If These Ovaries Could Talk: Recent Episodes
Jaimie Kelton
The Queer Parents Podcast about making babies and non-traditional families. Lesbian mom Jaimie Kelton humorously goes in-depth with weekly guests about their hopes, fears, and setbacks. The mission is to normalize, elevate and celebrate, while confirming that we're just like other parents, trying not to yell at our kids when they still haven't put their shoes on and we're 25 minutes late for school. The end result is a compelling podcast that amusingly explores the age-old question: what's it like to live as an LGBTQ family in a world built for the straights?
Peggy Gillespie returns to The Queer Family Podcast with even more stories, accolades, and queer advocacy badassery.
Peggy Gillespie, co-founder of Family Diversity Projects and creator of Love Makes a Family and Authentic Selves, is back for our Pride Extravaganza—and she has not slowed down. Since her first appearance on the show, Peggy has been honored by Family Equality, hugged by Katie Couric, and danced her way into queer history. In this episode, host Jaimie Kelton sits down with Peggy to hear about the Family Equality Gala, her powerful new exhibits centering trans and nonbinary folks, and her ongoing mission to flood schools, libraries, and public spaces with true representation.
They also unpack why “normal” is a dangerous word, how early childhood bias takes root, and why telling our stories—especially in this political climate—is more vital than ever.
🎙️ “If you want to hate people, go hate the people causing violence and injustice in the world—not the people just trying to live as their authentic selves.” – Peggy Gillespie
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🏳️🌈 Key Takeaways
- How a racist moment in her child’s preschool led to a national movement for representation
- The creation and impact of “Love Makes a Family,” “Of Many Colors,” and “Authentic Selves”
- Peggy’s surprise spotlight moment at the Family Equality Gala
- Bringing LGBTQIA+ and multiracial family exhibits to schools and workplaces
- Her dreams for a scripted series based on Family Week in Provincetown
🏳️🌈 About the Guest(s)🏳️🌈
Peggy Gillespie is the co-founder of Family Diversity Projects and the creator behind groundbreaking exhibits like Love Makes a Family and Authentic Selves. For over 30 years, she’s been amplifying stories of LGBTQIA+, multiracial, and underrepresented families in schools, libraries, and public spaces nationwide. Peggy is a writer, activist, and proud queer mom—and a true force for inclusion.
🏳️🌈 Resources Mentioned
- Learn more and support: familydiversityprojects.org
🏳️🌈 What resonated most with you?
Drop a comment, DM us, or email thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com—we love hearing your stories!
🏳️🌈 Let’s Connect!
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Darra Gordon, the new CEO of Family Equality, joins host Jaimie to share her wild, beautiful, and intentional journey to queer parenthood—while simultaneously leading in LGBTQ+ advocacy. In a conversation filled with laughs, wisdom, and the occasional tween meltdown tangent, Dara opens up about trying to conceive at the same time as her wife, choosing donors (yes, plural), navigating unexpected challenges, and raising three incredible kids—including a nonbinary teen—in a world that’s not always built for queer families. Plus, they discuss why Family Equality’s work matters more than ever in our current political climate.
🎙️ "We were dating... and trying to get pregnant at the same time." — Darra Gordon
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🏳️🌈 Key Takeaways
- Trying to conceive at the same time as your partner (!)
- Choosing sperm donors before even meeting each other
- Donor egg decisions and honoring cultural heritage
- The emotional layers of queer fertility journeys
- Raising a nonbinary teen with pride and purpose
- Why queer families need legal protections—and how Family Equality is fighting for them
🏳️🌈 About the Guest(s)🏳️🌈
Darra Gordon (she/her) is the newly appointed CEO of Family Equality, a national organization dedicated to advancing equality for LGBTQ+ families. A lifelong nonprofit leader and social justice advocate, Dara brings decades of experience from roles at GLAAD and the Hetrick-Martin Institute, where she led organizational growth and transformation. Outside of her powerhouse advocacy work, Dara is a proud queer mom of three—including a nonbinary teen—and is deeply committed to building a world where all families are seen, supported, and protected. Her work and her parenting are both rooted in intention, visibility, and love.
🏳️🌈 Resources Mentioned
- Family Equality – Learn more about the organization Dara leads and their critical work advocating for LGBTQ+ families through education, policy, and legal support.
- California Cryobank – Thinking about building your family with donor sperm? Use code QUEERFAM25 for a free Level 2 subscription to their donor catalog.
- Second-Parent Adoption & Parentage Resources – Not sure what legal protections your family needs? Family Equality’s guide to parentage and adoption laws can help.
- Personal Best – Darra’s queer awakening movie recommendation! A 1982 cult classic about two women athletes falling in love.
- Need support on your queer family-building journey? Browse The Queer Family Podcast’s archive for dozens of real stories from folks who’ve been there.
🏳️🌈 What resonated most with you?
Drop a comment, DM us, or email thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com—we love hearing your stories!
🏳️🌈 Let’s Connect!
Find us on IG, TikTok, Bluesky, & YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast 🏳️🌈 Watch full episodes on YouTube
🏳️🌈 Order the If These Ovaries Could Talk book
🏳️🌈 Edited by: Jerson Barajas 🏳️🌈 Theme Song by: Tiffany Topol 🏳️🌈 Logo by: Daneen Stevenato 🏳️🌈 Shop merch here. 🏳️🌈 Full transcript & episode info available on our website
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Kyle Casey Chu (@pandadulce) is a drag performer, author, filmmaker, and one of the founding queens of Drag Story Hour—and in this powerful Pride Extravaganza episode, Kyle joins host Jaimie Kelton to talk about the art and activism that’s helping queer youth thrive. Kyle opens up about growing up in San Francisco with his autistic twin brother, coming out in middle school, and how queer joy, drag, and storytelling became his path to healing.
He shares the terrifying moment when Proud Boys stormed his reading at a public library—and how he turned that trauma into a short film now making waves on the festival circuit. And Kyle’s not stopping there: he also just released his debut middle-grade novel The Queen Bees of Tybee County, a story rooted in queer joy, chosen identity, and pageant glamor.
This conversation is about imagination, healing, and finding light even in dark places. It’s a celebration of the resilience of queer families, kids, creators, and the radical power of showing up in joy.
🎙️ “We don’t have the benefit of systems being created for us. So we have to craft them by hand. And hurt.” – Kyle Casey Chu
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🏳️🌈 Key Takeaways
- The origins of Drag Story Hour and its mission
- Kyle’s journey as a queer Chinese American artist
- Facing and responding to hate with courage and creativity
- Writing queer joy for middle schoolers in The Queen Bees of Tybee County
- How media representation impacts identity
- The importance of queer imagination
🏳️🌈 About the Guest(s)🏳️🌈 Kyle Casey Chu, AKA Panda Dulce is a San Francisco-based drag performer, writer, filmmaker, and one of the pioneering figures of Drag Story Hour, a program designed to introduce children to diverse role models through the art of storytelling. Known for his work in social advocacy and his creative pursuits, Kyle holds a background in social work and education. He is also an accomplished author with his debut middle-grade book, "The Queen Bees of Tybee County," and the filmmaker behind "After What Happened at the Library", which sheds light on his personal experience with hate crime.
🏳️🌈 Resources Mentioned
- The Queen Bees of Tybee County
- After What Happened at the Library is currently on the festival circuit
🏳️🌈 What resonated most with you?
Drop a comment, DM us, or email thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com—we love hearing your stories!
🏳️🌈 Let’s Connect!
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Brian Crano and David Joseph Craig are husbands, dads, filmmakers—and now the creators of a new dark comedy based on their real journey to queer parenthood. In this powerful and delightfully funny Pride Extravaganza episode, they sit down with host Jaimie Kelton to share how their long, complicated path to adoption—complete with a scam, soul-searching, and spreadsheets—turned into “I Don’t Understand You,” a heartfelt horror-comedy now hitting theaters.
The couple opens up about the grief, the grit, and the gay tax of becoming parents, how their birth mother became the hero of their story, and why queer joy deserves more screen time. Plus, Jaimie shares her reactions to the film (spoiler alert: she hasn’t finished it yet) and why telling our stories, no matter the genre, is an act of pride.
🎙️ “There’s a level of loss in queer family building. And also? So much joy.
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🏳️🌈 Key Takeaways
- From blind date to 15 years together
- A dark comedy based on their actual adoption journey
- Facing a devastating adoption scam—and choosing to keep going
- Working with a lawyer instead of an agency
- Why their birth mother is the hero of the story
- The trauma, thoughtfulness, and transformation of queer family building
- Centering queer joy on screen
🏳️🌈 About the Guest(s)🏳️🌈
Brian Crano and David Joseph Craig are partners in life, parenting, and storytelling. As filmmakers, their work explores the beauty, absurdity, and emotional complexity of modern life—and now, queer family building. Their new film, “I Don’t Understand You” (starring Nick Kroll and Andrew Rannells), is based on their own experience navigating the U.S. adoption system and finding joy, love, and humor in the chaos. They live in Los Angeles with their 5-year-old son.
🏳️🌈 Resources Mentioned
- 🎥 I Don’t Understand You – In theaters now
- Brian and David on Instagram: @cranoandcraig
🏳️🌈 What resonated most with you?
Drop a comment, DM us, or email thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com—we love hearing your stories!
🏳️🌈 Let’s Connect!
Find us on IG, TikTok, Bluesky, & YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast 🏳️🌈 Watch full episodes on YouTube
🏳️🌈 Order the If These Ovaries Could Talk book
🏳️🌈 Edited by: Jerson Barajas 🏳️🌈 Theme Song by: Tiffany Topol 🏳️🌈 Logo by: Daneen Stevenato 🏳️🌈 Shop merch here. 🏳️🌈 Full transcript & episode info available on our website
🗳️ VOTE. 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ ADVOCATE. 🍼 BUILD QUEER FAMILIES.
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Darren Graham (@therealdarrengraham), a single gay dad by choice and content creator, shares his beautiful and powerful journey to fatherhood. Originally from St. Vincent, Darren opens up to host Jaimie Kelton about his path through trauma, coming into his queerness, and eventually adopting his son as a solo parent. He also shares how parenting has become a space of healing and intention, and why he never "came out"—he simply confirmed who he was all along. This episode is a celebration of resilience, chosen family, and the many ways queer folks build home.
🎙️ "I didn’t come out. I just confirmed who I’ve been all along." - Darren Graham
🏳️🌈 Thanks to our sponsor California Cryobank!
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🏳️🌈 Key Takeaways
- Growing up in St. Vincent and navigating identity
- Trauma, resilience, and the healing power of parenting
- Becoming a single gay dad by choice through adoption
- Queer family visibility and representation
- Why Darren never "came out"
🏳️🌈 About the Guest(s)🏳️🌈
Darren Graham is a single gay dad by choice, content creator, and fierce advocate for queer families. His candid and joyful posts on social media (@therealdarrengraham) have resonated with thousands, and he uses his platform to highlight the beauty and realities of intentional parenthood. Originally from St. Vincent, Darren now lives in the U.S. with his young son.
🏳️🌈 Resources Mentioned
- Darren on Instagram: @therealdarrengraham
🏳️🌈 What resonated most with you?
Drop a comment, DM us, or email thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com—we love hearing your stories!
🏳️🌈 Let’s Connect!
Find us on IG, TikTok, Bluesky, & YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast 🏳️🌈 Watch full episodes on YouTube
🏳️🌈 Order the If These Ovaries Could Talk book
🏳️🌈 Edited by: Jerson Barajas 🏳️🌈 Theme Song by: Tiffany Topol 🏳️🌈 Logo by: Daneen Stevenato 🏳️🌈 Shop merch here. 🏳️🌈 Full transcript & episode info available on our website
🗳️ VOTE. 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ ADVOCATE. 🍼 BUILD QUEER FAMILIES.
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It’s Pride Extravaganza, y’all! 🌈
To kick off this month-long celebration of queer family goodness, Jaimie sits down with Brian Rosenberg, longtime advocate, dad of three, and founder of Gays With Kids and GWK Academy. From navigating HIV and homophobia in the '80s to building a beautiful family through adoption and surrogacy, Brian shares his powerful story with honesty, humor, and heart.
He opens up about the challenges of coming out as HIV-positive before coming out as gay, what it was like to raise kids during a time when queer family building had very little visibility, and why he’s now dedicated to making the process easier for all LGBTQIA+ folks looking to become parents. You’ll laugh, cry, and walk away feeling a little more seen.
🎙️ “I’m one of the first out gay men living with HIV to have biological kids through surrogacy. Now there are hundreds of us—and counting.” – Brian Rosenberg
🏳️🌈 Thanks to our sponsor California Cryobank! Thinking of growing your queer family? Use code QUEERFAM25 at cryobank.com for a FREE Level 2 subscription to their donor catalog!
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🏳️🌈 Key Takeaways
- Brian’s coming out journey and living with HIV
- Adoption heartbreak and eventual joy
- Becoming one of the first out gay men to use sperm washing
- Raising twins through surrogacy
- The creation of Gays With Kids and GWK Academy
- Resources for every LGBTQIA+ family-building path
🏳️🌈 About the Guest(s)🏳️🌈 Brian Rosenberg is the founder of Gays with Kids and the GWK Academy. He is an advocate for LGBTQIA+ families and has been instrumental in providing resources and support for gay men and the broader LGBTQ community on their journeys to parenthood. Brian, along with his husband, has three children gained through adoption and surrogacy. His initiatives through Gays with Kids aim to help others navigate the complexities of gay fatherhood and family building.
🏳️🌈 Resources Mentioned
- Gays With Kids
- GWK Academy
- Gays with Kids on Instagram
- GWK Academy on Instagram
🏳️🌈 What resonated most with you?
Drop a comment, DM us, or email thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com—we love hearing your stories!
🏳️🌈 Let’s Connect!
Find us on IG, TikTok, Bluesky, & YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast 🏳️🌈 Watch full episodes on YouTube
🏳️🌈 Order the If These Ovaries Could Talk book
🏳️🌈 Edited by: Jerson Barajas 🏳️🌈 Theme Song by: Tiffany Topol 🏳️🌈 Logo by: Daneen Stevenato 🏳️🌈 Shop merch here. 🏳️🌈 Full transcript & episode info available on our website
🗳️ VOTE. 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ ADVOCATE. 🍼 BUILD QUEER FAMILIES.
The information shared in this episode is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. Always consult a trusted professional for your specific situation!
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This joyful, visibility-filled throwback deserves another listen.
Originally aired during our 2023 Pride Extravaganza, this episode features Brian and Alec Mazelin, a gay couple raising their daughter and showing up online as their fabulous, authentic selves. Their story of love, intentional family building, and unapologetic visibility is exactly what we need right now.
🎙️ “The more we show up, the more space we take up—and that matters.” – Brian Mazelin
In a time when LGBTQIA+ families are being erased from classrooms and attacked in legislation, the Mazelins’ presence is political. Their family is love in action, and this episode is your reminder that we’re still here, still queer, and still thriving.
🛑 This episode originally aired in June 2023, but its message is even more vital in 2025.
🎧 Take a listen. Share it wide. Let’s take up space together.
🏳️🌈 Thanks to our sponsor California Cryobank!
Thinking of growing your queer family? Use code LOVEISLOVE at cryobank.com for a FREE Level 2 subscription to their donor catalog!
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🏳️🌈 Key Takeaways
- Finding your community and building it yourself
- Deciding to show up publicly as a queer family
- Parenting a young daughter while navigating online hate—and love
- Using humor and honesty to shift narratives
- Why being seen is part of the resistance
🏳️🌈 About the Guest(s)🏳️🌈
Brian and Alec Mazelin (@meetthemazelins) are husbands, fathers, and content creators using their platform to normalize LGBTQ+ families and spread a message of pride, joy, and unapologetic queer parenting.
🏳️🌈 What resonated most with you?
Drop a comment, DM us, or email thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com—we love hearing your stories!
🏳️🌈 Let’s Connect!
Find us on IG, TikTok, Bluesky, & YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast 🏳️🌈 Watch full episodes on YouTube
🏳️🌈 Order the If These Ovaries Could Talk book
🏳️🌈 Edited by: Jerson Barajas 🏳️🌈 Theme Song by: Tiffany Topol 🏳️🌈 Logo by: Daneen Stevenato 🏳️🌈 Shop merch here. 🏳️🌈 Full transcript & episode info available on our website
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This Pride Month warm-up replay is a must-listen.
Peggy Gillespie—author, queer parent, and co-director of Family Diversity Projects—has been celebrating LGBTQIA+ families and underrepresented voices for decades. In this episode (originally part of our Pride Extravaganza), she shares how her work has helped shift hearts and minds across the country—including the very communities where our identities are under attack today.
🎙️ “A child should wear what they feel comfortable in.” – Peggy Gillespie
We’re bringing this one back now because, in a time when lawmakers like Ron DeSantis and Greg Abbott continue to pass anti-LGBTQ legislation, we need stories like Peggy’s more than ever. From Don’t Say Gay bills to book bans, our families are under fire. But Peggy reminds us that queer joy, truth, and visibility will always be revolutionary.
🛑 This episode originally aired in June 2022 as part of our Pride Extravaganza, but it hits harder than ever in 2025.
🎧 Take a listen. Share it wide. And let’s keep showing up.
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🏳️🌈 Resources Mentioned
- 💥 Learn more about Peggy:
🏳️🌈 What resonated most with you?
Drop a comment, DM us, or email thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com—we love hearing your stories!
🏳️🌈 Let’s Connect!
Find us on IG, TikTok, Bluesky, & YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast 🏳️🌈 Watch full episodes on YouTube
🏳️🌈 Order the If These Ovaries Could Talk book
🏳️🌈 Edited by: Jerson Barajas 🏳️🌈 Theme Song by: Tiffany Topol 🏳️🌈 Logo by: Daneen Stevenato 🏳️🌈 Shop merch here. 🏳️🌈 Full transcript & episode info available on our website
🗳️ VOTE. 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ ADVOCATE. 🍼 BUILD QUEER FAMILIES.
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Casey and Sarah share their beautiful, uniquely queer family-building journey—featuring a known donor (Sarah’s brother!), a nonbinary pregnancy, chestfeeding after top surgery, and building a milk-sharing network. Plus, we dive into Sarah’s breast cancer diagnosis and how their love and resilience are carrying them through. Full of heart, humor, and radical queer joy. 🌈
Through all the twists and turns, Casey and Sarah’s story is a powerful reminder: queer families show up for each other, through everything—birth, milk, chemo, and beyond.
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🏳️🌈 Key Takeaways
- Trans, nonbinary pregnancy after testosterone and top surgery
- Using a known donor (Sarah’s brother!) for at-home insemination
- Creating a milk-sharing collective and inducing lactation
- Navigating second-parent adoption and estate planning
- Facing a breast cancer diagnosis as queer parents of young kids
- The emotional parallels between pregnancy, parenting, and cancer journeys
- How queer love and resilience show up in every stage of family building
- 📍 Bonus: That moment when your mechanic plants the seed that one day you might be asked to be a sperm donor. #JustQueerThings
🏳️🌈 About the Guest(s)🏳️🌈
Casey and Sarah are a married couple living in Philadelphia with their two young children. Casey (they/them) is a nurse practitioner specializing in trans healthcare and a midwifery school educator. Sarah (she/her) is a loving parent, breast cancer warrior, and advocate for queer family visibility. Their story weaves together themes of chosen family, resilience, humor, and radical love.
🏳️🌈 Resources Mentioned
- California Cryobank – Use code: LOVEISLOVE
- Journey Law (Philadelphia area family law specialists)
🏳️🌈 What resonated most with you?
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🏳️🌈 Let’s Connect!
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Kim and Katie walk us through their ultra-intentional path to queer family building: from meeting online and moving in together lesbian-fast, to getting certified as foster parents just in case, to navigating a heartbreaking late miscarriage after IUI in a clinic, to finding success through home insemination—and thawing donor sperm under a boob.
As we dive deeper, the episode unpacks the layered complexities of queer family building. The couple reflects on the fear and beauty of non-biological parenthood, the nuanced choice between known and anonymous sperm donors, and how a simple donor mix-up led to a deeper understanding of what really makes a family. With humor, heart, and radical honesty, Kim and Katie show us the power of queer intentionality, the importance of early and open conversations with their daughter, and the legal logistics we all have to consider—especially now.
Through all the twists and turns, their story is a beautiful reminder: queer families are built with love, purpose, and a whole lot of intention.
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🏳️🌈 Key Takeaways
- From foster certification to home ICI: A uniquely intentional family-building journey
- The donor mix-up that became a story for the ages
- Navigating miscarriage, grief, and queer resilience
- The non-bio parent perspective and bonding fears
- Choosing an anonymous donor—and rethinking it years later
- Legal protections, second-parent adoption, and estate planning
- Talking to their daughter about donor conception, early and often
📍 Bonus: The sperm vial was thawed under a boob. Yes, really.
🏳️🌈 About the Guest(s)🏳️🌈
Kim and Katie are a married lesbian couple raising their 7-year-old daughter in a predominantly straight suburb outside of Philadelphia. After facing unexpected hurdles—including a pregnancy loss, a donor switch, and the legal logistics of queer parenting—they’re now parenting with joy, honesty, and visibility. Their story is a testament to the power of love, intention, and community.
🏳️🌈 Resources Mentioned
- California Cryobank – Use code: LOVEISLOVE
- Zach’s Safari by Vanessa Brantley-Newton (children’s book about donor conception)
🏳️🌈 What resonated most with you?
Drop a comment, DM us, or email thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com—we love hearing your stories!
🏳️🌈 Let’s Connect!
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What happens when your best friend offers to help you make a baby?
Jaimie sits down with Kait and Sophie—two queer folks trying to build their family—and their longtime friend (and now known donor!) Oliver. Together, they open up about the winding road that led them to one another, how a heartfelt email changed everything, and the love, planning, and community it takes to make a family—queer style.
This is not your average family-building journey. From navigating fibroids and reciprocal IVF to creating legal contracts and sharing meals during donation week, their story is bursting with intention, humor, and a deep sense of abundance. They’re redefining what family can look like—and we’re lucky to listen in.
🏳️🌈 Thanks to our sponsor California Cryobank!
Thinking of growing your queer family? Use code LOVEISLOVE at cryobank.com for a FREE Level 2 subscription to their donor catalog!
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🏳️🌈 Key Takeaways
- Choosing a known donor over a sperm bank
- Medical complexities & the fibroid factor
- Navigating clinics as a queer trio
- Legal agreements, counseling, and the emotional labor of baby-making
- The beauty (and messiness) of chosen family
📍 Bonus: Hear how they found joy, built connection, and created space for grandparents, even across donor lines.
🏳️🌈 About the Guest(s)🏳️🌈
Kait and Sophie are a married queer couple deep in the baby-making process, navigating everything from medical hurdles to donor contracts with heart, humor, and a whole lot of intention. Oliver is their longtime friend (and now known donor!) who offered to help grow their family in the most beautiful, chosen-family kind of way. Together, they’re showing us what queer family building can look like when it’s rooted in care, communication, and abundance.
🏳️🌈 Resources Mentioned
- California Cryobank – Use code: LOVEISLOVE
- Modern Families: Stories of Extraordinary Journeys to Kinship by Joshua Gamson
- And Baby Makes More: Known Donors, Queer Parents, and Our Unexpected Families edited by Susan Goldberg and Chloe Brushwood Rose
- LGBTQIA Family Law Attorneys: Mentioned law firms include Aaron Robinson and Tabitha Coe’s office specializing in queer family planning.d
🏳️🌈 What resonated most with you? Drop a comment, DM us, or email thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com—we love hearing your stories!
🏳️🌈 Let’s Connect!
Find us on IG, TikTok, Bluesky, & YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast
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🏳️🌈 Edited by: Jerson Barajas
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🏳️🌈 Logo by: Daneen Stevenato
🏳️🌈 Shop merch here
🏳️🌈 Full transcript & episode info available on our website
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Two mamas. Two wombs. One donor. In this episode, Ana and Becky share their epic journey of building a family through simultaneous reciprocal IVF—yes, they were both pregnant at the same time. From pandemic sperm shortages to second-parent adoption logistics, this is a deeply lesbian, wildly honest, and beautifully queer tale of love, planning, and two babies born just five weeks apart.
This is a story of planning, spreadsheets, love, and so much queer resilience. Also, sperm selfies. And silk pajamas. You don’t want to miss this one.
🏳️🌈 Thanks to our sponsor California Cryobank!
Thinking of growing your queer family? Use code LOVEISLOVE at cryobank.com for a FREE Level 2 subscription to their donor catalog!
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🏳️🌈 Key Takeaways
- Why they chose reciprocal IVF—and why they did it at the same time
- The donor selection process (including that pandemic sperm shortage!)
- Their deeply lesbian love story, from U-Hauls to board books
- Lessons from the postpartum trenches (and why doulas and dog trainers were essential)
- Second-parent adoption x2—just to be safe
- And the beauty of watching your two toddlers snuggle up in the same bed at night
🏳️🌈 About the Guest(s)🏳️🌈
Ana and Becky are a married couple living in the San Francisco Bay Area. They’re thoughtful, funny, spreadsheet-loving parents of two, passionate about intentional family building, queer visibility, and silk pajamas.
🏳️🌈 Resources Mentioned
- California Cryobank – Use code: LOVEISLOVE
- Get you TQFP Merchhere!
🏳️🌈 What resonated most with you?
Drop a comment, DM us, or email thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com—we love hearing your stories!
🏳️🌈 Let’s Connect!
Find us on IG, TikTok, Bluesky, & YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast
🏳️🌈 Watch full episodes on YouTube
🏳️🌈 Order the If These Ovaries Could Talk book
🏳️🌈 Edited by: Jerson Barajas
🏳️🌈 Theme Song by: Tiffany Topol
🏳️🌈 Logo by: Daneen Stevenato
🏳️🌈 Shop merch here
🏳️🌈 Full transcript & episode info available on our website
Photo Credit: Lila Gray Photography
🗳️ VOTE. 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ ADVOCATE. 🍼 BUILD QUEER FAMILIES.
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Jaimie sits down with Jacob and Riley, a T4T (trans-for-trans) couple redefining what it means to be a modern family. From co-parenting with Jacob’s platonic best friend to conceiving their son using nothing but love, timing, and a little queer magic (yes, really!), this episode is a beautiful, affirming deep-dive into queer love, chosen family, and intentional parenthood.
They open up about stopping hormones to conceive, the emotional journey of pregnancy as a trans man, and how gender identity shaped their experience of becoming “Mom” and “Dad.” If you’ve ever questioned what a queer family can look like—this story is for you.
🏳️🌈 Plus, Jaimie shares why queerness isn’t a burden—it’s a higher calling.
🏳️🌈 Thanks to our sponsor California Cryobank!
Thinking of growing your queer family? Use code LOVEISLOVE at cryobank.com for a FREE Level 2 subscription to their donor catalog!
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🏳️🌈 Key Takeaways
- Queer family building, redefined: Jacob and Riley show us that with intention, love, and a little queer magic, you can create a family that looks nothing like the so-called “traditional” model—and that’s exactly the point.
- Trans pregnancy joy is real: Jacob carried their baby, and spoiler alert—it wasn’t dysphoric. It was actually beautiful. Let’s expand what we think we know about pregnancy and identity.
- Mom and Dad, but make it queer: They weren’t sure those labels fit them at first. But once their son arrived? The imposter syndrome faded, and the roles made sense in their own unique way.
- Queerness as a calling: Jacob reminds us that being queer isn’t just who we are—it’s why we do what we do. It’s power. It’s purpose. It’s community.
🏳️⚧️ About the Guest(s) 🏳️🌈
Jacob is a trans man, a seahorse dad, and the founder of Pride and Purpose Coaching, empowering queer folks to live their truth. Riley is a trans mom with a passion for emotional intelligence, spirituality, and chosen family.
🔗 Resources Mentioned
- California Cryobank – Use code: LOVEISLOVE
- Find Jacob at: @prideandpurposecoaching on IG & Facebook 🌐 Website coming soon: prideandpurposecoaching.com
- Everywhere Is Queer Apple and Android
💬 What resonated most with you?
Drop a comment, DM us, or email thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com—we love hearing your stories!
📲 Let’s Connect!
Find us on IG, TikTok, Bluesky, & YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast
📺 Watch full episodes on YouTube
📖 Order the If These Ovaries Could Talk book
🎶 Edited by: Jerson Barajas
🎵 Theme Song by: Tiffany Topol
🎨 Logo by: Daneen Stevenato
🛍️ Shop merch here
📜 Full transcript & episode info available on our website
🗳️ VOTE. 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ ADVOCATE. 🍼 BUILD QUEER FAMILIES.
The information shared in this episode is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. Always consult a trusted professional for your specific situation!
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Jaimie sits down with Liam—a Scottish-born, England-based gay dad—who shares the winding road he and his husband took to adopt their daughter through the UK’s foster-to-adopt system. From intense evaluations to surprise newborn pick-up calls, this story is filled with love, bureaucracy, and a whole lot of intention.
You’ll hear how growing up under Section 28 shaped Liam’s identity, how he and his husband made the decision to adopt, and why they ultimately said yes to early permanence—despite the risks. It’s a moving, insightful story that shows just how badass LGBTQIA+ parents are.
🚨 Plus, Jaimie shares a personal update on her wife’s chemotherapy journey and why now is the time to secure those second-parent adoptions if you're in the U.S. 🚨
🏳️🌈 Thanks to our sponsor California Cryobank!
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🏳️🌈 Key Takeaways
- (00:01:30) Growing up gay under Section 28 in Scotland
- (00:08:15) Jaimie welcomes Liam
- (00:16:00) Why intention is central to queer parenting
- (00:23:35) “The world’s worst game show”: Deciding what you’re equipped to handle in a child
- (00:33:55) Foster-to-adopt in the UK: what it is and why Liam and his husband chose it
- (00:47:40) How a paperwork technicality delayed their adoption by 6 months
- (01:00:50) Why Liam and his husband are choosing to be a one-child family—for now
👨👨👧 About the Guest
Liam is a Scottish-born gay dad living in the north of England with his husband and daughter. His story offers a rare and honest look at the UK’s foster-to-adopt process, shedding light on the emotional and bureaucratic hurdles many queer parents face—and the deep joy that follows.
🔗 Resources Mentioned
- California Cryobank – Use code: LOVEISLOVE
- Gaytriarchs Podcast
💬 What resonated most with you?
Drop a comment, DM us, or email thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com—we love hearing your stories!
📲 Let’s Connect!
Find us on IG, TikTok, Bluesky, & YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast
📺 Watch full episodes on YouTube
📖 Order the If These Ovaries Could Talk book on Amazon, IndieBound, or Audible
🎶 Edited by: Jerson Barajas
🎵 Theme Song by: Tiffany Topol
🎨 Logo by: Daneen Stevenato
🛍️ Shop merch here
📜 Full transcript & episode info available on our website
✊🏽 Take Action
- Secure your parental rights with a second-parent adoption
- Support foster youth and adoptive families
- Vote, donate, and advocate for LGBTQIA+ rights
📢 Because representation matters—and queer families aren’t going anywhere.
History is watching. What we do now matters.
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Caitlyn, one half of @2ladiesand2babies on social media joins Jaimie to talk all things queer parenting, social media, and the ongoing fight for LGBTQIA+ visibility. From hilarious parenting fails to the not-so-funny rise of online hate, they dive into how social media has shifted for queer creators in today's political climate. They also discuss second-parent adoption, why legal protection is a must for LGBTQ+ families, and how to handle the trolls that come with being openly queer online.
This is a fun and heartfelt conversation between two gay moms who are just trying to raise good humans—while also dealing with a lot of ridiculousness from their kids (and the internet).
🚨 And if you haven’t already, secure your parental rights with a second-parent adoption! Caitlyn and Jaimie share why it's crucial—and how you might not need a lawyer to do it. 🚨
🎧 Listen now for the laughs, the real talk, and a reminder that representation really matters.
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🏳️🌈 Key Takeaways 🏳️🌈
- (00:01:10) Meet Caitlyn from 2ladiesand2babies—hilarious queer content creator and mom of two.
- (00:06:05) Parenting is a shit show—but laughing at it helps.
- (00:12:00) The state of social media: How trolls have ramped up, and why it’s more important than ever to stay visible.
- (00:22:50) "I’m woke AF." Fighting the myth that woke is a bad word.
- (00:36:29) Second-parent adoption: What it is, why it matters, and how you might be able to do it yourself without a lawyer.
- (00:45:31) “I've been lazy.” Jaimie on realizing the fight for LGBTQ+ rights is far from over.
- (00:50:04) Knitting at a protest? It tracks.
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
- Caitlyn is a social media influencer and content creator who, along with her wife, operates the popular social media account "@2ladiesand2babies." Caitlyn shares candid and humorous insights into her family life as a mom of two boys. She brings a unique perspective as a social worker, while her wife is a homicide detective, giving their audience a multifaceted view of family dynamics and parenting. Caitlyn's content is appreciated for its authenticity and humor, often shedding light on everyday parenting challenges with a queer lens.
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
- California Cryobank - cryobank.com (Use code: LOVEISLOVE)
- Find 2ladiesand2babies
- TikTok
- YouTube
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🎶 Edited by: Jerson Barajas
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🎨 Logo art by: Daneen Stevenato
🛍️ Shop our merch here
📜 Full transcript & more info on our website
✊🏽 Want to make a difference?
🗳️ Vote, donate, and advocate for LGBTQ+ rights
📢 Call your representatives—let them know we won’t stand for discrimination
💡 Educate yourself & others on policies affecting our community
History is watching. What we do now matters.
The information shared in this episode is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. While we chat with amazing organizations, The Queer Family Podcast isn’t responsible for any decisions or actions taken by listeners based on the content of the show. Always consult with a trusted professional for your specific situation!
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Marie Newman isn’t just an advocate—she’s a fighter. As a former Congresswoman from Illinois, she took on big fights for LGBTQ+ rights, healthcare equity, gun reform, and more. But her mission became personal when her daughter came out as transgender, propelling her even deeper into the fight for equality.
In this episode, Marie shares her unexpected path to Congress, the struggles of passing meaningful legislation, and why she refuses to back down—even as anti-LGBTQ+ rhetoric ramps up across the U.S. and beyond. She also opens up about her family’s journey, the reality of raising a trans child in today’s political climate, and what we can all do to push back against the attacks on our rights.
🔥 Nobody is coming to save us—we have to be the ones to step up. 🔥
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🏳️🌈 Key Takeaways 🏳️🌈
- ✔️ How Marie’s fight for LGBTQ+ rights began—and why she made it her mission
- ✔️ Her journey to Congress & the challenges of passing real change
- ✔️ Raising a trans child & navigating the medical & legal system
- ✔️ The dangerous rollback of trans rights & DEI policies
- ✔️ How to get involved and push back against anti-LGBTQ+ legislation
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
- Marie Newman is a former U.S. Congresswoman from Illinois who built a career fighting for marginalized communities. Before politics, she worked in marketing, anti-bullying activism, and women’s rights advocacy. She’s also the author of A Life Made From Scratch, a powerful memoir about her journey. As the mother of a trans daughter, Marie has dedicated her career to creating a more inclusive world.
- 📖 Preorder her book, "A Life Made From Scratch," here
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
- California Cryobank - cryobank.com (Use code: LOVEISLOVE)
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🎶 Edited by: Jerson Barajas
🎵 Theme song by: Tiffany Topol
🎨 Logo art by: Daneen Stevenato
🛍️ Shop our merch here
📜 Full transcript & more info on our website
✊ Put your activism into action
🗳️ Vote, donate, and advocate for LGBTQ+ rights
📢 Call your representatives—let them know we won’t stand for discrimination
💡 Educate yourself & others on policies affecting our community
History is watching. What we do now matters.
The information shared in this episode is for educational purposes only and not a substitute for professional advice. While we chat with amazing organizations, The Queer Family Podcast isn’t responsible for any decisions or actions taken by listeners based on the content of the show. Always consult with a trusted professional for your specific situation!
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Heather grew up in the Bible Belt as the daughter of a gay man and a pastor’s granddaughter, suppressing her truth for years. She married a man, started a family, and did everything ‘right’—until, at 38, she realized she was a lesbian… while on a literal therapy call in the closet. Now, she’s untangling decades of religious trauma, reclaiming her identity, and proving that it’s never too late to live your truth.
🏳️🌈Thanks to our sponsor California Cryobank! Thinking of growing your queer family? Use code LOVEISLOVE at cryobank.com for a FREE Level 2 subscription to their donor catalog!
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🏳️🌈 Key Takeaways 🏳️🌈
- 🏳️⚧️ Religious trauma and its lasting impact on queer identity
- 💡 The moment she realized she was a lesbian—while on a literal therapy call in the closet!
- 💜 Coming out while married with kids: the struggles & breakthroughs
- ✨ Healing generational trauma & embracing authenticity
- 👩👩👧 Co-parenting post-divorce and navigating life after coming out
Heather’s story is raw, real, and so damn relatable for anyone who’s ever questioned themselves or had to untangle the messaging they were raised with. And let’s be honest—many of us have. Her journey reminds us that it’s never too late to live in your truth.
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
- Heather is a 40-year-old late-in-life lesbian, single mom, and spiritual seeker from Fort Worth, Texas. Raised in a deeply religious environment as the daughter of a gay man, she spent years struggling with religious trauma before fully embracing her truth at age 38. Now, she’s on a mission to heal generational trauma, co-parent with love, and help others navigate the journey to self-acceptance. Heather is also launching a new podcast, Cozy Betches, where she explores healing, queerness, and authenticity.
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Jaimie sits down with gender diversity expert Rachel Hulstein-Lowe to talk about raising transgender and non-binary kids in today’s political climate. Rachel, a parent of a non-binary child, shares insights on the impact of anti-trans legislation, generational shifts in understanding gender, and how parents can advocate for their kids. She also opens up about her own family’s history—her father came out in the Midwest during the AIDS crisis—and how the stigma against gay people then mirrors today’s attacks on the trans community. This episode is all about love, resilience, and the power of community in the face of discrimination.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- Acknowledge and understand the parallels between past and present struggles faced by the LGBTQIA+ community in the face of societal opposition and stigmatization.
- Emphasize the importance of staying informed, engaged, and vocal about the challenges and legislative threats faced by the transgender community.
- Advocate for trans rights by actively engaging with others who may not be aware of the issues facing the community.
- Parents are encouraged to believe and support their children throughout their identity journey, as self-discovery and acceptance are pivotal for a child's well-being.
- Building a network of support and community can provide the necessary resources and emotional strength needed to navigate these challenging times.
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
- Rachel Hulstein-Lowe, a gender diversity expert and parent coach currently based in the Boston area, has dedicated her career to uplifting the stories of transgender individuals and their families. Her personal journey is intimately entwined with this mission as she is the proud mom of a non-binary child. Rachel's expertise in social work emphasizes social justice and diversity, making her a valuable voice in discussions around gender identity.
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As the U.S. ramps up its attacks on LGBTQIA+ rights, it’s hard not to see the parallels with Italy and other conservative countries tightening their grip on queer families. The Queer Family Podcast dives into this reality with Giuseppe, a single gay dad who built his family through surrogacy in the U.S.—something he could never have done in his home country of Italy, where surrogacy and adoption for queer parents are outright banned.
Despite these barriers, Giuseppe persevered, proving once again that LGBTQIA+ folks will always find a way to thrive. His story is a testament to the power of resilience, chosen family, and the unbreakable spirit of queer parents everywhere. Tune in for an eye-opening conversation about the global fight for family equality and how, no matter what laws are thrown at us, we will keep pushing forward.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- Surrogacy Challenges: Giuseppe highlights the challenges and obstacles of pursuing surrogacy abroad amid Italy's restrictive laws against queer family-building.
- Family & Identity: Giuseppe's journey reveals the struggles of forming a chosen family in a society where traditional norms heavily influence social acceptance.
- Societal Barriers: The narrative underscores the ongoing societal and legislative challenges faced by LGBTQIA families in Italy, including the rollback of rights.
- Community Support: The significance of chosen family and support networks in overcoming personal and societal obstacles is emphasized throughout Giuseppe's story.
- Advocacy & Resilience: Giuseppe's experiences reflect the broader necessity for continuous advocacy for LGBTQIA rights and the power of resilience in the face of adversity.
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
- Giuseppe is a 56-year-old gay father from Italy who has bravely navigated the complexities of parenthood and identity in a conservative society. His journey to fatherhood involved international surrogacy, defying stringent Italian laws against surrogacy and adoption for single individuals.
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Jaimie shares a heartwarming conversation with Sophie and Agnese from London, showcasing the resilience and adaptability of queer families. They detail navigating the NHS fertility system, selecting a sperm donor, and the emotional challenges faced during the process, including a sperm shipment fiasco, a miscarriage, and a couple of womb switches along the way. Through perseverance and adaptability, their journey ultimately leads to a successful pregnancy. Tune in for an inspiring testament to love, determination, and the beautiful complexities of LGBTQIA family-making.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- The process of choosing a sperm donor involves numerous considerations, often shifting from physical attributes to health factors.
- Miscommunications during international sperm shipments can pose significant challenges, but situational resilience is key.
- Emotional support and understanding are crucial in managing the personal and shared complexities linked to fertility treatments and unexpected hurdles.
- Shifting roles in pregnancy within a queer relationship can foster deeper mutual understanding and reinforce the bond between partners
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
- Sophie and Agnese are a resilient and inspiring queer couple based in London, England. Sophie works as a casting agent in the film industry, while Agnese, originally from Rome, Italy, has established herself in the tech sector. Together for six years and married for two, they are on an incredible journey to build their family, expecting their first child after navigating the complexities and challenges of assisted reproduction as a lesbian couple in the UK.
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Jaimie sits down with Caitlin, a lesbian mom who, alongside her wife Ashley, spent six years navigating the path to parenthood with a known donor. They dive into the complexities of donor relationships, legal agreements, and the unexpected yet beautiful involvement of the donor’s parents as paternal grandparents. Caitlin shares her experiences with different insemination methods, medical challenges, and the profound joy of growing their family. This episode offers an honest and insightful look at the many layers of building a family within the LGBTQIA+ community.
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- Known donor arrangements can vastly differ from anonymous ones, providing unique dynamics and potential for deeper familial connections.
- Legal frameworks, such as donor contracts and second-parent adoptions, are essential components to consider in family planning for queer families.
- The emotional complexities of involving known donors include managing relationships with donor relatives and potential changes in family dynamics.
- Mosi Baby Kit played a pivotal role in Caitlin’s successful at-home insemination efforts.
- An emphasis on openness and honesty in communicating donor origins to children is critical for Caitlin's family philosophy.
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
- Caitlin is a dog groomer in San Diego, which is where she met both her wife and her donor. Caitlin's story is one of perseverance, resilience, and the unique dynamics of known donor family-building.
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
- California Cryobank - cryobank.com (Use code: LOVEISLOVE)
- The Lesbian Guide to Conception (Book, mentioned in the discussion)
- Mosie Baby Kit - tell ‘em Jaimie sent ya ;)
- Clear Blue Advanced Ovulation Kit
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Jaimie welcomes Sarah and Tamara to discuss their journey as queer moms and grandmothers, exploring the complexities of known donor conception, non-biological parenting, and how gender norms influence body image. Sarah shares her personal experience with the BRCA gene and the emotional journey of breast removal, offering diverse perspectives on body identity and self-expression. Together, they emphasize the importance of open conversations about gender and representation. The episode also highlights their documentary, Not Quite That, and its role in sparking meaningful dialogue within the LGBTQIA+ community.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- Sarah and Tamara's pioneering path as a lesbian couple navigating family planning via a known donor showcases the evolving landscape of queer family options.
- The significance of supportive community networks and chosen family, exemplified by their close-knit relationship with their donor and expanded family.
- An intricate discussion on gender expression and body image, catalyzed by Sarah's personal experience as a BRCA gene carrier, underscores the wider implications for identity exploration.
- The podcast emphasizes the critical need for representation and gender-affirming healthcare for non-cis folks within medical and societal contexts.
- Impactful insights on parenting within a queer context showcase how open communication and love can foster healthy family dynamics, contributing to the overall well-being of children.
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
- Sarah and Tamara are partners and trailblazing parents within the LGBTQIA+ community, having been together for nearly 40 years. Sarah is a business owner and also BRCA2 gene positive, sharing her personal journey through a documentary titled Not Quite That. Tamara is a therapist and together with Sarah, they are proud mothers of three children and have recently become grandmothers, extending their loving family further.
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
- Not Quite That https://notquitethat.ca/
- California Cryobank (LOVEISLOVE) https://www.cryobank.com/
- Rainbow Railroad to support mother and daughter, Pari and Pani (https://sponsor-a-case.funraise.org/team/help-a-lesbian-woman-and-her-daughter-to-safety)
- Hereditary Cancer Resources:
- United States
- Canada
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Jaimie interviews Elle Moxley, founder of the Marsha P. Johnson Institute, to discuss the ongoing fight for gender-affirming care and trans rights amidst political regressions. With a new administration coming into the White House, this timely conversation underscores the urgent need for community support, visibility, and action in combating hate and protecting transgender individuals. Elle shares insights on fostering collaborative solidarity and provides valuable resources for building stronger, more inclusive communities. This episode focuses on the resilience of the LGBTQIA+ community and offers hope and guidance for navigating these challenging times.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- Elle Moxley stresses the importance of gender-affirming care as a basic human right vital to the existence and identity of transgender individuals.
- The Marsha P. Johnson Institute is actively working to develop comprehensive resources like the Trans Bill of Rights toolkit to support the transgender community.
- Recent legislative measures in states like Ohio highlight the urgent requirement for collective activism and community solidarity.
- Families and allies have crucial roles in educating themselves and supporting transgender rights by participating in local advocacy efforts.
- The underlying aim of oppressive legislation is control and domination, emphasizing the necessity for community resilience and perseverance.
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
- Elle Moxley is a prominent activist and the founder and Executive Director of the Marsha P. Johnson Institute. Elle is dedicated to protecting the human rights of Black transgender people in the United States, advocating against the mounting legislative attacks on the transgender community. With a lifetime commitment to social justice, Elle has been a pivotal leader within critical social movements over the last decade and a fierce advocate for gender-affirming care, striving to ensure safety, visibility, and community support for transgender individuals.
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
- Marsha P. Johnson Institute: marshap.org
- Elle Moxley on Instagram: @elle_moxley
- Trans Bill of Rights Toolkit: marshap.org/toolkit
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Replay Alert: Originally Aired 2023
Jaimie and guest co-host Tom dive into the complexities of known donor dynamics in queer parenting, featuring insights from guests Marea and Ray, midwives sharing their personal journeys. Explore the intricacies of donor selection, legal agreements, and family integration. Marea and Ray discuss their unique conception stories and how supportive community structures like midwifery can enhance the childbirth and postpartum experience. Discover how their shared experiences led to the collaborative development of their book, "Baby Making for Everybody," offering guidance for LGBTQ and solo parents navigating family building.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- Known donor arrangements can add complexity to family building but provide significant emotional and genetic clarity for queer families.
- The importance of supportive postpartum care cannot be overstated, with Marea and Ray advocating for well-prepared post-birth environments.
- "Baby Making for Everybody" is a vital guidebook for LGBTQ+ and single parents, filled with practical advice and personal experiences.
- Community and peer support are invaluable during the processes of queer conception, pregnancy, and parenthood.
- Birth stories shared on social media by Marea and Ray serve to normalize and celebrate the diverse realities of childbirth.
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
- Marea and Ray are trailblazing queer midwives and authors who co-authored the book "Baby Making for Everybody." Marea is a licensed midwife who specializes in supporting the LGBTQ+ community throughout conception, pregnancy, birth, and the postpartum period. She is also the founder of PregnantTogether— a virtual community for queer folks and solo parents from TTC through parenting. Ray has been actively involved in home birth midwifery for over a decade. Both Marea and Ray are committed to providing accessible, empowering reproductive care and education for the LGBTQ+ community and solo parents.
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
- Pregnant Together: Marea's (virtual) community supporting queer folks & solo parents from preconception through parenting. Use this special link for a month free!
- Ray's Midwifery Practice: Refuge Midwifery on Instagram
- Book: "Baby Making for Everybody" Available on babymakingforeverybody.com
- Social Media for the Book: Baby Making for Everybody on Instagram
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Replay Alert: Originally Aired 2020 This episode first aired in 2020, back when the show was called If These Ovaries Could Talk, co-hosted with Jaimie’s co-founder, Robin Hopkins. With the new changes coming to government, Gena Jaffe’s work with Connecting Rainbows is more important than ever.
In this episode, Gena shares her journey using reciprocal IVF to create her family and how that experience inspired her to found Connecting Rainbows. Her organization helps LGBTQ folks navigate starting, growing, and protecting their families. This conversation is just as relevant today as it was when it first aired.
Tune in and learn how Connecting Rainbows continues to make an impact!
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- Reciprocal IVF Journey: Genna Jaffe shares her family-building experience, emphasizing that the journey can take unexpected but rewarding turns.
- Legal Awareness: The importance of legal protections like second parent adoption and healthcare proxy for LGBTQ families cannot be overstated.
- Connecting Rainbows: A comprehensive platform launched by Genna Jaffe to provide LGBTQ individuals and families with vetted legal and fertility resources.
- Community Support and Education: Genna's initiative not only offers legal resources but aims to educate and empower the LGBTQ community.
- Navigating Fertility Decisions: The episode discusses insurance challenges and the nuances involved in selecting a fertility path, highlighting the necessity for informed choices.
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
- Genna Jaffe is a lawyer who specializes in business law. Alongside her legal career, she is also renowned for her robust social media presence where she educates and shares her journey as a part of the LGBTQ community. Jenna is passionately involved in supporting LGBTQIA+ families, demonstrated by her creation of the organization Connecting Rainbows, which connects individuals and families with legal resources and fertility support. Her expertise and dedication extend to advocating for the community and creating a comprehensive platform to assist with family planning and protection.
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
- Connecting Rainbows
- Connecting Rainbows on Instagram
- Gena Jaffe’s personal Instagram
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Join Derek and Romaine of The DNR Show for a festive bonus holiday episode featuring special guest Jaimie! 🎄✨ We’re diving into holiday traditions, family dynamics, and all the gay holiday cheer you could ask for 🙃🤪. From heartwarming memories to queer holiday vibes, this episode is perfect for anyone navigating modern family life or just looking to keep their holidays a little more fabulous.
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Jaimie chats with Aiden, a trans dad, about embracing differences, self-discovery, and building his family—first as a solo parent and later in a polyamorous relationship. They dive into sperm donation with a known donor, IVF, pregnancy loss, and the importance of connection, community, and representation. Aiden also shares his dream of starting a podcast for trans parents.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- Aiden emphasizes the importance and beauty of living authentically, illustrating how one's unique perspective can positively influence and transform society.
- Sharing personal experiences, Aiden debunks myths around transitioning and fertility, highlighting key aspects of parenthood after testosterone.
- Through nuanced storytelling, the episode sheds light on the significance of finding community support and the value of chosen family in navigating queer parenting.
- The episode addresses the emotional complexities of miscarriage, emphasizing resilience and the healing journey amid loss.
- Aiden advocates for trans-inclusive birth work and comm
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
- Aiden (he/him) is a trans dad, neurodivergent individual, and a queer community advocate. He embarked on a journey of becoming a solo parent and later transitioned into a polyamorous family structure with his partner. Aiden is passionate about creating awareness and representation for trans parents and is currently venturing into becoming a labor doula while sharing his rich experiences through a podcast aimed at supporting trans families.
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
- Aiden's Personal Instagram: @flyguy.circus
- Podcast Instagram: Transparent Journeys
- California Cryobank Website: California Cryobank - Use promo code LoveIsLove for a free level one subscription to their donor catalogue.
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Jaimie welcomes Lamia to the to discuss zir journey of embracing gender fluidity and using Ze/Zem pronouns. They explore Lamia's experiences navigating parenthood as both a biological and non-biological parent within a queer and multi-ethnic context. Lamia shares personal stories, including the challenges and joys of raising children with known donors, the importance of energetic healing through acupuncture, and the impact of losing close relatives. This episode offers an intimate look into queer family dynamics, gender identity, and community support.
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- Lamia Gibson shares an authentic narrative of embracing genderfluidity and utilizing the pronouns Ze/Zem to represent zem true self.
- The discussion highlights the significance of representation and understanding diverse gender experiences within the LGBTQIA+ community.
- Lamia elaborates on the complexities and joys of queer family building, such as using known donors and navigating non-biological parenting challenges.
- The episode underscores the pivotal role of holistic health practices, like acupuncture and Chinese medicine, in enhancing fertility and overall well-being.
- Jaimie and Lamia emphasize the
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
- Lamia Gibson is a dynamic and insightful guest with a rich background in acupuncture, meditation, and gender advocacy. As a genderqueer, parent to three, Lamia offers a unique perspective on parenting and family dynamics. With 22 years of experience as an acupuncturist, Lamia is passionate about holistic health, energetic healing, and the profound impact these can have on fertility and general well-being.
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Katie tells Jaimie about how she went from not wanting kids to ending up with 10 of them. As a queer mom who built her family through fostering and adoption, Katie shares her journey of embracing a queer identity while married to a man, and navigating the unique challenges of parenting a big family. Together, they dive into themes of love, chosen family, and the deep connections that come with fostering and adoption. Katie also talks about her work with Camp Quest, a summer camp dedicated to critical thinking and inclusion. Don’t miss this inspiring conversation about creating safe spaces and empowering young minds.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- Katie Hladky-Grant's journey underscores the intersectionality of queer identity and foster care, highlighting how LGBTQIA individuals often excel in nurturing environments for adopted and fostered children.
- The complexities of balancing personal identity, family dynamics, and the societal perceptions of queer relationships provide enriching perspectives on modern family structures.
- Camp Quest serves as a beacon for encouraging critical thinking and individuality among children, standing in opposition to traditional gender and heteronormative segregation.
- This episode intricately discusses the role of foster care within the LGBTQIA community, advocating for more inclusive and expansive definitions of family and parental roles.
- Jaimie and Katie’s dialogue illustrates the broader implications of chosen family and community, emphasizing the strength and resilience often found in non-traditional family settings.
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
- Katie Hladky-Grant is a queer foster parent and Camp Quest leader from Ohio, dedicated to supporting vulnerable children and fostering critical thinking in youth education.
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
- Camp Quest - an organization focused on promoting critical thinking and fostering an accepting environment for children. www.campquest.org
- The founding executive director of Camp Quest, Amanda Metskas, co-authored Raising Freethinkers, which includes a chapter about Camp Quest and reflects their secular humanist approach to youth development. You can explore the book here.
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Jaimie revisits her birth story, originally shared on the podcast when it was called "If These Ovaries Could Talk." Celebrating over seven years of normalizing LGBTQIA family narratives, Jamie reflects on how her expectations of an idyllic birth experience were upended, a metaphor she connects to the current socio-political climate and the Thanksgiving week. After years of unexplained infertility, Jaimie finally got pregnant. One would think that would mean she was due an easy birth. But one would be wrong for thinking that. From birth to busted boobs. Hear how her second child made his way into the world.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- Jamie's birth story serves as a metaphor for dealing with unexpected life outcomes and finding hope despite challenges.
- The experience highlights the unpredictability of childbirth and the pressures of preconceived expectations.
- Jamie discusses the emotional and physical demands of new motherhood, emphasizing the uniqueness of each child and parental experience.
- The episode sheds light on the societal pressures surrounding childbirth and breastfeeding, urging for understanding and support over judgment.
- A call to build supportive communities around shared experiences, prioritizing authenticity and inclusivity.
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
- Camp Highlight: https://camphighlight.com, mentioned as a sponsor of the episode.
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Megan and Greyson join Jaimie to talk about their journey to parenthood. They discuss using a known donor, at-home insemination with a Frida Fertility kit, and navigating family planning as an LGBTQIA couple in Florida’s challenging political climate. Megan highlights disability representation in parenting, while Grayson shares stories of his transition and military service, offering a powerful narrative of love, resilience, and identity.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- Megan and Greyson are embarking on a new journey as expectant parents while tackling unique challenges posed by their backgrounds, including transgender identity and cerebral palsy.
- Their story highlights the intricacies of family planning for LGBTQIA families, including the use of known donors and personal insemination kits like Frida Fertility.
- Grayson’s transition in his 30s adds depth to discussions about representation, acceptance, and the ongoing fight for transgender rights in today's socio-political climate.
- The couple shares their strategies for navigating a healthcare system not fully adapted to their needs, emphasizing the importance of personalized care.
- Megan showcases resilience, advocating for visibility an
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
- Megan and Grayson: Megan and Greyson are proud expectant parents hailing from Tallahassee, Florida. Megan is an inspiring advocate for people with disabilities, working full-time and studying simultaneously while managing cerebral palsy. Greyson is a transgender male who bravely transitioned in his 30s. He served as a veteran in the U.S. Military during "don't ask, don't tell" and currently works with the Florida Department of Corrections. Their journey together reflects resilience, love, and the power of family.
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
- Frida Fertility: An at-home insemination kit used by Megan and Grayson.
- Mosie Baby: Another option for at-home insemination kits mentioned in the episode.
- @heyginasena : Referenced as a social media influencer providing actionable steps for LGBTQIA rights advocacy.
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Join Jaimie for an inspiring episode with Aspen and Eren, exploring LGBTQIA+ family dynamics, gender identity, and inclusive parenting. Aspen shares their journey from wanting to parent solo to finding love with Eren and choosing a known donor. Eren discusses their non-binary identity and the challenges of authentic, supportive parenting in a society slow to embrace fluidity. This episode highlights resilience, love, and the importance of representation for LGBTQIA+ families and future generations.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- Aspen and Eren's family journey highlights the possibilities of building a family outside traditional norms, focusing on love and personal identity.
- Transitioning and self-exploration need not fit into a binary definition, and it's natural for one's understanding of self to evolve.
- Visibility and representation in media are crucial for normalizing LGBTQIA+ families and offering support to those navigating similar paths.
- Maintaining open, honest discussions about origins and identity fosters a secure, open environment for children.
- Books and storytelling serve as effective tools for parents to introduce and normalize diverse identities and orientations to their children.
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
- Aspen and Eren are a dynamic trans and non-binary couple who bravely share their unique journey of identity, family-building, and self-discovery. Aspen, a passionate advocate for expressing gender fluidity, courageously navigated the process of becoming a parent through home insemination. Bringing vast experiences and resilience, they have crafted a family with Eren, a non-binary partner who embraced their own complex identity and parentage dynamics. Together, they are devoted to creating a supportive environment for their child, enlightened by their diverse journey.
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
- Mosie Baby Kit: A tool used by Aspen for home insemination.
- Books mentioned include those explaining the LGBTQIA spectrum for children, like "He's My Mom" and the Alphabet book on identities.
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Jaimie and guest S. Bear Bergman delve into love, family, and LGBTQIA identity against the backdrop of the 2024 political climate. Bear shares his journey from coming out at 15 to 35+ years of activism and parenting as a queer, trans parent. He opens up about the joys and challenges of inclusive parenting, co-parenting with a known donor, and living progressive values. Bear also introduces his new book, Special Topics in Being a Parent, packed with insights for inclusive parenting. Tune in for a heartfelt, hopeful, and humorous look at modern queer family life.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- Progressive Parenting: Emphasizes the need for inclusive, conscious parenting practices that align with progressive ideals in modern family life.
- Transitional Advocacy: Bear shares his journey and the pivotal role of educational and activist work in fostering acceptance and understanding.
- Queer Families: Insights into building and nurturing queer families, addressing known donor situations, adoption laws, and the value of community support.
- Educational Literatura: Highlights the importance of inclusive literature as seen through Bear's publishing company, Flamingo Rampant.
- Resilience and Hope: Encourages finding strength and positivity in community bonds during challenging times, particularly relevant to queer parents and children.
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
- S. Bear Bergman is a writer, activist, and educator specializing in LGBTQIA+ topics. A queer and trans father, Bear has been involved in activism from a young age. Known for his insightful writing and advocacy, Bear has also established a children's inclusive publishing company, Flamingo Rampant, which focuses on creating literature that celebrates diverse identities in families and communities.
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
- S. Bear Bergman’s Website: sbearbergman.com
- Flamingo Rampant (Inclusive Children's Publishing Co.): Flamingo Rampant Website
- Bear’s New BooK: Special Topics in Being a Parent
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Join host Jaimie as she talks with Alicia and Emily, a queer couple who left a conservative Christian university in Texas for a new life in Scotland. They reflect on the challenges they faced with family acceptance and the struggles of growing up in restrictive environments. In Scotland, they’ve found a supportive healthcare system that has made reciprocal IVF not only affordable but also accessible, transforming their parenthood journey. Against the current socio-political climate in the U.S., Alicia and Emily's story offers an inspiring look at finding community and hope abroad as they pursue their family dreams.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- Healththcare Differences: Scotland's national healthcare system offers more affordable and accessible fertility treatments than are typically available in the U.S.
- Reciprocal IVF Journey: Alicia and Emily chose reciprocal IVF, with Emily providing the eggs and Alicia carrying their daughter, illustrating an ideal familial path for them.
- Family and Acceptance: Navigating familial relationships as a queer couple from a conservative background was challenging, yet Alicia and Emily have learned to find and create supportive networks.
- Mental Health Advocacy: Alicia's experience with therapy and medication underscores the importance of mental health stability, especially when navigating processes like fertility treatment.
- Queer Visibility: Their story contributes to greater visibility of queer families, and highlights the vital need for supportive environments and policies.
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
- Alicia and Emily are a queer couple originally from the United States, who are now living in Scotland. Both Alicia and Emily grew up in conservative religious environments in Texas, where they first met in university. Overcoming personal, familial, and societal challenges, they relocated to Scotland, where they are now raising their daughter. Emily works in a specialized field, which facilitated their move abroad, while Alicia has found strength in therapy and advocacy for mental health.
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- California Cryobank: Explore donor options and use promo code "LOVEISLOVE" for a Level 2 subscription at cryobank.com.
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Jaimie welcomes Nico Lang, creator of Queer News Daily and author of "American Teenager." With the 2024 presidential election looming, they explore the complexities of trans youth experiences and the crucial role of supportive families in today's challenging socio-political climate. Nico shares insights from their book, highlighting the diverse lives of trans kids across the U.S., and emphasizes the importance of representation and advocacy. With personal reflections and shared stories, this episode underscores the need to affirm the humanity and rights of queer individuals, urging listeners to engage and support the community.
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- Nico Lang shares their insights into the creation of "American Teenager" and the importance of telling stories of trans youth as a means to foster understanding and empathy in society.
- The conversation reveals the multifaceted challenges faced by trans youths and their families, including societal rejection and self-identity struggles.
- The episode highlights varied responses from parents of trans children, stressing the necessity for empathy, support, and active involvement in their child's journey.
- As elections approach, both Nico Lang and Jaimie urge listeners to exercise their right to vote, influencing policies that fundamentally affect LGBTQIA+ communities.
- Through personal anecdotes and insights, Nico encourages readers and listeners to support local LGBTQ+ communities and engage in acts of kindness and inclusion.
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
- Nico Lang is an LGBTQ+ journalist and author, renowned for amplifying the voices and stories within the queer community. As the creator behind the social media profile "Queer News Daily," Nico provides crucial news and insights pertinent to LGBTQIA+ communities worldwide. Recent achievements include the publication of "American Teenager," a compelling book that sheds light on the experiences of trans youths across the United States. With over a decade in queer journalism, Nico has contributed to numerous publications and is dedicated to advocating for underrepresented voices in the LGBTQ+ spectrum.
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
- Queer News Daily Instagram
- Book: "American Teenager" by Nico Lang (Available on Bookshop.org and local bookstores)
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Part of the mini-series following Nicole and Shannon’s journey to parenthood, Jaimie and the couple chat with Angela Rastagar from Sunfish about the financial challenges queer families face. They explore the costs of sperm donation, egg donation, IVF, and surrogacy. Listeners are introduced to the resources and support Sunfish provides, including grants, a loan marketplace, and a unique IVF success program, all aimed at facilitating a smoother journey to parenthood.
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- Angela Rastagar emphasizes the financial challenges of queer family-building, describing the costs associated with sperm and egg donations, IVF, and surrogacy.
- Sunfish offers a range of resources, including a cost calculator, a searchable grants database, and financial education to help prospective parents plan their financial journey.
- Angela shares insights on potential financing solutions for those embarking on assisted reproductive journeys through Sunfish's loan marketplace and support services.
- Nicole and Shannon are encouraged to start by evaluating their fertility as a practical first step in their family planning process.
- The importance of proactive financial planning is highlighted,
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
- Angela Rastagar is the co-founder and CEO of Sunfish, an organization dedicated to making assisted reproductive journeys more affordable. With a background in biology and significant experience as a director at one of the largest surrogacy agencies, Angela has committed her career to supporting reproductive rights and family building. Her work focuses on reducing financial barriers in fertility and assisted reproduction through innovative solutions and resources, including education and financial planning assistance.
- Nicole and Shannon: Nicole is the long-time assistant and right-hand human on The Queer Family Podcast. She has been working on the show for two years, helping to highlight, uplift, and normalize LGBTQIA families. Shannon, Nicole's wife, comes from a background in working with children, particularly in the foster care system. Together, they explore the complexities and considerations of starting a family as a queer couple.
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
- Sunfish: For resources and support on assisted reproductive journeys, visit joinsunfish.com.
- Follow Sunfish: Connect with Sunfish on social media via their handle @joinsunfish for updates and resources.
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Nicole and Shannon continue their journey to parenthood with Jaimie as they explore the known donor route with Danielle from Seed Scout. Danielle shares her personal story and the motivation behind her agency, which provides ethical family-building options for LGBTQIA families. Together, they discuss the benefits and complexities of known versus anonymous donors, including ethical concerns, medical history updates, and donor relationships.
Key topics include transparency, ethical considerations in donor selection, and the personal experiences of donors and recipient families. The conversation also covers Seed Scout’s comprehensive process, from matching potential donors to legal steps and ongoing communication that prioritizes the child's future and health. Jaimie, Nicole, and Shannon offer listeners valuable insights into the nuances of choosing a donor, balancing ethics, choice, and the desire to build a loving family.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- Danielle's Foundational Work: Danielle created Seed Scout to provide an ethical and transparent path to parenthood.
- Benefits of Knowing Your Donor: The episode emphasizes the value of choosing a known donor for securing updated medical records and fewer half-sibling connections.
- Complex but Rewarding Process: Although labor-intensive, the process involves careful selection, legal agreements, and regular donor communications to ensure transparency and ethical integrity.
- Diversity and Representation: Seed Scout prioritizes a diverse donor pool, offering donors from various ethnic backgrounds and life experiences.
- Intentional Family Building: The episode underscores the thorough, intentional process that LGBTQ+ families undergo to ensure ethical, loving family creation.
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
- Danielle Winston is the founder of Seed Scout, an agency dedicated to connecting clients with known sperm donors, offering a transparent and ethical alternative to traditional sperm banks. After starting her own family with her wife, who is a pediatrician, Danielle recognized a gap in the donor conception process that led her to launch her company. They help families navigate complex emotional and logistical paths to parenthood with unique focus points, such as updated medical histories and facilitating ethical donor engagements.
- Nicole and Shannon: Nicole is the long-time assistant and right-hand human on The Queer Family Podcast. She has been working on the show for two years, helping to highlight, uplift, and normalize LGBTQIA families. Shannon, Nicole's wife, comes from a background in working with children, particularly in the foster care system. Together, they explore the complexities and considerations of starting a family as a queer couple.
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
- Seed Scout – Seed Scout's Website https://www.theseedscout.com/
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In the third episode of the series, Nicole and Shannon Want a Baby, or Do They?, Jaimie, Nicole, and Shannon dive into the world of donor conception with Sydney Sharon, an expert from California Cryobank. With 45 years of experience in the fertility industry, California Cryobank is known for its strong support of LGBTQIA+ families. Sydney discusses the advantages of using a large sperm bank, including their extensive donor catalog, stringent screening processes, and comprehensive support services.
The episode covers critical topics like the psychological and medical screening of donors, ethical considerations when choosing a sperm bank, and the services that help simplify the donor conception journey—from preconception to post-conception. Join us as Nicole and Shannon continue exploring the many paths to growing their family with expert guidance.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- Comprehensive Support: California Cryobank offers extensive support services throughout the donor conception journey, including preconception consultation, sibling registries, and post-conception services.
- Stringent Screening Processes: The sperm bank ensures donors undergo rigorous psychological and medical screenings to provide the highest quality donor profiles.
- Inclusive Services: They offer unique benefits like second-parent adoption letters and free vial transfer options, specifically catering to LGBTQIA families.
- Financial Planning: With several financial support options, including financing and storage plans, California Cryobank helps make the donor conception process more accessible.
- Community Building: The sibling registry and other communit
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
- Sydney Sharon is the Social Media Influencer Manager at California Cryobank, the leading sperm bank in the United States. Sydney is not only a professional in the field but also a proud mother of three donor-conceived children thanks to California Cryobank. With a deep personal and professional investment in the world of donor conception, Sydney offers unique insights and comprehensive support for families navigating their fertility journeys.
- Nicole and Shannon: Nicole is the long-time assistant and right-hand human on The Queer Family Podcast. She has been working on the show for two years, helping to highlight, uplift, and normalize LGBTQIA families. Shannon, Nicole's wife, comes from a background in working with children, particularly in the foster care system. Together, they explore the complexities and considerations of starting a family as a queer couple.
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
- California Cryobank: cryobank.com (Use code "loveislove" for free level two subscription)
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In the second episode of the series, "Nicole and Shannon Want a Baby, or Do They?," Jaimie, Nicole, and Shannon sit down with Becky Fawcett, founder of HelpUsAdopt.org, a nonprofit offering financial grants to help families cover adoption costs. Becky shares her personal adoption journey, the unique challenges faced by LGBTQIA+ families, and the vital role of both financial and emotional support. They discuss the costs of adoption, foster-to-adopt options, and the collaboration between adoption and fertility communities—all with a focus on inclusivity and making parenthood accessible to all.
Join us in the weeks to come as we speak with experts from organizations, guiding Nicole and Shannon—and listeners—through the many paths to parenthood available to queer folks.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- Becky Fawcett's organization, Help Us Adopt, provides grants up to $20,000 to assist families in covering these expenses.
- Inclusivity in Adoption: Help Us Adopt is committed to supporting diverse families, including LGBTQIA individuals, single parents, and people of color, counteracting the inequities present in traditional adoption grant programs.
- The Adoption Process Explained: The episode breaks down the costs and steps involved in domestic adoption, highlighting the need for transparency and the complexities surrounding agency and attorney fees.
- Emotional Aspects of Adoption: Personal stories and experiences are shared to address common fears and misconceptions about non-bio connections and the emotional journey of adopting.
- Resource Accessibility: Becky emphasizes the importance of making adoption resources and professional contacts accessible to everyone, especially those of us in underserved communities.
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
- Becky Fawcett is the founder of Help Us Adopt, a nonprofit organization that provides financial grants to help families cover adoption costs. She adopted both of her daughters domestically and became deeply immersed in the adoption community. Fawcett's mission is to support and advocate for a diverse range of prospective adoptive parents, including LGBTQIA families, single parents, and people of color. Her dedication stems from recognizing the inequities in adoption support and a personal commitment to making adoption accessible for all.
- Nicole and Shannon: Nicole is the long-time assistant and right-hand human on The Queer Family Podcast. She has been working on the show for two years, helping to highlight, uplift, and normalize LGBTQIA families. Shannon, Nicole's wife, comes from a background in working with children, particularly in the foster care system. Together, they explore the complexities and considerations of starting a family as a queer couple.
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
- Help Us Adopt - Becky's nonprofit organization providing financial grants for adoption.
- Help Us Adopt on Instagram and Facebook
- Becky Fawcett on Facebook and Instagram
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Jaimie sits down with her assistant Nicole and her wife Shannon. Despite Nicole having worked on this podcast about queer families for over two years, they still haven’t decided if they want to have kids. As they weigh the pros and cons, the conversation covers the unique challenges queer couples face when it comes to starting a family—especially when you have two uteruses and no sperm. Jaimie offers her personal insights on parenthood, and the discussion marks the start of a mini-series that will tackle LGBTQIA+ family building. Over the next few episodes, they'll explore questions like: Does a genetic tie matter? Who gets the tie? Who will carry? Should they use a known or anonymous donor? If genetics aren't crucial, should they adopt or consider foster care? And, of course, how will they afford it all?
Join them as they speak with experts from organizations, guiding them—and listeners—through the many paths to parenthood available to queer couples.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- Diverse Family-Building Paths: Nicole and Shannon explore multiple avenues for starting a family, including using known donors, sperm banks, adoption, and fostering.
- Personal Experiences: Both guests share their personal journeys and how their backgrounds influence their thoughts on parenthood.
- Challenges and Considerations: They discuss the practicalities and emotional challenges of deciding to have children, including financial considerations and the importance of support systems.
- Benefits of a Supportive Community: Emphasizing the need for a supportive network, they acknowledge that making the right decision also involves understanding the kind of support available to them.
- Future Planning: Taking tangible steps towards possible parenthood, such as freezing eggs and interviewing specialists in the field
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈 Nicole and Shannon: Nicole is the long-time assistant and right-hand human on The Queer Family Podcast. She has been working on the show for two years, helping to highlight, uplift, and normalize LGBTQIA families. Shannon, Nicole's wife, comes from a background in working with children, particularly in the foster care system. Together, they explore the complexities and considerations of starting a family as a queer couple.
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Leland and Bonnie share their journey through identity, gender, and family. Leland, identifying as Two-Spirit, discusses Native American gender roles and their impactful transition story. Bonnie recalls navigating her identity from the '70s to a polyamorous marriage and raising a son. Together, they recount their creation of a trailblazing trans/non-binary surgical recovery center, a yearly educational BDSM conference, and delve into their latest project, the Beyond Gender conference, aimed at fostering community, education, and support across the gender spectrum. This episode explores acceptance, resilience, and the power of chosen family.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- Two-Spirit Identity Explored: Leland's discovery and embracement of their Two-Spirit identity, reflecting on its historical significance in Native American cultures and how it informed their personal journey.
- Evolution of Gender & Sexuality Understanding: Bonnie’s early coming-out story in the 1970s, living in a polyamorous relationship, and her transformative path to queerness highlight the evolving acceptance and understanding of diverse identities.
- Community Building: The duo’s extensive work in LGBTQ+ community support, including running a recovery center for gender-affirming surgeries and organizing educational events like the Beyond Gender Conference.
- Chosen Family: Emphasizing the critical role of chosen family in LGBTQ+ lives, providing support, acceptance, and love that might be lacking in biological families.
- Navigating Political Challenges: A candid discussion on the current political climate, its impact on the LGBTQ+ community, and the urgent need for advocacy, education, and unity.
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
Leland - Leland, who identifies as Two-Spirit, draws from their Native American heritage, with roots in the Apache and Seminole tribes. They have significantly contributed to the LGBTQ+ and Two-Spirit communities through various initiatives, including running a surgical recovery center for transgender and non-binary individuals and organizing the Beyond Gender Conference. Leland transitioned later in life and has connected deeply with their Two-Spirit identity, which emphasizes a balanced blend of masculine and feminine traits.
Bonnie - Bonnie, a dynamic and resilient individual, identifies as queer and has been active in the LGBTQ+ community for decades. She has vast experience in the medical field and has co-organized several LGBTQ+ supportive conferences. Formerly married in a polyamorous relationship, Bonnie has raised a son and ha
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
- Beyond Leather: beyondleather.net
- Beyond Gender Conference: beyondgenderconference.org
- Free Mom Hugs (Sarah Cunningham): Supporting LGBTQ+ community through stand-in weddings and education on acceptance.
- How We Sleep at Night by Sarah Cunningham: A book detailing her journey from being a conservative Baptist to supporting her gay son.
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Ashlyn and Jessica, high school friends turned life partners from Houston, share their journey to parenthood. They discuss the challenges of coming out, choosing a sperm donor, and navigating fertility treatments. They delve into their mixed emotions as Ashlyn induces lactation to bond with their baby amid excitement and heteronormative societal pressures. With honesty and vulnerability, Ashlyn and Jessica offer a heartfelt glimpse into their struggles and triumphs as they prepare to welcome their son, highlighting the intentionality and love that define queer family-building.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- High School Friendship to Life Partnership: Ashlyn and Jessica share their unique journey from being best friends in high school to becoming a loving couple.
- Navigating Fertility Challenges: The couple describes their experience with a known sperm donor, their struggles with conception, and the eventual decision to pursue clinical fertility treatments and a sperm bank.
- Emotional Ups and Downs: Insights into the emotional complexities of failed insemination attempts and the impact of familial reactions to their relationship.
- Induced Lactation Journey: Ashlyn’s steps towards inducing lactation to co-breastfeed alongside Jessica, highlighting a deeper level of involvement and bonding as a non-gestational parent.
- Community Support and Resources: The vital role of supportive communities and educational resources like The Queer Family Podcast in their parenthood journey.
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈Ashlyn and Jessica have navigated the complexities and challenges of queer family building, relying on the generosity of a known sperm donor and later turning to professional fertility services and a sperm bank. Jessica is currently 31 weeks pregnant, and Ashlyn is embarking on an induced lactation journey to co-breastfeed their baby.
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
- California Cryobank: Use promo code "loveislove" for a free level two subscription to their donor catalog.
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Ali and Megan open up to Jaimie about giving the gift of family to another queer couple through surrogacy. Ali was a recently divorced mother of two when she swiped right for Megan on Tinder. Their connection was instant, and soon, they found themselves blending their lives, navigating co-parenting with Ali's ex, and talking about carrying a baby for another family. Join us as we explore the intricate dynamics of their relationship, the co-parenting experience, the emotional and logistical aspects of surrogacy, and their hopes for the future. This episode offers a heartfelt look into the beauty and challenges of building a family within the LGBTQ+ community.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- Surrogacy Journey: Ali and Megan share their experience of becoming surrogate parents for another lesbian couple, navigating the emotional highs and logistical challenges with grace and mutual support.
- Agency Selection: The importance of choosing a surrogacy agency that aligns with one's values comes to light, as Ali and Megan discuss their positive experience with NewGen Families.
- Family Dynamic: Insight into the co-parenting dynamics between Ali and Megan, and how they navigated the complexities of integrating their lives.
- Personal Growth: The journey has been transformative not just for the intended parents but for Ali and Megan as well, leading them to deeper personal growth and a stronger family bond.
- Community and Connection: Emphasizing the power of chosen family and community, they discuss their lasting relationship with the intended parents and how the surrogacy experience created extended familial ties.
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈 Ali and Megan are a a blended family based in Wichita, Kansas. Ali came out after a prior marriage, co-parenting her kids amicably with her ex. Megan never envisioned herself as a parent until meeting Ali. Together, they have not only built a loving home with their children but also made the incredible journey of becoming a surrogacy team. Recently, Ali carried a baby for a lesbian couple in California, supported every step of the way by Megan.
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
- New Gen Families - The surrogacy agency Ali and Megan worked with, which strives to ensure supportive, ethical, and empathetic experiences for surrogates and intended parents. Mention the Queer Family Podcast for a $1,000 discount on the surrogacy agency fee!
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Jaimie sits down with Kelly Vincent, author of the YA series "Ugly, Uglier, and Ugliest," to discuss gender identity, representation, and the challenges faced by LGBTQIA individuals. Kelly shares personal experiences of growing up in Oklahoma, the impact of societal gender norms, and the journey to embracing an agender identity. The episode explores the importance of diverse stories in fostering understanding and normalization, with a focus on the current political climate and its effects on the queer community. Also, hear about the remarkable reception Kelly's books have received.
"I felt like I was failing at being a human because it seemed so easy for other people to be comfortable in who they were." Kelly
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- Kelly Vincent's Journey: Kelly shares their personal experiences with gender confusion and societal pressures in Oklahoma, leading to their self-identification as agender.
- Books on Gender Identity: Kelly's series "Ugly," "Uglier," and "Ugliest" provide a narrative on gender identity through the eyes of a high school teenager, offering both representation and insights.
- Impact of Fiction: Kelly discusses how fiction can be a powerful tool for understanding complex issues like gender identity and fostering empathy.
- Current Political Climate: The conversation touches on the escalating political challenges facing the LGBTQIA community and the need for activism and representation.
- Educational Resource: The novels serve as valuable resources for both
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈 Kelly Vincent is an acclaimed author specializing in young adult (YA) fiction. Growing up in Oklahoma, Kelly experienced a lot of gender confusion, which became a central theme in their writing. Their series, centered around the protagonist Nick, includes titles like "Ugly," "Uglier," and the upcoming "Ugliest." Kelly uses their platform to shed light on important social issues, gender identity, and the complexities surrounding them. Their work has gained critical praise, including a starred review from Kirkus Reviews and runner-up placement in SCBWI's Spark Award.
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
- The Art of Being Ugly Series
- Kirkus Reviews:
- SCBWI: Society for Children’s Book Writers and Illustrators
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Jaimie chats with Damien Chambers, a gay dad through surrogacy, a known sperm and embryo donor, and founder of Surrogacy Agency, NewGen Families. They discuss the emotional and legal intricacies of surrogacy, sperm and embryo donation, and the creation of ethical surrogacy journeys. Get insights into Damien's experiences and learn about the importance of trust and support in the surrogacy process. For those on the queer family-building journey, this episode offers valuable perspectives and information.
Tune into the full episode to hear more about Damien Chamber's journey, the intricacies of surrogacy, and tips for navigating the legal and emotional aspects of queer parenthood. Don't forget to stay tuned for more enlightening episodes celebrating and normalizing LGBTQIA families
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- Trust and Connection: Establishing a deep trust and connection with your surrogacy agency is crucial for a successful journey. Damien emphasizes the importance of feeling a genuine vibe with the agency representatives.
- Legal and Psychological Preparation: Proper legal and psychological screenings are essential to ensure a smooth surrogacy or sperm donation process, protecting all parties involved, especially the child.
- Ethical Surrogacy: Damien's agency, NewGen Families, is committed to ethical and supportive surrogacy practices, ensuring all legal obligations are clear and adhered to.
- Personal Experience: Drawing from his personal experiences, Damien highlights the emotional nuances and unexpected turns in the journey of becoming a parent through surrogacy and sperm donation.
- Surrogate and Egg Donor Relations: Keeping an open and respectful relationship with surrogates and egg donors can provide a supportive environment and cherished connections for the future child.
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈 Damien Chambers is a gay father via surrogacy, entrepreneur, sperm donor, and embryo donor. He is the founder of NewGen Families, a surrogacy agency dedicated to creating supportive, safe, and ethical surrogacy journeys for future parents irrespective of their race, gender, or sexual orientation. Damien has a profound commitment to helping others achieve their dream of starting a family.
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
- NewGenFamilies.com– Damian Chambers' surrogacy agency offering supportive, safe, and ethical surrogacy journeys.
- Society for Ethics in Egg Donation and Surrogacy (SEEDS): Professional standards organization ensuring ethical practices in surrogacy and egg donation.
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Tyler, a gay dad of three, shares his transformative journey from a strict Christian upbringing to living his truth as an "ex-hetero." Highlighting his struggle with faith, family, and coming out later in life, Tyler talks about the importance of self-love, parenting shifts, and building a resilient, chosen family. Jaimie and Tyler also delve into combating toxic masculinity and the ongoing political and social challenges facing LGBTQIA+ families. This episode offers an inspiring look at embracing differences, resilience, and authenticity amidst adversity.
Embark on Tyler's journey of self-discovery and transformation, and gain invaluable insights into the power of living authentically. Tune in to this compelling episode and stay connected for more inspiring stories from the Queer Family Podcast.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- Personal Transformation: Tyler shares his journey from a conservative, religious upbringing to embracing his identity as a gay man.
- Parenting Evolution: Insights into how Tyler's parenting style changed dramatically after leaving the church and coming out.
- Cultural and Societal Challenges: The impact of George Floyd’s death and societal stereotyping on Tyler’s decision to leave conservative ideologies behind.
- Importance of Chosen Family: Highlighting the significance of supportive friends and allies in the LGBTQIA community.
- Navigating Social Pressures: Strategies for dealing with family and community resistance while raising children with open-minded values.
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈 Tyler: Tyler, a gay dad of three from rural North Carolina, navigated a life deeply entrenched in conservative Christian values. After years of internal struggle and external conformity, Tyler left his heterosexual marriage, came out as gay, renounced religious affiliations, and transformed his parenting style. Now, he embraces a life filled with authenticity, therapy, and a supportive chosen family.
Jaimie: Jamie is the vibrant host of The Queer Family Podcast. Passionate about highlighting, celebrating, uplifting, and normalizing LGBTQIA families, Jamie's engaging style and personal insights make her a relatable and effective advocate for the community.
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
- Podcasts mentioned:
- "Extremely American" (Podcast about Christ Church in Idaho)
- "Slow Burn" (Season covering the civil rights movement and Harvey Milk)
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Jaimie is still on a short break with her family, but we thought you’d enjoy a hilarious interview with ally extraordinaire Michelle Buteau from 2019! Michelle Buteau talks about her six-year journey to parenthood. From a brain tumor to IUI to IVF to surrogacy to the work she did with Andy Cohen to legalize surrogacy in New York State. This episode originally aired when the podcast, co-hosted & co-founded by Robin Hopkins, was known as "If These Ovaries Could Talk." Enjoy this special throwback! 🏳️🌈If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month!
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- The hosts express their nervousness about the release of their upcoming book and the audio book version.
- Michelle Buteau shares her personal journey of meeting her husband through a one-night stand, dealing with a benign brain tumor, and going through fertility treatments to have twins via surrogacy.
- The hosts discuss the challenges and misconceptions faced by LGBTQ+ individuals when it comes to starting a family.
- They highlight the importance of support and education in breaking down barriers and creating a more inclusive society. Fertility struggles can be emotionally and physically challenging, and it's important to have support and understanding from loved ones.
- Misconceptions and lack of education about non-traditional family structures can lead to uncomfortable and insensitive questions and comments.
- Advocacy and education are crucial in changing the landscape of fertility clinics and ensuring inclusivity for all individuals and couples.
- Surrogacy can be a viable option for building a family, but it requires careful consideration and finding the right agency and surrogate.
- Legislation and advocacy efforts can make a significant impact in improving access to surrogacy and reproductive rights for all individuals.
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🎙️ Episode Chapters:
00:00 Introduction and Book Release Nervousness
07:41 Michelle Buteau's Fertility Struggles
17: 21 Challenges Faced by LGBTQ+ Individuals in Healthcare
26:08 Promoting Education and Love for Inclusivity
29:25 Fertility Insight from Home
29:30 The Emotional Toll of Fertility
30:51 The Journey of IVF and Miscarriages
32:43 Embryos Banked and the Surrogacy Option
43:44 Advocacy and Lobbying for Surrogacy Rights
52:08 Resilience, Perseverance, and the Power of Love
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Jaimie’s still on a short break with her family, but we thought you’d enjoy Sarah Kate Ellis’s hilarious interview from 2019! Sarah Kate Ellis, CEO of GLAAD and Kristen Henderson, from Antigone Rising join us to talk about having a baby at the exact same time, why representation in media matters and that time Kristen's water broke. This episode originally aired when the podcast, co-hosted & co-founded by Robin Hopkins, was known as "If These Ovaries Could Talk." Enjoy this special throwback! 🏳️🌈If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month!
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While Jaimie takes a much-needed summer break with her family, we're bringing back Rosie O'Donnell's unfiltered interview from 2019. Hear about her trailblazing journey as an LGBTQ parent during a time when few Hollywood stars were out, her personal struggles, and what it’s like to be the target of Donald Trump’s wrath. This episode originally aired when the podcast, co-hosted & co-founded by Robin Hopkins, was known as "If These Ovaries Could Talk." Enjoy this special throwback!
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The show all about family, but with gay! Queer mom, Jaimie Kelton, goes in-depth with weekly guests about their experiences as LGBTQIA+ parents. We explore how we build our families, delving into sperm and egg donor searches, fertility procedures like IUI/IVF/RIVF, surrogacy journeys, adoption and foster stories, donor sibling experiences, and more. In a world that seeks to strip away LGBTQ+ rights, this podcast refreshingly highlights, uplifts, and normalizes queer families. We let the world know that, despite working extremely hard to create our very intentional families, we're just like every other parent out there, trying to get our kids to put their shoes on when we're already 25 minutes late for school. This transformative storytelling podcast will have you laughing one moment and crying the next, and always wanting more.
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Jaimie concludes the second annual Pride Extravaganza with Sarah Kate Ellis, CEO of GLAAD, discussing the organization’s efforts to combat misinformation and advocate for the LGBTQIA community. Together, they delve into current challenges, such as anti-trans sentiments infiltrating local school districts, and strategies for fostering understanding and inclusivity. Sarah highlights the importance of ongoing activism, voter engagement, and resilience in the quest for equality.
Jaimie also details her personal experience with rising anti-trans sentiments in New York City's School District 2, highlighting the infiltration by groups like Moms for Liberty. Sarah Kate provides pragmatic advice on how to tackle such localized bigotry, emphasizing education, strategic questioning, and the importance of a unified front in the fight for equality.
Stay informed and inspired by this empowering conversation, and stay tuned for more enlightening stories from The Queer Family Podcast.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- GLAAD's Mission: GLAAD works to ensure a safe, equal world for LGBTQ individuals by leveraging large platforms and moments to shape narratives about the community.
- Trans Community Advocacy: The episode delves deep into the political and social narratives affecting the trans community, stressing the importance of addressing misinformation.
- Local Activism: Jamie shares her personal struggle with rising anti-trans sentiments in her children’s school district, underscoring the need for on-the-ground activism.
- Educational Gaps: Sarah Kate highlights the significant lack of knowledge about the trans community, noting that more Americans claim to have seen a ghost than know a trans person.
- Empowering Allies: Practical advice is given on how to engage allies and counter misinformation through inquisitive conversation rather than confrontational debate.
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈 Sarah Kate Ellis is the President and CEO of GLAAD, a leading LGBTQ advocacy organization. Under her leadership, GLAAD has leveraged major platforms and cultural moments to ensure fair and accurate representation of the LGBTQ community. She actively combats misinformation and works towards a safer, more equal world for LGBTQ individuals. Sarah Kate and her wife Kristen are also proud parents of twins, and their journey includes the unique experience of being pregnant at the same time.
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
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- GLAAD Website: GLAAD.org
- GLAAD Vote Resources: GLAAD.org/vote - Ensure you're registered, register others, and get involved in pro-equality initiatives.
- GenderCool Project: youth-led movement helping to replace misinformed opinions with positive experiences meeting transgender and non-binary youth who are thriving.
- Athlete Ally: Aims to end homophobia and transphobia in sport and to activate the athletic community to exercise their leadership to champion LGBTQI+ equality.
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Jaimie welcomes the “gay grandmas” of “Canada’s Gayest Family,” Jan and Linda, to the show. They share their compelling journeys through decades of LGBTQ+ history, from living in secrecy to becoming advocates and icons within their community. Joined briefly by Linda's daughter, Karen, they discuss the significance of pride, evolving family dynamics, and the strides made for LGBTQ+ inclusion. Their conversation blends poignant memories with hopeful perspectives, highlighting resilience, activism, and family love.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- Generational Perspectives on LGBTQ+ Life: Insight into how LGBTQ+ experiences and societal acceptance have evolved from the 1970s to today.
- Coming Out Stories: The challenges and triumphs experienced by Jan and Linda as they navigated life in the closet for many years.
- Family Dynamics in LGBTQ+ Contexts: Emphasis on the complexities and emotional resonance of coming out within one's family.
- Historical Context: Reflecting on significant LGBT milestones such as the AIDS epidemic and the fight for marriage equality.
- Pride and Identity: Exploration of what pride means to multiple generations within the same family.
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈 Jan and Linda are affectionately known as the "gay grandmas" and are integral parts of what they call Canada's Gayest Family on TikTok. Together for over 30 years, Jan and Linda have been pivotal in shaping their LGBT community through their advocacy and personal stories. They have lived through significant times in the LGBTQ+ movement, including the secretive days of the 70s, the AIDS epidemic, and the vibrant progressiveness of modern times. Jan hails from Australia and has been part of activist movements, while Linda, originally from Canada, navigated a closeted life until the societal tides began to turn. Their daughter Karen, who also identifies as a lesbian, has carried forward their legacy and documented their remarkable journey through social media and film.
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
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- Canada’s Gayest Family on TikTok
- Documentary Details: “Unusually Normal” and “Our Gay Family" (Pending release details on HBO/Netflix and OutTV)
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Lauren and Amanda Brown are back! The interracial lesbian moms share updates on their family-building journey, including Lauren's recent decision to become a gestational surrogate for a two-dad family. They discuss their motivations for choosing surrogacy, the emotional highs and lows, and the intricacies of the process, including a detailed narrative of the screening process, embryo transfer, and matching with the intended parents, offering valuable insights for anyone considering or curious about surrogacy. They also explore broader themes like LGBTQIA advocacy and the true meaning of Pride, highlighting the power of chosen family and the unique bonds within the queer community.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- Surrogacy Journey: Lauren shares the detailed process of becoming a gestational surrogate, from initial contact with an agency to the present 14 weeks of pregnancy.
- Matching with Intended Parents: The importance of finding a perfect match with the intended parents, which includes aligning values and family visions.
- Advocacy and Representation: The need for more visibility and support for LGBTQIA families in the fertility and surrogacy industry.
- Queer Community and Chosen Family: The unique and supportive nature of chosen family within the queer community.
- Understanding Pride: A reflection on the historical significance of Pride and the contemporary struggles for LGBTQIA rights.
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈 Lauren and Amanda Brown are known as the Two Mom Browns on social media. The couple uses their platform to share their family-building journey, celebrate their identities, and advocate for LGBTQIA rights and visibility.
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- @thetwomom_browns on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/thetwomom_browns?igsh=MXJmb2t0bnV5N3UzeQ==
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Jaimie gets emotional welcoming Jaymes Black, CEO of Family Equality to the show. They highlight initiatives for supporting LGBTQIA families throughout the country. They also discuss the unsettling rise of anti-trans resolutions within New York’s District 2 CEC board where Jaimie’s kids attend school, and the resulting mobilization and activism. With personal anecdotes and actionable insights, this episode underscores the ongoing fight for equality and the challenges faced even in progressive areas. Join them for a compelling look into advocacy, community, and resilience.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- Authenticity and Identity: Jaymes Black discusses the personal journey to embracing their true name and identity, highlighting the importance of living authentically.
- Family Equality’s Mission: The pivotal work being done by Family Equality to protect and support LGBTQIA families, including progressive policies and strategic legal battles.
- Challenges in Progressive Areas: The creeping influence of anti-trans and anti-LGBTQ rhetoric even in traditionally liberal areas, exemplified by recent events in New York City schools.
- Community Mobilization: The necessity for LGBTQIA families and allies to become actively involved in local governance and school boards to counteract regressive measures.
- Importance of Representation: How visibility and representation in all spheres of life can combat misinformation and build stronger, more inclusive communities.
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈 Jaymes Black uses any and all pronouns, and is the president and CEO of Family Equality, the leading national organization for LGBTQIA families. Over the past three years, Jaymes has been at the forefront of advocating for LGBTQIA family rights and inclusion. They are also a devoted parent, wife, and advocate for inclusive family policies and practices. Jaymes has a rich professional history in both corporate and nonprofit sectors, and is committed to uplifting and supporting LGBTQIA families nationwide.
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- Family Equality: familyequality.org
- Project 2025: project2025.org
- Merch: PEP!: Jaimie’s daughter’s Pride Merchandise shop. All proceeds will go to The Trevor Project: https://www.bonfire.com/store/pep-1/
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Jaimie gives a warm welcome to Caitlyn and “Wanda”, the brains behind the hilarious TikTok account "2.ladies.and.2.babies." They chat about how they met, their coming out stories, picking a donor, and what it’s like for each of them to be both bio and non-bio moms to their kids. They also highlight the playful dynamic in their family, sharing their funny take on parenting and the joy of watching their kids embrace their beautiful family identity. The episode mixes in lots of laughs and real talk about the ups and downs of parenting as a modern LGBTQIA+ family.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- Choosing a Sperm Donor: Caitlin and Wanda detail their meticulous process of selecting a donor through a fertility clinic, comparing the experience to online dating.
- Non-Bio Parent Experiences: They discuss the emotional journey of attachment and bonding with their children, emphasizing that love and connection don't always follow predictable paths.
- Visibility and Normalization: Their social media presence aims to show that queer families are just as normal and full of love as any other, helping to break down barriers and misconceptions.
- Engagement with Community: They share how their community's acceptance has been overwhelmingly positive and the important
🏳️🌈Quotes:🏳️🌈
- "We wanted to create an account that showed queer families and how normal and silly and goofy and loving and fun they can be." - Caitlyn
- "Looking through the Cryobank website, it’s literally like plentyofsperm.com is what it feels like.” Caitlyn
- “We literally refinanced our house to be able to do have our second kid.” “Wanda”
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈 Caitlin and “Wanda” are the dynamic duo behind the popular social media handle "2.ladies.and.2.babies." Together, they bring humor and authenticity to their Social Media Channels, where they share their experiences as a queer family raising two young sons.
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
- Sponsor: Visit https://www.cryobank.com/ and use promo code LOVEISLOVE for a free level 2 subscription to their donor catalog, or you can apply it to a level 3 subscription for a discount.
- 2.ladies.and.2.babies: TikTok Instagram
- Merch: PEP!: Jaimie’s daughter’s Pride Merchandise shop. All proceeds will go to The Trevor Project.
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Jaimie sits down with Vicky and Charisse Pasche, the founders of the Dapper Boi clothing brand. They share their queer family journey, including the challenges of coming out, their unique fertility experiences leading to the birth of their twins, and the inspiration behind creating an inclusive clothing line. They delve into the importance of visibility, representation, and the power of authentic self-expression through fashion. Their heartfelt stories underscore the significance of community and advocacy within the LGBTQIA+ landscape.
Listen to the full episode for an enriching experience and stay tuned for more enlightening stories from "The Queer Family Podcast.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- The Journey to Authenticity: Vicky and Charisse’s coming-out stories exemplify the liberating yet challenging path to self-discovery and acceptance.
- Birth of Dapper Boi: Inspired by personal struggle with traditional gendered clothing, Dapper Boy aims to make everyone feel comfortable and confident.
- Parenthood Challenges: The couple shares their IVF journey, including PCOS complications, multiple IUIs, and the eventual birth of their twins.
- Importance of Representation: Their story underscores the significance of visibility for the LGBTQIA community, providing hope and a sense of belonging.
- Community and Support: The role of community support in navigating and celebrating queer family life is highlighted as a cornerstone of their experience.
🏳️🌈Quotes:🏳️🌈
- "Shopping in the men's department for the first time, for me, it was like a complete shift, and I was so excited, and I started caring about how I looked, and I had this newfound confidence." - Vicky
- "We created this brand so a plus-size person, like my wife, could feel confident walking into a room, and they didn't have to compromise fit for fashion." - Charisse
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈 Vicky and Charisse: Vicky and Charisse are the dynamic duo behind Dapper Boi, an inclusive clothing line aimed at providing comfortable, stylish clothing for people of all sizes and gender identities.
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
- Sponsor: Visit https://www.cryobank.com/ and use promo code LOVEISLOVE for a free level 2 subscription to their donor catalog, or you can apply it to a level 3 subscription for a discount.
- Dapper Boi Website, Instagram
- Meet The Pasches
- Merch: PEP!: Jaimie’s daughter’s Pride Merchandise shop. All proceeds will go to The Trevor Project.
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Jaimie welcomes Kelsey and Kymaria, the dynamic influencer duo behind @houseofk.love. They delve into their unique coming-out stories, dealing with religion, and forming a blended family. The couple shares insights into their experiences raising their daughter within a loving, queer household and Kelsey’s transition into instant parenthood. Touching on the challenges and joys of their relationship, they reveal their thoughts on having more children and what pride means to them. This episode is a heartfelt conversation on love, family, and identity.
Listen to the full episode for an enriching experience and stay tuned for more enlightening stories from "The Queer Family Podcast.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- Navigating Love and Religion: Insights into how Kymaria and Kelsey balanced their religious backgrounds with their coming out journeys.
- Blended Family Dynamics: Understanding the dynamics of merging families, especially with children involved, and maintaining harmony.
- Acceptance and Growth: The significance of self-acceptance and the evolving relationships with their families towards acceptance of their identities.
- Queer Parenting: The approach and philosophies of raising a child in a queer household, focusing on love, freedom, and spirituality.
- Future Family Plans: Delving into their thoughts on expanding their family, considering avenues like known donors and fertility treatments.
🏳️🌈Quotes:🏳️🌈
- Kymaria: "I wasn't willing to sacrifice my happiness on account of anyone else's feelings because I felt like I had did it for so long."
- Kelsey: "The basis of my belief is love. I believe in moving from a place of love and not fear."
- Kymaria: "Pride just means love overall, in my opinion."
- Kelsey: "When I think of pride, I think of love, joy, and peace."
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈 Kymaria and Kelsey, known as houseofk.love, are the charming and dynamic duo behind the vibrant social media platform, House of K. The couple has been sharing their journey of love, family, and life as an LGBTQIA+ family, captivating audiences with their authentic and inspiring stories. By sharing their lifestyle the aim to inspire creativity through their engaging and loving content.
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
- Sponsor: Visit https://www.cryobank.com/ and use promo code LOVEISLOVE for a free level 2 subscription to their donor catalog, or you can apply it to a level 3 subscription for a discount.
- House of K on Instagram and TikTok and YouTube: @HouseofK houseofk.love
- Book Mention: Conversations with God by Neale Donald Walsch
- Merch: PEP!: Jaimie’s daughter’s Pride Merchandise shop. All proceeds will go to The Trevor Project.
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Jaimie welcomes Colton Underwood, former NFL player and Bachelor star, to discuss his journey from playing football to embracing his identity as a gay man. Colton shares his struggles with internalized shame, his unique coming out process, and how the COVID-19 pandemic changed his life. He opens up about his ongoing surrogacy journey with his husband, the importance of being intentional in building a family, and the steps they are taking to ensure their future children know they were made with love. Discover Colton's plans, aspirations, and advocacy for LGBTQIA family building.
To get a deeper understanding of Colton's inspiring journey and insights into queer family planning, listen to the full episode. Stay tuned for more incredible stories and discussions from The Queer Family Podcast.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- Journey to Authenticity: Colton shares how growing up in a conservative, religious background and being an athlete complicated his understanding and acceptance of his identity.
- Life on The Bachelor: Colton discusses how participating in The Bachelor was a form of conversion therapy for him, aimed at solidifying a straight identity.
- Mental Health Struggles: Colton talks about his battles with anxiety and depression, leading to a period of substance abuse before he was able to come out and seek help.
- Queer Family Planning: Colton takes us through the detailed steps he and his husband are taking to build their family via surrogacy, including the search for an egg donor and a surrogate.
- Advocacy and Awareness: Colton emphasizes the importance of visibility and education around queer family building, aiming to break down misconceptions and foster broader acceptance.
🏳️🌈Quotes:🏳️🌈
- “By the time I figured out that I was attracted to men and I was gay, it was too late. It was already ingrained in me that was a sin, it was not okay for a football player and an athlete to be gay.” Colton Underwood
- "Growing up, I just didn't see representation for myself." Colton Underwood
- "The Bachelor for me was a way to try to really change me. It was my version of conversion therapy." Colton Underwood
- "My journey will help people... I had physical connections with men in a very shameful way." Colton Underwood
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
Colton Underwood is a former NFL player, reality television star, and mental health advocate. He gained fame through his participation in three seasons of the reality show The Bachelor. Colton made headlines when he came out as gay after struggling with his identity for many years. Since then, he has been an active voice in the LGBTQIA+ community, particularly focusing on mental health and queer family building. Colton is married and is in the process of building a family through surrogacy. He also hosts a podcast focused on fertility and family planning.
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
- Visit cryobank.com and use promo code LOVEISLOVE for a free level 2 subscription to their donor catalog, or you can apply it to a level 3 subscription for a discount.
- Daddyhood Podcast: Colton's podcast focused on fertility and family planning.
- PEP!: Jaimie’s daughter’s Pride Merchandise shop. All proceeds will go to The Trevor Project.
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Rosie O'Donnell opens up about her experiences as a parent, discussing her journey with raising a child on the autism spectrum and the challenges and joys that come with it. She shares her insights on gender identity and the importance of unconditional love and acceptance. Jaimie also reflects on her own fears and struggles as a parent, including her initial reservations about having a son and the non-biological connection she has with her daughter, and Rosie lovingly tells Jaimie that she needs therapy🤪. This heartfelt conversation explores the complexities of parenting and the power of embracing and supporting our children for who they are.
Listen to the full episode to join Jaimie and Rosie O'Donnell on this heartfelt and illuminating journey. Stay tuned for more captivating discussions that shed light on the realities of queer parenting, identity, and overcoming personal battles with the guidance of those who've walked the path before us.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- Unconditional love and acceptance are central to parenting, particularly in non-typical households.
- Personal fears can significantly impact our perceptions and relationships, highlighting the importance of addressing them through therapy or introspection.
- Gender identity and expressions, especially in children, require sensitive and open-minded discussions and support.
- Rosie reflects on the beauty and challenges in the relationships between mothers and sons, as well as managing the dynamics of non-bio connections in parenting.
- The conversation reiterates the importance of embracing each individual's unique journey, whether it relates to autism, gender identity, or personal growth.
🏳️🌈Quotes:🏳️🌈
- "You have to realize that they're separate individuals from you, and they're not ours. They're the world's children." - Rosie O'Donnell
- "Every moment, you have a choice: faith or fear." - Rosie O'Donnell
- "The job of parenting is unconditional love and universal acceptance." - Rosie O'Donnell
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
Rosie O'Donnell is an acclaimed American comedian, actress, and television personality known for her engaging and heartwarming presence both on and off-screen. She has graced Broadway, starred in hit films, and hosted her own influential talk show, "The Rosie O'Donnell Show." Over the years, Rosie has become a beloved icon in the entertainment industry and an outspoken advocate for various causes, including LGBTQ+ rights and children's adoption services. Alongside her impressive career in the limelight, Rosie is also a devoted parent to five children, each with their own unique stories and journeys.
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
Visit cryobank.com and use promo code LOVEISLOVE for a free level 2 subscription to their donor catalog, or you can apply it to a level 3 subscription for a discount.
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What does Pride mean to you? As we get ready for Pride and our upcoming PRIDE EXTRAVAGANZA, Jaimie closes out this season with a little medley of responses to this question from all of last year’s Extravaganza guests. These answers will give you all the feels, y'all. Let them serve as a reminder that LOVE is LOVE, YOU are loved, and PRIDE is EVERY DAY. Happy Pride to all.
AND stay tuned next season for episodes with cultural icons and individuals making impactful strides for queer visibility and rights, like Rosie O’Donnell, Colton Underwood, Jaymes Black, and more. This Pride is about to be double the fun, double the visibility, and double the gay!
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- Pride is understood as a multifaceted celebration of one's authentic self, love, and community, evolving in meaning with life experiences.
- The anticipation for Pride month injects the episode with hope, reflecting a time for increased visibility and celebration of LGBTQIA diversity.
- The episode promises compelling content for the upcoming season, beginning with the Pride extravaganza featuring prominent voices such as Rosie O'Donnell.
- Guests articulate the importance of advocating for rights, embracing individual truth, and fostering environments where families of all configurations thrive.
- There is an emphasis on building a future where the next generation of LGBTQIA individuals feel proud and supported in their identities.
🏳️🌈Quotes:🏳️🌈
- "Pride, to me is knowing my truth. Knowing it and believing in it and not backing down, no matter what." Jaimie
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
- Queer midwife Mara Goodman's virtual community: Pregnant Together
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Jaimie sits down with Shawndeez, a non-binary trans dad who shares their journey towards self-discovery and parenthood. Seandeez discusses the challenges they faced as a queer and trans individual, their decision to pursue IVF and egg retrieval, and the importance of unconditional love in the parent-child relationship. Seandeez also talks about their work supporting parents of trans children and the need for compassionate guidance in navigating the complexities of gender identity. Tune in for an inspiring and heartfelt conversation.
Stay tuned for more enlightening discussions that challenge conventional narratives and celebrate the beautiful diversity of queer families.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- Shawndeez's journey of self-discovery highlights the complexities of growing up queer and trans in a conservative environment and the subsequent path to embracing their true identity.
- The decision to pursue reciprocal IVF, where Shawndeez provided the egg and their partner carried the pregnancy, underlines the diverse ways queer families can come about.
- Shawndeez emphasizes the importance of having supportive medical professionals and a spiritually-driven mindset during their transition and fertility process.
- Discussions about the emotional work that comes with navigating a trans child's experience, particularly for cisgender and heterosexual parents, underscore the need for understanding and open communication within families.
- Shawndeez's current work focuses on helping parents of trans children embrace and understand their child's identity, advocating for compassion and unconditional love.
🏳️🌈Quotes:🏳️🌈
- "The beauty of being queer and the beauty of having the queer and trans consciousness is we have this literacy, we have this emotional capacity. We have the space to have these types of conversations.” Shawndeez
- "I watched my mother...watched her learn and choose love. That was absolutely massive for me in my own queer consciousness." Shawndeez
- "It's a beautiful thing...life is really wildly beautiful on the other side." Shawndeez
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
Shawndeez is a non-binary trans person with an impressive academic background and a passionate commitment to the LGBTQIA+ community. With a PhD in Gender Studies from UCLA, Shawndeez is not only thoroughly literate in topics surrounding gender and sexuality but also applies this knowledge to real-world contexts. As a transparent who has navigated personal and social transformations, Shawndeez now dedicates a significant portion of their work to supporting parents of trans children, helping to bridge gaps in understanding and fostering love and acceptance within families.
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
- Queer midwife Mara Goodman's virtual community: Pregnant Together
- Shawndeez on Instagram- @drshawndeez
- Shawndeez’s website: https://www.shawndeez.com/
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Tish's and Arlesia's accidental journey to parenthood brings uncharted waters into the traditional queer family narrative. After a rocky period in their relationship, Tish became pregnant with their son, Ethan, after a one-night stand. Despite the challenges, they decided to stay together and focus on raising their child. Now, as Ethan grows older, they are facing new transitions and learning to prioritize their own growth as individuals and as a couple. This episode highlights the importance of communication, honesty, and resilience in queer family building. It also emphasizes the need for appreciation, constant connection, and showing up for each other in a relationship.
Stay tuned for more enlightening discussions that challenge conventional narratives and celebrate the beautiful diversity of queer families.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- Tish and Arlesia's relationship began in college and has endured many trials, emphasizing the strength and resilience of queer relationships.
- The couple had a serendipitous journey to parenthood, which included unexpected turns but led to their son Ethan, who they both cherish deeply.
- Transparency and growth have been central themes in their relationship, showcasing the importance of honesty and appreciation in a partnership.
🏳️🌈Quotes:🏳️🌈
- "This is all that matters. Nothing else matters. He is the most important thing.”
- "If you love that person enough, you have to show up as your true self every single day."
- "Grab the tea, girl. We're going on a journey."
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
- Queer midwife Mara Goodman's virtual community: Pregnant Together
- Tish and Arlesia on Instagram @meetthewhitakers
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Victoria Vega, a yoga instructor and doula, shares her journey into birth work and the importance of addressing generational trauma. As a lesbian, Victoria discusses her decision not to have children but expresses a desire to experience childbirth as a surrogate, highlighting that the desire to carry and the desire to parent can exist independently. This perspective adds a refreshing dimension to the broader narrative about what constitutes a queer family. She emphasizes the significance of chosen family and the support she provides to BIPOC and queer communities. Victoria's work focuses on helping individuals navigate their fears and traumas surrounding pregnancy and birth.
Stay tuned for more enlightening discussions that challenge conventional narratives and celebrate the beautiful diversity of queer families.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- Victoria Vega's journey into birth work was heavily influenced by family history and an understanding of how trauma is inherited and manifested across generations.
- Epigenetics plays a significant role in birth work, as Victoria discusses the impact of generational trauma on her approach to doula services.
- The desire to experience childbirth and the desire to become a parent can be separate and independent, which Victoria embodies through her decision not to parent but to potentially become a surrogate.
- Surrogacy is presented as a valid and honored choice in the LGBTQIA community, with Victoria advocating for an inclusive and diverse representation of family structures.
🏳️🌈Quotes:🏳️🌈
- “I would actually love to be a surrogate... I would love to experience the miracle of birth and just going through, like, the way our bodies are just magic." Victoria
- "It takes a village to create our families." Victoria
- "We make our own families." Victoria
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈 Victoria Vega is a yoga teacher, meditation facilitator, and full-spectrum doula with a deep commitment to the BIPOC and queer communities.
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
- Queer midwife Mara Goodman's virtual community: Pregnant Together
- Victoria Vega's Instagram: @vgv.doula_do_yoga
- St. Mark's Yoga Classes: https://www.stmarksyoga.com/
- Bridge Directory for Wellness Support: https://thebridgedirectory.com/
- Victoria's Website: vgvdoulayoga.com
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Grier and her wife Alana created their family through surrogacy after fertility treatments wreaked havoc on Grier’s mental health and it became clear that carrying a child in either one of their wombs was not an option. She discusses the challenges and shame that can come with not being able to conceive and the importance of breaking down taboos surrounding different ways of creating a family. The conversation also touches on the non-biological connection in queer families, the decision to use an anonymous sperm donor, and the complexities of navigating societal expectations and assumptions. This conversation emphasizes the importance of normalizing different paths to parenthood and supporting individuals in making the best choices for their own well-being.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- Breaking down taboos surrounding different ways of creating a family is important
- The non-biological connection in queer families can be a complex and nuanced topic
- Choosing an anonymous sperm donor can alleviate concerns about emotional attachment
- Navigating societal expectations and assumptions can be challenging for queer parents Surrogacy can be a valid and empowering choice for individuals who do not want to carry their own child.
- Mental health should be prioritized when making decisions about family planning.
- It is important to normalize and support different paths to parenthood.
- Open and honest conversations about difficult topics can provide support and validation for others going through similar experiences.
🏳️🌈Quotes:🏳️🌈
- “She didn't want to carry. It was as simple as that.” Grier
- "I wanted to be the best mother possible. And for me to do that I needed to spend the next year getting my mental health back." Grier
- "Talk about hard things with your friends.” Grier
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
Grier, formerly a model agent, opens up about her struggles with mental health, the pressures of societal norms, and the complex decision to pursue surrogacy. She and her wife Alana navigated the challenging waters of creating a family as a queer couple, ultimately choosing a path that ensured their well-being and the love they could share with their child.
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
- Queer midwife Mara Goodman's virtual community: Pregnant Together
- Growing Generations: www.growinggenerations.com
- Kim Brown's interview episode: “Finding A Surrogate” from season 2 of the former "If These Ovaries Could Talk" podcast, now known as the Queer Family Podcast.
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Lacey, a former Mormon and lesbian mom, shares her journey of coming out and building her family with her wife, Gabby. They unexpectedly conceived their first child through at-home insemination and later decided to have more children. After struggling with infertility, they turned to fertility treatments and ended up having triplets. Amidst the joy of their growing family, their oldest child, Jonah, was diagnosed with acute lymphoblastic leukemia. Lacey recounts the challenges they have faced and the strength and newfound faith they have found as a family navigating this journey together.
Join us for this truly moving episode, which not only celebrates the uniqueness of LGBTQIA families but also highlights the universal aspects of parenting under extraordinary circumstances. Tune in to hear Lacey's full story, and don't forget to subscribe for more inspiring and thought-provoking content that celebrates families in all their diverse beauty.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- Lacey's upbringing in a conservative Mormon family and her subsequent journey to embracing her identity as a lesbian woman.
- The surprising and unanticipated conception of triplets, adding to the excitement and complexities of parenting.
- An intimate look into the hardships and emotional turmoil following her oldest child's cancer diagnosis.
- Discussion on faith and coping mechanisms in the face of adversity, challenging the idea of divine intervention.
- The importance of fostering a supportive and inclusive environment for children in queer families.
🏳️🌈Quotes:🏳️🌈
- "I tried really hard to fit the mold." Lacey
- “We had four kids in the hospital at one time." Lacey
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈 Lacey is a former Mormon and a lesbian mom who, alongside her wife Gabby, has faced significant life challenges. With a deep love for her family, Lacey navigates the complexities of raising four children, one of whom is courageously battling cancer. Her family's journey is a testament to their strength and resilience, with values that emphasize love, acceptance, and the beauty of being true to oneself, regardless of the circumstances.
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
- Queer midwife Mara Goodman's virtual community: Pregnant Together
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Corey Allen, a former Secret Service agent and current future dad on a surrogacy journey shares his experience of leading a double life while working in law enforcement and the challenges he faced as a gay man. He also discusses his surrogacy journey, including the setbacks and the decision to use two surrogates. Corey highlights the financial and legal obstacles that LGBTQ+ families often encounter and the importance of sharing stories to create awareness and promote change. Tune in for an inspiring and informative conversation.
This is an essential listen for anyone in the LGBTQIA community considering family life, as well as for allies seeking understanding and connection. Stay tuned for more enlightening content from the Queer Family podcast that celebrates, uplifts, and normalizes diverse family narratives.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- Corey Allen shares his experience of living a double life as a closeted Secret Service agent, the eventual coming out, and his personal journey to find love and start a family.
- Corey and his fiance Johnny's path to parenthood includes navigating the surrogacy journey with its emotional, financial, and logistical challenges.
- The importance of genetic connection in surrogacy decisions is discussed, as is the strategic choice to use both partners' DNA with the same egg donor.
- There is an emphasis on the legal complexities and discrimination against LGBTQIA+ families in the surrogacy process, including the lack of insurance coverage and the necessity for second-parent adoption.
- Corey's advocacy work and his book "Breaking Free" spotlight the need for broader awareness and support for queer families.
🏳️🌈Quotes:🏳️🌈
- "There were red flags that our agency didn't pick up on, or they should have." - Cory
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
Corey Allen is a former Secret Service agent with a compelling story to share about his life and experiences. He has served in law enforcement as a police officer and has provided protection for high-profile figures including the Obamas. Corey has also authored the book "Breaking Free," where he shares his saga of self-discovery as a gay Secret Service agent. Currently, he's an advocate for LGBTQIA+ family building.
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
- CoryAllenBooks.com https://www.coryallenbooks.com/
- Instagram, Facebook
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Host Jaimie sits down with Megan, Taylor, and Jessica, three married lesbian non-bio moms fighting for legal recognition of their parental rights in Louisiana. They discuss the challenges they're facing in the legal system, the archaic "presumption of paternity" civil code 185 being used against them, and the impact it has on their families. The guests share their personal experiences and the uncertainty they face as non-biological parents. They also highlight the importance of second-parent adoption and the need for better legislation to protect LGBTQ+ families.
This is an essential listen for anyone in the LGBTQIA community considering family life, as well as for allies seeking understanding and connection. Stay tuned for more enlightening content from the Queer Family podcast that celebrates, uplifts, and normalizes diverse family narratives.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- The judge in their cases used civil code 185 which does not recognize same-sex marriages and denies them the right to second-parent adoption.
- The cases are on hold, leaving the families in a state of limbo and uncertainty.
- The judge's decision is not binding in other courts, which means their rights could be challenged in the future.
- LGBTQ+ families in Louisiana face unique challenges due to the lack of clear and concise language in the state's laws.
🏳️🌈Quotes:🏳️🌈
- We're never going to be able to get rid of all the bigots of the world, but we can change the system if we are a part of the system." - Taylor
- "Louisiana just repeatedly keeps telling me, well, you're not mother enough." Meghan
- “We have to sign on the father line on the birth certificate, just to add to it, add a kick in the gut.” - Jessica
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
Megan, Taylor and Jessica are residents of Louisiana and members of the LGBTQ+ community. They are advocates for LGBTQ+ rights. Meghan founded NELA Pride, an organization that aims to improve and enrich the lives of LGBTQ+ individuals in Northeast Louisiana.
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
- NELA Pride - Northeast Louisiana Pride: Website
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Host Jaimie sits down with Kay Anderson, host of the Lost Spaces podcast, for a candid discussion about the complexities of queer family planning, nature vs nurture, and the individual choice to have children. The conversational journey offers a deep dive into not only Kay's personal musings regarding family and parenting but also the diverse ways queer individuals approach these life choices. The episode is rich with exploration of various family-building options such as surrogacy, adoption, fostering, and the roles that genetics and environment play in shaping familial relationships.
This is an essential listen for anyone in the LGBTQIA community considering family life, as well as for allies seeking understanding and connection. Stay tuned for more enlightening content from the Queer Family podcast that celebrates, uplifts, and normalizes diverse family narratives.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- K Anderson discusses his journey of self-discovery and his cautious attitude toward starting a family, highlighting the societal preconceptions and personal reservations that influence such decisions.
- A detailed exploration of the different paths queer individuals can take to create families, including the emotional and practical considerations that each option entails.
- Jaimie shares insights from her own queer family experience, touching on the unique challenges and joys of having one biological child and one non-biological child.
- The importance of considering nurture over nature and how parental influence extends beyond genetic connections.
- An open invitation for listeners to share their own experiences and views on family dynamics and the nature vs nurture debate within the context of the LGBTQIA community.
🏳️🌈Quotes:🏳️🌈
- "I think that this is a really important conversation to have, because not everybody out there wants to be a parent. And it is not the end all, be all to have a family. That is not the goal of life for everyone.” Jaimie
- "How many of our choices are our choices and how many of our choices are just what we're preprogrammed to make?" K Anderson
- "It warms my heart that they still both will go to both of us." Jaimie on the non-biological bond with her children
- "Am I just terrified of making a decision?" K Anderson, discussing the prospect of becoming a foster parent
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
K Anderson is the creator and host of the Lost Spaces podcast, which nostalgically dives into the lost queer venues and spaces that were once integral parts of many LGBTQIA individuals' youth. The podcast is not only about the queer spaces themselves but also explores the significant personal memories and experiences of those who frequented them. With a passion for storytelling and uncovering the forgotten chapters of queer culture, Kay brings a reflective exploration of what these spaces meant for personal growth and communal identity.
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
- Podcast: Lost Spaces
- K Anderson's Social Media: @lostspacespod on Instagram, TikTok, and Facebook
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S15 EP9 l Host Jamie sits down with Courtney, Whitney, and their dad Glenn to discuss their unique family story. Glenn came out as gay after 33 years of marriage, and his daughters were in their 20s at the time. The conversation delves into the challenges Glenn faced in coming to terms with his sexuality and the impact it had on his family. The episode highlights the power of acceptance and the transformative change that can come from embracing one's true self. They also discuss the importance of telling these stories to create a more accepting world.
Keep your ears tuned for more episodes from the Queer Family podcast, where love is celebrated in all its forms.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
*Glenn's coming out as a gay man led to a profound transformation within the family, fostering greater acceptance and openness amidst challenges.
*The episode addresses the importance of representation and the impact it can have on an individual's journey to self-acceptance.
🏳️🌈Quotes:🏳️🌈
*"I think our parents getting a divorce, our dad coming out is the best thing that ever happened to our family." - Courtney
*"I have this amazing life. I have these girls that I absolutely adore and my granddaughters that are beyond precious to me." - Glenn
*"I truly believe the universe has provided us with all of these gifts that have led us to where we are today." - Whitney
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
*Courtney and Whitney Ashley are sisters who host the podcast, “Hey Sis, Eat This," where they explore family relationships through the lens of food and dinner table conversations.
*Glenn Ashley is a former advertising agency Creative Director and commercial film director. He studied art and design at The University of Texas
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
*Courtney and Whitney's podcast, "Hey Sis, Eat This," can be found on various platforms such as Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and iHeartRadio.
*Glenn's artwork can be viewed and pursued on his website, glennashleyart.com.
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In this episode of the Queer Family Podcast, host Jamie sits down with Miles Borrero, a trans queer yoga teacher and author of the memoir "Beautiful Monster: A Becoming." Miles shares their journey of self-discovery and transition, discussing the labels and identities they have explored along the way. They also delve into their experience as a bonus parent to teenagers and the importance of representation in queer families. Tune in for an inspiring conversation about embracing change, finding love, and redefining what it means to be a family.
Tune in for a poignant exploration of identity, transformation, and belonging that speaks to us all. Subscribe to The Queer Family Podcast Stay tuned for more enlightening content exploring the diverse tapestries of queer families.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
*The queer community's stories are essential for representation and can act as life-saving narratives for those who feel unseen.
*Familial transitions, such as a parent's death or one's own gender transition, can deepen connections when met with love and understanding.
*Language plays a pivotal role in identity, but it also has limitations; the nuances of self-identity often transcend simplistic labels.
*The formation of queer families often involves non-conventional paths that challenge and enrich traditional notions of kinship.
*The involvement of a non-binary or transgender parent can add a unique layer of support and representation within a family unit.
🏳️🌈Quotes:🏳️🌈
*”You cannot have too many queer stories. You cannot have too many trans stories. They're all so essential." - Miles
*”What we have in common is much wider and much more interesting than what makes us different." - Miles
*”I’ve lived as a girl, as a boy, as something in between." - Miles
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
Miles Borrero is a trans, queer yoga teacher based in New York City. They are also a writer, artist, and storyteller. Miles has a diverse background, having lived in Brazil, Colombia during the Pablo Escobar years, and various parts of the United States. They began their gender transition around the age of 40 and have shared their experience of identity, family, and belonging through various mediums
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
*Miles Borrero's website: milesyoga.com where you can buy their book "Beautiful Monster: A Becoming"
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Haley King is a donor-conceived gay mom who ALSO used donor conception to start her own family. Haley shares her journey of discovering her donor-conceived status at the age of 30 and how the challenges she faced in finding information and support led her to become an advocate for donor-conceived people and families. She and Jaimie delve into the importance of open communication, navigating relationships with donor siblings, the impact of modern technology on anonymity, and the nuanced feelings of being a non-bio parent.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
*Haley King was one of the first IVF babies and later found out she was conceived using donor sperm, leading her to become an advocate for donor-conceived individuals.
*The importance of choosing an open ID donor and ensuring that children have access to their biological origins is highlighted.
*Haley discusses the nuances of being a non-bio, non-gestational parent and the reassurances that family bonds extend beyond genetics.
*The podcast delves into the evolving challenges surrounding anonymity, the impact of modern technology on donor conception, and the complications arising from donor siblings connections.
*Perspectives on parenting and donor conception can differ significantly between the queer and non-queer communities, underlining the need for continuous dialogue and support.
🏳️🌈Quotes:🏳️🌈
*”I’m very proud to be donor conceived... it would have been an absolute travesty if [my dad] couldn't have been a parent. He is wonderful." Hayley
*”No one donor conceived person will feel the same... listen to lots of different sort of perspectives." Hayley
*”Anonymity is very difficult to keep... They've got adult photos of donors... parents are sticking them into Google image searches and finding people across the Internet." Hayley
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
Haley King is a pioneering voice and advocate within the queer and donor-conceived communities. As someone who discovered their donor conception status as an adult, Haley offers a unique and multifaceted perspective. She is the Director of Operations at Paths to Parenthub, an online support platform dedicated to assisting parents via donor conception. Combining her personal experiences with professional expertise, Haley provides counsel and creates resources to normalize and support donor-conceived families through her website and social media channels.
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
Hayley’s Website Hayley’s Instagram *Paths to Parenthub
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Jennifer and Vanessa are in the middle of creating a family as a lesbian couple, yet Vanessa's recent hysterectomy and Jennifer's epilepsy add intricate layers of complexity to their journey. Faced with legal uncertainties surrounding adoption as an LGBTQIA+ couple, they shifted towards using donor sperm at a bank, only to confront profound societal biases and systemic hurdles in the fertility industry. The conversation delves deep into these challenges, fostering an argument for true inclusion in family planning, irrespective of disability or sexual orientation. Their narrative serves as a compelling call to action, advocating for the fundamental right of ALL individuals to embrace parenthood on their own terms.
Don't miss out on the full episode to hear Jennifer and Vanessa's compelling narrative that emphasizes love, choice, and the pursuit of a family that defies traditional boundaries. Subscribe to The Queer Family Podcast for more enlightening content exploring the diverse tapestries of queer families.
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*Jennifer and Vanessa challenge the concept of ruling out potential sperm donors based on medical history, advocating for the rights of individuals with disabilities to become parents.
*They stress the importance of having more choices in donor selection to reflect broader human experiences and conditions, including those of the disabled community.
*Issues with the fertility industry highlight the significant underrepresentation and medical challenges that come with queerness and disability.
*The couple underscores the struggle with decision-making due to the vast amount of choices and stress the importance of ultimately following their hearts.
*Their story is a call to action for more inclusive practices within family-building processes and the broader acknowledgment of queer parents.
🏳️🌈Quotes:🏳️🌈
*”I wanted to make the point that not everybody wants to weed out certain genetics, and who are the banks or the powers in charge to say which donors get through versus which donors don't?" Jennifer and Vanessa
*”To hear somebody say you shouldn't choose a donor based on their medical history sounds to us like, well, then you're not qualified to be parents because of your medical history." Jennifer and Vanessa
*”I think just saying because you have a genetic predisposition for something doesn't mean that you should not have the opportunity to contribute your genetic material." Jennifer and Vanessa
*”As queer people, we're a marginalized group that's been overlooked... It's just up to the individuals building a family to make those decisions for themselves and their families." Jennifer and Vanessa
*”We do have a concern that's like, well, what if we have an Id donor and our kid turns 18 and they can meet their donor? We don't know if that person is going to be homophobic." Jennifer and Vanessa
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Host Jaimie sits down with Tom Tracy, an award-winning author and proud gay dad, to explore his inspiring journey to parenthood through adoption. Together, they delve into the joys and challenges of raising children, drawing from Tom's experiences that have inspired his acclaimed book series, Scoochie and Skiddles. Tom's work aims to normalize LGBTQIA+ families by portraying them in everyday life, showcasing the ordinary yet extraordinary moments. The episode emphasizes the importance of representation in media and literature, offering a heartfelt discussion on the significance of diversity and inclusion. Plus, don't miss a special guest appearance by Jaimie's 10-year-old daughter, Rose, as they discuss the importance of starting conversations about origin stories early on.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
*Tom Tracy's family-building journey through adoption defied common narratives of complications in LGBTQIA+ adoption, offering an unexpectedly smooth experience.
*His children's books aim to normalize queer families by portraying them in familiar, everyday scenarios.
*Tom shares an emotionally charged, authentic moment when his daughter proudly explained her adoption story to a new friend, illustrating the importance of open discussions about family diversity with children.
*The "drop the seed theory" is mentioned, highlighting the importance of talking to children about their origin stories from a young age, planting informative seeds for later understanding.
*The episode underlines the significance of representation in children's literature and the need for more stories that include diverse family structures.
🏳️🌈Quotes:🏳️🌈
"The stories are incidentally gay... This is really a story about a family." Tom
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
Tom Tracy is a dedicated father, author, and social worker. His book series, Scoochie and Skittles, is inspired by his family's adventures and aims to normalize LGBTQIA+ families by showcasing them in everyday life. He is also a passionate advocate for the queer community and gives voice to underrepresented families through his literature, earning several book awards for his work.
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
tomtracybooks.com , scoochieandskittles.com Find Tom on Facebook and Instagram.
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🎙️ Episode Chapters:
0:00:00 Introduction and sponsorship message from Pregnant Together
0:03:07 Importance of normalizing LGBTQ+ families and discussing origin stories
0:08:57 Interviewing Tom Tracy about his book series and mission to normalize LGBTQ+ families
0:13:12 Jaimie and Tom discuss the importance of telling LGBTQIA+ family stories and normalizing them
0:17:06 Tom shares how his own family inspired him to write children's books that reflect families like his own
0:20:48 Tom explains their decision to pursue private domestic adoption instead of surrogacy, and their intention to support a child who needed a family
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l S15 EP4 l Heidi and Trine, lactation consultants and friends, join host Jaimie to discuss feeding babies in the queer community. They explore induced lactation, chest feeding, and inclusive feeding practices. Sharing their own queer journeys, they provide valuable insights into the challenges and possibilities of feeding babies in the queer community. They emphasize the importance of seeking help and finding the right lactation consultant. Don't miss this informative and inclusive conversation.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
Diverse Family Feeding: Insight into lactation consultancy for LGBTQIA+ families, including chest feeding and induced lactation.
Personal Journeys: Heidi and Trina share their coming-out narratives and their paths to becoming lactation consultants.
Heidi candidly shares her emotional journey through stillbirth, underscoring the importance of milk management after loss—an area often uncharted in lactation support.
D-MER Awareness: Bringing attention to dysphoric milk ejection reflex, offering solace to those who may be affected during their lactation journey.
Feeding Preparedness: Stressing the importance of early consultation to set realistic expectations and better prepare for potential challenges in breastfeeding.
Insurance Coverage: The revelation that lactation consultancy services may often be covered by insurance, making them more accessible to a wider audience.
🏳️🌈Quotes:🏳️🌈
"Feeding your baby at breast or at chest is natural and normal, but so is walking; you're going to have to practice." - Trine
" Parenthood isn't meant to be done alone. Reach out to your community." - Heidi
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
Heidi Kim and Trine Bradshaw are both seasoned lactation consultants and work together at their agency, Breast for Baby. They specialize in a gamut of feeding methods and techniques, from traditional breastfeeding or chestfeeding to induced lactation and milk management, catering to a diverse array of family structures, including LGBTQIA+ families. With their own queer stories, Heidi and Trine bring not only expertise to the table but also rich, personal experiences that shape their inclusive practice.
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
Breast for Baby: Heidi and Trina work together as lactation consultants at Breast for Baby. **Mention the Queer Family Podcast in your intake form, for a discount!
Newman-Goldfarb Protocol: A commonly referenced guide for induced lactation.
Breastfeeding Outside the Box Podcast: Recommended for further insights into non-traditional breastfeeding scenarios.
Breast for Baby on Social Media: Follow them on Instagram and Facebook @breastforbaby.
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l S15 EP3 l Wendy Cole transitioned genders at the age of 67, even though she was convinced from the age of 5 that her “male facsimile” was not her true authentic self. A life of suppression and maintaining a heteronormative identity took a tremendous toll on her well-being, and caused strained relationships within her family, leading to a powerful transformation later in life. Now, finally living her truth, she works as a transition coach for anyone going through a difficult life transition. Wendy's story is a powerful reminder that it's never too late to be your true authentic self. Moreover, it underscores the crucial importance of acceptance and inclusion in our society. “Let my life be an example of what not to do.” Wendy
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
*It's never too late to embrace your authentic self, as evidenced by Wendy who transitioned at 67, demonstrating the power of resilience and hope.
*Gender identity is more about self-perception and one's internal understanding rather than physical attributes; it is what is "between the ears," as Wendy puts it.
*Society often imposes repressive norms that make it difficult for individuals to express their true gender identity, leading to long-standing emotional and mental health challenges.
*Accepting major life transitions often require rewriting internal narratives, fostering self-awareness, and creating supportive environments, a concept Wendy now passionately shares through her work.
*Families of transgender individuals can benefit from understanding and support, recognizing that their loved one's journey to authenticity doesn't diminish the person they've always been.
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
*Wendy Cole's professional website for coaching and transition mentorship: meetwendycole.com
🏳️🌈Quotes:🏳️🌈
***"I knew at age three there was something very different about me." Wendy
*” Gender is between your ears, not between your legs." Wendy
*” It's less about transitioning and more about correcting a condition you're born with so you can be who you've always been." Wendy
*” I’m just being for the first time after 67 years." Wendy
*” All life changes begin and are between your ears. 80% between your ears." Wendy
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
Wendy Cole is a transition coach, a role she embodies to assist others in navigating complex life challenges, drawing from her own profound personal journey. With her firsthand experience, Wendy serves as a beacon of hope and resilience, proving that it's never too late to redefine one's life and embrace authenticity.
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l S15 EP2 l Jaimie sits down with Roberto Concepción to chat about his journey to solo parenthood as a gay dad through surrogacy. After his daughter’s birth, he noticed a severe gap in representation for families like his, and so, in true badass style, he decided to change that. He wrote and self-published a children's book called "More Than a Crown" to show his daughter a family like hers in the pages. It's all about embracing different family setups and encouraging kids to shake up old-school expectations.
Jaimie ropes in her non-queer bud, Shephathia, to help kick the episode and dive into the main theme. Together, they stress the importance of addressing "stigmatized" issues, such as Shephathia's experience with her child on the autism spectrum. The conversation highlights the need for diverse and inclusive storytelling and the normalization that occurs from empowering individuals and families from all walks of life.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈 Roberto Concepción is an advocate for diversity, equity, and inclusion, as well as a proud single gay dad who became a parent through surrogacy.The episode delves into the importance of representation for children, signifying the need for inclusive and empowering books.*”More Than a Crown," Roberto's children's book, challenges traditional narratives and promotes female empowerment across diverse cultures and family structures.
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode: Roberto Concepción's Instagram for the book: @morethanacrownbook Purchase "More Than a Crown" on Amazon Prime
🏳️🌈Quotes:🏳️🌈*” Less than 2% of children's books are written by someone that's Latinx and similarly, less than 2% of children's books have LGBTQIA plus representation.” Roberto
*”I hope that this book is one small step in really making sure that the stories we're reading are by us, and for us." Roberto
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈*Roberto Concepción is an in-house employment attorney, children’s book author, and father, whose life is rooted in advocacy for diversity, equity, and inclusion.
*Shephathiah Townsend is a mother, an advocate, an ally, and an all-around badass whom Jaimie adores.
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It’s the Season 15 premiere, y’all! Jaimie is joined by the one and only Mama Sue to introduce this fantastic episode with special guests, MyLin and SK Stokes Kennedy. These trailblazing influencers share their journey as a queer black family, including challenges and triumphs with family acceptance, co-parenting in a blended family, using the tried and true “turkey baster🤪” method with a known donor, and navigating parenthood with a child on the autism spectrum. The episode highlights the importance of representation and the power of love in creating a beautiful blended family. Tune in to hear their inspiring story of overcoming obstacles and embracing the undeniable strength that comes from forging one's own path in the face of adversity.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
*MyLin and SK met during a time when both were wrestling with their queer identities in the context of religion and family expectations.
*The couple experienced challenges in their journey, including confronting unsupportive family members and navigating difficulties around having children.
*They emphasize the importance of representation for black queer love and families on their social media platforms, offering guidance and a sense of community to others.
*MyLin and SK candidly discuss parenting a child on the autism spectrum and the unique experiences it brings to their family life.
*The couple maintains a strong, private relationship with their known donor, keeping this aspect of their lives discreet even among close friends and family.
*MyLin and SK Stokes Kennedy are an inspirational couple who stand as a beacon of representation for LGBTQiA+ families.
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
*MyLin and SK Stokes Kennedy's Instagram: @StokesKennedy
*MyLin and SK Stokes Kennedy's TikTok: @StokesKennedy
*MyLin and SK Stokes Kennedy on YouTube
*”Being loud about being black and queer is already one thing, but when you add parenthood to it, it really shakes the table for a lot of people.” SK
*”This show has been around six years... This is huge." - Jaimie, highlighting the significance of the podcast's impact and longevity.
*”Representation matters. That's what you have taught me so well." - Mama Sue to Jaimie, emphasizing the importance of representation for the LGBTQiA+ community.
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🎙️ Episode Highlights:
0:00:00 Introduction to the Queer Family podcast
0:01:07 Special guest co-host, Mama Sue, introduced
0:14:00 Introduction to the interview with MyLin and SK Stokes Kennedy
0:17:00 MyLin had a two-year-old child from a previous relationship.
0:21:27 Dealing with family disapproval
0:28:51 The challenges of blending their families
0:34:28 The couple found a known donor who was willing to help them conceive.
0:44:16 MyLin and SK discuss parenting a child on the spectrum.
0:50:04 The impact of being a black and queer family
0:53:05 Reuniting with MyLin's father
0:57:03 Wrapping up and thanking the guests
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Jaimie is joined by her wife, Anne in this bonus episode. Tune in for a heartwarming and sometimes hilarious foray into the daily life of a queer family managing sickness, parenting challenges, and the tenacity of a ten-year-old with big dreams. Jamie also gives a sneak peek of the upcoming season, featuring interviews with LGBTQIA+ families, including gay dads, gay moms, trans parents, and families navigating tragic situations. Jamie also recommends the "My Donor Story" book series for donor-conceived families. Tune in for a fun and informative episode before the new season begins.
Stay tuned for more episodes of the Queer Family Podcast and immerse yourself in more enlightening and affirming content.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
*Upcoming season 15 of the Queer Family Podcast promises a range of inspiring stories across the LGBTQIA+ spectrum.
*A new chore chart is introduced into their home, encouraging their daughter to earn an allowance through responsibility.
*Jamie recommends the 'My Donor Story' book series, valuing its inclusivity and representation for donor-conceived children.
*The episode underscores the importance of resource-sharing and storytelling within the queer family community.
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
*My Donor Story' book series by Sharon Leya, available on Amazon.
*Instagram page for 'My Donor Story': @mydonorstory
*Website for 'My Donor Story': www.mydonorstory.com
🏳️🌈Quotes:🏳️🌈
*We need more representation and our children need to be able to see themselves." - Jamie, about the 'My Donor Story' books.
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
*Anne Patricia Woods is the featured guest on this episode of the Queer Family Podcast. Anne is the wife of the host, Jaimie. Her presence brings a personal and authentic perspective to the conversation. The couple shares their experiences and stories with listeners, including dealing with COVID-19 in their household and their strategies for parenting their ten-year-old child.
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🎙️ Episode Highlights:
*0:00:00 Introduction to the Queer Family podcast
*0:00:51 Special guest introduction: Anne Patricia Woods
*0:01:21 Anne's restlessness due to having Covid
*0:03:19 Preview of upcoming episodes for season 15
*0:07:00 Discussion about the show's longevity and 6-year anniversary
*0:08:08 Parenting challenges with their daughter's travel plans
*0:09:35 Introduction of a new chore system in the household
*0:10:06 Speculation on how long the new chore system will last
*0:11:07 Jamie recommends a book series for queer parents with donor-conceived kids
*0:12:56 Jamie provides information about the author and where to find the books
*0:13:28 Jamie mentions an Instagram page and website as additional resource
*0:14:05 Jamie promotes the video version of the podcast on Spotify
*0:14:49 Jamie encourages listeners to support the show on Patreon
*0:15:32 Jamie concludes the episode and thanks listeners
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Host Jaimie Kelton is interviewed by Gavin and David from the “Gaytriarchs” podcast in this bonus episode of The Queer Family Podcast. They discuss the challenges and joys of parenting as queer individuals, including Jaimie's personal journey to motherhood as a lesbian mom. They touch on the stereotypes that can come with being a gay dad or lesbian mom and the complexities of raising a son. Jaimie also shares her frustrations with PR agents trying to exploit her audience for free advertising. Tune in for a fun and insightful conversation about queer parenting and the unique experiences that come with it.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
*Jaimie Kelton's commitment to storytelling and representation sheds light on the unique experiences of LGBTQIA+ families.
*The struggle for finding genuine sponsorships highlights the broader challenges facing queer content creators.
*Gender dynamics within queer families are a focal point, addressed with both humor and acuity.
*Personal anecdotes add a rich, relatable layer to the discussion on parenting styles and identity.
*The importance of standing by one's values when it comes to content creation and guest engagement is underlined.
🏳️🌈Quotes:🏳️🌈
*"My daughter knows 32 flavors. She can sing it. Yeah, a little, Ani. A little. Because I'm a 90s lesbian. Indigo." Jaimie
*"We were on the way home from school. He was in pre-K, and he gave me this look, and I'm pretty sure there was poop involved, too.” Jaimie
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
*David F.M. Vaughn is an award-winning actor, director, composer, and writer.
*Gavin Lodge is… not an award-winning anything, but a champion adventure seeker and career changer. He is an actor, activist, recovering PTA president, and entrepreneur.
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode: Listen to* Gaytriarchs**
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Chapters:
🎙️ Episode Highlights:
*0:00:00 Introduction to the Queer Family podcast and sponsorship announcement
*0:01:24 Frustration with the lack of real sponsorships for the show
*0:03:41 Annoyance with companies wanting free advertising
*0:06:09 Sponsorship code for California Cryobank
*0:08:14 Introduction to the Gaytriarchs podcast
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A Mic for the LGBTQIA+ Community: The Queer Family Podcast. Join Jaimie in this Bonus Episode as she guests on ‘This ‘Is Infertility” with Dan Bulger.
Almost three years ago, we published a list of our Top 17 Favorite Fertility Podcasts. Topping that list was a podcast called “If These Ovaries Could Talk,” a show centered around the lesbian experience of fertility and family building. Today’s guest, Jaimie Kelton, created this podcast after going through the journey to build her family and struggling to find relatable content and education for queer identities. As her following has grown, so has her podcast. Jaimie explains how her show has now evolved into “The Queer Family Podcast,” a podcast for diverse identities, and all LGBTQIA+ stories alike. She dives deep into her story, the evolution of the podcast, and the reality of family-building in the LGBTQIA+ community.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
*Despite being a primary supporter of fertility care, the LGBTQIA+ community is often treated as an afterthought, facing challenges in accessing fair and comprehensive family-building options.
*The podcast has built a supportive and vocal community around it, showcasing the need for connection and chosen family within the queer community.
*The LGBTQIA+ community faces financial challenges in family-building, with many individuals paying out of pocket for fertility care. Progyny is mentioned as an insurance provider addressing inclusive coverage for the community.
🏳️🌈Quotes:🏳️🌈
*“For the most part, the LGBTQIA+ community is an afterthought when it comes to fertility care, which is funny, because we are the main supporter of fertility care, because most of us need help to make our families.” - Jaimie Kelton
*"I didn't hear any queer stories at all. So I thought, well, somebody needs to create this. And so, I just ended up creating it" - Jaimie Kelton
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode: Listen to* This Is Infertility**
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l BONUS l Jaimie has some exciting news to share y’all! You can now watch video episodes on Spotify!
A brief introduction to The Queer Family Podcast and Jaimie’s personal journey of building a family as a gay mom. She talks about her experience with infertility and the lack of representation for LGBTQIA+ families in the fertility space. Jaimie also announces that the podcast is now available in video format on Spotify and encourages listeners to watch the episodes there. She concludes by promoting California Cryobank, the sponsor of the season, and invites listeners to share their own family stories.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
*Jaimie started the Queer Family podcast to shine a spotlight on and normalize LGBTQIA+ families.
*The podcast features interviews with different individuals, couples, and families about their family-building journeys.
*Jaimie’s personal journey involved fertility treatments and a long struggle with unexplained infertility.
*LGBTQIA+ individuals and couples often get excluded from conversations about fertility benefits and insurance.
*Great news – the podcast is now available in video format on Spotify, so you can watch the episodes.
*Our season sponsor, California Cryobank, offers a diverse selection of sperm donors for LGBTQIA+ individuals and couples.
🏳️🌈Quotes:🏳️🌈
*”This show needed to happen. It is six years old as we speak, and there is not a shortage of folks who want to come on here and tell their beautiful, beautiful stories." - Jaimie
*”I tried my best to shed a little light on [the lack of inclusion for LGBTQIA+ folks in fertility benefits], and I hope you do enjoy that episode." - Jaimie
*”Go make those babies, y'all. And then come tell me about it. Go make them. Go ahead. Love is love." - Jaimie
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
*Hey there, I'm Jaimie, the host of The Queer Family Podcast, and I'm a proud gay mom of two awesome kids. My wife, Anne, and I went on quite a journey to build our family. That’s why The Queer Family Podcast exists. It’s a show all about sharing and celebrating LGBTQIA+ family stories.
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode: Listen to* This Is Infertility**
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S14 EP15 BONUS | Join Jaimie in this Holiday Bonus Episode as she guests on 'Lost Spaces' with K Anderson! Jaimie shares her experience growing up in San Francisco surrounded by queer culture but struggling to recognize her own queerness. She discusses the male-dominated gay world she witnessed in the 80s and 90s and the lack of representation of gay women. Jaimie reflects on her journey of self-discovery, including experimenting with women and eventually embracing her identity as a lesbian. She also discusses the challenges of coming out to her parents and the stereotypes surrounding "U-Haul lesbians." Throughout her story, Jaimie emphasizes the importance of embracing one's differences and shedding the need for perfectionism. Dive into this special episode with a personal touch from Jaimie.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- Growing up in a queer-friendly environment does not guarantee immediate self-recognition of one's own queerness.
- Representation and exposure to diverse queer experiences are crucial in understanding and accepting one's own sexuality.
- Coming out can be a complex and ongoing process, with individuals gradually embracing and fully owning their identities.
- The queer community can provide support and a sense of belonging during the process of self-discovery.
- Losing perfection means letting go of the need to control others' perception of you.
🏳️🌈Quotes:🏳️🌈
- "I think everybody has a little bit of gay in them and they just haven't found it yet." - Jaimie Kelton
- "I knew there was community. I knew I would not be alone if I decided to come out.” - Jaimie Kelton
- “I feel like I touched my toe real slowly into this gay water." - Jaimie Kelton
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
- Listen to Lost Spaces
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S14 EP14 BONUS | We interrupt our regular content to bring you Holiday Bonus Episodes of podcasts that Jaimie loves and has guested on! Listen to the intro to hear an update and funny story from Jaimie before diving into an episode of “Who’s Your Daddy” with Michael and Matt. Jaimie and the fellas go deep into her personal story of struggling through unexplained infertility and over 3 years (!!) of trying to have a baby through IVF and IUI. She also shares some very exciting news that came to be a pretty big surprise!
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🏳️🌈Quotes:🏳️🌈
- "We always thought I would be the one to carry, but my wife surprised me by expressing her desire to carry. We had to go back to the drawing board and adjust our plans accordingly." Jaimie
- "I always felt slightly off about our fertility doctor. I never felt like he was right for me. Finally, after all of that, I said, 'You know what? Switch the formula. I'm getting a new doctor.'" Jaimie
- "We took out another loan against my wife's retirement. Thank God we were privileged enough for my wife to have a retirement to even take out of. We went for the IVF, and it didn't work." Jaimie
🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- Trust your gut and find a doctor who is the right fit for your fertility journey.
- Taking supplements and making lifestyle changes can improve egg health and increase the chances of pregnancy.
- The financial cost of fertility treatments can be significant, and it's important to plan and budget accordingly.
- Open and honest communication with children about their donor origins is crucial, but it's important to consider age-appropriate explanations and potential confusion.
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
- Listen to Who’s Your Daddy
- Follow Michael and Matt
- Email them at whosyourdaddypod@gmail.com
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S14 BONUS | In this bonus holiday episode, Jaimie sits down with Robin and Anna, the creators of the short film "Pivot." They discuss the inspiration behind the film and its powerful message. The film tells the story of a young girl who rebels against societal expectations and fights against wearing a dress. The film explores themes of self-acceptance, identity, and the importance of allowing children to be true to themselves. "Pivot" has been well-received in film festivals and is currently being considered for an Oscar nomination. The creators encourage everyone to watch and share the film to promote inclusivity and understanding.
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🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
- Robin Campbell is a Canadian screenwriter and filmmaker. She is the creator of the short film "Pivot," which explores the journey of a young girl who doesn't fit the traditional gender norms imposed by her mother. The film is based on Robin's own experiences with bisexuality and the fear of not fitting into societal expectations.
- Anna Gusson is a working director in the animation industry based in Vancouver. She directed "Pivot" and was responsible for translating Robin's story into visual images. Anna's role was to bring the words to life and create a visual representation of the emotional journey depicted in the film.
🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- The film "Pivot" addresses the emotional journey of a young girl who doesn't fit traditional gender norms and the fear of not being accepted for who she truly is.
- The film highlights the importance of self-acceptance and standing up for one's true identity, even in the face of societal expectations.
- "Pivot" is a universal story that resonates with people from different cultures and backgrounds, as it explores the common experience of feeling misunderstood or pressured to conform.
- The film aims to bridge conversations between children and parents, encouraging open dialogue and understanding.
- The team behind "Pivot" wanted to create a film that empowers children to be the heroes of their own stories and encourages parents to see and value their children for who they truly are.
🏳️🌈Quotes:🏳️🌈
- "The film is about a young girl who doesn't fit the image that her mom has for her... It's my journey of my bisexuality." - Robin Campbell
- "We made the film to bridge conversations and to make sure everyone gets a little bit out of it." - Anna Gusson
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
- Watch Pivot: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rJu0xRbNOXo
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S14 EP12 | Dr. Lulu, a Nigerian-born pediatrician and advocate, shares her personal journey of self-discovery and acceptance as a queer person. Growing up in a homophobic and religious society, she struggled with internalized homophobia and rejected her own child when they showed signs of being feminine. However, after her child revealed themselves as transgender, Dr. Lulu had a change of heart and became an advocate for LGBTQIA+ youth. She emphasizes the importance of unlearning societal norms and accepting and affirming our children for who they truly are. Dr. Lulu also discusses her new gender-affirming family coaching practice and the importance of supporting siblings in the transition process.
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🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈 Dr. Lulu is a pediatrician, advocate, and speaker. She is Nigerian-born and has a passion for supporting LGBTQIA+ youth and their families. Dr. Lulu has recently opened a gender-affirming family coaching practice where she helps parents and families navigate the process of gender affirmation.
🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- Self-awareness is crucial in understanding our reactions and beliefs about gender.
- Exploring the underlying emotions and beliefs behind our reactions can lead to personal growth and understanding.
- Gender affirmation goes beyond hormones and surgery and includes respecting a person's chosen name, pronouns, and clothing.
- Supporting and affirming LGBTQIA+ children requires unlearning societal norms and taking responsibility for our own biases.
🏳️🌈Quotes:🏳️🌈
- "The truth will set you free. Spend enough time getting curious and asking yourself why you felt this way." - Dr. Lulu
- "Embarrassment is an emotion that can reveal deeper beliefs and patterns in our lives." - Dr. Lulu
- "Gender affirmation starts at a young age and includes respecting a person's chosen name and pronouns." - Dr. Lulu
- "Parents must let go of the belief that they did something wrong and accept their child's gender identity." - Dr. Lulu
🏳️🌈Resources:
- The Trevor Project Lifeline 1-888-488-7386
- It Gets Better: Watch Videos of Support
- The National Suicide Prevention Hotline: 1800-273-TALK (8255)
- The GLGT National Help Center: 1-888-THE_GLNH (888-843-4564)
- Youth Talkline: 1-800-245-PRIDE (800-246-7743)
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S14 EP11 | Moe Ari and Tiffany, hosts of the Be Your Own Love Goals podcast, share their journey as a queer couple. They met in college, became friends, and eventually fell in love. Moe Ari later came out as transgender, and they decided to start a family through reciprocal IVF. They faced challenges with their families' acceptance and had difficult conversations about their donor choice. Despite the obstacles, their families have come around and are now obsessed with their daughter, Nova. The couple emphasizes the importance of being your own “love goals” and creating your own authentic journey of partnership.
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🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
- Moe Ari and Tiffany are the hosts of the Be Your Own Love Goals podcast.
- They met in college and have been together for a decade.
- Moe Ari is transgender and went through a gender transition during their relationship.
- They used reciprocal IVF to have their daughter, Nova.
🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- Nova's birth helped solidify Moe Ari's gender transition and their identity as a father.
- The couple chose a donor based on shared values and personality traits, rather than physical appearance.
- Moe Ari's family was accepting of his coming out & transition, while Tiffany faced more challenges with her family's acceptance.
- Becoming parents has brought healing and growth to both Moe Ari and Tiffany.
🏳️🌈Quotes:🏳️🌈
- "Hearing her call me Daddy for the first time was like, I am a dude. I am a dad." - Moe Ari
- "We wanted to feel connected to the donor in a way that transcended the physical." - Moe Ari
- "Having Nova was the first time I had the confidence to really allow myself to be seen." - Tiffany
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
- We Are The Rainbow
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S14 EP10 | Freya Lyon, a queer mom and donor-conceived child, shares her journey of finding her "bio dad" and connecting with her donor-conceived siblings. She discusses her experience growing up with queer moms, her own journey of becoming a parent, and the importance of open communication and honesty in donor-conceived families. Freya emphasizes the significance of answering the questions of donor-conceived children and providing them with the option to connect with their donors or half-siblings.
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🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- Freya had a positive experience growing up as a donor-conceived child and always felt comfortable discussing her origins.
- She recently found her biological father and has formed a close relationship with him and her donor-conceived siblings.
- Freya's children have multiple half-siblings from the same donor, and they have the option to connect with them in the future.
- Open communication and honesty are crucial in donor-conceived families to ensure that children have a clear understanding of their origins and can make informed decisions about connecting with their donors or half-siblings.
🏳️🌈Quotes:🏳️🌈
- "I've always wondered if I would have inherited something [from my biological father]." - Freya Lyon
- "Our family is completed, we're not having anymore. I want to be able to do this for someone." - Freya Lyon
- "That level of contact was really all I wanted as a kid. I just wanted the odd question answered. I didn't need that relationship growing up. It's just a bonus now." - Freya Lyon
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
- Fertility Matters @Work
- Surrogacy UK
- Helen’s Blog
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
- Freya Lyon is a queer mom and donor-conceived child. She has two children with her wife using a sperm donor and has recently connected with her biological father. Freya shares her journey of finding her biological father and forming relationships with her donor-conceived siblings.
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S14 EP9 | Eddie and Aurelio discuss their journey of adopting in the UK and becoming parents to twin toddlers during the pandemic. They emphasize the need for a support network and resources during the adoption process, and how the COVID-19 pandemic added both challenges and opportunities for bonding with their children. They now provide representation and support for other same-sex couples and adoptive parents through their popular social media platforms.
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🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
- Eddie and Aurelio, also known as @fortunatedads, are adoptive parents who share their journey of adopting twin boys on their social media platforms. They provide representation and support for other same-sex couples and adoptive parents.
🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- Adoption involves extensive paperwork, interviews, and assessments, making it a complex and emotional process.
- The adoption system has a high number of children in need of loving families.
- Having a support network and resources in place is crucial during the adoption process.
- The COVID-19 pandemic presented additional challenges, but also provided an opportunity for bonding and quality time with the children.
🏳️🌈Quotes:🏳️🌈
- "We wanted to be a family and adoption felt like the right path for us." - Eddie and Aurelio
- "There is no feeling like it. You just feel whole." - Eddie
- "Representation matters. It's important for our children to see other same-sex couples and know that it's normal." - Aurelio
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S14 EP8 | Emme Reynolds, a transgender parent to two children in a newly blended family, shares their journey of self-discovery and transition. She discusses the importance of listening to each other's stories and understanding the challenges and complexities of transitioning. Emme emphasizes that transition is not a one-time event but an ongoing process, and highlights the difficulties faced by the LGBTQIA+ community in the current political climate. She also touches on the support she has received from her family and the importance of visibility and representation. Overall, Emme encourages open and honest conversations about gender identity and the experiences of trans individuals.
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🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
Emme Reynolds is a transgender parent to two children in a blended family. They are also the host of the podcast "A Second Puberty."
🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- Transitioning is a complex and ongoing process, and it is important to understand that it is not always easy or straightforward.
- It is crucial to listen to and understand each other's stories within the LGBTQ+ community.
- The support and acceptance of family and friends can make a significant difference in the well-being and happiness of a trans individual.
🏳️🌈Quotes:🏳️🌈
- "Transition can be hard and difficult, but it is also beautiful and valid." Emme
- "No one is trying to turn your straight kid trans. We're trying to keep trans kids alive." Emme
- "It is important to have access to gender-affirming healthcare and medications." Emme
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
- Article about centering disability visibility in reproductive healthcare:
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S14 EP7 | Liz Glazer, an award-winning stand-up comedian and queer mom, shares her journey to parenthood and the stillbirth of her first daughter, Leo Pearl. She discusses the struggles and grief associated with pregnancy loss, emphasizing that all forms of loss are equally difficult. Liz also talks about her wife's decision to freeze her eggs and their experience using a sperm bank. Despite the tragedy, Liz and her wife decided to try again and successfully welcomed their daughter, Eloise. Liz highlights the importance of being there for someone experiencing grief and offers insights into the unique nature of grieving for a child who never lived.
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🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
- Liz Glazer is an award-winning stand-up comedian and queer mom. She is known for her debut stand-up comedy and storytelling album, "A Very Particular Experience," which explores the stillbirth of her first daughter, Leo Pearl. Liz is also a former tenured law professor and has been doing stand-up for 10 years.
🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- Liz and her wife, Karen, decided to have children, and Karen had frozen her eggs before they started trying.
- Liz and Karen used a sperm bank for the embryo transfer, and the first transfer was successful.
- Liz emphasizes that there is no hierarchy of grief and that all forms of pregnancy loss are difficult.
- Liz and Karen joined a bereavement group called Pockets of Light, which provided support during their grieving process.
- Liz shares the strangeness of grieving for someone who never lived and the abstract nature of the grief.
🏳️🌈Quotes:🏳️🌈
- "I think that being willing to be the person who is there, who's emailing, who's calling, who's reaching out, that's really helpful." - Liz Glazer
- "Grief is such a personal journey and nightmare in so many ways." - Liz Glazer
- "There's no grief Olympics, all of it sucks because all of it is." - Liz Glazer
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode:
- Pockets of Light
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| S14 EP6 | Dr. Mark Leondires and Lisa Schuman discuss the importance of disclosure and open communication when parenting donor-conceived children. They emphasize the need to drop seeds of information from an early age, allowing children to gradually understand their unique family story. The guests also highlight the significance of language and terminology when discussing donors. The conversation touches on the challenges of managing expectations and the potential impact of meeting donor siblings or the donor themselves. The guests introduce their new book, "Building Your Family: The Complete Guide to Donor Conception," which provides guidance and support for individuals and couples navigating the donor conception process.
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- The guests on this episode are Lisa Schuman, a therapist, and Dr. Mark Leondires, a medical director at Illume Fertility.
🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- In this episode of The Queer Family Podcast, Jamie interviews Lisa and Dr. Mark Leondires about donor conception and parenting donor-conceived children.
- They discuss the importance of open donor programs and the need for disclosure and communication with children about their donor conception.
- The guests emphasize the importance of dropping seeds and having ongoing conversations with children about their donor conception from a young age.
- They also address the concerns and challenges faced by donor-conceived individuals and the need for support and understanding from parents.
- The guests talk about their new book, "Building Your Family: The Complete Guide to Donor Conception," which provides guidance and support for individuals and couples on their donor conception journey.
🏳️🌈Quotes:🏳️🌈
- "Children are most unhappy under two circumstances, one accidental disclosure and second, late disclosure." - Dr. Mark Leondires
- "If you tell them when your kids are 10, 11, or 12, they're going to see you sweat. If you've been telling them all along, they're like, 'Oh, shut up, dad.'" - Dr. Mark Leondires
- "Our kids have to get through this identity formation on their own and try to figure out who they are in relationship to their parents and then to another set of genetics that they don't really know that well." - Lisa Schuman
🏳️🌈Resources mentioned in the episode
- “Building Your Family: The Complete Guide to Donor Conception”
- Donor Conception Conversations Podcast
- The Center for Family Building
- Illume Fertility
- Gay Parents To Be
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S14 EP4 | In the first part of this 2-part episode, we're diving deep into that Search for The Superhuman, y'all! Lisa Schuman and Dr. Mark Leondires, co-authors of "Building Your Family: The Complete Guide to Donor Conception," share insights on choosing the right donor and explore the unique perspectives and experiences LGBTQIA+ individuals bring to this exciting and complex family-building journey. Stay tuned for part 2, which will be released next Monday. OR catch it right now on our Patreon channel, where we'll delve into how the heck you navigate parenting and life as a donor-conceived family.
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
Lisa Schuman is a therapist with almost 30 years of experience in reproductive medicine. She is the host of the Donor Conception Conversations Podcast and runs the Center for Family Building, a one-stop shop for resources and support for family-building journeys. Lisa is also the co-author of the book "Building Your Family: The Complete Guide to Donor Conception."
Dr. Mark Leondires is the medical director at Illume Fertility and the founder of Gay Parents to Be. He has personal experience with donor conception, having built his own family through egg donation and surrogacy. Dr. Mark is passionate about helping LGBTQIA+ individuals and couples navigate the family-building process and is dedicated to providing quality care and support.
🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
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Donor conception involves choosing a donor whose genetics and health history align with your values and priorities.
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It's important to prioritize health and genetics when selecting a donor, rather than focusing solely on personal preferences or characteristics.
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Psychological screening and testing can help ensure that donors are honest and mentally healthy.
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Open and honest communication with children about their donor conception story is crucial for their emotional well-being and understanding of their identity.
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Queer parents often have a unique perspective on donor conception, as they have already navigated the process of accepting their own identities and building their families.
🏳️🌈Quotes:🏳️🌈
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"Remember, you're not getting that person. You're getting their past three to five generations." - Dr. Mark Leondires
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"Choosing your donor should be a head decision, but it really starts in your heart." - Lisa Schuman
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- Donor Conception Conversations Podcast
- The Center for Family Building
- Illume Fertility
- Gay Parents To Be
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| S14 EP4 | Gavin and David, hosts of the podcast "Gaytriarchs," discuss their experiences with surrogacy and parenting as gay men. They share their journeys of finding egg donors and surrogate carriers, and the decisions they made along the way. The hosts also touch on the unique aspects of gay parenting and the need for constant conversations and decision-making, as well as the importance of authenticity and laughter in navigating the challenges and joys of queer parenting.
🏳️🌈About The Guest(s)🏳️🌈
- Gavin Lodge and David F.M. Vaughn are the co-hosts of the podcast "Gaytriarchs" and are both gay fathers. Gavin has two children and David has two children, all through surrogacy. They have a background in musical theater and share a passion for creating a podcast that brings humor and realness to the gay parenting world.
🏳️🌈Key Takeaways:🏳️🌈
- The podcast "Gaytriarchs" aims to provide a space for gay dads to laugh, share stories, and find support.
- Balancing parenthood and personal interests can be challenging, but it's important to prioritize self-care and maintain a sense of individuality.
- The hosts emphasize the need for authenticity and realness in the gay parenting community, rather than just portraying an idealized version of family life.
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| Timestamp | Summary | | --- | --- | | 0:00:00 | Introduction to the Queer Family Podcast and sponsor mention | | 0:00:30 | Discussion on the unique challenges of gay families | | 0:02:07 | Announcement of the Queer Family Podcast winning two Signal Awards | | 0:04:00 | Shoutout to a listener and their upcoming surrogacy journey | | 0:05:22 | Encouragement for listeners to reach out and connect | | 0:06:19 | Introduction to Gavin and David, hosts of Gaytriarchs | | 0:06:43 | David's 32-second elevator pitch about being a gay dad | | 0:08:21 | Gavin's 32-second elevator pitch about being a gay dad | | 0:09:31 | Playful discussion about who won the elevator pitch competition | | 0:10:09 | Mention of upcoming topic on guns for their podcast episode | | 0:10:08 | Introduction: Gavin and David talk about guns. | | 0:10:48 | David's decision to pursue surrogacy and his sister-in-law's offer. | | 0:13:46 | David's sister-in-law agrees to be their surrogate. | | 0:15:31 | Finding a second surrogate through a Facebook group during COVID. | | 0:16:54 | Gavin's conventional route to surrogacy through an agency. | | 0:17:19 | Gavin's experience of flying to Pasadena for sperm donation. | | 0:18:28 | The issue of lost sperm during the egg donor process. | | 0:19:25 | Agency's mishap with the number of viable eggs from the donor. | | 0:19:28 | Discussing the mishap in the surrogacy process. | | 0:20:13 | Debate on using the term "vagina" versus "vulva". | | 0:21:13 | Gavin's experience with surrogacy and the cost involved. | | 0:22:16 | Gavin's desire to have kids and his partner's concerns. | | 0:24:08 | Parenthood as a lesson in selflessness. | | 0:25:08 | Advice on becoming a parent and maintaining self-identity. | | 0:26:06 | Promo for California Cryobank and sperm donor selection. | | 0:26:58 | Decision-making process on who would be the gestational parent. | | 0:27:39 | Possibility of having twins with each partner's biological connection. | | 0:28:26 | Anecdote of military dads with two surrogates and multiple babies. | | 0:28:25 | Discussion about multiple pregnancies and babies | | 0:29:24 | Gavin shares his experience of driving the baby train | | 0:30:10 | Egg donor went MIA during the process | | 0:32:00 | Different approaches to giving children last names | | 0:33:31 | Overthinking decisions about last names | | 0:35:31 | The search for an egg donor and the challenges involved | | 0:36:47 | Biases and parameters in choosing an egg donor | | 0:37:15 | Reflections on the influence of the egg donor | | 0:37:15 | Reflections on the influence of the egg donor | | 0:37:15 | David's view on his kids' behavior and genetics. | | 0:37:33 | Gavin's experience with selecting an egg donor based on appearance. | | 0:38:18 | Gavin asks David about watching videos of potential donors. | | 0:38:33 | David and Gavin discuss selecting donors who resemble them. | | 0:39:23 | David and Gavin talk about choosing average-looking donors. | | 0:40:23 | David mentions not thinking about the donor anymore. | | 0:40:49 | Jamie expresses surprise that closed donations still exist. | | 0:41:22 | Jamie shares her thoughts on seeing the donor in her daughter. | | 0:42:31 | David fears the donor might disappoint him if they meet. | | 0:43:53 | Gavin and David talk about their children's ages. | | 0:47:22 | Introduction to the podcast and how it started | | 0:47:43 | Discussion about the need for a podcast on gay dads | | 0:48:16 | Creating a diaper bag for gay dads | | 0:49:05 | Fear of taking artistic leap and vulnerability | | 0:50:23 | Challenges of remote recording and growing as a team | | 0:51:09 | Humor and light-heartedness in the podcast | | 0:51:49 | Importance of representation and inclusion in podcasts | | 0:52:05 | Musical theater energy and laughter in the show | | 0:53:27 | Appreciation for paving the way for other podcasts | | 0:53:59 | Closing remarks and thanks to the guest |
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| S14 EP3 | Nat Vikitsreth is a licensed clinical psychotherapist and child development specialist, and host of the Come Back to Care Podcast. She shares her personal journey, growing up in Bangkok, Thailand, and embracing her identity as a trans woman. Nat's work goes beyond therapy; she offers vital support to the queer community by being the "trans auntie of the village, loving up on other parents, especially queer parents." She discusses the importance of self-awareness and being present with our children. Her message reminds parents (especially Jaimie 😜) to give themselves grace as they navigate the complexities of parenting.
"Queer Parents. We got this." - Nat
Key Takeaways:
- Balancing the pressure to protect and prepare our children with the need to be present and connected.
- Self-awareness and recognizing our own patterns and reactions is crucial in being present with our children.
- Slowing down, pausing, and taking a breath can help us respond to our children's needs in a more present and connected way.
- Give yourself grace as a parent and acknowledge that you are doing your best.
Quotes:
- "We tend to put our parenting values in the backseat when worries and fears take over." - Nat
- "The threats are real, but we need to balance being present with our children so that they feel seen, heard, and loved for who they are." - Nat
- "If we're not soothed, we can't soothe our child." - Nat
- "All you parents out there who are doing your damn best. Give yourself grace. We all fuck up." - Jamie
- "That one thing in a day is so important." - Nat
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[0:00:00] Introduction and sponsor announcement
[0:00:12] Nat's desire to be a trans auntie and work with queer parents
[0:01:47] Jamie's introduction and background on previous parenting coaching session
[0:03:19] Nat's email expressing hope to affirm, validate, and uplift listeners
[0:04:12] Recommendation for the "Gaytriarchs" podcast
[0:05:17] Listener message from Dana in Wisconsin
[0:06:48] Jamie's gratitude and call for more listener messages
[0:08:08] Introduction of Nat and conversation begins
[0:08:42] Nat's elevator pitch and focus on love and boundaries
[0:10:42] Nat's work as a decolonized therapist and supporting social justice parenting
[0:11:28] Discussion of Nat's childhood and realization of being trans
[0:12:05] Nat's struggle with understanding and expressing their gender identity
[0:12:52] Nat talks about finding a community at their Catholic all boys school
[0:14:15] Nat tells their parents they think they are a woman
[0:15:06] Nat's parents already knew and accepted their identity
[0:16:12] Nat moves to a different province to finish high school
[0:17:05] Nat finds a chosen family in the sex worker community
[0:18:26] Nat starts transitioning in their first year of college
[0:19:14] Nat gets involved with the sex worker community
[0:21:06] Nat talks about the emotional connection with clients as a sex worker
[0:23:20] Nat and their chosen family do organizing work for safety
[0:24:59] Nat's parents seek therapy to understand and accept their transition
[0:25:44] Nat discusses their parents' education on their journey.
[0:26:23] Nat mentions seeing multiple psychiatrists as a requirement for transitioning.
[0:27:13] Nat talks about initially wanting a traditional family but later changing their mind.
[0:28:09] Nat expresses a desire to be the "trans auntie" and support queer families.
[0:29:21] Nat discusses the influence of patriarchy on their perception of womanhood.
[0:30:46] Jamie introduces the topic of parenting in the current anti-trans climate.
[0:32:00] Nat shares their journey of moving to the US and working with families.
[0:32:51] Nat discusses the challenges of parenting in a hostile world.
[0:34:24] Nat emphasizes the importance of being present with children despite challenges.
[0:36:19] Nat suggests balancing teaching and preparing with being present with children.
[0:38:32] Difficulty of being present with a child's hurt
[0:39:23] Using the SIFT acronym to slow down and pause
[0:39:56] Mama bear instinct to protect child
[0:40:49] Using the SIFT acronym to notice bodily cues
[0:42:40] Sensations may be too overwhelming for some parents
[0:43:18] Noticing thoughts before going into teaching mode
[0:44:27] Checking in with child's feelings and experiences
[0:45:39] Pausing before reacting and breaking the pattern
[0:46:44] Giving oneself grace and apologizing for losing temper
[0:49:20] Sharing alternative actions and modeling emotional resilience
[0:51:27] Research on mothers' ability to meet their babies' needs
[0:53:16] Babies as young as three months can cope with stress
[0:54:08] Different ways to self-soothe and model for children
[0:55:15] Importance of teaching emotional skills to navigate difficult emotions
[0:56:26] Recognizing the need to slow down and pay attention
[0:58:06] Personalizing self-soothing techniques for children
[0:59:29] Core regulation and sitting with children in their emotions
[1:00:57] Being transparent about one's own capacity for regulation
[1:01:51] Giving parents grace and acknowledging their efforts
[1:02:50] Queer parents and allies are doing a great job
[1:03:48] Introduction to Nat and their podcast
[1:04:25] Thank you and closing remarks
[1:05:00] Merchandise and conclusion
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Mohsin, Matthew, and Dahlia are best friends and hosts of the podcast "Tiny Huge Decisions,” where they explore in depth the possibility of Dahlia becoming a surrogate for Mohsin and Matthew. They sat down with Jaimie to discuss the questions they’ve grappled with in the decision-making process, including the impact on their friendship, the legal and emotional aspects of surrogacy in the UK, and how their cultural and religious backgrounds play into all of it. They also delve into the importance of having strong female role models in their children's lives and the potential long-term relationship between Dahlia and the child. We get deep and personal on the intricacies of surrogacy and also delve into the complexities of friendship, family, and personal identity with these candid and fun BFFs.
"Surrogacy with a close friend adds new layers and complexities to the process." - Matthew
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| 0:00:00 | Introduction to the podcast and sponsors. |
| 0:00:30 | Mohsin discusses the challenges of being gay in a religious and cultural family. |
| 0:01:40 | Introduction to the podcast "Tiny Huge Decisions" and its premise. |
| 0:02:47 | Behind the scenes info about Mohsin and Dahlia's friendship and Mohsin and Matthew's relationship. |
| 0:04:13 | Ally voicemail from Shephathia asking about a term for children of LGBTQ parents. |
| 0:05:43 | Answering Shephathia’s question about the term "queer spawn" for children of LGBTQ parents. |
| 0:07:09 | Request for listeners to reach out and share their thoughts and stories. |
| 0:08:19 | Introduction of the podcast hosts and their backgrounds. |
| 0:09:46 | Summary of the podcast "Tiny Huge Decisions" and its exploration of surrogacy. |
| 0:10:37 | Discussion about the relevance of Dahlia's work as a medical anthropologist. |
| 0:11:05 | Introduction and background of the friendship between Mohsin and Dahlia |
| 0:12:27 | Mohsin's coming out story and how Dahlia was the first person he told |
| 0:14:06 | Dahlia's reaction to Mohsin's coming out |
| 0:16:06 | Mohsin's inner turmoil and struggles with faith, culture, and family |
| 0:18:27 | Matthew's coming out experience in a small town in Ireland |
| 0:19:03 | Dahlia's observation of Mohsin's transformation after coming out |
| 0:19:32 | Mohsin and Matthew's meeting and marriage |
| 0:20:08 | Discussions about family building in their relationship |
| 0:20:35 | Comparing their backgrounds and the sense of community from big families |
| 0:20:35 | Age difference and discussions about having kids |
| 0:21:09 | Importance of discussing family building intentions early on |
| 0:21:41 | Considerations and challenges of LGBTQ+ family building |
| 0:22:39 | Dahlia offers to be a surrogate as a joke |
| 0:23:23 | Dahlia's proposal is taken seriously and discussed further |
| 0:24:13 | Excitement and research about surrogacy options |
| 0:25:34 | Decision to focus on surrogacy before exploring other options |
| 0:26:10 | Podcast idea to have dedicated discussions and do research |
| 0:27:46 | Structured conversations with experts and disciplined approach |
| 0:29:33 | Dahlia's husband supports her decision without involvement in discussions |
| 0:30:52 | Surrogacy in the UK and differences from the US |
| 0:31:08 | Introduction to surrogacy in the UK |
| 0:31:24 | Differences between UK and US surrogacy laws and costs |
| 0:32:14 | Legal differences between UK and US surrogacy |
| 0:33:19 | Discussion on the process and agreements in UK surrogacy |
| 0:34:51 | Challenges of being friends and surrogacy |
| 0:36:16 | Importance of sharing real-time experiences and negotiations |
| 0:36:56 | Complexities of long-term relationship with the child |
| 0:38:11 | Importance of strong female role models in their children's lives |
| 0:39:34 | Plan in case the answer is no revealed in episode 7 |
| 0:40:32 | Where to find the podcast and social media handles |
| 0:41:35 | Thanking sponsor California Cryobank |
| 0:41:56 | Matthew: Love is love |
| 0:41:58 | Jamie: Enjoyed the episode, listen/watch another |
| 0:42:23 | Jamie: Support show on Patreon, bonus content, love and adoration |
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Mia Cooley, founder of xHood, joins Jaimie to discuss her journey as a queer parent and the work she is doing to support black and brown parents and intended parents. Mia shares her experience of having her first child with a previous partner and navigating co-parenting, as well as her journey to having a baby with her current partner. She also discusses the importance of representation and community support for queer families and highlights the work of Exhood in providing resources and events for black queer parents.
"We provide family building and nurturing support to black and brown parents and intended parents." - Mia Cooley
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The Queer Family Podcast | S13 EP12 | Ed Center is a husband and father who humorously quips that, as two Filipino men, he and his husband defied convention in their journey to parenthood by adopting two wonderful white children. After their eldest child faced a profound mental health challenge during the pandemic, Ed embraced a more inclusive and mindful approach to parenting and learned better ways to support his children. Inspired by his learnings, Ed founded Village Well Parenting, whose mission is to empower and enlighten parents like himself, providing them with the tools and support they need to build strong and resilient families.
"Doing the inner work and addressing one's own wounds and triggers is crucial for effective parenting." Ed Center
"Queer parents often have a unique perspective and approach to parenting that can be valuable in creating a supportive and inclusive environment for their children." Ed Center
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The Queer Family Podcast | S13 EP11 | Cara Cochrane, also known as caras_atl on social media, discusses her late-life coming out, forming a blended family, and how the challenges she faced in finding her identity prompted her to become the representation she so lacked during her Southern upbringing. She also speaks about the media's lack of diversity, the intricacies of raising a child in a two-mom family in the American South, and the importance of recognizing and validating all parents within a family unit, regardless of DNA or gender.
"Representation matters because it shows kids that there are different types of families and that they are valid and loved." - Cara Cochrane
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The Queer Family Podcast | S13 EP10 | Chelsea and Megan share their journey to parenthood as a trans woman and cis woman couple. They met online, u-hauled it (in true lesbian fashion), and quickly began their queer baby-making process. After trying the “natural” way for quite some time, they decided to switch to fertility treatments. After a long journey filled with insurance drama, unfair BMI biases, and body dysmorphia they finally successfully conceived their son, Jameson through IVF. They discuss their emotional pregnancy, including Chelsea’s process of transcending her yearning to experience pregnancy and childbirth by embarking on the path of inducing lactation. Their resilience and determination in the face of adversity serve as a walking, breathing testament to the intentionality and love that drive queer parents everywhere, proving that love is love, and the kids are truly going to be all right.
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“So they said I was going to have to lose about at least 20 pounds to qualify for their loophole process, which was to go to another state to do the egg retrieval.” Megan
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The Queer Family Podcast | S13 EP9 | Trigger Warning: Miscarriage is mentioned in this episode. Sam and Brook, a married couple from Canada, share their unique journey of love, family, and fertility. They met through a mutual friend and reconnected after the friend's passing. Brook, who is transgender, and Sam, who identifies as AFAB pansexual, navigated their relationship while raising Sam’s three children from previous relationships. They decided to expand their family through RIVF, going through the challenges of fertility treatments and the emotional rollercoaster of a miscarriage. Despite the obstacles, they remain hopeful and determined to have a child together. Their story highlights the complexities and joys of blended families and the resilience of love.
"I'm still coming out all the time. And it's hard because there's some sort of level of shame that you have, that the new generation just doesn't have, they're just like, “This is who I am. And this is me, take it or leave it.” But, our generation… there's still some shame behind it, so it's hard." - Brook
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The Queer Family Podcast | S13 EP7 | Bethany Grace Howe transitioned at the age of 47, after seeing an image of Kaitlyn Jenner on the cover of a magazine and realizing that she too, was trans. Suddenly and somewhat out of the blue, Bethany's true identity was painfully clear, and hiding it was not an option. Now she and her 13-year-old daughter Nola are here to talk about their experience as a family together.
"Bravery is running into a burning building. I ran out of it." Bethany
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The Queer Family Podcast | S13 EP7 | To live as his authentic self in his native Transylvania, Stefan would have been forced into bottom surgery and a hysterectomy, rendering him sterile. So like most trans guys in his country, he got his testosterone on the black market and lived on the DL. Now he lives in the US with his wife, and while the country is not nearly as inclusive as he was led to believe, he at least has had the opportunity to begin the family-building process with his wife. After nearly a decade on testosterone, Stefan recently froze his eggs. He wanted to share his story in the hopes of opening up new possibilities for others like him and to challenge commonly held beliefs about the impact of testosterone on fertility.
"If you want to change your name to match your gender, you have to sue the government and go through a medical panel. And you have to have bottom surgery and a hysterectomy and remove your ovaries. That is required for you to change your name." Stefan From Transylvania
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The Queer Family Podcast | S13 E6 BONUS | Michael and Matt have been in the process of creating their 2-dad family for quite some time and they're chronicling that process on their new podcast "Who's Your Daddy." They sat down with Jaimie to explore their path from an initial foster-to-adopt plan to the world of surrogacy with an egg donor, and how they’ve tackled the many difficult decisions that go along with it: Should they work with an agency or pursue an independent route? How far are they willing to travel for their surrogate? How will they navigate the emotional implications if one of them ends up without a biological connection when they both really want one? How will they afford this? And WHO on earth will their surrogate be? So many questions, so many decisions to make, and they’re still very much on this rollercoaster we call queer family building.
“We ended up with 4 embryo’s on my end and 1 on Michael’s end. We’re hoping to each have a biological child but you can’t control nature.” Matt
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The Queer Family Podcast | S13 Ep 5 | Danny tells us how falling pregnant while in the throws of addiction turned out to be the catalyst for an ultimate transformation; becoming a sober and healed parent to 2-year-old Wilder, proving that sometimes life's most unexpected twists lead to the most profound blessings. We also explore Danny's journey towards self-realization as a transmasculine non-binary individual and the reasons behind Danny's mission to redefine masculinity.
"I relapsed in my sex addiction, and I ended up with the biggest blessing of my entire life, unexpectedly" Danny
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Digging deep into the "A" in LGBTQI"A". Aline Mayard is a single parent who happens to be asexual, aromantic, and nonbinary. They also host the Tribeca Award Winning podcast, "Free From Desire: Asexual In The City Of Love." Aline talks about their difficult path to accepting their Ace and Aro identity, challenges us to rethink what intimacy is, and to question why we're so obsessed with sex as a society.
"I don't see myself in a romantic or a sexual relationship, but there are other, what I call, physical relationships." Aline
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The Queer Family Podcast | S13 Ep 3 | Kate Brooks is the author of "Transister, Raising Twins In A Gender-Bending World," an affirming and honest account of her young daughter's transition. Kate gives us a candid, straight, cis-gendered mother's perspective on what it was like for her to go from having what she thought were twin "boys" to ultimately having a son and a daughter who are both happy, healthy, kind - and thankfully, alive. This family's journey is one of discovery, celebration, and love.
"He said to me, "Mama, when I was in your tummy, it was a mistake. I was supposed to come out a girl." Kate Brooks
"In order to be counted you have to be part of the conversation, or it's like you don't exist." Kate Brooks
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The Queer Family Podcast | S13 Ep 2 | Peggy Gillespie is the co-director of Family Diversity Projects, a non-profit that has created 10 different photo/text exhibits celebrating underrepresented folks over the years, the author of Authentic Selves, a mom to a nonbinary kiddo, and a self-described queer hippie from the 60s. When we tell you that this changemaker has been pushing boundaries and making a difference her whole life, we're not kidding.
"A child should wear what they feel comfortable in." Peggy Gillespie
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The Queer Family Podcast Pride Extravaganza! | S13 Ep 1 | Lamalani and Laracarina 100% knew they didn’t want kids- until Lamalani came home one day and changed her mind. What followed was a wild fertility journey during Covid that included a tumor surgery, a difficult donor search, RIVF, IVF, a pregnancy that lasted way too long, a difficult birth, and a random and altruistic decision to pay it forward and do it all again as a surrogate for their gay male friends.
"The donor search is such a bizarre experience." Laracarina
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The Queer Family Podcast Pride Extravaganza! | S12 Ep 13 | What does Pride mean to you? Because we are all unique individuals, Pride means something different to each of us, so for this special PRIDE EXTRAVAGANZA Grand Finale, we've gathered a little medley of responses to this question from all of our Extravaganza guests. These answers will give you all the feels, y'all. Let them serve as a reminder that LOVE is LOVE, YOU are loved, and PRIDE is EVERY DAY. Happy Pride to all.
“I think of Pride like rays of sunshine. Pride is being a light, not only for yourself but also for other people who may be in the dark. It’s being a voice for others, and standing up in your truth to make it easier for somebody after you to do the same.” Alec Mazelin
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The Queer Family Podcast Pride Extravaganza! | S12 Ep 12 | Eric and Tony Vaughn-Trainor’s (aka @mrvaughntrainor) path to becoming a family of four was marked by a challenging adoption journey and failed connections, leading them to switch to surrogacy. Through sharing their struggles on social media, they eventually found a surrogate who helped bring their twin daughters into the world, despite facing further hardships during the pregnancy and a long NICU stay. Their inspiring story showcases the resilience and dedication of LGBTQ individuals in building and parenting our families and is a testament to the intentionality and determination that goes into every journey. “We wanted to be a mirror for anybody out there who aspires to have the family of their dreams, the life of their dreams… because we didn’t have a mirror. You can have it. You just might have to jump through some hurdles to get there.” Eric Vaughn-Trainor If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month! A special thanks to all of our sponsors for The Pride Extravaganza! Mosie Baby (code: family), Fairfax Surrogacy, Cryobank America, Mombian, Family Equality, The Center for Family Building, The Gender Cool Project, The National LGBTQ Task Force, and our Patreon supporters! Watch Video Episodes right now on YouTube! thequeerfamilypodcast.com / thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com IG/Twitter/FB/TikTok/YouTube: @thequeerfamilypodcast Order the #ITOCT book based on this podcast on Amazon, IndieBound, Audible. Edited by Jerson Barajas. Theme song: Tiffany Topol\ Logo art: Daneen Stevenato. We want to hear from you! Email us at thequeerfamilypodcast@gmail.com Buy our merch here. Interested in advertising? Check out our packages here. Follow The Vaughn-Trainors
The Queer Family Podcast Pride Extravaganza! | S12 Ep 11 | Claire Wasserman (aka @clairegetspaid) sat down with Jaimie while in the midst of her queer family-building journey and spoke candidly about coming out after a straight marriage, finding true love, discovering her feminist side, and embarking on the roller coaster of queer baby-making with her wife. They delve into the details of her recent sperm donor search, the inseminations, the costs involved, and the fears that arise with this unpredictable path to parenthood.
As an educator and author, Claire is passionate about helping women earn more and live better, and she leverages her platform and global community, Ladies Get Paid, to achieve that goal. Additionally, she shares her personal journey in real-time with her followers, from getting straight divorced to getting gay married, and to now embarking on the exciting journey of becoming a queer mama. Claire is living her truth, being visible, and making a difference.
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“This is friggin’ expensive. You can’t just get knocked up. You have to buy sperm, you have to pay for the insemination. The costs involved are not cool.” Claire Wasserman
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The Queer Family Podcast Pride Extravaganza! | S12 Ep 10 | Erik and Adam (aka the @mchusbands) shifted their family-building plan from adoption to surrogacy when their sister-in-law offered to carry for them. In another turn of good fortune, their best friend selflessly agreed to be their egg donor, and their twin baby girls were created. Realizing the lack of representation for gay dads like themselves in the realm of family building, Erik and Adam embarked on a mission to document their journey on social media. Little did they know that their decision to share their story would significantly impact countless others seeking guidance and support.
Fast forward seven years and Erik and Adam remain dedicated to their visibility, proudly showcasing the extraordinary joys and challenges of being a two-dad family, defying stereotypes, and shattering misconceptions along the way.
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The Queer Family Podcast Pride Extravaganza! | S12 Ep 9 |Brit and Sydney Sharon (aka @thesharonmoms) share their inspiring journey as Jewish queer moms who built their family through IUI and reciprocal IVF. They also reveal a surprising discovery about Sydney's dad being a sperm donor in his youth, leading them to connect with six donor siblings. The couple discusses the profound impact of their Jewish faith and the joy they experienced in establishing relationships with their newfound biological siblings. Through their story, they serve as a shining example of the beauty and strength of queer families when faced with minimal complications. Using their platform, Brit and Sydney aim to increase visibility, challenge misconceptions about biological connections in families, redefine womanhood, and redefine traditional roles and rituals within marriage.
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"We definitely need to be safe, and now that we have kids we take it even further. We need to make sure that we're all safe. We're not just a same sex couple, we're a same sex Jewish couple, and the antisemitism that's been on the rise these last couple of years is scary." Sydney Sharon
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The Queer Family Podcast Pride Extravaganza! | S12 Ep 8 |Richard and Carlos, (aka @therealdadsofnewyork) are proud black, Jamaican dads who built their family through adoption and foster-to-adopt. Through their active presence on social media, they have become a beacon of visibility, addressing the lack of representation they experienced growing up. Their powerful presence allows them to educate others and challenge stereotypes, demonstrating the incredible beauty and strength that a family like theirs possesses. Through their inspiring journey, Richard and Carlos are making a lasting impact and reshaping perceptions of what a family can be.
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The Queer Family Podcast Pride Extravaganza! | S12 Ep 7 | Bret and Stephen (aka @broadwayhusbands) met in 2006 and began documenting their lives together on social media shortly after getting married. When they decided to go down the surrogacy path to make their family, they remained visible on their platforms as a way to inform others about the challenges and joys along the way. Taking it step by step, they saved up and paid for each stage of the process individually, making a notoriously expensive route manageable. After 4 years, a lost surrogate, a miscarriage, and a friend divinely stepping in to carry their child, they finally became dads. They continue to share their journey and showcase their adorable son, using their visibility to educate and inspire others in similar situations.
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"We kept trying and we just weren't getting pregnant." Stephen Hana
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The Queer Family Podcast Pride Extravaganza! | S12 Ep 6 | Whitney and Megan (aka @whatwegandidnext) met on MySpace and started blogging about their lives together in 2009. What began as an effort to create a personal scrapbook of memories soon became a mission to provide the visibility they felt was lacking in mainstream media for LGBTQIA+ relationships. Fast forward 15 years, and Whitney and Megan are now happily married content creators embarking on their path to becoming two mommies. Not only do they use their lives to challenge the status quo on what love and relationships look like, but they are also now utilizing their platforms to raise awareness and drive change regarding the inequality faced by same-sex couples in accessing fertility care in the UK.
Through their activism, they're shedding light on the challenges and barriers that LGBTQIA+ individuals encounter when starting a family. Their goal is to create a more inclusive and equitable landscape for all couples, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity. These two badasses are working hard to foster positive change in the LGBTQIA+ community.
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The Queer Family Podcast Pride Extravaganza! | S12 Ep 5 | Brian and Alec Mazelin (aka @meetthemazelins) share their journey as a couple, starting with their online meeting during the pandemic and quick connection, leading Alec to leave Jamaica and move to Florida, where Brian and his son lived. They publicly came out to their families through a heartfelt engagement post on social media, receiving overwhelming support from countless individuals. Motivated by this love, they embraced the importance of representation and remained visible, documenting their lives together and inspiring those struggling to embrace their true selves. Amidst growing anti-LGBTQ rhetoric across both Florida and Jamaica, these two serve as a beacon of hope to many.
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The Queer Family Podcast Pride Extravaganza! | S12 Ep 4 | Meet Kayde Mason, a mother of three, whose experiences as an egg donor and gestational surrogate led her to become a passionate surrogacy professional and advocate. Kayde shares her inspiring story, highlighting her transformative journey from being a surrogate for her gay friends to becoming an advocate and educator for surrogacy, with a specific focus on its importance within the LGBTQIA+ community.
As a surrogacy professional, Kayde leverages her personal experiences and expertise to empower others who are considering or involved in surrogacy. She utilizes her social media platform as a powerful tool to advocate for surrogacy, breaking down misconceptions and promoting understanding, particularly in relation to the LGBTQIA+ community. Kayde's dedication to education helps to dispel myths and prejudices surrounding surrogacy, while also highlighting its potential to create loving families, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity.
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“What’s important for kids is to have people who love you. It doesn’t matter if that’s 1 mom, 2 dads, 2 moms… it’s about that intention. It’s about being there for your kids.” Kayde Mason
“This is not my baby. This is for them. There was never a confusion in my body.” Kayde Mason
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The Queer Family Podcast Pride Extravaganza! | S12 Ep 3 | Today we’re diving into the remarkable story of José Rolón, aka NYC Gay Dad. To expand their family, José and his husband, Tim, opted for surrogacy with egg donation. After a tragic event during their second pregnancy threatened to derail their dreams, José showed immense strength and resilience, and with a little help from his chosen family, he ultimately became a proud single gay dad to three fabulous children.
Through the power of social media, José has chosen to share his family's experiences with the world. We explore how he uses these platforms to showcase the love, joy, and everyday moments that make queer families truly extraordinary. Join us as we witness José's unwavering determination to challenge stereotypes and demonstrate the incredible awesomeness of queer families.
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“Who am I to raise three kids on my own?” José Rolón, NYC Gay Dad
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The Queer Family Podcast Pride Extravaganza! | S12 Ep 2 | We’re kicking off Pride 2023 with Stacey Stevenson, the remarkable CEO of Family Equality! Stacey's journey is a testament to resilience and determination, including navigating through a difficult coming out process that led to dropping out of high school, battling diversity and bias as they built their family through adoption, and the difficult decision they made to leave Texas due to safety concerns, a poignant reminder of the lengths we go to protect our loved ones.
But that's not all—Stacey's advocacy work has been truly impactful. We'll delve into the initiatives they've undertaken to address the challenges faced by queer families, shining a light on the realities we encounter.
This inspiring episode is a reminder of the strength and love within the LGBTQ+ community and a perfect way to kick off Pride Month and set the stage for our Pride Extravaganza! #LGBTQ+Advocate #CreatingChange #PrideMonth
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“We have not seen the level of attacks on our families like this since the ’70s. We’ve literally gone back in time.” Stacey Stevenson, CEO of Family Equality
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The Queer Family Podcast Pride Extravaganza!| S12 Ep 1 | Dana (AKA Mombian) and her wife Helen join us to discuss their road to motherhood via RIVF, why Dana created her Award Winning LGBTQ parenting blog, Mombian, and what it's like as empty nesters when the kid leaves home.
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“I thought we’d never have kids or be married, but I was happy with her and that would have to be enough. But instead, I am so grateful to the straight people of our nation who went along with letting us marry and being more open. It’s been a wonderful change in our lifetimes. I’m just astounded really, in retrospect” Helen
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The Queer Family Podcast | S11 Ep 16 | Blu Nyle is an artist, author, healer, newlywed, and bonus mom in a new traditional family that was created by queer BFFs and former TQFP guests, Brandi J. Andrews and Lawrence Carol. Blu talks about learning how to "family,” approaching co-parenting from a place of healing and finding the many blessings that come from stepping in as a bonus mom.
Jaimie's amazing interns Nicole Jeter and Addie Griffin join Jaimie to introduce the interview and help Jaimie make some BIG ANNOUNCEMENTS that are coming up on the show.
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“As queer folks in America, we’re set up for a lot of challenges, and I have to be able to help my wife process, help my son process, help baby daddy process, and most importantly keep myself sane. So that mental health, that mental wealth, is so important.” Blu
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The Queer Family Podcast | S11 Ep 15 | Kathryn (Kit) shares how she and her wife Nicole created their family against all odds in South East Asia. Flights from Thailand to Cambodia, hotel stays, and keeping their queer identities incognito are all a part of their international baby-making journey. Guest co-host, Chan, founder of Lesbian Moms Club, helps Jaimie introduce the episode. Chan tells us why she started the platform and announces something VERY exciting for queer families.
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“We knew from the sperm bank that the clinic in Cambodia existed, but we didn’t know if they would treat a lesbian couple when we got there” Kit
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BONUS! I’ve got a BIG ANNOUNCEMENT that I’ve been dying to share AND I’m playing an episode from another podcast I think you’ll really like. It’s called Queer News and this episode is called Change The Pattern with host Anna DeShawn. Y’all are gonna love this podcast. Give it a listen!
This is a special edition episode from the Queer News podcast.
Now you may be asking why the South? The South comprises 38% of the U.S. population but it represents over half, yes over half at 52% of all new HIV diagnoses. Let me drop another stat on you. Out of the 17 states defined as being in the South by the U.S. Census; 13 of them have HIV-Specific Criminal Laws or Statutes on the books & 11 of them have actually prosecuted people for living with HIV. HIV Criminalization is still real. I’m sharing these stats because you need to know. I didn’t know and we must change the pattern.
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The Queer Family Podcast | S11 Ep 14 | Marea and Ray are queer parents, home-birth midwives, and friends, who wrote a book together about how to get pregnant if you're queer or single. They also both used known donors for their births. Guest co-host, Tom Coppola is back to help Jaimie introduce the episode and talk a little more about his experience as a known donor to three kiddos. If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month!
“We are of the belief that the more people who love our child, the better.” Ray
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The Queer Family Podcast | S11 Ep 13 | Five years ago, Lauren tragically lost her wife and child in a car accident. Through her grief and healing, she reconnected with an old friend, AnneMarie. They worked through the loss side by side and ended up falling in love. Now they're married and have 2 beautiful children together. Guest co-host, Tiq Milan is back to help Jaimie introduce the episode and unpack some of the recent anti-trans rhetoric that has been spreading like wildfire throughout the country. If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month!
“In one split second, I lost my family.” Lauren
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The Queer Family Podcast | S11 Ep 12 | Anonymous donor, RIVF, and donated embryos, oh my! After multiple attempts to make a baby, Carey and Angie decided to use donated embryos from a Facebook Group. Guest co-hosts, Amanda and Gab from S5 E29 join Jaimie to introduce the episode and update us on what’s been happening since they “fought the power” in their original episode. If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month!
“The less control I start to realize that I have, the more open I can be to other possibilities.” Angie
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The Queer Family Podcast | S11 Ep 11 | Jack is a trans person (he/they) and birth mother to a ten-year-old child who was adopted by a gay male couple in 2005. Their experience with the accidental pregnancy and subsequent adoption journey shifted their life forever. Jaimie’s wife Anne joins as guest co-host to help introduce the interview. If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month!
“I just kept landing at the stability and resources that I wanted for my child. I just couldn’t do the math in a way where his life could be better if I raised him.” Jack
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The Queer Family Podcast | S11 Ep 10 | Sophia’s dad came out as a gay man when she was 16. She talks about what it was like going from a traditional family to a gay family and then losing the connection to the queer community after her father died tragically by suicide. Guest co-host Shephathia joins Jaimie to introduce the episode and share her experience of being connected to the queer community through her gay non-bio dad. If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month!
“My dad, after coming out, got really good at coming down to the level of a teenager. He became more human to me.” Sophia
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The Queer Family Podcast | S11 Ep 9 | What happens when you try every path imaginable to create a family, but it just doesn’t work out? Rebecca and Sallyann share their story and explain how the process of writing their book, Uncertain Fruit, helped them make meaning out of loss. Guest co-host Liam from S9, Ep 21 joins Jaimie to introduce the episode and give us an update on his life. If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month!
“One grief touches all the grief in your life” -Rebecca
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The Queer Family Podcast | S11 Ep 8 | Marie and Jill proposed on the SAME day in typical lesbian fashion. They tell us about the emotional toll of trying to get pregnant, their "silent" miscarriage, and their desire to raise awareness about this experience. Guest co-hosts Angela and Jess from S5 and S9 join Jaimie to introduce the episode and give an update on the long process of trying to get Angela pregnant with baby #2. If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month!
“I’m going in for fibroids and now I’m up a uterus and down a kidney? How does this work??” Marie
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The Queer Family Podcast | S11 Ep 7 | Jenn and Gail are queer moms, friends AND co-editors of a collection of stories and interviews about queer moms parenting sons without fathers. They tell us about their journeys to motherhood, the decision-making that goes into creating our families, and what nurturing healthy masculinity looks like. Guest co-host Tiq Milan from S3 and S10 joins Jamie to introduce the episode, unpack what gender means and the unconscious biases that exist. If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month!
"The whole #boymom makes me cringe… it’s so problematic and yet when I read the memes and posts or whatever, I’m like, “oh yeah, that’s my life too.” Jenn Marlowe
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The Queer Family Podcast | S11 Ep 6 | Lauren and Amanda are interracial lesbian moms raising bi-racial, donor-conceived boys. They are also Instagram famous for documenting their Reciprocal IVF journey and sharing their babywearing, co-sleeping, cloth diaper-wearing, and attachment-based mom-lives on the app. Guest co-host Tom Coppola from S1 joins Jaimie to introduce the episode and update us on how his known donor-conceived family has been doing since we last spoke. If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month!
“We always joke that lesbian relationships travel at like three times the pace of straight relationships.” Lauren
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The Queer Family Podcast | S11 Ep 5 | Dr. Gwen Bass comes back with her current partner Liz to discuss how they make their large blended family work. Guest co-host's Nick and Katherine from S4 join Jaimie to introduce the episode and update us on how THEIR blended family has been doing since we last spoke. If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month!
“We have children with the people we fall in love with and then end up wondering, “where is our relationship?” Because all we’re doing is parenting together.” Liz
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The Queer Family Podcast | S11 Ep 4 | Queer mom Dawn Dais wrote a book called "Shit No-One Tells You About Divorce" because she did just that; got divorced and learned to navigate co-parenting with her ex-wife. The family also found their anonymous sperm donor and now shares a great friendship with him and his family. Guest co-host Zee from S10 joins Jaimie to introduce the episode and update us on what they've been doing since we last spoke. If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month!
“He [the donor] was curious from a sibling standpoint for his kids, so he put his name and information on the donor sibling registry, and he lives a couple of hours away.” Dawn
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The Queer Family Podcast | S11 Ep 3 | Thanks to the Mosie Baby Kit and a nephew's sperm, Ashley and Jonele both share DNA with their beautiful baby girl. They talk about being an interracial couple and their new brand, Major Motivation.
Guest co-host's Tiffany and Carissa from S3 E2 join Jaimie to introduce the episode and update us on what they've been doing since we chronicled their extensive donor search 4 years ago. If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month!
“Although this part is complicated, I do like the fact that when she gets older she will know that person [the donor].” Ashley
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The Queer Family Podcast | S11 Ep 2 | Social worker/therapist Emma is joined by her teenage daughter Delia to talk about their blended family, what it's like having 2 moms, and the birds and the bees talk when you have queer parents. If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month!
“Let’s talk about how babies are made and how you stay safe in all the combinations; men and women together, men together, women together, and women by themselves. Also, how you have pleasure in all those spectrums.” Emma
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The Queer Family Podcast | S11 Ep 1 | Dr. Gwen Bass, author of “Immaculate Misconception,” was born by “secret” artificial insemination in the ’80s to gay parents. A DNA test in Gwen's 30's confirmed the existence of multiple siblings and a shocking realization that the doctor inseminated multiple folks with the same donor. Gwen is also a queer mom with 4 kiddos in a blended family that came about through adoption, foster care, and the old-fashioned way. If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month!
“Finding my siblings….it’s not a threat, it’s like an expansion for me.” Dr. Gwen Bass
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The Queer Family Podcast | BONUS | As we gear up for our Season 11 launch on 2/6, we will be releasing daily bonus eps to showcase the contributors who will be helping with the rebranded show! Take time to re-acclimate yourself with Angela and Jess from S5, E13. Listener faves, Angela and Jess share about putting 9k worth of sperm on their credit card, Hellp Syndrome, gallstones and having a baby 10 weeks early. If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month!
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The Queer Family Podcast | BONUS | BONUS: As we gear up for our Season 11 launch on 2/6, we will be releasing daily bonus eps to showcase the contributors who will be helping with the rebranded show! Take time to re-acclimate yourself with Joanne and Lara from S9, E21. Liam talks about their large, blended family, transitioning from “she” to “they” and starting testosterone, and their new book, “Queer Conception: The Complete Fertility Guide for Queer and Trans Parents-To-Be. Buckle up buttercups….. we cover a lot of ground here. If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month!
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The Queer Family Podcast | BONUS | As we gear up for our Season 11 launch on 2/6, we will be releasing daily bonus eps to showcase the contributors who will be helping with the rebranded show! Take time to re-acclimate yourself with Joanne and Lara from S3, E9. Lara and Joanne decided they didn’t need IVF or frozen sperm to make a baby. Instead, their plan was to just do it, the old-fashioned way, but that involved Lara stepping down off hormones and a lot of emotional baggage neither one expected. If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month!
“There are studies out there that talk about how trans people’s brains usually fire off in similar ways as their cis-gender counterparts, based on their gender identity. So when you don’t have the correct hormones in your body it causes these horrible mental health issues” Lara
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| BONUS | As we gear up for our Season 11 launch on 2/6, we will be releasing daily bonus eps to showcase the contributors who will be helping with the rebranded show! Take some time to re-acclimate yourselves with Amanda and Gab from S5, E29. Amanda and Gab experienced very serious micro-aggressions at the clinic where they were trying to make a family. Instead of suing, they worked hand in hand with the clinic to improve all aspects of how they interact with the LGBTQ population. If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month!
“In all of the stories and all of the materials I've found about making families as a queer couple, I haven't found many, if any, where the story is, "I tried and tried and tried, and nothing happened.” Am I going to be the person whose story is, "nothing happened?" Amanda
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The Queer Family Podcast | BONUS | As we gear up for our Season 11 launch on 2/6, we will be releasing daily bonus eps to showcase the contributors who will be helping with the rebranded show! Take some time to re-acclimate yourselves with Tiq from S3, E34. Writer, speaker, activist, and model, Tiq Milan joins us to talk about losing the lesbian community when he transitioned, his dear sweet auntie who asked if he and his wife were going to use his sperm to make a baby, and the importance of visibility. If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month!
“I’m not doing anything to make people think I’m a cis-gender person. People are assuming I’m a cis-gender person. I, in no way, want to be straight, or a cis-gender person. I’m very trans, I’m very queer, I’m in community.” Tiq Milan
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The Queer Family Podcast | BONUS | As we gear up for our Season 11 launch on 2/6, we will be releasing daily bonus eps to showcase the contributors who will be helping with the rebranded show! Take some time to re-acclimate yourselves with Romaine from S63, E3. Romaine, of DNR Show fame, joins to talk about her daughter who came out as bi at 11, choosing an anonymous donor and beating the pants off ITOCT for the People’s Choice Podcast Awards. If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month!
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The Queer Family Podcast | BONUS | As we gear up for our Season 11 launch on 2/6, we will be releasing daily bonus eps to showcase the contributors who will be helping with the rebranded show! Take some time to re-acclimate yourselves with Brandi and Lawrence from S6, E7. Influencers Brandi and Lawrence were best friends and coworkers. They both wanted a kid, and over a Sunday brunch shift, they decided to make a baby together. If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month!
“We are essentially a family. We just have a non-intimate, intimate relationship.” Brandi J. Andrews
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The show all about family; but with gay! Queer mom, Jaimie Kelton, humorously goes in-depth with weekly LGBTQIA+ guests about their families; how they made them, and how they show up in a world that wasn't necessarily designed for them. The mission is to normalize, elevate and celebrate queer families, while confirming that we're just like other parents, trying not to yell at our kids when they still haven't put their shoes on and we're 25 minutes late for school. The end result is a compelling podcast that amusingly explores the age-old question: what's it like to live as an LGBTQ family in a world built for the straights?
The Queer Family Podcast | BONUS | As we gear up for our Season 11 launch on 2/6, we will be releasing daily bonus eps to showcase the contributors who will be helping with the rebranded show! Take some time to re-acclimate yourselves with Katherine and Nick from S4, E2. Nick lived as a woman. Birthed four babies. Met Katherine. Fell in love. Transitioned. Now they’re just another beautiful family with five kids and a minivan. If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month!.
“Her being feminine allowed me to play with the masculine.” Nick North
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The Queer Family Podcast | BONUS | As we gear up for our Season 11 launch on 2/6, we will be releasing daily bonus eps to showcase the contributors who will be helping with the rebranded show! Take some time to re-acclimate yourselves with Tiff and Carissa from S3, E2. These fans of ITOCT reached out because they wanted to hear an episode about interracial couples having babies. So naturally, we invited them on to tell their story. Then turned it into a recurring segment so we can all follow their journey to parenthood. If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support The Queer Family Podcast on Patreon for as low as $2/month!
“In 5 years we’ve recorded over 190 episodes and garnered over 1 million downloads.The queer agenda has spoken.” Jaimie Kelton
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[KIDS AND FAMILY] If These Ovaries Could Talk | S10 Ep 15 Jaimie sits down with her wife Anne to re-visit some of her favorite moments from Season 10 and to talk about some of the changes in store for Season 11. If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support the If These Ovaries Could Talk Patreon for as low as $2/month!
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[KIDS AND FAMILY] If These Ovaries Could Talk | S10 Ep 14 Brooke and her wife, Caitlin, conceived their twins in Australia despite a “socially infertile” diagnosis, sperm donor shortage, and an extremely harsh Covid lockdown. If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support the If These Ovaries Could Talk Patreon for as low as $2/month!
“We were socially infertile and not medically infertile, so the coverage that we got from medicare was not that great.” Brooke
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[KIDS AND FAMILY] If These Ovaries Could Talk | S10 Ep 13 Lindz Amer, creator of Queer Kid Stuff, an edutainment company that brings LGBTQ+ and social justice media to kids and families, joins us to talk about gender, what it means to be queer and what it means to be an ally. If you like the episode, make sure to leave us a review and support the If These Ovaries Could Talk Patreon for as low as $2/month!
“We’re talking about queerness as a special kind of difference.” Lindz Amer
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If These Ovaries Could Talk | S10 Ep 12 TikTok influencers Carley and Mercedes give us the inside scoop on how their relationship blew TikTok up with steamy lesbian romance, the possibility of an upcoming proposal, and if queer baby-making lies in their future.
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If These Ovaries Could Talk | S10 Ep 11 Kierra Johnson, Executive Director of The LGBTQ Task Force talks about where we stand after the 2022 midterms. We also hear about her coming out story, marriage, pregnancies, divorce, becoming a single queer mother by choice post-divorce, and her new blended family.
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If These Ovaries Could Talk | S10 BONUS EPISODE! Get to know your favorite queer hosts a little better in this special DNR Takeover episode as they shoot the shiz on current events, Derek and Romaine “stealing” their podcast award, celebrity crushes and so much more.
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If These Ovaries Could Talk | S10. Ep 10: PART 2: We continue with Zee’s journey! Watching their wife’s pregnancy sparked a new desire in Zee to experience pregnancy as well. The pregnancy and premature birth led to an intense spiritual awakening that turned Zee into the spiritual healer they are today.
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If These Ovaries Could Talk | S10. Ep 9: PART 1: Zee is a Two-Spirit Spiritual Healer who co-parent’s four children with their ex. Their family building journey runs the gamut of queer baby making: including fostering, foster-adoption, IVF and reciprocal IVF.
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If These Ovaries Could Talk | S10. Ep 8: Michael is a gay physician and expert in public health who was on the front lines during the HIV/AIDS epidemic. He and his husband have two kids via surrogacy after a rollercoaster of a journey, including multiple gestational carriers and egg donors.
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Two queer parents (a lesbian and a non-binary) chat with queer guests about their non-traditional families.
Jaimie Kelton and E~Bradshaw humorously explore the age-old question: What's it like to live as an LGBTQ family in a world built for the non-queers?
The mission is to normalize, elevate and celebrate, while confirming that we're just like other parents, trying not to yell at our kids when they still haven't put their shoes on and we're 25 minutes late for school.
If These Ovaries Could Talk | S10. Ep 7: Gabbie became a single, gay mother by choice with a known donor after leaving the navy. Now she’s married to Callie, and they’re a happily blended family of three. The couple also recently produced and directed a queer romcom together titled “The Last Conception”.
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If These Ovaries Could Talk | S10. Ep 6: Josie is a queer, non-binary, Latinx fertility acupuncturist who’s journey of coming out and ending a 10 year cis-hetero relationship led them to found Intersectional Fertility; a company that focuses on re-centering queer, trans, and non-binary folks in reproductive healthcare and beyond.
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If These Ovaries Could Talk | S10. Ep 5: Carrie is a lesbian mother who loved being pregnant, so she became a gestational carrier for another lesbian family. She loved THAT so much that she founded her own gestational surrogacy agency and dedicates her time now to mentoring other surrogates on the process.
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If These Ovaries Could Talk | S10. Ep 4: Jessi and her wife Frances got pregnant with twins very quickly, but sadly, things didn’t go as planned. Jessi also wrote the book, “The Family Outing,” which tells the story of how her whole family eventually found their way out of the closet and what happened when they did.
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If These Ovaries Could Talk | S10. Ep 3: Desi and Katy met when flip phones were still a thing and gay marriage was just a dream. Now, after 20+ years together, they’ve got a four year old kid and a classic lesbian family-building story; fraught with donor decisions, turkey basters and fertility clinics.
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Ben and his husband Joao went to a Mexican surrogacy agency to create their family in the hopes of saving a bit of money on the process. However, after a successful pregnancy and birth, they found themselves in a nightmarish legal quagmire, stuck win Mexico and living in fear of being deported without their newborn.
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If These Ovaries Could Talk | S10. Ep 1: Cade Russo-Young is a self proclaimed second generation dyke whose family was the subject of the hit HBO documentary “Nuclear Family.” Cade gives her raw and honest perspective on what it was like when her sister’s known donor sued their family for custody. She and her husband Max also talk about their family-building journey, which ultimately led to Max being the gestational carrier for their daughter. This is a full circle LGBTQ+ family story y’all!
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BONUS: In this final bonus episode of Season 9, Jaimie and E~ further explore their lesbian u-hauled relationship, get excited about the upgrades they’re making for the new season and get a tad bit angry about the state of the world in regards to LGBTQ folks and bodies with uterus’s.
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If These Ovaries Could Talk | BONUS: In true queer style, Jaimie and E u-hauled their co-hosting relationship. Now they’re having fun working out the kinks and getting to know each other in these candid bonus episodes.
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If These Ovaries Could Talk | BONUS: A special takeover of The Derek and Romaine Show. Jaimie, E~ and special guest J.B. (Producer of The D&R Show), shoot the breeze over all kinds of queer-related topics in this laughter-inducing episode.
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BONUS: Pride Event! Internet pop-star and YouTube personality, Trevi Moran, talks with us live at NYC Pride’s Convention about transitions: her experiences transitioning into a viral sensation as a kid, coming out as gay, coming out as trans, going sober, and sharing it all in complete transparency with the public.
If These Ovaries Could Talk | S9 Ep 22: Corritta and Mea are a nomadic black lesbian family raising their young son and globetrotting around the world. They experienced a very inhospitable time while giving birth and wanted to share their story with us. They also have an amazing blog chronicling their travels called “It’s a Family Thing.”
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If These Ovaries Could Talk | S9 Ep 21: Liam talks about their large, blended family, transitioning from “she” to “they” and starting testosterone, and their new book, “Queer Conception: The Complete Fertility Guide for Queer and Trans Parents-To-Be. Buckle up buttercups….. we cover a lot of ground here.
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Emily is a picture book author/illustrator who happens to be a donor conceived child of lesbian moms. Emily also wrote a picture book about going to the Pride Parade with their parents as a kid, giving us the holiday book we all needed.
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Where is he now? Tiq Milan: activist, father and trans man is back! We’re talking big transitions and the need for inclusivity. Order the #ITOCT book Amazon, IndieBound, Audible.
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Jill and her ex-husband had two children together when a strong bout of postpartum mood disorder led her to realize she was queer. Now she and her current partner Marrka live and co-parent with Jill’s ex-husband, and together they are fighting societal norms of what makes a family.
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The Story She Needed To Tell Brandi is an Afro-Latinx queer mom co-parenting with her girlfriend and gay best friend, who is also father to her son. Her biased mistreatment throughout her pregnancy culminated in a traumatic birth and a call to CPS to have her baby taken away from her. Now she’s speaking up.
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Joelle is American and her wife, Mei, is Taiwanese. They met and made a life in a rural farming community in Taiwan and were married the first day same sex marriage was legalized in the country. Now they’re struggling to get their newborn son recognized as a Taiwanese citizen.
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E came out as non-binary at the age of 47 after living a self-proclaimed “very full, and very proud, black lesbian life.” When E’s ex got pregnant with their son, E’s emotions over not being the bio-parent led to a messy divorce. Now they're a blended LGBTQ family figuring it out, one day at a time.
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Angela and Jess (S5, Ep16) are back and trying for baby number 2! They talk about navigating a recent autism diagnosis while in the midst of fertility treatments, as well as working around insurance biases within their “inclusive” company. Oh, and Robin says her final goodbye😢 We’re not crying, you’re crying
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As an adoptee, using an identifiable sperm donor was a non-negotiable for Lynne. Now that her twins are fully grown, Lynne looks back on the years that shaped them, and reminisces on how her kids have handled growing up in an LGBTQ family.
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Chosen family makes all the difference when it comes to being LGBTQ. Brandon’s parent’s cut him off after he came out. Thankfully his aunt Kathy took him in. She’s his second mom, and her impact on Brandon has made him who he is today.
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Naomi and Marilyn spent a lifetime trying to be a family. From best friends and sorority sisters to Marilyn's marriage and Naomi joining the military. They fought to get back to each other. Then came the tricky part of coming out.
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Ame wanted to have a baby with their partner, but a miscarriage sent them on a path that ultimately led to a breakup. Years later, they're talking about their pain to help heal.
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Katya and Beckett met, fell in love, and recently had a baby– using Beckett's brother's sperm. Together, they're navigating Beckett's gender transition.
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Jess and Brandy tried to have a baby via IUI and IVF. When that didn't work they moved to adoption. They adopted two kids, one who was born addicted to heroin.
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Shannon and Ashley have been on their TTC journey for three years. They're currently navigating insurance, costs, and finding their community.
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Libby and Duncan are both queer, but face challenges because they present as a heterosexual couple. They talk fitting in, coming out, and saving for adoption.
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Ash is a bisexual, nonbinary, soon-to-be single parent by choice. They talk about being solo polyamorous and how a romantic relationship is not the model of parenting that works for them.
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Ovaries editor extraordinaire, and podcast production company owner, Steph shares her top 5 fave moments from all 9 seasons.
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Lily and Virginia are due any moment with a little girl. In order to conceive, they decided to skip the at home tries or IUI and head straight to IVF.
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Writer Laura Stone was a closeted Mormon. As she came out, so did her kids. They now proudly represent the L, G, B & the T of our community.
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Karen shares her story of having one child, followed by twins, and how she and her wife started off trying at home with a turkey baster and fresh sperm transported between her boobs to keep it fresh and warm.
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Emily and Sara made a baby by shipping fresh sperm to Northern Canada. The sperm came from Sara's quadruplet brother and the whole family helped get the goods to Emily and Sarah.
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Eric and Justin talk about choosing independent adoption as a path to parenthood. It's a path that can save money, but also presents some hurdles.
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Carolyn and Laurel shipped sperm to their porch, had a baby via IVF, then decide to have a second via adoption. Adoption in Canada was a bumpy road, but they now have two happy, healthy sons.
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Kim and Paige decided to have a baby because Kim had some time off. Months later Kim was pregnant, followed by 100 days of bed rest, then delivering a baby early, then watching over a baby in the NICU.
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Actor and Comedian extraordinaire Alec Mapa talks about his house that’s filled with two dads and their son they adopted out of the foster care system. He also dishes out a healthy dose of parenting advice too.
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Nikki got a loan to freeze her eggs, found the guy of her dreams (or the sperm of her dreams), met the love of her life, and is now gearing up to make some babies.
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Rosie and Louisa proved that good things come to those who wait. It was 5 years before they dated, 7 men before they found their known donor, and 7 tries before they got pregnant.
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Natalie was one of the first kids adopted by two gay dads, at the same time. She chats about her amazing childhood and being part of an open adoption.
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Ebony, from the TikTok famous family Team2Moms, talks about meeting Denise on MySpace, having 3 kids, and sharing their family life online to normalize LGBTQ parenting.
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Justin and Hugh wanted a child, and when an acquaintance offered an egg and to carry the baby, they thought they won the lottery. But the woman got pregnant and disappeared. Four years later, they're still in litigation over their son.
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Robin Lowey shares about having a baby in the 90s when no one in her community was having kids, using her brother as a donor, and that book she wrote about trailblazing lesbians.
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Trystan Reese was just a year into a relationship when his (now) husband’s niece and nephew were about to be removed from their home by Child Protective Services. Trystan and Biff took in the two kids, becoming caregivers overnight. Then their family grew when Trystan, who is transgender, became pregnant.
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Bria and her wife, Melissa fought through rejection from family, miscarriage, medical micro-aggressions, and a PCOS diagnosis. But there's still hope on the horizon.
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Cassie and Erin were pregnant with twins and went into labor at 25 weeks. Their son died in the NICU, and their daughter has developmental issues because of being born prematurely. Despite what they've gone through, their daughter is the light of their life, they are hopeful and trying again.
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Alyce and Zoe met, fell in love, moved into Alyce's childhood home, asked Zoe's brother for sperm, and made a baby. In that order.
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Alia identifies as asexual, Emily identifies as bisexual, and together they co-parent Emily's son from a previous relationship. And now they're trying to have a child together.
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Lilian and Laura have been trying to have a baby while stationed in Japan, six hours apart! How are they doing that? With an English translator and a lot of tickets for the bullet train so they could meet up at a clinic in the middle.
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Ashely and Sheria are a military family who've chronicled their journey trying to conceive. They've gone through pregnancy, miscarriage, an ectopic pregnancy, parenthood, surrogacy, and most recently, an autism diagnosis for one of their kids.
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Danny found a baby in a subway station on his way home from work. Pete and Danny ended up adopting the baby together, and although neither of them had prepared for parenthood, they knew, "Where there is love, anything is possible."
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Oliver returns for the conclusion of our chat about fertility options for Trans Men. He brings Dr. Mok-Lin from UCSF with him to answer all our burning questions.
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Oliver refers to himself as a "trans dinosaur" because he began taking T over a decade ago. As he considers having children, he's now in the process of figuring out what options are open to him.
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Meredith and Courtney tried to hide from their sexuality because of their religious upbringings. After coming out, next steps included marriage, kids, and buying sperm from Helen.
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Ian and his partner, Alan met another lovely man and decided to form a thruple. Today, the loving dads have two kids, and the honor of being the first polyamorous family with all parents on the birth certificate.
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Dads of two, Terrell and Jarius decided to be the representation that they didn't see in the media. They share about their DIY Surrogacy, their twins that aren't really twins, and how they built their influencer empire.
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Dallas, a child of a strict religious household, struggled with the decision to keep her child after she was raped. Today, she's processed her trauma and is happily settled down and trying to have another child with her spouse.
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Kate and Claire share their self-described boring story (that's not boring at all), and we learn that you may be able to get free IVF in the UK if you donate half the eggs. Who knew?
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Elena came out at 37 and had her first glass of wine at 40. She is also an Ex-Mormon, a conversion therapy survivor, and the founder of the Pride and Joy Foundation.
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Minna is a Queer mom of two who married a cis man. After having kids, the assumption by those around her is that she is straight. Now she works hard to be out as a Queer woman and to represent for her children.
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Tahiti offered to be a surrogate to two gay men at their wedding, over sake. Years later, she followed up when she heard they were in the process. Next thing you know she was delivering a baby in the middle of COVID.
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Marissa and Madeleine conceived at home using a known donor. For nine months, all went well. Then during the birth, they were surprised with triplets.
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Renowned author of lesbian romance, Karin Kallmaker talks about having kids in the Castro in the gay old 90s, plus her undeniable influence on young LGBTQ folks coming out.
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Influencer & Entrepreneur Gena Jaffe used reciprocal IVF to create her family. Not done with family building, she founded an org called Connecting Rainbows that helps LGBTQ folks start, grow, and protect their families.
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Penni and Sue fought the Canadian government to get parental rights for Sue, the non-bio parent. Despite setbacks, debt, and years of court postponements, the laws were changed and they got their money back. Instead of paying down debt, they set up a fund for LGBTQ families in need of legal funds.
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Elliot's sister donated the egg, Matt's 61-year old mom loaned her womb, and 9 months later an adorable baby was born.
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Sam talks about adopting his son and that time in our history when it didn't feel possible for an LGBTQ person to have a baby. He also talks about trying to commit suicide as a teen because of being gay, and the grownup in his life who helped him accept himself.
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Griffin and Matt have a Black, Jewish, Armenian, and Cambodian family created through fostering to adopt. And they juggle two kids under the age of three while starring on TV and Broadway.
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Lo met Katie and fell instantly in love. Katie needed a minute, but Lo persisted and made Katie love her. They got married, inseminated some eggs, froze them, and just did an embryo transfer.
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Wayne donated sperm to a lesbian couple back in the early 80s through a woman who volunteered to help lesbians looking for sperm. Today, Wayne and his daughter have fallen out of touch, but he's hopeful their relationship will right itself someday.
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Nathan has been a foster dad since he was 21 years old. He talks about fostering older kiddos, extended care, and having 5 grandkids at 37.
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Influencers Sarah & Jess are a full-time traveling family living in a self-converted Sprinter Van. They talk about life on the road and trying to figure out how to make a family before Jess turns 30!
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Claudio and his husband, Stefano wanted a baby through adoption. To their surprise, a birth mother was identified during their initial meeting with an agency. Five days later, on Christmas they had Jayden. And now, their story lives on in a beautifully illustrated book.
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Shelly was a devout Mormon, had a husband and 7 kids before she realized that she might be a lesbian. Enter Mary, a recovering Christina, and both a family and the podcast, Latter-Day Lesbian, were born.
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Stand up comedian Melanie Vesey settled down with a man, had a son, left her husband, dated a woman (who shot her after their break up), and eventually married a lovely lady. Now she's wondering if they should have a baby when she already has a teenager at home.
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Emily VanDerWerff and Libby Hill chat about how coming out as transgender can affect a relationship. And they go deep into the question of if a marriage can survive when one person wants kids but the other does not.
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Freya had two moms who had her using donor sperm. Now, years later, she just had a baby using donor sperm with her wife. She's a second-generation queer mom.
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Eran was a single guy who wanted to be a dad. He pushed through the surrogacy process, despite how hard it was to get clear answers from clinics. While on his journey, he found a husband and created GoStork to help folks make babies easier through science.
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Jaimie and Robin bring their wives in to celebrate hitting 100 episodes. They chat about their fave moments and all the beautiful people they've met along the way. There's also a surprise drop in from Mama Sue.
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Influencers Brandi and Lawrence were best friends and coworkers. They both wanted a kid, and over a Sunday brunch shift, they decided to make a baby together.
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Adam wanted to donate his sperm but was put off by all the regulations in Australia. So, he created a Facebook group where prospective donors and those looking for sperm can make connections and maybe make a family.
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Lisa Selin Davis joins us to talk about the evolution of Tomboyism, the construct of gender, and being served pink and blue by Amazon from a very young age.
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Shay and Morgan, are just a couple of guys who had a baby the old fashion way. But not before dealing with miscarriages, insurance rejections, and a whole lot of misgendering along the way.
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Danielle and Annie are struggling to make a family. They've gone from trying at home with overnighted sperm to the medical pipeline to that dark place of worrying that they'll never get pregnant.
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Tara and Mandi of @LivingRosa fame, join us to talk about meeting on myspace, donated IVF medication, twins, having four kids, and sharing it all along the way on YouTube.
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Michelle Buteau talks about her six-year journey to parenthood. From a brain tumor to IUI to IVF to surrogacy to the work she did with Andy Cohen to legalized surrogacy in New York State.
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Amanda and Gab experienced very serious microaggressions at the clinic where they were trying to make a family. Instead of suing, they worked hand in hand with the clinic to improve all aspects of how they interact with the LGBTQ population.
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Lesbian influencers Mel and Neg talk about making a baby at home using pipettes filled with sperm and how that backfired. They also chat about Mira - an at-home ovulation tracker, that predicted exactly when to fly their donor in for go-time.
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Kathryn and Grace want to have a child, but they've suffered from the paralysis of analysis because of all the choices that need to be made in LGBTQ family creation. They also got sidetracked by CORONA, but they're back on track and on the move again toward making a baby.
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This is our first joint podcast episode with Mia and Ronnie from the transPARENTsy podcast. In this roundtable discussion, we talk about raising our kids in the era of Black Lives Matter and Covid 19, and the impact two pandemics will have on our families.
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Mo & Justin share how they carefully planned their finances for surrogacy. And how they implanted one embryo, one time, and got one very cute baby. They also talk about feeling closer to the surrogate than the egg donor because they shared the journey together.
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Shaun T and his husband, Scott went through it to make their family. It took 5 years, multiple surrogates, and countless dollars before their beautiful twins arrived.
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Rachel Rapinoe talks about letting go of organized religion, representation, and how it affects LGBTQ folks when thinking about having kids, and of course her twin sister, Megan.
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American Idol contestant, Sarah Isen took her two moms, her donor, and a clan of donor siblings to her Idol audition. Listen to her share her story about meeting her donor, her many, many siblings, and redefining the definition of family.
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Sam Bettens, the lead singer of the bands K's Choice and Rex Rebel joins us. We talk about his recent transition, previous divorce, being a step-parent, and adopting 2 kids that are 3 months apart.
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In need of sperm, Maura asked her brother if he would donate so she could make a baby using her partner's eggs with her brother's sperm. He said yes, and now their child has the genetics of both moms.
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Robin and Jaimie answer questions from listeners. Like what would you do with leftover embryos? What life choices are you going to make after this pandemic? What bars did you used to hang out at? And they address the crankiness of Corona times.
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Ashleigh and Amy found each other after divorce and abuse. And while Ashleigh had 3 young kids a year apart. Now their blended family feels just right.
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Sometimes the adoption process goes smoothly. And sometimes you get two babies in two years. That's Ryan and Josh's story.
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Listener faves, Angela and Jess share about putting 9k worth of sperm on their credit card, HELLP Syndrome, gallstones, and having a baby 10 weeks early.
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Kyle and Mike from Gayish podcast join us. Kyle talks about never wanting kids, and Mike talks about that time he divorced a lady and then a dude and might still want a baby. Someday.
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Wondering how children are handling this pandemic? We chat with our kids about how they're feeling being stuck inside, homeschooling, and what would happen if someone in their family got sick.
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Alli and Jen talk about giving birth to a baby in a Subaru, an age gap in their kids, and how they started a diverse book box service with LGBTQ content for our families.
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One week into pandemic isolation, Jaimie and Robin talk about how they're coping with homeschooling, social distancing and job uncertainty.
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Amanda and Cat talk about their careers as a comic book illustrator and writer, choosing a closed donor, and the fact that Wonder Woman is totally bi. ovariestalk@gmail.com Twitter: @dumbrobin @jamay16 @ovariestalk Insta: @ovaries_talk FB:If These Ovaries Could Talk Medium: https://medium.com/@Robin633 Edited by Steph at EditAudio press: Brett Henne. ITOCT song: Songfinch and Tiffany Topol
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KC and Lena wanted to foster a baby. They ended up with an 18-month-old. Then less than a year later, they took in his two siblings in order to keep the family together.
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Richie Jackson, author of Gay Like Me, shares about surrogacy, losing a child at birth, and the letter he wrote to his gay son on the importance of respecting his gay identity in these troubling times.
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Jenna Wolfe stops by to chat about coming out on The Today Show, choosing a closed donor, and when your parents don't wanna talk about how you made your babies.
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At 8 months pregnant, Ranae learned that after the birth of her daughter, her wife would not be considered a parent under Irish law. Now Ranae is fighting back, and she won't stop until there is full legal protection for all children of LGBTQ parents.
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Sarah's life took a dramatic turn when her husband left her because he was gay. That's where her journey began. She figured out how to support her 3 kids, realized she was a lesbian, and learned to love her body exactly as it is.
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When you have two moms and your uncle is also your donor! Kelci and Alexis are that rare but lucky queerspawn who are genetically related to both their moms.
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Staceyann Chin returns to talk body image after babies, teaching your kids about sex, their body, racism and how to be an upstander, not a bystander.
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Romaine comes back with her wife Iris and she gets to respond to all the smack that Romaine talked the first time she was on the show. We also talk about when a grandparent won't accept your LGBTQ family and wanting to have that second, but not feeling ready to commit.
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Kathy Tu from WNYC's Nancy talks about not wanting kids, that time she donated her eggs, twice, and if she ever thinks about the little Kathy's running around the world that she's never met.
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Michelle and Mari chat about their IVF vacation in Mexico, having triplets, and how the non-bio mom induced lactation so she could also feed the babies.
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Ashleigh and Bliss made medical history when they became the first two women to both carry the same child. Confused? Take a listen.
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Rosie O’Donnell gives an unfiltered interview about what it was like to be a trailblazer as an LGBTQ parent during a time when few Hollywood stars were out, her struggles with personal relationships as well as with her children, and what it’s like to be the target of Donald Trump’s wrath.
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Mary Keane welcomed LOADS of kids to her family through foster care. She also made it her life's work, when she became a dedicated director with an organization called You Gotta Believe whose motto is, "It's never too late for family." And Jaimie and Robin learn they're not worthy of someone as amazing as Mary!
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Does being in a longterm relationship mean you will grow apart? Robin and Jaimie discuss navigating the disconnect that can happen between partners after kids are in the picture.
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Sarah Kate Ellis, CEO of GLAAD and Kristen Henderson, from Antigone Rising join us to talk about having a baby at the exact same time, why representation in media matters, and that time Kristen's water broke.
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Tony the lawyer answers listener legal questions. We talk about frozen embryos having legal standing, if you get maternity/paternity leave when you're an LGBT or a Q, the fact that a birth certificate doesn't prove parentage, and so much more legal junk.
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How do you approach your future "Baby Daddy"? Britt and Liss do it while tipsy at their wedding. Next steps for them? Explore LGBTQ fertility options in a state where the sperm donor has parental rights if you make the baby at home.
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Brian Copeland is a self-described preacher’s wife. He talks about the struggles they went through as a gay family who wanted a Christian education for their kids, and the importance of helping people understand our LGBTQ families.
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Madhu and Jes are your typical lesbians who met through Buddhism, live outside the city with chickens named after famous lesbians, and have a son named Nio.
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Seth Rudetsky joins with his husband James to talk about adopting a sibling’s child, foster care, being the non-bio parent and when parenting gets rough in high school.
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Nick lived as a woman. Birthed four babies. Met Katherine. Fell in love. Transitioned. Now they’re just another beautiful family with five kids and a minivan.
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Matt is a single gay dad by choice of twins. He thought he was a unicorn, but it turns out there are loads of other SGDBCOT out there. His advice? Get help, and put your kids on a schedule. It works for him.
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Adoption, waiting til you’re 40 to have a kid, being the mom in a two dad house, and a made up child named Benjamin. These are all topics that come up in our live show at WNYC’s prestigious Greene Space.
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Whether your kid is in a good stage or bad stage, it doesn’t matter because soon they’ll be in a new one. Listen to our very special guest talk about all the phases of parenting, from birth to tween and everything in between. Ophira Eisenberg also joins to talk about making her baby!
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The idea of carrying someone else’s baby may seem foreign to some, but Kelly always knew she wanted to be a surrogate. She carried two sets of twins and a singleton for 3 LGBTQ families!
Note: this episode contains a story about childhood cancer at the 41 minute mark. Skip ahead to 47 minutes if it’s a topic that is tough for you.
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Having a baby with a surrogate can be an overwhelming process, you need doctors, a lawyer, maybe an egg donor and oh yeah, the surrogate. Kim from Growing Generations stops by to break down the process. And she also talks about getting sperm on the black market!
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Jess and Holly opened their home to a sweet foster kiddo. Almost two years later, they were ready to adopt, but she was sent back to the birth mom (in a rehab) because of a clerical error. But they still believe in foster care.
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Let’s dispel the myth that LGBTQ folks aren’t welcome to foster. Sheila from the Graham foster care agency swings by to talk about fostering as a path to parenthood.
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Picking a donor, choosing a surrogate or talking to your kids about where they come from can be stressful. Lisa Schuman drops by to talk about why it’s important to get some professional help on that journey.
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Lara and Joanne decided they didn’t need IVF or frozen sperm to make a baby. Instead, their plan was to just do it, the old fashioned way, but that involved Lara stepping down off hormones and a lot of emotional baggage neither one expected.
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When Nate found out there was a shortage of sperm in the UK he jumped in to do his part. But he learned it required navigating a complicated system, for little money.
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It costs a lot to make an LGBTQ baby. But how do you save for that? We brought in our financial advisor friend, Molly to teach us. Also, there’s the bonus story of how she married her Maid of Honor. And Tif and Carissa are back to talk about sperm delivery at their workplace.
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Research shows a millennial LGBTQ baby boom is coming. Is that because millennials don’t have any preconceived concerns or worries around creating a family? We brought in a young gay couple to educate us on what the younger generation is thinking about when it comes to family planning.
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Comic, writer, actress, and self-described loud mouth, Judy Gold joins with her son Henry. They talk about her groundbreaking second parent adoption, her work to change all the forms that say “mother” and “father” and also what it’s like to be raised by two moms. Stick around to the end of the episode to hear from Tif and Carissa about the turkey baster method.
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Writer, speaker, activist, model, Tiq Milan joins us to talk about losing the lesbian community when he transitioned, his dear sweet auntie who asked if he and his wife were going to use his sperm to make a baby and the importance of visibility.
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Romaine, of DNR Show fame, joins to talk about her daughter who came out as bi at 11, choosing an anonymous donor and beating the pants off ITOCT for the People’s Choice Podcast Awards. We also check in with Tiffany and Carissa on their fertility journey.
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Tiffany and Carissa, fans of ITOCT, reached out because they wanted to hear an episode about interracial couples having babies. So naturally, we invited them on to tell their story. Then turned it into a recurring segment so we can all follow their journey to parenthood.
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Nee Nee set out to create a non-traditional family with her friend and his husband. It seemed like a great idea to raise a child with a good friend. But then the baby was born, legal talks broke down and now the family feels like it went through a divorce. The good news? Nee Nee’s resilient, and she’s a mom to a delightful little boy. Also, we introduce our new recurring segment, Tiffany and Carissa Make a Baby.
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Robin and Jaimie sit down (with wine) to talk about their favorite moments in Season 2 as well as to answer some questions from fans.
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Poet, activist and powerhouse, Staceyann Chin joins to talk about how our kids are emotional abusers, the importance of telling our LGBTQ family stories, and how maybe, someday, she’s going to get a wife.
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Makeda and Sadie talk about the pressure to present a perfect looking family when growing up with LGBTQ parents as well as their book, “Spawning Generations: Rants and Reflections on Growing Up with LGBTQ+ Parents.”
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Beth and Jen talk about navigating the first sleepover around Jen’s daughter, thinking about having a baby and that time a psychic told Jen she was going to have a baby from the dessert.
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Liz’s son shares the same donor as Robin’s daughter. They’re family - sort of. Liz joins to talk about donor families and that time her son asked why he didn’t have a dad.
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Julia Scotti, stand up comic from America’s Got Talent, stops by to talk about family and the moment an ex-wife helped Julia realize that she was a woman.
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Mark and Greg talk about where a fertility doctor goes to make a baby, why a surrogate is more than a vessel and their website “gayparentstobe.com” and how it helps LGBTQ families get started.
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Camilla Brooks talks about adopting a baby from China, when to talk to your kids about their non-traditional family and why the person performing your home study isn’t judging you, mostly.
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Aimee & Myriam were both searching for a partner and a place to worship God that felt like home, which is not easy when you are part of the LGBTQ world. The good news - they found both.
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Dani and Mike were supportive of their 7-year-old son’s choice to wear dresses and bend the rules of gender. But his seemingly progressive school was not. The result? A pair of cops on the family doorstep at one in the morning and a lawsuit against the DOE.
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How does you breastfeed a baby you didn’t give birth to? What IS a doula? How do you ask a question (that’s not offensive) about a family made up of different races? Michele, from For Your Birth, tackles these questions and more.
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Two moms take in seven foster kids in one year. But that’s nothing compared to dealing with childhood cancer. This episode contains potentially sensitive content.
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Author Emma Brockes hit 37 and wanted a baby, full stop. So she set on a journey to become a single mother by choice, which turned out to be almost as hard as describing her relationship with her partner, who is also a single mom by choice. They live in the same building, but on different floors, and it all works.
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Jaimie and Robin bring in the wives for this Season finale. They drink champagne, talk birth, death and their favorite moments of Season 1.
Ae Robin and Jaimie naked while they answer your questions? Spoiler alert, Robin’s got all her clothes on. But what about Jaimie? Listen to find out.
Anthony and Gary weren’t sure they wanted kids, until they donated sperm to a lesbian couple. But surrogacy felt out of reach until an elderly woman in their rent controlled building left them money in her will. Did they choose the baby or an apartment renovation?
Sam and Laura talk about their time on Bravo TV’s hit show “The Newlyweds” and how the network made them see a sex therapist, sex hypnotist and gave them a vagina birthday cake. Oh yeah, and how they helped to make their baby.
Daniel is a fertility expert in the field of acupuncture, but don’t get him wrong, it ain’t all about the needles. Listen to how acupuncture can up your rates of success with IVF by 30%.
Patricia and Kellen share the story about that fateful red heart that brought them together, their uncertain path to parenthood and what it’s like to parent from a place of mindfulness. The takeaway quote? Don’t neuter the other parent!
Jaimie and Robin talk candidly about what it’s like to be a parent when one child is easy and the other one is... let’s just say makes life more challenging. And what if you only gave birth to one of the kids? It's a recipe for twice the guilt. Tune in for this honest and frank chat.
Rachel Lehmann-Haupt talks to us about science that’s being tested where an egg or sperm could be created from the cells of a same-sex partner. Eliminating the need for a donor. This technology could change the face of fertility for LGBT families. But how do we feel about it?
Our first lawyer, Brian Esser dispels some common misconceptions about LGBT families. The biggest one? Now that we have gay marriage, we don't need second parent adoption. He also shares about how he and his husband adopted their two sons. This episode is chock-full-o-info!
David shares his staggering journey to create a family with his partner using a gestational carrier. Strap in and guard your wallet. This episode is expensive!
After years of unexplained infertility, co-host Jaimie finally got pregnant. One would think that would mean she was due an easy birth. But one would be wrong for thinking that. From birth to busted boobs. Hear how her second child made his way into the world.
Sara and Hilary easily get pregnant and have a smooth pregnancy. But their story takes a horrific turn when the baby is stillborn. How do they recover when the most unimaginable happens? Do they try again?
Set to move forward on making a baby, Lisa and Jennifer are dealt a blow when Lisa gets cancer. Then her father dies. Then she gets cancer again. Do they move forward? Does this change the fact that they want children?
Tom decides to donate sperm to his lesbian friends and moves forward before he’s signed any legal documents. His confidence in how it’s all going to shake out is rattled, but all’s well that ends well as he’s active in the children’s lives today, and they even call him dad.
Tobi was everything Karen said she didn't want, yet this hilarious couple find each other then make their way straight into the world of baby making, lesbian-style. The key learning in this episode? Don’t forget the genetic testing!
You might remember Zach Wahls as the college student who spoke to congress about his two moms in support of gay marriage. Now he’s running for Senate in Iowa, and he's got lots to say about going viral, bullying and his 2 moms.
What was it like to be pioneers in the world of lesbian fertility in the early 80s? How did they navigate birthing classes as two women? The suburbs of Connecticut? Their daughter's Brownie troop? Rae and Marie share what it was like to pave the way for the LGBTQ families of today.
Emma’s two moms used “Artificial Insemination” to make her back in the 80s. She talks about what it was like to be the queer family ambassador on the playground and her experiences trying to find her anonymous sperm donor.
Jana & Linda are the new, modern, non-traditional family. Their family consists of two kids with five parents. And somehow it all works.
Robin & Mary go to extreme lengths in an attempt to have their second child from the same donor. Including a tiny little trip to Bogota, Columbia for an insemination. But did it work?
Co-host Jaimie & her wife Anne experience unexpected infertility and nearly break the bank trying to make their second kid. When Jaimie can’t find anyone talking about what it is like for a lesbian with infertility issues, she asks Robin to help her create a podcast.
Two lesbians chat about non-traditional families. Jaimie and Robin go in-depth with weekly guests about their hopes, fears, and setbacks. The mission is to normalize, elevate, and celebrate LGBTQ families, while confirming that we're just like other parents, trying not to yell at our kids when they haven't put their shoes on and we're 25 minutes late for school. The result is a compelling podcast that explores the age-old question: what's it like to live as an LGBTQ family in a world build for the straights?
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