Shoot the Breeze: Recent Episodes
Cultivate Relationships
Our podcast, Shoot the Breeze, celebrates the messiness of life, relationships, and Christianity. Mostly, it is us shooting the breeze (sometimes with guests) while occasionally saying something important.
Bible School Edition – Nathan and Pastor Scott explore how our earthly experiences — especially with fathers — shape our view of God as Father. They discuss the Trinity, God’s relational nature, and how healing reorients our hearts to see Him as He truly is.
— EPISODE CHAPTERS —(00:00) Wrestling With Our View of GodThe episode opens with how our view of God is often shaped by early influences, especially parental examples, leaving distortions that need healing.(24:31) The Trinity and Our IdentityNathan and Scott explain how the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit reveal God’s relational nature and empower our identity, moving beyond shallow analogies into deeper theological truth.(47:22) God the Father’s Relational HeartThis section highlights God as Father, emphasizing His generosity and constancy while challenging listeners to confront how childhood experiences shaped their view of Him.(1:19:31) Activation StepsThe episode ends with reflection and activation, inviting listeners to identify distortions from earthly fathers and anchor themselves in God’s unchanging love and truth.
— EPISODE LINKS —• Bookshelf | Faith Booklethttps://cultivaterelationships.com/bookshelf/#faith• Podcast Playlist | Galatians Serieshttps://cultivaterelationships.com/galatians/• Unseen Realm, by Michael Heiserhttps://a.co/d/9Xf2SqA• Youtube | St. Patrick’s Bad Analogieshttps://youtu.be/KQLfgaUoQCw• The Freedom Booklethttps://cultivaterelationships.com/the-freedom-booklet/• Bible Toolshttps://cultivaterelationships.com/bible-tools/• More Content & Resources at Our Websitehttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
— EPISODE NOTES —THE HOLY TRINITY – Father, Son, & SpiritGenesis 1.27; 3.22; 11.7; Isaiah 6.8; Matthew 3.13-17; 28.19-20; John 14.16; 16.13-15; 20.21-22; Romans 8.9; 15.16, 30; 1 Corinthians 12.4-6; 2 Corinthians 1.21-22; Galatians 4.4-6; Ephesians 2.18; 4.4-6; 1 Timothy 6.13-16; Jude 20-21The most foundational theological doctrine of Christianity is that God is one and that there is only one God. Paradoxically, however, God reveals Himself eternally existing in three persons. “Persons” in this sense is not different people but rather best understood by their relationship and distinction to one another — the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit. While God is sovereign, the attribute that brings God the most glory is in Him being relational.
APPLICATION QUESTION(S):How might seeing God as fundamentally relational — rather than sovereign — affect your view of Him? How might this influence your prayers, thoughts, and actions toward Him?
THE HOLY FATHER — God’s Heart is RelationalPsalm 136.22-26; 138.8; Matthew 6.9; Luke 11.13; James 1.17; Romans 8.15Our view of God — especially as our Heavenly Father — is often seen through the lens of our experience with our earthly fathers. The role and responsibility of our earthly fathers is to mirror that of our Heavenly Father — to protect us, provide for our needs, and affirm our God-given identity. Our experience can cause us to polarize our view of God’s attributes. We either only affirm the attributes we’ve experienced or completely reject them. Through the Scriptures, God has revealed that He is a good and loving Father who desires relationship with us, His creation.
APPLICATION QUESTION(S):What was the most encouraging AND discouraging thing your biological father did or said to you growing up?
ACTIVATION STEPSFrom this study, prayerfully walk through the following steps:
STEP #1 – RECOGNIZE DISTORTIONS (James 1.17)Take time this week to reflect on how your experience with your earthly biological father may have shaped your view of God as Father. Ask the Holy Spirit: What distortion of God’s character do I struggle with most?
STEP #2 – REDISCOVER HIS NATURE (Leviticus 11.44)Search the Scriptures to rediscover an attribute of God you have neglected or found hard to believe. Write down passages that highlight His character and pray them back to Him. Ask the Holy Spirit: Which attributes of the Father do You want to restore in my heart this week?
STEP #3 – REORIENT TOWARD RELATIONSHIP (1 John 3.1):Take one practical step to engage God as your relational Father (not just sovereign ruler). This could be in prayer, worship, or obedience. Ask the Holy Spirit: How can I live as the Father’s child today, receiving and reflecting His relational love?
In this episode, Nathan and Lacey equip listeners to walk others through the Freedom Booklet. They cover two practical formats — intentional one-on-one meetings and small groups (typically 2–4 participants) with a leader and co-leader — and share concrete best practices: set dates and timelines, provide accountability and simple hospitality (quiet space, coffee, childcare), keep leaders as facilitators (not counselors), enforce confidentiality and speaking rules, use the instructional videos, check in between sessions, and always allow the Holy Spirit to lead. It’s a practical, encouragement-filled guide for helping people move from stuck to free.
— EPISODE LINKS —• The Freedom Booklethttps://cultivaterelationships.com/the-freedom-booklet/• Using This Resource with Others (PDF)https://cultivaterelationships.com/the-freedom-booklet/• More Content & Resources At Our Websitehttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
In this episode, Nathan and Lacey guide listeners through the last step of The Freedom Booklet, Step Nine: Receive and Replace — a transformative process of letting go of lies and replacing them with the Holy Spirit’s truth. Rather than simply releasing pain or sin, this step invites you to actively receive what Jesus is speaking over you, aligning your heart with His Word and stepping into lasting freedom. They explain how this isn’t just a cognitive shift but an invitation to action — hearing from God, walking in obedience, and marking the moment as a testimony of His work. This process closes the loop on the past and launches you forward into a future of hope and healing.
— EPISODE LINKS —• The Freedom Booklethttps://cultivaterelationships.com/the-freedom-booklet/• STB124 | BSE | Real, Vulnerable Prayer E1https://cultivaterelationships.com/shoot-the-breeze/stb124/• STB125 | BSE | Real, Vulnerable Prayer E2https://cultivaterelationships.com/shoot-the-breeze/stb125/• More Content & Resources At Our Websitehttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
In this episode, Nathan and Lacey discuss Step Eight — release and blessing — the part of resolving sin, loss, and offense that often gets overlooked but is essential to true freedom. Drawing from Matthew 5 and Romans 12, they show how the process of freedom is incomplete without releasing our expectations, debts, and hurts to God, whether in offense, loss, or personal sin. Release means surrendering control, shame, or unmet expectations and entrusting them fully to God’s justice and healing. But it doesn’t stop there — release flows into blessing, choosing to sacrificially pray for good even for those who have wounded us. As they share stories of transformation, they reveal how this process breaks bitterness, redirects our hearts, and opens the door to healing, freedom, and restored perspective in Jesus.
— EPISODE LINKS —• The Freedom Booklethttps://cultivaterelationships.com/the-freedom-booklet/• Podcast Playlist | Forgivenesshttps://cultivaterelationships.com/forgiveness/• More Content & Resources At Our Websitehttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
In this episode, Nathan and Lacey step into the hard but freeing process of forgiveness. Scripture makes it clear that forgiving others is not optional, yet it often feels impossible. Forgiveness is more than ignoring the hurt or pretending it didn’t happen — it’s canceling the debt someone owes us and releasing them, even when what they did was real and painful. Through practical steps and honest reflection, you’ll learn how forgiveness reorients your heart, releases expectations, and opens the door for God’s healing power to work in your life. Discover how choosing forgiveness — even when it feels like obedience without emotion — creates space for true freedom.
— EPISODE LINKS —• The Freedom Booklethttps://cultivaterelationships.com/the-freedom-booklet/• Podcast Playlist | Forgivenesshttps://cultivaterelationships.com/forgiveness/• More Content & Resources At Our Websitehttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
In this episode, Nathan and Lacey explore Jesus’ parable of the unforgiving servant and how it reveals our tendency to demand payment from others when we fail to rest in God’s forgiveness. They discuss the real meaning of repentance — more than admitting fault, it’s a Spirit-led reorientation of our hearts toward God. Therefore, true repentance acknowledges not only our outward actions but also the unhealthy thoughts and attitudes we’ve carried. Through confession and surrender, we invite God’s cleansing, release the grip of unforgiveness, and step into healing. This conversation shows that repentance is not punishment but freedom — the path where brokenness gives way to a restored relationship with God and others.
— EPISODE LINKS —• The Freedom Booklethttps://cultivaterelationships.com/the-freedom-booklet/• More Content & Resources At Our Websitehttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
In this episode, Nathan and Lacey walk through Step Five of The Freedom Booklet, highlighting how gratitude becomes a catalyst to begin the process of the Holy Spirit healing our wounds. They explain that when we give thanks — even for painful experiences — we are not excusing the hurt but acknowledging God’s presence and redemptive work in the middle of it. Gratitude shifts our focus from what was lost to how God is redeeming, transforming bitterness into peace and despair into hope. This conversation shows how thanksgiving is more than a discipline; it’s a doorway to freedom, helping us release pain, embrace healing, and see our lives through the lens of God working all things for our good (that is, Him making what was evil and broken into what will be beneficial for us).
— EPISODE LINKS —• The Freedom Booklethttps://cultivaterelationships.com/the-freedom-booklet/• STB107 | Grieving the Loss of a Child + Sarah P1https://cultivaterelationships.com/shoot-the-breeze/stb107/• STB108 | Coping & Resolving Loss + Sarah P2:E1https://cultivaterelationships.com/shoot-the-breeze/stb108/• STB109 | Coping & Resolving Loss + Sarah P2:E2https://cultivaterelationships.com/shoot-the-breeze/stb109/• More Content & Resources At Our Websitehttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
In this episode, Nathan and Lacey walk through Step Four of The Freedom Booklet, exploring how unmet needs and unfulfilled desires often drive us to believe lies about God, ourselves, and others. These lies, formed through pain or disappointment, create patterns that keep us striving for fulfillment in unhealthy ways. They share how letting the Holy Spirit expose these false beliefs and reveal God’s truth leads to the genuine satisfaction of our deepest needs — needs for love, belonging, security, and purpose. This isn’t about suppressing desire, but about allowing God to meet it in ways that bring lasting peace and transformation.
— EPISODE LINKS —• The Freedom Booklethttps://cultivaterelationships.com/the-freedom-booklet/• More Content & Resources At Our Websitehttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
In this episode, Nathan and Lacey work through Step Three of The Freedom Booklet, focusing on coping behaviors, inner vows, and hidden beliefs that form in response to unresolved pain, sin, or trauma. They explain how these patterns — often made to protect oneself — eventually lead us to react instead of respond, producing fruit that doesn’t reflect the life of Jesus. With practical examples and real vulnerability, they show how honest confession, thoughtful self-reflection, and Holy Spirit-led insight are key to uprooting what’s been buried. This step isn’t about shame — it’s about clarity, healing, and lasting transformation.
— EPISODE LINKS —• The Freedom Booklethttps://cultivaterelationships.com/the-freedom-booklet/• More Content & Resources At Our Websitehttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
In this episode, Nathan and Lacey will guide you through Step Two of The Freedom Booklet, focusing on thoughts, beliefs, and feelings surrounding past offenses, losses, or sins. They explore why revisiting old wounds doesn’t mean we’ve failed to resolve them — it just means we’re allowing the Holy Spirit to expose unresolved layers of pain, perspective, and healing. With practical examples, they show how each layer of pain may call for fresh surrender. Whether you’re overly expressive or emotionally shut down, this step is about letting God search your heart and bring clarity to how past moments still affect you — and those around you — today.
— EPISODE LINKS —• The Freedom Booklethttps://cultivaterelationships.com/the-freedom-booklet/• More Content & Resources At Our Websitehttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
In this episode, Nathan and Lacey walk through how to examine the deeper roots of what’s producing fruit in your life — both good and bad. Using The Freedom Booklet, they talk about how trauma, self-protection, sin, and even religious performance can masquerade as strength while actually stunting spiritual growth. They challenge listeners to get honest about what’s growing in their lives and invite the Holy Spirit to help identify what needs to be uprooted, what needs to be healed, and how to move toward producing healthy fruit.
— EPISODE LINKS —• The Freedom Booklethttps://cultivaterelationships.com/the-freedom-booklet/• More Content & Resources At Our Websitehttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
In this episode, Nathan and Lacey introduce The Freedom Booklet, a practical tool designed to help you uproot the offenses, losses, and sins that keep producing bad fruit in your life. Using the analogy of invasive garden vines, they explain how sin, trauma, and false beliefs — if left alone — can overtake our hearts and relationships. They unpack how the Holy Spirit, Scripture, and community help address issues at the root level. Whether you’re confronting sin, walking through grief, or releasing someone through forgiveness, this tool is not a formula — but an invitation to let God have His opinion of your life’s experience and transform your inner life from the ground up.
— EPISODE LINKS —• The Freedom Booklethttps://cultivaterelationships.com/the-freedom-booklet/• The Identity Guidehttps://cultivaterelationships.com/the-identity-guide/• Podcast Playlist | Forgivenesshttps://cultivaterelationships.com/forgiveness/• More Content & Resources At Our Websitehttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION – Pastor Scott and Nathan give a behind-the-scenes look at how they design teaching series, whether for a Sunday morning sermon or a mid-week Bible study. They explore how practical theology, lifestyle discipleship, and Spirit-led planning help shape every session. They unpack how intentional structure (with a lot of flexibility) keeps people engaged, spiritually growing, and relationally connected. It’s a fun and honest look at planning for transformation, not just attendance.
— EPISODE CHAPTERS —(00:00) Why We Don’t Plan AloneNathan and Scott reflect on collaborative series planning, involving community and the Holy Spirit — because lone pastors often miss real-life needs.(18:17) Theology as LifestyleThey lay the foundation for a series, built on “lifestyle theology,” where identity, obedience, and relationship shape how we follow Jesus.(36:01) Structuring for Engagement and GrowthThis section focuses on breaking the series into smaller, accessible segments to keep people from drifting and help make truth stick.(56:16) Don’t Just Teach It — Live ItThey wrap with encouragement to live what we teach, helping participants move from content consumers to Spirit-led disciples in everyday life.
— EPISODE LINKS —• HCF Freedomhttps://hcftx.org/freedom• The Freedom Booklethttps://cultivaterelationships.com/the-freedom-booklet• Coaching with Cultivate (Small Group Discussion Videos)https://cultivaterelationships.com/small-groups/• More Content & Resources at Our Websitehttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION – Pastor Scott and Nathan take aim at the false versions of the gospel that many Christians unknowingly live by. From shame-driven obedience to cheap grace disguised as freedom, they explore how distorted theology and unchallenged narratives quietly shape our faith. Drawing from personal ministry experiences, they discuss when it’s necessary to confront teachers, peers, and even ourselves. This conversation is a call to examine not just what we believe, but who told us to believe it — and to courageously realign with the truth of Jesus.
— EPISODE CHAPTERS —(00:00) The Gospel We Didn’t Mean to Believe – Nathan and Scott expose how distorted views of God, sin, and ourselves quietly shape our theology.(19:09) False Freedom vs. Real Accountability – They explore how the gospel is often misapplied to excuse sin, and why real discipleship involves confronting friends and leaders in love.(36:00) How We Stay Stuck (Even When Forgiven) – This section challenges the false belief that forgiveness always equals freedom. They unpack how healing often requires confrontation, clarity, and action.(55:13) Discerning What (and Who) to Confront – They close by addressing when to confront a person, when to confront a teaching, and when to confront yourself—so truth can lead, not reaction.
— EPISODE LINKS —• The Life & Times of Jesus the Messiah, by Alfred Edersheimhttps://a.co/d/6BRixAQ• Podcast Playlist | Galatians Serieshttps://cultivaterelationships.com/galatians/• Podcast Playlist | 1-3 Johnhttps://cultivaterelationships.com/1-3-john/• More Content & Resources at Our Websitehttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION – Pastor Scott and Nathan unpack what it means to live a Jesus-story worth sharing. From vulnerability and accountability to the role of community and spiritual growth, they challenge the idea that transformation must look hyper-spiritual. Instead, they offer practical steps to walk in freedom — steps that involve real people, real stories, real freedom, and real victory. They discuss the importance of knowing what Jesus has saved you from — not just theologically, but personally and practically. Whether you’re in the middle of your mess or learning how to turn it into a testimony, this episode is a relatable invitation to let God shape your story through honest community and daily faithfulness. Please note, this discussion takes place in two episodes. This is episode two.
— EPISODE CHAPTERS —(00:00) Eyeball-to-Eyeball Community – Nathan and Scott define real community — not a class or program, but messy, honest friendships that walk through life together.(13:16) Freedom That’s Actually Attainable – They challenge the false pressure to be hyper-spiritual and unpack how practical habits — celebrating small victories — build lasting freedom.(26:18) A Clean House Isn’t a Full House – Drawing from Matthew 12, they warn against empty, “cleaned-up” lives that lack the presence of the Holy Spirit and real people.(39:50) Your Story Is a Weapon – They explore how vulnerability and community turn pain into purpose. Your testimony, shared honestly, becomes a guidepost for others.
— EPISODE LINKS —• The Freedom Booklethttps://cultivaterelationships.com/the-freedom-booklet/• The Identity Guidehttps://cultivaterelationships.com/the-identity-guide/• More Content & Resources at Our Websitehttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION – Pastor Scott and I talk about what it really takes to walk in freedom and how we are to walk in repentance, not performance, but as raw, awkward honesty before God and others. We share stories of people who found healing simply by admitting they didn’t know what to do next. With our insights on leading others to freedom, our vulnerability, and the Gospel’s power to transform, this episode is a call to bring your real self into the light — and let God do the rest. Please note, this discussion takes place in two episodes. This is episode one.
— EPISODE CHAPTERS —(00:00) When Repentance Gets Real – Repentance often begins with admitting, “I don’t know what to do.” Nathan and Scott talk about awkward honesty as the first step toward real change.(14:55) Honest Leaders, Healthy Churches – Vulnerability from leaders sets the tone for healing. They discuss how repentance—not image—is what shapes healthy church culture.(25:24) Let the Gospel Work – Spiritual maturity starts when we stop performing and live the gospel fully. They challenge the habit of managing appearances.(40:47) The Fruit of Vulnerability – Freedom and healing follow honesty. Real-life stories show how God meets us in truth and transforms us through community.
— EPISODE LINKS —• The Freedom Booklethttps://cultivaterelationships.com/the-freedom-booklet/• The Identity Guidehttps://cultivaterelationships.com/the-identity-guide/• More Content & Resources at Our Websitehttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
Nathan and Pastor Kevin continue their discussion about the challenges of balancing ministry, marriage, and parenting. As a Youth Pastor, Kevin reflects on his desire to be a supplemental voice in students’ lives — not a replacement for spiritually engaged parents. Together, they discuss how youth ministry should support what’s happening at home, not carry it. Kevin opens up about the pressures of leadership, the importance of putting his marriage first, and the lessons learned from marriage counseling and personal failures. He also shares how his upbringing shaped his views on emotional vulnerability — and why he’s committed to being open with his wife. They dive deep into parenting, calling out the dangers of disengagement and the power of simply being present. Kevin’s advice to parents: ask real questions, build trust daily, and don’t let fear or shame keep you from connecting with your kids. Whether you’re in ministry or not, this episode reminds us that consistency, honesty, and grace are the foundations of impactful relationships. Please note, this discussion takes place in two episodes. This is episode two.
— EPISODE LINKS —• STB128 | Youth Ministry + Pastor Kevin E1https://cultivaterelationships.com/podcast/stb128/• More Content & Resources At Our Websitehttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Kevin, where they swap stories about fishing (or, in Nathan’s case, the complete inability to catch anything). They discuss how our connection with God shifts through life’s changing seasons and the chaos of parenting. They also explore how spiritual growth doesn’t always happen in quiet solitude, but often through the loud, messy, and beautiful moments of ordinary life. Please note, this discussion takes place in two episodes. This is episode one.
— EPISODE LINKS —• More Content & Resources At Our Websitehttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION – Nathan and Pastor Scott dive into what it takes to build spiritually mature relationships marked by humility, repentance, and growth. They explore how real connection requires more than surface-level friendship — it demands a willingness to confront sin, seek forgiveness, and walk in grace. They also encourage us to pursue relationships that reflect the transforming power of the gospel through honesty, accountability, and love. Please note, this discussion takes place in two episodes. This is episode two.
— EPISODE CHAPTERS —(00:00) Practical Ways to Rebuke the Enemy(12:31) Does God Allow Greater Temptations?(26:32) Wasting Suffering and Temptations & the Process of Walking Out of Temptation(36:16) Steps 2-8 in the Process of Walking Out of Temptation
— EPISODE LINKS —• STB126 | BSE | Maturity Requires Repentance E1https://cultivaterelationships.com/shoot-the-breeze/stb126/• Podcast Playlist | 1-3 Johnhttps://cultivaterelationships.com/1-3-john• The Habit Tree Worksheethttps://cultivaterelationships.com/the-habit-tree-worksheet/• Podcast Playlist | Gnosticismhttps://cultivaterelationships.com/gnosticism• The God Who Risks, by John Sanders (Amazon)https://a.co/d/e2CfqQZ• Small Group Series | Failurehttps://cultivaterelationships.com/small-groups/series-2-failure/• More Content & Resources at our websitehttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
— EPISODE NOTES —(1) ACKNOWLEDGE THE TEMPTATION• What temptation is common to you? (1 Corinthians 10:13)• What sins or addictions do you know you struggle with?
(2) IDENTIFY YOUR BAIT (TRIGGERS / RED FLAGS)• When, where, how, or with whom does the temptation usually present itself? (Proverbs 7:6-27)• What are the scenes (places) of the temptation? Don’t revisit them! (Proverbs 26:11)• Are you tired, hungry, emotionally exhausted, or stressed?
(3) RECOGNIZE TYPICAL RESPONSES• How do you typically respond to this temptation?• How have you tried to resist this temptation? Has it worked? (Secure a divers arsenal) If you have given in before, choose to do it a different way!
(4) PRE-DETERMINE YOUR NEXT RESPONSE• Are you securing a diverse arsenal of offensive & defensive weaponry? (Nehemiah 4) (e.g., Accountability, Communication, Scripture, Diversions, Pre-Emptive Actions, Corporate Prayer, Personal Prayer, Remove Bait, Confess Temptation, etc.)• Are you agreeing with Jesus and his victory over Satan, sin, and death? (Colossians 2:15)• Are you actively seeking the exit to temptation? (1 Corinthians 10:13)
(5) CONFESS, REPENT, & FORGIVE KNOWN SINS• Are you confessing and repenting of known sin to people AND Jesus? (1 John 1:8-9)• Are you forgiving other people of their sin? (Matthew 6:14-15; Ephesians 4:25-32)
(6) AGREE WITH WHO YOU ARE IN JESUS• Do you see yourself as dead to sin? (Romans 6:1-14)• Are you walking as though Christ were at home in you? (Ephesians 3:14-19;Galatians 2:20)
(7) RENEW YOUR MIND• What are you filling your thoughts with? (Philippians 4:8; 1 Timothy 2:22; Titus 1:15)• Are you getting rid of anything that generates tempting thoughts? (Ephesians 4:23, 31)
(8) RESIST THE DEVIL• Are you taking thoughts and ideas captive? (2 Corinthians 10:5)• Are you submitting to Jesus, his will, and commands? (James 4:7; John 15:1-17)(e.g., Repentance, Forgiveness, Rea
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION – Nathan and Pastor Scott dive into what it takes to build spiritually mature relationships marked by humility, repentance, and growth. They explore how real connection requires more than surface-level friendship — it demands a willingness to confront sin, seek forgiveness, and walk in grace. They also encourage us to pursue relationships that reflect the transforming power of the gospel through honesty, accountability, and love. Please note, this discussion takes place in two episodes. This is episode one.
— EPISODE CHAPTERS —(00:00) Introduction(15:09) Maturity Goes Beyond Actions to Motives(24:31) How We Develop Doctrines(37:20) 1 Corinthians 10.13
— EPISODE LINKS —• Podcast Playlist | 1-3 Johnhttps://cultivaterelationships.com/1-3-john• The Habit Tree Worksheethttps://cultivaterelationships.com/the-habit-tree-worksheet/• Podcast Playlist | Gnosticismhttps://cultivaterelationships.com/gnosticism• The God Who Risks, by John Sanders (Amazon)https://a.co/d/e2CfqQZ• Small Group Series | Failurehttps://cultivaterelationships.com/small-groups/series-2-failure/• More Content & Resources At Our Websitehttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
— EPISODE NOTES —(1) ACKNOWLEDGE THE TEMPTATION• What temptation is common to you? (1 Corinthians 10:13)• What sins or addictions do you know you struggle with?
(2) IDENTIFY YOUR BAIT (TRIGGERS / RED FLAGS)• When, where, how, or with whom does the temptation usually present itself? (Proverbs 7:6-27)• What are the scenes (places) of the temptation? Don’t revisit them! (Proverbs 26:11)• Are you tired, hungry, emotionally exhausted, or stressed?
(3) RECOGNIZE TYPICAL RESPONSES• How do you typically respond to this temptation?• How have you tried to resist this temptation? Has it worked? (Secure a divers arsenal) If you have given in before, choose to do it a different way!
(4) PRE-DETERMINE YOUR NEXT RESPONSE• Are you securing a diverse arsenal of offensive & defensive weaponry? (Nehemiah 4) (e.g., Accountability, Communication, Scripture, Diversions, Pre-Emptive Actions, Corporate Prayer, Personal Prayer, Remove Bait, Confess Temptation, etc.)• Are you agreeing with Jesus and his victory over Satan, sin, and death? (Colossians 2:15)• Are you actively seeking the exit to temptation? (1 Corinthians 10:13)
(5) CONFESS, REPENT, & FORGIVE KNOWN SINS• Are you confessing and repenting of known sin to people AND Jesus? (1 John 1:8-9)• Are you forgiving other people of their sin? (Matthew 6:14-15; Ephesians 4:25-32)
(6) AGREE WITH WHO YOU ARE IN JESUS• Do you see yourself as dead to sin? (Romans 6:1-14)• Are you walking as though Christ were at home in you? (Ephesians 3:14-19;Galatians 2:20)
(7) RENEW YOUR MIND• What are you filling your thoughts with? (Philippians 4:8; 1 Timothy 2:22; Titus 1:15)• Are you getting rid of anything that generates tempting thoughts? (Ephesians 4:23, 31)
(8) RESIST THE DEVIL• Are you taking thoughts and ideas captive? (2 Corinthians 10:5)• Are you submitting to Jesus, his will, and commands? (James 4:7; John 15:1-17)(e.g., Repentance, Forgiveness, Read Scripture, Believe Truth, Live in Community, Etc.)• Are you resisting Satan, his servants, and their works and effects in your life? (James 4:7-10)
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION – Nathan and Pastor Scott talk about what prayer truly is — and what it isn’t by looking at the disciples’ prayer in Matthew 6.5-14. Prayer isn’t just a monologue directed at God; it’s a real conversation with the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. They explore how prayer includes not just speaking, but also listening for God’s response and how to grow in our ability to hear His voice, not just Bible verses and what we think He’s saying. *Please note, this discussion takes place in two episodes. This is episode two.*
— EPISODE CHAPTERS —(00:00) Introduction(11:20) Matthew 6.5-7(29:28) Matthew 6.8-14(43:42) Activation Steps
— EPISODE LINKS —• STB124 | BSE | Real, Vulnerable Prayer E1https://cultivaterelationships.com/shoot-the-breeze/stb124/• The Freedom Booklethttps://cultivaterelationships.com/the-freedom-booklet/• More Content & Resources At Our Websitehttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
— EPISODE NOTES —What is Prayer?Prayer, by its nature, defines God as personal (Psalm 34.18; 139.7-12; Romans 10.20-21; Jeremiah 23.23-24). Prayer is a real and specific, vulnerable conversation with God (Matthew 6.9; 1 Timothy 2.5; Romans 8.26):
- The Father: giver of identity & destiny (e.g., plans, purpose, and design issues)
- The Son: revealer of identity & destiny (e.g., relationship and circumstantial issues)
- The Holy Spirit: empowerer of identity & destiny (e.g., ability and emotional issues)
God desires connection with us (Psalm 51.16-17; Hosea 6.6). Jesus reveals this in his own life (schedule: Luke 5.15-16; grieving: Matthew 14.13; joy: Luke 10.21; struggle: Luke 22.39-46).
APPLICATION QUESTION(S): When or with whom (or what) do you avoid prayer or neglect to pray? What part does prayer play in your life when making plans or preparing for the future?
Prayer: Moment-by-Moment Dependence Upon the Holy SpiritJesus assumes that Christians pray (Commanded: Matthew 6.5-8; Demonstrated: Matthew 14.23; 19.13; Mark 6.46; 14.35) and Paul reveals what prayer looks like: moment-by-moment (Romans 12.12; Philippians 4.6; Colossians 4.2; 1 Thessalonians 5.17). Jesus gives us the disciples’ prayer as an example in Matthew 6:
- v. 5 – We pray… sincerely – not ritualistically, legalistically, or formulaic.
- v. 6a – We pray intimately, without distraction.
- v. 6b – We don’t admire demonic religious prayers – our standard must be Jesus.
- v. 9a – We pray corporately to God as a dad.
- v. 9b – We believe God is uniquely separate and altogether different – His core nature.
- v. 10 – We believe God is King and He is in charge – bold submission.
- v. 11 – We pray for their needs – receive grace for our fears, worries, and anxieties.
- v. 12 – We pray for repentance and forgiveness – as we forgive, God forgives us.
- v. 13 – We pray for victory in temptation – empowerment by the Holy Spirit.
APPLICATION QUESTION(S): How does the way you pray reveal your desire for community, connection, and dependence upon God rather than comfort, personal preferences, or control?
ACTIVATION STEPSFrom this study, prayerfully walk through the following steps:
STEP #1 – ALIGN YOUR DESIRES WITH JESUS’ KINGDOM (Matthew 6.10):Jesus begins his prayer model by centering everything on who God is, His Kingdom, and His will — this reminds us to s
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION – Nathan and Pastor Scott talk about what prayer truly is — and what it isn’t by looking at the disciples’ prayer in Matthew 6.5-14. Prayer isn’t just a monologue directed at God; it’s a real conversation with the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. They explore how prayer includes not just speaking, but also listening for God’s response and how to grow in our ability to hear His voice, not just Bible verses and what we think He’s saying. *Please note, this discussion takes place in two episodes. This is episode one.*
— EPISODE CHAPTERS —(00:00) Introduction(07:22) What Prayer Is & Is Not(26:05) Real, Vulnerable Conversation with God(39:53) Prayer to the Trinity
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— EPISODE NOTES —What is Prayer?Prayer, by its nature, defines God as personal (Psalm 34.18; 139.7-12; Romans 10.20-21; Jeremiah 23.23-24). Prayer is a real and specific, vulnerable conversation with God (Matthew 6.9; 1 Timothy 2.5; Romans 8.26):
- The Father: giver of identity & destiny (e.g., plans, purpose, and design issues)
- The Son: revealer of identity & destiny (e.g., relationship and circumstantial issues)
- The Holy Spirit: empowerer of identity & destiny (e.g., ability and emotional issues)
God desires connection with us (Psalm 51.16-17; Hosea 6.6). Jesus reveals this in his own life (schedule: Luke 5.15-16; grieving: Matthew 14.13; joy: Luke 10.21; struggle: Luke 22.39-46).
APPLICATION QUESTION(S): When or with whom (or what) do you avoid prayer or neglect to pray? What part does prayer play in your life when making plans or preparing for the future?
Prayer: Moment-by-Moment Dependence Upon the Holy SpiritJesus assumes that Christians pray (Commanded: Matthew 6.5-8; Demonstrated: Matthew 14.23; 19.13; Mark 6.46; 14.35) and Paul reveals what prayer looks like: moment-by-moment (Romans 12.12; Philippians 4.6; Colossians 4.2; 1 Thessalonians 5.17). Jesus gives us the disciples’ prayer as an example in Matthew 6:
- v. 5 – We pray… sincerely – not ritualistically, legalistically, or formulaic.
- v. 6a – We pray intimately, without distraction.
- v. 6b – We don’t admire demonic religious prayers – our standard must be Jesus.
- v. 9a – We pray corporately to God as a dad.
- v. 9b – We believe God is uniquely separate and altogether different – His core nature.
- v. 10 – We believe God is King and He is in charge – bold submission.
- v. 11 – We pray for their needs – receive grace for our fears, worries, and anxieties.
- v. 12 – We pray for repentance and forgiveness – as we forgive, God forgives us.
- v. 13 – We pray for victory in temptation – empowerment by the Holy Spirit.
APPLICATION QUESTION(S): How does the way you pray reveal your desire for community, connection, and dependence upon God rather than comfort, personal preferences, or control?
ACTIVATION STEPSFrom this study, prayerfully walk through the following steps:
STEP #1 – ALIGN YOUR DESIRES WITH JESUS’ KINGDOM (Matthew 6.10):Jesus begins his prayer model by centering everything on who God is, His Kingdom, and His will — this reminds us to set aside personal desires and seek God’s desire first in every area of life. Ask the Holy Spirit: What part of my life needs to be
Nathan and Phil dive into some hot-button topics — they discuss convictions (opinions) on worship music and address the controversy surrounding certain churches’ cultures and the songs they produce. They also reveal the often judgmental tone of “heresy hunter” ministries that claim to defend the Gospel but sometimes miss the heart of grace. They explore how believers can engage with non-Christians — when it’s wise, when it’s not, and how to navigate those relationships without compromising faith or integrity.
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BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION – Nathan and Pastor Scott wrap up Philemon 21–25 by highlighting Paul’s confidence that Philemon will go beyond what’s asked — not out of pressure, but because the gospel has truly transformed him. His obedience isn’t just submission to Paul, but evidence of the Holy Spirit’s work. Philemon’s discipleship is marked by radical love and vulnerable community, not safe, self-imposed limits. This is the power of a life changed by grace.
— EPISODE CHAPTERS —(00:00) INTRODUCTION(13:57) PHILEMON 8-16(26:47) PHILEMON 17-20(48:50) ACTIVATION STEPS
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— EPISODE NOTES —PHILEMON 21: PAUL AFFIRMS PHILEMON’S GOSPEL TRANSFORMATIONPaul expresses confidence that Philemon will go beyond what he asked — not because of pressure, but because the gospel has truly changed him. Philemon’s obedience goes beyond submission to Paul, it is an outcome of the transformative power of the Holy Spirit working within him. Philemon’s discipleship was shaped by radical love and vulnerable community, not safe, individualistic self-imposed limits.
APPLICATION QUESTION(S): Am I living a faith that goes beyond what is expected (doing enough to be “right with God”), reflecting a heart transformed by the Holy Spirit?
PHILEMON 22-25: PHILEMON’S CHURCHPhilemon’s Spirit-filled, life-giving community includes Apphia (likely Philemon’s wife), Archippus (likely the leader), Onesimus (his slave), Epaphras (an intercessor), Mark (now reconciled to Paul after 12 years), Aristarchus (a traveling companion of Paul based out of Colossae), Demas (who would later selfishly desert Paul), and Luke (Paul’s personal doctor and memoirist). Unnamed (See Colossians 4.7-18): Tychicus, Jesus (Justus), Nympha and the whole Laodicean church (or Ephesian church).
APPLICATION QUESTION(S): How does my Spirit-filled, life-giving community challenge and support me to live beyond the bare minimum of obedience to the risky generosity (e.g., financial, relational, spiritual, etc.) of a maturing Christian?
ACTIVATION STEPSFrom this study, prayerfully walk through the following steps:
STEP #1 – TRUST THE SPIRIT TO DO MORE THAN EXPECTED (Philemon 21):Paul affirms Philemon’s faith and transformation. Ask the Holy Spirit: Where are You inviting me to go beyond what’s expected — to love, forgive, or serve in a way that reflects Your generously sacrificial heart?
STEP #2 – INVITE COMMUNITY INTO YOUR GROWTH (Philemon 2, 23-24):Philemon’s community provided encouragement and accountability amidst a safe, Spirit-filled, life-giving atmosphere. Ask the Holy Spirit: Who are three specific individuals You have placed in my life who can challenge me, encourage me, and hold me accountable for what You are doing in my life?
STEP #3 – OBEY FROM GRACE, NOT OBLIGATION (Philemon 25):Paul knows Philemon’s response will be one of gracious submission rather than dutiful obligation — from love rather than law. Ask the Holy Spirit: Where am I living from
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION – Nathan and Pastor Scott explore Philemon 8–20, where Paul models the gospel by stepping in on behalf of Onesimus, offering to repay his debt to Philemon. This powerful passage reveals that true reconciliation requires both repentance and forgiveness. Paul’s appeal goes beyond personal favor — it’s a call for Philemon to live out the gospel by welcoming Onesimus not as a slave, but as a brother.
— EPISODE CHAPTERS —(00:00) INTRODUCTION(26:37) PHILEMON 8-16(52:47) PHILEMON 17-20(1:07:56) ACTIVATION STEPS
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— EPISODE NOTES —PHILEMON 8-9: PAUL APPEALS TO HIMSELF AS THE AUTHORITYPaul begins his light-hearted, sarcastic yet firm request to Philemon by appealing to himself, his age, and his imprisonment — stating that while he could order Philemon based upon his own status, he would rather appeal to him in love (knowing Philemon’s own change of heart as a result of the Gospel).
PHILEMON 10-16: PAUL EXPLAINS WHAT HAPPENEDPaul lays out how his and Onesimus’ relationship began and how he became a Christian. He also appeals to what was originally a selfish move on Onesimus’ part, God used for redemption — the idea being what the enemy schemed for evil, God schemes for good. He also reveals, as a Christian, the change in the relational dynamic between Onesimus and Philemon one of equals rather than of hierarchy while technically the hierarchy still remains in place (v. 16, “…more than a slave…”)
APPLICATION QUESTION(S): How does this passage apply to someone who does not own a slave? What Gospel-centered Kingdom realities are present that challenge our own individualistic views of boundaries and cultural views of justice?
PHILEMON 17-20: PAUL DEMONSTRATES THE GOSPEL ON BEHALF OF ONESIMUSAs Jesus did on behalf of Philemon, Paul does on behalf of Onesimus — he pays a debt he does not personally owe.
APPLICATION QUESTION(S): What does Paul’s willingness to cover Onesimus’ debt teach us as Christian about the cost of reconciliation with those who have wronged us?
ACTIVATION STEPSFrom this study, prayerfully walk through the following steps:
STEP #1 – EMBRACE THE COST OF RECONCILIATION (Philemon 18):True reconciliation, like Jesus demonstrated, often requires absorbing a personal cost. Ask the Holy Spirit: What Christian in my life am I unwilling to personally sacrifice for especially if I were to receive nothing in return?
STEP #2 – SEE CHRISTIANS AS SIBLINGS CREATED BY GOD (Philemon 16):Just as Philemon is to view Onesimus as a brother challenge yourself to view other Christians who have wronged you as a fellow child of God as you are. Ask the Holy Spirit: How d
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION – Nathan and Pastor Scott unpack Philemon 1–7 and Paul’s addressing of Philemon, Apphia, and Archippus — along with their whole house church — as a united community rather than just individuals. Within the context of Colossians 4.1-18 and “Ephesians” 6.21-24, the introduction of Philemon (1-7) illustrates the collective responsibility of believers within a Spirit-filled, life-giving community to live out the gospel.
— EPISODE CHAPTERS —(00:00) INTRODUCTION(06:40) PHILEMON 1-3(1:00:24) PHILEMON 4-7(1:13:27) ACTIVATION STEPS
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— EPISODE NOTES —PHILEMON 1-3: INTRODUCTIONAuthor: Paul through Timothy → carried by Tychicus and Onesimus (slave) (see Colossians 4.1-18; Ephesians 6.21-24).Audience: Philemon (slave owner), Apphia (possibly Philemon’s wife) & Archippus (possibly the lead pastor and house church host).Date: c.59-61 AD during imprisonment in Rome awaiting trial under Nero (cf. Acts 27-28). Colossians (c.59~61 AD), “Ephesians” (c.59-61 AD), Revelation (c.67~68 AD) 2.1-7 (Ephesus); and 3.14-22 (Laodicea).
Paul addresses Philemon, Apphia, and Archippus — along with their whole house church — as a united community rather than just individuals. This introduction highlights the collective responsibility of believers in living out the gospel as it will personally apply to Philemon and his slave, Onesimus.
APPLICATION QUESTION(S): Why do you think Paul makes resolving personal issues and conflict a public matter, inviting Philemon’s church to partner with him in the reconciliation process with Onesimus? In what ways do you personally fight against the temptation to be individualistic in your struggles and conflicts?
PHILEMON 4-7: PAUL AFFIRMS OF PHILEMONPaul commends Philemon for his sacrificial love and demonstrated faith, especially for how he has refreshed and encouraged the believers in his house church.
APPLICATION QUESTION(S): Why do you think Paul advocates for a believer’s faith to go beyond a private or intellectual pursuit to one that impacts the church community around them? Do you think Paul would agree or disagree that a Christian’s life is one of privacy, independence, and personal devotion?
ACTIVATION STEPSFrom this study, prayerfully walk through the following steps:
STEP #1 – EMBRACE FAITH AS A SHARED JOURNEY (Philemon 1-3):The Christian life is not meant to be lived in isolation. Rather it is meant to be lived in community — where mutually beneficial encouragement, accountability, and love are demonstrated. Ask the Holy Spirit: Who have You placed in my life to walk with me in faith, and how can I engage more deeply with them?
STEP #2 – ADDRESS
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION – Nathan and Pastor Scott discuss Romans 8.26-39, showing how we can share the same glory as Jesus and the Father. They also share how Christians are more than conquerors through Jesus, and nothing (except our own lack of faith) can remove us from God’s protection and vindication.
— EPISODE CHAPTERS —(00:00) INTRODUCTION(05:23) ROMANS 8.26-30(46:28) ROMANS 8.31-39(1:10:11) ACTIVATION STEPS
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— EPISODE NOTES —ROMANS 8.26-30: SUFFERING + THE HOLY SPIRIT = OUR GLORIFICATIONOur suffering (for Jesus) with the Holy Spirit leads to our maturity (becoming like Jesus) and our glorification (with Jesus) to the glory (plan and purpose) of the Father.• John 17.1-26 – Glorify means that we make known — through acknowledging, seeking after, trusting, and praising Him — His actions, desires, opinions, purposes, thoughts, and approval.• Glory of God → Glory of Jesus → Glory of Us → Gives God Glory(Gk. doxazo from doxa = to be worthy of high opinion, honor, approval, or praise)• In God’s view of time (foreknowing our failure), he planned (predestined) humanity to conform to Jesus (redemption) → therefore He invites (calls) all humanity (see John 12.32) → those who respond in faith (see Romans 3.21-30) are made right (justified) → only those who are of faith are then given the glory of Jesus and the Father (John 17.1-26).
APPLICATION QUESTION(S): What struggles do you have with the concept that as a believer you share the same glory with both the Father and Jesus as you trust the Holy Spirit in your weakness?
ROMANS 8.31-39: WE ARE IN GOOD HANDSNo suffering or attack against us (because of Jesus) will conquer or overtake us as we trust in the Holy Spirit. In fact, we are more than conquerors. Nothing — except our own lack of faith — can remove us from God’s protection or vindication.
APPLICATION QUESTION(S): If we are more than conquerors and God works all things out for our good, what might this mean for circumstances that appear to not work out in our favor or for our benefit?
ACTIVATION STEPSFrom this study, prayerfully walk through the following steps:
STEP #1 – LET THE HOLY SPIRIT BE IN CONTROL (Romans 8.26):You do not have to navigate pain and hardship alone. Ask the Holy Spirit: What would it look like for me to release to You the outcome of ________________ [insert a decision, circumstance, or relationship]?
STEP #2 – TRUST THE HEAVENLY FATHER TO WORK (Romans 8.28):If the outcome is not good, then God is not finished working on your behalf. However, you do not get to decide what “good” means for your life and the lives of those you love. Ask the Holy Spirit: How can I change my definition of good to agree with Yours?
STEP #3 – KNOW THAT YOUR HEAVENLY FATHER LOVES YOU (Romans 8.38-39):No circumstance, pain, or opposition that is a result of your trust in Jesus can change the fact that you are in God’s careful hands — He is working it out for your good and for you to conquer. Ask the Holy Spirit: B
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION – Nathan and Pastor Scott unpack Romans 8:1-25, revealing the choice we all face — living as children of God or of the devil. They explore how Christ’s death and resurrection conquered sin, death, and the enemy for believers, yet the full realization of this victory remains a future hope. This episode dives into the tension between present freedom and the unseen fulfillment of God’s promises.
— EPISODE CHAPTERS —(00:00) INTRODUCTION(06:44) ROMANS 8.1-15(36:46) ROMANS 8.16-25(1:20:38) ACTIVATION STEPS
— EPISODE LINKS —• Podcast Playlist | Gnosticismhttps://cultivaterelationships.com/gnosticism/• Pelagius on Romans, by Theodore de Bruyn (Amazon)https://a.co/d/2xO6gqB• The Natural Ability of Man, by Jesse Morrell (Lulu Publishing)https://www.lulu.com/shop/jesse-morrell/the-natural-ability-of-man-a-study-on-free-will-human-nature/paperback/product-1gv9nkz4.html• Finney’s Systematic Theology, by L.G. Parkhurst, Jr. (Amazon)https://a.co/d/bbgMYv8• Podcast Playlist | 1-3 Johnhttps://cultivaterelationships.com/1-3-john/• Podcast Playlist | Revelationhttps://cultivaterelationships.com/revelation/• Unseen Realm, by Dr. Michael Heiser (Amazon)https://a.co/d/22jvfVm• Bible Toolshttps://cultivaterelationships.com/bible-tools/• More Content & Resources At Our Websitehttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
— EPISODE NOTES —ROMANS 8.1-15: CHILDREN OF GOD (JESUS) v CHILDREN OF THE DEVIL (ADAM)We have a choice: set our mind toward Life or toward Death (see also Deuteronomy 31): 1) Living Empowered by the Spirit – The Law of Life is choosing to depend upon the Spirit (making ourselves sons of God) and it proves to be resurrection life to us (inheritance, co-heirs) or 2) Living Empowered by the Law – The Law of Sin and Death is choosing to depend upon ourselves (making ourselves sons of the devil, see John 8.44) and will prove to be eternal death to us (debt, abdication).
APPLICATION QUESTION(S): In what areas of your life are you still relying on your own effort (e.g., experience, understanding, ability, education, responsibility, will power, self-discipline, etc.) instead of surrendering to the Holy Spirit (asking what His opinion is on a matter)?
ROMANS 8.16-25: HOPE FOR THE FUTURE LIFE, RESURRECTION, & GLORYWhile the death and resurrection of Jesus, for the Christian, resolved the issues of sin, death, and the enemy, the full realization of those things is still a future hope (unseen). Faith in the full reality of what Jesus has accomplished in the past becomes the reality of our future expectations — convinced, to the point of action, by the things I don’t yet see (see also Hebrews 11.1).
APPLICATION QUESTION(S): If sin, death, and the enemy are resolved issues for the Christian, how should this impact the way you think, make decisions, and live now?
ACTIVATION STEPSFrom this study, prayerfully walk through the following steps:
STEP #1 – SET YOUR MIND ON THE SP
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION – Nathan and Pastor Scott Frerking explore Romans 7, focusing on the tension of living under the law without the power of Jesus. They also discuss the hopeless cycle of striving to live good but without Christ and the freedom that comes only through living empowered by the Holy Spirit
— EPISODE CHAPTERS —(00:00) INTRODUCTION(05:03) ROMANS 7.1-12(36:46) ROMANS 7.13-25(57:11) ACTIVATION STEPS
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— EPISODE NOTES —ROMANS 7.1-12: WE ARE FREE FROM THE LAW & SINRomans 7.1-3: The Marriage Example – if a woman joins herself with another man while her husband is alive, she is an adulterer. If the husband dies, she is free to marry another.• Romans 7.4-6: The Explanation – a person who trusts Jesus (the new husband) has died to the law and sin (the former husband) and is free to live by the Spirit.
Romans 7.7-10: The Human Experience – Innocence/Ignorance (v.9: alive apart from the law) → Revelation (v.8, 9: “age of accountability”) moments of understanding consequences → Choosing Sin (v.10: self-reliance) → Rejection of a Dependence Upon God (v.10: Death).• Romans 7.11-12: How Sin Overtakes A Person – Sin (an external force; i.e., our enemy) deceives us by tempting us to live by the Law apart from God; the Law points to our dependence upon God but it becomes the means to reject God — the result of living by the Law alone can only end in death.
APPLICATION QUESTION(S): What do you think Paul means when he says we are “dead to the Law” (Romans 7.4, 6)?
ROMANS 7.13-25: HOW SIN TRAPS US THROUGH THE LAWRomans 7.13-25: Our design (the law of God in our mind [v.25], “what I want to do” [v.15]) is overcome by our habitual inclinations (the law of sin in my flesh [v.25], “I do what I hate” [v.15]).• This is a picture of a person who has not chosen Jesus — they are continually in conflict with how God designed them to operate (i.e., dependent upon the Holy Spirit). It is contradictory to believe this is a believer’s battle in light of everything Paul has said in chapter 6; that is, Christians are dead to sin and the Law.
APPLICATION QUESTION(S): What’s the main difference you see between Romans 6 (v.6-7) and 7 (v.13-25)? What might this mean for both the Christian and the non-Christian?
ACTIVATION STEPSFrom this study, prayerfully walk through the following steps:
STEP #1 – RECOGNIZE THE STRUGGLE (Romans 7.13-25):Without the Holy Spirit, unbelievers are powerless to overcome sin. Their struggle is real and inescapable without Jesus. Ask the Holy Spirit: How have I been quick to judge __________ [insert the name of a non-Christian or someone uninterested or seemingly unworthy of Jesus] in light of their struggle?
STEP #2 – RESPOND WITH GRACE (Romans 7.24-25a):The Law can only reveal sin and enslaves us to death, but only Jesus brings grace that frees us to life. Ask the Holy Spirit: How can I show __________ specific grace and compassion in light o
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION – Nathan and Pastor Scott Frerking explore Romans 6, emphasizing that we are truly dead to sin but still have a choice of lordship—either sin (rebellion) or obedience (Jesus). They discuss the reality that we are always bearing fruit, and the type of fruit reveals whom we have been serving.
— EPISODE CHAPTERS —(00:00) INTRODUCTION(06:41) ROMANS 6.1-14(51:58) ROMANS 6.15-23(1:03:50) ACTIVATION STEPS
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— EPISODE NOTES —ROMANS 6.1-14: WE ARE DEAD TO SIN… REALLY?Those of us who have received Jesus (as Savior and Lord) consider ourselves dead to sin — sin no longer has a draw or hold on us (Romans 6.2). Our habitual inclinations are rendered powerless when we live in Jesus (through his Spirit) (Romans 6.6).• See also 1 John 2.1; Galatians 2.20; 5.24.
Romans 6.12-14 – Our weapons (our physical bodies) reveal who our master is:• The enemy and the kingdom of darkness to spread unhealthy relational living.• Jesus and the kingdom of light to spread healthy relational living.
APPLICATION QUESTION(S): If salvation is more than just forgiveness — if it actually involves dying to an old, unhealthy way of thinking and behaving — how should that reshape the way we think about grace, sin, and discipleship?
ROMANS 6.15-23 – CHOOSE YOUR LORD: SIN (REBELLION) OR OBEDIENCEWe are designed to produce fruit — fruit is present no matter what. However, what we serve reveals what we trust and determines the kind of fruit we will produce:• If sin, we exponentially develop more sin leading to death (relational, emotional, mental, physical, and spiritual).• If obedience, we exponentially develop sanctification (purity and life).• See also Matthew 6.24; John 8.34; 2 Peter 2.17-19; Galatians 5.16-24.
APPLICATION QUESTION(S): What masters (think: fears, worries, anxieties, or doubts) compete for your attention and affection? These can often be identified by who and what we try to control and what occupies our thoughts, time, and attention.
ACTIVATION STEPSFrom this study, prayerfully walk through the following steps:
STEP #1 – ASSESS YOUR FRUIT (Romans 6.20-23):The fruit (our own physical, emotional, or mental outcomes) can often reveal the source of our words and actions. Take a moment to reflect on the past week. Ask the Holy Spirit: When or with whom do I feel powerless, out of control, or a victim? When or with whom have I lacked healthy fruit (think: joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, or self-control, etc.)? Why were these attributes not present in that moment?
STEP #2 – ENTRUST YOURSELF TO YOUR HEAVENLY FATHER (Romans 6.13):Our words and actions reveal who we trust — either God or not God. Ask the Holy Spirit: What lies have I believed about God that have led me to this unhealthy fruit?
STEP #3 – SUBMIT & SERVE YOUR TRUE MASTER (Romans 6.22):You are designed to bear fruit in line with your Heavenly Father’s character. This week, whenever you feel fear, worry, anxiety, or doubt, ask the Holy Spirit: What does it look like to trust and submit to You i
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION – Nathan and Pastor Scott Frerking discuss Romans 5 and how faith in Jesus requires risk, maturity, and endurance. We also share how sin is anything in opposition to our nature or design, that is, living as the image and likeness of God.
— EPISODE CHAPTERS —(00:00) INTRODUCTION(21:42) ROMANS 5.1-11(42:52) ROMANS 5.12-21(1:01:26) ACTIVATION STEPS
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— EPISODE NOTES —ROMANS 5.1-11 – FAITH-FILLED SUFFER + RECONCILIATION WITH THE HEAVENLY FATHER = HOPE OF SALVATIONIn this section, they discuss how faith in Jesus requires risk, maturity, and endurance — all brought about by suffering and opposition. They also discuss how Jesus sacrificed himself for our benefit before we wanted to benefit from him. The benefit was that through Jesus’ death, the reconciliation of the relationship with the Father was made possible, and that through his resurrection life, restoration of our human design, and our dependence upon the Holy Spirit were revealed.
APPLICATION QUESTION(S): Think about the times you’ve shown love and forgiveness to someone you deemed undeserving or uninterested. What does this reveal about how you believe God loves and forgives you?
ROMANS 5.12-21 – ADAM V. JESUSIn this section, they discuss how sin is not simply a list of rules (“the Law”). Sin is anything in opposition to our nature or design; that is, living as the image and likeness of God. The Law simply revealed how we were missing the mark. We accept the gift (Jesus) the same way we accept the transgression (Adam): 1) choose to believe → 2) trust in what we believe → 3) actions empowered by what we trust. However, the fruit of these choices is vastly different — either life (Jesus) or death (Adam).
APPLICATION QUESTION(S): When do you find it easier to rely on your own thoughts and conclusions instead of seeking the Holy Spirit’s guidance and strength in a situation?
ACTIVATION STEPSTake some time this week to prayerfully work through the following steps in light of Romans 5.1-21:
STEP #1 – IDENTIFY THE SOURCETake a moment to reflect on your daily choices. Are they rooted in an agreement with Adam’s self-reliance or in an agreement with Jesus’ righteousness? Ask the Holy Spirit to reveal where you might be operating out of fear, self-sufficiency, or wrong beliefs rather than trusting the Holy Spirit.
STEP #2 – SHIFT YOUR TRUSTJust as death entered through a belief in a lie, life comes through belief in the truth. Tell Jesus (out loud) about a specific circumstance where you are struggling. Ask Jesus what his perspective and truth is about that circumstance.
STEP #3 – WALK IN ALIGNMENTAsk the Holy Spirit to give you one intentional action you can take that reflects the truth
Nathan and Phil dive into the tensions of growth — navigating confrontation, grace in freedom versus judgment in addiction, and forgiving repeat offenders. They discuss mediation, reconciliation, appropriate vulnerability, and what the fruit of the Spirit looks like in real life. Please note, this discussion takes place in two episodes. This is episode two.
— EPISODE LINKS —• STB113 | Behind the Pages of UnLove + Phil P2:E1https://cultivaterelationships.com/shoot-the-breeze/stb113/• Nathan’s Teaching Archivehttps://cultivaterelationships.com/teachings• The Freedom Booklethttps://cultivaterelationships.com/the-freedom-booklet/• Bookshelf | Unlove, by Nathan Steelhttps://cultivaterelationships.com/bookshelf/#unlove• More Content & Resources At Our Websitehttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
Nathan talks with Phil about his dream of church planting — and how Lacey devastatingly crushed it. He reflects on key “waypoints” in his journey to freedom and writing UnLove, the shifting seasons of relationships, and his struggle with appreciating apologies. They also explore how God uses, and sometimes orchestrates, tragedy for our growth, the age of accountability, and the weight of our expectations on others. Please note, this discussion takes place in two episodes. This is episode one.
— EPISODE LINKS —• STB104 | Fathers + Philhttps://cultivaterelationships.com/shoot-the-breeze/stb104/• STB107 | Grieving the Loss of a Child + Sarahhttps://cultivaterelationships.com/shoot-the-breeze/stb107/• Bookshelf | Unlove, by Nathan Steelhttps://cultivaterelationships.com/bookshelf/#unlove• More Content & Resources At Our Websitehttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
Phil Reeves interviews Nathan to uncover the real-life stories that inspired his book UnLove. In this heartfelt conversation, Nathan shares the personal experiences, struggles, and lessons that shaped the principles outlined in the book. From moments of heartbreak to breakthroughs of grace, he offers an honest look at the theology woven into each chapter, revealing the raw and relatable journey behind its creation. This discussion is a powerful glimpse into the connection between Nathan’s own story and the message of UnLove. Please note, this discussion takes place in three parts. This is part three.
To watch the video version with episode notes and links, or to find us on your favorite podcast platform, visit:https://cultivaterelationships.com/podcast
In this second part, Phil Reeves continues interviewing Nathan, where he opens up about the weight of living a double life in his addiction to pornography, the pain of public church discipline after being a youth pastor who went to a strip club, and the redemption he and Lacey walked through with their church. He also explores the danger of expecting others to fully understand our story, the balance between empathy and clarity in ministry, and how his struggles have shaped the way he helps others on their journey to healing. Please note, this discussion takes place in three episodes. This is episode two.
— EPISODE LINKS —• STB110 | Behind the Pages of UnLove + Phil P1:E1https://cultivaterelationships.com/shoot-the-breeze/stb110/• Bookshelf | Unlove, by Nathan Steelhttps://cultivaterelationships.com/bookshelf/#unlove• More Content & Resources At Our Websitehttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
Phil Reeves interviews Nathan to uncover the real-life stories that inspired his book UnLove. In this heartfelt conversation, Nathan shares the personal experiences, struggles, and lessons that shaped the principles outlined in the book. From moments of heartbreak to breakthroughs of grace, he offers an honest look at the theology woven into each chapter, revealing the raw and relatable journey behind its creation. This discussion is a powerful glimpse into the connection between Nathan’s own story and the message of UnLove. Please note, this discussion takes place in three episodes. This is episode one.
— EPISODE LINKS —• Bookshelf | Unlove, by Nathan Steelhttps://cultivaterelationships.com/bookshelf/#unlove• More Content & Resources At Our Websitehttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
Nathan continues his conversation with his friend, Sarah Frerking, where she vulnerably shares her journey through the devastating experiences of miscarriages and the loss of their firstborn son, Josiah. In this powerful discussion, Sarah reflects on how she processed her grief, initially in unhealthy ways, but eventually discovered a path to healing. She speaks openly about how her grief journey transformed, ultimately leading her to a place of unexpected gratitude for Josiah’s death. This conversation offers profound insights into the complexities of grief, healing, and the hope that can emerge from even the deepest loss. Please note, this discussion takes place in two episodes. This is episode two.
— EPISODE LINKS —• STB108 | Coping & Resolving Loss + Sarah P2:E1https://cultivaterelationships.com/podcast/stb108/• More Content & Resources At Our Websitehttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
Nathan continues his conversation with his friend, Sarah Frerking, where she vulnerably shares her journey through the devastating experiences of miscarriages and the loss of their firstborn son, Josiah. In this powerful discussion, Sarah reflects on how she processed her grief, initially in unhealthy ways, but eventually discovered a path to healing. She speaks openly about how her grief journey transformed, ultimately leading her to a place of unexpected gratitude for Josiah’s death. This conversation offers profound insights into the complexities of grief, healing, and the hope that can emerge from even the deepest loss. Please note, this discussion takes place in two episodes. This is episode one.
— EPISODE LINKS —• More Content & Resources At Our Websitehttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
Nathan talks with Sarah Frerking about the heartbreak of her miscarriages and losing her firstborn, Josiah. She opens up about the raw, overwhelming emotions of grief and the difficult, messy process of navigating devastating loss. She shares how she and her husband, Scott Frerking, held tightly to a hope-filled but painful faith, even in the face of unanswered prayers and shattered expectations. Their journey reveals both the depths of their sorrow and the resilience of their trust in God amid profound heartbreak.
— EPISODE LINKS —• More Content & Resources At Our Website
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION – Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about Christmas and its origins. They also discuss several Christmas traditions and why traditions are important to communities.
— EPISODE CHAPTERS —(00:00) Dad Jokes & Introduction(4:58) Krumpus and Cultural Reflections of Truth(23:15) X-Mas, December 25, & Christmas Trees(44:17) Purpose of Traditions and Festivals(59:26) Celebrating Christmas and Engaging Culture(1:14:59) Mistletoe, Yule Logs, & Romans 14
— EPISODE LINKS —• Top 10 Christmas Traditions (& their Origin Stories) (YouTube)https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UlEQW-NPqWI• Christmas Traditions (Wikipedia)https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Christmas_traditions• Christmas (Britannica)https://www.britannica.com/topic/Christmas• The Pagan Roots of Christmas (History)https://www.history.co.uk/article/the-pagan-roots-of-christmas• The Star of Bethlehem DOCUMENTARYhttps://bethlehemstar.com/• STB047 | Hell + Pastor Michaelhttps://cultivaterelationships.com/shoot-the-breeze/stb047/• Folk Angel – O Holy Night (Spotify)https://open.spotify.com/track/1dB4ImgHIrYUPIfbMZioyJ• David Crowder Band – After All (Holy) (Spotify)https://open.spotify.com/track/3daAYqNEt5hzPtHycscQoM• Cultivate Relationships Christmas Playlist (Spotify)https://cultivaterelationships.com/christmas-playlist• Bible Toolshttps://cultivaterelationships.com/bible-tools/• More Content & Resources At Our Website
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about the incarnation of Jesus — God becoming real humanity. They discuss how the New Testament reveals the fulfilled Hebrew prophesies of a real flesh-and-blood human messiah.
To watch the video version with episode notes and links, or to find us on your favorite podcast platform, visit:https://cultivaterelationships.com/podcast
Nathan shoots the breeze with Phil Reeves about the importance of our fathers and our need to resolve deficiencies and offenses that our fathers demonstrate toward us in our growing-up years. He also shares his journey with God the Father and how he resolved his distorted perceptions of Him.
— EPISODE CHAPTERS —(00:00) Microphone etiquette and 007 microphones(01:12) Texas geography, woodworking, and Phil’s dad has a stroke(30:11) Issues with communicating with our dads(1:00:17) Phil’s love of the law and men’s aversion to counseling(1:26:25) Phil’s journey of discipleship and the Biblical process of forgiveness(1:54:12) Prayer and our mutual love of bio-pics
— EPISODE LINKS —• More Content & Resources At Our Website
MEDITATION – Nathan shoots the breeze about Romans 11.33–36, emphasizing the importance of recognizing God’s infinite nature and our human limits as the starting point for studying or understanding Him. He also highlights how God’s greatness brings comfort, reminding us of His trustworthy and unchanging character.
— EPISODE LINKS —• Bible Toolshttps://cultivaterelationships.com/bible-tools/• More Content & Resources At Our Websitehttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION – Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about the incarnation of Jesus — God becoming real humanity. They discuss how the Hebrew Scriptures prophesy a real flesh-and-blood human messiah and their future fulfillment revealed in Jesus.
— EPISODE CHAPTERS —(00:00) Dad Jokes & Introduction(15:02) Who’s Your Father?(45:11) Whose Kingdom Are You Living In?(1:00:58) Who’s Your Redeemer?(1:31:36) Activation Steps
— EPISODE LINKS —• The Gospel According to Matthew | Full Movie (YouTube)https://youtu.be/yf9jWonGL74• The Chosen: Little James – “Why haven’t you healed me?” (YouTube)https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KZDvcEkjthA• Bible Study Toolshttps://cultivaterelationships.com/bible-tools/• More Content & Resources At Our Websitehttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
— EPISODE NOTES —Genesis 3.15 (See also Romans 16.20 → Hebrews 1.13; 10.13; Revelation 12.1-12)• Where in your life do you see yourself as deficient (lacking what you need)?• What (non-Jesus thing) do you usually do to meet this deficiency?
1 Chronicles 17.7-15 (See also 1 Chronicles 28 → Daniel 2.41-45; Revelation 22.9-16)• How do you invitationally demonstrate the reality of Jesus’ Kingdom to those whom you believe to be unworthy or uninterested in him?
Isaiah 52.1-3; 53.1-12 (See also Isaiah 60.1-4; 61.1-11; Malachi 4.1-3; Revelation 22.1-5)• When is it tempting to believe your darkness or pain is unredeemable or that God is uninterested in dealing with it?• When (and how) do you intentionally engage the darkness or pain of others?
Step #1: Ask the Holy Spirit: What area in my life do I see myself as “deficient” or lacking what I need?
Step #2: Ask the Holy Spirit: How do You want to empower me in this area?
Step #3: Ask the Holy Spirit: Will You reveal ONE person in my life who is struggling with darkness or pain? How do you want me to partner with them to relieve or resolve this darkness or pain in their life?
MEDITATION – Nathan shoots the breeze about Romans 8.12-17. He also discusses Galatians 4.1-7 and how our experience with our earthly dads impacts our relationship with our Heavenly Dad.
— EPISODE LINKS —• Bible Toolshttps://cultivaterelationships.com/bible-tools/• More Content & Resources At Our Websitehttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about their 100th episode and what it means to persevere. They discuss how Christians have misdefined success due to false portrayals of people’s lives in the Scriptures.
— EPISODE CHAPTERS —(00:00) Guess who’s back?(00:49)Lacey defines consistency(14:19) Defining your personal success(27:28) Examples of highlights in the Scriptures(37:07) Success is asking God what He wants(50:15) Nathan explains Christianity… using football highlight reels
— EPISODE LINKS —• More Content & Resources At Our Websitehttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION – Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about the messiness of perfection. They discuss the Scriptural word for perfection and how it also means completeness or maturity. They also reveal that we are ever becoming perfect while God is perfect.
— EPISODE CHAPTERS —(00:00) Dad Jokes / Introduction(27:09) Matthew 5.48 / Perfect, Complete, Mature(41:51) Exodus 23.30 / Israel’s Process of Taking the Promised Land(59:35) 2 Corinthians 7.1 / Perfection is One Degree at a Time(1:14:31) Application Questions, & Activation Steps
— EPISODE LINKS —• More Content & Resources At Our Websitehttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
— EPISODE NOTES —APPLICATION QUESTIONSWhat might tiny choices (toward maturity, completeness, or perfection) look like in the following areas (not an exhaustive list):• Finances (e.g., savings, generous giving, etc.)• Ministry (e.g., volunteering, serving, etc.)• Relationships (e.g., friendships, marriage, parenting, etc.)• Employment/Career (e.g., boss, employee, employers, co-workers, etc.)• Education (e.g., future career, qualifications, degrees, location, etc.)• Reading Scripture (e.g., study, devotions, etc.)• Prayer (e.g., by yourself, with others, etc.)• Health (e.g., mental, physical, emotional, etc.)• …
ACTIVATION STEPSPray and ask the Holy Spirit:1. “What is ONE area from the list above You want me to make a tiny change?”2. What tiny change do You want me to make in this area?
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION – Nathan shoots the breeze with Phil Reeves about Revelation chapters 19-22. They also discuss Matthew 23-25 and what the Red Sea Beast and the Land Lamb Beast represent.
— EPISODE CHAPTERS —(00:00) Introduction / Matthew 23-25 / Meanings of the Beasts(13:53) Revelation 19 – The Wedding of the Lamb & Bride(1:08:10) Revelation 20 – “1000 Year” Reign (the Millennial Reign) / Judgement of Satan / Final Judgement (“Hell”)(2:08:34) Revelation 21 – New Jerusalem / New Heaven / New Earth(2:47:37) Revelation 22 – The Re-Created Garden Paradise / Epilogue
— EPISODE LINKS —• Bookshelf | Revelation Commentaryhttps://cultivaterelationships.com/bookshelf/#revelation• Bible Tools | New Testamenthttps://cultivaterelationships.com/bible-tools/new-testament/• Misreading Scripture with Western Eyes, by E. Randolph Richards and Brandon J. O’Brien (Amazon)https://a.co/d/eVZUa9Z• Hans Rosling’s 200 Countries, 200 Years, 4 Minutes – The Joy of Stats – BBC (YouTube)https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jbkSRLYSojo• Wild At Heart, by John Eldredge (Amazon)https://a.co/d/gp5GXOI• More Content & Resources At Our Websitehttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
— EPISODE NOTES —All notes are available in our Revelation Commentary linked above.
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION – Nathan shoots the breeze with Phil Reeves about Revelation chapters 15-18. They also discuss the “rapture”, Jesus’ second coming, the antichrist(s), the abomination of desolation, and Daniel’s 70 weeks.
— EPISODE CHAPTERS —(00:00) Introduction / The “Rapture” / Jesus’ Second Coming / AntiChrist / Abomination of Desolation / Daniel’s 70 weeks.(58:36) Revelation 15 – The Preamble to the 7 Bowls(1:12:33) Revelation 16 – The 7 Bowls of Wrath(1:36:03) Revelation 17 – The Adulterer & The Red Sea Beast(2:08:02) Revelation 18 – The World Mourns the Fall of Jerusalem
— EPISODE LINKS —• Bookshelf | Revelation Commentaryhttps://cultivaterelationships.com/bookshelf/#revelation• Bible Tools | New Testamenthttps://cultivaterelationships.com/bible-tools/new-testament/• More Content & Resources At Our Websitehttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
— EPISODE NOTES —All notes are available in our Revelation Commentary linked above.
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION – Nathan shoots the breeze with Phil Reeves about Revelation chapters 12-14. They also discuss how John laid out his visions in Revelation, either in linear movements through the destruction of Jerusalem or cyclical movements that reveal different perspectives of Jerusalem’s destruction.
— EPISODE CHAPTERS —(00:00) Introduction / Matthew 23-24 / Spiritual Reality of Revelation(10:07) Revelation 12 – The Woman & The Dragon(1:10:54) Revelation 13 – The Red Sea Beast & The Land Beast(1:44:16) Revelation 14 – The Kingdom of Heaven & God’s People
— EPISODE LINKS —• Bookshelf | Revelation Commentaryhttps://cultivaterelationships.com/bookshelf/#revelation• Bible Tools | New Testamenthttps://cultivaterelationships.com/bible-tools/new-testament/• The Star of Bethlehem Documentaryhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b9exnD6MiCg• Teaching | Righteous Angerhttps://cultivaterelationships.com/teachings/20221204-how-to-be-free-from-anger-bitterness/• More Content & Resources At Our Websitehttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
— EPISODE NOTES —All notes are available in our Revelation Commentary linked above.
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION – Nathan shoots the breeze with Phil Reeves about Revelation chapters 8-11. They also discuss how some modern authors and teachers have created empires around selling fear-based modern geopolitical content of Revelation.
— EPISODE CHAPTERS —(00:00) Introduction / Matthew 23-24 / Spiritual Reality of Revelation(10:37) Revelation 8 – The 7th Seal and the 1st Four Trumpets(47:16) Revelation 9 – The 5th and 6th Trumpet(1:25:20) Revelation 10 – The Angel & Little Scroll(1:33:52) Revelation 11 – The Two Witnesses
— EPISODE LINKS —• Bookshelf | Revelation Commentaryhttps://cultivaterelationships.com/bookshelf/#revelation• Bible Tools | New Testamenthttps://cultivaterelationships.com/bible-tools/new-testament/• Siege of Jerusalem 70 AD – Great Jewish Revolt DOCUMENTARY (YouTube)https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KE4hmrvZLIQ• The Siege of Jerusalem (70 AD) – Great Jewish Revolt [FULL DOCUMENTARY] (YouTube)https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y741QbT1YEo• More Content & Resources At Our Websitehttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
— EPISODE NOTES —All notes are available in our Revelation Commentary linked above.
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION – Nathan shoots the breeze with Phil Reeves about Revelation chapters 4-7. They also discuss the implications of Jesus fulfilling the entire Hebrew Scriptures and their implications on Revelation. Furthermore, John uses “hear” and “see” language to show when he is revealing the meaning behind what he is writing. John defines most symbols he “sees” in his vision in the immediate context or through Hebrew Scripture cross references.
— EPISODE CHAPTERS —(00:00) Introduction / Online Study Tools(20:18) Revelation 4 – The Heavenly Temple(53:36) Revelation 5 – The Scroll and the Slain Lamb(1:18:56) Revelation 6 – The Seven Seals(1:49:59) Revelation 7 – 144,000
— EPISODE LINKS —• Bookshelf | Revelation Commentaryhttps://cultivaterelationships.com/bookshelf/#revelation• Bible Tools | New Testamenthttps://cultivaterelationships.com/bible-tools/new-testament/• Bible.com (Multiple Translations)https://www.bible.com/• Step Bible (Translations and Word Study)https://www.stepbible.org/• Blue Letter Bible (Translations and Word Study)https://www.blueletterbible.org/• Logos Bible Software (Exhaustive Bible Study Software)https://www.logos.com/• More Content & Resources At Our Websitehttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
— EPISODE NOTES —All notes are available in our Revelation Commentary linked above.
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Phil Reeves about Revelation chapters 1-3. They also discuss false, fear-based views of Revelation, hermeneutics (principles in Bible Study), and how to read prophetic and apocalyptic Scriptures.
VIDEO & SHOW LINKS https://rumble.com/v5g99eb
WEBSITEhttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about the messiness of rejection. They discuss how feelings of being rejected can lead to either rebellions or religious mindsets and behaviors. Additionally, they share how it is only through the power of the Holy Spirit that one can truly live free from rejection.
VIDEO & SHOW LINKS https://rumble.com/v5g5zfd
WEBSITEhttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about messy Christianity. They discuss their journeys of how Jesus pursued them amidst messy doubt and how, as believers, we pursue others amidst their messy doubt; along with how to resolve doubt.
VIDEO & SHOW LINKS https://rumble.com/v5f9ye5
WEBSITEhttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about how our ability to approach God, our Heavenly Dad, directly affects our outlook and behavior within a circumstance or relationship. They discuss their journeys toward seeing God as a good Dad who does good things.
VIDEO & SHOW LINKS https://rumble.com/v5eedu5
WEBSITEhttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about how Christianity is the ongoing process of leading and being led. They discuss how Jesus was our ultimate example and that serving others doesn’t mean we are slaves to them.
VIDEO & SHOW LINKS https://rumble.com/v5dknbh
WEBSITEhttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about humility and agreeing with God. They discuss how agreeing with God empowers Christians to defeat the enemy, spread Jesus’ Kingdom, and live sin-free.
VIDEO & SHOW LINKS https://rumble.com/v5bu4vx
WEBSITEhttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about the Kingdom of Heaven and its present reality in a Christian’s life. They also reveal how the Hebrew Scriptures point to Jesus as the prophetic fulfillment of the Davidic Messianic King. FACT CHECK 40:25 – Psalm 38.6 not Psalm 89 – The Hebrew word translated “bent over” in Psalm 38.6 is the same word in 2 Samuel 38.18 translated “iniquity”. However, the word in Psalm 38.18 translated as “iniquity” is a completely different Hebrew word than 2 Samuel 38.18 and means guilty of sin. Psalm 89 deals with the Messianic Davidic Kingdom and has no bearing on the word “iniquity” from 2 Samuel 7.14. However, is a worthwhile read regarding this study on Jesus and his Kingdom.
VIDEO & SHOW LINKS https://rumble.com/v5bu4vx
WEBSITEhttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze by finishing their series on forgiveness. They discuss why forgiving yourself doesn’t actually help (but what you can do instead that will set you free) along with how to resolve shame and condemnation.
VIDEO & SHOW LINKS https://rumble.com/v59hqii
WEBSITEhttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about forgiveness… again and the various excuses often used when someone does not want to forgive. They also discuss common lies that are believed about forgiveness.
VIDEO & SHOW LINKS https://rumble.com/v58vwtp
WEBSITEhttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about forgiveness and how it differs from reconciliation and restoration. They also discuss propitiation and how restitution works when repenting.
VIDEO & SHOW LINKS https://rumble.com/v5708vo
WEBSITEhttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about all things forgiveness. They also discuss what it is, what it isn’t, and some objections to it.
VIDEO & SHOW LINKS https://rumble.com/v55roc9
WEBSITEhttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about the Holy Spirit, faith, and spiritual gifts. They also discuss baptism or being filled with the Holy Spirit, cessationism, tongues, and how God answers prayer.
VIDEO & SHOW LINKS https://rumble.com/v4u7wpl
WEBSITEhttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about “influencers”, social media, and how habitually scrolling create an overwhelming compulsion to consume. They also discuss the discontentment that is brought about by comparison as a result of curated “perfection” on social media platforms.
VIDEO & SHOW LINKS https://rumble.com/v4sl6aw
WEBSITEhttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about Galatians 6.1-18. They discuss spiritual maturity, Christian generosity, and how the measure of our generosity directly impacts the generosity God demonstrates toward us. They also share how numbers-based evangelism is a fleshly, self-focused, approval-seeking false Gospel.
VIDEO & SHOW LINKS https://rumble.com/v4rduz2
WEBSITEhttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about Galatians 5.1-26. They discuss how faith in Jesus brings freedom from the Law and sin; while the Law only brings meaningless mutilation. They also contrast the fruit of living in the flesh with the Holy Spirit and living in the flesh with the Holy Spirit.
VIDEO & SHOW LINKS https://rumble.com/v4q67bw
WEBSITEhttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about Galatians 4.1-31. They discuss how the Law is immature and will (in 70 AD) melt away because the mature (Jesus) has come. They also discuss Paul’s analogies of the Law (Hagar) and the Promise (Sarah).
VIDEO & SHOW LINKS https://rumble.com/v4oku4z
WEBSITEhttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about Galatians 3.1-29. They discuss how the Law was not God’s original design; but rather, it was a babysitter for the immature Israelites who didn’t want a personal relationship with God.
VIDEO & SHOW LINKS https://rumble.com/v4n617z
WEBSITEhttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about Galatians 2.1-21. They discuss a timeline of Paul’s life up until visiting Jerusalem a second time to deliver financial support. They also talk about how Paul had to confront Peter, Barnabas, and other Jewish Christians over their fear of being rejected by Jewish Christians from Jerusalem.
VIDEO & SHOW LINKS https://rumble.com/v4lrs6l
WEBSITEhttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about Galatians 1.1-24. They discuss how Paul is not bashful about sharing his story of Jesus’ redemption in his life. They also talk about the background, setting, and date of Galatians.
VIDEO & SHOW LINKS https://rumble.com/v4kvkuo
WEBSITEhttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about a few of their favorite Bible oddities, “coincidences”, and threads. While this episode may not have any specific application or activation, we hope it peaks your interest in exploring the literary genius that is the Scriptures.
VIDEO & SHOW LINKS https://rumble.com/v4itbb8
WEBSITEhttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about how despair (depression) is the hopeless state in which we choose not release our circumstances and relationships to God — that is the Father’s good character, Jesus’ redemption, or the Holy Spirit’s empowerment. They share how depression holds on to our rights, desires, beliefs, and expectations of how we think a circumstance should work out or a person should behave.
VIDEO & SHOW LINKS https://rumble.com/v4hl9qf
WEBSITEhttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about anger and how it is a behavior — words or actions — toward someone or something as a result of negative feelings being triggered in our hearts. They discuss how unhealthy anger (either internal ‘smolderer’ or external ‘exploder’) is a behavioral reaction to the belief that our satisfaction, security, or safety is being infringed upon. This belief, and ensuing behavior, hinders our own peace of mind and infringes upon others’ freedom.
VIDEO & SHOW LINKS https://rumble.com/v4g54it
WEBSITEhttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about rejection and how it’s a belief that our acceptance (or acceptability) is dependent upon what we do, what we produce, or how we behave. They also discuss how this belief hinders peace of mind and confidence in who God created us to be and what He designed us to do.
VIDEO & SHOW LINKShttps://rumble.com/v4etgmq
WEBSITEhttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about fear (a.k.a., worry, doubt, anxiety, etc.) being the lie that we are more caring, responsible, just, resourceful, loving, good, and redeeming than God. They discuss how fear is ultimately not an issue of circumstance; but rather, it is an issue about what we trust.
VIDEO & SHOW LINKShttps://rumble.com/v4der35
WEBSITEhttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about how a Christian who receives the Heavenly Father’s love and forgiveness; is filled with the Spirit; and trusts Jesus’ life, death, and resurrection does not need to sin. They also discuss 1 John 5.1-21 and how believers can live their life sin free when their conscience is tuned into the Holy Spirit.
VIDEO & SHOW LINKShttps://rumble.com/v4c82no
WEBSITEhttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about Jesus being fully human and how he can fully identify with us. They also discuss 1 John 4.1-21 and the gnostic origins behind the pessimistic nature of humanity and how this belief hinders humanity’s ability to mature in Jesus and be led by him into freedom and victory over sin.
VIDEO & SHOW LINKShttps://rumble.com/v4akk23
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BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about 1-3 John (1 John 3.4-24; 2 John 1-6; 3 John 2-12) and how our proximity to Jesus isn’t as important as our faith in him. They also discuss how what we practice (work at to improve) reveals our true loyalty: practicing rebellion against our design reveals our loyalty to the enemy, practicing living in right relationship with God and others reveals our loyalty to Jesus.VIDEO & SHOW LINKShttps://rumble.com/v48ztpzWEBSITEhttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about 1-3 John (1 John 2.3-3.3; 2 John 4-11; 3 John 9-12) and how our focus determines our world view — whether light and walking with the Holy Spirit or darkness and rejecting God’s empowerment. They also discuss antichrist, eschatology, and the Kingdom of Heaven spreading to fill the earth.VIDEO & SHOW LINKShttps://rumble.com/v47hfqfWEBSITEhttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about 1-3 John (1 John 1.1-2.2), Gnostic influences in the modern church, and how believers do not have to sin. They also discuss how our ability to experience full joy may only come as a result of serving and loving others.VIDEO & SHOW LINKShttps://rumble.com/v46h5nbWEBSITEhttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about miracles they’ve experienced throughout their life and marriage. They also discuss how seeing miracles takes intentionality, humility, and release of expectations.VIDEO & SHOW LINKShttps://rumble.com/v41qsw6WEBSITEhttps://cultivaterelationships.com
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about Jude 17-24 and how believers empowered by Jesus to live in mercy. They also discuss progressive Christianity and the practical tools Cultivate Relationships provide to keep believers from becoming bad leaders.VIDEO & SHOW LINKShttps://rumble.com/v40vi6qWEBSITEhttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about Jude 1-16 and how believers are to live in a manner that agrees with their beliefs. They also discuss Gnosticism, apocryphal books, false teachers, along with how to avoid becoming a legalistic or liberal Christians.VIDEO & SHOW LINKShttps://rumble.com/v40aaw4WEBSITEhttps://cultivaterelationships.com/
BIBLE SCHOOL EDITION — Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about Gnosticism and its impact on the content of the New Testament along with its influence on the modern church. They also discuss ways Christians may be “gnostic” and not even realize it.VIDEO & SHOW LINKShttps://rumble.com/v3zpwpa
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Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about pessimistic fear-inducing American-centric interpretations of Revelation, Spirit-led led decision-making, technology, whether or not Elon Musk is evil, and how social media is antagonistic to how our brains are wired. They also discuss how social justice, migrants, protestors, and people who tow the line are used as pawns to empower progressivism and liberal agendas that are in opposition to the Gospel message.VIDEO & SHOW LINKShttps://rumble.com/v3wizz2WEBSITEhttps://cultivaterelationships.com
Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about how a Christian should respond to politics, voting, conspiracies, and war. They also discuss how our view of the world, the Kingdom of God, and His images (people) will determine our hope and peace.VIDEO & SHOW LINKShttps://rumble.com/v3v06jvWEBSITEhttps://cultivaterelationships.com
Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about how to encourage someone going through a hard time. They also discuss love languages, how to pray for someone, and how to respond when you don’t feel cared for. VIDEO & SHOW LINKShttps://rumble.com/v2jw8agWEBSITEhttps://cultivaterelationships.com
Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about God giving people vision, hopes, and dreams along with the downfalls of trying to fulfill these through self-imposed expectations for how those should be accomplished.VIDEO & SHOW LINKShttps://rumble.com/v2jscbsWEBSITEhttps://cultivaterelationships.com
Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Scott Frerking about attending church while also living in intentional community with others. They also share their thoughts on mega-churches and house churches.
Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Jordan Cornelius about the spectrums of Christianity and their views on the authority of Scripture. Links and video at: https://cultivaterelationships.com/podcast
Nathan shoots the breeze with Andrew Orr about the role media production, social media, and live-streaming has in the modern church. Links and video at: https://cultivaterelationships.com/podcast
Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about how to read and study the Bible with the Holy Spirit. Lots of recommended resources in this one! Links and video at: https://cultivaterelationships.com/podcast
Nathan shoots the breeze with a man’s man, Cole Bollier, about manly things and why men need to be more in touch with their feelings. Links and video at: https://cultivaterelationships.com/podcast
Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Jeremy Cotton about hearing God’s voice, transitions in life, and resolving disappointment. Links and video at: https://cultivaterelationships.com/podcast
Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about social media and how the more “connected” we are the more disconnected we actually become. Links and video at: https://cultivaterelationships.com/podcast
Nathan shoots the breeze with Rebekah Jones about how to grieve the loss of loved ones in a healthy way. They also discuss running… Show notes and more at: https://cultivaterelationships.com/podcast
Nathan shoots the breeze with Kalena Cotton about how she connects with God. We discuss reading the Bible, worship, and prophetic… Show notes and more at: https://cultivaterelationships.com/podcast
Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Michael Barnard. We discuss the light topics of evangelism, salvation, and hell. We also… Show notes and more at: https://cultivaterelationships.com/podcast
Nathan shoots the breeze with Kalena about why some people who grew up evangelical are deconstructing their faith and leaving the… Show notes and more at: https://cultivaterelationships.com/podcast
Nathan shoots the breeze with Arianna Steel, his adopted daughter and homeschool science student. This episode literally proves our… Show notes and more at: https://cultivaterelationships.com/podcast
Nathan shoots the breeze with Kalena Cotton, a long-time acquaintance, a worship leader, and former lesbian. They discuss Kalena’s… Show notes and more at: https://cultivaterelationships.com/podcast
Nathan shoots the breeze with his friends Joe and Daniel about theology, science, and evolution. They also discuss recognizing… Show notes and more at: https://cultivaterelationships.com/podcast
Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about the important role a healthy community plays in freedom. They also reveal how Christian… Show notes and more at: https://cultivaterelationships.com/podcast
Nathan shoots the breeze with his friends, Jim and Joe. They discuss how fulfilling our God-given needs can become unhealthy. They… Show notes and more at: https://cultivaterelationships.com/podcast
Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about forgiveness, what forgiveness means, and how to live out of thorough forgiveness. They… Show notes and more at: https://cultivaterelationships.com/podcast
Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about a question they received about how do you make a decision when God hasn’t given you… Show notes and more at: https://cultivaterelationships.com/podcast
Nathan shoots the breeze with David Root, a friend of his diagnosed with a rare and untreatable lung cancer. They discuss God’s… Show notes and more at: https://cultivaterelationships.com/podcast
Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about their education, qualifications, and the perceived foolishness in their walk with God… Show notes and more at: https://cultivaterelationships.com/podcast
Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about the subject they have avoided at all cost — politics. They discuss the mark of the beast… Show notes and more at: https://cultivaterelationships.com/podcast
Nathan shoots the breeze again with Pastor Scott Frerking. They talk about spiritual authority, time management as a pastor… Show notes and more at: https://cultivaterelationships.com/podcast
Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about homeschooling… again. They discuss lessons they’ve learned over the years and the… Show notes and more at: https://cultivaterelationships.com/podcast
Nathan shoots the breeze with Jim & Lauren Joiner, volunteer Cultivate Marriage leaders. They discuss the intentionality it takes… Show notes and more at: https://cultivaterelationships.com/podcast
Nathan shoots the breeze his mom, Jolene Beach. They discuss divorce, marriage, and God’s provision. They also talk about the… Show notes and more at: https://cultivaterelationships.com/podcast
Nathan shoots the breeze again with Pastor Jordan Cornelius. They talk about theology, mental health, and the importance community… Show notes and more at: https://cultivaterelationships.com/podcast
Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about the season of life they are in and how God has brought them to a place of peace. They each… Show notes and… Continue reading STB030 | Peace
Nathan shoots the breeze with his oldest brother, Jeremy. Jeremy has a daughter with whom he shares custody. We discuss when and… Show notes and more at: https://cultivaterelationships.com/podcast
Nathan shoots the breeze with John Barclay, a husband, dad, software security salesman, and a volunteer leader with Cultivate… Show notes and more at: https://cultivaterelationships.com/podcast
Nathan shoots the breeze with Lauren Barclay, a wife, mom, and a volunteer leader with Cultivate. The trauma Lauren faced growing… Show notes and more at: https://cultivaterelationships.com/podcast
Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about devotional times and bible reading. The “Christianese” is strong in this one. They both… Show notes and more at: https://cultivaterelationships.com/podcast
Nathan shoots the breeze with Daniel Diemer, a senior power grid operator for a Texas electric company. In his time in the Navy… Show notes and more at: https://cultivaterelationships.com/podcast
Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about spiritual abuse. Lacey shares her story of being at Master’s Commission — a ministry… Show notes and more at: https://cultivaterelationships.com/podcast
Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about accountability partners. SPOILER ALERT They do not like them. But they do talk about… Show notes and more at: https://cultivaterelationships.com/podcast
Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about how they make decisions. Lacey tells the story of how they pursued her healthcare and… Show notes and more at: https://cultivaterelationships.com/podcast
Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze by asking each other random questions. From politics to childhood fears, they ask questions from… Show notes and more at: https://cultivaterelationships.com/podcast
Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about their ideal dates, how the Holy Spirit has been speaking to them lately, and — for the… Show notes and more at: https://cultivaterelationships.com/podcast
Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Jason Teague, a United Methodist Pastor. They discuss the apprehensions of getting into… Show notes and more at: https://cultivaterelationships.com/podcast
Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about their struggle with infertility along with some of the more common inappropriate things… Show notes and more at: https://cultivaterelationships.com/podcast
TRIGGER WARNING Nathan shoots the breeze with Pastor Jordan Cornelius, former Marine and a personal student of N.T. Wright... Show notes and more at: https://cultivaterelationships.com/podcast
Nathan shoots the breeze with Donna Shaw, pastor, ministry director, and the Chief Operations Officer of the business she and her… Show notes and more at: https://cultivaterelationships.com/podcast
Nathan shoots the breeze with Cate Morris, an author, speaker, worship leader, and evangelist. She and her husband, Jamin, are… Show notes and more at: https://cultivaterelationships.com/podcast
Nathan shoots the breeze with his older brothers, Jeremy and Josh Steel. This is the only episode I had to edit due to how breezy… Show notes and more at:… Continue reading STB014 | Siblings + The Steel Brothers
Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about the blessings they’ve experienced as a couple and family over the past 16 years. One of… Show notes and more at: https://cultivaterelationships.com/podcast
Nathan shoots the breeze with Scott Frerking, the lead pastor of Hill Country Fellowship Church located in Burnet, Texas. He and… Show notes and more at: https://cultivaterelationships.com/podcast
TRIGGER WARNING Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about their pets. They grieve the passing of one of their favorite pups… Show notes and more at: https://cultivaterelationships.com/podcast
In this episode, Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze Lacey’s new speech impediment. They also share an encouraging thought that may change how you view yourself. To celebrate the 10th… Continue reading STB010 | Braces
Nathan and Lacey shoot the breeze about firsts (e.g., first appearances, first dates, and first kisses.). They also reveal their… Show notes and more at: https://cultivaterelationships.com/podcast
Shoot the Breeze celebrates the messiness of life, relationships, and Christianity. Videos, show notes, and more at: https://cultivaterelationships.com/podcast