The EXTRA Club: Recent Episodes
Mark and Nicky
We all want to contribute to something greater than just us, something unique, something EXTRAordinary, something that makes the difference by our involvement.No one was born to be average or ordinary...No one was born not to succeed…You were born to be EXTRAordinary, to make THE difference.We all have a true purpose that inspires us; we all have a reason that drives us.This is the opportunity for you to be on that journey to being the Influencer and agent of change that you were born to be.We will help you find your EXTRA that will make you EXTRAordinary by exploring what holds you back and how to overcome those challenges.Each episode we will give you hints, tips, tools and strategies to find that EXTRA in life that you have been looking for.
Episode 31 - Having Difficult Conversations: Tips for Resolving Conflicts in a Relationships
On this episode of The EXTRA Club Podcast, we delve into the world of challenging relationships that often occur in the workplace and other areas of our lives.
We share our insights on resolving conflicts, emphasising the importance of defining the problem, understanding each other's perspective, and finding win-win solutions through cooperation and negotiation.
We also discuss the power of presupposition and how putting oneself in the other person's shoes can lead to better understanding and foster a compassionate work and home environment. Self-reflection, taking responsibility for one's own mind and results, and understanding one's own worldview are crucial steps in addressing communication problems.
We offer practical tips and techniques from NLP to navigate conflicts effectively, from addressing 'bullying' behaviour to handling constant disagreements. We also explore the conflict continuum and the different approaches of avoiding, diffusing, or confronting conflict, emphasising the importance of understanding which approach is most suitable in different circumstances.
Through personal anecdotes, we illustrate the power of reframing communication and letting go of negative interpretations, leading to improved relationships and even friendship.
Join us on this episode as we dive deep into the world of challenging workplace relationships and discover strategies and techniques to improve communication and foster positive relationships.
If you would like to find out more about NLP and how it can improve your life or if you are interested in being trained or coached by Mark and Nicky just head over to our website and send us a message. Speak soon!
Episode 30 - The Social Media Comparison Trap: How to Protect Your Mental Well-Being
On this episode of The EXTRA Club Podcast, we dive into the impacts of social media comparison. Social media has revolutionised the way we connect and stay in touch with others, but it also brings along challenges, including constant comparison to others and their lives.
We discuss the importance of dismissing comparison thoughts and shifting our attention towards what we already have, embracing our own unique journey. We highlight the effects of excessive social media usage and the relentless pursuit of validation through likes and followers, particularly among young people. Comparing follower and like counts with friends can lead to feelings of unpopularity or being unliked.
Join us on this episode as we explore the detrimental effects of social media comparison and provide insights and strategies to regain control over our online experiences.
If you would like to find out more about NLP and how it can improve your life or if you are interested in being trained or coached by Mark and Nicky just head over to our website and send us a message. Speak soon!
Episode 29 - Navigating the Journey of Grief: From Loss to New Beginnings
On this episode of The EXTRA Club Podcast, join us as we dive into the complex and deeply personal journey of grief. Our guest, Lucy, is the creator of Love Life Again Coaching and Events and she specialises in helping individuals navigate the grieving process and love life again.
Lucy shares, with Mark and Nicky, her own personal journey through grief and loss, including the passing of her family members and going through a difficult divorce, which led her to the realisation that grief encompasses more than just the loss of a loved one. She describes the emotional roller coaster she experienced and the impulsive decisions she made.
She emphasises the importance of letting go of sadness and pain, instead focusing on happy memories of loved ones and describes the journey to finding a new life and happiness without them
She now focuses on helping people come through various forms of grief, including experiences like divorce, financial issues, abuse, and bullying. Through her own experiences and training, she offers guidance and support to those navigating the grieving process. Lucy emphasises the importance of mindset training, using techniques such as Hypnotherapy and NLP, to help individuals move forward and find a new way of life.
Lucy's ultimate goal is to help individuals transition from negative to positive thinking and pull them out of their grief. Lucy believes in choosing happiness and promises to help others do the same. .
One of the key takeaway from this episode is that grief is a process, and with the help of professionals like Lucy, there is hope for moving forward and finding a new life after loss.
So join us on The EXTRA Club Podcast as we explore the transformative power of self-improvement and overcoming grief.
Through her website, Facebook page, and LinkedIn, Lucy offers free support groups, walks, and activities in addition to her coaching services.
If you would like to find out more about NLP and how it can improve your life or if you are interested in being trained or coached by Mark and Nicky just head over to our website and send us a message. Speak soon!
Episode 28 - Overcoming Perfectionism: Shifting from 'Must Be Perfect' to 'Consistently Growing and Improving
On this episode of The EXTRA Club Podcast, we explore the topic of perfectionism and how it can be addressed using Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) techniques.
Join us as we delve into the detrimental effects of perfectionism, the benefits of reframing, and the importance of celebrating even small achievements.
We share our insights on how eliminating limiting beliefs and replacing them with empowering ones can set us free.
We discuss the power of shifting from a mindset of perfection to one of growth and progress.
Anchoring, a powerful NLP technique, is explored as a tool for creating self-acceptance and self-compassion for perfectionists and a practical technique shared that everyone can do.
We emphasise the importance of embracing our uniqueness and celebrating our progress, rather than striving for an unattainable perfection.
Don't miss out on this episode of The EXTRA Club Podcast, where we encourage listeners to let go of perfection and embrace personal growth and fulfilment.
If you would like to find out more about NLP and how it can improve your life or if you are interested in being trained or coached by Mark and Nicky just head over to our website and send us a message. Speak soon!
Episode 27 - Being Resilient is Dead - there is a New Kid on the Block
In this episode of The EXTRA Club Podcast, we dive into the concept of Antifragility and how it differs from resilience.
We share our personal experiences that led to a deeper understanding of Antifragility and the power it can bring to individuals, organisations, and societies.
We explore NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) as a tool for integrating an Antifragile mindset and the importance of going beyond surface-level learning.
It's time to challenge traditional ideas of resilience and embrace an Antifragile approach to navigate life's challenges and achieve inner peace, meaningfulness, and fulfilment.
Join us for a new perspective on personal growth and evolution.
If you would like to find out more about NLP and how it can improve your life or if you are interested in being trained or coached by Mark and Nicky just head over to our website and send us a message. Speak soon!
Episode 26 - The Mind Body Connection
This week's episode is all about the mind body connection; Does our thinking effect our physical health?
If it does what can you do about it?
How can releasing repressed negative emotions help our physical health?
We share our own personal experiences of what works and what does work and examine the science behind the connection
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Episode 25- When you've lost your way in Life
We often think that we are the only ones who lose our way in life, get stuck and don't know how to get back on track.
In this episode we discuss the reasons that this happens and tell you what you can do to either avoid this happening or get yourself back on track.
Curious to find out more, listen now!
If you would like to find out more about NLP and how it can improve your life or if you are interested in being trained or coached by Mark and Nicky just head over to our website and send us a message. Speak soon!
Episode 24 - Past vs. Future; Decoding the Crystal Ball of Our Lives
In this thought-provoking episode of "Past vs. Future: Decoding the Crystal Ball of Our Lives," we delve into the age-old question: Does our past truly predict our future? Join us as we explore the fascinating interplay between our personal history and the paths we choose to take.
We'll dive into the concept of programming and how our upbringing, experiences, and societal influences can shape our decisions and actions. Can scientists accurately forecast the trajectory of our lives based on this programming? We'll unravel the mysteries behind the attempts to predict human behaviour and examine the limitations of such predictions.
Also, Find out what fleas have to do with our own personal limitations and how your RAS can be your friend or enemy.
Join us as we navigate the complex dynamics of our past, present, and future, and unlock the secrets to creating a life that aligns with our true desires. It's time to challenge the notion of a predetermined destiny and embrace the power of choice and self-determination.
Listen now and unlock the possibilities that await you on "Past vs. Future: Decoding the Crystal Ball of Our Lives."
Goa uncut - This episode was recoded whilst we were on holiday in Goa...so listen out for the odd Goan background chorus of dogs, crows and car horns :-)
If you would like to find out more about NLP and how it can improve your life or if you are interested in being trained or coached by Mark and Nicky just head over to our website and send us a message. Speak soon!
Episode 23 - Overcoming adversity: 5 empowering ways to bounce back from life’s setbacks
Goa uncut - This episode was recoded whilst we were on holiday in Goa...so listen out for the odd Goan background chorus of dogs, crows and car horns :-)
We all have things that go wrong, things that challenge us.
When you world is falling apart and you cant cope how do you stay sane in those times and get back on track.
How do you change your biggest challenges into your biggest opportunities?
In this episode we discuss what to do when things in life go wrong and give you five empowering tips to pick yourself back up and move forward in life,
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Episode 22 - What REALLY is NLP?
Goa uncut - This episode was recoded whilst we were on holiday in Goa...so listen out for the odd Goan background chorus of dogs, crows and car horns :-)
This episode explores the question that we are asked many times "What REALLY is NLP?"
We share our extensive thoughts, observations and knowledge that have made us Master Trainers and experts of NLP to give you comprehensive answers and a deeper understanding.
We delve into:
- What NLP REALLY is
- How NLP helps us to get to the root cause of our problems
- How NLP can help you in your life
- What the difference is between NLP and other forms of therapy such as Cognitive Behavioural Therapy and Counselling
So if you want to know the 'must haves' about NLP... Listen now!
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Episode 21 - How do you know when a Relationship is over?
Goa uncut - This episode was recoded whilst we were on holiday in Goa...so listen out for the odd Goan background chorus of dogs, crows and car horns :-)
This episode follows on from Episode 20 " How do you make marriage work and are there golden rules?" and discusses the follow up question sent in by one of our listeners of, "How do you know when a Relationship is finished ?"
We share our extensive thoughts, observations and knowledge that have made us relationship experts and everything discussed is not just relevant to marriage but all close relationships.
We delve into:
- How to recognise when a relationship is over and its time to let go or time to create a new relationship.
- The dynamic nature of relationships and how that impacts on us.
- How to keep the relationship evolving and thriving.
- Whats the right thing to do by the children when a relationship ends.
So if you want to know the 'must haves' that make marriage and relationships work... Listen now!
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Episode 20 - The Golden Rules of Marriage
Goa uncut - This episode was recoded whilst we were on holiday in Goa...so listen out for the odd Goan background sound of dogs, crows and car horns :-)
This episode answers a question sent in by one of our listeners, " How do you make marriage work and are there golden rules?"
We share our extensive thoughts, observations and knowledge that have made us relationship experts and everything discussed is not just relevant to marriage but all close relationships.
So if you want to know the 'must haves' that make marriage and relationships work... Listen now!
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Episode 19 - Why working hard doesn't bring success
In this episode Mark and Nicky talk about the difference between working hard and working smart. They then tell you how you can work efficiently so that you can achieve the success that you are aiming for. Listen now!
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You have the power to change your life.
In this Episode Mark and Nicky discuss that the decision is yours to take responsibility of your own life.
Curious to learn more? Enjoy listening!
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In this Episode Mark and Nicky discuss why people do self sabotage and how to stop it. Enjoy listening in this very informative and practical Extra Club episode.
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Do you believe in The Law of Attraction?
In this Episode Mark and Nicky discuss what is The Law of Attraction and how does it fit with NLP.
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In this Episode Mark and Nicky take a look at Why People Don't Ask For Help When They Need It
They noticed that most of the people's struggles can be easily resolved if they seek guidance / help from the right person. Curious? Take a listen now!
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WHY IS HAVING A PURPOSE IMPORTANT?
Mark and Nicky take a deep dive on how you can find your purpose in this very informative and practical Extra Club episode.
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With the situation that's been going on and the challenges that people have had, CHANGE has been really enforced on all of us.
On this wonderful Extra Club episode, Mark and Nicky discuss the only constant thing in life which is CHANGE.
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In this wonderful Episode Mark and Nicky shares some hints and tips on how to deal with lack of motivation and how do you find it.
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Do you feel like you don't belong? Like you're not good enough? Having self doubts? Do you feel like you have to work harder and longer than anyone else just to prove yourself?
In this Episode Mark and Nicky discuss how can you deal with IMPOSTER SYNDROME and give you practical help in how to overcome it.
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How many times do you think the phrase 'HOW TO BE HAPPY' is searched on google?
Mark and Nicky discuss some hints and tips on their elusive search for HAPPINESS. They talk about the importance of having inner contentment and peace of mind in this very informative and insightful Extra Club episode.
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"Either you run the day or the day runs you" -Jim Rohn
In this episode, Mark and Nicky talk about their morning routine that helps them get the results that they wanted and makes them be EXTRAORDINARY. They discuss the important aspects that you need to focus on so you can accomplish things by doing the least effort but still achieve maximum results. Curious? Listen now!
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How could having enough money ever be a problem? Well it may be the reason why you are financially struggling and never seem to have the money that you want. In this insightful episode Mark and Nicky discuss the scarcity mindset that keeps people poor and how it is formed and then the mindset required to achieve financial abundance .
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In this episode Mark and Nicky talk about the ONE thing that they have learned that all people who are EXTRAordinary have in common. They discuss how there are lots of variables but this is the one thing that is constant in those people. They then tell you how you can also do that one thing that will make you EXTRAordinary. Listen now!
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In this episode Mark and Nicky talk about why people make assumptions about the world around them and how this stops them from taking opportunities that they assume are closed to them. They look at what people who have the EXTRA do and give tips so that you can open up your world to a more successful life… and the most important bit ….they tell you how to stop making an ‘Ass’ of yourself…more about that inside.
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We all want the best for our children so Mark and Nicky discuss how to be the best parent that you can be. They give hints and tips on what you can do to help your children by actually changing your behaviour. It all starts with you!
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Have you ever wondered why people don’t keep their word? Why they talk a good job but don’t deliver?
Mark and Nicky talk about those people who have the EXTRA how they do what they say and what stops others from doing so …and Mark tells his favourite ’dog’ metaphor…oh and a metaphor about a bird and a tree. Curious? Be a person of action and listen now.
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Our interaction with others improves our mental health and well-being so how to start and maintain conversations is a very important part of our lives.
Mark and Nicky take a deep dive into the art of conversation and share their ‘Conversational Seven Deadly Sins’ and their process of how to start and maintain a conversation in this very informative and practical Extra Club episode.
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In this Episode Mark and Nicky take a look at how our ‘Attitude’ effects the results that you get in life.
They discuss what attitude is, which type of attitude gets you results and how to change your attitude…and as always Mark has a metaphor to tell. Enjoy!
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In this episode Mark & Nicky discuss that feeling of overwhelm that we have all had at some time in our lives.
They talk about the different types of overwhelm and give you practical help in how to overcome it to find your EXTRA.
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Join Behaviour and Relationship Experts, and Professional Coaches and Trainers, Mark and Nicky Taylor in The EXTRA Club Podcast. In this preview episode Mark and Nicky explain what The EXTRA Club is all about and how it can help you to be healthy, wealthy, happy and more successful in life.
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