The Right Ordered Life: Recent Episodes
Stacy Santiago
Ever wish you could stop doing All. The. Things? You know – the soul-crushing weight of a million tasks needed to keep your job and family going? If you’ve ever thought, “There’s not enough time in the day to get everything done. I keep trying but I end up exhausted and grumpy with the people I love. I feel guilty about self-care, get busy, and don’t do it.” – you’re in the right place. Welcome friend!Stacy Santiago, a Board Certified Coach and Licensed Professional Counselor for over 10 years, is giving you the game plan to stop collapsing on the couch and feeling like a disappointment to yourself and your family. Sharing her personal life and experience coaching hundreds of women, Stacy shows you how to get your time and energy back, show up joyful, be at peace, and live a Right Ordered Life of faith, family, and purpose. This ain’t your momma’s self-help podcast. Honest and to the point, Stacy gives you proven tools to trade your overwhelm and exhaustion for a Right Ordered Life you WANT to wake up to each day.
Making tough decisions sucks.
I don’t think anyone enjoys the process of making tough decisions because it can quickly spiral into over-thinking, procrastinating, and seeking what ends up being unhelpful advice.
And the worst part is the fear of making the wrong decision that could negatively impact us, our families, and the people we serve.
But we can’t get through life without coming to forks in the road and making choices. In today’s episode, I’m sharing with you my tough decision: why I decided to pause the podcast and how I built a mindset about it that was positive instead of negative.
Don’t worry, this is not goodbye. If you’re listening right now, I THANK YOU. Please know that I want you to be a loyal listener again soon. My plan is to relaunch the podcast in the spring. Same name, same theme of the Right Ordered Life, and more solutions that help you escape overwhelm, find peace with life’s demands, and have joy in a simplified life. God bless you always my friend!
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Women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be...
If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free call with me. I can’t wait to get to know you and help you escape overwhelm, find peace with life's demands, and have joy in a simplified life. Your time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction.
WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects.
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Have you ever tried to feel better, to fix the things that are quote “wrong” with you only to find that nothing has truly helped?
I get you. That’s why on today’s show, I’m diving deeper into emotional burdens, mistakes we make in dealing with these burdens, and how to finally lift them.
I’m telling you the truth that you’re not getting from overly simplistic self-help books, therapists, and Google so you can decide if you want to heal and have hope that you can calm your emotional storms and be empowered to feel good in a life you want to wake up to.
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:
The top 3 mistakes you make when trying to deal trauma and negative emotion
The 6 conditions for healing and why they work
* What you need to speak up, take risks, and give to yourself because the world won’t give it to you
-> Talk with Stacy
Women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be...
If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free call with me. I can’t wait to get to know you and help you escape overwhelm, find peace with life's demands, and have joy in a simplified life. Your time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction.
WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects.
-> Talk with Stacy
Have you ever felt stuck with no way forward? You know you’re not happy, things aren’t working, but you don’t know how to change it.
One of the best things I can do to help you, my friend, is to give you proof that incredible personal and career change IS possible.
Pop in your ear buds and listen in because today my special guest, Erin Gehring, walks you through how she went from people pleasing and not even looking at herself in the mirror anymore to being authentic, not worrying about what other people think, and pursuing her dream job.
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:
Why Erin had all the things she had ever wanted but still wasn’t happy
What Erin had to FEEL and OVERCOME in order to like herself and make major life and career changes
*The 3 keys to healing and feeling confident without people pleasing
Get Erin's Body Shape and Styling Worksheet here.
You can find Erin at:
Facebook
Instagram
MorethanstyleLLC.com
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Women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be...
If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free call with me. I can’t wait to get to know you and help you escape overwhelm, find peace with life's demands, and have joy in a simplified life. Your time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction.
WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects.
-> Talk with Stacy
Truth bomb! Your brain is programmed to fool you into thinking that when you get what you want, you’ll be permanently satisfied.
If you’re like me, you’re tired of falling into the lie that you’ll be happy when you have or achieve something. On today’s episode, I’m showing you how to crush this lie and arm yourself with the strategy to keep your mind present and satisfied in who you are and what you have right now.
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:
Why your brain believes the lie that when you get something you want, you’ll be satisfied.
The real reasons you can’t stay satisfied…you always default back to THIS.
* 2 Specific strategies to stop thinking “I’ll be happy when" – and it’s not a gratitude journal!
-> Talk with Stacy
Women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be...
If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free call with me. I can’t wait to get to know you and help you escape overwhelm, find peace with life's demands, and have joy in a simplified life. Your time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction.
WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects.
-> Talk with Stacy
What if one simple thing could help you stop striving to feel like you’re enough?
What if you didn’t have to cross all the to-do’s off your list and please other people just so you don’t feel like you’re failing?
Listen in because this one small shift that I’m sharing with you today is a game-changer. It will do a 180 on your measure of enough and lighten your burden of achieving to feel worthy. That’s coming up…
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:
The terrible mistake I made when I used the wrong measure of worth
The two sentences that will completely change your need to do and accomplish more
* How God sees the seeds of love you sow and the unseen but magnificent effect they have in His Kingdom
-> Talk with Stacy
Women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be...
If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free call with me. I can’t wait to get to know you and help you escape overwhelm, find peace with life's demands, and have joy in a simplified life. Your time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction.
WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects.
-> Talk with Stacy
Knowing what you’re good at and how to use your strengths is confusing. Most of the time we ignore our strengths because we don’t know their value or maybe it feels too prideful to focus on them.
We need to burst this bubble because not knowing or downplaying your strengths hurts your confidence, fulfillment, your God-given purpose, and even your children.
Stay tuned because I’m going to show you why knowing your strengths is super important and three specific activities you can do today that will not only uncover your specific strengths but help you believe in them.
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:
4 Must-know reasons why finding your strengths and believing in them is super important.
How to use the most effective strategies to uncover your strengths and avoid 4 big mistakes.
* 3 Specific activities including the Genius Zone that will help you clearly know your strengths!
-> Talk with Stacy
Women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be...
If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free call with me. I can’t wait to get to know you and help you escape overwhelm, find peace with life's demands, and have joy in a simplified life. Your time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction.
WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects.
-> Talk with Stacy
Feeling overwhelmed is something you either detest or have come to tolerate as your normal daily life.
I spent many years shackled to overwhelm like a ball and chain. I wanted to escape it but didn’t know how or why I was stuck chained to it. Now that I’m in a place of peace and right order, overwhelm is like an old scruffy friend that pops up and actually helps me. Sounds weird right?
Tune in so you can flip overwhelm upside down and have the power to view it not as the enemy you detest, but the helper you’re grateful for. That’s coming up…
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:
The 2 game-changing ways overwhelm is a GOOD thing.
How to leverage overwhelm as a signal that something isn’t right.
* The key questions you need to ask yourself so you can shift out of overwhelm into your natural window of peace that God designed for you.
-> Talk with Stacy
Women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be...
If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free call with me. I can’t wait to get to know you and help you escape overwhelm, find peace with life's demands, and have joy in a simplified life. Your time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction.
WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects.
-> Talk with Stacy
Friendship. We know we need it. We are not meant to be alone. But often, we don’t act like God is our best friend.
If you don’t feel close to God, maybe it’s not that you don’t want God to be your all in all, but maybe you don’t know how? I know I struggle with the “how” of friendship with God – knowing how to get distractions out of the way, overcome my weaknesses, and how to simply love Him in return for loving me.
What does friendship with a mostly silent, invisible God look like anyway? Let’s figure it out together in today’s episode!
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:
* The most likely reason you’re not spending the amount of time you want with God and how to break down this barrier
*The 5 characteristics of friendship with God that put you on a path to deeper connection and greater trust
*The 12 minute morning routine training video that will help you set up smooth, God-centered morning habits to fuel your day – for free!
-> Talk with Stacy
Women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be...
If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free call with me. I can’t wait to get to know you and help you escape overwhelm, find peace with life's demands, and have joy in a simplified life. Your time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction.
WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects.
-> Talk with Stacy
Nope! Over my cold dead body.
Have you ever had that kind of resistance to letting go of control? I have.
Let’s be honest…when God asks us to give up love, friendship, your home, income – all measures of certainty and comfort – we struggle HARD.
Today my guest Kaela McKaig, is here to share her life-changing story of letting go and the key to trusting God to bring you through your trial to the other side.
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU'LL LEARN:
4 Reasons you don't want to let go...are you making these mistakes?
How you know you can trust God and what happens when you do
4 Specific things you can do each day to practice trusting God
The light bulb moment that was a total life-changer for Kaela and will be for you too!
You can find Kaela:
- On Instagram: @kaelaprays
- On her Podcast: His Word, My Walk
Grab her free tool Powerful Prayers here**
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Women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be...
If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free call with me. I can’t wait to get to know you and help you escape overwhelm, find peace with life's demands, and have joy in a simplified life. Your time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction.
WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects.
-> Talk with Stacy
Do you ever feel like there’s a tug of war inside of you – a part of you feels one way, a part of you feels another way and you can’t figure out what to do?
Or, do you struggle with extreme bursts of emotion or coping behaviors that you can’t seem to stop? There’s an answer for all this and I’m not just sharing information about it.
Today I’m sharing my personal journey with a type of inner healing, a therapeutic modality that is really helping and giving me hope. I want you to have that hope too – that you can heal from painful emotions, confusion, and inner conflict so you can have so much more peace. That’s coming up…
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:
What Internal Family Systems (IFS) parts work is and why it’s so effective for boosting self-compassion, decreasing negative emotion, and breaking free from coping mechanisms
How IFS can liberate you from 3 big mistakes you’re making
* Two specific exercises to get you started doing your own parts work today!
IFS Resources
What is IFS? Dr. Tori Olds
Visual Depiction of Manager, Firefighter, and Exile Parts
Directory of IFS trained therapists
Book: We All Have Parts: An Illustrated Guide to Healing Trauma with Internal Family Systems
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Women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be...
If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free call with me. I can’t wait to get to know you and help you escape overwhelm, find peace with life's demands, and have joy in a simplified life. Your time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction.
WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects.
-> Talk with Stacy
Do you ever feel like you should be happy most of the time?
But honestly, you probably don’t feel happy most of the time. There are lots of reasons why, but trying to fix them all feels like a game of whack a mole – happiness-draining problems never stop popping up.
So what do we do about this? Join me in this episode to explore a very different perspective to help you let go of frustration so you can feel lighter and encouraged in a fresh way.
**BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:
* Why expecting happiness can be unrealistic and an illusion that keeps us UNhappy.
A highly descriptive analogy to help you visualize a different goal of life.
How to make the simple shift that makes daily life a whole lot lighter and more encouraging.
-> Talk with Stacy
4 Questions for Reflection:
1. What does keep going look like for you? You might need to gently invite your inner critic to step aside quietly as you do this so you don’t end up judging yourself or feeling like you need to make the “keep going” a measure that’s hard to live up to.
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How does your vision of keep going help you take on the yoke of Jesus and make your burden light?
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How can you feel more gratitude?
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What do you want to ask God to help you with?
-> Talk with Stacy
Women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be...
If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free call with me. I can’t wait to get to know you and help you escape overwhelm, find peace with life's demands, and have joy in a simplified life. Your time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction.
WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects.
-> Talk with Stacy
What if there was a blueprint that revealed your best-fit career? Or a clear roadmap to what you should be doing with your life right now?
Oh but there is! For over a decade with hundreds of clients, I’ve been using the most comprehensive fail-safe tool for knowing who you are and what fulfills you.
In this episode, I share my personal struggle with finding fulfillment at work – the random decisions, confusion, and mistakes. Maybe you’ve struggled to find purpose or to be happy with your job too?
There’s a “way out” of making mistakes and staying stuck in work you don’t want to do anymore. Listen in because I’m showing you how to build YOUR must-have Fulfillment Blueprint starting today so you can make the right career decisions, feel confident, and see the full picture of who you are and what you have to offer.
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:
- The key formula for pinpointing your best-fit career
- Why we have blind spots and make mistakes along our career path + how to avoid them
- How to uncover your fulfillment criteria and get undeniably clear on what you should be doing with your life
BONUS: Click here to get your Fulfillment Blueprint template. Click here for the Purpose Blueprint.
-> Talk with Stacy
Women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be...
If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free call with me. I can’t wait to get to know you and help you escape overwhelm, find peace with life's demands, and have joy in a simplified life. Your time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction.
WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects.
-> Talk with Stacy
Do you ever fly off the handle or get firey when someone triggers you? Yep, I’m nodding my head here.
Getting angry and responding with yelling, arguing, or passive aggression can bring up feelings of shame, anxiety, guilt, and even embarrassment.
So how do you deal with people who set off your angry firework show?
Tune in to uncover the root cause, what anger really means, and what to say in difficult situations...
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:● Examples of my personal triggers and how I’ve tried to understand my anger on a deeper level (and how you can too!)
● Why realizing that your anger is about you gives you POWER
● The 2 ways you can handle people who make you angry including exactly what to say
● The 5 step power process to stop negative emotional spirals and diffuse angry reactions
-> Talk with Stacy
Women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be...
If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free call with me. I can’t wait to get to know you and help you escape overwhelm, find peace with life's demands, and have joy in a simplified life. Your time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction.
WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects.
-> Talk with Stacy
Do you ever feel fake, over rehearsed, or walking on eggshells trying to say the right thing?
It’s on my heart to share with you 2 ways I’m choosing to be authentic and how you can be more courageous and comfortable showing up as your true self.
Oooh are you ready for that kind of honesty and freedom? Heck yes! Tune in because…
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:● Why we put “makeup” on our personality and worry about what other people think
● What I refuse to do in marketing (because gimmicks and persuasion suck)
● How I’m going to be even more direct, honest, and transparent with you on the podcast
● 3 Specific ways you can practice being your true self starting today
Women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be...
If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free Breakthrough Call with me and find out what Right Ordered Life Coaching can do for you. Your time and my time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction. I can’t wait to get to know you, understand what you need, and give you massive value!
WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects.
-> Talk with Stacy
Do you feel like your house is always a mess?
Or maybe you’re constantly striving to get all those tasks done - food prep, laundry, emails - while disheveled drawers and overstuffed closets lurk in the background.
Worrying about how your home looks and getting everything done creeps up and pushes away space for something critical…your health and wellbeing.
So today I’m taking a stand for you and saying, “Take care of yourself before you clean your home.”
Let’s help you go from tired and disappointed to lighter, in control, and taking care of your mental, physical, and spiritual health – even if your home isn’t always clean and pretty.
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:● Why we go after achieving the to-do list 10x harder than taking care of ourselves
● The new beliefs you need in order to free yourself from guilt and let go of disappointment, worry, and failure
● 3 Specific steps including simple systems that make freeing up time for YOU easy!
Women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be...
If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free Breakthrough Call with me and find out what Right Ordered Life Coaching can do for you. Your time and my time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction. I can’t wait to get to know you, understand what you need, and give you massive value!
WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects.
-> Talk with Stacy
Do you ever say to people, “I feel lonely today. How lonely do you feel?” I’m guessing that’s a big NO.
Loneliness is REAL and pervasive but because it’s such a deeply personal, vulnerable experience we don’t speak up about it. We either cover over it with coping mechanisms and distractions to numb out or try different solutions that don’t work.
On today’s episode, I walk you through three ways to go from feeling lonely to wanted and connected. It’s a special formula and it’s not what you expect. Tune in to start feeling better TODAY!
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:● How we create loneliness and why we don’t realize it creeping up like weeds in a garden
● The 3 proven steps that build meaningful relationships and a profound sense of feeling wanted and connected
● What to do if someone ghosts you or says “no” to your effort to connect
Click here to read the "I Thirst" letter by Mother Teresa.
Women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be...
If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free Breakthrough Call with me and find out what Right Ordered Life Coaching can do for you. Your time and my time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction. I can’t wait to get to know you, understand what you need, and give you massive value!
WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects.
-> Talk with Stacy
What if you could harness the power of your words to feel good, do more, and be more like Christ? Yeeeessss 😊
My friend, you’re in the right place if you want to start using emotional adjectives, self-labels, and empowering statements that lift you up!
To learn how, tune into today’s episode where I give you three specific tactics to amp up your power for more joy and energy just from intentionally using a few different words in your daily thoughts and conversations.
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:● Why we don’t pay attention to our words and look outside ourselves to feel better
● The fascinating science that proves your words, intention, and emotions effect your physical environment
● 3 specific solutions that easily give you the power to have more positive thoughts and emotions so that you can feel better than “blah” and enjoy your daily life!
Women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be...
If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free Breakthrough Call with me and find out what Right Ordered Life Coaching can do for you. Your time and my time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction. I can’t wait to get to know you, understand what you need, and give you massive value!
WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects.
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What’s next for you? What are you intentionally designing your life to be?
If you’ve ever struggled to dream and do great things while following God’s will, this episode is for you.
On today’s episode, we’re showing you how to break the mold of cultural expectations and waiting in uncertainty so you can hold space to dream, take risks, and figure out what God is asking you to do.
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:● What holds women back from dreaming and the KEY question that opens to door to new possibilities
● What to do if your husband doesn’t share your vision
● Steps to go from uncertainty to clarity and trust in your dreams and God’s will
Grab Kylee's free guide: 5 Steps to Quit Procrastinating and Break Down Your Goal
Click here to visit Kylee's website.
Women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be...
If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free Breakthrough Call with me and find out what Right Ordered Life Coaching can do for you. Your time and my time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction. I can’t wait to get to know you, understand what you need, and give you massive value!
WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects.
-> Talk with Stacy
Would having the confidence and skill to say “No” to demands on your time, resources and emotions make your life a lot easier? Yeeeessss 😊
When you say “No” to these 3 things, you’ll have MORE mental bandwidth, achieve more goals, and feel so much lighter!
Tune in because today’s episode gives you a firm handle on what to say “No” to and HOW to say it.
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:● Why it’s so easy to get sucked into busyness, complexity, and “blockers”
● What you MUST put in place before you start saying “No” or nothing will change
● How to say “No” – example language you can start using today!
Women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be...
If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free Breakthrough Call with me and find out what Right Ordered Life Coaching can do for you. Your time and my time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction. I can’t wait to get to know you, understand what you need, and give you massive value!
WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects.
-> Talk with Stacy
Have you ever struggled to get back on track after a major loss or disruption in your life?
People tell you, “Look at the positive” and “Just keep moving forward” but that’s way easier said than done.
On today’s show, I walk you through my client’s struggle to refocus and take care of her family again after what she calls a “bomb that went off and reshuffled everything.”
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:● Why the reaction to grief and loss is so different for everyone
● The key to bringing yourself back into the present moment so you can refocus and regain momentum
● Three major takeaways that will spark your motivation to rise up again
Women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be...
If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free Breakthrough Call with me and find out what Right Ordered Life Coaching can do for you. Your time and my time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction. I can’t wait to get to know you, understand what you need, and give you massive value!
WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects.
-> Talk with Stacy
In this episode I’m sharing 3 things I know happy working moms do every day.
Are you doing these 3 things?
Listen in to make sure you’re not missing this simple but powerful daily joy formula.
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:
How to allow yourself to matter
The key to valuing the impact of your daily efforts
* One simple way to make less decisions and save your mental bandwidth
Women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be...
If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free Breakthrough Call with me and find out what Right Ordered Life Coaching can do for you. Your time and my time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction. I can’t wait to get to know you, understand what you need, and give you massive value!
WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects.
-> Talk with Stacy
Do you struggle with saying “No”?
You’re not alone! It’s hard to stop people pleasing, walk away from toxic relationships, and get people to respect your boundaries.
On today’s show, Meghan DeVito and I talk about how set and protect boundaries so you’re not taken advantage of, deprived of self-care, or letting people drain you with their drama.
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:● Why boundaries are NOT fluff but necessary for your peace, sanity and positivity!
● The “garden gate” tool that helps you see what you do want in your life and what you do not
● Concrete steps to set boundaries and get people to respect them
Listen, women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be...
If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free Breakthrough Call with me and find out what Right Ordered Life Coaching can do for you. Your time and my time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction. I can’t wait to get to know you, understand what you need, and give you massive value!
WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects.
-> Talk with Stacy
Need a quick dose of motivation?
On today’s episode, I’m dropping 3 powerful reminders you need to hear. Sometimes we need to be reminded more than we need to learn and consume new things.
If you want to feel grounded again in truth and possibility, you don’t want to miss this short but powerful episode.
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL BE REMINDED OF:● Your real destination and mission
● Why you can change your life – it’s not too late!
● The amazing thing you have inside of you that you have yet to discover
Listen, women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be...
If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, feel God's love for you, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free Breakthrough Call with me and find out what Right Ordered Life Coaching can do for you. Your time and my time is valuable so we’ll do nothing less than blow your mind and set you in the right direction. I can’t wait to get to know you, understand what you need, and give you massive value!
WARNING: Right Ordered Life Coaching may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You will experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects.
-> Talk with Stacy
What does balance really mean anyway?
And why does having a balanced life feel as elusive as catching the wind in your hand
The struggle for balance is real so listen in as Taryn DeLong and I help you find balance in your home and work life in a very different and deeply honest way.
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:● A fresh new perspective that helps you feel like the small daily stuff is meaningful and satisfying
● How Taryn let go of perfectionism
● The simple tool you can create today to boost your trust in God and discern His will for you
Listen, women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be...
If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, stop skipping prayer, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free Breakthrough Call with me and find out what Right Ordered Life Coaching can do for you. I can’t wait to get to know you, understand what you need, and give you massive value!
WARNING: The Right Ordered Life Program may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You may experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects.
-> Talk with Stacy
What if the limitations you’ve always known could be dissolved?
The saying “what fires together wires together” will work against you unless you know how to leverage it. Start taking your power back TODAY from your excuses by rewiring the old story into the truth that sets you free.
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:● What surface excuses like “I’m not a morning person” really mean
● The one simple mistake that keeps you stuck and how to fix it instantly
● The 4 step process to dissolve your excuses and feel empowered to fully live what God’s calling you to do
Listen, women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be...
If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, stop skipping prayer, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free Breakthrough Call with me and find out what Right Ordered Life Coaching can do for you. I can’t wait to get to know you, understand what you need, and give you massive value!
WARNING: The Right Ordered Life Program may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You may experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects.
-> Talk with Stacy
What if asking for help was the breakthrough you’ve been searching for?
Asking for help is hard, especially if you believe it makes you weak or incapable. But you’re not meant to carry the world on your shoulders alone. It will eventually break you.
On today’s show, Melayna Alicea and I show you how to ask for help so that you can see the tremendous benefits of having more help in your life…plus the gift you give to others when you accept their help.
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:● How a performance identity leads you to extreme self-reliance and a huge fear of failure
● What you need to believe to go from alone to allowing yourself to take up space and be loved for who you are
● Who to ask for help and what to ask for
Check out Melayna's substack blog Stumbling into Sainthood
Listen, women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be...
If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, stop skipping prayer, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free Breakthrough Call with me and find out what Right Ordered Life Coaching can do for you. I can’t wait to get to know you, understand what you need, and give you massive value!
WARNING: The Right Ordered Life Program may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You may experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects.
-> Talk with Stacy
Today I have something special for you. I’m going to guide you through you a meditation to help you have more peace and confidence.
Set a positive intention that you’ll feel calm, relaxed, and will enjoy this little break to shift into a positive emotional state.
I encourage you to save this episode and listen again whenever you want. Your experience will get better with practice. The more you allow yourself to relax, the more benefit you’ll receive and the more good work your subconscious mind can do for you.
Listen, women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be...
If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, stop skipping prayer, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free Breakthrough Call with me and find out what Right Ordered Life Coaching can do for you. I can’t wait to get to know you, understand what you need, and give you massive value!
WARNING: The Right Ordered Life Program may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You may experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects.
-> Talk with Stacy
Are you stuck in your comfort zone?
Carrying everything on your shoulders feeling like it all has to be perfect or in control is an incredibly heavy burden. But what if you weren’t afraid to let go and task risks
On today’s show, I’m sharing part of a real client coaching session, where I help my client let go of control, trust that she is safe, and see risk in a whole new way…so you can too.
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:● Where the need for control and safety comes from
● Why saying “no” to a personal improvement program is not about the money (and the real reason that stops you)
● The evidence that boosts your courage and proves you CAN take risks and reap the rewards
Listen, women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be...
If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, stop skipping prayer, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free Breakthrough Call with me and find out what Right Ordered Life Coaching can do for you. I can’t wait to get to know you, understand what you need, and give you massive value!
WARNING: The Right Ordered Life Program may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You may experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects.
-> Talk with Stacy
Do you ever wonder where God’s breadcrumbs are leading you?
Without direct download access to God, finding your direction in life – where to live, what job to take or business to run, how to make an impact – can be incredibly confusing. But on today’s show, my guest and I are helping you connect the dots so you can clearly discern the changes God is calling you to make in your life.
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:● The wake up calls and telltale signs you need to pay attention to!
● How to overcome fear and difficulty leaving your job, home, and family security
● The major benefits of taking a leap and how to love what’s on the other side
Today's guest, Dominique Tomaino, is a wife, mother of two, lawyer, and new Texan! She works as in-house counsel for a Christian pro-life non-profit, and also recently co-founded Friends of the Faith. Friends of the Faith is a business that offers plush dolls, clothes, and other merchandise inspired by figures from the Bible to help children and adults connect to the faith in their daily life. In her free time, she volunteers as a mentor for the Fruitful Hollow, a Catholic infertility ministry. Her favorite hobby is crafting charcuterie boards!
Friends of the Faith can be found at:
www.friendsofthefaith.com
www.instagram.com/friendsofthefaithco
Listen, women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be...
If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, stop skipping prayer, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free Breakthrough Call with me and find out what Right Ordered Life Coaching can do for you. I can’t wait to get to know you, understand what you need, and give you massive value!
WARNING: The Right Ordered Life Program may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You may experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects.
-> Talk with Stacy
If you haven’t listened yet, hop into episode 21 – The Secret to Self-Confidence Part I – where we uncovered the mistakes that erode your self-confidence and the 5 criteria needed for rock solid confidence.
On today’s show we’re picking up right where we left off – the 4 juicy shifts and my #1 client-favorite confidence-boosting tool that will vanquish your insecurities and help you show up ready to conquer anything, anywhere, anytime.
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:● Practical ways to be a Thought Captain who has the power to create her emotions, actions, and results
● How People Vision frees you to see others’ in a new way and to stay positive even when someone’s criticizing you
● The specific tool to discover endless reasons why you should believe in yourself
Listen, women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be...
If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, stop skipping prayer, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free Breakthrough Call with me and find out what Right Ordered Life Coaching can do for you. I can’t wait to get to know you, understand what you need, and give you massive value!
WARNING: The Right Ordered Life Program may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You may experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects.
-> Talk with Stacy
Do you have rock-solid confidence that doesn’t fold like cheap lawn furniture when you face a fear or a challenge?
Many of us learn to power through our day while hiding our insecurities and stuffing down the voice of self-criticism…but low confidence limits you in more ways than you know.
On today’s show, I’m unpacking self-confidence in a new way to help you shrink your insecurities, empty out old stories, and feel stronger putting yourself out there and pursuing your calling.
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:● The 3 mistakes that suck the confidence out of you
● How to tap into the confidence-fueling resources that are already inside of you
● The 5 criteria (a.k.a the ingredients) to restore your confidence and make it rock solid
Listen, women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be...
If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, stop skipping prayer, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free Breakthrough Call with me and find out what Right Ordered Life Coaching can do for you. I can’t wait to get to know you, understand what you need, and give you massive value!
WARNING: The Right Ordered Life Program may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You may experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects.
-> Talk with Stacy
Do you have a bunch of highlighted books, digital notes, and journals with a myriad of facts and insights you wish you could remember? I do!
We curate so many key learnings over the years, but our brain doesn’t retain them all. Let’s bring game-changing lessons back into focus!
On today’s show, I’m distilling 10 things I’ve learned and applied to produce fruit like peace and freedom. Tune in for a direct download of gold nugget insights – one of them could be the positive shift you’ve been searching for!
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:● How to generate your own happiness without depending on people and things
● Why your calling is at the intersection of these 3 things
● The reason you get stuck in scarcity and your excuses (and how to get clarity!)
Listen, women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be...
If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, stop skipping prayer, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free Breakthrough Call with me and find out what Right Ordered Life Coaching can do for you. I can’t wait to get to know you, understand what you need, and give you massive value!
WARNING: The Right Ordered Life Program may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You may experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects.
-> Talk with Stacy
Do you ever feel like you lost yourself? Like you don’t know what your interests, hobbies, or talents are anymore?
When a life full of family, work, and endless tasks washes over you, it’s easy to lose your sense of self. Sometimes you don’t even know what you want to go out and do or eat!
Self-sacrifice and a busy life does NOT mean you have to lose yourself in the process. Let’s get YOU back! That’s what my guest, Nichole Haugen, and I are diving into on today’s episode…
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:● 3 Signs you’ve lost yourself and what it’s costing you (it’s not what you think!)
● How to rediscover yourself in simple, do-able ways even if you don’t know where to start
● Why knowing who you are, having confidence, and doing self-care are critical for peace and happiness
Check out Nichole's 6 Step Self Love Exercise.
You can find Nichole at catholicnursecoach.com and on Facebook.
Listen, women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be...
If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, stop skipping prayer, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free Breakthrough Call with me and find out what Right Ordered Life Coaching can do for you. I can’t wait to get to know you, understand what you need, and give you massive value!
WARNING: The Right Ordered Life Program may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You may experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects.
-> Talk with Stacy
What if you could turn journaling into a super tool that sucked out your mind clutter, solved your problems, and brought you peace?
It’s totally normal to struggle with writing consistently or knowing what to write at all. I get it, you’re busy and tired doing “all the things” that demand your attention.
BUT…you don’t want to miss out because on today’s episode, I’m showing you 3 forms of journaling that will bring you clarity, lightness, and solutions in as little as 10 minutes.
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:● The 3 big mistakes that block you from unlocking the massive benefit of journaling
● How to clear your mind clutter so you can sleep peacefully and boost your energy
● Why your goals and desires are falling through the cracks and how to bring them back to life
The doors to the Right Ordered Life Coaching Program are open NOW for you to join until April 28th!Listen, women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be...
That’s why I created the Right Ordered Life Coaching Program and the doors are open right now for you to join until April 28th. If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, stop skipping prayer, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free Breakthrough Call with me and find out what the Right Ordered Life Program can do for you. I can’t wait to get to know you, understand what you need, and give you massive value!
WARNING: The Right Ordered Life Program may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You may experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects.
-> Talk with Stacy
How often does your day feel heavy and draining vs. joyful and light?
The truth is, our daily mood – how we feel each day – is not consistent and often times we don’t know why or how to stabilize it.
In today’s episode, I’m revealing a solution called HTC that will help you avoid thought mistakes and consistently improve your mood.
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:● Why you get trapped in negative thought cycles and compressed thoughts of worries, problems, and fears that steal your peace
● The HTC solution and the 3 steps you can put it into practice TODAY
● How to overcome your brain’s “this won’t work” reaction and identify a hidden, deeper cause of resistance
The doors to the Right Ordered Life Coaching Program are open NOW for you to join until April 28th!Listen, women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be...
That’s why I created the Right Ordered Life Coaching Program and the doors are open right now for you to join until April 28th. If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, stop skipping prayer, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free Breakthrough Call with me and find out what the Right Ordered Life Program can do for you. I can’t wait to get to know you, understand what you need, and give you massive value!
WARNING: The Right Ordered Life Program may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You may experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects.
-> Talk with Stacy
Do you feel like home problems and responsibilities suck the joy right out of you?
If what’s lurking in your home feels like a burden that a part of you secretly resents, you’re not alone!
In today’s episode, we’re uncovering three major root causes of resentment toward home life and how to resolve them so you can have more peace.
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:● Why most women don’t talk about this very real struggle
● The surprising thing you need to face but might be avoiding
● What you think is helping you but is actually making your life harder
The doors to the Right Ordered Life Coaching Program are open NOW for you to join until April 28th!Listen, women everywhere tell me they don’t have enough time, are exhausted trying to get all the things done well, and feel like they’re failing in multiple areas of their life. The struggle is real, but it doesn’t have to be...
That’s why I created the Right Ordered Life Coaching Program and the doors are open right now for you to join until April 28th. If you want to wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed, stop skipping prayer, calmly handle any situation like Yoda, and free up “me time” in your schedule, click here to book your free Breakthrough Call with me and find out what the Right Ordered Life Program can do for you. I can’t wait to get to know you, understand what you need, and give you massive value!
WARNING: The Right Ordered Life Program may cause feelings of freedom, achievement, cleverness, and empowerment. You may experience major relief, renewed energy and lightheartedness which may cause people around you to wonder what you’re smoking. If any of these effects occur, continue coaching with Stacy Santiago who will prescribe treatment to enhance these effects.
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How many times a week do you feel like you’re doing something wrong as a mom?
With so much to get right for your kids – faith, values, education, quality time, skill development, relationships, discipline – motherhood can feel like one of those areas of life that you’re failing in.
In today’s episode, my guest Melissa Rohlfs and I help you break free of mom judgment and show you how to have peace being the mom you choose to be.
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:● The real reason why so many of us feel like we’re not a good mom
● How self-acceptance and forgiveness pave the way to living guilt free (and not binging on sugar to feel better)
● The secret weapon to kick “not a good mom” to the curb permanently!
Grab Melissa’s free guide: Kick Sugar Cravings to the Curb
You can learn more about Melissa Rohlfs here: free2bcoaching.com
Total honesty - I want to get to know you! If this episode has inspired you in any way, I would love for you to connect with me on Facebook or email at stacy@stacysantiago.comand share your biggest takeaways!
Want personal help? Schedule a Breakthrough Callwith me so we can explore if the Right Ordered Life program is the roadmap you need to connect with God, be happy at home, and do meaningful work. I'll listen, add value, and help you get clarity and insight. I really look forward to talking with you soon!
Instead of boosting your energy with sugar and caffeine, what if you could avoid the biggest mistakes that drain your energy in the first place?
You’re not alone. I understand the struggle of exhaustion and how it not only interrupts your life but how it can turn you into a gremlin – angry mommy and not available mommy.
If you’re ready to repair your energy crisis from the inside out so your day feels lighter and your energizer bunny battery runs longer, this episode is for you.
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:● What underdeveloped muscles are draining your energy (not your biceps or quads!)
● Why overthinking knocks the wind out of you and how to stop it
● The one small thing you can start doing right now to feel so much lighter!
Total honesty - I want to get to know you! If this episode has inspired you in any way, I would love for you to connect with me on Facebook or email at stacy@stacysantiago.comand share your biggest takeaways!
Want personal help? Schedule a Breakthrough Callwith me so we can explore if the Right Ordered Life program is the roadmap you need to connect with God, be happy at home, and do meaningful work. I'll listen, add value, and help you get clarity and insight. I really look forward to talking with you soon!
Do you ever wonder if your day to day actions matter?
We are pre-programmed to want to feel significant and produce good “fruit” in our lives, but we get stuck and feel defeated measuring our lives the wrong way.
Let’s fix that and get you more peace and significance with 5 simple, right ordered ways to tell if your life is producing good fruit…
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:● Why my amazing, accomplished client feels small and insignificant
● The mistake that makes you feel defeated, not enough, invisible
● How to produce more good fruit and have peace knowing that you matter
Total honesty - I want to get to know you! If this episode has inspired you in any way, I would love for you to connect with me on Facebook or email at stacy@stacysantiago.comand share your biggest takeaways!
Want personal help? Schedule a Breakthrough Callwith me so we can explore if the Right Ordered Life program is the roadmap you need to connect with God, be happy at home, and do meaningful work. I'll listen, add value, and help you get clarity and insight. I really look forward to talking with you soon!
Have you been struggling to heal from something painful?
If you’ve been hurting, wrestling with painful emotion, and even losing hope – this episode is for you.
WARNING! Today’s show with guest Jessie Torres is raw, emotional, and not for little ears. You don’t want to miss this special episode because…
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:● The mistake that keeps you stuck in pain and self-sabotage
● How to get past feeling angry at God
● Why there is beauty and light even when it sucks
● The questions to ask yourself so you can move toward healing
Grab Jessie's free tool: A 10 Step Guide to Having Freedom and Claiming the Life You Desire
Help share Jessie's message of healing by scrolling down on the main podcast page in the app and leaving a review with your biggest takeaway from this episode!
Total honesty - I want to get to know you! If this episode has inspired you in any way, I would love for you to connect with me on Facebook or email at stacy@stacysantiago.comand share your biggest takeaways!
Want personal help? Schedule a Breakthrough Callwith me so we can explore if the Right Ordered Life program is the roadmap you need to connect with God, be happy at home, and do meaningful work. I'll listen, add value, and help you get clarity and insight. I really look forward to talking with you soon!
Are you sick and tired of the negative voice in your head that criticizes how you look, speak, and do things?
Criticizing yourself is a dangerous road to walk down because if you don’t know how to handle falling short and failing without criticizing yourself, you will focus so much on the negative that the darkness overtakes the truth and the joy that God wants for you.
But there’s a way to change how you think about yourself. On today’s show, I walk you through how to go from harsh judgment to accepting and positive self-talk so you can have more peace and wins each day.
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:
● Why you make failure and falling short a bad thing that wrecks you
● The truth bomb about daily tasks and the real way to evaluate yourself
● 3 Steps to handle falling short without criticizing yourself
Take my free 3 minute quiz to find out what's blocking you from making yourself a priority (hint: it's NOT lack of time)
Total honesty - I want to get to know you! If this episode has inspired you in any way, I would love for you to connect with me on Facebook or email at stacy@stacysantiago.comand share your biggest takeaways!
Want personal help? Schedule a Breakthrough Callwith me so we can explore if the Right Ordered Life program is the roadmap you need to connect with God, be happy at home, and do meaningful work. I'll listen, add value, and help you get clarity and insight. I really look forward to talking with you soon!
Do you ever wonder if you’re fully living God’s purpose for you?
You are meant for a purpose that only you can accomplish. If you’ve ever thought, “I don’t know why I’m here” or “Is just being myself enough?” – this episode is for you.
Today’s show is extra special because I’m sharing a raw and vulnerable coaching session with my client, Tricia, who is trying to find her purpose. Listen in and be ready to take notes because…
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:● What creates more positive impact than productivity and “doing”
● The key questions that reveal your purpose
● Why you are enough – no proof of worthiness required! (Hint: It’s a 4 letter word)
Total honesty - I want to get to know you! If this episode has inspired you in any way, I would love for you to connect with me on Facebook or email at stacy@stacysantiago.comand share your biggest takeaways!
Want personal help? Schedule a Breakthrough Callwith me so we can explore if the Right Ordered Life program is the roadmap you need to connect with God, be happy at home, and do meaningful work. I'll listen, add value, and help you get clarity and insight. I really look forward to talking with you soon!
Ever feel like you don’t have the time or will power to lose weight and get a healthy body you feel good in?
It’s hard to take care of EVERYONE else, be a rockstar at work, live the Faith – All. The. Things. – and nurture your body.
But today’s guest, Nikki O’Dea, creator of the Keep It Off Academy weight loss program, has cracked the code. She’s here to share why dieting sets us up for failure and how busy working moms can not only make weight loss and healthy eating way easier, but a sustainable habit they enjoy.
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:● How diets set us up to fail and why it’s not your fault
● The 2 shifts you need to make so healthy eating is WAY easier – even when you’re crazy busy!
● How to get motivated so you feel good along the journey and make healthy habits stick
Nikki O’Dea understands what you’re going through and makes achieving your weight loss goal virtually idiot proof. Plus, she’s authentic, personal, and fun to talk to! You can get in touch with Nikki on:
Facebook at www.facebook.com/nsoper
Instagram at www.instagram.com/nodea10
Grab The Minimalist Meal Prep Guide on her website: www.nikkiodea.com
Total honesty - I want to get to know you! If this episode has inspired you in any way, I would love for you to connect with me on Facebook or email at stacy@stacysantiago.comand share your biggest takeaways!
Want personal help? Schedule a Breakthrough Callwith me so we can explore if the Right Ordered Life program is the roadmap you need to connect with God, be happy at home, and do meaningful work. I'll listen, add value, and help you get clarity and insight. I really look forward to talking with you soon!
Do you feel like you’re juggling too many things at once?
So many working moms feel defeated trying to handle “all the things” on their plate every day. The complexity of life and the endless tasks required to keep up with it can be soul-crushing.
Today, I’m sharing why juggling too many things is avoidable and the simple yet ESSENTIAL steps you can take right now to simplify and lighten your load.
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:
● Why time management tools won’t fix your overwhelm problem
● The real reason you get stuck juggling too many things at once
● How to reduce stress and overwhelm in a do-able, sustainable way
Total honesty - I want to get to know you! If this episode has inspired you in any way, I would love for you to connect with me on Facebook or email at stacy@stacysantiago.comand share your biggest takeaways!
Want personal help? Schedule a Breakthrough Callwith me so we can explore if the Right Ordered Life program is the roadmap you need to connect with God, be happy at home, and do meaningful work. I'll listen, add value, and help you get clarity and insight. I really look forward to talking with you soon!
Do you ever feel like you’re constantly behind on your to-do list? Do you keep thinking, “I don’t have time for this”?
When you believe you don’t have enough time, you give away your power and limit what you’re actually capable of doing. And when you’re not intentional with time, someone or something else prioritizes your life for you.
But you can take back your power and let go of the heavy bricks you’re carrying around in your to-do list backpack. Lightening your load starts with one simple phrase I’m sharing with you today.
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:
● Why “I don’t have enough time” is a false story
● What getting things done really depends on
● The specific belief about time that will be an absolute game changer for you
Total honesty - I want to get to know you! If this episode has inspired you in any way, I would love for you to connect with me on Facebook or email at stacy@stacysantiago.comand share your biggest takeaways!
Want personal help? Schedule a Breakthrough Callwith me so we can explore if the Right Ordered Life program is the roadmap you need to connect with God, be happy at home, and do meaningful work. I'll listen, add value, and help you get clarity and insight. I really look forward to talking with you soon!
What if you had a compass for making the right decisions and feeling at peace?
So many Christian moms working to provide for their families are living OUT of right order. We fall into the trap of “I’ll be happy when…” This leaves us stressed out and exhausted trying to do All. The. Things.
Surprisingly, joy and peace don’t come with a person, house, job, or circumstance. You can get your time, joy, and energy back NOW when you live the 3 part framework of a Right Ordered Life – and that’s exactly what we’re diving into with today’s episode.
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL FIND OUT:
● The reason I was edgy, tired, and dissatisfied when on the outside it looked like I had “everything”
● The mistakes that steal your time, energy, and joy
● Why the 3 part life framework is backed by faith AND social science…and WORKS!
I took the very slow, hard way to the peace, joy and freedom of the Right Ordered Life. But I’m glad that’s the road God took me down because now I can help YOU get a Right Ordered Life in just weeks, not years, if at all.
Total honesty - I want to get to know you! If this episode has inspired you in any way, I would love for you to connect with me on Facebook or email at stacy@stacysantiago.comand share your biggest takeaways!
Want personal help? Schedule a Breakthrough Callwith me so we can explore if the Right Ordered Life program is the roadmap you need to connect with God, be happy at home, and do meaningful work. I'll listen, add value, and help you get clarity and insight. I really look forward to talking with you soon!
Have you ever struggled with making daily prayer a habit?
This is totally normal! But most of us crave a strong connection to God, His comforting love, answers to our problems, and clear direction in life.
So let’s break down the barriers that block this connection and unleash all the gifts that come from daily prayer. Today we’re diving into how to make daily prayer a habit that sticks and why it’s worth it.
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:
● The real reason it’s so difficult to have quality prayer time each day (and it’s not because you’re too busy)
● Why it’s critical to change your thoughts about daily prayer BEFORE trying to make it part of your daily routine
● The simple 5 step action plan to make your prayer habit rock solid
Total honesty - I want to get to know you! If this episode has inspired you in any way, I would love for you to connect with me on Facebook or email at stacy@stacysantiago.comand share your biggest takeaways!
Want personal help? Schedule a Breakthrough Callwith me so we can explore if the Right Ordered Life program is the roadmap you need to connect with God, be happy at home, and do meaningful work. I'll listen, add value, and help you get clarity and insight. I really look forward to talking with you soon!
Warning: It’s about to get real.
Do you ever have emotional meltdowns? A tidal wave of fierce anger, fear, or sadness that results in crying, yelling, or fleeing the scene?
Yep this something many of us experience. But you don’t have to stay a victim to your negative emotions.
Surprisingly, the answer is NOT avoiding emotional triggers or preventing negative feelings. And that’s exactly what we’re diving into with today’s (judgment free) episode which includes personal meltdown examples from a client and me personally.
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:
● The two biggest mistakes you might be making with your emotional meltdowns (#1 is probably going to shock you!)
● How the truth about negative emotions has changed my life and the lives of so many of my clients
● The 3 step method you can use to shift out of negative spirals in 30 minutes or less (I used this during my most recent meltdown and so can you!)
Total honesty - I want to get to know you! If this episode has inspired you in any way, I would love for you to connect with me on Facebook or email at stacy@stacysantiago.comand share your biggest takeaways!
Want personal help? Schedule a Breakthrough Callwith me so we can explore if the Right Ordered Life program is the roadmap you need to connect with God, be happy at home, and do meaningful work. I'll listen, add value, and help you get clarity and insight. I really look forward to talking with you soon!
Does your inner critic tell you that you’re not doing enough or that you’re not a good mom?
Every day most of us hear negative self-talk that criticizes how we look, perform, and show up in the world. We’re walking around believing lies about ourselves and life - and we don’t even realize it!
The truth might be shocking, but you need to hear it. It’s time to take control of your beliefs and silence your BS inner critic that keeps you stuck, unhappy, and playing small!
Today we’re uncovering the truth about the 5 biggest lies Christian moms believe so we can feel lighter, receive more of God’s love, and live with greater peace and confidence.
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:
● Why what seems like fixed reality is optional – and in your control
● How the 5 lies took root and why they’re so hard for you to let go of
● The process of going from a false belief to the truth that will give you a superpower that changes your life
Total honesty - I want to get to know you! If this episode has inspired you in any way, I would love for you to connect with me on Facebook or email at stacy@stacysantiago.comand share your biggest takeaways!
Want personal help? Schedule a Breakthrough Callwith me so we can explore if the Right Ordered Life program is the roadmap you need to connect with God, be happy at home, and do meaningful work. I'll listen, add value, and help you get clarity and insight. I really look forward to talking with you soon!
Do you fall asleep on the couch after work or zone out on social media?
As a “crash and burn” type person myself, I’m all too familiar with the routine of falling into bed at 7:00pm exhausted from the day. Most of us have been conditioned to believe that’s just how life is, but that doesn’t have to be your reality.
There IS a way to boost your energy and it’s not sugar or caffeine and it doesn’t cost a dime. Today’s episode reveals the #1 way to have energy at the end of the day so you can spend quality time with your husband and kids or have some you-time.
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:
● Why you feel so drained – it’s NOT because you’re busy
● How the “have to” life steals your energy (and how to break out of it)
● The ratio you need to increase and the “cross off” tool you can use to free up energy starting today
Total honesty - I want to get to know you! If this episode has inspired you in any way, I would love for you to connect with me on Facebook or email at stacy@stacysantiago.comand share your biggest takeaways!
Want personal help? Schedule a Breakthrough Callwith me so we can explore if the Right Ordered Life program is the roadmap you need to connect with God, be happy at home, and do meaningful work. I'll listen, add value, and help you get clarity and insight. I really look forward to talking with you soon!
What stops you from having hobbies and doing self-care?
It’s easy to get caught up in excuses for why we don’t have time for ourselves. We get so sucked into the people pleasing, to the belief that someone needs something from us all the time and we have to do it for them.
In this episode, I share my formula for finding you-time, following through on self-care, and feeling GOOD about it!
BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL LEARN:
● The real reason you make excuses like “I don’t have time for self-care” and why it’s not your fault
● How self-care gives your brain a HUGE payoff and creates the positive results you want in your life
● Three action steps for making hobbies and self-care easy to do
Total honesty - I want to get to know you! If this episode has inspired you in any way, I would love for you to connect with me on Facebook or email at stacy@stacysantiago.comand share your biggest takeaways!
Want personal help? Schedule a Breakthrough Callwith me so we can explore if the Right Ordered Life program is the roadmap you need to connect with God, be happy at home, and do meaningful work. I'll listen, add value, and help you get clarity and insight. I really look forward to talking with you soon!
Ever wish you could stop doing All. The. Things?
You know – the soul-crushing weight of a million tasks needed to keep your job and family going? If you’ve ever thought, “There’s not enough time in the day to get everything done. I keep trying but I end up exhausted and grumpy with the people I love. I feel guilty about self-care, get busy, and don’t do it.” – you’re in the right place.
Welcome friend! Stacy Santiago, a Board Certified Coach and Licensed Professional Counselor for over 10 years, is giving you the game plan to stop collapsing on the couch and feeling like a disappointment to yourself and your family. Sharing her personal life and experience coaching hundreds of women, Stacy shows you how to get your time and energy back, show up joyful, be at peace, and live a Right Ordered Life of faith, family, and purpose.
This ain’t your momma’s self-help podcast. Honest and to the point, Stacy gives you proven tools to trade your overwhelm and exhaustion for a Right Ordered Life you WANT to wake up to each day.
Dropping Early 2023!