Get Divorced Without Getting Screwed: Recent Episodes
Divorce Shield
This is a podcast for MEN who are thinking about divorce, in the middle of a divorce, or are recovering from divorce. You will get advice from experts and hear inspirational stories of men who have survived divorce. Learn more at www.mensdivorcenetwork.com
Are you ready to transform your life and rise above the chaos of divorce? This episode is an essential listen for anyone navigating the turbulent waters of family transitions. We are thrilled to introduce Kimberley Mansfield, a distinguished divorce and family law attorney who stepped away from the courtroom to focus on coaching individuals through divorce and custody disputes. Kimberley is renowned for her ability to turn desperation and overwhelm into competence and confidence, guiding her clients to not only survive but thrive during and after divorce.
Kimberley's approach is rooted in her belief that family transitions offer a unique opportunity to upgrade one's life. Her clients often describe her as a game-changer who sees what others don't and says what others won't. With a wealth of experience earned in the trenches, Kimberley's mission is to shorten the learning curve for others, helping them exceed their own expectations and create a fulfilling future.
In this episode, we discuss:✅ Kimberley’s transition from a successful trial attorney to a dedicated divorce coach✅ Why having a coach is crucial during a divorce✅ Tips on how to be an effective client for your attorney✅ The importance of managing your emotions during divorce✅ How Kimberley shifts her clients' mindsets for success✅ Why the divorce custody process is a prime opportunity to upgrade your life ✅ How positive self-talk can lead to a more favorable outcome✅ Peaceful divorce practices✅ The best point during your divorce to involve a coach for maximum benefit✅ How your approach to divorce can significantly influence your children's well-being✅ Why working with a divorce coach can save you money✅ And much more!To learn more about Kimberley and her services, visit https://www.skilledclarity.com/
Follow Kimberley on Instagram: @SkilledClarityEsq https://www.instagram.com/skilledclarityesq
Connect with Kimberley on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/VALKimberleyMansfieldStay tuned for more empowering conversations!
Are you or someone you love struggling with substance abuse, sex addiction, or betrayal trauma? If so, this episode is an essential listen. We’re honored to have Bailey Heuser, a licensed professional counselor with over a decade of experience in the mental health and addiction fields, join us for an eye-opening conversation. Bailey’s extensive work with military populations and her expertise in dealing with chemical dependencies, intimacy disorders, and PTSD trauma provide invaluable insights into these complex issues that can deeply impact relationships.
Addictions can silently erode the foundations of relationships, often leaving partners and families in turmoil. In this powerful episode, Bailey shares her profound knowledge and experience, offering hope and guidance for those affected by these struggles. Her compassionate approach to understanding and treating addiction will not only shed light on these often misunderstood issues but also provide a roadmap to healing and recovery.
In this episode, we discuss:✅ Bailey's background and career trajectory✅ A clear understanding of what constitutes an addiction✅ The professional assessment process to determine the severity of addiction✅ Understanding sex addiction✅ Identifying the signs that indicate when someone needs help with an addiction✅ The connection between sex addiction and past trauma or abuse✅ Why addiction is referred to as a family disease✅ The impact of addiction on family dynamics and relationships✅ Pornography addiction and its effects on the brain and body✅ When and where to find professional help✅ How to support children of addicts✅ A message of hope from Bailey
To contact Bailey, email her at wildcidepodcast@gmail.comCheck out Bailey's true crime podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/wildcide/id1721815484
Take the Sexual Addiction Screening Test (SAST) by Dr. Patrick Carnes here:https://www.drpatrickcarnes.com/am-i-a-sex-addict
Find a professional who can help you at the International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals: https://iitap.com/Stay tuned for more empowering conversations!
Are you struggling to find your footing after a divorce, feeling lost, and unsure about your next steps? This episode is your beacon of hope and guidance. We’re excited to welcome Cody Jones, an inspiring entrepreneur, fitness advocate, personal growth enthusiast, and host of the Pure Wisdom Podcast. Cody’s journey from a painful period in his mid-twenties to becoming a symbol of resilience and self-improvement is nothing short of motivational.
At 25, Cody faced a life-altering situation that tested his very identity. It was in this crucible of hardship that he discovered a profound truth: no one can be there for you in the way you can be there for yourself. Understanding this, Cody embraced the challenge of personal growth, fitness, and self-development, realizing that a strong mindset and a healthy body are the pillars of a fulfilling life.
In this riveting episode, Cody shares his insights on how to reestablish your identity after a divorce and face the next chapter of your life with bravery and confidence. Whether you’re newly divorced or have been struggling for a while, Cody’s wisdom will guide you toward reclaiming your sense of self and building a brighter future.
In this episode, we discuss:✅ Cody's background and journey
✅ The importance of identity
✅ Steps to take when you’re beginning to rebuild your identity post-divorce
✅ The intersection of fitness and personal development
✅ How to figure out your true self
✅ What it means to be a fit and healthy person
✅ The resources Cody recommends for anyone on a journey of self-improvement
✅ Maintaining your identity in new relationships
✅ And much more!To check out the Pure Wisdom Podcast, go to https://tr.ee/oFvSXM6Yzl
Follow Cody on Instagram: @cjones803 https://www.instagram.com/cjones803/
Connect with Cody on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100066941453725&mibextid=ZbWKwL
Check out Cody's content: https://linktr.ee/cjones803Stay tuned for more empowering conversations!
Are you feeling stuck in old relationship patterns, struggling to find your way after a divorce, or simply looking for ways to improve your most important relationships? This episode is for you. We’re thrilled to welcome Paige Dempsey, a certified Life and Relationship Coach whose life-changing journey from hardship to healing offers hope and essential advice for anyone seeking to live their best life. Paige’s story is one of incredible resilience. Imagine going through a painful divorce, losing your best friend to cancer, and making a bold career shift to self-employment—all within two years. These life-altering events could have been overwhelming, but Paige found a path to not just survive, but thrive, through the power of personal coaching. Now, she's on a mission to help others transform their lives and relationships, just as she did. In this episode, you'll gain a deeper understanding of how to break free from the patterns that no longer serve you, and how to start creating relationships that truly enrich your life. This conversation will inspire you to take proactive steps toward your personal growth and happiness.In this episode, we discuss:
✅ Paige's journey to coaching
✅ The differences between traditional therapy and coaching
✅ How combining both therapy and coaching can be particularly beneficial
✅ The importance of self-reflection after the end of a relationship
✅ Why it's hard for men to seek professional help and how to start
✅ How coaching can transform every area of your life
✅ Why you need to invest in your personal growth
✅ Finding the right coach or therapist for your unique needs
✅ How to break free from old patterns and cultivate healthier relationships
✅ And much more!
To learn more about Paige, go to https://www.paigedempseycoaching.com/
Follow Paige on Instagram: @relationshipcoach_paige https://www.instagram.com/relationshipcoach_paige/
Find Paige on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/paigedempseycoaching/
Connect with Paige on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paigemdempsey
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Are you ready to discover a life-changing method to recover from divorce and reclaim your happiness? This episode introduces you to the transformative power of breathwork, an alternative therapy that's revolutionizing emotional healing. Join us as we delve into the world of transformational breathwork with our expert guest, Teresa Trieb. Teresa is a somatic breath therapist who has conquered her own panic attacks, anxiety, and depression through breathwork. She now helps others access their subconscious mind, release trapped emotions, and rewire their brains. Tune in and learn how just breathing can be a game-changer in your healing journey. Whether you're recovering from a divorce or seeking a new path to emotional well-being, this episode offers you an opportunity to breathe your way to a better life.
In this episode, we discuss:
✅ How Teresa discovered breathwork and how it transformed her life
✅ Breathwork as a powerful alternative to traditional talk therapy
✅ The unique benefits of transformational breathwork therapy
✅ What a transformational breathwork session involves
✅ Physical responses to expect
✅ The process of emotional release through breathwork and how it can change your life
✅ Entering the hyperventilation state
✅ How transformational breathwork can help you heal from heartbreak and divorce
✅ Targeted healing
✅ The immediate benefits and gratification clients experience after one session
Use the code NETSQUIRE to get 20% off Teresa's 1:1 sessions: https://www.shebreath.com/offers/Ehe7cA42?coupon_code=NETSQUIRE
You can contact Teresa through her website: https://www.shebreath.com/
Follow Teresa on Instagram: @shebreath_official https://www.instagram.com/shebreath_official
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Sick of reliving the same old relationship scenarios? Wondering why you keep attracting the wrong partners? Buckle up because we've got Stephanie McPhail, a toxic relationship recovery expert and certified crisis counselor, here to spill the beans on spotting red flags and attracting your ideal match. From her own experiences with toxic relationships to her journey to finding true happiness, Stephanie's got the inside scoop on what it takes to bounce back from heartbreak and find the right person for you. She guides us through the process of spotting red flags, reinventing ourselves, and shedding the layers of past trauma to emerge as our most authentic selves. In this episode, we cover a wide range of topics aimed at empowering men to break free from harmful patterns and find happiness once again. So sit back, relax, and get ready to take notes – because when you work on yourself, love after divorce is yours for the taking!In this episode, we discuss:
✅ A glimpse into Stephanie’s past struggles and ultimate transformation✅ How to identify the warning signs of a toxic relationship✅ Determining if you're in a toxic partnership✅ Reinventing yourself after divorce✅ Self-reflection: the key to breaking free from harmful relationship patterns✅ Identifying the professionals who should be part of your recovery team✅ Spotting red and green flags✅ The secret to attracting the right people✅ Signs you're ready for a new, healthy relationship✅ And much more!
To learn more about Stephanie and her services, go to https://www.beinglovedshouldnthurt.com/
Join Stephanie’s Facebook group, Toxic Love Transformation: https://www.beinglovedshouldnthurt.com/join-facebook-group306105
Check out Stephanie’s podcast, Toxic Love Transformation: https://toxiclovepodcast.com/
Download Stephanie’s free guide to kickstart your healing journey: https://www.beinglovedshouldnthurt.com/kickstart-guide477690
Find all of her links listed here: https://www.beinglovedshouldnthurt.com/links
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Prepare to dive into a candid and empowering conversation with Melanie Verstraete, founder of The Wildheart Life and a renowned love and relationship expert. In this episode, we uncover the raw truths about toxic relationships and peel back the layers of societal stigmas and personal struggles to uncover the profound truth about self-worth and the path to genuine happiness within ourselves. Melanie's personal odyssey of healing and growth serves as a beacon of hope for those seeking liberation from detrimental relationship patterns. Join us as we explore the power of self-love and inner strength in the face of adversity, and learn how to reclaim your worth and embrace a life of authenticity and fulfillment. Whether you're seeking liberation from toxic patterns, trying to break free from past traumas, or navigating the aftermath of divorce, this episode promises to inspire and empower you to rewrite your own love story and guide you in your journey toward healing and self-discovery.
In this episode, we discuss:✅ What led Melanie into the world of love and relationship coaching
✅ Why people stay in unhealthy relationships
✅ Self-love: The key to breaking painful relationship patterns
✅ How to shed layers of self-doubt and rediscover your true self
✅ Recognizing and breaking free from toxic patterns
✅ The impact of childhood wounds on adult relationships
✅ Removing the stigma of divorce
✅ Modeling healthy relationships for our children
✅ Identifying the signs of a toxic relationship
✅ The importance of effective communication in relationships
✅ And much more!To learn more about Melanie and her services, go to https://www.thewildheartlife.com/
Connect with Melanie on Instagram: @iammelanieverstraete https://www.instagram.com/iammelanieverstraete/
Connect with Melanie on Facebook: @melanieverstraeteofficial https://www.facebook.com/melanieverstraeteofficial
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Get ready to dive into the fascinating world of healing and self-discovery as we explore Rapid Transformational Therapy (RTT) and past life regression with our special guest, Niomi Hurley, a human behavior specialist and clinical hypnotherapist. With a unique blend of psychological expertise and spiritual insight, Niomi empowers individuals to transcend traditional therapy and embrace holistic approaches to healing. In this episode, we'll uncover Niomi's professional journey, the dynamics of RTT and past life regression, and how these powerful modalities can aid in recovering from divorce and embracing new beginnings. Tune in for a captivating conversation and gain practical guidance on determining the best therapeutic approach for your individual needs. Whether you're seeking to release the past, heal emotional wounds, or discover new possibilities, this episode offers invaluable wisdom for your journey of transformation and personal growth.
In this episode, we discuss:✅ Niomi's personal and professional background✅ Getting back into the dating world after divorce✅ The principles and techniques of Rapid Transformational Therapy (RTT)✅ The effectiveness of RTT in anxiety, eating habits, and addictions✅ Hypnosis as a means to facilitate healing✅ Past life regression and its potential for healing and self-discovery✅ How these therapies help individuals detach from the past and embrace the future with confidence✅ How RTT and past life regression can complement each other✅ The Influence of personal beliefs and religious backgrounds on past life regression experiences✅ Choosing the right type of therapy for your individual needs✅ And so much more!
Learn more about Niomi and her practice at https://getupandgrowconsulting.com.au/
Connect with Niomi on her social media platforms:
Instagram: @get_up_and_grow https://www.instagram.com/get_up_and_grow/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Getupandgrow.com.au/
LinkedIn: https://au.linkedin.com/in/niomi-hurley-000b8356
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Men, have you ever wondered how to navigate the dating world with confidence and authenticity? Join us as we sit down with Dale Valor, the dating coach who's rewriting the playbook on finding love after divorce. In this episode, Dale shares his wealth of expertise and insights garnered from years of helping men across the globe cultivate better relationships with themselves to enhance their romantic connections with others. We delve into the complexities of learning how to flirt again, navigating the modern dating world, and finding a new fulfilling relationship. Whether you're navigating the aftermath of a divorce or seeking to enhance your romantic life, this conversation provides helpful guidance on building satisfying relationships and finding the love you deserve.
In this episode, we discuss:✅ Specific challenges men face when re-entering the dating scene post-divorce
✅ Repairing the relationship with oneself after a traumatic event like divorce
✅ How divorce can affect a man’s confidence
✅ The role of self-awareness and self-improvement in building healthy relationships
✅ Identifying and attracting your ideal partner
✅ Recognizing and breaking negative relationship patterns
✅ What women find attractive in men
✅ How to stand out in the dating pool
✅ Tips for successfully navigating dating apps
✅ Maintaining your independence and identity in a relationship
✅ Overcoming loneliness and taking proactive steps to build social connections
To connect with Dale, reach out to him on any of his social media platforms.
Instagram: @dalevalormodernflirting https://www.instagram.com/dalevalormodernflirting/
Facebook: @dale.valor.94 https://www.facebook.com/dale.valor.94
Check out Dale’s book, Inner Game: How to Get a Handle on Your Dating Life by Fixing the Relationship You Have with You: https://www.amazon.com/Inner-Game-Handle-Dating-Relationship-ebook/dp/B0CDQY7B9V
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Embark on a transformative journey of healing, growth, and renewal as we delve into the intricacies of breaking up and finding love again in this enlightening episode. Join us in conversation with Dr. Andrea Liner, known as the Breakup Doc, as she shares her wealth of expertise and insights gleaned from years of clinical practice dedicated to guiding individuals through the complexities of love, loss, and renewal.
Dr. Liner's journey to becoming the Breakup Doc began with a profound personal experience—a devastating breakup that left her shattered and seeking answers. Through her own healing process and her work with countless patients navigating similar challenges, she began to recognize common patterns and themes emerging from these experiences. Driven by a passion to help others heal and grow from their breakups, she embarked on a mission to specialize in this vital psychological wellness area.
Whether you're navigating the aftermath of a breakup, contemplating the future of your relationship, or seeking love again, this episode offers invaluable guidance and support from a leading expert in the field. Prepare to be inspired, empowered, and equipped with practical tools for navigating the twists and turns of love's journey with courage and resilience.
In this episode, we discuss:
✅ Dr. Liner’s personal journey to becoming the Breakup Doc
✅ The significance of choosing the right partner
✅ Recognizing when it’s time to let go
✅ The role of religion in relationship dynamics
✅ Overcoming the stigma and shame surrounding divorce
✅ Dealing with controlling partners and reclaiming autonomy
✅ Practical advice for fostering healthy dynamics
✅ The importance of self-reflection before entering a new relationship
✅ Signs you’re ready to start dating again
✅ How men and women process breakups differently
✅ Best practices for modern dating
✅ And much more!
Learn more about Dr. Liner and her practice at https://www.drandrealiner.com/
Connect with Dr. Liner on Instagram: @dr.andrea.liner https://www.instagram.com/dr.andrea.liner/
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Navigating the complexities of parenting post-divorce can be daunting, yet it offers a unique opportunity for growth and transformation that your children will thank you for. In this deeply insightful episode, we are joined by Rose Clark, an Authorized Language of Listening® Parenting Coach whose personal journey to mindful parenting offers profound wisdom and guidance. She equips parents with tools that get their kids to listen without yelling, threats, or punishment. Throughout this conversation, Rose provides essential guidance for divorced parents striving to cultivate nurturing and supportive environments for their children, emphasizing the transformative power of self-awareness, effective communication, and positive parenting techniques. This episode serves as a roadmap for divorced parents to become the best version of themselves and cultivate supportive environments in which children can flourish amidst the challenges of divorce.
In this episode, we discuss:
✅ An introduction to the Language of Listening approach
✅ Why self-healing and personal growth matters for divorced parents
✅ The correlation between our parenting style and how we were parented
✅ Challenges faced when children experience different parenting styles from divorced parents
✅ Strategies for encouraging the other parent to embark on their own journey of self-improvement
✅ Practical advice on fostering cooperation and mutual respect between co-parents
✅ Reparenting yourself in order to break free from negative cycles
✅ Establishing healthy boundaries with both co-parents and children
✅ Differentiating between boundaries and rules
✅ How to effectively employ the Language of Listening tools
✅ Understanding the way children communicate
To connect with Rose and learn more about her practice, go to https://www.lovethewayyouparent.com/ or email her at lovethewayyouparent@gmail.com
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In this deeply insightful episode of Get Divorced Without Getting Screwed, we delve into a crucial yet often overlooked aspect of divorce: its impact on young children. Joined by esteemed guest Dr. Karen Molano, a dedicated clinical psychologist specializing in children's brain health and well-being, the conversation uncovers invaluable information for parents navigating divorce with young ones. Dr. Molano, who focuses on a child’s pivotal first five years of life, sheds light on the critical developmental milestones during this formative period and how they shape a child's worldview and core beliefs. Her insights offer hope and empowerment to parents, highlighting the transformative impact of providing children with the tools for emotional intelligence and healthy relationship dynamics. Tune in as we uncover essential strategies for guiding young children through their parents’ divorce, ensuring they not only survive but thrive in the face of life's challenges. This episode is a must-listen for any parent committed to supporting their child's well-being during a difficult transition.
In this episode, we discuss:
✅ The start of her passion for aiding children's development
✅ The critical developmental milestones during ages 0-5
✅ How early experiences shape a person’s worldview
✅ The profound implications of negative core beliefs
✅ The brain's incredible plasticity
✅ The importance of early intervention in child development
✅ Essential strategies for guiding young children through divorce
✅ Dangers of parental alienation
✅ Ways to model healthy relationships for your children
✅ Preparing children for life's challenges
✅ And much more!
Learn more about Dr. Molano and her practice at https://lumitot.com/
Connect with Dr. Molano on Instagram: @drkarenmolano https://www.instagram.com/drkarenmolano/
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Join me as we explore the complexities of blending families and step-parenting with today’s guest, Brittney Phillips, founder of Blending Bravely. Brittney, a certified professional coach, shares her personal journey and insights gained from her experiences in blended family dynamics. In her second marriage, she and her husband, both single parents, faced the daunting task of blending their families. Despite initial optimism, they encountered significant hurdles once they moved in together, particularly in fostering positive relationships between their children. Brittney offers invaluable advice on navigating such challenges, emphasizing the importance of communication, flexibility, and patience. Drawing from her own experiences and professional expertise, Brittney also provides advice for stepparents navigating this new terrain. Throughout the discussion, she shares her compassionate and empowering approach to coaching individuals in blended families, emphasizing the importance of self-care and resilience in navigating complex familial relationships. This episode is packed with valuable insights and guidance for those embarking on this challenging yet rewarding journey.
In this episode, we discuss:
✅ A reflection of Brittney’s toxic first marriage and how it impacted her daughter
✅ Dating as a single parent in modern times
✅ The challenges that arise when blending two families together
✅ Tips for creating a healthy blended family
✅ The advice Brittney would have given herself when she was first going through this
✅ The delicate balance of integrating a new parent figure into a child's life
✅ What to do about a stepchild in a loyalty bind?
✅ When and how to introduce your new partner to your kids
✅ The appropriate role of a stepparent within the family dynamic
✅ Tips for effective stepparenting
✅ The benefits of therapy for both children and adults in blended families
✅ Brittney’s approach to coaching individuals in blended families
✅ Understanding the difference between a coach and a therapist
And so much more!
You can learn more about Brittney and her practice at https://www.blendingbravely.com/
Connect with Brittney through Instagram and TikTok: @itsmebrittneyp
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Join us as we embark on a journey of personal transformation with our special guest, Carrie Sackett. Carrie, who has dedicated 25 years of her life to practicing social therapeutics, brings to the table a wealth of experience as a certified coach and founder of ZPD Coaching. Her mission is to make emotional growth and relational awareness widely accessible, empowering individuals to become creators of their own lives. In this conversation, we explore the realm of relational awareness, understanding how our interactions with others can ignite growth, healing, and personal development during times of uncertainty. Through Carrie's expert guidance, this episode offers a roadmap to deeper self-awareness, emotional growth, and more fulfilling relationships. Whether you're navigating the aftermath of a divorce or seeking to enhance your interpersonal connections, this episode is a must-listen.
In this episode, we discuss:
✅ How she started helping individuals navigate major life transitions
✅ The innovative approach of social therapeutic coaching
✅ How she empowers individuals, couples, and families to create better relationships
✅ Supporting individuals coming out of failed relationships
✅ The difference between traditional talk therapy and social therapeutics
✅ How to grow emotional muscles
✅ Things to understand before entering a new relationship
✅ The key to reigniting our growth and development
✅ The importance of relationality—the activity of building and creating with others
✅ Why accepting your imperfections can help you create meaningful connections
✅ What to do when your partner isn't into personal growth
✅ Fostering an environment of growth and acceptance
✅ The positive impact of social therapeutics on men
✅ How this method benefits divorced couples navigating the challenges of co-parenting
AND SO MUCH MORE…
You can learn more about Carrie at https://www.zpdcoaching.com/
To connect with Carrie, email her at carrie@zpdcoaching.com
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Today, we're diving deep into the murky waters of divorcing a narcissist, a topic that strikes a chord with many of our listeners. We're joined by Stephany Ann, an attorney and international best-selling author whose own journey from adversity to advocacy serves as a beacon of hope for countless survivors of domestic violence and emotional trauma. With a heart for healing and a commitment to empowerment, Stephany shares her profound insights into the complexities of narcissism, marriage to a narcissist, and the arduous journey of co-parenting with grace and resilience in these situations. Through candid anecdotes, expert analysis, and heartfelt reflection, Stephany invites us to peer behind the veil of illusion and confront the harsh realities of being in a relationship with a narcissistic partner.
In this episode, we discuss:
• The reality of being married to a narcissist
• A glimpse into Stephany’s two marriages to narcissists
• The impact of narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) on relationships
• How a narcissistic parent impacts children
• Signs to help you spot narcissistic behavior
• Red flags you should never ignore
• The exhausting process of divorcing a narcissist
• The narcissistic abuse cycle: Idealization, devaluation, rejection
• Why is it so hard to leave a narcissist?
• Gaslighting: A hidden form of emotional abuse
• Invaluable advice for those navigating similar challenges
• What Stephany would have done differently
• The importance of self-reflection before entering new relationships
• The transformative power of emotional freedom
To connect with Stephany Ann, email her at stephanyannspeaks@gmail.com
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Welcome to Get Divorced Without Getting Screwed, the podcast dedicated to helping men navigate the challenging terrain of divorce with grace, resilience, and clarity. Today, we're diving deep into the digital age's impact on divorce proceedings, exploring the latest methods and strategies to emerge in this evolving landscape. And who better to guide us through this maze of legal intricacies than our esteemed guest, Kristin Lis, Esq.?
Kristin brings a wealth of experience in family law and mediation to the table, making her the perfect companion for our journey into the digital realm of divorce. From virtual hearings to online mediation, the game has changed, and Kristin is here to shed light on every twist and turn. In this episode, we'll uncover how technology has revolutionized divorce proceedings, turning traditional practices on their heads. Get ready to discover invaluable insights, from mastering your online mediation sessions to making the crucial decision of selecting the right attorney. Kristin's knowledge will arm you with the tools and strategies needed for your divorce to go more smoothly.
In this episode, we discuss:
• What you can expect when entering the divorce process
• Insights into making your experience more manageable
• How the court system has adapted since COVID-19
• The evolution of divorce proceedings in the digital age
• The benefits of virtual proceedings
• The groundbreaking advantages of online mediation
• Selecting the right mediator for your particular case
• The disadvantages of having an attorney with a one-size-fits-all approach
• Problems that arise when attorneys resist change
• Advocating for clients' active involvement in decision-making
• The importance of self-care during divorce proceedings
• AND SO MUCH MORE!
You can learn more about Kristin by going to: https://www.gethappydivorce.com/our-team/kristin-m-lis/
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Hearing from divorced guys is always instructive. We always learn how these incredible men survived divorce and started the next chapter of their lives. But, we have a first on the podcast. A DIVORCED divorce mediator! Come find out how going through divorce can impact how a divorce professional's view on helping others through the divorce process:
In this episode, we discuss:
- How do you know it is time to get divorced
- The best way to get divorced
- How to approach custody disputes
- How to get your mindset positive when things get dirty
- How to hire the right attorney
- Dealing with a difficult spouse
- How the divorce mediation process works
- Putting together the right divorce team
- AND SO MUCH MORE!
You can learn more about Scott Orr by checking out his website: https://www.tmolawfirm.com/attorney-orr
We sat down with two experienced divorce attorneys to learn how they help clients navigate the divorce system. And yes, it is a system. Surrounding yourself with the right divorce professionals is important to your success. We had a wide-ranging conversation on a variety of topics that are important to each and every man going through a divorce, including:
- Finding the Right Attorney for You
- How fellow attorneys interact with each other
- The different ways to get divorced, such as mediation
- Mediation versus Litigation
- How to talk to your spouse about the right divorce process
- Issues with the court system (aka not what you see on TV)
- Difference between men and women in communication with their attorney or mediator
- Controlling your life versus putting it in the hands of a judge
- Most decisions made by judges in divorce are temporary and with little information
- How to effectively use your attorney (hint: Get a Therapist!)
- Different kinds of parenting schedules
- AND SO MUCH MORE
Find out more about our guests!
Sylvia Breitowich, Esq. (https://www.breitowichlawfirm.com)
Julia Dasaro, Esq. (https://www.dasarolaw.net)
We had an amazing and deep conversation with a family Lawyer, Jennifer McCaskill. McCaskill’s practice has been devoted exclusively to family law since she graduated from law school in 2002.
She advises you to get a handle on the financials before you get divorced, look at your tax return and only sign an agreement after consulting a divorce lawyer.
We discussed:
✅ Alimony.
✅ Stigma of genders during a divorce.
✅ Strategies that divorce attorneys use against the other attorney.
✅ Things you should search for in a mediator if you don’t have an attorney.
✅ When should you look for an attorney?
✅ Things to do before telling your spouse that you want the divorce.
✅ The relationship you need to have with your attorney during this process.
✅ Custody
AND SO MUCH MORE...
You can learn more about our guest by going to www.jjmccaskill.com.
While ensuring you get divorced the right way is important, be sure not to overlook all the other things you need to do as you transition to the next chapter of your life. Estate planning, both pre-and post-divorce, is so important. Too often, people ignore this essential process that everyone should do. In this episode with the incredible Lauren Bercik, Esq., we discuss:
✅ What is a Will, and why do you need one?
✅ The other documents you need in addition to a Will
✅ The process your loved ones will go through if you don't have a Will or have one that is done incorrectly
✅ The role of life insurance in estate planning and, in particular, securing support obligations in a divorce decree
✅ How where you live impacts Wills and other estate planning documents
✅ The importance of Living Wills, Advanced Directives, and Medical Powers of Attorney
✅ When and how you modify your Will during and after the divorce process
AND SO MUCH MORE...
You can learn more about our guest by going to berciklaw.com.
Check out our conversation with Kenneth Harrell; we discuss how he survived a Divorce Against a Spouse Who Wanted to Win at All Costs.
Kenneth shares his thoughts about how sometimes an attorney could make things worse, feeding the fire during the process, and how his case got so bad because the attorney wasn't helping his ex-spouse make decisions; instead, he was backing her up. You need your attorney to be honest about when to stop fighting.
We discussed:
✅ The common reasons why people try to save their marriage and how society, cultural aspects, and your children could affect your decision.
✅ The divorce process and the complications you could get.
✅ How to handle a spouse who is too emotional and thinks a divorce is a competition.
✅ How to identify a reasonable attorney and the benefits of having a neutral mediator so he can help with what works best for both parties.
✅ His life after divorce and how he wishes he would've decided to divorce before so his happiness could've finally started earlier.
...AND SO MUCH MORE...
For more information about our free men's divorce community, go to https://www.facebook.com/groups/divorceshieldtribe/.
Join me for an extraordinary conversation about Tips & Strategies from Divorce Coaches: Tips to Move Forward.
Our Special Guest, Jennifer Warren Medwin, is a Divorce Coach, Family Mediator, and marital mediator. Her private practice in Pinecrest, Miami, is called Seeking Empowerment: Clarity Through Partnership. Jennifer specializes in working alongside individuals and couples who are contemplating divorce and are fearful of high conflict and with those who hope to save their marriage. She partners with clients to develop the clarity, confidence, courage, conflict management, strategies, and communication skills they need to move through the process.
She advises you to be the boss of your process during a divorce, don't give away your power to the professional because they won't be with you when this is settled; you should follow your intuition.
In this episode, we discuss the following:
✅ Divorce Coaching
✅ Four Quadrants of Divorce
✅ Mediation
✅ Ways of Communication during the mediation and divorce process
✅ Attorney and Divorce Coach. Differences and reasons to have both.
...AND SO MUCH MORE...
For more information about our free men's divorce community, go to https://www.facebook.com/groups/divorceshieldtribe/.
For more information about our guest Jennifer Warren, contact her on:
Email:
Jen@seekingempowerment.com
Website:
www.seekingempowerent.com
Instagram, Facebook, and LinkedIn: @jenseekingempowerment
https://www.amazon.com/Strategies-Tips-Divorce-Coach-Roadmap/dp/1736854410/ref=sr_1_3?crid=1996RCJKQ4YMRhttps://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/strategies-and-tips-from-a-divorce-coach-jennifer-warren-medwin/1140843462
Join me for an inspiring conversation about how to have a GOOD divorce.
Our special guest Sarah Armstrong, good divorce proponent and author of The Mom's Guide to a Good Divorce, is vice-president of global marketing operations at Google and proud mom of Grace. She was seven years old when Sarah divorced. Grace is now entering her sophomore year in college. Sarah is a mentor to other women and men in business and a longtime volunteer at various nonprofit organizations, including the Jack & Jill Late Stage Cancer Foundation, Georgetown Alumni Admissions Program, and soup kitchens.
Sarah shares with us how the mindset could be crucial during a divorce and post-divorce and that if you're divorced doesn't mean that you cannot be happy or your kids. She also wants to let you know that when you go through a divorce, you must take it one step at a time. There will be a better and happier phase in your life, but you have to realize that divorce is tricky, but you get over it.
In this episode, we discuss the following:
✅ Post-Divorce Life
✅ Society and divorce
✅ New relationships after divorce.
✅ Writing the next chapter of your life.
✅ How you must think about kids' schedules during-after divorce, so it doesn't impact them.
✅ How to deal with emotions
✅ How Kids can suffer collateral damage
...AND SO MUCH MORE...
For more information about our free men's divorce community, go to https://www.facebook.com/groups/divorceshieldtribe/.
For more information about our guest Sarah Armstrong, contact her on:
LinkedIn:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/sarah-madden-armstrong-5432887
Email:
sarah@gooddivorce.guide
This is a great conversation that John had with Erin Brueche, Esq., the host of Legal Breakdown. They discuss the role of a divorce coach in a divorce. They also go into all of the ways you can get divorced without going to court, including mediation, arbitration, and collaborative divorce.
Join me for an inspiring conversation about overcoming mental and physical obstacles.
Our special guest Jorge Vasquez (@i.am.j.v.coaching), author of the book "Success is Standing" will tell you all about how to overcome physical and mental obstacles without losing balance in life; Jorge has a powerful life story of how during a stage of his life he was homeless and going through a divorce during the same time, but he overcomes these obstacles. As he says, Focus on yourself; if you get better, you will start attracting better things in your life.
In this episode, we discuss the following:
✅ How to improve your confidence.
✅ How to work on your mindset.
✅ How to work on your Body (fitness and nutrition)
✅ How to work on your spirit.
✅ Managing changes in your life and people's perspective.
✅ Managing the energies in your life and handling toxicity.
✅ Personal Development.
...AND SO MUCH MORE...
For more information about our free men's divorce community, go to https://www.facebook.com/groups/divorceshieldtribe/.
For more information about our guest Jorge Vasquez, contact him on:
Instagram: @i.am.j.v.coaching
Email: CoachJorge@JVCC.com
Facebook Profile: https://www.facebook.com/J.V.Coaching.consulting
Tiktok: @jv_coaching
Join me for an exciting conversation about reinventing yourself and getting a divorce without hate. It's not true that you have to feel hatred for your ex-spouse after the split; however, you cannot control how each person wants their life post-relationship.
Our special guest Nancy Sawyer (@mama_of_reinvention), will tell you all about reinventing yourself; Nancy has spent the last ten years reinventing herself and picking herself back up after life sent her challenge after
challenge. An entrepreneur for 25+ years and a happily divorced Mom of two teens, Coach Nancy is on a mission to help divorcees rediscover their joy and reclaim their lives.
In this episode, we discuss:
✅ How to manage emotions during a divorce process and post-divorce.
✅ How to co-parent when your ex-spouse has a new relationship.
✅ Interpersonal relations during a divorce process and after.
✅ How to have a different perspective about divorce.
...AND SO MUCH MORE...
For more information about our free men's divorce community, go to https://www.facebook.com/groups/divorceshieldtribe/.
For more information about our guest Nancy Sawyer, book a free call with Nancy to talk through where you are and where you want to be. (This is not a sales call! It's a free offer to help you identify the most important next step for you to begin the rest of your life.)
Phone Number: (781) 760-2061
Website: https://www.nancybsawyer.com/
Instagram: @mama_of_reinvention
Email: nancy@nancybsawyer.com
Facebook Profile: @Nancy.m.sawyer.9
Join me for an empowering conversation about Surviving Divorce and Living Your Best Life. You might wonder if it's possible or too reasonable to believe that you can have a better future than before, but I am here today with some encouraging news! Our special guest Warren Lieff (@livin_life_inspired) will tell all - he was 59 years old when he decided on this course of action and said, "it is never too late." He shared his story so YOU CAN KNOW what YOU NEED TO DO next.
In this episode, we discuss:
✅ How divorce impacts your life.
✅ How can you pick yourself back up?
✅ Co-parenting during and after divorce.
✅ How to reinvent yourself.
...AND SO MUCH MORE...
For more information about our free men's divorce community, go to https://www.facebook.com/groups/divorceshieldtribe/
For more information about our guest Warren Lieff:
Phone Number: 203-913-4922
Website: livinlifeinspired.com
Instagram: @livin_life_inspired
Coming to the terms with yourself that divorce is the right decision, is never easy. Sometimes, the road to that happy ending that we’ve all dreamed of takes a few wicked turns along the way—but choosing your happiness and your children’s wellbeing, above all else, will always be an act of bravery. In this final episode of 2021, I’d like to give our listeners an update on the divorce process that I’m currently going through, as well as share all of the ways that I've been able to put to use all of the crucial and valuable information that has been discussed since the beginning of this podcast.
In this episode, we discuss:
✅ Identifying if getting divorced is the best decision
✅ Throwing your excuses out the window
✅ Understanding divorce is a personal decision that no one else can make for you
✅ Overcoming the fear of divorce
✅ You’re entitled to be completely happy!
✅ Components that can and can’t be fixed in a marriage
✅ Divorce is not a failure
✅ Signs that the relationship isn’t working for you anymore
✅ What happens next? The first step in the divorce process
✅ The key to a better divorce process
✅ The first person you should reach out to
✅ How to keep your emotions in check
✅ Mediation is the best option in most cases
✅ Making the best of your life
....AND MUCH MORE.....
🏡 Owning or searching for a home while going through a divorce can be mentally, emotionally, and physically draining. 🙍♂️ You might also have to live on less money than you planned or receive less income. 📉 These are some of the reasons why financial planning is crucial. ⚠️ Our guest Jimmy Joseph @jimmy.mortgage, a mortgage professional with over 20 years of experience in financial services, will walk you through the best financial plan for your post-divorce home. 💸💥
We discuss:
✅ How much money do you need to put down on a house?
✅ What is a low-interest rate?
✅ What is the most important consideration when people buy a house?
✅ How much of a down payment do you need?
✅ Rent v. Owning
✅ What type of mortgage broker should you work with?
✅ What is the most important thing you need in a divorce?
✅ Let's talk about appraisals!
✅ State of the housing market.
✅ Second mortgages and home equity lines
✅ Fixed v. Variable Interest Rates
✅ Pay off the mortgage v. money in the market?
✅ Managing credit during a divorce
✅ Credits scores and debt-to-income ratio
✅ Timing of Seeling
....AND SO MUCH MORE....
Divorce Mediation. What is it? Why should you use it? Can you really have a better divorce? Sound too good to be true? Come find out all about divorce mediation and what YOU NEED TO KNOW from special guest Judith Weigle (@theamicabledivorceexpert).
In this episode, we discuss:
✅ What is Divorce Mediation?
✅ Who is a good candidate for mediation?
✅ How does mediation work?
✅ Mediation stories from two experienced divorce mediators.
✅ Honesty and trust to get to an amicable divorce.
✅ How mediators help resolve all types of disputes.
✅ The ways in which support is determined through mediation.
✅ Taking personal responsibility during a divorce.
✅ Divorce is not a failure.
✅ The journey to come to terms with the divorce.
✅ Our host makes a big personal announcement.
...AND SO MUCH MORE...
For more information about our free men's divorce community, go to www.mensdivorcenetwork.com
For more information about our guest Judith Weigle, go to www.divorceresourceinc.com
Did you know that the way we deal with our children can be directly traced to our own childhoods? When you go through a divorce, children can get caught in the middle, making your ability to be the best parent of them even more important. Come learn how you can be the parent that your children need with special guest Janet Philbin, LCSW. (@janet_philbin_lcsw)
Our special guests, Nikki DeBartolo and Benjamin Heldfond, from @ourhappydivorce, share their divorce story and how they became a STRONGER family AFTER divorce. Yes, you read that right! Come find out how their divorce had such a successful outcome and receive great co-parenting advice. In this episode, we discuss:
✔ What led to their divorce
✔ First step after learning that divorce is happening
✔ Keeping your emotions in check
✔ Communication with your ex
✔ Having an amicable divorce
✔ The importance of the right approach to divorce
✔ Keep your children front and center
✔ Moving onto the next chapter of your life while staying friends
....AND MUCH MORE....
Going through a divorce is hard enough without having the realization that you may enter the court system for the first time! Hiring an attorney may be part of your divorce process. But, you probably have a lot of questions about that process. In this episode of Divorce Shield LIVE, we discuss:
When should you hire a divorce attorney?
Where should you look for a divorce attorney?
Who should you hire as a divorce attorney?
How are you doing to hire them from a cost perspective?
Why is it so important to get the right attorney at the right time?
Why you cannot afford to get this hire wrong!
AND SO MUCH MORE!
For more information and to join our Men's Divorce Support Group, go to www.mensdivorcenetwork.com
Divorce can lead to big changes in a man's life. Some embrace these changes and really improve their lives in big ways. In our conversation with Jeremy Davis, we discuss:
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How a long relationship ended after a short marriage
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Getting divorced with an infant child
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How money can really cause issues in a marriage
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Getting married young
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Making big changes physically and mentally after divorce
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New relationships post-divorce
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Co-parenting with your ex
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Creating a better divorce process
...AND MUCH MORE...
To check out our free Men's Divorce Support group, head over to www.mensdivorcenetwork.com
Come check out our conversation with “Paul from St. Paul” (also known as Divorced Dad Anonymous). We discussed:
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His marriage
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How the divorce started
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What bad habits he ended when the divorce started
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How his children were caught in the divorce and how he and his ex-wife handled it
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His desire to help men tell their divorce stories to give strength to others
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His perception of the divorce system
…AND SO MUCH MORE…
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Divorce is scary without children. Add children into the mix and it is downright terrifying for many men. Should you be concerned? Do men really get screwed in divorce?
In this episode, we discuss:
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The different kinds of custody
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How parenting time schedules are put together
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The best way to get divorced for the children
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Fighting now versus fighting later
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Not turning your custody fight into a math problem
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Taking personal responsibility for your own decisions
...AND MUCH MORE...
Come join our divorce support community for free at www.mensdivorcenetwork.com
How should men handle getting divorced? Come find out from @_jamesbastian_ how you need to handle your children and yourself when you go through a divorce.
In this episode, we discuss:
✅ Lack of resources for men going through divorce
✅ Need for mental health help surrounding divorce
✅ The thoughts that men have during divorce
✅ Putting kids first
✅ Making sure kids know that the divorce has nothing to do with them
✅ How divorce impacts your children’s view on marriage
✅ Being honest about why the marriage ended
✅ Books and resources for children
✅ Children need happy parents, not married parents
✅ Leave your children out of the divorce process!
✅ Importance of “date night”
✅ Talking about marital problems with your guy friends
✅ Making a choice of how to handle divorce
✅ The benefits of divorce
✅ Being blindsided by divorce
✅ Weak marriage will easily lead to divorce
...AND SO MUCH MORE...
For more information, visit www.thedivorceshield.com
Guys, what do women think of divorce? Do they have regrets or would have done something differently? Come find out what the ExExperts have to say about divorce, and learn how they are trying to change the face of this often difficult situation.
We discuss:
How they each found out divorce was coming
What the divorce process looked like
An amicable divorce versus War of the Roses
Putting children first
When is the time right to get divorced
Your Divorce TEAM
Asking the experts questions
How your attorney can dictate the type of divorce you have
The importance of mindset
Their advice they have for men going through a divorce
...AND SO MUCH MORE...
Learn more about the Ex-Experts (Jessica Klingbaum and T.H. Irwin) by visiting their website: www.exexperts.com and following them on Instagram ExExperts
Learn more about Divorce Shield and its resources for men going through divorce at www.thedivorceshield.com
Fear. 😰 It drives so many of us in the wrong direction. When it comes to divorce, fear can move down the wrong path. We discussed fear with Nancy Burger (@nancyrburger) and how it impacts so many people.
In this interview, we discuss:
✅ What is a fear strategist?
✅ Helping people deal with fear
✅ What is fear?
✅ Real versus imagined fears
✅ Finding the genesis of a fear
✅ Fear Strategist versus Mental Health Professional
✅ Raising a child and fear
✅ Facing your fears
✅ How your approach to divorce can be rooted in fear
...AND SO MUCH MORE...
Learn more about Nancy @ nancyrburger.com
Learn more about Divorce Shield @ thedivorceshield.com
Think divorce is hard. Try coming to terms with your sexuality and dealing with a divorce. This conversation with Cary Zackman (@caryzackman) takes you through a journey of self-discovery, fear, anger, confusion, and ultimately acceptance. Want to learn how to deal with the stress of divorce while keeping your head and life up?
In this episode, we discuss:
✅ Loving your wife while not being "in love" with her
✅ Lengthy separation is not a good idea
✅ Impact of divorce on children
✅ When it is time to get divorced
✅ Importance of not being emotional during divorce
✅ Discovering who you are later in life
✅ Mindset mindset mindset!!
✅ His advice for men thinking about divorce
...AND SO MUCH MORE...
You can learn more about Divorce Shield @ thedivorceshield.com
Think that going to court to get divorced is the only way to get out of your marriage? Think again! We discuss collaborative divorce and mediation with @nancismithlaw in this great interview. There is a better way to divorce...you just have to CHOOSE it.
In this episode, we discuss:
✅ Difference between collaborative divorce and mediation
✅ What is collaborative divorce
✅ Who is on your collaborative divorce team
✅ The financial and emotional benefits of collaborative divorce
✅ Cost of Litigation versus Mediation versus collaborative divorce
✅ How to find a collaborative divorce attorney
✅ Talking to your spouse about the right divorce process
✅ "Fairness" in the divorce process
...AND SO MUCH MORE...
You can learn more about Nanci @ nancismithlaw.com
You can learn more about Divorce Shield @ thedivorceshield.com
Dress for success. We have all heard that, right? Did you know that you need to dress for the life you want post-divorce too? We spoke to Rebecca Johnson, a personal stylist with J. Hilburn, about how clothes can make a big difference in your life.
We discussed:
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What is a personal stylist?
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How clothes can be life-changing
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The science of dressing
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How people can tell if you are wearing quality clothing
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Examples of men who upgraded their clothes and their lives
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Reminding yourself that you are worthy
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Investing in yourself
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An upgraded look can land you a new relationship
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How a personal stylist works
....and so much more...
Links for Videoes Referenced in Interview:
RuPaul - https://www.facebook.com/watch/?v=768... =
George Clooney "Three Kings" clip - https://www.youtube.com/watchv=8vFUqc...
Contact Information for Rebecca:
Call or Text: 305-803-3355
RebeccaJohnson.JHilburn.com
@1stimpressionsbyrebeccaj
For more information about Divorce Shield, visit www.thedivorceshield.com
What do REAL MEN need to know about divorce? Find out from the author of "The Real Man's Guide to Divorce." We discuss the entire journey, from beginning to end, that men go through in divorce.
We discuss:
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Getting your mindset in the right place
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Concentrating on your children
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Parenting plans
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Mental Health and men
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The U.K. court system and its bias towards women
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Taking care of your body
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Dressing and grooming for success
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Dating!
...AND SO MUCH MORE...
Find out more about James at easyonlinedivorce.co.uk
You can purchase his book "The Real Men's Guide to Divorce" here: https://www.amazon.com/Real-Mans-Guide-Divorce/dp/1916141803
Want to learn how you can get help organizing your home and your life after #divorce? Going through the end of a marriage is hard enough without worrying about finding new houses or organizing your children's schedules. Come learn how you can get it all done!
In this episode, we discuss:
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Importance of organization
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Savings of time and money when getting help
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Impact of divorce and moving on children
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Organizing children's schedules
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Co-parenting in harmony
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Changing a house post-divorce
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Moving and decluttering as a way to start a new life
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How a professional organizer can make your divorce better
....AND SO MUCH MORE....
Learn more about Michelle at www.divorce-rx.com
Learn more about Divorce Shield at www.thedivorceshield.com
Deciding whether or not to get divorced is one of the hardest decisions you can make. Kim Bowen, the founder of The Marriage Place, teaches us how to figure out if you should get divorced or whether you should just take your marriage in a new direction.
We discuss:
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Figuring out if marriage is the right move
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Referring out clients to collaborative divorce
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Working through the past, present, and future
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Doing the hard work of looking inward
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Discernment therapy
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Therapy v. Coaching
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Narcissism
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The options that people have in counseling
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Marriage saving therapy
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The need for structure in discernment therapy
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Not deciding about your future
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Unrealistic reasons to want a divorce
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Impact of social media on marriage
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How porn impacts marriage
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Compatibility
...AND SO MUCH MORE...
To learn more about Kim, visit themarriageplace.com.
Ever wonder what children think about custody? Come hear from seven year old Sydney on what she thinks about divorce and children living in two different houses. The conversation is eye-opening!
Divorce does not have to be all bad. There are many divorces that open up your eyes to new possibilities and a life you never considered before. In this episode, we talk to James Bastian about his divorce and co-parenting with his ex in the years since the divorce process.
We discuss:
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Signs that a marriage is on the rocks
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Should you regret a marriage that didn't work?
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Hurtful comments during divorce
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Being guided by an attorney during a divorce
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Dual citizenship and marriage with children
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End of marriage does not make you a failure
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How does Mormonism impact marriage and divorce
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Perceptions of others in divorce and how to ignore the noise
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Processing being told that the marriage is over
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Red flags that the divorce is on the rocks
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How the divorce process can get nasty and heated
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Documents during divorce can be very hurtful
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You can choose whether you want an amicable divorce or War of the Roses
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The high cost of fighting in divorce (and afterward)
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Every day you choose how to view the world post-divorce
Find out more about us at www.thedivorceshield.com
Divorce is never easy. You are destroying the vows you took at your wedding to love, honor, and cherish your spouse forever. After divorce, many question themselves, the choices they made, their value, their needs, and their worthiness. Join Allyson Fusella as she takes us through the choices you can make after divorce.
We discuss:
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Choosing to face your fears
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Not ignoring or denying your feelings surrounding your fears
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Choosing to be grateful for the lessons from your divorce
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You control how many times you repeat the same unhealthy behavior
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Choosing to forgive what you can't forget
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The importance of worthiness
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Learning how to learn who you are and your own inner beauty
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Choosing to dream again
To find out more about Allyson, visit foundationscoach.com
To schedule a FREE Discovery Call with Divorce Shield, visit divorceshield.as.me
What do men need to know about approaching a custody dispute? Turns out, there is a lot! Join my guests Adelola Dow (aka Ade) and Stephanie Hunnell as we discuss this complicated topic. They are both divorce attorneys and the co-hosts of the "Undoing I Do with Stephanie and Ade" Facebook Show.
In this show, we discuss:
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What to look for in hiring an attorney
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Setting expectations for how a custody case will turn out at the beginning of a case
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Dos and Don'ts of Communication with your attorney
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How courts are proceeding in the age of ZOOM
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Make sure your attorneys isn't a dinosaur when it comes to technology
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Gender bias in custody cases
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Using custody positions as leverage in the financial part of the divorce
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How women feel about men getting more custody
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Importance of getting involved in your children's lives
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Don't lie or withhold information from your attorney!
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How drugs and alcohol impact custody
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Making arguments in divorce that are not consistent with how you acted during the marriage
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The importance of calendaring
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Stay off social media when you start a divorce
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Take the emotion out of your divorce
...AND SO MUCH MORE...
You can learn more about Ade at adelolalaw.com, and more about Stephanie at hunnelllaw.com.
To join the Divorce Shield TRIBE, a free Men's Divorce Support Community, go to www.portal-thedivorceshield.com/tribesignup
Divorce is hard. Add cultural issues into the legal process, and divorce is even more difficult. Come find out from our guest Stephanie Tang, Esq., a divorce attorney from Chicago, how men can navigate cultural issues in divorce.
We discuss:
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Approaching divorce with the right mindset
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Hiring the right attorney
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How different cultures approach divorce
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Educating your attorney on your culture
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Mistakes people make in settling divorce
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How the court approaches divorce with different cultures
...AND MUCH MORE
You can learn more about Stephanie at https://kogutwilson.com/attorney_profiles/stephanie-tang/
To schedule a Discovery Call to learn how Divorce Coaching can help you plan for and navigate divorce, click here: https://divorceshield.as.me/
Sex. What a loaded word! What mistakes in intimacy lead to divorce? How can you correct them for your next relationship? Join Certified Sexologist Beverly Perryman as we discuss:
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What is a sexologist?
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How to build intimacy
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Special room just for you and your spouse
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The issues that people have with sex and intimacy
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How to help people rekindle the flame
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How working with a sex coach can help you
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Sex is not a bad word that you need to be ashamed of
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Communication is the top killer of sex
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How to get your groove back in the next relationship.
.....AND MUCH MORE
You can learn more about Beverly at www.spiceislandgirl.com
You can learn more about Divorce Shield and our FREE Men's Divorce Support Community at www.thedivorceshield.com
There are many reasons why people get divorced. At its core, unhappiness leads people to make the decision to end a marriage. Often, we later look back at our marriage and realize there were many signs that it was not a healthy relationship. It is always easy to Monday-Morning-QB. Join our guest Dadvocate (he prefers to not have his real name public as he has young children), as we discuss:
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Deciding when to leave a marriage
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Living with a narcissist
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Co-Parenting after divorce
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Settling your custody dispute
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The fight for your children never ends
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The inequity of the family court system
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Looking back at signs the marriage should have ended sooner
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Gaslighting and its impact on marriage and children
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How love bombing can make you fall for a narcissist before you know who they are
....AND SO MUCH MORE.....
For more information about our guest, check out dadvocate.co.uk
To join our free Facebook community for men thinking about or going through divorce, check out facebook.com/groups/divorceshieldtribe
Join our guest Christina Previte, Esq., as we discuss the common mistakes that men make when going through a divorce.
We discuss:
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Making sure you get an attorney that understands your goals
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You do not have to go directly to court when you start a divorce
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Tips on hiring an attorney
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Keeping things civil with your wife
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Make sure your attorney is managing your EXPECTATIONS!
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Communication with your wife during a divorce is good
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Making sure you have healthy communication with your wife that does not turn into a domestic violence situation
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The use of audio recordings in divorce
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Using the children as a sounding board for your divorce
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Everything to write, do or so is potential evidence
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Get a real therapist
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Hiding assets
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Whether you must follow Order
.....AND SO MUCH MORE.
If you want more information about us, visit www.thedivorceshield.com
If you want more information about Christina, visit her on Instagram @theprev
For more information about the law firm, visit centraljerseyfamilylaw.com
Is Divorce on the horizon? No one wants to get divorced. But, when that situation becomes a reality in your life, you need to make a decision. Do not be paralyzed. In this episode, we go into detail about how you make the decision to get divorced, and what your first step should be.
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When you start down the road toward divorce, it is easy to forget about the most important person in your life....YOU. There is no planning for divorce that doesn't include working on you. Join our guest Bonnie Miller Ladds, LCSW, as we discuss:
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What is therapy?
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How do you find a therapist?
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How do men and women differ when it comes to approaching therapy?
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What does therapy do in a man's life to help him manage divorce?
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How therapy can work for anyone.
To learn more about us, visit www.thedivorceshield.com
To learn more about our guest Bonnie Miller Ladds at www.focus-forward.com
Happiness. It is something that many men do not really think about. When a marriage ends, there is usually an absence of happiness in a man's life, whether he wants to admit it or not. Did you know that there are specific methods you can use to figure out what you want out of life and to help you find happiness? Join our guest Allyson Fusella, as she discusses:
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Why marriages end
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Learning to mirror back to your spouse (and your kids)
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Elevated emotion and how it can be the cornerstone of a healthy and happy relationship
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How our sense of self-worth plays a big role in our relationships and our happiness
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Heart Math and how it can provide proof to men that emotion impacts health
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What steps men should take to learn lessons from their failed marriage so that they can move forward into a happy relationship
To learn more about us, visit www.thedivorceshield.com
To learn more about our guest Allyson Fusella, visit www.foundationscoach.com
Divorce is hard on your body. Want to learn how you can eat healthy even in the most stressful of times? Come join our guest Irslan Ali, the creator of the FHIT Training Method, as he discusses:
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How you must learn to de-stress before you can start on the road to being healthy
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Figuring out if your body is in "fight or flight" mode?
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The techniques to calm your mind before building health habits
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Accountability is King!
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The foods that can make or break your health when stress is in the air
You can find out more about Irslan here: https://www.facebook.com/irslan.ali.7
You can find out more about Divorce Shield here: https://www.thedivorceshield.com/
We all learn so much from those who have gone through the divorce process. What lessons do they learn? What would they do differently if they would do it all over again?
In this episode, we talk to Michael about his divorce, his post-divorced life, and what lessons he has learned. We discuss with him:
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Why his marriage failed
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How divorce impacted his relationship with his child
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What signs of divorce he noticed
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Finance stress of marriage and divorce
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When he started the legal process
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Crafting an agreement
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Not rushing through the process
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Disputes post-divorce and how decisions made or not made during divorce made all the difference
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Finding happiness after divorce
If you need help to plan and prepare for divorce, check out the Divorce Preparation Bootcamp at www.portal-thedivorceshield.com/dpa
If you want to join our Divorce Shield TRIBE and get help from men who are going through divorce, check out www.thedivorceshield.com/tribe
Did you know that divorce can be influenced by your diet and exercise? A big part of protecting your sanity is making sure that your mind and body are right. In this episode, we discuss things you can do to keep your mind in top shape as you approach divorce.
For more help, visit www.portal-thedivorceshield.com/dpa
Deciding whether to get divorced is one of the most difficult decisions that you will make in your life. It will have an impact on you, your spouse, and your children. So, should you get divorced? What are the signs to look out for? What do you need to know?
In this episode of the Get Divorced Without Getting Screwed Podcast, we look at 12 signs that your marriage may be at its end. These include:
✔ Always having to win arguments
✔ Never fighting
✔ Having the need to provoke your spouse
✔ Your spouse and annoyance
✔ Hiding your "real self" from your spouse
✔ Exaggerating on social media
✔ Is your spouse your "go to" person?
✔ Putting things and people before your spouse
✔ No more "we"
✔ The "exit strategy"
✔ Always thinking about divorce
If you have signs that your marriage is in trouble, do not despair. It is not the end of your life. Just take a deep breath and know that we are here for you. Check out the Divorce Preparation Academy by going here: www.portal-thedivorceshield.com/dpa
We are in the middle of the holidays. Whether you celebrate Hanukkah, Christmas or any other kind of holiday, or if you don't celebrate any holidays at all, the end of the year is really a unique time. You have got a new year about to start. When we start New Year, most people think about new beginnings. They start weight loss plans, decide to exercise, read every night, and spend more time with their kids. But, what about starting a divorce during the holidays?
In this episode, we discuss:
✔ You only live once!
✔ Don’t wait until after the holidays to start divorce preparation.
✔ You are the most important person in your life.
✔ If you want to start the divorce process next year, this is the right time to start planning.
✔ Don’t make the decision to get divorced in the middle of the holidays.
✔ Whether deciding to divorce based on one event makes sense.
✔ Using the holidays to improve your relationship with your children.
✔ Avoiding arguments with your wife over the holidays.
And so much more!
Come learn what it takes to survive and thrive over the holidays. Are you ready to start preparing for divorce? Come check out the Divorce Preparation Bootcamp (https://www.portal-thedivorceshield.com/dpa) and get 20% off with coupon code DSPODCAST. Start the next chapter in your life TODAY!
How do you prepare for divorce so that you don't get screwed? It starts by going back to school! Welcome to the Divorce Preparation Bootcamp (previously known as the Divorce Preparation Academy).
Learn more by clicking here: https://www.portal-thedivorceshield.com/dpa
Question? Email us at john@thedivorceshield.com
In the process of preparing for Divorce, do you need a Divorce Coach? To start with, what is a divorce coach? Let's tackle this together.
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There are so many important reasons to prepare for divorce. But, why should YOU think it is important? What will happen if you don't prepare for divorce?
Is there a right time to get divorced? When do you know it is time to start preparing for divorce? Knowing when to start is as important as what you do to prepare.
When you start any legal process, it is natural to see the other side in a negative light. But, when confronting divorce, is your Wife the enemy? When you are preparing for Divorce, how should you see your wife? The answer will likely dictate whether you have a quick and inexpensive process that will allow you to get a fair result, or an expensive and difficult process.
Should you start dating someone new before your divorce is finished? What impact can it have on your divorce and your relationship with your soon-to-be former wife?
Preparing for divorce is easy compared to that moment when you have to tell your Wife that you want a divorce. Is there a right way and a wrong way to tell her? Let's talk about it!
You know the drill. You are getting divorced and want to talk to someone that has been through the process. Is that a good idea? Find out!
What good is putting together your team if you don't use them correctly? Let's talk about what you should and should not tell your professional team members during your divorce preparation process. For more information, email us at thedivorceshield@gmail.com.
Like a basketball team, you need a minimum of five professionals on your divorce team. On this episode, we round out your team with some essential professionals that you will need in order to properly prepare for divorce.
You already know that you ultimately need a divorce attorney to tell you what the law is and what you are entitled to. However, an often overlooked member of your divorce team is a mental health professional. Find out why.
So many men should have better prepared for divorce. Learn about George and the mistakes he made that let his wife take advantage of him in their divorce. Come learn how you can avoid the same mistakes.
The quarterback of your divorce team is a divorce attorney. How do you find one? What kind of attorney is best for you? Come find out the first things you need to pay attention to when you start interviewing divorce attorneys.
When you start preparing for Divorce, you need to put together a team of professionals. Who should be on your team? Who should you be drafting to help you through the process?
Many men forget about themselves when they start the divorce process. What can you do to ensure that you are taking care of yourself and your own mental health when you start the divorce process?
Want to learn HOW to prepare for divorce? Check out the Divorce Preparation Bootcamp! https://www.portal-thedivorceshield.com/dpa
All podcast listeners get 20% off the Bootcamp. Just use coupon code DSPODCAST. Let's get started helping you get divorced without getting screwed!
Do you live in a state (or country) where you think men always get screwed in divorce? Does that mean you just should not prepare for the process?
Want to learn HOW to prepare for divorce? Check out the Divorce Preparation Bootcamp! https://www.portal-thedivorceshield.com/dpa
All podcast listeners get 20% off the Bootcamp. Just use coupon code DSPODCAST. Let's get started helping you get divorced without getting screwed!
Often, the hardest decision to make is to start a divorce. How do you know when the time is right?
Want to learn HOW to prepare for divorce? Check out the Divorce Preparation Bootcamp! https://www.portal-thedivorceshield.com/dpa
All podcast listeners get 20% off the Bootcamp. Just use coupon code DSPODCAST. Let's get started helping you get divorced without getting screwed!
There are many examples of men who did not prepare for divorce or did not take the divorce process seriously. We are going to investigate one such guy today and all of the mistakes he made, including not recognizing when his marriage was over and what steps he needed to take when there were clues that his marriage's days were numbered.
Want to learn HOW to prepare for divorce? Check out the Divorce Preparation Bootcamp! https://www.portal-thedivorceshield.com/dpa
All podcast listeners get 20% off the Bootcamp. Just use coupon code DSPODCAST. Let's get started helping you get divorced without getting screwed!
Want to prepare for Divorce, but think that it will come back to bite you?
Want to learn HOW to prepare for divorce? Check out the Divorce Preparation Bootcamp! https://www.portal-thedivorceshield.com/dpa
All podcast listeners get 20% off the Bootcamp. Just use coupon code DSPODCAST. Let's get started helping you get divorced without getting screwed!
Learn the four general categories of things that you need to do in order to prepare for divorce and get the best possible result.
Want to learn HOW to prepare for divorce? Check out the Divorce Preparation Bootcamp! https://www.portal-thedivorceshield.com/dpa
All podcast listeners get 20% off the Bootcamp. Just use coupon code DSPODCAST. Let's get started helping you get divorced without getting screwed!
You want to prepare for divorce. But, are you wondering WHY you should prepare for divorce? Let's explore it together.
Want to learn HOW to prepare for divorce? Check out the Divorce Preparation Bootcamp! https://www.portal-thedivorceshield.com/dpa
All podcast listeners get 20% off the Bootcamp. Just use coupon code DSPODCAST. Let's get started helping you get divorced without getting screwed!
Join us for Episode #1. Let's start learning how to get divorced without getting screwed.
Want to learn HOW to prepare for divorce? Check out the Divorce Preparation Bootcamp! https://www.portal-thedivorceshield.com/dpa
Let's get started helping you get divorced without getting screwed!