Cynthia and Josie's Unmentionables: Recent Episodes
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Cynthia & Josie’s Unmentionables is all about those delicious, messy and sexy topics that we all have questions about but are afraid to ask like: “What constitutes cheating?” “How do I talk dirty?” or “Why do I like such weird porn?”.
In 2023, our lives changed with an unmistakable, stomach-turning pop. In this episode, we are looking back at the raw, hilarious, and deeply honest podcast episode we recorded right after my husband broke his penis.We revisit the immediate trauma, the emergency room panic, and the intense recovery process. Then, we fast-forward to today to give you the ultimate update. We share exactly how he is doing now, how our intimacy survived, and what life looks like years after the ultimate bedroom nightmare.
This week, we're looking back... and looking up. After Cynthia’s recent colonoscopy, we're revisiting our very first Unmentionables episode on hemorrhoids, sharing what we’ve learned from our own butt-based adventures, and proving once again that the most awkward conversations are often the most important, and the funniest.
keywords
colonoscopy, health, medical experience, colorectal cancer, health screening, personal story
key topics
Colonoscopy preparation and process
Rise in colorectal cancer among younger adults
The importance of health screenings
Personal experience with medical procedures
Understanding hemorrhoids and polyps
takeaways
Preparation for colonoscopy involves clear liquids and bowel cleaning.
Most people find the procedure less uncomfortable than expected.
Early detection of polyps can prevent cancer.
Healthcare professionals provide compassionate care during procedures.
Personal stories can reduce stigma around medical screenings.
sound bites
"I loved the colonoscopy, it was surprisingly easy."
"The body is an amazing thing, how quickly it cleans out."
"I was completely out, no waking up during the procedure."
resources
Colorectal Cancer Screening Guidelines - CDC - Colorectal Cancer Screening
Understanding Hemorrhoids - Mayo Clinic - Mayo Clinic
Thanks so much for listening to Season 4 of our podcast! We're hitting pause for a few weeks to touch some grass, hang out with our kids, start new morning shows, and most importantly, go out and have some fresh adventures and questionable life choices to talk about when we get back.
Don't worry ,we're not gone for long. We'll be back soon with new stories, new laughs, and probably a few things we absolutely should have kept to ourselves.
Thanks for being here with us this season. We can't wait to catch up with you again soon!
This week on Cynthia & Josie's Unmentionables… we cover EVERYTHING. 🇮🇹✨
💋 Italian men in Europe
📚 Lena Dunham's book
🌶️ The spicy book that's got everyone talking
😊 Cynthia's epic blush
💍 Affairs, marriage & the conversations nobody wants to have
😂 And, as always, plenty of laughs.
Basically... if it's unmentionable, we mentioned it.
keywords
podcast, societal norms, marriage, celebrity insights, parking disputes, personal anecdotes, cultural perceptions, mental health, feminism, humor
key topics
Cultural perceptions of attention and flirtation
Parking ticket disputes and systemic issues
Marriage dynamics and emotional boundaries
Celebrity insights and behind-the-scenes stories
Personal anecdotes and everyday humor
sound bites
"We want that attention. I want that."
"It felt really good to just be no."
"How can I frame it in my mind that this is okay?"
Chapters
00:00 Italian Men and Attention
02:53 Parking Ticket Disputes and System Flaws
06:09 Healthcare and Gender Bias
08:46 Lena Dunham's Memoir and Creative Struggles
11:53 Navigating Relationships and Emotional Infidelity
23:51 Lice, Love, and Life Updates
resources
Lena Dunham's Fame Sick Memoir - https://www.amazon.com/s?k=Lena+Dunham+Fame+Sick
Jack Antonoff - Music Producer - https://www.linkedin.com/in/jack-antonoff
In this episode, we explore the world of romance novels, from classic literature to modern series like Zodiac Academy. Should we start a book club? Tell us everything you have read:)
keywords
romance novels, book series, Zodiac Academy, Lady Chatterley's Lover, tropes, erotica, book recommendations
key topics
Common romance tropes such as push and pull, danger, and virginity
Discussion of classic romance like Lady Chatterley's Lover
Analysis of modern series like Zodiac Academy and A Court of Thorns and Roses
The appeal of fantasy erotica and monster romance
Personal favourites and recommendations for romance readers
sound bites
"Lady Chatterley's Lover is hot and old-fashioned."
"We fitted together like the two halves of an oyster shell."
"The Zodiac Academy series is adult fantasy romance."
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Spicy Literature
02:30 Diving into Popular Romance Tropes
04:12 Exploring Classic and Contemporary Romance Novels
07:04 The Allure of Fantasy and Paranormal Romance
09:53 The Impact of Female Desire in Literature
13:07 The Role of Sexuality in Character Development
15:59 The Evolution of Romance Genres
19:15 The Intersection of Romance and Identity
20:50 Conclusion and Recommendations
resources
Tipping The Velvet: Wiki Tipping The Velvet
Lady Chatterley's Lover by D.H. Lawrence - Lady Chatterley's Lover
Zodiac Academy Series - Zodiac Avademy (Start with Awakening)
A Court of Thorns and Roses by Sarah J. Maas - A Court Of Thorns and Roses
Off CampusOff Campus Books
All Fours by Miranda July All Fours
Cynthia and Josie discuss their recent life updates, including Josie's new radio job in Toronto, the importance of supporting women in media, travel experiences, and their thoughts on current media trends and books.
radio, women in media, travel, books, podcasts, mental health, European trip, Toronto radio, feminism, media trends #ZodiacAcademy
Zodiac Books
Jessica Foley shares her profound journey through grief after losing her husband at 35, exploring the emotional, practical, and spiritual aspects of widowhood. This heartfelt conversation offers insights into coping with loss, supporting grieving children, and finding community and purpose after tragedy.
keywords
grief, widowhood, loss, mental health, community, healing, parenting, personal growth
Chapters
00:00 Navigating Grief: Personal Experiences and Insights
10:16 Talking to Children About Loss
20:16 The Complexity of Moving Forward
29:46 Creating Community Through Grief
resources
Grief Unraveled Website - https://griefunraveled.com/
Mom Life Crisis Series on Widows - https://example.com/mom-life-crisis-widows
guest links
Website - Website Grief Unraveled
Avery Haines, host and managing editor of W5, uncovers a disturbing scheme of drug smuggling through Canadian airports involving corrupt employees and bag tag switching. This investigation reveals the extent of airport corruption, its global connections, and practical tips for traveler's to protect themselves. Follow Avery @avahaines
key topics
- Airport corruption and drug smuggling schemes
- Bag tag switching and tamper-proof solutions
- Global connections of airport crime, including Brazil and Germany
- Security flaws in airport employee screening and background checks
- Practical tips for travelers to safeguard their luggage
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Airport Corruption Investigation
02:46 Uncovering the Bag Tag Switching Scheme
05:35 The Impact of Corruption on Innocent Travelers
08:37 Security Flaws in Airport Employee Screening
11:32 The Need for Systemic Change in Airport Security
14:38 Connecting Drug Smuggling to Broader Issues
17:30 Whistleblowers and the Call for Accountability
20:14 Practical Tips for Travelers
23:35 Conclusion and Future Considerations
How Drugs Are Smuggled You Tube
Join Cynthia and Josie as they reflect on their recent live podcast, personal challenges, and societal issues. They explore topics like mental health, relationships, masculinity, and societal expectations, offering honest insights and engaging stories.
Keywords:
mental health, OCD, relationships, masculinity, societal expectations, personal growth, podcast reflections
sound bites
"OCD is thoughts that ruminate and scare you."
"Believe all women can be potentially dangerous."
"Choosing to stay in a marriage is unmentionable."
Chapters
00:00 Introduction and Live Podcast Experience
02:21 Understanding OCD and Personal Struggles
08:30 Support Systems and Community
10:47 Exploring Male Vulnerability and Bromances
13:03 Navigating Weight Concerns in Friendships
16:01 The Complexity of Believing Women
20:11 Reassessing Career Goals and Life Choices
24:47 The Unmentionable Choice to Stay in Marriage
On May 8, 2026, we did our very first live podcast event at The Rec Room as part of the Departure Festival and honestly, we had no idea what to expect. We showed up nervous, convinced there was a chance nobody would come, and instead almost sold the place out.
The energy in the room was unbelievable from the second the night started. Huge thank you to Derek from The Social (chatgpt://generic-entity?number=2) for getting the crowd going before we hit the stage, and thank you to every single person who came out and made the night feel so special.
We also gave away some incredible prizes and want to send a massive thank you to Naughty North OtherShip and Fairmont Royal York
This episode is the full unedited live podcast from that evening. We hope you have as much fun listening to it as we did being there. We honestly cannot wait to do it again.
Join Cynthia and Josie as they host a heartfelt and insightful conversation with Josie mom, exploring their life as a successful businesswoman, a dedicated mother, and her experiences with health challenges. This episode offers valuable lessons on education, resilience, and the importance of life skills, all wrapped in a warm family story. Cynthia's mom also joins in from out of town to send some motherly advice and wisdom.
Cynthia and Josie explore the fascinating world of sex toys, sharing personal stories, industry insights, and practical advice. Featuring Carolyn Eagle, co-owner of Naughty North, the discussion covers innovative products, misconceptions, and the role of sex toys in enhancing intimacy for individuals and couples.keywordssex toys, vibrators, intimacy, sexual health, adult products, sex education, toy safety, couples' intimacy, sex toy innovations, stigma reduction
Link To Naughty North:
Naughty North
When it comes to marriage, understanding your partner can make all the difference. Have you ever thought about what questions you should of asked your spouse before taking that big leap? In today’s podcast, we explore 10 essential questions that can help you uncover important insights into your partner’s background, beliefs, and values.
This episode explores vulnerability, social dynamics at events, and creative ways to reconnect with community. One of us stole some money and has absolutely zero regrets!
keywords
community, burnout, vulnerability, social events, mental health, connection, podcast
TICKETS TO LIVE PODCAST
Join Cynthia and Josie as they navigate personal stories, anxiety management, and parenting challenges, sharing practical tips and heartfelt insights.
Keywords
anxiety, parenting, mental health, mindfulness, family travel, coping strategies, podcast
Key Topics
Anxiety management techniques
Parenting children with disabilities
Travel planning and anxiety relief
Chapters
00:00 Introduction to Departure Festival
02:51 Anxiety and Family Dynamics
06:03 Coping with Anxiety and Mindfulness Techniques
08:51 Challenges of Parenting a Child with Disabilities
12:01 Navigating Mental Health and Medication
14:38 Community and Support for Families
17:36 Exploring Spirituality and Anxiety
20:25 Finding Solutions and Resources
23:40 Conclusion and Call for Suggestions
Resources
Merlin Bird ID App - https://merlin.allaboutbirds.org/
Join Cynthia and Josie as they share hilarious stories from their recent festival adventures, discuss the challenges of social media, and explore themes of confidence, vulnerability, and the nostalgia for the 90s. This episode is a candid look at life, love, and the importance of staying true to oneself.
Keywords:, comedy, life stories, confidence, social media, nostalgia, 90s, mental health, authenticity,
Juno's
- Juno's and hangover experiences
- The impact of social media comments and online hate
- Women’s confidence and default humility
- Nostalgia for the 90s and cultural trends
- Balancing authenticity and privacy in sharing stories
Sound Bites
- "Guess which one of us is hungover"
- "People comment on how you look in those outfits"
- "Music was everything to me in the 90s"
DEPARTURE TICKETS: Our first live podcast!!!!!!
Departure Tickets
Dr. Jen Gunter- OB/Gyn and New York Times bestselling author of The Vagina Bible and The Menopause Manifesto - joins us to cut through the noise around midlife health.
From hormones and peptides to weight gain to desire and everything in between, we unpack what’s real, what’s hype, and what women actually need to know.
If you’ve been feeling confused (or quietly skeptical), this episode is your no-nonsense guide to midlife clarity.
Subscribe to Jen’s Substack, The Vajenda: https://vajenda.substack.com
We were too busy passing a cold back and forth to record, so this one’s arriving a little late. Sorry (not sorry).
This week: a shopping standoff when we both want the same thing (who gets dibs?), another instalment of Cynthia’s ongoing sauna saga, and your questions about meeting your heroes and screen time for kids.
It’s chaotic, it’s meandering, and it’s exactly where you want to be.
Hold Me Tight:======
HOLD ME TIGHT BOOK
Cynthia and Josie as they navigate personal stories, relationship dynamics, health journeys, and pop culture, offering insights and humour along the way.
key topics
- The impact of couples therapy on communication and understanding
- Parenting challenges and strategies for cooperation
- Health journeys and weight management insights
- Pop culture reflections and conspiracy theories
- Personal stories of growth, resilience, and humour
GLP-1 drugs like Ozempic, Wegovy, and Mounjaro are everywhere, there in doctors’ offices, group chats, and comment sections. For some, they’re life-changing. For others, they raise uncomfortable questions about body image, privilege, and the pressure to be thin at any cost.
But what doesn’t get talked about enough is what happens when you stop.
In this episode, Brianne Cail opens up about her decision to start Ozempic and Mounjaro for health reasons and followed when she had to come off them. From the financial strain to the physical and emotional impact, we unpack the realities people don’t always share out loud.
Because the truth about weight, money, and medical choice? It’s more complicated than a before-and-after photo.
Ozempic, Monjaro, weight loss, body image, food noise, health, personal journey, societal standards, emotional impact, medication
THE KIT ARTICLE
Cynthia and Jose catch up on their lives, discussing everything from Cynthia's new bangs to the challenges of parenting and anxiety. They reflect on the pressures of caregiving, the inevitability of grief, and the cultural perceptions of aging and desirability. The conversation takes a turn towards conspiracy theories, particularly focusing on the Epstein files, and raises concerns about AI and personal safety. They also share humorous anecdotes about home renovations and personal life, including a funny story about sex toys. The episode concludes with a call for listener engagement and questions.
parenting, anxiety, grief, aging, attraction, conspiracy theories, Epstein, AI, home renovations, sex toys
LINKS:
Josie Shoots A Gun
Epstein Files: Making Sense Of The Conspiracy Theories
Have you ever heard of mindfulness in the bedroom? If your body is having sex your mind should come to the party as well.
Dr. Lori Brotto is a researcher, psychologist and also the author of Better Sex Through Mindfulness: How Women Can Cultivate Desire. Dr Brotto discusses how mindfulness practices can enhance sexual desire and arousal.
Links: BETTER SEX THROUGH MINDFULNESS
Mindfulness recordings:RECORDINGS
In this conversation, Cynthia and Josie talk to Dr. Corinne Low and explore the challenges women face in balancing work, family, and personal fulfillment. Dr. Low shares her personal journey of burnout and the systemic issues that contribute to gender inequality in the workplace and home. They discuss the importance of redefining success, the economic implications of traditional family structures, and the need for women to invest in their careers while navigating modern relationships. The conversation emphasizes the necessity of agency and strategic decision-making in achieving personal and professional goals
Takeaways
- Cynthia shares her story of burnout and transformation.
- Dr. Low discusses the gendered experience of work and home.
- Women often do more housework and childcare, even as breadwinners.
- Marriage may not be beneficial for successful women.
- Women need to be strategic about their careers and workplace contributions.
- The traditional family structure has not evolved with women's roles.
- Economic insecurity is a significant concern for women leaning out.
- Investing in education and career is crucial for financial independence.
- Redefining success is essential for personal fulfillment.
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The conversation around men's roles in relationships needs to shift.
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"Your job is never gonna love you back."
- "We need a partner, not just a paycheck."
- "I want to lie down, not lean in."
In this episode, Cynthia and Jose explore the chaos of recent snowstorms, the turbulence of American politics, and how we can find hope amid uncertainty. Join us for a candid conversation about current events, societal divisions, and small acts of resistance.
Key Topics:
- The impact of the snowstorm in Toronto and the personal stories around commuting and hotel stays
- The political unrest in the United States, including police violence, protests, and media narratives
- How social media shapes perceptions of real-world events and their influence on public opinion
- The importance of psychological resilience and taking breaks from overwhelming news cycles
- The role of global issues like Iran, Gaza, and conflicts in the Congo in global consciousness and personal coping
- How economic actions, such as consumer boycotts, could potentially influence political change
- The significance of supporting Canadian businesses and mindful consumption
- Reflections on cultural icons like Prince and the power of music in social movements
- The importance of community gatherings and quiet revolutions in times of crisis
Timestamps:
00:00 - Introduction: coping with Toronto's #Snowmageddon and personal snow stories
02:34 - Hotel stays and human connections during winter storms
04:36 - Managing city chaos: snow and emotional resilience
09:02 - Political unrest: Police violence, media narratives, and public reactions
10:37 - The symbolism of George Floyd and ongoing racial tensions
13:30 - Global crises: Iran, Gaza, and the challenge of processing worldwide suffering
14:57 - The power of consumer activism and boycotts as protest tools
16:25 - Music and culture as catalysts for social movements
17:12 - Community vigils and hope for change in turbulent times
21:00 - Personal fears about immigration policies and staying safe
22:28 - The importance of unshakable stance when confronting political bullies
23:09 - How media platforms and public discourse influence political power
25:13 - Supporting Canadian businesses and mindful shopping strategies
26:29 - The idea of quiet revolutions and collective hope
26:52 - The upcoming discussion about "Heated Rivalry" and the importance of cultural narratives
Resources & Links:
- Heated Rivalry - Show
- Prince - The Revolution
- The New York Times Podcast on US Police Violence
- Canadian Resiliency Network
The Daily Podcast
https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/the-daily/id1200361736?i=1000746678634
Nurses Union statement:
https://nursesunions.ca/statement-on-the-killing-of-minnesota-nurse-alex-pretti/
Buy Canadian!!
https://buycanadiangroup.ca
Connect with Cynthia Loyst:
Connect with Jose:
- Personal Website
Stay informed, stay safe, and remember to take breaks from the chaos with moments of quiet reflection.
The episode delves into various aspects of sex and relationships, including discussions on intimacy, dating trends like "Shrekking," and personal anecdotes about maintaining a healthy sex life.
We share candid stories about intimacy, dating, while also exploring new dating terms and trends.
Keywords
perimenopause, relationships, intimacy, social media trends, dating, sex life, Shrekking, modern love, personal stories, intimacy tips
In this podcast episode, Josie and Cynthia discuss the importance of 'shooting your shot' in various aspects of life, including personal relationships and career opportunities. They reflect on their own experiences with taking risks, the role of confidence, and the balance between luck and skill in achieving success. The conversation also touches on the significance of encouragement and belief from others, as well as the importance of aligning one's life with personal values. The episode concludes with a call to action for listeners to engage with the podcast.
Link To Values Article: Click Here
- Inconsistency in podcasting can be challenging but is part of life.
- Shooting your shot means taking risks in relationships and career.
- Confidence can lead to opportunities, but it can also be misplaced.
- Luck plays a significant role in success, often more than skill.
- Reese Witherspoon's career choices highlight the importance of believing in oneself.
- Encouragement from others can propel you forward in your career.
- Understanding your core values is essential for authentic living.
- You can't rely on others for your future; take charge of your path.
- Aligning your life with your values leads to greater satisfaction.
- Engaging with your audience can enhance the podcast experience.
If you have a closet full of clothes, but “nothing” you ever want to wear, you’re going to want to listen to this episode. Stylist Suzanne Colmer (owner of Your Shop Girl, teaches us how to uncover our personal style profile, how to build a wardrobe that actually works for us, why we should resist falling for all the sales right now, and so much more. Let’s help you get rid the (fashion) skeletons in your closet to kick off the new year.
Where To Find Suzanne Colmer: Website Instagram
This week on Cynthia and Josie’s Unmentionables, we get real.
Cynthia shares what it’s been like carrying grief through the holidays and how loss has a way of showing up when you least expect it. We talk honestly about grief, what helps, what doesn’t, and how you keep going when things feel heavy.
And because this is our show, it’s not all serious. Somehow the conversation drifts into relationships, intimacy, and yes, even lesbian sex, proving that humor and connection can exist right alongside hard moments.
It’s thoughtful, heartfelt, a little unexpected, and very us. If you’ve ever needed a reminder that laughter and healing can coexist, this episode is for you.
In this episode of Cynthia and Josie’s Unmentionables, we speak with award winning journalist and TSN reporter Rick Westhead about Canadian hockey culture and the systems that shape young boys in sport.
Rick Westhead is the journalist who broke the 2022 Hockey Canada World Junior sexual assault allegations story. His book, We Breed Lions Confronting Canada’s Troubled Hockey Culture, examines junior hockey in Canada, locker room dynamics, hazing rituals, and the lack of accountability that has allowed harmful behaviour to persist.
We discuss how hockey has become deeply tied to Canadian identity, particularly in Ontario, Toronto, and communities across Canada, and why questioning hockey culture can provoke such intense backlash. Rick also reflects on social media harassment, power, masculinity, and the personal cost of investigating sport at the highest levels.
The conversation explores how minor hockey and elite junior leagues operate, how secrecy and humiliation are normalized, and why real change has been so difficult. At the same time, Rick highlights programs in Hamilton Ontario and across Canada that are teaching consent, healthy masculinity, and leadership through sport.
Proceeds from We Breed Lions support organizations including the London Abused Women’s Centre, the Toronto Rape Crisis Centre, and Canadian Tire Jumpstart, helping combat gender based violence and improve access to sport.
This episode is essential listening for parents, coaches, athletes, and anyone invested in the future of hockey in Canada.
Cynthia and Josie sit down for an honest, feel-good conversation about parenting, growth, and figuring it all out as they go. They share stories about big kid emotions, favourite mantras, and lessons from the past year; plus why empathy, reflection, and soaking up time with loved ones matter more than ever. It’s real, relatable, and full of heart.
Takeaways
- Cynthia's son expressed a profound realization about time and relationships.
- Listening to children during moments of distress can lead to meaningful conversations.
- Mantras can serve as guiding principles in life.
- Confusion does not equate to being lost or behind in life.
- Reflecting on the past year can reveal unexpected accomplishments.
- Teaching children about empathy and giving is crucial.
- Conversations about difficult topics can strengthen parent-child relationships.
- Personal growth often comes from navigating grief and loss.
- Finding joy in everyday moments is essential for happiness.
- The importance of self-awareness in managing ambitions and expectations.
Questions To Ask Yourself:
1. If this past year was a movie, what was the genre and what was the basic synopsis?
2. What moments in 2025 made me feel most alive?
3. Where did I grow the most?
4. How did I really spend my time and energy?
5. Who shaped this year with me?
6. If I had to name the one thing I’m most proud of this year, what would it be and why?
7. On a scale of 1-10...how would I honestly rate my happiness or sense of contentment this year and what influenced that number most?
8. What surprised me the most this year?
9. As I look toward the year ahead, what would be the highest, wisest use of my talents and attention?
In this episode, we sit down with W5’s Avery Haines to talk about her powerful investigation into a global online network of men who secretly drug, assault, and film their own partners and then share that abuse with others. Avery walks us through how she infiltrated this hidden world, what she uncovered, and the shocking truth about predators operating in plain sight.
Links:
W5
CTV NEWS
TIFF season means red carpets, champagne, and… high school flashbacks? We spill on the not-so-glam side of “exclusive” parties, social awkwardness among celebs, and why we’re fine never being the cool kids, because you can always sit with us.
SEO keywords: celebrity events, TIFF, influencer life, red carpet stories, social anxiety
Recently, The New York Times profiled a woman who fell in love with her ChatGPT persona - a charming digital guy named Leo. Which got us thinking: are frictionless AI relationships the future?
Meanwhile, we’re over here navigating very real relationship friction. So we’re sharing our best (and weirdest) strategies to smooth things out - including why treating your partner like a tiny child might actually… work? We can’t wait to hear what you think.
Link to NYT article: NYTIMES ARTICLE
According to Self magazine, work should only take up 25% of our time. Cute idea… but how does that actually work for ambitious people like us? Is it possible to hustle with intention? Or do we all just need a full-on ambition detox given the state of… well, everything?
In this season four kickoff, we explain why it’s taken us so freaking long to come back, how you can reclaim your 5–9, and yes - we’re also talking about the Blue Jays (because balance).
Recently actress Jamie Lee Curtis shared some pretty strong feelings she has regarding cosmetic interventions that have become increasingly prevalent among women of (practically) all ages. So we decided to share our thoughts on what we will or won’t do, and whether these advancements are progressive or regressive. We can’t wait to hear your thoughts on this!
As many of you know, we had a hard time putting this podcast out…first Josie got hit by a rogue baseball and ended up with a concussion. When she was finally feeling okay, we sat down together and somehow ended up in a conversation about the state of the world. If you’re feeling heavy and unsure about how to help in these complicated times, we are right there with you.
Here are some places we are donating to:
Save The Children:
https://donate.savethechildren.ca/site/Donation2?3580.donation=form1&df_id=3580&mfc_pref=T&s_src=google_pmax&s_subsrc=gaza_pmax_ad&utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=21020103255&utm_term=&utm_content=gaza_googlepmax&gad_source=1&gad_campaignid=22665097113&gbraid=0AAAAADyLAB-QbBmjmVP6-Ho3j9sg-nxmu&gclid=CjwKCAjwqKzEBhANEiwAeQaPVf7LGP-y4_MW2cFKvit2iqAn-vdM0CJf3kvBLVXTYLR_TrwwHtWkmBoCNdMQAvD_BwE
The Palestine Children’s Relief fund:
https://www.pcrf.net/about-us
World Central Kitchen:
https://wck.org/news/gaza-update-7-25?fbclid=PAQ0xDSwL4QRlleHRuA2FlbQIxMQABp-8FpzIaa-FzEP7h0B2qZ8M9reMuEyZkmaeZQLFCh-xJkAM9I3mviSiagyae_aem_XUQVnX44lCxu7RXW8lTbqQ
Beyond Borders:
https://beyondborders.ie/?fbclid=PAQ0xDSwL4Qe5leHRuA2FlbQIxMQABp3EgF8whYRkFQwNphR2d7Ga8SJlNQSX31EKTrKl69SG5OodPPlSPwGvhFqmY_aem_d7M6UXWe7Bp6UTaBs6-jCg.
Donate To Plan International
If you’re like us, you’re probably thinking about time in a big way these days. If you are juggling midlife and aging children/parents - rest assured you are not alone. In this episode we discuss how our attempts at trying to make everyone else happy leaves us feeling deeply unsatisfied, whether or not marital crushes are a deal breaker, and why it’s not too late to figure out what you want the rest of your year (and life) to feel like.
Yes the world is on fire and on top of that we are in the heat of perimenopause. In the episode, we talk about premenstrual mood swings, random weight gain and that feeling that you are becoming invisible (until someone randomly hits on you). We also analyze Josie’s claim that she’s “face blind” (is that a thing?). It’s a rambling/meandering episode that we hope feels like we are sitting in your living room with you.
Link to Trevor Noah talking about the village
https://www.instagram.com/reel/DKbuxcBIze1/?igsh=YjB4bTNyd2NwdWht
Sit Test
https://www.youtube.com/shorts/ghuq5AMt7vc
You know him from The Kids In The Hall, or his work on SNL, or from his adorably weird live shows. He is gloriously unhinged and quietly profound… and completely Canadian. We chat with Bruce McCulloch about his career, the challenges of working in comedy today, cancel culture and so much more.
Links: For more info on Bruce and his upcoming shows visit:https://bruciomcculloch.com
If you want to revisit some Kids In The Hall:
The Daves I Know
https://youtu.be/8nvzEqsZIGo?si=Ymyn67mAFf4ZcVU-
Running F****t
https://youtu.be/b-TtfMLGnok?si=949d9h5ASnfgghvG
My pen
https://youtu.be/yQ1pO-tZbYA?si=nfJ1RqySh3J42Dkd
Love & Sausages:https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3ChvxsVgT8c
Each day we work:Kids In The Hall - Each Day We Workyoutu.be
Kathy the secretary:Kids in the Hall - Secretaries - Is he?youtu.be
Stalking - a film by Bruce on SNLhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vEEqjnl3Z1I
Bulges is on Crave:
ST BULGES DAY | Full Episode | Streaming Now on Craveyoutu.be
Lisa Gilroy :Most Liked Scenes From Fans - Jury Dutyyoutu.be
We’re not sure if it’s because we are getting older or because the world feels really off its kilter right now but we’ve been thinking a lot about our belief systems and what happens…after this all ends. The interesting thing is that more and more science is supporting ideas that were once considered the realm of weird. From telepathy to past lives to visions of Buddha, we can’t wait to hear your thoughts on this one!
In notes:
Sailing Around The World With His Cat:
@Sailing_with_phoenix
The Telepathy Tapes:
Telepathy Tapes
Toronto's own Cynthia and Josie dive deep into the pain, chaos and unexpected gifts of breakups, the kind that leave you crying in your car, texting your ex, or googling soulmate signs at 3am. In this raw and honest episode, we talk:
- Why breakups feel like grief
- Should you wallow in the saddness
- How to move on
- Breakup rules we live by
- How to come out ahead
Whether you're in ti, over it, or bakc in bed with them again, this one is for you.
Shannon lost her entire adolescence after enduring years of sexual abuse at the hands of her stepfather.
In this deeply moving episode, Shannon opens up about her painful past, her path to recovery, and how she turned her experiences into a driving force for advocacy and empowerment. All parents need to listen to this episode.
To follow Shannon Burns on social media @itsshannonburns.
A guide for sexual assault survivors - Canada.ca
Resources for survivors | Define the Line - McGill University
f you're raising a tween or teen right now, chances are someone in your orbit has mentioned Adolescence — the British four-part drama that follows the fictional story of a 13-year-old boy accused of stabbing a teenage girl. At its core, the series asks a chilling question: could any boy be pulled into the world of online radicalization and incel culture?
This episode, we unpack the show’s provocative themes and the cultural conversations it’s sparked — from fears about the manosphere to whether we’re in the middle of a new teen panic, or just the latest iteration of one. We also talk honestly about what it’s like raising boys in a world that feels increasingly angry and confusing. And we really want to hear your thoughts, too.
For more information about “Adolescence”:
https://time.com/7267884/adolescence-netflix-explained/
Send us your thoughts and feelings on Instagram @cynthiaandjosie or email us at hello@cynthiaandjosie.com
In this episode, we’re getting real about navigating long-term relationships with a little help from couples therapy. From dealing with the daily irritations to keeping the spark alive, we share practical tips on how to communicate better without sounding like you’re reading from a manual. If you’re in a long-term relationship (or thinking about it), tune in for some honest, relatable advice on how to survive—and thrive—together.
**Please note: we think therapy with real humans is best but if you can’t afford or just want some instant advice, check out:
https://deepai.org/chat/relationships
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Josie had a work trip to a gorgeous Bahamian resort, and of course, Cynthia tagged along as her ‘plus one’ (because who wouldn’t?). What followed was a perfect mix of sun, sand, laughter, tears, and enough snoring to make the ocean sound like a lullaby.
For more information on where we stayed, visit Sandals Royal Bahamian
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A decade ago, lifestyle expert and bestselling author Debbie Travis swapped her fast-paced career as a television host for a quieter life in a crumbling 13th-century farmhouse in Tuscany, where she now hosts transformative wellness retreats. In this episode, we dive into her latest book, Laugh More—a hilarious, heartfelt collection of real-life stories—and explore themes of following your dreams, trusting your intuition, and taking bold risks in pursuit of your passions.
For more information on Debbie, her books and her retreats, visit : https://debbietravis.com/
One ordinary morning, radio personality Taylor Kaye was getting ready for her day when her husband suffered a sudden stroke. In a matter of hours, everything changed—he could no longer walk or speak. In this episode, Taylor shares the moment she realized what was happening, her journey through the healthcare system, the challenges of raising her daughters while her husband is in a care home, and the lessons she’s learned along the way—including what she wishes she had known before.
If you want to contact Taylor, message her at taylorkaye.com
Thank you so much for listening. Don't forget to message us at Hello@cynthiaandjosie.com
Ready to level up your love life in 2025? Just in time for Valentine’s Day, we give you a totally non-scientific and completely arbitrary list of what’s “in” and what’s “out” in the world of sex this year. From hand jobs to mindful sex – if you’re looking for ideas on how to spend your v-day – this is the episode for you.
Hit play now and share this episode with a friend who needs a spicy Valentine's upgrade!
What's your take? Do you agree with our INs and OUTs? Drop your thoughts in the comments or DM us at @cynthiaandjosie
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WE ARE BACK FOR SEASON 3!
If you’ve noticed more urine leaks and accidents since you hit (peri)menopause, you are definitely not alone.
Declining levels of hormones, especially estrogen, can affect your continence. The impact can range from an inconvenience to a devastating effect on quality of life. But it doesn’t have to!
In honour of World Menopause Month we are answering all your questions all about incontinence during menopause with Dr Sheila Wijayasinghe.
Please Note:
- All opinions and recommendations are Dr. Sheila’s
- TENA is not offering medical advice
- The content we shared is for informational purposes only, you must always consult your physician for recommendations and treatments adapted to your specific needs
To learn more, visit www.tena.ca
Well we made it!! Thanks for sticking with us and sharing all of your wonderful thoughts during this season. We need a bit of a break but we hope you will enjoy this last episode of the season where we answer all of YOUR burning questions. Topics range from parenting challenges to relationship challenges to everything in between.
**IMPORTANT NOTE: If you heard the episode "If It Can Happen To Her, If Can Happen To You" then you know Shannon's story. We recently learned that Shannon's son had a severe bike accident. It has been a complete emotional collapse for her family and a catastrophic life change for her son. Please open the link below and support or share if you can. https://gofund.me/9a075c59.
Our hearts are with her and her family. xoxo
This is the last episode of Season 2. We will be back. Thank you for listening and being part of our lives every single week. We are taking a much needed break but we can't wait to talk again soon. In the meantime stay tuned to our social media pages.
With Love,
Cynthia and Josie
P.S. A tiny treat for people in Toronto or in the surrounding areas: Cynthia's favourite place, Othership is offering our community, 11% off the 2 week intro offer as well as the 3 pack, single drop-in as well as class packs. It can be used one time per person and is for the Toronto locations only. Cynthia highly recommends the 2 week all you can use offer (CODE IS: PLEASURE:)
Do fear trampolines? Have you found yourself worried that if you laugh too hard at a movie that you might leave a wet spot behind? Incontinence is a common issue that is unfortunately still a huge unmentionable. We talk with urogynocologist Dr Dana Soroka about the different kinds of incontinence and what can be done to prevent and treat this condition. We also answer YOUR questions about it.
This episode is sponsored by TENA, the world’s leaders in incontinence care. The new TENA® Sensitive Care® pads (link here), are enriched with gentle Skin Comfort Formula™ and are dermatologically approved and provide frictionless protection to help prevent skin irritation, helping women experience incontinence to be themselves, eliminating the need for users to compromise their skin health.
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Are you feeling extra crusty/crispy lately? Ruminating over things when you should be sleeping? On the brink of tears at any given moment? Josie recently has been feeling this way and she thinks it’s something called “busy depression”. Cynthia thinks it’s closer to burnout. So if you’re wondering if what you’re feeling is hormones, stress, “busy depression”, burnout or some combination- this is the mini group therapy session for you. Cynthia also goes through her 3-step beginning of burnout formula that might help if you ever find yourself on fire.
NOTES:
In case you missed them, here are the links to our previous episodes on burnout: (add links here)
Also, if you’re in the Toronto area and want to check out one of Cynthia’s favourite places for calm, you can get 11% off credit packages at Othership. Code: PLEASURE. (This can only be used on credit packages & one time per person.) https://www.othership.us
How can you get over heartbreak? Should you have breakup sex? Can you truly be friends with an ex? You asked and we answered (Josie even cracks open her high school diary). It’s an entire episode on everything you wanted to know but were afraid to ask when it comes to former lovers and flames.
What if your deepest secret was an addiction?
To the outside world, Shannon McKinnon seemed like the epitome of success: a loving husband, a thriving career in television, and two beautiful children. But behind closed doors, she was waging a silent war with heroin addiction. In this episode, Shannon shares her journey from battling chronic pain to slipping into addiction, losing her home, job, and marriage, and nearly her life. Listen as she reveals how she found the strength to rebuild and emerge more grateful than ever.
So last episode on home vs hospital births inspired a lot of heated conversations! Many of you expressed how surprising it was to hear close friends completely disagree with each other. With that in mind, we decided to try to unpack some of the reasons why it often feels like everyone is fighting these days (even with those who share the same views!). We also discuss how fear and trauma impacts our ability to listen deeply and why we should all start assuming the best instead of the worst of each other.
More information about Daryl Davis: https://www.pbs.org/independentlens/documentaries/accidental-courtesy/
NYT ARTICLE: What if Instead of Calling People Out, We Called Them In?
https://www.nytimes.com/2020/11/19/style/loretta-ross-smith-college-cancel-culture.html?smid=nytcore-ios-share&referringSource=articleShare&sgrp=c-cb
We generally get along about most things. But once we had a discussion and realized that there is a topic we totally disagree on: where to give birth. We unpack our radically different birth stories and debate the pros and cons of home vs hospital births on this heated episode (proving you can still be friends with people you don’t always agree with!)
For more information on Hypnobirthing if you’re interested: https://www.healthline.com/health/pregnancy/hypnobirthing#methods
For more information about Elaine Welteroth and her charity, follow @birthfund
Here’s also an article written by her on Black maternal health: https://time.com/6249274/elaine-welteroth-midwifery-care-maternal-health/
And if you’re interested, check out episode 5 of For The Culture, called “The Standard Of Care”:
https://gem.cbc.ca/for-the-culture-with-amanda-parris
Lancet Article : Home birth—proceed with caution
Home Births Proceed With Caution
Psychologists are increasingly saying that focusing on yourself is more likely to lead to a happy life. So what if instead of trying to find your “other half” you instead decide to make yourself whole. In this episode we chat with Andrea Bain, author of Single Girl Problems: Why Being Single Isn’t A Problem To Be Solved about how to reframe and embrace solo living.
To get a copy of Andrea’s book, click this link: https://www.amazon.ca/Single-Girl-Problems-Problem-Solved/dp/1459739094
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Aging is hard. It can feel sometimes like everything is falling apart: our faces, our bodies, our moods and our goals. But research shows that there are certain things we should all be focusing on in order to live the rest of our lives without any major regrets. From relationships to stress to speaking our unmentionables, this is your informal guide to aging well.
Have a great unmentionable story? Or are you an expert and want to be a guest on our show: email us at hello@cynthiaandjosie.com
If you have it in your heart to leave us a (positive) review on Apple, we would be so grateful. Here is the link: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/cynthia-and-josies-unmentionables/id1668439555
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Why do so many women turn into Bridezillas? How much is too much to spend on “the dress”? What is it about weddings that make everyone so horny except for the bride and groom? In this episode we share our marital memories and unpack a whole bunch of unmentionables with Wedding planner extraordinaire Trevor Frankfort.
For more info on Trevor and how to book him for your next event: https://trevents.caTrevents — Wedding & Event PlanningTrevents — Wedding & Event Planningtrevents.ca
To write us with your unmentionable ideas: hello@cynthiaandjosie.com
We asked you for your most unmentionable questions and boy, you did not disappoint. In this hilarious and heartfelt episode, we answer your queries and give advice on everything from what makes good lingerie to what can be done in a sexless marriages, from family planning regrets to adjusting to new jobs and everything in between.
As always, we love hearing from you. Send us your thoughts and ideas for future podcast to hello@cynthiaandjosie.com.
Link to: Mindful Sex by Dr. Lori Brotto
https://www.amazon.ca/Better-Sex-through-Mindfulness-Cultivate/dp/1771642351
Many people argue that kids these days aren’t as strong because they all receive “participation” ribbons or trophies. They say that if there isn’t a clear “winner”, kids will grow up weak and will be less inclined to work hard. In this episode we share some recent tough parenting moments that illuminate some of the problems with this argument.
Recently, Josie found herself at the non-off leash park near her house. When she kindly asked a man to leash his dog because her son was terrified, he adamantly refused. In a fit of anger, he hurled the label "Karen" at Josie.
In this episode, we delve into the origins, evolution, and lessons behind the term "Karen." Have you ever pondered where this name and its meaning originated? Have you ever wondered if you've accidentally channeled your inner Karen? And hey, what's a person named Karen to do in all this?
Join us as we unpack these questions and more with Refinery 29’s Kathleen Newman-Bremang. Together, we explore the complexities surrounding this term and the insights it offers into societal attitudes and behaviors.
Have you ever found yourself getting turned on by something strange? Things like gym equipment or giant nostrils? How about gardening noises or the arm hair on a stranger? In this episode we share some of the beautifully bizarre things that people have found unexpectedly erotic..and our other halves even share theirs!
Have you ever asked “the universe” for guidance? Cynthia did, and you’ll never guess what happened next. This episode is a journey filled with laughter, tears, and some revelations we've never dared to share including conversations with trees, ghostly encounters, and our thoughts on the mysteries of life after death.
In light of International Women’s Day, we wanted to celebrate, not only each other, but women we admire. So we started by writing letters of love to one another because, let’s be honest, even though you might have all kinds of feels for your good girlfriends: how often do you tell them? We also sit down with activist and curve model model, Lauren Chan about how she deals with online haters, how her body image has changed since coming out, and she gives advice for all of us on how to love our bodies better.
Trigger warning: this episode contains discussions around body, so just protect yourself if that’s a topic that sensitive for you
For more information on Lauren, check out her IG @lcchan.
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We hope you will pass this episode along to any women you love today!!
And if you want to send us a love letter, our email is hello@cynthiaandjosie.com
On the road of life we are faced with many different paths which will inevitably lead us to different destinations. Should we move to a new city or stay put? Should we date this person or that person? Should we have kids or remain childless? Should we stay or leave our job?
Wouldnt it be nice if we all knew the keys to making big life decisions without regret? In this episode we go through them all: from the value of making some decisions very quickly, to learning not to fear failure. From checking in with our deep inner voice, to consulting with our wisest friends - we also share some of our insights and experiences when it comes to making big life changes.
On the road of life we are faced with many different paths which will inevitably lead us to different destinations. Should we move to a new city or stay put? Should we date this person or that person? Should we have kids or remain childless? Should we stay or leave our job?
Wouldnt it be nice if we all knew the keys to making big life decisions without regret? In this episode we go through them all: from the value of making some decisions very quickly, to learning not to fear failure. From checking in with our deep inner voice, to consulting with our wisest friends - we also share some of our insights and experiences when it comes to making big life changes.
The very first book that Cynthia picked up when she went on stress leave was a NYT bestseller called “Burnout: The Secret To Unlocking The Stress Cycle”.
In this episode we are joined by one of the books authors, Amelia Nagoski to talk about the book and her burnout journey. She also gives tips on everything from the signs of burnout, why human “givers” are more likely to experience it, and what we can all do to start to heal from it.
The audio version of Burnout is now out and available HERE
Also, Amelia’s sister and co-author Emily wasn’t able to make it to our interview because she is out promoting a brand new book out about sex called: Come Together: the science (and art!) of creating lasting sexual connections. For more info:
https://www.emilynagoski.com
Our Website is www.cynthiaandjosie.com
or email us at hello@cythiaandjosie.com
Do you low-key hate Valentine’s day? Do all of the garish red decorations and chocolate dipped hearts have you asking yourself if this “holiday” is more about selling shit than helping lovers truly connect? In the spirit of actually making your relationship better, we have a list of questions that research suggests you should ask yourself and/or your long term partner every year as part of your maintenance. Questions like: do you still hold hands? Is the sex fun or a chore? Are you afraid of having an empty nest, and so much more. We hope you will do this with your other half, and let us know how it goes!!
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For more info on The Marriage Audit: go HERE
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In the wake of the sexually explicit AI generated images of Taylor Swift that went viral, many of us are thinking about the future of sex tech and how it will impact us. Is it all downright scary or will there be some opportunities for pleasure? In this episode, we speak with tech expert Amber MacArthur, about the good, the bad, and the downright scary implications of this fast growing industry, and unpack why there is an urgent need for regulations in this space.
For more on amber:
AmberMac.comambermac.com
And on IG : @ambermac
To check out our website go here: Website
IG: @CynthiaandJosie
If you were dating someone who was great at the beginning but after a while made you feel like garbage - you would probably dump that person, right? Or at least see them way less?
Whether you are doing a damp or dry January or just starting to think about this relationship this is a MUST LISTEN episode.
We share our experiences and also chat with Canadian icon #JannArden about her journey quitting alcohol and how leaving it behind has helped her creatively. She also talks about her new book, The Bittlemores. (https://www.penguinrandomhouse.ca/books/734047/the-bittlemores-by-jann-arden/9781039008717)
For more information about Jann and her upcoming projects, visit: https://www.jannarden.com
If you’re curious about the full list of symptoms for alcohol use disorder, visit here:
https://www.niaaa.nih.gov/publications/brochures-and-fact-sheets/understanding-alcohol-use-disorder
And if you’re struggling, here are a few resources:
https://www.canada.ca/en/health-canada/services/substance-use/get-help-with-substance-use.html
https://thisnakedmind.com
Also, take a listen to our last episode with Jann titled: "I Heard You Slept With Jann Arden"
Cynthia and Josie both had big changes in their lives this week: Josie started a brand new job in radio ( Click Here) and Cynthia went back to her old job in television (Click Here) in a new way. Of course, there were some tears. And with tears come a whole lot of feelings…
Why are we so afraid of showing vulnerability, especially in the workplace? What if the answer to a lot of our problems could be fixed if we were all a little more vulnerable?
*Also, if you are just catching up on what’s been happening with Cynthia, you might want to go HERE and then HERE.
And if you are following us on Apple Podcasts, they had a funky update and you might now be “paused”. If you can tap the plus + button in the upper right corner to make sure you are getting every new episode we would really appreciate.
As always, we love hearing from you - especially those of you who have questions and stories about #burnout. Email us at hello@cynthiaandjosie.com.
We live in an era where, thankfully, society is embracing and celebrating body diversity more than ever before. And yet behind closed doors, we all still often hear people whispering about their own body issues. If we do want to lose weight, how do we ensure we do it in a healthy, sustainable way and that doesn’t break the bank or kill our joy? In this episode we tackle this fraught unmentionable with author and podcaster, Gina Livy who has created her own answer to this age-old dilemma. *trigger warning: this conversation talks about weight loss and disordered eating
Gina’s podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/weigh-in-with-gina/id1605204908Weigh In with Gina on Apple PodcastsHealth & Fitness · 2024podcasts.apple.com
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After months of being on stress/burnout leave, Cynthia gives an update on how she’s doing. And while she’s not completely on the other side, there are a few things (that are simple and free!) that she is doing differently in 2024. So, If you haven’t made your resolutions yet, grab a pen and paper and get ready to be inspired (even while you eye roll lol)
Have questions for our burnout expert? Send them to hello@cynthiaandjosie.com
Also we love hearing from you - come follow us @cynthiaandjosie on social media!!
Finally, we would be forever grateful if you like our show - please make sure you are following ours so you never miss an episode! (even if you did it before, you might have to do it again as there were some tech things that we don’t understand but are annoying all the same).
This episode was recorded a week following the November six episode titled "It’s Been a Hard Few Weeks." But just before posting the episode, we made the decision to hold off. Cynthia was sorting out work details and we felt it best for us to stop recording and prioritize her mental health. Recognizing some of the important information in this podcast, we're airing it now.
If you want to check out our website go here.
Are you thinking of a career in radio, television or content creation? In this episode we talk about our weird career journeys: how we got here, who helped us (or didn’t ) and what we would have done differently if we could do it all again. Josie shares a secret about a bold career move she’s making and how she made that challenging decision.
No parent is ever really prepared for the question “where do babies come from?” but thankfully there are ways you don’t have to make it as weird as our parents did. In this episode, we chat with sex educator and author Cory Silverberg about theirnewest book, “You Know, Sex” and learn how to chat in curious and age appropriate ways about body parts, consent, identity, porn and other so-called “unmentionable” topics (we promise it’s not as scary as it sounds!)
For more information on Cory Silverberg and all of their books:
https://www.corysilverberg.com
You can also follow them @corysilverberg
**You asked for a longer episode so we brought it!! Let us know what you think!
We think this episode really needs to be listened to in its entirety but for those who like to jump around, below are some time codes where you can jump around to various topics.
@03:00 – Cory shares what it was like growing up with a father who was a sex therapist (spoiler: it wasn’t like the show Sex Education lol)
@05:27 – We chat about shame and where it ACTUALLY comes from
@07:20 – What the research says when it comes to kids trusting their parents when it comes to sex education
@07:47 -Josie asks about what she can say to her two kids about sex in an age appropriate way
(When they start asking about sperm!!)
@11:55– Why you shouldn’t panic when kids ask about sex…because it’s not really always about sex!
@13:07 – How to answer the question “where do babies come from?” in a way that doesn’t have to be about sex (intercourse) at all!!
@14:40 – Is slang okay or should we be encouraging kids use “proper” names for genitals?
@16:35 – What age do kids actually start knowing their sexuality and how they identify?
@21:57 – How to talk about sex and baby making when your child has a disability
@28:45 - The average age kids are first seeing porn (It’s younger than you think!), what can we do to protect them, and how we can talk to them about it.
@36:55 – why you need good sex education books around the house
@37:52 - Tips for parents who feel completely lost when it comes to starting “the talk”, how you can start to get kids to think critically about things like sexism and relationship stereotypes.
If you’re looking for even more, you can find some other sex education resources here:
https://findyourpleasure.com/world-sexual-health-day/
https://findyourpleasure.com/kids-need-sexuality-education/
Over 50 years ago, a psychologist named Arthur Aron who was studying relationships, created a list of 36 questions that he claimed could lead to love.The questions range from light-hearted topics to some seriously deep and unmentionable stuff. But here’s the big question: do they really work?
In this episode, Cynthia and Josie answer (most) of the 36 questions in the hopes that you will try them out on your next date night. Or at least laugh along with us while we do.
Here are the questions:
https://cynthiaandjosie.com/unmentionables/36-questions-to-fall-in-love/
*If you do these on your next date or with your friends – let us know how it went!! You can reach us at hello@cynthiaandjosie.com
And if you have it in your heart to rate and review our podcast on Apple, we would really appreciate it. (But only if you really like us lol).
Finally, Cynthia is still on a break but we are getting your messages and sending them all her way. Updates to come soon. Stay tuned by following us on socials @cynthiaandjosie.
Listen, we know last week was intense and emotional so first up, we have an update on Cynthia. But then, we bring you something that we recorded waaaay back during the summer. And boy, do we hope it makes you laugh as much as we did. This episode is all about the fantasy that shall not be named. But if you're a mom (okay maybe even a few dads) we GUARANTEE it has crossed your mind. Hint: it starts with a “D”.
We love hearing from you! Send in your #unmentionable stories and ideas to hello@cynthiaandjosie.com
Also, did you know that our theme song are by the most amazing band Nobro? You can download their music here: https://www.nobroband.com/
And of course we have a YouTube channel that we hope you will check out here: You Tube
After a few weeks of uncontrolled crying spells, Cynthia has come to the realization that she's not okay. We talk about what's been going on and we also do a deep dive on grief. After all, grief is an inevitable part of life. Maybe you’re experiencing the heartbreaking end of a relationship, a job loss, the death of a loved one, or perhaps it's just the overwhelming emotions that come along with witnessing the heartbreaking events around the world. But how many of us know how to process grief? In this episode, we chat with grief coach and death doula, Tammy Faulds about how we can better support ourselves and our loved ones.
For more information on Tammy:
Inner Travel Grief Coaching™
Website
Follow her online on Instagram or Facebook
You can also book yourself in for a Discovery Session here.
Links to some of her articles:
How to show up for someone who is grieving (permission to go beyond the casserole ;)
Love Liberates (the story of helping my beloved grandmother during her final transition)
Why rituals are so damn powerful (never too late to process grief, includes a list of suggestions people can try for free/on their own)
Perimenopause/menopause (grieving the loss of youth and fertility)
Helping kids with grief (how grief is different for different ages)
Coping With Grief Workbook (pay what you choose)
Children & Grief - A Course for Parents
10 Relationship Rules You Should Follow
There are countless articles online about navigating relationships. We did our best to gather some of what people say is the “best advice” while also sharing our personal insights. We're so excited to hear from you! Do you have rules that strengthen your connection with your partner? Reach out to us via email at hello@cynthiaandjosie.com or visit our website at www.cynthiaandjosie.com.
Thank you so much for listening!
One of the most common questions Cynthia gets as a sex educator is how to spice things up in long-term relationships. The truth is that life (and by “life” we mean: work, kids, stress, etc, ETC) can definitely get in the way of sexy time fun in the bedroom. In this episode, we will have you sliding out of your work clothes and into something more comfortable…wink wink, nudge nudge. This episode includes personal stories from Josie and Cynthia as well as tips from sex educator extraordinaire Luna Matatas to help increase intimacy and sexual satisfaction including: why you should schedule sex (don’t @ us!!), how to use rituals to cue sexy time, why you should create a sexual “bucket list” and the tools you might want to include in your own personal tickle trunk. You don’t want to miss this episode!!
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Prince. Oprah. Tom Yorke. Ryan Reynolds. Gord Downie. Those are just a few of the famous folks that Cynthia and Josie have been up close and personal with. But what do you say when you meet your hero? And is it always good to meet famous people you’ve put on a pedestal? What happens if you have some “vibes” with the person you meet? We go deep on this one.
The year was 2000. Kathy worked as a prop master in the film industry. She and her husband and teenaged step children ended up at a party for a movie called Dracula 2000. She mixed and mingled and eventually met a guy she would later find out was Danny Masterson. What happened next was a secret she kept for many years, a secret that would change her life forever.
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We’re Baaaack…
(…but not in that weird creepy poltergeist way)
From the latest on Josie’s sex life and Cynthia’s costume collection, to a strange story of our new stinky couch - we’ve got updates on all of the things you’ve been asking us about (and also some stuff you didn’t). We are also going to tell you a little about the incredible guests and unmentionable topics we are exploring this season.
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You asked us everything from the strangest places we have had sex, to how to get your libido back and so much more!
Just letting you know: this is our last episode of the season but don’t worry we aren’t going anywhere! We will be releasing BRAND NEW content on our YouTube channel EVERY MONDAY through the summer.
Also, we will be doing some LIVES on social media so make sure you are following us on socials and stay tuned for more info.
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We don’t know about you, but we got about as much information about menstruation as we did about the flip side, menopause. Why is this stuff that is so inevitable for women, also so shrouded in shame and mystery?? We sit down with Shirley Weir who is an author, women’s heath advocate and creator of Menopause Chicks, to answer all of your burning questions about hot flashes, hormone replacement and sex during and beyond, “the change.”
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Or visit her at: https://www.menopausechicks.com/
Remember that scene in “Say Anything” when John Cusak stands outside the window of the woman who has just dumped him, holding a boombox playing “In Your Eyes”? At the time, we all thought of it as a grand romantic gesture, right? But when something like that plays out in real life it can be entirely different. In this episode, Cynthia and Josie share their strange and terrifying experiences with stalkers. They also chat with Julie S. Lalonde, women’s rights advocate and author of Resilience is Futile: The Life and Death and Life of Julie S. Lalonde about her terrifying experience with an ex, why it was such an unmentionable and her thoughts on what needs to change in order to protect women from stalking.
Some resources : 1- OutsideOfTheShadows.ca 2- Resilience is Futile :The Life and Death and Life of Julie S. Lalondeis available wherever books are sold in paperback, e-book and audiobook form.3- Justice Canada information on criminal harassment in Canada.
Also, for all of you asking, our theme song is by the incredible all female band NoBro (https://nobroband.com)and the song is: Don't Die
Porn: delightful or disgusting?
Most of us probably stumbled across our first porns scrambled up on a vintage television set. Nowadays, it is everywhere. On this episode, Cynthia and Josie talk about what they love and loathe when it comes to porn, their concerns as parents and how they are (or aren’t!) talking to their kids about it. Plus Cynthia shares what it’s like to be on an actual porn set.
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Did you know that the number one reason women end up in long term care is because they can’t hold in their pee? If you have a vulva (whether you have had kids or not) you are going to want to listen to this episode. Cynthia quizzes Josie on the anatomy of the vulva (spoiler alert: Josie couldn’t find the clitoris) and they chat with The Vagina Coach, Kim Vopni about how to do a proper kegel and what you need to do to get your very own “buff muff”.
For more information about Kim Vopni, visit: HERE
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Even though Cynthia is a TV host, you might be surprised to find out that she has suffered from huge amounts of anxiety when it comes to public speaking. And Josie has a fear of something else coming out of her mouth. From general nervousness to full blown panic attacks, Cynthia and Josie dive into their anxious natures and share stories about how they have managed to (sort of) work through them. If you’ve ever suffered with anxiety and or panic attacks you’re going to want to listen to this episode. #CynthiaLoyst. #JosieDye
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If you’re looking to add a little bit of auditory spice into your bedroom adventures, we have the episode for you! We share our awkward stories of dirty talking and get tips from sex educator Luna Matatas.
For more information on Luna and where to take her workshops you can follow her on social media @lunamatatas and visit her here: https://lunamatatas.com
Ever wonder what’s going on in the mind of a single guy on the dating scene? Well we thought it would be fun to put all of the pressure on radio host, DJ, personality, Jamar McNeil to explain every straight man’s perspective (lol) on dating, hookups, ghosting, the friend zone and where we actually learn about dating (hint: no where!!) We also talk about the “crazy chick” stereotype and give our contradictory tips on how to get what you want out of a prospective partner. If you’re out on the dating scene or about to be again soon, you’re not going to want to miss this one.
You can find Jamar McNeil on social media @jamarmcneil
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Josie shares the terrifying, challenging and joyful experiences that can go along with navigating life with a child with special needs.
We watch them in the dark. We romance some, despise others. It can feel like we know them, but we never really do. Let’s face it: there’s something strange about the one-sided relationship we have with celebrities…and it can become even stranger when we actually meet them in person. In this episode, Cynthia and Josie share some of their sexiest celebrity stories and chat with long time journalist Teri Hart about why theses tales are so “Unmentionable”.
What if there was a way to guarantee that your partner would never, ever stray? Turns out there are certain things that successful monogamous couples do and what those things are might surprise you. Dr. Lucia O’Sullivan from The University of New Brunswick is here to share what research shows about love, sex and monogamy.
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I’m Ever wonder what the most popular sexual fantasies are? And whether or not they differ depending on culture? And also, do those who act out their fantasies have better sex lives? To answer these questions and more, we speak with an utterly charming Dutch researcher named Lucas de Man who has co-authored a book (with Mireille Mathieu) called Yes, Please on sexual fantasies around the world. We also share our fantasies and some of yours!
For more information on Lucas (and if you’re interested in participating in his research, visit: Here)
You can also follow him on Instagram @nieuweheld
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Ever wonder what happens when you take a young woman, put her in front of thousands of people and ask her to sing a song she hasn’t thought about since grade school? In this episode, we get a front-row seat to Josie’s epic public fail and find out what she learned from the experience. We also dive into some of Cynthia’s most embarrassing moments and talk about how you can recover. From nip slips to toilet paper trails ...this week, we find the silver linings in our most embarrassing moments.
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Yeah we go there. Josie asks Canadian singer songwriter Jann Arden and Cynthia about their “affair”. Jann also shares and sets the record straight about other rumours!
On the podcast we discuss sexual rumours, why you shouldn’t speculate on someone’s pregnancy and what people are really trying to uncover about themselves through gossip. You don’t want to miss this episode.
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Imagine you meet someone: they are kind, supportive and like cats and Star Trek as much as you. Eventually you fall in love and marry. But then imagine you meet someone else who is equally enchanting - you fall in love and then you marry them too. That’s just what real estate agent Samantha Fraser did. In this episode, Sam tells us why she chooses to be in an open relationship, how she manages jealousy, how her marriage with two men works and gives tips for those thinking of carving out a different kind of relationship.
For more information on Sam, you can follow her @nympsam or check her out here
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Josie hasn’t had sex in awhile. The reason isn’t because she’s got a headache, a back ache or a heart ache. It’s because her husband broke his penis. Yup, you just read that. We chat with the man himself about how this unmentionable happened and also get the lowdown from Dr. Shelia Wijayasinghe about how common this is and what you need to do if it ever happens to you (or a penis owner you love).
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The pandemic messed with everyone differently. Some of us clung to chip bags and wine bottles...others clung to calorie counting...we did all of the above. Yeah, we went on a quest to "get clean" but the end result was kind of dirt. We share our stories and also speak with style expert and curve advocate Meredith Shaw about how we can all learn to love ourselves better.
One of us cheated and thought it would help the relationship. Boy was she wrong. We unpack both of our wandering ways and what happened next. We also interview Dr. Dylan Selterman, personality psychologist and Associate Professor at the Johns Hopkins University Department of Psychological and Brain Sciences. Through his research on infidelity he has uncovered the many reasons why people cheat and how it’s not always such a bad thing.
For more info on Dr. Selterman visit: https://www.dylanselterman.com/
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In our premiere episode, we get to the BOTTOM of one of society’s messiest taboos. It's often the BUTT of jokes, but this BUMPY problem is a real PAIN IN THE ASS for many people. It's actually what brought the two of us together & led to the creation of this series. We’ve been …ahem…sitting on this for a long time. Maybe you have too. Yes, we're talking hemorrhoids.