2 Adoptive Mamas: Recent Episodes
Liz and Sarah
We believe that in order to be the best mamas we can for our kids, it is crucial to lean on one another in community, share our hearts, support one another, provide resources, and most importantly learn to embrace and thrive in the plan God has for our families. Here at 2 Adoptive Mamas, we are committed to helping you navigate the day-to-day of adoptive mama-hood through shared resources on adoption and parenting, shared experiences, and by shared opportunities to learn from and grow with one another.
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Kellee Walker is one of those individuals that makes you feel like despite the uphill climb, there is always an opportunity to thrive. As an adoptive mom and foster/adoption professional, Kellee has been in the trenches and has a heart for meeting parents and families right where they're at. She brings practical applications and ideas to our conversation and brings with her a list of recommended follow-ups and resources that will help families take the next step in their post-permanency journey. This is one you don't want to miss!
Episode Resources:Check out our resource list HERE and more with TBRI HERE --- just two of Kellee's recommendations!
2AM Connect:If you enjoyed today’s episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We’re grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a fifth season, thank you!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon HERE.
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It's something special when a mama can put into words and pictures a children's book that addresses one of those "hard to start" conversations. In this episode we're sitting down with Jessica Whipple to talk about her book, "I think I think a Lot." She openly shares how her household is navigating the day-to-day of neurodivergence and what it looks like to take a deeper dive into the way God has uniquely made all of us in His perfect image. Jessica's thoughtful reflection and refreshing perspective are something we can all benefit from, especially as foster and adoptive mamas.
Episode Resources:Get your own copy of Jessica's book by clicking HERE!
2AM Connect:If you enjoyed today’s episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We’re grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a fifth season, thank you!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon HERE.
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The Main Thing:We are still on break, like so many of you, for this holiday season. We are cherishing this extended time with family and friends to rest and grow. We're excited to be back next week with all new episodes!
Check out the shownotes from our amazing episode with Show Hope from Season 2. We'll see you with all new episodes next week!
For decades Show Hope has shown up for families pre and post adoption. Founded in 2003 by Steven and Mary Beth Chapman, Show Hope continues to be a light for families in the trenches of adoption. With a mission to engage the Church and eliminate barriers for those committing to the adoption process to grow their families, Show Hope has continued to expand opportunities for support. Most recently, their Medical Aid Grant program is helping families navigate a child’s medical needs after adoption finalization takes place.
We were thrilled when founder, Mary Beth Chapman, and Show Hope’s Executive Director, Emily Chapman Richards, agreed to join us on the podcast to discuss the new Medical Aid Grant program and the incredible work of Show Hope in the lives of adoptive families. It was an honor and privilege to share the mic with two women of incredible faith and passion for adoption. We’re so excited to share this conversation with you!
Episode Resources:Mary Beth and Emily shared some great resources - check them out below!
Show Hope
Howtoadopt.org
We always like to ask our guests what they’re currently reading - adoption related, or not! If you’re looking for your next read, you might consider these from Mary Beth & Emily:
Hinds’ Feet on High Places by Hannah Hurnard
Companions in the Darkness by Diana Gruver
The Testament by John Grisham
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The Main Thing:We're in the holiday season and 2 Adoptive Mamas is taking a break this week to spend extra time with family and friends. We've pulled one of our most downloaded episodes from Season 3 for this week with the one and only Jamie Finn. Merry Christmas!!
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"To those who follow her, she's a constant resource, encouragement, and much-needed dose of reality when navigating the ups and downs of foster care. Her heart for the Lord, care for vulnerable children, and desire to keep educating and supporting adoptive and foster families are unmatched.
For Episode 050 of the Two Adoptive Mama's Podcast, we're sitting down with Jamie Finn from Foster the Family to talk about love and loss. She's sharing her family's story, her work with Foster the Family, and more about authoring her very first book. Together our conversation spanned a variety of topics that together make up the complicated, challenging, yet necessary components of stepping into foster care. Whether you're considering foster care or find yourself in the "thick of it," Jamie's words will meet you right where you're at. We so enjoyed our time together, and know this episode will be an encouragement to you!"
Episode Resources:
Read more in Jamie's book, Foster the Family
Check out Jamie's blog and many more resources HERE.
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SLEEP. Can't live without it, but sometimes it seems like we have to, right?! Vanessa is our attachment based sleep guru and she's here to calm the stress, equip, and help families say goodbye to the dreary days of sleep deprivation!
She's got an inspiring story, a calmness, and a passion for coming alongside families to help build secure attachment when it comes to sleep (and trying to get some)! We can't wait for you to hear what she has to share!
Episode Resources:Follow Vanessa on Instagram @sleepysimbas for more options to connect with her and get started on your own non-sleep training, attachment-based sleep schedule!
For an even deeper dive, check out "Rest Play Grow" by Dr. Deborah MacNamara.
2AM Connect:If you enjoyed today’s episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We’re grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a fifth season, thank you!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon HERE.
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We love highlighting all the different ways families grow as families. In this episode we welcome Alexis, who shares God's faithfulness and providence through their story of infertility and embryo adoption. Alexis' story is one of hopeful empowerment to seek Jesus in your story, no matter where you are in your journey or how you are growing your family. She talks about what embryo adoption is and the need for resources and education for families considering and walking this path. And she reminds us of the importance of community no matter the season.
We can't wait for you to hear all that Alexis has to share!
Episode Resources:Find Alexis on Instagram @lex_faithfitnessfertility
Alexis mentioned a group called Mom's in the Making, find them on Instagram @momsinthemaking
And don't forget to review Alexis' blog HERE. 2AM Connect:If you enjoyed today’s episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We’re grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a fifth season, thank you!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon HERE.
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The Main Thing:If there's one thing we can likely all agree on, it's that having some sort of system in our home just makes everything flow better. But sometimes, change happens quickly, systems have to adapt, and the day-to-day triage of managing our homes can become more than overwhelming. Well --- we have good news...
Meet Laura Hernandez --- the queen of navigating the day-to-day with "mama systems." Their proven success has transformed their own family (of 10!) rhythm and she's passionate about sharing her discoveries with others seeking similar support in this area. As an adoptive mom she has a special story to share and a message for every listener. Enjoy!
Episode Resources:
Laura has gifted 2AM listeners with a FREE guide! Visit https://www.mamasystems.net/2adoptedmamas
2.A.M. Connect:If you enjoyed today’s episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We’re grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a fifth season, thank you!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon HERE.
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The Main Thing:2 Adoptive Mamas is taking a quick holiday break! We spent last week with our families and saved producing a new episode for next week... stay tuned.
For this week, we're taking a look back at one of our most popular episodes. Rosie Mann (yes, from episode 100's panel! Catch up on last week's episode HERE!) goes into the practical navigation of trauma.
Check out our shownotes from it's original publish date:
Today we're sitting down with Rosie Mann, an adoptive mama and nurse licensed in specialized trauma care. She's a wealth of knowledge with a heart for meeting our kiddos right where they are with exactly what the need. No matter where you are in your journey as a mama, today's episode will encourage, inspire, and remind you that we're in this - together!
Episode Resources:
We know Rosie mentioned a lot of great tips - many of which you can research in one of our favorite books. Check out the 2 Adoptive Mama book list HERE.
2.A.M. Connect:If you enjoyed today’s episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We’re grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a fifth season, thank you!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon HERE.
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100 Episodes!! And how are we celebrating? With our first-ever live panel and live audience recording in partnership with COBY's Family Services! We had too much fun with Eleanor, Michelle, Rosie and Holly. Some of these names might seem familiar in the 2AM community, and that's because they are! We welcomed back some of our fan favorites to take a deep dive into meaningful community --- how to define it, how to build it, and why it matters. We hope you enjoy this conversation (and some of the laughs in between). It has been our sincere privilege to bring this community each episode over the years. We're so grateful that you're here with us! Happy 100 --- Enjoy!
Episode Resources:
For more with Elanor, Michelle, and Rosie, click HERE to view their previous episodes on the show.
If you're local and looking for a good place to start for post perm resources and family support, check out COBYS HERE.
2.A.M. Connect:If you enjoyed today's episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We're grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a fifth season, thank you!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon HERE.
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Do you remember Allison? Better yet, do you remember Wanda the owl? We're so thrilled to welcome Allison Olson back for Episode 99 of the Two Adoptive Mamas Podcast. Allison won all of our hearts with her first book "Surrounded by Love: An Open Adoption Story," and now she's raising the bar with her second --- "My Friend's Adoption." During our time together we're talking about the conversation starters that are flowing out of this book, and how it's equipping our children and those they care about most to embrace their story of finding their forever family and honoring their birth family. You'll be clicking "Buy" half way through this episode so you can add this book to your collection, we're sure of it!
Episode Resources:
Click HERE to purchase your copy!
For more with Allison, you can find her on Instagram @kidsbooksbyallisonolson.
2.A.M. Connect:If you enjoyed today's episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We're grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a fifth season, thank you!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon HERE.
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Debbie Raymond has a heart of gold and is one adoptive mama that we can't wait for you to meet! We had the pleasure of sitting down for Episode 98 to learn about how Debbie has mastered the art of transitions and travels with her son --- both meeting his needs, thriving amidst opportunity, and why she is passionate about sharing with other adoptive mamas. No matter the season of parenting you're in, Debbie has a word for everyone and she has such a sweet way of sharing her personal experience. Enjoy!
Episode Resources:
For more with Debbie, find her on Instagram, @fasd_strong
2.A.M. Connect:If you enjoyed today's episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We're grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a fifth season, thank you!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon HERE.
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Joe and Melanie Hashey are on a mission to build strong and healthy family relationships. They believe families these days, especially the parents, are desperately in need of support that would allow them to be the best versions of themselves. Getting this much-needed support/community helps parents to raise their kids with confidence and grace.
How are they living out this mission? Within their own family with strong family core values, routines, family meetings, and cultivating relationships. They started Strong Family Co. to talk about these ideas and share them with parents and families.
Join Liz and Mell for an empowering conversation with practical tips and applications for foster and adoptive families!
Episode Resources:
You can check out Joe and Mell's Strong Family Co. HERE.
They even have a free downloadable resource! Find that HERE.
2.A.M. Connect:If you enjoyed today's episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We're grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a fifth season, thank you!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon HERE.
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The Main Thing:Robyn Gobbel is just the kind of person who needs no introduction, because the minute you meet her, her passion for children from hard places comes alive. Robyn joined us for Episode 96 to talk all things neuroscience, the "scaffolding" concept, and what to do with the "baffling behaviors" that sometimes push us to the edge. Her practical approach to relational neurosciences is transforming the journey for helpers, healers, educators, and parents. We're so grateful she agreed to join us on the show --- this is one you won't want to miss, no matter the stage, phase, or season you find yourself. Robyn has something for EVERYONE! Episode Resources:For more with Robyn, click HERE for training, free resources, "the club," and her book! 2.A.M. Connect:If you enjoyed today's episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We're grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a fifth season, thank you!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon HERE.
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The Main Thing:We could not be more thrilled to invite Raquel McCloud back to the show! Every time we sit down with Raquel her words absolutely capture us. She is so gracious, honest, and passionate about her work, who God has called her to be, and how she's embracing what's next for her and for her family. For Episode 95 Raquel is back to help us tackle the topic of "preventing shame" in parenting. She's sharing her heart because of her own lived experiences while also shedding light on the bigger picture of "shame" when it comes to foster care and adoption. She is so intentional in how she shares and encourages others --- we know you're going to love this episode! Episode Resources:Raquel has so much to share! For more on the books she has authored and kinship care education, click HERE. 2.A.M. Connect:If you enjoyed today's episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We're grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a fifth season, thank you!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon HERE.
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The Main Thing:There's something about seeing things through the eyes of children that opens a way for deeper understanding and conversation. Children's author, Laura Khoury joined us for Episode 94 to share about her connection to the foster care and adoption world, and why she decided to write a book that specifically marks the journey of a child through the foster to adopt process. Laura's openness and kind heart make a great combination for the care and compassion behind The Tale of Mallory Mouse. We loved our time together, and know you will too --- plus, Mallory Mouse is a cutie! You'll be adding this book to your home library before you know it! Episode Resources:Bring Mallory Mouse to your home library! Click HERE to purchase your very own copy. 2.A.M. Connect:If you enjoyed today's episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We're grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a fifth season, thank you!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon HERE.
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The Main Thing:Attachment is a buzz-word in the adoption and foster care community. Recent research and conversation has brought this important theory to the forefront. If you've been walking the adoptive and foster journey for a while, chances are you've heard a lot about the four different attachment styles and why childhood experiences are important to learn. But how do you fit it into your day to day?
Parenting with an attachment-based approach takes practice and dedication. It's a perspective shift. And it's life-changing. Dr. Lark Eshleman is an expert in attachment trauma and helping parents better understand this perspective shift. Whether you are new to the adoption and foster care world or a seasoned parent with an older adoptee, this episode has refreshing insight and meaningful reminders on the significance of relationship and connection.
Episode Resources:
Dr. Lark has resources on her website, check it out HERE.
We talk about Dr. Karyn Purvis and TBRI on this show, we're big fans.
Learn more HERE.
We have some attachment based books in our resource library, which you can find HERE.
2 A.M. Connect:If you enjoyed today’s episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We’re grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a fifth season!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon.
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There are some people in our world doing some pretty amazing things for the children from hard places in our community. Mike Shapiro is one of those people. Mike is the Executive Director of The Swappow PLUS Foundation, a nonprofit that connects with foster youth through skateboarding. Yes, you heard right, skateboarding. Their mission is to change the trajectory of extraordinary youth through skateboarding. The lessons about life and faith that are learned through this experience are astounding and not only applicable to the youth, but to adults as well.
We're thrilled to have Mike share his story of faith and perseverance in beginning this work and finding a way to connect his interests and passions and serving the needs of foster youth in his community. Listen to be encouraged and empowered on how you can do the same.
Episode Resources:Check out the Swappow PLUS Foundation HERE.
To learn more about foster care in the US, you can start HERE. Remember there are specific state requirements and details, so check your state government for more information.
To find the 2 Adoptive Mamas book list, look HERE.
2 A.M. Connect:If you enjoyed today’s episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We’re grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a fifth season!
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The Main Thing:One of the best things about the podcast is when we make connections with YOU, our listeners! Leeann Hale reached out while we were scheduling Season 5 recordings, and after learning about her books and her story, we couldn't wait to introduce her to this community.
An adoptive and bio mom, Leeann is sharing her family's journey through heartbreak to healing. Her story is raw and her heart so passionate about the nuances of the adoption journey. We loved learning from her and being inspired by her --- and we know you will too. This is a "mama story" for keeping! Episode Resources:
To grab your copy of Sowing in Tears: A Mother's Sorry in Infertility and Joy in Adoption, click HERE.
And there's more! To order Part II, When Brokenness Becomes Beauty, click HERE.
Check out our 2 A.M. resource page HERE. 2 A.M. Connect:If you enjoyed today’s episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We’re grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a fifth season!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon HERE.
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The Main Thing:There's no on better to welcome as our first guest of Season Five than Herbie Newell. He is the President and Executive Director of Lifeline Children's Services, host of The Defender Podcast, and author of "Image Bearers: Shifting from Pro-Birth to Pro-Life."
Lifeline is the single largest Evangelical Christian adoption agency in the United States. Their work is remarkable and their take on "community" is like none other. Herbie shares some show-stopping realities of the foster care crisis in America and the role we all have in better caring for mothers and vulnerable children.
His wisdom and insight made for an incredible conversation, and will leave you challenged and inspired to create community, invest in community, and be the hands and feet of Jesus to those who need it most. Episode Resources:
For more with Lifeline Children's Services, click HERE.Check out our 2 A.M. resource page HERE. 2 A.M. Connect:If you enjoyed today’s episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We’re grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a fifth season!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon HERE.
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The Main Thing:We're back! And couldn't be more excited to bring you Season 5 of the Two Adoptive Mamas Podcast. This season is all about "community." We have been privileged over the past five seasons to build a community in this space, but we want to highlight the need and incredible value of having community right where you are. We have an awesome line-up of guests who have so willingly shared their hearts, expertise, passion, and personal stories. It's because of them that we are able to share Season Five with such excitement and with hopeful anticipation of how these episodes will challenge and teach us.
We're opening the season with a quick "hello," podcast update, and some more details about what we'll focus on this season. Remember - we're in this together! And you've got this, mama. Episode Resources:
Check out our 2 A.M. resource page HERE. 2 A.M. Connect:If you enjoyed today’s episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We’re grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a fifth season!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon HERE.
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The Main Thing:This week for Episode 088 we’re wrapping up Season 4 with some highlights and encouragement as we all step into the summer months. For both of us (Liz & Sarah) we have experienced a lot of transitions in recent months, and it’s not lost on us that the summer brings feelings of excitement but also lots of change. We’re excited to take a few moments to reflect on where we’ve been and some thoughts for the months ahead before we start our very own “summer break” for the show!
Episode Resources:Liz and Sarah are going local this summer through partnering with local agencies on events and connecting through support groups. Check out the 2AM website and Instagram for more details as they become available! 2AM Connect:If you enjoyed today’s episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We’re grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a fourth season!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon HERE. As always, it’s been fun! Until we meet again, remember, you’ve got this mama.
The Main Thing:One of our primary goals here at Two Adoptive Mamas is to take a deep dive when we need one. When Andrea Pollack's name came across our desk, we knew we needed this for Episode 087. While Andrea's work is not specific to families navigating foster care and adoption, her work resonates with the needs of many parenting kids from hard places.
Oftentimes we're not ready or willing to throw up our hands and sound the alarm for help, but Andrea's approach will remind us that finding the right resources and support is one of the best things we can do for ourselves and our families. Together we're taking a close look at what it means to support parents of children with an autism diagnosis. Andrea's expertise and personal experience have empowered her to make a difference in the lives of those longing to see their families thrive amidst the challenges that an autism diagnosis can bring. Her heart, passion, and commitment to education make for an informative episode that we hope will empower families to find the support they need. Episode Resources:For more with Andrea and Parenting Autism Coaching, click HERE.
Check out our 2 A.M. resource page HERE. 2 A.M. Connect:If you enjoyed today’s episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We’re grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a fourth season!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon HERE. As always, it’s been fun! Until we meet again, remember, you’ve got this mama.
The Main Thing:There's something extra-sweet about popping in your earbuds and having the opportunity to hear an adoption story from a mama. Sometimes through different seasons of our walk, we forget about the moments that made us families, and when we take a moment to reflect we see God's hand in each step.
For Episode 086 Sarah Nichols is sharing her family's walk through adoption and how God's purposeful timing challenged and refined them. We connected with Sarah simply because she is a follower of the show, and once we got a glimpse into her narrative we knew it was one we had to share with all of you! Her steadiness and resiliency are fueled by her faith. Her insight is refreshing and their story is an encouragement to the trials of the "wait" and a long-anticipated "match." We so enjoyed our chat with Sarah, and know you will too! Episode Resources:For more with Sarah Nichols, click HERE.
Check out our 2 A.M. resource page HERE. 2 A.M. Connect:If you enjoyed today’s episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We’re grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a fourth season!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon HERE. As always, it’s been fun! Until we meet again, remember, you’ve got this mama.
The Main Thing:We've said it before, and we'll say it again, there's so much to consider when we discuss the adoption triad. For Episode 085 we're taking a deep dive with Daniela Coats to discuss what it looks like to support the biological children in foster and adoptive families.
Daniela is a social worker by trade, but also a "bio kid of a foster/adoptive family" and is now an adoptive and bio mom herself. Her perspective is uniquely informed by her personal experiences and her professional training. We found the conversation to be informative and enlightening. Daniela provides opportunities for further education to families that find themselves in this niche, and we're thrilled to have had this time with her --- and to share it with all of you!
Episode Resources:Find Daniela on Instagram @with_siblings for more on upcoming training opportunities, recommended resources, and more!
Check out our 2 A.M. resource page HERE. 2 A.M. Connect:If you enjoyed today’s episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We’re grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a fourth season!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon HERE. As always, it’s been fun! Until we meet again, remember, you’ve got this mama.
The Main Thing:The dads are back! We’re thrilled to share this fun conversation for Episode 084 with Chris Telesco — you may remember his better half, Melissa, who joined us for Season 3 to share about their roller coaster ride to becoming a family of 6. Chris is so down to earth and gets real with the dads when it comes to navigating the unexpected of adoptive fatherhood. He’s sharing the ups and downs of 3 very unique adoptive situations and how he combatted the feelings of inadequacy and replaced it with a strong desire to love his children and make sure they knew the love of Jesus.
It goes without saying that together, Chris and Melissa are a few steps ahead of our families, and they’re someone we look up to and continue to learn from as they share their hearts. Grab your other half and first listen to Episode 060 and then listen to the Dadcast with Chris, Dan & Drew — they’re just the best!
Episode Resources:It's not about adoption/foster care, but it is a favorite podcast for Drew, and we're sharing it with you! Check out Dad Tired on your favorite podcast-listening app.
Check out our 2 A.M. resource page HERE. 2 A.M. Connect:If you enjoyed today’s episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We’re grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a fourth season!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon HERE. As always, it’s been fun! Until we meet again, remember, you’ve got this mama.
The Main Thing:For Episode 083 we're pleased to share the privilege of having a conversation with Sharon Denny. You name it, she's got the experience when it comes to foster care and adoption. Her heart is caring for the most vulnerable and her passion is helping us show up for our kids from hard places.
Sharon is a wealth of knowledge and a breath of fresh air among challenging circumstances --- her heart is for Jesus and family. It's not every day that we have the honor of rubbing shoulders (or Zoom frames!) with someone that has committed her life's work to loving others and making a difference amidst the brokenness that comes with foster care and adoption. We're so thankful for her time of sharing with this community!
Episode Resources:We love highlighting what our guests are reading. Sharon recently read What Happened to You? by Bruce Perry and recommends this conversation about trauma, resilience and healing.
We also have a new resource page! It's prettier, easier to navigate, and has easy-access links so you can quickly add to your library while also supporting the Two Adoptive Mamas Podcast. Check it out HERE. 2 A.M. Connect:If you enjoyed today’s episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We’re grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a fourth season!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon HERE. As always, it’s been fun! Until we meet again, remember, you’ve got this mama.
The Main Thing:We’re taking a trip! Down memory lane to take a closer look at what it looks like to prepare and actually travel for both international and domestic adoption. There are so many moving pieces to the adoption process, and the more you can do to prepare in advance, the less chaotic it will be in the moment. Or at least we can try to make it that way, right?!
During Episode 082 we are sharing our personal experiences and touching upon some of the nuances that transcend states and country lines. While we would never claim to know it all, we both have had our own experiences and have learned much from them and those who have gone before us. Whether you’re thinking about the process or preparing to travel we hope this conversation gives some hope, levity, and tangible help in preparing for this part of the journey. Episode Resources:We have a new resource page! It's prettier, easier to navigate, and has easy-access links so you can quickly add to your library while also supporting the Two Adoptive Mamas Podcast. Check it out HERE. 2 A.M. Connect:If you enjoyed today’s episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We’re grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a fourth season!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon HERE. As always, it’s been fun! Until we meet again, remember, you’ve got this mama.
The Main Thing:If there's one thing we've learned over the years, it's that through sharing stories we don't feel so alone. It's with this in mind that we recorded Episode 081 with Kelsey Knodel. She's sharing her mama-heart as she reflects on the adoption of their sweet girl and as they prepare their hearts and home to hopefully continue growing their family through adoption.
Kelsey's transparency amidst the hard coupled with her faith, hope, and commitment to the journey of adoption makes for a time of encouragement that you won't want to miss. Whether you're waiting, in the midst of parenting, or considering what's next for your family, Kelsey's perspective has something for everyone. Enjoy!
Episode Resources:We have a new resource page! It's prettier, easier to navigate, and has easy-access links so you can quickly add to your library while also supporting the Two Adoptive Mamas Podcast. Check it out HERE. 2 A.M. Connect:If you enjoyed today’s episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We’re grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a fourth season!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon HERE. As always, it’s been fun! Until we meet again, remember, you’ve got this mama.
The Main Thing:They're back! It's the dad-cast for Episode 080 and they're joined by Nate Smith to talk about finding perseverance and hope in the midst of foster care. You'll remember our time with Melinda on the podcast, and hearing their family's story through foster care. We've been so encouraged by their insight and courage to step into the broken and trust God to do the rest. Drew and Dan's conversation with Nate is a reflection of their heart for the most vulnerable and how to build a foundation of trust and respect with parents who find themselves amidst very challenging circumstances.
This one is for the dads (but you might like it too!) so join them for a deep dive into a family's story that will leave you encouraged, hopeful, and reminded of God's grace and provision through each part of the journey. Enjoy! Episode Resources:We have a new resource page! It's prettier, easier to navigate, and has easy-access links so you can quickly add to your library while also supporting the Two Adoptive Mamas Podcast. Check it out HERE. 2 A.M. Connect:
If you enjoyed today’s episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We’re grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a fourth season!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon HERE. As always, it’s been fun! Until we meet again, remember, you’ve got this mama.
The Main Thing:We're back! With Part 2 of our Parenting Teens mini-series with Abby Keiser from COBYS Family Services. This week we're taking a closer look at what it means to help a teen find their voice and how to effectively facilitate this in your home. Once again Abby starts with the basics and then takes us deeper to help with the day-to-day application of coming alongside our teens in this journey.
Whether your family is impacted by foster care or adoption, the teen years can be challenging but so, so transformative. Abby reminds us of the privilege we have to step into the mess with our teens, lean into our faith, and provide the space and opportunity these children need to find security and the courage to thrive.
Episode Resources:COBYS has access to cutting-edge training and programming to equip teens to "look after their emotional well-being" --- it's called the "Blues Program," and you've got to check it out! Click HERE to learn more.
2 A.M. Connect:If you enjoyed today’s episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We’re grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a fourth season!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon HERE. As always, it’s been fun! Until we meet again, remember, you’ve got this mama.
The Main Thing:Two words that can inflict some uncertainty --- parenting teens. Even more so, is parenting teens from hard places. But here's the thing, they need us and we have so much to learn from them. For Episode 078 Abby Keiser from COBYS Family Services is joining us for Part 1 of a mini-series on parenting your teen. We're starting with the basics and then getting even more specific as we identify what it takes in the day-to-day and how it impacts the big picture.
Whether you have a blip on the radar with a foster placement or a lifetime through adoption, these years are tough --- but we have a profound opportunity to plant a seed, lean into our faith, and help guide the way for these kiddos that we love so much.
Episode Resources:COBYS has access to cutting-edge training and programming to equip teens to "look after their emotional well-being" --- it's called the "Blues Program," and you've got to check it out! Click HERE to learn more.
2 A.M. Connect:If you enjoyed today’s episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We’re grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a fourth season!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon HERE. As always, it’s been fun! Until we meet again, remember, you’ve got this mama.
The Main Thing:Episode 077 is one that we could listen to over and over again. Ashley Mitchell is one of a kind. She's brought her heart, passion, and determination to tackle the tough stuff for this conversation and we're so thankful for it. Ashley is a birth mom, bio mom, wife, advocate, and so much more. Her story brings light to the parts of adoption that make us uncomfortable, and that's precisely why we invited her to be on the show.
Take in her words, let this conversation settle in your soul, and allow it to challenge your thinking and what it means for you in your own foster or adoption journey. There is a lot of tough stuff to tackle, but Ashley takes the high-level complexities and brings it to a place where we can sit in the muck together with hope for the future and the children who we love so much.
Episode Resources:Post-placement care for birth moms is essential, yet not universally accessible. Visit lifetimehealingfoundation.org for information and resources designed for birth moms on their journey of trauma and healing.
2 A.M. Connect:If you enjoyed today’s episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We’re grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a fourth season!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon HERE. As always, it’s been fun! Until we meet again, remember, you’ve got this mama.
The Main Thing:Heidi Glick is so full of heart, and our conversation with her is like a warm hug from a fellow adoptive mama who has been in the trenches and holds so much hope for the future. She’s opening up about her family’s journey through adoption and embracing the promise of hope we have in Jesus amidst the heartbreak that accompanies any adoption journey.
In addition to her personal story, for the first time we’re talking about ethical adoption, care for birth families, and what it looks like to navigate openness in an adoption relationship. Heidi’s honesty and compassion is refreshing, and we’re so thankful for her willingness to share with our listeners!
Episode Resources: We have a new resource page! It's prettier, easier to navigate, and has easy-access links so you can quickly add to your library while also supporting the Two Adoptive Mamas Podcast. Check it out HERE. 2 A.M. Connect:If you enjoyed today’s episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We’re grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a fourth season!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon HERE. As always, it’s been fun! Until we meet again, remember, you’ve got this mama.
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We first welcomed Chelsea Sobolik during Season 2 to talk about her work in advocating for families at our nation’s capital. Her personal story of adoption, journey to international adoption with her husband, and her professional work allow Chelsea to share one-of-a-kind insight. During our conversation Chelsea addresses high-level matters in a way that meets us in our day-to-day and reminds us there is a role for everyone to play. She’s sharing some recent personal highlights, a book update, and joins us as we take a closer look at advocacy, policy, and what it means to live in a post Roe v. Wade world. Her compassion, faith in Jesus, and commitment to caring for families is unmatched, and we’re so grateful to have her joining us for another episode!
Episode Resources:
We love Chelsea's book, Longing for Motherhood. Check it out on our 2 Adoptive Mamas favorite book list!
2 A.M. Connect:If you enjoyed today’s episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We’re grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a fourth season!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon HERE. As always, it’s been fun! Until we meet again, remember, you’ve got this mama.
The Main Thing:These stories are hard to share. They open wounds, challenge our faith, and test our hearts. There is nothing simple, easy, or brief when it comes to adoption and foster care. There is beauty and brokenness ---- healing and grief ---- and together we hold it all with the hopes that we can remain centered on one thing. Our heart for Him and our love for them. The children who need us most, and the stories that brought us together. The opportunity to reunify families, and the sacrifice and commitment it takes to make it happen. These stories are hard to share.
You might recognize Melinda from Season 2. She shared her heart and her family's experience as they welcomed their first foster placement --- a baby girl. For Episode 074 we have the honor and privilege of welcoming back Melinda along with Lindy. Together they have navigated difficult waters to be in a place where they can stand united in their love for a little girl who brought their families together. They're opening their hearts and sharing their story of reunification and openness in foster care. It's with humility and sincere gratitude that we share their story with you! Episode Resources:Looking for your next read? Click HERE to access our new and improved resource page! 2 A.M. Connect:
If you enjoyed today’s episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We’re grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a fourth season!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon HERE. As always, it’s been fun! Until we meet again, remember, you’ve got this mama.
The Main Thing:They're the silent heroes behind the podcast, supporting us since day one and every step of the way. They're our other halves and have walked the joyful, painful, everyday moments with us. They're our beloved husbands, and they're taking over the podcast! We thought it was time for the dads to have a voice and bring their insight to the table. When Dan and Drew agreed to take over the show for a few episodes this season, we were thrilled!
So --- time to hand over the ear-buds to your partner in crime (or tune in yourself!) because the Dads are taking a deep dive into their shadow feelings, how they're finding community, and why moms AND dads need to talk about the "tough stuff" too. Enjoy!
Episode Resources:This is one of our favorite reads as a family, check it out HERE! 2 A.M. Connect:
If you enjoyed today’s episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We’re grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a fourth season!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon HERE. As always, it’s been fun! Until we meet again, remember, you’ve got this mama.
The Main Thing:This episode is terrific. That might sound very self-promoting, but it has nothing to do with us and EVERYTHING to do with Raquel's heart for adoption, kinship care, and transforming lives and families with her message. She is fantastic and joins us for a deep dive into shadow feelings, kinship care, and life as an adoptee and a birth mom. During our conversation, Raquel opens up about healthy boundaries, how to preserve your family's story, and what it looks like to thrive amidst kinship care. She's the real deal and so eloquently shares her heart and passion to equip families facing similar challenges. Episode Resources:Check out one of Racquel's books HERE - a great addition to your library! 2 A.M. Connect:
If you enjoyed today’s episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We’re grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a fourth season!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon HERE. As always, it’s been fun! Until we meet again, remember, you’ve got this mama.
The Main Thing:There's nothing like a good book! But what about when you're looking for one to help tell your family's story, and you just can't seem to find the right narrative? Adoption is beautiful, messy, hard, complicated --- difficult to put into an appropriate amount of pages that won't take days to read. But we're in luck! For Episode 071 we're hanging out with Allison Olson. She's an adoptee, adoptive mom, and now the author of the children's book, Surrounded By Love: An Open Adoption Story.
During our time together we had the privilege of learning more about her connection to the adoption community and how that not only inspired her book but the narrative she wants to help facilitate for so many families. She's fun, real, encouraging, and just the kind of friend you'd want to add to your book club! Episode Resources:Get your copy of Surrounded By Love HERE. For more with Allison, you can follow her on Instagram [@kidsbooksbyallisonolson]. 2 A.M. Connect:
If you enjoyed today’s episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We’re grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a fourth season!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon HERE. As always, it’s been fun! Until we meet again, remember, you’ve got this mama.
The Main Thing:Sometimes it's difficult to articulate the challenges we face as foster and adoptive parents. As we navigate the needs of our children, our own feelings, emotions, and needs often fall to the wayside and when we finally come up for air we might find ourselves feeling disconnected and deflated by our circumstances.
If this sounds familiar to you, you may be experiencing something called "blocked care." Experts Melissa and Lisa are joining us from The Adoption Connection to take a closer look at blocked care and how we can overcome it. Their professional and personal experiences, coupled with their heart to care for families through community, made for such a rich discussion for Episode 070! Episode Resources:Melissa and Lisa are gifting a link to get their video training for FREE to all our listeners!
Click HERE for access!For more about The Adoption Connection, you can find them on Instagram (@postadoptionresources) or at www.theadoptionconnection.com. 2 A.M. Connect:
If you enjoyed today’s episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We’re grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a fourth season!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon HERE. As always, it’s been fun! Until we meet again, remember, you’ve got this mama.
The Main Thing:Can you believe it?! Season 4 is HERE! It's been 68 episodes since we introduced ourselves, so we figured for Episode 069 (and for all the new listeners!) we'd take a step back into our stories, our shadow feelings, and how we ended up in this space together.
Since day one, we have remained committed to creating a community centered around love, trust, and respect for the experience and opportunities that have made us families. Our children are precious, and their stories belong to them. However, we are making the space to acknowledge our journey to becoming mamas and the joy and challenges that have come with that privileged role. Wherever you are in your adoption journey, it is okay to feel what you feel, find a safe space to say what you need to say, and at the end of the day (or really any part of it), bring it all to Jesus.
Thanks for being here with us. We're honored to kick off Season 4 and grateful for the opportunity to share with you!
Episode Resources:We have a new resource page! It's prettier, easier to navigate, and has easy-access links so you can quickly add to your library while also supporting the Two Adoptive Mamas Podcast. Check it out HERE. 2 A.M. Connect:
If you enjoyed today’s episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We’re grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a fourth season!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon HERE. As always, it’s been fun! Until we meet again, remember, you’ve got this mama.
The Main Thing:The Two Adoptive Mamas Podcast is signing off with a salute to Season 3 for Episode 068. It’s been a really special season filled with dynamite conversations, and we’re just so thankful for the gift of time and insight that our guests have shared. We’re taking a few minutes to reflect on the past 6 months, review some of our favorite moments, and also share our vision for the future of Two Adoptive Mamas. We look forward to all that Season 4 will hold! Episode Resources:We're in the process of updating our resources - more is always better! Have a favorite resource to share? We'd love to know! E-mail us at hello@twoadoptivemamas.com. 2 A.M. Connect:
If you enjoyed today’s episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We’re grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a third season!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon at twoadoptivemamas.com. As always, it’s been fun! Until we meet again, remember, you’ve got this mama.
The Main Thing:This week we’re sitting down with Kelly Mahler to talk all things interoception. Do you know what that is? We had a more general idea and this has quickly become one of the topics we wanted to highlight with a deeper dive! There’s a lot to understand, acknowledge and embrace when it comes to interoception, so while we’re highlighting it for Episode 067, we’re not able to unpack every aspect in our time together — so stay tuned because we’ll keep digging into this topic in future episodes!
Kelly is an Occupational Therapist with a heart for equipping caretakers to validate and uncover the uniqueness of an interoception experience. She has developed an award-winning curriculum and a steadfast community of those committed to the research and application of interoception, and she continues to take a closer look at these concepts as related to those who have experienced trauma. Her work is fascinating, reassuring, and thought-provoking! There’s so much to take away from our conversation with Kelly - we know you’re going to love her just as much as we do! Episode Resources:For more with Kelly on interoception, curriculum and research, click HERE. 2 A.M. Connect:
If you enjoyed today’s episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We’re grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a third season!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon at twoadoptivemamas.com. As always, it’s been fun! Until we meet again, remember, you’ve got this mama.
The Main Thing:It's par for the course of adoption to have unknowns. Add on top of that international travel, and that adds a layer. But then there was the addition of a global pandemic --- and all bets were off. Our hearts ache for the children and their forever families that still await placement because of the restrictions over the last two years. Adoption has always been complicated --- but this has been uncharted territory.
Thankfully, adoptive moms like Brigitta Canfield are willing to share their stories, encourage others, and relay a reminder that we were never in control in the first place --- God is. Brigitta joined us for Episode 066 of the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast to share her family's journey to adopting internationally amidst the pandemic. Her perspective of God's work and trust in His plan throughout the entire process is refreshing and we know it will be inspiring to others. Episode Resources:Click HERE for our Two Adoptive Mamas resource list! 2 A.M. Connect:
If you enjoyed today’s episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We’re grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a third season!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon at twoadoptivemamas.com. As always, it’s been fun! Until we meet again, remember, you’ve got this mama.
The Main Thing:Adoption is changing. If you've been in the process and engaged in conversation among the adoption community, adoption today is a lot different than the adoption of yesterday. There's so much to navigate once you immerse yourself into this process. It's overwhelming, there are lots of questions to be answered, plenty of paperwork to complete --- but in the end one goal --- family.
For Episode 065 of the Two Adoptive Mamas Podcast we're joined by Erin Quick - and let us just say, you're going to love her. She focused her skills, talents, and heart for helping children find forever families by founding PairTree. They're literally changing the face of the adoption process when it comes to home study completion, matching, and support. Erin's story is so encouraging, and what's even better is how she has used her own experience to impact the experience of so many families! Episode Resources:Click HERE for our Two Adoptive Mamas resource list! 2 A.M. Connect:
If you enjoyed today’s episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We’re grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a third season!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon at twoadoptivemamas.com. As always, it’s been fun! Until we meet again, remember, you’ve got this mama.
The Main Thing:So you’re in the process of adopting, you’re thinking about beginning the journey, or you’ve been matched and you’re wondering how it’s all going to happen, right?! And when we say how it’s all going to happen, we don’t mean the travel or even the parenting — we mean the mountain of financial responsibility that stands between you and bringing that precious child home. It’s a real stressor and it’s a legitimate hurdle! We have been there and done that, and so we’re bringing you the very best of our experience and insight on how to balance the reality of the need and the trust we have in our Heavenly Father who will provide ALL we need.
Join Liz and our special guest — her husband Dan, for Episode 064 of The Two Adoptive Mamas podcast. We’re hoping this leaves you encouraged, inspired, and a little more hopeful that it is possible to cross that financial finish line! Episode Resources:Here are some of our favorite links and sites that talk about funding an adoption, grants, and resources for fundraising:
- 5 Reasons Adoption Can Be Expensive
- Funding Your Adoption — Show Hope | How to Adopt
- HowToAdopt.org
- How Much Does Adoption Cost? - Lifesong for Orphans
- Is the Cost of Adoption Worth It?
- 8 Adoption Grants You Should Know About - Lifesong for Orphans
- Why Is Adoption So Expensive?
- Adoption Grants: Find the Funds for Your Adoption
2 A.M. Connect:
If you enjoyed today’s episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We’re grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a third season!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon at twoadoptivemamas.com. As always, it’s been fun! Until we meet again, remember, you’ve got this mama.
The Main Thing:Greer Cooper's story leaves us in awe of God's plan when we step aside and allow Him to do the math. She started her role as a foster parent long before meeting and marrying her now husband. Now, they continue to open their home together.
Join us for Episode 063 of the Two Adoptive Mamas Podcast for a conversation on the day-to-day of foster care, what it looks like to navigate the impact of blocked care, and how to keep your peace amidst so much unknown. Greer has a unique perspective to share as she unpacks the transition from single parenthood to marriage and sharing heart for the most vulnerable. She's so sweet! And we know you'll spot how special her story is as you tune in for this episode. Enjoy! Episode Resources:Click HERE for our Two Adoptive Mamas resource list! 2 A.M. Connect:
If you enjoyed today’s episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We’re grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a third season!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon at twoadoptivemamas.com. As always, it’s been fun! Until we meet again, remember, you’ve got this mama.
The Main Thing:To know the work of The Sparrow Fund and the heart of Director, Kelly Raudenbush is to understand their passion about caring for caregivers.
We were so thrilled to have Kelly join us for Episode 062 to talk about the important work happening within this organization and also address the mental load that comes with all parts of adoption. Too often we're not talking about the topics that Kelly brings to light, and so in true Two Adoptive Mamas fashion...we're bringing it to the table!
Kelly's heart for vulnerable children and the work she's leading at The Sparrow Fund is taking pre and post-adoptive care to the next level. There's something for everyone in this episode, and we know you'll find it as captivating as we did! And...Kelly is awesome. Enjoy! Episode Resources:Visit The Sparrow Fund for more! 2 A.M. Connect:
If you enjoyed today’s episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We’re grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a third season!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon at twoadoptivemamas.com. As always, it’s been fun! Until we meet again, remember, you’ve got this mama.
The Main Thing:If you look up "super dad" in the dictionary, you'll see Peter Mutabazi's name as part of the definition. We can assure you you've never heard a story like his (at least we hadn't!) and that he is one you'll never forget.
For Episode 061 Peter joins us to share his personal story of becoming known and his life's mission to make the children in his home also known. Peter is actively stepping into the trenches with children who desperately need stability, love, and a place to call home. His desire to love, serve and equip them for as long as he can is such an encouragement to those also facing the challenges of the foster care system.
Peter's story is the definition of "beauty in brokenness." We hope you're as touched as we were by this episode. Enjoy! Episode Resources:Peter wrote a book! Check out Now I Am Known and get your copy today! We can't wait to read it. 2 A.M. Connect:
If you enjoyed today’s episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We’re grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a third season!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon at twoadoptivemamas.com. As always, it’s been fun! Until we meet again, remember, you’ve got this mama.
The Main Thing:Surprise! If you didn't catch it on our Instagram, Sarah and her family are awaiting placement in their second domestic adoption process. If you listened to our very first episode, you know how quickly placement occurred with their daughter. This time has been very different and allowed for an opportunity to build a beautiful relationship with a birth mom.
If you're open to openness, but wondering what that might look like pre-placement, Sarah's chatting about her own experience in this mama-minisode!
Everyone's story and experience are different. Each adoption and placement are unique. This is a small opportunity for us to give you, our faithful listeners, a glimpse into our own lives and how we're learning alongside you in this beautiful adventure of building families. We hope you enjoy it! Episode Resources:We love sharing resources! Do you have a favorite? Please share with us by emailing hello@twoadoptivemamas.com. You can visit our resource list by clicking HERE. 2 A.M. Connect:
If you enjoyed today’s episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We’re grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a third season!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon at twoadoptivemamas.com. As always, it’s been fun! Until we meet again, remember, you’ve got this mama.
The Main Thing:We've had the privilege of exploring the adoption process from a number of angles thanks to our guests and their willingness to step into the mess with us!
For Episode 058 we're sitting down with MacKenzie Mygatt - not only is she an adoption consultant (and walked the process with Sarah during her second domestic adoption process!) she is also an adoptive mom and has an incredible heart for the entire journey that is the adoption process. To know MacKenzie is to know thoughtfulness, incredible care, encouragement, and to be covered in prayer. She is such a light in this daunting process for families and has such a breadth of knowledge when it comes to navigating the ups and downs.
If you're considering adoption and curious about what it means to have a consultant be part of the plan, this episode is for you! Episode Resources:We love sharing resources! Do you have a favorite? Please share with us by emailing hello@twoadoptivemamas.com. You can visit our resource list by clicking HERE. 2 A.M. Connect:
If you enjoyed today’s episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We’re grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a third season!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon at twoadoptivemamas.com. As always, it’s been fun! Until we meet again, remember, you’ve got this mama.
The Main Thing:Tracy always had a heart for orphans, so when their family learned of the opportunity to host international orphans in hopes of helping them to find a forever family stateside, they were all-in. After a few opportunities, the Scoggins family hosted a young boy from Ukraine and he immediately stole Tracy's heart. With a heart for adoption, she was hopeful that her family might also feel the special connection. Sadly, the young boy returned to his home, and Tracy was left with an impossible feeling of emptiness.
But God.
Join us for Episode 057 to hear Tracy's story of trust, faith, and perseverance. It's a story only God could write for a family willing to follow the call. We're so grateful for our time with Tracy and we know her story will be an encouragement to all who listen!
Episode Resources:Adoption Through the Rearview Mirror by Karen Springs 2 A.M. Connect:
If you enjoyed today’s episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We’re grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a third season!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon at twoadoptivemamas.com. As always, it’s been fun! Until we meet again, remember, you’ve got this mama.
The Main Thing:It's special when you hear from more than one part of the adoption triad, and that's exactly what is happening for Episode 056 of the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast. Daniel Kreider is sharing his story of adoption and how it's transformed his walk with the Lord. As a husband, father, and youth pastor, his insight is not only heartfelt but undoubtedly tells a story of grace, restoration, and growth. It was a privilege to hear from Dan's mom, Deb for Episode 055, and such a treat to now have his perspective and story of hope for our listeners! Episode Resources:We love sharing resources! Do you have a favorite? Please share with us by emailing hello@twoadoptivemamas.com. You can visit our resource list by clicking HERE. 2 A.M. Connect:
If you enjoyed today’s episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We’re grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a third season!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon at twoadoptivemamas.com. As always, it’s been fun! Until we meet again, remember, you’ve got this mama.
The Main Thing:If we've learned one thing amidst our own parenting journies, it's the value of hearing from someone who has gone before you. They've been there, done that, and had to have those conversations. It's refreshing to know we're not alone and that while we might not be in that stage now, we will eventually, and by the grace of our Heavenly Father we will find a way to thrive!
Deb Kreider is a mom who loves Jesus and holds fast to the promise of His grace and provision for her family. She and her husband built their family through adoption, and while there have been ups and downs, they wouldn't trade their journey for anything. During Episode 055 Deb shares her experience of parenting adult adoptees and even more so how adoption looks now compared to when her children were infants. Deb's honesty, transparency, and encouragement will meet you where you're at and encourage you with some timeless wisdom for when you reach "that stage" of parenting. We're so grateful for our time with her, and we know you'll benefit from it too! Episode Resources:Check out our Two Adoptive Mamas resource list HERE. This week, we're highlighting Paul David Tripp's, Parenting: 14 Gospel Principles That Can Radically Change Your Family.
2 A.M. Connect:
If you enjoyed today’s episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We’re grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a third season!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon at twoadoptivemamas.com. As always, it’s been fun! Until we meet again, remember, you’ve got this mama.
The Main Thing:As parents, sometimes there is nothing as comforting as hearing from someone who has been in your shoes, is walking a similar journey, and is willing to share insight from their own experience.
For Episode 054 we're sitting down with adoptive mom, Taylor Johnson. When they adopted their son through the National Down Syndrome Adoption Network, they had lots of questions and sought out the support offered by the network. Together their family has navigated the needs of their son, but most of all embraced the love and joy he brings to their family.
Taylor's steadiness and humble confidence are refreshing as she shares their family's path to working with NDSAN and how they've continued to be active in the support and resources/education offered by their local support group. Whether you're pursuing adoption, considering a partnership with NDSAN, or seeking to better support a family in your community touched by Down Syndrome, this episode is for you! Episode Resources:For the NDSAN Parent Group Listing, Click HERE.
The National Down Syndrome Congress (NDSC) has an entire library of webinars - a one-stop resource for educating adoptive families on all the topics. Click HERE to access it!
2 A.M. Connect:
If you enjoyed today’s episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We’re grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a third season!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon at twoadoptivemamas.com. As always, it’s been fun! Until we meet again, remember, you’ve got this mama.
The Main Thing:For Episode 053 we’re welcoming Stephanie Thompson, Director of the National Down Syndrome Adoption Network (NDSAN). She is the parent of a son with a Down Syndrome diagnosis and a professional who has been a lifeline and resource to so many families. She’s sharing her personal story along with the care and support the NDSAN provides locally and nationally to adoptive families.
As prospective or current adoptive families, there are so many pieces that can seem overwhelming and like just too much. Facing any type of diagnosis for your child will leave you with questions and wondering who else has been there and what kind of support there is as you walk the journey. For parents of children with a Down Syndrome diagnosis, NDSAN has become a highly sought-after resource. Whether you’re pursuing a Down Syndrome adoption, have recently learned of a diagnosis, want to know more about what it would be like to welcome a child with this diagnosis into your family forever, or are supporting a family who is touched by Down Syndrome — this episode is for you! Episode Resources:For the NDSAN Parent Group Listing, Click HERE.
The National Down Syndrome Congress (NDSC) has an entire library of webinars - a one-stop resource for educating adoptive families on all the topics. Click HERE to access it!
2 A.M. Connect:
If you enjoyed today’s episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We’re grateful to host the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a third season!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon at twoadoptivemamas.com. As always, it’s been fun! Until we meet again, remember, you’ve got this mama.
The Main Thing:JT Olson is a one-of-a-kind guy. His heart for the Lord, care for vulnerable widows and children, and commitment to living out the gospel are unmatched. He’s funny, heartwarming, real, and so down to earth when it comes to equipping others to be the hands and feet of Jesus — and he lives by example! Join us for Episode 052 of the Two Adoptive Mamas Podcast to learn more about JT’s personal story, his family’s connection to adoption, and the unique opportunity that led to the creation of the Both Hands organization. To date, Both Hands has helped thousands of children find their forever families and has touched the lives of widows in need in the process. For more on how you can be involved, visit bothhands.org.
Episode Resources:
Get your copy of JT's book, The Widow, The Orphan, and Me - click HERE!
2 A.M. Connect:
If you enjoyed today’s episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We’re grateful to be hosting the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a third season!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon at twoadoptivemamas.com. As always, it’s been fun! Until we meet again, remember, you’ve got this mama.
The Main Thing:From day one it's been a priority at Two Adoptive Mamas to magnify important conversations that need to be happening in the foster and adoption world. More importantly, it is crucial to discuss these topics while embracing each part of the adoption triad.
For Episode 051 we're sitting down with Eleanor and Marlene to take a deeper dive into navigating open adoption. Capturing both the adoptive mom and birth mom's perspectives in this episode, we're removing the titles and making way for what really matters when it comes to loving our children.
We laughed, cried, and found a lot of common ground during our minutes together. While you can't see it as a listener, we had the privilege of watching Eleanor and Marlene sit side by side and share their respect, love, and commitment to family.
This is one of those episodes that stopped us in our tracks. While you may have to adjust or rewind a few times to catch all the audio, we promise it's worth it. We'll treasure this conversation forever.
Episode Resources:
Catch our conversation with Eleanor from Season 1 on the adoption triad HERE.
2 A.M. Connect:
If you enjoyed today’s episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We’re grateful to be hosting the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a third season!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon at twoadoptivemamas.com. As always, it’s been fun! Until we meet again, remember, you’ve got this mama.
The Main Thing:To those who follow her, she's a constant resource, encouragement, and much-needed dose of reality when navigating the ups and downs of foster care. Her heart for the Lord, care for vulnerable children, and desire to keep educating and supporting adoptive and foster families are unmatched.
For Episode 050 of the Two Adoptive Mama's Podcast, we're sitting down with Jamie Finn from Foster the Family to talk about love and loss. She's sharing her family's story, her work with Foster the Family, and more about authoring her very first book. Together our conversation spanned a variety of topics that together make up the complicated, challenging, yet necessary components of stepping into foster care. Whether you're considering foster care or find yourself in the "thick of it," Jamie's words will meet you right where you're at. We so enjoyed our time together, and know this episode will be an encouragement to you!
Episode Resources:
Foster the Familyby Jamie C. Finn
www.fosterthefamily.org
For other 2AM episodes pertaining to attachment and trauma-informed parenting, click HERE.
2 A.M. Connect:
If you enjoyed today’s episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We’re grateful to be hosting the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a third season!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon at twoadoptivemamas.com. As always, it’s been fun! Until we meet again, remember, you’ve got this mama.
The Main Thing:It's really important to us at Two Adoptive Mamas that we dive into different stories, perspectives, and experiences in hopes that we'll meet our community of listeners where they're at. Dr. Taylor Whittington brings the adoptee perspective to this conversation, sharing her personal story of adoption and how as an adult and mental health advocate she is passionate about the dialogue among today's adult adoptees.
While Taylor's experience may not mirror that of others, her story and perspective are thought-provoking as we think about raising the next generation of adoptees, providing opportunities for support, and continuing to serve as resources to one another.
At Two Adoptive Mamas, we are grateful for the insight and wisdom of those in our community. We're here to talk about it. We believe that in order to be the best mamas we can be for our kids, it's crucial to learn from one another and lean into each other so we can embrace and thrive within the plan God has for our families.
We are so grateful to Dr. Taylor Whittington for sharing her story with us; we know you'll enjoy it too!
Episode Resources:
Pear the Adopted Bear, by Dr. Taylor Whittington
2 A.M. Connect:
If you enjoyed today’s episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We’re grateful to be hosting the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a third season!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon at twoadoptivemamas.com. As always, it’s been fun! Until we meet again, remember, you’ve got this mama.
The Main Thing:
Lauren McAfee loves Jesus, her role as wife and “mama,” and has an incredibly special way of sharing her family’s story of courage, heartbreak, and trust in God’s plan. We can’t think of a better way to begin Season 3 than to introduce you to Lauren and let her share the story of how God’s call has left them in the depths of joy, sorrow, and the need to continually seek and trust in Him.
As we listened back to this conversation, we found ourselves in awe of Lauren’s ability to manage so much yet with such grace that she so genuinely cherishes her varying roles in this season of life. Whether you’re thinking about adoption, in the wait, or in the trenches and wondering how to manage it all, Lauren has a message for you. While none of us can offer a magical solution to whatever it is you may be facing, we can find encouragement, wisdom, and insight from Lauren’s journey as we navigate our own.
Episode Resources:
The Body Keeps Score by Bessel van der Kolk, M.D.
Every Moment Holy by Douglas Kaine McKelvey
2 A.M. Connect:
If you enjoyed today’s episode, or know someone who could benefit from our show, the best thing you can do is leave us a rating and review wherever you listen to your podcasts. We’re grateful to be hosting the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast for a third season!
Learn more about how you can support our ongoing work through our Patreon at twoadoptivemamas.com. As always, it’s been fun! Until we meet again, remember, you’ve got this mama.
The Main Thing:
You’ll find that Episode 047 is a compilation of our thoughts and reflections on what Season 2 brought to the podcast, and what we’re looking forward to most for the future of Two Adoptive Mamas. We never could have imagined what we would learn, what others would share, and how we would become even more connected within the adoption and foster care community.
We’re thrilled to share that Season 3 is already in the works. As we have in the past, we’ll be a little quieter on our social platforms and won’t be releasing any new episodes for the next 12 weeks. But after that, we’ll be back for another six months! We can’t wait to continue this journey of learning and “momming” together.
Episode Resources:For our growing list of favorite resources, visittwoadoptivemamas.com/resources/.
2 A.M. Connect:
Are you interested in being part of the Two Adoptive Mamas Patreon crowd? Your generous support of $5, $7, or $10 per month would mean so much to us. Click HEREto learn more! Thanks for helping us prepare for the launch of Season 3!
The Main Thing:
We like to dive deeper into the conversations that need to happen, but aren't happening enough --- and Episode 046 is just that. Megan Boudreaux is an author, advocate, adoptive mama, and founder of Respire Haiti. Her message has challenged the thoughts of many, but the truth, love, and passion behind her family's mission are nothing short of incredible.
We were thrilled to sit down with Megan to hear just a snippet of her decade-long journey that is helping bring restoration to brokenness and truth to how we can actually care for orphans globally.
It's always our goal to keep these episodes between 30-40 minutes because we know as moms, even that can be difficult to carve out in our day. The truth is, we could have talked to Megan for hours - and then some! We hope you love this episode just as much as we do! Megan is a treasure and a gift to have at the helm of such important work happening Haiti. Enjoy!
Episode Resources:
Respire Haiti Website: Respirehaiti.org
Instagram: @meganinhaiti
Megan's Book: Miracle on Voodoo Mountain
2 A.M. Connect:
The finale of Season 2 is upon us, but don't fret --- we're gearing up for Season 3! We are grateful to our patrons who help us fund the podcast and we're fortunate to be able to continue sharing in this space.
Are you interested in being part of the Two Adoptive Mamas Patreon crowd? Your generous support of $5, $7, or $10 per month would mean so much to us. Click HERE to learn more! Thanks for being here with us!
The Main Thing:
We’re taking a moment (Mama-minisode 045) to reflect this week, as mamas, on recent global events. It’s heavy, it’s controversial, and we’re not looking to take any type of stance or suggest how you should conduct your day-to-day.
We are, however, offering some resources that we have found to be very helpful in evaluating what is happening, through a biblical lens, and what it looks like to navigate this in our homes from this corner of the world.
We’ve linked all the resources shared in this episode in our show notes, so if you might find these helpful, you can find them there.
We’re in this together, mamas. Hard IS hard, but even we would admit that recent weeks have added some pretty substantial heartache for many across the globe.
Please continue to join us in prayer, specifically for the moms across the globe, who are facing their hard and still have to show up and “mom” every day.
Episode Resources:
Christian Alliance for Orphans: Windows into the Invasion of Ukraine
The Gospel Coalition: How to Talk to Kids About the War in Ukraine
2 A.M. Connect:
We need your questions! What do you want to know about us? About our stories? What have you been wondering about as a prospective or current adoptive/foster parent? Ask us and we are going to ANSWER all of your questions on an upcoming episode of the podcast!
Send them our way - hello@twoadoptivemamas.com - we’ll answer them anonymously and can’t wait to hear what you’re most curious about!
The Main Thing:
There is so much stress and anxiety surrounding how to have “the talk” with our adopted children. Not that talk (wink, wink), but the talk and truth in how a family can be built through adoption.
How do we bring it up? What will we think? How do we answer their questions? What if they’re upset? What if I feel hurt by their reaction?
Whitney Bunker, author of We Can Talk About It, joined us for Episode 044 to answer our questions, provide tangible strategies, and offer support to adoptive parents as they help children understand family. The conversation is intimidating! We recognize this and want to help equip our mamas (and their partners!) to feel confident in approaching conversations around foster care and adoption with love and respect that will only further the trust we have built as families.
Whitney’s book is a comfort for children and a resource for parents, offering a child-friendly storyline and a multitude of tips at the end of the book for parents and caregivers. We love this resource and our conversation with Whitney was so enlightening!
Episode Resources:
For more with Whitney, and to find her book We Can Talk About It, visitwww.whitneybunker.com.
2 A.M. Connect:
We need your questions! What do you want to know about us? About our stories? What have you been wondering about as a prospective or current adoptive/foster parent? Ask us and we are going to ANSWER all of your questions on an upcoming episode of the podcast!
Send them our way -hello@twoadoptivemamas.com- we’ll answer them anonymously and can’t wait to hear what you’re most curious about!
The Main Thing:
As adoptive and foster parents (or prospective ones!) we are "in the midst" of it all the time. It's on our hearts, in our minds, part of our physical routine, and most of our practical day-to-day. But, do we know and understand the theological roots of adoption?
For Episode 043, we're going there with Pastor Luke Le Duc. He's giving us an overview of "adoption" in the Old and New Testaments and sketching a landscape of what it means for our lives today. We had so many questions, thoughts, and ideas, and all three of us did our best to pack it into a 40-minute episode that we believe will challenge and encourage every listener.
We've said it before, and we'll say it again. We like the "deep dives" over here at Two Adoptive Mamas, and our conversation with Luke falls right in line with that purpose! Enjoy --- and be encouraged!
Episode Resources:
Luke shared a quote from The Gospel Comes with a House Key: Practicing Radically Ordinary Hospitality in Our Post-Christian World by Rosaria Champagne Butterfield - grab your copy HERE!
2 A.M. Connect:
We need your questions! What do you want to know about us? About our stories? What have you been wondering about as a prospective or current adoptive/foster parent? Ask us and we are going to ANSWER all of your questions on an upcoming episode of the podcast!
Send them our way -hello@twoadoptivemamas.com- we’ll answer them anonymously and can’t wait to hear what you’re most curious about!
The Main Thing:
It’s comforting to know we’re not alone, and that’s exactly what Sosha Garlow reminds us in Episode 042. She’s a mama of biological and adopted girls, a Two Adoptive Mamas listener, and passionate about connecting moms in need of support. Willing to share her story of heartbreak, love, and perseverance during their journey to become a family of five, our conversation with Sosha is like a warm hug, laugh, and boost of encouragement that helps any day of the week!
We all know it takes a village to raise a child, but Sosha reminds us that it takes a community of support, love, and understanding to walk side by side through motherhood. We’re so grateful to Sosha for sharing her story, and we hope you enjoy your time with her as much as we did!
Episode Resources:
We love sharing our favorite resources! Check out our listHEREand follow us on Instagram (@2adoptivemamas) for our Wednesday weekly book recommendations!
2 A.M. Connect:
We need your questions! What do you want to know about us? About our stories? What have you been wondering about as a prospective or current adoptive/foster parent? Ask us and we are going to ANSWER all of your questions on an upcoming episode of the podcast!
Send them our way -hello@twoadoptivemamas.com- we’ll answer them anonymously and can’t wait to hear what you’re most curious about!
The Main Thing:
The home study. It’s a daunting component of the adoption process. We’re not sure about you, but when it was our time to join the paperwork brigade, we had a lot of questions!
Part of our mission at Two Adoptive Mamas is to meet you in the day-to-day of wherever you may be in the process. So, if you’re thinking about adoption or beginning to venture into the trenches of paperwork, this episode is for you!
For Episode 041 the Two Adoptive Mamas themselves are taking the mics and unpacking the process, the questions, and what we’ve learned from our own experiences. We’ll share tips, tricks, what kept us sane, and even (dare we say) how to make the process fun (or at least more enjoyable)! Join us as we get back to basics and Home Study 101 with the mamas!
Episode Resources:
Check out these helpful resources regarding the home study process!HowToAdopt.org
Completing a home study
Adoption Network - Home Study Requirements by State
American Adoptions - Home Study Checklist – What Every Parent Needs to Prepare
American Adoptions - Home Study Questions: Preparing for the Interview
2 A.M. Connect:
We need your questions! What do you want to know about us? About our stories? What have you been wondering about as a prospective or current adoptive/foster parent? Ask us and we are going to ANSWER all of your questions on an upcoming episode of the podcast!Send them our way - hello@twoadoptivemamas.com- we’ll answer them anonymously and can’t wait to hear what you’re most curious about!
The Main Thing:
She’s back and she’s the best. We loved our time with Kanisha Tillman during Season One (check it out HERE!) and so we couldn’t wait for the opportunity to have her back and dive deeper into hair care as it applies to transracial adoptive and foster families.
Kanisha is so real and we love her raw, loving, and enthusiastic approach to helping parents everywhere embrace the gift of welcoming a child into our home, even when that means there might be a hair care learning curve for mom and dad!
During this episode we’re talking about the do’s and dont’s, this or thats, and all the things that might surprise us about black hair care. Through our laughter and enjoyment of this conversation with Kanisha is a ton of heart for the connection of culture and confidence that comes with intentional hair care. We love Kanisha, and we know you will too!
Episode Resources:Find Kanisha on Instagram (tutus_tennis_shoes), Facebook (@tutustennisshoes), and HERE on the web!
2 A.M. Connect:
We need your questions! What do you want to know about us? About our stories? What have you been wondering about as a prospective or current adoptive/foster parent? Ask us and we are going to ANSWER all of your questions on an upcoming episode of the podcast!
Send them our way -hello@twoadoptivemamas.com- we’ll answer them anonymously and can’t wait to hear what you’re most curious about!
The Main Thing:Erin Staudenbaur is one of the most compassionate, tender-hearted people you’ll meet. As an adoptive and foster mom, she has a unique story to share of how they built their family amidst a passionate commitment to care for vulnerable children.
We’re so thankful for Erin’s willingness to join us for this episode to reveal more about the challenges and blessings of foster care and adoption. She explains her perspective of the “Savior complex,” how she’s navigating the ups, downs, and unknowns of stepping into hard situations, and how she’s leaning into her faith to thrive through it all!
Part of our mission at Two Adoptive Mamas is to initiate conversations with mamas who are in the trenches. Erin is one of those moms, and we’re grateful to be able to share her story with the hope that it encourages you wherever you are in your journey.
*We try to deliver the highest quality episode each week, but sometimes audio can be a challenge depending on a number of factors to consider when producing a podcast. We apologize for some of the feedback in this episode, and hope you enjoy it nonetheless!
Episode Resources:We love sharing our favorite resources! Check out our list HERE and follow us on Instagram (@2adoptivemamas) for our Wednesday weekly book recommendations!
2 A.M. Connect:Do you have a story to share? Do you know someone who does? We’d love to connect with them. You can always connect with us athello@twoadoptivemamas.com!
Stay connected with what’s happening at 2 Adoptive Mamas by visiting our website and share your e-mail. We don’t like to overwhelm inboxes, so you’ll just receive our weekly newsletter and the occasional special announcement - super simple - we hope you’ll join us!
The Main Thing:Is it a sensory processing disorder? Or sensory integration? How can we help our children thrive amidst some of the challenging diagnoses they may face? What is the good news about how God has uniquely designed our brains to build new pathways to success? And what does this mean for my child's occupational therapy needs?
Guess what? Crista Bush is answering all these questions and more in Episode 038. After serving for years as a pediatric Occupational Therapist and now as a teacher, Crista is a wealth of knowledge and encouragement as an advocate for helping children thrive amidst whatever challenges they may face. You'll find a lot of heart in this episode as Crista unpacks the science behind what we're seeing with our children and the reality of what we can do to help equip them and build the skills and confidence to overcome.
Episode Resources:There are so many great educational references and resources that we can learn from! Crista shared a few with us:
Check out the American Occupational Therapy Association on the web at aota.org.
You might be surprised to know that autism communities often have helpful resources for learning about sensory needs. Looking for some solid references, education, and practical age-appropriate activities? Click HERE.
With the goal of self-regulation in mind, you might want to check out this awesome program, "How Does Your Engine Run" developed by two occupational therapists! There is also a book available, which is available HERE.
2 A.M. Connect:
Stay connected with what’s happening at 2 Adoptive Mamas by visiting our website and share your e-mail. We don’t like to overwhelm inboxes, so you’ll just receive our weekly newsletter and the occasional special announcement - super simple - we hope you’ll join us!
The Main Thing:Mary has spent her entire adult life searching for her roots. She persevered through many obstacles in hopes of meeting her birth mother, only to find out it was too late. With an unimaginable ending to her search, she has discovered a newfound strength, which has led to sharing her story with the masses. Mary hopes to touch the lives of other adoptees who may be considering a reunification process of their own.
It was a privilege to have Mary join us for Episode 037 of the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast. Her story, courage, and mission to inspire others as they walk their own journey is a perspective from the adoption triad that we're exploring more and more! There's so much we can learn from Mary and her journey. We are grateful for her willingness to share and know you will be too! Episode Resources:Guess what?! Mary is writing a book! Follow her on Instagram at @becauseadoption for more of her content and to keep tabs on her book release!
2 A.M. Connect:
Stay connected with what’s happening at 2 Adoptive Mamas by visiting our website and share your e-mail. We don’t like to overwhelm inboxes, so you’ll just receive our weekly newsletter and the occasional special announcement - super simple - we hope you’ll join us!
The Main Thing:Trisha Priebe joined us for Episode 012 from her seat as the Director of Communications at Lifesong for Orphans. Well, she’s BACK for Episode 036 and we could not be more thrilled!
As an adoptee, adoptive mom, and adoption advocate, Trisha lives, breathes, and embraces all things adoption. Her heart for the Lord, transparency in sharing her own personal journey, and her mission to help adoptees feel whole in who they are and the calling on their life is simply unmatched. It was a delight to dive deep into the trenches with Trisha and unpack some of the hidden conversations that we tend to tuck away. We were inspired and challenged by our time together, and hope you are too!
Episode Resources:Trisha shared about the Equipping Minds Cognitive Development Curriculum in this episode - check it out HERE!
Did you know Lifesong for Orphans provides financial support and post-adoption services to adoptive families? Check out these opportunities and more at lifesong.org.
2 A.M. Connect:
Stay connected with what’s happening at 2 Adoptive Mamas by visiting our website and share your e-mail. We don’t like to overwhelm inboxes, so you’ll just receive our weekly newsletter and the occasional special announcement - super simple - we hope you’ll join us!
We've heard it said that the week between Christmas and New Year's doesn't count. It's a "sink into your couch" kind of week to unwind, continue festivities and game plan for that New Year purge of the clutter (physical and otherwise) that has infiltrated our homes over the past month.
So let it be. Let it be a week that is different...but let's make it count, shall we?
We wanted to take a moment to say a few things:
- Merry Christmas!
- We can't wait for what's to come in the year ahead.
- We have some special guests who wanted to offer their own dose of Christmas joy - we think it's pretty great!
Let's soak in this week, and make it count. And even in the thick of it, remember, you've got this, mama!
The Main Thing:We can’t think of a better way to finish out the calendar year than with our husbands. So, for Episode 035, they’re back! We’re taking a dive into what we learned this year and our goals for the year ahead. We are grateful, all four of us, for what the Two Adoptive Mamas platform has taught us as parents, advocates, and friends. Together our adoption and foster community is stronger when we learn from one another and in the challenging and status quo seasons.
We’re so grateful to our husbands who were willing to jump in and share. They’re an important part of the “behind the scenes” of the podcast — we could not do this without them.
So, join us on our double-date, and hear from our other halves where we find ourselves as we close the books on 2021.
2 A.M. Connect:
Stay connected with what’s happening at 2 Adoptive Mamas by visiting our Connect page to share your e-mail. We don’t like to overwhelm inboxes, so you’ll just receive our weekly newsletter and the occasional special announcement - super simple - we hope you’ll join us!
The Main Thing:She started as an elementary school teacher, became an RN, and is now a mom of 6 juggling a myriad of needs while fiercely loving the kiddos God has called to her home.
We had the privilege of sitting down with Stacey Gagnon for Episode 034 of the Two Adoptive Mamas podcast. We're asking Stacey about the lies she wanted to believe as she navigated her own family's adoption journey, and what she's sharing about them now to bring awareness and hope to others.
Her steadfast love for the Lord and commitment to her family are unmatched. We were honored to have her join us and thrilled to share her insights with you in this episode!
Episode Resources:Find Stacey on Facebook or her blog for more!
As a personal book recommendation, Stacey shared The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel Van der Kolk - Check it out!
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The Main Thing:There's so much preparation and support that happens pre-placement. But what about after a child finds their forever family? Or after a foster family welcomes a child into their home? What about continued support and resources --- do they exist? They DO! But we don't talk about it enough.
Sheryl Bernot is an adoptee, adoptive mom, and now works with a foster care and adoption agency. We're starting the conversation in Episode 033 on the importance and necessity of post-permanency services in all seasons - calm and challenging! We believe strong families raise thriving adoptees, and it takes a village to do it. Join us to learn more about how you can find the support and resources that just might make all the difference!
Episode Resources:Looking for post-permanency services in your area? Contact your foster care or adoption agency and ask what's available in your area.
We also recommend visiting howtoadopt.org, a great resource through Show Hope that offers guidance on pre and post-permanency services!
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The Main Thing:Cindy LaJoy is one of the most passionate, real, and encouraging moms you'll meet. She has an immense heart for adoption and you name it, she's walked it with her awesome crew. She joined us for Episode 032 to take a closer look at Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD). We'll start with the basics and then take a deep dive into how RAD touches each part of the adoption triad and how you too can thrive through the seemingly impossible. We're so grateful for Cindy's transparency and the bright light that her family's story brings to the darkness that is Reactive Attachment Disorder. Maybe you suspect RAD, maybe you have a confirmed diagnosis in your family, or maybe you've never heard of it before --- no matter where you are in your adoption or foster journey, there's something here for you!
Episode Resources:Has your family been impacted by Reactive Attachment Disorder? Do you have a favorite go-to resource you'd be willing to share? We would love to grow our resource page with options specific to this need. E-mail us at hello@twoadoptivemamas.com. Together we can grow a network of resources in a space where there is still little to share!
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When we count our blessings here at Two Adoptive Mamas, we count our listeners TWICE!
We're so grateful to have had all of you --- new and "old" listeners --- along for this journey. We can't believe it's been almost a year!
Sending a Thanksgiving greeting your way, and taking a quick break to be with family (and eat lots of delicious food)!
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The Main Thing:As an author, advocate, adoptee, and hopeful adoptive parent, it's tough to find a corner of Chelsea Sobolik's life that isn't touched by adoption. She graciously joined us for Episode 031 of the podcast. She shares about her work on Capitol Hill, the inspiration behind her book Longing for Motherhood, and how adoption is woven into her family.
Chelsea's kindness shines through her story, and is coupled with a fierce commitment to child welfare and loving kiddos from hard places. She's a breath of fresh air, an encouragement in every season, and a reminder to all of us that the journey will transform us --- and that's okay.
Episode Resources:Visit Chelsea on the web!https://www.chelseapattersonsobolik.com
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The Main Thing:We had so much fun with Kara and are thrilled to bring you Episode 030 of the Two Adoptive Mamas Podcast --- Keeping Our Cool with School. Kara's energy is contagious as she shares the ins and outs of establishing a recipe for success when it comes to navigating education. She is transparent, funny, passionate, and refreshingly direct --- a conversation that all of us can benefit from no matter our season of parenting. Kara unpacks what we can be doing at home, how we can build relationships at school, and how our efforts will not only benefit our children but our entire family. Join us!
Episode Resources:Kara shared a book recommendation - we can't wait to get our hands on a copy!Mama Bear Apologetics: Empowering Your Kids to Challenge Your Cultural Lies by Hillary Morgan Ferrer
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The Main Thing:For Episode 029 we're sitting down with a (repeat) guest, Natalie Vecchione, and her co-author and friend, Cindy LaJoy, to talk about their new book --- Blazing New Homeschool Trails: Educating and Launching Teens with Developmental Disabilities. As two adoptive moms who have navigated the challenges of FASD and other developmental diagnoses, their heart, passion, and expertise are unmatched. Both decided to homeschool and have a ton of insight, resources, and experience to share. We're so grateful they agreed to join us on the podcast. If you're considering homeschool or just feel at the end of your rope when it comes to finding the right resources to meet the needs of your child, then you'll want to hear what Natalie and Cindy have to share!
Episode Resources:Blazing New Homeschool Trails: Educating and Launching Teens with Developmental Disabilities by Natalie Vecchione and Cindy LaJoy
Blazing New Homeschool Trails - the website!
FASD Hope Podcast
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The Main Thing:
After having their two boys, Melinda and her husband Nate felt God tugging at their hearts to step into foster care. A little over a year ago, they welcomed a beautiful baby girl into their family, and their lives have been forever changed. Through the challenges and special moments of their foster care journey, the Smiths have seen the Lord's hand in it all. Melinda joined us to share more about their experience and how she's keeping it real amidst the unexpected. If you're in the thick of foster care or considering walking that journey, you won't want to miss this episode!
Episode Resources:
Melinda shared some great resources for hopeful or current foster parents - check them out!
Foster the Family (website, blog, & podcast!)
Murphy's Three Homes by Jan Levinson Gilman (a great book for kids!)
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The Main Thing:
Growing up, Kelly knew she was adopted. Rebecca always thought she was an only child - she didn’t know that years earlier her parents had made an adoption plan for a child they did not feel they were ready to parent.
Fast forward to 2019 --- Kelly and Rebecca find each other --- and the rest is history! We promise you’ll love this sister duo as they share their heart for adoption, journey to finding each other, and what they want adoptive and birth parents to know. We laughed, cried, and were filled with hope during our conversation with Kelly and Rebecca, and we know you will be too!
Episode Resources:
Click HERE for our resource list of children’s books about adoption.
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The Main Thing:For Episode 026 we had the privilege of sitting down with Dr. Matt Quade to unpack what it looks like to get back to work as you grow your family through adoption and foster care. There is so much conversation to be had around this topic, and so in this bonus episode, we're going to keep it going! Join us for this "fireside chat" conversation to hear our thoughts and personal experiences on reentry post-placement.
Episode Resources:If you didn't catch our conversation with Dr. Quade, you can find it HERE.
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The Main Thing:Adding to your family is a life-changing event. Whether biological, adoption or foster care, it’s a major event and everything is different thereafter. At some point, it comes time to return to “normal” or some of the responsibilities we had pre-family addition. But how? And with what support? For Episode 026 we had the privilege of sitting down with Dr. Matt Quade, Associate Professor of Management at Baylor University’s Hankamer School of Business. As a passionate educator and fellow adoptive parent he has completed and participated in extensive research opportunities pertaining to adoptive parent support. He’s joined us to share his insights and advice on how to navigate getting back to work!
Episode Resources:To take a deeper dive into topics discussed during this episode, Matt recommended 5 Gears by Jeremie Kubicek and connecting with the Dave Thomas Foundation for Adoption.
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The Main Thing:For decades Show Hope has shown up for families pre and post adoption. Founded in 2003 by Steven and Mary Beth Chapman, Show Hope continues to be a light for families in the trenches of adoption. With a mission to engage the Church and eliminate barriers for those committing to the adoption process to grow their families, Show Hope has continued to expand opportunities for support. Most recently, their Medical Aid Grant program is helping families navigate a child’s medical needs after adoption finalization takes place.
We were thrilled when founder, Mary Beth Chapman, and Show Hope’s Executive Director, Emily Chapman Richards, agreed to join us on the podcast to discuss the new Medical Aid Grant program and the incredible work of Show Hope in the lives of adoptive families. It was an honor and privilege to share the mic with two women of incredible faith and passion for adoption. We’re so excited to share this conversation with you!
Episode Resources:Mary Beth and Emily shared some great resources - check them out below!
Show Hope
Howtoadopt.org
We always like to ask our guests what they’re currently reading - adoption related, or not! If you’re looking for your next read, you might consider these from Mary Beth & Emily:
Hinds’ Feet on High Places by Hannah Hurnard
Companions in the Darkness by Diana Gruver
The Testament by John Grisham
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The Main Thing:
For Episode 024 we’re rounding up some of our favorite season one podcast moments. What fun it is to relive and highlight some of the moments that made this venture more than we could have hoped for! You also won’t want to miss what we’re sharing about season two - we’re so excited!
Episode Resources:
Until season 2, be sure to catch-up on any missed episodes at twoadoptivemamas.com or find the next addition to your personal library through our resource list! We’ll still be on social media and the blog (here and there) - so keep an eye out!
2.A.M. Connect:Want to stay connected with our 2 Adoptive Mamas community? Visit our website and share your e-mail. We don't like to over-fill inboxes, so you'll receive our weekly newsletter and the occasional special announcement - super simple - we hope you'll join us!
The Main Thing:
For Episode 023 of the podcast we got to sit down with Kanisha Tillman from Tutus and Tennis shoes --- yes you heard us correctly --- Tutus and Tennis shoes, how fun is that?!
Kenisha is in the business of partnering with transracial adoptive families to equip and empower parents and children to feel confident in all things hair care. Her passion and heart for adoptive families and her mission to be a resource to so many is exciting and inspiring!
Episode Resources:
Want to know how you can find Kanisha? Check her out on Instagram (@tutus_tennis_shoes) or click HERE to visit her website!
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The Main Thing:
Episode 022 provided an opportunity for us to connect with Erin Bouchard. She’s a mama with a really special story touched by foster care and adoption and is passionate about resourcing parents in the trenches. Erin joined us to talk about kinship adoption, trauma-informed parenting, and how to seek out resources in our communities so we are supported and equipped!
Episode Resources:
Erin shared so much goodness with us in Episode 022 --- and we have more here for you too!
You can find Erin at traumainformedfosterparenting.com where you can check out her blog AND consider joining her FREE course titled, “5 Days to Less Unwanted Behaviors.”
It launches THIS WEEK (don’t worry, there will be more sessions too)!
Check it out HERE.
You can also find Erin on Instagram @raisingourfabtribe or on Facebook.
Erin’s book recommendations include:
The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel Van Der Kolk
What Happened to You? by Bruce Perry and Oprah Winfrey
The Connected Child by Karen Purvis (a 2 Adoptive Mamas favorite!)
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The Main Thing:
For Episode 021 we're joined by adoptive mom and podcast host, Alex Fitten. It was an honor (and so much fun!) to have Alex join us and talk about the things that are hard to say. Not only is she sharing the beautiful story of how she and her husband have followed God’s calling in creating their family, but she’s also joining us in the trenches to talk about the tough stuff. Together we’re advocating for the importance of lifting one another up and communicating as adoptive and foster mamas. We loved our time with Alex and know you will too!
Episode Resources:We want to give a shoutout to Alex's podcast, The Adoptive Mom --- check it out HERE!
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The Main Thing:
Sometimes you’re in a season, wading through a circumstance and you just can’t see or even imagine what’s next. We were reminded recently that we have promised to walk the day-to-day of adoptive mamahood --- together! So we’re doing just that with Episode 020: Don’t Forget to Remember, A Mama Mini-sode. We’re sharing what’s been happening in our worlds and what God has been teaching us amidst it all!
Episode Resources:A family favorite both in written words and illustration is Ellie Holcomb’s Don’t Forget to Remember for kids! Click HERE if you’d like to add it to your library!
2.A.M. Connect:Follow us on Instagram @twoadoptivemamas for more on adoption, family, and faith.
The Main Event:
In Episode 019 we’re talking with Betsy Graham, fellow adoptive mom and superhero at building community among adoptive and foster families.
She’s sharing her family’s story in addition to her mission to care for others and yourself. Her genuine heart and tender spirit were such an encouragement to us - we just loved this conversation!
2AM Resource:
Betsy was kind enough to recommend to our 2AM community! They are linked below for purchase through our Amazon shop.
Adopted for Life by Russell Moore
Orphan Justice by Johnny Carr
Launching An Orphans Ministry in Your Church by Jason Weber
The Main Thing:
You asked, and we listened! We're taking a dive into the topic of parenting biological and adopted children in the same family. In Episode 018, Shannon Vining is here to talk about this --- and more! You won’t want to miss her story of strength and love matched with her steadfast trust in the Lord’s plan for their family.
Episode Resources:We asked Shannon what she’s reading, and she highly recommended The Sacred Romance: Drawing Closer to the Heart of God.
Check it out HERE.
2.A.M. Connect:Follow us on Instagram @twoadoptivemamas for more on adoption, family, and faith.
The Main Thing:This week for Episode 017 we're sitting down with Laura Kline, an adoptive mama and administrator of a Facebook community committed to connecting adoptive and foster moms through resources & relationship. Her personal story coupled with her passion for helping other moms make meaningful connections makes for an informative and encouraging episode!
Episode Resources:A topic not often discussed, but of equal importance in the adoption community is “post-adoption blues.” Laura addresses this topic and shares her own personal experience in today’s episode. We have found , Post Adoption Blues by Drs. Karen Foli and John Thompson to be helpful and informative! It’s available for purchase through our Resource page!
2AM Connect:Stay connected with 2 Adoptive Mamas by subscribing to our show through Apple podcasts. We would be honored if you would consider leaving us a rating --- and maybe even a review! Have a question? E-mail us - hello@twoadoptivemamas.com.
The Main Thing: This week for Episode 016 we’re joined by Dr. Madeleine Blancher, an accomplished pediatrician and trained child mental-health advocate. Trauma-informed care is a conversation we’ve revisited several times on the podcast and we're excited for this deep dive! Dr. Blancher introduces us to CARES and the Circle of Security platforms for trauma-informed, relationship-based care. Her years of experience and heart for children and families overflowed during our time together!
Episode Resources: For additional resources, don't forget to check-out our resources page.
2AM Connect: Dr. Blancher provided some great handouts for those subscribed at twoadoptivemamas.com/connect. Join us today!
The Main Thing: Rosie Mann from Forged in Fire is back with 2 Adoptive Mamas for Episode 015. Her insight and advice from Episode 003 was practical and helpful and so she's joined us to take a deeper dive into trauma-informed care. We're covering the three S's of trauma in today's episode - safety, sleep, and school.
Episode Resources:
- Put Your Mother on the Ceiling by Richard de Mille
- Forged in Fire
2AM Connect: Have you subscribed to our newsletter? Stay connected with our community and updated on what's to come at twoadoptivemamas.com/connect.
The Main Thing: It's time for Episode 014, a mini-sode, with just the mamas! We're talking about some of our favorite kid-friendly reads about adoption. We have some recommendations, but also hope you'll be inspired to share yours!
Episode Resources:
- Check out these books and more at our resource page: 2 Adoptive Mamas
2AM Connect: Are you following us on Instagram? Find us @2adoptivemamas to keep up with content and what's to come!
The Main Thing: It's time for Episode 013 and learning about how to ask for help. Join Liz as she talks with Kandace Lecocq from the Adoption Hacks podcast about why we struggle to ask, how to ask for real help, and some of the best ways to come alongside each other when the waters get choppy.
Episode Resources:
- Find Adoption Hacks on Instagram @adoptionhacks
- 2 Adoptive Mamas
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The Main Thing: We're "Counting the Cost" of adoption in Episode 012 and hope you'll join our conversation with Rich Metcalfe and Trisha Priebe from Lifesong for Orphans. Their passion for supporting adoptive families emotionally, financially, and spiritually is unmatched. We were so encouraged, inspired, and challenged by our time together and know you will be too!
Episode Resources:
- Lifesong's Website
- Lifesong Adoption Assistance Applications
- 2 Adoptive Mamas
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The Main Thing: Episode 011, Part 2 is a deeper dive into what it looks like to advocate for and thrive when FASD is part of your family's story. Natalie cites practical examples, points us to hope in the community, and continues to share about her own journey! If you didn't catch Part 1, we recommend catching up first - Natalie has a story to share that you won't want to miss!
Episode Resources:
- Visit FASD Hope's website for more information and to connect with Natalie's ministry!
- Guided Growth by Ira Chasnoff
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The Main Thing: Episode 011, Part 1, is all about connecting with adoptive mom and FASD advocate Natalie. Her story and ministry to support other families touched by FASD is informative, encouraging, and a great source of hope. Join us for Part 1 to hear her story, and keep an eye out for Part 2 (released tomorrow!) to learn more about thriving in the day to day of FASD.
Episode Resources:
- Visit FASD Hope's website for more information and to connect with Natalie's ministry
- Guided Growth by Ira Chasnoff
2AM Connect: If you don't already, remember to follow us on Instagram (@2adoptivemamas)! Until next time, remember, you've got this mama!
The Main Thing: Drew and Dan have been such an encouragement and support for us as we dreamt up 2 Adoptive Mama. Their wisdom, love, and selflessness has helped make all of this possible, and for that we can’t thank them enough.
Episode 010 is all about hearing from them. So mamas, this is a great episode to pass along to the man in your life who is processing adoption or foster care in his own way. There’s a little something in this episode for everyone --- and it kind of has a double date vibe --- so get ready!
Episode Resources:
- Sacred Marriage, Gary Thomas [Click HERE]
2AM Connect: Don't forget to visit us on our website where you ways to connect with our community!
The Main Thing: We should have had Harry Nilsson's Best Friend for our Episode 009 intro music, because this week you're meeting our best friends! Brooke & Crista have been part of our stories long before any of us were mamas. In this episode we're sitting down to talk about friends who get it and who have stuck by our sides, even though our journey into motherhood looked a little different. These friends are simply the best!
Episode Resources:
- www.twoadoptivemamas.com/resources
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The Main Thing: 2 Adoptive Mamas - bonus edition - is back again! Join us to learn about Sarah's experience (so far) with an adoption consultant as her family navigates "the wait" for their second domestic infant adoption.
Episode Resources:
Questions? Or want to learn more from Sarah's experience? E-mail us, hello@twoadoptivemamas.com.
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The Main Thing: We have followed Mike and Kristen Berry at Confessions of An Adoptive Parent for years, and recently got to sit down with this incredible pair who have given so much goodness to the adoptive and foster care communities. We were (and still are) SO excited that this happened - and even more excited to share it with you! Join us as we conceptualize "life on a tilt" and how we can thrive in it - together!
Episode Resources
- Facebook: Confessions of An Adoptive Parent
- Instagram: @honestlyadoptionco
- Website: honestlyadoption.com
- Securely Attached by Mike & Kristen Berry
2AM Connect: Don't forget to visit us on Instagram @twoadoptivemamas!
The Main Thing:
We're excited to bring you some bonus content and 2 Adoptive Mamas " in real life" with a new mini-episode. We should clarify, we're always sharing "real life," but we're not always bringing you along for the daily happenings in our personal world. But today is different! Join us for a brief time to discuss the realities of moving (homes) and how we can support our families through the transition.
Episode Resources:
- Boomer's Big Day - Check it out HERE.
- The Quilt Story - Check it out HERE.
2AM Connect: Don't forget to follow us on Instagram @2adoptivemamas!
The Main Thing: One very snowy night in December we planned to record with adoptive mama, Kelly Ardt --- thanks to technology and teamwork we made it happen! Kelly has such a sweet story to share of welcoming three beautiful girls into their family. This story of faith, perseverance, and hope is one you won't want to miss. Kelly's heart for the Lord shines through their adoption story, reminding us that His way is perfect and more than we could ever imagine!
Episode Resources:
- Kelly is currently reading and recommends Memory-Making Mom by Jessica Smartt. You can purchase it here!
- Find other great resources at https://twoadoptivemamas.com/resources/
2AM Connect: Don't forget to visit us onour websitewhere you can find our blog, ways to connect with our community.
The Main Thing: Leslie Word is an adoptive mama who has an incredible story to share about how she and her husband built their family of 5. Her transparency, grace filled wisdom, and tough mama love are refreshing as we navigate what it means to be a transracial family in today's world. Leslie gives it to us straight, but also encourages us in the walk, helping to find our stride as mamas who have adopted transracially, are considering it, or just have questions. There is so much we can all learn from Leslie and we're excited for you to join the conversation!
Episode ResourcesBooks for Kids:
A Mother for Choco - Keiko Kasza
When God Made You - Matthew Paul Turner
Mama Did You Hear the News? - Santa Whittaker Gragg
Big Hair, Don't Care - Crystal Swain Bates
Books For Parents:
The New Jim Crow - Michelle Alexander
In Their Own Voices: Transracial Adoptees Tell Their Stories - Rita J Simon & Rhonda Roorda
Transracial Adoptees to follow (Instagram):
@wreckageandwonder
@angieadoptee
@thetransracialadopteetherapist
@therapyredeemed
Diverse voices to follow (Instagram):
@ohhappydani
@blackcoffeewithwhitefriends
@austinchannning
@oshetamoore
Much more at https://twoadoptivemamas.com/resources/
2AM Connect: Don't forget to visit us onInstagram, Facebook, and atour website where you can find our blog, ways to connect with our community, our Patreon, and an “easy to shop” resource list.
The Main Thing: Michelle Campbell is an adoptive mama, wife, daughter, educator, and friend. She values and loves each part of who she is but balancing them all can be a juggling act. Finding joy in simple moments and making memories is what she strives to do. In this episode Michelle talks with us about advocating for your kiddo. While these examples are specific to medical care, so many principles relate to other aspects of parenting and caring for ourselves and our babies. Our favorite highlights? Hard is hard, the 24 hour rule, and making memories in the mayhem. We're excited for you to join our conversation with Michelle!
Episode Resources:
- Michelle's Blog: Creating the Campbells – Our International Adoption Journey
- Michelle on Facebook: Creating The Campbells - Home
- Support Beta Thalassemia Kiddos: Donate Blood at the Red Cross
- Don't forget to check out theResource Page at 2 Adoptive Mamas
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With the Christmas season upon us there's a whole lot of cheer, challenges, and hopefully not a shortage of cookies?! One thing is for sure, we all find ourselves in different seasons of life, and it's not lost on us the pressure and chaos the holidays can bring.
Before we send 2020 off into the sunset, we wanted to gift a little bonus content. Sharing a piece of our hearts, we are highlighting where we find ourselves in this season of advent and how to set our families up for success amidst the hustle and bustle.
Remember to visit us on Instagram, Facebook, and at twoadoptivemamas.com where you can find our blog, Patreon, and an "easy to shop" resource list. Remember, you've got this mama!
Today we're sitting down with Eleanor Delewski, a foster and adoptive mama with a heart of gold and a true passion for navigating the nuances of the adoption triad. No matter where you are in your foster or adoptive journey, Eleanor’s story will meet you there --- and then some. We love this episode - it got real, we laughed, and it hits home. Won’t you join us?
Don't forget to visit us on Instagram, Facebook, and at twoadoptivemamas.com where you can find our blog, ways to connect with our community, our Patreon, and an “easy to shop” resource list.
Today we're sitting down with Rosie Mann, an adoptive mama and nurse licensed in specialized trauma care. She's a wealth of knowledge with a heart for meeting our kiddos right where they are with exactly what the need. No matter where you are in your journey as a mama, today's episode will encourage, inspire, and remind you that we're in this - together!
Don't forget to visit us on Instagram, Facebook, and at twoadoptivemamas.com where you can find our blog, ways to connect with our community, our Patreon, and an “easy to shop” resource list.
In today’s episode we're taking our first deep dive into a topic that touches all of us no matter where we are at in our journey with adoption --- shadow feelings! Join us as we talk about what a shadow feeling is, open up about some of our own, and then share our go-to action steps on how to grow through these challenges.
Don't forget to visit us on Instagram, Facebook, and at twoadoptivemamas.com where you can find our blog, ways to connect with our community, our Patreon, and an “easy to shop” resource list.
Remember, no matter where you are in your adoption journey, we are here to share resources, our hearts, and help you navigate the day to day of this incredible adventure! You've got this, mama.
We’re Liz & Sarah, and we are Two Adoptive Mamas – it’s great to have you in this space!
In today’s episode you’ll get to know us – how adoption is part of our families, how we ventured into this Two Adoptive Mamas space, and what our hope is as we spend more time together and take a deeper dive into different components of adoptive mama-hood.
We’re so excited to bring you this content, please be sure to visit us on Instagram, Facebook, and at twoadoptivemamas.com where you can find our blog, ways to connect with our community, our Patreon, and an “easy to shop” resource list.
Remember, no matter where you are in your adoption journey, we are here to share resources, our hearts, and help you navigate the day to day of this incredible adventure! So glad you’ve joined us.