Talk With the Yelowlady: Recent Episodes
Peace Oladipo
A person who is not mentally stable reflects their actions and pain on whatever they do. Your mental health reflects on your emotions, the way you think and act and also how you relate to others.
Having to choose whether to pursue love or money is something you need to take your time and think of, check if you can balance both but if you can't I'll advice you go back to the source of it.Which is? The creator of everything (God)
Successful relationships are built on love,trust, respect, support, acceptance,shared interests and a desire for the two people involved to share their lives....
"If you let love rule your heart there is no obstacle,no barrier,no problem you can't overcome. This is God's promise to every human being and it is key to liberation for us all.Love is the most powerful force in the universe, and it is also the most available force, because everyone can tap into it".
Life is pain,love is pain,no one can protect you from the feeling and you can't run from it either.
What you expect is what you get,do not settle for less in a relationship and note that if you want your partner to show you love then do the same,if you want affection and attention make yourself available for your partner to get their own share you.You can't be expecting something from someone and then you can't do anything in return,the relationship is both hands and not just one.
Relationships are like living things,they need to be nurtured and cared for which is why you need to get your mind,soul and body ready for whatever storm that comes your way,if you're not ready to make yourself available then it will all fall apart.Think about it!!!
How far/much can you love?Like I said,(till death) and that's if I'm sure we ain't fooling around with each other and out of a 100% I love 99.I'm a person who loves deeply and in doing that I won't want to lose myself so that's why I left the remaining 1% out cus I don't know tomorrow and people do change no matter how much love you show to them.
Focus on your attitude adjustments!who you are really matters,your identity reflects in everything you do even in your relationship.
I'll keep emphasizing on this until I feel I can come off it because it's a thing we should all take serious.Relationships are meant to be taken care of and you can't do that if you don't go through the process of building yourself,it starts and ends with you!!
Some people go into relationships and they find it difficult to keep it because they're not ready,they haven't discovered themselves to know what they really want.I don't know much about relationships but I know that self discovery is important.PS:I didn't know that before someone very special made me realize this which is why I feel y'all should know this.
Apart from marriage been the no 1 reason of a relationship there are other reasons why people feel they should be in a relationship.Some have the wrong reason and that's why they don't enjoy it and I'll be talking about some in this episode.