I Make a Difference: Recent Episodes
I Make a Difference
The I Make a Difference podcast is an adventure that explores the journey you experience as your human self and the pathway back to your true self. A journey involving a disconnection from who you truly are, being conditioned in your thinking, behaviors, and processing, being emotionally impacted and controlled by your reactions, and the experience of a past that can be complex and multilayered in its hold on you. As well as diving into and strengthening your connection with all the powerful elements of your true self as you find your way back to the real you.
If you truly want to make a difference to yourself, it requires you to do the work to uncover and reconnect to the true you, for you to develop your awareness, ability to recognize what you are experiencing, face your truth, understand your processing, and to know how to work with all aspects of who you are not and who you are, so you can come back to you. The I Make a Difference Podcast is here to support you to achieve this.
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Season Two — The Return and Reunion Of Soul And HumanEpisode 35: The Reunion — Anchoring the Truth of Who I AmI Make a DifferenceEpisode 35: The Reunion — Anchoring the Truth of Who I AmPlay EpisodePause EpisodeMute/Unmute EpisodeRewind 10 Seconds1xFast Forward 10 seconds00:00/00:22:54SubscribeShareAmazonApple PodcastsGoogle PodcastsSpotifyStitcheriHeartRadioiTunesRSS FeedShareLinkEmbedThis episode is not a return to something I left behind, it’s a reclamation of what has always been mine but is now ready to be fully embodied.
It marks the moment where the past, present, and soul converge, where I step forward not as someone reinventing or remaking herself, but as someone who has done the deep work, crossed the internal threshold, and is now prepared to lead unapologetically from her truth.
In this conversation, I share the raw experience of shedding identities, facing the projections and dismissiveness of others, and stepping out of roles, expectations, and systems that were never aligned with who I am at the deepest level.
I speak not to teach or guide, but to embody what it means to stand fully in the clarity, sovereignty, and power of my own essence — without softening or adjusting for the comfort of others.
This episode is for those who have always known they were different — the ones who were never meant to follow, fit in, or be palatable — and who are now ready to reclaim the truth and leadership they have always carried within themselves.
It’s for those who are done waiting, done shrinking, and ready to stand as the whole of who they are, leading not from strategy, but from soul.
Let’s walk this path together — not to become, but to remember, reclaim, and live as the soul you have always been.Ask Me Questions, Share Your Processing, Share Your Feedback
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There is profound value in exploring the complex dynamic between you and your parents or parental figures. Whether your upbringing was filled with love and beauty, marked by pain and hurt, or a combination of both, your relationship with your parents holds essential keys to your personal growth and evolution.
While it's true that you cannot change your parents or their past actions, you have the power to transform how you feel about them and develop your acceptance and openness with them. By exploring the experiences and traits you inherited from them, you gain a deeper understanding of who you truly are.
IN THIS EPISODE WE EXPLORE:
- The invaluable gifts that your relationship with your parents and parental figures offer you for your personal growth and evolution.
- The critical role of exploring your relationship with your parents in becoming your true self.
- The significance of acknowledging and healing both the hurtful aspects and the beautiful qualities within your parents and your interactions.
- How refraining from exploring and facing the truth of your relationship can create distance, not only between yourself and your parents but also within your own being.
- The power you possess to create a closer connection with your parents, reflecting a deeper connection with yourself.
I look forward to the adventure with you as we unravel, heal and uncover together to make a difference to who we are
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In your friendships, are you the one who keeps them going? Do you initiate the contact, and put in the time and effort?
You may even be like I used to be where you find when you go for coffee, out to lunch or dinner or to do some other activity, that you are the person who pipes up and says "I'll pay for it".
If you are why are you the person who generally holds the responsibility, pays, and organizes things? Join me as I explore my process of how having coffee with friends, involved me paying for both mine and theirs.
Why? Because I didn't want to owe anyone anything. I didn't know how to receive and my lack of self-worth and neediness were driving me.
THIS EPISODE You explore:
- How what appear to be insignificant and irrelevant occurrences, can be the key to deep-seated patterns of a lack of self-worth
- The influence of what may feel like unrelated experiences, on how you live your life now
- How the process of sabotage and rejection deny you of what you truly deserve
- How ceasing to pay for someone's coffee was an opportunity for huge growth.
I look forward to the adventure with you as we unravel, heal and uncover together to make a difference in who we are
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Episode 32: Living The Unlived Lives Of Your ParentsAs an adult have you lived your life, where as a child growing up, you did what you want to do? Or have you lived your life or some of your life based on what others believed was right for you and what they wanted you to do?A life that filled the dreams, hopes and missed opportunities of your parents, grandparents and other significant people from your life. Where expectations were either imposed on you or you imposed them on yourself.A life where you lived other peoples unlived lives.As a parent or grandparent have you not lived the life you wanted to, and then you have done what believed was encouragement of your children or grandchildren to do what you missed out on?Then if the answer is yes - this episode is for you.THIS EPISODE You will:* Understand what means to be living the unlived lives of your parents and others * Work through how a parent can unconsciously and consciously impose their expectations of what they did not fulfil in their life, on to you * Explore how this process conditions and impacts a person as a child and then as an adult * Come to understand how not only your parents can impose expectations and responsibilities on you but how you can do this to yourself too * Acknowledge the steps for you to take to work through these expectations that were imposed on you
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Episode 31: Emmergent Processing - Not Giving Up On HopeI invite you to embark on my exploration of hope with me.
How a personal meditation I won as a prize, which involved an initial conversation, prompted processing in me that took me on a journey of reflection on my life and my relationship with hope.
In this episode, I delve into the transformative power of meditation and it's impact on my journey toward finding inner peace and stability. How it became a beacon of hope for me until I realized that my growth, was being hindered and limited by it.
This episode explores how through my processing I uncover my journey of hope from how I had defined it as a lifeline for me to escape where I was at, to becoming something I suppressed, ultimately rejected and gave up on. To embracing it as an internal flame of belief, trust, and self-driven progress.
My introspection led me to release old conditioning, connect more to my true self, and embrace a new perspective on hope. I discovered what hope truly means to me, its implications in my life and its transformative potential. I came to appreciate hope in a way I have not previously done so.
THIS EPISODE
You will:
- Share in my journey of meditation which led me to connect with hope
- Explore how hope is an important process for our growth and evolvement
- Come to know how, in becoming my true self I rejected hope and made it wrong
- Hear how I gave up on hope and the impact of that on me
- Explore how I reconnected to hope in a new and different way
If you are interested in knowing more about WENDY DARLING you will find her at wendydarling.com I look forward to the adventure with you as we unravel, heal and uncover together to make a difference to who we areAs humans, hope plays a crucial role in our lives, precisely because we often find ourselves lacking it within ourselves. Our journey towards hope is intertwined with our sense of self-worth and deservedness. It is when we question our own value and worthiness that hope becomes elusive. But there is hope for finding hope again. To explore strategies for cultivating hope within ourselves, I invite you to download your free copy of:
13 Ways To Recognize And Own Your Self-Worth Guide
My Deservedness Video And Workbook
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Episode 30: Being Inspired By YourselfBeing inspired by yourself is a natural and powerful process. Where you are fascinated and curious with who you are, the inspiration and potential you have within you, and the inspiration you will discover and express from you.
Yet you may look to other people, objects, and environments for inspiration. You can experience bursts of inspiration instead of a flow. When you are inspired, the energy you experience is vibrant and can even be overwhelming. Why? Why do you experience all of these processes?
The answer is in where you are at in your growth and connection to yourself, the true you. In this episode I explore:
- The process of inspiration
- What inspiration is
- Why you experience flashes of inspiration
- Why you may look to external things for inspiration
- Your true inspiration and being inspired by yourself
- Some key questions to support you to explore your inspiration
There are questions at the end of the episode to encourage your exploration of your self-inspiration, so you grow your awareness and understanding of your process of inspiration.
I look forward to the adventure with you as we unravel, heal and uncover together to make a difference to who we are
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Episode 29: Processing Reflections With Minz And Barb - Welcome BarbI am so excited to introduce you to 'Processing Reflections With Minz And Barb' and to one of the most beautiful people I have ever met, someone so dear and precious to me - Barbara Binns.
Barb, as she is called by many people, is someone whom I have journeyed with for many years. We share the love of I Make a Difference, personal growth, and catching up to share and explore our processing together.
Barb mentioned to me at the end of last year that her daughter had said to her "you and Minz should do a podcast together". These were the spoken words of what I had already been processing and pondering, so action was taken.
'Processing Reflections With Minz And Barb' will now be a regular feature of the I Make a Difference podcast. How regular? Good question. We are going to trust the process and see what unfolds.
Barb and I are going to have our catch-ups and explore and share processing about different aspects of our personal growth, the processes we explore, and the processing we experience.
In this episode, I wanted to ensure that you got to meet and know Barb and a snapshot of how we came to connect and be friends.
If you are wondering who Minz is - that is me (Melinda) it is a nickname I have been called for many decades and it also stands for Made In New Zealand.
You might want to check out the new I Make a Difference Youtube Channel and the video version of this episode which is in the playlist Processing Reflections With Minz And Barb
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I am so excited to introduce you to 'Processing Reflections With Minz And Barb' and to one of the most beautiful people I have ever met, someone so dear and precious to me - Barbara Binns.
Barb, as she is called by many people, is someone whom I have journeyed with for many years. We share the love of I Make a Difference, personal growth, and catching up to share and explore our processing together.
Barb mentioned to me at the end of last year that her daughter had said to her "you and Minz should do a podcast together". These were the spoken words of what I had already been processing and pondering, so action was taken.
'Processing Reflections With Minz And Barb' will now be a regular feature of the I Make a Difference podcast. How regular? Good question. We are going to trust the process and see what unfolds.
Barb and I are going to have our catch-ups and explore and share processing about different aspects of our personal growth, the processes we explore, and the processing we experience.
In this episode, I wanted to ensure that you got to meet and know Barb and a snapshot of how we came to connect and be friends.
If you are wondering who Minz is - that is me (Melinda) it is a nickname I have been called for many decades and it also stands for Made In New Zealand.
You might want to check out the new I Make a Difference Youtube Channel and the video version of this episode which is in the playlist Processing Reflections With Minz And Barb
WE look forward to the adventure with you as we unravel, heal and uncover together to make a difference together.
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And if you want to share your processing about an episode. As well as, if you have questions about an episode.
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For decades one of the most powerful patterns of conditioned approaches I have had with my mum is the responsibility I took on board for her emotional and physical well-being.
My need to be over-responsible has governed my interactions, my decision-making, and my relationship with my mum since a very young age.
The result is, I have been serious in my relationship with her, the problem solver and protector. It was late last year when an experience I had gave me the insight I needed to take action in this area.
I wanted to give focus on really working on letting go of my over-responsible ways.
My commitment was to take new and different approaches. The key to making this happen was for me to stay open to recognizing all of the opportunities I had in my relationship with my mum, to do things differently.
What I came to see, was that I had not allowed myself to be a daughter to my mum. I had been the parent or protector. Our relationship had been one of seriousness and practicality, rather than fun, and laughter, and filled with an abundance of happiness.
So I took action and the amazing new experiences that were created were beautiful. In this episode, I share that journey with you, or at least the beginning of it and what unfolded in one day, so that you too might gain some gems from my process, that will support you to:
- Let go of the responsibility you hold for others
- Change patterns of conditioned and emotional processing that are preventing you from experiencing what you truly deserve
- Embrace that every new experience does not need to be profound in what is done, it is in how it is received, experienced, and shared
- Can get to experience with the people you have taken responsibility for, the relationship you deserve to have with them
Whilst I was changing some patterns, I would change the podcast cover and the format here. I look forward to the adventure with you as we unravel, heal and uncover together to make a difference in who we are
If You Want To Work On Releasing Your Over-Responsibility And Or Expanding What You Deserve These Free IMAD Resources Are Worth Exploring
Over-Responsibility Checklist
My Deservedness Workbook And Video
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Episode 27: Holiday Time And Emotional TriggersThis time of year is powerful on so many levels.It is a time to celebrate and enjoy family and friends. Yet the coming together of family, having time away from your daily routine where you have space to think and feel, missing people who have been a part of your life, all contribute to you having emotions triggered.The emotions can end up controlling and dictating what you experience and how you feel and will keep you in patterns of interactions and situations, you have experienced before.Yet there is something you can do...THIS EPISODE* Grow your awareness of having emotions triggered during the holiday time * Understand the impact of how you manage your emotions * Identify the choices you have to influence what you experience during this time * Explore an approach to support you to make a difference in how you manage your emotions
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Episode 26: The Truth About Boundaries Boundary setting is encouraged. You probably believe that boundary setting is about valuing yourself.
But is it?
In this episode I explore the truth about boundaries.
One of the truths is you set boundaries for you, with you. You are limiting yourself from doing what you have previously done, accepting and allowing what you do not deserve. So you set boundaries to grow your ability to experience what you do deserve.
Yet boundaries are a little more complex than that, and they can be limiting and restrictive.
IN THIS EPISODE
You will explore:
- What boundaries are
- Why you get to a place where you require boundaries
- What drives your need to set boundaries
- Who the boundaries are for
- Alternatives to boundary setting
A GIFT FOR YOUYou may want to check out a gift for yourself. Access to 'My Deservedness' my free video and workbook that supports you to explore, grow and expand your ability to experience more of what you deserve.
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Episode 25: The Relationship Between My Soul And Self-Responsibility Having explored in the previous two episodes responsibility and self-responsibility, how do these states of being and qualities relate to the world of your soul?
THIS EPISODE
You will: * Explore responsibility and self-responsibility in terms of your soul * Come to know how being responsible is innate and natural to you * Explore the human processes that resulted in you not naturally being responsible * Know how responsibility and self-responsibility in their pure form, are you being your true self
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Episode 24: Over-Responsibility - Do You Take Responsibility For Others? 1. Are you over-responsible? 2. Do you take responsibility for adults and fulfill their responsibilities? 3. Do you parent adults? Because if you are over-responsible, that is what you are doing.
If your answer is yes to these questions, then you have learned to take responsibility for others. You have been conditioned to carry the weight of others' responsibilities and to feel responsible for their emotional wellbeing. And as you learned this, you can unlearn it.
And why would you want to unravel and unlearn this process?
So that you do not do things at your expense. And so that you are free of worries and concerns that are not yours to worry about. As well as you can grow your ability to support the growth of the people you have been responsible for, to grow their ability to take responsibility for themselves. And you liberate yourself of burdens that are not yours to carry.
THIS EPISODE
You will: * Explore what over-responsibility is * Identify how you became conditioned to be over-responsible * Come to know the ways you can be over-responsible * Understand the impacts of over-responsibility on yourself and those you take responsibility for * Explore tips for identifying your responsibilities, so that you only fulfill those
BONUS - download your free copy of the 'Over-Responsibility Checklist' and explore what and who you are responsible for and the opportunities you have to unburden yourself Subscribe To, Rate and Review The I Make a Difference Podcast On Your Streaming App
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Episode 23: The Power Of Self-Responsibility As you become more and more self-responsible the more powerful you become.
You own more of who you are, what you do, not do, say and not say. And you honor your commitment to yourself to own who you truly are, to do the right thing, and to do right by you.
Grow your ability to take responsibility for you and everything you do. And in doing so, grow the power of you.
Explore seven key processes that I apply in my life, that have supported me to be more aware of all aspects of myself, so that I could recognize and own who I am and the influence I have over my life, situations, and the outcomes I experience. Where I am stronger, clearer, cleaner, and free of the battle I used to have with my truth that was calling me to account for the things I could have and should have done differently if I had been more aware and made different choices.
Grow your love of being self-responsible, through valuing the benefits and the process.
THIS EPISODE
You will explore: * What self-responsibility is and the power that comes from being self-responsible * The seven processes that guide you to grow your self-responsibility * How owning what you do and do not do, strengthens your power and confidence, because you have greater choices as to what you do from there * How to influence your life, rather than having life influence you
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Episode 21: Uncovering Self-Belief Self-belief is not just about your confidence, it is a process and aspect of you that goes far deeper and lies at the core of who you are.
Being clear on the different elements and aspects of your self-belief, supports you to know what processes you need to work with to reclaim your self-belief, for you to grow and strengthen it.
Your self-belief lies at the core of who you are.
THIS EPISODE
You will be: * Explore the essential elements of self-belief * How self-belief influences the expression of who you are * A tip as to how to grow your self-belief
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Episode 21: I Am Visibly Invisible You would possibly believe that given I am an expressive and outspoken individual who has very strong energy that this would mean I was visible visible (in keeping with the title of this episode). However you would be wrong. Or at least that is what I believe and more to the point experience.
I am, in my world - what I call "visibly invisible". You know that I am there, but I am invisible to the other person in terms of them potentially connecting to me, seeing and hearing me. Rather they connect more to what is being shared with them.
There are the few individuals though that are very special to me, that have wanted to see and hear me. And to them I am visible. As you will be to the people in your life that are like them.
And even if you are not an expressive like me, rather someone who is reflective, you too may experience being visibly invisible.
There are a number of reasons why you (if this is a process you go through) and I experience this.
Some of those reasons are because of our own doing. And some because of where the other person or people are at.
Yet it is an opportunity for your growth and development. For you to be visible to yourself and others.
THIS EPISODE
You will explore: * What being invisible is about * The different areas for you to work with and grow your ability to be visible, in * Some of the reasons why you (if you experience invisibility) and myself are not seen, heard and sensed * Steps you can take so that you are visible * That you and I deserve to be visible
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Episode 20: Emergent Processing - Family Soul Agreements Family soul agreements have an almost mystical element to how they are so interwoven. Exploring whose agreement with whom contributes to and influences the soul agreements you have directly with members of your family, is fascinating in the commitments that we all make to each other.
There are so many layers of purpose and meaning to your soul agreements. They contribute to your growth and evolvement, giving you the opportunity to understand the experiences and journeys you have been on as your human self.
They are a never ending source of wonder, exploration, discovery and realization.
The more conscious you are of them, the more conscious you become of your human experience, and all the components that contribute to your evolvement. And the more you appreciate and value the souls that joined you on this journey to have the experiences you have had with them.
THIS EPISODE
You will: * Explore how family soul agreements, have an interconnected purpose to them, that is magical * Understand how soul agreements can take years even decades after a person has passed for their unfolding and completion * Discover that there are different viewpoints from which to identify, explore and find meaning in your soul agreements * Explore how soul agreements give you the opportunity to see family through not just your human eyes, but your soul self eyes and the truth
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Episode 19: Merry Xmas A Merry Christmas to you and if you do not celebrate Christmas, then may you have time being with you and those that are dear to you.
Christmas can surface so many different emotions, and can involve so many different experiences.
Embrace this time for building a greater connection with yourself and the people around you.
Have a wonderful Xmas.
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Episode 18: EMERGENT PROCESSING - Consciously Traveling 'Trusting The Process' To Fulfill Soul Agreements When you consciously accept the impacting variables that send you on detours, new pathways and different directions to where you believed you were traveling, and where these experiences would traditionally triggered emotional processing, you find yourself trusting that you are being sent on a new adventure. An adventure where there are immediate benefits you can gain if you choose to see them. And magical benefits that you are not yet aware of that will have you meeting the people whom you made soul agreements with, to support each other in your evolvement.
IN THIS EPISODE
You will: * Journey with me on my recent adventure of seemingly random yet interesting events, that traditionally would have frustrated me, to discover why the journey unfolded * Explore how now is the time to be more conscious and aware of the soul agreements you have, so that you can maximize the purpose and intention of the agreements for your evolvement * Grow your appreciation of the people who have contributed to your evolvement through their soul agreement with you * Explore the different purposes and reasons for soul agreements * Come to see, hear and feel the power of consciously traveling processes of trust to fulfill your soul agreements
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Episode 17: The Underestimated Power Of Neediness * How much power does neediness have over you? * Do you squirm at the thought of you being needy? * Are you emotionally attached to people, beings, objects and substances?
If you do not know the level of neediness in you, then you are needy to be safe and secure from your neediness. And if you squirm at the thought that you are needy, is you being needy of being safe and secure from your neediness and truth. Then any emotional attachment you have to anything, is an indicator of a level of neediness.
Do not underestimate how much neediness is influencing you and the people around you.
Yet there is also power in you owning your neediness. As when you do, you take responsibility for your truth, your neediness and you take steps to fill and heal it within you.
The power of neediness. THIS EPISODE You will: * Explore what neediness is * Come to see how neediness is interwoven in so many other processes we experience * Explore how neediness comes to the surface within us * Develop your relationship with your neediness
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Episode 16: Uncovering My Relationship With Vulnerability Vulnerability - your rawness, being exposed and transparent.
When you truly connect to your vulnerability you connect to a gentle, surrendered and beautiful part of you. You own and honor your truth, without judgement, with acceptance and love. Yet you and I go through a journey to find that out.
I spent time reflecting on my vulnerability journey, and discovered processes I was not fully aware of or even aware of, that contributed to the depth and breadth of healing that I have done with my vulnerability. And I had not recognized with such clarity before, the two key ways we cope with our vulnerability. And I got to appreciate, even more, the people who were fundamental in creating a space for the healing of my vulnerability to happen. As well as how each one of them came into my life to support me with a different aspect of my vulnerability.
The more aware you are of all elements of your vulnerability, the more you can consciously work with each of the different processes that are involved. And the more you value and appreciate what you experienced and who was part of your vulnerability journey.
THIS EPISODE
You will explore: * Why and how vulnerability surfaces within you * What vulnerability is * The two key fundamental things you look for when you are vulnerable * The healing of vulnerability
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