Blending and Bonding: Recent Episodes
Ricky Allen
"Wisdom is a principal thing; therefore, get wisdom: and with all your getting get an understanding." Blending and Bonding is a podcast dedicated to helping "people understand people" and maximize relationships fulfillment. It is a reassuring voice crying out in the wilderness of relationship dysfunction, disappointment, and despair. Host Ricky Allen has a delightful and unique way of communicating and helping people translate common-sense concepts and fuse them into everyday practices that will enhance all relationships. Mediocre relationships can become good, good relationships can become great, and great relationships can become legendary. Let's Connect.
Are there times you feel your life is out of control?
Do people take advantage of you?
Are you disappointed with God because of unanswered prayers?
All of these questions require an accurate assessment of Boundaries.
In this episode, host Ricky Allen shares a contemplative conversation about boundaries. A boundary is a personal property line that marks those things you are responsible for.
Having clear Physical, Mental, Emotional, and Spiritual boundaries is essential to healthy, well-balanced relationships.
The law of Sowing and reaping is perhaps the essential law of boundaries.
- If you don't establish clear Physical, Mental, Emotional, and Spiritual boundaries, you interfere with the consequences of irresponsible behavior. People will continue to be careless when interacting with you.
- If you rescue people whenever they're irresponsible, you interrupt the Law of Sowing and Reaping.
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Every human being has three core needs:
1) To Be Seen
2) To Be Heard
3)To Be Connected.
We experience various emotions or feelings when others don't satisfy these needs.
Feelings are neither right nor wrong. Everyone has a right to feel. But, what happens when your feelings are a result of Subjective expectations?
· Feelings can trick us into thinking they represent reality
· Feelings drive us to do good and bad things
· Feelings can lead us to pursue instant gratification with no real long-term rewards
Emotional intelligence is a critical success factor in Owning Your Emotional Real Estate.
Join host Ricky Allen and guest Antionne Alcorn, Owner CEO of Thrive Counseling and Consulting Services, LLC, to gain insights into Interrogating Feelings and Discovering Applicable Truths.
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Have you ever expected someone to be or do something they never agreed to?
They have Speech smoother than oil.
They talk just for the thrill.
They say they will when they won't.
They say they do when they don't.
They say they can when they can't.
We all have "them" in our lives.
In this episode, host Ricky Allen has an intriguing conversation with guest Renee Maisonette about how Subjective Expectations entrap and adversely affect emotional wellness.
Subjective expectations aim to measure something which is not directly verifiable — such as how an individual thinks.
There is a conflict between subjective expectations and cruel realities regarding "Owning Your Emotional Real Estate."
Join the conversation as they discuss Owning Your Emotional Real Estate and unsetting the Subjective Expectation trap!
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Have you lost sight of your uniqueness trying to fit in where you don't belong?
If you don't know who you are, there's always an opportunist waiting to tell you.
If you don't know where you're going, perhaps, nowhere is good enough.
This episode begins with an intriguing story about The Eagle That Wouldn't Fly.
It is not what others say about you but what you accept that matters most.
Join host Ricky Allen and gain insights on Discovering and Celebrating Your Uniqueness.
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Does your self-identity put demands on others to satisfy you?
Understanding is a "well-spring of life to those seeking and obtaining it.
None of us can effectively relate to others until we can clearly understand ourselves and our purpose.
In this episode, host Ricky Allen and guest Jerry Davidson (Song Writer – Hymns for This Age, Author- Jerry A. Davidson, and Fitness Trainer) discuss the Lack of Self-awareness trap and how it affects relationships Blending and Bonding.
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Too often, our immature emotional needs, cravings to be the center of attention, physical impulses, and personal agendas make it challenging to Blend and Bond with another effectively.
None of us can effectively relate to others until we can clearly understand ourselves and our life purpose.Who are you?
What are your internal standards?
What is the foundation for those standards?
**How are those standards affecting your Character?
Join Host Ricky Allen as he discusses the Lack of Self-awareness trap and how to unset it.
There's nothing to it but to DOIT!**
There is miraculous energy between people who move beneath the surface and games, and each gives "One Hundred" percent of themselves to the good of their relationship.
"Blending and Bonding create Us without destroying You or Me."
In Season 1, join Host Ricky Allen, as he discusses the processes of Blending and Bonding, identifies traps that could hinder relationship fulfillment in these processes, and shares ways to unset those traps.
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