Money Magic Podcast: Recent Episodes
Vangile Makwakwa
Welcome to the Money Magic Podcast with Vangile Makwakwa, this is the podcast where we talk about trauma and how it affects our finances and our lives. The intention with this podcast is to provide you with weekly episodes that help you understand the importance of healing and help you understand your relationship with money better so you can start making different financial decisions and creating a life you love for yourself and future generations.
In this week’s episode of the Money Magic podcast episode, Vangile talks about explore the transformative journey of evolving from the Fixer Money Archetype to the Sovereign One.
She delves into the origins of the Fixer archetype and explains how unresolved trauma often manifests as a need to control our environment, particularly within family dynamics.
Vangile explains how the need to control is deeply rooted in trauma responses, including feelings of powerlessness, fear, and a desire to avoid vulnerability. She discusses how control may initially create a sense of safety but can have unintended consequences—from fostering dependency and resentment to reinforcing dysfunctional family patterns. These dynamics can block authentic connection, erode boundaries, and perpetuate cycles of over-responsibility and burnout.
This episode also examines how the Fixer archetype impacts family relationships, preventing others from developing self-reliance and stifling mutual growth.
She also explores the Sovereign archetype as the evolved state of the Fixer. The Sovereign One leads with confidence, trusts themselves and others, sets clear boundaries, and creates relationships built on trust and mutual respect.
This is another insightful episode.
Tune in!
During this episode, you will learn about:[02:08] - Introduction to the podcast
[05:42] - Introduction to the Fixer Archetype
[09:30] - The role of a Fixer in the family
[15:50] - The Fixer’s role and life lessons
[18:29] - How Fixer’s behave as children
[25:45] - The parentified child who is an adult at a young age
[31:10] The difference between the Destroyer and Fixer Archetypes
[38:37] - How Fixer’s respond to family’s financial problems
[43:11] - The Fixer’s feelings of guilt around money
[50:38] - Why it’s essential for a Fixer to heal
[57:00] - Healing the God Wound as a Fixer
[01:02:28] - How the Sovereign One behaves compared to The Fixer
[01:09:35} - The Destroyer - Fixer relationship
[01:19:10] - Where to get the “What’s Your Money Personality?” book
[01:20:33] - Coaching services
Notable Quotes
- “A strong Fixer archetype can move an entire family from abject poverty to true wealth or financial freedom in a single generation.”
- “The Fixer is determined to keep the family together even if it means doing so on a shaky foundation.”
- “Fixers don’t mind spending money on things like shares, investing, buying property, art, if art is an investment. If they have a hobby that’s fun, that hobby is making money for them.”
- “One of the things a Fixer has to do is heal their God Wound because they have a God complex.”
- “A true Fixer will work on finding a solution to their income problems and work to make it happen, no matter what.”
Additional money trauma resources:One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching
Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
In this podcast episode, Vangile talks about the "RunAway archetype" and its transformation into the "Grounded Seeker."
Vangile explains the behavioral patterns, core wounds, and healing journey of the RunAway, which involves avoiding uncomfortable financial situations and feelings due to learned trauma responses.
The RunAway archetype often manifests through avoidance, escapism, and impulsive spending, leading to cycles of debt and financial instability.
The RunAway’s transformation involves acknowledging the need for change, practicing self-awareness, and learning to feel safe in the body.
The Grounded Seeker archetype embodies stability, presence, and financial awareness, enabling individuals to build generational wealth and improve family dynamics.
Vangile emphasizes how the RunAway thrives by developing routines, coming into their bodies and regulating their nervous system.
This is another insightful episode.
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During this episode, you will learn about:[02:08] - Introduction to the podcast
[03:59] - Discussion on the runaway archetype and its transformation
[08:15] - Characteristics and behaviors of the RunAway archetype
[14:03] - Effects of trauma on the runaway archetype and family dynamics
[18:14] - Dissociation and externalizing security
[25:10] - Discussion on busyness and financial habits of runaways
[29:07] - Differences between runaway and sweet one archetypes in conflict avoidance
[33:08] - Short-term solutions and the allure of quick fixes
[37:29] - Physical manifestations of trauma and its impact on the body
[40:38] - Cycles of debt and financial avoidance
[44:35] - Impulsive spending and its consequences
[51:50] - Addiction tendencies and family relationships
[54:34] - Beginning the healing journey and physical symptoms
[57:34] - Importance of somatic work and mind-body connection
[01:04:21] - Characteristics of the grounded seeker archetype
[01:07:08] - Developing self-trust and financial responsibility
[01:10:59] - Key practices for the grounded seeker
[01:13:36] - Practicing neutrality with money
[01:16:10] - Building financial trust and empowerment
[01:18:48] - Closing remarks and reflection prompts
[01:25:45] - Information on where to find the book and how to work with Vangile
[01:32:46] - Details on one-on-one coaching
[01:34:03] - Final comments and participant interaction
Notable Quotes
- "The runaway archetype has learned to respond to trauma predominantly by going into the flight response."
- "Some of us who are the runaway archetype learn to deal with money by avoiding responsibility."
- "The runaway's role is to metabolize the unseen and unprocessed trauma in the family."
- "The grounded seeker's role is to teach every family member to acknowledge their own feelings."
- "The grounded seeker is all about being in the body and setting boundaries."
Additional money trauma resources:One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching
Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
In this podcast episode, Vangile talks about the Destroyer Archetype which is known for rebellion and bringing family secrets to light, often seen as difficult or an outcast.
The Destroyer archetype is someone who often rebels against family norms and is seen as a "black sheep." Destroyers carry a strong sense of independence, yet this can lead to feelings of isolation.
The Destroyer’s journey is often marked by deep wounds, including feelings of abandonment, rejection, and self-doubt. Growing up in chaotic environments can lead to difficulties managing finances.
Vangile explains that Destroyers, though often misunderstood, play a crucial role in family dynamics. They bring hidden truths and secrets to light, often disrupting the status quo. This role can be painful but ultimately leads to healing and growth within the family.
The Destroyer’s wounds of not belonging can create an overwhelming fear of failure, particularly regarding money. This can result in stagnation, where this archetype remains stuck in unsatisfying financial situations.
In an effort to feel a sense of belonging or acceptance, Destroyers may overcompensate by spending excessively on material goods or experiences.
This is another insightful episode.
Tune in!
During this episode, you will learn about:[02:08] - Introduction to the podcast
[04:00] - Discussion on the destroyer archetype
[08:27] – The Destroyer’s role in the family
[17:32] - Challenges faced by destroyers in following traditional financial advice
[20:37] - Introduction to the destroyer archetype's characteristics
[24:59] - Importance of the destroyer archetype
[30:32] - The independence of destroyers and their challenges in adulthood
[35:00] - Importance of healthy conflict initiated by destroyers
[39:39] - Core wounds of the destroyer archetype and their financial impact
[45:41] - Impact of fear of being too much
[49:39] - How fear of rejection affects destroyers' finances
[54:02] - The healing journey of the destroyer archetype
[58:17] - Releasing thoughts and emotions in the body
[01:01:16] - Transition from destroyer to renovator archetype
[01:02:39] - Explanation of the renovator's role in the family
[01:06:57] - How healing affects destroyers' financial behavior
[01:11:18] - The Destroyers' financial transformation after healing
[01:19:30] - Information on purchasing the book and accessing resources
[01:23:47] - Introduction to one-on-one coaching and its benefits
[01:33:47] – Closing remarks
Notable Quotes
- "The destroyer reveals and may actually display all the hidden toxic behaviour in the family, often in a violent and unpleasant manner."
- "The fixer archetype is the strongest energetically in the family. The second strongest is the destroyer."
- "Once you understand your archetype and you start to understand your main way of interacting with money, you can start to see when you are being triggered by money.”
- "We all have different reasons for not being able to make money."
- "For change to happen, you have to have some chaos. You have to have some friction."
- “A destroyer that conforms impacts their income because it goes against their soul-patterning around how they are here to make money."
Additional money trauma resources:One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching
Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
In this episode of the Money Magic podcast, Vangile Makwakwa is focuses on understanding the Sweet One Money Archetype. The Sweet One is empathetic and generous, often putting others' needs before their own. While this makes them caring and compassionate people, it can also lead to financial challenges like debt due to overgiving and struggles with setting boundaries.
In this episode Vangile emphasizes the importance of addressing the "not good enough" wound to improve financial behaviour. This involves self-compassion and self-validation instead of seeking external approval.
Vangile also explores the challenges Sweet Ones face in pricing their services and seeking salary increases due to fear of judgment and conflict.
This discomfort with charging often translates to the Sweet One giving their services away for free or undercharging drastically, which, while temporarily preserving relationships, ultimately leads to financial stress.
The Sweet One may even experience guilt for wanting fair compensation (that’s a vow of service), perceiving it as selfish or out of alignment with their identity as a giver.
Vangile also does an EFT Tapping session on pricing and salary anxiety.
This is another insightful episode.
Tune in!
During this episode, you will learn about:[05:36] - Discussing the sweet one archetype and financial boundaries
[07:08] - Explanation of shadow and golden archetypes
[11:17] - Definition of the sweet one archetype
[17:08] - The sweet one’s role in family and financial implications
[20:06] - Challenges of pricing and asking for salary raises
[24:29] - The sweet one's fear of rejection
[28:57] - Importance of boundaries for the Sweet One
[34:25] - Working through the not good enough wound
[40:15] - Misconceptions about pricing and self-worth
[44:31] - Aligning financial goals with personal values
[53:01] - Transition from sweet one to boundary one
[01:04:16] - Making small incremental changes for financial improvement
[01:07:28] - Discussion on repressed anger within the sweet one
[01:15:34] - EFT tapping session for pricing and salary anxiety
[01:20:03] - EFT tapping session for salary concerns
[01:43:22] - Working with sweet ones without exploiting them
[01:46:05] - Information on where to buy the book and other resources
[02:01:07] - Closing remarks and invitation for further engagement
Notable Quotes
- "The not good enough wound is a wound that we have because of the fear of criticism."
- "The role of the sweet one is to be the glue in the family."
- "Anger is one of the top emotions that will block you from receiving money."
- "What healing is, is it basically creates space for you to be able to take a breath and a breather before reacting."
- "Boundaries are not just for your family. You should also have boundaries with clients and with regards to your finances."
Additional money trauma resources:One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching
Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
In this episode of the Money Magic podcast, Vangile Makwakwa explores the relationship between money, ancestral trauma, and healing. This episode focuses on how systemic oppression affects family dynamics and financial behavior, particularly among marginalized groups.
It highlights the effects of colonization, slavery, and apartheid on financial behaviors, leading to a survival mindset that prioritizes immediate needs over long-term planning.
Vangile also discusses the concept of money archetypes and how family dynamics shape them. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing one's money archetype to understand financial behaviors and develop healthier relationships with money.
She also underscores the need for healing ancestral trauma by understanding how historical and cultural contexts influence financial narratives. It also touches on the psychological effects of oppression and the importance of addressing these issues at a nervous system level.
This is another insightful episode.
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During this episode, you will learn about:[02:08]: Introduction to the current episode
[05:07]: Discussion on financial behaviors and systemic oppression
[06:37]: The impact of systemic oppression on financial advice for women
[10:52]: Family dynamics and generational wealth
[18:28]: Reflective exercise for listeners on family money memories
[22:07]: The role of family money stories and cultural impacts
[26:18]: Impact of historical and cultural contexts on money stories
[33:53]: The importance of working with personal and systemic factors
[36:50]: The impact of societal expectations on personal financial behavior
[43:04]: Differences in financial planning between different socioeconomic groups
[50:40]: The perpetuation of poverty cycles due to lack of financial resources
[56:52]: The impact of single-parent households on ancestral wisdom
[59:50]: Research findings on poverty's impact on brain development
[01:02:55]: The impact of financial stress on decision-making and self-worth
[01:08:43]: Importance of holistic healing in financial trauma
[01:16:37]: Recognizing and adapting money archetypes
[01:18:07]: Explanation of shadow and golden archetypes
[01:19:32]: Book promotion and availability information
[01:38:30] : Closing remarks and additional resources offered
Notable Quotes
- "A huge part of healing money trauma is also understanding how systemic oppression has impacted our nervous systems so that we can actually heal from that impact as well."
- "Families under oppression develop a survival mindset. They tend to prioritise immediate needs over long-term planning for many reasons."
- "Poverty trauma can have a negative impact on children's brain development."
- "Stress makes it difficult for us to focus on long-term goals and can impact our sense of personal power and self-worth."
- "We need to take into account how historical and cultural impacts of systemic oppression impact us."
Additional money trauma resources:One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching
Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
In this episode of the Money Magic podcast, Vangile Makwakwa sits down with Tebello Motshwane, an attorney specializing in family law with a focus on marriage. Tebello is also the founder of a platform called Sister-in-law, which is a platform dedicated to empowering women through legal education.
Tebello emphasizes the importance of understanding marriage contracts and financial arrangements before marriage. She highlights the dangers of being married in community of property in South Africa, which can lead to shared liabilities and financial complications, advising instead to consider marriage out of community of property with or without accrual.
She stresses the importance of having an anti-nuptial contract to protect individual financial assets and liabilities.
Tebello also explains that couples should openly discuss finances, including debts, monthly commitments, and financial goals before marrying.
She explains that In South Africa, customary marriages, even without registration at Home Affairs, are legally binding. Proper legal procedures should be followed to dissolve such marriages to avoid future complications.
Tebello also advises being financially and emotionally prepared for the possibility of divorce, highlighting the importance of minimizing litigation costs and being aware of the emotional and financial impacts of transitioning from a dual-income to a single-income household.
This is another insightful episode.
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During this episode, you will learn about:[02:19] – Vangile welcomes listeners
[03:42] - Introduction to Tebello Motshwane
[05:02] – Tebello’s background and mission
[07:30] – Tebello explains how she started Sister-in-law
[10:21] - Discussion on financial aspects of marriage
[14:00] - Questions to ask about finances before marriage
[19:05] - Differences between marriage regimes
[22:08] - Risks of being married in community of property
[27:32] - Cultural perceptions of marriage contracts
[33:02] - Legal implications of lobola
[37:17] - Legal dissolution of customary marriage
[41:06] - Clarification on unregistered customary marriages
[43:37] - Deal breakers in marriage discussions
[46:36] - Financial preparation for divorce
[49:19] - Removing shame from divorce processes
[51:07] - Insights on approaching marriage
[52:13 – Final words from Tebello
Contact Tebello:
https://www.instagram.com/sister_in_law_/
https://web.facebook.com/sisterinlawsa
sisterinlaw.co.za
Notable Quotes
- "It is so important to understand that who you marry is as important as how you get married because that affects your finances."
- "I want to educate Black women on the importance of understanding how the law exists to serve them."
- "When you're in a relationship, you should speak about money as often as possible because everything that you do as a couple requires money."
- "Some of the conversations that couples should be having, first and foremost, is what are your monthly commitments?"
- "If you're married in community of property, the bank is coming to take the house, they're not going to ask whose name it's in."
- "When women are financially and legally empowered, it's actually society that benefits as a whole."
Additional money trauma resources:One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching
Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
In this week’s episode of the Money Magic Podcast, Vangile sits down with Brooke Kekos, an expert in helping women heal from abusive relationships, including financial abuse.
Brooke shares her personal journey of enduring abuse from childhood that continued into her adult life, discussing the patterns of control and manipulation she experienced, particularly in financial matters.
In this podcast episode Brooke explains financial abuse as a form of control where one partner restricts access to financial resources, making the victim feel powerless. This can involve controlling spending, withholding money, or making financial decisions unilaterally.
She also shares her story of growing up with a controlling father and later entering a similar dynamic in her marriage, highlighting how familiarity with such patterns can trap individuals.
Brooke also discusses her experiences with religious trauma, having been raised in a cult. She details the impact of this on her sense of self and autonomy, drawing parallels to financial and emotional abuse.
The conversation emphasizes the importance of reclaiming autonomy, both financially and personally. Brooke talks about reconnecting with one's body and intuition through practices like meditation and yoga to heal from abuse.
Overall, the episode is a deep dive into the complexities of financial abuse and its intersection with other forms of trauma.
This is another insightful podcast.
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During this episode, you will learn about: [02:08] – Introduction to Brooke Kekos
[04:36] - Brooke shares her personal story and background
[08:44] - Brooke talks about the control dynamics in her family and her past relationship
[11:33] - Examples of financial control and how it manifests in relationships
[12:52] - How financial abuse is identified and the importance of autonomy in financial decisions
[18:16] - Identifying happiness in relationships and advocating for oneself financially
[21:00] - The value of leaving an abusive situation early for better opportunities in the future
[27:26] - The journey from survival to thriving by connecting with the body and intuition
[31:13] - The guilt and shame associated with religious trauma, especially around sexuality
[36:43] - How disconnection from the body affects decision-making and financial autonomy
[39:59] - Meditation and yoga as tools for reconnecting with the body and healing
[46:10] - The importance of releasing trauma stored in the body through yoga
[50:52] - The importance of curiosity and exploring new belief systems
[56:17] - The importance of support and community for healing and achieving goals
[01:02:22] – Contact Brooke:
Website: https://www.lifecoachinggoddess.com/
https://www.instagram.com/brookekekos
https://web.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100075036248909&_rdc=1&_rdr
Notable Quotes
- "Our nervous system will choose a familiar situation over something that is not known."
- "I think a lot of the times people come into relationships where they have this dynamic because of how patriarchy has happened."
- "The brain hates the unknown, the nervous system hates the unknown. It's going to keep us trapped where we're at."
- "When we're not connected to the body, I think that we're dissociated from life."
- “You get to be curious. Even if it's scary, take that leap. Trust that nudge that says, something doesn't feel good to me."
Additional money trauma resources:One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching
Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
In this week’s episode of the Money Magic Podcast, Vangile sits down with Tshepang Ramoba, a musician, artist, and podcast editor.
The conversation delves into Tshepang's journey with money, his experiences as a rock star, and his struggles with financial management. He shares insights into his upbringing, how he learned about money, and the impact of his family's financial habits on his own.
Tshepang discusses how past struggles and trauma affected his ability to manage and hold onto money. He highlights the importance of addressing subconscious beliefs and behaviors related to money.
He also emphasizes the significance of budgeting and how it has helped him manage his finances better, especially in his projects.
The conversation touches on the importance of healing and self-care. Tshepang talks about the role of meditation, tapping, and other healing practices in improving his financial situation and overall well-being.
Tshepang also shares his journey of learning to balance generosity with maintaining boundaries, ensuring that his relationships with others and money are healthy and sustainable.
He discusses the importance of celebrating achievements, which helps to reinforce positive financial behaviors and attract more abundance.
This is another insightful podcast.
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During this episode, you will learn about:[02:20] - Introduction to Tshepang
[05:14] – Tshepang discusses his purpose and work
[07:00] -Discussion on music and podcast editing
[10:04] – Tshepang’s experience with money and spending habits
[14:00] - Life as a musician and financial struggles
[21:19] - Band financial issues and resolution
[23:22] - Building a relationship with money
[27:31] – From struggling artist to recognition
[29:04] - Early struggles and perseverance
[37:21] - Transition to fame and visibility
[44:57] - Impact of trauma on financial habits
[51:21] - Discussing money in relationships
[56:55] - Budgeting and financial planning
[01:02:12] - Paying off debts and financial habits
[01:11:58] - Lessons learned about money
[01:18:47] - Celebrating financial success safely
[01:20:26] - Importance of pleasure and balance
[01:23:43] – Contact Tshepang:
Website: postpost.co.za
Instagram and Facebook: Tshepang Ramoba
Notable Quotes
- "I really feel like... I know I've been searching for myself for a long time, so I know that I am sent. I was sent to this world to heal, basically."
- "When you help people with anything, I feel like that's healing, you know."
- "I've realized that when you don't have a good relationship with money, just using your money, however your relationships are also like shaky."
- "Meditation helps me with that. So that's my second lesson, by the way."
- "The biggest number one shift, the budgeting. Because, even if you have like a little bit of money, and you know that your money is not enough for everything that you have to pay for."
- "Sometimes when I do something really good, I do something for myself, you know, even if it's a small thing."
Additional money trauma resources:One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching
Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
In this week’s podcast of the Money Magic Podcast, Vangile shares the first of her seven-part What's Your Money Personality? Masterclasses.
In the class she explores how financial behaviors and patterns are passed down through generations. This class focused on how ancestral money trauma influences our nervous systems, emotional responses, and attitudes toward money.
She discusses how family dynamics, co-regulation, and inherited beliefs create unconscious patterns around spending, saving, and earning.
She also looked at the impact of dysregulated nervous systems on financial behaviors and how trauma from previous generations manifests in the way we approach money today.
Tune in.
During this episode, you will learn about:[02:08] – Introduction to the masterclass
[06:37] – Vangile shares personal financial experiences
[09:34] - Discussion on family dynamics and financial habits
[12:22] - Explanation of trauma and its impact
[15:25] - Childhood trauma and financial behavior
[18:24] - Introduction to ancestral trauma
[21:24] - Trauma's intergenerational effects
[27:19] - The impact of upbringing on financial decisions
[36:58] - Importance of nervous system regulation
[46:18] - Impact of sibling relationships on financial behavior
[49:19] - Recognizing and understanding financial patterns
[53:13] - Explanation of mirroring and rebelling against patterns
[57:03] - Audience interaction and advice on financial behavior
[01:00:07] – The impact of family structure on financial literacy
[01:08:19] - Conclusion and final thoughts on family dynamics
[01:11:02] - Information on purchasing the book and coaching services
[01:12:27] - Audience questions and wrap-up
Notable Quotes
- “Money affects not just us as individuals, but the people around us."
- "Trauma is also the small things that happen to us."
- "When we feel unsafe, when we have money, we feel anxious. Our nervous system becomes dysregulated."
- "How families communicate about money can significantly influence financial behaviour."
- "By understanding our family connections and why we behave the way we do, we can make better financial choices."
Additional money trauma resources:One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching
Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
In this week’s podcast of the Money Magic Podcast, Vangile sits down with Brittany Williams, who discusses her work in facilitating freedom, particularly as a sex doula focusing on lower chakras.
Brittany highlights the importance of addressing trauma, which often hides in one's sexuality, and how this can manifest in various life aspects, including financial behaviors. She delves into unconventional paths, such as anal consciousness and placenta work, to explore the nuances of trauma and its impact on one's life.
Brittany shares personal experiences of her health challenges and how understanding her lineage helped her navigate and transform those aspects of her life.
Brittany also discusses the significance of understanding the placenta's role and how it connects generations, carrying ancestral experiences that shape one's current life. She advocates for accessing the energetics of the placenta to gain insights into one's lineage and personal history.
The conversation also explores the importance of breaking systemic patterns, especially in marginalized communities, to create a better future for subsequent generations. Brittany emphasizes the need for individuals to develop the acumen to hold and grow wealth, rather than just having access to it.
This is another insightful episode.
Tune in.
During this episode, you will learn about:[02:24] – Introduction to Brittany Williams
[03:35] - Brittany discusses her soul's journey and roles in life.
[05:14] - Trauma manifesting in money and sexuality.
[09:49] - Brittany explains the significance of the placenta.
[15:10] - Brittany talks about her family’s health patterns.
[20:52] - Accessing the placenta energetically.
[23:20] - Meditation practices related to the placenta.
[28:36] - The connection between fibroids and ancestral behavior.
[34:51] - Brittany shares her genealogy and its impact on her life.
[41:38] – The difference between proximity and access.
[48:20] - The acumen of understanding how to hold things.
[53:51] - Shifts in relationships with money and time.
[55:53] - Anal consciousness and its significance.
[59:10] - Identity level release and sexual trauma.
[01:03:08] - How anal consciousness affects vocal expression.
[01:09:41] - Exploring pleasure and prosperity through release.
[01:11:49] – Contact Brittany: https://www.instagram.com/thee_brittanyrwilliams/ or https://web.facebook.com/profile.php?id=23421550
Notable Quotes
- "I noticed one thing is that money was where people's trauma went to manifest itself, but the sexuality was where people's trauma went to hide."
- "Your placenta is basically your motherboard for your humanity as you came into this Earth."
- "Our sacral space is holding so much of our personal history and our personal experiences."
- "The placenta is taking up the chemistry of the wound carrier as they move through life."
- "I think that the way that we accelerate that human experience is understanding the going past access and getting into the acumen and learning how to hold it."
- "Luxury is about a facilitation and a receiving. But pleasure happens when you have that both when you have the receiving and you have the release."
Additional money trauma resources:One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching
Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
In this week’s episode of the #MoneyMagic Podcast, Vangile Makwakwa sits with Naomi Harris, an expert in sexual pleasure and empowerment, to discuss women's issues around sexual pleasure, orgasm, and healing ancestral trauma.
Naomi shares her journey of self-discovery, highlighting her personal struggles with sexual pleasure and the transformative impact of addressing these issues. The conversation delves into the significance of exploring one's own body, understanding the importance of sexual pleasure, and the societal pressures that often limit women's experiences.
Naomi emphasizes the need for women to reclaim their sexual power and embrace their bodies without shame.
The discussion also explores the connection between sexual pleasure and financial well-being, suggesting that the ability to experience and embrace pleasure can positively influence other aspects of life, including financial abundance.
Naomi shares insights on how societal norms and patriarchal structures shape women's perceptions of sexuality and pleasure, often leading to suppressed desires and unmet needs. The conversation encourages women to question these narratives and understand the profound impact of pleasure on overall quality of life.
This is another insightful episode.
Tune in.
During this episode, you will learn about: [02:47] – Introduction to Naomi Harris
[06:42] - Naomi's journey into understanding her sexuality
[08:53] - Female sexuality research and societal issues
[10:56] - Societal expectations and personal identity
[16:59.9] - The importance of self-ownership in pleasure
[18:21] - Explanation of female arousal and health
[22:29] - How women can recognize full arousal
[27:05] – The effect of trauma on sexuality
[29:40] - How first sexual experiences shape expectations
[33:57] - How pleasure relates to money and relationships
[40:00] - Centering pleasure in life
[45:55] - The effect of centering pleasure on finances
[49:32] - The power of breathwork in healing
[53:16] - Creating safe spaces for healing in relationships
[57:09] - The importance of a regulated nervous system for creating safe spaces
[01:01:05] – Contact Naomi: https://www.thepleasurenaturopath.com/ or https://www.instagram.com/_sensualfreedom_
Notable Quotes
- "As a soul, I am an adventurer, a traveler, and a deep diver into life. I really, really, really want to explore life and find out about it."
- "I started healing and really looking at who I was and what my stories around sex were and what my body was doing."
- "We're constantly being told who we are in really subtle ways and also really just overt, you are this thing, ways and in relationships as well."
- "For most of us, I think sexuality is actually something a little bit more precious and a little bit more inside and a little bit more contained."
- "What does sex mean to you? What does pleasure mean to you? What does pleasure feel like? What does orgasm feel like?"
- "We need to have a regulated nervous system in order to feel full pleasure in the body."
Additional money trauma resources:One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching
Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
In this week’s episode of the #MoneyMagic Podcast, sits down with Khanyi Makhaya who discusses her journey as an investor and student of the Money Magic course. She shares her background in banking and finance and her transition to teaching and property development.
Khanyi emphasizes the importance of understanding one's soul and emotional patterns to improve financial outcomes. She highlights the significance of addressing emotional and spiritual aspects in financial matters, which she learned through her experiences in the corporate world and personal life.
Khanyi reflects on her upbringing, experiences in the corporate world, and the impact of her educational background. She discusses the challenges of managing debt while working in the banking sector and the lack of discussions on generational wealth building.
She also shares her insights on the importance of emotional intelligence and resilience in property development and the necessity of doing inner work to transform one's relationship with money.
She also discusses the importance of building supportive communities and networks, especially for women and people of colour. Khanyi also talks about the tangible shifts she experienced after joining the Money Magic course, such as understanding her financial behaviours and breaking patterns of over-giving. She expresses gratitude for the course's community and resources, which helped her address her emotional and financial challenges.
This is another insightful episode.
Tune in.
During this episode, you will learn about:[02:08] - Introduction to Khanyi Makhaya
[07:37] - Khanyi’s passion for her work in property and training
[10:46] - Reflection on personal values and money
[12:08] - Discussion on the sweet one archetype and people-pleasing
[18:32] - Lessons learned in corporate and personal management
[23:03] - Generational wealth and leaving a legacy
[28:38] - Reflections on school networks and their impact
[33:43] - Gender dynamics and corporate environments
[39:50] - How buying love affects financial decisions
[44:11] - The God wound and its personal impact
[52:52] - Tangible shifts and tools used in financial journey
[56:42] - Meditations and ancestral trauma healing
[59:09] - Importance of structured learning vs. free resources
[01:03:20] - Importance of addressing subconscious issues
[01:10:23] - Approach to money and relationships
[01:15:58] - Boundaries and relationships
[01:16:16] - Contact Khanyi: https://web.facebook.com/khanyi.makhaya
Notable Quotes
- "I think when we rescue people too easily, we also rob them of an opportunity to grow."
- “The training that we really need in the beginning is how can we manage ourselves in the world? Not how can we manage the job."
- " I think we don't fully understand the cost of ignorance. It's easy to look and say, Well, it's a lot of money, but how much has ignorance cost us?”
- "What I can say is that there really is a great need to build the emotional stamina."
- "I wish I'd been told that I was enough, that I didn't have to perform for love."
Additional money trauma resources:One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching
Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
In this week’s episode of the #MoneyMagic Podcast, Vangile shares a class she did with her clients in the Money Magic group where she talks about the Money Magic course and the power of listening to your own intuition.
She delves into the concept of identity transformation and how it relates to financial growth and discusses the importance of aligning one's current identity with the desired future self, using personal experiences to illustrate how identities formed in childhood can impact financial behaviors as adults.
She encourages listeners to actively work on integrating new identities by embracing new habits, mindsets, and even changes in personal style or environment that align with their financial goals.
In addition to internal work, Vangile suggests practical exercises such as maintaining a journal to track daily proofs of financial success and personal growth. She highlights the power of recognizing small wins to shift mindsets and reinforce new identities.
She emphasizes the importance of dreaming and planning for the future, using tools like Pinterest to visualize desired lifestyles and environments, ultimately encouraging listeners to creatively and intentionally craft their evolving identities.
This is another insightful episode.
Tune in.
During this episode, you will learn about:[02:10]: Welcoming new Money Magic students
[03:53]: Explanation of the course philosophy
[08:07]: The power of collective support and sharing emotions
[09:26]: Letting go of the need to be perfect
[13:17]: Personal journey and mindset shifts
[16:04]: Overcoming trauma and shifting identity
[19:01]: Personal transformation and identity work
[27:09]: Embracing new identities and expanding
[31:26]: Practical steps for personal transformation
[36:39]: Creating a new identity and vision board integrity
[44:59]: Honoring new identities and letting go of old ones
[48:22]: Daily practices to affirm new identities.
[01:00:00]: Conclusion and invitation to free training.
Notable Quotes
- "The important thing is not to get stuck in a particular emotion but to allow every emotion to rise and fall."
- "The power of the collective is that so many of us are at different points in the group."
- “It's about slowly allowing ourselves to share our old identities and catch up to the new version of us."
- "We get to create ourselves."
- "We get to choose the version of us that we want to step into, and we get to create her from this point."
Additional money trauma resources:One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching
Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
In this week’s episode of the #MoneyMagic Podcast, Vangile sits down with Valerie Rubin, a trauma-informed coach, as a guest to discuss trauma and its impact on relationships and attachment styles.
Valerie introduces herself as a passionate individual dedicated to helping people feel safe in their bodies and heal anxious attachment styles for healthier relationships. She explains that anxious attachment often results from inconsistent emotional support from caregivers during childhood, leading individuals to become hyper-vigilant and people-pleasing in relationships.
Valerie emphasizes the importance of self-soothing and self-care to manage relationship anxiety and build more secure connections.
The conversation delves into the characteristics of anxious attachment, such as chronic anxiety, codependency, and fear of abandonment. Valerie notes that people with anxious attachment lean on external validation and struggle with trust issues. She also explains that these behaviors are symptoms of deeper wounds rather than fixed identities, suggesting that healing is possible through recognizing and integrating these parts.
Valerie elaborates on how these dynamics can lead to patterns like people-pleasing, which can attract emotionally unavailable partners. The discussion highlights the importance of acknowledging one's needs and setting boundaries to foster healthy relationships while addressing the fear of abandonment that often accompanies anxious attachment.
Contact Valerie:
https://www.instagram.com/healwithval/
This is another insightful episode.
Tune in.
During this episode, you will learn about:[02:08]: Introduction to Valerie Rubin
[03:04]: Valerie begins discussing trauma and attachment styles
[05:19]: Symptoms of an anxious attachment style
[07:05]: How attachment styles are formed in childhood
[08:11]: The difference between anxious and avoidant attachment styles
[10:01]: How childhood experiences influence attachment styles
[13:12]: How attachment styles affect adult relationships
[20:12]: Question about managing anxious attachment while dating
[25:09]: Valerie provides a meditation exercise for healing abandonment anxiety.
[27:43]: Avoidant attachment style and its formation.
[37:13]: The link between attachment styles and financial behavior.
[45:40]: Healing pelvic floor issues and their connection to attachment styles
[47:45]: The connection between pelvic health and receiving
[51:48]: Communication in intimate relationships
[56:03]: Information on how to connect with Valerie Rubin
Notable Quotes
- "If we don't learn how to self-soothe and take care of ourselves and feel safe in our own bodies, then it's going to be harder to maintain relationships and have healthy relationships."
- "We are wired to seek out what is familiar."
- "We aren't here to settle. We aren't here for emotionally unavailable hot and cold relationships."
- "If I don't reject myself, no one else can reject me."
- "Our mindset doesn't matter. Our nervous system does."
- "When you're connected to your body, you become unstoppable."
Additional money trauma resources:One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching
Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
In this week’s episode of the #MoneyMagic Podcast, Vangile introduces her guest, Marcia Armstrong, a personal finance disruptor from Barbados, who shares her insights and experiences in personal finance.
Marcia, worked at City Bank for a decade and recounts her journey from financial instability to becoming debt-free. She explains how she realized the importance of stewardship over money and adopted the snowball method to repay her debt.
Marcia emphasizes the significance of acknowledging one's debt, selecting a repayment strategy, and finding ways to increase income. She also highlights the importance of automating payments and having a support system to stay motivated throughout the debt repayment process.
Marcia delves into the emotional and mental shifts required to achieve financial freedom, discussing how she had to confront her money script and the trauma associated with it.
She explains that financial literacy is a lifelong journey that requires daily habits such as checking bank accounts, understanding financial goals, and being intentional with money.
She stresses the need for a mindset shift from scarcity to abundance and the importance of serving others to create generational wealth and legacy.
In her work with clients, Marcia offers one-on-one coaching, group coaching programs, and a personal finance course. She aims to empower individuals to become financially confident and independent, capable of managing their finances without constant reliance on a coach.
Contact Marcia:
https://www.facebook.com/apurposelife
https://www.instagram.com/a.purpose.life
https://apurposelife246.com/
This is another insightful episode.
Tune in.
During this episode, you will learn about:[03:17]: Introduction to Marcia Armstrong.
[04:44]: Marcia talks about becoming a personal finance disruptor
[06:59]: Marcia's debt-free journey and strategies.
[08:23]: How to start paying off debt.
[12:47]: Importance of automation and support system.
[16:24]: Explanation of the snowball method.
[24:25]: Importance of community and personal change during the financial journey.
[31:50]: Addressing money trauma to prevent future setbacks.
[34:14]: Challenges of limited resources and asking for help.
[37:40]: Observations on wealth and scarcity mindset.
[44:48]: Maintaining daily financial habits.
[52:18]: Embracing the road less traveled and creating legacy.
[58:04]: Final thoughts on financial literacy and empowerment.
[58:47]: How to connect with Marcia Armstrong.
Notable Quotes
- "When it comes to debt, money in itself can make people embarrassed, it can make people ashamed, it can make you feel guilty."
- "My money can only behave like the person who holds it."
- "You can have a lot of riches, but be thought poor. Then you are thought poor and have tangible riches."
- "Financial literacy is a lifelong journey. It is not a one-off something that you learn today and then you just put to decide tomorrow."
- "If you don't heal from your money trauma, you will reach a particular stage in life and that trauma can take you off your platform."
- "Because I would have sewed in one place, does not mean I will reap in that same place."
Additional money trauma resources:One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching
Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
In this week’s episode of the #MoneyMagic Podcast, Vangile sits down with Hlulani Rikhotso, an industrial engineer and Money Magic student.
Hlulani discusses her background and her interest in helping young adults with career coaching. She talks about her realization of the impact of ancestral trauma on financial behavior and how this awareness led her to join the Money Magic course.
Hlulani also shares her initial fears about the intensity of the course but acknowledges how it has helped her understand and heal her financial trauma.
She recounts her journey after joining the course, including being retrenched from her job and eventually finding better employment opportunities. She attributes her resilience and success to the inner work and tools provided by the Money Magic course. She also highlights the importance of having a supportive tribe to discuss money and expand financial possibilities.
She also shares the benefits of the Money Magic course, emphasizing that the deep, experiential work goes beyond surface-level understanding.
This is another insightful episode.
Tune in!
During this episode, you will learn about:[02:08]: Introduction of the guest, Hlulani Rikhotso
[03:31]: Hlulani introduces herself and her work
[06:43]: ulani's journey to understanding financial trauma
[09:17]: Hlulani’s experience with being entrenched
[10:34]: Importance of getting up and rebuilding after a fall
[11:41]: Hlulani’s understanding of trauma and ancestral trauma
[13:42]: Emotional relationship with money before the course
[22:13]: Cushioning from the full impact of retrenchment
[27:42]: Importance of a tribe in discussing money
[29:29]: Impactful lessons: inner child, mother wound, and father wound meditations
[36:04]: Importance of deep work and discovering root causes
[39:06]: Taking breaks and following intuition
[42:49]: Contact Hlulani
[45:59]: Closing remarks and invitation to join the Money Magic course
Notable Quotes
- "I am a daughter sister and everything in between."
- "Money is an energy. It is an exchange. It is a means to help you do things. It is Money is a medium of exchange. It helps you do things"
- "Since joining the course and going through the bank account and actually seeing where you spend your money and how you spend your money and then listening to your emotions, I've opened a different savings account."
- "Currently, I'm keeping a circle that I'm freer with to talk about money."
- "When you have a tribe that talks about money, that is not afraid of money, you start believing in bigger things because you transition from survival mode."
Additional money trauma resources:One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching
Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
In this episode of the Money Magic Podcast, Vangile discusses the concept of feeling unsafe with money and not having money. She explains that people who feel unsafe with money tend to avoid dealing with it, often by procrastinating on tasks like sending invoices or paying bills.
This avoidance behavior stems from a deeper fear and results in financial instability. On the flip side, those who feel unsafe without money tend to hoard it and are afraid to spend, leading to missed opportunities for investment and growth.
Vangile emphasizes the importance of achieving a regulated nervous system around money, where one feels calm and neutral regardless of their financial situation.
This regulation allows for better financial decision-making and investment strategies. She also touches on the psychological aspects, such as vows of loyalty and rebellion, which can unconsciously influence financial behavior and create a yo-yo effect in managing money.
This is another insightful episode.
Tune in!
During this episode, you will learn about:[02:08] : Introduction to the main topic
[06:25]: Example and explanation of avoiding money
[10:00]: Hiding from money and practical examples
[11:13]: Freezing in Financial Situations
[13:58]: Why we feel unsafe with not having enough money and with having money
[18:06]: Money as a lover
[19:32]: Practical impact of fear of spending money
[22:34]: Financial regulation and emotional stability
[27:46]: Vows of loyalty and vows of rebellion
[30:00]: Impact of vows on financial behavior
[35:17]: Closing remarks
Notable Quotes
- "When we feel unsafe with money, we're going to run away from money."
- "You want to get to a point where you are calm and have a regulated nervous system regardless of how much is in your account."
- "If your business depends on you being sound of mind and your team is depending on you to keep it together, you need to know how to regulate your nervous system."
- "Most of us are behaving with money from a point of view of a four-year-old or a 16-year-old."
- "We all have a different root cause to our debt."
Additional money trauma resources:One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching
Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
In this episode of the #MoneyMagic Podcast, Vangile talks to Bishal Sarkar, the highest-paid public speaking coach in India.
Bishal discussing how being the first millionaire in his family changed family dynamics and how he plans to pass on healthy financial habits to the next generation.
Bishal shares his inspiring story of rising from a middle-class background to becoming the first millionaire in his family. He discusses the challenges he faced, including bullying and a lack of self-confidence, and how he overcame them.
Bishal emphasizes the importance of changing one's mindset and surroundings, practicing gratitude, and gradually increasing financial aspirations to achieve success.
Bishal outlines three key principles that helped him significantly increase his income: money loves speed, money loves to be circulated, and money loves mission.
He also highlights the importance of being mission-led rather than solely money-focused to attract opportunities and achieve financial freedom. Bishal shares a personal anecdote about how a mentor's challenge pushed him to raise his financial goals and achieve greater success.
Contact Bishal:
https://www.bishalsarkar.com/
https://m.youtube.com/@BishalSarkarTheExcellenceGuy
This is another insightful episode.
Tune in!
During this episode, you will learn about:[02:08] - Introduction to Bishal Sarkar
[03:42] - Bishal's background, his upbringing in a middle-class family, and the challenges he faced
[09:48] - The importance of speaking and money, and how his mindset about money shifted
[14:28] - The importance of gratitude and the impact it had on his life
[18:36] - Three major practices that helped Bishal gain confidence and overcome self-doubt
[23:06] - Bishal's experience with changing his surroundings and the impact of proximity to successful individuals
[28:59] - The three principles that helped Bishal go from earning $40,000 a year to $40,000 a month.
[36:29] - How achieving financial success impacted Bishal's family and how he dealt with their reactions
[44:29] - Passing on financial wisdom and ensuring it benefits future generations.
[56:22] - Contact Bishal
Notable Quotes
- "Money loves speed. Money loves to be circulated. Money loves mission."
- "If money doesn't come in the hands of good people, it will reach the hands of bad people."
- "It's not what you leave for your children, it's what you leave in your children."
- "Be a millionaire, not for the million of dollars, but be a millionaire for what it will make of you."
- "Don't preach about being a great man, be an example of what a great man can be."
- "Whenever God wants to give you a gift, he will wrap it up in insult and challenges."
Additional money trauma resources:One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching
Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
In this episode of the #MoneyMagic Podcast Vangile introduces Karen Bernetti, who shares her expertise on dealing with addiction and its impact on family dynamics and financial trauma. Karen's work focuses on helping families affected by addiction through yoga, meditation, and mindfulness.
Karen's journey began with Al-Anon, a 12-step fellowship for families of those struggling with alcohol addiction. She explains how living with someone who has an addiction can lead to various psychological issues like anxiety, depression, and codependency.
Karen emphasizes that families often become enablers or try to control the situation, which only exacerbates the problem. To break the cycle, she suggests mindfulness practices and seeking support through groups like Al-Anon.
Karen also delves into the financial impact of addiction on families, sharing her personal experience of divorce and the ensuing custody battle.
She describes how addiction can lead to financial instability, legal issues, and increased stress. Her story highlights the importance of addressing financial trauma and finding ways to heal and rebuild one's life after such experiences.
To aid in healing, Karen recommends mindfulness practices such as yoga and meditation, which have been transformative in her own life.
Contact Karen:
https://mindfulfamilyrecovery.com/
https://serenitycircle.co/
This is another insightful episode.
Tune in!
During this episode, you will learn about:[02:08] - Introduction to today's guest, Karen Banetti
[04:50] - Karen shares her work with addiction and family impact
[05:11] - Karen's journey starting with Al-Anon
[06:48] - Challenges with her husband's alcoholism
[09:41] - Learning about generational alcoholism
[11:06] - Discovering yoga and Nikki Myers' Yoga of 12-Step Recovery
[13:20] - Psychological implications of living with addiction
[17:18] - Long-term effects of living with addiction
[20:11] - How addiction changes family dynamics
[26:19] - Codependency and enabling behaviors
[28:47] - Breaking the cycle of being the controlling one
[31:10] - Finding individual paths to healing
[34:18] - Financial trauma related to addiction
[41:46] - Financial insecurity and money trauma
[45:00] - Financial trauma from divorce and co-parenting challenges
[50:48] - Personal emotional breakdown and healing journey
[55:31] - Three ways mindfulness, yoga, and meditation helped
[01:05:19] - Different forms of yoga and personal preferences
[01:06:22] - How to reach out to Karen and work with her
Notable Quotes
- "I'm someone who has been through hell and back in my life, and I'm very passionate about turning my pain into purpose."
- "We don't want to talk about addiction because we think addiction is a moral failing."
- "I travelled a rough road, and I know and I feel called to share what I've experienced so that hopefully people don't make many of the mistakes that I made."
- "Our mind can only be in two places, in the past or the future. If it's in the past, it's very often depressed."
- "The fastest way to come into the present moment is through the body. And the fastest way to come into the body is through the breath."
Additional money trauma resources:One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching
Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
In this week's episode of the Money Magic Podcast Vangile sits down with Nolitha Sinaba, a student from the Money Magic course, who shares her journey of financial transformation. Nolitha is a businesswoman managing a pig farm and in this episode she discusses how the course helped her understand the deeper, intergenerational aspects of money and trauma.
She recounts her own struggles with budgeting and debt, and how she came to realize that her financial issues were rooted in more than just numbers—they were deeply tied to family dynamics and ancestral trauma. Nolitha's experience underscores the importance of addressing these underlying issues to achieve financial stability.
Nolitha also talks about the importance of teaching her children about money management and generational wealth.
She explains how she started having open conversations with her children about investments, savings, and financial planning, which has helped them become more financially savvy.
Her story highlights the impact of breaking the cycle of financial ignorance and trauma, and the importance of modeling good financial habits for the next generation.
This is another insightful episode.
Tune in!
During this episode, you will learn about:[02:08]: Introduction to Nolitha
[03:17]: Nolitha as a soul
[07:49]: How can you explain the concept of money to an alien?
[10:38]: Starting to work at 22 and learning to budget
[14:51]: Not talking about budgets in our networks
[18:46]: The shame of not sticking to a budget
[24:23]: Expectations when coming into the Money Magic course
[26:55]: Talking to children about money
[32:08]: Generational curses and generational blessings
[35:39]: Nolitha’s experience of the Money Magic course
[40:17]: Dealing with self sabotage
[44:27]: Buying a farm and becoming a pig farmer
[50:09]: Nolitha’s income ad savings shifts from the Money Magic course
[55:03]: Three lessons that shifted things for Nolitha
[01:01:09]: Contact Nolitha
Notable Quotes
- “I'm a student of life. I seek to know deeper truths."
- “For me, I have an understanding that we are deeper than our Christian identification."
- "If you do not understand your lineage, you can never understand who you are and where you are going."
- "I think one of the things that slavery and Apartheid, and probably to some extent, religion did, was to disconnect us to our history."
- "The pie is big enough for all of us. I cannot have this information and say, I need it to work for me also, but I can help others to achieve even way better than what I've done."
Additional money trauma resources:One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching
Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
In this week's episode of the Money Magic Podcast Vangile shares a masterclass she did on understanding and breaking through money blocks. She discusses her work, including her books "Heart, Mind, and Money" and "What's Your Money Personality?" and her journal "Next Level, You, Woman, Money Journal."
She explains how her journey towards financial freedom and emotional intelligence led her to deeper insights into how emotions and ancestral memories are stored in the body. Her work incorporates elements of Tantra yoga, which she studied in India, and focuses on understanding and healing emotional and ancestral traumas related to money.
Throughout the class Vangile emphasizes the importance of understanding one's relationship with money and how it is influenced by family dynamics and inherited money stories. She explains how trauma can be passed down through generations and how it impacts financial behaviors. She shares examples of how her clients have benefited from her teachings, including paying off debts, increasing their savings, and making better financial decisions. She also highlights the significance of nervous system regulation and breaking free from family money stories to achieve financial freedom.
This is another insightful episode.
Tune in!
During this episode, you will learn about:[03:13]: Journey to Becoming Debt-Free and Tantra Yoga Certification
[06:05]: Understanding Ancestral Money Trauma
[09:05]: Impact of Financial Education and Personal Finance Strategies
[13:20]: Audience Testimonials and Experiences
[16:26]: Celebrating Small Financial Wins
[19:22]: The Concept of Money as a Lover
[22:49]: Intergenerational Trauma and Nervous System Dysregulation
[24:08]: Setting Financial Boundaries Within Families
[30:05]: Black Tax and Family Financial Responsibilities
[34:07]: Regulated and Unregulated Nervous Systems
[39:35]: Money Archetypes and Family Money Stories
[46:25]: Repeating Family Financial behaviors
[50:25]: Fear of Losing Love and Setting Boundaries
[58:57]: Loyalty to Family Financial Struggles
[01:03:03]: Vow of Invisibility and Playing Small
[01:07:43]: Impact of over giving on Financial Health
[01:11:55]: Vow of Service in Business and Career
[01:18:49]: Overview of the Money Magic Course
[01:23:03]: Coaching and Support in the Money Magic Course
[01:25:58]: How to Sign Up for the Money Magic Course
[01:29:09]: Audience Questions and Comments
[01:39:33]: Summary and Conclusion
Notable Quotes
- “We actually carry a lot of our ancestors' memories within us, good and bad. We carry trauma and we carry wisdom.”
- “When you show up for money, money also shows up for you."
- "Our nervous system regulation is definitely impacted by how our caregivers reacted around money."
- "When we start to heal and we start to release the fear of losing love, we start to give ourselves permission to be seen."
- "We learn to protect ourselves by being unseen, by hiding ourselves. Our talents become the best kept secret."
Additional money trauma resources:One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching
Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
In this week's episode of the Money Magic Podcast Vangile sits down with Jo Ntsebeza to talk about sobriety and living life alcohol free and how we use alcohol to numb ourselves so we don’t feel anything. Jo shares her expertise on various subjects, including creativity, writing, healthy eating, and veganism.
Jo recounts her struggle with alcohol, detailing how it affected her life and relationships. She explains that her drinking was linked to social anxiety and how quitting alcohol was not an instantaneous decision but a gradual realization spurred by several turning points. She emphasizes that while the decision to quit was hers, the support from her friends was crucial in her journey toward sobriety.
The discussion delves into the practical steps she took to cope with the challenges of quitting alcohol, such as engaging in activities like karate, which helped her quit smoking and rebuild her self-esteem. Jo also highlights the importance of meditation, community support, and the concept of reverence for oneself and life. She shares her experience with the Fresh Start program, which she created to help others find new ways to feel alive and build a positive life without reliance on substances.
Contact Jo at: https://voicetovisibility.com/ and https://web.facebook.com/jo.hazelhurst
This is another insightful episode.
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During this episode, you will learn about:[02:08]: Introduction to Jo
[03:57]: Jo's Journey to Sobriety
[10:10]: Challenges and Support in Sobriety
[18:07]: Impact on Relationships and Self-Perception
[24:43]: Coping Mechanisms and Fresh Start Programme
[31:31]: Reflections on Meditation and Yoga
[36:53]: Final Thoughts on Sobriety and Professional Life
[49:10]: Advice for Someone Considering Quitting Alcohol
[52:27]: How to Continue Evolving on the Sobriety Journey
[55:21]: How to Reach Jo and About Voice to Visibility
[59:46]: Closing Remarks and Outro
Notable Quotes
- "What does it mean to be alive? What does it mean to want to be alive? And that feels like that journey has never ended."
- "I drank because it made me brave, because inside I didn't feel brave and I struggled to be in the world."
- “One of the reasons, it's not the only reason, but one of the reasons that my life was such a mess was because of the role that alcohol played in it."
- "Relationships are everything. The biggest triggers for using any substance is relationship."
- "I'm a pessimist. I tend to think of the worst, and I make an active thing to say, Think something else, don't think that. That has really helped me a lot."
Additional money trauma resources:One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching
Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
In this week's episode Vangile talks about the God Wound and her personal experiences and insights from her own journey, highlighting how she discovered her anger and resentment towards the Divine. She recounts how her intense efforts in spiritual practices, such as chanting and EFT tapping, were often driven by a subconscious desire to prove the unfairness of the Divine.
This internal conflict created resistance to financial success and personal expansion. Through deep inner work and meditations, she uncovered vows she had made to highlight her suffering and prove the divine's unfairness, which were major blocks to her financial growth.
She also discusses research that supports the impact of trauma on religious beliefs and practices, noting how external threats and communal sacrifices can strengthen religious bonds and resilience.
She explores the idea that suffering is often seen as sacred and how this belief can hinder financial success and personal joy. She challenges the notion that divinity requires suffering and suggests that a relationship with the divine can be based on joy, expansion, and love instead.
This is another insightful episode.
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During this episode, you will learn about:[02:19]: Introduction to the podcast, host, and today's topic (The God Wound)
[04:00]: Explanation of the God Wound, its relation to childhood and ancestral trauma
[07:04]: Personal journey and insights from journal entries and meditations
[10:03]: Experiences with income fluctuations and realizations about resistance to financial growth
[11:23]: Description of EFT tapping and a breakthrough meditation experience
[14:39]: Impact of trauma on perception of divinity and how it influences financial decisions
[24:06]: How the God Wound affects finances, income, investments, and savings
[32:48]: Readings from personal journal entries and reflections on the God Wound meditation
[40:11]: Presentation of research studies on religion, trauma, and their interplay
[50:32] Final reflections on healing the God Wound and its importance
[59:23] Conclusion and invitation to share thoughts and experiences
Notable Quotes
- “The God wound has to do with our own sense of divinity and how we relate to the divine.”
- “At the core of the God wound is the belief that no matter what I do, nothing will work out for me. I am not loved by the divine. I am not favoured by the divine.”
- “If we grew up believing we need to be something or do something to get love from our parents, this is how we will approach our relationship with the divine.”
- “You cannot tell another person how to worship, how to have faith, how to display faith, because you're not in someone's heart."
- “What if my relationship with the divine was shaped by how much expansion I could have, how much joy I could allow in, how much love I could allow in?
Additional money trauma resources:One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching
Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
In this episode of the Money Magic Podcast, Vangile sits down with Nontobeko Zwane, a student of the Money Magic course. Nontobeko shares her transformative money journey and highlights the significant impact the course has had on her life, particularly in helping her build a stronger relationship with her daughter. Through the course, she has realized the importance of rest, self-care, and understanding her true identity beyond her professional roles.
Nontobeko also talks about her previous struggles with money and how she used to spend money to gain acceptance and constantly worried about running out of money. However, since starting the course, she has learned to enjoy her money and has implemented systems to secure a stable future for herself and her daughter. These changes have brought her peace of mind, allowing her to relax and enjoy life without the constant stress of financial worries.
She also shares her experience of manifesting a new job that aligns with her desire for a better work-life balance. She describes how this opportunity has provided her with flexible hours, better pay, and more quality time to spend with her daughter.
This new job allows her to rest, enjoy her life, and continue her personal growth journey. She encourages others to connect with her on social media for further discussions on topics like working abroad, raising a special needs child, and more.
Contact Nontobeko on:
- Facebook: https://web.facebook.com/nontobeko.sihlwayi
- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/motsotuoa/
This is another insightful episode.
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During this episode, you will learn about:[03:20] Introduction and background
[05:32] Discussion on self-identity
[07:08] Nontobeko’s professional background
[08:18] Connection to nature and family background
[10:11] Understanding money relationships
[18:05] Discovery of the Money Magic course
[22:58] Aha moments from the Money Magic course
[24:27] Impact on family and healing ancestral trauma
[27:12] Changes in relationship with money
[31:14] Importance of having fun with money
[35:15] Systems in place for financial security
[37:47] Calmness around financial stability
[42:39] Self-discipline vs. inner work
[46:14] Manifesting an ideal job
[54:37] - The ease of the new job and its benefits
[01:00:17] - Closing remarks and how to contact Nontobeko
Notable Quotes
- "I never knew that one has a relationship. There is a thing called a relationship, having a relationship with money."
- "I used money to buy acceptance."
- "Fun is foreign. I'm only learning now in my adulthood that it's okay to have fun."
- "I'm happy to say I've got a family trust for my child that I've done, thanks to your guidance."
- "I've got more time for myself, for my family, for my daughter. It's just easy."
Additional money trauma resources:One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching
Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
In this episode of the Money Magic Podcast, Vangile introduces the concept of the "God Wound," a term she coined to describe a deep-seated inability to trust and surrender to the divine, which affects financial growth and decision-making.
She explains that this wound is not about religious trauma but rather about the relationship individuals have with their inner divinity and the broader concept of divinity, which can impact their financial set points.
She shares her personal journey of uncovering and healing her God Wound, which included ancestral memories of loss and deep-seated beliefs that nothing would work out for her, affecting her ability to take risks and grow her business.
This work led to significant financial breakthroughs, including an increase in her business income from $2,500 to $8,000 a month.
Vangile describes how her healing process involved meditation, EFT tapping, and conversations with her ancestors to understand and release these limiting beliefs.
She emphasizes that healing the God Wound allows individuals to open up to the universe's support and trust in their own divinity, leading to greater financial abundance and personal growth.
This is another insightful episode.
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During this episode, you will learn about:[02:08] Introduction to the topic: The God Wound
[03:35] Defining the God Wound
[06:28] Journey to developing the God Wound
[11:52] Moving to Chiang Mai and focusing on increasing income
[14:59] The ancestral belief system and its impact on financial growth
[16:08] The relationship with the divine and its impact on personal beliefs
[18:50] Energetic blocks and their relation to the God Wound
[22:48] Personal childhood experiences and their impact on financial beliefs
[24:21] The God Wound's effect on taking risks and innovation
[26:51] Healing the relationship with the divine and oneself
[29:30] The fear of making money and the belief that money is evil
[34:01] The impact of the God Wound on business growth
[37:11] Healing ancestral trauma and its impact on future generations
[38:48] Invitation to explore the God Wound and the Money Magic course
[42:00] Conclusion
Notable Quotes
- “How we see ourselves, how we experience ourselves, that has sometimes been fractured through abuse, through betrayal, and we start to doubt ourselves and start to forget our own divinity.”
- "Who do you blame for the unfairness of life and how unfair things have been for you and your family?"
- "My theory is that the God wound shows up as an inability to trust and surrender."
- "When we heal in this moment, we heal seven generations backward and we heal seven generations forward."
- "Understand the power of your own thoughts and understand the power of your own emotions, the power of taking accountability…”
Additional money trauma resources:One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching
Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
In this week’s episode of the #MoneyMagic Podcast, Vangile talks to Phemelo Sello, a healer and entrepreneur. Phemelo shares his personal journey with money, which began with negative experiences in his family, including financial instability and the emotional impact of money-related issues on family dynamics.
These early experiences shaped his initial negative beliefs about money, but through his spiritual and personal growth, he has transformed his understanding and relationship with money.
In this podcast he shares his healing journey in Wealthy Money’s Money Magic course, which involved deep inner work, including meditations focused on ancestral healing, such as the womb meditation, which he found transformative despite being a cis man. He explains that spiritual labor, though undervalued, is crucial for aligning mental and physical efforts with one's true purpose and guidance.
By engaging in spiritual labor, he experienced significant improvements in his personal relationships and business success, growing his revenue from R400,000 (US$22,000) per annum to R6 million (US$331,000) per annum, emphasizing the importance of healing in community and the interconnectedness of spiritual, mental, and physical labor.
This is another insightful episode.
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During this episode, you will learn about:[03:07] Introduction to Phemelo
[06:19] What is money
[08:26] Unpacking family dynamics around money and ancestral money wisdom
[11:30] The reinforcement that money tears families apart
[15:57] People pleasing to maintain the calm and finding value in performing
[17:52] Doing womb meditation as a cis man to heal the female linaeage
[22:29] Exploring different types of labor
[26:36] Healing our families by healing ourselves
[32:07] Valuing physical and mental labor over spiritual labor
[36:55] Making more money by working less time
[45:21] Instead of following your purpose, do things on purpose
[50:37] Why we value physical labor
[52:44] Contacting Phemelo
Notable Quotes
- “Money is the thing that we can consistently rely on to work with each other, to build with each other.”
- “So instead of follow your purpose, do things on purpose. So do things intentionally. Do things because There's conviction behind why you're doing them.”
- "Spiritual labour is the core, it's the seed of what informs whether your mental labour or your physical labour is going to result in the thing that you want."
- "I stopped working 8 hours or 12 hours, and I cut down my actual time sitting doing work on the business or for the business to four hours a day and to four days of the week."
- “Even with the work that I was doing with the divine feminine, my relationship with my dad got better."
Additional money trauma resources:One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching
Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
In this week’s episode of the #MoneyMagic Podcast, Vangile discusses her personal experience of running a short-term rental for a year and outlines the lessons she learned from becoming an AirBnB super host and making money in short term rentals.
She emphasizes the importance of location, interior design, and creating memorable experiences for guests. Vangile also highlights the critical role of having a supportive team, including an assistant and an excellent cleaner who went above and beyond in managing the rental.
She explains the significance of understanding customer service, handling guest complaints, and maintaining high cleanliness standards. Vangile also stresses the need for honesty with landlords and real estate agents when disclosing the intention to run short-term rentals. She shares her insights on financial management, such as budgeting for utilities and supplies, and the challenges of dealing with platforms like Booking.com and Airbnb.
She concludes by discussing her reasons for shutting down her short-term rental, mainly due to time constraints and the desire to focus on her core business, Wealthy Money. She plans to scale her short-term rental business in the future to increase profitability.
This is another insightful episode.
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During this episode, you will learn about:* 00:05: Introduction and Background * 00:07: Lesson 1: Importance of Location * 00:13: Lesson 2: Decoration and Hiring a Professional * 00:22: Lesson 3: Building a Team and Getting Support * 00:27: Lesson 4: Customer Service * 00:29: Lesson 5: Effective Marketing Strategies * 00:35: Lesson 6: Handling Guest Issues * 00:41: Lesson 7: Importance of Cleanliness * 00:42: Lesson 8: Honesty with Landlords and Real Estate Agents * 00:48: Lesson 9: Financial Management * 00:53: Lesson 10: Setting the Right Price * 00:58: Conclusion and Future Plans * 01:04:27: Closing Remarks and Quote
Notable Quotes
- "The location really was a huge part of why I think the Airbnb did well."
- "Having a great team was critical."
- "Understanding the importance of photographs, all that made a huge, huge difference for me."
- "The problem isn't getting guest complaints. It's how we handle those complaints that is going to set us apart."
- “Cleanliness is a thing that will make or break your Airbnb.”
Additional money trauma resources:One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching
Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
In this week’s episode of the #MoneyMagic Podcast, Vangile interviews Tapiwa Guzha, an entrepreneur and founder of the famous Tapi Tapi ice cream shop in Observatory, Cape Town, South Africa.
Tapiwa discusses his mission to transform the perception of African food and its cultural significance. He explains how colonialism has negatively impacted the way Africans relate to their traditional foods, replacing native ingredients with foreign ones that were introduced for colonial economic benefits. He emphasizes the importance of reclaiming and valuing indigenous foods to restore self-esteem and cultural identity among Afro-descendant people.
Tapiwa also delves into the role of food in healing cultural trauma and resistance. He highlights how African food has been used historically to preserve cultural identity and resist colonial influences. He also stresses that cooking and participating in food production are fundamental human experiences that connect people to their environment and heritage. By understanding the origins and processes of food, individuals can develop a deeper appreciation for their cultural practices and contribute to their preservation.
Lastly, Tapiwa shares his entrepreneurial journey and the challenges he faced in launching his business. He chose to open his ice cream shop in a location that balances safety and accessibility for black people, rejecting external funding to maintain control over his business's cultural message. Despite financial and logistical challenges, Tapiwa remains committed to his mission of promoting African food culture.
He encourages listeners to support similar initiatives by advocating for the inclusion of African flavors in local businesses and spreading awareness about the importance of cultural representation in food.
Contact Tapiwa: https://www.tapitapi.co.za/ or https://www.instagram.com/_tapi_tapi
During this episode, you will learn about:02:08: Introduction to the Guest, Tapiwa Guzha
04:03: Tapiwa Guza's Self-Introduction and Philosophy
06:14: Tapiwa's Work with African Food
09:02: Impact of Colonization on Food and Self-Perception
18:22: History and Impact of Cattle Farming
22:16: Food as Resistance and Cultural Preservation
29:00: Role of Food and Cooking in Healing
37:23: Interconnection Between Food, Time, and Money
40:01: Entrepreneurial Journey and Challenges
47:59: Paying people fairly
52:14: Future Plans and How to Support
01:01:13: Contact Information
Notable Quotes
- "I'm not trying to elevate African food, I'm not trying to raise up African food. I'm trying to say, let's have a chat about, do you know you can do more than three things with this ingredient?"
- "We need to be very careful with how codependent we are becoming and have become on global-scale production of food and food, meaning processed products that arrive at your house ready to consume."
- "Cooking and participating in your food production is an important reminder to say, we haven't ascended beyond being the silly animal; we're still a silly animal."
- "If someone in my unique set of circumstances can't advocate for Africanness, for blackness, for culture on the continent, how can we expect people in more tricky situations to try and do that kind of work?"
- "We need to make noise to carve out space and insist that people with that space give some of the space back."
- "It's very rare people leave their homes to go suffer as an immigrant somewhere else because things are going so well."
Additional money resources:One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching
Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
In this week’s episode of the #MoneyMagic Podcast, Vangile talks about money karma, what it is and how to heal it.
She delves into the concept of financial karma and alignment, sharing her struggles with debt and how her behavior and broken promises contributed to her financial woes. She emphasizes the necessity of aligning thoughts, words, and deeds to create positive financial outcomes. By borrowing money without repaying and breaking commitments, she attracted similar negative behaviors from others, which perpetuated her cycle of debt.
The podcast highlights the significance of karma and reciprocity, with Vangile sharing stories of how her acts of generosity and gifting led to unexpected financial windfalls and opportunities. She recounts transformative experiences, how her commitment to gifting for 200 days significantly improved her financial situation by allowing her to pay off debt and save money.
She then concludes by discussing the importance of forgiveness and self-forgiveness in clearing financial karma. By acknowledging past financial mistakes, making amends, and paying back debts, she improved her financial relationships and attracted clients willing to pay for her services.
This is another insightful episode.
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During this episode, you will learn about:02:08: Introduction to the topic of financial karma and alignment
06:21: The link between money karma and debt
09:04: How actions affect our financial situation and relationships
10:18: Aligning thoughts, words, and deeds to improve her financial situation
13:09: Practical steps for achieving financial alignment
16:20: Understanding karma and its implications
17:40: The four types of people in Vipassana related to karma
19:51: How to change your karma
26:56: Using the law of reciprocity to become debt free
33:04: Doing a 200 days of gifting challenge
42:25: The role of forgiveness in financial karma.
51:02: About the Money Magic course and its benefits
58:10: Quote by Henry Ward Beecher.
Notable Quotes 1. "Alignment is a very easy thing. It's something that we do little by little on a daily basis." 2. "We become a bit more lucky when we are in alignment with our thoughts, words, and needs." 3. "Sometimes we don't listen to that inner guidance, and we think that by gifting, we are undermining ourselves." 4. “When we've experienced abuse and oppression, it basically puts us in survival mode, and it makes it hard for us to trust what we hear and to trust that inner voice." 5. “That knowledge is within ourselves. It's not with a guru. It's not outside of us. It's within us."
Additional money resources:One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching
Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
In this week’s episode of the #MoneyMagic Podcast, Vangile talks to Moshitadi Lehlomela, author of “The Girl Who Survived Her Mother.”
She discusses her work as a mother wound recovery coach and her experiences with the mother wound. She shares that she realized she had a mother wound at university and how therapy helped her understand the impact of her relationship with her mother on her mental health. She defines the mother wound as trauma resulting from inadequate mothering, which can include neglect, abandonment, and abuse.
Moshitadi emphasizes the importance of addressing and healing this wound to improve one's overall well-being.
She also shares her journey of overcoming guilt and shame associated with discussing her mother wound and receiving backlash from others. She highlights the importance of building healthy relationships and boundaries to protect oneself from further harm. Through her healing process, Moshitadi has learned to embrace joy, allow herself to be loved, and increase her capacity for happiness and peace. She also discusses the significance of having supportive friends who help her navigate her healing journey.
She also shares how her mother's unhealthy relationship with money influenced her own financial behaviors. She struggled with guilt and shame around spending money on herself and often found herself in debt. She has worked on reframing her beliefs about money and building capacity for financial success, especially in relationships. She encourages others to start their healing journey, interact with supportive communities, and seek financial freedom alongside emotional healing.
Contact Moshitadi at: https://linktr.ee/Moshitadi
This is another insightful episode.
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During this episode, you will learn about:02:28: Introduction to Moshitadi
05:00: Writing “The Girl Who Survived Her Mother”
06:50: When Moshitadi realized she had a mother wound
10:48: Dealing with criticism and backlash for talking about the mother wound
15:36: The difference between the law of attraction and healing
19:40: Dealing with abusive mothers
25:08: Learning love from friends
32:54: Healing the mother wound
41:02: The link between the mother wound and the relationship with money
49:13: How Moshitadi changed her relationship with money 50:14:
55:05: Going no contact with your mother
01:02:51: Building the capacity for joy
01:06:00: Surrounding yourself with good people
01:15:08: Last words from Moshitadi
Notable Quotes 1. “Because ultimately, as much as we can heal as individuals, it helps to have people around us heal as well so that we're not so isolated.” 2. “I really tried to change my mum with my thoughts to be happy so that I'm vibrating higher than her anger. It just didn't work. It really didn't work.” 3. “We can't manage anyone's emotions for them. We can't change their behavioural habits.” 4. “My work is to work on me and to make sure that I'm here.” 5. “My friends have been teaching me what it is to be loved.”
Additional money resources:One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching
Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
In this week’s episode of the #MoneyMagic Podcast, Vangile talks about money routines and the spirit of money and how that helped her get out of debt.
She delves into the history of money, explaining how it has evolved from the barter system to the use of shells, metals, coins, and eventually paper money backed by governments. She highlights the changes in human consciousness and economic systems over time, leading to the current fiat money system and the emerging cryptocurrency. She also introduces the concept of the spirit of money and money archetypes, which have evolved alongside these monetary systems, reflecting different roles and relationships with money throughout history.
The concept of the spirit of money is central to Vangile’s work, where she encourages clients to meditate and connect with their unique spirit of money. This connection helps uncover deep-seated beliefs and traumas related to money, often passed down through generations. She shares her personal experience with the spirit of money, which initially appeared to her as a clown, symbolizing her fear and negative perception of money.
In addition to the spiritual aspects, Vangile emphasizes practical daily money routines to improve financial health. These include looking at one's bank account daily, creating a spending manifesto aligned with personal values, writing daily letters to money, and conducting regular money check-ins.
This is another insightful episode.
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During this episode, you will learn about:02:08: Introduction to money routines and spirit of money
03:38: History of money and its evolution
08:31: Using copper, silver and gold to pay in 3000 BC
12:31: Introduction of paper money in the 7th century
14:33: Developing the banking system
20:10: Archetypes in monetary evolution
30:05: Introduction to spirit of money work
35:15: Personal experience with spirit of money meditation
45:52: Changing the perception of business and how to run a business
50:14: Practical money routines
54:52: Spending in accordance with your values
01:03:00: Details about the Money Magic Course
01:11:00 Closing Remarks and Quote
Notable Quotes 1. "Money has evolved over time, just as human consciousness has evolved." 2. "As our relationship with money changes and what we consider wealth changes, even the things that we value start to change." 3. "Every time we interacted with money, we formed some archetype around money." 4. "When we act in accordance with our values, we are more likely to maintain that behavior than if we are acting from a space of discipline." 5. “You can't heal things that you are not willing to acknowledge."
Additional money resources:One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching
Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
In this week’s episode of the MoneyMagic Podcast, Vangile talks about the vow of service, which is a commitment many of us make, sometimes consciously, often unconsciously, to dedicate our lives to serving others. This vow can span across lifetimes and may even have roots in our ancestral lineage. Those who take this vow often find deep fulfillment in helping others, yet it can also lead to challenges like financial strain and burnout.
In the podcast Vangile shares examples from her own family, like nurses and teachers who work tirelessly without charging appropriately for their services, highlighting the connection between this vow of service and the struggle to set boundaries and charge fairly for one's work.
She recounts her personal experience with the vow of service, which she discovered through past life regression therapy. She shares how a past life as a nun in the Catholic Church, where she took a vow of service without compensation, impacted her current life. And how this vow eventually led to years of writer’s blog and stage fright.
The discussion also touches on the vow of invisibility, which often intertwines with the vow of service, where she explains how this vow manifests as a reluctance to be seen or acknowledged for one's contributions, leading to feelings of being unappreciated and unseen.
Vangile also shares how she and her clients work to heal the vow of service and vow invisibility.
This is another insightful episode.
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During this episode, you will learn about:02:24: Introduction to podcast episode
05:31: The challenge of charging for your services
07:15: Dealing with the vow of service as a Fixer or Sweet One
10:02: Using past life regression therapy to heal and uncover the vow of service
13:51: Charging for my speaking services for the first time
19:33: The impact of the vow of service on Vangile’s business and finances in this lifetime
23:51: Working hard for very little money and making US$500 in 4 years in business
28:06: Finding yourself stuck at a particular income
33:33: The intersection of the vow of service with the vow of invisibility
42:14: How to heal the vow of service and the vow of invisibility
48:05: Invitation to the Visibility Mastery Coaching program at: wealthy-
57:03: Quote by Warren Buffet
Notable Quotes 1. "We don’t need to set ourselves on fire in order to help others and to help others progress, and that doesn't help anyone." 2. "We have to be able to look after ourselves and then, from a space of an overflowing cup, start to keep serving others and keep helping others." 3. "There's no really final or finite death unless the soul comes to the point where it chooses, or no, no, chooses is the right word, but incarnates to the point where it has gained enough wisdom not to want to come back." 4. "One way to also look at a vow service is when we find ourselves stuck at a particular income set point." 5. “I'm a huge, huge believer in pricing appropriately so that we can get the support that we need."
Additional money resources:One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching
7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
In this week’s episode of the MoneyMagic Podcast, Vangile talks Ndumi Hadebe, coach, speaker, and author of “Handle Black Tax Like a Pro.”
Ndumi coaches people on setting boundaries and highlights the importance of understanding the opportunity cost of not having boundaries. She emphasizes the need for people to share love and compassion while setting boundaries, to avoid disempowering themselves and shrinking their world.
Ndumi discusses how her journey of understanding boundaries led her to write her book. She shares that a pivotal moment during COVID-19 made her realize the widespread issue of black tax and its connection to unspoken family expectations and lack of boundaries.
The conversation delves into the cultural and generational difficulties black people face in discussing money. Ndumi explains that previous generations had little money to discuss, leading to a lack of financial transparency in families. This culture has persisted, making it difficult for current generations to talk about money openly. She also highlights how not being taught boundaries as children impacts one's ability to set boundaries as adults, affecting various aspects of life, including finances.
She provides practical advice on how parents can better honor their children's boundaries and teach them about setting financial boundaries, emphasizing the importance of listening and validating their feelings . She also how individuals can start breaking the cycle of black tax by first having an honest conversation with themselves about their financial situation. Ndumi outlines a formula for having these difficult conversations with family members: combining truth and love while removing the need to be right.
This is another insightful episode.
Tune in.
During this episode, you will learn about:02:57: Introduction to Ndumi
06:40: Journey of writing the book "Handle Black Tax Like A Pro"
12:24: Why it's challenging for black people to talk about money and black tax within families
17:48: The wound of being seen and being heard
21:04: Ndumi reads a quote from her book about communicating boundaries with love and compassion
23:44: How to tell if a family member doesn’t honour boundaries and how to handle that
26:40: Teaching children about financial boundaries as a parent
32:19: Can black tax can be a form of financial bullying within families?
38:25: First steps someone can take to break the cycle of black tax
46:59: Importance of being transparent about finances with family members
49:14: Effects of having conversations around black tax on personal finances and relationships.
52:00: How boundaries can help in making money and managing income
01:02:17: Contact Ndumi: https://ndumihadebe.co.za/
Notable Quotes 1. "Our lack of boundaries dims our light. It actually disempowers us. It disempowers the purpose that God has channeled through us." 2. "I realized that we don't talk about black tax with our families, actually, which is such a disservice to the fibre of society and the fibre of black families." 3. "Black tax is not really so much about money as it is about boundaries." 4. "I think kids should question everything, including religion, including how spirituality works. Everything." 5. “The more I didn't value myself, the more unvalued I became. So the less I respected my craft, the more people didn't respect my craft."
Additional money resources:One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching
7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
In this week’s episode of the MoneyMagic Podcast, Vangile talks to Lise Brenner, a former ballet dancer turned somatic work practitioner. Lise is also a Wealthy Money coaching client and #MoneyMagic student who delves into her journey of reconnecting with herself, navigating career shifts, and emphasizing body awareness for creative expression and emotional well-being.
Lise elaborates on the interplay between body awareness, emotional healing, and self-image, particularly within the ballet world's standards of body shape and size.
She shares the unseen challenges faced by dancers, contrasting glamorous perceptions with the dedication and hard work behind the scenes.
She reflects on her ongoing journey of self-acceptance and body positivity, advocating for embracing one's body and cultivating a positive self-relationship, especially in industries like ballet that prioritize specific body types.
The conversation also explores the connection between money, trauma, and self-worth, with Lise giving insights into her struggles with financial stability and self-perception, highlighting the impact of upbringing and societal standards on her relationship with money.
She also shares her path of healing and transformation, addressing challenges related to chronic pain, emotional eating, and body image issues through practices like meditation and somatic experiencing.
She emphasizes the significance of being present in one's body, honouring emotional needs, and fostering empowerment in navigating life's complexities.
This is another insightful episode.
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During this episode, you will learn about:03:40: Introduction of Lise Brenner as a guest on the podcast
05:48: How do you define yourself as a soul?
10:15: Moving to New York with US$1,000 in savings
13:46: Feeling like money and safety came from men
17:34: Moving to Amsterdam
22:30: How moving to Europe changed Lise’ thinking
31:28: Helping people get into their bodies and the transformation it brings
36:24: How to become aware of your emotions and the sensations in the body
40:22: Using meditation techniques to help people drop into their bodies
43:58: Using your body to discover your truth and next steps
49:59: The link between money and the body
54:55: Learning to be present with money
01:03:15: Contact Lise: https://www.lisebrenner.com/ or https://www.instagram.com/lisebrenner/
Notable Quotes 1. "The challenge isn't doing it right. The challenge is showing up and doing it." 2. "How can I allow myself to make substantial, secure money, be financially abundant, make good choices, and stop the starvation bingeing thing?" 3. "How can I be present with money the same way I'm trying to be present with my body?" 4. "I realised that the reason why a lot of my writing failed was because I was standing way far away from it, too afraid to actually be present in my body and say what was actually true." 5. "Everybody can move, everybody can dance. Everybody has the capacity to feel joy and completion in their body as they move."
Additional money resources:One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching
7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
In this week’s episode of the MoneyMagic Podcast, Vangile sits down with Matthew Bowles, a digital nomad, real estate professional, founder of the Maverick Investor Group, and host of the Maverick Show Podcast.
In this episode, Matt shares his journey of running a remote real estate brokerage that helps people invest in US properties from anywhere in the world.
He emphasizes the importance of problem-solving in entrepreneurship and the emotional resilience required to navigate the challenges of running a business. Matt also discusses his values, including a focus on collective liberation and activism, which guide his business decisions and personal life.
Matt highlights the significance of building a remote business infrastructure from the start, allowing him to travel and work from various locations. He emphasizes the importance of meaningful connections with fellow travelers and locals, enabling deep and quick relationships while immersing in different cultures.
The conversation delves into the emotional aspects of being a digital nomad, including loneliness, forming connections, and leaving places behind.
Matt's nomadic journey has allowed him to experience the world in immersive ways, fostering personal growth and diverse perspectives. His advice to hesitant individuals is to embrace the unknown, overcome fear, and take the leap into the nomadic lifestyle to explore the world and oneself.
He also gives insights into real estate investment opportunities in the US market for individuals worldwide, through his company Maverick Investor Group.
This is another insightful episode, especially for anyone looking to invest in the US market.
Tune in.
During this episode, you will learn about:02:08: Introduction to the guest, Matthew Bowles
08:04: Transitioning from non-profit to entrepreneurship and travel
10:08: Pivoting to start a real estate brokerage
12:12: Challenges of starting a business
15:20: Transition to becoming a digital nomad
19:15: Resilience and problem-solving in entrepreneurship
28:26: Journey from nonprofit work to entrepreneurship
30:46: Building your business so you can travel
39:37: Navigating community and relationships while traveling
45:15: Building a global network and friendships
49:26: The benefits of being a digital nomad and slow travel
54:16: How to plan your finances so you can start living as a digital nomad
01:00:06: Attending to key aspects of life and maintaining balance while traveling
01:02:58: Working with Maverick Investor Group for real estate investment in the US
01:08:16: Options for non-US citizens to obtain loans for property investment in the US
01:11:02: Contact Matt:
For free resources: https://themaverickshow.com/moneymagic
https://www.instagram.com/mattbowlesmaverick/
Notable Quotes 1. "Entrepreneurship is really about problem-solving. It's just ongoing, continual problem-solving." 2. "Entrepreneurship requires you to have resilience and to build resilience." 3. "The world that we live in is an amazing place. It's really extraordinary. It's massively huge, super diverse, beautiful, and wonderful." 4. "It is financially advantageous to leave your current place and go to travel the world and spend time in less expensive places." 5. “I don't really have a favorite country. That's literally why I'm a nomad.”
Additional money resources:Check out Vangile’s podcast interview on the Maverick Show: https://open.spotify.com/episode/2Ao5u1V9AaXztqGxj1ekFn
One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching
7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
In today’s episode of the MoneyMagic Podcast, Vangile sits down with Pascaline Nkwe, a #MoneyMagic student, entrepreneur, and Head of Operations and Co-Founder of Miftah Concierge in Dubai.
In this episode, Pascaline shares her journey to overcome her money fears and how to align her spending with values. She discusses the challenges of relocating from South Africa to Dubai, running a concierge business, and managing family expectations. She also emphasizes the importance of separating personal and business finances.
Pascaline also gives us a deep dive into her business and how leaving your home country can open new opportunities for growth. She highlights the concierge's role in providing personalized services, attention to detail, and enhancing client experiences. She discusses the diverse services offered, leveraging networks to support individuals and businesses. Pascaline stresses planning ahead and transparency in business finances for sustainability and growth.
She showcases her versatility in offering social media branding packages and emphasizes inner work and self-belief for business success. She invites exploration of coaching services and resources for personal growth.
This is another interesting podcast episode.
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During this episode, you will learn about:- 03:19: Introduction to Pascaline
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06:28: Pascaline discusses how her relationship with money has evolved over time
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12:29: The fear of holding onto money and the influence of past experiences
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15:25: Challenges of managing money and family expectations, especially related to living abroad
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18:26: Financial challenges faced by expats in countries like the UAE
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23:33: Strategies for regulating her nervous system and handling uncomfortable financial conversations
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28:17: Benefits of planning ahead and being present in managing personal finances.
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32:40: Challenges and fears of starting a business, especially around visibility and family expectations
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33:12: The role of a concierge in providing personalized services and lifestyle management
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50:40: How a concierge can be utilized to build and scale a business effectively
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01:00:10: The difference between managing personal and business finances
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01:06:55: How to partner with Pascaline and contact her
Contact Pascaline: pascaline.nkwe [at] gmail [dot] com
Notable Quotes 1. “Money allows us to look within and brings out all our different values.” 2. “If you have weak boundaries, you will get to see it when you have money.” 3. "If you're changing, maybe your values are also changing." 4. " Building networks takes time, and especially if you're a startup, you don't have the time.” 5. "Once you leave and go live in a different country, there's this illusion in people's heads that now you have made it, which isn't necessarily true because it's a different currency. It's different. Things are completely different."
Additional money resources:One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching
7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
In this week’s podcast, Vangile sits down with Sabrina Lamb, six-time author, former stand up comic and founder and CEO of World of Money and Wekeza. Sabrina explains that her purpose is to ensure Black economic sovereignty throughout the entire planet.
The conversation delves into the challenges faced by people of African descent when it comes to money management and the need for financial education tailored to different cultural contexts.
She highlights the significance of teaching children about financial literacy, instilling values of saving, investing, entrepreneurship, and philanthropy early on. She stresses the importance of respecting and appreciating money, managing assets wisely, and giving back to the community.
She also introduces Wekeza, a platform aimed at providing financial education and investment opportunities for families globally. She discusses the cultural significance of financial services and the importance of honoring unique cultural practices in financial education. She aims to empower individuals to achieve financial fluency, cultivate a mindset of abundance, and build a legacy of financial stability.
This is another powerful podcast episode, especially for people with kids.
Tune in.
During this episode, you will learn about:
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02:19: Introduction to Sabrina Lamb
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03:17: Sabrina talks about her purpose
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06:18: Sabrina’s personal financial journey and inspiration
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08:01: Sabrina reflects on her views on money before and after gaining financial knowledge.
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09:33: The impact of self-esteem on financial behavior.
11:23: Teaching children about self-perception in relation to money
13:50: How parents can approach financial discussions with their children
16:40: Impact of parent archetypes on children's perception of money
21:22: Addressing different parent money beliefs and their impact
24:01: Preparing children for financial challenges in the external world
26:57: Approaches to supporting children in creating generational wealth
30:25: Importance of financial fluency and capability
35:22: Challenges faced by people of African descent in relation to money
37:52: Importance of changing the narrative around money and wealth
43:12: Commitment to culturally inclusive financial education
Contact Sabrina at: https://www.worldofmoney.org/ or https://wekeza.com/
Notable Quotes 1. "Money connects you with one of the most powerful currencies on the planet, to be leveraged for good." 2. "You are already perfectly perfect as you are." 3. "Plant the seeds so that the seeds of reward come back to you.” 4. "Financial education is not one size fits all. It's cultural. It's part of the infrastructure. It's part of the psyche." 5. “I use the term financial fluency, financial capability. Know how the systems operate, the financial systems, rather, in your country, in your locale.”
Additional money resources:One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching
7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
In this episode of the Money Magic Podcast Vangile welcomes Mmatshilo Motsei, an expert in African birthing practices, author, PhD holder, and former activist, as her guest.
Mmatshilo shares her journey, from feeling burdened by her family's legacy of healers to embracing it as a privilege.
She shares how education often focuses on making a living rather than nurturing dreams and the pressure to conform to societal expectations, especially for women. She highlights the importance of resilience and the need to acknowledge contradictions in indigenous knowledge due to colonization.
She reflects on the impact of hospital births on maternal and infant trauma and advocates for home births as a less violent alternative. She discusses the politicization of childbirth, particularly in developing countries, and the importance of education and advocacy for women's rights in birthing choices.
Mmatshilo also emphasizes the significance of respecting women's choices in pain management during childbirth and cultural rituals surrounding pregnancy and naming ceremonies.
The conversation extends to the undervaluation of reproductive labor and the lack of understanding among men about the birthing process. She also shares personal experiences and discusses the importance of communal support during childbirth and the transformative power of birth stories. She also announces the launch of Africa Ikalafe Pluriversity, an academy for indigenous knowledge focused on African spirituality and childbirth philosophy.
This is another powerful podcast episode.
Tune in.
During this episode, you will learn about:
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00:02:20: Introduction to Mmatshilo Motsei, an expert in African birthing practices
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00:08:30: Being labelled a rebel and navigating societal expectations
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00:13:09: The prize of conforming and going against your soul
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00:16:07: Life is like a dance
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00:19:17: Journey from being a nurse to midwife to PhD
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00:23:58: The trauma of birth
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00:28:42: Christianizing indigenous practices
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00:32:00: The role of Indigenous midwives in childbirth
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00:38:08: The politicization of childbirth
-00:42:24: The politicization of childbirth and empowering women's birthing choices
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00:46:00: Dealing with blame, shame and guilt after giving birth
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00:51:93: Pre-conception rituals to welcome the soul
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00:55:59: The importance of communal support after childbirth
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01:00:12: The invisibility of reproductive labor
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01:06:50: Being conceived through love and how birth stories shape us
-01:11:31: Reinterpreting your birth story
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01:13:08: Launching Africa Ikalafe Pluriversity
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01:19:40
Contact Mmatshilo at: https://afrikaikalafe.org/
Or
Register for The African Spirituality of Childbirth course at: https://learn.afrikaikalafe.org/
Notable Quotes 1. "Success and prosperity must be our default, must be a place where we operate from." 2. "Once you know what your no-no is... you refuse to take it." 3. "The womb is a carrier of life and also a carrier of pain." 4. "Stories are about interpretation. You reinterpret it in a way that makes sense for you in this world now.” 5. “Life is like a dance... You conform for some time to buy yourself time."
Additional money resources:One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching
7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
In this week’s #MoneyMagic Podcast episode, Vangile sits down with Lebo to talk about her multifaceted journey as an entrepreneur, coach, and healer. With candidness, Lebo shares the highs and lows of her entrepreneurial endeavours, shedding light on the emotional turmoil that arises with financial setbacks.
Throughout the conversation, she emphasizes on the importance of introspection in healing and going within, showcasing resilience and self-discovery amid adversity.
Lebo also shares about her journey to becoming a coach and the process of learning to set prices for her coaching services. Both speakers share how they grapple with deep-seated fears and uncertainties surrounding valuing their expertise.
She stresses about how important it is to know yourself and get help when it comes to deciding on prices.
This is a very vulnerable conversation which will shed light for those on their entrepreneurial and money journey.
Tune in.
During this episode, you will learn about:
00:00: Introduction
00:03:47: Introduction to Lebo
00:08:00: Money as a Sumo Wrestler
00:12:14: Lebo’s financial journey from childhood to entrepreneurship
00:15:08: Having salary stolen
00:19:37: Becoming an entrepreneur and under pricing
00:24:19: Failing at her first business and losing her first home
00:30:58: The dark night of the soul
00:37:36: Permission to feel the body the emotions in the body
00:41:21: Holding yourself through the healing journey
00:48:03: Giving birth to a second business that stagnates
00:51:58: Pivoting into coaching and charging for coaching services
00:57:21: We must never ever question dry periods
01:01:38: Learning to charge for services
01:06:46: The fear of having more money in the bank
01:11:09: Numerology and next steps
01:18:37: Contact Lebo: https://linktr.ee/Lebopule
Notable Quotes 1. "When you are a healer that's not taking up your healing role, if you're a healer or a teacher and you are not stepping up to the universe to say, 'This is my role,' and I'm going to take it up, you actually are going to be abused." 2. "The universe tests you for a bit to say, 'Are you sure about this? Will you stand in your space and hold your own space to not be abused?'" 3. "So what kept me going with my teachers was the actual work, because the more you work, the more refined you get, the more purified you get, and the more you see progress." 4. "I feel like there's a lot of shame around handling money... It's the one thing in my entire life, wheel of life, that brings me to my knees." 5. “Money is this sumo wrestler, specifically, that is just wrestling with me every day. So that's my truth. I would love to say money is energy. Money, it loves me. But for me, money is really, really, really hard on me.”
Additional money resources:One on One Coaching: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching
Bank Account Challenge: https://wealthy-money.com/bankaccount
7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
In this week’s episode of the #MoneyMagic Podcast, Vangile talks about her experience as a Vipassana meditator.
Vangile shares her transformative journey with Vipassana meditation, highlighting its profound impact on her mental health and well-being. She shares information on how to apply for Vipassana meditation retreats and emphasizes the importance of following the rules and serving at centers to deepen her practice.
She reflects on surrendering to the present moment, embracing gratitude, and acknowledging growth facilitated by Vipassana. She shares how Vipassana helped her get into her body and understand ancestral trauma and inspired her to write her first book, “Heart, Mind & Money.”
She hopes this experience leads to transformative shifts in attendees' lives and delves into healing ancestral money trauma through the Money Magic course.
This is another interesting podcast interview.
Tune in!
During this episode, you will learn about:
00:00: Introduction
02:48: Dhamma Pataka Vipassana center in south Africa
00:07:37: Journey from depression to vipassana
00:12:36: Understanding my emotional reactions to money
00:16:06: Finding inner peace and feeling like everything is going to be okay
00:22:22: Overcoming writer's block
00:27:13: Learning that you can heal from trauma
00:32:25: Dealing with mental health
00:38:10: The importance of giving back
00:42:45: Recognizing burnout and prioritizing rest
00:47:22: Self-forgiveness and letting go
00:53:13: Surrender and learn your lessons
00:55:00: Learning and growing from business setbacks
00:59:33: Feeling gratitude amidst the exhaustion
01:02:30: Learning to sit with everything and the RunAway Archetype
01:06:00: Invitation to one on one coaching and the 7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training
Link to Vipassana and centers: https://www.dhamma.org/en-US/index
Notable Quotes 1. "I gave myself permission to just rest. And in that rest, I did a lot of work around self-forgiveness." 2. "I found the core and the centre and that inner peace again. It never left me; I just have to remember it." 3. "Impatience is always accompanied by fear because I want to just leave the situation. The minute I decide that I don't want to go through what I'm going through, it's because I haven't learned to surrender to the moment." 4. "Allow life to work with you and through you. Allow yourself to be changed and transformed, to see what is here for you." 5. "Surrender and learn your lessons. Allow yourself to be transformed and become the person you've been praying to become."
Additional money resources:Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
Bank Account Challenge: https://wealthy-money.com/bankaccount
7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training
Next Level You Journal: wealthy-money.com/journal
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
In this week’s episode of the #MoneyMagic Podcast, Vangile talks to Coach Gemima Phalane (Coach Gee), about her purpose in guiding individuals to remember their true selves, overcome societal limitations, and live authentically to fulfill their life purpose.
In this podcast episode Coach Gee gets vulnerable and shares about the loss of her son and the healing she did and how that helped her get to this point in her work.
Coach Gee engages in a conversation about transitioning from formal employment to entrepreneurship, defining identity beyond job titles, and understanding individual assignments. She shares her experiences of self-discovery and healing ancestral trauma, highlighting the importance of guiding others to remember who they are and live authentically.
The podcast also delves into the impact of Coach Gee’s book club on people and the work she did teaching, Vangile’s new book, “What’s Your Money Personality?”
This is another interesting podcast interview.
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During this episode, you will learn about:
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00:02:08: Introduction to Coach Gee
00:07:22 Journey of self-discovery amid grief and pain
00:13:43: Evolution from mission completion to self-discovery, launching a book club, and finding healing through writing
00:17:21: Transitioning from formal employment to entrepreneurship
00:21:54: Mental readiness for entrepreneurship
00:26:42: Transitioning from counseling to private practice
00:31:54: The importance of creativity and joy in entrepreneurship
00:37:14: Describing the spiritual connection and its profound impact
00:41:59: Discussion on “What’s Your Money Personality?”
00:47:24: The importance of saying thank you to people when they are still alive
00:51:16: How money personalities impact family dynamics
00:58:21: Defining money and staying authentic.
01:01:57: Contact Coach Gee and join the book club
Contact Coach Gee:
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gemimaamanda.phalane
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@coachgeephalane
WhatsApp: +27 82 926 9988
Notable Quotes 1. “Money is a tool that needs you to allow it in your space by being yourself and by being authentic and vulnerable.” 2. “Creativity thrives in joy.” 3. “I am just that soul that really wants to live out its purpose and actually understand my assignment.” 4. “I strongly believe that it's not that we don't know who we are, but we forget along the way.” 5. “Money will come as long as we stay true to ourselves and follow that little voice because it's through that voice that we get guided steps to make money.”
Additional money resources:Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
Bank Account Challenge: https://wealthy-money.com/bankaccount
7-Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training
Next Level You Journal: wealthy-money.com/joournal
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
In this week’s episode of the #MoneyMagic Podcast, Vangile talks to Ncumisa Ncama, womb coach and Wealthy Money’s assistant coach, to talk about the transformative power of building a healthy relationship with money.
Ncumisa delves into her personal transformation through the Money Magic course, highlighting the profound shifts experienced in her own life and with clients. She shares how she sees money as an extension of oneself, stressing the need to cultivate a positive relationship with money by understanding its energy and abundance.
She also shares her experience working through the Bank Account Challenge and how that helped her understand the profound connection between money, the body, and the womb.
She emphasizes the healing potential of connecting with the womb as a sacred space for self-discovery, trauma healing, and alignment with one's essence. This holistic approach underscores the importance of listening to the guidance of the womb for insights into personal growth and spiritual connection.
And also talk about the transformative power of womb work and ancestral connections, encouraging individuals to delve into their womb space to understand triggers, traumas, and ancestral lineage.
This is another interesting discussion.
Tune in!
During this episode, you will learn about:
02:08: Introduction of Ncumisa
07:22: The healing journey and its transformative power
13:31: Money as an extension of oneself, the importance of understanding and forgiving traumas surrounding money
17:25: Overcoming an unhealthy relationship with money
22:01: Navigating an abusive relationship with money
26:23: Influence of upbringing on money mindset
32:35: Impact of the Bank Account Challenge on understanding spending habits
37:38: Managing money intentionally, aligning spending with values
43:10: What is the Bank Account Challenge
47:02: Reflection on past challenges, evolving understanding of money
52:26: Healing relationship with money through self-reflection and womb work
57:45: Connecting with the body and womb.
01:03:38: Exploring the womb as a sacred space for healing and connection
01:07:49: Triggers are maps
01:12:13: Contact Ncumisa
Contact Ncumisa
Book a discovery call: https://www.wealthy-money.com/discoverycall
WhatsApp: +27 82 530 6185
Email: misadyg[at]gmail[dot]com
Notable Quotes 1. "Money is constantly walking with us freely. All we have to do is build a relationship with it, to understand and know what money is." 2. “You have to see the ugly in you. You have to see the chaos in you. You have to see the beauty in you. And we are that. We are all of those things at one, and we cannot be one without the other.” 3. "Money is your baby. Money is like building a relationship with your child." 4. "You behave differently when you are in touch with your womb." 5. "There is no shortcut, there is no other way but to really introduce yourself to your womb." 6. "So that's what wombwork does. It gives you a sense of peace and belonging."
Additional money resources:Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
Bank Account Challenge: https://wealthy-money.com/bankaccount
7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training
Next Level You Journal: wealthy-money.com/joournal
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
In this podcast episode, Vangile interviews Ricardo McRae and shares a powerful story of transformation, highlighting the importance of shifting your mindset for financial success.
In this episode Ricaordo discusses essential money principles, such as the Rule of 72 and key milestones for financial growth, starting from saving as little as 25 cents.
He shares invaluable insights and actionable steps to help people unlock their potential, build generational wealth, and embrace a new paradigm of money mastery.
Throughout the conversation, Ricardo emphasizes the importance of habits over the amount of money earned, stressing the role of consistent saving habits in wealth-building.
He explains how understanding interest can accelerate your journey to financial empowerment and why viewing money as energy can transform your relationship with wealth.
You may want to get a pen and paper to take notes.
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During this episode, you will learn about:
02:18: What is money to you?
04:33: Money as energy, transitioning careers
07:18: Leaving a job, reevaluating money's role
12:05: Societal pressure on men, self-worth and money
17:33: Self-awareness and honesty in relationships
26:32: Changing your money story and looking at your bank account
32:30: Saving 25 cents a month
39:07: Understanding money's rules, separating creativity
48:17: Understanding your personal thinking around money
59:45: Understanding the alphabet of money and the rule of 72
01:03:07: Building a team and getting employees
01:09:58: Money is the hardest working thing
01:13:28: Developing good money habits
01:15:00: Contact Ricardo on Instagram or LinkedIn - Ricardo McRae
Notable Quotes 1. "Life is a buffet, and everything is available to everybody." 2. "A movement without money is just angry people screaming." 3. "Money is a tool, and you're going to use it to create more green products and green services and jobs and help women." 4. "Money is the hardest working thing on Earth." 5. "You have to save money, and money will save you." 6. "Money shows up every day and says, 'Hey, what do you want us to do today?'" 7. "It's not hard work; it's the habits." 8. "You have to take the actions. A very wealthy man told me this once."
Additional money resources:Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
Bank Account Challenge: https://wealthy-money.com/bankaccount
Wealthy Money Mastermind: https://www.wealthy-money.com/mastermind
7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training
Next Level You Journal: wealthy-money.com/joournal
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
This podcast episode Dr Miranda Moloto interviews Vangile Makwakwa, the host of the #MoneyMagic Podcast at the launch of Vangile’s book, “What’s your Money Personality? Helping Black Families Manage their Finances” at the Book Circle Capital in Johannesburg, South Africa.
In this podcast, Vangile shares her journey of writing about healing ancestral money trauma, discussing the impact of trauma on financial behavior and the concept of money archetypes.
The conversation explores the interplay between Western individualistic approaches to wealth and African communal traditions, emphasizing the need to integrate modern financial concepts with traditional African practices for balanced wealth creation and healing.
The discussion also delves into the influence of genetics and upbringing on one's archetype, the impact of historical trauma, and the struggles faced by black women in navigating the dual impact of racism and patriarchy.
Practical solutions, legal support in business dealings, and the need for healing and acknowledgment of trauma within families are advocated throughout the conversation. This is another interesting discussion.
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During this episode, you will learn about:
02:15: Welcome to the book launch
03:22: Introduction to Vangile and the book
06:14: Meeting Vangile for the first time
08:03: Why am I not clever enough with money?
13:10: The nervous system and money
16:16: The shadow money acrhetypes
19:51: The role of Fixer
23:21: The RunAway archetype
30:56: The Sweet One archetype
36:26: How to set boundaries as the Sweet One
42:04: Connecting with your bank account
48:47: Black women and trauma
53:48: Audience question about the bringing along of the family on the wealth creation journey
59:29: Audience question: How much of your archetype is a function of how you are born and your genetic makeup versus how you are raised?
01:03:11: Audience question: Can you shed light on how to deal with mistrust in business?
01:08:12: Audience question: Explain your focus on women of color and can you make this work available to everyone?
01:11:57: The Eternal Child Archetype
Additional money resources:
Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic Bank Account Challenge: https://wealthy-money.com/bankaccount Wealthy Money Mastermind: https://www.wealthy-money.com/mastermind
7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training
Next Level You Journal: wealthy-money.com/journal
Let’s connect on Instagram:
https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
In this video, I read the introduction chapter to my new book, "What's your money personality? Changing the way Black families manage their finances."
I'm beyond excited to share this journey with you all. Your support means the world to me, and I can't wait for you to have my book in your hands.
The book is available nationwide in South Africa at all major bookstores and on all major eBook platforms such as Amazon Kindle. It will be available internationally November 6th.
To get more information on the book and how to purchase it, check out this link: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneypersonality
In this week’s podcast episode, Vangile talks about the importance of creating multiple streams of income and shares her experience of launching an AirBnB to cover legal fees in one of her companies.
She explores the concept of scarcity of attention and emphasizes the need for focus and undivided attention in growing a successful stream of income.
She shares her experiences with creating multiple streams of income in different industries and the challenges she experienced because of limitations of attention and resources that come with managing multiple streams of income.
She also emphasizes the importance of deep work and mastery when building multiple streams of income. She shares her own experience of gradually adding new income streams once they had mastered the initial one.
This is another eye-opening podcast episode.
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During this episode, you will learn about:
00:00: Introduction
03:56: Talking about being in Koh Phangan, Thailand and launching an Airbnb
08:43: Challenges and anxieties of launching the Airbnb
11:45: Re-evaluating multiple streams of income and lessons learned
14:41: Discussing the failure of having multiple companies simultaneously
17:51: The misconception that more is always better and the importance of focus
19:44: Lessons learned from managing multiple streams of income
24:24: Evaluating different potential streams
27:27: Scarcity of attention, decision-making fatigue, and resource allocation
31:03: Maximizing profitability and quality in each income stream
35:25: The importance of mastering one stream of income
39:58: Hiring assistants and expanding the team as the business grows
45:26: Trade-offs and considerations when pursuing multiple streams of income
48:11: Invitation to the Next Level You Mastermind program: wealthy-money.com/mastermind
Notable Quotes * "Reevaluating multiple streams of income is crucial to ensure their effectiveness and to adapt to changing circumstances." * "Sometimes less is more... it's so counter-intuitive that actually when I started wealthy money one of the first things I did was I cut back on all my streams of income." * “Focusing on one stream of income allows for better customer service, improved team management, and the development of a strong company culture” * "Once I mastered that first stream of income, boy did everything just start to become easier." * “If you are running five different companies in five different Industries then chances are you cannot give all of those companies your undivided attention and that focus is key in growing a stream of income."
Additional money resources:Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
Bank Account Challenge: https://wealthy-money.com/bankaccount
Wealthy Money Mastermind: https://www.wealthy-money.com/mastermind
7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training
Next Level You Journal: wealthy-money.com/joournal
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
In this podcast episode, Vangile discusses the concept of being the black sheep in the family and looks at scapegoating within families and its impact on individuals' financial behavior. She explains that scapegoating occurs when family members project their own shortcomings onto one person, blaming them for everything that goes wrong. This can lead to feelings of not being good enough and constantly doubting oneself.
She delves into the complex dynamics of scapegoating within families, highlighting its origins in emotional dysregulation, power struggles, intergenerational trauma, and societal influences. She also explores the link between scapegoating and the "not good enough" wound, emphasizing the need for healing and self-improvement to break free from the cycle of scapegoating.
Vangile shares her personal journey of healing and offers suggestions for coping mechanisms, such as therapy and coaching, to navigate the triggers and challenges that may arise from family interactions. They emphasize the need for self-compassion, self-care, and personal growth to counteract the negative messages received from being scapegoated.
This is another eye-opening podcast episode.
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During this episode, you will learn about:
00:00: Introduction to the podcast and its purpose
03:25: Explaining scapegoating and its effects on individuals
14:29: The progression of scapegoating and the psychological roots behind it
19:21: The impact of trauma and emotional dysregulation on the scapegoat role
26:43: Examining the broader societal context of scapegoating, including racial dynamics
31:34: The intergenerational cycle of scapegoating within families
37:38: How being scapegoated can affect confidence and finances
44:11: The link between fear of failure and scapegoating
49:29: Healing and the importance of vulnerability and making choices
53:36: The impact of scapegoating on financial behavior
59:04: lack of grit that can result from being scapegoated
01:07:48: The link between scapegoating and the "not good enough" wound
01:10:38: Setting unrealistic expectations and internalizing blame
01:13:23: Dysfunctional communication patterns and parental favoritism
01:18:48: Setting boundaries with family
01:24:14: The importance of getting help and support
01:32:39: Invitation to join the Wealthy Money Mastermind, a group coaching program focused on increasing income at this link: wealthy-money.com/mastermind
Notable Quotes * "Perfectionism is just the symptom of an underlying cause, which is the not good enough wound." * "The majority of the family members do not know how to emotionally regulate; the only way for them to regulate their emotions and to cope with life is by projecting them onto the scapegoat." * "Making someone else feel small and blaming them for everything may actually be a way that family members that feel out of control and feel powerless start to regain their power and start to regain a sense of control." * "When we don't have the tools, we just reach to the behavioral patterns that we know from our past" * “You have to be willing to take some kind of risk, especially if you're going to be an entrepreneur.” * "It's about how can I hold the duality of both the love and the dislike or the indifference in my body as I become more visible and as I step into my power." * "Set boundaries with your family. Remember, most people tend to treat us, even as adults, the way that they treated us as children." * "Self-care is doing the uncomfortable inner work so that I don't continue the cycle of scapegoating."
Additional money resources:Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
Bank Account Challenge: https://wealthy-money.com/bankaccount
Wealthy Money Mastermind: https://www.wealthy-money.com/mastermind
7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training
Next Level You Journal: wealthy-money.com/joournal
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
In this week’s podcast episode, Vangile talks to Whitney Walker, who runs the 'Women Awakening' podcast.
Whitney is a mental health therapist specializing in addiction, substance abuse, eating disorders, and trauma, she combines spirituality and the Divine feminine to guide individuals towards self-acceptance and wholeness.
Whitney shares her profound perspective, defining herself as a Divine being experiencing life on Earth. Her purpose revolves around love, communication, relationships, and helping others reconnect with the totality of their being.
The conversation takes an introspective turn, exploring the illusion of wealth and the pursuit of external validations. They highlight the significance of understanding one's true essence and finding fulfillment within, rather than in material gains or recognition.
The podcast delves into the power of tapping into the Divine feminine, emphasizing the impact of giving and the transformative nature of generosity.
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During this episode, you will learn about:
00:00 Introduction to the podcast
02:55 Defining oneself as a soul
13:50 Why Whitney always had a healthy relationship with money
19:50 Seeking inner healing and acceptance
28:37 The power of inner work
31:31 Tapping into your divine feminine power
43:00 The transformative power of giving
46:54 Everything comes back to you
51:50 Receiving abundance from the universe and asking for it to stop
55:30 Changing the relationship with receiving
59:25 Contact Whitney
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/womenwaken/
Women Waken Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/women-waken-spiritual-healing-for-trauma-in-relationships/id1580972247
Notable Quotes * Money is a beautiful thing, it affords us to be and do the things that we want * We think that if I become a millionaire, maybe I will finally love and accept myself, but it doesn’t happen that way * The feminine for me is the foundation or the root system of life * The Divine feminine is the unseen essence of your loving true unconditional self, you can easily call it your source self * If you want to experience something, be the cause for someone else to experience
Check out Vangile's Interview on the Women Waken Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-169-vangile-makwakwa-how-to-deal-with-money-trauma/id1347262113?i=1000536887874
Additional money resources:Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
Bank Account Challenge: https://wealthy-money.com/bankaccount
Book a discovery call: https://www.wealthy-money.com/discoverycall
7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training
Next Level You Journal: wealthy-money.com/joournal
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
In this week’s episode, Vangile engages in a conversation with Soufia Rabha, a skilled traveler from Morocco with expertise in brand marketing, transitioning into content production and digital systems. They first met in Casablanca, Morocco and have since worked together in Wealthy Money.
Throughout the episode, they delve into the intricate relationship between childhood experiences and financial behaviors, shedding light on the challenges that arise in asking for and receiving what one truly needs as an adult.
Reflecting on their own personal experiences, they share stories of guilt, pressure, and learned behaviors from their upbringing, highlighting how these experiences have influenced their current relationship with money.
Furthermore, they explore the impact of these past experiences on their ability to ask for and receive, both in personal and professional contexts. Their individual journeys of healing unveil the significance of self-reflection, self-care, and finding a harmonious balance between self-nourishment and avoiding extremes.
This episode explores money mindset and emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, healing, and prioritizing personal needs.
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During this episode, you will learn about:
[00:00] - Introduction to the podcast
[00:02:20] - Introduction of Soufia
[00:06:28] - The impact of traveling on mental health and self-discovery
[00:09:59] - Recent experience of feeling pressure and guilt in receiving
[00:14:39] - Hiding our needs and wants to avoid rejection or confrontation
[00:22:13] - Self-deprivation and overspending as a result of childhood experiences
[00:26:20] - The stress and physical discomfort of asking for things
[00:30:47] – Being careful with shame when dealing with money
[00:35:58.] – Having a significant amount of money in your account for the first time
[00:39:39] – The fear of looking at your bank account
[00:41:13] – Soufia shares about gradually relaxing around checking her bank account
[00:46:00] - The feeling of having to pay others back and how it can impact relationships
[00:51:51] – Learning to trust and relax when it comes to receiving
[00:54:39] – Receiving support and learning not to do everything on your own
[00:59:21] – How does increasing our receiving set point impact our family dynamics
[01:04:48.770] - Speaker 1 shares her Instagram handle and mentions being tagged on Facebook.
[01:05:02] – Contact Soufia on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/slashyaa/ and Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Slashya
Notable Quotes
- Money means security, means freedom. Freedom to move and freedom to do the things that I want for myself
- Whenever there is that resistance that, Oh, this is expensive, I try to tune into that voice that tells me, but I can't afford it now
- Abundance doesn't mean that I can squander whatever I have
- When I allowed myself to spend on myself, it then changed my perception of what I felt like I was capable of receiving
- Sometimes I'm not buying just the meal, the expensive meal, or the expensive trip. Sometimes I also find that I'm buying myself access to opportunities
Check out Vangile's Interview on the GeoMaxing Podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/geomaxing/episodes/1-Vangile-Makwakwa-GeoMaxing-To-Live-with-intention-e1lgv86
Additional money resources:
Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
Bank Account Challenge: https://wealthy-money.com/bankaccount
Book a discovery call: https://www.wealthy-money.com/discoverycall
7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training
Next Level You Journal: wealthy-money.com/joournal
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
In today’s episode Vangile Makwakwa interviews Kristin Wilson, the founder of Bad Ass Digital Nomads. Kristin helps individuals transition into the world of remote work and global living, and she recently published her book, "Digital Nomads for Dummies," serving as a comprehensive guide for aspiring digital nomads.
In this interview Kristin shares her personal journey as a nomad, reflecting on her unexpected role as a teacher and accidental leader within the community.
Kristin defines money as a universally agreed-upon exchange of value, providing invaluable insights into how to make your nomadic dreams a reality without breaking the bank. She shares her expert tips for traveling on a budget, including essential research on the cost of living index and selecting countries with lower expenses.
She also shares how to find affordable destinations through cost of living websites, and learn about budget-friendly transportation options that enable you to explore the world sustainably.
Amidst our conversation, Kristin also candidly discusses the challenges she faced while transitioning to a nomadic lifestyle and building an online business to replace her income.
This is another eye-opening podcast interview.
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During this episode, you will learn about:
00:00:00: Introduction
00:03:11: Introduction to Kristin Wilson
00:06:39: Describe yourself as a soul
00:09:37: - Money as a universally agreed upon exchange of value and energy
00:11:13: The journey to becoming a digital nomad
00:19:59: Making the decision to move to Costa Rica
00:22:49: Money mindset shifts and financial planning to become a nomad
00:29:47: Mindset shifts around money when leaving a job and building a business as a nomad
00:34:31: Relocation services and moving countries
00:43:05: Setting up systems that allow you to travel in your business
00:50:27: Traveling with intention
00:51:06: How to get hold of Kirsten
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TravelingwithKristin
Podcast: Bad Ass Digital Nomads on Apple and Spotify
Notable Quotes
- By living my truth and living my best life, I can inspire other people without forcing it, just showing examples of what's possible and letting whatever resonates with them help them on their journeys
- Humans are multifaceted and we can all have different interests and accomplish different things and seemingly unrelated areas that all fit together
- The most important shift that I made was understanding that I'm capable of generating money
- I just had to realize that I was capable of supporting myself from anywhere. And I didn't need to depend on an employer or someone to give me a salary
- Wealth creation is partly making money, but it's also partly saving money and investing money. And that's something that's a lifelong journey.
Check out Vangile's Interviews on Bad Ass Digital Nomads:
- How to Make More Money Online: https://www.badassdigitalnomads.com/how-to-make-more-money-online-with-the-host-of-the-money-magic-podcast/
- The Expat Lifestyle and Cost of Living in Oaxaca, Mexico: https://www.badassdigitalnomads.com/the-expat-lifestyle-and-cost-of-living-in-oaxaca-mexico/
Additional money resources:Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
Bank Account Challenge: https://wealthy-money.com/bankaccount
Book a discovery call: https://www.wealthy-money.com/discoverycall
7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
In this week's #MoneyMagic episode, Vangile interviews Amel Derragui, a business and marketing coach, speaker and the founder of Tandem Nomads (tandemnomads.com).
In this podcast Amel talks to us about various aspects of personal and business growth, focusing on themes such as adaptability, mindset shifts around money, the importance of self-awareness, and building businesses aligned with one's lifestyle.
She shares her personal journeys, emphasizing the transformative effects of living in different countries and the lessons she’s learned along the way. She also highlights the importance of embracing sales and marketing as a means of serving others and building relationships, rather than merely selling.
She also takes us through the importance of self-love, healing past traumas, discovering one's true purpose to make a positive impact in the world and defining your zone of genius. She also emphasizes the need for clarity, consistency, and conversion in marketing strategies, while cautioning against self-shaming and overworking.
This is yet another incredible episode.
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During this episode, you will learn about:
05:05: Feeling homeless and home full
10:06: Being a nomad was not a choice, it was my destiny
15:08: Moving into an apartment in Paris at 17
18:20: Selling encyclopedias door to door in the USA
23:01: Definition of money
26:52: Money is a multiplier of impact
30:39: What it means to be truly of service
35:32: Feeling stuck in the trauma and integrating it
39:09: How to start your expansion journey
43:56: Marketing is not about selling, it’s about serving
48:51: How do you craft a marketing strategy that works for you
57:12: Share three lessons that you've learned about traveling or money, marketing
58:42: Being grateful even in the hard times
01:00:53: How to get hold of Amel
01:03:17: Additional resource for your money journey
Notable Quotes * Leaving countries, at the end, is almost as powerful as arriving in a new one because you leave with so much more than what you came with. * It's interesting how sometimes there's a superpower in us that is guiding our way. I don't know if it's our soul spirit or whatever, but it feels as if I had some invisible hand pushing me through a certain journey. * Money is also a multiplier of impact. The more money you make, the more impact you can make in the world. * Do things, start somewhere, do something. And then the more you do, the more the answers will come to you. Don't think about it. Thinking is not going to get you the answers, but doing will. * We can be a visionary. We can keep innovating, moving on, but let there be space of being grateful for what we achieved already.
If this podcast resonated with you, check out these resources:
- Check out the episode I did on the Tandem Nomads Podcast: https://tandemnomads.com/podcast/tn284-redefining-your-relationship-with-money-and-your-money-trauma-with-vanjile-makwakwa/
- Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
- Bank Account Challenge: https://wealthy-money.com/bankaccount
- Book a discovery call: https://www.wealthy-money.com/discoverycall
- 7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
In this week's #MoneyMagic episode, I share my personal experience of overcoming public shaming, reclaiming my power, and healing my not-good-enough wound.
Back in 2022, I found myself in the midst of public shaming. It was a tough time as embassies worldwide were contacted with false allegations of me being a tourism fraud, and financial services boards were sent letters tarnishing my reputation as a scam. The impact on my mental health and business was far more significant than I anticipated.
The aftermath led to months of legal battles, protection orders, and I am still waiting for the court's decision. As if that wasn't enough, I also had to navigate (still am navigating) the complexities of dealing with developers who reneged on their financing contracts in the Property Magicians Stokvel. It has been a challenging time that brought forth self-doubt, feelings of inadequacy, shame and a desire to hide and be invisible.
In the process I found immense support and love from family, friends, and even strangers, which shattered my beliefs about being alone and unloved and led me to truly understanding what it means to trust the process.
In this podcast episode, I delve into the journey of finding solace, seeking support during times of crisis, and prioritizing self-care. I share the practices that helped me regain my balance, including yoga, breathwork, EFT tapping and the #MoneyMagic meditations.
I also share valuable insights on expansion, visibility, and revisiting the basics of the Bank Account Challenge. Despite the chaos, I managed to continue growing Wealthy Money, secure a publishing deal for my upcoming book (launching in October 2023), acquire two pieces of land, get gifted a Birkin bag, launch an Airbnb business, and initiate the rezoning of one of my properties in Cape Town to develop eight units.
Join me in this episode of the #MoneyMagic podcast as I talk about transforming poison into medicine.
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During this episode, you will learn about:00:00: Introduction
05:37: The public shaming incident and the effects on my life
11:37: Feeling unsafe and the belief that others have power over you
21:52: The experience of shame and the importance of working with triggers
27:31: The not good enough wound and the impact on my business
34:39: The need to regulate the nervous system during challenging times
37:54: Overcoming the vow of invisibility and showing up in my business
44:52: The breakthroughs I experienced during this period
47:14: The upcoming release of my book and the support I received
54:40: My experience with the bank account challenge and its impact on my finances
01:03:38: The material breakthroughs I experienced, such as receiving gifts and purchasing land
01:11:34: Trusting the process
01:16:13: Coaching offer for anyone that feels like doing one on one coaching
Notable Quotes
- I've come to the conclusion that no human being actually has a substantial amount of power over another human being
- there is a part of us no matter what happens that we can just go in there and find something that can be taken away by another person
- I literally looked at a part of myself like I said and was just like there's no way I could live through this and then making the decision that I'm going to live through this anyway
- We will never ever be able to control another person that is a fact, but what we can do is look after ourselves when things are going bad
- Expansion is being able to hold both the good and the bad, the upside and downside of expansion
- One of the biggest breakthroughs was I learned that it doesn't matter what is happening the work works
- The big breakthrough is that all my fears were unfounded I've lived my whole life being so scared of being visible being so scared of being publicly criticized because I thought at the end of the day I would lose love and I would be actually alone and I would have absolutely no one by my side and the major breakthrough for me has been I've lived through my worst fears and I was never alone physically and even emotionally I was fully supported
If this podcast resonated with you, check out these resources:Money Magic course: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
Bank Account Challenge: https://wealthy-money.com/bankaccount
Book a discovery call: https://www.wealthy-money.com/discoverycall
7 Day Tapping into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training: https://wealthy-money.com/training
Let’s connect on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
Often, as women, our roles start to shift as we expand, and we find ourselves mothering our mothers in very subtle ways. In our expansion, we tend to take on the role of a mother to our mothers. Sometimes, it’s not that we want it to happen, but we automatically find ourselves doing it, especially when we have the finances and the means.
Mothering our mothers, siblings, and children leaves our inner child unnurtured, which can build up resentments. Your inner child becomes angry, and to get your attention, your inner child stops your expansion. You self-sabotage not because you don’t want to grow but because when you’re not expanding, you can genuinely say not to mothering your mother (and any added pressure) to create more time for mothering yourself and your children.
So how do we stop ourselves from self sabotage as we expand?
Join the conversation with me, your host, Vangile Makwakwa, as I share more about mothering our mothers, how it ties into vows of loyalty and how it leads to self-sabotage. Let’s talk about how to deal with the pressures and expectations that come with expansion so we can thrive.
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During this episode, you will learn about: [00:01] Introduction to the show
[04:00] Today’s topic; The link between self-sabotage and mother wounds
[05:30] Vangile’s mom's behavior and how it triggers her
[08:01] Shifts in relationships and roles that come with expansion
[10:21] Mothering our mothers and how it happens subtly
[11:04] Generational triggers of mothering our mothers and how it ties to black tax
[12:31] Resentment that arises from mothering our mothers
[16:01] How and why we often self-sabotage as we expand and grow
[18:05] Breaking the vow of royalty and the guilt around mother wounds
[19:56] How to deal with the desire to mother your mother and expansion self-sabotage
[20:54] The Vow of rebellion and loyalty and how they play out in mother wounds
[24:07] Ending the show and call to actions
Notable Quotes * More often, as black women, our relationships and roles start to shift as we expand, and we often find ourselves mothering our mothers. * Most of us are walking around with an unmothered inner child. * Your inner child self-sabotages in order to get your attention. * As you expand, the mother wound can get bigger and become more triggering. * You need to break your vows of loyalty to your mother, so you can stop emulating her behavior.
Let’s Connect Vangile Makwakwa Website: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/vangilemakwakwa/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/wealthymoney1
In this week’s podcast episode I talk about my experience in working with my inner masculine and my inner feminine and how I had to move from one or the other, to find balance between the two, especially in my approach to money and business.
We have been taught that the only way to survive is by becoming super productive and hyper-productive even when our spirit is tired and going through emotional trauma. We’ve been asked to give up so much of our mental and emotional health to systems that don’t give the same back to us. The old way of doing business and making money 24-7 is not working and has not been working for many of us, and this is coming to the surface.
In today’s podcast I share how I tried to balance that by going to the extreme and working only in my feminine and how that started to affect my body. I share how feminine and masculine energy has nothing to do with gender and why it’s important to embody both energies in business.
Join the conversation with me, your host, Vangile Makwakwa as I share what I have learned about working with my inner masculine and inner feminine to optimize mental health, emotional well-being, spiritual growth, and physical health.
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During this episode, you will learn about: [00:00] Introduction to the show
[02:12] A bank account challenge experience that affected Vangile’s body
[05:33] The AHA moment! Working with the inner masculine and feminine
[06:50] Inner work and how it shows up ultimately in your body
[08:05] Vangile's inner masculine requests and transformation
[09:32] What inspired today’s show: Vangile past lifetime memory
[16:04] Vows in different lifetimes and how they can hold you back
[17:34] Today’s perspective of productivity and why it’s a collective trauma
[18:54] Focusing on the soft skills/feminine side to healing yourself and your finances
[22:04] Working with the inner masculine
[25:49] The role of the feminine in the modern system
[28:30] The feminine way of doing business and making money
[29:39] Building the masculine structure in your business and merging it with the feminine side
[33:26] Ending the show and call to actions
Notable Quotes * Holding space for many people without energy coming back to you is not healthy, and it will exhaust you. * The modern system has been asking us to give up so much of our mental and emotional health to systems that don’t give the same back to us. * Trauma keeps us in a loop, but the healing of trauma is not prioritized and is considered a soft skill and unnecessary. * If we don't heal the trauma and don't heal ourselves, we just keep operating the very same way that our parents operated around money, so we keep getting the same results
Let’s Connect Vangile Makwakwa Website: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/vangilemakwakwa/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/wealthymoney1
This week on the #MoneyMagic Podcast, I talked to Shanika Malcolm, the founder of Starseed Landing, an organization that focuses on regenerative living, consciousness, and transformation on the planet to help people live in harmony with nature. Shanika is passionate about helping people live an empowered, authentic, and real life.
If you didn’t know, Shanika is the first African American woman to complete the Naked and Afraid 21-day challenge in Chiapas, Mexico in the Jungle. She loves connecting with nature, and as with so many things that Shanika is into, there’s not enough representation of people of color, but this has not prevented her from achieving. Her mission is to create a path for people of color, especially women, to feel confident and comfortable in their quest.
In this episode, Shanika shares how she has always had home births with just her boyfriend and/or a midwife, without attending a single appointment with doctors or going for check ins and just working with her body and how her kids very rarely fall ill. She also shares what it’s like to travel the world with 3 kids, who are getting homeschooled.
She also discusses with us how as women, we’re constantly forced to make ourselves smaller and how a lot of the beliefs that we have about ourselves are not our own. Most of our beliefs come from a traumatic, wounded, and unnatural society, which makes self-awareness and healing very important. Healing yourself is healing the ancestors and the next generation. Healing yourself is also healing the planet. You heal backward in time and forward in time, and it starts with your womb. That is your power center, which holds many emotions and energy.
Becoming self-aware of what you think about yourself, connecting with the body, and working with the womb will help you align your beliefs with what you want to feel, heal, feel comfortable in your body, and build confidence.
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During this episode, you will learn about: [00:01] Introduction to the show
[03:23] A bit about our guest today, Shanika Malcolm
[05:41] Bridging the gap, living an empowering life, and how Shanika does it
[08:13] What inspired Shanika to the Naked and Afraid 21 days challenge
[09:43] Shanika’s experience as the only person of color in spaces and her secret to success
[12:35] Mindset work that won Shanika a space in the Naked and Afraid show
[15:18] Self-love and acceptance in building confidence within ourselves
[17:35] Shanika’s practices that help her heal and feel comfortable in her body
[22:18] Shanika’s experience in the Naked and Afraid 21-day challenge in the jungle
[24:24] Survival skills and how she worked her way to survive from the beginning
[30:22] Land acknowledgment and how it helped Shanika to keep going
[35:35] Shanika’s brand vision on ecovillages and how you can support them to grow
[39:13] Womb and self-retrieval work and why it’s important in your life
[41:34] What inspired Shanika into womb work and healing
[45:07] Feeling unsafe and how it can lead to trauma and affect the outcome of your life
[52:53] Why your pelvic and your yoni are the most powerful parts of your body
[55:02] Tuning in to ourselves and our innate knowing
[56:21] How Shanika arrived at her birthing process, birthing at home
[00:00:01] Making birth seamless by working with your body
[01:04:36] How to get into your feminine through deep breathing and relaxation
[01:11:43] Shanika's intention and mission of sharing love and life
[01:12:58] How to reach out, connect and work with Shanika
[01:13:26] Ending the show and call to action
Notable Quotes * Being the only person of color in spaces takes a lot of self-awareness and confidence to go into and take up space. * When you know the power of who you are, you can show up as that, and people will feel it. * Building confidence within yourself comes down to self-love and acceptance. * A lot of beliefs that we have about ourselves are not our own; they come from a traumatic, wounded, and unnatural society. * How you feel in your body, and the inner environment will reflect around and how you interact with people * The best environment to have a baby is the same environment the baby was created. * When you start connecting with the body and working with the womb, you learn how to relax, surrender, drop into your feminine and feel safe. * The breath and the mind are connected; a deep breath will help you connect with your body and feel relaxed.
Resources Shanika’s Naked and Afraid Video Update: https://twitter.com/nakedandafraid/status/1504188508092653573?lang=en
Connect With Us Shanika Malcolm Website: http://www.starseedlanding.org/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moonchildhealing_sm/
Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/people/Starseed-Landing/100077004544642/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCyZHGOa9av7BDLcfOeb4NaA
Vangile Makwakwa Website: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/vangilemakwakwa/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/wealthymoney1
Most of us have a money set point - a set number we believe we can make or have in our bank accounts. If you want to see your money set point, look at your bank statement. This is the amount of money you will often have in your bank account.
When you surpass this set point, you can find yourself overspending to get back to it. If you find yourself making more money, you can find yourself sabotaging and losing clients or losing your job so you can get back to your set point.
Join the conversation with me, your host Vangile Makwakwa, as I share the relationship between the God Wound, vows of loyalty, and our money set point. Your family's history with money will most likely affect your financial set points. In this episode, I will also explain why releasing a vow of loyalty is sometimes difficult because it ties to the God wound.
If you find yourself recreating certain financial situations, then this episode may shed light for you.
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During this episode, you will learn about: [00:14] Episode intro
[03:35] Today’s focus: Financial setpoints & how they link to vows of loyalty & God-wound
[07:23] Getting into unexplainable debts
[10:03] Failing to allow ourselves to go beyond a certain income level
[10:42] How to find your money set point
[13:10] Vangile’s family story around money
[18:04] Your set point can be at any value
[18:24] Debt set point and how debt affects us differently
[22:57] Vows of loyalty explained
[26:35] Ways you can find out how vows of loyalty are affecting your financial life
[29:44] Breaking away from vows of loyalty through meditation
[30:54] It’s inevitable to go through God wound when breaking away from vows of loyalty
[32:00] How the vow of loyalty played out in Vangile’s life
[38:48] Key indicators that show you have bumped against a vow of loyalty
[41:07] When your subconscious self can’t allow you to release a vow of loyalty
[46:45] The benefits of doing the God wound work
[48:55] Problems associated with the God wound
[56:27] Are you ready to change your relationship with your bank account?
Notable Quotes * God wound is one of the hardest because it is like having to deconstruct your concepts of the divine or the universe. * It really does come down to how intentional you are about money. * Releasing vows goes into the physical, it goes into the spiritual and emotional plane * Sometimes first born daughters become like husbands to single mothers, you fill in the gap of the father who is not there
Let’s Connect Vangile Makwakwa Website: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/vangilemakwakwa/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/wealthymoney1
I invite you to check out and sign up for my 5 Day #BankAccountChallenge course.
You can register for the course at this link: wealthy-money.com/bankaccount.
Once registered in the course, you get access to all course worksheets, meditations, and recordings of live classes I have done over the last year’s sessions.
Since I became a full-time entrepreneur and nomad in 2017, the biggest hurdle I had to overcome was to figure out how I would make a consistent income.
How do you build a business where you can start to create a consistent stream of income and continue to serve your customers or clients?
Join me, Vangile, your host in this podcast as I share practical things you can start to implement to start making a consistent stream of income in your business and how to align your strategy and operations to your vision. I also share how I have been able to create various streams of income in my business and start paying myself a salary.
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During this episode, you will learn about; [00:14] Episode intro and today’s focus
[05:18] What ‘creating a consistent income’ means
[08:15] Practical things you can implement to start making a consistent income
[08:31] How much do you need every month to live? Here is the breakdown
[11:31] Running a business gives you the freedom to set your salary
[17:00] What to consider when growing your business
[18:19] Decide on the salary you want to earn
[24:08] Narrow down to two or three streams of income
[32:10] Understanding your capacity as an entrepreneur is important
[40:12] Celebrating your consistency and making necessary changes
[41:30] Your streams of income can change
[46:16] Your takeaway homework from this episode
[52:09] Get started! There is an audience for everything
[53:59] Ending the show and call to actions
Notable Quotes * Part of growing a business is understanding the things you don't know, your areas of weakness, and hiring the right team. * A common mistake is creating all our desired income streams at once. That is almost a recipe for failure. * If we don’t feel comfortable going through our expenses, to understand how much debt we have, how much we really need for our own personal expenses then we underpay ourselves in terms of our salaries * When you are more intentional, I promise you, it is so much easier to create a consistent stream of income
Let’s Connect Vangile Makwakwa Website: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/vangilemakwakwa/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/wealthymoney1
Our journeys in life are like concentric rings on a tree. Any decision you have made before will most times be the basis of what you do today. You will always feel a sense of alignment and confidence when you follow your passions to achieve your dreams. The alignment will be manifested in your ability to manage and thrive in uncertainties. Though it’s hard to live with the certainties of living without a salaried job, that sense of being safe to you because of living in your truth is incomparable.
This week on the #MoneyMagic Podcast, I talk to one of my coaching clients, Catriona Towriss, an artist who is passionate about supporting people to reconnect with their creativity. As a child, Catriona dreamt about becoming an artist. However, she nearly lost sight of that dream in the twists and turns of life. She got a Ph.D. and spent over a decade working as a researcher and lecturer in public health. In her spare time, she drew, painted, and took photographs.
In 2019, she hired me as a coach and at the height of the pandemic she made the big leap into life as a full-time artist. In this podcast, she shares how she did that and some of the fears she had to work through about money and supporting herself as an artist.
Through her art, she seeks to uncover nature’s timeless visual language and explore the dynamics between human and non-human nature.
Join the conversation and learn more about how honoring your inner voice can build your self-trust. Your relationships, possibilities and money. You will also understand the power of creativity and how creative expressions in the artistic sense will struggle to thrive under financial pressures.
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During this episode, you will learn about; [00:01] Introduction to the show
[02:34] Meet our guest, Catriona Towriss
[03:41] A bit about Catriona, who she is and what she does
[05:23] What is ‘Money’ according to Catriona
[07:06] Taking the paradigm shift about the view of money
[09:59] Shifting from a job security mindset to a freedom mentality
[12:25] A world of inevitable uncertainties
[14:48] How following her dream created a positive relationship with uncertainties of life
[19:19] Catriona's prior relationship with money & the things she wishes she’d known before
[24:30] How honoring her inner voice helped to build self-trust and her relationship with money
[30:11] Why Catriona's fears are not about the amount of money in her bank account
[34:27] Catriona’s work as a creative coach
[39:12] Her ways of helping clients tap into their creativity
[48:14] Failures and the expectations we place on ourselves
[52:20] Valuable lessons she has learned about money in her interaction with Vangile
[56:35] How you can reach out and connect with Catriona
[59:58] Ending the show and call to actions
Notable Quotes * Money is the tool that enables you to live the life you want. * To be an artist is, in many ways, to live in a very explicit relationship with uncertainties. * That sense of being safe to you because of living in your truth is incomparable. * There’s nothing harder than getting up every day and living a life that doesn’t feel true to who you are. * When you are an embodiment of something, your energy literally calls to the clients. * We live in a world that does not embrace failures but actually shames us for failing.
Connect With Us Catriona Towriss Website: https://www.catrionatowriss.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/catriona.anne.t/
Facebook: https://web.facebook.com/catriona.towriss/
Vangile Makwakwa
Website: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/vangilemakwakwa/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/wealthymoney1
It’s completely possible to be invisible and be in front of a million people showcasing your intelligence but never letting them see you. Sharing the theoretical things without showing people who you are and not allowing yourself to be vulnerable or sharing your story can keep you invisible to the very people you’re trying to connect and build trust with. In some cases, this is not a problem, however, if you’re a business owner or in a career where your sales or income depends on connecting with people then this can be a problem. One of the things I’ve understood working with many entrepreneurs who are building businesses online, is that people want to feel like they know you, understand you and resonate with you to build trust and do business with you.
Join the conversation with me, your host Vangile Makwakwa as she shares more about the feeling of not being good enough, the vow of visibility and how they affect us in terms of savings and income. Learn how you can change how you see yourself and relate to self by tracing and healing ancestral traumas.
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During this episode, you will learn about: [00:01] Introduction to the show
[02:27] Today’s focus: Feeling not good enough and the vow of visibility
[03:48] Feeling not good enough and how it differentiates with gender
[07:43] How the vow of invisibility and feeling not good enough played out in Vangile’s life
[11:32] What happens when people heal from the vow of invisibility
[12:11] Your business and the feeling not good enough
[15:06] Lessons from Vangile's desire for a PhD to get more validation
[21:51] Allowing yourself to show up, be seen and increase your income
[23:01] Showing up, articulating your value and pricing your services
[25:26] Why positive self-affirmations don’t work in healing the feeling of not being good enough
[27:57] The vow of invisibility meditation and how you can use it for healing
[31:53] The tie between the vow of invisibility and collective trauma
[38:23] Tracing ancestral trauma and healing the ancestors' stories
[40:54] How to register for the money magic course
[44:13] Ending the show and call to actions
Notable Quotes * The vow of invisibility has so little to do with showing up in front of people. * Sharing your story will help you connect and build trust with people * Feelings of not being enough will make you miss opportunities to connect with people at a deeper level. * Sometimes the trauma isn’t from this lifetime; it’s from other lifetimes * The way we see ourselves impacts the way we show up
Let’s Connect Vangile Makwakwa Website: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/vangilemakwakwa/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/wealthymoney1
The last 2 weeks on the #MoneyMagic podcast, I’ve been talking about expansion and the triggers of expansion. This week, I am sharing another Facebook live class I did on growing your business with minimal resources.
Even though we’ve been taught that business is all practical; that’s what I learned at school - the truth is business and expansion are also about mindset and integrating our trauma.
It’s not about a one-day aha moment you experience by watching a YouTube video or reading a book. Real inner work is more about embodiment, and we can often feel and see when a change is happening. This involves meditation, questioning our work, and dealing with what the traumas are.
Join the conversation with your host Vangile Makwakwa as she shares the inspiring story of Jane, who began as an assistant at the Wealthy Money retreat and has now managed to grow from selling chili mix products to buying property through coaching and aligning her vision to her actions. You don’t need tons of money for your projects to become a success. Looking at Jane’s resources and success, you can get the motivation just to use what you have and get started.
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During this episode, you will learn about; [00:01] Introduction to the show
[03:06] Who is Vangile Makwakwa, and how did Wealthy Money come into existence?
[09:10] Why Jane’s inspiration is the basis of this episode
[14:20] Hiring her to help in my retreats
[18:30] The chilli recipe that became Jane’s turning point
[24:18] A coaching session that gives birth to a second stream of income- The Chips
[27:18] From chips to owning her real estate property
[32:04] Becoming her own supplier of chilies
[34:35] What’s true financial freedom and the asset classes that create it?
[41:25] A bit about Vangile’s retreats and how you can join them
[46:41] You can also make your small story shine like Jane’s- connect!
[49:23] Ending the show and call to actions
Notable Quotes * It’s not about the industry but the money mindset you have embraced that will give you the money. * Sometimes you have to share your secrets to a friend so that they can help you grow your ideas * Your financial expansion depends on your mindset.
Let’s Connect Vangile Makwakwa Website: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/vangilemakwakwa/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/wealthymoney1
In the previous episode, I spoke about what happens when expansion is the trigger.
In this podcast I share exercises you can do when you are triggered by expansion. These exercises are very simple, but they are life-changing because they shed so much light by helping you understand what is actually going on.
Most of us approach money with a lot of heaviness. We look at what everyone is doing, and we employ the same business strategy, and it doesn’t work for us. The problem is not the strategy, but emotionally, we find ways to block and sabotage our income goals because we don’t feel safe expanding or making more money.
We all have different backgrounds, different ancestral stories, and have been brought up differently, and we can’t compare ourselves with others, so what triggers one person, may bot trigger another person in the same way.
Join the conversation with me, your host, Vangile Makwakwa, as I share how to deal with expansion and visibility fears.
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During this episode, you will learn about: [02:04] Introduction to the show
[03:40] Today’s focus: Dealing with expansion and visibility issues
[06:40] You can energetically want or stop your income goals
[08:27] How we sabotage and blow out our income goals despite having a working strategy
[11:48] The analogy of I Blew It Show on trauma and emotion around money
[13:00] What happens when we manifest the money we want with unhealed traumas
[17:11] Losing your sense of self and getting hijacked by the sub-personalities
[22:23] Emotional intelligence and how we react from a hypermasculine and wounded place
[25:05] Changing your behavior and sub-personalities from the inside out
[25:57] My trauma experience and how it impacted my career and business life
[30:12] We have different ancestral stories, and they shape who we are and our traumas
[32:33] Doing the inner work and going deeper into your psyche to change the game
[34:04] Master class: The Seven Emotions That Hold Us Back From Saving, Investing, and Increasing Income
[37:10] Parenting and acknowledging our own fears and emotional states
[39:11] Ending the show and call to actions
Notable Quotes * It’s absolutely possible to want something and energetically block it. * We try to get rid of something when we don’t feel safe with it * Changing our behavior is always from the inside out * Our progress is completely dependent on our thinking process, traumas, and ancestral stories. * It’s the things that we don’t know that hold us back * The brain is hardwired to notice fear because the feeling of fear is what kept our ancestors alive
Let’s Connect Vangile Makwakwa Website: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/vangilemakwakwa/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/wealthymoney1
In this week’s podcast, I talk about how the very idea of expansion can be a trigger for us and can actually cause us to shut down.
The fear of expanding beyond our family and community is a common fear. Most of us have a sense of dread about this, and the reasons behind this go back to our childhood experiences. To some of us, it comes as fear of rejection and being othered when we expand beyond our tribe, and to some of us, it can feel like our expansion is a betrayal and we are abandoning our families which can prevent us from connecting with our income goals.
Expansion, especially in collective cultures, can often trigger family dynamics and sibling rivalry, leading to resentment and anger within the family unit, thus creating a barrier to moving forward and keeping you stuck in the past. The fear of expanding is rooted in trauma.
Join the conversation with your host Vangile Makwakwa as she shares more about expansions, family dynamics, and the concept of generation wealth. She also shares her childhood trauma that makes it unsafe for her to achieve and expand beyond her mother, how it has played out in her life, and her inner work toward healing.
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During this episode, you will learn about; [00:01] Introduction to the show
[03:32] Today’s focus: Expansion and family dynamics and creating generational wealth
[04:42] How to set income goals that connect with your body
[08:32] Vangile’s breakthrough from her inner work in reaching her income goal
[10:07] Feeling into your body and your income goals
[11:30] Vangile’s experience with her new income goals and trauma triggers
[17:34] How fear holds us back and Vangile’s trauma experiences growing up
[25:15] How expansions lead to family dynamics and sibling rivalry
[26:57] Inner child and teen triggers’ control over expansion
[28:11] It’s not safe to expand beyond my mother
[37:32] How the fear of achieving more has played out in her life
[44:18] The fear of leaving the village
[45:41] How to join the wealthy money magic course
[47:22] Why we tend to attract the mirrors of what we don’t heal
[49:39] Expansion that feels like a betrayal to the very people we love
[51:03] Join the Wealthy Money master class; Emotional Intelligence Around Money
[52:54] Ending the show and call to actions
Notable Quotes * The body never lies, you can create goals, but it all comes down to the body. * As you work through your beliefs, the way you respond to situations starts to shift. * The role of fear and anxiety is to keep you stuck * Awareness and healing are two different concepts * We tend to attract the mirrors of the traumas that we don't heal. * Healing on vast levels leads to the most incredible insights and life changes.
Let’s Connect Vangile Makwakwa Website: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/vangilemakwakwa/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/wealthymoney1
In last week’s podcast episode, I spoke about the fear of not having enough and running out of money. This week I share a podcast episode I did a while back when I was in Sri Lanka on why we do the inner work and why there’s no formula to healing.
Even though I don’t mention it in this podcast, I do believe resting and taking days off to focus on pleasure and taking time off for integration is part of doing the inner work.
In this podcast I talk about why healing has no formula and why what works for one person on their healing journey, may not work for the next person, even if they are from the same family and have similar experiences. I also explain why money isn’t just about good thoughts and having great energy but is also about the practical things and making sure that you’re taking aligned action and why you need to be actively involved in your own healing.
Join me, your host Vangile Makwakwa, as I unpack why everyone’s healing journey looks different and why this needs to be honored. This episode will shed light for you if you've been following all the people and doing all the things and not seeing a shift.
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During this episode, you will learn about; [00:01] Introduction to the show
[02:06] Vangile in Sri Lanka and talking about yoga
[04:00] Today’s topic: Why we do the inner work and why we do it daily
[05:00] The difference between healing and intellectual pursuits
[06:51] There is no one size fits all in healing
[09:09] There’s no such thing as a formula when it comes to healing trauma
[10:37] Think about this in terms of weight loss
[13:01] You need to be actively involved in changing your behavior
[15:52] There needs to be some kind of practicality
[17:11] We also need to help the universe a little
[19:00] Money is not purely mystical
[19:51] This is how we create #MoneyMagic
[21:00] What works for you, may not work for someone else
[24:34] Podcast ending
Notable Quotes * When we talk about doing the deep inner healing and work, we are talking about going into the trauma itself, going into your body, sitting with that and healing * There’s no such thing as a formula when it comes to healing trauma * You’ve lived years of your life reacting in the same manner, having the same issues, the same dramas around money and you think reacting the same way for the last 20 years, that you’re going to incidentally clear that in 5 minutes * What often happens is that the expansion itself gives birth to another limit we’ve got, it brings up other limiting beliefs we’ve got * Money is just a spiritual or mental thing, it’s also an earthly thing * What are you doing today to make sure that tomorrow your finances have changed * You are part of this creation process. You have to show up for your own healing.
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In last week’s podcast episode, I spoke about the fear of spending money. In this week’s episode I talk about the fear of not having enough and running out of money, which is a towering issue for many people in this fast-paced world.
Some of us have tried affirmations to make ourselves feel better about our finances, but that doesn’t work because affirmations only affirm what you already know and what your subconscious mind can see, not the underlying things we don't see. On the other hand, most of us have clung to making more money, and we end up becoming frustrated because it's not the solution either. Who wants to work and never feel like they have enough money. It’s like being cheated around money. So, how do we heal from the fears and panic that come from the thought of not having enough money? Find out!
Join me, your host Vangile Makwakwa, as I unpack the fear and the panic of not having enough and running out of money. In this episode I also provide practical tools on how you can step into your healing and start changing your relationship with money.
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During this episode, you will learn about; [00:01] Introduction to the show
[02:06] Vangile in South Africa and her new feeling and pursuit
[03:42] Today’s topic: The fear of having enough and running out of money
[04:50] The fear of not having enough money
[06:35] Why it’s never about the amount of money you have
[09:19] The idea of masculinity versus the femininity way of attracting money
[13:25] God wounds, sensation and energy around not having money
[16:30] Resentment and rejection that come when we feel cheated around money
[17:08] What happens when we believe that money will run out
[18:17] Vangile experience in Florida when he was working on a cruise ship
[19:04] How our inner child picks up deep trauma from our family
[22:44] How to expand ourselves so we can have money constantly flowing into our account
[25:17] Steps to healing fears and thoughts that money will run out
[27:38] Mothering your inner child in a way that we wish we were mothered
[30:51] Ending the show and call to action
Notable Quotes * Affirming that you have enough money without inner work doesn’t work * Making more money is not the solution to not having enough money * We don’t have to behave in the traditional masculine way to attract money * Meditation is not about changing the image; it’s about being fully in our bodies * When we believe that money will run out, we buy everything as fast as possible before money runs out. * Repetition is what makes us believe in something very deeply
Let’s Connect Vangile Makwakwa Website: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/vangilemakwakwa/
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With a fear of money, it becomes impossible for us to think creatively and make decisions. The more scared we are of spending money, the more difficult it becomes to be rational about our spending. Most of us have no problem saving up money to achieve our goals, but we often become afraid of spending that money.
In today’s podcast I do a live class explaining why we feel unsafe when spending money and why spending money is important and how our money traumas have shaped our beliefs around money. When we feel safer spending, we're more anchored, less likely to feel scared, and make our finances worse. This is why it’s important to heal from past money traumas that have been holding us back.
Join the conversation with me, your host Vangile Makwakwa, as I share more about the fear of spending and losing money to provide you with tools to create a path to your financial freedom by taking all your fears off the table.
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During this episode, you will learn about; [00:01] Introduction to the show
[02:03] India as a place where I battled with ego death
[03:51] Doing the inner work around money
[04:57] The vow of visibility and what it encompasses
[06:55] Vangile abandonment trauma experience at four years
[11:42] How trauma is formed and how it shapes our life memories and moment
[12:41] Why inner child trauma has everything to do with money
[14:01] Why your subconscious will always honor your vows to keep you safe
[16:26] Vangile acupuncture experience and why you cannot shortcut healing
[21:01] The fear around spending money and not losing money
[23:37] A resourceful blog post on; why making more money won’t heal your financial issues
[26:39] The opportunity cost around the fear of spending
[32:07] The downside of operating from a belief that money will run out
[36:53] How to join the Wealthy Money master class
[39:51] Ending the show and call to actions
Notable Quotes * True financial freedom is when we can make money make money for us * It’s very important to forgive ourselves for our financial mistakes * You can only attract that which you are * If you’re taking from money without replenishing it, it will eventually run out * The more scared we are around money, the more impossible it becomes for us to think creatively about money. * The most important thing is not to have money in our bank account; it’s to have money work for us. * The safer you feel, the more anchored in emergencies and the less likely you’re to create debt.
Let’s Connect Vangile Makwakwa Website: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
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In this week’s podcast, I share a live class I did in the #MoneyMagic student group when I went on a trip to see the pyramids at Teotihuacan in Mexico City, Mexico.
On the trip I learned a lot about the pyramids but the part of the tour that caught my attention was the Moon Temple and all the things the tour guide taught us about the link between the womb and the moon.
In this podcast I share what I learned about succession planning and how the pyramids were built over a period of 350 years and how I link that to generational wealth.
I also talk about how the moon influences our cycle as women, understanding our own unique intuition, how to use the cycles of the moon to manifest and create the life we deeply want and desire.
Join the conversation with me, your host Vangile Makwakwa as we talk about all things travel, womb and intuition.
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During this episode, you will learn about: [00:01] Introduction to the show
[03:20] Struggling with jet lag and trying to adjust to time differences
[06:45] I am not an astrologist; I work with the womb and the body
[10:14] Understanding how to work with the spirit world and setting boundaries
[13:07] Cacao and mushroom ceremonies
[15:32] Our entire pyramid experience was around spiritual stuff
[20:28] Crafting a vision that will take 7 generations to materialize
[25:05] Sharing about succession planning
[29:25] The moon temple and the way Christianity erased the feminine in spirituality
[35:47] The importance of the God and the Goddess in spirituality
[37:35] Finding own unique moon cycle as a woman
[42:10] Bleeding with the new moon
[43:20] Bleeding with the full moon
[45:57] Manifesting with the moon
[49:50] Actions to take during the full moon
[54:50] Fasting in conjunction with the moon
[01:03:55] Episode wraps up and ends
Notable Quotes
- Everything is about intention, everything is about boundaries
- How do you craft a vision that will take 7 generations to materialize? How do you make sure that knowledge isn’t lost?
- Everything that every woman needs to know is that you have your own moon cycle, that is unique to you, that has nothing to do with ovulation and menstruation, but everything to do with your intuition
- The moon also affects our flow and how heavy the flow is
- Most women that bleed with the new moon, won’t bleed as much and they will bleed for a shorter time
- Women who bleed with the full moon will tend to bleed for a longer time period and may be heavier
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Financial goals can be challenging to achieve in today's world, and many people struggle with reaching their economic aspirations. This is especially when you lack clarity on what the idea of financial independence entails. Even if you know how to make the dream into a reality, it can be hard to set concrete and quantifiable goals without the right mindset, peacefulness, and tranquility. When you work with a peace-filled attitude, you get clarity and find a way to beat the challenges that come your way.
Join the conversation with your host Vangile Makwakwa as she shares a new simple way of achieving your money goals with less pain, even if it is difficult. This is what she calls ‘achieving with Ease.’
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During this episode, you will learn about; [00:01] Introduction to the show
[04:00] Today’s focus; EASE
[06:20] My definition of the word ‘Ease.’
[09:00] Explaining ‘Ease’ with the analogy of getting a PhD
[11:14] Ease does not mean something is easy to do
[15:42] Financial expansion versus saving money
[18:52] One of the five different money profiles; Money Dieter
[22:26] How to expand your money with ease
[27:21] Choosing a business model that resonates with your ease of alignment
[31:47] How to market your business using the theory of a thousand fans
[36:39] What hinders most people from choosing the Ease
[38:20] Why you should join the Money Magic Course and what to expect
[45:00] Episode wrap up and ending the show
Notable Quotes * Something hard can be established with ease. * Just because it’s not easy does not mean it’s the wrong way. * Ease is a feeling that comes from within. * The world is what you believe it to be, and it changes as you change * There are many ways to reach your destination, but choose the one that feels in alignment with you. * Everything changes because we change from within.
Let’s Connect Vangile Makwakwa Website: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
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LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/vangilemakwakwa/
Panic manifestations are common symptoms of money anxiety. It is a sudden, overwhelming feeling that one is not coping with their finances and that something terrible will happen in the near future. Panic manifestations can lead to chronic stress, which can cause physical and mental health problems. They may also lead to financial distress or even suicidal thoughts. A specific event or situation often triggers these manifestations, but they may also occur without warning in times of high stress or when people make poor financial decisions.
Join the conversation with me, Vangile Makwakwa as I share more about money panic manifestations and how they affect our financial, mental, and physical beings. We’ll also talk about how you can break free from the money panic cycle and regain control over your finances.
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During this episode, you will learn about: [00:01] Introduction to the show
[03:18] Recap of the last episode; Panic manifestations
[06:19] How her encounters with money panic came about
[07:27] Vangile’s pivotal point about money
[08:33] Effects of desperation and money- anxiety on our bodies
[11:00] How to avoid panic and despair in money manifestation
[14:37] How to make the money you need
[17:05] In panic mode, it’s hard to live with our bank accounts
[20:29] Running away from money when in panic mode
[24:01] Overcoming emotions that are associated with money
[26:12] Why we engage in panic manifestation
[28:55] How you can break free from panic manifestations
[30:03] Want to hear about a fantastic gift I recently received?
[35:16] Ending the show and call to actions
Notable Quotes * The impact and stress that desperation adds to our bodies are not healthy. * Worrying about where you’ll get money isn’t just anxiety-inducing but also does not help us physically. * Craziness is doing the same thing repeatedly and expecting a different result. * There’s no such thing as being ready. The longer you wait for the right time, the more things worsen.
Let’s Connect Vangile Makwakwa Website: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
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This podcast is a live class I did on Facebook, talking about the sibling wound and how it can play out within families and how that then affects finances.
Sibling rivalry is a natural phenomenon that happens in many families, especially when children take on a deputy parenting role. Deputy parent siblings are those children who take on the "parent" role in their family when one parent is absent from the home or if there is only one parent in the home. This can lead to sibling codependency where they can depend on the breadwinner sibling for both financial and emotional support which can create resentment, tension, and rivalry when the relationship changes.
In this podcast I look at the vow of loyalty in families and how the family dynamics are altered by a child playing a parent role.
Most of us didn’t have a perfect childhood. Learn how to spot your vows of loyalty and mother wounds, do the healing work, and put things right on the ancestral plane.
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During this episode, you will learn about: [00:01] Introduction into the show
[02:45] Today’s topic; Mother wounds, sibling wound, and rivalry
[07:14] Vangile personal experience with her mom and sibling
[15:21] Where tension and the resentment between siblings originates
[26:00] What happens to the breadwinner siblings' inner child
[28:14] Experimenting and taking risks to grow financially
[34:12] Sibling with parenting role challenges and resentments
[38:49] Siblings' co-dependence and money wounds
[43:14] Vow of loyalty between children and parents
[50:32] Two types of meditation to release vows of meditation
[52:13] Mother wounds and how to spot subtle mother wounds
[58:53] How mother wounds lead to sibling rivalry
[01:05:26] Money magic healing works for vows of loyalty and mother wounds
[01:09:52] How to sign in for the money magic healing course
[01:12:58] Ending the show and call to actions
Notable Quotes * Most breadwinner siblings didn’t get to be a child, and the idea of playing and having fun even around money is always foreign. * A huge way to grow and stand financially is taking some risks. * Children need parenting; children cannot raise children. * Mother wounds are not only from abusive mothers; we can have them simply because we didn't receive parenting from our mothers * Vows can feel like Stockholm syndrome. * The mother wound can give rise to the sibling wound, which can lead to deep sibling rivalry in a family. * Healing is making things right on the ancestral plane * Perfectionism comes from a not good enough wounding
Let’s Connect Vangile Makwakwa Website: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
LinkedIn: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
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In today’s podcast episode I share a live class I did a while back on the importance of knowing what you want.
I did this live class before the pandemic and shared some of my experiences about Vietnam and Chiang Mai.
Being free from debt doesn't mean that you're financially free, but it's a step in the right direction. The key to being financially free is taking the time to really think about what you want and then creating a plan that will help you achieve it. Be vulnerable enough with yourself to know your true desires, and don’t be afraid of doing the numbers or even asking the universe or your higher power for what you want. It will provide you with opportunities to help you make your desires a reality.
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During this episode, you will learn about:
[02:02] Introduction into the show
[02:02] Vangile intuition to go to Chiang Mai from Vietnam
[08:53] Meeting with Keidra and how this solved their retreat puzzle
[09:47] How going to Chiang Mai helped Vangile figure out how to negotiate her deals
[11:42] Listening to your inner voice and surrendering to it
[14:44] Personal finance; doing the numbers
[16:10] Being financially free and financing your dream life
[19:34] Creating a concrete plan and taking control of your finances
[21:54] Weekly goal setting worksheets; run the numbers
[23:38] Be vulnerable enough with yourself to know what you want
[24:00] Ending the show and call to actions
Notable Quotes * Personal finance is very holistic, and we take a holistic approach to it. * Being debt-free doesn't mean being financially free * Being financially free means that even when you don't work, you’re still making an income * There are so many ways for you to reach your goals, but you can't reach a goal that you don't know you are trying to reach * Knowing what you want is the first step to asking for more and doing the practical side of things.
Let’s Connect Vangile Makwakwa Website: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
LinkedIn: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
Instagram: https://www.linkedin.com/in/vangilemakwakwa/
In this week’s podcast episode I do a live class talking about how to use your resources to create a consistent stream of income.
Misalignment with your core values might be causing havoc in everything you do in your life. You might be making money, but what about your well being, health and relationships? The further we go out of our alignment, the more our lives tend to suffer. Spending and creating income that is in alignment with our values and our resources is what creates ease.
Your values are your guiding light, and they are the key not just to how you spend money but also to how you make money.
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During this episode, you will learn about: [02:03] Introduction into the show
[05:48] Today’s topic: increasing your income at ease
[06:57] Lessons from Jane’s story and her desire to increase her income
[08:51] Anchoring and aligning yourself in your core values
[11:57] Building your relationships and support system
[12:30] Vangile experience looking for a constant paycheck
[17:06] The irony; how abiding by her values enabled her to make a living
[20:34] The misconceptions that we have around burnout In our current lifestyles
[21:10] Spending and creating income that is in alignment with our values
[22:45] Unlock your inner wisdom with the wealthy money magic courses
[25:30] Ending the show and call to action
Notable Quotes * Your values are your guiding light when everything goes haywire * Your values are the key not just to how you spend money but also to how you make money. * When something is in alignment with your values, it is easy to understand your WHY * Burnout comes from doing something that is not in alignment with your soul, as your spirit has to do so much work to keep you going.
Let’s Connect Vangile Makwakwa Website: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching
LinkedIn: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
Instagram: https://www.linkedin.com/in/vangilemakwakwa/
Healing isn't always sexy. It’s about going to the dark spaces within ourselves and being able to sit with them, accept them and find peace with them.
Positive affirmations might work for some people, but with unhealed trauma, they are likely to do more harm than good. Healing from trauma is key. It will allow you to be fully present and focused at the moment, and this is when the true magic happens. Unresolved trauma can keep us in a trauma loop, which can prevent us from seeing the opportunities around us.
This week's episode is from a live class I did a few months ago. In this episode I share what you need to know about positive affirmation vs healing. If you have been feeling like you can't manifest or affirmations and vision boards don't work for you, then this episode may help shed light on what's happening.
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During this episode, you will learn about:
[00:14] Introduction into the show
[04:39] Today’s topic: Positive thinking vs healing
[05:42] Why positive affirmations might not work for you
[06:41] Generational trauma and why we need to address and resolve it
[09:48] Holding space for yourself and giving way to healing
[14:51] Breaking the emotional attachment to see the pain differently
[17:33] Soul retrieval work, and being aware of the triggers
[19:12] The beauty of inner healing and the magic that happens
[22:51] Letting go and tapping into your inner wisdom
[26:47] When the affirmations and visualizations work better
[28:45] Resources now available on YouTube and Facebook for you
[29:44] Ending the show and call to actions
Notable Quotes
- Acknowledging and healing your trauma is what lightens the burden so you can focus on future goals.
- True magic happens when you are fully present and focused on the present.
- The deeper the trauma, the less likely the affirmations are going to work, and they can do more damage than good
- Our unresolved trauma keeps us in a trauma loop, which can prevent us from seeing opportunities around us.
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Vangile Makwakwa
Website: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
LinkedIn: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa
Instagram: https://www.linkedin.com/in/vangilemakwakwa
In this week’s episode of the #MoneyMagic podcast, I talk about why budgets don't work.
If you’re unable to minimize your spending despite doing everything that budgeting calls for, it’s not your fault, and you’re not alone. The truth is that budgets don’t work for most people and yet we keep getting taught to budget and when we fail to stick to a budget we feel ashamed, like there’s something wrong with us.
We're taught that we need self-discipline even when we know that it’s not working for us. Self-discipline and budgeting are all about willpower, and will power is a limited resource. We all get tired of constantly making decisions in a budgeting culture, and when this happens, our willpower runs dry. Your willpower is like a gatekeeper. Every time you’ve to stop yourself from spending physically, your willpower and decision faculties are eroded, resulting in financial decision-making fatigue.
Join the conversation with me, your host Vangile Makwakwa as I share a live class, “Why budgeting doesn’t work.”
I have been there, tried budgeting (in different countries) to improve my money spending habits and later got into a “give up game” to improve my finances and pay off my debts with no success. This never worked out for me despite depriving myself and giving up my favorite foods, restaurants, and transport to save more money. Instead, things were getting worse. Find out what works in changing spending habits and the alternative to a traditional budget.
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During this episode, you will learn about; [02:03] Introduction into the episode
[04:39] Today’s topic: Why budget doesn’t work
[05:02] “You don’t have a problem in budgeting” My money habits in different countries
[09:20] “Giving up game” How I tried budgeting to pay off her debts
[16:23] What I did after discovering budgeting was not working
[19:30] Behavioral economics: Decision financial fatigue and willpower erosion
[26:44] Developing your capacity to use willpower by shifting your mindset
[28:40] How trauma eats away our will power, especially when we’re triggered
[29:42] Self-deprivation: A budget is not about self-denial
[36:54] Honoring your wants and doing the inner healing work
[40:47] Letting go of what you’ve been taught about money
[45:43] Bleeding money and how we get triggered
[49:19] What happens when your younger self hijack you in your finances
[51:12] Carrying trauma in the body and how if affects us
[54:11] Bank account challenge; Working with the body to integrate trauma in spending.
[59:56] How to access and register for the bank account challenge
[01:01:39] Answering questions from the #MoneyMagic viewers
[01:12:05] Ending the show and what to expect in the next Live show
Notable Quotes * We are taught that we need self-discipline even when we know that budgets don’t work * We’re human, and all sorts of things will interfere with rationality, and we won’t always behave logically * There is trauma in constantly denying your needs and being logical, and trauma erases our gut instinct * Our money set points are directly linked with the vows that we make to our parents
Let’s Connect Vangile Makwakwa Website: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching
LinkedIn: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
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This week on the #MoneyMagic I talk to LiSara (Formerly Lisa Dennen-Young), an anti-racist Leadership and Life coach, musician, and host of Music Medicine Membership. Lisa’s mission is to support the elevation of voices that have been unheard and to support the use of expression as a vehicle of healing, growth, liberation, and collective empowerment.
LiSara was a forensic linguistic interpreter in legal systems, but listening and trusting her own gifts and being willing to shed the identities that held her in linguistic work is what led to her new identity. She started as a love and relation coach and stepped out of smaller boxes to get to where she is today. In this podcast, she explains why stepping into your highest calling and saying yes is allowing yourself to do the things that you never thought you were supposed to do. And this is power!
In the podcast we discuss why when you’re creating, you’re in your place of power, and you’re tapping into universal creation. You’re a manifester, and creating allows you to see how powerful you are, not because you have an expectation but because you’re letting something come out of you. Birthing a new idea on how you are going to meet your money goals and heal ancestral-held trauma is what positions you in power and gives you a new identity.
This is another incredible episode.
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During this episode, you will learn about: [04:30] LiSara’s career backstory and what she does in the coaching space
[09:56] Identity: the idea behind LiSara's mastermind coaching program
[18:58] Acknowledging the impact of systems and holding space for others
[22:15] LiSara’s transition from linguistic interpreter to being a coach
[29:58] Getting into your place of power and shifting your identity
[33:56] Letting go of struggle identities and connecting with an abundance identity
[40:23] Shifting your identity and inviting people in your circles in your new life
[46:47] Holding your expansion and living in your truth
[47:31] Systemic victimization; internalizing your identity from a disempowering point
[52:02] Pendulum shift; finding a balance between receiving and creating for yourself
[01:01:35] The sense of competition around the token spot
[01:05:05] The phrase: Love is not enough and how it played in LiSara's marriage
[01:09:03] Shifting your beliefs around money to receive more
[01:13:05] Living from your gifts and trusting your intuition
[01:22:38] How to reach out, connect and work with LiSara
Notable Quotes
- We don’t shift ourselves because of people around us but because of what is within us.
- Belonging is being a part of, and being a part is being or acting similar to others.
- In a system that is oppressive, identity is what gets marginalized
- If you’re asking for support, there is nothing wrong with you, and you are not failing
- Living from your gift means trusting your intuition and inner energetic awareness
Connect With Us LiSara Website: https://www.lisadennenyoung.com/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lisara/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisaraofficial
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisaraofficial/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/LisaMarie1005
Vangile Makwakwa Website: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
LinkedIn: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
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This week I talked to Tsitsi Mutiti, an investment manager and a certified financial coach based in the UK. Tsitsi has been in the financial industry for over 13 years since she moved to the UK from Zimbabwe. She started as a secretary and worked her way up to where she is today. Tsitsi got into coaching because she felt there was a gap between high and low niche wealth individuals that she served despite the financial industry having so much to offer.
In this podcast, we chat about how money habits are all about our mindset around money. Trauma makes you forget about your magic and yourself. Understanding your past about money will help you know how you impact your relationship with money. Money is just a tool, you’re in complete control, and you can point it to whatever you want it to achieve. You can rewrite your money story, become the author of your financial story, don’t let other people write it for you.
Tsitsi shares how she got into massive debt in the UK; creating a lifestyle that the world told her she should have. However, once she focused on spending money in alignment with her values, the money started flowing. This enabled her to consolidate and pay off her debt in one and a half years instead of six years. Tsitsi is debt-free, and she has been helping people get out of debt and expand their money over the years.
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During this episode, you will learn about; [03:26] Tsitsi’s career backstory and how she got into the financial industry
[06:07] Tsitsi’s coaching and what she offers in the financial space
[11:41] Money traumas that come with how we’re represented
[16:59] Becoming a designer of your financial future
[18:25] Tsitsi seven steps financial blueprint that she uses in financial coaching
[20:52] Tsitsi money journey and her first encounter with money at 17 years
[25:32] How Tsitsi got herself in massive debt in the UK
[31:14] How Tsitsi became debt-free in 11/2 years instead of six years
[34:37] The blueprint that helped Tsitsi get out of debts, CHOICES
[39:02] Understanding your money habits and mindset
[42:52] Evaluating your spending plan and aligning it with your values
[50:13] How Tsitsi discovered her money traumas and what has changed
[56:48] Going through breakdown to get to your money breakthrough
[57:50] Three life lessons that Tsitsi learned from healing from money trauma
[61:24] A simple exercise to add to your daily routine of financial wellness
[64:17] How to work with Tsitsi and build your wealth oversees
Notable Quotes * Money habits are all about our mindset around money. * No matter how much you cut back, you can’t get wealthy; it’s all about mindset. * When you start spending your money on things that align with what you want, it expands. * You’ve to be willing to go through the breakdown to get to the breakthrough. * Money trauma isn’t about our parents or us; it goes back to many millennials. * It’s our responsibility to break the cycle by learning and passing knowledge to the next generation.
Connect With Us Tsitsi Mutiti LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tsitsi-mutiti-chartered-fcsi/?originalSubdomain=uk
Twitter: https://twitter.com/tsitsimutiti
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tsitsitandiwe/?hl=en
Vangile Makwakwa Website: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching
LinkedIn: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
Instagram: https://www.linkedin.com/in/vangilemakwakwa/
In this week’s episode of the #MoneyMagic Podcast, I share a live class on how I created an extra stream of income.
Healing from money traumas is the key to tapping into the ancestral money wisdom. It will make it easier to pivot and develop strategies that are in alignment with who you are and where you want to go. Your life lifestyle matters and the lifestyle you want to live will determine your business model and business strategies.
Today's episode is taken from a live class I did on my Free & Day Tapping Into Ancestral Money Wisdom Training on unlocking ancestral money wisdom, self-awareness, money goals, and how you can build a business model and negotiate for jobs that align with your lifestyle.
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During this episode, you will learn about; [02:58] What in for you in today’s episode
[05:45] The blueprint to unlocking ancestral wisdom to create consistent income
[09:00] Understanding your Vision and income goals
[09:14] Understanding your lifestyle and your time constrains
[15:23] How I used my lifestyle to inform my business model and job negotiations
[23:52] How I used my job and side hustles to pay off my debts
[34:35] Why you should keep your job while building your business
[37:12] Doing inner work and taking action place from a place of alignment
[47:55] Paying off debt and increasing your savings
[51:58] Ending the show and call to action
Notable Quotes * Your lifestyle will inform your business model and job negotiations * You can build a business that allows you to enjoy life and make money * Doing inner work will give you clarity in what you’re doing
Connect With Me Website: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
LinkedIn: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
Instagram: https://www.linkedin.com/in/vangilemakwakwa/
This week in the #MoneyMagic I talked to Lesego Lekwakwe, head of customer relations and a hairdresser. To Lesego, hairdressing is both a gift and a business that has given her an edge in life. She started plaiting hair when she was ten years old, and the fire is still on even after acquiring a degree and masters.
In this podcast Lesego explains that money is not just a mode of exchange, it also carries energy that takes the form of who you are. Your currency is in the emotion. Your trauma and emotions that govern money determine your energy around money. A negative attitude will make money distance itself from you. Just like you, money also wants to be loved and adored to create a positive impact.
Lesego explains how taking the course has allowed her to change her definition of money. At first, she thought she knew everything about money, but she discovered she had trouble with her bank account, spending and pricing her services. The course taught her how to value her gifts and business to connect with clients at her energy level. Lesego has also mastered the habit of paying herself first and spending in alignment with her values.
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During this episode, you will learn about: [03:30] Lesego’s career backstory
[04:33] Lesego’s description and definition of money
[07:44] Charging your services to connect with clients at your energy level
[17:12] When Lesego realised she wasn’t good with money
[23:27] Valuing your gift and business
[28:13] How money magic has helped her to shift her mindset
[31:17] How healing money trauma has shifted Lesego’s relationships
[37:36] Spending money in alignment with your values and how Lesego mastered it
[39:47] Paying yourself fast and being okay with money staying in your account
[42:37] Lessons that were very valuable to Lesego in her healing journey
[48:38] Lesego’s work shifts as a result of inner healing
[57:17] Appreciating money and developing positive energy around money
[61:56] The meaning of inner child meditation and how it works
[64:44] How to reach out and connect with Lesego
[66:56] The importance of the money magic course and how it is impacting people lives
Notable Quotes
- Money is an energy that takes the form of who you are
- Start your business with the end in the mind
- Setting boundaries changes the way you do things
- Spend money in alignment with your values
- When you do the inner work, you feel lighter
- Money takes the form of who you are, and so does your business
Connect With Us Lesego Lekwakwe Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lesegos.lekwakwe
Vangile Makwakwa Website: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
LinkedIn: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
Instagram: https://www.linkedin.com/in/vangilemakwakwa/
This week in the #MoneyMagic Podcast, I talk to Jawana Marshall, a mom, yogi, and the founder of Brown Girl Yoga Tribe. Jawana fell in love with yoga at 18 after her father died. Her first experience was backed by competition and experimenting on how flexible she was. The second time she did it, her purpose was different, and she was very intentional. For her, yoga embodied the person she wanted to be, loving and peaceful.
Yoga is not about what you’re doing with your body. It’s about finding your space from the inside. Finding stillness beyond your thoughts, movements, and whatever is happening around you. This is the heart of yoga, and being able to find peace and calmness over and over again is what will help you find your healing.
We usually have different layers of emotional trauma. Everything starts in the casual body, then in the astral body, emotional body, and mental body before manifesting in the physical body.
Yoga is a gentle journey, and it will help you peel off the layers and heal. For Jawana, it has given her priceless calm feeling no matter what is happening around her. She was in a mess, but yoga created a space for breakthroughs and to be authentically happy while pushing beyond those boundaries energetically.
This is another incredible episode.
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During this episode, you will learn about; [03:35] Jawana’s first attempt at yoga and why she left
[10:09] Jawana’s second attempt and how this was different from the first one
[16:26] The heart of yoga and learning how to evolve it
[17:05] Why Jawana started the Brown Girl Yoga Tribe
[25:10] COVID-19, 2021 online breakthrough and the losses that came about
[28:21] The importance of creating a space for brown women to grow together
[32:12] Immediate and long-term shifts that Jawana experienced after starting Yoga
[41:00] Layers of emotional trauma and how yoga can help peel them off gently to heal
[43:13] Yoga healing journey and how it impacts our relationships
[46:35] Surrendering energetically internally for external manifestation
[49:04] Establishing boundaries between money, business, and friendship
[54:23] Handling urgency through to yoga
[57:27] How yoga has shifted Jawana’s perception around money
[59:16] Knowing your worth and asking for miracles daily
[60:58] Jawana’s retreat centre and how everything started
Notable Quotes
- The heart of yoga is coming back and finding peace over and over again
- When there’s recognition, there is a certain level of healing that takes place
- When we’re comfortable, we’re walking magic
- Yoga is a gentle journey to healing
- Yoga will allow you to see energy for what it is
Connect With Us Jawana Marshall LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jawana-marshall-11b98640/
Facebook: https://web.facebook.com/groups/291134118873708/?_rdc=1&_rdr
Vangile Makwakwa Website: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
LinkedIn: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
Instagram: https://www.linkedin.com/in/vangilemakwakwa/
This week in the #MoneyMagic Podcast I talk to Lungile Ngubane, a fitness trainer and accountability partner. Lungi helps women achieve their fitness goals using their feminine cycle. Her mission is to create a safe space for all her clients based on their individual experiences to help them heal their emotional trauma and reach their goals.
The question, where are you and how are you feeling is not asked enough in the fitness space. This is because we tend to focus on the big numbers and how we can achieve them in a short time which makes training physically and emotionally draining. Different exercises do different work for us, and as women we respond differently to exercise every day. This is why we need to practice self-compassion. In this podcast we talk about giving ourselves five minutes of courage and what that means.
So many of us quit the gym and don’t like exercising because we think it’s difficult. Exercising is not difficult, but it will force you to go into your body and feel the things that are stored there, which can be uncomfortable. Working with our bodies can help us process pain from our trauma, which can help us heal.
Lungi also explains why there’s nothing wrong with getting emotional and that it’s a sign that something happened to you, and what happened to you is key in creating a safe space for healing and exercising.
This is a great episode to help you understand how to do difficult things.
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During this episode, you will learn about: [03:38] Meet today’s guest, Lungile Ngubane
[08:41] Embracing gentle factors when doing something physically and emotionally draining
[10:56] Vangile experience with inner masculine and inner feminine training
[13:28] The importance of doing emotional checkout when working with the body
[16:07] Emotional responses that can result during the training and how to handle it
[17:15] Going inward and processing anger and pain from your trauma
[21:39] The importance of breath works when you’re handling a difficult situation
[25:14] Aha moments that comes with going inward and feeling your body during a workout
[30:53] The meaning and importance of giving yourself five minutes of courage
[38:25] How Lungile creates a safe environment for all her clients
[40:41] Vangile experience working with Lungile as her trainer and accountability partner
[47:18] Lessons from Lungile on training in different seasons and resistance to online training
[54:23] Simples exercises and routine practices to incorporate in your workout sessions
[57:12] How to be part of Lungile virtual and physical training sessions
[01:01:21] How to reach out and connect with Lungile
[01:01:52] Episode wrap up and call to action
Notable Quotes * Feelings and emotions don’t just come from nowhere; it’s important to do an emotional check-in * Different exercises do different work for us * Breathing is like a reset button; it changes the tone of everything * Exercising is not difficult, but it will force you to go inward and feel the things stored in your body * Seasons are there, and there’s no surprise, but we don’t stop
Connect With Us Lungile Ngubane Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lungile.ngubane3
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lungilered/
Vangile Makwakwa Website: https://www.wealthy-money.com/coaching
LinkedIn: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
Instagram: https://www.linkedin.com/in/vangilemakwakwa/
This week I talked to Tabita Ntuli, a social worker and a specialist in community development. Tabita focuses on helping civil societies and communities in South Africa to navigate easy response and change. Tabita is passionate about society’s moral structures, the norms, the culture, and the state of affairs, especially when it comes to young women.
Money is power, and it lays the basis for negotiation. Money has the power to take you to places you want to go and become what you want to in life. It can also buy you respect that you have not earned and a seat at a table that you don’t deserve.
Doing the #MoneyMagic course has helped Tabita to understand, accept, and fix her impulsive buying habit, which she developed from a young age. The course has also changed her relationship with her money. This has enabled her to discuss financial matters with her family and open up about her expenses. Before the course, she was dishonest, but now she is happy with her wardrobe and at peace with her finances.
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During this episode, you will learn about; [03:30] Tabita’s backstory and experience working in AIDS and COVID medication system
[13:09] Accepting our own humanity, vulnerability, and mortality
[17:35] The trauma and constant lack of trust in the medication system
[29:31] The importance of self-preservation in dealing with trauma during the pandemic
[37:27] Tabita definition of money and what it means to her
[40:47] Tabita grandfather and how he influenced her money spirit
[42:24] When Tabita realised that money was more than budgeting and spending less
[58:54] What attracted Tabita to Money magic videos in her quest
[01:04:22] How Tabita found about the money magic course and enrolled
[01:09:11] The intensity and the realisation that comes with the course
[01: 71:18] Some of the shifts Tabita made around her finances, and income saving
[01:17:47] The black girls can mentality and socialisation monetarily
[01:19:22] Three meditation lessons from the course that have impacted Tabita life
[01:20:36] How the magic happens when the feelings get found in the body
[01:24:37] Tabita experience with the money magic course
[01:27:48] How to reach and connect with Tabita
Notable Quotes * Money is power, and it lays the basis for negotiation even for your life * Our feelings want to be found, but it’s so uncomfortable to feel them * It’s one thing to feel the feeling intellectually, and it is another thing to feel it in the body.
Connect With Us Tabita Ntuli LinkedIn:https://www.linkedin.com/in/tabita-ntuli-79417a66/?
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/tabita.mahlangenintuli
Vangile Makwakwa Website: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
LinkedIn: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
Instagram: https://www.linkedin.com/in/vangilemakwakwa/
This week I talked to Lisa Kuzman, a leadership coach in the business space. Lisa works with coaches to teach them how to be trauma-sensitive. She also offers trauma-sensitive business and leadership coaching to business owners with a history of trauma. Lisa is a trauma survivor and former social worker and she has worked with different administrations which she says are the root of her passion for trauma coaching
When you have a very big emotional reaction to things that are out of context, that is a signal that you're probably experiencing trauma that you’re not aware of. You can’t prevent trauma triggers from occurring and it’s important to be aware and learn how your unique trauma presents and the unique needs you’ve in those moments. You can do some healing and it can shift your response but you’ve to attend to yourself with self-love and kindness in every situation.
Join the conversation with Lisa as she shares her trauma history, healing journey and how she got into trauma-sensitive coaching space. Healing from trauma was transformational for Lisa, it helped her to shift from not making money, working 60 hours a week, and the fear of raising her rate not to abandon people to making a sustainable living, embodying self-love, self-trust and self-confidence in a balanced way, being transparency about her traumas and attending to her needs with self-compassion.
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Last week on the Money Magic Podcast, I did a class on the fear of invoicing people and the fear of asking people to pay us. In this week’s podcast episode I am sharing a live class I did a while back on pricing in the #MoneyMagic student group.
Most times we’re scared to invoice people because we’re scared they won’t pay us because our prices are too high.
In this class I share why this is simple not true and why it’s not about the money.
Pricing is NOT the reason people don't buy; I have had people drop their jaws when they hear my price for my coaching and courses. To them it's too low.
And other people freak out that it's too high.
There’s a market for you, no matter what your pricing looks like. In fact there is a danger in under pricing.
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PS: If this is resonating with you and are ready to start changing your finances, fully step into your power and start creating magic by tapping into your ancestral wisdom, then I have great news for you: I have created a Money Journal that you will love, you can learn more about the journal at this link: wealthy-money.com/journal
The fear of asking for money is a traumatic response from negative experiences with money. It can affect your behaviours around money, business revenue and your ability to negotiate for money.
Society has told us that it’s wrong to want money, and most of us undercharge our services because we fear being rejected and talking about money, which creates burnout at some point.
Pricing your services right will help you shift how you show up in a whole different way, which mean more to your clients and business. But how can you feel safe and at ease when pricing your products, sending invoices and asking for money, Join the conversation with your host Vangile Makwakwa as she shares a live class “tapping into ancestral money wisdom training” day four training on pricing.
To help you understand how money traumas affect your behaviours around pricing and how you can get over it and heal. Unlocking the ancestral wisdom has helped her pay off $60,000 in debts, buy properties and launch and grow her company Wealthy Money in a six-figure (US dollars) business as she travel and live in different countries all over the globe.
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During this episode, you will learn about:
[00:14] Introduction into the episode
[02:28] What’s in for you in today’s episode
[05:19] The trauma around pricing and asking for money
[10:39] Caring about your passion and charging your worth
[12:38] Negotiating for money and getting paid enough for what we do
[18:10] Pricing your services and charging your worth
[22:32] Inching up your price slowly until you’re comfortable while doing the work
[24:21] Why people want to first experience you before paying a higher price
[27:44] Day 4’s meditation: Breathwork around the belief that it’s not safe to have money
[28:52] Why we don’t start with affirmation around deep issues around money safety
[33:58] Why affirmation work for some people and not for others
[37:59] Digging into the ancestral money traumas blocking you from pricing through meditation
[41:33] The practical side of meditation and how to measure if it’s working
[45:55] Call to action and ending the episode
Notable Quotes
Pricing your services right will help you shift how you show for your clients.
The role of the mind is to keep us alive, and if it associates asking for money with danger, it could eventually lead to death.
The more you’re able to sustain yourself in what brings you fulfilment, the more you continue to do it.
Danger equals possible death.
When we force the mind to accept a reality we don’t believe in, it will fight us more.
Only you can know the truth of your situation.
In this week’s #MoneyMagic Podcast episode I talk to Claire Phutieagae, the founder of Tshiamelo Inclusive Education Center (TIEC), an inclusive school for children with and without learning barriers.
Claire is also a community Liaison officer for a solar company, and she specialises in community development projects.
She has worked in education for 13 years, and that’s what inspired her schooling system to bring change. She’s also a healer, and she loves working with people to help them expand and transform into their best version.
In this podcast episode, Claire stresses that money is energy, and how you treat it is the way it will give back to you.
Money is also an empowering tool, and it has enabled her to expand and achieve her dreams. Healing from money trauma allows you not just to work with your brain but also with your whole body.
When the two agree, it’s time to move forward and expand.
In this episode Claire explains that taking the course helped her get in touch with her inner child, achieve goals in life, and change her relationship with money.
She shares how healing her money trauma, helped her change the way she and her husband talk about money and helped her open up about her finances, which changed the dynamic of their relationship when it comes to money.
She was always the toxic one when it came to money. But the healing has allowed her to deal with money honestly and comfortably, clear all her debts, buy the plot where the school is, do the things she had always wanted to without worrying about where the money would come from and understand her finances well.
This is another incredible episode. Click play to listen and leave us a comment in the comments section below.
During this episode, you will learn about: [03:57] Claire’s career background
[06:44] Changing the world through inclusivity
[08:17] The benefits of inclusive learning in skills development
[12:21] Claire’s definition of money and what money mean to her
[14:52] When Claire discovered that relationship with money was more than budgeting
[23:24] The Wealthy Money lesson that shifted Claire towards her healing
[28:16] Breaking the vows on different ancestral planes
[32:56] Going through the releasing process and healing from trauma
[35:06] Why crying is healing
[39:15] Period days and what they are critical to every woman
[44:38] Claire new definition for trauma and ancestral trauma since she started the course
[52:46] How the #MoneyMagic course helped Claire get in touch with her inner child and heal from money trauma
[01:03:25] Making money while working with the mind and body in harmony
[01:06:28] How Claire healing has changed her life and perspectives around money
Notable Quotes: * Making the world better through separation will not work; inclusivity is the key. * Money is an energy, and how you treat it is the way it will give back. * Trauma begets more trauma. * It’s okay not to be okay; it’s okay to be in touch with the feminine side. * Understanding the whys is a part of the healing process.
Connect With Us: Claire Phutieagae LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/claire-golebamang-phutieagae-
Facebook: https://web.facebook.com/claire.phutieagae?_
Vangile Makwakwa Website: https://www.wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
LinkedIn: https://www.instagram.com/vangilemakwakwa/
Instagram: https://www.linkedin.com/in/vangilemakwakwa/
PS: If this is resonating with you and are ready to start changing your finances, fully step into your power and start creating magic by tapping into your ancestral wisdom, then I have great news for you: I have created a Money Journal that you will love, you can learn more about the journal at this link: wealthy-money.com/journal
In this week’s podcast, I talk to Lettia Moroke, a telecommunication specialist at Regulatory Icasa (The Independent Communication Authorities of South Africa).
Lettia specialises in Mobile network performance across the network. After working for a number of years, Lettia foresaw herself taking the same path as her father.
He worked hard for many years but didn’t have anything tangible to show. She wanted something different, and becoming aware of whys and building her money story was the right path.
We’re all wounded, and we need different attention to heal. Your relationship with money is a journey, and you need healing to achieve financial freedom. If you want more money, the answer is not limiting. It’s expansion and channelling.
Money is energy and a ticket to convenience, and when you’ve it, you can buy yourself the convenience you desire.
In the podcast she shares how taking the course has allowed her to shift from her fixed academic perspective to developing a healthy relationship with money.
She has fallen in love with her bank account, which has given her control over her finances. Financial Freedom! Lettia has shifted her life from limiting to expansion, becoming aware of her investment and where to channel resources for growth.
This is another incredible episode. Click play to listen and leave us a comment in the comments section below.
During this episode, you will learn about:
[03:30] Lettia’s career backstory
[06:18] Lettia’s description and definition of money
[09:00] When Lettia realised money was more than budgeting and numbers
[14:42] Lettia’s experience before starting her journey with wealth money course
[19:45] Letta’s aha moments while doing the money course
[25:05] Vangile “The host” aha moments of self-discovery after college
[27:21] Supporting the young generation in their passion
[31:33] Letta’s definition of ancestral trauma in relationship to money
[41:21] Growing your relationship with the ancestors
[43:10] How Lettia’s relationship with money changed after taking the course
[48:38] How Lettia’s spending has transformed
[52:48] Lettia’s income and investments shift as a result of the money course
[59:45] The lessons that had the most profound impact
Notable Quotes: * Money is an energy that can be exchanged. * Relationship with money is a journey. * It’s okay to be scared when choosing your passion. * If you want more money, you need to focus on expansion.
Contact Lettia: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lettia.kharoli
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lettiakharoli/
PS: If this is resonating with you and are ready to start changing your finances, fully step into your power and start creating magic by tapping into your ancestral wisdom, then I have great news for you: I have created a Money Journal that you will love, you can learn more about the journal at this link: wealthy-money.com/journal
In this week’s episode of the #MoneyMagic Podcast, I sit down to talk to my friend and accountability partner, Agnes Zausz, an Intimacy and Embodiment Coach, about her healing journey.
Agnes is curious, open, playful and believes in flirting with life; she weaves and dances with incorporating sensuality, embodiment, being present with everything that is around her.
She has worked as an entrepreneur since 2014 and has started businesses that thrived, events that were sold out, retreats that were deep and transformational and have worked with women all around the world, curated experiences that bring the teachings into life.
In this podcast, we talk about getting turned on by life - how to flirt and play with life and fully immerse yourself in all that you take on.
We talk about why healing is crucial to being fully present with life and enjoying the process.
Trauma blocks us and numbs us from feeling into our bodies and receiving, so in this podcast, Agnes also shares some simple exercises we can do in order to start receiving more from life/universe.
She explains that to her money means freedom, it means choice, it means impact, it means the ability to show up bigger and have more space to exist, taking in all that life has to offer.
It means generosity, it means the ability to breathe with ease knowing I am taken care of by an energy that is vibrating around us always.
This is another incredible episode. Click play below to listen and please share far and wide.
Timestamps:
[00:00] How to get turned on by life and live from your full embodied and sensual self
[01:24] Introducing Agnes
[05:54] Why self-care is such an important part of the engine (body)
[13:06] Doing work around money
[21:12] What it means to be numbed out by your own positivity
[30:19] Being scared to go into the darkness of ourselves
[45:09] Moving with the elements of life and not being rigid
[55:10] Dating when you feel like you're an independent woman
[1:13:47] Restorative yoga classes
[1:24:42] Contact Agnes
Contact Agnes:
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/agnes.zausz
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the.flirt.queen/
If this is resonating with you and are ready to start changing your finances, fully step into your power and start creating magic by tapping into your ancestral wisdom, then I have great news for you: I have created a Money Journal that you will love, you can learn more about the journal at this link: wealthy-money.com/journal
In this week’s episode of the #MoneyMagic podcast, I chat to one of my clients - Reinier Smit, who is originally from the Netherlands and is currently based there, after living in South Africa for 10 years.
Reinier worked in South Africa and Europe as a Script Supervisor and a Director, his true passion is telling stories with images, which is how he ended up in the film industry.
In the podcast, he shares how he changed his career and started focusing on his own projects and making decisions based on his own instincts and wishes. He currently has several film projects in cinema and is working on others.
Reinier explains that he sees money as a tool to express your creativity, make your dreams real in the world, whilst also supporting others to do the same.
He explains that this was not always the case - he used to have a negative relationship with money because he always saw the lack of money as a block to reaching his goals and he always made his decisions based on money.
He always thought he needed to have a lot of money to make certain decisions and start creating and making movies, which held him up for a long time. So his bank account was great, but he was still being controlled by money and wasn’t living his best life.
Through the coaching, he realized it was not either/or - he could make money doing what he loves. He didn’t have to choose and he realized that the way you look at money, is the way you look at yourself.
We chat about the complexity of making money and having money in your bank account but not living a life of purpose. We also explore themes of surrender and finding joy in everyday things.
This is another jam-packed episode where Reinier takes us through his realisations about money, creativity, intuition and living in your purpose.
Click play to listen to this episode and leave us a comment below.
Timestamps:
[02:30] Introducing Reinier
[04:13] Who are you and what do you do?
[07:00] Defining money
[09:08] Having a negative relationship with money
[12:50] How to live your purpose and make money
[14:44] Helpful money insights for creatives
[19:55] Experience of past lives
[24:00] The difference between ancestral and past life trauma
[28:00] The sense of relief of healing trauma
[31:26] How has your definition of trauma changed
[37:39] The way you look at money is the way you look at yourself
[40:50] Three shifts on how your life has changed
[42:33] Not listening to your calling is more exhausting
[47:20] Enjoying the process of creating
[48:58] Trusting the process
[51:06] The joy of the process
[54:47] Finding joy in the mundane
[56:05] Forms of joy that last forever
[58:51] Falling in love with life
Contact Reinier:
Email: info@reiniersmit.com
Website: https://www.reiniersmit.com/
If this is resonating with you and are ready to start changing your finances, fully step into your power and start creating magic by tapping into your ancestral wisdom, then I have great news for you: I have created a Money Journal that you will love, you can learn more about the journal at this link: wealthy-money.com/journal
In this week’s podcast, I do a class explaining why the best laid financial plans go horribly wrong and why we have a hard time taking action on our financial goals.
To make our goals a reality we have to take action and execute our strategy.
But why is it that you can have a clear strategy, be excited about it, not be able to execute on said strategy and even sabotage yourself in the process?
The answer to that lies in our sub-personalities, in particular, the wounded parts of us; when we set an income goal, these parts of us work against us and block our progress in an effort to keep us safe.
The adult you at this moment really wants to increase their income and pay off debt, but the parts of you that are still wounded and stuck in the trauma around money, are trying to avoid money in an effort to survive and stay safe.
It is like driving with the accelerator and the brake at the same time.
The wounded parts (ancestral, childhood, teens or past life) don’t feel safe or feel ashamed or guilty or like they are betraying their family when they make their desired income goal so they block it or they get rid of that money as soon as they make it - they start to sabotage us and work against us in an effort to stay safe.
On the surface, it seems like self-sabotage, but it’s just parts of us trying to keep us safe.
So even when we know what practical steps to take to make the goal a reality, like maybe sending an invoice to a client or posting a sales post on social media, we find ourselves procrastinating or delaying or freaking out, so a 5-minute action, becomes a 5 hour or 5-day action.
Now imagine what magic we can create when those parts of us feel safe, and start to use that same energy, not to block money but receive money and to support us to create a consistent stream of income?
This episode may shed a lot of light for you, click play below to listen to this episode.
The magic is in the healing.
If you’re ready to fully step into your power and start creating magic by tapping into your ancestral wisdom, then I have great news for you: I have created a Money Journal that you will love, you can learn more about the journal at this link: wealthy-money.com/journal
Welcome back to another episode of the #MoneyMagic podcast.
Today I welcome Shazia Imam to the show to have a conversation about her life journey and how she grew from desiring a typical standard life of marriage, kids, and a white picket fence to breaking through to her true self.
Shazia is the daughter of two loving Indian parents, born and raised in the U.S. but brought up with traditional Indian values.
Growing up, Shazia followed a life path by the book; she excelled in school, got into a good university, graduated as an Engineer, got married, and had a beautiful son.
Yet, after a series of unfortunate events, Shazia lost it all - her son passed on and her husband left soon after. Shazia found herself alone for the first time, feeling like an empty vessel with suicidal ideation. But flowers always grow from the ashes.
During her most major life-altering events, Shazia discovered the power within herself, the power of connection, collaboration, and natural power – all geared towards femininity.
This resurgence of self gave her the inspiration she needed to come into her power and dive into the paradigm of the feminine. From this, her podcast Feminine and Fulfilled was born.
Shazia knew that she wanted to help women thrive, but she couldn’t do it with a podcast alone; she needed the skill to back it up. So, she took a chance and invested US$14,000 in a leadership retreat.
Having never spent this amount of money on herself, Shazia felt guilty but determined, and now being on the other side of that, Shazia discovered that life-changing events like these go beyond price.
Today Shazia is a successful life coach and podcaster; her vision to help women is laser-focused, and her relationship with the divine is unmatched!
This is another incredible episode, click play to listen and leave a comment below.
Timestamps:
[02:14] Bonus episode #2
[02:35] Introduction to Shazia Imam
[05:55] Feminine and Fulfilled
[08:29] Inspiration for the podcast
[10:25] Journey into life coaching
[15:50] Hitting rock bottom
[18:41] What does it mean to just be?
[22:22] Be who you are, don’t change who you are
[23:46] Surrender and acceptance
[32:10] Trust issues with the divine
[36:00] Catholic conditioning
[37:51] Seeing the divine as your friend
[45:20] Leadership retreat
[51:56] Feeling stuck and controlling the outcome
[54:45] Asking yourself “Will I regret not having done this?”
[59:01] Living life with integrity
Contact Shazia:
Feminine and Fulfilled podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/feminine-fulfilled/id1347262113
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ShaziaTLE
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thelifeengineer/
PS: Shazia interviewed me on her podcast - Feminine and Fulfilled. You can check out the episode, click here to listen to the podcast.
Welcome back to another episode of the #MoneyMagic podcast. Today I am joined by Manasi Kakade to discuss her work as a practical spiritual mentor for Bridgewalker visionaries. Bridgewalkers are analytical and critical thinkers that are fascinated by spirituality and are on this planet for a specific purpose.
Bridgewalkers are born to assist the ascension of our planet by collectively ushering in new social systems and structures rooted in love, kindness and equality of all souls.
Manasi graduated from university with an MBA and trained as an engineer. She leveraged her skills to teach women how to negotiate their salaries, helping them gain an additional 40% in some cases.
Yet, all the potential she could see in others, she was unable to see in herself. It wasn’t until her own client pointed out that her prices did not match what she should be charging, what her actual worth was. It was then that Manasi realized that her money mindset was not aligned.
Her husband, for example, viewed money as something to play with and a lot to come to you. He was able to manifest money with ease by asking for increased expenses because with higher expenses comes higher salaries and the ability to enjoy your money.
Manasi had lived her whole life afraid of spending money, she would hoard it, and as a result, money had control over her and not the other way around.
Now, as a seasoned spiritual mentor and expert in money mindset, Manasi is able to teach her students how to coexist with both the physical and spiritual necessities that will allow them to ascend with grace into their next chapter in life!
We also cover the chakra system and Manasi shares with podcast listeners how to get access to her free chakra course.
This is another incredible episode, click play to listen and share your thoughts in the comments below.
Timestamps:
[02:11] Bonus episode
[03:00] Introduction to Manasi Kakade
[04:04] Background on Manasi
[08:22] Coexist between spiritual and physical
[09:58] Systems and structures
[11:48] Earth is like a school
[14:00] Trained as an engineer
[17:05] Teaching women how to negotiate their salaries
[18:51] Money Mindset
[20:33] Increasing expenses
[26:56] Getting caught up in what we “should” do
[31:30] The coaching/healing industry
[38:47] Living life manipulated
[41:30] Develop conviction in your own work
[44:14] Healing work for burnout
[53:00] Liberating who you are
[54:00] How has your healing journey changed the way you feel about money?
[57:38] Never feeling safe no matter the income
Contact Manasi: Website: https://www.manasikakade.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/manasi.kakade
One becomes an entrepreneur by doing, and often by doing the uncomfortable and scary ish like selling, asking people who owe you money to pay you, charging the prices you want, hiring others...
That uncomfortable stuff, is where the inner work makes the biggest difference, when we do the work, it gets easier to take action consistently and scale our businesses.
If you feel ready to start working on your business and creating a consistent stream of income of R40,000/US$2,500 or more per month, then check out and register for the #MoneyMagic course here: wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
I will open up the course for registration soon, only for people on that list.
In this week’s podcast, I sit down to talk to Zandile Mazwayi, a voice-over artist and #MoneyMagic student, who defines herself as a manifestor of note because of how fast she is birthing things.
She explains that she is on this earth to be about ease and flow, the kind of ease and flow that her ancestors (whose names she knows) never got an opportunity to live and embody.
Zandile shares a story about how, when she was 6 months old, her great grandmother requested her white towel nappy just before she drew her last breath and how she passed on with this nappy in her hand. In later years, Zandile realized that this was her grandmother’s towel of surrender from all the hardship and struggle.
So she is about the ease and flow that that white flag represents.
Zandile starts off the interview by sharing how when she started doing the inner work, she discovered herself, and how that freaked her out and she started to run away from herself and ran away from me interviewing her.
She explains how she realized that when she keeps thinking she will only “be good enough when…” she robs herself of celebration and the opportunity to share what she has learned with those around her, which then keeps all of us stuck.
Zandile started to understand that there was more to money than just budgeting when she started working and always found herself without money. She knew there was something wrong, but she didn’t know how to fix it.
Zanadile shares how since starting the #MoneyMagic course, she’s been able to unblock the flow of money in her life, increase her income, increase savings and pay off her car and also just sit with money in her bank account.
This is another jam-packed episode.
Click play to listen to this episode and leave me a comment in the comments section below.
Timestamps:
[02:47] Welcome Zandile
[04:02] I will be enough when...issues
[06:56] Who are you?
[09:00] White towel of surrender
[11:23] Being big on ease, rest and relaxation
[14:35] Money means access
[17:08] Being badly in debt
[23:32] Grandmother had made peace with where she was financially
[27:36] Writing letters to money
[30:01] Sitting with money in the bank account
[38:22] Carrying trauma from previous generations
[46:10] Breaking the vow of loyalty
[52:28] Shifts from doing the #MoneyMagic course
[58:09] Once you take care of yourself, money takes care of you
[1:03:48] Coaching is key
[1:07:04] Contact Zandile
Contact Zandile:
Email: agcobile@gmail.com
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/zandile.mazwayi
PS: If this is resonating with you and you’re done:
Feeling powerless and overwhelmed with money, especially with making money and increasing your income
Working hard but not seeing the financial results of your work
Then I invite you to check out the Money Magic course where I help women of colour create a consistent stream of income of R40,000/US$2,500 or more per month by tapping into their ancestral money wisdom.
You can register to get on the waiting list for the course at this link: wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
In this week’s podcast I am interviewing another #MoneyMagic student, Lerato Molisana, who is from Lesotho but is currently doing her MFA in creative writing in Arizona, USA.
Lerato joined the course after having a money exploration coaching session with me; she shares her experience of that session and how she started to understand why nothing was coming together when it came to making money.
In this podcast, we talk about how we often fracture our souls in order to survive the world and the importance of aligning your work or career with your soul’s mission and how going against our soul calling affects our emotional and mental state.
We instantly go deep in this podcast - Lerato shares how her relationship with money is changing by living in the US and using a different currency - the dollar.
Lerato share’s how she feels that the energy of money is more intense in the US vs the energy of money in South Africa and Lesotho and how she feels she can do more with the same amount of money in the USA than she could back home.
We explore how our relationship with money is influenced by the currency we use in a country and how currencies are influenced by the energies of the people who deal in that currency and how that influences how we perceive the buying power of money in every country.
I hope you enjoy this episode as much as we did recording it.
Click play to listen to this episode and leave a comment in the comments section below.
Timestamps:
[03:06] Introduction to Lerato
[06:17] What does money mean to you?
[09:56] The difference in the energy of money in the US vs South Africa and Lesotho
[12:47] The triggers and stories a currency carries
[20:23] Expectations when joining the Money Magic course
[23:09] When we don’t live our soul’s purpose
[28:36] Soul fracturing
[31:50] Feeling safe in the student group
[37:55] Past life regression
[43:50] Vow of service and quitting her job
[46:00] Income challenge and setting goals
[51:33] Spending money on self
[56:30] Unconventional money advice
[59:32] Increasing your receiving set point
Contact Lerato:
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lerato.molisana.3
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/leratomolisana/
PS: If this is resonating with you and you’re done:
Feeling powerless and overwhelmed with money, especially with making money and increasing your income
Working hard but not seeing the financial results of your work
Then I invite you to check out the Money Magic course where I help women of colour create a consistent stream of income of R40,000/US$2,500 or more per month by tapping into their ancestral money wisdom.
You can register to get on the waiting list for the course at this link: wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
Childbearing is one of the most magical things that can happen to a human body, but what often is not spoken about is the after-effects that occur both internally and externally.
For this episode of Money Magic, I speak with Casey Aksoy to discuss postpartum ailments and how to reconnect with your body after childbirth.
Casey is an embodiment and postpartum coach and founder of Postpartum Pussy Magic. Her mission is to reconnect the body in a sensual and sexual way by feeling whole and reclaiming your identity.
About 7 years ago, Casey found herself at a crossroads; she was depressed and felt unfulfilled in her life. She was jobless and feeling unworthy in her marriage because she wasn’t contributing financially.
Externally everything looked great, lavish vacations and 5-star hotels, but internally there was depression, disconnect from the body, and fear of an empty future with no purpose. The birth of her first son only amplified these feelings, but only in the dark did she find the light.
The birth of her son ignited her awakening. As she was healing from cesarean and postpartum preeclampsia, she accepted this moment as a turning point in her life.
Casey committed to injecting pleasure into her life, no matter how small. It began with simple embodiment exercises, like noticing your feet on the ground or embracing the sensations of a warm bath on your skin.
These first steps were the nudge she needed to begin to reconnect with her body. She was able to recognize the power she held when she wasn’t living only in her head.
Fast forward to now, Casey has made it her mission to help women of colour overcome their feelings of disconnect and have full embodiment through Postpartum Pussy Magic!
You are in for a treat, press play to learn more, and leave me a comment in the comments section below.
Timestamps:
[02:22] Introduction to Casey Aksoy
[06:12] What is embodiment?
[09:32] Working with disconnected clients
[10:21] Why is it important to be in your body?
[12:12] Choosing to live
[13:50] What to do next?
[16:30] Feeling unworthy in a relationship
[23:45] The importance of pleasure and healing our nervous system
[28:28] Injecting moments of pleasure
[33:13] Postpartum Pussy Magic
[40:35] Helping hands postpartum
[43:21] Connect with Casey
Contact Casey:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/wildsexyfree/
The magic is in the healing.
If you’re ready to fully step into your power and start creating magic by tapping into your ancestral wisdom, then I invite you to register for the #MoneyMagic course. In this course, I help women of colour create a consistent stream of income of R40,000/US$2,500 or more per month with ease.
You can enrol or get on the waiting list for the course at this link: wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
In this week’s #MoneyMagic podcast, I talk to Boitumelo (Tumi) Mofokeng to discuss how her relationship with money has changed since taking the Money Magic course. Tumi is a mother of two, with her most recent child being born in 2020, and on top of that, she is a rental property owner.
Before taking the course, Tumi's relationship with money was that of a distant lover, it would come, and just as quickly it would go.
She felt as if she constantly had to fight and prove that she deserved to have money while simultaneously focusing on just one aspect of money.
Tumi admits to only accepting money as a tangible item you work for, she would always be on the hunt for different and/or better jobs, but in the end, these jobs would result in the same pay with more responsibility.
Moreover, Tumi shares her anxiety whenever people ask her for money because it felt reminiscent of when her parents would lend their money only to be rewarded with betrayal and ungratefulness.
She shares the emotional shift she felt when she finally decided to love herself by setting boundaries and saying no.
She reinforced her love by sticking to those boundaries and choosing to respect herself. Tumi is no longer afraid of people rejecting her for saying no to lending money and admits that it now comes with ease, and as a result, money no longer feels like a distant lover - it now feels like close family.
If money was a lover, how would your relationship look like?
Click play below to listen to this episode and leave me a comment below.
Timestamps:
[02:55] Introduction to Tumi
[03:59] Background on Tumi
[04:44] What does money mean to you?
[06:23] Money story
[09:33] What do you wish you knew before starting your money journey?
[11:33] Expectations of the course
[15:38] People asking for money
[20:07] Setting boundaries and saying no
[27:17] Sacrificing in order to help
[30:31] How has your definition of trauma changed since doing the course?
[35:19] Changing as you begin to heal
[36:19] The emotional shift since starting the course
[37:49] Shifts seen in income
[46:26] God Wound meditation
[48:14] Finding time to do the work in a busy schedule
[52:00] Letting your subconscious heal
[53:24] Live classes for Money Magic
[56:48] Connect with Tumi
The magic is in the healing.
If you’re ready to fully step into your power and start creating magic by tapping into your ancestral wisdom, then I invite you to register for the #MoneyMagic course. In this course, I help women of colour create a consistent stream of income of R40,000/US$2,500 or more per month with ease. You can enrol or get on the waiting list for the course at this link: wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
Tapping into our ancestral money wisdom is easier said than done. In this episode of Money Magic, I talk about the first 2 meditations we do in the free 7 day Tapping into ancestral money wisdom training and talk about the insights and aha moments from that.
Observing your breathing and your body’s reaction when dealing with money can tell you a lot about your relationship with it.
In today’s episode, I respond to one of the women, in the training, whose breathing becomes heightened when getting cash, but not when receiving a deposit and what that physical response tells her about her ability to receive money.
Our money traumas are often tied to our childhood; they can stem from either watching money bring stress to our parent's lives or from never witnessing anyone in our family make a large income, which impacts our money set point and makes it difficult for us to open up to receiving more money.
To break the cycle is to break the vows made that prevent us from breaking through our money ceiling. From being scared of other people's disapproval to having survivors' guilt to even feeling responsible for everyone else as the main breadwinner, these scenarios are what keep us from getting to that next level.
Most of these behaviours are rooted in our vows of loyalty to our tribe - our family, friends and community.
Whether it is warranted or not, loyalty to our family makes it difficult for us to set up boundaries for ourselves.
So the real question is: how do we honour our past and our family whilst still being true to ourselves and giving ourselves permission to expand?
Click play to listen to this episode.
Timestamps:
[02:14] Tapping into money wisdom training
[06:18] Live Q&A
[07:11] Meditational breathing
[08:55] Observing your body functions
[12:17] Recognizing when you are blocking money
[14:52] Financial set point
[16:41] The ceiling of making money that is tied to our childhood
[18:22] Working on releasing the vows
[21:19] Marital vows
[24:27] Day 2 meditation
[26:27] Whose disapproval are you so scared of?
[30:30] Survivors guilt
[32:21] Self sabotaging financially
[35:32] Guilt leads to overgiving
[36:30] Deep-rooted loyalty
[39:37] Heal trauma by going back into the memories
[40:52] What came up for you?
[44:02] Make money and keep relationships
[46:46] Talking about money in an uncharged matter
[48:40] Patriarchy and money
[50:50] Who are we with money?
[58:07] Getting in your own way
PS: If this conversation on healing is resonating with you and you feel ready to start healing your ancestral money trauma, then I invite you to check out and register for the #MoneyMagic course (or the waiting list) at this link: wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
Welcome back to another episode of Money Magic. This week we have a returning guest on the show, my friend and trainer Lungile, who is also a #MoneyMagic student.
Lungi is a fitness trainer who helps women reach their fitness goals using their feminine cycle, making her the perfect candidate to discuss today’s topics of body dysmorphia.
Body dysmorphia is a mental health disorder in which you can’t stop thinking about perceived “flaws” in your appearance. Generally, these thoughts are a result of past trauma and are only visible to you; the outside world sees nothing wrong.
Lungi’s journey into overcoming her internalized body trauma started as a young girl. Growing up, she had always received compliments on her body, but that was about the extent of her praise.
Instead of being viewed as a whole holistic person, she felt objectified and depersonalized, which she then internalized into pain.
As Lungile puts it, there are no coincidences in life. Though the seed of fitness was planted by trauma, a forest of fearlessness and confidence blossomed.
In the early years of her fitness journey, Lungile would approach it by two extremes of either intense dedication or no motivation at all.
It wasn’t until she began to fall in love with herself through womb-work that she fully embraced and had compassion for herself. With that came the confidence of not accepting anything less than what she deserved and cut disrespectful people out of her life.
Lungile’s final act as a reformed woman was her decision to shave her head. She defines this moment of sovereignty as letting go of things that no longer serve her and tortured her soul; this case is her hair. Where she stands now, Lungile is beyond elated of the progress she has made and the lives she has impacted.
Click play to listen to this episode and leave me a comment in the comments section below.
Timestamps:
[03:36] Introduction to Ngubane (Lungile)
[04:09] Body dysmorphia
[05:14] Journey into overcoming body trauma
[10:31] How childhood trauma manifests into adulthood behaviour
[14:02] Getting to a point of fearlessness
[16:41] Having compassion for yourself
[19:05] What did you notice when you started being tender with yourself?
[25:45] Getting to the point of falling in love with yourself
[27:38] Did the gentleness change how you trained?
[33:50] The pressure that comes with fitness
[36:15] The relationship between softness and building a business
[39:34] Connect with Lungile
[42:23] Outro
Contact Lungi:
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lungile.ngubane3
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lungilered/
Email: Lungilered@gmail.com
PS: If this conversation on healing is resonating with you and you feel ready to start healing your ancestral money trauma, then I invite you to check out and register for the #MoneyMagic course (or the waiting list) at this link: wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
Welcome back to the Money Magic Podcast; this week I welcome John Griffith to the show to discuss his newly founded coaching business.
John and I have been friends for years, dating back from my time in Boston.
I have learned a lot from him about business, real estate, and through his Bigger Pockets Podcast recommendation.
John is also the reason I started the Property Magicians Podcast with my co-host Miranda Moloto.
Before pursuing his entrepreneurial dreams, John worked in the corporate world for many years and found himself to be very unhappy.
During this time, he was still practising yoga and meditating from time to time, yet he did not feel fulfilled.
By the time he decided to launch his coaching business, John had been practising yoga for over 20 years, and with this new business, his mission was to transform people’s life by teaching them to be healthy with their mind, body, and spirit.
Just a short four months later, John’s business was experiencing a meteoric rise to the point where he needed to hire additional coaches and is now working on buying a retreat center.
As John describes it, money to him holds an energetic frequency and can be broken down into two aspects. The first being that it is completely made up.
Money is simply a piece of paper, and it is only we who give it value. The second aspect is energy, and between the two, we must find harmony.
We have a collective understanding that we need it to survive, and we know it can be used to disentangle the trauma it has caused.
John brings up the correlation between faith and success. He shares an anecdote from when he was on vacation and prayed for more faith, as he felt it dwindle away.
When he returned, he was fired from his job, having just bought a home and a baby on the way.
Within the month, John got two job offers, one of which was something he was long searching for.
It was in the moment that he knew there’s was no way his faith could get tested if he did not experience the rug being pulled out from underneath him.
Once his faith was intact, abundance started to come. Although he admits to listening to voices of the toxic relationship we have with our brains, he never reacts or gives in to the fear it puts out!
Click play to listen to this episode and leave me a comment in the comments section below.
Timestamps:
[02:27] Introduction to John Griffith
[06:17] Background on John
[09:34] What does money mean to you?
[15:12] Looking at ease in a new way
[18:38] Enjoying the money you make
[20:42] Learning to have faith
[22:08] People of faith are much wealthier than those who are not
[26:24] Spend according to your values
[29:12] Making the switch of scarcity to abundance
[34:12] Everything is an internal vibration
[37:44] Our brain is a toxic relationship
[41:07] The brain will always work against you when it comes to expansion
[43:14] Mental health crisis in the USA
[46:57] Listening to your intuition
[54:43] As humans, we are a web of consciousness
Contact John:
Website: https://www.johntgriffith.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/john.t.griffith
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/john.t.griffith/
PS: If this is resonating with you and you feel ready to start creating a consistent stream of income of R40,000/US$2,500 every month, expanding with ease and creating new options for your life then I invite you to check out and register for the #MoneyMagic course (or the waiting list) at this link: wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
Welcome back to the Money Magic Podcast; this week I welcome back past guest of the show Pumla Bolani. In her first appearance, Pumla shared with us her life’s story, and now she is back to educate us on Karsai Nei Tsang.
Karsai Nei Tsang is a massage technique that focuses on the womb and genitals and is meant to heal trauma centered in those areas.
Pumla came to be a Karsai Nei Tsang masseuse after leaving her corporate job.
She witnessed herself become engulfed by the stressors and politics surrounding the corporate world, so Pumla made a conscious decision to leave and start her own business.
After a period of trial and error and signs from the universe, she discovered natural health and Karsai Nei Tsang
In this episode, Pumla lends her teaching hand and educates us on the benefits of Karsai Nei Tsang.
We learn how trauma can get stuck in the organs, how to alleviate that, and how your digestive, immune, and lymph system improves after treatment.
I hope you enjoy this podcast as much as I did recording it.
Click play to listen to this episode and leave me a comment in the comments section below.
Listen/ Download on: iTunes, Podbean and Spotify
Timestamps:
[02:07] Introduction to Pumla Bolani
[03:28] Karsai Nei Tsang massage
[07:57] How did you come to do Karsai Nei Tsang massage?
[13:15] Searching for different techniques
[17:49] Thailand
[19:23] What is Karsai Nei Tsang?
[23:40] Benefits of Karsai Nei Tsang
[25:53] Constipation relating to toxins
[28:34] You can’t think trauma away
[31:17] Sexual benefits of Karsai Nei Tsang
[34:49] Why is sexual energy important to the healing of the body?
[36:30] The digestive system works directly with the womb
[43:00] The body can absorb the cold
[50:50] How does trauma in the womb show up as physical ailments?
[55:00] Menopause and vaginal lubrication
Contact Pumla
WhatsApp: +27 66 210 9948
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/abundanceza/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/pumla.bolani
PS: If this is resonating with you and you feel ready to start creating a consistent stream of income of R40,000/US$2,500 every month, expanding with ease, and creating new options for your life then I invite you to check out and register for the #MoneyMagic course (or the waiting list) at this link: wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
In this week's episode, I share my story with you.
I came to do this work on money because I was extremely depressed and would have panic attacks whenever I had to deal with money.
I couldn’t look at my bank statement, invoice people, share my prices with people and I was US$60,000 in debt.
I got the Finance degree and then I got an MBA and still found myself struggling to pay for my basic life expenses and I felt deeply ashamed.
In fact, after my MBA, I went on to do a certificate in entrepreneurship and I thought - between that and my MBA I had enough to launch a business and create a consistent stream of income.
Long story short - I worked 16 hour days in my first business and I made $500, about R7500 income in 3 years. Yes - you got that right - in 3 years.
I thought there was something wrong with me.
The truth is, I wasn’t doing anything wrong - I just hadn’t understood that my ancestral, childhood, and past life trauma and other wounds were overriding all my positive thinking efforts.
No one had told me that it was possible to want something and not want it at the same time.
The adult part of me at that moment really wanted a consistent income in their business and to make money easily, but the parts of me that were still wounded and stuck in the trauma around money were trying to avoid money in an effort to survive and stay safe.
It was like driving with the accelerator and the brake at the same time - it’s also why we can set huge income goals and start to sabotage our chances of making that income.
Click play and leave me a comment in the comments section below.
Timestamps:
[05:35] Why is my income blocked?
[08:09] Writing down your income goal
[12:35] How the environment we live in affects the way we see money
[20:18] Learning to deal with trauma
[26:17] The god wound is not about religion
[30:01] Working with the sensations in your body
[31:25] Don't fight the process
[34:23] Learning to remove layers
[36:28] The ancestral memories
[40:42] What part of you is holding you to receive
This is part of the work that I teach in the #MoneyMagic course. A part of the work I do in the course is helping people regulate their nervous systems so they can tap into their ancestral wisdom around money and start creating a consistent stream of income of R40,000/US$2,500 or more per month.
If you’re ready to give yourself permission to play big and own your greatness, then I invite you to sign up for the #MoneyMagic course (or waiting list) at this link: wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
In this week’s episode, I talk to Casey Blake a registered counsellor, expert on sexuality, trauma, gender, parenting, and relationships.
Casey joined the #MoneyMagic course in 2017 after meeting me in person at a workshop presentation.
In this podcast episode, Casey explains to us how money impacts our ability to access different products and services and also takes us into the realm of sex and sex education.
She shares her insights on sex and sexual trauma and how boundary violations can affect our sense of safety and how that can also impact and affect our finances and our ability to set financial boundaries and how that can also impact our decisions around visibility (it’s mindblowing).
She shares how she used to have a very interesting relationship with money - where she was middle class but never really made any money because other people were paying for her lifestyle.
She explains how she was able to start contributing more financially in her relationship, how she was able to build a thriving practice and start saving more.
I hope you enjoy this episode as much as we did recording it.
Click play and leave me a comment in the comments section below.
Timestamps:
[2:04] Intro to Casey Blake
[6:55] Teaching parents to talk about sex with their children
[11:36] Teenagers can't trust in their bodies?
[14:47] Let's talk about consent
[19:04] Separating pleasure and sex.
[21:02] Learning to set boundaries
[28:32] How would you describe money to an alien?
[30:13] The money and excess
[32:46] What would you have liked to know when you started your money journey?
[34:09] The importance of sleep and rest
[38:43] The poverty generated by the system
[41:30] How can the system be improved?
[46:15] How did you feel emotionally before starting the Magic Money course, and how did it change?
Contact Casey:
Counselling:
Website: https://whatnowcounselling.co.za
Email: casey@whatnowcounselling.co.za
Sex Education course: https://toolsforhavingthetalks.co.za/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/toolsforhavingthetalks/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ToolsforHavingTheTalks
Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/857495814353422
If you enjoyed the podcast and were inspired by Casey’s story and how she has changed her relationship with money, then I want to invite you to check out and register for the #MoneyMagic course.
The magic is in the healing.
In this course, I help women of colour create a consistent stream of income of R40,000/US$2,500 or more per month with ease. You can enrol or get on the waiting list for the course at this link: wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
In this week's episode, I sit down with Xeres Villanueva, a #MoneyMagic student based in California, United States. Her parents moved with her from the Philippines for educational purposes.
Xeres is a writer, storyteller, and healer. As a healer, she initiates people into their higher self version of themselves so they can start living their purpose.
She starts off her whole process with card readings and then develops a program to walk you through this process of self-initiation.
In this podcast, Xeres shares how she had two business failures and how she’s been working through the God Wound and her view of the Divine to start receiving money from being a full-time healer.
In this podcast, she shares how she had to trust the process and her spirit of money when she had the realization that first, she has to be in her purpose and then make money instead of first make money and then pursue her purpose.
And how when she made that decision she started unlocking money from unexpected sources.
She also walks us through her journey of how she’s been healing her ancestral money story and how that’s impacted her decision to be a writer and how that’s led to her exploring new ways of making money.
I hope you enjoy this episode as much as we did recording it.
Click play and leave me a comment in the comments section below.
Timestamps:
[2:04] Intro to Villanueva.
[8:05] The importance of acknowledging the land spirits.
[12.17] Daily basis practices to start a relationship with the land.
[17:18] Why is earth and water related to money?
[19:33] To manifest money, we must be willing to receive it.
[22:15] The water and earth carry memories.
[35:41] Live your dharma and make a career of it.
[40:42] Listening to the money spirit.
[44:59] The hustle culture and how it can cause retraumatization.
[48:08] Don't be afraid to follow your path.
[51:32] The prosperity gospel at his core.
[55:35] Us and the divine.
[58:09] Positivism, microaggressions, and the colonial mindset.
Contact Xeres:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_estuary_moments/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/EstuaryMoments
The Prophetic Muse: https://www.patreon.com/thepropheticmuse
If this conversation is resonating with you and you feel ready to start unravelling how family trauma is affecting your expansion and are feeling called to create a consistent stream of income of R40,000/ US$2,500 or more per month...
then I invite you to check out and register for the #MoneyMagic course here: wealthy-money.com/moneymagic I will only open up the course for registration for people on that list.
This week I talk to Neo Nare to discuss the inspiration behind her podcast and Genie Coach services.
Neo’s background as an advanced psychiatric nurse practitioner set her up with the tools to help little Genies (children between 4-10 years old) form healthy and happy attachments.
Having already been an advocate for mental health, with a deep love for children, Neo sought to bridge the gap between the two.
She noticed parents often treated children like a homogenous entity, rather than tending to them like the unique individual souls that they are.
Coupled with that was the issue of managing environments around children and finding ways to improve that through separate adult support systems.
Neo credits the #MoneyMagic course as the catalyst for taking that leap of faith and starting Genie coach.
She confesses to the underlying toxic nature of hustle culture and how it disapproves of those who are not constantly on the go.
It was through the Money Magic course where she released herself and showed up for money so that money could show up for her.
In this podcast, she shares the importance of forming healthy attachments in childhood and how that can affect our relationship with money.
I hope you enjoy this episode as much as we did recording it.
Click play and leave me a comment in the comments section below.
Listen/ Download on: iTunes, Podbean and Spotify
Timestamps:
[00:00] The link between healthy childhood attachments & receiving money
[02:26] Introduction to Neo Nare
[03:18] What do you do
[04:57] Inspiration to be a genie coach
[09:20] Genie coaching services
[11:17] Helping children form healthy attachments
[17:17] Recognizing that children are their own unique souls
[19:33] What does money mean to you?
[23:01] Blocks in money trauma currents
[29:07] Giving money the opportunity to come find you
[30:29] Increasing savings by doing more than budgeting
[35:41] Perpetuating generational trauma
[36:31] Expectations of the Money Magic course
[39:11] Mistakes that people make with healing money trauma
[43:00] Students resonating with the course rather than being forced to join
[45:25] How your definition of trauma started to change
[47:45] Anything can be a trauma
[49:28] Every feeling is valid because trauma is subjective
[50:23] Shifts in feelings about money
[54:14] Income and debt shifts since being in Money Magic course
[57:40] When we show up for money, money shows up for us
Contact Neo
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The Genie Coach Podcast: https://neonare.podbean.com/
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Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/neo.nare.31
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Genie Coach Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/The-GenieCoach-110580277787080
If you enjoyed the podcast and were inspired by Neo’s story in how she has changed her relationship with money, then I want to invite you to check out and register for the #MoneyMagic course.
The magic is in the healing.
In this course, I help women of colour create a consistent stream of income of R40,000/US$2,500 or more per month with ease. You can enroll or get on the waiting list for the course at this link: wealthy-money.com/moneymagic
This week on Money Magic Podcast, I welcome Paballo Rampa or Pabi as some may know her.
Pabi is a best-selling author, property investor, content marketer and will also be launching her very own podcast soon.
Growing up, Pabi’s relationship between her and money falls under the umbrella of fear; fear of spending it, fear of losing it, and treating it as a limited resource.
She attributes her fear directly to her childhood, and as an adult, she allowed this emotion to take away pleasure’s life has to offer.
She also shares how before joining the #MoneyMagic course, she would constantly talk herself out of buying nice things, like a purse that may have cost “too” much money.
This would directly affect her self-worth since, at the subconscious level, meant she was not worthy of nice things.
Since doing the #MoneyMagic course, Pabi’s confidence with money has increased drastically - she now finds herself with much less debt, has increased prices without feeling any form of guilt, and if there was a client who isn’t happy with the price, she feels confident walking away and finding someone who will pay her what she is charging.
I hope you enjoy this episode as much as we did recording it.
Click play and leave me a comment in the comments section below.
Listen/ Download on: iTunes, Podbean and Spotify
Timestamps:
[00:56] Intro to Paballo
[02:51] What does money mean to you?
[04:26] Suspecting issues with money
[09:28] What you wish you knew before starting the money journey
[12:36] When do you enjoy your money?
[13:54] Business strategies and scaling a business
[16:28] Applying two simple strategies
[20:01] Procrastinating
[21:51] The shift in relationships
[31:54] Watching a shift in your income
[39:31] Increase in business and clients
[49:00] Going after what we want in life
[46:41] No money issues, but emotional issues
[48:11] Confronting rejection
[50:01] If you don’t ask, you won’t get
[52:55] Expanding past trauma
[54:14] Three lessons learned from the course
If this conversation is resonating with you and you feel ready to start unravelling how family trauma is affecting your expansion and are feeling called to create a consistent stream of income of R40,000/ US$2,500 or more per month...
then I invite you to check out and register for the #MoneyMagic course here: wealthy-money.com/moneymagic I will only open up the course for registration for people on that list.
In this week’s episode on the Money Magic Podcast, I talk to Lungile Ngubane, she is a fitness trainer, coach, and accountability partner.
Lungi works with the body while focusing on the feminine cycle to excel in the fitness journey.
In this episode, Vangile and Lungi discuss the relationship we have as women with our bodies and with food.
Lungi offers perspective on the image of our bodies, specifically when it comes to our cycle and how comparing ourselves to other women is often reprimanding.
Lungi also explains to us the importance of keeping a happy relationship with food – she shares an anecdote of a time when she believed carbs were the enemy and describes how that affected her body.
I hope you enjoy this episode as much as we did recording it.
Click play and leave me a comment in the comments section below.
Listen/ Download on iTunes, Podbean and Spotify
Timestamps for the interview: 00:00 The relationship between food, the body and trauma 02:51 Introduction to Lungi 06:01 The relationship with our bodies during our cycles 10:28 Relationship with food 16:24 Food can be pleasure 25:11 Junk food 28:14 Eating for pleasure 30:15 The link between trauma and food 38:28 Noticing the progress 42:00 Connect with Lungi
If this conversation is resonating with you and you feel ready to start unravelling how family trauma is affecting your expansion and are feeling called to create a consistent stream of income of R40,000/ US$2,500 or more per month...
then I invite you to check out and register for the #MoneyMagic course here: wealthy-money.com/moneymagic I will only open up the course for registration for people on that list.
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In this week’s episode of the #MoneyMagic series, I invited my financial advisor, Chenine Gouws, to sit down and have a conversation with us about planning for our financial future.
I started working with Chenine about 8 years ago when I was still in debt and working on paying off US$60,000 in debt. When I met her, I had very little savings and hadn’t even started my investment journey.
Because I was so focused on paying off debt, I could only invest R200 (about US$15) per month in unit trusts and about R500 (US$35) a month into my retirement annuity, it wasn’t much and honestly but that was the start of my personal finance journey.
Over time my I have more than 10X’ed my investments and in the process, I’ve learned a lot from Chenine and from my own journey.
So in today’s episode, she answers some really great questions:
- Should you focus on saving and investing or paying off debt?
- How do you plan for your financial future in the long run?
- Is there an investment or a plan people can put in place for unemployment if there is a sudden downturn?
- What is the difference between life insurance and funeral policies?
- How to write a will and why you need a will
GRAB YOUR CUP OF TEA AND YOUR JOURNAL, CLICK PLAY ON THE VIDEO BELOW AND DIG IN, YOU ARE IN FOR A TREAT.
If this resonated with you and you are done working hard but not seeing the financial results of your work, then I invite you to check out and register for the Money Magic course.
Click here to register/ sign up for the wait list for the Money Magic Course.
You can also download the free eBook here: weathy-money.com/workbook
In this week’s episode of the #MoneyMagic series, I sit down to chat with one of my private clients, Phumla Ngema about paying off all her debt in 4 months.
Phumla is South African, but she lives and works as a paramedic in Abu Dhabi, the UAE.
In this episode she shares how she started working at 17 and started supporting her family when she was making R250 (less than US$20) a month because growing up she'd seen her mom support 30 people on her teacher’s salary, so she just followed in her mom’s footsteps.
She shares how she first suspected that her relationship with money was about more than just money and budgeting when she was working in the military and was paid R400,000 (US$25,800) lump sum for being stationed outside South Africa.
She tried to save the money but ended up using it all up, despite her best efforts. When this happened again to her when she got a R300,000 lumpsum, she realized there was more to money than what she thought.
She started following Instagram coaches and along the way bumped into the work I teach at Wealthy Money; she downloaded the free eBook and started doing the exercises, signed up for the Bank Account Challenge at the beginning of 2020 and in May 2020 became a private client.
In this interview she shares her journey to being debt-free and how she managed to pay off R360,000 in debt in the space of 4 months and how as she started to heal her own trauma she was able to set financial boundaries with her family and how that has led to incredible financial shifts for her siblings, cousins and her mom.
Her mom has even bought herself her own dream car, her brother and cousins got jobs, all within 4 months!
This is another awesome episode, that reminds us that when we heal our money trauma and change our approach to money within our family from a non-wounded space (because sometimes we do make changes but we do it from a wounded space that does more damage than good), everyone gets permission to expand.
GRAB YOUR CUP OF TEA AND YOUR JOURNAL, CLICK PLAY ON THE VIDEO BELOW AND DIG IN, YOU ARE IN FOR A TREAT.
If this resonated with you and you are done working hard but not seeing the financial results of your work, then I invite you to check out and register for the Money Magic course.
Click here to register/ sign up for the wait list for the Money Magic Course.
You can also download the free eBook here: weathy-money.com/workbook
Why do we sabotage good things (relationships, money, love etc.) when we have them?
Why do we suddenly act crazy when we finally attract that amazing partner, we’ve been waiting for all these years?
Why do we sometimes choose the abusive partner over the sweet generous partner?
Why do we get rid of money as soon as we have it?
Why do we blow through our budget even when we’ve made a decision to do better and have every intention to do so?
Why is it that some people can manifest more money and thrive, whilst others are destroyed by having more money?
My guest for the #MoneyMagic series this week is Marilu Gabba, one of my friends and also my relationship coach. Marilu is a trauma-informed Sex, Love and Relationship coach, so you already know this is going to be a juicy interview.
I invited her onto this show because I wanted to talk about receiving and how trauma can stop and/or sabotage us from receiving and holding onto the money, love and pleasure we want and desire.
It’s possible to ask for money, great love and pleasure and all that good stuff, and have the universe give us all these things, but not be able to hold these things and to actually be destroyed by these things.
Why does this happen?
Because receiving more than we are used to receiving can feel unsafe to our nervous systems and can overwhelm our system.
We all have a receiving setpoint (or what Gay Hendricks calls an upper limit) - where we learned from a very young age that there’s only so much money, love, pleasure etc. we can handle and when we go beyond this set point, our nervous systems register danger and go into survival mode.
Our set points are linked to trauma and understanding this link is key to help us start healing and creating the life we want, this is what we will be discussing today.
This is another life-changing episode - grab your cup of tea and your journal and dig in, you are in for a treat.
If this resonated with you and you are done working hard but not seeing the financial results of your work, then I invite you to check out and register for the Money Magic course.
Click here to register/ sign up for the wait list for the Money Magic Course.
You can also download the free eBook here: weathy-money.com/workbook
My guest for the #MoneyMagic series this week is Lungile Ngubane, who is a Money Magic student and my fitness trainer.
In this episode, she talks to us about how she launched her fitness business during Covid, when I was running the #IncomeChallenge in the #MoneyMagic course and working with students to create an extra stream of income that makes R40,000/US$2,500 per month.
In this interview, Lungi shares with us how she used her own experience of personal fitness and connecting and continuously healing her womb, to create a personal fitness business that teaches women to work out in accordance with their cycles and how this actually leads to better and faster results (trust me, I am a walking testimonial).
We talk about how understanding our cycles as women, can also help us build thriving businesses because it helps us understand what work to do when, which actually makes us more productive, these are all things we explore in #WombWednesday in the #MoneyMagic course.
Lungi explains how she used her understanding of her cycle, the vow of invisibility work, the #BankAccountChallenge and some of the other lessons we cover in the course to start building a profitable fitness business that creates a consistent stream of income.
This is another one of those mind-blowing interviews that will change the way you do work and see money.
If this resonated with you and you are done working hard but not seeing the financial results of your work, then I invite you to check out and register for the Money Magic course.
Click here to register/ sign up for the wait list for the Money Magic Course.
You can also download the free eBook here: weathy-money.com/workbook
How do you create generational wealth by investing in the stock market?
Can you create a consistent cash flow by investing in shares?
My guest for the #MoneyMagic series interview this week is one of my friends, Vongani (Vonks) Nkuna who has launched Public and Proper, an investment company that aims to help South Africans create generational wealth by investing in trillion-dollar stock markets around the world.
Vonks refers to himself as an investment enthusiast; he studied copywriting at Red&Yellow in Cape Town but was always interested in investing and making money as an investor, so he did most of his school projects on investment companies.
When he got out of school he went to work for his dad, who was in the petroleum industry and learned about the commodities market, which took him back to the share market.
He then started an investment company - Nkuna Equity, where he started experimenting with his investment ideas and saw that they worked and he was generating a consistent cash flow from following a value investing strategy and investing in dividend-paying shares.
Now he is replicating this success on a larger scale, whilst also helping others build a successful investment portfolio with a consistent cash flow, which is why he launched Public and Proper.
[Full disclosure: I am one of the Directors of Public and Proper.]
Public and Proper, is looking to raise R50 million (US$3.3 million) in 2021. Anyone in the general public will be able to buy shares, the minimum buy-in will start at R1000 (US$64). Yep, you only need R1000, to be a shareholder.
Shareholders will own part of Public and Proper, which is as a company will go out and acquire underpriced shares of stable companies in different parts of the world.
We will focus on investing in retail companies that pay a dividend. The company’s focus is on acquiring great shares that it can hold onto for the long term and on creating a cash cow so that shareholders get a payout twice a year.
As a shareholder, you get to own the company, so you make money from the appreciation of the share price and you also get cash flow. You can live off the cash flow and leave the shares to your descendants when you pass on.
If you’re interested in investing, learning more about the stock market and/or just learning how shares and dividends work, then this is the episode for you.
Vonks does a really great job of unpacking investing and the stock market for us. You are in for a treat.
If this resonated with you and you are done working hard but not seeing the financial results of your work, then I invite you to check out and register for the Money Magic course.
Click here to register/ sign up for the wait list for the Money Magic Course.
You can also download the free eBook here: weathy-money.com/workbook
My guest for the #MoneyMagic series interview this week is Teencoach Nomveliso Mbanga. Nomveliso is the founder of Mayine Development Institute, a company that takes an African centered approach to coaching, human development and personal growth.
Nomveliso is a teen expert and focuses on Teen and Family dynamics coaching, she is also one of the oldest #MoneyMagic students and is one of the reasons this course continues to exist.
This episode is a must listen to.
I can't even process and share what she shares because it’s soo deep; we talk about going 5 or 6 generations back in the healing work in order to understand our family lineage and how this can help us understand how money comes to us as a family.
And how understanding your womb journey (who you were in the womb and how did you behave at that stage?) can unlock a lot in this lifetime.
Both Nomveliso and I share how understanding our ancestral lineage helped us understand the kind of businesses we could thrive in.
Nomveliso discusses family dynamics and trauma for the African child.
And of course, we discuss the #MoneyMagic course and how she has used the information in the course to build a profitable coaching business.
I AM NOT JUST SAYING THIS. BUT...MAKE A DATE WITH YOURSELF FOR THIS INTERVIEW, GRAB A JOURNAL AND A CUP OF COFFEE/TEA AND CLICK PLAY. THANK ME LATER ❤️
If this resonated with you and you are done working hard but not seeing the financial results of your work, then I invite you to check out and register for the Money Magic course.
Click here to register/ sign up for the wait list for the Money Magic Course.
You can also download the free eBook here: weathy-money.com/workbook
In this week’s episode, I talk to Yanga Stuurman, social entrepreneur, Mining and Geology consultant and coach.
Yanga helps professional women of color feel seen, achieve balance and rest so they can tap into their own magic and limitlessness.
Yanga contacted me earlier this year after hearing me talk about the panic attacks I used to have whenever I withdrew money from an ATM; she explained that her issue was invoicing people and spending money as soon as it came into her bank account.
She soon became a private coaching client and as with all my coaching clients, I also enrolled her in the #MoneyMagic course.
In this interview she shares her story of childhood abuse (physical, mental and emotional) and how that led to her not feeling good enough and how that kept her from feeling and undercharging and just not being able to make money, despite her qualifications.
She shares how this wound affected her nervous system and how she had digestive issues most of her life until we started working together and started healing her trauma at a nervous system level.
We were actually laughing about how she managed to change her finances without ever looking at a spreadsheet and just doing the inner work and regulating her nervous system and going into the dark spaces.
It’s been almost 6 months since Yanga started coaching with me and doing the #MoneyMagic course and since then, she’s:
✔️Tripled her income
✔️Invested in a life-changing investment opportunity
✔️Able to keep money in her bank account
✔️Healed her digestive system
This is another interview you don't want to miss, get your pen and journal, your cup of tea and click play on the video below and when you've reflected, please leave us a note in the comments section below.
If this resonated with you, and you are done working hard but not seeing the financial results of your work, then I invite you to check out and register for the Money Magic course.
Click here to register/ sign up for the wait list for the Money Magic Course.
You can also download the free eBook here: weathy-money.com/workbook
In this week’s #MoneyMagic series episode, I sit down to talk to Busisiwe Hlatswayo, Head of School for Business Innovation and Technology (BIT) at AFDA Johannesburg.
To be honest, I have no clue how to describe this interview because it took on a life of its own (as most of my interviews do) and goes so deep into various aspects of money - we discuss entrepreneurship, failing in our first businesses, the shame that comes with failure as an entrepreneur, loyalty to family, paying off debt, releasing the vow of perfection and having a business breakthrough.
Let me start by saying Busi is doing incredible work in the entrepreneurship space with undergraduates in AFDA and I was lucky enough to be invited to evaluate the students on their business plans a few weeks ago, so I’ve been able to see her work upfront and personal.
Busi joined the #MoneyMagic course in September 2018; she was R700,000 in debt and explained to us that one of her biggest issues was that even though she’d gotten promoted often, had a BCom Degree and an MBA she’d never been the head of a department and also struggled to build a consistent stream of income in her business.
One of her first breakthroughs, when she started the course, was getting her job at AFDA and being made Head of Department. Yay!!
In this interview, she shares a lot about how the vow of perfection and her vow of loyalty to her family kept her in debt. A part of her wanted to get out of debt, but the other part of her didn’t feel safe getting rid of debt and these 2 parts would go toward with each other, which would lead to self-sabotage.
Busi explains how healing her trauma completely transformed her relationship with money and how she has paid off R500,000 (US$31,000) in the last 2 years and will be debt-free by next year (2021) and how she’s also had a business breakthrough by just learning to let go.
You really don’t want to miss this interview, get your pen and journal, your cup of tea and click play on the video below and when you’ve reflected, please leave us a note in the comments section below.
If this resonated with you and you are done working hard but not seeing the financial results of your work, then I invite you to check out and register for the Money Magic course.
Click here to register/ sign up for the wait list for the Money Magic Course.
You can also download the free eBook here: weathy-money.com/workbook
In this week’s episode of the #MoneyMagic series I do a case study of one of the Money Magic’s students’ business (a side hustle in fitness training) and I look at how she can scale her business to R40,000/US$2500 a month by changing her pricing and her business model or using a mix of business models.
Creating a consistent income in our side hustle, business or income stream doesn’t have to take a long time and it doesn’t have to be difficult.
Click play to listen to this case study and leave a comment in the comments section below.
If this resonated with you and you are done working hard but not seeing the financial results of your work, then I invite you to check out and register for the Money Magic course.
Click here to register/ sign up for the wait list for the Money Magic Course.
You can also download the free eBook here: weathy-money.com/workbook
In this week's episode, I sat down with Nokuthula Mashaba to talk about her money journey and how she has made more money than ever during Covid.
When this pandemic started Nokuthula was working in Nigeria, when things started getting bad globally she had to move back to South Africa.
And just like everyone, she was worried about her finances - she was moving back to South Africa during a time of uncertainty and no guarantee of work or money in an industry that was being hard hit (TV industry).
She shared a lot of these fears with us in the #MoneyMagic student group and since none of us had any certainty about anything, we just told her to do the inner work, use the student group as a resource and trust the process.
There are some global and external events that none of us can change, but if we are lucky, we can choose how we respond to them, integrate them into our psyche and how we perceive them. This then changes the way we behave, especially with money.
Nokuthula's experience highlights this to an extent.
In this episode, she shares her money journey with us, how she has been healing the God Wound and her vows of loyalty to her family and how she started paying off debt and increasing her income.
This is another tear-jerker of an episode.
Click play to listen to this episode and leave a comment in the comments section below.
If this resonated with you and you are done working hard but not seeing the financial results of your work, then I invite you to check out and register for the Money Magic course.
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You can also download the free eBook here: weathy-money.com/workbook
In this week's episode of the #MoneyMagic series, I sat down with Mmatsie Mooki, a human rights lawyer, and I talk to her about her money journey.
I met Mmatsie at an event hosted by Lebo Pule in September 2017. Lebo had invited me as a speaker and we ended up going very deep on money trauma, in our conversation, and Mmatsie was one of the audience members.
I remember her clearly sharing that she always had money and she didn't know what it was like to be at negative in her bank balance.
But I do know that I triggered her because she realized that even though she was able to save, her income wasn't increasing rapidly after all these years of working.
A few days later, she signed up for the Fall In Love With Your Bank Account Challenge and started sending me messages about how this was some sort of witchcraft because money was just coming into her life 😂😂😂
In this interview, she shares with us why money is her lover, how money continues to show up for her even in the most stressful and painful moments and how she was able to create 3 extra streams of income in the last 3 years.
There are parts of this episode that are soo incredibly vulnerable and teary, so be prepared to have your heart cracked open.
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My work is focused on understanding and healing trauma.
I know I call myself a money coach, but my focus is on understanding trauma and how it affects our money behaviour and our nervous system so we can start to integrate our lived experiences and build generational wealth.
This is why Wealthy Money's tag line is "The magic in healing."
It's in the healing that we start to create magic. The magic comes from us stepping into our own power and remembering who we truly are.
This is why I believe it's important to understand trauma and how it changes our perception of self, which leads to financial contraction.
So for this week's #MoneyMagic series, I invited one of my friends, Lori Jones, a licensed mental health clinician, based in Boston, MA to have a conversation with me about trauma and to share her understanding of trauma.
This episode is meant to educate and shed light on why we behave the way we do and also give us a deeper insight into why we get stuck or freeze when we are triggered and why we keep recreating cycles of behaviour.
Lori takes us on a journey to help us understand how our brains operate, how we respond to various situations and how trauma is passed down from generation to generation.
We also look at how collective trauma and vicarious trauma lead to collective archetypes, which further impact our behaviour.
Grab a cup of tea and a journal.
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In this week's episode of the #MoneyMagic series, I invited one of my private clients, Hlathikazi Beni to come have a sit down with me and to discuss her money story.
Hlathikazi is a serial entrepreneur and works in many businesses, including trucking and mining, so she's always had a way to make money but she believed her income was tied to the number of hours she worked and when Covid hit, she was worried that she'd have to work less and that would mean less money.
This is how she came to be a coaching client.
In the interview, she talks about how she had to have a mindset shift in how she saw money and how she started to realize that she doesn't have to always be working to make money and how constantly working was actually impacting her income growth.
She also shares how she now works 4 hours a day, has bought herself a house and pays herself a 6 figure salary monthly all because of the inner work and embracing ease.
We learn how working less has led to an increase in income in her business because she now has more time to focus and maximize on her current income streams.
This episode highlights the myth of hard work and how ease is actually the cousin of expansion and how doing less work in our businesses actually leads to increased income in a faster time period.
You don't want to miss this week's episode, especially if you're an entrepreneur.
It's super juicy.
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This week for the #MoneyMagic series, I decided to a live class on how I was brought up to inky trust family and how that fed into my need for invisibility and affected my income.
Growing up I was taught to never share anything that was in my zone of genius, with people outside the family because they would bewitch me and try to take my gifts and kill me.
I was taught to hide any cool idea I had or cool thing I could do out of fear and only trust family to help me implement it because at least they wouldn't harm me.
So you can imagine how unsafe it feels for my mom to watch me do this work and be so visible.
My money journey has really been triggering to her.
VOWS OF INVISIBILITY & VOWS OF LOYALTY - HOW THEY HOLD US BACK
I was also taught to stay safe by hiring family to work in my business or help me implement ideas, because...witchcraft.
I saw my mom and uncle come up with insanely awesome business ideas, and out of fear they would fight with family members and force them to get involved in their business ventures and they would hire family cos they didn't want others to know about the idea or how the business was run etc.
There would be so many fights because some people were not doing the work and were refusing to come on board or were doing half jobs and the businesses would fail.
My mom and uncle were the ones with the vision and they expected everyone else to have the same vision and if they didn't, they forced the vision onto them so everyone could grow together and also it felt safer to them than working with outsiders.
What that meant is that their brilliance and awesomeness were the best-kept secret and it was hard for them to grow beyond a certain point and sell their products and services.
Because to sell our products and services, people have you know we exist and we actually have said gift/product/service.
This is what I discuss in today's class. So grab a cup of tea and click play in the video below.
Here's the YouTube link just in case: https://youtu.be/3SYRegizrxs
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Last week we spoke to Mizo about the vow of invisibility and how it plays out in our finances.
This week, we take this discussion even further with Wadzanai Garwe, another Money Magic student, who helps women share their stories so they can be more visible and get the promotion at work or sign the clients they want.
The best way to introduce Wadzi and this episode is to share her recent post in the Money Magic student group, so you understand why I invited her as a guest:
"I remember doing two interviews for higher posts. My coach, male, kept saying - remember this is a competition Wadzi. You need to show how you lead, not how you are part of a team.
Ladies the vow of invisibility may be a cultural thing for us but we are also older sisters, mothers and role models. We need to speak up so that we have a place at the table. Men have been taught to lead. Women have unfortunately been taught to submit. My ex used to say very crudely - ‘my penis penetrates - you take it in’ this analogy has stayed with me.
So could we celebrate the wins please. Could we step up and speak up.
Hi my name is Wadzanai Garwe. I am an economist who has worked in the United Nations system with major International Financing Institutions including the World Bank, thé African Development Bank and the Asian Development Bank for over 20 years.
I have successfully run my own private consulting firm and I have done over 90 missions to over 50 countries helping developing nations improve their livelihoods and combat poverty.
I have directly contributed to the economic development of the rural poor. I have successfully been the financial manager of a family-owned and managed 180-hectare concern in which we had a 1000 sow unit, we fattened cattle for auction and we cultivated 50 hectares of animal feed.
I built a million-dollar home in Ruzawi, Marondera. I am an executive coach. I am a published author. I am a mother of two young adults. I am an activist for the economic empowerment of women. I am a force of nature. Can we do this in this post?"
So now you have an idea of what to expect on today's podcast, which I hope will lead us all to a deeper conversation on invisibility, not good enough and money.
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In this week's episode of the #MoneyMagic series, I invited Dr Miranda Moloto (Mizo) to come to chat with us about her money journey and a phenomenon, we've both noticed on the #PropertyMagicians podcast.
Dr Miranda is the co-host of the Property Magicians Podcast and she is also a property investor and coach.
You may have noticed that in the Property Magicians Podcast, we tend to have more men than women guests - this is actually something that concerns us, because we ask 4 times as many women to come on the show as we do men, and we almost always get a NO from the women AND a YES from the men.
In fact, the men often ask for a second or third interview because of the deals they get from. Having been on the podcast.
So we started to dig deeper and asked some of the women why they wouldn't do the interviews; we kept hearing, "I cannot be on the podcast, I haven't done enough, I listened to others' interview and they are so much better than me" these are all variations of a "Not good enough" story or belief and it keeps us invisible and affects our finances.
So in this podcast Mizo shares with us her journey on unlayering her vow of invisibility and her not good enough story and how this story impacted her money story and how healing it is shifting everything.
She also shares the magic of getting out of debt twice and how she paid off R200,000 (US$12,000) in debt in 48 hours, but it actually took 6 months of inner work for that to happen and for her to find the solution.
As you can imagine - this episode is lit and inspiring.
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In this week's #MoneyMagic series, I sit down to chat with Musa Mathole, who describes herself as a mom and a wife, but also a soul on a journey.
Musa is a treasury accountant by profession and started to realize that there was more to her money journey when her professional financial knowledge wasn't translating into her personal finances.
She found that she could manage millions at work and help the company invest and grow its money, but when it came to her finances, it was a challenge and the old ways of budgeting weren't working.
When she joined the Bank Account Challenge, she learned about budgeting differently - she learned the importance of spending according to your values.
And when she joined the #MoneyMagic course she learned about the importance of prioritising pleasure and how this was the key to changing our financial habits.
Of course, this is the opposite of what we've been taught about money, but she shares how as she healed and allowed herself to have fun with money, her relationship with money changed, to the point where she hasn't worked in over a year and yet her family financials haven't been affected.
Musa also shared how she and her husband are teaching their children how to invest in shares so that they know there are other ways to make money and build wealth. And how she's been using some of the course meditations with her children.
This is such an insightful episode on money and imparting our values around money to our children.
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In today's episode of the #MoneyMagic series, we talk to Wisani Khethiwe Shibambu about her journey to launching her first business and breaking cycles of debt.
Wisani is a Money Magic student, but she's also Wealthy Money's virtual assistant and is responsible for the administration and technical support in the company.
She shares how she spent 3 years teaching English in Japan (and even speaks some Japanese) and then decided to come home and figure out what she wanted to do next.
Coming home was tougher than she thought and she struggled to find employment. She then decided to use the skills she learned in Japan and her corporate experience, to create employment for herself.
She followed her soul and after a few months launched her virtual assistant business and got clients in a short space of time. Wealthy Money actually became a client during Covid!
I got to chat about how she got herself out of the cycle of credit card debt, the challenge of entrepreneurship, paying herself first and how money is actually a tool to expansion and discovering our own divinity.
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In today's episode of the #MoneyMagic series, I talk to Mpume Ncube-Daka, a Change Coach who helps people make career changes.
In this conversation, Mpume shared that she started realizing that her money story was about more than just money when she found herself in a pattern of paying off debt and then recreating it and even though she was okay and could pay off the debt, she just felt tired, like she knew there was more and she wanted better for herself.
We had a really interesting conversation about how things in our lives may be okay but part of us knows we are destined for more and yet we talk ourselves out of going in quest of the more.
Instead, we keep putting things off to the day we have more money and we normalize not having enough money and the anxiety that comes with that.
Mpume shared her journey on how she struggled to charge clients for her services because she felt she didn't have enough money, so she projected this belief onto other people and it made it difficult for her to charge for her services.
She shares with us how she started to shift this belief of "not enough money" and how it became easier for her to charge for her services.
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I'm often asked if I coach men or if there are any men in my courses - the answer to both questions is yes.
We have men in the #MoneyMagic course, most of them are silent and will comment sporadically but every so often I will receive an email from one of them thanking me for the course and sharing how their finances have radically improved.
We do, however, have a very active man in the student group, his name is Khanya Ngonyama, and he openly shares his insights and even his emotions from the meditations, so I decided it would be great to sit down and talk to him about his money journey.
Khanya is a water and environmental engineer and a real estate investor (we featured him on episode 26 of the Property Magicians Podcast).
In the interview, Khanya shares how he is a big reader and always went after knowledge and would apply that practical knowledge to his money journey but he struggled to get the results he wanted.
As he started working on money trauma, he was able to start changing his view of money and hard work and since joining the course 2 and a half months ago, he has managed to pay off his credit card debt and personal loan and also create 2 new streams of income.
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Last week on this blog, I shared how womb healing is a part of the #MoneyMagic course and how we have 2 teachers that facilitate this healing process for us.
This week I sat down and spoke to our other womb teacher, Phuthanang Motsielwa about her journey in healing the womb and using the womb to manifest her desires and how she now helps us heal our wombs.
In this interview, Phuthanang shared how her womb journey started when she was diagnosed with fibroids and the doctor told her this was normal and that she would have a hard time falling pregnant.
After her surgery, she went on a journey to heal her womb and she realized that whilst fibroids were common, they were not normal.
It's not normal for us to have fibroids and there was a deeper issue than just biology.
She started to learn about the power of the womb when it comes to manifesting our lives and how the womb requires us to constantly birth things, not just babies.
When we stop ourselves from honouring our souls and just let our dreams gestate for long periods of time, without following through and giving birth to them, our womb energy is affected and eventually, our health is affected.
In this episode, we go really deep into ease, manifestation, and the womb and how important it is for us to listen to our soul callings and nudges.
You are in for another mind-blowing episode and lots of aha moments.
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One of the things we focus on healing in the #MoneyMagic course is the womb because the womb plays a big role in helping us manifest our dreams and goals.
So in this week's episode of the #MoneyMagic series, I invited Polite Matjila, who is a human physiologist by profession but has since left that to go into manufacturing and agriculture to come to talk to us about the work she does with us in the #MoneyMagic course.
Although Polite is a student in the course, she's been using her background in physiology, to teach us about the workings of the womb and our cycle and how that all ties the money and manifestation.
In this episode, we go really deep into ancestral trauma in the womb and how it all links to the Divine. You are in for an amazing treat and lots of aha moments.
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My first company was called Speak 2B Free, and the purpose of the company was to promote spoken word poets and help them make an income from their craft.
I was trying to teach artists to make money, whilst I was struggling to make money and manage money, so of course - the company failed.
I ran that company for 4 years and managed to make US$500 revenue, in the entire 4 years 😭
Deep down a part of me believed that artists couldn't make money or a living, luckily a lot of my beliefs have changed them.
And not only that, I get to hold space for artists and freelancers and I get to see what's truly possible for people when they heal their money trauma.
In this week's episode of the #MoneyMagic series, I sat down with Toni Stuart, a professional poet, healer and Money Magic student to ask her about her money journey.
In the interview, Toni explains how she had to change the way she sees herself as an artist, and start seeing herself as a business owner.
She also had to change the way she was charging for services so that she no longer exchanged dollars/rands for time.
She sat down and used the goal setting worksheet in the course to create 5-year income projections, get clear on her personal and business expenses, separate her business and personal account and start saving towards her big life goals.
She shares how she had to start building a business that allowed her to charge based on value and not time and how she is now creating extra streams of income and has launched a membership site that will allow her to make a steady stream of income every month and start investing.
If you're a freelancer, artist or start-up entrepreneur, who feels lost about creating a steady income stream, then this episode will definitely inspire you.
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This week has been full of tears for me - I'm working through some old old childhood and past life beliefs about myself. It's probably ancestral beliefs as well. All I know is this ish is painful 😭😭😭
Speaking of ancestral beliefs, in this week's episode of the #MoneyMagic series, I sat down with my sister, Honey, who is a sangoma (shaman) and a Money Magic student to ask why she decided to do the course and what she has learned about money and trauma.
And wow, please prepare to be blown away because she started talking about how she once spent £50,000 (R1 million) in one month at one point in her life and what she has learned about money frequency and what our spirit of money actually tells us about our money frequency and how to best earn money 👀.
She broke down the link between self-care, ancestors and money for us and explained how when we take care of ourselves, holistically, and make sure we look and feel good, we are actually taking care of our ancestors' DNA. Our ancestors get all excited to see how they are being honoured and they come to the party in full glory and magic starts to happen.
And this is why, for Honey, self-care is healing and healing is holistic; and includes yoga, healing our own trauma from childhood and spa treatments.
This is another mind-blowing episode and you'll see why I love partnering with Honey to do things.
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I am so excited to bring you the next instalment of the #MoneyMagic series where I talk to one of the students about her journey on losing everything and having to rebuild yourself.
In this week's episode, I talk to Thusani Mulaudzi, an author, International Relations practitioner and consultant, about her money journey and how she was able to rise from the ashes.
She shares her journey on how she was always able to manifest at the drop of a hat, then got married and her manifesting abilities went downhill and she started losing money and eventually got divorced before "the ink on her marriage certificate was dry.
We spoke about the link between womb energy, sex and money and what she learned in her remarriage about this and honestly, it's worth watching the video just for this part of the conversation.
She then did the inner work to change her life and explains how she used the lessons in the Money Magic course to launch a consulting company and land her first client, start investing, increase her savings and pay off debt.
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As I mentioned last week, I am recording a #MoneyMagic series, all about money and the Money Magic course and this week my guest is Senzekile Msomi.
In this episode, Senzekile gets very vulnerable and shares how she learned from childhood that having money makes you a target for people and basically makes you unsafe and how this belief that it's not safe to have money, kept her in survival mode.
She was able to buy a house and a car by the time she was 25, but as she kept working, she found it hard to go beyond survival and found herself making just enough to survive.
She shares with us her journey on how she was able to use the Money Magic course to feeling safe with money and the lessons she used to start saving, always have money in her account until payday, double her bond repayments and buy land in Mpumalanga.
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If this resonated with you and you are done playing small and shrinking yourself, then I invite you to check out and register for the Money Magic course. Click here to register/ sign up for the wait list for the Money Magic Course. You can also get the free eBook at: weathy-money.com/workbook