You are Money: Recent Episodes
Dr Gaurav Deka
What kind of relationship do you have with your money? Are you aware of it? Most of us fail to understand how we paint an inner picture of money in our lives based on the lifestyle we had, the family we grew up in, and the region we come from. Have you ever thought and examined how you feel about money? These small details with time start shaping our whole money mindset without us realizing it. But does money truly exist or do you think that inner abundance creates true value? Listen to this podcast to find out!
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We often confuse these two: Coaching Skills and Business Skills. Many of us wonder, being a good coach, having a certification, knowing multiple modalities is enough to have a flourishing, sustainable business. We assume, clients will keep appearing and coming to us by themselves and we simply have to get better and better at our coaching skills.
Some of us think of the opposite. We think, that the reason behind having no clients, no money and no business is: "I am not good enough as a coach." Or say, "I need to heal my money traumas." Or "I have abundance blocks." Or "I don't have a certification." Or "I just need to learn a few more advanced modalities." And some variation of the same.
And I tell all my folks why this is so not true. Coaching skills and business skills are two different things. They are two distinct skill sets. And while it's imperative to have good coaching skills in order to bring value, offer transformation and impact your clients at a profound level, it is equally imperative to have exceptional business skills in order to have real cash hitting your bank account. And sustainably so.
Listen to today's episode as I do a deep dive into what distinguishes these two skill sets.
BTW, if you are looking to join my newest Money Coaching and Trauma Healing Free Community, you need to Click Here (if you don't have Telegram app, download it right away).
Also, here is the link to my upcoming manifestation coach training: The Ultimate Cycle Breaker Manifestation Coach Training (Click, read and sign up right away).
Nancy Nayak is a force of nature. She is someone who I am amazed at everytime I meet her, speak to her. She went from being a NON-Coach, a corporate job holder to being a Fully Booked Coach, having a coaching business of her own making multiples of lakhs.
Nancy first joined ATEPS in the January of 2023. She was not a coach then. Then went ahead in just two months time to join TSM (The Systemic Medicine Course). Went ahead and joined The Advanced Intergenerational Trauma Coach Certification in August. She was still not a coach then. And then she started her coaching practice with her first client paying in full in October. She went ahead further and learnt Childhood Trauma Work with me and then further ahead to Advanced Childhood Trauma Coach Certification. All in a year’s time.
In today’s episode of You Are Money, Nancy and I speak about her incredible Quantum Jump. From a Non Coach to having a fully booked practice in less than a year’s time. Generating multiples of lakhs. Listen to it right away.
If you would like to check out Nancy’s work and get in touch with her or be a part of her online community Tu Jhoom, follow her on Instagram at @nancy_nayak
BTW, if you are looking to join my newest Money Coaching and Trauma Healing Free Community, you need to Click Here (if you don't have Telegram app, download it right away).
Also, here is the link to my upcoming manifestation coach training: The Ultimate Cycle Breaker Manifestation Coach Training (Click, read and sign up right away).
I went on a 6 months journey to find out what my business stands for me. And how can I relate to my business in way that allows me to choose the joy, the lightness of life and break all rules that I was ever programmed with.
Listen to this podcast episode to learn how I did it. And how money is always a by product of choosing joy. I am a living example. Hear me out!
BTW, if you are looking to join my newest Money Coaching and Trauma Healing Free Community, you need to Click Here (if you don't have Telegram app, download it right away).
Also, here is the link to my upcoming manifestation coach training: The Ultimate Cycle Breaker Manifestation Coach Training (Click, read and sign up right away).
Today's episode actually transpired in my head by an incredible experienced I had in the parking lot of a mall.
Yes! That is true. And it almost came like an epiphany that blew my freakin' mind. Which is why I began to wonder what if God/Source Energy/Divine (whatever you call it) did not CREATE multiple parallel realities but simply created multiple parallel beliefs (thoughts). And the more we focussed on the thought that we wanted (consciously or unconsciously) created the consequent subsequent reality?
I know it's a little mind boggling. But do give it a good hard listen. And let me know via a DM on my Instagram handle @drgauravdeka what shifted for you. I'll be waiting.
BTW, in other news, I now have a Telegram Channel where I am pushing out Audio Coaching worth multiple lakhs for FREE every single day.
Here's the LINK TO MY TELEGRAM CHANNEL: The DTB Channel
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Today's Episode is a FACEBOOK LIVE that I did inside my Private ATEPS community and it blew people's minds.
Following that, I took the video and shared it with my TELEGRAM Channel Members (if you haven't joined it yet, do so immediately by clicking the link below). And then it radically changed people's view points about their own offers. It was profound beyond measure.
And that's why, I thought - why don't I share it with my podcast lovies. So here it is. Give it a good hard listen and then listen to it once again. Multiple times!
Here is the LINK TO MY TELEGRAM CHANNEL: The DTB Channel
ATEPS now has a new home. Check it out at www.drgauravdeka.co.in
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Continuing from the last episode (Ep:71) where I shared Five Words I'd like to carry to 2024, in today's episode, I am sharing Five Words that I will be leaving behind and I pledge not to believe in them, utter them or use them in my life and business 2024 onwards.
This is the first podcast episode of this year and I wanted to begin with something that I no longer have to carry with me. I wanted to begin the year with lightness and with the power to decide what I can let go of.
Listen to it right away. And get inspired right in the first week of January 2024.
ATEPS now has a new home. Check it out at www.drgauravdeka.co.in
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2023 was a year of real brain+spirit cleansing. The only way I can describe how I feel about my business and myself at the end of the year is: I feel lean and clean. LOL.
But then, in all seriousness, I dug out FIVE important words that I learned and experienced in this whole year, and that which I would like to carry to the next year 2024.
These were the unconscious foundational distillations of my business in 2023 and now I only want to believe in them and broadcast them in a more conscious way. They are going to set the stage of any decision I make in my business, any change and any evolution.
And in this episode I wanted to share these five gems that are going to be my core philosophy for the coming year.
Happy Listening. And a Happy New Year.
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I will tell you a truth: We are born Sellers. Right from our childhood, we inherently know how to sell. A child sells by asking its parent something like this: if I finish homework now, would you let me go and play by evening?
A wife sells by asking her husband: okay, I am ready to cook dinner for your friends this weekend, but next weekend you'll have to take me out for dinner and a movie, done?
A husband sells his wife the thought: I'll be late these days darling, please bear with it. I promise I'll make it up to you. I've booked a beautiful villa for both of us for next month. We'll spend the whole long weekend there.
What I am trying to say is: we are selling non-monetary stuff all the time. What we are getting in return may also be non-monetary.
Schools sell us a dream future and demands our attention and focus in exchange. Colleges and Universities sell us the importance of a degree and demands our commitment to the institution and education for 4-5 years. Jobs sell us the idea of secure income and in exchange asks us for 7-8 hours of our lives every single day.
So, I don't see the point when we make such a fuss about selling. Why does it need to be uncivil, shameful, or dishonourable when it comes to selling for money?
In this episode, I break it down for you, why selling matters. And why selling coaching matters even more. Because we collectively need to shift our lens around selling.
Reason being: if we don't sell, we don't make an offer. When we don't make an offer, the person who is desperately in need of coaching and healing in this moment doesn't get it. Their lives remain unhealed and untransformed. When we make the act of selling about our shame, our hesitation and our limitation, we don't realise we are being deeply selfish. We do not consider how everyone in the world is in need of it at the moment. How would you feel if you yourself were going through an emotional pain and there was no one to talk to? Infact, let's say you call up a therapist or a coach because you know they can resolve your issue, and they refuse to sell?
Listen to this episode to know why I think selling as coach is a huge responsibility and one mustn't shy away from it.
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In this episode I bring to you THREE of the most difficult experiences I go through in winters.
My OCD.
My Depression.
And a constant flux of my soul between meaning and non meaning.
It is an often a notion that just because one is successful and is a coach, they may have ABSOLUTE clarity of mind and brain. They are so to say SORTED. And they don't go through periods of deep anxiety, distress or confusion. And I wanted to come out on this.
I wanted to let you know that it is so not true. To go through mental health issues and ailments is also to accept ourselves as humans. It is only through the lens of suffering intangibly that we often find integration of the most wounded parts. And while we learn to live with it, nothing in our business or the impact we create in people's lives must stop. We heal as we grow our business and we grow our business as we heal.
I hope this episode fills you up with a lot of courage, confidence and wisdom.
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I gave my students today their easiest and simplest 1 Crore a year plan. It was barely two lines. Way shorter than what I am explaining here.
I said, sign up clients for 6 months. Charge them INR 5 Lakhs. And serve them your 100% every single week. Give them results beyond your expectations. And take just 20 clients. 10 in the first 6 months 10 in the next.
That’s it.
20 Clients x INR 5 Lakhs = 1 Crore ($125k USD).
And I know, I get those eyeball-rolls all the time. So, don’t worry. People often think I am speaking from the future.
But here’s the math and the un-math both.
First the un-math: I absolutely hate telling people to pay me for my time. Simply because I am bloody good at what I do. I have done it for ten years and in those years I have mastered what people cannot in fifty years.
So yes, I charge for the result I guarantee, not for the time I give my clients. I problem solve and I charge.
And I teach my students exactly that.
Which is why, you must never calculate the value you are offering your clients as per session or per hour.
When people ask me: if I charge INR 5 Lakhs for 6 months, meaning 24 sessions (one session a week), it will then be INR 21k per session!
And that’s where I stop them and ask them to GIVE UP session wise math. It’s useless. My client often reach their goal by the 8th session. And then, I simply ask them: let’s bring things to the table now that you didn’t think existed when you first signed up imagining that it’s going to take the whole of 6 months to resolve. Basically, now that the problem is solved, let’s work on future goals.
Now the math: I used to charge 21k per session in 2019. I wasn’t a biz coach then. I was a regression therapist, helping people with any and every problem through the lens of childhood and intergenerational trauma work and family constellation. So, even if some of you, despite reading this email multiple times, will calculate session wise, I am still asking you to quote a price that is like 4 years old (and in a few months, five). Minus the INFLATION.
It’s that simple. The model is bullet proof. I am telling you. You don’t need group programs, you don’t need a social media manager, you don’t need a website, you don’t even need to exist on Instagram.
20 Clients. One year. Serving your ass off. One F*cking Crore.
And now that you have the model ready, what else could get in the way?
The answer is: your own mind.
What you believe about this model. What you believe about yourself and your skills as a coach. And what you believe about your clients.
In this episode I give you all the necessary reasons, tools and the coaching your brain would need to make this model a blazing success.
Enjoy Listening. And apply the learnings right away.
ATEPS now has a new home. Check it out at www.drgauravdeka.co.in
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I have been coaching inside my weeklong coaching container on telegram app, and this has been the most incredible week. We’ve been talking all about making offers and showing up in our truth. Basically, we’re having a blast.
And there's ONE QUESTION that's been coming up again and again in different forms. Which is one of my favourites actually. Which is also why I am also talking about it in this episode.
One of our members asks: that people often say, they value my work. However when it comes to pricing, they often find it expensive. And are hence unwilling to pay.
They ask: how do I overcome this objection? If my energy is attracting them, then is it the same energy pushing them away.
And in this episode I wanted to offer a 360 degree understanding of why this happens and how can we navigate it without feeling guilty, bad or disappointed.
Here you will discover ways, tools and thoughts to manage such situations and cultivating the kind of mindset that will bring such resilience to your being that nothing will stop you from making the money!
Listen to it right away.
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I have a strong reason why I do not like to make THINGS outside my body and brain responsible for making me the money.
For example, I was coaching a client inside ATEPS the other day. And I noticed how — like many of us — we give away the power to the content, to the audience, to the traction.
Here's, what was happening: my client was stuck in a thought loop that their content was what created the clients and caused the sale.
While good content is always a catalyst, and can accentuate your sales, or people signing up with you…
When the process of creating that content becomes strenuous and brings exhaustion instead of occurring naturally, instead of being a source of fun, a way of discovering and rediscovering yourself and the way we like to express —
Then that content STOPS pulling in people.
It is then an impediment to your sale. Instead of facilitating the sale.
Why?
Because the way you FEEL about putting out your content, the way you feel about how you show up is FELT by people. Our nervous systems extend and expand beyond our bodies.
They can be sensed and intercepted via the screen, via text, even just by visiting our page.
The signature of our nervous system is everywhere.
Which is why I do not believe that content creates clients.
What else doesn’t create clients?
- The number of people following you or your outreach.
- People liking your content or commenting on it.
- Thinking that there is a specific modality or a magical way of conversion.
- A sales funnel or an email list.
And-and-and anything that makes you feel that you don’t have the power to create them, but they happen as a result of an element, an event, an object — outside of you.
Which is what this episode is about. And I towards the end of it, I invite you you to get coached with me for an entire week. I am coming up with a ONE WEEK COACHING CONTAINER. It’s called The Power of Creating Clients.
I will be hosting this container for a week on the Telegram App.
- I will be offering daily coaching via Voice Notes.
- You can post your questions and queries in writing.
- I will be responding to them via Voice Notes.
And we will turn into a massive VALUE VENDING MACHINE.
The single purpose of this container is to help you create clients and never ever feel desperate and defeated at the mercy of “something else,” outside of you that’s causing NO CONVERSION. NO SALES.
There is no such thing. Let me show you how.
Click Here To Join.
We begin Coaching on 16th of October 10:00am IST.
And will go on till the 22nd of October 10:00am IST.
The Value here is insane. The learning: life-fuckin-changing!
The brain's job is to give us BS. Anything that seems uncomfortable or unfamiliar, the brain will simply try to dissuade us from that. That is why, in times of unfavourable circumstances - it tells us things like:
This can't work out.
It's going to be difficult.
There is no money coming in this month.
Things will be slower this week.
I have to work harder to make things happen.
If I am not present, no one is going to buy.
These are just examples. But of the 60k thoughts we think everyday, over 90% of them are about why something can't happen or why it can't be that simple. It's always more about why something is not possible, versus why something is possible. And this podcast episode is a living testament of the latter.
I was travelling through Europe, handling a health emergency of a parent, shifting houses, paying up over 40 Lakhs of expenses, not having access to my laptop or my office the whole of September 2023, and yet I didn't make that the reason to not make money. And I didn't make that a reason to not serve people. I did both and I made over $100k even this month.
I want you to know how I did it. So that you never have to believe when someone tells you: this is going to be difficult. Remember, no one can ever tell you how difficult it's going to be. It's your fking business. You get to decide the level of ease you want to experience with it.**
ATEPS now has a new home. Check it out at www.drgauravdeka.co.in
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I have this line inside ATEPS that I keep repeating to my students all the time. It's called Other People's Thoughts Come from Other People's Brains. However, it took me a lot of time to truly believe that "other people's thoughts cannot impact my business." I used to feel that people leaving, they unfollowing or unsubscribing can somehow negatively impact my sales. Some people when they are disapproving or say bad words about me, I would somehow want to reach out to them and offer them an explanation. But then, as I grew my business, I realised that the more I focussed on those who are leaving, who are critical and who wouldn't buy from me, the more I wouldn't be able to serve those who are WILLING to buy from me. So then I decided, what if people who don't want to buy from me didn't even exist? And I know it feels like a ridiculous thought, but that is what made all the difference. To know the full story, listen to this episode.
ATEPS now has a new home. Check it out at www.drgauravdeka.co.in
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People will hate you for the money you make. They will dislike you for demanding. It will trigger them to see you thrive and embrace 100% of yourself — exactly as you are.
But let’s ask: do people really hate us? I mean, to hate someone, to dislike them or to shame them for their expression, wealth, or their way of life … one has to at least know the person, right?
And when people see us on social media, or read our WhatsApp statutes, or let’s say an email like this, they only have access to a certain small segment of our life.
They don’t truly know us. Infact no one can. Until they have lived our lives. Walked in our shoes.
So how come are their reactions towards us so strong?
And the truth is: all of these people are hurting. They all have had wounds around money. They’ve been told way back in their childhood that they can’t be themselves.
They are socialised to believe that they must play small, believe less, fear the wealthy, and protect their reputation over their own wildness.
I’ll give you an example. When I went to the psychiatrist for the first time and he sent me to a counsellor (who was basically his wife), she said, “Gaurav, please don’t people about your real identity. Don’t tell them about your queerness and sexuality, if you want people not to hate you. You are studying to be a doctor, you must protect your reputation at all costs.”
I was just 19. Imagine, what must have gone inside my psyche. The kind of fear, the kind of conditioning. It wasn’t just that I couldn’t be myself, but I was taught time and over again that I must also be ashamed of who I was inside. And that I must never let this monster out.
What happens in such a scenario? When you come across anyone who shows you those wounded parts; you hate them. Right?
That is why homophobia exists in this world.
Similarly, there is xenophobia. When we cannot accept and absorb someone who is different from us. Just difference. In a world where diversity is the fundamental basis of life.
So take it as given. The more you make money. The more you shine. The more you come out into the world exactly as you are, the more triggers will go through the roof.
There will be more and more people who will call you immoral, unethical, looter and out of integrity (I get countless such emails and DMs).
This episode is an antidote to that. You will find the most radical and the most compassionate solution to approach this.
After listening to this episode (and some of you have like to do that multiple times): you would never ever go back to feeling guilty for asking, for charging and for deserting the money you do.
In other news: The Price of ATEPS goes up to ₹2.75 Lakhs on 1st September. Which means you never get to have it at ₹2.5 Lakhs post 31st August 2023. This is your time to take action. This is your time to get inside.
ATEPS now has a new home. Check it out at www.drgauravdeka.co.in
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Recently, I asked a question inside ATEPS. It was: how do you look at something you desire and you want to buy? Do you look at it as an expense that you will have to spend your money on and you start worrying how will you cover it, or do you look at it as an opportunity to create and have the money to buy them?
And the reason I gave about asking the question is: whichever way you look at it, is the way people are going to look at your offer.
In the recent two months, I have been through a 360 degree shift when it comes to spending money. I have begun to look at everything as an investment. And the reason is: every time I spend money, I am creating space inside of me to have that money. I look at this space and witness it as DEMAND.
And there are two ways to look at demand. One is to panic and reel under the anxiety of how will I create the money? What if no one buys?
And the other is to BELIEVE: I am willing to have the money to spend. I am willing to have multiple x of it. The fact that I have to spend is evidence of the fact that I can create it. At any damn time I want. And that is mighty powerful.
This is exactly what I talk about in this episode, I promise it will fire you up.
In other news: The Price of ATEPS goes up to ₹2.75 Lakhs on 1st September. Which means you never get to have it at ₹2.5 Lakhs post 31st August 2023.
This is your time to take action.
This is your time to get inside.
ATEPS now has a new home. Check it out at www.drgauravdeka.co.in
To receive regular updates and free coaching calls on transforming your money and business reality join my Free Facebook Community You are Money
If you enjoyed this episode, and want to tell me about how it shifted your money reality, come and join me on Instagram at @drgauravdeka
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We have the hardest time when we have to choose between the Money that we are making and the Life that awaits us outside “what brings that money.” I always tell coaches who’ve transitioned into their coaching career from a corporate job, that this is NEVER EVER going to be the same. Here, you don’t get to have a fixed amount coming to you every month, and no proven strategy will ever work, and you’ll spend a lot of time figuring why things aren’t working, but you will have the freedom to be, and the freedom to create. You will have FREE WILL.
In this episode of You Are Money Podcast I bring to you a LIVE example of the above. Anu Dogra, an IIM grad gives up one of the highest paying positions just so that she can choose to live her life the way she wants. With a humble beginning of INR 2.2k in her coaching career, she relentlessly pours her life force into it, and creates massive results of generating lakhs in days. As you watch/listen to this episode, you will be filled with the deepest inspiration if you are someone looking to find the portal to your freedom, and hence to becoming the CREATOR that you always wanted to be.
If you'd like to get in touch with Anu and book her for an appointment, you can reach out to her on Instagram at @ariseinnow
ATEPS now has a new home. Check it out at www.drgauravdeka.co.in
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In a world where we struggle so much to hold on to one single socialised identity, while desiring something completely different in life, my student and client Nikki Deora comes up with the most delectable story and the freshest perspectives.
In this episode of You Are Money Podcast, Nikki talks about her journey of coaching, juggling between her social media identity of being a comic artist and a mindfulness coach, impacting lives through humour as well as manifestation, desiring 30k a month and making Rs.1.5 Lakhs in less than twenty days!
I truly believe that this episode can be such an inspiration for so many people out there, not knowing where to go and how to make the leap of faith. Nikki, through her story and the most exemplary breakthroughs of her life will show HOW exactly to take the plunge.
If you'd like to get in touch with Nikki and book her for an appointment or if you'd like to join her Master Manifestation Program, you can reach out to her on Instagram at manifestation_ka_pitara
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Is it possible to make Rs. 9 Lakhs ($110000 USD) in a SINGLE Consult Call? We often assume that to make that kind of money it would either take us a super large audience or maybe a lot of different offers or perhaps months (for some, maybe years). But that doesn’t have to be true for coaches inside ATEPS. Because here, we believe in ease. And we believe in ‘powerful serving.’
Which is what I am bringing to you all in this episode with my student and client, Shruti Tibrewal. Shruti happens to be an intergenerational trauma expert and coach, and she recently created history by signing a SINGLE client, over a single Consult Call (of 2.5 hours) at Rs. 9,00,000. Which is $11000 (USD). Shruti is a master at constellation work and everything she bring to the table is through the lens of family systems and constellations. Listen to this episode to know how she achieved this remarkable feat. And know that just like her, you can do it too.
Also, to know more about Shruti and her upcoming webinars & offers, you can get in touch with her on Instagram at @brainalignmenthours
Things you will learn in this episode:
- Where do I get clients? (Answering the eternal question).
- The importance of a consult call (our willingness to experiment).
- What does selling powerfully mean?
- The inner work behind charging 9 Lakhs.
- The importance of getting coached at all times.
- Being in the energy of service
- Receiving full amount from your client versus in EMI.
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June was the biggest revenue month for me in the year 2023. And therefore, we went out partying last night. But that's not what this podcast episode is about (well, I do talk about which restaurant we went. WINK! WINK!). This episode is about SEVEN POWERFUL business lessons I learned from selling multiple offers in June. Especially the offer of selling The Fem Room, my newest life coaching container with three other brilliant coaches. So here are the lessons.
- Believing in your client's highest version also includes believing in their capacity to pay.
- The client chooses the right price, and sometimes it's the higher one.
- My urgency is not necessarily the client's urgency.
- Their NO has nothing to do with me. It's often about their capacity and commitment.
- What is valuable to me may not be valuable for them. Simply because they may not desire it.
- When we focus on the client who we think must buy from us, while they think otherwise, we lose power.
- Our client may have a completely different reason to buy from us that could be beyond any of our rational imaginations. Which is why speaking our truth and telling our story is a MUST.
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Some of us are like my Ex. We are just not willing to commit. We suffer from something that I call as The Shiny Object Syndrome. Which is exactly why we feel what we have is never enough and therefore there is something magical out there that I do not have access to currently, that I must possess in order for me to get my desired results.
And that never happens. Not because the programs fail to deliver. But because we fail to commit. We fail to take one single thing and make 100% out of it. And in today’s episode I am bringing this human trait (that which is costing you skill as well as business) to raw light. Listen to it right away.
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We waste so much of our time thinking what the right price is. Whether or not if we should charge a certain price. If people will pay? Or what if they shame us, say something caustic or make fun of us? And the thing is all of that is possible. It's possible and it happens: people do make fun of us, they do try and shame based on what they think the right price should be. Or via the ridiculous comparison of the supposed "industry standard rates."
However the truth always is: your desired price is a MF-ing number! And numbers are neutral. Numbers are not evil. Numbers are not divine. They are just symbols and figures written on a f**king piece of paper. That’s all. And we all must develop the muscle of audacity to charge it.
This episode of my podcast is for every one of those dreaded souls who struggle with the RIGHT PRICING (as if there is something called the WRONG PRICING). And find it dreadful to quote, to make a sale, to charge what their body desires.
Because, as I said, numbers are neutral. What is not neutral is the feeling this number triggers in your body. And even if all those feelings need not necessarily be trauma responses, they could very well be residues of a patriarchy based socialised mindset. For example:
- Being in the healing profession, one mustn’t charge THAT MUCH!
- It’s immoral and unethical to make people pay for their pain.
- If everyone is so expensive, how will poor people heal?
- What about integrity? Aren’t you looting people charging that kinda money?
- We are healers, not mercenaries. It’s wrong for us to chase money.
- I don’t want this to turn into a consumerist business!
- Money has karma. If you charge mindlessly, karma is gonna get you.
Done? Over? Done with the non-sense that people have fed you so far?
Great. Now all you have to do, is listen to this episode over and over again.
P.S. I and three of my best trained coaches are coming up with a year long life-coaching container called The Fem Room. And the only agenda is to re-experience our lives the way we did back in our mother's womb: light and formless. Floating around in water. I want to bring and recreate the deepest human experience of radical self love and bonding through this endeavour. And grow the most nourishing community around it. We open our application and payment gates to The Fem Room on the 24th of June for 24 hours. While the program starts in September 2023, our only way as of now to invite people in is through a waitlist. You can simply Click Here and join in, so that you don 't miss out on our introductory offer.
Which is: The Fem Room till the 24th of June is available at Rs.45,000 ($555 USD) for the entire year. EMI options available on credit cards. I'll see you inside.
And here we are with part 03 (final instalment) of our first money challenge inside ATEPS called #2Lin2Weeks which is making Rs.2 Lakhs in 2 Weeks. It was insane the way the energy shifted for all of us. Something we could not believe earlier is a reality now. Each one of us went ahead full throttle to make the money. Exactly as we desired, exactly as we thought. In just two weeks. Here is part 03 (and the final) of the Series: Making Money Through Challenges.
P.S. We have already declared the next money challenge inside ATEPS called: #5Lin5Weeks. And we're gonna create Rs. 5 Lakhs in the next 5 upcoming weeks. And through this challenge, all of us will prove that making money is the easiest thing on the planet. It gets to be simple. It gets to be easy.
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And here we are with part 02 of our first money challenge inside ATEPS called #2Lin2Weeks which is making Rs.2 Lakhs in 2 Weeks. It was insane the way the energy shifted for all of us. Something we could not believe earlier is a reality now. Each one of us went ahead full throttle to make the money. Exactly as we desired, exactly as we thought. In just two weeks. Here is part 02 of the Series: Making Money Through Challenges.
P.S. We have already declared the next money challenge inside ATEPS called: #5Lin5Weeks. And we're gonna create Rs. 5 Lakhs in the next 5 upcoming weeks. And through this challenge, all of us will prove that making money is the easiest thing on the planet. It gets to be simple. It gets to be easy.
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The word challenge has had a very different meaning for me right from childhood.
As a queer child, growing up in the 90s, I have been a huge fan of Rekha.
In fact, the first time I watched her movie, Khoon Bhari Maang, I was stunned.
There is a sequence where she is in like a dance challenge face off with the other villainous femme fatale, Sonu Walia — and Rekha literally burns the floor.
If you wanna watch that sequence, and have a sexy midweek dance, go to YouTube and type out: Main Haseena Ghazab Ki - Khoon Bhari Maang.
So, coming back to the word challenge. It’s always been about fun. And it’s always been about breaking out of socialised barriers, thinking and doing out of norms, dissolving the heck out of system based oppression.
This is the reason the moment I finished medicine, I quit it and went on to make a million dollars being a brown, queer person, living in India out of an industry that had no name — at least in this country: Coaching and Therapy.
And recently, inside my Lifetime Business and Money Coaching Program, ATEPS, we hosted a challenge. It was called #2Lin2Weeks. Which meant, everyone who participated were supposed to make upto Rs. 2 Lakhs ($2500 USD) in two weeks time.
The whole idea was to break out of this socialised concept that: in some industries making money is hard. That you need to have an audience. That the product has to make sense to the existing people. That no one buys healing and coaching at a high price.
And we busted all of those myths.
And in doing so, I went ahead and created a three part series with my students and clients who made the money. This episode part 01 hence is proof of the immense power of human thought. And the fact that we can create demand at will. It gets to be easy - for all of us.
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This Episode is actually a super valuable Instagram Live I did in December 2022, just before I launched my three day training “How to Get a Fully Booked Practice,” (which now lives inside our ATEPS membership portal). This LIVE feels like a masterclass on How to Make an Irresistible Offer — which is exactly what I am going to teach in my upcoming workshop: Simplifying Making Irresistible Offers | 24th May to 26th May | 8-9PM IST.
And that is the reason why I decided to convert it into a podcast episode and make it available as a prelude to the workshop. Also, to sign up for the workshop, please Click here and Register ASAP.
Things you will learn in this episode:
- The Definition of an Offer.
- How to Make an Offer.
- Original Feeling Fulfilled Expansion Result.
- Offer Pregnancy.
- What makes an offer sell.
- The myth of market size.
- How to make your offers specific.
- Having belief in your offer.
- How does your client benefit from your offer.
- The P3 process of making an Offer.
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I meet several coaches, healers and therapists, inside as well as outside of ATEPS. I meet them on Instagram and Facebook and people write to me on my mailing list.
And there is always this question of enoughness.
Am I doing enough for my client?
Am I providing them enough?
Do I know enough to provide my client the necessary help and support?
Am I resourceful enough to work with them?
Do I know enough modalities, should I learn more?
And my answer to all of them is: what if you being enough had nothing do with how your clients felt, how many modalities you knew, how many certifications you may have - BUT BUT BUT...had everything to do with how you FELT about yourself.
What if enoughness was a feeling that you got to feel and generate within yourself and then others could lean on it?
To Find out the whole truth, listen to this episode.
Also, I have the most brilliant 3 day workshop coming up this month. It's called Simplifying Making Irresistible Offers. And it's FREE! To sign up, Click Here.
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We've been having a gala time inside ATEPS the whole of last week. And the reason: is an amazingly powerful challenge that we are running inside. It's called #2Lin2Weeks. It's about making INR 2 Lakhs ($2500 USD) in 2 Weeks. And in this episode, I am spilling the beans of how all of us are doing it. What kind of thoughts and feelings are we choosing about our offers. How we are working on developing our offers every single day. How we are breaking away all the complex ideas and structures around business. How we are orienting our nervous systems to the ease of making so much money in such a short span of time. You have to be inside ATEPS to witness this magic!
Things you will learn in this episode:
- Definitions of an Offer.
- A concept inside ATEPS called Offer Pregnancy.
- Original Feeling Fulfilled Expansion Result.
- Learning to love our old Offers.
- The connection between offers and inner children.
- Making our offers work.
- Deliberate Thoughts around Offers.
- Making Rs. 2 Lakhs in 2 Weeks.
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In this episode I get together with my friend and colleague of several years, Suniti Barua and discuss our rendezvous with trauma work. After more than a decade of doing trauma work with thousands of clients, both of us have had this profound realisation that while other modalities and methods work and enhance human growth, things seem and feel incomplete when we do not bring the element of trauma. And it's truly not sufficient to just be trauma informed, but we must build containers and trainings that are trauma "focussed." Which is why, learning and integrating trauma work becomes so imperative. Once you have that lens to look at the world, you can never go back to looking at it otherwise or in another way. Trauma work is imperative, and here's why.
Things you will learn in this episode:
- Why behavioural models are often limited.
- Trauma is everywhere, we must have the eyes and skills to witness it.
- Neocortical Superiority and its ill effects.
- It is now time to integrate indigenous wisdom to our healing modalities.
- Why we cannot solve everything with thoughts alone.
- All thought work needs a fundamental base of trauma work.
- Moving from being trauma informed to trauma focused.
- The relevance of trauma work in ATEPS and in other business coaching containers.
Also, to know more about Suniti's work as an integrative therapist and money-safety coach inside ATEPS, you can get in touch with her on Instagram at @sunitibarua
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This episode is actually a talk from a Lecture Series called Suicide, Grief and Mourning People We Love, organised and invited by Manhattan College, New York. Presented by Dr. Roksana Badruddoja, Phd, MBA, Professor and Chair of Sociology, BIPOC Liberation Scholar | Inherited Family Trauma Liberation Therapist | Urban Shamanic-Akashic Practitioner.In this talk I talk about my journey with grief and how the idea and experience of grief is woven into the system we belong to. The system we come from. The systems we inhabit. It is through examples, few from my own life I show you the systemic effects of grief and my eventual entry into the realm of Intergenerational Trauma and Family Constellations.If you are keen on learning about systems, inherited family trauma and family constellations, this talk can provide you a stable and focussed introduction into the discipline.
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ATEPS has been transforming and evolving the whole of last year and the more I spend time with the question: what is it truly contributing in the world, the more I get the answer: a trauma aware society and a collective nervous system that just knows regulation as much as it knows its reflexes. And in this light, we decided to interview Simran Brar, who happens to be an ex-investment banker, and now a well known Trauma Expert specialising in Intergenerational Trauma Resolution and Family Constellations. Simran is also the India Ambassador of Constellators International and is one of the most brilliant students of my lifetime training program The Systemic Medicine Course (TSM), where I teach Intergenerational Trauma Work & Family Constellation.
So, we come together in this podcast where we discuss anything and everything about trauma work and nervous system under the sun and realise how trauma work is the heart of our desire to choose joy, our desire to make money, our faith and courage to embrace the truth of who we are and what we want. Which is exactly what makes ATEPS class apart from all other Business Coaching programs. Why? Because it's trauma focussed and body centric.
After listening to this episode fully, I am certain each one of you would want to work with Simran and get an expert opinion if you're looking to work on your nervous system and trauma. So reach out to her on Instagram at @self.evolutionist for a 1:1 consultation today. Also, don't forget to ask her about her learning experience inside TSM if you're keen on becoming an Intergenerational Trauma Resolution Coach yourself.
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For the longest time, I have tried to marry the world of trauma work to the world of business coaching. And even though it seemed easy in the beginning, it was quite tough for me to convey and speak the truth that
- While it is true that our brains are the seat of our business,
- That we need the sales process, the ability to show up, grow our confidence,
- Make strategic business decisions and have operations, SOPs and funnels in place,
What is truer than this is: our relationship with money is going to determine all the other surface level entrepreneurial work. Infact our relationship with money is going to determine the way we 'think and create' our business. This relationship is not an individual, isolated island to water kind of relationship. This relationship is a complex web of fungi with its mycelium running through an entire vast forest.
In today's podcast, I tread through and open up this forest and I speak about how our relationship with money is always collective, systemic and ancestral in nature. The more we are willing to explore and accept this, the easier our interaction with our business is going to be. Because after all, what is business if not a systemic effector. Through your business you are going to change, improvise and affect the lives of so many people out there. And to that, trust me, you would need 'so many people' here. And they are, your ancestors.
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I know I have been away for long. And there is a reason to it. This reason is called The Sacred Pause. A divine movement of going into the depths of your truth and resting there, as long as your body & business asks you to. But today's episode isn't about that. I am thinking of covering it in the next episode. Instead, today's episode is about Shame. It's about how we worry constantly about what other people will think about us and the stuff we do. The way we show up for our business, the way we interact with our clients, the way we communicate and make offers, the kind of businesses we come up with, the perceived alignment of certain genders with certain kind of businesses, and the drive to make and have money.
So many of us do not do what we really want to simply because we are concerned way more about our haters than about our lovers. And the more we believe that we are here to be hated, the less we believe that we are here to be loved. Listen to this episode minutely. Infact multiple times. It will give you hope. It will bring in power. And it will instill you with the weaponry to dismantle shame.
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I still remember making my first lakh. I was dating my current partner, and we were walking through the circles of Connaught Place. He'd asked me, how much money do I make and said, something like INR 50-60k a month. And at the back of my mind wondering, "the day I start making a lakh, I will get a house close to his college and we will stay together." And the day it happened (in like 2-3 months), I cannot tell you the kind of joy and ecstasy I felt. I will never forget that feeling.
Which is why I also know how as an Indian Entrepreneur what value One Lakh Rupees holds for us. It is always deeply emotional and many of our dreams are attached to it. Anshul Jhambani from inside ATEPS - a hypnotherapist, freedom coach and an actor - in today's episode has something similar to share. It's about her journey from psychology to consciousness to becoming a hypnotherapist to being an actor and now to being a Freedom Coach. How she navigates through this journey of merging multiple professional and personal identities and makes her first lakh. Listen to it. It's gonna be a joyride. I promise you.
Also, to know more about her and to book an appointment, you can get in touch with Anshul on Instagram at @anshul.jhambani
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In this episode I am going to talk about FIVE Super Important Money Pushing Beliefs. How the way we think, the sentences we say, the feelings behind those sentences impact our day to day and our financial reality. We have to remember that the money, before it shows up in the physical reality, finds space inside our bodies and brains. We have to feel abundant, secure and nurtured inside first, before we go looking out for it elsewhere. And in this journey, we have to first master our ability to think thoughts around money which allows us to feel safe 'before' the money shows up. Listen to this episode to find out HOW.
What You’ll Learn from This Episode.
- Thoughts as sentences in our brain.
- What is Big Money.
- Expensive as a relative concept.
- What is affordability.
- The fantasy around "What ifs"
- Choice over Lack.
- Happiness comes first, then money.
- Feeling abundant by questioning our thoughts.
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This is me at my vulnerable best. This is where I talk about how Queerness is not just a bio-psycho-social trait but is often the epicentre from where the rest of your life and everything you create within it will eventually radiate. Although it took time for me to realise how my queerness was so intricately woven into the kind of work I do, I now understand that if I do not bring the experience of my queerness to my coaching, I will be depriving the world of an exquisite lens. I will be depriving my students of the courage and faith to be different. I will be depriving them of a life of diversity, the fact that their children’s brains and their brains could be different, the fact that consistency doesn’t mean being self critical for enjoying life, that money is not only for the white world, we equally deserve and demand it, that fate/god/universe is not unfair but an equaliser. It chooses diversity because it wants the planet to evolve. And that we live in a universe where love is the only ingredient that we can hold in our bodies to stand in our truth. That we are included and that we so divinely and so magnificently belong.
What You’ll Learn from This Episode.
- Queerness as a experience of truth.
- Why I bring my queerness into my coaching.
- Why does inclusion matter.
- What does it mean to be a queer, brown, north-easterner.
- Why we need group containers to heal.
- Celebrating your queerness.
- All of us are pregnant with love.
- How to be an ejector.
- Diversity is the natural experience of this planet.
- How I am changing the face of coaching in this country.
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This episode is in extension to Episode 34: M for Million, M for Mother. And this is where I talk about integrating the inner experience of our father with respect to how the father wound affects our business and our stories of success and failure. As Bert Hellinger, the founder of Family Constellation, says: If mother is the one who brings us into this world, our father is the one who take us out into the world. Which is why when we have a fractured inner experience of our father, or when the bond between the two is compromised, we find it difficult to move out into the world. We find it difficult to inhabit the world of men. We find it confusing to take charge and process our volatile emotions. We find it painful to walk the path of success. And there is a reason as to why this happens. That is because we have hidden loyalties via which we continue to experience what we often reject in our father. And today's episode is meant to bring this to light.
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I talk a lot about thought work and aligning your thoughts with the results you want. I do it through DTB (Deliberate Thought Building Process). And I also talk a lot about taking action, putting yourself out there, making offers, and selling actively. However, many of us think that in order to make money, close consultation calls, make offers, we constantly have to keep performing. We must be productive every single day, talk to people, write our copies, do relentless marketing and this must happen whether we feel inspired or not. This must happen whether our thoughts and feelings are aligned or not. And perhaps this is the only way, because there is no other way to make the money. As they all say, 'no pain, no gain.' And in this episode today, I am going to contest and challenge that. Recently I made a lot of money in a single month, without much sweat and grime work. And I was about to shame myself for not doing enough, and just then I caught myself. In this episode, I bring that experience and show you how sometimes we only need to inhabit the thought world and only align our energies to that of the result. And doing that much is enough.
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Nervous System safety is one of the most less talked about and underestimated topics when it comes to selling and marketing as a coach. We often think of selling as a desperate, pushy job that doesn’t allow us to have an alternative version of it. We never think of the selling process from a space of love, safety, warmth and trust. That’s simply because we didn’t observe and witness that while growing up. We only saw graspy, needy and anxious people all around us. So whenever we think of selling all those images pop up and make us insecure and disparaging about our own offers. Hence, in this podcast episode, I discuss why nervous system safety and a practice to do so is so essential to not only sell more and sell effectively, but to also change the face of selling and toxic narratives/perspectives around it. Go ahead, listen to it right away.
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This episode is for you if you have listened to part one: What Stops you from Being a Coach. It is in that episode we begin the journey of knowing that every one of us is a coach, in one way or the other.
In this episode, part 2, I take you through the exact pointers that you need in order to market yourself as a coach. And because I have never loved hardcore business strategies or bro-marketing, I tell you nothing of that sort.
Instead I tell exactly what you need to believe, how you need to show up and what inner work do you need in order to market effectively, with the only goal of clients coming to you, being curious about your work and signing up with you.
So, listen to this episode and allow yourself the ease of ‘showing up.’
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This episode is actually a training. If you listen to it as if you’re listening to a training for which you’ve paid thousands of dollars to get trained as a Life Coach today, trust me, you will need nothing else in life to kick start your career as a coach. I break down every single point here that you need to think, assess, and apply in order to become a Coach. Because I know, many of you are wondering about becoming coaches, thinking about how do I start, where do I begin from, who should I talk to; and this episode addresses all of those queries. And puts them to a loving, calming rest. Listen to it, and sign up your first client by applying all the amazing stuff I coach you here.
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This is one episode that you just cannot miss (even a single word). It opens with Dr. Ankita Singh MD (The Skin & Cycles Coach), giving us an entire granular view of the vast sea of trauma she finds herself in. This podcast episode is a story, and flows like a novel into the life of Dr. Ankita and speaks of her unrelenting strength and self compassion in healing it, overcoming it and using it as her strongest suit. The episode teaches us, how it is often impossible, to find our deepest passions and discover what are capable of without experiencing the pain of transformation. And here is a living example. After going through everything she does, Dr. Ankita, as you will listen, tells us how she brings in the nectar of her experience and becomes The Skin & Cycles Coach. She is currently inside ATEPS and talks about her upcoming coaching container RITHVAM and how she signs up her first 6 clients in just 3 days and goes HOUSE FULL! Listen to it here.
What You’ll Learn from This Episode.
- How Trauma Shows up in suddenly in our lives.
- Symptoms are just doorways.
- Trauma, Hormones and Medicine.
- Traditional Medicine versus Alternative.
- The Power of Nervous System Regulation Work.
- Learning to love the wounded parts.
- Collecting the nectar of our pain.
- What does it take to become a coach.
- Why do we need more Doctor-Coaches.
- How to close your consultation calls with integrity.
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This is one of the most complex episodes that you will not just be listening to, but learning from as well. In the last one week, I have been going over my own videos of teaching Intergenerational Trauma earlier this year (in The Systemic Medicine Course), and I was hit with this realization that everything I talk about money is so intricately connected to how we experience our mother inside our bodies. Our mother is the embodiment of the love, safety, trust, connection and nourishment that we desire in our life. She is the first template of presence and harmony. It is from her that we learn receiving, learn to open ourselves, learn to look at the world through wonder and imagine countless opportunities. She, by taking in us fully, teaches us the magic and curiosity of life. Which is why it is so important to examine this relationship when it comes to our relationship with money. This is exactly what I talk about in this episode. Listen and find out.
What You’ll Learn from This Episode.
- The Complex Web of Intergenerational Trauma.
- How our mother is the first template of our nervous system.
- Traumas in our mother's life impacting our money reality.
- How does Systemic Medicine Work?
- What do we mean by a break in the bond with our mother.
- How money becomes the metaphor for everything we receive from our mother.
- How traumas live in the body and can show up as money-patterns.
- Regulating emotions around money.
- Exploring traumas that happen in-utero.
- Knowing the core of our money problems.
- Benefits of being in a trauma informed container.
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I am a huge proponent of clean eating leads to clean thinking. Just because we are entrepreneurs, doesn't mean that we have to compromise on our diet, exercise, gut health and internal homeostasis. For example, I make sure that my flour and sugar consumption throughout the day is minimum. I make sure that I exercise 90 minutes a day for 5 days a week. And I keep talking about it across social media as well as inside ATEPS. And I advocate how clean eating leads to clean thinking and that leads to more focussed choices and decisions, which eventually makes more money. I am able to serve my clients better via clean eating. I am able to come up with high quality cognition and high value thoughts for the creation of coaching content and modules for my clients.
So, one of our students/clients asked me if I could do a podcast on Clean Eating and Clean Thinking. And I immediately said yes. The only name that came to my mind who I could invite to this episode as a guest was of my friend and colleague, Sreevardane Sivasankar. Sreevardane is a Functional Medicine Coach and Gut Health Expert. The way she explains how gut health is the master seat of our neurological functioning is incredible. She breaks down the whole complex web of how our day to day food habits affect our gut microbiome. And how that influences the production and functioning of our neurotransmitters, thereby affecting brain health and cognition. But not just that. In this conversation, we move over several complex domains that are miraculously interconnected and leads us to finally understand, how the way to the brain is through the gut.
What You’ll Learn from This Episode.
- Why Gut Health is Imperative.
- What food should we eat to think clearly.
- Superfood - what are they and how to they impact us.
- The role of Gut Microbiome.
- How as humans we are creatures of collaboration.
- How are neurotransmitters created.
- How to ensure high functioning brain health.
After listening to this episode fully, I am certain each one of you would want to address your gut health and get an expert opinion immediately. So reach out to Sreevardane Sivasankar on Instagram at @sreevardane for a 1:1 consultation today. Also, don't forget to check the Link in her Instagram Bio and download her FREE Guidebook on "Easy Hacks for all your Digestive Concerns."
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In the last one year, I have actively been part of atleast three coaching programs. And each one of them have brought great value to my life. I am able to have way more confidence, power and strength of belief. And all of these happened because I was motivated and able to think thoughts that I wanted to think. It's one of the most powerful ability of my life that I have been able to cultivate and practice. But then I sat down one day and started questioning: do other people also have the same and equal privilege as I did - to be able to think thoughts that they wanted to think? And the answer is actually NO. Because 'thinking' is a cognitive faculty. And before thoughts appear in our head and are shaped into language and vocabulary, there is a lot that happens inside the body. And it is equally important to look inside, witness what it holds and understand the world of feelings and emotions from a somatic perspective. Which is why I bring this episode to you. This is where I break down the entire coaching work I do inside ATEPS. Listen and find out.
What You’ll Learn from This Episode.
- Going beyond Mindset Work.
- What does being trauma informed means.
- The origin of money beliefs.
- The evolution of pre-frontal cortex.
- What does Nervous System Regulation mean.
- What do I mean by Capacity.
- Traveling with the client inside ATEPS.
- Experiencing trauma and processing it.
- Intergenerational Trauma and its effects.
- Working with the Body as a Must.
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In this episode I talk about the power of temptation, and the power of delaying them in the context of creating a HUGE business result. Recently I was on a trip to Dubai, promoting my Lifetime Money and Business Coaching Program, ATEPS and there were few things that came to light that I only realized when a couple of important events showed up. And I wanted to offer you my insights on what it takes to create an extraordinary business goal and what it takes to hold on to it. Listen to it right away.
What You’ll Learn from This Episode.
- How Temptations Show up
- What is the benefit of delaying gratification.
- What does creating a big business result actually take.
- Why having a self coaching brain is imperative to my work.
- How do we continue to focus on one singular gaol.
- The power of letting go what we love.
- Believing in your offers and sticking to them no matter what.
- The price of not making a decision.
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Sometime back I had put up a post on Instagram where I talked about things that you don't need in order to become a Life Coach or. a Healer. Because guess what? We tell ourselves all kinds of lies when it comes to selling coaching and healing. We think we need fancy degrees, fully functional websites, 100K audience on Instagram, social media presence and what not! But the real ingredients of being a Paid Life Coach or a Healer are somewhat different and not talked about often. And that's what I do in this episode. Which is why the second half of this episode will feel like a mini training, where I guide you through 5 important points that you need to exercise and believe if you want to make money.
And they are:
1. The Power to Recognize your Desire
2. Not Waiting for an Approval but going headlong into it.
3. Making Offers and being ready to receive NOs.
4. Giving people 100% of what I have.
5. Be wiling to have fun and ask people if they'd like it too.
If you apply just these 5 points, nothing today can stop you from signing up your first client or maybe if you already are a practicing coach, nothing should stop you from having a fully booked calendar.
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29th is my birth-date. And I wanted to bring something stunning and special for you on the 29th episode.
So, this is one of the most powerful episodes in You Are Money that I had been planning for the longest time. We have different notions around what does it take to be a Powerful Coach, a successful one, a coach that makes big money. And we often think that only a few people in the world can have the privilege to dream about it, to achieve it. We give ourself reasons like:
1. I am from a small city. No one knows about coaching here.
2. I don't have enough audience size.
3. No one is going to pay me that much 'here.'
4. Why would people want to work with me instead of a licensed psychologist?
5. I don't have a formal degree or training.
And many many more. You get the gist, right?
And I always say this inside ATEPS, that my willingness to think about my environment in the way 'I want to think about,' is going to determine the results that I am going experience. For example, if I told myself that in order to be successful and make money, I cannot NOT be a medical doctor. That it's not possible to be a coach or an alternative practitioner and make money, I wouldn't have experienced the richness and abundance of life that I am experiencing today. I wouldn't have positively affected so many lives and made the brilliant contributions that I am able to make today - all because I chose to believe in what I wanted to BE.
So, in today's episode I wanted to bring three of my brilliant coaches from inside ATEPS who are practitioners based in Guwahati, and I wanted to show to the world that how they are a living example of What is Possible? They are a living example of breaking out of socialized norms of what we call "stable career choices," salaried stable income, or conventional practice of psychotherapy. In the conversation that I have with them, I literally had to take a step back and think how much of our success as any kind of coach is so heavily influenced by what we think other people will think about us. What we think other people will imagine, wonder and say about us. And the truth is, the day we decide that other people's thoughts come from their brain and not ours, we begin to bloom and flourish.
I must tell you that this episode feels like a magical 90 minute masterclass! Featuring in this episode:
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Suniti Barua | Psychotherapist & Coach - instagram handle @sunitibarua
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Jimlee Mahanta | Self Love Coach - instagram handle @jimlymahantaa
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Alankrita Bhuyan | Holistic Psychotherapist - instagram handle @_alankrita
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There are two important lessons I have learnt in my journey with depression. One is, it doesn't die or go away completely. But it changes form. And returns for us to witness it in a different light. And the second is, the more we keep doing the inner work, the more our capacity to witness our trauma and residues from the past grows. And when we keep doing it, and are open to exploring it instead of making it a reason for our diminishment, we find new ways of being. We find new ways of living life. Of making money and doing business. In this episode I share with you my personal experiences of how I overcome it every winter and create the lightness of the life that I want to live.
What You’ll Learn from This Episode.
- Powerful stuff happening inside ATEPS.
- Embracing our desires and accessing our Inner Slut.
- Super Legible Ultra Tenacious (SLUT).
- Identifying depression and engaging with it.
- Seeing our body as a sovereign entity.
- Decolonizing our bodies.
- Making space for conversations with the body.
- Depression as a somatic biological experience.
- Choice versus Capacity thinking.
- Doing the Inner Work in times of faithlessness.
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This didn't even start as a podcast episode I wanted to do. I woke up yesterday (Tuesday) and went to the park for a walk thinking about what I want to write as the next story in my newsletter, and then I came back and opened my laptop to find a query of a participant inside our ATEPS Facebook Community. I was drawn to the question and wanted to answer it via an audio LIVE. While I spoke, I went on a flow. I couldn't hold back from telling a story from my life that I had perhaps not spoken about with such clarity and courage ever. And somehow my body knew that the story needs to be told. So much so that the moment I was done telling the story inside the group, my throat started acting up and I started feeling scratchy. Initially I thought if I had spoken something my body didn't want to. But then I realized, that the universe doesn't want me to record another episode. It doesn't want me to speak any further. It simply wants this magical story to go out into the world and change lives. So yeah, listen to it and bloom forth into the glowing sun. Love you all.
What You’ll Learn from This Episode.
- How I started as an ambitious young boy.
- The trauma of being hyper competitive.
- How I hit rock bottom.
- What depression really feels like.
- How I overcame it.
- How my nervous system grew in a small sleepy town.
- How I created space and resilience in my nervous system.
- How gratitude saved my life.
- Why looking at your inner child with compassion is paramount.
- Never forget what feels like small success today.
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I know this title feels a little intense and personal, but trust me, it's really well intended. Because in this episode I talk about selling and our intentions around it, as well as how our clients feel when we don't let them decide what is good for them. Often times, while in a consultation call or a discovery call, we freeze, shut down and numb out while quoting our price (and package). This is sensed by the client. Simply because up until now, the client's nervous system was co-regulating with our nervous system. They not only had a sense of our energy, but also were leaning on our stable groundedness for their own safety. And when we go into these sympathetic responses, we not only exit our bodies but also make our clients feel unsafe. This is a huge part of the selling process that often goes unnoticed and unaddressed. In this episode, I bring to light why somatic work and nervous system guidance is necessary for you to successfully sell your coaching, as well as the secret to letting your clients buy your work with full agency.
What You’ll Learn from This Episode.
- Why is Selling so hard for all of us?
- How our thinking impacts our client's thinking.
- Why do objections exist and how to overcome them.
- What is the Square of Trust.
- How do we truly empower our client?
- The real meaning of priority.
- Witnessing the Nervous System.
- Creating Space inside it.
- Staying inside your body while Selling.
- Creating Agency for your Client.
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I have been wondering a lot about Value. What exactly creates value? And how do we know that what we create really has value? And this whole process of thinking led me to realize a simple truth: Value comes from our ability to experience our authentic self. This self that is covered in layers of shame, guilt and often fear. These are the things that do not allow us to come to light in our most honest, stark, naked form. And that is exactly what doesn't allow us to be in 100% service to the people we cater. As coaches, healers and therapists, our job is to bring change, clarity and healing in our clients. And often when we can't achieve that, we question the value of what we offer. We think that there is something wrong with what we are offering? We feel we must do something else and not what we love? And that kind of thinking takes us further away from 'value creation.' In today's episode, I reveal to you a simple formula on Value Creation. I call it the VAS Triangle. Listen to find out.
What You’ll Learn from This Episode.
- How to Create Space inside your body.
- Thinking thoughts you WANT to think.
- What does Space creation mean?
- The beauty of collective thinking.
- What leads to authenticity.
- How do we love our audience and clients.
- When can I be in 100% service?
- Value is a byproduct of self love.
- Why would people want to pay you.
- Generosity is a gift.
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There are a few questions that I get from new coaches and healers all the time.
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Do I need a website?
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Do I need paid ads?
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Do I need a marketing agency?
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Do I need an Email List?
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Do I need to publish in newspapers and magazines?
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Do I need paid Youtube Channels and paid podcasts featuring me?
And to address these questions, in-fact to debunk these popular myths, I bring to you this episode. This is actually a Facebook Live I had done a few months back. And I thought it would be an amazing idea to put it up in the podcast so that people who are waiting out there to make money don't tell themselves these lies that they hear everyday. Most of the things that we think we need to make money are nothing but borrowed point of views as a result of seeing how other coaches make money. It's a result of believing that a perfect instagram grid, a fancy website or a neatly manicured online presence is what brings in sales. And the truth is, visibility and aesthetics are not what guarantees sales and making money. You make money because you show up, you build relationships, and you bring value to your tribe. Just these three points. And that is the only truth behind my million dollar coaching business. Listen to this episode to find out how.
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In this super light episode I take you through the journey of discovering one of my biggest childhood loves: the smell of Sundrenched Linen. And how navigating through that memory, I discover that the things we love, and that which bring great joy and pleasure often do not have a physical body or structure. They don't have a form or a 'tangibility' to them. And that makes them unique. The feeling we are looking for when we aspire and achieve success, money, a good position, a fully booked client calendar, a successful business -- is actually a 'feeling.' It lives inside us, inside our bodies and our nervous systems. It's not outside of us, and that was one of the most important insights for me last week. I just wanted to share how that made complete sense in what I pursue in my business. And how joy is the only force behind everything I do. Listen to find out more.
What You’ll Learn from This Episode.
- What exactly is Sacred Pause.
- The power of rest and restoration.
- The after effects of making a choice.
- How to trust the feeling of Joy.
- How I found Joy and pursued it.
- Why most things we love don't have a form.
- The idea of safety inside our Nervous System.
- Loving what we do. Every Single Day.
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This is one my most ambitious episodes, where I talk about human beings as a relational species designed to thrive in the collective. And how this very practice was compromised by the fragmentation of the world and society. This is one of the primary reasons why today we struggle to heal our individual traumas and conflicts. The idea that our nervous system is a bio-pscyho-social entity that didn't grow and develop in isolation is a fact. Our nervous systems begin to form inside our mother's body and it comes into existence while regulating with her nervous system. This clearly tells us that we are designed to receive and offer regulation to each other. We are designed to intercept signals and waves of connection from other nervous systems. While this as a reference point is profusely explored in explaining trauma, simply because trauma doesn't happen in vacuum, not many of us are talking about how group dynamics and group connections equally affect and foster healing, restoration and potential of a human being. And in this episode, I am going to take you to a journey through this complex landscape. Stay with me.
What You’ll Learn from This Episode.
- How our Nervous System grows and evolves.
- What is nervous system regulation and co-regulation.
- How our ancestor and indigenous groups raised children.
- We are all a collective nervous system seeking regulation from each other.
- Why my coaching container ATEPS is a super organism.
- How intergenerational traumas as well as gifts bind us.
- The usage of PolyVagal Theory in group work.
- My mission to redesign class room experience.
- The importance of Third Spaces.
- My manifesto for ATEPS.
- The revolution I am looking to unleash.
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Recently I saw a post on Instagram that read: All Therapy is Trauma Therapy. And I did agree with that. While we have many different forms of behavioral therapies like CBT, REBT, etc. the truth is every behaviour is actually an action. And these actions are motivated by "feelings." And feelings always have a root in the past. Difficult and blocking feelings like shame, fear, insecurity, envy, freeze do not allow us to make the choice we want to make in order to create the desired result. We cannot move towards our dream personality, our dream business and our dream money just by changing our daily habits. Infact we can't, because our habits have their roots in feelings. And feelings have their roots in body memory. And body memory have their roots in events and stories.
So without exploring and examining those stories, we cannot move out of the hamster wheel of painful and discomforting feelings. So in this episode I reveal, why it is super important to look at those feelings. Why is it non negotiable to explore memory in therapy and coaching. Why plain motivational and inspirational behavioral work doesn't truly make a difference. And that is exactly what I teach inside ATEPS while people build their dream businesses. We don't just motivate them, inspire them or beat them through a discipline or a regime. We take everyone inside through a sacred, warm journey to the roots of their feelings. Those that prevent their success, growth and money. By integrating those experiences, we then empower them to make new choices. We teach people to become Warriors of Memory inside ATEPS.
What You’ll Learn from This Episode.
- What is that version of you that succeeds.
- How trauma stops us from making choices.
- Going to the roots of your feelings.
- Making money by feeling your feelings.
- The truth about memory.
- How to become a warrior of memory.
- What keeps trauma locked in the body.
- How we do trauma work inside ATEPS.
- Learning to integrating your past.
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I was 16 when I first learned tarot reading as the art of diving into the unconscious and interpreting the conditions and actions that my clients needed to take in order to get what they desired. I never truly used tarot as a predictive tool, but more as a system of guidance via which I could know my true path. And in today’s episode we have someone who has turned this art into a full fledged business.
He is a business grad, a spiritualist, an accomplished tarot reader and a ritual facilitator. I was supremely curious to know how Chyan Jain worked with his clients and coached them, offered them solutions integrating rituals, intuition and card reading into his practice. So I went ahead and interviewed him. More so because Chyan had bought ATEPS right when we were offering the super early bird price.
And since then he has seen tremendous expansion in the way he sells his tarot and ritual practice. Recently, Chyan made more than Rs. 70K in a single day. And that was the clincher! That is when we knew the spirit of ATEPS was working through him, and nudging me that I must tell his story to every single soul out there who may have questions of doubt or fear that being in the field of esoteric sciences or spiritual healing, it might be a tough job to make money, reach to the top and have a sustainable business. And I say, well that’s just a thought that doesn’t allow us to have the desired result. Chyan is a living proof of the contraire. Listen to this episode to know everything.
What You’ll Learn from This Episode.
- How Energy Healing works in the World in the Coaching.
- How to make money as a tarot reader and a ritual facilitator.
- How to work effectively and ethically in an unregulated industry.
- Using intuition as an undeniable ingredient in coaching.
- Overcoming challenges spiritual healers face in making money.
- How to have a longer, sustainable model in energy healing.
- The influence of western and white supremacist culture in the healing industry.
- Overcoming challenges that brown healers face versus white healers.
- Spiritual Healing as a career option that can change your whole life.
- How to price your sessions & packages in spiritual healing practice.
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When my coach told me for the first time that I should stop strategizing and look at my thoughts about my product, my offer, my healing and my clients — because that’s what she said will make me money, I was like: Is she Mad?
I had given her 50,000 US dollars to coach me! 50K!! And here she is telling me to look at my thoughts.
What does that even mean?
I was so pissed and frustrated that there was no process, no deep trauma work, no journey back into my soul. And all of that!
And I was given worksheets after worksheets to note down and write my thoughts and question them if they were thoughts that I needed to think. If they were thoughts I wanted to think - in order to make the money I wanted to make.
And it took me more than six months to accept that “yes, it’s true. It’s my thoughts that make me money.” That’s it. It was as simple as that.
When I started applying the actions motivated by those thoughts, I started seeing results at a speed that was beyond my comprehension.
This is exactly, what I started teaching after a year. I made my own thought model called The Deliberate Thought Building Process that I started using in ATEPS.
Started teaching it to all my students. And it’s not that the process is something magical and brings in instant results. It’s the practice (The P in ATEPS) part of it that is magical. It’s the fact that we keep practicing THINKING the thoughts that we need to think to create our desired result. Every single day. Every single time we are challenged by a counter thought. That is Magical!
And we have a living proof it today.
Palak Arora, one of our participants and most dedicated students from inside ATEPS, who hasn’t even experienced ATEPS by the way, worked persistently on her DTB (I’d taught it in last masterclass) and this is the result you can see….
Rs. 150K in a Single Day!
Isn’t that crazy?!
Phew!!
What You’ll Learn from This Episode.
- How manifestation works in the selling world.
- What is the secret behind Selling consistently.
- Shame and fear around selling.
- Choosing your beliefs.
- How to not buy into other voices.
- Knowing your downloads and trusting them.
- Changing the world by being yourself.
- Making money as a manifestation coach.
- Loving the Selling Process.
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This is my most awaited podcast because this is exactly why I do this podcast. So that people can come and experience the magic of being inside ATEPS
And in this episode I am going to let you in on everything you ever needed to know about ATEPS.
Since the time I launched ATEPS, I have been bombarded with queries like
“Oh well, what is this new course all about?
“Is this a certificate course?”
“What are the modalities am I going to learn?”
“Is this for coaches only or for other people as well?”
“What do you mean by a lifetime program?”
So let me tell you what ATEPS is and what all is inside it!
What You’ll Learn from This Episode.
- ATEPS as a Lifetime Coaching Container.
- My story of starting ATEPS.
- How We Change People's Money Reality inside ATEPS
- ATEPS has 5 Important Video Modules inside it
- What are these video modules about?
- How do we practice the Workbook inside ATEPS.
- Icing on the cake: The Weekly Coaching Call.
- How ATEPS is the most radical transformative safe space.
- Why people who buy ATEPS make a lot of money.
- How to enroll into ATEPS and get inside.
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In this podcast, I always talk about where I and my partner went to eat, which movie we watched and what concerts we went to in and around Delhi. In this episode, I am going to talk to you about the latest sensation on Netflix and my greatest obsession last week! It was actually the Bonus Episode of the famous Neil Gaiman Comic Series called Sandman. And this came at a time when I truly, truly needed it. It became the story that I was looking for last week. And the moment it showed up, I knew this was universe's way of telling me that there is a learning in everything we watch, everything we hear, everything we experience. In this episode, Calliope, daughter of Zeus and wife of Morpheus, the Goddess of Inspiration and Ideas comes to life. It is through her story and that of a writer called Richard Maddock that we dive deep into the world of ideas. Where do ideas come from? How do they get created? Why do we need them in order to have money and fame? Where lies the conception of these ideas? To know all about it, listen to this amazing episode.
What You’ll Learn from This Episode.
- The story of Calliope - the Goddess of Inspiration.
- Why rest and restoration is essential for ideation.
- Where do ideas come from?
- How to discover and find them?
- How can we never run out of ideas.
- Giving up perfection and procrastination.
- Ideas that make money.
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Last Sunday, my partner and I went to a concert by the most incredible musical group of performers called Dastaan Live. The kind of learning and insight I had just by listening to their music was invaluable. They performed in the most innovative of ways. They took the most exquisite couplets of Saint Kabir and turned them into dazzling, magical songs. Laced with a flavour of jazz and blended in a fusion of Indian Rock music, they created the most enthralling experience for everyone. In today's episode I talk about one of the songs they sang. This is one of my most loved couplets of Kabir. This is where Kabir talks about transcending religion, transcending norms and regulations, moving beyond the idea of a fixed solid way of living and existence, and giving up 'our fixation with one singular, unquestionable way of experiencing the divine.' Because the truth is, there is no one singular, unquestionable way for anything. Not for God, not for Business. The idea of HOW is a myth. There are always multiple HOWs and not all HOWs can be broken down into steps. Sometimes, we cannot define the HOW, but we can certainly define and aspire to the goal. Giving up the HOW is hence a spiritual process of letting go of our doubts and fears.
What You’ll Learn from This Episode.
- The multiple ways to living life and experiencing God.
- Why there is no fixed way for anything.
- There is no one way to do business.
- Giving up the How is a Spiritual Process.
- Every road is the right road.
- The only thing you need instead of the How is your belief.
- Making Money can be a sacred goal and experience.
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I have been a great fan of Byron Katie. She is one of the most prolific, conspicuous and uncomplicated thought leaders I have read and worked with. It all started with her book: “Who Would You Be Without Your Story?” And that is what exactly changed my life. I started using her process, which she calls The Work. And The Work essentially has four questions in it. They are:
- Is it true?
- Are you 100% sure it’s true?
- How do you feel when you believe in that story?
- Who would you be without that story?
These four questions, as Katie says, are enough to change the world around you. And this episode is inspired by these four questions. Listen on to find out more.
What You’ll Learn from This Episode.
- The truth behind the way you think.
- How thought processes work.
- How our brain tells us stories.
- Not everything we think is true.
- How does our thinking affect our selling.
- Why is Deliberate Thinking important.
- What is Deliberate Thought Building.
- Creating your own Reality.
- You sell because you believe you have value.
- The power of believing a thought.
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Welcome to the 14th Episode of my Podcast – today we’ll be talking about a recent personal experience and the insight I gained via it into managing expectations from yourself.
This week, we’ll discuss Thought errors – something we’ve discussed before and how they lead to feelings which might not allow us to do the things we want to do.
We’ll question the entire process of “procrastination” and why we don’t do things we actually want to do.
What you’ll learn from this Episode?
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What happens to your Emotional Landscape when you are faced with fear, anxiety, stress or specifically changes.
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How our Emotional Landscape affects our Business and work journey.
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What happens to the Brain when we are moving through various transitions.
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The most important learning here – THE ONLY DIFFERENCE BETWEEN WHAT WE WANT TO DO AND WHAT WE DON’T FEEL LIKE DOING IS THE FEELING OF DISCOMFORT.
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Thought Errors and how they lead us on this journey of feelings which stop us from dealing with changes in the status quo.
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You don’t have to go through a healing process to change your life – sometimes a shift can just happen – an instant switch in your Nervous System.
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TIME MANAGEMENT IS PAIN MANAGEMENT – How there are only 2 things behind some task – we want to feel a certain way or we want to stop feeling a certain way; so the only work we need to do for Time Management is manage the Pain we get from this transition.
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You have to be willing to feel the pain so that you can process the feeling and shift into a place wherein you can do the tasks you want to do.
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How to change your relationship with time – Time doesn’t exist outside our body; it exists inside our bodies – we can transform our physical reality by becoming aware of our thoughts, enquiring about them and consequently changing them.
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How in ATEPS – massive results and contributions are being created by people willing to feel the pain as in this Program, we build capacity inside our Body and Nervous System to do things consistently and get the results you want from your Work / Business.
We also talk about the Book – “Indistractable” by Nir Eyal, the author of “Hooked – How to build Habit forming Products” and how the Chapter “Time Management is Pain Management” influenced my thoughts this week.
And we discuss how Lauren Cash’s Podcast inspired me to make Result Based Lists for the work I want to do instead of “To-Do” Lists which are Task Based.
In ATEPS, you will learn much more about this and we have an entire Module on Nervous System Support for all of you. It’s not just a Series of Audios and Videos but also a part of our Live Coaching Calls.
So, stay tuned and go on a ride with us on this wild journey of inner work to make ALL the money you want, the way YOU want to.
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Last weekend I did a masterclass on The Greatest Abundance Secret: The only thought model you need in order to make money. So, while we worked a lot on how our thoughts and feelings create our money reality, we also dived deep into what exactly karma is and why is it that we must look into it while creating our business. I asked all my students inside the class if they knew what karma is. Many of them said: you reap what you sow. You get exactly what you put out into the universe. That it’s a cycle of your actions. And I said, what if Karma was the residue of everything that you didn’t feel? What if everything about your existence that is unfelt, unprocessed and unexamined is what finds repetition and that’s the cycle of karma. While the whole class was spell bound by this, I invite you to listen to this episode to decipher for yourself the connection between trauma, karma, money and business. I will wait to hear from you. Feel free to DM me your views on it on Instagram at @gauravdeka
What You’ll Learn From This Episode.
- What is Karma and its relationship to Trauma.
- Past Life Trauma and Family Trauma.
- Why Family and Ancestral Traumas Repeat.
- What is Business Karma.
- Where does Business Karma originate.
- How to feel your unprocessed feelings.
- Why processing our undigested experience is important.
- How Karma can show up in your coaching business.
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Last week, I watched this incredible Hindi movie called "Janhit Mein Jaari," which translates to "In Public Interest," on Zee5 Channel. I had just begun watching wanting to unwind and relax, but then it turned out to be the most illuminating lessons of my life. It is through this movie, I realized why we make certain career choices and professions, and work towards them against all odds? Why we believe in the work we do, the contributions we make despite having no support from our family and friends at times? How we, in the process of choosing something we believe in, actually heal and embrace our most authentic self? I urge all of you to first go and watch this movie, simply because it could bring in the most remarkable sales lessons for you, as it did for me. And I really wanted to share all my valuable insights with you all. I hope listening to this episode brings in a great shift within you, as much as the movie did for me. Enjoy!
What You’ll Learn From This Episode.
- Knowing the purpose behind what you sell.
- Believing in the choices that you make.
- Navigating shame and judgements about selling.
- How your decision to sell can change the world.
- Knowing Who your true audience is.
- Trusting your audience as much as you trust yourself.
- Breaking social norms and hierarchies when you sell.
- Moving beyond patriarchy and toxic capitalism.
- Understanding that money comes when we have a purpose.
- To be in service of your clients. Always.
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So we have been house hunting. And I had the most illuminating discovery while in this adventure. A mundane process like house hunting became the seed of Why we don't feel Safe When Someone tries to sell us Something. There is a fundamental truth why some of us sell more than others. And most times, the truth is in trauma. When we have unprocessed and undigested traumatic experiences from the past, we often transmit them to our prospective and future clients. This can be completely unconscious, but can create hazardous results in our pursuit of selling what we truly believe in. We can only create value when we are able to feel safe and worthy in our own bodies. So, healing the nervous system becomes paramount when it comes to interacting with a client and allowing them to lean into our safety. This episode is all about that.
What You'll Learn From This Episode.
- How Trauma can affect the way you sell.
- Processing Past Client Experiences.
- Threat Responses in Selling.
- Bonding before making an offer.
- Why clients want to buy from you.
- Healing the Nervous System.
- Investing in your Clients.
- Creating value by creating safety.
- Why body language matters.
- Thoughts you need to sell more.
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Welcome to the 10th Episode of my Podcast – I am extremely excited for this one – it’s a huge celebration of the Podcast along with a sensational and transformational journey of our ATEPS Participant – Ms. Shruti Tibrewal!
This week, we meet Ms. Shruti Tibrewal, one of the Participants of the Pilot Group of ATEPS and we discover just how ATEPS lead to her making 27K USD in a single month.
What you’ll learn from this Episode?
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The main Question to keep asking yourself - What else is possible?
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How to deconstruct the narrow spaces or box of context we all inhabit.
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How Shruti made 27K USD in a single month after ATEPS & a huge celebration of her wonderful journey.
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Thought work – How our thoughts define our reality & how you can use Thought Work to change your Money Reality today.
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Difference between Information and Application – how the knowledge is all out there, but we change when we apply it diligently.
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A glimpse of the different processes we do in ATEPS and how all of it comes together to bring you what you want in your life.
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How Shruti did her Inner work; her ability to witness her thoughts; her capacity to receive and her willingness to be evolve.
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How can you be more secure and safe in your ability to earn Money in the lightest possible way for YOU.
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How Selling is an Inner Game – and how we learn that from ATEPS.
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The importance of Community in our ATEPS Program along with the leap of faith you can take today to be a part of this ever evolving Money Consciousness.
So, stay tuned and go on a ride with us on this wild journey of inner work to make ALL the money you want, the way YOU want to.
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The other day I was watching this documentary on Netflix that talks about minimalism. The name of the documentary is Minimalism: Less is Now.
Joshua Fields Millburn and Ryan Nicodemus are the two film-makers who show how are victims of a consumerist culture where
everything is at the click of a button and we don’t even think while buying —- unconscious buying.
As a result there is just too much of everything in the house. It’s flooded !
Anytime does that happen, it is because of not processing our emotions. Why Do I talk so much about trauma informed coaching is because trauma shapes the way we think.
We cannot have clarity of thoughts - we are constantly bombarded by everything that’s around us — be hot on Facebook or Instagram. We feel seduced by things like food on zomato
Trauma response - Getting up to buy a burger on zomato or Going eShopping:
- A dress.
- A new phone
- A New computer.
- A new set of cutlery
- A new bag
- Even new books.
- I even know people who hoard stationers and keep them with them
These are all trauma responses.
We don’t realise the impact we are having on the planet by consuming and producing so much of waste.
We go to the three
- Anything that gives instant gratification
- Anything that leaves waste
- Anything that is hoarded.
Now how does that relate to selling?
- We feel we need to make a lot of offers…MULITPLE OFFERS
- We need to give a Lot in our services and healings
- For eg, if I am taking 15K I have to get journaling, therapy, coaching. Already overwhelmmed!
- We have to collect a lot of degrees.
- We have to use many techniques
- Simple things don’t work. Because that is not deep healing.
When it comes to my own coaching business, I completely believe in the lean minimalist model of selling
- I have a lean model
- I sell just one program
- It is simple because its components are simple
- 5 Modules - thoughts, social media, body business, energy, sales.
- People can have clarity about what I am offering
- Because once again my offer is lean and structured.
- It doesn’t go to several places.
- It simply says that if you are a coach, healer, therapist - this is the place where you make money
- I don’t even give too much information in my website - because people feel heavy in their head.
- It’s at a single price of INR 2.5L
- It’s clear that it’s going to be for a lifetime.
- That we meet coaching for a lifetime every week
- Such a lean model always helps you to grow better instead of focusing on multiple things
- Focus on multiple things comes from unprocessed thoughts about the multiple things in your head which doesn’t allow you to have a streamlined thought process.
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I often talk about me and my partner and our regular day to day lives, because I know a lot of you are curious about what my life is like behind the episodes. The other day when we both went to this beautiful place in Delhi, Sunder Nursery, admiring the fabulousness of lush green trees in the middle of the summer. We halted at FabCafe and what followed was An Interesting Point of View!
So many things that we enjoy and can learn from, come free in life, like:The best coaching is for free — Like for Trauma work, I listen to Holistic Life Navigation, for doing deep work I listen to Cal Newport or Youtube Channel - Ryan Daniel Moran. Kurzgesagt and Access Consciousness
I don’t see any of them being scared that if:
- I keep giving, I will run out of content.
- People will steal my content and start selling.
- In my paid programs no one will show up because I am already giving so much in my free resources.
But then, a lot of people ask me about how I do business? And how do I create sales? They often want to know how I go about interacting with people. What do I tell them? How do I introduce my offer? And what exactly is the hook that I use to hook my audience? How do I convert?
And all that...
And my one single answer is: I give. I give everything away before time.
I believe in creating a transformation 'way' before my clients have paid. Because I look at all the benefits of working with them when they come from that space. They are informed. They feel safe. They already know how it feels to work with me. They are able to trust the process and are able to measure their own commitment.
I don’t have to build things from scratch, work on their issues, thought errors or dysfunctional habits.
Some of the work has already been done. Like people tell me that before they bought my program ATEPS, they had binged everything I produced.
Why does that happen? This happens because of their prior experience with me. They know what they have received and are here to experience that energy and safety. The moment selling comes into the picture people always start feeling unsafe. This is because of the collective experience of selling - Which is desperate, anxious energy of lack. So the antidote is generosity. If you make generosity the driving force behind your marketing, people will keep showing up again and again and that will allow them to form a bond with your offer at a way deeper level. It may take time for such conversions, like it takes time for a baby to fully form in the mother’s womb, but the bond begins with one cell embedded into the uterine cavity. And that is how post by post, solution by solution, content by content, with every single drop of it, the bond will grow and in the Long run your coaching business will have a solid foundation and a unique selling strategy: GENEROSITY
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Have you wondered why we never ask ourselves “How much money would I like to make this year?”
Would that make our ‘Noble Profession’ being labeled as “money minded”, “greedy” “lusty” “abusing people’s emotions” “duping people” “playing with people emotions” etc?
What if we told you these are nothing but THOUGHT ERRORS!? In the previous episode, I speak extensively on what are these Thought Errors.
What if I told you that $100K is an easily achievable financial goal?
Here in this episode I help you to discover the inspiration and guided route for making that first $100K, which is roughly 75L in Indian currency annually. Introducing my upcoming Mastermind program - The Six Figure Formula.
What You’ll Learn From This Episode?
- What is the Six Figure Formula
- How to go beyond the cultural, geographical and thought limitations about money?
- How to make the best out of a coaching program?
- Steps and strategies to reach your goals - The Simplest Model
- The barriers that might show up and how to overcome them?
- The journey from how to wow!
- How to move from exhaustion of hustling to power of quantum ambivalence?
- Working with difficult emotions when you set a financial target bigger than ever.
- And much more...
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The other day I and my partner decide to visit this restaurant called Burma Burma which is in the heart of South Delhi. While on the way, I am consumed with certain assumptive limiting notions about the place that I find beautifully challenged and broken when I reach the restaurant. On my way back, I am able to see so many correlations of my own thought processes about the restaurant with the thought processes of my clients and students in my money and business coaching program ATEPS. This episode is a collation of all those realisations and the self coaching my brain did for me, and gave me the most illuminating insight about my business and the money I make.
What You’ll Learn From This Episode.
- Where do our limiting beliefs come from.
- Does your geography matter.
- What is thought error.
- Our thoughts may not be true.
- Degree and Certifications - how important are they.
- What is the coaching industry like.
- Why is it possible to make money.
- What do you need in order to sell.
- Why do we do the inner work.
- Why Selling is an inside job.
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I tell all my students in my Money and Business Coaching Program, ATEPS that the best and the easiest way of making money is being yourself. However, being yourself is not that simple. At least the journey isn’t simple and linear. It has a lot of steps and obstacles in between. And these exits because none of us are immune to trauma. All of us have gone through something or the other in our life that robs us of our authentic self and closes us in a tight ball of shame, guilt and fear. As a result, we don’t show in the world in our wildest, rawest form. And there is a hidden price we pay by doing that. The price is: we don’t make money. We don’t sell business. Though there is a solution to it, and it doesn’t have to be hard. To find out how I work with it, listen to this episode.
What You’ll Learn From This Episode.
- How trauma affects our authentic being.
- What happens to your nervous system during trauma.
- Why nervous system regulation is important for making money.
- Belief Systems and their manifestations.
- Shame, Guilt, Perfection and the hidden price we pay by carrying them.
- Dissociation and Disconnection during Trauma.
- How to retrieve your authentic self.
- Why Inner Child Work is important for business creation.
- Why inner work is important for coaches and healers.
- How money starts showing up when I show up.
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We all have specific Patterns, Behaviors, Spending Habits, Fears, Guilt & Shame Around Money. We might come from a space of lack, not knowing that we can create a Business or earn Money beyond our wildest imaginations. We can absolutely have the Magic Life we want once we are able to come to a Space of Ease & Joy in life.
How do we do that?
Here, the 4 Pillars of my Money Coaching come in place – We have to be willing to believe that we can earn money and establish our Business - but if we are stuck in the Survival Response from our childhood, if we think that our Belief Systems and Issues are Individualistic, if we are unable to be expansive in our Bodies or inhabit a Space of Ease – then we have some work to do before we reach our goals.
In today’s episode, I share - How I use these 4 Pillars to get all my Students and Clients to out-create their realities, heal from trauma, become expansive in their thoughts, and drop the HOW of the process. Are you ready to believe in the unimaginable possibilities and opportunities that can show up in your space? Listen on to find out.
What You’ll Learn from This Episode?
- My 4 Pillars of Money Coaching.
1.1 Trauma-Informed Healing.
1.2 System–Centric Container.
1.3 Spatial Somatic Expansion.
1.4 Inhabiting the Quantum Ambivalence.
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The transformation from a place of Lack to a place of Abundance
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What is the Survival Mode / Stress Response?
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Dealing with Trauma to leave the Survival Mode / Stress Response.
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How you are a Trailblazer & not a Black sheep?
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The Direct Correlation Between our Body and the Money or Business we create.
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Embracing your true, Authentic Self.
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The feeling of “Knowing’ that is unique to you.
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How ATEPS – My Business Coaching Program can transform your Life?
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Dropping the “HOW” – not being married to any Processes or Points of View.
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Inhabiting the Nothingness – being Ok with not knowing.
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We all are great buyers and not good sellers – we buy into the realities of the people around us; we buy into their Success Models as well as Failure Models; we buy into the “Standard Practice” of our Profession based on how that industry works in our immediate Environment; we buy into what we can and cannot achieve based on our Country, our Race, our Community, etc.
But have you ever stopped to wonder - What is it that you know – that no one knows and no one will ever know?
Have you ever thought about tapping into the “Knowingness of you”?
Because this is your Million Dollar Business Idea.
We have to be able to give up the Perceptions, Points of View, Opinions, and Beliefs of others around us - about our Business and Money, so as to believe in the Uniqueness of You.
You have to believe that we all have different Money-Making Signatures and we can access them only by dropping all our Limiting Beliefs, the Version of you in other people’s minds and floating in this Question.
So, do you wish to stop buying into other people’s realities and create your own? Do you wish to show up in the world in a Unique way and are you ready to be open enough to allow that to work for you? Find out in this week’s episode.
What You’ll Learn From This Episode?
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Thought Errors – how you assume the world to be according to the realities of others.
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How our Belief Systems are products of our Environments?
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The Unique ways you can show up in the world.
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How to be your Authentic Self?
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Questioning your beliefs and where they come from.
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How do you contribute to the world by being yourself?
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How do prioritize Rest and what is Radical Resting?
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Creating Space for finding Answers to Questions posed here.
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Your natural impulse to access your Unique Style.
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Make a Million Dollars from the Unique Space of You.
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We have a hard time accepting the fact that we like to have money. Our desire for money is often affected and influenced by the amount of shame, guilt, and fear we carry from the world around us. This shame and guilt show up in our body and creates an inner contraction within. We feel that if we speak about money or are vocal about how much money we would like to have, the world will judge us, and we may come across as greedy, lusty, almost inhuman mercenaries. These kinds of negative associations we develop over time around money cloud our knowing of what change and contribution money can bring to the lives of others. What happens when we choose to have money and pave the way for so many who haven’t been able to make that choice? What if choosing to have money could benefit the world around us? To know how that happens, listen to this episode.
What You’ll Learn from This Episode?
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How Guilt stops us from choosing to have money?
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The patriarchal structures of money.
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How toxic productivity look like?
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The importance of rest and freedom in creating more money.
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How to break free from negative associations around money?
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What happens to the world when we choose money.
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How do we contribute more?
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How to break free from money stress?
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Cultivating a mindset of ease with money.
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How your choice is the only power you need?
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Many of us do not realize that we do not have a transactional relationship with money. We have an emotional relationship. And we become aware of this relationship with money at a very young age. Even before our brains develop the ability to learn, process, and evaluate what money means to us and why we may aspire to it, we end up forming an inner picture of money in our lives based on what we hear, feel and see in our family. This makes money a systemic entity. Our individual beliefs about money are not truly individual in nature but they belong to the system we come from. The family we grow up in, the region we come from, the tribe and nationality we belong to, and the kind of political structures we subscribe to. And these systems solidify over time to form our money beliefs. As we all know, our beliefs create our thoughts, and our thoughts create our feelings, which in turn lead us to behave in a certain way and that’s how our money behaviours show up in our life. Whether it’s about the scarcity mindset or a mindset where we are able to feel constantly and deeply abundant within our very being. So, does money truly exist? Or is it about this inner abundance that creates true value? Listen to this episode to find out the truth.
What You’ll Learn From This Episode?
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Our Emotional Relationship with Money.
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How Money Beliefs are formed?
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The Systemic Model of Money.
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Perspectives on Lack, Scarcity, and Abundance.
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What are the different kinds of Money Mindsets?
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How Inter-generational Trauma shapes our Money Beliefs.
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Everything you need to know as a Coach about Money.
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What happens when you choose to have more money?
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How to tackle Shame related to Money?
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The energetic reality of Money.
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