Welcome to our unique mental health podcast! Licensed therapist, Juliet Kuehnle, uses humor and real talk to dive into the stories of interesting people you (want to) know. Of course there will be therapy tips (because, let's be serious, we all need them!), but mostly these conversations are a glimpse into the vulnerability of the people you might think "have it all together." We want to elevate and normalize the dialogue around mental health and erase the stigma so we can all own our humanness and maybe even proudly claim, "Yep, I go to therapy!" Subscribe and press play today!
In this episode, Juliet talks with fellow therapist, David Sanchez. David specializes in working with clients with problematic sexual behaviors (porn, affairs/infidelity, compulsive sexual behaviors, etc.).
David educates listeners on what these behaviors actually are, removing stigma from it as his work is about understanding the person underneath the behavior: "It might be something you did, but not who you are." He also discusses the impact of these behaviors on partners and family members.
We also discuss men's mental health, in particular, and the skills that they can learn to practice assertiveness, healthy coping, and boundaries. David shares a bit about his own mental health and relating to being the "nice guy" and honing these skills himself.
Juliet on Instagram: @YepIGoToTherapy
Juliet's Website: YepIGoToTherapy.com
Juliet's Practice: Sun Counseling & Wellness
David's Practice: Charlotte Counseling Associates
Dr. Matthew Zakreski (known as “Dr. Matt”) is a seasoned clinical psychologist and professional speaker renowned for his expertise in serving neurodivergent individuals (people with different brains such as gifted, ADHD, Autism, and dyslexia). Passionate about reducing stigma surrounding neurodiversity, Dr. Matt is driven by his mission to promote a culture of compassion and understanding in order to support people in embracing understanding and celebrating their unique brains and ways of operating in the world.
"Z" (as I've called him since college!) and I are aligned in our mission of authenticity and ending the stigma. We discuss the value of therapy when you "bring your tea-spillingest self as you find the courage to go there."
He is an expert in living, teaching, and working with neurodivergence. We dig into ADHD, the highly sensitive trait, dyslexia, autism, & giftedness to bring you better understanding. We discuss the process of diagnosing, differences between genders, being diagnosed later in life, and how common this really is (1 in 5 people are neurodivergent!).
We also talk about bringing main character energy to your own life and how it's never too late to understand your own brain as that can only help enhance your well-being!
Juliet on Instagram: @YepIGoToTherapy
Juliet's Website: YepIGoToTherapy.com
Matt on Instagram: @DrMattZakreski
Matt's Websites: DrMattZakreski.com and The NeurodiversityCollective.com
CW: suicidality
Ben Greene (he/him) is transgender man, author, advocate, & public speaker. He was in Charlotte to speak at the PFLAG Charlotte Pride & Purpose Gala, so he and Juliet got to record this episode live at Queen City Podcast Network!
Ben says he's in the business of "being the person I needed when I was younger." He shares his coming out story and his curiosity around what could've been different if he had access to different resources, support, and knew how to talk about it when he was quite young: "I didn't know I was a boy, I just knew I was bad at being a girl." He also goes on to discuss his medical transition.
Ben shares about his own mental health while "locking my closet door from the inside" for so long. Finally, he shares how he didn't need his parents to be experts right away, he just needed them to say they loved him and that he was safe. He shares several practical tools and tips for allies.
Ben shares some really great metaphors about:
Ben's passion is making all of this a joy-filled conversation. He says that conversations around trans youth begin and end around suicide statistics which is so important AND we can't just stay focused on what to avoid, but also what we stand to gain.
Juliet on Instagram: @YepIGoToTherapy
Juliet's Website: YepIGoToTherapy.com
Ben on Instagram: @Pseudo.Bro
Ben's Website: BGTransTalks.com
Ben's Book: My Child Is Trans, Now What? A Joy-Centered Approach To Support
Recorded at the Queen City Podcast Network
Sponsored by PFLAG Charlotte
In this episode, Juliet chats with Summer Baruth, an industrial and organizational psychologist who is a global leader in human resources. Summer's passion is in making the uncomfortable comfortable and meeting people where they are to help them see things differently. In this episode, Juliet & Summer get into the real real about helping others feel seen, but discussing if they allow themselves to be truly seen?! They also discuss the grief that happens around losing friendships. This is a topic that Juliet is passionate about putting more focus on: the unique attachments that occur in friendships and how to navigate it when they change.
Other topics Juliet & Summer discuss:
Juliet on Instagram
Juliet on LinkedIn
YepIGoToTherapy.com
Summer on LinkedIn
Summer on Instagram
Amber is a Licensed Professional Counselor and Certified Clinical Trauma Professional in the state of New Jersey. She is a therapist, an advocate, a feeler, and a flawed human and she's no stranger to anxiety.
In this episode, Amber and Juliet talk about their definitions of anxiety, various manifestations of anxiety, and how we know it's time to take a deeper look at our anxiety. They discuss tools for getting curious about one's anxiety and learning how to trust yourself again and tolerate anxious feelings. They also talk about the impact of social media on mental health and the nuances that aren't captured in that space. You'll finish this episode knowing that while anxiety may be a part of your story, it's not all that you are and doesn't have to stand in your way.
Juliet on Instagram: YepIGoToTherapy
Amber on Instagram: amber_vs_anxiety
Amber's The Anxiety Lab
In this episode, Juliet chats with Lindsay Anvik Henricks, co-owner of a make-your-own-charcuterie business: Babe and Butcher in Charlotte, NC. Lindsay is also a big advocate for therapy and tending to your mental wellness as she's open about her own journey with anxiety and depression.
CW: fertility, postpartum mental health
Tune in to this FULL episode as Juliet & Lindsay chat about:
Links:
Juliet on Instagram: @YepIGoToTherapy
Juliet's new book: Who You Callin' Crazy?!
Lindsay on Instagram: @BabeAndButcher
Babe and Butcher: https://www.babeandbutcher.com/
In this episode, fellow therapist, Danielle Hughes, discusses what it means to be a faith-based counselor. She describes what it is like to have the permission to wrestle with spirituality in a therapy session, however a client may define spirituality for themselves.
Danielle and Juliet dive into some mental health buzzwords that need our attention: embodiment and radical acceptance. As they tease out what these get to look like for individual clients, the listener gets a feel for what holistic treatment (mind, body, and spirit) can entail. As humans, we so often try to think our way out of a problem or out of discomfort when our bodies, as Danielle says, are reading and responding to emotions. She says that we need to learn to listen to our bodies and perhaps connect to our spirituality, as well.
Danielle in her practice, Cultivate Charlotte, is working to be a greenhouse for growth and an ally in cultivating faith for clients.
Links:
Juliet on Instagram: @YepIGoToTherapy
Juliet's new book: Who You Callin' Crazy?!
Danielle's Website: Cultivate Charlotte
In this episode of "Who You Callin' Crazy?!" Juliet Kuehnle interviews Rennie Dyball, an
author and editor. Rennie shares about her journey from ghostwriting celebrity memoirs to authoring several books. Her latest is her picture book debut entitled: B Is For Bellies, a celebration of every body. So, of course, much of their conversation centers around body image -- for us adults and how we can help influence that of our children.
Juliet and Rennie also discuss the importance of storytelling and the joy of finding one's niche. Together they explore some of the impactful topics covered in Rennie’s books, as well as the books that have impacted her; from topics including ADHD to body image.
Timestamps
[00:02:15] Currently co-authoring an ADHD and self-help book.
[00:11:35] Breaking down body image issues.
[00:15:04] The Fuck It Diet – a book that helped Rennie ease out of diet culture.
[00:20:37] Managing uncomfortable emotions.
[00:21:04] Body positivity and its evolution.
[00:25:43] The power of mantras.
[00:28:10] Talking to kids about body image.
Links:
Juliet on Instagram @YepIGoToTherapy
Rennie Dyball
B Is For Bellies
In this episode of Who You Callin' Crazy?!, Juliet Kuehnle interviews Chris Weedon, the founder of Mentally Shredded. Chris shares his journey of overcoming his own mental health challenges and finding peace after retiring from soccer. He discusses the importance of adding value to the world through advocacy and personal development. Chris also opens up about the difficulties of building a business and the rewards it brings. Tune in to hear his inspiring story and vulnerability.
Timestamps
[00:01:20] Sharing his story and advocacy.
[00:06:28] "Chris, you're more than soccer."
[00:09:24] Taking Big Risks on Yourself.
[00:13:14] Reclaiming personal power.
[00:19:11] The power of affirmations.
[00:23:41] Navigating identity and acceptance.
[00:28:20] Allowing yourself to date again.
[00:32:21] Embracing the darkness.
Detailed Synopsis
In this episode, Juliet & Chris discuss how creating a space for people to open up and share personal stories can be a catalyst for personal growth and connection with others. The importance of authenticity and vulnerability, both with oneself and with others, is highlighted. Juliet emphasizes that on the other side of vulnerability lies freedom.
In this episode, Chris shares his personal journey of self-discovery and success, emphasizing the importance of personal development and taking risks. He discusses his fear of not being able to discover purpose or have a goal that aligns with his true calling, but how his determination, willpower, and drive have been key qualities in discovering more about himself.
Links:
Juliet on Instagram @YepIGoToTherapy
Get Juliet's Book!
Mentally Shredded
In this episode of "Who You Callin' Crazy?!" host Juliet Kuehnle interviews Laura Hays, an emergency medicine physician and co-founder of Lasting Impact Wellness Group. Laura shares some of her personal story about her mental health and experiencing panic attacks. The conversation emphasizes the universality of mental health struggles and the importance of seeking help and support. Juliet and Laura explore how to take inventory of how we're truly doing as they provide practical tips for checking in on our own mental health. They provide psychoeducation around anxiety that will help listeners understand what's happening in the body alongside these feelings.
Timestamps
00:04:29 Anxiety can appear unexpectedly
00:09:45 Understanding the physiology of anxiety
00:15:20 Being proactive about self-care
00:22:44 Mind-body connection through yoga
00:23:38 The power of the breath
00:33:25 Prioritizing mental health proactively
00:34:50 The importance of self-compassion for mental health
Summary
In this episode of "Who You Callin’ Crazy," host Juliet Kuehnle interviews therapist Kayla Jones to shed light on the experiences and challenges of being a therapist. They discuss the transition from graduate school to private practice, the stigma around being a therapist, and the weight the job can place on the therapist. Tune in to gain insight into the world of therapy as we humanize the profession.
Timestamps
[00:01:45] Starting out in private practice.
[00:06:37] Therapist's pedestal and humanization.
[00:10:07] Being seen and heard.
[00:14:01] The magic of connection.
[00:17:07] Resentment in client relationships.
[00:21:49] Learning the latest slang.
[00:25:03] The heaviness of the job.
[00:31:34] Incorporating music into therapy.
[00:33:38] The magic of therapy.
Detailed Synopsis
In this episode, Kayla shares her personal experience with burnout. After taking a break and working for a while, she made the decision to pursue graduate school with the goal of becoming a therapist. This decision was influenced by herpassion for psychology and her desire to assist others with their mental health, though she admits being and becoming a therapist has positively impacted her own mental health, more than she ever expected.
During the episode, the significance of finding the right therapist who can provide validation and empower individuals to explore their mental health is emphasized. They discuss the “art of being a therapist.” Juliet and Kayla acknowledge that at times the process of therapy can be challenging for both client and therapist. They acknowledge that by sharing that reality and humanizing the therapist and their experience in the process, they can help the client trust the process as well.
Kayla & Juliet identify some of the beneficial differences for a client between talking to a good friend and speaking with a therapist. Additionally, the therapists touch on the emotional weight of their job and how it can impact them. They acknowledge the weight of their responsibility in helping clients navigate their emotions, behaviors, and actions and emphasize the importance of therapists seeking their own therapy.
Welcome back to Who You Callin' Crazy?! We're finally back! I've missed y'all.
In this short episode, I give info on where I've been for the past year. Hint: I wrote a book!
I'm so excited for this season with lots of new guests. Let's keep ending the stigma, together. Please reach out if you'd like to be a guest or have a suggestion. This season's conversations will also include REAL talk with other therapists and helpers to continue making this information super accessible and relatable.
Follow me on Instagram: @YepIGoToTherapy
More info on the book here: https://whoyoucallincrazy.com/
TW/CW: abuse, addiction
The culture of the food and beverage industry has long been infamous for being an environment that perpetuates mental health struggles and substance use. But to Steve Palmer, this is also the same industry that saved him from his addictions.
Palmer is the founder of The Indigo Road Hospitality Group, a hospitality and consulting company that owns and operates more than 20 restaurants and 4 hotels across the southeastern US. He is also the co-founder of Ben's friends, a national nonprofit that acts as a bridge to sobriety for those in the hospitality industry struggling with substance abuse and addiction. Steve's personal journey to sobriety is what makes his work so special as it is all personally stamped by his passion ("obsession with hospitality") and his purpose ("service to others.")
Tune in as we chat about:
… and so much more!
Connect with Steve Palmer:
Personal Website: www.aboutstevepalmer.com
Company's Website:www.Indigoroad.com
Steve's Book: Say Grace: How the Restaurant Business Saved My Life
Links
Instagram: @yepigototherapy
Website: Sun Counseling and Wellness
From a young age, Kenzie Harkey could pick up on the chaos that a dysfunctional space caused in her physical and mental state. Fast forward to 2017, after spending the previous decade in the health + wellness field, Kenzie knew she was ready for something different but with the same intention: to make a positive impact. And that's how Simply Dare was born!
Simply Dare is a home organization and relocation company that helps you create a simple + functional home so you can do more of what you love. Kenzie and I talk about the psychology behind organization and how our physical spaces can impact mood. She opens up about her journey with ADHD and in family therapy as we explore the both/and of having compassion and hurt from families of origin.
In this episode, Kenzie and I chat about:
... and so much more!
Simply Dare Website
Simply Dare Instagram
Links:
Instagram: @yepigototherapy
Website: Sun Counseling and Wellness
CW/TW: child abuse, sexual abuse
In this episode, I speak to Sam Hart, chef and owner of Counter- as well as a new restaurant opening this Fall, called Biblio. Sam's culinary journey and innovative restaurant concepts are informed by his mental health journey and, while aligned with his principles, run things counter to what you might expect.
Counter- is a fine dining, story-driven, progressive tasting menu in West Charlotte, where on a seasonal basis, they change not only the food that's on the plates, but also the story that is the driving force behind it. And Biblio, opening up later this year, honors of all the winemakers, vineyards, and distributors that tell their stories through wine lists.
In this rich episode, Sam and I chat about:
... and so much more!
Connect with Sam on Instagram: @chefloosely @counterclt
Check out Counter-: https://www.counterclt.com/
The Relatives
Time Out Youth
CW/TW: suicide, substance use
In today's episode, I speak to Chryssie Whitehead, an actress, singer, educator, passionate mentor, and dancer on Broadway, film, and television. Chryssie talks about her recent coming to terms with her diagnosis of Bipolar II Disorder and the process of deciding to write a show about it! About her show, In My Own Little Corner, Chryssie says: "I wrote a show about my journey with bipolar disorder. I wrote a show about my mother's death & her journey with mental illness. I wrote a show about deep love, forgiveness, and letting go of shame."
In this episode, Chryssie and I talk about:
… and so much more!
Connect with Chryssie:
Website: www.chryssiewhitehead.com
Facebook: Chryssie Whitehead
Ellen Forney's Graphic novel: Marbles
Links
Instagram: @yepigototherapy
Website: Sun Counseling and Wellness
In this episode, I speak to Tiffany Donovan Marino, the owner of Confetti Castle and the queen of many ideas. Her company, based in Charlotte, NC, specializes in creating fun and unique balloon designs for parties and events. Tiffany is a make-it-happen kind of person and opens up to us about having to be this way while growing up and learning she could only count on herself. Her emphasis on trusting oneself, not getting caught up in criticism, and having the courage & freedom to accept when you're struggling and ask for help are key takeaways.
Tune in as we chat about:
… and so much more!
Connect with Tiffany:
Company's Website: www.theconfetticastle.com
Instagram: @confetticastle
Personal Instagram account: @confetticastlequeen
Links
Instagram: @yepigototherapy
We don't talk enough about invisible illnesses and disabilities...those that you can't see simply by looking at a person. This is truly the point of my podcast -- to highlight people's stories and struggles rather than making judgments and assuming we know everything about someone.
In this episode, I speak to my friend Brendan Sage, father of two, who opens up about his journey with epilepsy. Brendan, who's now seizure-free, shares a lot about his mental health during this years long experience. It will surely stir you to embrace gratitude and find acceptance.
Tune in as we chat about:
…and so much more!
Connect with Brendan:
LinkedIn: Brendan Sage
Links
Instagram: @yepigototherapy
Website: Sun Counseling and Wellness
Mary Beth Somich is a licensed therapist in private practice. She owns a group practice in North Carolina called Your Journey Through, where she primarily works with teens and young adults around issues of family dynamics. Mary Beth also mentors other therapists looking to grow their mental health platforms on Instagram as a modern way to become more accessible and reach more people. She is also the co-host of the “My Therapist Thinks” podcast.
Tune in as we chat about:
…and so much more!
Connect with Mary Beth:
Website: http://yourjourneythrough.com
Instagram: @yourjourneythrough
LinkedIn: Mary Beth Somich
Links
Instagram: @yepigototherapy
Website: Sun Counseling and Wellness
CW/TW: abuse, kidnapping, suicidal ideation, substance use, postpartum mood disorders
Good moms have bad days, too! These bad days can be exacerbated by childhood and adulthood traumas.
In this episode, I speak to Eren Simpson, friend of mine since 2nd grade (!), a freelance writer, author, grant writer, and artist/illustrator. Eren is a mom of two. Having fought through postpartum mood disorders and not finding the resources she wanted and needed, Eren is on a mission to raise awareness around postpartum anxiety, postpartum depression, and postpartum psychosis.
We dive deep into family of origin wounds!
Tune in as we chat about:
-Eren's fractured relationship with her parents from childhood and how it shook her sense of trust and safety
-Finding balance of compassion + anger + hurt, as an adult
-Manic depression brought on by postpartum hormones
-How her childhood experiences shaped her as a parent
-The role her therapist and psychiatrist play in her mental health journey (and when it's okay to break up with one and find a new one!)
... and so much more!
Connect with Eren:
Instagram: @goodmomshavebaddays
Website: https://www.goodmomshavebaddays.com/
Her Book: Good moms Have Bad Days: Understanding Postpartum Mood Disorder
Links
Instagram: @yepigototherapy
Website: Sun Counseling and Wellness
Our worth has nothing to do with our body weight, size, or shape. And yet, we humans are constantly renegotiating our relationships with food, exercise, and our bodies as many of us fall into the trap of shaming, blaming, or hating our bodies. This episode explores what we mean by our "relationship" with these things!
Ashley Moser joins me in this rich discussion. She is a licensed marriage and family therapist and a certified eating disorder specialist. She works with the Renfrew Center of Charlotte, an eating disorder treatment center - the sponsors of this episode!
Tune in to hear us chat about:
…and so much more!
Links
Instagram: @yepigototherapy
Website: Sun Counseling and Wellness
To learn more about the Renfrew center for eating disorders or to schedule an assessment visit: https://renfrewcenter.com/ or call 1- 800 RENFREW.
It happens in a lot of therapy sessions: You're talking about your thoughts and feelings while the therapist listening to you scribbles down their own, private notes that you're not invited to see. Do you ever wonder what it is we're writing down?!
In this episode, I answer questions you all have submitted, including what we're writing, how we remember details about all of our client's stories, & what we do between sessions. I also talk a bit about what it means for us to conceptualize a client's case and what stages of change are. I hope this makes the process a little less mysterious and more approachable!
Keep the questions coming!
Links:
Instagram: @yepigototherapy
Website: Sun Counseling and Wellness
CW: suicide, physical abuse, emotional abuse
Jenna Banks is an author, an entrepreneur, a speaker, a podcaster, and a self-love advocate. She is on a mission to help women embrace loving themselves more to find real happiness and attain their fullest potential without giving away their power
In a nutshell, we chat about:
And so much more…!
Jenna’s Book: I Love Me More: How to Find Happiness and Success through Self-Love
Connect with Juliet:
Instagram: @yepigototherapy
Website: Sun Counseling and Wellness
In today's episode, I talk with Colleen Odegaard for a follow-up episode. Colleen was on TV for years and is currently a life coach and the host of the Wake Up To Your Life podcast. As you know from our first conversation, Colleen is very open about anxiety, Tourettes syndrome, and body image concerns. Colleen approaches our conversation in this follow-up episode in a very vulnerable and honest way to discuss her divorce from her husband of 21 years and giving insight around her mental health during this journey.
We talk about the non-linear healing that is happening, distress tolerance skills, and the thing that brings Colleen the most shame. In this, we explore how to reframe this shame and shed that which doesn't belong to us. We hope you leave with helpful ideas about the difference between guilt and shame, new coping strategies, and the role others can play in our healing.
Links
Check out Colleen's podcast: Wake Up To Your Life
Instagram: @yepigototherapy
Website: Sun Counseling and Wellness
CW/TW: mass shooting
In this episode, I talk to Sam Abbott, a registered dietitian who specializes in working with clients who struggle with Polycystic Ovary Syndrome (PCOS). Sam is passionate about helping individuals take a non-diet approach to nutrition and improving their symptoms without hating their bodies.
Sam shares about her own mental health journey and traumas she has endured, including losing her father at a young age, divorce, and witnessing the 2007 shooting at Virginia Tech.
In a nutshell, we chat about...
and so much more…!
Links
Find Sam Abbott on Instagram, PCOS.Nutritionist
Instagram: @yepigototherapy
Website: Sun Counseling and Wellness
In this episode, I speak to Chayil Johnson, a Chef de Cuisine and an educator at Community Matters Cafe in uptown Charlotte, NC. Born and raised in New Orleans, Chayil, one of 6 siblings, was great at baseball and music. But, as an over-thinker and perfectionist, he frequently suffered from anxiety. He began cooking at age 12, thanks to a program by Emeril Lagasse, and finally found solace.
In a nutshell, we chat about…
… and so much more…!
Links
Check out Chef Chayil on Instagram
Instagram: @yepigototherapy
Website: Sun Counseling and Wellness
Community Matters Cafe
Embodied writing seeks to reveal raw and tender connections from the most powerful places where writing comes from. It is a form of beautiful, heartfelt, and open-ended writing.
In this episode, I speak to Shana Hartman, an embodied writing coach and former English professor. She enjoys spotting unique messages shared by business owners and leaders and helping them express themselves through words. Shana is glad to have found writing as a place to express - and space to process - the things she could not say out loud.
In a nutshell, we speak about…
...and so much more!
Instagram: @yepigototherapy
Website: Sun Counseling and Wellness
CW: domestic violence, sexual abuse, physical abuse, emotional abuse, spiritual abuse, suicidality, postpartum depression
Mariah Oller is a Cell Biologist turned Oracle that commonly answers questions regarding people’s life, love, and business ventures. She is the founder of Harvest and Moon and recently published her first Tarot Deck, The Tarot of Life.
Mariah joins me in deep vulnerability by soulfully sharing her story. We dive into her history of trauma and attachment wounds and there is so much to be learned about anger & forgiveness, birth order and parentification, religious deconstruction, perfectionism, avoidance, resiliency, and healing in this episode.
In this episode, we talk about:
… and so much more!
Instagram: @yepigototherapy
Website: Sun Counseling and Wellness
Domestic Violence Hotline: 800.799.SAFE (7233)
“Dating yourself” is an act of self-love and it’s beyond self-care. It's getting reacquainted with yourself in order to deeply connect not just with yourself, but also to be able to forge connections with others.
In this episode, I speak to Aliya Saulson, a therapist at Southeast Psych.
Aliya shares her raw and tender story of heartbreak, her role in the relationship, what avoidance teaches us, and how she showed up for herself through the healing process. She even shares with us one of her private journal entries! Tune in for tips on how you can date yourself this week and beyond
In a nutshell, we speak about:
… and so much more!
Instagram: @yepigototherapy
Website: Sun Counseling and Wellness
Shame, regret, pressure, breakTHROUGHS, forgiveness, rising. This episode is such a good one!!! I speak to Nesha Pai of Charlotte, NC. Sitting in front of a male boss who refused to give her a raise because she had a gap in her resume from being a stay-at-home mom for six years, she decided to take a leap of faith (and her largest client) and strike out on her own.
She started Pai CPA, an accounting firm serving small and medium-sized businesses, in 2011. And she promised herself to hire and mentor stay-at-home moms and other women trying to re-enter the business world. Her book, “Overcoming Ordinary Obstacles,” details her journey of overcoming racism, sexism, and other trials and tribulations as a first-generation Indian American business owner.
In this episode, we talk about:
... and so much more!
Instagram: @yepigototherapy
Website: Sun Counseling and Wellness
Finding our inner truths and letting go of other people's expectations is really hard to do. TV host, Mia Atkins, joins us again on the show and shares about major changes that have happened in her life since our first conversation several months ago.
Having struggled with pretty severe anxiety and depression, Mia says it took her a while to truly pinpoint why. Now that she’s gone through such a massive change in who she is, how she identifies, and how she’s living her life, she feels the most at peace she ever has. Tune in to learn from Mia's experience in ending her engagement to a man and coming out as lesbian. There's something in it for all of us around finding permission to show up as our true selves.
Instagram: @yepigototherapy Website: Sun Counseling and WellnessPFLAG
Welcome to season 2 of the show! We're excited to be back! This season will consist of one-off therapist banter episodes + continued conversations with people you (want to) know.
How do you feel and what do you think when other people cry? What about with your own tears? In this episode, I help us explore what we've learned about tears and what the "point" of crying even is.
I also discuss reasons a therapist might cry in session with a client and how that might feel for the client (weird?! relatable?!). What does it mean for a therapist to have countertransference or transference in session and how do we therapists show up as humans with healthy boundaries? Therapy is an art. Listen to learn more!
Links:
@yepigototherapy
CW: eating disorders
Dr. Jillian Lampert is a Registered Dietitian, a Professor, and the Chief Strategy Officer at The Emily Program, a treatment program for those struggling with eating disorders. Dr. Lampert is also the Co-founder and President of the Residential Eating Disorders Consortium and the Treasurer of the Eating Disorders Coalition. She is the author of numerous book chapters and articles addressing nutritional treatment of body image, eating disorders, sports participation, adolescent health, and disordered eating and she regularly speaks regionally and nationally on numerous eating disorder-related topics.
Jillian shares about her own journey with an eating disorder and her passion for educating others about eating disorders. s
Tune in to learn more about:
… and so much more!
Links:
yepigototherapy https://www.allianceforeatingdisorders.com/
I am joined by Elle Walsh, a chalk artist and long-time creative. Elle is on a mission to inspire and educate through what she creates as she scours nature, the news, and history for inspiration for her art.
We talk about how COVID affected Elle and her family specific to symptoms, why she’s a self-diagnosed long hauler, and how it all impacts her mental health.
We highlight the need to practice acceptance and self-care and the importance of setting boundaries and seeing losses of relationships during this pandemic through the lens of grief.
Links:
IG: @yepigototherapy and @cltchalkart
Vernisha Crawford is an entrepreneur who has overcome many obstacles. She has turned every challenge into an opportunity. Earning a Bachelor’s Degree in Sociology, a Master’s Degree in Leadership, and currently pursuing her PhD in Industrial and Organizational Psychology, Vernisha has found passion in helping others navigate life. Through her organization, Bringing You Excellence (BYE), Vernisha specializes in educating the community on systems change, trauma, mental health, resilience, and entrepreneurship.
In this episode, Vernisha and I talk about:
The mindset shift that happens when one is trauma-informed.
The fundamentals of trauma.
How Vernisha uses different identities to determine how she is going to help people.
Why setting boundaries is important.
Adapting to changes without sabotaging other parts of yourself.
Vernisha’s huge turning point.
The best part of self-care and how to incorporate it into your day-to-day.
The power of affirmations on someone that has experienced trauma.
… and so much more!
Therapy highlight: What are affirmations and do they really work?
Links:
Check out BYE: https://www.byellc.org/
Instagram: yepigototherapy and vernishaceo
Abbigail Glen’s plan was to start saving to open her own bookstore once she got out of debt. She resigned from her job as an HR professional to do just that, though it looked different than she imagined! We talk about how her pop-up bookstore came to be and what it has been like to be flexible in entrepreneurship. Abbi shares with us how her business fits in the context of her mental health journey.
We explore how reading and writing can be mental escapes and contribute to one's emotional wellness. Not only is the bookstore on a quest to provide its supporters with great books; but also create amazing lifestyle products made exclusively with readers, writers, and dreamers in mind. These are all great for coping with anxiety and depression!
Therapy highlight: What does happiness really mean? How do we find fulfillment in emotional wellness, psychological flexibility, and social and emotional skills?
Links:
https://shelvesbookstore.comhttps://suncounselingandwellness.com Instagram: yepigototherapy and shelvesbookstore
TW: sexual assault/rape
Today’s episode is a special one. First, because there is no guest and second, because it’s unscripted! Tune in to listen to my own story of trauma, the story behind my new tattoo, and about my personal relationship with Maya Angelou.
I hope this episode inspires you and reminds you that there is no shame in seeking help or going to therapy. I hope that you will reach out for support in regards to your big T and your little t traumas and everything in between...because you're not alone.
Links:
https://suncounselingandwellness.com
Instagram: yepigototherapy
People are pretty darn amazing and too often don’t recognize their own greatness. Lisa Dimino White is on a mission to change that. With over 20 years of experience in marketing, communications, and event management, Lisa now focuses on her passion — inspiring others to actively seek out and create more joy for themselves, their communities, and all of humankind. She does this through her speaking engagements, coaching programs, her recently released book Bursting with Happiness, and Bursting with Happiness: The Podcast.
Also known as The Joy Seeker, @lisadiminowhite joins us on the show to speak about accessing joy and how to meet ourselves right where we are when struggles make it difficult . She also highlights how introducing small bursts of joy into your life can help you to overcome potentially life-limiting and crippling fear. No matter what challenges you're faced with, there's always joy to be found - if you know where to look.
Therapy highlight: What is OCD? How not to let extreme cycles of obsessions and compulsions consume one's way of living or get in the way of one's values
Links:
Sun Counseling and Wellness
https://thejoyseeker.com
Instagram: yepigototherapy and lisadiminowhite
CW: loss of a child
Rachel Vindman has become a political activist. She co-hosts The Suburban Women Problem podcast by Red Wine and Blue. Oh, and her husband, Ret. Lt. Colonel Alexander Vindman, is the one who testified at Trump’s first impeachment hearing about what he heard in the call with the Ukrainian President. Rachel shares how her husband’s actions changed his career path and continues to cause scrutiny in their lives.
Rachel talks with us about the good, the bad, and the surprisingly wonderful things that happen with this kind of spotlight. We learn more - beyond the sensationalized facts - about what it truly FELT like to endure this. She talks about how deep grief and loss provides perspective and continues to set the tone for how she lives each day.
She credits the American people for propelling her willingness to show up just as she is, particularly over the last couple years. It’s a testament to staying true to one’s values and convictions no matter the cost or who you’re up against. You’ll be inspired by her honesty, fortitude, and positivity.
Therapy highlight: What is a trauma response? What to do when an emotional expression is incongruent from the actual feeling.
Links:
Sun Counseling and Wellness
Instagram: yepigototherapy
The Suburban Women Problem
Here, RIght Matters
Lauren Martin is the writer behind the popular Instagram account, Words of Women, which is dedicated to the growth and development of women. She also wrote a book called The Book of Moods in which she embraces vulnerability and provides observations into her own path to emotional wellness.
We talk about finding the right therapist, the validity of feelings, and finding ways to deal with changing moods. We also talk about yearning for more honesty around the loss of female friendships and the power of putting ourselves out there even if it brings discomfort.
Therapy highlight: Understanding emotions as data and more discussion on the grief of friendship loss.
Links:
Instagram: yepigototherapy and whoyoucallincrazypodcast and words_of_women
Sun Counseling and Wellness
Words of Women
Dr. Jasmine Clark is an epidemiologist, Lecturer of Microbiology and Human A&P at Emory University School of Nursing and she's the Representative of the GA State House of Representatives in House District 108. She also co-hosts The Suburban Women Problem podcast by Red Wine & Blue. She's truly leaving her mark on the world!!!
We talk about her learning to not internalize things and act like everything is okay as she leaned in to gaining clarity and owning the struggle! Dr. Clark uses one of my favorite analogies I've ever heard for her WHY behind starting therapy. We talk about the intersections of race & gender and the value of having a scientist as part of policy making, being okay with questioning things, and continually making space to care for herself amidst grief, incongruence, and being so busy.
Crazy question time includes our shared love for karaoke and Maya Angelou!
Therapy highlight: using busy-ness as a coping strategy and avoidance and encouragement for learning how to just BE.
I'm so appreciative of Michelle’s candidness and insight into her own mental health and specifically that of a journalist, particularly over the past two years. There might’ve been a few double entendres that contributed to our lovely and lively discussion around how someone who literally cannot turn off social media or the news (because it’s her JOB!) cares for themselves in a pandemic.
There are some great reminders for us all that sometimes it’s okay to not be okay and to just be “hanging in” or seek some escapism.
And we most definitely do not talk about dating in a pandemic 😉
This episode originally aired as an IGTVLive on March 16, 2021.
Therapy highlight: why do we need rest? what are some tips for better sleep and good sleep hygiene?
Links:
Instagram: yepigototherapy and whoyoucallincrazypodcast
Sun Counseling and Wellness
WCNC Michelle Boudin
CW: substance use, addiction
Sam has worked in many restaurants, has beaten Bobby Flay, now owns a meal delivery business, and he is the personal chef for the Carolina Panthers' running back, Christian McCaffrey. Whew! Along with his passion for cooking, he is also very open about substance use.
Sam talks about not being able to outrun his addiction until he learned to surrender. We'll learn what he means by each time he went to rehab he was "humbled, but without humility." He talks about what he saw on the streets and being faced with life or death decisions.
Therapy highlight: What does it mean to surrender and let go? Does it mean giving up? How do I do this?
Links:
Instagram: yepigototherapy and whoyoucallincrazypodcast and chefsamdiminich
Sun Counseling and Wellness
Your Farms Your Table
CW: domestic violence
Brittney tells us her story about being a survivor of domestic violence and shares what it was like when she decided to come forward with her story. We also talk entrepreneurship and learning from failure. Her journey to healing has also included working through issues with body image and self-esteem.
And of course we talk about being the daughter of former NBA player, Muggsy Bogues, and how being recognized impacts mental health and self worth.
Therapy highlight: I discuss types of abuse, warning signs, and how to help someone who might be a victim.
Links:
Instagram: @yepigototherapy and @whoyoucallincrazypodcast
Website: Sun Counseling and Wellness
Bogues Group
Domestic Violence Support
CW: substance abuse, overdose
Don't you want to know how Chef Jamie Lynch got started in the industry (even when he was a picky eater as a kid!) and how he handled the pressure of being on Top Chef?! He gives us lots of insight into this and thoughts on cooking being tied to self worth.
Jamie talks with us about being an angsty youth, not learning to communicate about his feelings, and toxic masculinity (in a household of 3 boys)! We talk about his strained relationship with his mom until recent years. You'll be inspired by his openness about the beauty of having honest dialogue as an adult to help with context and healing.
Crazy question time includes revealing the meanings behind some of his tattoos and sharing what restaurant he'd love to go and with whom!
Therapy highlight: anger as primary/secondary emotion, when a pattern of anger shows up particularly for a kid, & how to increase our emotional intelligence.
Links:
Sun Counseling and Wellness
Instagram: yepigototherapy and whoyoucallincrazypodcast
Chef Jamie Lynch
5 Street Group
Juliet and Brooklyn talk about the ongoing journey around mental health and how to not feel like we're failing at self-care. We explore how to know who offers you the space to expand in this world and how to find your people! Brooklyn talks about what it's like to be a part of the fashion industry and how she found her voice. We also explore body image and self image.
And then we may or may not geek out over our shared unapologetic adoration for Dave Matthews Band.
Therapy highlight: I discuss more about how to talk to ourselves and our children about body image. Also, I talk about how to connect to your inner wisdom.
Links:
Instagram: @yepigototherapy and @whoyoucallincrazypodcast
Website: Sun Counseling and Wellness
Follow Brooklyn: @brooklyndecker
Sponsors:
Blooming Smiles Pediatric Dentistry
Eating Recovery Cente
Pathlight
Bradley and Juliet talk about the leap for him from their small North Carolina hometown to New York City as a professional actor. We talk about his being a Black and Queer boy raised in the Mormon faith and the journey to find his place.
Bradley opens up about how he is now letting himself truly be seen as we talk about how to get out of our own way and recognize when things are so much bigger than us.
From waffle fries in the South to being Simba on The Lion King, there is so much good dialogue in this episode. Grateful for Bradley's openness about therapy, coping, and focusing on mental wellness.
Therapy highlight: I talk about what code-switching is and the toll it takes on people of color.
Instagram: @yepigototherapy and @whoyoucallincrazypodcast
Website: Sun Counseling and Wellness
Follow Bradley: @bradgibson13
Molly has been a media journalist and behind the news desk for a long time. We talk about how anchors and journalists have navigated the past several years in particular and the impact it has had on mental health.
Molly talks about how aging is a gift and shares how she's still exploring her grief journey after losing both of her parents to cancer.
We also discuss the wild story her family endured as her baby was the youngest person diagnosed with COVID in Mecklenburg County...what a journey.
Therapy highlight: I dive into more specifics around grief, differentiating between normal and complicated grief, and learning how to carry it differently.
More Information and Resources:Instagram: @whoyoucallincrazypodcast and @yepigototherapy
Website: Sun Counseling and Wellness
Molly's Website: https://www.mollygrantham.com
Julie and I talk about her "why" behind her pull to serve and root for all humans. We talk about intersections of race, sexuality, and her passion around humans relating to one another. She talks candidly about the bully of internalized oppression that she was able to replace with self-love and the ability to truly see herself in her Blackness. Julie shares her experience with therapy and coaching and the benefit it continues to have in her own life.
We also learn more about Julie's sweet love story with her husband as she shares quite possibly the sweetest sentiment said to a partner ever!
And, I ask Julie what she'd tell her younger parenting self.
Therapy highlight is folded into the end of our conversation around "repatterning" and apologizing!
More Information and Resources:Instagram: @whoyoucallincrazypodcast
Website: Sun Counseling and Wellness
Julie's site: https://www.julielythcotthaims.com
Julie's books: https://www.julielythcotthaims.com/your-turn
Whitley, of The Queen City Style, shares about insecurities that occur amidst all of the curated images and fancy clothes! We talk about the art of styling clothes and encouraging people to meet themselves where they are. This matters because our self-image is constantly shifting and we tend to be our own worst critics!
Therapy highlight: self-expression
Episode originally aired 12/8/2020More Information and Resources:Instagram: @whoyoucallincrazypodcast
Website: Sun Counseling and Wellness
Whitley: http://whitleyadkins.com/
Desi, who has played several roles on Broadway and in National Tours (including Jenna in Waitress and Roxie Hart in Chicago), talks about how she found incredible growth while her industry was shut down during the pandemic.
She opens up about her father's suicide when she was 19 and how the lines have sometimes been blurred for her between performance and making choices that serve the self she has come to love.
I so appreciate our dialogue about her shifting relationship with anxiety and learning to dismantle urgency. We share many practical tips for increasing mindfulness and mind/body awareness! I also ask her what role as an actress has been the most emotional and we are all better for hearing her courageous response.
Therapy Highlight: How to discern our personal values and allow them to guide us!
More Information and Resources:Instagram: @whoyoucallincrazypodcast
Website: Sun Counseling and Wellness
Follow Desi Oakley on Instagram: @desioakley
Waitress the Musical: https://waitressthemusical.com
Values Clarification: https://zonbx58qza-flywheel.netdna-ssl.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/LYSp11.jpg
Suicide Helpline: https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org
Charlitta Hatch founded the Me 3 Project which aims to change the narrative of young black boys in America through positive images, expressive stories, and deliberate advocacy. Her books include Black Boy Joy which she decided to write when she had her son and recognized how media is severely lacking representation.
Charlitta opens up about her own struggles with anxiety, postpartum anxiety, seeking out therapy, & prioritizing self. She discusses the narrative we tend to have in our society about black mothers and black sons and the work she’s doing (and that we can ALL do) to rewrite that.
Therapy highlight: defining anxiety and panic attacks; practical skills for coping with panic attacks .
Originally aired January 5, 2021
More Information and Resources:Instagram: @whoyoucallincrazypodcast
Website: Sun Counseling and Wellness
Me3Project: https://www.me3project.com
This is a unique episode during which a guest shares her personal story around alcohol use and her journey into recovery and sobriety. I then speak with two experts in the substance use and addiction arena. They talk with us about the rise of alcohol use, what makes it so hard to make that first call for help, and how to support someone who might be struggling.
More Information and Resources:Instagram: @whoyoucallincrazypodcast
Website: Sun Counseling and Wellness
SAMHSA: https://www.samhsa.gov/find-help/national-helpline
AA: https://www.aa.org
Anuvia: www.anuvia.org
Meck ABC: https://www.meckabc.com
Ian gets candid and talks about what it's like to work and make music with his two siblings. We talk about depression and how he's used therapy in his life.
He shares great insights into the definition of success and into the vulnerability of songwriting and how authenticity remains at the core of what he does on and off the stage.
Trigger warning: some discussion of suicide.
Therapy highlight: I share practical techniques you can learn to unhook from unhelpful thoughts
More Information and Resources:Instagram: @whoyoucallincrazypodcast
Website: Sun Counseling and Wellness
Delta Rae: https://www.deltarae.com
Matt is a speaker, writer, and creativity consultant who played the keys in his band that opened for REO Speedwagon and began his career producing award-winning professional theater on Broadway.
He brings this passion and energy to our discussion around the creative brain and spoiler alert how we can ALL tap into our creativity (it's true- embrace it!). We also talk about unlearning toxic masculinity and the beauty of being vulnerable.
Therapy highlight: defining vulnerability (and gender stereotypes!) and an encouragement to do something creative this week!
More Information and Resources:Instagram: @whoyoucallincrazypodcast
Website: Sun Counseling and Wellness
Find Matt here: https://mattolincreative.com/about
Charlotte is Creative: https://charlotteiscreative.com/
Brene Brown's Vulnerability Ted Talk: https://www.ted.com/talks/brene_brown_the_power_of_vulnerability
Oh, this is anxiety?! TV Lifestyle reporter and host, Mia Atkins, talks about learning to name this in her own life. She discusses having multiple turning points because she's intentional about which version of herself shows up.
She also shares about her relationship with her fiancé, Olympic gymnast Sam Mikulak, and how they navigate different coping and communication styles to stay connected, especially while long-distance.
Therapy highlight: the impact of both positive and negative stress and the benefits of guided imagery.
More Information and Resources:Instagram: @whoyoucallincrazypodcast
Website: Sun Counseling and Wellness
Follow Mia on Instagram @miaatiknstv
I know y'all think those TV personalities with their polished makeup and their cute outfits are just out there living their best lives! Maybe so, maybe not. Colleen quit her TV career of several decades to become a certified life coach and media coach and she is rocking it, y'all!
It is so refreshing to chat with her in this episode about what harmful coping strategies she's used in her life to deal with anxiety and Tourette's syndrome and what our wounded younger selves might need to hear as we continue to step into our authenticity. We also hope we help you hear how your mental health struggles can actually be a superpower!
Episode originally aired 2/2/2021More Information and Resources:Instagram: @whoyoucallincrazypodcast
Website: Sun Counseling and Wellness
Check out Colleen's podcast and media coaching: https://wakeuptoyourlife.net
A minister joins Juliet to discuss, very candidly, the intersection of faith and mental health. Katherine acknowledges the distrust in the church that some people with mental illness experience.
She shares her own journey with depression, the nuances of being a female minister, and answers questions about spirituality vs. religion. People with no faith or of different faiths should find this conversation interesting and intriguing.
Therapy highlight: what depression does/doesn't look like
More Information and Resources:Instagram: @whoyoucallincrazypodcast
Website: Sun Counseling and Wellness
Who gets a blister from rage vacuuming? Your girl Melissa does if she's not paying attention to her warning signs of when the burnout is coming! We dive deep into feeling like an imposter and not letting compliments go to waste because there is enough sunshine.
She shares her 'why' behind several of her art collections (GIRL POWER) and how she gives herself permission by showing up wherever she finds joy, whether it's painting, designing, or hyping a friend.
Therapy highlight: imposter syndrome and personal values
Episode originally aired 2/9/2021More Information and Resources:Instagram: @whoyoucallincrazypodcast
Website: Sun Counseling and Wellness
Check out Melissa's art: https://www.mherriottart.com
Do you think all wine people are snobs? No, they can also be lovable nerds! Josh has been in the food and wine industry for basically forever and talks with us about what it was like being a small business owner in the pandemic, claiming our strengths, and Juliet also gives you a challenge for the next time you receive a compliment. It might make you uncomfortable!
Episode originally aired 12/15/2021More Information and Resources:Instagram: @whoyoucallincrazypodcast
Website: Sun Counseling and Wellness
Check out Assorted Table Wine Shoppe: https://assortedtablewine.com
Ever heard the term "high functioning anxiety?" Ever said the rote "I'm fine" when you didn't really mean it? Hey, us too.
Listen to my conversation with Heather of Heather Opal Art as we talk about her moment of waking up to her precious life and the conscious daily decision to care for herself by...wearing socks?
Therapy highlight: anxiety and the physical somatization of emotions
Episode originally aired on 4/13/2021More Information and Resources:Instagram: @whoyoucallincrazypodcast
Website: Sun Counseling and Wellness
Check out Heather: https://www.heatheropal.com
She's an author, educator, and self-care expert and you will want to soak up all of her wisdom! Join me and Rosie as we talk about her learning much of this the hard way...
...through her experience of reaching burnout. The good news is that she found her own self worth and she's on a mission to help you find your own beautiful YOU, too!
Therapy highlight: coping skills and self care
Episode originally aired 3/30/2021More Information and Resources:Instagram: @whoyoucallincrazypodcast
Website: Sun Counseling and Wellness
Check out Rosie: http://rosiemolinary.com
PULL UP as my girl Ohavia Phillips will tell you!! Pull up to hear us chat about her journey through trauma as a child of domestic violence.
She owns the healing that continues for her as she chooses to find her peace. The energy is contagious in this one, ya'll, and you'll finish the episode wanting to love on your people!!
Therapy highlight: survivors guilt and grief
More Information and Resources:Instagram: @whoyoucallincrazypodcast
Website: Sun Counseling and Wellness
Check out Ohavia's show: www.youtube.com/TheOhShow
Are you curious about how top chefs navigate the pressures of a successful kitchen? Have you heard of the stereotype around restaurant workers using unhealthy coping skills? Have you ever felt lonely amidst a crowd?
Join me and Chef Alyssa Wilen as we talk about all of this and the skills related to assertiveness, confidence, and acting how we want to feel.
Episode originally aired 12/1/2020More Information and Resources:Instagram: @whoyoucallincrazypodcast
Website: Sun Counseling and Wellness
Check out Chef Alyssa's Kitchen: https://chefalyssaskitchen.com
16 seasons in the NFL, 1 Super Bowl ring, a successful broadcasting career as a color analyst and TV host and guess what...still a human! Hear my conversation with Eugene Robinson as he discusses the journey to forgiveness he had to take due to childhood trauma.
He also shares a story about a memorable play with Bo Jackson that is cringy to hear, but was a turning point for him personally! It will hype you up and make you recognize your own resilience!
Episode originally aired 3/2/2021More Information and Resources:Instagram: @whoyoucallincrazypodcast
Website: Sun Counseling and Wellness
Check out Eugene on Charlotte Today
Resources: National Association for Children of Addiction