A podcast about the logical, ethical, and emotional flaws in Christianity for Exvangelicals, current believers, and anyone in between.
In this episode, Phil and Susie catch up and discuss the US election results and what went wrong for Democrats, how religious beliefs are correlated with being susceptible to disinformation, Project 2025, how we both felt upon learning the results, and how we move forward over the next 4 years.
The main part of the episode is Susie's conversation with our favorite expert on everything, Lars and his family. She got the chance to sit down with them at her home over the summer on their way back from picking up their kids from camp, and they have a very interesting conversation, with a special focus on how their family is adjusting to the recent revelation that their son, Alex was trans. They talk a bit about how their still Xtian parents have responded to that revelation and how they responded to Lars and Christie's deconversion, along with some other family member's responses. It's a fascinating and engaging conversation with Lars, Christie, and Alex along with special appearance from Susie's daughter, Audrey, who talks about her perceptions about what she thinks about trans questions and her views on therapy. The conversation concludes with a conversation with a few of the kids about their lives in a non-religious family, and it's truly refreshing! It's a wide ranging conversation that covers a wide variety of subjects. We hope you enjoy. Thanks to Lars and Christie for sharing with us and to Alex and Audrey for contributing and a big shout out to Susie for her solo hosting debut! She is fantastic!!
Notes and Resources
Graphic Referenced in the intro about disinformation: https://www.project-syndicate.org/commentary/2024-election-surveys-show-trump-voters-misinformed-on-major-issues-by-j-bradford-delong-2024-11?
Project 2025: The official site https://www.project2025.org/
An Analytical Overview from Fact Check: https://www.factcheck.org/2024/09/a-guide-to-project-2025/
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After an excessively long break, Phil and Suzie return for a little catch up chat. We talk about our summer breaks, where we both are now in our journeys away from faith and what the future might look like as we continue to move forward and what it means for the podcast and our lives in general. The episode concludes with some random podcast recommendation and a little discussion about religious trauma.
We are looking forward to getting back into the groove as we wrap up the year and Season 3 over the next few months.
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In this episode, Phil and Susie talk with Laura, a nurse, originally from WV who now lives in CA with her husband, 3 cats and a special needs stepson. She has taken a circuitous journey from Catholic, Presbyterian, Methodist, and Southern Baptist to eventual agnostic, humanistic atheism.
She has a Bachelor’s in Marketing from Johnson & Wales University in Providence and did advertising stuff for a few years. She switched gears after her mom’s death and went to nursing school. She has Associates and Master's Degrees in Nursing. She current works in an ICU step down unit in Pasadena. She enjoys reading, hiking, triathaloning (poorly and slowly), traveling, Braves baseball, Steelers and WVU Mountaineer football, cats, and craft beer. She is a published author and is adopted. According to Ancestry.com, Davy Crockett is her great x4 uncle.
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In this episode, Phil and Susie explore the topic of prophecy. We discuss what prophecy is, what criteria something needs to meet in order to be considered "fulfilled" prophecy, examples of "fulfilled" prophecy from the bible and determining if they meet the criteria, modern false prophets, and how the gift of prophecy has changed over the centuries. Be warned, there is a lot of bible in this episode and we compare the biblical text to historical data to help us determine if the bible really does have fulfilled prophecy. There are a lot of links in the show notes section if you'd like to dig into this further.
We also wanted to give our listeners the opportunity to support a fellow creator within the community, Tim Mills of Harmonic Atheist, who is in the midst of a difficult family and legal situation and needs some real support and help. You can connect with Tim at any of the links below to support his channels and to make a donation to help him in this time of need.
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In this episode, airing on Mother's Day (which we didn't realize at the time of recording), Phil and Suzie chat with Diane, who is a long-time Virginia resident, a mom to a brilliant nearly-25-year-old, and completely owned by a big, goofy black lab and two cats – one perfect angel and one complete ass. She adores them all. She also loves to swim, write, and travel, and she’s fascinated by architecture, especially old churches. Some have said that’s God reaching out to her, but that just makes her snort. An agnostic atheist since her late teens (but a doubter since childhood), she was indoctrinated and raised in the Methodist church. She enjoys hearing about others’ spiritual journeys, even when she doesn’t understand them.
We have a fascinating conversation about her upbringing, her transition from indoctrination to atheism, and the freedom, hope, and joy that she has found outside of religion and faith. Diane is the ultimate example of what many people strive for while deconstructing, namely the desire to be free, be herself, and connect with people on her own terms.
Diane writes on her blog, Breathing Underwater. You can connect with her at https://breathingunder-water.blogspot.com/
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In this episode, Phil and Suzie talk with Sarah Miller Mott, a former preacher/leader under the Foursquare Denomination. She is a published author of poetry and working on getting her novels that she has written over the years published. She tells us all about her very interesting story, growing up Lutheran in North Dakota, how she deconstructed, became an atheist, and then went back to Xtianity in a whole new way, and then after being misled and manipulated by the church, deconstructed and deconverted again. She tells the story how she will never go back to being a believer and why. Her story is fascinating and engaging and you will certainly benefit from hearing it.
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In this episode, Phil and Suzie talk with Darante' Lamar in an incredible, wide-ranging, and passionate discussion about his faith background, his life in ministry, what lead to his deconversion, and the impact of faith and the journey away from faith on him as an Black man and the black community.
Bio: Darante’ LaMar's journey from serving as a leader in both charismatic megachurches and hyper spiritual storefront churches, to embracing a life of secularism and reason, offers a unique perspective on the evolution of faith in contemporary society. With a background that includes virtually every role within the ministry, Darante’ brings a comprehensive understanding of the inner workings of religious organizations and the impact they have on individuals and communities. Currently, Darante’ is a Global Project Manager and DEI executive in the healthcare industry. He serves, alongside his wife, as the managing partner of DLDD World Group - a nonprofit committed to people centric projects, programs and progress. He is the author of three published books: Significant, Parenting on Purpose, and Memphis: The Last Supper and three upcoming books, Making The Jump, Christ Held Up and The Case for Religion
Link to the "Hell" video referenced in the episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W-mQwkFBgaY
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In this episode, Phil and Susie discuss the correlation between religious ideology and the ideologies of authoritarianism. This was suggested to us as a It’s a Feature, not a Bug” idea, but we decided to expand it to a full episode topic, because there’s a lot of interesting things to talk about! Thanks to one of our listeners who suggested the topic.
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In this episode, Phil and Suzie talk with Helen Greene, Ambassador and Fundraising Coordinator for Recovering from Religion. In this wide-ranging conversation, Helen talks with us about her interesting journey away from faith from her Catholic upbringing, discovery of paganism, and eventual deconstruction to skepticism and atheism.
Helen comes from a diverse background of beliefs. Raised Roman Catholic, then rejecting the church to move into paganism, she was a pagan high priestess for 10 years during her time in that faith (which was 13 years). Eventually realizing through education and skeptical inquiry into herself, she came to the conclusion she had no solid evidence for her beliefs – which brought her to a more humanistic and realistic worldview. Still studying psychology even out of college, she spends her time trying to understand human behavior, the emotional and psychological understandings of ourselves, and what forms our perspectives and why. She is an ambassador for Recovering from Religion, head of their fundraising team, and one of the co-hosts of their Monday night podcast RfRx. She also volunteers at the Atheist Community of Austin, a rotating co-host of the podcast the Non Prophets, hosts a TikTok live The Queerly Godless Feminist via the ACA,and one Women Atheist Unload and Global Atheists at the Skeptic Haven YouTube channel. For fun, she enjoys horror (esp cosmic horror) and sci-fi movies, video gaming, and diving deep into made-up world-building stories such as the Lord of the Rings.
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In our first standalone Flawed Theology in Real Life segment, Phil and Susie analyze a clip where the concept of God creating evil is compared to the realities of cold and darkness. See if you think this theology is flawed and why?
Source Material: https://www.facebook.com/reel/3477048449227507
As deconstruction and deconversion are becoming more prevalent in our world, the institutions of Xtianity are flailing to craft a response that will attempt to stem the tide of people leaving the faith, the church, and god himself. The “explanations” of why people are leaving, of course, they are not based in reality or facts, because most have never spoken with anyone who’s actually left to find out their real reasons. In this episode, Phil and Suzie debunk many of these common “myths” that the church attempts to sell as the real reasons for deconstruction.
Show Notes & Links
https://relevantmagazine.com/current/skillets-john-cooper-its-time-to-declare-war-against-this-deconstruction-christian-movement/
Data Nuggets: Catholics and Climate Change
https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2023/09/28/the-pope-is-concerned-about-climate-change-how-do-us-catholics-feel-about-it/
It's Not a Bug, It's a Feature: Conspiracy Theories
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In this bonus segment from episode 1, Phil and Susie talk about her cat, a fatal illness, and how it all relates to flawed theology. Enjoy!
We are back for Season 3 and we are excited to be here! In this premiere episode, Phil and Susie catch on things since we took a break for the holidays and talk about what's to come in Season 3! We will introduce two new segments for this season, "Data Nuggets" and "It's Not a Bug, It's a Feature!"
Data Nuggets Link: https://www.npr.org/2024/01/24/1226371734/religious-nones-are-now-the-largest-single-group-in-the-u-s
It's not a bug, it's a feature! https://www.whsv.com/2024/02/02/ruckersville-church-pastor-arrested-charged-with-sexual-battery/
Over the break, Phil also had the chance to talk Stacie Grahn, aka Apostacie on Instagram and the host of the "Stacie's Mom Podcast" on YouTube. We had an incredible discussion about her life, faith background, and eventual deconstruction from charismatic christianity.
Stacie Bio:
Stacie Grahn was raised in a charismatic born-again Christian environment. In 2019, she began questioning her beliefs, which eventually led her to embrace atheism by 2021. Now an active voice online, Stacie shares her story to support others grappling with their faith. Together with her mom, who also transitioned away from religion, they host a podcast discussing their own processes as well as inviting other people on who have had similar experiences. Stacie lives in British Columbia Canada with her husband and 3 boys.
Stacie's links:
https://www.instagram.com/apostacie/
Stacie's Mom Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@thestaciesmompodcast
Secular Soapbox: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TQ1xdPR2h5U&list=PLK-HLKx4ZI5vx4m0ebcVnqARHE7FKgNac
https://linktr.ee/apostacie
Stacie's Resources:
Thinking Atheist: https://www.thethinkingatheist.com/
MindShift: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZ1tYgwUDYAqGSE7RGLx5CQ
Recovering from Religion: https://www.recoveringfromreligion.org/
The Line: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIv3LvN_0CNzMpSrTF9naNA
Street Epistemology: https://www.youtube.com/@magnabosco210
Paulogia: https://www.youtube.com/@Paulogia
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In this episode, Phil and Susie wrap up the season with another Ask Us Anything session. We are excited to have a guest cohost, Arline from the Graceful Atheist Podcast!! We really had a blast with Arline and are so honored that she spent some time with us. Her insights and answers to your questions are just fantastic!!
We received a lot of great questions, which are listed below with timestamps:
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In this episode, we will discuss the idea of “the soul” and how it relates to the afterlife. Is there evidence for the existence of the soul? If the soul doesn’t exist, then what does this mean for the idea of the “afterlife”. Follow this thread further to make the point that basing one’s life on the potential eternality of our existence after death is flawed and how and why to make the most of this life, if it’s truly the only one we have.
Show Notes and Links:
https://www.britannica.com/topic/soul-religion-and-philosophy
https://qz.com/789780/neuroscience-and-psychology-have-rendered-it-basically-unnecessary-to-have-a-soul
https://qz.com/1569158/neuroscientists-read-unconscious-brain-activity-to-predict-decisions
https://www.pewresearch.org/religion/2021/11/23/views-on-the-afterlife/
https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2011/07/110714103828.htm
https://www.cambridge.org/engage/api-gateway/coe/assets/orp/resource/item/64dab58669bfb8925af0af8e/original/consciousness-and-afterlife-in-the-evolution-of-intelligence.pd
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6172100/
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7E4Tw21YBww
Seeing Through Christianity by Bill Zuersher https://www.amazon.com/Seeing-through-Christianity-Critique-Evidence/dp/1499018495
Evolution of God by Robert Wright https://www.amazon.com/Seeing-through-Christianity-Critique-Evidence/dp/1499018495
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In this episode, Phil and Susie attempt to tackle a really broad subject, the historical Jesus. We want to be clear that we are not biblical scholars and that there is no way in the course of this episode that we are going to provide definitive answers to the questions we will be asking today. Biblical scholars have dedicated their whole lives to this topic and we hope to spark your interest in the topic, just as we have been fascinated by it. We are going to try to address 3 main questions about Jesus, and the reason that we are tackling these questions is because a lot of Xtians like to say that their faith is “not a religion”, but is “all about Jesus”.
So, like Slim Shady, we’re asking the real Jesus to “please stand up”.
Episode Sections
Intro (:24)
Topic Intro (3:28)
Did the Jesus as described in the Gospels Exist? (21:35)
What External Validation Do We Have? (35:30)
Did the Historical Jesus Exist (49:55)
Discussion about Bias (55:03)
Notes and Links
https://jamesbishopblog.com/2021/01/08/the-historical-jesus-as-an-apocalyptic-prophet/
https://ehrmanblog.org/did-jesus-call-himself-god/
https://www.flawedtheology.com/2022/01/did-jesus-ride-two-donkeys-into.html
https://coldcasechristianity.com/writings/a-thorough-guide-to-the-non-canonical-gospels/
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Historical_Jesus
https://vridar.org/2016/03/28/bart-ehrman-jesus-before-the-gospels-basic-element-3-oral-tradition/
https://ehrmanblog.org/did-the-triumphal-entry-really-happen/
In this episode, Phil and Susie talk with Caitlin, owner of Atheist Aesthetic. Caitlin is from Texas and she shares a lot of wisdom about her journey away from faith, her thoughts on being an "angry atheist" and how she moved forward from that stage to being happy, fulfilled, and confident in who she is and how she can live a good and moral life without the overwatch of a deity. She is passionate about many non-profit organizations and she shares a ton of good resources for anyone on a path of questioning their belief system. Lots of links below for your reference.
Show Notes and Resources:
Non-Profits to Support:
Freedom from Religion Foundation https://ffrf.org/
Recovering from Religion : https://www.recoveringfromreligion.org/
Secular Therapy Project: https://www.seculartherapy.org/
Footsteps: https://footstepsorg.org/
In this episode, Phil and Susie talk with Todd "YoyoFox" Rollenhagen. Phil met Todd through the yoyo community and discovered that he was an exBaptist agnostic with a big heart and some interesting life experiences. Todd tells his story of how and why he left church, doesn't believe in a god, but still remains spiritual and open to other experiences. He also has some thoughts about the church and how it's causing damage to humanity. We hope you enjoy this wide ranging conversation.
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In this episode, Phil and Susie "dig" into the power of music. Harlan Howard in the 50’s used the phrase “3 chords and the truth” to describe his genre of country music and many other artists have used this phrase and allowed it to be their philosophy of songwriting. This phrase is funny because most worship songs are 3 chords and purports to be truth, but what is the truth that is actually being conveyed? How does music actually work to affect our emotions and how is this exploited in worship/Xtian music and sold as the “Spirit”? Can “secular” music do the same thing that Xtian music does? We will talk (and even sing) about some of the tactics that are used and even how chord structures and musical formulas can elicit certain responses.
Show Links and Resources:
https://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2023/07/29/1190374074/these-scientists-explain-the-power-of-music-to-spark-awe?utm_source=facebook.com&utm_campaign=npr&utm_term=nprnews&utm_medium=social
https://languageandreligion.com/2022/04/20/emotional-manipulation-in-worship-music/
https://blog.landr.com/emotional-chord-progressions/
https://reckersworld.jimdofree.com/religion/recker-s-writings-to-enlighten-and-entertain/how-churches-use-music-to-manipulate-you/
https://capuzzler.medium.com/emotion-effect-in-religious-music-9d383b34b24e
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/17470218221075330
https://www.ox.ac.uk/research/choir-singing-improves-health-happiness-%E2%80%93-and-perfect-icebreaker
https://www.praisecharts.com/blog/the-nashville-number-system-chart-for-bands/
Genetically modified skeptic: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7btz0ocXDeg
Faith Free: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XoaknMByfRs
*From the Inside Out: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i-9mUDbGsEk
Closing Poem: https://www.joniroseblog.com/post/strings-the-use-of-religious-song
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One of the most challenging aspects of deconversion for many of us was the decision to reveal our leaving the faith to our family and close friends and making it public, etc. Since many of us come from Xtian households and have still believing parents, there can be some serious anxiety around the decision to tell our parents that we can’t believe what they brought us up to believe.
We want to discuss the why and how of these difficult conversations and hopefully provide some semblance of community and a reminder that you are not alone in your feelings about this part of the journey.
We are joined by a diverse panel of guests, Breanne, Miccah, and Lars, who share a bit of their deconversion story and how they approached the decision to share their journey with their closest people, like friends and family. It's a wide ranging conversation with incredible wisdom that we hope will be beneficial for anyone on a deconstruction journey.
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CW/TW: This episode contains discussion about sexuality, child sexual abuse, and other topics related to human sexuality.
In this week's episode, Phil and Susie talk with Janis. Janis is a long time friend of Phil’s from his days at moderately progressive Baptist Church in VA, where we both lived. Janis was married to someone who was affiliated with the worship team and went through a very difficult discovery in her marriage, which led her down a pretty incredible life path. She is a bona fide badass who is an flight medic/ EMT and was a medic and competitor on the TV series, Naked and Afraid. We discuss Janis' faith background, her marriage experience, mental health, purity culture, and how she views faith and god now. We hope that you find her story interesting, relevant, and powerful for you on your journey.
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In this episode, Phil and Susie discuss how the volume and intensity of animal suffering in the world serves as evidence to disprove theism, especially the version of theism that purports a loving, omniscient, and omnipotent deity. Is animal suffering and the theory of evolution evidence against the existence of a loving God? We expand on the problem of evil that extends beyond human suffering into the animal world.
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In this episode, Phil and Susie talk with Alex, who is is a recently deconverted Mormon and his story is truly fascinating!! We named this episode the way we did because Alex actually was a "high priest" in the Church of Mormon. If you ever wanted to know anything about Mormonism, you will learn a lot in this episode. Alex shares about his life growing up in the LDS church, the "shelf" items that finally led to his deconversion, some fascinating ways that Mormonism is similar to mainstream evangelical Xtianity a whole lot more! Plus a fun trivia segment where we ask Alex "Is this really Mormon?" Be sure to listen all the way to the end!! It's a good one!
Show References:
"A Letter to my Wife": https://www.letterformywife.com/the-letter
CES Letter: https://cesletter.org/CES-Letter.pdf
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In this episode, Phil and Susie discuss the concept “If god Were real”. We will discuss all the ways that we would expect a truly true God to reveal itself and how they would act. We will compare how it would be if God were real or if God were created by humans and then how God is presented in Christianity and see what lines up. We will also discuss an epistemological question that could be useful when engaging believers—what could God do better?
Based on a post of Susie's: https://www.flawedtheology.com/2021/11/if-god-were-real.html
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Prayer is a quintessential part of Xtian doctrine and is a mainstay of the life of the believer. Phil and Susie will delve into what prayer is, if it actually works, why and how people use the concept of prayer to give their faith more value/ meaning/ reality. Based a bit off of Susie’s blog post “Does Prayer Work?” which was the first post I ever read of hers. https://www.flawedtheology.com/2021/11/does-prayer-work.html We will discuss what “does it work” means and how we view prayer now, on the other side of faith versus how we viewed it before.
Show Notes and Links:
https://www.theodysseyonline.com/yes-no-wait
https://www.cru.org/us/en/train-and-grow/spiritual-growth/prayer/why-we-pray.html
https://www.cru.org/us/en/train-and-grow/spiritual-growth/prayer/how-to-pray.html
https://www.flawedtheology.com/2021/11/does-prayer-work.html
https://get.tithe.ly/blog/how-many-times-is-prayer-mentioned-in-the-bible
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2802370/
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In this extremely passionate episode, Phil and Susie talk with Robert Peoples, Founder and CEO of Affinis Humanity. Affinis Humanity is a non-profit organization strategizing to alleviate religious discrimination for secular communities in education, business, and government. Since establishing Affinis Humanity in 2016, Robert has highlighted the problematic woes of racism, women's rights, homophobia, and their connection with societal religiosity. They have a unique focus on Government and Education.
We talk with Robert about his faith background, how and why he started Affinis, the dangers of christian nationalism, theocracy, and fascism to our society. He explores the connection between christianity and racism and if humanism could actually be the most beneficial way to live and full and meaningful life. This is probably the most fun Phil and Susie have had during an interview and Robert's genuineness and passion for making the world a better place really shines through.
You can find Robert on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/affinishumanity/ and on his website https://linktr.ee/affinis_humanity
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In this week's episode, Phil and Susie talk about the concept of “magical thinking” and how it is used by believers to explain things that they just don’t understand or to explain away things that they can’t logically defend. The common explanation for explaining the unexplainable for the believer is the “providence” or “sovereignty” of God, meaning God’s overarching plan for the universe and by extrapolation, one’s entire life. Phil and Susie ask, "Does God really have a plan? Is it a good one? What happens when people question the plan and what happens when we discover that there isn’t one?"
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In this episode, we have our first international guest, Aaron from Australia. Phil and Susie talk with Aaron about a wide variety of topics, including his faith background, childhood, and significant life events, some differences between Xtianity in Australia vs. the US, music, Hillsong, and worship leading. We also dig into how deconversion happened for him and a bit about grieving the loss of faith and how Xtianity shortcuts the grief process. It's a really enlightening and honest look at what it's like to give your whole life to a belief system and the courage it takes to take back that life for yourself. We hope you enjoy!
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TW/CW: discussion about abuse, general
In this episode, Phil and Susie discuss that the idea that Xtianity is not a “religion, but a relationship” is flawed, but if believers want to maintain that it is a relationship, it’s certainly not a healthy one. We will discuss the ways the “relationship” that God has with his followers has numerous similarities to a human abusive relationship. This will hopefully be information to help you decide if the things you believe are harmful to your life or not.
We also highlight a really special "Good Human of the Week". Kristen from the Kitten Sanctuary talks with us about all things kitten rescue and how she and her organization do all the work with no help from any deity.
https://www.facebook.com/kristensfosterkittens
Show Notes and Links:
https://www.thehotline.org/identify-abuse/domestic-abuse-warning-signs/
https://philqmusings.wordpress.com/2021/09/20/its-not-religion-its-a-relationship/
https://www.reddit.com/r/tifu/comments/gkq7f5/tifu_by_admitting_to_my_coworkers_that_my_wife/
https://www.gotquestions.org/born-sinners.html
https://www.thehotline.org/identify-abuse/domestic-abuse-warning-signs/
https://www.openbible.info/topics/being_friends_with_non_christians
https://www.patheos.com/blogs/daylightatheism/essays/is-the-christian-relationship-with-god-healthy/
George Carlin on religion: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gPOfurmrjxo
Deuteronomy 28
Resources for human domestic violence
https://www.thehotline.org/get-help/
In this episode, Phil and Susie talk about the origins of morality and if it's possible to be "good without God". We dig into the definitions of morality and discuss if morality is objective or subjective. We have both of our new segments in this episode, Flawed Theology and a truly inspiring Good Human of the Week story.
Show Notes and Links
https://plato.stanford.edu/entries/religion-morality/
https://www.betterhelp.com/advice/morality/what-is-objective-morality-what-can-it-teach-us/
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TW/CW: This episode features audio recorded from a church service/ baby dedication. If you are sensitive or triggered by church language or church services, please skip this episode or continue with the proper mindset and self-care.
In this episode, Phil and Susie discuss a baby dedication that Susie attended for her sister's child at a Seventh Day Adventist church. We dissect the pastor's dedication speech line by line and do some classic exegetical breakdown of everything he says and why it's such flawed theology. We talk about child indoctrination, secularism, the nature of belief and unbelief, and we delve into the 10 Commandments and discuss why they might not be such great guides to live by.
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In this week's episode, Phil and Susie talk with Humanist Chaplain, Licensed Clinical Counselor, Coach, and our Good Human of the Week, Bart Campolo. Bart is the longtime host of the Humanize Me Podcast, author of "Why I Left, Why I Stayed" which he cowrote with his famous, evangelical father, Tony Campolo, following his deconversion from a life as a professional Christian, pastor, and evangelist He served as the first humanist chaplain at USC and now serves his community as a therapist and coach in Cincinnati and around the world. Our conversation covers a wide variety of topics, especially around the idea of morality, humanism, having meaningful conversations with people we care about, how to make the world a better place in a secular way, and so much more.
Bart’s Links:
https://humanizemepodcast.com/
https://www.patreon.com/humanizeme
https://bartcampolo.org/
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Flawed Theology is back in Season 2! Phil and Susie chat about new happenings over the break, and we delve into the fascinating and telling topic of data, statistics and the inevitable rise of the religious “nones”. We also introduce two new feature segments “Flawed Theology in Real Life” and “Good Human of the Week”
Good Human of the Week | How you can be a good human and help this weeks' good human: https://www.gofundme.com/f/fireleaveshomeless
Topic Notes:
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On this episode, Phil and Susie wrap up the inaugural season of the podcast. This episode starts with a brief discussion about the recent comments made by William Lane Craig, a popular Christian apologist, who discussed his epistemic standards for believing in Christianity. The rest of the episode is filled with Phil and Susie answering questions from listeners and a few questions for each other. Stay tuned for announcements about Season 2 and some fun developments that will be launching during the offseason.
Links referenced in the episode:
Reasonable faith: https://www.reasonablefaith.org/media/reasonable-faith-podcast/questions-on-quantum-mechanics-certainty-and-extreme-resistance
William Lane Craig: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9LRWEoTtlII
Mythvision https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9LRWEoTtlII
Paulogia https://youtu.be/jjHo7qDLuNE
Susie's Blog: https://www.flawedtheology.com/
Phil's Blog: https://philqmusings.wordpress.com/
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Get ready Flawed Theology fans, it's almost the end of Season 1! For the season finale, we are doing an "ask us anything" episode!! Send in your questions to us via email, Twitter, Instagram, or on our Facebook page. Ask us questions about deconstruction, your faith journey (or lack thereof), theology, or whatever you'd like to know that might be interesting.
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In today's episode, Phil and Susie delve into the concept of fear and how integral a part it plays in the life of a Christian. We will talk about how fear is the basis of christianity (and many religions), but also teaches its followers to not be afraid. It’s a dichotomy that we’d like to dissect and talk about. The belief system is based on several ways that fear is used throughout the “christianity lifecycle”.
Susie's Blog: https://www.flawedtheology.com
Phil's Blog: https://philqmusings.wordpress.com/
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Music: "One Fine Day" and "Let the Sunshine" from Keep Calm and Podcast On; "Imagination" and "Sunshine" from LemonMusicStudio; "Alone with the Darkness" from Nature's Eye
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In today's episode, Susie and Phil talk with skeptic and atheist, Anthony Magnabosco. Anthony has taken the concept of Street Epistemology to another level with his YouTube conversations and has big plans to take SE to new heights and to new applications. We explore what SE is, how it can be useful beyond conversations about god belief and religion, and what Anthony has planned for the future of SE, especially with his new organization, Street Epistemology International.
All of Anthony’s links: https://linktr.ee/magnabosco
Website: https://anthonymagnabosco.com/
YouTube: https://youtube.com/magnabosco210
About SE: https://tinyurl.com/abm-se-resources
Street Epistemology International: https://streetepistemology.com/sei
SE Playlist https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLfb-sNm-sTE0fZQkynr-qTu6krq68S-po
How Minds Change book: https://www.amazon.com/How-Minds-Change-Surprising-Persuasion/dp/0593190297
A Manual for Creating Atheists book: https://www.amazon.com/Manual-Creating-Atheists-Peter-Boghossian-ebook/dp/B00LKBT0MC/ref=tmm_kin_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1659100155&sr=1-1
How to donate: https://streetepistemology.com/donate
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In today's episode, Phil and Susie will ask the question, if the god of Christianity is the one true god, why is he so damn hard to find? We will talk about the idea of “divine hiddenness” and why a real deity, if they were all powerful, all loving, and truly wanted to save their creations, probably wouldn’t be so hard to find, but would want to be known and easily found by everyone.
Susie's Blog: https://www.flawedtheology.com
Phil's Blog: https://philqmusings.wordpress.com/
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Music: from "Keep Calm and Podcast On" album
Show Notes
Phil and Susie chat more in Part 2 with Lars Cade, self taught rage learning expert in the areas of evolutionary biology, young earth creationism, and all things scientific. In this episode, we continue the conversation and talk about young earth creationism and why it's not possible, common arguments for YEC and how to debunk them, intelligent design, and Lars' doctrine of personal infallibility. We start off with a complex scientific discussion between Phoebe Buffet and noted TV paleontologist, Dr. Ross Geller, which is sure to whet your appetite for some serious learning in this episode.
Show Notes and Resources
Phil's Blog: https://philqmusings.wordpress.com/
Susie's Blog: https://www.flawedtheology.com/
(Post that explains "praying to the milk jug": https://www.flawedtheology.com/2021/11/does-prayer-work.html)
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Find Lars:
Learn Evolution
In today's episode, Susie and Phil talk with Lars Cade about some very interesting topics. We are both very interested in science and are always looking to find people who know more than we do about a given topic. Lars is essentially a self-taught guru on the topics of evolutionary biology, young earth creationism, and intelligent design. We are really excited to dig into these topics today and we hope that this will spark your interest to deepen your learning and knowledge in these areas, not only for the standpoint of being able to intelligently debate them with people who believe in YEC or ID, but also for your own personal knowledge building. There are a massive amount of links below with a bunch of information that will help you on your scientific journey.
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Links:
In today's episode, Phil and Susie delve into some of the early childhood objections that Susie had to Christianity. We will discuss the objections, how Christians might respond to these objections, and how we view these objections now as adults who've left the faith. Asking these questions and exploring these objections would be viewed a heresy in our previous lives, so we named this episode "The One with the Heretical Objections" to poke the idea of heresy in the eye a bit, since the real heresy is Christianity.
Passage mentioned by Susie about "shriveled" hands: https://biblia.com/bible/rsv/leviticus/21/16-23 (hebrew word used is sheber, meaning a breaking, fracture, crushing, breach, crash). "Shriveled" may not be the best way to describe this, but that's how Susie interpreted and remembered this passage due to personal experience :)
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Phil and Susie embark on a new journey with our first guests ever on the show! April Ajoy & Beecher Reuning are an amazing married duo who graciously agreed to join us today to talk about their marriage and how they navigated the discovery that Beecher was trans non-binary and how that made their marriage stronger, how purity culture affected their lives both individually and together, and about the deconstruction of their evangelical beliefs and where that's led and is leading.
April is a content creator who uses humor to shine light on the harmful, toxic and sometimes just weird traits of evangelicalism. She now identifies as a "recovering conservative" and is navigating through her own faith deconstruction journey through a comedic lens on social media. https://www.instagram.com/aprilajoy https://www.facebook.com/realaprilajoy https://www.tiktok.com/@aprilajoy
Beecher is a non-binary filmmaker residing in Tennessee with their wife and two daughters. Having only recently come out, they are in the process of deconstructing oppressive ideologies in order to promote authenticity and a larger spiritual connection in themselves. It's a journey, but they still try have fun on the way. https://www.instagram.com/hellobeecher/ https://www.tiktok.com/@hellobeecher https://www.facebook.com/beecherreuning
Music: "One Fine Day" & "Childish Prank" Susie's Blog: https://www.flawedtheology.com/ Phil's Blog: https://philqmusings.wordpress.com/
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In this episode, Phil and Susie continue their conversation about the "inerrancy" of Scripture and look to expose the errors by pointing out scientific and historical inaccuracies in the text.
UPDATE: Additional Notes and Clarifications for some topics that we discussed in this episode: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1O_PI3FkZQPPakIlWdSllckM5bLSnSlhKAWOnX7lYDAw/edit?usp=sharing
Phil's Blog: https://philqmusings.wordpress.com/
Susie's Blog: https://www.flawedtheology.com/
Music: "Childish Prank" by Lemon Music Studio
Show Notes/ Resources
https://dinosaurpictures.org/ancient-earth#500
https://www.geomorphology.org.uk/sites/default/files/geom_tech_chapters/4.2.10_CosmogenicNuclideAnalysis.pdf
Gutsick gibbon: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T0tikAqD99M&t=1710s
List of impact caters: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_impact_craters_on_Earth
Viced Rhino: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3fLA-gfK6CQ
Book of Daniel: Darius the Mede https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Darius_the_Mede
Book of Daniel: Nabonidus vs Nebuchadnezzar https://www.churchofjesuschrist.org/study/ensign/1986/09/nebuchadnezzar-or-nabonidus-mistaken-identities-in-the-book-of-daniel?lang=eng
Gerasa vs Gadara: https://biblicalhistoricalcontext.com/gospels/gerasa-gadara-gergesa-from-where-did-the-pigs-stampede/
https://rationalwiki.org/wiki/Evidence_against_a_recent_creation
The Dossier of Reason: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1f6ZewV_Ro5HLixACGE_wgJrnlFNVKVxTfuVALqARNEs/preview?hl=en_US&pli=1#
Circular reasoning for the Pyramid of Giza: https://answersingenesis.org/archaeology/ancient-egypt/were-the-pyramids-built-before-the-flood/
https://www.news24.com/News24/The-Problem-of-the-Bible-Inaccuracies-contradictions-fallacies-scientific-issues-and-more-20120517
Today Phil and Susie will be talking about the claim that the Bible is inerrant, and how we can use the Bible itself to disprove that claim. We are gonna split this up into a 2 part episode because there’s so much to cover so we want to be able to really dig into this topic because it’s a fun one! Today’s episode will focus on what inerrancy is, a little history of how we got the modern day Bible, especially the NT, look into some various types of contradictions that are rampant throughout the text and then what a failure of inerrancy would really mean for Christianity.
Phil's Blog: https://philqmusings.wordpress.com/
Susie's Blog: https://www.flawedtheology.com/
Show Notes/ Resources
https://www.etsjets.org/files/documents/Chicago_Statement.pdf
https://docs.google.com/document/d/1f6ZewV_Ro5HLixACGE_wgJrnlFNVKVxTfuVALqARNEs/preview?hl=en_US&pli=1#
https://www.news24.com/News24/The-Problem-of-the-Bible-Inaccuracies-contradictions-fallacies-scientific-issues-and-more-20120517
https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueAtheism/comments/2v36v9/in_response_to_the_pastor_looking_for_honest/
https://bibleinspectors.com/posts/2018/2/16/how-many-horsemen-did-david-capture
https://rationalwiki.org/wiki/Evidence_against_a_recent_creation
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LJgWvEeTFgY&feature=youtu.be
YouTube channels to check out: Aron Ra, Gutsick Gibbon, Dapper Dino, Creationist Dan
Episode Music
Intro: One Fine Day from Podcast.co "Keep Calm and Podcast On"
Interludes: Childish Prank by lemonmusicstudio
In today’s episode, we wanted to tell a little more of our stories, but from a different angle. We come from very different faith backgrounds and so we wanted to compare and contrast the different time periods in our lives and what our mindsets were during these times and talk about how even though our journeys were very different, we both arrived at the same place. We hope this will be an enlightening conversation between the two of us as we “interview” each other about our journeys away from faith and religion.
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Music: "The Beauty of Authenticity" by One Man Book
Susie's Blog: https://www.flawedtheology.com/
Phil's Blog: https://philqmusings.wordpress.com/
TW/CW: Child indoctrination, child slavery, child abuse
Phil and Susie discuss how exposing children to Christianity as a mandatory belief system is indoctrination and has lasting effects on child development, character development, personality development, and can lead to extreme behaviors and lifelong consequences.
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Susie's Blog: https://www.flawedtheology.com/
Phil's Blog: https://philqmusings.wordpress.com/
Show Notes:
Music: "The Beauty of Authenticity" by One Man Book
References:
https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1111/cogs.12138
https://www.edge.org/3rd_culture/humphrey/amnesty.html
https://www.scholastic.com/parents/family-life/social-emotional-learning/development-milestones/age-reason.html
https://www.gty.org/library/Articles/A264/The-Age-of-Accountability
https://www.focusonthefamily.com/family-qa/what-the-bible-says-about-the-age-of-accountability/
https://drsteveeichel.com/about-cults
https://philqmusings.wordpress.com/2021/05/
https://www.flawedtheology.com/2021/11/childhood-indoctrination-creating.html
In this episode, Phil and Susie examine and discuss the idea of biases, logical fallacies, and the difference between science and pseudoscience.
Show Notes:
Avenue Q clip: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RovF1zsDoeM
Ken Ham/ Bill Nye Debate: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z6kgvhG3AkI
Counterapologetics ep 88 video/blog post https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QZ4iHDPnniA
https://emersongreenblog.wordpress.com/2021/10/07/michael-behes-massive-own-goal/
Michael Behe study: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2286568/
Music: "The Beauty of Authenticity" by One Man Book
Susie's Blog: https://www.flawedtheology.com/
Phil's blog: https://philqmusings.wordpress.com/
In today's episode, Phil and Susie discuss the core doctrines of Christianity and how logically they just can't be true. We will discuss the Epicurean Paradox and how the character of god, the "sin nature of man, and the need for salvation, all have fundamental flaws that don't hold up under scrutiny.
Show Notes:
References mentioned in the show:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ODetOE6cbbc
https://sufficientreasons.wordpress.com/30-2/?fbclid=IwAR1DM1C5PmQLzEDlfhRVxY7iONaN0GIJo7vPqwcUVMEiiSnYNnXk7tL9eto
Phil's Blog: https://philqmusings.wordpress.com
Susie's blog: https://www.flawedtheology.com
Music: "The Beauty of Authenticity" by One Man Book
Meet Phil and Susie who will share a little about themselves, their deconversion journeys and what they hope to accomplish with this new podcast adventure.
Susie's blog: https://www.flawedtheology.com
Phil's blog: https://philqmusings.wordpress.com/
Music "The Beauty of Authenticity" by One Man Book