The Transformative Daf: Recent Episodes
Rabbi Daniel Friedman
Whether you've been doing Daf Yomi for years or you're not quite ready to commit but want to be part of the global movement, there's something in The Transformative Daf for everyone!
They say that a small hole in the body is a large hole in the soul. Today we learn why in our tradition our bodies are considered so holy.
When you make a spontaneous prayer, what’s the first thing you say to God? What’s your final thought? Today we learn that prayer has three integral elements: praise, ask, thanks.
How many shidduchim have you made? How many singles are on your list to assist right now? Today we learn the importance of getting involved in God’s primary occupation and the very first mitzvah to humankind.
Who should suffer more the righteous or the wicked? Should the righteous suffer on behalf of the wicked? Today we learn that the righteous view challenge and pain in this world as a privilege.
Have you ever lent out an item and received it back in poor condition? How bad was it? What did you say to the borrower? Today we learn that we must treat others’ property as well as our own, if not better.
What's the dollar value of a mitzvah? Which would you rather: a mitzvah or a diamond? Today we learn the value of diamonds in the World of Truth.
How many interest-free loans do you currently have outstanding? How do you feel about the pruzbul “loop-hole”? Today we ask how many people actually lend interest-free to begin with, let alone stop lending in the sixth year!
What are some ways you avoid answering back when someone insults you? Today we learn that just like the sun doesn’t get angry when people curse out the hot days, you too must stay focused knowing that you’re here to serve the greater good.
Have you ever sent an email in the heat of the moment you just wish you could take back? Today we learn that when you’re about to act impetuously and irresponsibly, you need to switch to some other activity until your heart and mind have calmed down and you’re able to respond rationally.
What motivates a religious man to use God as a tool in his divorce kit as he withholds the gett? Today we learn that while we are all human and prone to improper conduct, we must never drag God into the fight.
Why do birds fly south? Why do we say they fly south when they eventually also fly north? Today we learn that birds protect us and never question God when He sweeps them away from their natural habitat. Ultimately, they realize that God is carrying them to a better place.
How much FEAR OF GOD should you instill in your children? Today we learn that parents give their children wings to bring their mitzvos to heaven. Mother gives the love and father gives the fear. But each must give the right amount. Otherwise the mitzvah bird will be lopsided. (li”n Joar bat Yehuda)
How would you react if you found a piece of hair or a fly in your soup? Today we learn to avoid letting tiny disturbances ruin our relationships.
Do chemistry and attraction make any sense? Should rationalists believe in such superstitious magic? Today we learn that chemistry is a gift from Heaven to help you identify your spouse.
How do you make your guests feel welcome when they arrive? How do you accompany them when they leave? Today we learn that the true test of love and care is accompanying your guests even after the novelty has worn off.
May one donate one’s organs? Should one donate one’s organs? Today we learn that it all depends on where life begins and where life ends.
Should all kids finish school at 18? Or should we allow kids to finish at their own pace, some quicker, some slower? Today we learn that the current western cultural norms do not align with our Torah needs.
Does wearing a head covering feel like an honor or a hassle? Today we learn that tzitzis aren’t a hassle, they’re a tassle. And upon your reflection, the kippah grants protection.
If you were to describe the Shema in one word, what would that be? Powerful? Awesome? Enigmatic? Today we learn that the key word is PROTECTIVE.
Will FLATTERY get you ANYWHERE or NOWHERE? Today we learn that false flattery is an excuse for not taking the time to appreciate the other person’s true qualities.
How much does someone need to do for you to warrant an expression of gratitude? Today we learn that each of us naturally sits somewhere different along the appreciation spectrum. Like all character traits, we must constantly strive to improve our attitude of gratitude and learn to thank people for even the tiniest nice gestures they do for us.
How do you keep yourself busy during the Torah reading? Today we learn that even Torah can be a distraction from Torah!
Why do people envy others? What’s the meaning of having a good eye? Today we learn that the key to rid yourself of jealousy is to think in terms of absolute prosperity instead of relative prosperity. When that’s your mindset, you won’t envy your neighbor’s success, you’ll rejoice!
Have you ever dreamed of life as a princess or prince? Today we learn that you ARE a child of the Supreme King of Kings, making you a supreme prince or princess. Are you living up to the expectations of your exalted position?
Why should you never cast stones up at God when you feel He’s let you down? Today we learn that those who cast stones at Heaven are only making things more difficult for themselves. Sadly, thanks to Newton, those rocks end up landing back on your head. Life is filled with ups and downs, but Hashem is always in control.
When things aren’t going well in your life, do you ask God for a sign He’s still in control? Today we learn that “emunah” means recognizing all the signs He’s already given you, all the blessings and good times in your life!
Is it better to pray in Hebrew or a language you understand? Today we learn the importance of praying in the original. If you’re not there yet, it’s something you must strive to attain!
What’s one obvious way to identify a haughty person? Today we learn that arrogant people get upset at the smallest irritations. When you realize that God fills the universe, there’s never any reason to lose your cool.
Why do we wash our hands before eating bread? Today we learn that netilas yodayim is a reminder to step out of our mundane lives and prepare ourselves to sanctify the world.
What’s the opposite of anger in a relationship? Today we learn that some people think the opposite of blowing up in anger is to respond with passive aggression. No, the antidote to anger is generosity.
Have you ever had a brilliant idea and then found out that someone beat you to the punch? Today we learn that one should never be deterred by another person’s success. The challenge is to build upon their successes!
Have you ever wished you could eradicate your temptation for a certain desire? Today we learn that desires are what fuels our ability to live and function in this world. We don’t seek to destroy them, but to transform them!
Do you feel held-back in life and limited by the choices offered to you based on your background and upbringing? Today we learn that you have the ability to rise even higher than those born with a silver spoon in their mouths!
Have you ever wondered what can my one little mitzvah accomplish? Today we learn that it may be the one mitzvah that tips the scales and transforms the universe.
Is the mitzvah of modesty incumbent upon the wearer or on the gazer? Today we learn that while we should all strive to dress modestly, we must also do our best to avoid situations where our eyes may go astray.
What do you carry with you to remind yourself that this world is merely a corridor for the eternal life? Today we learn that constant reminders ensure that nothing in life gets us down. After all, this world is just the prep room!
When you’re feeling kind of blah how do you get yourself reenergized? If you’re not in the mood to do a mitzvah, how should you move forward? Today we learn that the moment you touch purity, you’ll find your entire being recharged and reinvigorated.
Why does the Hadran say ‘we toil & get reward, they toil & don’t? Do you know what Messi makes? Today we learn that most athletes get paid nothing for all their efforts.
How do you avoid becoming enmeshed in complicated life dramas? Today we learn to KISS – Keep It Simple, Schlemiel.
How rich am I? Today we learn that asking that question will never produce satisfaction with what you have. The right question is: How poor am I? Compared to most of the world, the answer is not poor at all.
Remember how you felt after summer camp as a kid? Or after gap-year in Israel? How do you keep the energy flowing today? Today we learn about the importance of finding regular and special ways to keep you soul refreshed and alive, such as inspirational classes and retreats.
Do you have superhero powers? Ever dreamed of having the Midas Touch? Today we learn that your superhero powers are far greater!
Do you suffer from Bentchaphobia? (Make sure the bread’s mezonos!) Or Fleishiphobia? (Pizza in 6 hrs!) Today we learn that bentching isn’t a curse. It’s a blessing!
What’s the difference between anniversary date night and regular date night? Do you discuss different things? Today we learn that your anniversary is the annual occasion to reminisce about how you met, courted, and chose your spouse!
How can you tell if someone is internally beautiful? Should you judge a person based on red flags? Today we learn that while flags may not be the only determinant, they’re helpful in assessing another person’s character and should never be ignored.
What do you do to ensure your kids aren’t adversely impacted by their less religious cousins? Today we learn that the best way is to assist in the spiritual growth of your nieces and nephews.
Do you know someone who is lonely? What are you doing to alleviate their hardship? Today we learn to look out for those who may be missing the dark days of covid when everyone suddenly remembered their lonely neighbors.
What sacrifices are you making in life? Today we learn that we mustn’t compare our grandparents’ sacrifices to our own. Each generation has its own particular challenges and tests.
Is sin ever kosher? Was it OK for the Mossad to honey-trap Vanunu? Today we learn that Hashem desires our passionate dedication even if we’re not always getting it right.
Do you need to do teshuvah for unintentional sins? Does teshuvah work for intentional sins? Today we learn that all sins sully the soul. However, Hashem accepts all sincere teshuvah.
Do you appreciate a nice expensive bottle of wine? If not, why not? Today we learn that just like you must train your palate to enjoy exquisite pleasures of this Earth, you must train your mind to enjoy the ultimate pleasure of Torah.
How do you determine how much to donate to a campaign? Does it matter what others are giving? Today we learn that you wouldn’t base your investment decisions on other people’s choices. So why base your tzedakah decisions on your neighbor’s?
What is the greatest sacrifice you’ve made for your children? Today we learn that no matter how far they appear to have strayed, we must never give up. Continue to do everything possible from the physical to the spiritual to bring them home.
When you send an email, how long is OK for the recipient to respond? How long does it take you to respond to emails? Today we learn that whatever your definition of early and late might be, it’s vital that you communicate those expectations and timelines to others so that they’re not waiting unnecessarily.
How many years/decades/centuries/millennia after you pass on do you think they’ll remember you? Why? Today we learn that each of us is a child of Hashem. Just like God is limitless, so is your potential impact!
How many days a week do you keep Shabbos? How many days a week do you eat Shabbos food? Today we learn that the way to maximize your Shabbos anticipation is to live every day infused with the power of Shabbos!
Do you ever wonder why we read the same parsha cycle year-in year-out? Does it ever feel tedious? Today we learn the importance of learning and relearning. Every time we learn Torah we become one with Hashem and discover novel teachings we hadn’t noticed previously.
What do you do when you see others acting inappropriately? Do you chastise them or chastise yourself? Today we learn the Besht’s teaching that the world is a mirror. It’s time to start judging everyone favorably!
Why do many converts become less devout once they’ve become Jewish? Today we learn that “stolen waters are sweet,” meaning that Satan only strikes when a person is warned not to behave a certain way.
How many miracles does God perform for you each day? Today we learn that for all the blessings and miracles He shows you, there are so many more that He performs behind the scenes that you’re not even aware of!
Why do so many people nowadays put off getting married? Today we learn that marriage doesn’t impede your ability to fulfil your dreams and aspirations, it enhances your power to become your very best!
If you had a little more money to spare, how would your life be different? Today we learn to dream big and never lose sight of the forest for the trees.
Why do we rend our garments when a loved one passes? Because we’re told to or because we’re feeling it? Today we learn that k’riah, the rending of the garments, serves as an example of the intensity of emotion we should feel when engaged in any mitzvah.
How do you overcome the temptations of the Satan on a daily basis? Today we learn that Shabbos, Pesach, and Rosh Hashanah pave the way to sanctifying God’s name and overcoming temptation.
Do you have a spiritual business plan? What do you hope to accomplish between now & 120? Today we learn that without a well-defined plan you won’t achieve your life goals.
Today’s daf has been generously dedicated by Bruno & Karen Serfaty in memory of Bruno’s mother, Sultana bat Maknin, whose hilula/yahrzeit is today. She passed 10 years ago. Sultana was a very modern and yet modest lady. A refugee from Algeria in the 1960s, she settled in Paris, never looking back. She had a successful career as a Neuro- psychiatric at the hospital and in private practice, looking after countless patients. But more importantly, together with her husband, she raised 4 children, maintaining her Jewish home with efficiency and sensitivity in a way that only busy and yet caring mothers know how. May her merit and her qualities be passed on to her 9 grandchildren.
Have you ever looked at someone & assumed something about their character based on their birthplace? Today we learn to avoid the error of brushstroking individuals based on ethnicity, color or gender.
Why do many rabbis’ kids not follow in their parents’ footsteps? Today we learn the importance of never taking our Torah heritage for granted.
What do you do if someone confides in you that they may harm themselves or others? Do you betray their trust? Today we learn that you must seek outside help. Hopefully one day they will thank you.
What’s Worse in a Relationship: Screaming or Giving the Silent Treatment? Today we learn that passive aggression is the ultimate form of dishonesty, because the other person has no idea how you really feel.
How do you respond to an irrational outburst? Should you scream back at the person? Today we learn the importance of a cooling off period to consider the matter from the other person’s perspective.
How do you make sure to stay on track spiritually for your entire lifetime? Is there a vaccine against the yetzer hara? Today we learn that we immunize ourselves with Torah, tefillah, and righteous company.
What’s the best way to help your children succeed in their marriages? Today we learn that wise people remove all expectations of their children when they get married. They advise them to dedicate themselves, first and foremost, to their new spouse.
What do you do when you encounter antisemitic or anti-Torah taunts? Do you engage? Today we learn that choosing not to get involved is equal to tacit confirmation.
Is it easier to switch direction from the wrong path to the right path or the right path to the wrong path? Today we learn that God will help you correct your direction. But He won’t help you down the wrong path.
Why are team sports important for children? Today we learn that striving for team success ensures the tide rises for all. That’s a true partnership.
What’s the best approach if parents don’t see eye to eye on how to raise their children? Today we learn the importance of presenting a united parenting front.
Why do some people stay married even though they’re not prepared to prioritize their spouses? Today we learn that many who seek divorce really want to be married while many who claim to want to stay married really seek to be divorced.
Have you ever been bullied at work? At school? At shul? Today we learn that many bullies act with aggression to compensate for their inferiority complex. Often they’re simply missing love in their lives.
Have you ever wanted to travel back in time? Can our actions today affect past history? Today we learn that everything we do affects the present, the future, and even the past.
How do you handle lopsided relationships? Like when you’re always there for them but they don’t reciprocate? Today we learn that true friends don’t keep score.
Have you ever been bagel’d? Like when you walk past a stranger and they start humming Hava Nagila? Today we learn the importance of representing Heaven wherever you go.
What’s stopping you from achieving extraordinary success in life? Are you willing to take that risk? Today we learn that success sometimes requires a leap of faith.
Why is a sincere penitent on a higher level than a completely righteous person? Today we learn how teshuvah transforms sins into merits!
Do you often find that your community is just not frum enough for your standards? Today we learn that Hashem wants us to worship and observe Torah all together as one. Maintaining stricter vows is like worshipping on a foreign altar.
Could lab-grown beef be pareve? Could lab-grown pork be kosher? Today we learn about the eternal nature of Torah and the prophecies hidden in the words of our Sages that we are slowly but surely witnessing unfold.
Is your life feeling a little rotten right now? Do you feel like you’re trapped beneath the earth unable to see the sunlight? Today we learn that the rotting of a seed is the step just before the tree blossoms and grows tall and mighty.
What’s the difference between a collector and a hoarder? Today we learn that everything in this world was given to us by God to utilize for His service. Any material item that serves no purpose is wasteful and should not be pursued.
How do you achieve success? Is it just luck? Or are there steps you can take? Today we learn the five steps to success.
What’s the connection between fish and healthy eyes? How do we avoid ayin hara? Today we learn that the greatest blessing is Hashem’s ever-watchful gaze.
Why do millions of American Jews call themselves Jewish when they don’t practice any Judaism? Today we learn the importance of names and identity. The fact that they identify as Jews means they still care to be part of our nation. And if they care so must we.
Are chicken eggs always kosher? Can you order a hard-boiled egg at a non-kosher restaurant? Today we learn that we are like eggs. The shell is porous and we are affected by environmental osmosis.
Life is made up of years of plenty and years of want. How do you get through the tough years? Today we learn to find the glimmers of joy amidst the sorrow.
Is physical beauty desirable? Is material wealth desirable? Or should we be focused purely on spirituality? Today we learn that God wants us to enjoy His world responsibly and to strike the right balance between material and spiritual pursuits.
Why do you eat? So that you have energy to go to work? To earn more money to buy more food? To eat again? Today we learn that eating and working must have an ultimate spiritual purpose, otherwise it’s an exercise in futility.
When you give money to charity do you trust the managers will put it to the best use? Today we learn that a true donation comes with no strings attached.
Should Diaspora Jews opine about Israel's political decisions? Today we learn that Israel belongs to Jews everywhere and that synagogues should be owned by the members.
Who do you call when you don’t like something at shul? The president? The office? The rabbi? Today we learn that those who call to complain view themselves as customers. Those who take the reins view themselves as owners!
If something is public knowledge, is it no longer considered lashon hara, gossip? If the rumored person is a public figure, is it OK to talk about him? Today we learn that gossip is gossip. Lashon hara is always a sin, regardless of how many people know about it and how public the person might be.
What are some good ways to pay your tithe obligation to maximize your bottom line and keep more in the bank? Today we learn that charity shouldn’t feel like a burden or a tax. It’s an incredible opportunity!
Should we set up needle exchanges for drug addicts? Why should we help them after they’ve caused their own mess? Today we learn that even when people have harmed themselves and even if they’ve harmed you, we must go the extra mile to help them out of their predicament.
What’s holding you back from achieving greatness in life? Did your parents provide you with a less than stellar upbringing? Today we learn the importance of breaking free from their domain and taking control of our own destiny.
If we solved world poverty, climate change, and inequality, what would be our goal on Earth? Today we learn that the ultimate acquisition in this world is Torah. That’s why we’re making this world a better place: to learn more Torah.
Do you let friends know that you’re suffering from an illness? Or is it better to keep the difficult news to close family? Today we learn that sharing the challenge allows others to pray for you aiding your speedy recovery.
Our Sages teach that visiting the sick removes one sixtieth of their illness. Is that medically possible? Today we learn that your visit can indeed alleviate your friend’s suffering. And that’s the most accurate way to measure how ill a person actually is.
Can you become a prophet nowadays? How do you sign up? Today we learn that divine inspiration comes from being mighty, wealthy, wise, and humble.
What’s your favorite Shabbos boardgame? What other activities do you do with your kids on Shabbos? Today we learn the importance of Shabbos play.
What’s the best way to motivate ourselves and our kids to do mitzvos? Today we learn the importance of incentivizing good performance.
Should congregational rabbis pastor to those who aren’t dues-paying members of the synagogue? Today we learn that rabbis don’t work for the members. They work for God.
What’s the best way to “fake it till you make it”? What car should you drive? House? Suit? Today we learn that you’ve already made it and you don’t need to prove anything to anybody.
If you don't circumcise your baby boy, is he still a real Jew? Today we learn that that’s the wrong question. The real question is: Why do you care?
Whatever happened to the promise to Avraham that his offspring would be like the stars of the sky and the sand of the sea? Today we learn that there are billions of Jewish souls that were never born because their ancestors were killed by antisemites. When Moshiach comes they will be resurrected and have the opportunity they never merited to walk the face of the Earth.
Are you going through rough waters in your life? Today we learn that God promises that He will stretch the dry land over the waters! All you need to do is heavenize your life!
Is it better to use your charity money on the building campaign or the programming fund? Today we learn that bricks and mortar are temporary. Human investments last forever!
Why do we sin? Today we learn that you only sin because you’ve temporarily lost your focus!
Should you be excused for coming late to work if your alarm didn’t go off? Today we learn that there’s no excuse for foreseeable mishaps. The way to avoid them is to have 3 back-up plans!
If someone demonstrated that the way you’ve been thinking and doing things all along was flawed, how quick would you be to change your ways? Today we learn the importance of peeling back the onion layers of who we are and listening to different perspectives.
How do we know that Moses didn’t misinterpret God’s word? Maybe we have a better understanding of the Torah in light of modern sensibilities! Today we learn that we were sworn to keep the Torah according to Moshe’s presentation of God’s word. Hence the Five Books of Moses.
Are you a giver or a taker? How do you deal with people who always take from others? Today we learn the importance of making everyone feel part of a two-way relationship.
Where is hell? What is hell? Why don’t people act perfectly to ensure they go to Heaven? Today we learn that if we would see the ultimate consequences of our actions, we’d all act very differently today.
What’s the secret to happiness? Today we learn that it’s simple. Just never get angry. How can you control what happens in life?
Have you ever been burnt by an email or text message that was misunderstood? Today we learn the importance of tone and clarity from the lack of punctuation in the Torah.
Do you engage in spiritually risky activity? Today we learn that we must be careful not to form dangerous habits.
Were you fortunate to have been born into a religious family? Today we learn that one must make personal efforts to own your religion!
Have you ever been guilty of bearing God’s name in vain? Today we learn that as an ambassador of Heaven, you must be a paragon of exemplary conduct. When you represent God, His reputation hinges on your reputation!
Why do we learn the same thing over and over again? Today we learn the importance of learning with fresh eyes each time!
Is there any biblical duty you swear you'll never do? Today we learn that you can’t override the oath you took at the foot of Mt. Sinai! It’s just the cunning of the Satan trying to lure you away from your mission on Earth!
Do you have friends who engage in religious rituals that you consider excessive? Today we learn that we must never make light of anyone else’s spiritual devotion.
Do you have long-term plans and goals that you’re delaying until life settles down? Today we learn to stop putting off our dreams till tomorrow. We must live life to the fullest today!
Would you consider your own relationship to be more peaceful or less peaceful than your parents' marriage? Today we learn that, whether you doing it consciously or subconsciously, it’s time to stop comparing!!
What happens to the soul each year on the anniversary of its passing? Today we learn the significance of a YAHRZEIT.
What’s the best way to offer constructive criticism? Today we learn that there are ALWAYS two ways to say something. Say it POSITIVELY not NEGATIVELY!
Does God want us to enjoy life? Or live a life of abstinence and simplicity? Today we learn the importance of using all of God’s creations to serve Him.
What's the Torah's view of physical beauty and attractiveness? Today we learn that we must forever strive to have our inner beauty match our exterior beauty!
Have you ever experienced a rush of spirituality and decided to improve an area of your religious life only to forget about it sometime later? Today we learn that the trick to making an enduring commitment is to take a vow.
What’s the Torah’s secret of success and prosperity? Today we learn that blessing & praising God draws down further blessing into your life!
Do you treat your family members with greater kindness and respect or less tolerance and patience than you treat strangers? Today we learn the importance of saving your best side for those who mean the most to you.
#talmud #jewishlearning #biblestudy #torah #transformativedaf #rabbi #pastor #preacher #dafyomi #daf6 #nedarim #jacob #esau #rachel #barren #anger #spouse #wife #marriage #children #shalombayit #shalombayis
Have you fallen out with a friend or relative? It's time to pick up the phone! #talmud #jewishlearning #biblestudy #torah #transformativedaf #rabbi #pastor #preacher #dafyomi #daf5 #healing #forgiveness #amends #sorry #hezekiah #isaiah
Do you sometimes feel spiritually high and other times feel spiritually low? Today we learn that your soul is like a candle oscillating between Heaven & Earth!
#talmud #jewishlearning #biblestudy #torah #transformativedaf #rabbi #pastor #preacher #dafyomi #daf4 #nedarim #soul #spiritualmotivation
Do you have self-improvement goals you plan to work on one day? Today we learn that we must never put off becoming better for we never know when our time on this Earth will be up. #talmud #jewishlearning #biblestudy #torah #transformativedaf #rabbi #pastor #preacher #dafyomi #daf3 #nedarim #mussar #middos #today #notimelikethepresent #character #selfimprovement
Do you find yourself stumbling over prayers because you don’t understand them? Today we learn the importance of praying in whatever language you understand. Remember: God wants to have a conversation with you! #talmud #jewishlearning #biblestudy #torah #transformativedaf #rabbi #pastor #preacher #dafyomi #daf2 #nedarim #prayer #fatherinheaven #hebrew #daven
Are you worried about TOMORROW? Are you okay TODAY? Today we learn that if God has taken care of you until now, why would you think He’ll forsake you going forward? #talmud #jewishlearning #biblestudy #torah #genesis #transformativedaf #rabbi #pastor #preacher #dafyomi #daf97 #ketubot #kesubos #faith #God #Jacob #Esau #grace
Why should you serve Torah scholars? What does that mean, anyhow? Today we learn that it means doing their taxes for them! #talmud #jewishlearning #biblestudy #torah #transformativedaf #rabbi #pastor #preacher #dafyomi #daf96 #ketubot #kesubos #Torahscholar #talmidchacham #disciple #servant
Do you consider yourself wicked or righteous? Why does it matter? Today we learn that the more you tell yourself you are righteous, the more righteously you will act! #talmud #jewishlearning #biblestudy #torah #transformativedaf #rabbi #pastor #preacher #dafyomi #daf95 #ketubot #kesubos #bornevil #righteous #adamandeve #wicked #evil #snake
What do you think is the most thankless job ever? Today I suggest that the most thankless position is shul president! It’s time to stop criticizing him or her and become part of the solution! #talmud #jewishlearning #biblestudy #torah #transformativedaf #rabbi #pastor #preacher #dafyomi #daf94 #ketubot #kesubos #boardmember #community #volunteer
Do you find yourself using the words ALWAYS and NEVER in your relationship? Today we learn to stop over-generalizing. When you do that, your relationship will improve exponentially! #talmud #jewishlearning #biblestudy #torah #transformativedaf #rabbi #pastor #preacher #dafyomi #daf93 #ketubot #kesubos #marriagecounseling #relationship #marriage
What's the worst kind of employee? Today we learn that it’s not the bad employee who presents the greatest challenge, but the average one. Here's why. #talmud #jewishlearning #biblestudy #torah #transformativedaf #rabbi #pastor #preacher #dafyomi #daf92 #ketubot #kesubos #unleashyourpotential #mediocre #employee
Must you repay your parents' debts? Today we learn that we are required to honor our parents DURING their lifetime and even AFTER they've passed on! #talmud #jewishlearning #biblestudy #torah #transformativedaf #rabbi #pastor #dafyomi #daf91 #ketubot #kesubos #honor #10commandments #tencommandments
If you have a bad debt from a loan you’ve extended to a poor person, can you deduct it from your tzedakah dues? Today we learn the importance of paying yourself first. #talmud #jewishlearning #biblestudy #torah #transformativedaf #rabbi #pastor #dafyomi #daf90 #ketubot #kesubos #tzedakah #tithe #charity
Who will bear witness to the Holocaust after all the Survivors are gone? How do we know the Torah is true after 3000 years? #talmud #jewishlearning #biblestudy #dafyomi #daf89 #kesubos #ketubot #transformativedaf #rabbi #pastor #truth #torah #eternal #wordofgod #shoah #survivors #holocaust #holocaustdenial #passover #seder #bearwitness
Why won't atheists swear on the Bible? Why do some people swear on the Bible if they don't believe it's true? Today we learn the incredible power of the word of God. #talmud #jewishlearning #biblestudy #dafyomi #daf88 #kesubos #ketubot #transformativedaf #rabbi #pastor #truth #torah #eternal #wordofgod
How long do you remain grateful to those who have been kind to you? Are we too quick to forget those who have gone the extra mile? Today we learn the importance of showing everlasting gratitude especially to those who have made us who we are today. #talmud #jewishlearning #biblestudy #transformativedaf #rabbi #pastor #dafyomi #daf87 #ketubot #kesubos #kindness #gratitude #thankyou #thanks
Does your spouse make you feel amazing at every turn? Or are you sometimes made to feel less than stellar? Today we learn some of the signs of an abusive relationship. #talmud #jewishlearning #biblestudy #transformativedaf #rabbi #pastor #dafyomi #daf86 #ketubot #kesubos #marriage #spouse #abuse #abusiverelationship #spousalabuse #emotionalabuse #respect
Do you address your parents by their first name? How about your rabbi? Today we learn that your rabbi or pastor is not your mate. Your parent is not your buddy. Your teacher is not your BFF. It's disrespectful to call them by their first name. Respecting parents and teachers is akin to respecting God. #talmud #jewishlearning #biblestudy #transformativedaf #rabbi #pastor #dafyomi #daf85 #ketubot #kesubos #clergy #teachers #respect
Leading up to and during the Yamim Noraim, the Days of Awe, we repeatedly recite God’s 13 attributes of mercy. Do you know what they mean? Today we learn that being judged by God is not like a mortal court. God has more than enough bounty to go around and He never ceases to shine His countenance upon us! #talmud #jewishlearning #biblestudy #transformativedaf #rabbi #pastor #dafyomi #daf84 #ketubot #kesubos #mercy #grace
Should food be mentioned in a eulogy? Should we postpone all pleasure until the World to Come? Today we learn that God wants us to enjoy His world right here right now. Don't wait for retirement to enjoy life! #talmud #jewishlearning #biblestudy #transformativedaf #rabbi #pastor #dafyomi #daf83 #ketubot #kesubos #kugel #levoyo #levayah #hesped #eulogy #funeral #retirement #shabbos #food
What's the big deal with carrying a tissue in your pocket on Shabbat? Today we learn that every time you commit even the tiniest misdeed, just like a seemingly meaningless tissue, you make a transfer from God's domain to Satan's! #talmud #jewishlearning #biblestudy #viraelul #transformativedaf #rabbi #pastor #dafyomi #daf82 #ketubot #kesubos #darkside #sin #satan #reshushayachid #shabbos #39melachos
Have you ever prayed so hard that God gave you what you wanted only to later discover it was a bad idea? Today we learn that sometimes we pray & think God didn't hear us. But maybe He did. And He knows when we're praying for the wrong things. We must trust Him that He knows when to answer our prayers and when to nudge us in a different direction.
#talmud #jewishlearning #biblestudy #viraelul #transformativedaf #rabbi #pastor #dafyomi #daf81 #ketubot #kesubos #God #prayer #faith #carefulwhatyouprayfor
Do you get as much out of religion as you put in? Maybe you're making bad investments! Today we learn the importance of a regular cost-benefit analysis, also known as a cheshbon hanefesh.
#talmud #jewishlearning #biblestudy #viraelul #transformativedaf #rabbi #pastor #dafyomi #daf80 #ketubot #kesubos #teshuvah #repentance #costbenefitanalysis #cheshbonhanefesh #elul #roshhashanah
Are you one person @ synagogue 👼🏽 & a different person @ work? 😈 Do you preach kindness to the stranger & then disrespect your family?👨👩👧👦 Today we learn how not to maintain a face of many colors!
#talmud #jewishlearning #biblestudy #viraelul #transformativedaf #rabbi #pastor #dafyomi #daf79 #ketubot #kesubos #achadhaam #honesty #sincerity #marriage
Many married couples have a rule that they won’t go to sleep until they’ve resolved any upset between them. What is the real meaning of never going to bed angry at your spouse? Today we learn that every marriage has conflict. But not going to bed angry means never bringing up old arguments that have already been dealt with. Put them to bed! #talmud #jewishlearning #biblestudy #viraelul #transformativedaf #rabbi #pastor #dafyomi #daf78 #ketubot #kesubos #marriage #shalombayis #shalombayit
Why do some religious people close themselves off to the world and avoid engagement with those less observant? Today we learn the importance of leaving the bubble & infusing this physical, material world with heavenly energy.
#talmud #jewishlearning #biblestudy #viraelul #transformativedaf #rabbi #pastor #dafyomi #daf77 #ketubot #kesubos #spirituality #faith #kiruv #ahavasyisrael
Many people find religion dull & boring 😴. How do you develop a passion 🕺for spirituality? 😇. Today we learn that to feel energized and alive about anything, you must invest in it, whether that’s God, our spouse, or our children.
#talmud #jewishlearning #biblestudy #viraelul #transformativedaf #rabbi #pastor #dafyomi #daf76 #ketubot #kesubos #spirituality #faith #loveGod
What are some of the qualities that make for a good marriage partner? How do you become the ideal spouse? Today we learn why married life is always better than staying single. #talmud #jewishlearning #biblestudy #viraelul #transformativedaf #rabbi #pastor #dafyomi #daf75 #ketubot #kesubos #marriage
What’s the difference between physical & spiritual healing? Today we learn that spiritual healing – teshuvah – OBLITERATES all vestiges of the sin! It's as if you never sinned at all! #teshuvah #repentance #sin #talmud #jewishlearning #biblestudy #viraelul #transformativedaf #rabbi #dafyomi #daf74 #ketubot #kesubos #spiritualhealing
Do you sometimes feel like you're married to 2 different people? 🤔 Today we learn that every human being has highs and lows. Your mission as a spouse is to ride the wave and be there for your soulmate every step of the way!
#talmud #jewishlearning #biblestudy #viraelul #transformativedaf #rabbi #dafyomi #daf73 #ketubot #kesubos #marriage
Why are some shivah houses overflowing with visitors while others struggle to get a minyan? Today we learn that when you help others 💁 in their time of need, they will be there when you need them. When you visit the sick 🤒 & comfort the bereaved 🪦they’ll be there during your illness or bereavement. #talmud #jewishlearning #biblestudy #viraelul #transformativedaf #rabbi #dafyomi #daf72 #ketubot #kesubos #shivah #bikurcholim
Should a newly married couple adopt the customs of the husband's family or the wife's? Today we ask: why not maintain BOTH customs?! #talmud #jewishlearning #biblestudy #viraelul #transformativedaf #rabbi #dafyomi #daf71 #ketubot #kesubos #minhag #passover #pesach #litvak #sephardic #ashkenazi
Do you ever find yourself selflessly helping another person who won't help themselves?🤔 Today we learn that it's time to stop being a martyr. You're just a crutch for their predicament! It’s far better to show them the ladder out of their pit!🪜#talmud #jewishlearning #biblestudy #viraelul #transformativedaf #rabbi #dafyomi #daf70 #ketubot #kesubos #martyr #stuckinarut #failuretolaunch
Why do some mourners find their faith boosted while others struggle with their faith? Today we learn that irrespective of a mourner’s response to the tragedy, we treat them with reverence and awe.
How do you tell a sincere charity-collector from a charlatan? 🥸 Should you act pious if you're not yet that frum? Today we learn that we have a mitzvah to give whoever sticks their hand out. We also learn that we must be as honest as possible on our needs-based scholarship application and our tax forms.
#talmud #jewishlearning #biblestudy #viraelul #transformativedaf #rabbi #dafyomi #daf68 #ketubot #kesubos #charity #charlatan #tzedakah #schnorrer #giving #fakeittillyoumakeit #hasidim #maggid #chasidim #hasidism #torah #chasidus #kiddushhashem #chilulhashem #taxes #tuition #yeshiva
How much charity should we give a wealthy person whose fortune has turned? Is the term “needy” subjective? Today we learn that we must provide whatever a person is lacking, even if it’s a fancy house and private school tuition!
Do you give as much as others to the synagogue campaign? Do you attend as many classes as others typically do? Today we learn that we must never compare ourselves to others’ spiritual lives. You are running your own race. The aim is to beat your personal best!
Do women get drunk more often than men? Are they less able to hold their alcohol? Today we learn that if your spouse is drinking to excess, it often means you’re not giving them the attention they need and deserve.
Why do we have kids? Why do religious folks have more children? Today we learn that every new soul you introduce into this world brings the world a step closer to the messianic era.
How do you forgive people who have wronged you? How do you restore a broken relationship to how it once was? Today we learn from Rabbi Akiva that loving your neighbor as yourself means not only putting the matter behind you, but making the other person feel at ease by showing you understand completely why they acted as they did!
Are you known as a kvetcher? Or do you light up every room you enter? Kvetching is unhealthy. It rarely helps the situation and it doesn’t make you very popular.
Which guests are coming over this Shabbos? Does your nanny prefer cholent or gefilte fish? Did you know that Elijah appears to those who share their Shabbos meals with friends and one’s extended household members?!
Why can’t we see God? Have you ever tasted Him? Or smelled Him? Just like a fine wine, a taste for God may be acquired and just like the bracha over the spices the world is filled with the smell of Hashem!
What do you remember more clearly: what you learned yesterday OR last year? If you’ve forgotten last year’s stuff, you need to constantly keep learning more just to keep steady! Because your engine is constantly leaking oil!
What’s the name of the person behind the counter at your local grocery store? Does your shul police officer have kids?
Are you carrying guilt over something that you did in your life where you acted impetuously or in the heat of the moment?
Have you ever cried and prayed over a child who seems so uninterested in Yiddishkeit? Did you wonder why God didn’t hear you?
Are you a chesed hero? Do you pride yourself on being that person that everyone can always call?
Do you find yourself caught in an improper spiritual place? Do you believe that it’s not worth the trouble of fixing things because you’re bound to slide right back into your less than stellar habits?
Have you ever worked really hard for a boss and wondered why you didn’t get promoted? Does your employer make you feel like you owe him the world?
Is it OK for young people and older folks to wear the same style of clothing? How about spiritual clothing?
Ever felt you can’t be a spiritual leader due to past misdeeds? Do you think you know yourself?
Why do teams do better playing at home? Because the fans are cheering. Who are your biggest fans?
Anyone who quotes his source brings redemption to the world? Why? What's the connection?
Have you ever seen a position advertised and thought: I'm unqualified? Was Moshe qualified?
Do you walk on eggshells around your teens? Worried that speaking your mind will push them further away?
Once your life is over does the soul stop effecting? How do you influence from the grave?
We all speak up when we need something. But who speaks for those who can't speak for themselves?
When it says "An eye for an eye" who says it means money? Why didn't the Torah just say so?
What if you were unwell on Yom Kippur and instructed not to fast? Is it OK to eat via IV?
Why do many people serve God halfheartedly? Do they really believe in it? So why do it?
Have you ever put your hand in your pocket & pulled out the right coin? Is that luck or God?
Why did most Jews stay in Babylonia when Ezra rebuilt the Temple? What's stopping you returning home today?
Assimilation is skyrocketing. We need to reach out. But can you convince them to believe if they don't?
Why do chasidim wear their belts on the outside? Why do some Sifrei Torah have their belts outside?
How far would you go for the sake of peace? Rabbi Meir would have you spit in his face!
What separates noble families from the rest of the pack? How do you instill greatness in your kids?
Why don't children enjoy Beethoven? They have no taste for finer pleasures. What's the ultimate pleasure?
Assuming bad things will happen invites negative energy & opens the door to a self-fulfilling prophecy. Tracht gut!
Why don't we pray effectively? Because we feel unworthy. But God is your father. It's time for MEGA-PRAYERS!
How much should we brainwash our children with Torah & mitzvos? Shouldn't we let them grow up & make their own choices?
What's worse than speaking lashon hara? Listening to it. When nobody listens, nobody speaks.
Your body is physical & your soul is spiritual, right? Not necessarily. You can elevate your body too!
We all know the important things to take care of in life. But sometimes we keep pushing them off. Take care of it today. Tomorrow you just might miss the last ferry...
Learn the entire Shulchan Aruch (all 4 sections) in a year with Rabbi Daniel Friedman! Episode 10
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Why do we learn about levirate marriage when we haven't yet learned about regular marriage?
What role does the dining table play in your Yiddishkeit? How do you choose your Shabbat guests?
Should we cancel people we don't agree with? Or should we give them the opportunity to do teshuvah?
Should we swing a chicken over our heads? Is it a pagan practice? Is it cruel to animals?