Impactus Young Man's Podcast: Recent Episodes
Jordan Harnum
Helping young men become grow and live as disciples of Jesus, as they navigate what it means to be a Christian man in today's cultural moment.
On today’s episode, Dean and Jordan share some exciting news. The Impactus Podcast is entering a new season, one that we believe will make an even greater impact on men’s lives.
Dean Brenton is joined by Jordan Harnum and Dr. Chris Walker as they come together to create a podcast that is practical, theologically grounded, and deeply relevant to the real questions men are asking today.
We’re also moving to a fresh new rhythm—releasing episodes twice a month, on the first and fifteenth. That means more consistent encouragement and more opportunities for men to grow in their walk with Christ.
In this episode, Dean and Jordan give a behind-the-scenes look at what’s changing, what’s staying the same, and what listeners can expect as they step into this exciting next chapter.
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This is the final episode of the Impactus Young Man's Podcast as we get ready for a new direction.
We're closing this chapter and preparing to launch a brand-new podcast this fall with a new format, new voices, and the same heart to help men follow Jesus in every area of life.
To wrap things up, Jordan looks back on some of the most powerful conversations we’ve had, that focused on one of the most important topics for men today: fatherhood and discipleship at home.
Conversation with Jordan’s Dad A personal and honest look at why your own walk with God is the foundation for leading your kids. Before you disciple your children, you need to let God shape you.
Conversation with Andrew Wood This clip focuses on building spiritual rhythms in the home and making church a regular part of family life even when it feels inconvenient.
Conversation with Justin Whitmel Earley Author of Habits of the Household, Justin shares how everyday routines like bedtime and walks can become sacred moments that shape our kids. The goal is not to do more, but to be more intentional with what is already happening.
Conversation with Chris Walker Chris highlights how to make the most of everyday teachable moments. He challenges dads to ask better questions, model wisdom, and help their kids grow into people who obey Jesus from the heart.
Whether you’re a new dad, expecting your first, or mentoring the next generation, this episode will equip and encourage you.
Be sure to follow the new Impactus Podcast, launching this September, hosted by Jordan, Dean Brenton, and Chris Walker. We’ll continue having honest and helpful conversations for men of all ages.
In this podcast episode, Jordan chats with Chris Pappalardo where they discuss the book Building Spiritual Habits in the Home and the importance of building spiritual rhythms within the home. Chris emphasizes the need for "congruence" between what we say about God and the Christian life, and how we live our lives. He also explains why we must go at the pace & grace of Jesus. For men who have experienced the "stop and start" cycle of habit building, Chris offers encouragement and a 6 Step process to ensure your new habits stick around for good. 6 Habits Suggested in the Book:
Make it Easy Make it Tangible Choose Your Timing Pick Your Place Find Your Friends Make it Playful Chris & Clayton's Store Goodkind Instagram
In this episode of the Impact This Young Man's podcast, Jordan discusses the importance of being rooted in Christ, truth, and justice. He reflects on insights from various speakers at recent conferences, emphasizing the need for men to focus on their inner spiritual growth rather than external appearances. The conversation highlights the significance of grounding oneself in God's Word and taking action towards justice in the community.
In this conversation, Jordan and Tyler Cramm discuss Tyler and his wife, Keri's, journey through significant health challenges and infertility. They explore the emotional and physical struggles Tyler faced, the support from his community, and the importance of sharing their story.
They discusses the emotional and spiritual challenges faced during this time, reflecting on the nature of suffering, faith, and the hope that persists even in the darkest moments. Tyler emphasizes the importance of community support and the lessons learned through trials, ultimately encouraging others who may be facing similar struggles.
In this podcast, Jordan and Braden Hafner explore the concept of the 'roommate phase' in relationships, where couples may feel more like roommates than partners, and the signs that indicate a drift in intimacy. Braden shares insights on how to recognize these signs and offers practical steps for couples to reconnect and strengthen their relationship. In this conversation, Braden and Jordan discuss the importance of maintaining connection in relationships, the concept of bids for connection, and the impact of love languages on communication. They explore the dangers of scorekeeping and avoiding conflict, emphasizing the need for healthy communication and conflict resolution. The discussion also highlights the hope for couples in the roommate phase, the role of faith in marriage, and practical resources for strengthening relationships.
In this episode of the Impactus Young Man’s Podcast, Jordan challenges men to start the year by turning their hearts toward God. Drawing from the story of King Jehoshaphat in 2 Chronicles 20, Jordan shares practical insights about seeking God first and remembering His faithfulness.
Discover how making prayer your first response, giving God control, and stepping into your God-given role can set the tone for a life of purpose and faith in 2025. Jordan also emphasizes the importance of worshiping God—not just after victories but before, during, and through every battle.
Key Takeaways:
- Seek God: Learn why prayer should be your first move, not your backup plan.
- Remember God: Discover the power of reflecting on God’s faithfulness to strengthen your trust for the future.
- Give God Control and Take Your Role: Trust in God's sovereignty while stepping confidently into the part He’s called you to play.
- Worship God Before, During, and After the Battle: Anchor your faith with worship as you face life's challenges.
In this episode of the Impactus Young Man's Podcast, Jordan Harnum sits down with Alastair Sterne to discuss his latest book, Longing for Joy: An Invitation into the Goodness and Beauty of Life. Together, they explore what it means to cultivate true joy in the midst of life’s struggles, drawing on both personal experience and biblical wisdom. Alastair shares how practices like gratitude, paying attention to life’s beauty, and pursuing God's presence can transform our outlook. This conversation dives into the theological and practical dimensions of joy, offering encouragement and tools for young men seeking deeper fulfillment in Christ.
In this episode Jordan unpacks lessons from the recent Impactus Men's Conference in Brampton, Ontario. The theme of the conference was "Rooted". Did you know the deepest roots extend 1,200 feet underground? Or that the mighty redwoods have shallow roots but gain strength by intertwining with others? These fascinating examples reflect the central question we explored: What does it look like for a man to be rooted?
Above the surface, men often show their hard work, leadership, and care for others. But what about beneath the surface—the parts of our lives no one sees?
In this episode you will hear Jordan's thoughts on three key moments from the event. They include: 1. Finu Iype on Being Rooted in Christ – Learn why rooting your life in Jesus means removing idols and trusting in Him as your firm foundation. Discover why "everyone worships," and how misplaced worship can eat you alive. 2. Dustin Boreland on Being Rooted in Truth – Explore how to anchor yourself in Scripture amid cultural confusion and spiritual warfare. Hear his warning: The devil roars loud but roams quietly. 3. Dwayne Cline on Being Rooted in Justice – Be stirred to action as he challenges us to engage with the brokenness around us, moving beyond judgment to bring God’s justice to a hurting world.
In this episode of the Impactus Young Man’s Podcast, Jordan talks with therapist Nick Dookerhan about the importance of mental health for men. They tackle the pressures men face to appear strong and stoic, while highlighting the real strength found in vulnerability. Nick shares his personal journey from ministry to therapy and offers practical advice on managing stress, recognizing the connection between physical and mental health, and the importance of seeking help before crises arise.
In this conversation, Jordan hosts Kerby Stivene. He is a pastor and Maxwell Certified Coach. In this conversation they discuss the significance of one-on-one discipleship, particularly in the context of young men seeking guidance and growth.
Kerby shares his experiences meeting with individuals to provide mentorship and support, emphasizing the importance of intentionality in personal development. They explore the struggles young men face today, especially regarding masculinity and societal expectations, and how Kerby's journey of personal growth has shaped his approach to leadership.
The discussion also highlights the necessity of setting SMART goals, the role of accountability in achieving those goals, and the power of making specific decisions to foster change.
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After many years of hosting men's conferences, we have witnessed the power of God's Word transforms men's lives. Every year our guest speakers preach powerful messages that help reorient men to follow Jesus in a meaningful way.
On Today's podcast, Jordan reviews 3 memorable moments from previous conferences that helped him live with a greater sense of urgency and mission.
You'll hear from Finu Iype as he encourages us to Die Forward - leaving a legacy that made a difference and also Steve Sonderman who shared how to live a life of No Reserve, No Retreat and No Regrets. Finally you will hear Robbie Symons communicate how to live a life with your eyes fixed on heaven.
In this episode, Jordan tackles a phrase often heard and widely accepted: "Follow Your Heart."
With over 2.2 million uses of #followyourheart on Instagram and messages from popular culture like Disne encouraging us to follow our hearts, it seems like a harmless and even inspiring idea.
But what does it really mean? More importantly, what does the Bible say about it?
In today’s society, "following your heart" often means trusting your: - Intuition - Gut feelings - Desires
It's about letting these internal drivers lead you, charting your own course, and doing what’s best for you.
But is this the best way to live and succeed?
Is it a good framework for young men?
In this episode, we explore the Christian faith’s unique and counter-cultural understanding of the heart.
Instead of following our hearts, Jordan offers three alternatives. 1. Evaluate Your Heart 2. Surrender Your Heart 3. Guard Your Heart
LIsten in as we unpack these alternatives and discover a life-giving path rooted in biblical wisdom.
We often don't realize our identity is rooted in something until it is pulled away from us.
For example,
What happens when an athlete is sidelined by injury? How does a man cope after losing a job they excelled at? Who will you as a parent feel when your children move out?
These situations reveal how our identities can be unexpectedly fragile. But what does it take to build an unshakeable identity, one that remains firm like a concrete foundation amidst life's storms?
In this episode, Jordan interviews Troy Lydiate, a man of many talents and roles: He is a devoted father and husband, recording artist and the creative director at Apologetics Canada, with numerous other interests.
Troy's life journey is nothing short of extraordinary. Abandoned as a baby in Kingston, Jamaica, and adopted by a Canadian family in Regina, his story is a testament to overcoming unique challenges in understanding and navigating identity. Troy shares his profound insights on being a child of God and why comprehending one's sonship is crucial for every man.
Tune in to hear Troy's incredible story and gain a deeper understanding of what it means to have a resilient identity.
Leadership legend Carey Nieuwhof recently hosted Scott Galloway on his podcast to discuss the state of young men, and many other issues. In the podcast, Scott who is a professor, and podcaster outlined several statistics about young men and how they are "falling faster" than any other demographic and offered some unique solutions to help turn things around. The dialogue is engaging and worth listening to and has plenty for Christians to wrestle with.
On this episode of the Impactus Young Man's Podcast, Jordan and Andrew react to portions of the conversation between Carey & Scott and share their own thoughts around the topic. What can we learn from a secular thinker like Scott, and how should the church react to help young men who find themselves down and out. _____________
For more great content from Carey, we encourage you to follow him on his many platforms and listen to the whole episode between him and Scott. YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/hNKNBPiUVRQ?feature=shared
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On this episode of the Impactus Young Man's Podcast, Jordan chats with JM Smith from The Disciple Dojo. JM is a black belt in Brazilian Jiu Jitsu, and leader of a Refugee Jiu Jitsu.
Together, they discuss how young men are hungry to grow, and why so many men are drawn to martial arts.
Jordan shares his own story and how Brazillian Jiu Jitsu served as a helpful tool in growing as a Christian, and how it helped him understand the type of community that helps men grow exponentially.
Fatherhood is obviously one of the most significant callings in a man’s life.
But in a world with many different voices and opinions vying for our kids’ attention, some of which are completely counter to our faith, the responsibility of being a dad comes with a host of challenging questions:
- Am I doing a good job as a dad?
- How do I point my kids to Jesus?
- How do I help them as they are affected by other influences like school, entertainment, and their peers?
- How do I set an example for my family?
- What does it mean to help “form” my kids into people who walk in the way of Jesus?
- How can I help my kids navigate the many different voices in our culture that call out to them?
- How do I protect them from outside forces that would pull them away from the Lord?
In this podcast, Jordan sits down with Dr. Chris Walker, our Content Editor at Impactus and an adjunct professor at Tyndale University, to discuss how we can partner with the Holy Spirit to form our kids into people who know the Lord and walk in His ways, regardless of whatever cultural influences they may face.
As a man, there can be an immense pressure to be as rich as possible, and to base your identity on what is in your savings account - both when you have a lot, and when you have nearly nothing.
What does it look like to have financhial freedom? What if it's not what you think?
On this episode, Jordan interviews Bob Lotich, author of Simple Money, Rich Life and they discuss what it means to make as much money as you can, save as much money as you can so that you can give as much money as you can.
As well, Bob shares his own story of going from a man broken down with only $7.00 in his bank account, to being able to donate 1 Million Dollars towards God's Kingdom.
Do you remember a time when you realized you had been believing a lie? Join host Jordan Harnum on the Impactus Young Man's Podcast as he dives deep into a crucial conversation with special guest Chris Quirring, author of "The Lies That Bind." In this insightful episode, they explore the impact of believing lies from our past, the challenges faced in overcoming them, and the freedom found in replacing those lies with God's truth.
Together, they discuss the keys to living an abundant life, free from the deceptive whispers of the enemy. Don't miss out on this integral discussion that promises to shed light on the power of truth. Chris's Website
Before she passed away, Queen Elizabeth II pulled a lighthearted prank on two American tourists. Unbeknownst to them, they found themselves in the company of royalty, and the Monarch chose not to reveal their error.
The amusing incident serves as a great source of entertainment. You can catch the full story here.
Similar to the unsuspecting tourists, Christian men often find themselves in a similar situation during Christmas. While we talk and sing about the holiday, we may miss the profound message—that a KING has come.
As men, we resist being told that we're not the kings of our own castles. We engage in a wrestling match with God, sometimes relinquishing control only to snatch it back from His hands.
In this podcast episode, Jordan offers an encouragement regarding the two responses to the Kingship of Jesus. Hostility or Humility.
Will you be like the two tourists—unaware of whom you've encountered—or will you bow in worship?
Tune in to hear Jordan discuss:
- How we may resemble insecure tyrant Kings more than we'd like to admit.
- How easily we can be like Ricky Bobby, favoring "sweet baby Jesus" above all.
- Jordan's personal struggles with surrendering his life to God.
- And much more...
In this episode of the Impactus Young Man's Podcast, Jordan engages in a thought-provoking conversation with guest Joey Odomm co-founder of Aro.
Aro leverages the science of habit formation and motivational design to ensure parents and kids don’t miss out on what’s most important by helping reclaim time spent on their phones.
Together, Jordan and Joey explore the various ways in which excessive phone use can create challenges within relationships and family dynamics and where to find hope.
Some of the highlights of the conversation include:
- Jordan and Joey's lightbulb moment when they realized they needed to change their phone habits.
- The cost of phone distraction on our relationship
- Steps to get free of phone dependency
Tune in to gain a fresh perspective on the role of smartphones in our lives and discover strategies for fostering stronger, more meaningful connections at home.
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Ask a young guy how they are doing, and you are bound to get the same response;
"Busy...".
It's easy in this day and age to be consumed with tasks, timelines, and packed schedules.
There seems to be no place to find repreive from all of life's demands and that can leave us feeling weary and worn out.
What if there is another way? What if our longing for rest, is actually our longing for God? On this episode, Jordan and Andrew discuss how to escape the hamster wheel of chaos, and find true rest for our bodies and our souls.
In this episode of the Impactus Young Man's Podcast, Jordan welcomes guest Jesse Kahata to share the story of how he navigated greif as a young man, when his father passed away tragically.
The episode begins with Jesse's candid admission that it's crucial to communicate negative emotions with God. Drawing from personal experiences, he emphasizes how sharing raw emotions with the God builds intimacy.
The podcast then delves into godly masculinity, with discussion of the prevalent issue of passivity and the struggles young men face in today's society.
The conversation shifts to Jesus as the ultimate model of godly masculinity. They explore how Jesus' empathy, strength, and unwavering commitment to love and serve others exemplify these qualities.
On this episode, Jordan is joined by Adrian Del Monte from Men of Bedrock. They dig into how guys can rock at leading their families with killer habits. They talk about fatherhood, from the old-school days when dads just brought home the bacon, to the new-gen dads who are all in, investing closely in their kids and owning it.
Adrian shares insights from his coaching program, Men of Bedrock, which focuses on helping men develop habits for achieving consistency and permanence in their lives. They discuss the role of motivation and the distinction between shame and guilt. They agree that shaming men to change rarely works, and that focusing on a positive vision for the future can be a more effective driver of change.
Lastly, they discuss three habits all men should implement now if they want to lead well and the importance of community in becoming all that God is asking of them.
Developing a vibrant prayer life can be a transformative journey for Christian men, but not without its challenges.
In a world filled with distractions and demands, carving out intentional time for prayer can seem daunting. The busyness of work, family responsibilities, and social obligations often compete for attention, making it difficult to prioritize prayer. Doubts and questions may creep in, raising concerns about the effectiveness or relevance of prayer in the modern age. Distractions, both external and internal, can pull focus away from communing with God. Moreover, maintaining consistency in prayer can be a struggle, as life's ups and downs can sometimes dampen enthusiasm.
Despite all this, we are still encouraged to pray. But why? Is it just a means to a selfish end? To get what we want? Or does God have something greater for men than that?
In this episode, Jordan and Andrew discuss their own struggles with developing a prayer life and some of the tips and tricks that helped them take some steps forward in this area. As well, they share their own experience of starting a prayer group at each of their local churches.
The important role of a father in a child’s life can not be overstated.
On today's episode of the Impactus Young Man’s podcast, Jordan interviews his own father, Bill Harnum.
Together, they talk about how Bill's father passed away when he was 11 and how that impacted his own development and how he was able to take a terrible situation and turn it into something beautiful.
They discuss the parable of the prodigal son and what Fathers can glean from this inspirational story as well as the three most important sentences every Father MUST say to their kids.
Geoffery Hinton, who was known as the 'God Father of Artificial Intelligence' recently left his position at Google to be able to inform people about the dangers of A.I.
At the same time, consumers are using AI more than ever before to make their life more efficient and increase productivity. Should men be more diligent and weary of such technology?
How should Christian men engage with A.I. and what concerns should we have?
On this episode, Jordan and Andrew discuss the benefits of A.I., and they also review some of the risks of AI, as outlined by Chat GPT. They talk about The Pope in a Puffer Jacket, Killer Robots and more....
Sexual sin is something that many men wrestle with. From lustful thoughts and fantasies to porn addiction and infidelity, there are a number of things that Satan is eager to use to bring destruction to our lives.
In this episode of the Impactus Young Man's Podcast, Jordan speaks with Matt Cline. Matt is the leader of Restored Ministries and helps people discover their God-given identity, and find healing from sexual brokenness.
They discuss a number of topics like how Matt went from being a draft prospect to leading a ministry like Restored. As well, Matt chats about his own acknowledgement of being violated as an athlete and how that impacted him as a young man.
Together, Matt and Jordan talk about the idea of "sexual needs" and how to overcome sexual sin in a way that honours God.
In a recent study done by the Survey Centre on American Life, men are experiencing a male-friendship recession. Their study found that "the percentage of men with at least six close friends fell by half since 1990, from 55 percent to 27 percent."
The study also discovered that the percentage of men without any close friends jumped from 3 percent to 15 percent.
Is it possible to experience true friendship as a man? What are some of the barriers that prevent men from going beyond surface-level relationships and into greater community? Jordan and Andrew discuss all this and more on the latest episode of the Impactus Young Man's Podcast.
The chapel service at Asbury University, On February 8th began like most. However, unlike other chapel services, this one has yet to end. At the time of this recording the worship service is still happening, 9 whole days later.
This gathering has garnered the attention of people from all over the globe. Though many are in prayerful support, there are others who are hesitant and unsure how to define it.
What does what's happening at Asbury have to do with men? Should we desire to see a move of God like this in our own lives?
On this short podcast, Jordan prayerfully exhorts men to "burn again" with passion for God.
Have you ever wondered why bad habits form so easily and good habits are so hard to create?
Ultimately, our habits (both good and bad) help shape the lives we live and the people we become.
Annie Dillard once said, "how we spend our days is, of course, how we spend our lives".
How are your habits shaping you?
On today's podcast, Jordan shares a little about how a lack of healthy habits led to a difficult season in his life and what it took to turn things around. Together, Jordan and Andrew discuss how to avoid hype and actually bear fruit that pleases God.
Books Referenced in this Podcast: Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer Emotional Healthy Spirituality by Pete Scazzero The Common Rule by Justin Whitmel Earley
One of the most relatable passages in scripture comes from Romans 7. It’s when the apostle Paul shares an internal struggle. He says, he does the things he does not want to do, and doesn't do the things that he wants to do.
He goes on to describe himself as "wretched". Have you ever felt that way? Where you couldn’t understand why you are the way that you are?
On today's podcast, Jordan interviews Ken Dyck from Freedom Session International Ministries about how you can reject the lies you've believed and how you can live free from the hurts, habits and hangups of our past.
Often times this means opening your life, hurts and will to the leadership of Jesus, and inviting Him to reinterpret the painful memories that satan uses to keep you in bondage.
We no longer need to be identified by our mistakes or the harm done to us. Instead, our story can finish with a God-inspired ending - one marked by freedom and abundant life.
The average age that a guy is exposed to pornography is said to be between 9-13 years old. For many, this serves as the beginning of a long journey of porn use.
For those without a Christian worldview, there seems to be no reason to refuse it. If it feels good do it, right? Wrong.
Recently, the porn industry has come under fire as many people (both Christian and not) have criticized the inappropriate practices, content and accessibility. Not to mention the negative impact it is having on relationships, mental health and more.
Are we beginning to see the end of porn and is there any hope for the man who is addicted?
On this episode, Jordan chats with Sathiya Sam. He is a world-renowned coach, international speaker, and author, who specializes in helping men overcome porn addiction. They discuss the current cultural moment surrounding porn, common obstacles to getting clean, and some key practices for men who are serious about sobriety.
According to Man in the Mirror, 96% of young men say they are two years removed from their spiritual peak, and 70% of young men are a decade or more removed from their best days with God.
This is heartbreaking, but is it surprising?
Are men giving up on their faith, or becoming disenfranchised with the Church? Is masculinity going down the drain?
On this first episode of the Impactus Young Man's Podcast, Jordan introduces the podcast and speaks with Andrew about why another podcast is needed for Christian men.
They discuss themes from Barna's most recent report on men, titled 5 Essentials for Engaging Men such as male pessimism, loneliness, identity, and why there is hope for men despite some of the startling studies.
This episode serves as an introduction to this new podcast that will be occurring monthly.