Beyond Apparent: Recent Episodes
Central Baptist Church Dunn, NC
God has called parents to be the primary disciple makers of their children, but how do we find clarity to parent Biblically in an increasingly confusing world? Join Jeremy Autry and Chuck Meade, the student pastor and children’s pastor of Central Baptist Church of Dunn, NC, as they have real conversations and interview special guests to seek God’s direction for each stage of the parenting journey.
Parents often disagree about how to handle their kids—but when those differences turn into division, it can create instability in the home. In this episode, Chuck and Jeremy discuss why unity between parents is essential for raising healthy, mature teenagers. Drawing from principles in Boundaries with Teens and grounded in Scripture, they talk about how parents can provide both love and limits, avoid being divided by their kids, and work together to create a stable, Christ-centered home.
In this episode of Beyond Apparent, Jeremy and Chuck discuss why children need more than affection — they need clear, consistent limits. Drawing from Boundaries with Kids, they explore how consequences build maturity, how inconsistency breeds insecurity, and why parents must model the boundaries they expect. We’re not raising children who answer to us forever — but future adults who answer to the Lord.
In this episode, Chuck and Jeremy talk with Worship Pastor Darren Hughes about the influence of Christian music on our children and the significance of filling your household with songs that worship our Creator and Savior.
In this brief episode, Jeremy and Chuck share an excellent resource for families. VidAngel can be connected to popular streaming services empowering parents to control the content displayed on their TVs.
Find out more info at: https://www.vidangel.com
In this episode, Chuck and Jeremy talk about the big transition from high school into adulthood and how parents can encourage their kids to embrace faith as their own. Whether they’re heading off to college, starting a job, or staying local, this season is about helping them pursue godly relationships, build spiritual rhythms, and step confidently into adult discipleship.
Middle school brings big changes—new questions, new pressures, and shifting relationships. In part 2 of our “Transitions” series, we talk about how to help your child root their identity in Christ, build habits that last, and stay connected to church and family through this pivotal season.
In this episode, Chuck and Jeremy kick off a new three-part series on transitions by talking about a significant milestone in your child’s life: starting kindergarten. Whether you’re just now walking into this season or it’s already behind you, this conversation matters. We’ll explore how this moment is a powerful test of faith for parents, how to establish spiritual rhythms at home, and how to help your child engage with worship, as well as what it looks like to bring them along in church life at this age.
Chuck and Jeremy wrap up the series on having difficult conversations with your kids on one of the most challenging topics: death. They welcome local funeral director Jessie Johnson, who offers a distinctive viewpoint. During the episode, they explore how children perceive grief differently than adults and how parents can prepare to respond to their challenging questions.
With Pastor Jeremy and a team of over 70 people from Central Baptist Church on a missions trip to Montana, we are re-airing an old episode on the importance of mission trips. Research indicates that engaging in mission trips and projects significantly contributes to a child's spiritual development. Chuck and Jeremy, both gearing up for mission trips, talk about the crucial role of discussing missions with your children and providing them the opportunity to participate in one before they graduate.
In this episode, Chuck and Jeremy discuss one of today’s most challenging conversations: how to talk with your kids about race, racism, and social justice from a Biblical perspective. Parents will be encouraged to navigate cultural tension with gospel truth, see racism ultimately as a sin issue, break down the difference between cultural justice and Biblical justice, and lead their families with empathy and discernment.
How do Christian parents talk to their kids about gender in a world that says truth is not determined by God but fluid? Jeremy and Chuck Meade break it down with biblical clarity, cultural insight, and real-life stories. This episode equips parents to speak the truth in love, ask the right questions, and lead their kids with confidence and compassion.
In this episode, Chuck and Jeremy equip parents to confidently talk to their kids about God’s design for marriage in a culture that promotes confusion. We compare the world’s view vs. God’s view, discuss why marriage is a covenant, not just a contract, and provide practical ways to teach kids Biblical truth with love and grace.
We look back on a conversation Jeremy and Chuck had about "parenting in the middle." When our kids are young, we make all the decisions for them. When they are adults, they make all the decisions themselves. How do we help our kids transition to adulthood while prioritizing their safety? Chuck and Jeremy delve into parenting in the middle as a slow transition to teaching our kids how to make their own decisions.
Culture bombards kids with distorted views on sex—but as parents, we have the responsibility to lead them in truth. In this episode, Chuck and Jeremy unpack the biggest cultural lies about sex, contrast them with God’s design, and equip you to have honest, ongoing conversations with your kids. With practical tips and biblical wisdom, you’ll gain the confidence to guide your child with both truth and grace.
Chuck and Jeremy launch a series on having tough conversations with your kids by exploring, in this episode, how to discuss abortion with children from a Christian pro-life perspective. It emphasizes Biblical principles, scientific facts, and countering cultural narratives with truth and empathy. Parents are encouraged to use age-appropriate language, highlight forgiveness and redemption, support life-affirming efforts, and lead by example in valuing all human life.
Our culture effectively communicates to our kids how to think about controversial subjects. In this episode, Chuck and Jeremy discuss why parents shouldn’t avoid these uncomfortable but essential conversations with their kids about sensitive topics.
We look back on a conversation Chuck and Jeremy had last December, delving into the art of creating unique Christmas traditions that beautifully blend with this Christ-centered season, ensuring it remains the focal point for our family celebrations.
Chuck and Jeremy continue their interview with our education pastor, James Neal, and his wife, Jenni, about their adoption journey. In this episode they share about the process of God bringing their daughter Megan into their family through adoption and also the unexpected addition of Gavin.
Chuck and Jeremy interview our education pastor, James Neal, and his wife, Jenni about their adoption journey. In this episode, they share the circumstances that led them to choose adoption, their specific agent, and the process of adopting their oldest son, Logan.
Navigating conversations about politics can feel overwhelming, especially when speaking with your kids. In this episode, Chuck and Jeremy offer practical tips for parents on how to approach politics with grace and truth built on God's Word.
Chuck and Jeremy interview Tom Wagoner, pastor of CBC for 37 years, about the lessons he has learned from his years of parenting. Pastor Tom shares how his view of Biblical discipline has developed through the years and what it now looks like as the parent of three adults.
Here are multiple resources mentioned in this episode:
- Shepherding a Child's Heart by Tedd Tripp: https://shepherdingtheheart.org/books/shepherding-a-childs-heart/
- Parenting by Paul David Tripp: https://www.paultripp.com/parenting
- Gospel by JD Greear: https://jdgreear.com/resources/books/
In this episode, Dolan and Kristen explore insights from Sissy Goff's book The Worry-Free Parent: Living in Confidence So Your Kids Can Too. The conversation helps parents reflect on how anxiety and worry have impacted their own lives, offering practical support for managing stress in the present—body, mind, heart, and in parenting. They also provide hope for the future, particularly for parents dealing with perfectionism.
You can purchase the book and find more info here: https://a.co/d/gXM2zVe
In this episode we interview Greg & Jennifer Parker who have chosen public school education for their children. They discuss how this decision has impacted their kids' faith and given them unique opportunities. Encountering challenges and rewards, the Parkers give spiritual strategies they use to keep their family grounded. Whether you're navigating public school as a Christian parent or considering it, this interview offers valuable insights and encouragement.
In this episode, we dive into the world of Christian schooling with Joe & Catrina Cain who have chosen this path for their family. Parents of three currently in school, Joe & Catrina share how Christian schools have supported their children's spiritual growth, the rewards and challenges they've encountered, and practical advice for families considering this option.
As families prepare for the upcoming school year, Chuck and Jeremy speak with Cheryl Autry, who has homeschooled her and Jeremy's sons for more than 18 years. Cheryl provides encouragement to families who are contemplating or currently engaged in homeschooling, reflecting on how God has guided and equipped her throughout her homeschooling journey.
As parents prepare for a new school year in the coming weeks we throw back to a conversation Chuck and Jeremy had in Episode 23 about our children's education.
Often we separate general education from the spiritual development of our children. But if all truth is God's truth, shouldn't education be connected to our worship of God? In this episode, Chuck and Jeremy discuss the responsibility of parents to educate their children no matter what method of schooling they choose.
In this brief episode, Jeremy and Chuck share an excellent resource for families. VidAngel can be connected to popular streaming services empowering parents to control the content displayed on their TVs.
Find out more info at: https://www.vidangel.com
In this 4th of July episode, Jeremy and Chuck talk about how parents can teach their kids they can follow Jesus as Lord and love America as a gracious gift from God. They interview chief Master Sgt. Larry Williams from a veteran's perspective what it looks like to respect our nation and those who have sacrificed their lives for the freedom we experience daily.
In this episode, Chuck and Jeremy discuss the newly released Disney Pixar film, Inside Out 2. They explore various aspects of the movie, offering insights that can spark meaningful conversations with your kids if you decide to watch it this summer.
In this episode, Chuck and Jeremy share a resource for parents to teach their teens a Biblical sexual ethic. Based on his book Holy Sexuality and the Gospel, Dr. Christopher Yuan offers a gospel-centered video study, The Holy Sexuality Project, designed for parents and teens to take a sharp and focused look at what God's Word says about identity, sex, sexuality, and gender.
To check out the resource, go to: www.holysexuality.com
Pastor Cameron Cloud joins Chuck and Jeremy to discuss how parents can inspire their kids to be interested in church. They also encourage parents whose children show no interest in attending church or spiritual things.
In this episode, Chuck and Jeremy explore the pivotal influencers shaping our children's spiritual growth: peers, adult mentors, and parents. They delve into recognizing negative influences with healthy boundaries and fostering access to positive ones.
In this episode, Chuck and Jeremy discuss the significant contribution prayer makes to children's spiritual development. They also examine the role parents can play in causing their children to pray and how they can help their children understand certain aspects of prayer.
With Easter right around the corner, Chuck and Jeremy talk about practical ways we can help our kids focus on our Risen Savior this Resurrection Sunday.
Teaching our kids to serve through the local church is essential to their spiritual development. In this episode, Chuck and Jeremy talk about how we can practically give our kids opportunitites to serve and how this sets them up as adults who live sacrificial lives of faith.
In this episode, Chuck and Jeremy talk with Worship Pastor Darren Hughes about the influence of Christian music on our children and the significance of filling your household with songs that worship our Creator and Savior.
Research indicates that engaging in mission trips and projects significantly contributes to a child's spiritual development. Chuck and Jeremy, both gearing up for mission trips, talk about the crucial role of discussing missions with your children and providing them the opportunity to participate in one before they graduate.
Lifeway Research shows that the most common factor in kids following the Lord into their adult years was regular Bible reading. Jeremy and Chuck discuss how parents can make this a habit in any stage of their children's development.
In their first episode of 2024, Chuck and Jeremy remind what our definition of successful parenting should be as Christ-followers. They dive into a Lifeway research that surveyed parents of adult children about contributing influencers in their kids' spiritual development.
Research notes and quotes are mentioned from Nothing Less: Engaging Kids in a Lifetime of Faith by Jana Magruder.
In the final episode of the year, Chuck and Jeremy delve into the art of creating unique Christmas traditions that beautifully blend with this Christ-centered season, ensuring it remains the focal point for our family celebrations.
Jeremy and Chuck explore practical ways Christian parents can model and teach gratitude to their kids especially during this Thanksgiving season. We see from Ephesians 5:18-20 the direct connection between being Spirit-filled and expressing thankfulness.
In this episode, Chuck and Jeremy delve into the challenges of navigating the holiday season's hustle and bustle. They explore practical strategies for parents to safeguard against an overloaded schedule, emphasizing the importance of setting priorities and carving out time for rest amidst the seasonal chaos.
Many parents are seeing the statistical rise of anxiety and depression among adolescents today. How do we understand and approach this Biblically with our kids? Jeremy and Chuck interview Pastor Cameron Cloud who approaches this sensitive subject with the foundation of God's Word.
In this episode of Beyond Apparent, Chuck and Jeremy delve into the challenges parents face when navigating difficult and temporary seasons in their journey. Parenting can be a rollercoaster ride, and sometimes we find ourselves in the midst of storms, unsure of how to weather them. Our goal in this episode is to offer guidance, empathy, and practical tips for parents who might be feeling overwhelmed, stressed, or uncertain about how to cope with the unique challenges they're currently experiencing.
In this eye-opening episode, we delve deep into the two critical dangers parents often overlook when it comes to safeguarding their families against the influence of Satan.
Chuck and Jeremy continue their conversation about helping parents understand and support their children as they navigate the process of disentangling truth from error in their faith.
Chuck and Jeremy discuss practical insights to help parents understand and support their children as they navigate the process of disentangling truth from error in their faith. Whether your child is going through a period of doubt or a complete faith deconstruction, parents can trust the authority of Scripture and the love of God to guide HIs children through these difficult moments.
In this installment, Jeremy and Chuck have a conversation with Betsy Dean, a seasoned educator with extensive experience and one of the founders of Brookside Christian Academy. They explore educators' perspectives and closely examine how they can be partners in education.
Darren and Margy Hughes share the highs and lows of their international adoption journeys bringing Sophia and Isaac into their family.Darren, the worship/administrative pastor of Central Baptist Church, wrote and recorded a song with Butler, Hughes, and Hayes a few years ago about Sophia's adoption and the adoption of all believers into God's family. The music video can be found at this link: https://youtu.be/oRKcgsf4mEA?si=r8fcakrGCXyL2W-J
In this episode, Chuck and Jeremy address transgenderism and gender roles. The two main questions are answered: What is God's design for gender? What should our response be to distortions of God's design?
Chuck and Jeremy discuss how we can minister to those struggling with same-sex attraction.
In this episode, Chuck and Jeremy approach how to talk to your kids about homosexuality by defining terms and distinguishing between sin and temptation.
Chuck and Jeremy begin a series on talking to your kids about God's design for marriage and gender in an increasingly confusing world. In this episode, they discuss what God's Word has to say about homosexuality knowing that there can be no grace without truth.
Our kids (like all of us) need daily contact, help, encouragement, exhortation, and conversations. Chuck and Jeremy discuss how we, as parents, can maintain that foundation for open communication with our kids.
In this episode, you'll hear a message our lead pastor, Dr. Cameron Cloud, preached earlier this year to our children on praying for your children from the book of Job. Be blessed by this powerful exhortation from God's Word in a responsibility every parent has no matter the age of their kids.
If we are not careful, we can easily consume movies and other forms of entertainment without stopping to think about the message it is teaching our children. James Neal joins Chuck and Jeremy to discuss being active, not passive, entertainment consumers.
We are just wrapping up our favorite part of the year: church camp! In this episode, Chuck and Jeremy break down twelve fun reasons why they love camp and some stories they've gathered along the way.
Chuck and Jeremy wrap up their conversation on different methods of education available to Christian parents finishing with home school. They break down the homeschool stereotypes by offering reasons this is a valid option while recognizing unique challenges that also come with homeschooling.
Chuck and Jeremy continue breaking down different methods of education available to Christian parents, covering Christian school. They examine the reasons that make Christian school education a valid option and reveal things that parents should be aware of when making this choice.
Chuck and Jeremy begin breaking down different methods of education available to Christian parents, starting with public school. They examine the reasons that make public school education a valid option and uncover what parents should be aware of when making this choice.
Often we separate general education from the spiritual development of our children. But if all truth is God's truth, shouldn't education be connected to our worship of God? In this episode, Chuck and Jeremy discuss the responsibility of parents to educate their children no matter what method of schooling they choose.
Chuck and Jeremy interview Ira and Rita Hall, members of CBC and parents of seven children. The Halls discuss how God is leading them through this current stage of parenting in teaching their kids to honor Christ in their relationships.
Chuck and Jeremy discuss determining when your teenagers are ready to date. Questions each parent should ask will involve their kids' age, trustworthiness, maturity, handling pressures, and understanding of boundaries.
Are there any consequences for following the world's pattern of encouraging romantic relationships among adolescents? In this episode, Jeremy and Chuck look into the often-overlooked dangers of teen dating.
As our kids grow older and desire romantic relationships, how do we help them see and pursue God's purpose for dating and marriage? Chuck and Jeremy open this multi-episode conversation by comparing God's Word with our culture's view of love and relationships.
Chuck's parents, Jeff and Pam Meade, join us in the studio to share their story of raising twelve kids.
Wrapping up the series of spiritual non-negotiables for Christian parents, Jeremy and Chuck emphasize the importance of mandating Christian morality within the home. We see that while the gospel is what changes hearts it is not abnormal for anyone to mandate some level of morality in society.
Should we mandate that our kids read God's Word? What are the potential pitfalls of making this a non-negotiable? Chuck and Jeremy explore the importance of God's Word and why reading it should be expected of kids in a Christian home.
Chuck and Jeremy interview Will & Sara Bratton, parents of twin toddlers, to discover how they are leading their family to prioritize the church amid all of life's distractions and struggles.
Is it really dangerous to "drag your kids to church"? Do we let church attendance be a decision our kids make for themselves? In this episode, Chuck and Jeremy discuss the necessity of gathering together as a church for corporate worship and when to turn over that choice to our kids.
When our kids are young, we make all the decisions for them. When they are adults, they make all of their own decisions. How do we help our kids transition to adulthood while prioritizing their safety? Chuck and Jeremy delve into parenting in the middle as a slow transition of teaching our kids how to make their own decisions.
Chuck and Jeremy interview Dolan and Kristen Williams about the practices they have in place to manage technology in their home. We discover that saying yes to an abundance of screens often means saying no to better things. These "better things" teach our children crucial creative and social skills that further their development.This episode is part 2 of 2.
Chuck and Jeremy interview Dolan and Kristen Williams about the practices they have in place to manage technology in their home. We discover that saying yes to an abundance of screens often means saying no to better things. These "better things" teach our children crucial creative and social skills that further their development.This episode is part 1 of 2.
Jeremy and Chuck examine the convicting subject of phone addiction. How can we recognize it in our own family's lives, and how can we lead positive change? We as parents must model better phone behavior and realize that the distractions we seek in our phones will never satisfy the deepest longings of our hearts. Only Jesus will.
Chuck and Jeremy interview James Neal, the education pastor at CBC, about how their family approaches screens. Their discussion involves practical ideas on how to have safeguards for our kids, conversations with our kids, and know our ultimate purpose in teaching our kids to use technology wisely.
While the smartphone benefits our lives, it can also be extremely dangerous, especially for our kids. Jeremy and Chuck unpack the three significant dangers of this "loaded gun" that every parent must consider before giving their kid a phone. After they have a phone, we see our responsibility to model and teach wisdom in using these powerful devices.
Our parenting looks different from each other. We draw boundaries in different places and have certain rules that don't match up identically with every other family in our church. Chuck and Jeremy look into God's Word as our guide for parental guidelines. On matters where Scripture is not explicitly clear, we must follow the Spirit's leading and agree to disagree without a judgmental spirit toward other parents.
*We apologize for some microphone issues during this episode. Normal audio quality will return next week.
Chuck and Jeremy interview Tom Wagoner, pastor of CBC for 37 years, about the lessons he has learned from his years of parenting. Pastor Tom shares how his view of Biblical discipline has developed through the years and what it now looks like as the parent of three adults.
Here are multiple resources mentioned in this episode:
- Shepherding a Child's Heart by Tedd Tripp: https://shepherdingtheheart.org/books/shepherding-a-childs-heart/
- Parenting by Paul David Tripp: https://www.paultripp.com/parenting
- Gospel by JD Greear: https://jdgreear.com/resources/books/
The gospel is the lens through which we see everything including how we parent. Chuck and Jeremy explore what it means to parent for heart change, with eternity in view, and with grace.
The gospel is not just a ticket to heaven or even a relationship with God. It is the lens through which we see everything including ourselves as parents. Chuck and Jeremy lay the foundation of where we, as Christian parents, find our identity.
Where do we begin when our kid approaches us with questions about becoming a Christian? Chuck and Jeremy continue the conversation that, more than anything, our kids need the gospel. We, as parents, must be equipped to point them to Jesus.
Where do we begin when our kid approaches us with questions about becoming a Christian? Chuck and Jeremy begin with the foundational truth that more than anything our kids need the gospel. We as parents must be equipped to point them to Jesus.
Join Jeremy Autry and Chuck Meade as they seek to equip you as parents to be the primary disciple makers of your family. In this inaugural episode, they explain the purpose of this podcast and the role of a parent. Any feedback can be sent to jeremy@cbcdunn.com and chuck@cbcdunn.com .