Disrupting Our Practice: Recent Episodes
Connection Works - Shannon Patterson & Gregory Flynn
Disrupting Our Practice is a weekly podcast dedicated to the exploration of what white-bodied leadership and organizational development consultants, facilitators, coaches, trainers need to disrupt in their practices in order to stop unwittingly perpetuating racism, oppression and harm.
We are really thrilled to be joined by our friend and colleague Leilani Mañulu, an Intuitive Leadership + DEI expert, a keynote speaker, the author of “Paradox of the Water Bearer” (with another book in the works!), host of “The Intuitive Catalyst” podcast, and a shaman!
We met Leilani a number of years ago at a program leaders event at the Whidbey Institute. Right away, we could tell we were in good company.
This conversations covers a lot of territory, so buckle up. From grief and the loss of identity in relationship to DEI work, to shame and how important it is to give it a voice, to the kinds of competencies we may want to develop to do this work (hint: the title may give that away).
Many thanks to Leilani for the contribution of your time, energy, and emotional labor.
We’d love to hear how this lands for you. Feel free to shoot us an email at greg@gregorybflynn.com or shannon@connectionworks.com.
Some links for things mentioned in this episode:
Leilani’s website - there you can find connections to her podcast, book, programs, and more
Leilani on LinkedIn
This episode was recorded on September 5, 2023.
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This one is personal. Having done some workshops to promote the Disrupting Our Practice: Understanding Whiteness program, and getting ready for the program itself, we’ve had some insights.
Insights that hit home rather close. So close, that Greg gets to sit with a giant knot in his stomach in the middle of the episode. Today we’re exploring those insights, talking about the ways that we still – after all of this work, after becoming facilitators of this work – center the comfort of white-bodied folks. We talk about the kinds of discomfort we (white-bodied folks) all need to step into.
And we talk about how to get support in it.
Please let us know how it lands.
And join us in our fall program - starting September 11th.
Some links for things mentioned
Holistic Resistance - this is the org led by Aaron Johnson, and supported by Jennie Pearl and Dylan Wilder Quinn. Both Aaron and Jennie will be co-facilitating sessions in our program this fall.
Aaron Johnson’s TEDx Talk on the Chronically Undertouched program
Adam Slade on LinkedIn - another fantastic colleague who will join us in the program
DoP Ep. 5 with Adam Slade
DoP Ep. 10 with Aaron Johnson
DoP Ep. 28 with Jennie Pearl and Dylan Wilder Quinn
This week we take you into a real experience Shannon had on a recent client engagement. It was an experience where it didn’t take long for race to become named explicitly, and Shannon was able to look at what she was, and wasn’t, tracking.
We explore what came up for her, how she navigated it, and what some of the learnings she’s taken away from the experience. You’ll want to give this one a listen.
For those interested in taking these conversations deeper, and having a space to “get in your reps”: Our 9-week program Disrupting Our Practice: Understanding Whiteness starts on September 11th. Let us know if you have questions or want to discuss it.
Some links for things mentioned in the show:
Holistic Resistance - we mention them a lot, but they are our mentors and teachers. Check them out. They run great programs.
Resmaa Menakem - A fantastic teacher and activist from Minneapolis, MN. We’ve been hugely influenced by his work.
Rev. angel Kyodo williams - Another fantastic teacher and activist who we’ve been influenced by.
This episode was recorded on August 1, 2023.
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We decided we wanted to explore some of the topics we’ll be looking at in our 9-week program this fall, and decided to start with control.
It just so happened that Shannon was on a family getaway, and some stuff was up for her, so we recorded part of our conversation.
Join us as we consider the ways that control plays out in ourselves and in the rooms we facilitate.
For those interested in taking these conversations deeper, we have some opportunities for you.
We are holding two free workshops - one on Aug 1st and one on Aug 8th - as a taster for our longer program this fall. You can learn more and register here
Our 9-week program Disrupting Our Practice: Understanding Whiteness starts on September 11th. Let us know if you have questions or want to discuss it.
This episode was recorded on July 10, 2023.
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We were both really struck by an interview with Resmaa Menakem, Báyò Akómoláfé, and Orland Bishop as they prepared for their event Three Black Men on June 24th and 25th.
Their interview is far reaching, and it had us thinking about our work, what it means to facilitate, and how do we do this deep, uncomfortable work. We are incredibly grateful for these men, as well as those who are holding and supporting them as they do this work.
We highly recommend listening to the interview with them (link below), as well as checking out the Three Black Men project, which will have two more events on two more continents this year.
Please let us know how this episode lands for you. You can reach us at shannon@connectionworks or greg@gregorbflynn.com
For those interested in taking these conversations deeper, we have some opportunities for you.
We are holding two free workshops - one on Aug 1st and one on Aug 8th - as a taster for our longer program this fall. You can learn more and register here
Our 9-week program Disrupting Our Practice: Understanding Whiteness starts on September 11th. Let us know if you have questions or want to discuss it.
Some links for things mentioned in this week’s episode:
Insights at the Edge - Three Black Men - the podcast interview we are referring to in this episode
Three Black Men - the project that Resmaa, Bayo, and Orland have kicked off
Resmaa Menakem - Trauma therapist and somatic abolition educator
Báyò Akómoláfé - Teacher, researcher, and former therapist
Orland Bishop - Teacher, mentor, leader
This episode was recorded on July 3, 2023.
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We are excited to be offering a new program this fall - Disrupting Our Practice: Understanding Whiteness.
In this episode, we wanted to talk about the program - why we are doing it, what you can expect, how it’s different than a lot of other programs out there. It’s a deep dive into the heart of what it means to be in this work, and what it is that we are trying to build.
(Hint: it’s community, connection, and spaces for all of us white-bodied folks to wrestle with the challenging conversations about race and our work.)
To get ready for the program, we’re offering two free workshops at the beginning of August. They are an opportunity to get a feel for the program, as well as to learn a tool you can take into your work right away.
Let us know what you think! Have questions about the program? Want to learn more about the workshops? Want to just share your thoughts?
Email us at shannon@connectionworks or greg@gregorybflynn.com
Some Links!
Disrupting Our Practice Taster Workshops - these are free (though we are asking participants to make a donation to a BIPOC led organization)
Disrupting Our Practice: Understanding Whiteness - our 9-week deep dive program for white-identified facilitators, consultants, leaders, etc.
DoP Episode 5 - Centering Those Most Impacted - A conversation with guest co-facilitator Adam Slade
DoP Episode 10 - There’s a listening problem - A conversation with guest co-facilitator Aaron Johnson
Dop Episode 28 - Race & Gender - A conversation with guest co-facilitators Jennie Pearl and Dylan Wilder Quinn
This episode was recorded on June 26, 2023.
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We’ve been wanting to have Jennie and Dylan on since the beginning of this podcast. This is one for the books, friends.
Dylan Wilder Quinn (they/them) founded TransIntimate in 2020, to build connection and skill-building for cisgender people who want to be close to transgender people to know us beyond our pronouns. Jennie Pearl (she/her) is on the team at TransIntimate, working closely with Dylan. Both Jennie and Dylan are also on the core team at Holistic Resistance.
We can’t really think of two better people to bring in to talk about this intersection of navigating race and gender. Our conversation goes deep into this, and still we an only scratch the surface!
One of the best aspects of this episode is the “story question” that Dylan and Jennie bring in. Take some time with it, and reach out to them if you want to go deeper into it.
Some links for things mentioned on this episode:
Disrupting Our Whiteness - a 16-week cohort-based program to support white-bodied folks in their anti-racism journey. Both Greg and Shannon have done this program, and it’s fantastic.
Disrupting Our Whiteness for White Caucus Facilitators - a 6-week program for those who are holding space for white-caucuses. Highly recommend.
TransIntimate Online Programs - a menu of options for those interested in learning more about how to support trans youth and others.
This episode was recorded on June 15, 2023.
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We started this conversation with an inquiry that Shannon’s been in for a bit: How do i build the capacity to really interrogate the tools I’m using? How do I develop a practice of looking at the tools and the ways that I use them that supports actually disrupting the norms that are making it so not everyone is heard?
It ends up being a rather far reaching conversation that not only includes all of that, but looks at the ways we (white-bodied folks) don’t tend to give credit where it’s due. This is especially true when we consider the origins of many of the approaches we use in our work.
We talk about the starting points for the conversations, and what does it really mean to move beyond the “formulaic approach” to some facilitation processes? How do we deal with situations where bottom up decision making is requested, but not actually respected in the end.
There’s a lot in this one.
How does it land for you? What questions does it raise? We’d welcome your questions! You can always reach us at greg@connectionworks.com or shannon@connectionworks.com.
Some links for things mentioned in this episode:
Disrupting Our Practice LinkedIn Group
Mutual Aid by Dean Spade
DoP Ep. 18 - The Tools of the Trade
Patrice Palmer’s TEDx Talk - this is where we first heard the point, “there’s a difference between ‘you are welcome here’ and ‘I had you in mind.’”
Systems Change and Deep Equity paper by Change Elemental
Liberating Structures
Resmaa Menakem
This episode was recorded on May 15, 2023.We want to hear from you. Use this Google Form to send us feedback (anonymous or not!).
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Reaching back a couple of weeks to when Greg interrupted Shannon’s thought to invite in the idea that maybe, just maybe, leaders should consider not making meetings, retreats, workshops mandatory—that’s what we’re doing today.
What if instead of trying to figure out what to do next, we thought about what to stop doing? What if we gave people the freedom to walk away? What might we learn?
And what are the sides of this that we might want to consider when it comes to systems of oppression? Who might not feel safe simply walking away?
It’s a slightly shorter episode, but we cover a lot of ground.
So, what do you think? What might you want to disrupt this week? Let us know!
Some links for things mentioned in this episode:
Rick Rubin’s new book - The Creative Act: A Way of Being
This episode was recorded on May 1, 2023.
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Today we come back to a powerful question that we started working with a few years ago: “What’s on top about race?” It’s one we learned from our teachers and friends at Holistic Resistance, and we’ve turned to it again and again.
This time, we were both swimming in some different types of issues related to race: from how do we support our friends and colleagues who are People of the Global Majority when yet another horrific act of violence happens to what does it mean to be a white-bodied consultant among Latinx employees?
How about you? What’s on top about race? We’d love to hear!
This episode was recorded on April 17, 2023.
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We were thinking about what it is to prepare to go into a space to facilitate—especially when we are pretty sure it will be a mixed space. What are the questions we should be asking ourselves before we go in a room like this? Or, more broadly, what are questions we might want to ask ourselves before taking on a project?
As we started this conversation, it became clear that many of the questions we were asking were not necessarily the best. Pick up on it? Let us know!
As always, we’re curious how things land for you. Please don’t hesitate to let us know.
Some links for things mentioned in this episode:
Holistic Resistance - our teachers and mentors in this work
The Color of Fear - Lee Mun-Wah’s excellent film showing a conversation among eight men about race.
Disrupting Our Practice Ep. 3 - Sessioning: It’s changed our practice - our often referred to episode on listening sessions.
DoP LI community - our space on Linked In to be in conversations about this work.
This episode was recorded on April 10, 2023.
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We’re back! After taking a short hiatus for some rest and travel, we’re back and ready to dive into the conversations.
We thought we’d start by reaching back to the experience of the workshops we did in February and March. The idea of talking about the workshops was first floated by a participant who was curious about how we experienced them, as well as what we learned.
As we considered it, it became clear that there were aspects of the way that we hold these workshops that disrupt our own way of operating. You know, forcing us to disrupt our practice.
We cover a fair amount of ground here, and are curious, what did you notice? What struck you? What did you find yourself disagreeing with?
Please do let us know! You can always reach us at shannon@connectionworks.com or greg@connectionworks.com. We’d love to hear from you!
Some links for things mentioned in this episode:
The Emerald Podcast - The Revolution Will Not Be Psychologized - a powerful podcast that’s got Greg thinking a lot about the ways we interact with trauma and community.
Disrupting Our Whiteness - a powerful 16-week program from our teachers and friends at Holistic Resistance Jennie Pearl and Dylan Wilder Quinn. Highly recommended.
This episode was recorded on April 3, 2023.
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When we first met our teachers Aaron and Porsha from Holistic Resistance, they invited us to track our capacity. Being in this work is challenging, they reminded us. And to not have capacity to be in the work can make us, well, dangerous.
As we’ve been exploring this over the past few years, it’s become a central part of what we are up to in our work. Helping people—together and individually—build their capacity feels like some of the most important work we can be doing today.
So, what do we mean by building capacity? Well, we talk about that in this episode. And, it’s kind of impossible to talk about building capacity without talking about one of the most tricky topics out there: shame.
We’d love to hear from you: what is your capacity? How do you track it in yourself? Don’t hesitate to drop us a note: greg@connecitonworks or shannon@connectionworks.
Some links for stuff mentioned on this episode:
Building Your Capacity Changes Everything - Shannon’s recent blog post on capacity.
Core Energetics - A somatic therapeutic modality that both of us have practiced.
The 1619 Project - Started as a NY Times project, it’s since expanded to be a book and a documentary. Highly recommend all of it.
Seeing White - Season 2 of the Scene on Radio podcast. A must listen for all white-bodied folks.
Ibram X Kendi - Black author, speaker, educator. Check out his books and other writings. Important stuff.
Ijeoma Oluo - Black author and speaker. Her books are must reads.
Layla F Saad - Black and muslim author, spaker, and educator. Her book Me and White Supremacy is a critical one.
Resmaa Menakem - Black author, therapist, and educator. His work highly informs ours.
This episode was recorded on March 6, 2023.
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Disrupting Our Practice is a weekly podcast dedicated to the exploration of what white-bodied leadership and organizational development consultants, facilitators, coaches, trainers need to disrupt in their practices in order to stop unwittingly perpetuating racism, oppression and harm.
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At a recent workshop with our teacher and mentor Aaron Johnson of Holistic Resistance, he mentioned engaging wtih “next slide culture.” That professional type environment where even when something deeply human and emotional emerges, the facilitator simply says, “next slide,” and moves on.
In this episode, we explore how we’ve experienced and perpetrated next slide culture, why it might exist, and how we might navigate it. As facilitators, when do we slow down? When do we move away from our agenda? And, paradoxically, when might the wisest thing be to say, “next slide!”
As always, we are interested in hearing how this lands for you, and what thoughts you have about this aspect of our culture. You can always reach us at greg@connectionworks.com or shannon@connectionworks.com.
Some links for things mentioned in the episode:
Holisitc Resistance - learn more about the workshops and Tours that Aaron and his crew are holding.
Building Your Capacity Changes Everything - Shannon’s blog post on how building capacity is one of the most important things we can be doing.
Holding Change, by adrienne maree brown - a must read book for facilitators
Severence, on AppleTV+ - a wild show starring Adam Scott about the idea of ‘severing’ ourselves from our work and personal lives—with horrifying results.
This episode was recorded on February 27th, 2003
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Both of us were at a loss about what to talk about. That is, until we realized that we actually wanted to talk about what it could look like to disrupt our own pattern of record and post at all costs!
Will we take a break? No idea. But probably. It’s edgy for us, and maybe for you as well.
How are you trying to disrupt the patterns in your life? What does it look like for you to get ‘off the beaten path’? We’d love to hear!
Upcoming Disrupting Our Practice Workshops!
More info and registration here.
(All workshops 3 - 5pm PST)
February 27th - The Stories we Carry (with Aaron Johnson, Holistic Resistance)
March 6th - Examining the Tools of Our Trade
This episode was recorded on February 14th, 2023
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We all do it. We’ll all continue to do it. The thing about us white-bodied folks is that we often go so far out of our way to avoid it that we end up not doing the things that help us learn and grow.
The reality is that we can’t avoid it. What if, instead, we worked to develop the capacities necessary to ‘step in it’, and not break relationship? Not leave? Not disappear down a shame spiral? That’s what this episode is all about.
Believe us, we’re still working on it something fierce. Indeed, this conversation stems from a recent example of it. No, we can’t get specific (we know that’s a bit frustrating, but it’s part of how we protect everyone involved), but we can talk about what it looks like, and what we might do.
We’d love to hear what questions come up for you as you listen. What examples of ‘stepping in it’ do you have? What did you do? What do you wish you’d done?
Please let us know!
Upcoming Disrupting Our Practice Workshops!
More info and registration here.
(All workshops 3 - 5pm PST)
February 27th - The Stories we Carry (with Aaron Johnson, Holistic Resistance)
March 6th - Examining the Tools of Our Trade
Links for stuff mentioned on this episode:
The Color of Fear - A remarkable film by Lee Mun Wah.
Scene from The Color of Fear
White Fragility - an important book by Robin DiAngelo
Reverend angel Kyodo williams - Zen Buddhist and anti-racism educator, thought leader, and activist.
Seeing White - season two of the Scene on Radio podcast. A must listen for the history of white supremacy.
Disrupting Our Whiteness - 16-week program from Jennie Pearl and Dylan Wilder Quinn of Holistic Resistance. This program was a game-changer for us.
White Tears/Brown Scars: How White Feminism Betrays Women of Color
This episode was recorded on February 6th, 2023
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In this episode, we’re returning to where we thought we’d go a couple of episodes again - talking about how the methodologies, processes, frameworks, theories, etc. are influenced by the dominant culture we live in. By this, of course, we mean white supremacy culture.
We’re not here to reject everything about our industry. Hardly. We recognize (and have experienced) the benefits of many of the ways we do things. That said, we think it’s important for us to examine the ways we work and be in inquiry around the impact that the culture of white supremacy would have on that.
To that end, we turn to the notion that Patrice Palmer outlines in their TED Talk (linked below): “There is a difference between ‘You are welcome here’ and ‘I had you in mind.’”
As always, we’d love to hear how this lands for you.
And we are doing a series of workshops, the final of which is on this very topic. More below.
Upcoming Disrupting Our Practice Workshops!
Come to one or come to all. More info and registration here.
(All workshops 3 - 5pm PST)
February 6th - The Ins and Outs of Positionality (with Aaron Johnson, Holistic Resistance)
February 13th - The Culture Behind the Culture
February 27th - The Stories we Carry (with Aaron Johnson, Holistic Resistance)
March 6th - Examining the Tools of Our Trade
The many links for things mentioned in this episode:
Patrice Palmer’s TED Talk
For the Wild Podcast, featuring Josué Rivas - When we mention this podcast, it turns out that we mispronounced Josué’s name. We sincerely apologize for this. You can hear the correct pronunciation of his name on the For the Wild podcast.
An article about Maslow and the Siksika (Blackfoot) - while there are a lot of questions still swimming around about Maslow’s use of Siksika teachers, there’s some interesting info out there. This is one piece of interest.
Peacemaking Circles: from Conflict to Community - Book by Kay Pranis, Barry Stuart, and Mark Wedge on the Peacekeeping Circle process that comes from the Tlingit and Carcross/Tagish First Nations.
The Circle Works - Website for Dr. Pamela Taylor’s circle training, where we did our training.
Emergent Strategy Ideation Institute - institute started by adrienne maree brown to promote and grow the philosophy and praxis of Emergent Strategy.
Emergent Strategy principles - Scroll down to see the principle we mention of “Less Prep, More Presence”.
Holding Change - book by adrienne maree brown for taking Emergent Strategy facilitation into practice. A must read.
“All models are wrong, some are useful” aphorism often attributed to George Box.
Systems Change in Deep Equity - powerful article on systems change from Change Elemental.
For the Wild Podcast featuring Bayo Akomolafe
Holistic Resistance Tour - If you’re in the PNW, join our teachers for a powerful opportunity to support creating a Black-owned and controlled space.
Holistic Resistance Instagram - a great place to keep up with news and opportunities to connect
This episode was recorded on January 20th, 2023
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We decided to move some things around in our queue. We recorded this one after Greg had a little exchange with someone on LinkedIn (in private messages, so no need to go looking for it if you’re curious 😉).
The back and forth with someone who, let’s say, wouldn’t agree with the premise of this podcast highlighted some things. As a door way in, we decided to use a ‘classic’ Holistic Resistance question: ‘What’s on top for you about race?’
It’s an interesting question for a number of reasons. We talk a bit about that in this episode. We also invite you to explore it as well.
What happens for you when you consider that question? When you ask it directly to yourself? When you have a friend or colleague as you?
Upcoming Disrupting Our Practice Workshops!
Come to one or come to all. More info and registration here.
(All workshops 3 - 5pm PST)
February 6th - The Ins and Outs of Positionality (with Aaron Johnson, Holistic Resistance)
February 13th - The Culture Behind the Culture
February 27th - The Stories we Carry (with Aaron Johnson, Holistic Resistance)
March 6th - Examining the Tools of Our Trade
Some links for things mentioned in this episode:
adrienne maree brown’s Instagram post - this is the Instagram post Shannon was referring to in her check-in. Ever feel this way? We do all the time!
Step Zero: a free email program for men - This is the new program that Greg just launched on his website. It’s for men who are not sure about joining a group or getting coaching but are curious about making changes in their lives. It’s free!
Porsha Beed appearance on Rising Women Leaders podcast - This is the podcast Shannon mention’s listening to our teacher and mentor Porsha on. Porsha always offers a wonderful perspective on things. Highly recommend.
Robin DiAngelo, author of White Fragility - This book is an important one for white-bodied folks stepping into anti-racism work. A must read.
Rev angel Kyodo williams - A Black, Queer Zen Buddhist monk, and anti-racism educator and activist. Rev. angel has been a significant influence on our POV.
This episode was recorded on January 23rd, 2023
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Well, this one was an interesting one—for us at least. We decided to talk about organizational culture, and it was the first time that we recorded while being in the same room together.
At some point along the way—really, during the listening sessions we decided to use to get the ball rolling—the whole thing pivoted.
We found ourselves slowing down and diving into topics such as:
How do the Characteristics of White Supremacy Culture live within us? And how is that getting in the way?
How much is my/our attraction to holding spaces around anti-racism related to white supremacy and patriarchy living within me/us?
What are the ways that this can impact our roles, and actually keep white supremacy alive?
And we slow down to look at how easy it is to make this an individual story, rather than recognizing how the culture is working on us.
There’s a lot there. So, we have a request of the listener:
If this was a 40+ minutes session between the two of us, what would your reflections be?
We’d love to hear from you.
Upcoming Disrupting Our Practice Workshops!
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February 6th - The Ins and Outs of Positionality (with Aaron Johnson, Holistic Resistance)
February 13th - The Culture Behind the Culture
February 27th - The Stories we Carry (with Aaron Johnson, Holistic Resistance)
March 6th - Examining the Tools of Our Trade
Links for things mentioned in this episode:
DoP Ep. 3 on Sessioning - In this episode we dive into the practice of ‘Reflective Listening’ that we learned from our teachers at Holistic Resistance. Think of this as a primer for the whole of this current episode.
The star model by Jay Galbraith - a framework that we use, and many in Organization Development use
Characteristics of White Supremacy Culture - updated white paper by Tema Okun, rooted in the works she did with her late-colleague Kenneth Jones, among others. A must read for anyone in anti-racism work.
Resmaa Menakem - Black-bodied trauma therapist and Somatic Abolusion educator
The Politics of Trauma, by Stacy Haines - An essential tool for healers, therapists, activists, and trauma survivors who are interested in a justice-centered approach to somatic transformation
Connection Works Learning Together sessions - Our weekly free one-hour learning sessions. We dive into different topics each week. More interactive than your typical webinar.
DoP Ep. 10 with Aaron Johnson - A great conversation between Greg and Aaron
Disrupting our Practice Community on LI - join us on LInkedIn as we explore the topics discussed here on the podcast.
This episode was recorded on January 9th, 2023
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One of the things we’ve done in the past couple of years is run a program called Understanding Whiteness. The thing is, we each ran one separately—Greg ran one for men and Shannon for women and those socialized females.
In this episode, we wanted to share a bit about how it was we came to run those programs, as well as why we did them as we did. We explore a few our learnings and continue some of our inquiry about what it means to be in anti-racism work as white-bodied folks.
What comes up for you? let us know!
For those who are interested in joining us in these conversations:
Upcoming Disrupting Our Practice Workshops!
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(All workshops 3 - 5pm PST)
February 6th - The Ins and Outs of Positionality (with Aaron Johnson, Holistic Resistance)
February 13th - The Culture Behind the Culture
February 27th - The Stories we Carry (with Aaron Johnson, Holistic Resistance)
March 6th - Examining the Tools of Our Trade
Some links for things mentioned in this episode:
Wing Luke Museum - An Asian museum in Seattle, WA. A great resource for the history of the oppression of Asian immigrants and Asian Americans in the US>
Decitizenizing Asian Pacific American Women - Not mentioned in the episode, but a great article on the oppression of Asian Pacific women in the US.
Harpers, Book of the Living - an article about the house museums in New Orleans.
CHAZ/CHOP - The Capitol Hill Autonomous Zone (or Occupied Protest) - An area of Seattle that was occupied by protesters in support of the Movement of Black Lives protests after George Floyds murder. This was a controversial protest that led to some unrest, but raised a lot of interest in mutual aid and communal support.
Rev. angel Kyodo williams - A remarkable anti-racist and Zen Buddhist teacher. We attended one of her workshops and doing more is high on our list.
Unpacking Whiteness, with Anna-Brown Griswold - An excellent program that dives into the history of white supremacy. Anna-Brown is a wonderful teacher and facilitator who also incorporates somatics into the work.
Seeing White Podcast - An excellent resource for white-bodied folks to learn the history and legacy of white supremacy in the US.
This episode was recorded on January 2, 2023
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Following up on our conversation in Episode 13—Our stories aren’t being told properly, with our friend and colleague 'N’—we thought we’d once again pull back the curtain a bit and do some debriefing.
N shared some vulnerable stories with us, which got us thinking about our experiences, and the ways we often center ourselves. We also explore how easy it is for us white-bodied folks to never actually explore how racism lives in us.
What did N’s stories in the last episode stir up for you? What reactions do you have to our reflections?
For those who are interested in joining us in these conversations:
Upcoming Disrupting Our Practice Workshops!
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(All workshops 3 - 5pm PST)
February 6th - The Ins and Outs of Positionality (with Aaron Johnson, Holistic Resistance)
February 13th - The Culture Behind the Culture
February 27th - The Stories we Carry (with Aaron Johnson, Holistic Resistance)
March 6th - Examining the Tools of Our Trade
Some links for things mentioned in the episode:
Disrupting Our Practice Linked In Community - this is a place to engage with other listeners of the podcast. We’d love you to join us!
Seeing White - Season 2 of the Scene on Radio podcast, explores the history of whiteness in America. A must listen.
Robin DiAngelo - Author of White Fragility among other books.
Ijeoma Oluo - Author of So You Want to Talk About Race and Mediocrity: The Dangerous Legacy of White Male America, both very good and important reads.
Layla Saad - Author of Me and White Supremacy a very good resource for white-bodied folks stepping into this work.
Resmaa Menakem - Author of My Grandmother’s Hands and other books.
Porsha Beed - Co-founder of Holistic Resistance, and the Can You Hear Me? Tour. A remarkable teacher and mentor.
We’ve been in conversation with friend and colleague ‘N’ this past year, learning about her experience as an Asian American woman working as a leader in the tech industry. Those conversations prompted us to want to include her on the podcast so our audience could learn from her as well.
One of the things us white-bodied folks don’t often have to consider is the level of safety that many need to navigate. It’s for the sake of safety that ‘N’ chose to be anonymous on this episode.
We think you’ll find this conversation really valuable. We explore that sense of safety, as well as the strategies ‘N’ uses to navigate her day-to-day working experience, why naming these doesn’t make her a victim, and what us white-bodied folks can consider as we step into spaces with folks like ‘N’ and other People of Color.
We’re incredibly grateful to ‘N’ for her candidness, and her willingness to do the labor of sharing her experience with us. And we invite you, the listener, to take it in, and try to notice—really feel—the impact her story has on you.
Upcoming Disrupting Our Practice Workshops!
Come to one or come to all. More info or registration here.
(All workshops 3 - 5pm PST)
February 6th - The Ins and Outs of Positionality (with Aaron Johnson, Holistic Resistance)
February 13th - The Culture Behind the Culture
February 27th - The Stories we Carry (with Aaron Johnson, Holistic Resistance)
March 6th - Examining the Tools of Our Trade
Links for some things mentioned in this episode:
Minor Feelings, by Cathy Park Hong - A note from N: “A warning, it’s a heavy read - but it pretty much articulates my lived experience to a T.”
The Color of Fear - A groundbreaking documentary by Lee Mun Wah. 8 men of different racial backgrounds have a conversation about race.
A scene from The Color of Fear - This is a powerful moment in the film. Highly recommended for white-bodied folks to sit with this. For BIPOC folks, there is some intensity in this clip that may be triggering.
This episode was recorded on December 23, 2022
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Once again we’re reaching into the vault to an episode we recorded a little while ago. That said, it’s an evergreen topic for sure.
All too often, we find ourselves contemplating the question of “what’s my role?” As white-bodied folks, this can be a complex enough question. Throw in the role of facilitator (or other holder of space), and things can get real tricky. We wanted to grapple with this question, using some lived experience as a jumping off point for discussion.
We’d love to hear how you think about the questions that we pose in this episode. What comes up for you when you think about navigating the charge of race in your role as a facilitator? A manager? A coach?
And let us know if there are questions that you’re wrestling with that you’d love to hear us wrestle with!
Save the date(s)! We are launching a Disrupting our Practice Workshop series in February of 2023. Come to one or to all. The dates are 2/6, 2/13, 2/27, and 3/6 - all from 3p - 5p PST. You can get more info here.
Some links for things mentioned in the show:
The Bind with Greg Flynn - Greg’s new podcast for men (and the people who love them).
Greg’s appearance on Meg Gluckman’s podcast - Greg had a great conversation about his coaching for men.
This episode was recorded on September 14, 2022
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In just about all of our programs, usually pretty early on, someone asks, “When are we going to get to taking action?” It’s certainly an important question, but perhaps it reveals something about the way we’ve been conditioned.
What if, instead of jumping right to action, we did some foundational work first? What if we wrestled with some hard questions, developed our capacity to be in the charge of race, build deep and meaningful relationships?
We certainly don’t advocate not taking action at all (and there’s plenty of legit criticism at white caucus spaces that do just that). In this week’s episode, we dive into what it might mean to lay the groundwork before just acting out of default.
How does this land for you? Let us know!
Links for some things mentioned in the episode:
Holistic Resistance (HR) - our teachers and mentors in this work
Grief to Action - a project by HR to support People of the Global Majority in their grieving and processing
Robin DiAngelo - Author of White Fragility and several other books
Resmaa Menakem - Author, teachers, and therapist. His book My Grandmother’s Hands is invaluable
Brave New Work and the Orpheus Chamber Orchestra - Episode of the great podcast that Shannon mentioned that talks about an approach to doing things that maybe is a clue to a new way of living and working
This episode was recorded on December 5th, 2022
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We had a little technology glitch, and Shannon dropped off right at the top of this call. But the energy was already rolling and so we decided to keep going.
This week, we are joined by our teacher, mentor, and friend Aaron Johnson of Holistic Resistance. It’s a wide reaching conversation with Aaron modeling how we can disrupt our bios, introducing ourselves to one another in a deeper, more meaningful way.
We talked about the unfair questions that he’s introduced us to, and that he brings into his consulting engagements, offering the listener an opportunity to sit with one. And we talked about how our inability to listen makes it possible for racism to continue to fester in our organizations and our culture.
Links for some things mentioned in this episode:
Aaron’s public phone number: (760) 885–6740 - you can text this number with invitations for Aaron to bring workshops to your area, or to reach in general. He gets a lot of messages, so be patient with him!
Holistic Resistance - The anti-oppression training, consulting, facilitating, organizing organization that Aaron founded with his cousin Porsha Beed. They offer a wide-range of workshops, programs, and trainings. It’s worth checking out everything they do! Sign up for their newsletter on the website to stay up to date with them.
Grief to Action - the non-profit that Holistic Resistance has started to create an African Heritage owned place for People of the Global Majority to grieve and move through the overwhelm of feelings related to oppression. You can support G2A through donations and sharing their work.
Disrupting our Practice Episode 3 - Sessioning: it’s changed our practice - This is the episode we did where we modeled listening sessions (what HR calls Scratch counseling).
This episode was recorded on November 29th, 2022.
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We found out what happens when we both come in with a lot of capacity - we dive in deep! This week, we thought we would turn to the practical question of designing in light of the things that we’ve been talking about.
What does it mean to tak what we are learning, understanding, unpacking, and hopefully feeling into designing our facilitations? We highlight one of the Characteristics of White Supremacy Culture - Quantity Over Quality - as part of what we might be thinking about in our design.
In this conversation, we explore:
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When we put the agenda before the needs of the people in the room
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Questions we get asked like, “Can the meeting be shorter” or “Isn’t that just the way things are?”
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The role our personal practice plays in how we design
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What is centered when we are designing?
Plus a lot more.
Do you have some resources that you use when considering how to disrupt how you design meetings? Send them our way!
Links for things mentioned in the episode:
Grief to Action Fundraiser - our teachers and friends at Holistic Resistance will be leading this fundraiser for their amazing project Grief to Action Camp. The fundraiser is Saturday, December 3rd from 3p - 5p PST. We can’t recommend this enough.
Characteristics of White Supremacy Culture - a hugely useful resource for those looking to disrupt white supremacy in their work and life. We refer to the characteristic of Quantity over Quality in this episode.
DoP Episode 4 - Characteristics of White Supremacy Culture: the culture behind the culture our episode on the CoWSC.
adrienne maree brown - a remarkable teacher, facilitator, podcaster, speaker, catalyst, and more, her work has hugely influenced us.
Holding Change - This is adrienne maree brown’s book on Emergent Strategy Facilitation. It’s full of great resources!
Team Elements - this is the team coaching approach that we use. Mentioned in the episode.
This episode was recorded on November 21, 2022
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This week we’re reaching back to an episode we recorded a few weeks ago, one where we share some of our own stories where we missed the mark when. As we know, as white-bodied folks it’s so easy to think we “get it” and not realize just how much we don’t.
We wanted to share these not for praise, but to help normalize some of the challenges around this work and encourage others to begin to look at the ways they have unwittingly caused some harm. How can we continue to develop the capacity to be with the shame that arises when talking about these things, without turning away from it (and we talk about the distinction between feeling shame, and being shamed)?
Want to share a story of yours? Email us! We’d love to hear from you.
Some links for things and people mentioned in today’s episode:
john a powell and Báyò Akómoláfé conversation - A wonderful conversation between these two leaders around belonging and navigating these trying times.
Othering and Belonging Institute - Housed at UC Berkeley and led by Dr. john a. powell, the O&B Institute is working towards a world that works for all of us.
Men Connecting: Understanding Whiteness - program for white-bodied men that Greg runs.
Understanding Whiteness-Connecting as Socialized Females - a program for white-bodied women and others socialized as female that Shannon runs.
Rev angel Kyodo williams - Anti-racist teacher and facilitator (as well as meditation teacher and Zen Buddhist); Shannon referenced a workshop we attended a few years ago.
Anna-Brown Griswold - Unpacking Whiteness - Seattle-based therapist and anti-racist teacher. We took this program in 2017.
Patrice Palmer TED talk - We’ve linked to this before. Patrice’s comment that “there’s a difference between you are welcome here and I had you in mind” is one that we keep coming back to.
Holistic Resistance - Our teachers and mentors in this work.
Disrupting our Whiteness - a program led by Jennie Pearl and Dylan Wilder Quinn from Holistic Resistance that we took in 2019.
Ijeoma Oluo - Amazing Black writer on anti-racism, and other important topics.
Resmaa Menakem - Black therapist and facilitator whose work on somatic inspires us a ton.
Crossroads article on the importance of caucus spaces - an article that speaks to why it’s important to have affinity spaces in anti-racism work
This episode was recorded on September 6th, 2022
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We’ve been really excited to start getting questions from listeners! Thank you to those who have taken the time to listen to the podcast and share what it brings to mind. As we were talking about the questions that folks have shared with us, it made sense to tie them to the ways that our trauma stories play a role in this work.
We talk a bit about individual and collective trauma (heavily influenced by the work of Resmaa Menakem), grounding into the body and regulating the nervous system, and the challenges of this for white-bodied folks in particular.
Please keep the feedback and questions coming!
Links to things mentioned in this episode:
Resmaa Menakem and his book My Grandmother’s Hands - this book is a must-read. It’s influenced all of our work in the space of working with white-bodied folks in anti-racism (as well as our own personal anti-racism work).
Dr. Gabor Maté - An addiction specialist who talks and writes about trauma and the ways that it’s impacting our health and well-being. You can’t go wrong with his books and podcast appearances.
Disrupting our Whiteness w/ Jennie Pearl and Dylan Wilder Quinn - this was a life-changing program for both of us. Honestly, we are still processing much of our experience, and it heavily influenced the work we are doing here on the podcast (including the title! 😊)
Core Energetics - A somatic and energetic therapeutic modality (often done in groups). Both of us were members of a group for years, and it helped us in our personal healing journeys. It should be noted that there are some important criticisms to be made about CE from an anti-racist perspective.
Holistic Resistance (Led by Aaron Johnson and Porsha Beed) - We link to these folks just about every episode because they are so influential to us. Teachers, mentors, friends. We appreciate them deeply.
Me and White Supremacy by Layla Saad - if you are a white-bodied person, and you don’t know this book, you should. An excellent resource to help us work through our material.
DoP episode on Sessioning (#3) - This is the Apple Podcasts link to episode number three where we talk about this powerful practice. We recommend sharing it with folks and then engaging in the practice yourself! You can find this episode on any podcasting platform!
This episode was recorded on November 2nd, 2022
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After our conversation with Adam (see Episode 5), we thought we'd pull back the curtain a bit and share a bit of our debriefing—exploring some of the questions that emerged for us, some of what we might have missed, some assumptions we made, etc. Inspired by Adam's question of what it could look like if our meetings were about being in community, we start to inquire about how this podcast could be that as well.
Links:
Disrupting our Practice, Episode 5 with Adam Slade
Holistic Resistance
This episode was recorded on October 24th, 2022.
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We are thrilled to be joined by friend and colleague Adam Slade to talk about what gets centered in our work. All too often, as white-bodied facilitators, coaches, consultants, etc., we want to center the work we are there to do—and why wouldn't we? But what does it mean to center the voices that are erased when we aren't able to see the ways that some are disadvantaged within the conversation? What happens when the context we are operating in is omitted? This was a great conversation that touches on all that and more.
You can learn more about Adam here:
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adam-slade/
Twitter: https://twitter.com/chislade
Recorded October 17, 2022
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Disrupting Our Practice is a weekly podcast dedicated to the exploration of what white-bodied leadership and organizational development consultants, facilitators, coaches, trainers need to disrupt in their practices in order to stop unwittingly perpetuating racism, oppression and harm.
This week, we talk about the culture behind the culture. Using the updated paper produced by Tema Okun (and supported and sourced from many others), Characteristics of White Supremacy Culture as a frame, we explore some of the ways what we think of as “just the way things are” may actually be a result of us living within the context of oppressive systems. As practitioners, how might we use this information?
Links for things mentioned on today’s episode:
Updated - Characteristics of White Supremacy Culture
Scene on Radio - Season 2: Seeing White
Change Elemental: Systems Change & Deep Equity
This episode was recorded on August 29th, 2022.
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Disrupting Our Practice is a weekly podcast dedicated to the exploration of what white-bodied leadership and organizational development consultants, facilitators, coaches, trainers need to disrupt in their practices in order to stop unwittingly perpetuating racism, oppression and harm.
Finally! We (Greg and Shannon) are going to talk about ‘sessioning’. How is it similar to, and different from, active listening? Why have we begun using it in our practice (with clients as well as with each other)? We take you behind the curtain into our own session and talk about how you might use this powerful practice.
Links mentioned in this episode:
Holistic Resistance - our teachers and mentors in this work
Characteristics of White Supremacy Culture - a fantastic framing of ways that white supremacy shows up within organizations (and in the world at large). Pulled together by Tema Okun, and heavily influenced by her many mentors and teachers, this is a great resource for anyone working with organizations.
This episode was recorded on August 23rd, 2022.
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Disrupting Our Practice is a weekly podcast dedicated to the exploration of what white-bodied leadership and organizational development consultants, facilitators, coaches, trainers need to disrupt in their practices in order to stop unwittingly perpetuating racism, oppression and harm.
This week, Shannon and Greg talk about positionality—what it is and why it’s important for those of us who are facilitating spaces to track and be curious about. And we invite our fellow facilitators, coaches, consultants, etc. to explore how some questions about positionality are experienced, as well as to consider how you might want to answer them. First, of course, they check in (and talk a bit about why they check in) and continue to kick the ‘should we offer reflection’ question down the road.
Links for things mentioned in the episode:
Holistic Resistance - African Heritage led organiztion that is dedicated to undoing racism and oppression through deep questions, connection, embodiment, and slowing down to see ourselves and each other. Greg and Shannon completed the HR facilitation training in the spring of 2021.
Resmaa Menakem - A trauma therapist and author from Minneapolis, MN. Resmaa is the author of several books, including My Grandmother’s Hands, which has heavily influenced the work both Shannon and Greg do.
Patrice Palmer TED Talk - A professor and dean at Colorado State University, this talk given by them at TEDx at CSU brings forward some very important questions for those of us who facilitate spaces.
Johari Window - a familiar model to help us all understand what we do, and do not see, within experiences we are having.
This episode was recorded on August 15th, 2022.
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Welcome to Disrupting Our Practice – a weekly podcast dedicated to the exploration of what white-bodied leadership and organizational development consultants, facilitators, coaches, trainers need to disrupt in their practices in order to stop unwittingly perpetuating racism, oppression and harm.
In this episode, Shannon and Greg introduce themselves, talk a bit about what the podcast will be, check in, and invite the listener to track how they are experiencing what they are hearing.
Links for things mentioned in the episode:
Connection Works - our website
Holistic Resistance - our teachers and mentors. Much gratitude to Aaron Johnson, Porsha Beed, Dylan Wilder Quinn, and Jennie Pearl.
adrienne maree brown - amazing African Heritage author, speaker, thinking, disruptor.
Holding Change - great book on facilitation by adrienne maree brown.
Emergent Strategy - another great book from amb.
Some Connection Works offerings - including Understanding Whiteness
This episode was recorded August 8th, 2022.
Hey everyone, thanks for listening.
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