, we grace the surface of a very complex and sometimes controversial topic amongst brethren...Mental Health & Illness. The concepts of mental health and mental illness are two separate things, we dive into the differences, as well as related discussions on medications, pray-it-away teachings, and the duality of leaning on God and seeking medical help if needed.
Reflecting on our own baptisms we discuss the difficult topic of knowing when your child is ready to be baptized and how we should be encouraging youth to be baptized. We also talk about the idea of ‘rebaptism’. Why do some Christians seek to be ‘re-baptized’ and is it scriptural?
Singing songs and hymns is an important part of our worship to God. But how much do we think about “how” we sing these praises or “if” we are offering up good worship to our Lord? In this episode, we look at a few ways we can “do singing wrong” and offer some encouragement to help our worship and edification of one another.
In honor of election week, we are re-introducing a previous episode (Ep. 06 - Cancel Culture) We all know how destructive "cancel culture" can be in our society. Join us as we discuss how "cancel culture" has manifested in the church. We'll also discuss 3 reasons Christians should avoid destroying vital relationships amongst brethren through "cancellation".
In this episode, we take a look at the account of Lot in Genesis 13 and learn more about how our decisions affect the spiritual well-being of our families. Whether it's where we choose to live and move our families or the practical everyday struggles to keep our minds and lives pure from the world - we have a great responsibility to put God first in our lives every day.
We’ve all heard something “going bump in the night” and many people today believe that it could’ve been a ghost. This time of year there is much entertainment to be had, by the idea that the living could be haunted by those that have passed from this world. But what does the bible say - are there such things as grim grinning ghosts?
Ever feel as if you are too broken to be useful to God and to exhort your brethren? As human beings we all come to God broken with our own past and struggles, we all come to need the same amount of grace. Our guest Steve Johnson leads us through an uplifting discussion on how our brokenness allows us to be of service to God.
Do you feel that random chance, environmental factors, or the actions of others - are more responsible for the events that occur in your life? In this episode, we take a look at how much control God has given us over our lives and how your “locus of control” can influence not only how you respond to life, but also your motivation to take action.
We have so many very personal ideas about how we should dress for worship. In this episode, we (somewhat) debate many points of view surrounding this topic. Should we dress our best for worship? Does that mean suits & ties? Does our dress reflect our attitude in worship? Is what's in your heart more important than what you wear?
Finding disagreements among brethren is easy, having disputes while maintaining the brotherly love we are called to, is a little more challenging. This episode gives practical examples and tools to help you navigate disagreements with others in an effort to find resolution...not division.
Here is a rundown of the tips provided:
- Show care for the relationship
- Find common ground
- Give compliments from the heart
- Try to start and end with compliments
- Assume positive intent
- Count others as more significant
- Show gratitude throughout
- Request consideration of another view
- End the conversation positive and wish them well
- Ask to continue the conversation at another time
- Remove sarcasm from comments
- Consider deleting unkind and unprofitable comments
What does the next generation of the church look like? In this series of episodes “Gen Z”, we dive into the minds of the next generation of our brethren, Generation Z. This week, gained insight into our youth showed us their remarkable self-awareness and maturity when they told us, in their own words, “hold us accountable”.
Zeal is not a word we use in our everyday lives but is vital to our spiritual walk. In this episode, we discuss that if we’ve lost that intense emotion (we usually equate with zeal), that’s OK, zeal is more than a feeling - it's a genuine and tangible call to action from our Lord.
Can gossip ever be good? In this episode, with a little more humor than previous episodes, we unfold the world of gossip, speak to the variety of ways it happens in our conversations, and provide some ways you can avoid it. We also talk about good gossip and the power of speaking positively about others.
We all sin and fall short of being like Christ. Has anyone ever called you out on your sin? If so did you get defensive and make excuses like Saul in 1 Samuel or did you react the way David did? Join our discussion on examining how we should react when confronted with our own sin.
What legacy will you be leaving for the next generation? In this episode, we talk about our own legacies, and how it was we came to be Christians. But more importantly, we will consider the importance of our example in paving the way for generations to come to Christ. How will we impact the faith of generations to come?
Is true joy elusive to you? If the idea of joy often comes and goes with life's circumstances then it is not the true unwavering joy found in John 15. Join us as we discuss this true joy and some practical ways to bring it more into our lives.
We interviewed one of our own members, a centenarian (over 100 years old), about his life and journey as a Christian. In this episode, we discuss some fantastic insights from an interview with our brother Paul Thompson and his views on the secrets to his longevity, views on church attendance, making friends, his love for God, and more.
Have you been offended or disappointed by a fellow brother or sister in Christ? Originally recorded in 2021, coming out of a pandemic and election, this episode gives three reasons why we should overlook transgressions from others.
As Christians, we know how vital evangelism is, but we still have difficulty doing it in our everyday lives. In this episode, we discuss some great strategies to help you engage in biblical conversation with others. How to start those conversations and where to start those conversations, using the bible.
Want to be a better father? Putting forth the effort to actively train our children and model a godly life for them, are just two ways we can become better leaders and fathers. In this Fathers Day episode, we discuss some tips like this from God's word and life experiences on how to become better fathers.
We all know how destructive "cancel culture" can be in our society. Join us as we discuss how "cancel culture" has manifested in the church. We'll also discuss 3 reasons Christians should avoid destroying vital relationships amongst brethren through "cancellation".
In this part 2 episode on Exhortation, we will discuss why we need exhortation and discuss a few practical ways to exhort others (ie. The 5-minute Rule).
In this two-parter episode, we share why chose the name "The Exhorter Podcast" and why exhortation is so important to us as Christians.
If God doesn’t exist, how would that change your life? Join us for a chat about this question and as we discuss 5 reasons why we know God exists.
We are all guilty of making excuses when we've failed at doing something. This episode takes a look at Exodus 3-4 and what we can learn about making excuses from Moses.
Welcome to the Exhorter Podcast where we aim to stir up love and good works, through bite-sized biblical discussion. This first episode is a brief introduction to why we started this effort and what we hope its impact is.