Mags & Dad's Wholesome Chaos: Recent Episodes
Mags & Dad's Wholesome Chaos
During 2020, Maggie and her Dad became widely known for TikToks featuring their dances together, their comedic personalities, and their honest question and answer sessions which often ended up with one ... or both of them getting pushed into a cold pool! They both have diverse and unusual skill sets and continue to innovate content as they navigate very busy and productive lives. Their content is family friendly, advocating good values with great fun and incredible energy. Over and over in the comment sections of their videos, audiences from all over the planet express the sentiment, “I wish I had a relationship like that with my dad (and my daughter). Exactly HOW do you make that happen?” In their new podcast, entitled “Mags and Dad's Wholesome Chaos,” Mags and her Dad will reveal new elements to their backstories, secrets to their relationship success, and real, down-to-earth perspectives on life that will make you smile and help you “do life” with greater fun and confidence.
Show Notes:
00:00 Which will be out first: WC Podcast #76 or TikTok Push-in-the-pool #76?
01:24 Wholesome Chaos drinking cups with fun-house faces!
02:24 Mags traumatizing California dentist experience.
08:50 Mags gets a callback while we are all on airplanes!
11:09 “Peter Pan Goes Wrong” on Broadway rocks!
12:24 Recapping Maggie’s 13th birthday trip to New York.
18:00 Maggie’s upcoming trip to NY.
19:27 Dad noticing Maggie maturity growing.
20:43 Legitimate card game ending in multiple winners!
22:02 Dan’s new book “Positive Chaos.” Pre-order for bonuses! www.danthurmon.com/positive-chaos/
25:21 Team Maggie.
26:55 Movies we know nothing about (and some we’ve seen).
31:53 Is Maggie actually getting better at pickleball … or just playing a lot?
33:15 Mags sees “Hunger Games” star Josh Hutcherson in LA.
35:52 Maggie’s roommate, Jenna Raines, concert in Atlanta with Joshua Bassett and Lindsey Lomas.
37:51 More pop-up podcasts to come?
38:23 Mags and Jenna Ortega?
Show Notes:
01:45 Shay at the Austin REVOLUTION Film Festival (not Austin Film Festival as stated in the podcast).
03:27 Going off air for a bit, but catch us on other social media, and at wholesomechaos.com.
04:38 Maggie's epic, 120 mile jet ski adventure!
07:43 Dan recounts jet skiing on Lake Powell.
09:30 Listener question from Leah: Tips for waking up early for flights?
14:40 Listener question from Nick: What’s the Atlanta airport like?
17:10 Listener follow up from Izzy on her final exams.
17:40 Listener question from Catherine on how to be confidence when giving a speech.
19:10 Maggie’s High School Debate Club story.
24:15 When Mags was in “13 the Musical.”
26:02 Listener question from Emily on parenting tactics – spanking specifically. (BTW, Shay was spanked until her parents discovered grounding her was more painful and successful.)
39:54 Listener question from Mary about Dan’s weekly videos on LinkedIn and Facebook.
44:55 Pickleball courts closed due to an “altercation.”
Show Notes:
00:00 Mags reading Hunger Games trilogy. And how Jennifer Lawrence was SO GOOD in the third book!
02:45 Our Koi fish “ran away.”
05:54 Dan arrived less than an hour ago after crisscrossing the country for speeches – but he’s awake!
07:30 Luggage lost and found. Dan remembers to get his checked baggage – days after the trip!
12:53 Mags sees Harry Styles again in LA from the pit. So, so fun!
15:23 Seeing Jvke in concert. Mags was in his music video.
17:05 Dan reading about sheep and hearing stories from strangers.
23:03 A restaurant in Alaska where the servers join you for dinner?
23:52 In Greece they won’t talk with you.
25:05 Ocean City, MD past experience and snowy video making.
26:44 Listener question from Irene: How did you get the idea for the “push in the pool” TikToks?
28:52 Amazing in-person comment from Jackson: How our TikTok content helped his sister and dad get closer.
30:20 Listener question from Jess: How do you have such a close relationship?
35:05 Having hard conversations with friends.
41:29 Building Shay’s dream library!
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Show Notes:
00:00 Words from a 1940’s comedy dictionary.
02:23 Dan’s eyebrows meet their match.
06:20 Maggie’s Lasek update.
09:03 New Orleans past and present – Mardi Gras is coming!
15:14 Reflecting on our own performance verses other people’s perception.
20:45 Listener question from Issy: How do you get motivated to study (or a tackle a project) when you don’t want to?
29:17 The kids childhood home finally closes.
34:26 Mags and her cousins’ artwork puzzle finished… but missing one piece!
Show Notes:
00:00 Mags post-lasek eye surgery.
03:17 The valium debate.
06:06 The, kind of, gory details of Lasek.
15:19 Dan and Shay’s RK surgeries.
19:31 Lunch after surgery.
20:54 Mitch is a wonderful human!
24:44 Spontaneity of life is easier to embrace without contacts.
27:16 Braces on “baby teeth.” Necessary, or a racket?
29:02 Is it weird to Thera Gun and Kombucha in the parking lot?
30:06 Dan fell in the river… again.
31:31 We are dog people.
34:45 Shay housetrained her cats!
39:20 Listener question from Emily: Advice on how to handle the rejection that comes with being an actor or dancer in the entertainment field.
Show Notes:
00:00 If dogs can stretch in public, so should humans!
04:16 Crazy rain in California and eating Chipotle.
05:51 Mag scores BIG at the Rose Bowl Flea Market.
11:06 Unintended repercussions of Dan’s comment response.
12:58 Dan and Shay learn about Chat GPT at Speakers Roundtable.
20:00 Maggie’s stress about upcoming Lasix.
22:48 The cool new sweater that looks like a bathmat.
24:10 Pre-recording a speech.
25:16 Falling asleep during conversations.
27:34 Maggie’s technique for stretching at a stop light.
31:00 Dan’s technique for adjusting your back with a sneeze.
32:00 Shay watching “Emily in Paris” to deal with Europe withdrawal.
33:39 Writing in the style of Play Dough.
35:27 Obligatory pickleball shoutout.
Show Notes:
00:00 Drum circle jam sessions.
03:16 Eddie’s last podcast before leaving Georgia.
03:31 Maggie’s puzzling new year activities.
10:55 Raised in a musical house.
18:59 Surf n’ turf New Year’s Eve and epic fail countdown.
20:58 Maggie ducks the countdown.
22:09 No hangover is the best.
24:44 Dan’s classical reading plan.
27:25 Reading commitment without goals.
29:51 Finding a bag of fingers.
32:41 Movies over 3 hours and still epic.
Show Notes:
00:00 Maggie’s accent medley.
02:28 The Amazing Race consideration.
05:35 Shay accidentally reveals Eddie’s Christmas present.
09:13 Meeting new people.
12:50 How we’ve changed since 2022.
14:00 The “Great Conversation” and great books.
19:00 Bad acting in a book?
28:00 Reading books of potential future movies – casting actors as you read.
29:30 5 Sphere Intentions for 2023 (from Off Balance On Purpose book)
31:40 Listener question from Jasmine: Tips and advice on traveling alone?
40:50 “Knives Out” rewind.
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Show Notes:
00:00 Jetlagged and ears still blocked.
01:05 Maggie’s mental checklist to get home.
03:15 Running for flight to Italy.
06:55 Luggage didn’t run fast enough!
11:30 Maggie’s half sleep dream.
13:00 When in Rome, walk!
13:35 Eddie’s first visit to Rome since Assassin’s Creed.
16:08 We prefer beautiful gardens to violent Coliseum.
19:40 Trying to speak Italian.
25:17 Dan’s stoned, pot smoking, taxi driver.
26:10 Eating gluten free in Italy.
29:32 Time out from family time.
31:22 Making Dan’s weekly video in Italy.
33:40 Florence stair mastering and hidden passages.
34:50 Naked and violent art for your enjoyment.
39:55 The incredible talents of Michelangelo.
44:40 The Pope’s commissions and body on display.
50:35 Maggie’s drinking experience in Italy.
Show Notes:
00:00 Mom doesn’t recognize Mags!
01:40 Hold up at the bank.
03:31 All metronomes have been claimed.
06:16 Our dog locked himself in the car.
07:42 Baby Eddie saves the day!
13:40 LA premiere of Something from Tiffany’s
16:27 Special DJ at Spotify 2022 Wrapped Party.
18:49 Dan’s attempt to get picked for jury duty.
21:57 Dan now “earthing!” Beneficial? Weird? Or possibly both?
23:35 Joy Jump Day!
25:47 Maggie flashback: sleep-earthing in the grass!
26:12 Maggie’s mad pain tolerance and lack of tickle receptors.
29:55 Dan and Shay’s holiday party.
31:22 Do animals giggle?
33:43 Maggie’s Lasik plan.
35:53 Dan and Shay watching “The Chosen.”
39:20 Doing more of what’s right, instead of just calling out what’s “bad.”
42:12 Taking care of the planet.
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Show Notes:
00:00 Glasses and minty fresh eyes drops.
02:30 Maggie’s trip to GA was sick - literally.
07:10 Maggie’s desire for a slide phone and reduce distractions.
09:45 Dan’s problem with ear pods – uh, air pods.
12:20 Mags’ beef with brands that don’t do Black Friday discounts.
15:15 Dan cuts his ear shaving.
16:11 Pronouncing N-I-C-H-E.
18:34 Niche pronunciation results.
19:26 Trivia gone wrong!
24:07 Listener question from Sheldon: What do you think of the term “passersby?” And other odd terms.
26:11 Maggie recording voiceover audition in mom’s closet.
30:47 The varied styles of Nertz playing in our family! (i.e: Shay narrates her moves.)
33:50 Listener question from Matt about how to find people that share your gaming interests.
36:46 Maggie’s random thoughts: Billie Bobby Brown
40:34 Maggie’s random thought 2: The time she played a song she wrote but told us it was Taylor Swift’s.
42:42 Maggie’s attempt at whistling when she was a little and Dan’s misunderstanding of bravado.
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Show Notes:
00:00 Mags is in Atlanta!
03:51 Maggie’s “big announcement” comes into focus.
07:50 The time Maggie used crutches for fun.
09:10 Studio art by Dan’s sister, Sandy, and Mom!
12:42 Maggie, sick but “No COVID!”
13:52 Dan and Shay in Los Cabos, Mexico.
20:46 Does Maggie want to be famous?
27:06 It’s important to have a relationship … with a metronome. Anybody want one?
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30:25 Maggie at the dentist – “Do you have a lip tattoo?”
33:34 Listener question from Momo: Do you have a joke/threat that you use with family and friends when they annoy you?
36:03 Listener question from Brittany: “Should I leave my 9 to 5 job to become an adventure guide, or will that ‘destroy’ my future?”
41:10 Tag: Maggie’s new crushes!
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Show Notes:
00:00 Is this a sign?
01:35 When happy thoughts make you sad.
03:15 Fashion dog.
04:00 Dan’s sleep deprivation on display!
08:10 Just a “little workout” with Dan’s Arizona cousin, Brannon.
11:00 “Doctor Dan” gives Maggie advice on recovering from leg injury.
12:50 Maggie’s love/hate relationship with roller coasters.
15:53 New house, same Thurmon Thanksgiving.
17:31 Our deer neighbors.
18:13 So much to be thankful for!
21:33 Be careful what you say, God will hear you…
23:12 New Doughbriks Pizza restaurant sells out on day one!
28:28 Listener question from Sowri about dating.
33:23 Clarifying “hooking up”
34:34 Clever pre-date flowers and post-date flowers.
38:14 Thanksgiving trivia.
Show Notes: 00:00 Simon’s fortune cookie.
00:20 Daylight savings time pros and cons.
07:38 Maggie gets stank eye from a baby.
11:24 Dan and Shay’s early parenting practice.
13:56 Listener question from Naomi about the lack of marriage role models.
19:52 Maggie’s thoughts on marriage based on her vast experience. ;)
23:41 Seeing “Ticket to Paradise” in theatre was so fun.
26:30 Shay’s bestie, Toni, talking to the movie screen the entire time!
27:20 Dan does a speech in Houston during game 6 of the world series…
29:10 Dan’s post speech “bleeder.”
30:35 Listener question from Chandler to Maggie: Tips for gaining traction on TikTok?
36:03 Listener question from Chandler about being stuck in the middle of family
feuds.
40:53 Maggie segues to wrap up and gets stuck.
42:29 Shay's snake, Houdini.
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Show Notes:
00:00 Listener warning – truthful conversations to follow about experiences with death and suicide beginning at 36:05 minutes into the podcast.
00:37 Halloween is exhausting, and Maggie’s glad it’s over!
03:06 Shay gets a semi-finalist award for her short film “Heir Mail.”
04:30 Giving out Halloween tricks and treats in the new neighborhood.
10:19 Mags and Jenna go to “Harryween” (and lose the car).
21:41 Listener question from Bastian - Parenting advice you were glad you didn’t take?
29:08 Listener question from Annalisa – How do you handle toxic friends?
37:17 Trigger Warning: Heavy listener questions (from Audrey and Maggie) about losing friends and loved ones.
52:15: Giving the dogs a chill pill.
Show Notes:
00:00 Mags brushing up on her HS Spanish – no requerdo.
01:39 Maggie’s innocent choreography to Chicago soundtrack.
08:17 Crocheting beats Halloween parties.
11:50 Social tips and trade-offs. Should I stay, or should I go?
13:08 Introvert vs. Extrovert
13:56 Wedding and funeral, same day.
19:13 “Giant children” at the world’s largest bounce-y house.
21:07 Dan’s goal to perfect new trick – Goals, Desires and Intentions.
23:15 Social experiment – switching speaker mid-conversation.
25:58 Mags’ take on social capacity.
29:33 A sign in the clouds.
33:54 Tag: a note from little Mags to Mom.
Show Notes:
00:00 Late night weather welcome.
02:00 Trivia Night, and Shay’s scorekeeper flashback.
02:45 Letterman Jackets for everyone!
03:38 Maggie definitely didn’t letter in band.
04:18 Dad’s whirlwind trip to Los Angeles!
07:35 From the airport straight to Pickleball.
10:43 Google “nature near me.”
13:10 What happens at Whole Foods...
17:16 Dan finally meets Blythe!
18:31 The Montage Laguna Beach hotel was sooo nice!
22:40 Shay’s emergency surgery.
24:58 Do you know hospital etiquette?
27:00 LA Halloween decorations, and the return of The Porch Knight!
30:00 Mags and Jenna’s Halloween costumes arrive!
Show Notes:
00:00 Maggie’s wisdom teeth coming in sideways!
01:15 DJ Dan
02:25 Radio Mags
03:45 Shay’s “almost” DJ gig
05:17 Say “yes” to opportunities… unless you don’t want to.
06:25 The line between opportunities and obligations.
09:42 Dan’s take on exploring opportunities.
11:46 Dog Park Picnic.
15:15 Maggie and Blythe get big ego boost at screening of “Catherine Called Birdy.”
20:54 Is Mags getting kicked out of the screening?
25:00 What is the point of doing anything?
31:36 Dan gets kicked off a golf course.
35:40 False Positives
37:15 Dan’s Six Flags Halloween gig.... best forgotten.
41:34 Milly Alcock's thoughts on Fame, success and talent.
Show Notes:
00:00 Maggie’s diving videos from TikTok update.
03:27 Will Dan do tricks and treats for Halloween in new neighborhood?
06:50 When will Dan stop tumbling?
12:28 Mags’ friend’s dad and her dad going to the same conference!
14:00 A tip shay heard about leaking coffee cups. “The drinky part away from seam.”
15:20 Book day. Delivery of 6,000 books
17:30 TikTok tip for glitching captions.
18:59 Pool temps and making “push in the pool” videos this fall and winter.
21:30 Buckee’s “the world’s largest convenience store” experience.
25:30 Maggie’s plan to vlog again…
29:00 Dan and Shay on stage during “Everybody” at the Alliance Theatre.
34:40 Maggie’s friends Wholesome partying Pickleball Potluck.
36:45 Dan’s dog park potluck plan!
37:30 Caring about others. Go make someone smile.
41:10 How we deal with conflict in or marriage.
44:35 Mags surprise “whoop whoop” DM
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Show Notes:
00:00 Dan drops and does push-up for zoning out.
03:30 One of the best nights of Maggie’s life!
06:27 Mr. 305/Pitbull and Maggie’s search for bald caps.
18:38 Listener suggestion from Laura: Expanding to include a worldwide community.
19:15 Shay’s experience as a teenager living in Europe.
21:18 The unhealthy emotional roller coaster of social scrolling.
26:00 Listener question: Michael asks about finances.
26:55 Maggie’s experience with money.
28:20 Maggie’s car repairs – Either $3000 or $80.
29:30 Taking coffee to the coffee shop.
30:15 Fraud charges on Maggie's credit card.
33:35 Maggie’s new table that holds the broken printer.
35:00 Should we go to Anaheim every week?
38:49 Listener question from Sacnithe about dealing with chronic anxiety.
46:00 Listener comments: Sammy on humility vs. being cocky; and Craig said he’s “learning to love and know himself.”
49:29 Will Dan get a disc golf coach?
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Show Notes:
00:00 Dog park friendships for Dan and Spencer. (02:49 dog park pics)
03:35 Shay’s still alive, and that’s okay.
04:06 Maggie at the mechanic: continuing car saga.
08:45 Dan and Shay visit Eddie and Morgan during “Smoke Season.”
11:50 Entitlement or Impatience?
17:05 Our phone addictions and intentions to change it.
22:14 “Fundamental attribution error” “The curse of knowledge” and “Decline-ism”
36:43 Listener question from Michael: Do you think there’s only one love in life or do you believe it’s important to try out different relationships?
39:50 What you find when your friend Googles you!
43:00 Our friend Andy and “adopting families.”
45:35 Getting nervous before a big moment.
48:00 Is Maggie going on a couples’ trip?
Show Notes:
0:00 Flea Market cover charges.
02:25 The Porch Knight Gets Banished.
07:40 Neighborly Shay and her pumpkin patch.
12:07 Maggie’s “something’s wrong” story surprise.
16:55 Listener question: Michael’s question to Dan: How do I “appear more grown-up” to be taken seriously?
20:30 Mags: If you’re doing a good job, it’s not on you.
24:45 Michael’s question for Mags – How to get in the habit of reading the Bible every day?
30:45 Mags: “If I just keep reading words, I’ll eventually finish chapters, and the book!
31:45 Speaker Tim Richardson talks about “the power of the pause.”
33:10 Maggie’s AP study guide was impressive – the exam results not so much.
36:05 Eddie’s book annotation that was publication worthy.
37:46 Mags blindsided by the Queen’s passing.
41:09 Shay was in England after Princess Diana died.
43:20 The “Royal side of TikTok” and Diana’s “revenge dress.”
46:22 Tradition vs. the Next Generation cycle.
48:23 Dan’s trip to Egypt with John Goddard and Mike Vondruska.
51:04 Losing your childhood one text at a time.
TAG: The Porch Night rides again?
Show Notes:
00:00 Mags changing hair color.
02:15 Dan’s habit of tossing family into the air.
03:49 Forgetting how to podcast.
06:00 The hiatus and Family Zoom calls.
09:30 Maggie’s blonde vs brunette theories.
15:40 Buying, selling and moving, oh my!
16:29 Maggie’s movie?
17:20 Writing a book takes longer than you’d think.
19:24 Maggie’s thoughts on writing a book.
21:55 Listener question from Teresa: What happened to Maggie going to LA for “a couple of months?”
25:27 What are you doing with your free time? Is it making you happy?
26:50 Discernment and 2nd chance relationships.
32:07 Shay’s road trip from Boston, and the downside of using crime podcasts to stay awake.
35:34 Dan gets recognized … on a jet ski.
Show Notes:
00:00 Episode 52 and announcement about the podcast 01:00 Have you seen the spoons? (Or, “The mystery of the silver where?”) 08:19 Maggie’s crazy “Volcano Town” dream. Can you control dreams?
11:18 How the podcast has affected family dynamics. 15:48 Preview of musical Trading Places at the Alliance Theatre directed by Kenny Leon, Book by Thomas Lennon and Music and Lyrics by Alan Zachary & Michael Weiner (Note : “Ever After” was previewed at the Alliance Theatre in 2013 with Sierra Boggess as Danielle) 19:31 Matt’s great. Spontaneity and communication make things happen! 21:47 Maggie’s date in Atlanta and everyone’s relationship challenges. 27:4 Conversations with adult kids vs. when they were younger. 32:10 Listener question from Lindsey: “When siblings move away, how do you fill the void?” 38:16 Exchange of gratitudes for making the Wholesome Chaos Podcast happen.
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Show Notes: 01:19 You’re louder than you think! 03:43 Maggie’s birthday week. Reflecting on what to leave in the teen years and what she wants to become in her 20’s. 05:10 Jury Duty possibilities. 06:06 Eddie flew home to surprise Maggie for her birthday and visit our NC cabin one more time. 08:31 Home hits differently when you’re an adult. 13:40 Mags family birthday and Mitch. 15:11 The story of Motivation Point. 18:36 The Factory 21:58 Maggie’s project: The doors of your life. 25:20 Maggie discovers she a reader. 28:38 Audiobooks and neurodiversity. 40:12 Taking control of your sleep dreams. 42:04 Being comfortable recording content in public. 48:40 Temperatures rising! 49:26 Listener question from Justine about moving away from family and friends. 55:18 Don’t fall into negative self-talk. 60:00 Dan going to Camp Big Heart after the podcast – one of his favorite things to do. 1:02:15 Multiple choice question: Which animal fingerprints mostly closely match humans?
Show Notes: 00:00 Podcasting before dashing to the airport! 02:15 Dan’s trip to LA: Groundlings show, moving Maggie into new apartment and pickleball. 08:34 What do you wear for Jury Duty? 09:36 Is it okay to crochet on a plane? 11:28 Stand-up night at Maggie’s new apt. 12:42 Maggie’s last podcast as a teenager. 14:03 Listener question from Tia about techniques to diffuse stress. 19:30 Mags and Dad pillow shopping in Home Goods. (tiktok video at 20:50) 22:13 Listener question from Arvind about their relationship on camera verses off camera. 30:48 Happy National Wind Day – June 15th
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Show Notes: 02:33 Mags starts a book club. 06:45 Mags’ first podcast from her now apt. 11:54 Dan reaches the 7 gallon mark! Donating blood in dorm room? 18:30 Watching “Back to the Future” on the back of Paramount Studios. 19:10 Movie at the cemetery. 24:20 Is there a booger in my video? 25:30 Dan looses a tooth on stage and the speech goes on! 35:19 What we know about “Knocker Uppers.” 40:10 Cars, pillows and Shay zones out. 42:10 Delivery men may not be Professional Mattress Testers.
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Show Notes:
00:00 Waking up in a panic!
02:56 Mags’ new bed frame attacks her. (How many times do we call it a headboard?!)
05:12 On set for a music video – friends with “backstories" and a “mystery artist” to be named later.
05:57 The Ikea experience!
07:18 3 actors and a chef assemble a bed frame – and Maggie gets yelled at a lot.
12:25 Maggie gets Jury Duty for her birthday?
18:57 Maggie’s alternate career choices, and first kiss on stage!
24:00 Groundlings show with Mindy Sterling directing!!
25:38 Shooting a video in Boston at 5:20 am!
27:43 Listener question from Arhi: "Can you teach me to crochet?"
30:14 Listener question from Tanner: "Should I move to British Columbia away from my family?"
Show Notes: 00:00 Maggie’s moving! 04:20 Dan and the dogs out of sorts with Shay gone. 05:18 Disc golf baskets growing in the backyard. 06:12 Maggie’s trust issues with learning to throw a frisbee. 08:06 The rising reputation of the “the pickle ball group.” 12:00 Dan’s weekly video turns soggy! 15:14 Have you ever had a moment where you suddenly had no idea what was going on? 16:23 Mags’ “stand up” birthday party. 19:03 THESCON bus tradition. 23:55 Listener question from Alissa – “How do you smile and keep a positive attitude during a hard season?” 30:14 Maggie’s crochet swimsuit. 31:40 Dan’s TikTok violation – and potential suspension! 37:11 Groundlings improv in LA. 42:59 Amazing Air Show at Angel Flight fundraiser.
Show Notes: 02:30 Mags’ directing debut in her Target Ball TikTok . 05:07 Dan getting up early and being weird. 06:30 Segueing. 10:01 Unicycling is a productive way to exercise. 11:34 Mags’ game of singles – the sport, not relationships. 13:21 Hobnobbing and elbow tapping in We-Ho and No-Ho. 18:17 Listener question from Zane: Do you have any suggestions on how to meet people in LA? 22:23 Dan and Shay talk with Thomas Lennon, the Book writer of the new “Trading Places the Musical” 26:04 Dogs are needy and Adventures in dumping 29:20 Listener question from Michael: “Do you feel like your work doesn’t represent your faith and values?” 33:00 Dog park confrontation. 35:10 Speaking of sobriety… Mags saw John Mulaney from the third row! (3rd row from the back of the Hollywood Bowl). Clarification: Dave Chappelle INTRODUCED the phone locking pouches at his shows that were made by Yoder. He didn’t actually invent them. 40:55 Should we have guests on the podcast? Who do you think?
00:01 Dan saves the day! Or at least the earrings. 02:30 Mags steals a mug and might have to change her name to “Lindsay.” 07:32 Mags attends LA Kings party – food, skating, and surprise friends! 10:16 When Mags passed out at the ice skating rink. 14:07 The great mystery of why handwriting changes. 22:07 Mags’ crochet skills and secret project revealed! 28:17 Dad speaks at the incredible “Day of Excellence” in Rapid City, SD. 30:33 Listening to Backstage about the new Nick Cage movie. 42:06 Listener question from Natalie: "What are your thoughts on taking a gap year after high school before college?"
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Show Notes: 02:10 Dan just back from Canada (answer to #9 in Mags’
“Part 54 push in the pool” TikTok) 06:51 On the program with Canadian celeb Jessi Cruickshank. 08:04 The flight back was “messy.” 11:26 The maxi pad hack. 15:10 Mags watches the original “Psycho.” 18:08 Mindset is key to a happy, successful life. 19:08 Mags’ “reframing.” 25:35 Mags auditioning with dad… 27:19 New Nicholas Cage movie a/k/a “Nick Cage Movie” 29:40 Listener comment from Declan 30:42 Listener question from Emily about the deceptive
“If I get/do this, then I’ll be happy.” 32:56 Book recommendation “Stumbling on Happiness” by Daniel Gilbert. 35:28 Joy and happiness tied to identity. 40:55 The LA heat!!!! 43:04 Hitting poles and new car needs. 47:06 Dan’s audition prep.
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Show Notes: 00:21 Mags and Dan attempt to read a text with the “proper tone.” 01:45 Mags considers doing stand-up. 04:11 Mags’ plan to NOT be a professional speaker. 10:44 The difficulty of Influencers branching into other media. 13:14 Willingness, Ability and moving through processes. 13:36 Mags and Dan’s different perspectives on hobbies and improvement. 18:10 Caraoke - Mags and Annie singing in a Starbucks parking lot. 19:35 Mags’ cracked windshield. 21:30 Dan’s story (inside another story) of installing a bridge in a park. 22:46 Dan’s broken windshield(s). 25:00 We love Canada! 25:53 Dan and Mags’ visit to the Canadian National Tower nearly made him late for a speech. 29:20 Mags asks Dad if he has any regrets. 34:45 Is everything embarrassing? 38:24 Dan’s cryptic messaging and secret plan to play frisbee golf with friends and dogs. 41:30 Mags’ friend Mr. Clothes Chair.
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Show Notes: 00:00 Maggie logs on for the podcast “from LA” but walks in the studio in GA! 03:33 Plane safety rules seem random. 05:10 Dan still confused about Maggie’s arrival. 09:25 Red eye’s are rough! (You know you’re tired when you want to just sleep in the yard!) 14:27 Prepping for “push in the pool” TikToks 14:59 Dan’s mastermind group and mentors in his life. 16:43 The amazing Anne Hathaway. 22:32 Surrounding yourself with an encouraging community. 23:46 Eddie Coker and the unfortunate warm up word. 25:53 Dan slams his pants in the trunk, and you’ll never believe what happens next! 29:32 Listener update from Pirada. Thank you and all the best to you and your mom. 31:53 Mags pickleball addiction. 34:38 Shay and Dan were going to NC before Maggie’s surprise arrival. 39:11 The secret behind our website photo. 40:29 Listener question from Craig: Advice on how to find yourself in the chaos and/or tips on traveling alone? 41:05 Caution: Changing your personality may lead to losing your identity. 43:17 Dan’s working with publisher – things you might not realize. 45:08 Dan’s imaginary footstool. And Maggie’s sleep deprivation is kicking into high gear! 46:30 Maggie being honest… Georgia in bloom is almost psychedelic. 47:49 Shay and a neighbor help a little girl find her home. 49:30 Mags making up songs and words. Get this girl some Zzzzz’s.
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Show Notes: 02:40 When are you no longer “aspiring?” 08:06 About Mags and her Dad. 09:55 Who moved my glovebox button? 11:35 Partying with our Persian friends and Dan’s non-traditional dancing. 15:27 Mags, inspired by Is it Cake, attempts to bake an object. 19:16 Mags and Dad on getting along and fixing it when they don’t. 21:50 Dan’s “death countdown.” 23:44 More fun talk about mortality. 30:19 Maggie thinks she wants to get married. 30:50 When Dan met Shay’s dad. 31:50 Dan and Shay considering moving. 34:30 Listener question from Kyra – “How do you make a decision when both options are risky?” 37:19 Dan’s client who lives full-time in an Airstream with his family. Could you? 42:35 Listener comment from Heidi. Thank you for listening and writing to us, Heidi! 44:16 Maggie’s keeping a secret from us! Big news to come!
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Show Notes: 02:55 Have you ever been in a Frat or eaten farts? 04:00 Mags’ Sorority was a Fraternity. 08:24 Stop telling other people’s story. Good gossip and Lashon hara. 12:45 Dan was reading Will Smith’s book before “the incident.” 17:15 Shay leaving Dan… 21:16 Listener comment from Teresa – Thanks Eddie, for talking about repairing broken relationships. 22:15 The “content making” slump. 23:55 Mags falls for pickle ball. 28:35 Regular honeymoons with Tom Cruise (29:57) 32:42 Dan doesn’t dislike Mitch – I swear! 35:24 Listener question from Emily: What is the best piece of advice you’ve ever been given? Mags (35:38) Shay (37:06) Dan (38:50) 42:10 How long do you think filming an episode of “New Girl” actually takes?
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Show Notes: 01:20 Tak’s packing system: Remember or forget it! 02:28 Maggie’s phone on the fritz. Will she lose all her content? 08:07 Eddie’s PS5 mysteriously disappears at FEDEX. 10:00 Eddie gets parents into VR gaming. 14:55 Mag in the mosh pit of Aidan Bissett and Claire Rosinkranz concert. 17:13 Mags does beach clean-up at Santa Monica. 18:20 Dan relocates trash to a different pile. 23:21 Mags and friends become accidental “extras” in tennis video shoot. 25:05 Eddie and Dad bond during father/son crowd-surfing. 28:35 Eddie’s least favorite podcast edit. 30:30 Maggie performs Harry Potter impersonations to the wrong audience. 31:50 Listener Aim learning English from watching the podcast. 34:15 Dan recalls bringing 4-year-old Eddie on work trip. 36:20 Eddie’s first business in 5th grade: “Eddie’s Fantastic Feathers” 43:17 Question from TikTok: “How do you ask for a raise or whatever else you want?” 49:45 Reading Mary Shelley’s “Frankenstein.” 53:50 Shout out to Jess and Katelyn who recognized Dan in Orlando. 57:01 Shay (almost) wears a doll dress on a date.
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Show Notes: 00:00 Mags’ backstory on her back crashing TikTok. 04:11 The one and only DT, not SC or TC 05:35 Sleeping in cars is an act of trust. Shay trusts no one! 12:20 Sailing with seals in SanDiego. 15:25 Mom and Dad on piloting planes – very different experiences. 19:00 Eddie’s leaving us for CA after the next podcast. 20:12 Dan challenged to splits contest by 8 year-old gymnast. It didn’t go well. 23:25 Listener question from Benji: How have you recovered and reconciled from the worst mistakes of your life? 31:15 Dan on Irreversibility – accepting what can’t be undone. 32:22 Mags confesses crush on Eddie’s childhood best friend. 33:05 Mags reading (and writing) “Burn After Writing.” 36:12 Dan recommends favorite books and powerful quotes.
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Show Notes: 00:00 Weird Al Yankovic 02:50 Family staying in Mags’ studio apt. 06:05 Playdate for parents. 11:15 Family Water Pong. 18:54 Maggie’s loyalty and mom-ishness. 25:10 Dan’s missed communication. 28:07 Dan’s toy box at Heath and Mariah’s. 30:30 Don’t juggle knives, but here’s how to learn. 32:40 Thurmons at Universal Studios Hollywood! 55:08 Mags guest hosted SIRIUS XM – Hits One Verified.
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Show Notes: 00:00 Why do we flip mattresses? 04:43 Mags’ Blues Clues’ shirt and the return of Steve. 06:14 Dan freaks people out with friendliness. 09:55 Tony Steele, Circus Legend. 16:09 Highest freefall without a parachute. 20:31 Mags and the loud coffee shop. 22:20 The joy of journaling. 24:10 Reading Mags’ journal to a guy. 26:36 Listener question from Emily: “Is there a possibility of seeing Dan’s speech in person?” 27:50 Listener question from Lea – “How do you feel more confident especially when family might judge you?” 31:26 Can you label all 50 states? 34:13 Dan sneaks into a secret tour in the “Presidential Tunnel.” 36:38 Another “tour crash in Philadelphia.” Are we always this clueless? 38:50 Dan breaks into a public park.
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Show Notes: 00:00 “Life is pain, Highness…” Comparing injuries. 02:10 Maggie gets “striped” by Parking Enforcement. 04:18 Almost a good idea – The Malibu sunrise that wasn’t. 05:47 Lack of sleep – racoon face. 08:23 Shay gets a screenwriting award for Heir Mail. 09:25 “Does my finger look strange?” Dan’s most recent performance injury. 11:00 Maggie’s posture corrector and Picasso spine. 12:36 Mags and Josh’s spontaneous TikTok that went viral. 15:00 McBirdie Balls 17:45 Listener update from Steph who took up a hobby during quarantine. 18:40 Mags’ photography journey. 21:24 Enjoying hobbies publicly is hard. 22:45 Maggie’s Olympic dive coach. 26:18 Baby swim classes. 29:00 Windows of time with your kids. 34:30 When dad was president of NSA. 38:44 Maggie’s pitch for being homeschooled using PowerPoint. 45:00 “TikTok pressed a special button for this one.”
Show Notes: 00:00 Dad “diffuses” the smoke alarm. 05:55 TikToks are like scrapbooks of memories. 10:49 Reconciling uncertainty and randomness. 12:00 Mags on adulting – “Now I get it.” 14:55 The dog in the tutu and an edible flower. 17:33 Maggie gets a facetime call during the podcast. Oops! 22:40 Is Eddie’s Grandpa George Washington? 23:10 A fire alarm, a bed of nails, and an armed audience in Iraq. 29:19 Revealing our screen time on the show. 33:00 Humans are programmable!!! 39:00 Listener question from Jazzy: How do you handle fighting with siblings? 49:07 “He’s been mostly dead all day.”
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Show Notes: 00:00 Heat pumps should be called “slightly warmer pumps.” 03:10 Mags gets verified on Instagram and what it means … or doesn’t. 06:22 Mags Rebranding Plan 10:00 Is “Generalistic” a word? 12:57 Weirdest movie ever! Or… Dan’s failure as a projectionist. 17:30 Unnecessary glasses and paperclip retainers. 20:07 Listener question from Eli: Advice on social media posting and podcasting? 25:25 Malibu thrift stores … not your everyday thrifting. 27:20 Listener question from Declan: How do you handle being around people that have no regard for others’ feelings? 33:55 The Envy trap. 34:50 Mags hopes to become more confident in her style, so she wears her friends’ clothes. 38:10 Mags’ redecorating plans. 40:10 Listener question from Anna: How did you choose your college, and were your happy with your choice? 46:00 Parenting when you’re young or older? 48:45 Should Dan change his TikTok name to DanThurmon instead of Maggiesdad123?
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Show Notes: 02:25 Dan’s dogs’ disc golf epiphany. 04:25 Maggie’s alarming alarm usage. 10:50 Mags to Valentine or Gal-entine this year? 15:10 Theatre Kids theory and how NOT to take music lessons. 19:00 “Would you rather” random questions for the family. 24:00 Listener question from Michelle – How do you quiet your mind and unwind? The negative side of social media on the brain. https://now.northropgrumman.com/this-is-your-brain-on-instagram-effects-of-social-media-on-the-brain/
34:50 What are Maggie’s “No” lines? 39:50 Would you rather be stuck in an elevator or on a ski lift? 42:33 Would you rather have your first child at 18 or 40? 42:54 Would you rather be 4’5” or 7’ 7”? 43:30 Listener question from Emma: Who is your favorite character on “New Girl?”
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Show Notes: 0:00 Cold front and falling iguanas. 02:08 Mags’ trip to Joshua Tree – spoiler there’s no tree named Joshua. 06:17 Dan and Eddie’s safari in Oregon. Attack of the crazy Emu! 11:11 Train your brain. 14:11 Maggie’s brain off coffee. 16:50 Listener question from Joseph: “How do you deal with negative feelings?” 20:00 The downside of “Don’t.” 21:41 Eddie on negative self-talk. 23:10 Validating someone’s emotional reaction. 26:25 Would you rather others think you smell bad, or have everything around you smell bad? 28:47 It’s fun to smell different… 29:30 Listener question from Skyler: “Is there merch coming?” 29:57 Maggie’s stickers slogan plan… 35:40 Listener question from Seb: “What should I do on a 3 day drive?”
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Show Notes:
02:43 The cult movie that scarred Maggie.
05:45 You can’t “unsee” what you’ve seen…
11:00 12 year old Eddie saves the day (and Dad’s speech).
14:00 Do you walk or stand on a moving sidewalk?
15:30 Airports can bring out the worst in some people.
20:20 Stand up for yourself. How to be assertive, without being rude.
22:05 The secret power of smiling.
24:53 Mags’ roller skating TikTok and Dan’s public stretching.
30:20 Listener question from Ellie: “What’s your go to snack?”
35:30 Listener question from Ariel: Balancing work, art and family and getting into motivational speaking.
41:35 Maggie eats her new pet plant, Kendra!
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Show Notes: 01:22 Snow-pocalypse 2017: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IBEvck7MsvE 02:45 Mags stress shopping. 05:40 Mags wraps shooting on “The Other Zoey.” 07:31 Returning to LA after a month away. 09:20 Mags experience with dating apps. 12:30 Mags 19 going on 21? 13:00 Casinos and gambling. 15:00 Listener question from Parker: What are some healthy stress coping mechanisms? 19:14 You don’t have to have a following to have Influence! 21:00 Do you have to be good at your hobbies to enjoy them? 22:57 Listener question from Mayla: Did you and your sibling(s) get into fights growing up? 29:12 Listener/follower support of Mags – Thank you! You’re the best! 31:55 “Fake Famous” documentary. 35:52 Listener question from Nati: More Chicago adventures of Dan growing up. 37:37 Dan’s Cubs game disaster story. 40:20 Eddie and Maggie’s adventures in Tamesan and airsoft wars. 44:05 Dan’s magical closet.
Show Notes:
03:30 Mags going back on movie set. (UPDATE cast announced “The Other Zoey.”)
04:15 Dan’s past experience with acting.
10:03 Let’s play a game!
12:00 Dan’s oblivious childhood.
13:53 Embarrassing Dan story - brace yourself!
17:30 Mag’s rockin’ the middle part.
19:53 Better living through cluelessness.
21:21 So much easier to live an honest life and deal with the consequences of truth.
25:19 Letting your kids figure things out.
26:26 Has social medial changed our relationship?
30:28 It takes a village of family to run these businesses.
33:17 Lighting round of Instagram poll.
36:25 HS friendships vs. Adult friendships
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01:42 Crocs aren’t waterproof and going home to old clothes.
03:35 Emotional attachments to objects can be easier than people.
07:45 “Taking back” what was previously associated with broken relationships.
09:40 Breaking the bagel, cream cheese and tomato meal habit. (food groups)
11:39 Vitamin C and berry tea – and a wet table top.
12:55 How you change yourself. Right foot first, or left? Lookout for the holes!
14:19 How Mags makes changes.
15:10 Changing from the Outside In and the Inside Out.
16:39 Dan’s motivational coaching series. To signup FREE text Lifelines to 44222.
18:23 Binge watching!
20:52 Listener question from Akshay: Please share about your musical journeys.
25:33 Dan’s musical journey.
29:00 Listener question from Zoe and Rahman: What are some of your favorite books?
37:40 Listener question from Maggie who has vitiligo: Any tips on how to feel better about her appearance.
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Show Notes:
00:01:32 The family’s Gut Reaction about 2022.
00:03:58 Goals for Shay
00:07:22 Mags’ 2021 Review
00:09:36 Eddie “forward momentum.”
00:14:33 Dan: momentum, trajectory, and congruence.
00:16:43 Mags' last chance for teenage heartbreak.
00:20:04 Eddie’s long-distance relationship with Morgan.
00:23:20 Dependent vs. Independence
00:25:53 "Can I see your insurance policy?"
00:29:00 Eddie talks about Maggie’s success.
00:34:40 Listener question from Sean: How do you fix burnout?
00:40:45 Throwing out the garbage can be fun!
00:41:57 Eddie recognizing the struggle when easy things become hard.
00:43:45 New Year’s memories and weird traditions.
00:46:30 Sparkler disasters!
00:47:53 Listener question from Marty: Thoughts on letting your kids fail.
00:49:56 Everybody’s different – The Clifton Strength’s Finder personality quiz.
00:51:23 Dan and Eddie wired completely different – but find common ground.
00:52:28 Nertz
00:55:39 Eddie shares memories of Dad traveling when he was growing up.
01:00:34 The time a graphic artist drew our family conversation.
01:02:47 Words for 2022.
01:06:03 Mom, can you spare a kidney?
01:10:23 Eddie’s recollection of mom donating her kidney.
01:16:33 Mags’ murder podcast. “Murder isn’t funny.”
Show Notes: 0:00 ‘Twas the podcast before Christmas 04:29 The iCloud storage dilemma.
09:41 Spotify Wrapped 2021 Party with Gwen Stafani.
11:53 Q-tip photo op – it’s so fetch!
13:47 Little Maggie letters to Santa, Mrs. Clause and our Elf on a Shelf.
18:56 A hungry Uber Eats driver.
21:12 Dan crashing buffets while performing.
22:30 Maggie mooches masks.
23:28 Blythe. ;)
24:10 Listener question from Adnane in Morocco: Parenting tips?
24:51 Dan’s response – we don’t have it figured out!
26:47 Mag’s input – don’t discount the kid’s perspective.
27:46 How to communicate with Gen Z kids.
32:40 Mags’ Christmas letter.
34:05 Middle School Maggie writes about her parents.
34:34 Modern Family and Phil’s-osophy.
36:39 Listener question from Jess in New Zealand: Public speaking and wedding vows?
41:56 Celebrity “sightings” at Spotify party?
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Show Notes: 02:09 American Airlines going screenless. True or False? 04:38 Gift giving – What’s better, gifts or experiences? 08:14 The downside of fast fashion and almond milk. 12:40 Mags gets cast in a movie and flies out the next day! 16:55 Physical anxiety, Mags’ tremors and managing stressful moments. 19:20 Risk vs. reward and “putting yourself out there.” 23:04 Mags on “reclaiming childhood confidence.” 25:13 Listener question from Pirada:
“How do you deal with self-sabotaging nerves?” 28:00 Mags answers by channeling Harry Potter. 29:50 Mags’ Christmas poem from first grade. 31:27 Eddie’s Christmas letter to mom and dad, age 11. 33:03 Maggie’s second grade prose “I need a snow day.” 34:32 Listener question from Jack: Concerns about spreading oneself “too thin.” 38:48 Mags’ response to Jack’s question. 42:33 Bonus: song Maggie wrote in first grade.
Show Notes: 01:50 Our Christmas set with custom Santa gourds. 03:30 Mags and Dad on the slack rope. 08:04 What’s better? Getting or giving gifts? 09:13 Dan’s favorite gift – marriage vows in Canada! 10:50 “Mags we get to see Kevin Hart live today in Atlanta.” 15:12 Weird thoughts on bathrobes. 16:42 The summer Dan and his friends “built a boat.” 21:08 Preschool adventures in flying with Kenzey. 21:54 The joys and jolts of parachutes in school. 23:30 Mags runs like she eats – efficiently! 24:55 Push in the pool videos this winter? 25:25 Blythe – fun fact. 26:27 Listener question from Jon: What are some suggestions for combating loneliness? 29:33 Mags message to Jon: surround yourself with single friends and get involved in volunteering. 30:28 Dan’s message to Jon: Pick up a hobby, join a club, 31:55 Comparing yourself to others is self-defeating. 36:11 Listener question from Maddy: Dealing with separation from fiancé who is deployed.
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Show Notes: 01:40 Redeye flights always seem like a good idea... 03:30 Memorable airport pickups. 08:03 Ryan Reynolds cracks Dad up. 08:50 And back to the airport in less than 24 hours – delirious! 10:59 Mags’ question to Dan – what’s up with your thumb? 12:51 Windy in Bismark. 14:40 Listener question from Jake – “Have you seen Hamilton?” 19:47 Theater and our family. 22:20 Listener question from Kendra – “What places would you recommend visiting?” 26:52 Appreciation time! 27:20 Is your shirt on backwards, Dad? 29:47 Listener question from Raphael – “Who do you go to for guidance?” 36:19 Mags pranking her dad! 38:35 Keeping your inner child alive!
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Show notes:
02:30 Nine month family tattoos?
04:39 Maggie and Blithe’s pickle ball stage.
08:35 Dan orders a “robot salad.”
10:07 “Push in the pool” TikToks in the freezing cold?
11:15 Weather is relative – to your location.
12:25 Maggie’s desire to see SNL live taping in New York.
17:40 Arriving early. Maggie’s plan vs. LA culture.
23:45 Empathy.
27:48 Dan loses one of his dads.
33:40 Maggie leaning into veganism.
38:25 Berklee College of Music going virtual again?
41:05 Maggie’s COVID senior year disappointment.
43:59 Coming home for Thanksgiving. What day is that again?
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Show Notes: 00:00 It’s episode 20 already – how have we changed? 05:10 When to have guests on the show? 08:40 Dan’s misadventures with coffee and driving. 13:50 Mags’ self-taped auditions (which may be why her video is missing) 17:40 Trivia for Dad: Two laws and a fake. 23:02 Trivia for Mags: Little known facts. 26:48 Ping pong and the decibel levels of laughter. 28:25 Mags gets to choose a Dan story to hear. 29:10 Dan skeeching (sort of) story. 33:35 Flying “non-rev” during college (was like traveling by Tardis).
Show Notes: 00:20 Drummers in the family. Sort of.
02:55 Thanksgiving short season and we love it.
06:55 The joy of juicing.
10:26 Maggie’s therapy experience.
11:00 Dan just wrapped a live webinar before recording.
12:34 Lizzo crashes a party in LA.
17:02 Listener question from Julia: “You mentioned sobriety in previous podcast. Did you have a drinking problem?”
25:16 Maggie’s (lack of) sleep schedule.
26:10 Maggie photo shoot with a friend.
28:13 Listener questions from Kristen and Tea about not feeling like they know themselves.
29:14 Mags’ response to the listener questions.
30:11 Dan responses to the listener questions.
34:09 Really good quotes.
40:22 Book or lullaby?
Show Notes: 02:24 Mags gives herself a day off – to work.
04:12 Social apps become your personal scrapbook.
09:05 Mags missing Georgia family, friends and puppies!
11:26 The unexpected gift of quarantine.
13:43 Dad’s motivational moment: Being in the moment.
16:00 Listener question Kerri: “Should I go back to college?”
17:53 Dan – To college or not to college?
20:00 Mags – to college or not to college?
25:38 The three levels of work.
32:33 Dan’s segue skills!
34:46 Mags crashes the pumpkin patch with friends.
Show Notes: 2:00 Do Maggie’s parents think about becoming grandparents?
8:40 Listener Question: Chloe – What are your fears for each other? Maggie severe OCD phase as a child.
15:30 Dan feeling overwhelmed but also loving the abundance of opportunities.
18:19 Dan’s new program “Positive Chaos.”
19:50 Mags punks her dad with “The Unbreakable Tire.”
23:58 Listener Question from Christian: Do you have any tips on putting away phones or distractions when you need to get something done?
31:05 IHOP experience in Austin. THANK YOU to our wonderful servers and cooks!!!
33:20 Listener Question from Valentina: Do you recommend any other podcasts like yours?
36:45 Listener Question from Julia: Trying out for basketball team. Any tips for handling the stress?
38:15 Misner vs. Uta Hagen: preparing for acting auditions and then what happens...
40:45 Maggie find out from TikTok she was in David Dobrik’s vlog.
Show Notes:
03:57 Mags’ cryptic TikTok?
08:35 Mags’ two month no romance rule expires – and she finds herself on a date without realizing it.
09:58 Can men and women just be friends?
13:05 Mags’ new friend group – They’re having fun but are all sleep deprived.
14:50 Things NOT to do in LA at night.
17:30 Dan’s teen party fail. It’s not like the movies.
21:23 Listener question from Yasmine about self-love and self-confidence.
29:28 Dan officiates his nephew’s wedding and makes a TikTok during it, of course.
31:15 Listener questions from Jaiden and Kailyn about finding joy in the mundane.
35:00 What we’re grateful for.
36:07 Listener question from Lily – How did you become a motivational speaker? And what's it like having a parent that’s a motivational speaker?
1:53 Mags preparing to be a plant mom. 4:35 Make your space happy! 8:05 Helping others is good for your mental health. 9:25 Listener question: Melanie – How to stay in touch with friends when busy? 10:19 Mags shares her thoughts on Melanie’s question. 11:30 Dan shares his thoughts on Melanie’s question. 12:50 Dan and his best friend and hero, Philip. 14:50 Philip’s childhood initiative set off their lifelong friendship. 16:56 Maggie’s mom shares thoughts on the “friends for a reason, a season and a lifetime.” 19:00 How does making friends happen? Maggie’s unusual initiative is the catalyst for her friendship with Rachel. 25:10 Mending wounds and recovering: Dan shares an incident that nearly cost him his friendship with Philip. 26:18 Dan has a new disc course – including his own score cards! 28:18 Listener question – Anna – how to handle being the last kid at home. 28:57 Mags missing her brother, but realizing her family are her best friends. 37:08 Listener question – Elza – Closing in on a 12 year work commitment, how to stay the course or walk away. 41:55 Mags’ upcoming adventure plans…
Show Notes: 06:20 Maggie’s Halloween TikTok last year for her dad.
07:50 Mags grows INTO awkwardness instead of out of it.
09:12 Dan’s unusual childhood costume.
10:37 Mags’ costume in High School that got her in trouble.
18:05 Eddie’s themed birthdays.
19:50 Dan Thurmon “Off Balance On Purpose” book discount code.
21:27 An upcoming wedding.
26:00 Listener question from McKenna: How to stay motivated with health challenges.
30:50 Dan’s Motivational Moment “Game Changing Skills.”
35:40 Listener Question from Ellie: Not “have to” but “get to” framing.
37:55 How tall are the Thurmons?
43:00 Listener question from Jake: “Interested in coming to Kilkenny, Ireland?”
Show Notes: 1:50 Mom and Dad occupy Mags’ space. 5:40 Mags parenting her parents. Where’s Maggie’s water glass? 9:35 Dan golfs with Heath and Ryan 15:30 Santa Monica Pier – Muscle beaching it. 18:15 Jordan Matter impromptu photo shoot! 24:00 Everyone’s a TikToker. 28:10 Listener question from Charlotte: How to handle isolation. 31:48 Listener question from Chloe: Opinion on absent parent. 36:06 Never Have I Ever “Gone Into My Best Friend’s Mother’s Closet to try on her clothes.” 38:02 Never Have I Ever “Skipped School Without My Parents’ Permission.”
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Show Notes: 1:40 Mags’ dashboard lights up like a Christmas tree! 8:45 Adventures in cooking – it’s an experiment sometimes inedible. 10:30 Goals and The Blueridge Rock Fest to see Eddie perform. 12:45 Listener Question: Who was your first crush? (They didn’t go well at all.) 13:12 Dan’s answer. 14:52 Mags’ answer. 18:22 Listener Question: How do you stay motivated when you have plenty of time to accomplish a task? 21:17 Listener Question: What’s your favorite part about being an influencer and speaker? 25:06 Listener Question: What do you do when your faith seems to falter? 31:04 Mags’ near dog adoption. 34:07 Listener Question: How do you get through something you don’t enjoy? (Serving mandatory service in Singapore.) 39:44 After the show tag…
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SHOW NOTES: 01:13 Auditioning in-person vs. self-taping 03:15 Maggie’s early acting career as the abused child type 08:30 Money to fuel your life 08:50 Maggie’s early experience with handling income 09:40 Maggie’s Renaissance Faire job 12:38 Dan’s first job as a “newsie” 17:45 Maggie’s first “big” purchase with earned income 19:20 Maggie’s Rodeo Drive shopping experience 21:14 Building wealth and paying for college 23:10 Opportunity Cost (the hidden price you pay) 27:10 Delayed Gratification (why waiting works) 28:55 Helping kids buy the first car. 30:25 Econ class can be hazardous to your brain! 32:30 Law of Supply and Demand 34:45 Save, Give, Invest, repeat!
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Show Notes:
02:34 Dan describes a crazy experience with a large glass of water and serious air turbulence. 03:54 Mags’ awkward return home – not the welcome she expected. 07:45 Maggie back home – the good, the bad, and the annoying. 09:30 Dad “Trust me!” Need he say more? 12:27 Listener Question from Ryan: How to deal with Imposter Syndrome?
16:30 Maggie’s insight: “Good people find good people.” 22:00 Quoting Mark Shulman (drummer for Pink) “LA is a wonderful place for those who want it to be wonderful.” 23:12 Listener Question from Delia: How did Dan and his wife, Shay meet? We’ll let Mags tell it, and add details she never knew! 29:55 Why The Greatest Showman isn’t the greatest movie, according to Dan. 31:31 Mags’ encounter an angry, aggressive driver in LA. 34:45 “Flipping” negative traffic stories, so YOU don’t get angry. 37:40 Visit www.wholesomechaos.com to ask Mags and Dan questions to answer on the podcast. 38:30 Listener Question: How to create a positive father/daughter relationship? 40:28 Mags’ mom Shay makes an appearance and shares her perspectives on parenting.
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Show Notes:
01:40 Cliff diver, Molly Carlson, coaches Mags and Dan’s TikTok Dives. 09:17 Is Dan’s limping since that last dive? 11:05 Maggie’s theory on making friends in LA and why it’s all about timing. 12:45 Maggie’s Aynchronous classes – huh? 16:30 Listener questions from around the world! We read them all and love you all 17:04 Listener question from Mary about kids and responsibility overload. 20:00 Mags shares inspiring story about a young girl that started the “I love you” habit in her family. 25:00 Thoughts about Leaders and when “leadership” sometimes means admitting you were wrong. 27:15 Listener, Bella, asks Mags and Dad to play more games. You got it! 29:30 Dan and Mags play “Never Have I Ever.” Which, incidentally, Dan has never played. You do not want to miss this!!! 38:20 Maggie’s plans to shop with her parents backfires. 40:20 Rapid Fire Listener questions: First from Down Under dealing with heavy lockdown, and second, from Finland on how to manage procrastination.
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Show notes:
00:10 No power but the show must go on.
01:30 I’ve seen fire and I’ve seen rain!
03:00 Back to east coast school, on west coast time.
11:20 Awkward recognition story.
13:00 Kids are smarter than you think.
13:50 Motivational Moment – Spontaneity vs. Planning
16:50 Sleep is important – even if it’s under a table.
18:00 Fostering creativity in your kids' and lives.
19:20 Listener question: “How did Dad’s travel effect young Maggie?”
23:53 Listener question: “Favorite family vacation?”
25:45 Ten-year-old Maggie on Swedish reality TV from Thailand.
28:42 Eight-year-old Maggie unusual German bathroom experience.
35:28 Listener question: “How do you say no?”
38:50 Maggie’s “no boys" rule.
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01:20: East vs. West cultural observations.
04:10: Legendary dance class in LA!
05:20 Maggie’s de-stressing self-talk.
08:15 People are people wherever you are.
08:50 Maggie’s besties visit!
12:20 Does Dan tape his mouth shut?
14:25 Dan’s TikTok with Steve Spangler gets taken down.
19:30 Listener Question: Back to school, peer pressure, and empathy.
23:38 Advice to our 10 year-old selves.
25:50 Listener Question: Got Merch?
27:12 What Maggie WON’T talk to Dad about.
29:20 How Dad intimidates boys and sets the bar.
34:14 Ripped pants, “bleeders,” and other on-stage mishaps.
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Show Notes:
00:01:00 Dan shares what he’s been doing since Maggie left - Mags shares her concerns!
00:05:00 Dan reading a new book about breathing. It’s a good thing – breathing - and the book!
00:07:22 Mags and Mom’s Road Trip to California.
00:10:45 We don’t fight! Do we?
00:12:45 Mags’ new place – walk-in closet – LIFE GOALS!
00:14:00 Mags and Dad collaborations not going away – but it’s CHAOS!
00:18:05 Listener Question: Family favorite movie or show?
00:21:00 Maggie wins award for best emerging actress
00:22:55 Listener Question – How do you conquer lack of motivation?
00:27:06 Generational discipline – The Scarlet Letter!
00:39:00 Mags’ weird way of watching movies and shows…
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Show Notes:
Maggie’s LA packing (or lack thereof) (0:10) The reality of Mags leaving for LA (1:04) Following in the family’s footsteps??(4:35) Listener question 1 “How to handle moving away” (7:03) When big brother, Eddie, left for college (9:28) Failing publiclly - skateboard/diving/etc.(11:12) Skateboarding on the internet - the love (12:24) Skateboarding on the internet - the hate (14:00) The Tesla Community hates handstands??(15:55) Lister question 2 “How/why Maggie doesn’t have a boyfriend” (18:36) Maggie’s angry letters to Dad(23:33) Maggie’s angry song that mom loved “you suck song” (27:04) The nice letters Maggie wrote (30:13) Listener question 3 “tips on how to deal with anxiety/change up the mood” (31:27) Dad and Maggie both had dreams about David Dobrik??(38:26) “Go make someone smile:)”(39:30)
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Chaos is on the horizon as Maggie discusses her next move.
02:10 New consignment art in the studio from a special artist.
02:56 Maggie the mermaid learns to dive.
07:45 The Big Announcement
09:25 School or no school
12:37 Studio dogs snore - sorry
14:15 What's going to happen to the podcast and TikToks?
18:30 Adulting
21:30 Generational segment "Help me understand..."
28:50 Learning from the wisdom of youth
32:38 Listener question/Workout routine.
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1:24 Home alone. Maggie channels Caesar Milan! 6:22 Vegas trip! Unconventional convention, and running a youth leadership conference. 10:00 Getting recognized and meeting elite Canadian basketball players. 19:15 Dad’s Motivational Moment – the family you’re from and the family you choose. 23:00 How to “Join the Thurmon family.” 24:15 Your five closest friends. 26:52 Maggie’s birthday - Pietro the waiter saves the day! 30:48 Eddie’s band Major Moment and the return of music festivals. 32:45 Listener question – How do you stay motivated? 34:45 Maggie’s first job: painting faces at the Renaissance Faire. Eddie’s band – Major Moment: https://majormomentband.com/
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Mags and Dad talk about several situations that are funny now, but not so much then. Maggie’s platinum blonde phase and unusual Tinkerbell (2:50) Passing out and the MRI says… (10:00) The secret language Dad taught Mags. (21:26) Would you rather be great at one thing, or okay at many? (24:18) The TikTok idea that may never be. (27:00) Dan gets quizzed on Gen Z terms. (38:08) Rescue dog, digital dog and frisbee golf – oh yeah! (36:10)
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The new podcast launches, with the whole family involved!
Mom’s unusual name, and our “famous country band.” (1:45)
The power of encouragement.(6:53)
The story behind the “Push in the Pool videos.” (13:54)
Following through on what you say (and why flaking out is not an option). Road trip to Canada? (18:04)
Family fights and leaving notes. (23:15)
How dad broke his watch. (28:20)
And how the title “Wholesome Chaos” came to be! (34:33)
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Meet Mags and her Dad as they introduce you to their podcast, "Mags and Dad's Wholesome Chaos."