Honeymoon Mindset: Recent Episodes
James Deppa
Beth and James Deppa have a huge passion for helping couples create this mindset. They have been working on this for over 5 years. They are doing this because they struggled in their first marriages. The desire to not make the same mistakes again, they started to learn how to do this. They have been mentored by some of the best, read books, listened to podcasts, researched online and talked with people in different fields and experiences. They sat down with each other and worked through it piece by piece.
How do you know the person you are with is the right one? How do you find the right one?
Finding the right partner isn't so much looking for them. However, knowing when they come into your life.
First thing is to stop looking. Looking for the right person usually doesn't go the right way and leads to disaster.
Second, improve who you are. Working on yourself, helps you know who you need in your life and make you an even better person.
Third, when the right person comes into your life. You will take a natural interest in their life. You will want to continue improving yourself for them and will want to come along side them to help make them better.
Fourth, you will want to spend time with this person. Learning about who they are and why.
Fifth, when you are troubled; you want them by your side helping you. When they are troubled you will want to be by their side helping them. When you two are at odds, their is no one you want but them.
Is it ok to say no in a relationship?
Doesn't saying no tell your partner you don't care?
Did you know that saying no is healthy?
In society, we are led to believe that we need to say yes and on to be on the go. However, in a relationship, and for ourselves and family, that can be very dangerous.
In this episode, we talk about why it's important to say no in a relationship. Saying no can make a us, our relationship and family stronger.
STOP NEGATIVE THINKING!!!
Negative thinking causes so many issues in you and your relationship. It takes the passion out of your relationship and yourself.
The best way to put passion is with positivity!
Here are 4 tips to stop negative thinking:
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Tell yourself and brain that you don't think or talk that way. Also, write it down.
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Start thinking positive about yourself and things.
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Go to bed thinking postivite thoughts and the goods that happened during the day and what you accomplished.
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Start to figure out where the negative thought is from and start to change those thoughts.
When you start thinking positively it will spark the passion in you and your relationship and Honeymoon Mindset!
For more tips and ideas in dealing with negative thinking:
email us: james@honeymoonmindset.com
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For help with changing negative thoughts check out at
Nuero-Shine Technology Academy
https://www.shinyunsal.com/
What the background on Honeymoon Mindset Academy? What is their point? How are they going to help you?
This episode we talk about the history of Honeymoon Mindset. What we have planned for the company. Who is Honeymoon Mindset for and how it can help you. We also talk about how we can come along side you.
Finally, we talk about where you can find us
For more information email us: admin@honeymoonmindset.com
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To keep the Honeymoon Phase going is by creating the Honeymoon Mindset. One of the best ways to do that is by keep dating. Dating is very benificial in any and all relationships.
Are you dating?
Skip the traditional date night or Valentine's Day stuff!!!
Instead, build a stronger relationship with your partner!
There are 4 requirements needed to be building a stronger relationship.
First: Communication
Second: Time Together
Third: Improving Who You Are
Finally: Intimacy, Emotional and Physical
Listen to the episode for more information and details
If you still have questions or not sure how; Email Us!
email: admin@honeymoonmindset.com
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In this week’s episode of Honeymoon Mindset with Kids we discuss why dating your kids is so important to them and to you! The most important thing you can give to your children is your time. And by time we mean your undivided attention, your listening ear, your intentional connection.
All humans want to matter, belong, be heard, and feel loved. Kids are no different and when you let them know they matter by spending one on one time with them they can truly blossom.
This time will grow their self-esteem, confidence, and sense of identity. It will remind you to tap into your childlike joy. And it will build an everlasting bond between you and your child/ren.
And it doesn’t have to cost a thing to Date Your Kids!
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This is going to be a quiet intimate night for the 2 of you. No phones or other electronics. Your going to come home make dinner together, get dressed up and each others company. Listen to how this will boost the intimacy between you and your partner.
This episode may not be suitable for kids!
We are a week away from Valentine's Day! One of the biggest thoughts in someone's mind is sex.
Is there a difference between sex and Love making? What is the difference between lovemaking and sex?
This episode, we talk about the differences between sex and love making. We talk about the difference about talking about it with your partner and often. We also explain why it is different for every couple and how it changes as life changes.
There is a difference in each one of us that has an effect on the relationship towards sex. This difference doesn't need to be negative but can be used as a positive. When you talk about it, it will enhance the relationship.
This will help spark the passion in the relationship!
Would you like help with this discussion with your partner; email us: admin@honeymoonmindset.com
We as parents will always have those awkward, difficult and uncomfortable conversions with a child.
How do we handle these moments with love and grace?
We talk about this, give tips and ideas.
When you are able to handle these awkward situations with love and grace. It will only strengthen your relationship with your child.
For additional resources or assistance email us: admin@honeymoonmindset.com
This tip we want you to just enjoy the holidays and let them happen. When can do this by being grateful for those around you and what you have. If you still struggle please reach out and we will listen.
Everyone has this ideal vison of their perfect life, partner and dream job.
We call this the Trophy Syndrome!
We put a lot of time and effort to get these trophies. When we get them sometimes it is not what we thought it would be. There are times, we need to remember that we need to keep bettering ourselves, so we are able to keep the trophy.
Are there things we can do to help with Trophy Syndrome?
There are a couple things we can do. First, we can continue bettering who we are as an individual. We are constantly learning, growing emotionally and spiritually. Secondly, we need to be grateful for what we have, the work we put into getting it and what it means to us. Thirdly, we need to be thankful.
If you are not sure how to deal with Trophy Syndrome, listen to this episode on How to Deal with Trophy Syndrome!
From additional resources in How to Deal with Trophy Syndrome, email us: admin@honeymoonmindset.com
Kids are natural pleasers!
We make the stressed out with perfection by not expressing our expectations, being critical with them and not picking our battles.
We need to teach our kids to be okay with finishing things, their way of doing something is ok and letting them discuss things with us.
They learn from watching us, listening with our hearts and validating their thoughts and emotions.
Need additional resources email us at:
admin@honeymoonmindset.com
The activity will give you the chance to truly enjoy what you are passionate about.
Doing the complete opposite of what you are passionate about gives you a new appreciation for it. It helps you see it in a new way. It gives you a chance to expand your knowledge a of it. Finally, it gives you a chance to learn something new.
This episode is in response to a TikTok video I saw.
The gentleman in the video says that society says everyone needs to have more passion. He claims that not everyone's thing is passion, but some are curious, some are funny.
I agree with him in what he is saying in general. However, we all need more passion in our lives and in this world. That is why we created Honeymoon Mindset!
Listen to how we can add more passion in our life without changing who we are. Using passion as an adverb not as a verb.
This is a fun little activity to help you get a little closer to what your values are.
These are not just any values, but the values that you run your life with.
Take a listen and have fun figuring out your true values are.
Any Questions email us at: james@honeymoonmindset.com
It is a new year and must people want a new you. People want a change because they do like something about themselves. So, they decide to make a change.
One will in magazines, friends, family, social media and all around them for ideas and inspiration. You will find things that you want to change to. When they do this; they are still unable happy.
Maybe you are looking in the wrong area? Maybe you have your wants confused for your needs? What are your needs?
Listen to this episode to help you find you on the way to your true happiness.
Divorce through the eyes of a 13 year old!
Caroline Martins tells of her experience, thoughts and emotions that she had when her parents divorced. When she realized that it wasn't her fault she decided to write a book for kids. To help them know that what they are feeling is normal and they are not alone in this journey.
Her book is filled with tips, activities and ideas to help them processes those thoughts, feelings and emotions.
Caroline and I talk about her experiences and the process of writing her book. Her book is due out in January on Amazon.
We will have a link available when it is available.
If your family is going through a divorce and struggling. Please reach out to us at Honeymoon Mindset
Click the link below and we will get ahold of you!
James@passionateliferanch.com
A fun little game you can do by yourself, with your partner, family and in your business or profession.
How can visioning the future help you now? How can visioning the future make you a Visionary?
A visionary is someone who looks out into the future and makes a plan.
This is what you are doing with dreamcatcher! You are envisioning the future for yourself, with your relationships and professionally.
If you are having difficulty with this or what someone to guide you through the process. Email us at: james@passionateliferanch.com
It is that time of your when a lot of people set New Year's Resolutions. They do with the greatest of intention and want to seriously make a change. However, majority of the resolutions do not make it past the first month.
Why?
I talk about why resolutions do prosper and how to set goals that will spark the passion in you and succeed.
Setting goals takes 4 steps.
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Looking to the past to see what did and didn't work and why.
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Look to the future to see where you want to go and become.
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Look at today and figure out what you need to change now to make it to your future.
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Make a plan of what worked in the past to help fuel the passion to the future.
If you would like to talk with us about how to do it or need help? Email us: james@passionateliferanch.com
In this week’s episode:
James and Kimberly discuss how to help kids with goal setting.
Start small with daily “to do” lists and work up to bigger goals. How can they break them down, so they are achievable?
How can they prioritize where to start?
You will be surprised how daily goal setting will have a ripple effect reaching out to all aspects of their lives... mood, self-esteem, how they interact with others, etc.
Need help learning how to set goals for yourself or how to teach it to your kids? Reach out to us!
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What happens when you have sparked the passion in you?
You become grateful which is what this time of year is all about. We can so easily get caught up in the hustle and bustle of Christmas that we forget and have a hard time adjusting and going with the flow.
Do you want to be able to go with the flow? You want to be more grateful, especially this time of year?
Then contact us about how we can help you become more grateful and going with the flow.
james@passionateliferanch.com
In this week’s episode
James and Kimberly discuss how to help kids with goal setting.
Start small with daily “to do” lists and work up to bigger goals.
How can they break them down, so they are achievable?
How can they prioritize where to start?
You will be surprised how daily goal setting will have a ripple effect reaching out to all aspects of their lives... mood, self-esteem, how they interact with others, etc.
Need help learning how to set goals for yourself or how to teach it to your kids? Reach out to us!
https://www.facebook.com/groups/sunrisemindsetcoaching/
https://www.facebook.com/groups/308821070493093/?ref=share
When you think about honeymoon, we instantly think of a relationship. When you think about relationships, everything starts as a relationship. Therefore, you have a relationship with yourself! You in a relationship with someone! Business is a relationship!
Honeymoon Mindset is for you! It is a process and takes time to develop it. When you start to develop it, it sparks the passion in you. When you have developed the Honeymoon Mindset that passion will naturally flow over to others in your life.
Is Honeymoon Mindset for You? Do you know how to develop a Honeymoon Mindset?
https://www.facebook.com/Honeymoon-Mindset-Academy-106444181073192
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The side of Christmas that many parents do not want to see or address. When their kid/s struggle with Christmas.
There are kids who struggle during this time of year. They struggle because of the loss of a loved one, a change with the family or because of a situation.
This episode, I talk about to help your children if they are struggle during the holidays. How to make them feel heard and important about what they are thinking and feeling.
Listen to Honeymoon Mindset with Kids to help your kids that are struggling this time of year.
It is crazy, hectic and unbearable! The pressures of the holidays and expectation can be to much. Take a break! Taking a break will help you get through it, inspire you and or refocus you for the holidays. Learn about the benefits of taking a break.
We have heard of the 3 phrases:
In their honeymoon phase, find something you love, and you won't work a day in your life, and walking on cloud nine.
What do they all have in common?
Listen to this podcast to find out what they have in common. You will also discover how a Honeymoon Mindset can happen every day.
Find out how Tony Robbins, Dean Graziosi, Rob Dial and Shiny Unsal have inspired and help us in the creation of Honeymoon Mindset.
Resources:
https://www.tonyrobbins.com/
https://robdial.com/podcast/
https://www.deangraziosi.com/
https://www.shinyunsal.com/
This time of years is very exciting for kids! All the talk about Christmas, toys, magic, sweets and more.
The way our culture has fast tracked materialism and "keeping up with the Jones syndrome." That our kids lose the real meaning of Christmas and that is giving and helping those less fortunate.
In this podcast, Kimberly and I talk about traditions and the importance of giving.
Why we as parents need to talk to our kids early and often about giving.
We also have a challenge at the end of the show.
For additional resources and information, please reach out to us at SunRise Mindsets
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Or Honeymoon Mindset Academy
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Another two for the price of one. A lot of times during the holidays, we get so caught up in the expectations and hype that we forget to communicate. We forget to ask for help or find out what people are thinking. In this process, we forget to have fun. Find out why communicating and fun are so important and will help you survive the holidays
When you have 10 things going on at once; what do we do?
We usual get upset, frustrated and take things out on others.
Honeymoon Mindset, we are able to come along and help our partner. We are able to ask for help because we know our partner is there to help us succeed.
The power of a Honeymoon Mindset we are able to work together and accomplish things, even if we have to do it ourselves. It is a daily choice to allow the passion in us to flourish and grow. So, we can succeed for us and our partner.
How do you handle stress? How do you help your partner when they are stressed?
If you would like to talk with us about how to help your partner. Please, reach out to us on Facebook and Instagram. You can click on the link below.
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This time of years is very exciting for kids! All the talk about Christmas, toys, magic, sweets and more.
The way our culture has fast tracked materialism and "keeping up with the Jones syndrome." That our kids lose the real meaning of Christmas and that is giving and helping those less fortunate.
In this podcast, Kimberly and I talk about traditions and the importance of giving.
Why we as parents need to talk to our kids early and often about giving.
We also have a challenge at the end of the show.
For additional resources and information, please reach out to us at SunRise Mindsets
https://www.facebook.com/groups/1624532541088734
Or Honeymoon Mindset Academy
https://www.facebook.com/Honeymoon-Mindset-Academy-106444181073192
Here is a quick tip about how a moment of silence can help calm you down. During the holiday season and Covid, silence can help keep our sanity and get us back on track to enjoy these Holidays.
I keep asking you to reach out to us to set up a discovery call.
This episode, I tell you what is involved with a discovery call and why is important.
I also talk about other important information that you need when you are working with a coach.
In this week’s episode we discuss how having blinders on when it comes to who your kids are can have a negative effect on them. If you believe they are perfect how can you help them grow and learn from their mistakes?
How can you talk to other parents who have blinders on when it comes to their children?
Listen as James and Kimberly discuss these questions and more!
The date tip is to play the Game of Life.
As you play, stop and talk about, or write down, the topics that come. As you does you will have a fun way to talk about money issues.
This is a great way to talk to your kids about money
One of the leading causes of divorce is money!
This doesn't have to be. Talking about money early and often helps the relationship to work together with the understanding of money. Money is tool and that is it.
If you were in a long committed relationship, it isn't to late to talk about money. Start now with your partner, it will be stressful at first, and watch you Honeymoon Mindset grow together as you both grow.
Here is a link to Financial Peace University:
https://www.ramseysolutions.com/ramseyplus/financial-peace
In this week’s episode we discuss how having blinders on when it comes to who your kids are can have a negative effect on them. If you believe they are perfect how can you help them grow and learn from their mistakes?
How can you talk to other parents who have blinders on when it comes to their children?
Listen as James and Kimberly discuss these questions and more!
This date night tip can be done individually, as couple, fun this way, or family.
The date tip can be long and drawn out or short and sweet. You can plan a whole evening around it or just 10 to 15 minutes before you and your partner go to bed.
You are going to keep an aspect of the future or something and your going to envision what will be like. You are going to add sound, touch, taste, sight and smell. You are going to add as many details as possible, more details the better.
Together, you will be planning your future together while building a strong Honeymoon Mindset.
What is the best way to get life back in your relationship?
What is a way to keep something in common as your goes on through out the years?
How do you end the roommate syndrome?
The best way is to talk about your future together? It isn't a one time discussion. It is a topic you should have at least once a year.
Having the discussion once a year helps keep your vision with each other alive and well. It gives you a chance to adjust and grow.
Planning your future together is a perfect way to stay in with a Honeymoon Mindset.
During this continuation of How to Discuss Body Image with your kids;
We look at how you can use the future as reference point.
How look at others image as a way of checking ourselves and the way we live. Plus, we need to be sensitive to them because we don't know what is going on in the inside.
Kimberly and James have a conversation about How to Discuss Body Image.
Idea for Date or Family night is to play the game charades, or something like it.
Before you start, make up a sheet with the questions;
First impression and why?
What memories do you associate with that thought?
What emotions do you relate to it?
You and your partner will talk about these to help get a better understanding of yourselves. When you have a better understand where those thoughts come from then you can change those assumptions, or limiting beliefs.
Assumptions are made up and not real. They are our brain trying to protect us, but in reality it does the opposite.
I share how I struggle with assumptions and what I do to deal with them.
It takes time and when you deal with assumptions, your Honeymoon Mindset will blossom even more.
When you look around all you see are these beautiful images. Images that makes us want to compare ourselves to.
This comparison starts at a young age. If it is not dealt with, it can be very dangerous to kids and give them a lifetime of stress and heartache.
Listen to Kimberly and James, we talk about body image. How and when it starts. How and why you need to talk to your kids.
Links:
https://www.amazon.com/Its-Perfectly-Normal-Changing-Growing/dp/0763644846
This date tip, you and your partner are going to use your imagination.
Imagination is something you can use to learn new and interesting things about your partner. It can also be used to help build your future together.
Listen to how imagination is used during date night.
You didn't get into a relationship to live with a roommate, it is someone you care, love and want to be with.
How do you get out of that comfort zone?
This episode is full of ideas on how to get out of that your partner is your roommate.
Teens are going through so much during those years. It is all done so they can figure out who they are and want to be.
Them seeing a Honeymoon Mindset from you and your partner plays a huge role. They get to see an example of how to handle issues, relax, be open and vulnerable and live.
The relationship you and your partner have not only plays a role but is needed and wanted by your teenager/s.
They want you to be there for them!
Life can get very mundane or tried of doing the same old thing.
That is why you need to date yourself once and a while. This keeps you real to who you are. It expands your knowledge and experiences. It is also a huge self confidence booster.
In turn, it will grow your Honeymoon Mindset because you have more to offer your partner. You will be able to handle this differently because of this knowledge.
Dating yourself help build a stronger Honeymoon Mindset
This podcast, I open up about our relationship. I am vulnerable with you what it is like in Beth's and I relationship. I share with you what is like and how I do and don't follow my own advice.
I tell you how we make our Honeymoon Mindset and the choices we make daily.
This is a raw and real episode .
The best way to bond with your kids is having fun with them.
There are so many benefits to having fun with kids. That we just touch on them in this quick little podcast.
Go have fun and bond with your kids.
The best way to bond with your kids is having fun with them.
There are so many benefits to having fun with kids. That we just touch on them in this quick little podcast.
Go have fun and bond with your kids.
Scenario 1: You start off in a relationship getting to know each other. As that connection starts to go and get stranger so does the desire for physical intimacy.
You continue to build the relationship on the physical. However, it comes to an end.
Scenario 2: You have been in a relationship for years and it just isn't the same. The intimacy is gone and there is no passion in sex. It seems like we just don't connect anymore.
Both of these scenarios are very common, to common. However, there is a reason why. Intimacy has 2 types; the emotional intimacy and the physical intimacy.
You need both to have a Honeymoon Mindset. They ebb and flow with each other.
In today's podcast we talk about them, how they work and how to enhance them both.
Rewarding kids is a very important part of growing up. It helps to build realistic expectations on how life is going to be.
Rewards will be teach kids responsibility, respect and ownership.
Rewarding your kids can be done through acknowledgement, gift, treat, experience or privilege. Remember, use caution when you use food as an award for it can create issues later in life.
Listen to how you can use rewards to help setup you kids for life.
With fall here and the changing of the colors. Go outside and enjoy the changing of the seasons.
Go for a drive or a hike.
Then cuddle up and have a relaxing evening while watching your favorite movie together.
What great way to connect and grow the Honeymoon Mindset!
Why do we choose to argue with our partner when they get under our skin or we have to much going on?
Argue is a verb, an action. It is something we choose to do when things get heated.
In the episode, we look at why we argue and how to stop it.
We give tips and pointers on how to avoid it when we are on the verge of an argument.
Honeymoon Mindset is a daily choice just like the choice to argue.
Choose Honeymoon Mindset.
Life get so busy and starts to fly by! The phrase 'don't blink and your kids will be gone' is a true statement.
What you need to do is give them intentional attention. When you do it will help your kids with who they are, their security and love for you. They will learn so much just by watching also!
Giving intentional attention to everyone is one of the best ways to build your Honeymoon Mindset with Kids!
When your partner does something to upset you; the normal response is to go off. You will start to argue, yell, throw insults, make false claims and end up storming off.
This is not effective arguing and hurts the Honeymoon Mindset.
This episode we give 5 tips on how to argue effectively. When you follow these tips; an argument will be very short and effective with a positive outcome. An outcome that will enhance the Honeymoon Mindset.
On this week’s episode of Honeymoon Mindset with Kids we talk about the effects of constant changes on kids. On their emotions, their behaviors, and their sense of self.
Listen as we discuss ways to minimize the negative effects changes can have on children. How to prepare kids for changes you know are coming and how to help them adjust to their new normal.
We discuss whether or not your children should be a part of decision making when changes are coming. And how vulnerable you should be with your children about your own feelings.
Balancing 2 things takes a steady hand and patience. When you finally get the things to balance on there own, it is a wonder all of it is own.
This date night tip, can be you as a couple or family, find objects around the house and balance 2 at a time. Find where the true middle in order for the 2 to balance on there own.
Once you have done this a couple of times, you will be able to find the true middle of issues in your relationship.
When you find where that middle is; you will be able to a Honeymoon Mindset Relationship!
"Happy Partner, Happy Life" is a temporary solution and only works until the starts to feel they are giving all the time.
For true Honeymoon Mindset, you need to find the middle. This is done through communication to find the compromise in the middle.
The middle will most likely be towards one side or the other. Rarely, will the middle be in the middle.
Eventually, it will happen naturally.
Can you find the middle?
When your spending time with your partner or family is it intentional?
We usually just are in a room trying to relax and finish what we are doing. If there is someone in the room with us, they are just there.
This date tip is to spend some intentional time with your partner and/or family. The best way is to have an old fashion picnic and enjoy each others company.
Sometimes in our relationship, we find that we compare our partner to the someone in a previous relationship.
When we do it has an effect. It can be a positive effect to help grow the relationship to a Honeymoon Relationship.
Through help each other work through it and vulnerability it can be done.
In this week’s episode of Honeymoon Mindset with Kids we continue discussing how putting labels on kids affects them.
Learn how putting your children in a box by labeling them influences how they view themselves as well as how others perceive them.
Discover how even positive labels can keep them from growing into their full potential. It’s never too late to change the label. Listen as we unveil the simple steps you can take to to undo the labels and help your child thrive.
Avoid Labeling Your Child by YaeBin Kim
www.extension.unr.edu
Stop Labeling Kids: Why it’s so Important to Name the Behavior Instead By The Pragmatic Parent blog
Doing a date night with couple is healthy!
It gives you a chance to see how other couples react to each, deal with an issue and handle others.
Through this you can make a change if you find something you like or don't like.
This date night, invite other couples over to play the old fashion game of telephone.
During this game time, try and see how well you can get the message correct.
What do you need to do with you listening skills to get it right?
The #1 issue in a relationship is communication. The most common complaint about communication is listening.
How do you become a better listener?
Are there stages of listening?
Becoming a better listener will make your relationship stronger.
Listening to what is actually being said has become an artform.
Why don't you want to be a better listener for your partner?
In this week’s episode of Honeymoon Mindset with Kids we discuss how putting labels on kids affects them.
Learn how putting your children in a box by labeling them influences how they view themselves as well as how others perceive them.
Discover how even positive labels can keep them from growing into their full potential. It’s never too late to change the label. Listen as we unveil the simple steps you can take to to undo the labels and help your child thrive.
Avoid Labeling Your Child by YaeBin Kim
www.extension.unr.edu
Stop Labeling Kids: Why it’s so Important to Name the Behavior Instead By The Pragmatic Parent blog
The best way for kids to see who you are is by being silly and having fun.
This family night idea is to make a family meal together. Then play charades or picture.
Everyone will be able to let down there guard and have a fun time learn a different side of each other.
What a great way to build and strengthen the bond.
I am not connecting with my Partner's kids. I have done so much!
This is normal to feel and experience!
On this episode we walk through what it is like to connect with your partner's kids or they connect with yours.
How to go about it? How to listen to the child's emotions?
These tips will also help if you are having a hard time connecting with your kids without it being a blended family.
This week’s episode of Honeymoon Mindset with Kids is such an important topic we had to break it into 2 episodes!
Accepting Kids’ Emotions... Part 2
How do we not only accept kids’ emotion but help them to identify and deal with their emotions in a healthy way.
When you understand how a child’s brain develops you can stop taking their tantrums personally and help them thrive emotionally.
Listen to this episode for our best tips on how to listen to your kids and help them express themselves. This will build a trusting relationship that will last into their adulthood.
Resources:
WHOLE-BRAIN CHILD by Daniel J. Siegel, M.D. and Tina Payne Bryson, Ph.D.
HOW TO TALK SO KIDS WILL LISTEN & LISTEN SO KIDS WILL TALK by Adele Fabre and Elaine Mazlish
THE YELLING CURE by Robbin McCane (ebook)
Email: kimberly@sunrisemindsetcoaching.com
james@passionateliferanch.com
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Kimberly’s ebook: https://sunrisemindsetcoaching.com/8-keys-peaceful-communication/
A date that will help build and strengthen the bond between you and your partner.
This date you will learn and help each other understand your and theirs communication style.
Learn to listen and speak in style!
What is your communication style?
Is it the same as how you speak and listen?
When we communicate, we each have our own style of how we speak and hear things.
I talk about the different types of style and how they effect how we speak and listen.
We also assume to much when we listen. Learn how to listen to the actual words said and not to the tone and body language.
This week's episode of Honeymoon Mindset with Kids is such an important topic we had to break it into 2 episodes!
Accepting Kids' Emotions... Part1
How do we not only accept kids' emotion but help them to identify and deal with their emotions in a healthy way.
When you understand how a child's brain develops you can stop taking their tantrums personally and help them thrive emotionally.
Listen to this episode for our best tips on how to listen to your kids and help them express themselves.
This will build a trusting relationship that will last into their adulthood.
Resources:
WHOLE-BRAIN CHILD by Daniel J. Siegel, M.D. and Tina Payne Bryson Ph.D.
HOW TO TALK SO KIDS WILL LISTEN & LISTEN SO KIDS WILL TALK by Adele Fabre and Elaine Mazlish
THE YELLING CURE by Robbin McCane (ebook)
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Create a date based on one of the 5 Love Languages.
They are affirmations, time, act of serve, gift or physical
What did you come up with?
How did it go?
When we do the simple things to show love. It will improve the relationship and us at the same time.
We also learn how to use the 5 Love Languages by Dr. Gary Chapman. When we do simple things with them it will connect on all five.
What simple thing are you going to do for your partner today?
Here is the link to the 5 Love Languages Quiz:
https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/
You want to do what? You are already doing so much and running crazy. Getting kids active is very important for their development. There is a correct and a wrong way of scheduling them. Like you they can get spread to thin.
Learn a healthy way to schedule your child/ren. Learn the warning signs to watch for when you child gets over schedule.
Most Importantly, Listen with your heart!
It's Friday and that means date tips and ideas.
A great way to learn about you or your partner is to recreate an experience from the past.
In doing so, you will be able to ask why and see how it effected you or your partner.
This is a great thing to do with kids, because of the questions they will ask.
It may even start a new tradition!
Has your relationship gotten controlling?
How do you help your partner become aware of the issue?
Breaking the Control starts with working on you. You will see patterns from your pass and how they effect you. Your perspective on those experiences will change the meaning.
We give you tips to help start your progress for growth and on how to help make your partner aware and create a willingness to change.
Why are you letting your child/ren drive your car of life?
This is what happens when you do not put yourself first.
It also creates a lot of negative outcome for your child/ren.
What will happen when you learn to put yourself first?
How will your life and kids life improve?
Are you up for the challenge?
Email us at: james@passionateliferanch.com ; kimberly@sunrisemindsetcoaching.com
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Get frustrated with your relationship? Don't know where to start?
To make your relationship better isn't trying to change your partner but yourself first. When you do your relationship will naturally get better. It takes time and work.
Listen for to ideas that Beth and I to help our relationship grow through working on ourselves first.
Raising children starts with a conversation between you and your partner. Talking about what is important early on or now will mold your child/ren for the rest of their lives.
We talk about the how and why it is so important.
We have talked about Honeymoon Mindset. Now, we are going to talk about who is Passionate Life Mentors. What they do.
We are also going to talk about changes to Honeymoon Mindset.
Does your relationship frustrate you? Does it seem stereotypical?
Why do we feel like our relationship fit into a certain type of norm? Only to frustrate us and make the relationship more difficult.
This eposide, I look at where the typical ideal relationship sort of started. When you break out of this stereotypical ideal, then you can work together to make the relationship the way you need it.
It can be frustrating going through the steps. Email Passionate Life Mentors, we will encourage you to create the relationship of your dreams together.
email: info@passionateliferanch.com
What does a good relationship look like?
This episode, I look at what goes into a good relationship. This episose maybe "I already know this."
There is no such thing as a perfect relationship.
What can you find in your relationship that may be lacking?
What can you do better for you? Your partner?
At Passionate Life Mentor, we want to cheer you on to a beautiful relationship. We will listen, just send us an email:
info@passionateliferanch.com
Are you not happy? Your spouse not meeting your needs? Why is it their responsibility?
Today, we talk about Happiness in the relationship. Whose responsibility it is. What happens to the relationship when both have true happiness.
What does it mean to take a break from your partner? Is it ok to take a break?
We talk about the need and purpose for taking a break. Not just any break, a healthy break.
Taking a break will keep you in tuned with yourself and partner.
Not feeling loved by your partner? Don't feel like your meeting your partners needs? In order to meet the need of someone's love, or yours; you need to know what it takes and how to do it. This episode, we talk with Dr. Gary Chapman about the 5 Love Languages in a relationship. Dr. Chapman will talk about what the 5 Love Languages are and how to meet them. This will be an episode that will help get your relationship back into the Honeymoon Mindset. More information can be found at www.5lovelanguages.com
Do you struggle getting on the same page with your spouse in times of struggle? On today’s episode, we discuss an issue that a lot of parents struggle with, and it’s none other than actually parenting.
How do you get on the same page regarding parenting with your spouse?
What can I do to repair a crumbling marriage?
How can I become a better role model to my kids and build a stronger bond with them?
How can I continue to raise my kids properly during the shutdown?
James and Beth Deppa welcome the owners of Badass Family Coaching, Matthew and Kimberly Mullin. They have been married 19 years and have 3 young children.
No matter how much you and your partner love each other, when kids enter the equation, it can become difficult to maintain that same level of attention and compassion. This leads to a slippery slope in your marriage that could end badly unless you become aware and nip it in the bud as soon as possible. Matthew and Kimberly tells us that it all starts with both parents getting on the same page, and working from there.
2 MAJOR POINTS DISCUSSED
● When marital problems arise, you have to work on yourself before you can work together. Ego plays a huge role in most conflicts, and it’s no different—though it’s potentially a more dangerous factor—in marriage. Communication and empathy are huge keys in solving marital issues; but how can you properly communicate with and empathize with your significant other if you’re unable to fully admit, out loud, your own faults? Dig deep and come to terms with what your flaws are and let your husband or wife know that you’re aware, and that you’re willing to change. It’s only when you’re able to be truly humble and honest with each other that you can both take steps to address the issue together.
● Put in the effort to make each other feel appreciated. Being married doesn’t mean that both spouses have to give 50% each to make things work. Rather, marriage requires 100% from both spouses. When problems arise, it almost doesn’t matter whose fault it was. Arguing will only cause you to drift apart, and the conflict will never be resolved regardless of who initially made a mistake. Both will feel unappreciated. You need to give to get. You both have to come together and see things from each other’s point of view. That’s when you come to an understanding, figure out how to solve the problem, and thank each other afterwards. You’ll also come to appreciate each other more after the fact.
RESOURCES
● Visit our websites: www.honeymoonmindset.com and www.passionatelifementors.com
● Join our Facebook group: www.facebook.com/groups/308821070493093
● Email Matthew and Kimberly: BadassFamilyCoaching@gmail.com
● Matthew and Kimberly’s Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/groups/782637015491676
Schedule a free 30 minute Introductory Call: calendly.com/badassfamilycoaching/free-30-min-introductory-call
Do you struggle with feeling negative or down about yourself? On today’s episode, we discuss how self-esteem and confidence are like muscles; they need to be exercised in order to grow!
How can I tell if my loved one has low self-esteem or low confidence and how can I support them?
What can I do to build my own confidence and self-esteem?
How can I support my spouse in these areas?
How do I surround myself with good people?
James and Beth Deppa welcome author, YouTuber, podcaster, project manager, and mindset and confidence coach, Jonny Pardoe, to answer all of these questions and more!
It’s not realistic to be super confident and have high self-esteem all day every day, but there are steps you can take to grow those areas of yourself. Tune into this week’s episode for powerful tips for building confidence and growing your self-esteem, as well as advice for how you and your partner can support each other’s confidence and self-esteem.
2 MAJOR POINTS DISCUSSED
● There are many ways to strengthen your self-esteem and build confidence. Self-esteem is like a muscle, you have to work it to make it stronger. The more you work your self-esteem, the more likely you are to exude confidence! A great place to start is speaking to yourself nicely and making sure you’re taking in positive information. Avoid filling your surrounding with negative news and negative Nancy’s. Surround yourself with positivity by consuming constructive content and having a loving support system. Do the things that make you feel uncomfortable. Venture outside of your safety zone to grow as a person and build your confidence. Jonny emphasizes the importance of having an accountability partner to help you stick to your intentions and reach your goals.
● Support your partner’s self-esteem and confidence. Have you noticed your partner feeling down about themselves? Jonny offers great tips for helping to boost your loved one’s self-esteem and confidence, including complimenting each other, expressing appreciation, and prioritizing spending time with them. Communication with the self and with your partner is key, so asking what you can do to support them when you notice something is off can go a long way. Remember, no one is perfectly confident all the time, so it’s important to accepting each other’s flaws and give them space to be their true selves.
RESOURCES
· Visit our websites: www.honeymoonmindset.com and www.passionatelifementors.com
· Join our Facebook group: www.facebook.com/groups/308821070493093
· Visit Jonny’s website: www.jonnypardoe.com
· Like him on Facebook: www.facebook.com/jonny.pardoe
· Join his Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/260181231743769
· Get his book: www.jonnypardoe.com/books/the-self-esteem-and-confidence-mindset
· Listen to his podcast: www.anchor.fm/jonnypardoe
· Subscribe to him on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/jonnypardoe
Honeymoon Mindset Episode Four: We are answering your questions received from email, Honeymoon Mindset Facebook group, Direct messages.
Many people question the quality of education their children are receiving and wonder if they would be better off teaching their kids themselves. On today’s episode, we discuss how a non-traditional homeschooling system can be more effective in preparing children and teenagers for the adult world than any other type of schooling.
How do I create a high quality educational atmosphere at home?
How would my kids get the social interaction and street smarts they need to survive in the world?
Do I need any fancy technology to make this happen?
James and Beth Deppa welcome Jes and Reid Richardson, a couple with five children who have been homeschooling in an experimental way using wild curiosity, to delve into these important questions.
Not everyone is cut out for homeschooling, and that’s understandable, but 2020 is the perfect time to start questioning whether homeschooling can be a better route for you and your children, especially if they have ADHD or Asperger Syndrome. Tune into this week’s episode for incredible stories and examples of Jes and Reid’s radical education model, showing how studying global school systems changed their family’s lives for the better.
3 MAJOR POINTS DISCUSSED
● Nurture the hearts and minds of children to inspire learning. Jes and Reid teach their children by fostering wild curiosity and answering every question their kids throw at them. Their home environment promotes self-respect, self-worthiness, emotional education, boundaries, consent, and interpersonal relationships. They don’t force education, they wait until their kids are ready and willing to learn. Jes and Reid offer great insight into how a non-traditional, experimental, and holistic schooling system really can provide children and teenagers with a higher quality education that properly prepares them for the adult world.
● Kids need to experience technology. It’s 2020 and technology is unavoidable at this point, but it’s important to know which types of technology are the most ideal for an educational experience. From Minecraft to Adobe Creative Suite, Jes and Reid have mindfully incorporated technology to encourage learning in fun and creative ways. Are you aware of how your kids are using technology?
● How do I get my kids to willingly help me around the house? “Life is so much more than getting a job,” Jes says. Jes and Reid love having real conversations with their children to foster emotional intelligence and to empower them to do things for themselves. If you stink, you can’t hang out around the family. If you eat off a plate, you clean the plate. It’s as simple as that. This results in the kids naturally becoming more capable of doing life tasks and willingly taking on more responsibilities as they get older. Children love being able to do things that adults can do, so why not raise them in a way that makes that possible?
RESOURCES
· Visit our website: www.honeymoonmindset.com
· Find our Facebook group: www.facebook.com/groups/308821070493093
· Visit Jes and Reid’s website: www.superpoweredhumans.com
· Super Scribblenauts
Honeymoon Mindset Episode Two
Visit our web site: honeymoonmindset.com
welcome to honeymoon mindset. We are passionate about helping everyone being in everlasting honeymoon phase. Just like us. We will teach you how to get to paradise and your relationship and stay there for the long haul. Shy away from real talk. No way we covered all fights, sex past relationship. Family issues and a way more, we are your host, Beth and James Deepa.
All right. Welcome to honeymoon mindsets. I'm James Deppa here in Lake city, Minnesota coming to you live. And this is my wonderful wife, Beth, how are you doing Beth? I'm doing good. Do they show we're just going to talk about honeymoon mindset. Just get to know us and who we are. [00:01:00] I said, I'm James. I'm on my second good marriage with Beth together.
We have seven kids. I have five myself. She has two. My first marriage lasted 15 years. It was a little Rocky decided to end it. A year or so later I met Beth at work when I worked for TSA in Rochester, Minnesota, and we got married and 15 five, eight years later, we want to bring what we've learned, what we've experienced and what we've worked on together to make our relationship the way it is.
No right. I'm Beth and her stories are pretty similar. I was married about 16 years. And like he also mentioned, had, uh, two boys from my first marriage. They are now 19 and 22 and trying to navigate life primarily on their own right now between college and work and whatnot. Our situations were fairly similar.
Once we became [00:02:00] friends at work and started talking about things that were going on, I guess both him and I were. Pretty reserved in talking about what was really going on in our lives until we became closer friends. And then it just started to come out and we were able to open up to each other, gain that trust, I guess, and come to find out we were very similar and our, yeah, our friendship just grew.
And eventually, like you mentioned, got married in 2015, but we have learned a lot in the time that we've been friends and been married and. Talking about the different things that we'd gone through in our previous marriages with our kids. And we have come out stronger on the other end and we are over the moon happy and we want everyone to be.
And like Beth said, we kept everything inside. And for me, towards the end of my first marriage, my favorite song, I think it's Kelly Clarkson song. [00:03:00] You know, this better than I do, babe. The one that talks about hitting the bridge pillar and stuff. That's where I was at. That's how I was feeling in my first marriage, because of it.
I wasn't feeling wanted, I wasn't feeling needed, always causing problems and issues. And Beth was there to help afterwards talk and pick the pieces up, helped me figure out why, but we really started going through ourselves, a mindset change just over a year ago. It started with Beth, with her son. Alright.
And we both agreed that if we, we wanted him to make some changes or we knew he needed to make changes, we wanted to make changes in ourselves. And that's where started. So from there we worked on ourselves and then we started listening to Rob dial the mindset mentor, did a challenge there, and then we they've gotten incense involved [00:04:00] with, uh, Tony Robbins and Dean Graziosi.
Honeymoon Mindset Episode One
Visit our web site: honeymoonmindset.com
welcome to honeymoon mindset. We are passionate about helping everyone being in everlasting honeymoon phase. Just like us. We will teach you how to get to paradise and your relationship and stay there for the long haul. Shy away from real talk. No way we covered all fights, sex past relationship. Family issues and a way more, we are your host, Beth and James Deepa.
All right. Welcome to honeymoon mindsets. I'm James Deppa here in Lake city, Minnesota coming to you live. And this is my wonderful wife, Beth, how are you doing Beth? I'm doing good. Do they show we're just going to talk about honeymoon mindset. Just get to know us and who we are. [00:01:00] I said, I'm James. I'm on my second good marriage with Beth together.
We have seven kids. I have five myself. She has two. My first marriage lasted 15 years. It was a little Rocky decided to end it. A year or so later I met Beth at work when I worked for TSA in Rochester, Minnesota, and we got married and 15 five, eight years later, we want to bring what we've learned, what we've experienced and what we've worked on together to make our relationship the way it is.
No right. I'm Beth and her stories are pretty similar. I was married about 16 years. And like he also mentioned, had, uh, two boys from my first marriage. They are now 19 and 22 and trying to navigate life primarily on their own right now between college and work and whatnot. Our situations were fairly similar.
Once we became [00:02:00] friends at work and started talking about things that were going on, I guess both him and I were. Pretty reserved in talking about what was really going on in our lives until we became closer friends. And then it just started to come out and we were able to open up to each other, gain that trust, I guess, and come to find out we were very similar and our, yeah, our friendship just grew.
And eventually, like you mentioned, got married in 2015, but we have learned a lot in the time that we've been friends and been married and. Talking about the different things that we'd gone through in our previous marriages with our kids. And we have come out stronger on the other end and we are over the moon happy and we want everyone to be.
And like Beth said, we kept everything inside. And for me, towards the end of my first marriage, my favorite song, I think it's Kelly Clarkson song. [00:03:00] You know, this better than I do, babe. The one that talks about hitting the bridge pillar and stuff. That's where I was at. That's how I was feeling in my first marriage, because of it.
I wasn't feeling wanted, I wasn't feeling needed, always causing problems and issues. And Beth was there to help afterwards talk and pick the pieces up, helped me figure out why, but we really started going through ourselves, a mindset change just over a year ago. It started with Beth, with her son. Alright.
And we both agreed that if we, we wanted him to make some changes or we knew he needed to make changes, we wanted to make changes in ourselves. And that's where started. So from there we worked on ourselves and then we started listening to Rob dial the mindset mentor, did a challenge there, and then we they've gotten incense involved [00:04:00] with, uh, Tony Robbins and Dean Graziosi.
Honeymoon Mindset Episode One Bonus
Visit our web site: honeymoonmindset.com
welcome to honeymoon mindset. We are passionate about helping everyone being in everlasting honeymoon phase. Just like us. We will teach you how to get to paradise and your relationship and stay there for the long haul. Shy away from real talk. No way we covered all fights, sex past relationship. Family issues and a way more, we are your host, Beth and James Deepa.
All right. Welcome to honeymoon mindsets. I'm James Deppa here in Lake city, Minnesota coming to you live. And this is my wonderful wife, Beth, how are you doing Beth? I'm doing good. Do they show we're just going to talk about honeymoon mindset. Just get to know us and who we are. [00:01:00] I said, I'm James. I'm on my second good marriage with Beth together.
We have seven kids. I have five myself. She has two. My first marriage lasted 15 years. It was a little Rocky decided to end it. A year or so later I met Beth at work when I worked for TSA in Rochester, Minnesota, and we got married and 15 five, eight years later, we want to bring what we've learned, what we've experienced and what we've worked on together to make our relationship the way it is.
No right. I'm Beth and her stories are pretty similar. I was married about 16 years. And like he also mentioned, had, uh, two boys from my first marriage. They are now 19 and 22 and trying to navigate life primarily on their own right now between college and work and whatnot. Our situations were fairly similar.
Once we became [00:02:00] friends at work and started talking about things that were going on, I guess both him and I were. Pretty reserved in talking about what was really going on in our lives until we became closer friends. And then it just started to come out and we were able to open up to each other, gain that trust, I guess, and come to find out we were very similar and our, yeah, our friendship just grew.
And eventually, like you mentioned, got married in 2015, but we have learned a lot in the time that we've been friends and been married and. Talking about the different things that we'd gone through in our previous marriages with our kids. And we have come out stronger on the other end and we are over the moon happy and we want everyone to be.
And like Beth said, we kept everything inside. And for me, towards the end of my first marriage, my favorite song, I think it's Kelly Clarkson song. [00:03:00] You know, this better than I do, babe. The one that talks about hitting the bridge pillar and stuff. That's where I was at. That's how I was feeling in my first marriage, because of it.
I wasn't feeling wanted, I wasn't feeling needed, always causing problems and issues. And Beth was there to help afterwards talk and pick the pieces up, helped me figure out why, but we really started going through ourselves, a mindset change just over a year ago. It started with Beth, with her son. Alright.
And we both agreed that if we, we wanted him to make some changes or we knew he needed to make changes, we wanted to make changes in ourselves. And that's where started. So from there we worked on ourselves and then we started listening to Rob dial the mindset mentor, did a challenge there, and then we they've gotten incense involved [00:04:00] with, uh, Tony Robbins and Dean Graziosi.
Welcome to the Honeymoon Mindset
Beth and James Deppa have a huge passion for helping couples create this mindset. They have been working on this for over 5 years. They are doing this because they struggled in their first marriages. The desire to not make the same mistakes again, they started to learn how to do this. They have been mentored by some of the best, read books, listened to podcasts, researched online and talked with people in different fields and experiences. They sat down with each other and worked through it piece by piece. They have now created a relationship that is strong (even during an argument), caring (even after being hurt by the other) and lovable (even more than the honeymoon phase). It is this process that they want to share with others and help them achieve the Honeymoon Mindset that they are experiencing. It is even stronger and better than when they realized they were truly meant to be together.