I Stand Corrected: Recent Episodes
Lisa Kone
I give my viewpoints about things people do not necessarily talk about. I document my journey of correction, acknowledgement and growth in the hope to get better at this life thing every day.
Some truths heal. Some truths harm. And some truths? They could've stayed in your drafts.
Today we're talking about the difference between honesty and wisdom, why "I'm just being honest" isn't always the flex people think it is, and how emotional maturity sometimes sounds a lot like silence.
Not every thought deserves a voice. Not every opinion needs an audience. And not every truth needs a microphone.
What if rejection isn't proof that you're not enough?
In this episode, we explore why you can never be enough for someone who never wanted you in the first place—and why that says more about compatibility than it does about your worth.
And that's a correction worth making.
Today we're talking about anxiety, overthinking, emotional exhaustion, and why Psalm 23 feels completely different when you read it as someone who's trying to hold everything together.
I stepped into Esther's mind… and I had QUESTIONS What does it look like to be placed in a situation you didn't choose… but still have a purpose in it? Let's talk about pressure, positioning, and showing up anyway.
Jacob played the game… and then got played. Let's talk about patterns, accountability, and what happens when life humbles you.
What happens when you're chosen, loved, and still not at peace? Let's talk about comparison, pressure, and why having everything doesn't always feel like enough.
What does it do to you to be chosen… but not truly loved? Let's talk about comparison, self-worth, and learning to stop chasing validation.
Hosea stayed… but would you? Let's talk about love, betrayal, and the difference between God's instruction and your own attachment.
Today we're stepping into Sarah's mind… and whew 😭 What happens when God gives you a promise, but the waiting gets uncomfortable? Let's talk about control, impatience, and the "buoy" we grab when we stop trusting.
Sometimes the hardest relationships to let go of aren't the toxic ones… they're the ones where the person is actually a good person.
In this episode, I talk about the difference between someone being good in general and someone being good for you specifically. Just because a relationship had beautiful moments, real connection, and genuine care doesn't always mean it's the right fit for your life.
A lot of us were taught that love means sacrifice, compromise, and always being there for your partner. But somewhere along the way, many of us learned how to show up for others while slowly disappearing ourselves.
So today we're getting real about why boundaries matter in romantic relationships. I'm talking about the difference between healthy compromise and self-abandonment, why so many people struggle to say "no," and how setting boundaries can actually protect love instead of ruining it.
Because the truth is, the right person won't be threatened by your boundaries - they'll respect them.
And sometimes loving someone also means loving yourself enough to say: "This is what I'm okay with… and this is what I'm not."
Let's talk about it.
Some of us don't have a motivation problem - we have a follow-through problem.
Because every time you say you're going to change, start, stop, try, or grow... and then you don't, you slowly stop trusting yourself.
If you've ever said "I'll start Monday" or "This time for real," this episode is for you.
We live in a world where everybody has an opinion but not everybody has the full picture. In this episode, I talk about the quiet danger of being ill-informed: spiritually, socially, and even personally. This one is about humility, discernment, and choosing truth over ego. Because sometimes growth starts with admitting… you didn't know.
Not everything beautiful is visible.
In this episode, I'm talking about the "inner garment" - the heart beneath the presentation. Using Proverbs 31 as a framework, we explore what it really means to be clothed in strength and dignity from the inside out. This isn't about perfection or performance. It's about alignment. Healing. Integrity. And becoming whole in private before shining in public.
If you've ever looked put-together on the outside while wrestling internally… this one's for you.
Everybody loves to quote "wives submit"… but very few people keep reading.
As a Christian woman, I had to wrestle with this chapter myself. And what I found wasn't oppression - it was structure. Not silence - but sacred alignment.
Marriage in Ephesians 5 isn't about control. It's about reflecting Christ.
If you've ever felt uncomfortable with this scripture… If you've ever heard it quoted at you… Or if you just want to understand it deeper...
This one's for you.
Let's read the whole thing.
Your story matters...even in scripture.
Today we're unpacking the real meaning behind "You can't have your cake and eat it too" and tying it to the playful but painfully accurate twist: "You can't have your Kate and Edith too."
This episode is about consequence, commitment, divided loyalty, and the cost of wanting options while claiming depth...
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In this episode, I talk about what it really means to find solace - not in people, not in distractions, but within yourself. Let's talk about emotional maturity, faith, silence, and learning how to be steady even when life feels uncertain.
We live in a world that wants everything right now — relationships, healing, success, validation. In this episode, I break down what immediate gratification really is, why our brains crave it, and how choosing short-term comfort often costs us long-term peace. Let's talk about patience, discipline, and learning how to sit with discomfort without running from it.
In this episode, I'm talking about what it really means to call a spade a spade — in dating, friendships, and even with ourselves. Why do we rebrand emotional unavailability as "he's just been through a lot"? Why do we call disrespect "miscommunication"? And why does clarity feel scarier than confusion?
If you've ever ignored your intuition to keep the peace, this one is for you.
Let's stop romanticizing dysfunction and start choosing clarity.
What happens when you feel deeply… but don't always know what to do with it? In this episode, I'm unpacking disorganized empathy...that confusing space where you care a lot, feel overwhelmed, and sometimes shut down. If you've ever absorbed other people's emotions, struggled with boundaries, or felt torn between closeness and distance, this conversation is for you. This one is for the over-feelers learning how to care without losing themselves.
In this episode, I talk about the psychology of familiarity, exposure, and why hearing someone's story can soften us toward people who've caused real harm. We explore how empathy, when left unchecked, can blur discernment - especially in relationships, communities, and faith spaces. Understanding someone does not mean excusing them, and grace does not require access.
The Penguin Love Theory has been all over the internet—and I had to talk about it. This episode is for the people who love deeply, intentionally, and maybe feel a little out of place in today's dating culture. We're unpacking what penguin love really represents, why consistency feels rare, and why wanting clarity doesn't make you needy—it makes you honest. 🐧🤍
Ever met someone who had one good quality and suddenly you thought they were perfect? Yeah… same. In this episode, I'm talking about the Halo Effect - that thing that makes us romanticize people, ignore red flags, and fall in love with potential instead of reality. We're unpacking how attraction clouds judgment, why we stay longer than we should, and how discernment can save you a whole lot of heartache. This one is for the girls (and guys) who saw the signs… and kept going anyway. 💭✨
This episode is for anyone who's ever said, "I'm not hurt physically… but why does this feel worse?"
I'm talking about emotional pain versus physical pain - why heartbreak, grief, rejection, and disappointment can hit just as hard (if not harder) than a physical injury. We get into why emotional pain lingers, why it's so often minimized, and how it shows up in our bodies even when nothing looks "wrong" on the outside.
If you've been carrying silent pain, pushing through because you feel like you should be fine, this conversation is for you. Healing isn't just about what people can see - it's about tending to the wounds no one notices.
Let's talk about it. 💚
Have you ever seen someone hurting and felt frozen—even though you wanted to help? That moment of hesitation isn't apathy. It's emotional.
In this episode, I break down the emotional bystander effect...the fear, anxiety, guilt, and overwhelming feeling that stop us from stepping in when someone needs support. This episode is for anyone who's ever said, "I should've done something." Awareness is the first step. Courage is the next.
We all have facts in our lives...things that happen, people's actions, events - but how often do our feelings align with them?
Ever felt like you missed your moment or messed up something good? I've been there. In this episode, I reflect on how God meets us in the middle, restores what we thought we ruined, and proves that a second chance is still a chance. This one is for anyone starting over.
In this episode, I talk about loving exponentially instead of equally - loving from who you are, not from fear, comparison, or self-shrinking. We get into emotional capacity, discernment, and the difference between loving deeply and loving blindly.
In this episode, I talk about the ability to think flexibly without losing yourself. We get into ego, open-mindedness, and why growth sometimes requires sitting with discomfort. A quick, reflective listen for anyone learning how to stretch their thinking without breaking. 🧠✨
Sometimes you don't need answers. You just need reassurance. This episode is a reminder that even when life feels uncertain, God's still covering you. If you're tired, confused, or quietly holding it together… this one's for you.
On vit vite, on aime vite, on décide vite.
Dans cet épisode, je parle de cette génération pressée qui confond parfois intensité et amour, connexion et projection. De l'envie d'aller vite, mais aussi de la fatigue que ça crée.
Not Every Thought Is True
Ever notice how your mind jumps to conclusions, exaggerates situations, or convinces you of things that aren't actually facts?
In this episode, we're talking about common thinking errors...the mental shortcuts our brains take that can lead to overthinking, unnecessary stress, and self-doubt. From black-and-white thinking to mind reading and worst-case scenarios, we break down how these thoughts show up in everyday life and how to start checking them instead of letting them run everything.
This is a gentle reminder that just because you think it… doesn't mean it's true. Let's slow down, reflect, and correct some thoughts together 🫶🏽✨
On est souvent très forts pour donner des conseils… aux autres.
Dans cet épisode, on parle de ces conseils qu'on donne facilement, mais qu'on a du mal à suivre quand ça nous concerne vraiment. Parce que savoir quoi faire et réussir à le faire, ce n'est pas la même chose.
On se parle beaucoup, mais on ne dit jamais vraiment ce qu'on veut.
Dans cet épisode, on parle du flou dans les relations, des non-dits, et de ce moment où il faut choisir entre rester dans le doute ou chercher la clarté.
Alors… on parle ou on parle pas ?
Sometimes healing looks like clarity… and sometimes it looks like chaos with self-awareness. If you've been overthinking, over-feeling, or just trying to hold it together, this one's for you.
In this episode, we talk about the fine line between enjoying life and avoiding growth. When does "self-care" turn into self-sabotage? And how do we choose purpose without becoming rigid or miserable? Let's unpack it gently, honestly, and with a little accountability.
Ever notice how laundry never stops piling up… no matter how many loads you do? Yeah - life kind of works the same way.
In this episode of I Stand Corrected, I talk about the emotional weight we carry, the things we put off, and the quiet moments where life feels heavier than we expected. This is a gentle reminder that you don't have to have it all together to keep going. Sometimes progress looks like doing one small thing, taking one deep breath, or giving yourself permission to rest.
If you've been feeling overwhelmed, tired, or just a little behind, this one's for you 🤍
✨ "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." - Matthew 11:28
Ever feel stuck even though you have options? In this episode, I talk about option paralysis; why having too many choices can leave us doing nothing at all. From dating to career moves to life decisions, we unpack how fear, overthinking, and waiting for "the perfect option" keeps us stuck. If you've been sitting on a decision… this one's for you!
In this episode, I'm breaking down the classic Dr. Phil question: "How's that working for you?" Not as a drag… but as a reality check. Sometimes the only thing standing between us and the life we want is the pattern we refuse to question.
Infatuation will have you planning a future with someone you barely know... In this episode, I break down why we fall so fast, why it feels so intense, and how to tell the difference between real connection and a fantasy our minds created. Whether you're in your soft era or recovering from a situationship, this one will help you stay grounded, self-aware, and a little less delulu. Tune in, laugh a little, reflect a lot, and let's talk about the art of not losing yourself in the butterflies.
Sometimes the situation wasn't even that deep… but the lessons were.
We're talking red flags, mixed signals, bare-minimum behavior, accountability, and the moment you realize confusion is not a love language.
If you've ever entertained someone who gave you just enough to keep you hooked but never enough to feel secure… yeah, this one is for you.
In this episode, I'm breaking down the little habits, mindsets, and decisions that make life way harder and have us out here looking goofy for no reason. From reading the room to moving with quiet confidence, I'm sharing the rules that keep me grounded, self-aware, and far away from unnecessary embarrassment.
It's funny, it's real, and a little bit shady… in the best way. If you're trying to level up, this one is for you.
Sometimes life isn't "lifing"… it's just a skill issue. In this episode, we're talking about the patterns people blame on vibes, fate, or childhood that actually come down to missing skills - communication, boundaries, emotional regulation, discipline, all of it.
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In this episode, I'm diving into something that changed the way I show up for myself: self-compassion. I talk about what it actually is, why so many of us struggle with it, and how learning to be gentle with myself literally shifted everything in my healing, my confidence, and my relationships.
If you've ever been too hard on yourself, felt guilty for being human, or struggled to give yourself the grace you give everyone else… this episode is for you.
Let's unpack softness, healing, and what it really means to be on your own team
In this episode, I'm diving into two mind-bending concepts we all experience without even realizing it: the Mandela Effect and the classic 6 vs 9 perspective.
First, I talk about why whole groups of people remember the exact same wrong thing (yes, your brain be lying), and how memory is not the reliable camera we think it is. Then I switch over to the perspective side - how two people can look at the same situation and come to completely different conclusions, and why both can feel true.
Finally, I bring both ideas together to make it make sense: what we remember and what we see are shaped by our experiences, our emotions, and the angles we're standing at. It's a humbling reminder that our minds are powerful… but not perfect.
If you love episodes that challenge how you think, this one is for you. Tap in, boo. 🎧💛
In this episode, I'm diving into the messy, beautiful, sometimes confusing world of adult friendships. Because let's be honest - nobody warned us how hard it can be to maintain friendships when life gets real. We talk about what healthy friendship actually looks like in your grown-woman era, the red flags that tell you it's time to let go, and the green flags that remind you who's worth holding onto.
I finally sat down with my dad: a DOCTOR of THEOLOGY - a man whose life, faith, and story have shaped me more than words can explain...and this conversation is everything I didn't know my heart needed.
We laughed, reflected, and talked about God's faithfulness through the years. Sometimes restoration doesn't come the way you expect - but it always comes right on time.
Sometimes it's not about being right...Holding space for people who think, believe, or live differently takes patience, humility, and grace. It's learning to listen without judgment, to love without control, and to stay grounded even when the conversation gets uncomfortable.
Because real maturity isn't proving your point - it's being able to sit with difference and still choose peace.
✨ Your story matters, and I'm here to listen.
You ever meet someone and think, "This could really be it"… but it just doesn't go anywhere? The Taxi Cab Theory says people only commit when their "available" light turns on and sometimes, you're just standing at the curb too early. In this episode, I'm talking timing, readiness, and learning to stop chasing potential. Because maybe it's not that you weren't enough… maybe their light just wasn't on yet.
In this episode, I talk about the difference between convergent and divergent thinking - and how the way we think shapes the way we live, create, and even heal. I'm learning that structure has its place, but peace often comes when I stop trying to control every outcome and just let myself imagine again. 💛
Healing was just the beginning - becoming is the real story. In The Most Unexpected Lessons I've Learned in Life (Part 2), I return with more truth, faith, and fine-girl wisdom. From learning to rest in God's timing to investing in peace, confidence, and glow, I share the lessons that shaped me into the woman I'm still becoming. This one's about worth, grace, beauty, and divine timing...because when God restores you, He upgrades you too. 💛
Life doesn't always teach through comfort; sometimes it teaches through chaos. In this episode, I'm opening up about the most unexpected lessons I've learned in my 20s: love that broke me, growth that humbled me, and faith that rebuilt me. Listen in...who knows...and maybe you'll hear your own story somewhere between the lines. 😘
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In a world that tells us to ‘just stay positive,’ gratitude can feel like pressure instead of freedom. But real gratitude isn’t about ignoring pain - it’s about holding space for both the hard and the hopeful. In this episode, we unpack what gratitude truly looks like without slipping into toxic positivity. Because it’s possible to be thankful and honest at the same time.
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Family is beautiful, but let’s be real… it’s not always simple. 🫂 In this episode of I Stand Corrected, I’m opening up a conversation about family dynamics; the love, the tension, and the boundaries we sometimes need to protect our peace. Because at the end of the day, no family is perfect, but grace, wisdom, and love can help us navigate it. 💭✨
In a world that glorifies hustle and constant motion, slowing down can feel uncomfortable — even wrong. This episode dives into the beauty of rest, presence, and taking life at a gentler pace. Because slowing down isn’t wasting time; it’s actually how we reclaim it.
Contentment doesn’t cancel your dreams or goals; it takes away the frantic need to chase and proves you’re enough even without the extras. Tune in for honest reflections, practical tips, and a reminder that peace is the real flex.
We love to romanticize our lives, main character energy and all - but what happens when the ego takes over? In this episode of I Stand Corrected, we’re unpacking what it means to not take everything personally. From missed texts to awkward encounters, not everything is about you… and that’s a good thing. Let’s talk ego, empathy, and the freedom that comes with emotional maturity.
Welcome to The ‘I Can Fix Him’ Chronicles - a love letter, a roast, and a wake-up call to everyone who’s ever tried to heal a man instead of healing themselves. From savior complexes to red flags we ignored because he had a “deep voice and childhood trauma,” we’re unpacking it all.
TOO much love for this world? What happens when your heart was made to love fully, but the world only knows how to give crumbs? In this episode, I talk about the tension of being a lover who has to tone it down just to protect yourself. It’s vulnerable, it’s raw, and it’s a reminder that your love is never the problem...it’s your gift.
💭 We talk so much about loving others, but what happens when you’re always the one giving? Always the one showing up? Always the strong one? In this episode, I’m asking the real question -What about me? Let’s talk about the weight of pouring into everyone else, the importance of being poured into too, and why remembering yourself isn’t selfish...it’s necessary.
Dans cet épisode, on parle des fameux Red Flags et Green Flags dans les relations. 🚩💚 Ces signaux qu’on choisit parfois d’ignorer… ou qu’on oublie de valoriser. On décortique ce qui mérite d’être un vrai STOP et ce qui mérite qu’on avance sereinement. Un épisode fun, léger mais plein de vérités - parce qu’au final, tu mérites une route verte, pas un mur rouge.
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Ever caught yourself carrying a relationship that felt more like a burden...? In this episode, I break down what you truly deserve in love - not the bare minimum, not the constant explanations, but real partnership. Inspired by a sermon I came across, we’re talking about what your next relationship should look like: consistent, supportive, prayerful, and life-giving. This is your reminder that you don’t have to settle for confusion or insecurity. The bar is not on the floor - you are worthy of more.
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Butterflies are more than beautiful. They are reminders of transformation, healing, and freedom. 🦋 This episode explores what their journey can teach us about growth, mental health, and trusting God’s timing in every season of life.
In this episode, I’m talking about the self-fulfilling prophecy and the law of assumption. Basically, how what you believe about yourself and your life ends up showing up in reality. I share how my own assumptions shaped my relationships and opportunities, and how shifting my mindset started shifting my outcomes.
If you’ve ever felt stuck in the same patterns or wondered why certain things keep repeating in your life, this one’s for you. Let’s talk about flipping those thoughts and living as if the good you want is already yours!
This episode explores why self-compassion is the ultimate game-changer. Instead of being hard on ourselves and staying stuck in shame, self-compassion helps us heal, grow, and bounce back stronger.
Heartbreak isn’t the end of your love story. In this episode, we talk about healing, setting boundaries, and staying open to love again without losing yourself.
Et si foi et thérapie n’étaient pas opposées, mais complémentaires ? Croire en Dieu ne veut pas dire qu’on va toujours bien. Et aller en thérapie ne veut pas dire qu’on manque de foi.
Think you’re just “independent”? Or maybe you're spiraling because they didn’t text back in 20 minutes? In this episode, we’re breaking down attachment styles - the psychology behind your dating patterns, ghosting habits, and why you keep falling for emotionally unavailable people (again 🙃). From avoidant to anxious to secure(ish), we’re unpacking it all...
This one’s for the girlies, the fellas, and everyone who’s ever blamed their ex for their trust issues (don’t worry, they probably deserved it).
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In this episode, we’re talking stamina...but not the gym kind. The kind it takes to keep showing up with a soft heart when life has tried to make you bitter. From friendship breakups to relationship heartbreak, I’m sharing a personal story that tested my emotional limits… and what it taught me about real strength.
Let’s talk emotional endurance, why softness isn’t weakness, and how to rest without quitting. Because sometimes, just surviving is the victory. 💛
You keep saying you want a soft life but does your nervous system even feel safe yet? 👀 This episode explores what “soft life” really means beyond candles and comfort. We’re talking peace, nervous system regulation, and how healing from survival mode is the ultimate glow-up. Because softness isn’t just a vibe, it’s a full-body reset. 💆🏾♀️✨
Not every battle is worth fighting and not every argument is holy. Titus 3:9 reminds us to let go of foolish debates and choose peace on purpose. This episode is for anyone who’s ever felt drained by pointless conversations or pressured to always respond. Some things aren’t deep, they’re just distractions. Let’s talk about discernment, protecting your peace, and knowing when to walk away.
🎧 Because wisdom > noise.
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"Tu peux pas m’avoir… et me blesser en même temps." Cet épisode, c’est pour toutes celles et ceux qui ont aimé quelqu’un qui leur faisait plus de mal que de bien. Un rappel simple mais nécessaire : l’amour, le vrai, ne se vit pas à moitié. Pas dans la douleur, pas dans la confusion. Si t’avais besoin d’un signe pour te choisir, le voilà. À envoyer à ton ex. Ou à toi-même. 💌
This one’s heavy. In this episode of I Stand Corrected, we’re going there...we’re talking about suicide in the Bible. From kings to prophets to disciples, Scripture shows us that even the chosen struggled. Even the anointed broke down.
This isn’t just about death; it’s about despair, shame, isolation, and the dangerous lie that things can’t get better. But here’s the truth: God saw them then, and He sees you now. Whether you’re carrying this weight yourself or loving someone who is, this episode is for you.
🎧 Trigger warning: This episode includes discussion of suicide and suicidal ideation. Listen with care and tenderness.
Tu vas mieux. Les choses se calment. T’as enfin un peu de paix… Mais au lieu de souffler, tu paniques.
Pourquoi on flippe quand tout va bien ? Dans cet épisode, on parle de cette peur bizarre du calme, du rôle que le chaos a joué dans notre vie, et de comment réapprendre à accueillir la paix sans s’excuser.
Today, we’re naming the kind of harm that doesn’t always leave bruises; the kind that leaves you confused, numb, and questioning yourself. We’re talking about coercion. The moments you didn’t fight, but you also didn’t feel safe. The times you said “yes” just to stop saying “no.” If you’ve ever walked away from an encounter feeling violated but unsure how to name it, this is for you. You are not alone. You’re not overreacting. And no, it wasn’t your fault.
Not every memory lives in a box. Some live in us - in the heartbreaks we don’t talk about, the prayers we whispered in the dark, and the quiet goodbyes we never said out loud. This one’s for anyone still healing from the versions of themselves they had to leave behind.
Et si tu t’étais perdue en chemin ? Est-ce que tu te connais vraiment ?
Entre les rôles qu’on joue, les attentes qu’on porte et les blessures qu’on cache, il est parfois difficile de distinguer notre vraie identité. Un épisode pour celles et ceux qui veulent se reconnecter à eux-mêmes, guérir, poser des limites, et surtout… s’aimer.
Scandal in the church? Oh, it’s real. The infamous moment when Paul goes off about a man sleeping with his stepmother and a church acting unbothered... But beneath the mess is a powerful message: real love corrects. Silence isn’t grace. And sometimes, tough truth is the most loving thing you can give someone.
In this episode of I Stand Corrected, we explore the delicate art of wearing your heart on your sleeve. Dive into the beauty of being emotionally transparent, showing vulnerability, and creating deep connections with others. But we also discuss the importance of setting boundaries to protect your heart. If you’ve ever wondered whether it’s possible to be emotionally open without getting hurt, this episode is for you.
Mon cœur, mon énergie, mes émotions… pour pas grand-chose en retour. Si t’as déjà trop aimé, trop tôt, cet épisode est pour toi. Donner, c’est beau. Mais on mérite un retour à la hauteur. Ce n’est pas une honte d’avoir aimé fort. Mais maintenant, on apprend à aimer autrement. Avec sagesse, avec limites.
Tu souris, tu avances, tu gères… mais au fond, est-ce que tu vis vraiment ? Dans cet épisode de I Stand Corrected, je parle du burnout émotionnel; ce mal qui te fait survivre au lieu de vivre. On explore ensemble ce sentiment d’épuisement intérieur, ce besoin de toujours être fort/forte, et l’importance de ralentir, respirer, et revenir à soi.
Ever spiraled because someone didn’t text back in 2 hours? In this episode, we’re talking emotional permanence...aka, the struggle to believe people still care when they’re not showing it 24/7. Let’s talk because sometimes… it’s not them. It’s our nervous system. 😅
EN: Just a little heads-up… I’m bringing some French into the mix 🇨🇮💬 French is my first language, and I’ve been wanting to show love to that side of me. So yeah, some episodes will be in French now. But don’t worry - English episodes aren’t going anywhere! I’m just blending both. Same vibes, just bilingual now 😌 Thanks for riding with me fam🤍
FR: Petit message pour vous dire que je commence à intégrer un peu de français dans le podcast 🇨🇮💬Le français, c’est ma langue maternelle, et ça faisait longtemps que je voulais partager cette partie de moi avec vous. Du coup, certains épisodes seront en français. Mais pas de panique - les épisodes en anglais seront toujours là ! Je fais juste un mélange des deux. Merci d’être toujours là. On est ensemble.
You think you know you? Let’s talk blind spots, hidden wounds, and the pieces even you haven’t met yet. This one’s for the healed, the healing, and the ones still hiding.
You’ve heard of words of affirmation and physical touch, but what about fried plantain and surprise Nutella? This is about what it really means to feel loved, why the smallest gestures hit the hardest, and how snacks, flowers, and thoughtful surprises might just say “I love you” better than words ever could. Whether you're boo’d up or boo-less, this one will have you reflecting, and craving alloco.
They tried to make you feel bad for growing, glowing, and God-willed...but baby, you can’t shame someone who’s already free. In this episode, let's dive deep into what it means to live shamelessly: not recklessly, but boldly. Spoiler alert: She knows exactly who she is...and so do you.
Because when you’ve made peace with your past, the opinions of others stop hitting the same.
The scripture I mentioned is John 8!
Ever fumbled the bag on someone you care about? Missed the call, forgot the birthday, sent the dry “lol”? This episode is your gentle reminder: grace > guilt. Lets unpacks the gap between a tired mind and a loving heart...and why sometimes, our silence isn’t neglect, it’s survival. Before you cancel yourself (or someone else), tune in. You might just need to hear: charge it to the head, not the heart.
Ever feel like your mind is constantly racing and peace feels out of reach? In this episode of I Stand Corrected, I break down what it truly means to have a sound mind. From identifying the everyday distractions that steal our peace to learning how to protect our mental space with intention, this episode is a must-listen for anyone ready to reclaim clarity and calm. Grounded in 2 Timothy 1:7, this conversation blends faith, honesty, and practical steps to help you quiet the noise and stand firm in God’s promise. Because peace isn’t a privilege - it’s a gift. And...it’s time to open it.
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God told him to marry a woman from the streets. He obeyed. Why??? HOW???
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This episode explores serendipity - those unexpected moments when life just seems to fall into place. Is it luck, coincidence, or something deeper? Dive into how serendipity often reveals God’s hand at work, guiding things even when it’s not obvious. Tune in and discover why sometimes the best things aren’t planned...they’re placed. ✨
PS: I had a blast recording this...not sure if y'all can tell
Do you really need closure, or is it just holding you back? Let’s get into it.
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Faith isn’t always easy. Sometimes, it’s messy, filled with doubt, and met with silence. If you’ve ever questioned your faith, this one’s for you :)
Your body remembers what your mind tries to forget. Stress, triggers, and tension aren’t just in your head - they’re stored deep within. In this episode, we’re talking about how trauma shows up physically, how to start healing, and how to restore that peace. Take a breath - let’s get into it. 💛
Let’s Talk What Works and What Doesn’t.
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The Fruits of the Spirit aren’t just church talk - they’re tools for everyday life. Love, joy, peace, and yes... patience (even in traffic). Listen in as I break them down and share how you can grow in each one. Practical, honest, and full of encouragement!
Overthinking everything? You’re not alone. This episode breaks down the chaos of an overthinker’s mind, the cost of living in your head, and how to finally let go. Clarity starts here.
A simple, heartfelt prayer to inspire and show the beauty of connecting with God through your own words.
Ready for a transformation? This episode of I Stand Corrected explores 'The Glow-Up Guide: How to Go from Meh to Marvelous.' Learn how to elevate your life mentally, emotionally, and physically with practical steps and a faith-filled approach. Whether it’s renewing your mindset, embracing self-love, or deepening your spiritual growth, this guide is designed to help you step into the best version of yourself.
We’ve all done it - said ‘I’m fine’ when we’re anything but. This episode dives into why we default to this lie, what it really means, and how it impacts our mental health and relationships. With a mix of humor, vulnerability, and practical advice, this conversation unpacks how to stop hiding behind ‘I’m fine’ and start embracing honesty in a way that feels safe and empowering. Tune in for a raw and relatable discussion that just might change how you check in with yourself and others! Love ya!
Do you ever wonder how God really sees women?
Spoiler alert: it’s way more amazing than you might think! In this episode, I’m breaking down what the Bible says about women: their worth, value, and the incredible purpose God has for them. Forget the stereotypes and misconceptions; let’s get into the truth about how much you matter to Him. Whether you need a reminder of your God-given worth or just want to celebrate the beauty of being a woman, this episode is for you.
The Loner’s Paradox is all about the highs and lows of going through life solo. It’s a space to embrace your independence, unpack the struggle for connection, and find strength in being uniquely you.
Okay but do you understand that God is beyond time and circumstances? If yes, that's all you need.
I asked for direction and clarity - all I got was the next step and not the staircase. I have accepted it and keep it pushing every day. I love the process of walking in my purpose. Results may not look exactly like my vivid imagination but I have a sense of confidence that it all works out in my favor.
"And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose." - Romans 8:28
Seek God's will for your life and enjoy the process; He has great plans for you love💕(Proof - Jeremiah 29:11)
I know God way too much to be acting like this.
I have a clear idea, like an ideal way of life in my head. I can write it on paper but can I actually live it? Can I live up to these expectations?
I am using grace and accountability to become a better person - so far it's been working for me, I hope it stays that way.
Beautiful: pleasing the senses or mind aesthetically; of a very high standard...
Dating...in my shoes ??? Not for the weak. It is a flex though because not everyone gets to pick and choose who/what they want.
Song of Songs 4:7 - You are altogether beautiful, my darling: there is no flaw in you.
Obviously there is more to life than being physically beautiful. According to the word, what's inside matters A LOT. In my case, I'm the full package; i.e. INSIDE and OUT
This is a quick prayer to start off.
Talking to God is the way to go - if there is anything in this world that you need, ASK GOD and you shall receive. You should also be grateful for what he has already done for you and so in your prayers, remember to thank Him.
Matthew 7:7 is THE verse !
- Ask and keep on asking and it will be given to you (Amplified Bible)
- Don’t bargain with God. Be direct. Ask for what you need (The Message)
- Ask, and it shall be given you (KJV)
The list goes on...
We have a guest today (drum roll)...Emmanuel Tekila !
I'm sure some people send out letters but for the most part, texting is the new thing.
I struggle with texting back, texting people on time and many more TEXTING related stuff BUT I have good reasons. On this episode we talk about how we feel when it comes to texting in this modern world and through the busyness of life.
Tune in and get some advice from Mr. Tekila ! Hey you might get a shot too 😘
Announcement😌: This is probably my favorite episode; I chose 12 out of the 30 precepts.
Proverbs is full of knowledge and frankly, we all get called out someway, somehow. No one is perfect; as long as you're human, you're going to get called out on your ...👀 Take the advice or leave it - you decide (TAKE IT, TAKE IT🫣)
Personally, I'm in my 'one step at a time' era. I am gradually fixing what needs to be fixed and improving what's already working out - GOOD, BETTER, BEST...bestest...?
These precepts come from Proverbs chapter 22 - 24; see for yourself friend :-)
It is going to matter in 3 weeks? No ? Alright let it go.
If you somehow can't let go, let me know so I can take you to lunch; I got you like that ❤️
Ephesians 4:26-27 - Go ahead and be angry. You do well to be angry - but don't use your anger as fuel for revenge. And don't stay angry. Don't go to bed angry. Don't give the Devil that kind of foothold in your life. MSG
Romans 12:19 - Dear friends, never take revenge. Leave that to the righteous anger of God. For the Scriptures say, “I will take revenge; I will pay them back,” says the LORD. NLT
*I meant Ephesians 4 instead of 5; thanks for coping with me guys 💕
I have a routine that I've been loving for a few months now; probably because of the results 😂. It is light work if you're consistent but honestly if you can go to the gym everyday, you can also take care of your mind, soul and spirit.
Here are the two scriptures that I was trying to quote at some point...😂 please bare with me:
Ecclesiastes 1:18 - Much learning earns you much trouble. The more you know, the more you hurt. (The Message version)
Philippians 4:6-7 - Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. 7 And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. (NIV)
Stay focused on your goals. Enjoy the journey and include God ALWAYS !
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Would you post your partner on social media? If yes, would you expect them to post you?
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Hey !! Welcome to this episode with my sister Sara :)
She gives her opinions on a few things you probably do not think of.
For some reasons we crack each other up and I probably shouldn't look at her in serious situations. I hope to have two daughters in the future so they can be besties like us.
Her instagram is @the_queen_smk and our instagram page is @sara_x_lisa 😃
Being considerate is moving with emotional intelligence. If you really care about the people around you, work on your emotions and reactions.
*heavy on the "don't go back to what made you cry"
I think everyone deserves to find love in a partner or whatever.
Ladies - There is definitely something I said in here that you can relate to.
Men - Are you ready for this?
A bit personal with this one...I am in a season of change, acknowledgment, growth and that.
I don't like to be pressured by anyone into doing anything...I have my reasons for doing or not doing certain things. If I say I don't want to, I mean it. Let me be.
You really just have to figure out what you'll do to pick yourself back up in case it doesn't work out. Weigh your options & why not have a back up plan? Once you do all that, shoot...go for it.
It took me some time to realize how timing is important. You don't always have to verbally participate in a situation. It is okay to stay quiet, ignore or keep your thoughts to yourself. Read the room and control your urge to talk :-)
This was an educative conversation with Marquis. It's right on time for Black History Month and definitely gives some insight on the relationship between mental health and philosophy.
Thank you Marquis for joining me on this podcast and sharing your knowledge :-)
*shout out to Manny for the inspiring work out video about strength
I hope to have a follow up conversation with Marquis on the podcast. Stay tuned and be blessed.
Hi :-) Welcome to my area! Here, I stand corrected. I hope you find lots of love around here.
You can call me Lisa but I prefer babygirl.
The baby voice in here is a recording from 2016. My baby sister was laughing and till this day, it is my favorite memory of us.
The cover art is my art and I call her 'mama'. Of all my pieces, I picked her because she represents a young woman...there is so much more to the story so, stay tuned to find out.