Dedicated to my beautiful mum n nanny “TREE” & my big sister Paulene... & our beloved rapper cats Biggie n Tupac XXX
TREE OF LIFE - Podcast 3 by Maggie & Kat joined by wee Harris
R = RAWK Chick
My mum loved going to see live bands...her fav’s being Kings Of Leon...The Killers...Bon Jovi...Goodbye Mr Mackenzie etc
A difficult week/month (March)...my Gran Josie’s birthday...soon to be my big sister Paulene & Papa Tom’s birthday...Nearly a year since our beautiful furry baba Biggie passed away & soon to be Mother’s Day (so wish my beautiful mumsie was here) & Aunt Rosie’s birthday...Heaven is one lucky place XXX
Family airloom - Rusty pliers that are over 50 years old...Not worth any money but holds so many memories...
Kat - Stress of Uni life...Exams...Projects & Dissertation...
What happens after this? What jobs will be available as so many people out of work/changing careers & using their degree to go into other fields...
What’s it going to be like once Covid-19 is under control?
Have you had your jab? Hope we all get one soon...
Changes in my life...Camper van? Worried too many people doing the same thing/Too many people will be at hook ups etc
Harris - (my sisters beautiful wee Pom) He has settled in well with us but still barks a lot at vans/aeroplanes etc Looking forward to taking him here & there & mini trips once it’s safer...And do wish our weather would pick up...
ToothyPegs - Do we really need dentists? Ok probably yes...but do we need a check up every 6 months? Quite simply the answer is NO!
Crafting...Slowly starting to do a few wee things...Made some simple hanging mobiles...Cricut machine/beads...glue & jewellery elastic...Just to embellish them...
Podcasts = Therapy
Our way of helping us deal with the massive loss of my mum passing away suddenly & a few weeks later my big sister took her own life as she couldn’t live without our mum...Miss you both dearly & heartbroken without you both!
Tulips for my mumsie & daffodils for my sister Paulene XXX💓💓💓XXX
A wee intro about ourselves. Following on from last week, it has been just over 8 months since we lost our beautiful mum/nanny...plus the suicide of my sister. T = Talented Topics include: not wanting to be here, so much to do regarding the funeral during a pandemic (COVID-19), most things done over the telephone, not wanting anything to be touched in my mum's house, suicide, dealing with anxiety, dealing with the pain caused by the death of loved ones, follow up when asking for help etc. SUICIDE:- if you see any of the signs of someone wanting to take their own life, then please tell someone else in order for them to get help! If someone gives you a suicide note and asks you not to tell anyone, then please DO NOT keep this to yourself no matter what you promise, PLEASE TELL SOMEONE AS YOU COULD SAVE THIS PERSON'S LIFE! Follow Up:- Wellbeing centre - a waste of time. Cruse Bereavement centre - will I receive counselling?
Dedicated to my beautiful mum n nanny “TREE” & my big sister Paulene... & our beloved rapper cats Biggie n Tupac XXX
How has Covid-19 (Pandemic) impacted/affected you’re life?
Trying to cope with loosing loved ones during Covid-19...My mum‘s sudden death & my big sister taking her own life due to our mum dying...& the loss of our beloved furry baba Biggie...All in the space of a few months...
My youngest daughter (a young student having to cope with loosing her nanny & Aunt) & family pets that were loved liked our baba’s yet still has her degree to get on with...
How do you feel?
Heart broken...Empty & Angry to name a few! Grief brought depression...acute pain n anxiety...
Opening up & asking for help...being referred for counselling yet they passed me onto someone else...Hence the idea of the podcast as feel this may help both my daughter & I...as talking about it may feel like a sort of therapy...
What’s LIFE really all about? Is there a God n a Heaven...Why was my mother taken as I still need her & so does both my daughters...
Our future n plans...I doubt I will ever come to terms with loosing my mum n my big sis but hope in time to learn to cope with this gigantic loss...
Each week we will discuss how Covid-19 impacted us...loosing our loved ones & trying to deal with day to day things... A massive ”Thank You” to Harris...one of my sister’s dogs whom we now look after...Our gorgeous wee ray of sunshine...in our world that is so dark! XXX
TREE OF LIFE representing my beautiful mumsie:-
T = Talented
R = RAWK Chick
E = Energetic
E = Excited
O = One In A Million
F = Full Of Life
L = Loving & Lovely
I = Intelligent
F = Funny
E = Encouragement