Happy N Single: Recent Episodes
Joseph Anderson
Do you struggle being happy as a single person? For years, that was me, until I learned that it was just the thought that I had to be married in order to be happy, that was keeping me miserable. Now I’ve gone from single and unhappy to happy and single…Join me on an exploration of the adventure of being single, dating, and much more!
Do you have a dream that you have tried to pursue, but you feel like you're banging your head against a wall and not getting anywhere?
I've seen in my life that if I can't have what I currently want, I may sit and pout. Well, yeah, that's about as helpful as watching paint dry!
What I see now is that if I can't currently have one dream, I simply can just pick another and pursue it.
Today's episode talks about the two things that are important factors to achieve anything in life.
Do you struggle to do all or nothing?
Me TOO! You see, I realized that I lost all of my rhythm when I recently took a three-week vacation. I didn't write in my book, focus on my business, or do plenty of other things. When I got back it took me a month to get back in rhythm. However, I realized today that if I had just spent a few minutes each day doing those things, even on vacation, I would have maintained my momentum.
So even if you have 15, 5, or 3 minutes, doing what you need to even while on vacation, could be very beneficial. that I could have. I realized recently, what if I just spent a few minutes each day doing the things that I love to do?
Have you ever noticed and seen for yourself that when you are in the flow there is a certain Rhythm of life?
What if you could live in that flow and rhythm of life all the time?
Each of us has our own rhythm of life, and often, when we read a book or hear a guru talk to us, we try to copy their rhythm of life, which doesn't work for us. What if, instead, you could find your own rhythm of life that makes you the happiest and most productive? Today, I share how I've experimented and how I'm finding my flow and rhythm of life to inspire you to do the same.
What would your life be like if you put in the hours but with a sense of wonder and joy?
To achieve most things, in life, we do need to put in the time. However, most people put in the time in an attitude of drudgery and duty, what if you could live in a sense of wonder and joy, no matter what you were doing?
Do you use your imagination to think of wonderful things or not so wonderful things?
Recently, while at a training in London, I realized that i use my imagination less than 1% of the time to think of amazing, magical and wonderful things. This means I used it 99% of the time to think of unhelpful things. Today, I share something I learned of how we can flip our imagination and use it to think of wonderful things.
Would You Rather Be Listened To or Fixed?
Sometimes, we feel that the best thing to do when someone tells us about their lives is offer our best advice to fix it. But if you pause for a minute and ask yourself, has that ever really worked? You would see that the answer is no. However, if you just sit and listen to a person, you will be astounded by how good they will feel after the conversation, and so will you.
If you want to help someone, don't try to fix them, just listen.
Do you care more about what other people are doing with their lives than they do?
If so, this episode is for you. So many of us spend so much time worrying about what other people are doing with their lives. Whether it's a car that cuts you off or won't let you merge or a child or friend that won't stop their bad habits. I would invite you to stop caring more than they do and you will find more peace in your life.
What if emotional security is just an illusion?
Many people feel that unless they are in a relationship they can't feel secure. Today's podcast episode shares how we can have real security no matter our relationship status.
Do you struggle to break free of what you think is possible?
Me too, when we have become used to a certain level of life for a while, it can seem so challenging to do new things. In today's episode I share how you can break those invisible boundaries of possibility that seem to stop you from progressing and going after what you desire!
Why are little children so happy and how can we too but that happy?
Little children are in the moment, they don't overthink, and they trust that it's okay to want what they want. Listen to this episode to hear more about how you can find more child-like joy!
When it comes to creating the life that you want, Have you ever wondered what's your part to do and what's God's part to do?
Today's episode explores what you can do to create more of what you want in your life.
Do you ever feel that you would be asking for too much if you wanted to be happy and also have a better life?
Today I talk about how we can be pacified into thinking our life is already great enough because we are happy that we don't need to progress anymore. However, I also talk about how progress and growth are really what makes us truly happy. We can still be happy as we constantly set new goals that help us to grow and become the person the Lord intended for us to be.
Are you looking for your life purpose?
Well Stop! It doesn't work that way. We all have it backword. If you just start following those sparks of joy inside of you, you will naturally fall into your life purpose. It will be a journey more amazing than you can ever imagine.
So let's take the pressure off and just start enjoying life!
Today I talk about how often it's just our painful memories that keep us from starting anew, however, we are the ones keeping them burning brightly in our minds by continuing to breathe life into them. If we will just ignore those sad thoughts when they come and move forward toward what we desire, we will find ourselves having the life that we desire!
In December it is easy to get caught up in the noise of Christmas around us. We often use December as an excuse to stop moving toward our goals. Today I talk about how to have the most awesome and fulfilling Christmas ever!
Do you constantly worry about pleasing people?In Taylor Swift’s song, shake it off, she says, “Haters gonna hate.” No matter what type of life you will always be making someone unhappy. So today’s episode is about making sure that you make the right two people happy, you and your Heavenly Father!
Do you ever wish you could unthaw and bring to life that childhood magic and hope you experienced when you were younger, I know I sure do. Today I explore what this looks like to me now.
Yes, being single can feel hard at times. But today we look at the other side. What advantages and blessings come from being single?
When we were little kids, we had all kinds of dreams and things we wanted. Then we got older and experienced heartbreaks and tragedies we forgot about those dreams. So how do we learn to dream again?
Listen to this episode!
Today I interviewed Brigette Heller who hosts the podcast, The Strong And The Capable!
Today's Episode Is An Interview With My Friend Brigette Heller. Brigette Heller is a Motivational Speaker, Emotional Resilience Coach, Internationally Syndicated Speaker and The Next Great American Speaker Semi Finalist. Driven by personal experiences and a strong passion for empowering women, she runs a successful podcast, “The Strong and Capable.” In her personal life, with her husband and best friend, Mike, Brigette has raised a family of three independent children and two loveable dogs. Brigette loves to read every free kindle book she can find, teaches the piano, sings, serves the youth in her church, and occasionally dresses up as a Disney princess.
"Often AUDACITY, not authentic talent, confers fame on an artist. The lack of audacity may cripple many artists far superior to those we publicly acclaim" - Julia Cameron
Do you struggle knowing the RIGHT way to live your life?
ME TOO! For years, I have struggled with this question of the right way to live my life, doubting every decision and every step forward. What if it were okay to just live your life the way you wanted to without overthinking it all.
What if God Was Willing To Give You What You Wanted?
Often time we come through like like the little boy in Oliver twist that asks for a tiny bit more soup that says," Please sir, can I have some more" . What if we were willling to ask GOD for what we really wanted? And what if he were willing to guide us to get it?
Did You spend a lot of time worrying about the right way to go after your dreams?
ME TOO! I spend so much time wrapped in my thinking, so today's episode talks about how we can start getting out of our heads and taking action and receiving immediate internal feedback if we are on the right track.
Do You ever Feel Apathetic, disinterested and not wanting to do anything?
All of us go through highs and lows in our lives, what do you do when you don't feel like doing anything? Today's episode explores what to do when you are feeling apathetic.
Do you believe the world is trying to do you good?
The way we see the world really does make a difference in how we see our world. Understand that GOD is actively trying to bless your life with the best and most awesome things. Take a listen as we explore today!
What do you want to become an expert in?
While most of us want to become skilled at guitar, piano, speaking or owning a business; we spend more time worried about it instead of just moving forward and seeing what happens. Toda we discuss what gets in the way of us spending more time on what we really want to do.
Do you have mistakes from your past that you continually beat yourself up over?
This life is a hands-on experience, and sometimes we are going to make mistakes, however, instead of spending time beating ourselves up, it's helpful to accept what we have done and make peace with it, and then focus immediately on the solution and what we can do about it and then turn to GOD and ask for his incredible help to help us.
"Do You Know What You Want, but aren't moving towards it? Today's episode of the podcast titled explores the common phenomenon of individuals having a sense of what they desire in life, yet struggling to make progress towards those goals. The episode delves into the underlying reasons for this inertia and provides insights into how one can overcome it.
The podcast begins by acknowledging that many people possess a general understanding of their aspirations, whether it's related to their careers, relationships, personal growth, or other areas of life. However, despite this awareness, they often find themselves stagnant, unable to take the necessary steps to bring their desires to fruition.
Do you ever feel that your path keeps being delayed?
We want what we want and want it now. But what happens when we don't get what we want immediateley? What happens when we have been waiting for years and it still hasn't happened? Today we explore about our path being delayed.
Have you ever started something and then stopped?
Today’s episode delves into the all too familiar experience of starting something only to stop midway. We take a look at why it happens and also what we can do to overcome it.
Join us as we navigate the intricacies of our motivations, fears, and self-imposed limitations. Discover practical strategies and empowering insights that will empower you to break free from the cycle of starting and stopping, ultimately paving the way for lasting success and personal fulfillment.
Tune in and embark on a transformative journey of self-discovery, where you'll find the inspiration and guidance needed to stay the course and achieve what you desire
After you have been through a traumatic experience how do you move forward?
Today's episode a much different understanding of trauma and how to move forward after it happens.
What if it didn't actually mean what you think it might, when you are experiencing a panic attack?
Today's episode explores a much different way to look at panic attacks.
A lot of our thinking can get really sticky... today I talk about how our mind plays a factor as well in how we see the world.
Do you have a struggle in life that just won't seem to go away? Listen to this episode...
Every one of us has challenges that seem insurmountable. However, you have already come so much further than you thought you could and if you just keep going you will move those mountains. There's also a really powerful life-changing visualization in her as well.
What do you dream of doing in life, besides getting married?
I get it! Each of us wants to be married to the person of our dreams, but we also have other hobbies and interest and talents we can be creating in the mean time. Often times as we learn new skills and further our talents, we will have new opportunities to meet people maybe even a new romantic interest, and you can also have a really fun time doing it!
Do you want to start enjoying your life more?
Today we explore how as we get engaged in life, we will begin to enjoy it a lot more!
Start taking risks, pursuing passions, and showing up and doing the things that you feel guided and directed to do.
Do you ever wonder how you can get more people to want to talk to you?
Today we explore what you can do to get others to talk to you, and also we share how often people connect with those that have similar interests.
What if discouragement were actually a gift?
What if wasn't telling you anything except to slow down and check in with yourself? All of our feelings have been given to us as gifts, today we explore discouragement.
Today's episode discusses how we are meant to have a full range of emotions. I also share an analogy thats quite powerful about picking up puppies instead of scorpions... listen to the episode to hear more.
Today I discuss, how I see that the world really works or the very nature of this life. Whether it be dating, business or other things, I explore how I see it working.
Do you know what your gut is telling you to do?
So many of us, when we get quiet, really know what to do in our gut, but we are afraid of how it is going to work out and we are worried what others may say, however when we just go forward anyways things work out well!
Do you ever feel stuck, not knowing the perfect path to move forward?
I know I feel this way plenty of times in my life, however now I am learning that if I just go forward and do what I know to do that they way will appear. Today's episode explores how to just go forward and let the way appear.
Are you moving towards what you desire?
Or do you let doubt, fear and thoughts of insecurity get in the way. Often times we think we have to know the perfect path to get there, however, as anyone that's ever taken a cross-country trip knows... we never know the exact path, we just have to move forward towards our destination and good things happen.
Do you feel the need to perfect before going after what you really want in life?
Often times we psyche ourselves out and don't even go after what we want, because we feel we aren't in the right place. When it comes to relationships, we won't ask a person we are interested in because we don't feel good enough for them. Today's podcast explores how to go forward regardless of whether you feel perfectly ready.
Have you ever wondered whether you are on the right or wrong road in life?
And even if you feel like you are on the right road, have you ever wondered, why it's taking so long? Today's episode explores how through your feelings GOD is guiding you. If a feels yucky kind of like walking into a bad neighborhood, it's generally telling you that's not the right road for you, and it doesn't matter how long you have been on a road, you can always choose a new road.
For whatever reason, many people think that I don't have struggles and challenges. Today i pull back the curtain on some of the challenges that I face to help you understand you aren't alone.
What Do You Think It Means When You are Down?
For many, it means that they have done something wrong. Today's podcast explores how many times it means that you are doing the opposite. I also share a few practical strategies that have been helpful for me, when I feel down.
Do you ever feel like you are racing to get everything done?
Sometimes we feel we have so much to do and we are in too much of a hurry to slow down... but especially when we feel like we have way too much to do, we need to slow down and listen to our feelings... they are our compass.
What's stopping you from going confidently in the direction of your dreams?
Today we explore how to ignore the doubt, fear and discouraging thoughts that we have in order to move forward confidently in the direction of our dreams.
Today we explore how to make the next year and season of your life better than the last one!
Believing your life can improve can sometimes seem silly, but it's much better than staying where you are.
Instead of sitting on the sidelines in life, jump in, get engaged and you will love it!
Have you ever got angry only to realize it's a big misunderstanding?
Before you get angry, make sure you truly understand, because you may just be wrong.
Sometimes we worry too much about doing things perfectly, just do the best you can and move forward
We have so many competing voices in the world, how do we know what is good for us and what is not? Today we talk about how your feelings are a compass to guide you in the paths that are good for you and away from the paths that are not good for you!
Today we discuss what it is that we can do to increase our chances of getting a girlfriend.
We spend so much time worrying about the right thing to do, life is meant to be an experiment and a game, so go play and you will learn as you go!
We sometimes can worry so much about what is it the best road for us to take. However, today we discuss about how almost every road could have a pot of gold at the end of it.
We spend so much time worrying about if or when we are going to get married, we think it's just around the corner. The truth is the more you are engaged in living a great life, the more other people will be interested in you...
We spend so much time trying to change the past, or thinking that we should have done things differently. The past is dead and we can't do anything about it except learn from it and moving forward.
In order to get people to notice us, we need to be resourceful and creative...If you feel that people aren't noticing you that you want to connect with, then it's time to drop your handkerchief!
Lily Sais is a former school psychologist, now a full time mental health practitioner. She used to struggle with anxiety, ocd, and panic but is now a human being at peace with living life. She has a love for learning and doing things that lighten her heart and quiet her mind.
Do you ever have strange and frustrating thought come to your mind?
Most of the thinking in our head does not serve us, it seeks to distract us, slow us down and even prevent us from moving forward in the life that we desire! Today we talk about noticing it better and what to do about it?
For years I've thought if I only i had done things differently, my life would be different. However, we generally look at what would have been through rosy colored glasses and where we are now with dark glasses.
When you fall down and experience hardship, frustration and failure as everyone else does in this life, how do you reignite yourself and get excited for life again?
Are you doing the things that you want to each day or are you just getting through life, waiting for it to get better? Today we talk about living the life that you truly desire!
What if you could see anything you wanted to do in your life as possible instead of impossible? As we go through life, we pick up all kinds of thoughts that hold us back and create a dam that blocks possibility. Today we explore how to poke holes in that dam of thought so that possibility can flow abundantly!
The real test in life isn't to see what you do when everything is going well. It's to see what do you do when things aren't going your way, what will you do then?
Today's podcast features special guest Michael Neill.
Michael Neill is an internationally renowned transformative teacher,
author, broadcaster, and speaker, described as having the unique
ability to “blend the sacred with the profane”. The inside-out
understanding at the heart of his work challenges the cultural
mythology that stress, pressure, and other symptoms of
“seriousness” are a necessary part of adaptation and growth in
business or indeed any area of life.
In his role as CEO of Genius Catalyst Inc. since its inception in the
UK in 1990 to its incorporation in the USA in 2007, Michael has
spearheaded its growth from consultancy to a multi-media
organisation delivering services to tens of thousands of loyal
customers each year through live training, online courses, and self-
study programs.
He has also spent more than three decades as a coach, adviser,
friend, mentor, and creative spark plug to founders, CEO’s,
celebrities, royalty, and those who are up to something in the world.
His global client base is wide and diverse, having served clients in
North America, UK, Europe, and the Middle East in the fields of
investment, sales, energy, manufacturing, the entertainment and
media industry, and more. He has been consistently ranked
alongside Jack Canfield, Tony Robbins, and other legends in the
field as one of the top 30 coaching thought leaders in the world,
and continues to run a small private practice working with high
performers in their fields of expertise.
A gifted communicator, Michael has authored six best-selling books
including Creating the Impossible, The Inside-Out Revolution, The
Space Within, and Supercoach. His books have been translated into
more than 25 languages, and his public talks, retreats and seminars
have touched and transformed lives at the United Nations and in
over 60 countries and on six continents around the world. His TEDx
talks, ‘Why Aren’t We Awesomer?’and ‘Can a TEDx Talk Really
Change the World?’ have been viewed by over two million people
around the world and his blog and podcast, Caffeine for the Soul,
has been entertaining and inspiring audiences around the world
for more than 20 years.
Different stages of our lives come with different opportunities. At times we look back on all the things that we haven't done instead of just starting. You have one life, don't worry what every one else is doing, just start living the way you want to today.
We all are so hard on ourselves, we need to start being easier on ourselves. We are all doing the best that we can, today we explore how to be easier on ourselves.
Today I sit and chat with Ofi, he is the lead singer and creator of the band Ofi.
This is a must listen interview. Ofi is an artist, entertainer, speaker and just all around great guy. He is also an advocate for teen mental health.
For many people, it seems nearly impossible that they would be able to experience moment by moment guidance in their lives. Today we explore how to begin to live this guided life.
We all have experiences where we felt guided to do certain things. What if you could experience that guidance on a regular basis? Today we explore how to live a more guided life.
Do you or a loved one struggle with feelings of anxiety? Today, we take another look at anxiety, where does it come from and what we can do about it. What if anxiety was simply a signal to our body to do something different... If you or a loved one struggles with anxiety, you will want to listen to this!
We think about our big goals too much instead of simply allowing ourselves to focus on the next tiny step in front of us. Today we talk about the next tiny step.
In honor of the Goonies 37th anniversary, Now is our time! When you do find that person of your dreams, you will have less time in your life. Now is the time to work on all the things that you would love to do.
Most things in life we have no control over whether it be your friends, family, or children. The more we try to control other people and circumstances the more frustrated we become. today we explore a bit more about this.
So many people spend their entire lives trying to get people to like them, so how do you do it? What are the best ways to get people to like you? Listen and find out!
Each of us has something that we would love to do or start, but often we don't believe that it's remotely possible, today we explore where to start when we know what you want.
For many years of my life, I struggled with knowing the question of what am I meant to do with my life. Looking back, I now see many different sign post that Heavenly Father was using to lead me to where I was meant to be and to where I would be happiest.
Today I have a conversation with my friend Elise Hurst, who is a singer in the trio Jazzona... we discuss being guided to find the right person for each of us. We also discuss how the different wrong roads we have taken, have lead us to the right roads... we are always being guided, we just misread the directions sometimes.
Today I have the privilege of interviewing my friend Gary Kerley.
He went from being a police officer to becoming the #2 Realtor in the entire state of Missouri in just about 4 years. We talk about the challenges that he overcame to do so including all the hours that he put in to reach his goal and more!
Many people become discouraged if they get off their routine even a little a bit, today I discuss the one thing that always trumps our declared routine in achieving our goals.
Each of us experiences low moods, what if it were just okay and we didn't have to do anything to change it?
Have you ever tried to change a habit and struggled, so have I. So today we explore habits and how to change them!
Each of us is racing through life so quickly, it's important to pause and be silent. Today we explore the benefits of silence!
What if it were possible to create the exact person of your dreams? Today we explore how to do this?
Today I share the things that I used to do to cause myself to be miserable, and the insights that I had around those which helped me to make shifts in where I was in my life that have helped me to become very Happy N' Single!
As a single person it can feel like you are waking up and living the same day on repeat. Today we explore why that is and also talk about how to end your groundhog day.
Many of us have been dating for so long, that we don't get near as excited to go on date. Today we explore the three words that make dating fun again.
Sometimes for singles Valentines day isn't their favorite day of the year, today we explore how you can have the best Valentines day as a single.
One of the areas that each of us can improve in preparing to meet the person of our dreams is to get in better physical shape, today we explore how to best do this, and even how to just start with small and tiny steps.
Most of us would rather wait to go forward in our lives and our plans until we have someone else with us. Today we explore how to go forward on our own.
Don't just find someone to find someone, find someone that you couldn't imagine living without!
Everyone of us has dreams, and we also have obstacles to those dreams. Today we explore how to focus more on creating the dreams than spending time focusing on the obstacles.
For years as children we believed that some jolly man in a red suit would come down our chimney and bring us presents, yet we struggle to believe in ourselves. Doubt, insecurity and fear creep up on us. It's time to believe in ourselves again and start living the life that we want.
We spend so much time thinking about the mistakes we made in the past and how it will effect our future. We need to forgive ourselves for our past and trust in Heavenly Father that our future will be amazing. We need to show up and be present in the now.
We live thinking that we will never die, but one day we really will run of tomorrows. Make sure you are living each day, the way that you desire to.
As each of us go through life, we will have dissapointments, grief, and loss. Today we explore how we can deal with each of these.
When life throws an unexpected curveball at you, just remember many unexpected things that happen in your life, turned out pretty good!
Whether It feels like it our not, each of us really are doing the best that we know how given our thinking at the time. Focus on the good that you do each day instead of remembering the bad.
We all have things we wish we would have done, today we talk about how to make Incremental changes in our lives.
As we hustle around doing all the things that we need to as single, we can get so busy that we forget to take care of the most important person to take of --ourselves! If you don't take care of yourself, you will get run down and be forced to take care of yourself.
This week, I had the privilege of interviewing Brooke Hammond about finding happiness and improving relationships through vulnerability.
Paul Green is a stand up comedian based in Los Angeles, California. He has been doing comedy for many years. In this interview we talk about has helped him find happiness and more.
This weeks episode is a must listen. I chat With Case Kenny, he is a podcaster and writer that host a popular podcast called New Mindset Who Dis? This conversation we talk about how to find happiness as a single person, mindfulness, and so much more.
So many of people talk about finding their one life purpose. This helps some people but it also can keep others frozen without doing anything, because they are so focused on doing the right thing. Listen as we explore a different perspective on life
Today, we explore a little about habits, and how instead of just going forward without thinking its important to slow down in whatever we are doing.
Today, I sit and chat with my friend Roseann Higgins, she has been a professional match maker for over 25 years and shares some really cool things
One of the most important things that we can have in life is hope, hope that life really will turn out the way we desire, however Hope goes up and down like a roller coaster.
Some people live in towns where the ratios are 10/1 of their gender to opposite gender, others can't find people they want to date. So what do you do?
People talk about commitment phobia, I don't think of it like that. Check out this podcast for a new view on commitment and fear.
How often do you worry what other people think? How has it helped you? Probably not all. Let's face it as human beings we often care at least a little bit what people think, but today we explore how it helps if we don't.
Often times we hate to wait in life, and so we settle for the thing that we almost want most instead of waiting for the thing we want most. Today we discuss the benefits of waiting for the thing that you want most.
The longer we go through life, the more tempting it is to settle for something that we don't really want. It may be a relationship, a job or something else. Today's episode discusses the benefits of not settling, and holding out for what we really want.
Everyone else is telling us what we need to do to be happy, however the secret is what we have been told since we were children. Just be yourself!
There is no way to please everyone and many of us of us spend so much time worrying about pleasing other people, what if instead we focused on pleasing ourselves first? There is no one way that we can please everyone, so we must please ourselves first and we will enjoy life much more.
How do you start over and try again, when you have failed so many times before?
Each of us has failed many times in our lives, so when we fall flat on our face or decide to make a change or even try something new, how do we do it?
Today I get the privilege to sit down and chat with my dear friend Jim Christian, Jim is a huge Disney fan, and host the podcast That Old Mouse Magic which is focused on sharing Disney memories by those that have lived them. Jim also happens to have had a life full of adventure and is one of the happiest people I know, join us today as we chat about love, loss, being a single parent and finding happiness when life had many unexpected turns.
How many of us thought that would be single for many years? I sure didn't, every year that I continued to be single, I would be more and more in denial. I pretended that I was just passing through Singletown, I pretended that I wasn't a resident just like everyone else. What if instead of living in denial, we accepted the fact that we are single, and we started living as if we were going to be single forever?
Today, I sit down with comedian Steve Soelberg and have a nice exploration of what has helped him find happiness while being single.
One of the things that singles often struggle with the most is not having that special somebody there with them, to love them, to support them, to cry with them and to cheer them on, so what is it that we can do to feel less alone?
Have you felt that your life has gotten a bit boring and tiresome? As we go through life, sometimes it can get a bit stale. Sometimes all the things that haven't worked out for us begin to really stack up. Today we explore, how do you bring that spark of joy and magic back into your life regardless of whatever situation that you find yourself in.
Have you ever worried about something that you can't control? How did it work out for you? If you are like most people, I'm guessing not so well. Today we explore how we can stop worrying about the the things that we can't control.
Have you ever felt that you have way too much to do and not enough time to do it? How is it possible to get all the important things done that truly matter. Today's podcast we explore how to maintain balance as a single person amidst the countless things that you want to and feel like you have to do.
Today we explore how to better hear that inner voice and we explore more what it sounds like. I share my experiences of when I feel in tune with this inner voice and I also share times when I feel caught up in my thinking and find myself out of tune.
Today we explore the age old question of soul mates and if there is just one right person for each person to marry.
Today's podcast is a conversation with my friend Jennifer Stirling, she discusses how she navigated being a single mom, how she found her perfect guy when she wasn't looking and she handled the sadness and frustration that can come from being single
Are you struggling to find people to date, start doing the things that you love to do and you just may find them without even looking!
Today, we explore how you do not have to be perfect, life is messy. We are all going to go through hard times, it's okay to be sad, its okay to be frustrated, its okay to even cry. The more we allow ourselves to be human, the quicker we get back to our old selves again!
This is a special LIVE talk I gave for a group of singles from Canada that are members of my faith.
I share how each of us has our own individual journey. As we walk that journey and listen to the spirit, or inner voice, and then do what we are directed to do, we will be happy!
Today We explore how we can trust that feeling inside each of us, that intuition that helps get on the right dates with the people that we enjoy and helps us avoid the trainwrecks.
Have you found yourself struggling to get over an awesome relationship and allow something new to enter into your life? Today we continue our exploration on "getting over relationships". Come join us as we look at how it's okay to take your time once you have gotten out of a relationship.
Do you find yourself not wanting or even unsure of moving forward in your dating life because of a past relationship. Then this may be a perfect episode for you. As we get out of relationships, whether they be good or bad, part of our feelings often linger with those relationships and leave us wondering if we are "ready" to move forward and look for new potential dating opportunities.
Every one of us will be single at some point in our lives, and what if that were okay? For years of my life I did not feel that I could feel okay because I was single. Today we explore, what if you could honestly find a way to be genuinely happy in your single portion of our journey and what if instead of waiting for your life to begin when you got married, you could just begin today to follow the direction that you are being guided.
Well-meaning people have told us things like you should give everyone a chance, and in the process have made dating feel more of a chore and a task instead of something that we love to do. What if dating was something that we looked forward to almost like we did back when we first started dating and we were so excited to get to go spend time with someone that we really liked. Today we explore how to only date when we want to, instead of feeling like we have to.
Each of us have to start over again in dating, sometimes by choice and sometimes not by our own choice. Today we explore how to get back out there… again. We will explore how to enjoy the game of dating again, but only saying yes to what you want and no to what you don't want. Come join me and see what you see for yourself!
Especially as single people we can find our thinking getting confused often, we want to try and solve all of our problems at once, however, the only we are able to truly see is to just allow our thinking to settle.
So many of us create so many rules and expectations of what has to happen in each of our lives before we allow ourselves to be happy. Today we explore how happiness is our innate nature, it is not something we have to pursue, it is something we already have. Join us today to explore how you too can just let yourself be happier in your life.
Today's episode explores what happens if we let go of our what we thought our life was supposed to be, and just show up to what is currently happening in our life. Also, we explore how we have always been lead or will continue to be lead, if we just let go!
Todays episode explores how our judgements, both of ourselves and other people hold us back and prevent us from getting where we want to be in life. And on the flip side when we let go of constantly saying this isn't fair or this shouldn't happen, we allow ourselves to be happy.
We can't control whether we are single or not, but we can decide how we want to live our life as a single person. Today's podcast explores how to take this time of being single and have fun the best you can instead of waiting til you are married to enjoy life.
Each of us has the one main thing we worry about, for some it may be, why aren't I married, for others it may be money, or something else. We think that if only this problem was taken care of, we would be okay. However, once you solve this challenge, you will have another one rise to the surface. Today we explore how you can do very well in life, even without having to get rid of all your problems today.
Those that don't have children, often long for them and those that have children often long for some time away from their children. Today we explore ways to balance and make the best out of each of these situations so that you can more fully live your life adventure.
Part of us wants to go out and achieve our dreams, and the other parts wants to wait around til we meet the right person. In this episode we explore how to move forward in creating your ideal life, when only part of you wants to...
The crazy year of 2020 has almost come and gone. Today we explore what is it that you truly want in 2021, and what would make it the most awesome year ever? What would you love to do in 2021? What new things would you love to try?
Especially for singles, Christmas at times can be a big reminder of how you are alone. Today, we explore, how can you find that beautiful and magical Christmas feeling?
Today's episode explores the questions, what is wrong with me and why aren't I married yet? The short answer is there is nothing wrong with you, and you will get married when the time is right for you!
Today we explore, what is it that you are really wanting to find in your ideal mate?
I believe that both people should feel like they have won the lottery when it comes to finding a mate, of course you aren't going to get everything you are looking for, but the more you know what you want, the better chance you have of finding it
Today we explore how to make the most of your time as a single person, instead of wasting it all wishing that you were already married.
Each of us has an idea of how we want our life to go and sometimes it doesn't. Today we discuss what do we do when our reality doesn't meet our expectations.
Today's episode is an introduction to three principles that have the ability to change your life, the way they have changed mine.
Join me on an exploration of the adventure of being single, dating, and much more!
Go Live YOUR adventure!
Do you struggle being happy because you are not married or in a committed relationship?
If your answer was yes, I know exactly how you feel. I thought I would get married super young as is very common in my religious culture. The more years that dragged on, the more frustrated that I became. I just felt so behind in my life, and my family friends and even church members would constantly remind me or joke that I wasn't married, and if I didn't hurry and find someone I'd miss out... as if the world were running out of women, and if I didn't step up, I'd miss the last available woman on planet earth.
The more failed opportunities I experienced, the more pressure I felt on me to make sure the next girl was the right one. Then one magical day while talking to my mentor, he helped me see that it wasn't that I wasn't married that was making me unhappy. Nope, it was just the thought that I had to be married in order to be happy that was keeping me unhappy.
This first episode shares more about this and helps you begin to see that you don't have to be married in order to be happy.
Join me on an exploration of the adventure of being single, dating, and much more!
Go Live YOUR adventure!